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Speaker 1: second date updates where strange things happen to couples while
Speaker 1: they're out. Yeah, but this might be the strangest really,
Speaker 1: because the date that was supposed to happen never did.
Speaker 1: Where did it go, who did it go with? And
Speaker 1: what would you do for a bar? I am so
Speaker 1: confused by all of this. That's many, many questions that
Speaker 1: we may never get answers too. That's the mystery. It's
Speaker 1: the Klondi bar. And why you're so mysterious about this? Well, well,
Speaker 1: maybe we'll just get some answers by asking Ray, who's
Speaker 1: on the phone right now and actually has the information
Speaker 1: that we're looking for now, Ray, this sounds a lot
Speaker 1: like a certain mystery novel I couldn't put down the
Speaker 1: other night called ball Gags, Lies and Dead Guys. Have
Speaker 1: you heard of that one? I have not but I'm
Speaker 1: hoping we can get to the end of this novel
Speaker 1: quicker than that. I hope. Yeah. Well, I highly recommended. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's a page turner. I was definitely choking something. Okay,
Speaker 1: at least we know this novel doesn't include dead guys,
Speaker 1: because Ray, you're alive and on the phone with us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. Okay. I'm hoping that your story is as
Speaker 1: interesting as the one I was reading. So tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl that you want us to call today.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Kate? Okay, okay, And
Speaker 1: how'd you meet Kate? So we met online on an
Speaker 1: app YadA YadA, YadA. Not so interesting, but we but
Speaker 1: we hit it off. It seemed great. Okay, we're having
Speaker 1: a great time. We were chatting back and forth, and
Speaker 1: we've tried to like meet up. Yeah, here's where the
Speaker 1: problem comes in. I'm on my way to her house.
Speaker 1: My phone dies. I started digging around, no phone charger,
Speaker 1: the worst feelings. I kind of remembered the address. I
Speaker 1: definitely know the street. Oh no British navigate, Oh my gods. Well,
Speaker 1: ask for directions and I'm like, do you guys know Kate? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you could have gone to a gas station and bought
Speaker 1: a charger for your phone. Oh that's actually sort I
Speaker 1: didn't ever even you're right, but my biggest fear was
Speaker 1: to be late for my date. Okay, so did you
Speaker 1: find her apartment? Well, what I think is the address
Speaker 1: that Kate lives at is actually the address of this
Speaker 1: lovely elderly couple. So you had a date with two
Speaker 1: old people. Cool, Well I did. I spent a good
Speaker 1: bit of time with them. So wait, hold on. You
Speaker 1: walked up to a house thinking that it was Kate's place,
Speaker 1: but an elderly couple answered the door, and you went in. Well,
Speaker 1: an older woman answered the door, and I asked if
Speaker 1: Kate was there and she would come on head. She
Speaker 1: didn't quite say Kate didn't live there. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I mean I think they were a little lonely, but
Speaker 1: it was cool. So when with hanging out with your
Speaker 1: new old friends, did you find out that this wasn't
Speaker 1: Kate's house? I found that right away, But like the
Speaker 1: lady was so insisted on like helping me find Kate.
Speaker 1: Oh no, that couldn't leave. Did these old people not
Speaker 1: have a cell phone charger for you either? No? No,
Speaker 1: they had one of those like rotary dial phones. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, a landline? All right, So did they ever
Speaker 1: locate Kate for you? They called around to the neighbors
Speaker 1: and finally figured it out. Oh my god, old people
Speaker 1: like have time to do anything. Like you could walk
Speaker 1: in with a problem and they'll spend the entire week
Speaker 1: trying to solve it for you. Well, and all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, you're like the hot topic of the neighborhood gossip.
Speaker 1: I'm sure they're still talking about me today. What happened?
Speaker 1: Did you meet Kate? I went over the d It
Speaker 1: was not good. Oh no, was she mad that you
Speaker 1: were late? Yeah? I mean she definitely wasn't a little
Speaker 1: bit upset because I was over an hour late. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she didn't even want to hear that I was like
Speaker 1: talking to her neighbor, these old people Like she was
Speaker 1: over it. So she hasn't even heard your cute story
Speaker 1: about your cute old friends. Now. When I tried to
Speaker 1: explain to her, like what had happened, she told me
Speaker 1: to like get off her property and if I didn't
Speaker 1: get off, she was going to call to cops for trespassing.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a response. Probably a good sign that she
Speaker 1: wanted to see in handcuffs. I mean later, but like
Speaker 1: after dinner. I so the date never happened, and so you,
Speaker 1: I mean we know why. Obviously she's not calling you back,
Speaker 1: and you're just hoping we can convince her to go
Speaker 1: out again. I'm hoping you can like try to explain
Speaker 1: to her that it wasn't intentional, like, I mean, I
Speaker 1: made some new old friends, I guess. So how long
Speaker 1: did you stay outside of her house yelling at her
Speaker 1: until you finally decided to go home? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I five minute. It's not enough to like cause the scene.
Speaker 1: But I did end up going back over to the
Speaker 1: old folks home and hang out with them. Okay, well
Speaker 1: yeah they were so nice and that's all bad for
Speaker 1: them because they were like, if it doesn't work out,
Speaker 1: come back over here. So I did. Oh what did
Speaker 1: they say about Kate? I mean, you told them the
Speaker 1: whole story. They're obviously vested in your love life at
Speaker 1: this point. They felt terrible for me. They said that
Speaker 1: any girl would be lucky to have me. Oh yeah people, Yeah, alright,
Speaker 1: is Henry? So you haven't been able to reach Kate
Speaker 1: at all? Not at all? How many times have you
Speaker 1: tried to get a hold of her. Well, a few,
Speaker 1: but not too many, like a couple of texts in
Speaker 1: one phone call. Okay, so not a crazy amount. That's
Speaker 1: a good side. I think we can salvage this. I
Speaker 1: think she was just angry in the moment. Now that
Speaker 1: she has time to calm down, she hears the story.
Speaker 1: We'll get we're getting you a second date. I agree,
Speaker 1: or if not that at least the partner at the
Speaker 1: bingo game. So there's gonna be a positive that comes
Speaker 1: out of this. We're gonna play a song, come back
Speaker 1: and call Kate, try and get you a second date. Update. Okay,
Speaker 1: oh my god, thank you guys. I'd be huge. I
Speaker 1: feel like I totally screwed this up. All right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and fix it for you. Hold on
Speaker 1: second update if you're just tuning in for part two
Speaker 1: of the second date update. We're on the phone with Ray.
Speaker 1: Ray never actually met up with his date. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess he kind of did, yeah, but
Speaker 1: his phone died. He was very late, so she ended
Speaker 1: up just yelling at him and threatening to call the cops.
Speaker 1: Not the most successful date we've ever heard, but not
Speaker 1: not the least successful. That is true. That's also a
Speaker 1: true statement. It could I honestly think it could be
Speaker 1: way worse. Yeah, and I done way I've done way worse. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what. I believe that. Yes, and you never
Speaker 1: got to explain that you were just down the road
Speaker 1: at some old couple's house, smoking a jay while playing
Speaker 1: Boulder Down we are we're watching Jeopardese start with a J. Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna find out a little bit more. Are you
Speaker 1: ready to call Kate here? I would love a second
Speaker 1: chance with this, though. I think you've got I mean,
Speaker 1: like I said, maybe before, but I was even thinking
Speaker 1: about it more. I think there's no way this girl
Speaker 1: is not going to give you a second chance. Right.
Speaker 1: She was super mad at the moment, not because of you,
Speaker 1: but because of all the bad dating experiences she's had.
Speaker 1: And I think she's not calling you back now because
Speaker 1: she's embarrassed. Like how embarrassing to overreact like that? Yeah? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean she didn't even really know what she was
Speaker 1: overreacting too. She was just like, you're an hour laid.
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous, And yeah, for sure, that's gonna you understand
Speaker 1: that this is going to be fine, all right? Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call Kate right now and try and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, that would be so great.
Speaker 1: Thanks guys. All right, I'm down the phone number now
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, can I talk to Kate please?
Speaker 1: This is she Hi Kate, My name's young Jeffrey from
Speaker 1: the radio. Do you have a moment to chat? What's
Speaker 1: this about? This is about something that we do on
Speaker 1: our show called a second date update. Okay, what does
Speaker 1: that mean? You're very business like. That's a good point.
Speaker 1: That's a fast okay. It's it's where someone reaches out
Speaker 1: because I want on a date, and then they're getting
Speaker 1: blown off. So we call that person try and figure
Speaker 1: out why. Um yeah, I guess um okay, so explain
Speaker 1: it to me. Oh my god, you're stressing me out.
Speaker 1: It's just someone likes you and you're not calling them back,
Speaker 1: and they want a second chance. They want to explain themselves. Okay.
Speaker 1: And the person who reached out about you, his name
Speaker 1: is Ray. Oh. I know it's a little different because
Speaker 1: you and Ray never actually went out. I mean he
Speaker 1: was over an hour late, Like who does that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Ray does? Yeah. And you know what, I wasn't even
Speaker 1: going to go out with him after he showed up anyway, Well,
Speaker 1: what I mean, he had a really good reason for
Speaker 1: being late. Did you hear him out at all? No,
Speaker 1: I just saw him pull up in my driveway, so
Speaker 1: I didn't need to hear what he had to say.
Speaker 1: It may have changed your mind if you actually heard
Speaker 1: his excuse. Well, whatever, he was driving American? What like
Speaker 1: that matters the car? The car was American? Is American? Maid? Duh,
Speaker 1: I just said that. Okay, I'm just trying to clarify.
Speaker 1: I don't get it either. So you're not calling him
Speaker 1: back because of the car he was driving. Yeah, you'd
Speaker 1: think that he would be driving like a Maserati or Mercedes,
Speaker 1: or like a Beamer, but he was in a Ford
Speaker 1: and like, I'm not going to be caught dead in
Speaker 1: a Taurus. Wait, hold on, why would you assume people
Speaker 1: are in a Beamer in a Maserati Because in his
Speaker 1: dating profile it's said that he makes over six figures,
Speaker 1: and like, you don't drive a Taurus when you're making
Speaker 1: over six figures. That's actually not true. You do drive
Speaker 1: a tourist if you're making over six figures and you're
Speaker 1: good with your money. Because cars are waste of money.
Speaker 1: Brooks rich and she drives a Subaru. That sounds really lame. Actually, Like,
Speaker 1: if you have a ton of money, don't you want
Speaker 1: people to see it, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: they don't have to ask me what I make if
Speaker 1: I'm driving a Jaguar or whatever. So you do know
Speaker 1: someone's rich if the driving Jack. Well, it is kind
Speaker 1: of weird to put that in your dating profile, to
Speaker 1: brag about money and then not brag about it in
Speaker 1: other areas of your life. I could see absolutely that. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what You're right. Ray should answer these questions. Ray,
Speaker 1: explain yourself. I would love to explain myself. Ray. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we didn't tell you. Ray has actually been on the
Speaker 1: other line listening during this whole conversation. That's how these work.
Speaker 1: You didn't tell me that he was on the other line.
Speaker 1: I thought I was just talking to you guys. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sound pretty passionate about your stance on American made cars.
Speaker 1: I mean absolutely. I mean, what is the point of
Speaker 1: having money if you're not going to spend any of it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Y yeah, where's your Porsche? Ray? Hold On? Hold on?
Speaker 1: Why do I spend my money on a car that
Speaker 1: just loses money the moment i'd buy it, Like, I'd
Speaker 1: rather spend my money on experiences and like enjoyment in life.
Speaker 1: Girls don't want experiences enjoy they want material things. Ray,
Speaker 1: I don't need a nice car, but the guy that
Speaker 1: I'm with us so that like I can feel great
Speaker 1: in it. You know, are you for real? Like yes
Speaker 1: to you? Yeah, when you're with a man who has
Speaker 1: a nice call, like everyone knows that you're safe and secure,
Speaker 1: and like that's the guy that's gonna take care of
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen like the consumer reports
Speaker 1: like on the Taurus, but it's pretty safe you're gonna
Speaker 1: live through any of this. It's sure, we're gonna have
Speaker 1: a nice dinner wherever we go. I don't know why
Speaker 1: why would you pup to a valet in a Taurus?
Speaker 1: You know, like the valet point the valet's not going
Speaker 1: to take it for like a chest drive full. Hey
Speaker 1: wait a minute, you're basing like listen to yourself. You're
Speaker 1: basing your dating decisions off the valet thinks of who
Speaker 1: you're out with. Like that is such a stupid idea.
Speaker 1: I think that's actually like it's how I feel, and
Speaker 1: that's what I like and that's what makes you feel good? Yeah,
Speaker 1: women empowerment there, No, it's not. It's materialism. If you
Speaker 1: want to in a powerful car that goes from zero
Speaker 1: to one hundred and under three, I feel you girl. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you show up and that's first impression and
Speaker 1: it didn't seem fun. Doesn't matter. We're kind of car drive.
Speaker 1: I have money. I make tons of money. I just
Speaker 1: don't waste it on dumb cars. All right, then tell
Speaker 1: me one thing that you've actually spent money on, Like,
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be a car, just something that's fun.
Speaker 1: Like what have you bought that's expensive that I like?
Speaker 1: This real? That's what you want to know, Like what
Speaker 1: you pleasure money on? Like, yeah, put your money where
Speaker 1: your mouth is. Seriously, I want to know for your information.
Speaker 1: For my mom's birthday, I bought a Louis Vaton handbag.
Speaker 1: That's pricing. I didn't know that. That's interesting? And like
Speaker 1: do you buy gifts for people like lots of time? What? No, stop, Kate,
Speaker 1: you are the most materialistic, superficial person I've ever heard.
Speaker 1: I don't really need to hear from you. I'm asking
Speaker 1: raid the questions. Okay, oh all right, Ray, what's your answer? Yeah, Brooke,
Speaker 1: support women for once? Yeah, I mean I spend money
Speaker 1: on people that mean along to me. Okay, well maybe
Speaker 1: I was just a little harsh before. But you know what,
Speaker 1: if you apologize to me, then I can give you
Speaker 1: another chance. A coincidence? Okay, this is going better? Is it?
Speaker 1: Is it going better? This sounds terrible to me. I
Speaker 1: was trying to tell you when I got there, I
Speaker 1: was sorry. I like, I've never even told you the
Speaker 1: story about like myself, So I'm like, these guys have
Speaker 1: all heard it. Yeah, well I know, but like, can't
Speaker 1: you save that story for our next date? All right?
Speaker 1: I think that's my queue to jump in here and
Speaker 1: ask Kate, would you like to go out on another
Speaker 1: date with Ray? Here? We'll pay for it, I mean, actually,
Speaker 1: better yet, Ray will prove how much money he has
Speaker 1: by paying for it himself. Hey, guys, let me send
Speaker 1: my money for the third date. All right, we're back
Speaker 1: to paying for it again. Wait, Kate, are you going
Speaker 1: out with him again? I think so because he seems
Speaker 1: really down to earth that's yours. Did you not hear
Speaker 1: about his Louis handbag for his mom? I mean, yeah, Brook,
Speaker 1: shame on you. Yea, Hey, there is no way you
Speaker 1: want to go out with this woman. I don't see
Speaker 1: the problem of going out with her. Worried. Kate's whole
Speaker 1: idea for her future plan is just to marry a
Speaker 1: rich dude. That's not a plan. It sounds like a
Speaker 1: pretty solid plan to me, Kate. It's not a plan, Kate. Ray,
Speaker 1: Just so you know, the next date, we're going to
Speaker 1: take my car. Oh what do you drive? Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: I've got it. Curious now, Well, it doesn't matter, Ray,
Speaker 1: It's better than anything that you have. I've got money
Speaker 1: on a Jetta anybody else. Look all right, well I
Speaker 1: think this is a success. Congratulations you two. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: thank you. You're gonna have beautiful, rich babies together. Perfect. See, guys,
Speaker 1: it's not about the type of car you drive. No,
Speaker 1: it's just about how much money you have. That's what
Speaker 1: we learned. That's where true love is moving ninety two
Speaker 1: point five