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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. Today.

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Speaker 3: Trista is stepping in for Ben. As we do headlines,

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Speaker 3: we are continuing. Probably Bachelination's the biggest headline right now.

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Speaker 3: Grant and Juliana split. We got the announcement about a

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Speaker 3: week ago and now they have officially unfollowed each other

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Speaker 3: on Instagram. Grant got on his Instagram live the other

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Speaker 3: day and he talked about the split. He was asked

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Speaker 3: if they still talk. He said, no, we don't really

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Speaker 3: talk like that. I'm assuming it's like maybe like logistical

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Speaker 3: if anything, Like hey, do you want.

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Speaker 2: This sent back?

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Speaker 3: Somebody asked why did you break up with Juliana, and

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Speaker 3: he said, I didn't break up with anybody.

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Speaker 2: He also noted this was a big thing.

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Speaker 3: This is what stood out to me, and I sent

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Speaker 3: our Almost Famous group chat this video the video because

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Speaker 3: of it. He goes, I'm not heartbroken, and I'm like, ooh,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That seems kind of like a bad

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Speaker 3: taste for me. He also said that he has no

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Speaker 3: desire to going to like revisiting that one day, or

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Speaker 3: to revisiting any of the other girls from his season.

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Speaker 2: He just says, life goes on. It's all about moving forward.

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Speaker 2: I am not looking back. He also said during the

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Speaker 2: live that it was a mutual split. Trista, what is

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Speaker 2: your take on this?

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Speaker 3: And did you find the whole I'm not heartbroken thing

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Speaker 3: to be a little sassy as I did?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I didn't know about this live. I wish

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Speaker 4: I would have seen it.

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Speaker 3: No, he just did it two days ago. Yeah, oh oh,

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Speaker 3: you didn't watch the clip yet.

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Speaker 4: I didn't watch it. No, no, no, So you're just

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Speaker 4: you're telling me all these things, and I'm shocked. I'm shocked. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: the not heartbroken thing, I'm sorry you were engaged? How

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Speaker 4: how are you not right? Like that's that's shocking to me.

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Speaker 2: That's cool?

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Speaker 4: Broken like this that as very cold.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even if it was a mutual split, like you say, heartbroken,

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Speaker 3: because like you should be sad about the ending of

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Speaker 3: something that could have ended up in.

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Speaker 2: That should have ended up in marriage or you know

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Speaker 2: that was the attention.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. That's that's shocking to me. If you're

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Speaker 4: not heartbroken, was your heart ever in it?

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Speaker 2: Were you that?

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Speaker 4: Like? Didn't you didn't you tell her? That you loved

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Speaker 4: her and you're not heartbroken. That literally is the meaning

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Speaker 4: of the word heart broken. Your heart is broken. And

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Speaker 4: if your heart was complete because of this person or

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Speaker 4: was happy because of this person, shouldn't it be broken

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Speaker 4: if you broke up. I don't know, that just doesn't

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Speaker 4: make any sense to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even on this show, like when somebody has to

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Speaker 3: deny a rose, right, like let's just say it's top

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Speaker 3: six and you have to deny a rose that person,

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Speaker 3: you almost feel a little heartbroken.

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Speaker 2: Because you're breaking somebody else's heart.

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Speaker 4: I felt heartbroken on first night because I was breaking

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Speaker 4: people's hearts. Like not they weren't in love with me

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Speaker 4: by any means after like just meeting me for a

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Speaker 4: couple hours. But but yeah, it was heartbreaking because you

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Speaker 4: felt like they were there. They had given up you know,

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Speaker 4: part time time of their life, you know, to come

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Speaker 4: on the show and to meet me. It ended up

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Speaker 4: being for my season, and so yeah, it is a

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Speaker 4: little heartbreaking. So I feel maybe his definition of heartbreak

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Speaker 4: is just different than ours. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Some people were saying in the comments that, like this

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Speaker 3: seems like the classic like wanted fame is so ready

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Speaker 3: to like go out there and be the single bachelor

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Speaker 3: and be able to get girls really easily. I also

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Speaker 3: think you can interpret it.

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Speaker 2: Which which I totally say that side.

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of feeling that side, But you can also

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Speaker 3: kind of turn it and say that this looks like

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Speaker 3: a guy that's like on the defense and it didn't

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Speaker 3: work out, and now he's like, oh, don't care about her,

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Speaker 3: I'm moving on and it's not going to be a

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Speaker 3: problem for me to move on, and just trying to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, just be honest with people. People like

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Speaker 4: honesty and authenticity way more than they like somebody who's

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Speaker 4: like going to be just positive just for positive sake,

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Speaker 4: you know, like be authentic with the fact that you

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Speaker 4: were just engaged to someone and you obviously cared about her,

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Speaker 4: and can you not admit that, you know, it's sad

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Speaker 4: to be ending a relationship that you thought was your future. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Also there were comments that were like, this doesn't seem

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Speaker 3: like the bachelor that we knew, Like he was like

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Speaker 3: very like warm and sweet and emotional, and yeah, this

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Speaker 3: guy just didn't seem like that.

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Speaker 2: It seems like a front. You know.

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Speaker 4: They stopped following each other on Instagram from what our

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Speaker 4: producers are telling us. And I find it very interesting

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Speaker 4: and I've always felt it kind of sad in a

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Speaker 4: way when relationships and it's not just people in the

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Speaker 4: public eye. It's you know, teenagers that I know if

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Speaker 4: they if they with their boyfriend or girlfriend and they've

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Speaker 4: shared on Instagram, you know, all these pictures their life together,

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Speaker 4: however long they were together. You know, like they share

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Speaker 4: about their life together, and you know, whatever they've done,

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Speaker 4: they've posted on Instagram in their infeed right, so it's

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Speaker 4: not just stories, but it lives on their feed. When

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Speaker 4: they break up, they delete every single picture with that person.

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Speaker 4: So it's like that relationship in social media land never existed.

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Speaker 4: And it's so sad to me.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's necessary unless there was a cheating involved.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's a big deal to keep those

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Speaker 3: I agree, it's just like a chapter in your life,

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Speaker 3: a memory to keep it. Yeah, unless there's like really

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Speaker 3: harsh feelings, I don't think you.

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Speaker 2: Have to do that. I will say good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like if you get involved, you know, you get

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Speaker 3: move on to a relationship in that person that you're

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Speaker 3: with doesn't want those pictures up there anymore.

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Speaker 2: That's one thing. But I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, it's just sad to me. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Why don't you just I see Instagram as kind of

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Speaker 4: like a public diary in a way, you know, just

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Speaker 4: sharing the diary of your life, the memories that you

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Speaker 4: want to remember, the funny times, the whatever, you know,

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Speaker 4: And it just makes me sad when people are like, oh, Okay,

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Speaker 4: we're broken up, let's just delete, you know, the all

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Speaker 4: of the photo evidence. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's just do they do that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know. I'm just bringing that

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Speaker 4: up as a I know that they unfollowed each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet you they didn't.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, she has her engagement photo up there from

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Speaker 3: March twenty seventh, but that looks.

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Speaker 2: To be it. I don't know if she had anything

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Speaker 4: He has nothing.

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Speaker 2: He has nothing. Crazy. It's like, guys, we have a

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Speaker 2: whole series. It's on Hulu.

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Speaker 4: I know, Like that's the thing he does have. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: he literally I'm going through there are there are no

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Speaker 4: I think he got rid of. I'm assuming he had

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm actually not sure.

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Speaker 3: I wonder if they just like never really posted about

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Speaker 3: before March twenty seventh, but nothing after March twenty seventh.

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Speaker 4: No, he has nothing. It's all gone. I guarantee you

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Speaker 4: he had at least one post. Oh yeah, you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean. Yeah, he must have. No, it's all like,

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Speaker 4: it's all just it's all just him And listen. If

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Speaker 4: that's what you want to do it, and that's your

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Speaker 4: reason for having Instagram, you just want to promote yourself

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Speaker 4: or you know whatever, then that's fine. That's your life.

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Speaker 4: It's your it's your page. Do what you want with

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Speaker 2: I just I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It makes me really sad that you just erase you know,

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Speaker 4: what happened in your past. Yeah, yeah, she's she's not

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Speaker 2: That's okay.

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Speaker 3: Moving on Bachelor's Star Hannah and Sluice. We know her

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Speaker 3: Jake Funk last year. They are expecting a baby in November,

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Speaker 3: So congratulations to Hannah Ann and Jake.

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Speaker 2: She said. She told People magazine that it was.

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Speaker 3: An unexpected and joyful surprise she got pregnant on a

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Speaker 3: trip to Dubai. She says it's a moment they will

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Speaker 3: always treasure finding out together. She said she'll be sharing

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Speaker 3: Jake's reaction video soon it's so funny. She also said

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Speaker 3: that for the first trimester, she's stuck to rest and

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Speaker 3: the basics, work walks, taking care of their dog. She

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Speaker 3: said she had food aversions. Almost everything tasted off except

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Speaker 3: for fruit, which she has consistently loved. And we also

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Speaker 3: found out that she told her bestie from the Bachelor

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Speaker 3: of Victoria Fuller, in a very cute way. She said

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Speaker 2: She goes, sorry, I'm late.

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Speaker 3: I got you this. She hands over a bottle of

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Speaker 3: get promoted to anti baby funk, and she goes, you know, like,

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Speaker 3: I can't drink this. I'm forty five minutes late because

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Speaker 3: then Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Said that she immediately burst into tears before giving her

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Speaker 2: a big hug. So sweet. I love cute.

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Speaker 1: Idea.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's really cute. It's really cute.

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Speaker 2: So a couple of questions for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we all know that I hated being pregnant, especially

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Speaker 3: with Dawson. It was like the worst. It was really

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Speaker 3: like the it was a very dark time for me.

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Speaker 3: I had hyper I'm assist with Dawson. Did not have

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Speaker 3: it with Hayden, which is very rare and weird, but

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Speaker 3: like still did not you know, still got plenty sick.

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Speaker 2: And did not enjoy being pregnant with Hayden. I think that.

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Speaker 3: Cravings are such a thing that we talk about with pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what are your cravings? I'm like, guess what.

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Speaker 2: That is the least of anything that going on in

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Speaker 3: Like cravings is something that they put in rom coms

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Speaker 3: and like has just infiltrated real life. I can't ever

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Speaker 3: What I always said was that that it was kind

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Speaker 3: of like a hmm, what can I stomach? Now that

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Speaker 3: sounds like I could handle it, And that's what I

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Speaker 4: What about you, M that's such a good way to

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Speaker 4: look at it. I have always said that pregnancy just

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Speaker 4: doesn't agree with me. I feel like I would have

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Speaker 4: been the kind of person and not the kind of person.

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Speaker 4: I would have loved to have, like not healthy pregnancies,

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Speaker 4: but like pregnancies that didn't disagree with my body. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: because I feel like I would have loved to be

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Speaker 4: a surrogate. I'm honestly, honestly, I would have loved to

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Speaker 4: and I can't. Like I was like nope. After I

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Speaker 3: very faint. That is not pregnant, and I'm like, Jared,

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Speaker 3: that is what Dawson was. And then he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'll believe it in a week. And then oh week

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00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 3: came anyway, So yeah, both very uneventful moments but I

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00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 3: told my friends at like nine weeks, and I FaceTime

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00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,479
Speaker 3: them just like very sick on the couch. I'm not

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Speaker 3: like the kind of girl who like calls our friends

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00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 3: to catch up. Basically, I see them in person and

447
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 3: that's when we catch up. Yeah, but so I faced

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00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 3: and the second I FaceTime them, they're like, you're pregnant.

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Speaker 4: I'm like yeah, yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, Well lots of good girl talk. Now let's

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Speaker 2: go on to a hot, hot girl.

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Speaker 3: Did you see Caitlyn Bristows Sports Illustrated shoot for.

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Speaker 2: It was a digital shoot.

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Speaker 3: It was like in honor of her fortieth birthday, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm mine. I mean, I know, forty is

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00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 3: like nothing, but it's just crazy to me because I

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00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 3: remember Caitlyn turning thirty. Caitlyn turned thirty the year that

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Speaker 3: she was the Bachelorette. She filmed it and then it

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Speaker 3: started airing the month that she turned thirty.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, me doo. I actually had my birthday on the show,

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Speaker 4: like the guys brought me presents.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, your thirtieth birthday?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: No way, Oh my gosh, that funny.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And I remember being like I was twenty seven

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Speaker 3: to Kaitlyn and are like two and a half three

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Speaker 3: years a part. And then I was like, oh my god,

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00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 3: she's turning thirty. Oh my god, she's such an adult.

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Speaker 2: And now she turned forty.

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Speaker 3: And I had such like a similar response to it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, right, she's like full grown hatty hatty mccotter scene. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: like she's Yeah. I loved it, I commented. And you know,

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Speaker 4: I think I said, HATTI, holy HATI.

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Speaker 2: Holy hot. That's here in the rundown. He said, holy HATTI. Yes, yeah,

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00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: she looks so amazing. It's in her backyard. Photo shoot,

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00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: Go look at her. She looks great.

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Speaker 3: And then she also posted a personal ballad about love

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Speaker 3: for her fortieth birthday. She she released it the day

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Speaker 3: of It is so pretty well, it's like a heart

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00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 3: break it there's like it's like heartbreak theme, but it's

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Speaker 3: beautiful to listen to. Her voice sounds so good. And

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Speaker 3: she this is her third song, her third song, and

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Speaker 3: she said that creating this song was out of her

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Speaker 3: comfort zone, but she's actively learning to become comfortable with discomfort.

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Speaker 3: And a big thing that happened with this post is

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Speaker 3: that there's a mister Zach Clark who posted underneath. I

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00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 3: think this is maybe his first comment underneath the photo

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Speaker 3: of hers says happy birthday Moon. Does that sound like

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00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,479
Speaker 3: a nickname or not? Maybe a Game of Thrones reference

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00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 3: as well, And I'm a little romantic there.

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Speaker 2: This is brave, great song, keep going love it.

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Speaker 4: I am so proud of her. I saw, you know,

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Speaker 4: she's she talked to Mel Robbins on her podcast and yew,

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Speaker 4: you know, she talked about her fears and what she

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Speaker 4: would love to do, and Mel was like, you know,

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Speaker 4: just let them, you know, let them her whole tagline,

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Speaker 4: let them not tagline really, but her whole book, you know,

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00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 4: is about just let people think what they're going to

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00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 4: think and do what you want to do with your life,

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Speaker 4: fulfill your dreams if you have the chance. I was

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Speaker 4: actually texting with Caitlin when she was in the studio

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Speaker 4: and she sent me a picture of that. She ended

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Speaker 4: up posting on that on that post of her being

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Speaker 4: in the studio, and I'm just so proud of her

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Speaker 4: because I know that there's you know, she's a good

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Speaker 4: friend and I know that there's she's really struggled a

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00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 4: lot with sharing, you know, and keeping things private and

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00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 4: writing that line. You know of wanting to share with

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00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 4: people her authenticity and and also wanting to keep things

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00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 4: really private. And I just feel like it is so

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00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: beautifully authentic and relatable to so many people, the lyrics

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Speaker 4: of the song. So I'm just so proud of her

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Speaker 4: for sharing it. I think it's beautiful. And yeah, it's

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Speaker 4: a really.

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Speaker 3: Nice way of putting it out there. It's kind of

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00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift, like She's like, yeah, I tell you, I'll

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00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 3: tell you things in song and you can interpretize you may.

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Speaker 4: That is so so true. Yes, I'm sure she would

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00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 4: love that. I know she would love that. Yeah, Lonely

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00:26:52,880 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 4: in Love. Go listen to it, everybody, all right.

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Speaker 3: Our final headline is Tyler Cameron. Did you see his

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00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,919
Speaker 3: house because they got crapped?

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00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, I literally I thought that they did it.

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00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 3: I'm seeing now that it was actually HGTV's Gali Alex,

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00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 3: who kind of turned it into what she calls like

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00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 3: a grown up renovation.

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Speaker 2: And I thought Tate and him did it together his

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00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 2: girlfriend I did too, Yeah, because he even said like

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Speaker 2: he made like some joke about like Tate not actually

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Speaker 2: doing it, that he did it.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 3: Actually it was a professional decorator and I was like can,

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00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 3: I wrote underneath it. I was like, can, whoever, I

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00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 3: need you guys to come over and do my house.

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Speaker 3: It is sedunnang, It's gorgeous.

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Speaker 4: The whole ceiling, how they took out like that top

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Speaker 4: level whatever thing, that like falcony thing that was in

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Speaker 4: the inside of the house.

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Speaker 2: I know that, yeah, well was that.

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Speaker 4: But then they took away the ceiling and made the

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Speaker 4: ceiling just giant and put that whole like accent wall.

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Speaker 4: It's gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: It is so nice.

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Speaker 3: You guys have to check out the Instagram. I'm very

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00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 3: into like the colors that they used. Remember, you know,

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00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 3: just you know, a couple of years ago, it was

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00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 3: all about the gray whites and blah blash, and now

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Speaker 3: I just love the color and like a little more

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00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 3: like antique vibe.

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Speaker 4: I'm all about color.

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00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I know, yeah, color color.

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00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 3: I think that like the really, at the end of

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00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 3: the day, we all like color more. I think like

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Speaker 3: there was some sort of I think we were trying

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00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 3: to like clean like there. I've seen Instagram reels about

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00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 3: how millennials grew up in these houses that you know,

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00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 3: like my mom, my parents' house, kitchen looks kind of

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00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 3: like the olive garden, and they joke about how, like,

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00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 3: you know, nineties moms have like olive garden kitchens.

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Speaker 2: And I think we were just like all a little

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Speaker 2: like overwhelmed at that stuff.

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00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 3: And then we're like, oh, yeah, let's just like do

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00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 3: really clean, clean neutrals and now do they have.

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00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 4: A border of like an ivy Like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, oh, my mom had like all the like the

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Speaker 3: the greenery in the brass in the like brass baskets,

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00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 3: and then like she had grape vines.

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Speaker 2: They actually just took down that wallpaper. She had grape wallpaper.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she had the pigs and the cows holding the

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00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 3: little chalkboards.

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00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 4: Of course, oh you chickens. Yeah.

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00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think that we were just like, okay,

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Speaker 2: we want something clean and neutral, and now we're like,

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Speaker 2: wait a second, we're carving the warmth and they put

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Speaker 2: the warmth in this house that looks so good.

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Speaker 3: And how cute are Tyler and Tate. I can't wait

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00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 3: for this engagement which is bound to happen. They are

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Speaker 3: They seem perfect together.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I just saw a clip of Nick on his

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00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 4: podcast talking to them, and they are there. I don't

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00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: know him. I you know, I've never met him, but

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00:29:55,920 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 4: they are adorable together. They're so cute. Yeah, I I

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00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 4: love that. I'm just I love love. So yeah, it

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Speaker 4: doesn't matter if they are two people who met on

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00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 4: the show. Like I just I just love love, and

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00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 4: I think they're really cute together.

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00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I kind of like love the fact

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00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 3: that he was like dating Gigi hadied and like other celebrities,

589
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 3: and then he kind of just is like, no, you

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Speaker 3: know what, I want to move home, do home renovations

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Speaker 3: and date one of these girls that I've known, like

592
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 3: for a long time who's always been a friend of mine.

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Speaker 3: Is really nice and he's like such a sweet guy.

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Speaker 3: Every time he's on the podcast, I'm like yours. I

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00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 3: guess I regard him as kind of like a celebrity,

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00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 3: right because like he has like elevated to that level

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00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 3: and he seems so grounded and down to earth.

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Speaker 4: Okay, he's good, all right, Well.

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Speaker 2: Trista, thanks for joining me today. We miss Ben and

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Speaker 2: he'll be back next episode. And until then, I've been Ashley.

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Speaker 4: And I've been Trista Sea.

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Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley Almost Famous podcasts on iHeartRadio

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