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<v Speaker 1>second date updates where strange things happen to couples while

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<v Speaker 1>they're out. Yeah, but this might be the strangest really,

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<v Speaker 1>because the date that was supposed to happen never did.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did it go, who did it go with? And

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do for a bar? I am so

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<v Speaker 1>confused by all of this. That's many, many questions that

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<v Speaker 1>we may never get answers too. That's the mystery. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the Klondi bar. And why you're so mysterious about this? Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we'll just get some answers by asking Ray, who's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now and actually has the information

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<v Speaker 1>that we're looking for now, Ray, this sounds a lot

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<v Speaker 1>like a certain mystery novel I couldn't put down the

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<v Speaker 1>other night called ball Gags, Lies and Dead Guys. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you heard of that one? I have not but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>hoping we can get to the end of this novel

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<v Speaker 1>quicker than that. I hope. Yeah. Well, I highly recommended. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a page turner. I was definitely choking something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>at least we know this novel doesn't include dead guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because Ray, you're alive and on the phone with us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Okay. I'm hoping that your story is as

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<v Speaker 1>interesting as the one I was reading. So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you want us to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Kate? Okay, okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>how'd you meet Kate? So we met online on an

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<v Speaker 1>app YadA YadA, YadA. Not so interesting, but we but

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<v Speaker 1>we hit it off. It seemed great. Okay, we're having

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<v Speaker 1>a great time. We were chatting back and forth, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've tried to like meet up. Yeah, here's where the

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<v Speaker 1>problem comes in. I'm on my way to her house.

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<v Speaker 1>My phone dies. I started digging around, no phone charger,

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<v Speaker 1>the worst feelings. I kind of remembered the address. I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely know the street. Oh no British navigate, Oh my gods. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>ask for directions and I'm like, do you guys know Kate? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have gone to a gas station and bought

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<v Speaker 1>a charger for your phone. Oh that's actually sort I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ever even you're right, but my biggest fear was

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<v Speaker 1>to be late for my date. Okay, so did you

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<v Speaker 1>find her apartment? Well, what I think is the address

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<v Speaker 1>that Kate lives at is actually the address of this

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<v Speaker 1>lovely elderly couple. So you had a date with two

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<v Speaker 1>old people. Cool, Well I did. I spent a good

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<v Speaker 1>bit of time with them. So wait, hold on. You

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<v Speaker 1>walked up to a house thinking that it was Kate's place,

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<v Speaker 1>but an elderly couple answered the door, and you went in. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>an older woman answered the door, and I asked if

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<v Speaker 1>Kate was there and she would come on head. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't quite say Kate didn't live there. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think they were a little lonely, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool. So when with hanging out with your

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<v Speaker 1>new old friends, did you find out that this wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>Kate's house? I found that right away, But like the

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<v Speaker 1>lady was so insisted on like helping me find Kate.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, that couldn't leave. Did these old people not

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<v Speaker 1>have a cell phone charger for you either? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>they had one of those like rotary dial phones. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, a landline? All right, So did they ever

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<v Speaker 1>locate Kate for you? They called around to the neighbors

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<v Speaker 1>and finally figured it out. Oh my god, old people

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<v Speaker 1>like have time to do anything. Like you could walk

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<v Speaker 1>in with a problem and they'll spend the entire week

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<v Speaker 1>trying to solve it for you. Well, and all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, you're like the hot topic of the neighborhood gossip.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they're still talking about me today. What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you meet Kate? I went over the d It

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<v Speaker 1>was not good. Oh no, was she mad that you

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<v Speaker 1>were late? Yeah? I mean she definitely wasn't a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit upset because I was over an hour late. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't even want to hear that I was like

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<v Speaker 1>talking to her neighbor, these old people Like she was

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<v Speaker 1>over it. So she hasn't even heard your cute story

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<v Speaker 1>about your cute old friends. Now. When I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>explain to her, like what had happened, she told me

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<v Speaker 1>to like get off her property and if I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get off, she was going to call to cops for trespassing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a response. Probably a good sign that she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to see in handcuffs. I mean later, but like

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<v Speaker 1>after dinner. I so the date never happened, and so you,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we know why. Obviously she's not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just hoping we can convince her to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again. I'm hoping you can like try to explain

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<v Speaker 1>to her that it wasn't intentional, like, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>made some new old friends, I guess. So how long

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<v Speaker 1>did you stay outside of her house yelling at her

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<v Speaker 1>until you finally decided to go home? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I five minute. It's not enough to like cause the scene.

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<v Speaker 1>But I did end up going back over to the

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<v Speaker 1>old folks home and hang out with them. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>yeah they were so nice and that's all bad for

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<v Speaker 1>them because they were like, if it doesn't work out,

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<v Speaker 1>come back over here. So I did. Oh what did

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<v Speaker 1>they say about Kate? I mean, you told them the

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<v Speaker 1>whole story. They're obviously vested in your love life at

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<v Speaker 1>this point. They felt terrible for me. They said that

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<v Speaker 1>any girl would be lucky to have me. Oh yeah people, Yeah, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>is Henry? So you haven't been able to reach Kate

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<v Speaker 1>at all? Not at all? How many times have you

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<v Speaker 1>tried to get a hold of her. Well, a few,

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<v Speaker 1>but not too many, like a couple of texts in

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<v Speaker 1>one phone call. Okay, so not a crazy amount. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good side. I think we can salvage this. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she was just angry in the moment. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>she has time to calm down, she hears the story.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get we're getting you a second date. I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>or if not that at least the partner at the

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<v Speaker 1>bingo game. So there's gonna be a positive that comes

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<v Speaker 1>out of this. We're gonna play a song, come back

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<v Speaker 1>and call Kate, try and get you a second date. Update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, thank you guys. I'd be huge. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I totally screwed this up. All right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna try and fix it for you. Hold on

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<v Speaker 1>second update if you're just tuning in for part two

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<v Speaker 1>of the second date update. We're on the phone with Ray.

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<v Speaker 1>Ray never actually met up with his date. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess he kind of did, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>his phone died. He was very late, so she ended

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<v Speaker 1>up just yelling at him and threatening to call the cops.

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<v Speaker 1>Not the most successful date we've ever heard, but not

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<v Speaker 1>not the least successful. That is true. That's also a

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<v Speaker 1>true statement. It could I honestly think it could be

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<v Speaker 1>way worse. Yeah, and I done way I've done way worse. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. I believe that. Yes, and you never

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<v Speaker 1>got to explain that you were just down the road

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<v Speaker 1>at some old couple's house, smoking a jay while playing

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<v Speaker 1>Boulder Down we are we're watching Jeopardese start with a J. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna find out a little bit more. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready to call Kate here? I would love a second

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<v Speaker 1>chance with this, though. I think you've got I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, maybe before, but I was even thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about it more. I think there's no way this girl

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<v Speaker 1>is not going to give you a second chance. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>She was super mad at the moment, not because of you,

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<v Speaker 1>but because of all the bad dating experiences she's had.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think she's not calling you back now because

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<v Speaker 1>she's embarrassed. Like how embarrassing to overreact like that? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she didn't even really know what she was

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<v Speaker 1>overreacting too. She was just like, you're an hour laid.

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<v Speaker 1>That's ridiculous, And yeah, for sure, that's gonna you understand

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<v Speaker 1>that this is going to be fine, all right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call Kate right now and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, that would be so great.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks guys. All right, I'm down the phone number now

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, can I talk to Kate please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she Hi Kate, My name's young Jeffrey from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio. Do you have a moment to chat? What's

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<v Speaker 1>this about? This is about something that we do on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called a second date update. Okay, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? You're very business like. That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a fast okay. It's it's where someone reaches out

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<v Speaker 1>because I want on a date, and then they're getting

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<v Speaker 1>blown off. So we call that person try and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why. Um yeah, I guess um okay, so explain

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<v Speaker 1>it to me. Oh my god, you're stressing me out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just someone likes you and you're not calling them back,

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<v Speaker 1>and they want a second chance. They want to explain themselves. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And the person who reached out about you, his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Ray. Oh. I know it's a little different because

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<v Speaker 1>you and Ray never actually went out. I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>was over an hour late, Like who does that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Ray does? Yeah. And you know what, I wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>going to go out with him after he showed up anyway, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, he had a really good reason for

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<v Speaker 1>being late. Did you hear him out at all? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just saw him pull up in my driveway, so

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't need to hear what he had to say.

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<v Speaker 1>It may have changed your mind if you actually heard

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<v Speaker 1>his excuse. Well, whatever, he was driving American? What like

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<v Speaker 1>that matters the car? The car was American? Is American? Maid? Duh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just said that. Okay, I'm just trying to clarify.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get it either. So you're not calling him

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<v Speaker 1>back because of the car he was driving. Yeah, you'd

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<v Speaker 1>think that he would be driving like a Maserati or Mercedes,

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<v Speaker 1>or like a Beamer, but he was in a Ford

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<v Speaker 1>and like, I'm not going to be caught dead in

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<v Speaker 1>a Taurus. Wait, hold on, why would you assume people

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<v Speaker 1>are in a Beamer in a Maserati Because in his

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile it's said that he makes over six figures,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you don't drive a Taurus when you're making

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<v Speaker 1>over six figures. That's actually not true. You do drive

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<v Speaker 1>a tourist if you're making over six figures and you're

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<v Speaker 1>good with your money. Because cars are waste of money.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks rich and she drives a Subaru. That sounds really lame. Actually, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have a ton of money, don't you want

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<v Speaker 1>people to see it, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have to ask me what I make if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm driving a Jaguar or whatever. So you do know

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<v Speaker 1>someone's rich if the driving Jack. Well, it is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird to put that in your dating profile, to

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<v Speaker 1>brag about money and then not brag about it in

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<v Speaker 1>other areas of your life. I could see absolutely that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what You're right. Ray should answer these questions. Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>explain yourself. I would love to explain myself. Ray. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't tell you. Ray has actually been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening during this whole conversation. That's how these work.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't tell me that he was on the other line.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was just talking to you guys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sound pretty passionate about your stance on American made cars.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean absolutely. I mean, what is the point of

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<v Speaker 1>having money if you're not going to spend any of it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Y yeah, where's your Porsche? Ray? Hold On? Hold on?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do I spend my money on a car that

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<v Speaker 1>just loses money the moment i'd buy it, Like, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather spend my money on experiences and like enjoyment in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls don't want experiences enjoy they want material things. Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need a nice car, but the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with us so that like I can feel great

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<v Speaker 1>in it. You know, are you for real? Like yes

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<v Speaker 1>to you? Yeah, when you're with a man who has

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<v Speaker 1>a nice call, like everyone knows that you're safe and secure,

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<v Speaker 1>and like that's the guy that's gonna take care of

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you've seen like the consumer reports

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<v Speaker 1>like on the Taurus, but it's pretty safe you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>live through any of this. It's sure, we're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a nice dinner wherever we go. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>why would you pup to a valet in a Taurus?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like the valet point the valet's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to take it for like a chest drive full. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, you're basing like listen to yourself. You're

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<v Speaker 1>basing your dating decisions off the valet thinks of who

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<v Speaker 1>you're out with. Like that is such a stupid idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's actually like it's how I feel, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I like and that's what makes you feel good? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>women empowerment there, No, it's not. It's materialism. If you

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<v Speaker 1>want to in a powerful car that goes from zero

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<v Speaker 1>to one hundred and under three, I feel you girl. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you show up and that's first impression and

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't seem fun. Doesn't matter. We're kind of car drive.

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<v Speaker 1>I have money. I make tons of money. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't waste it on dumb cars. All right, then tell

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<v Speaker 1>me one thing that you've actually spent money on, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't have to be a car, just something that's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what have you bought that's expensive that I like?

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<v Speaker 1>This real? That's what you want to know, Like what

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<v Speaker 1>you pleasure money on? Like, yeah, put your money where

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth is. Seriously, I want to know for your information.

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<v Speaker 1>For my mom's birthday, I bought a Louis Vaton handbag.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pricing. I didn't know that. That's interesting? And like

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<v Speaker 1>do you buy gifts for people like lots of time? What? No, stop, Kate,

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<v Speaker 1>you are the most materialistic, superficial person I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really need to hear from you. I'm asking

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<v Speaker 1>raid the questions. Okay, oh all right, Ray, what's your answer? Yeah, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>support women for once? Yeah, I mean I spend money

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<v Speaker 1>on people that mean along to me. Okay, well maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I was just a little harsh before. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if you apologize to me, then I can give you

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<v Speaker 1>another chance. A coincidence? Okay, this is going better? Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it going better? This sounds terrible to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to tell you when I got there, I

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<v Speaker 1>was sorry. I like, I've never even told you the

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<v Speaker 1>story about like myself, So I'm like, these guys have

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<v Speaker 1>all heard it. Yeah, well I know, but like, can't

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<v Speaker 1>you save that story for our next date? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's my queue to jump in here and

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<v Speaker 1>ask Kate, would you like to go out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with Ray? Here? We'll pay for it, I mean, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>better yet, Ray will prove how much money he has

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<v Speaker 1>by paying for it himself. Hey, guys, let me send

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<v Speaker 1>my money for the third date. All right, we're back

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<v Speaker 1>to paying for it again. Wait, Kate, are you going

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again? I think so because he seems

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<v Speaker 1>really down to earth that's yours. Did you not hear

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<v Speaker 1>about his Louis handbag for his mom? I mean, yeah, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>shame on you. Yea, Hey, there is no way you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with this woman. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>the problem of going out with her. Worried. Kate's whole

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<v Speaker 1>idea for her future plan is just to marry a

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<v Speaker 1>rich dude. That's not a plan. It sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty solid plan to me, Kate. It's not a plan, Kate. Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>Just so you know, the next date, we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>take my car. Oh what do you drive? Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got it. Curious now, Well, it doesn't matter, Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>It's better than anything that you have. I've got money

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<v Speaker 1>on a Jetta anybody else. Look all right, well I

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<v Speaker 1>think this is a success. Congratulations you two. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. You're gonna have beautiful, rich babies together. Perfect. See, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not about the type of car you drive. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just about how much money you have. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>we learned. That's where true love is moving ninety two

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<v Speaker 1>point five