1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: million bucks things and the shove me through. Good to mother. 4 00:00:38,600 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: I don't join jo turning. You gotta turn to turn 5 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: them out. Turn you got to turn out to turn 6 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: turn the water the water go. Come come on your 7 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: baby now, uh huh, I shall will. Good morning everybody. 8 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, come on dig me now. 9 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey. Man got a radio show, man, Yeah, 10 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 1: I do. Steve Harvey got a radio show because I 11 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: can't tell it to you any other way because God 12 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: has been so so very amazing to me. But the 13 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: same God, and there is but one that same God is. 14 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: It can and will be amazing in your life if 15 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: you just allow it to happen. You know. I was somewhere, 16 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: you know, and I was driving on the freeway somewhere, 17 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: and I saw bill board and it was a guy 18 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 1: in a field on his knees. And on this billboard 19 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: it said something to the fact, when when you've run 20 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:09,839 Speaker 1: out of answers, try prayer. I was. I was going 21 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: somewhere and I don't even remember I go so much, man, 22 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:18,279 Speaker 1: I was just going somewhere and I saw this billboard 23 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: and I thought about that, And man, I cannot tell 24 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: you how true of a statement that is. When you've 25 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 1: run out of answers, when you don't know what to do, 26 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: when you feel weak, when you are at a low point, 27 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: when things just seem to keep happening to you, and 28 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: you don't understand why prayer is an amazing weapon. Prayer 29 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: is available to all of us. Here's a deal. You 30 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: don't have to go through the all of that you're 31 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: going through alone. See, I'm talking to men, women, boys, girls, students, leaders, bosses, employees. 32 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: I don't care what's happening. I don't care what your 33 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: situation is. I don't care if your relationship is all 34 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: jacked up. I don't care if your kids and your 35 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: relationship is jacked up. I don't care if your relationship 36 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: at work is shot. Your co workers seem to always 37 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: make you the buddy end of the joke. You always 38 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,239 Speaker 1: somebody always talking about you behind your back. You're finding 39 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: it more and more necessary to try to hold your 40 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: head up and walk past these people when some days 41 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: you can't even get your chin up off your chest. 42 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: If you're a woman out there and you've been alone 43 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: by yourself for so long, and you're just tired of 44 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: being alone. You really want a relationship, you really want 45 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: to be have a mate, you want to meet your 46 00:04:54,480 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: soul mate, whatever it is, whatever it is, prayer is 47 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: the answer. You are listening to a guy who is 48 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: a direct recipient of prayer. I can't tell you anything 49 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: that I've gotten out of that I didn't pray about. Oh, now, 50 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: there are a lot of things. Hold on, let me 51 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: backtrack a little bit. There are a lot of things 52 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: that have happened in my life that I've gotten past 53 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: without praying, because I think my Mamma was praying for me. 54 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,679 Speaker 1: And then a's this thing that God has called grace 55 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: and mercy that he just somehow keeps us all waking 56 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: up every day without foot on some form or solid 57 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: ground because He's just waiting on us to come to him. 58 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:47,799 Speaker 1: But y'all, if you can implement prayer into your day 59 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: every single day, and I'm talking about put it in 60 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: there at the top of your day, put it in 61 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: there in the middly your day, put it in there 62 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: when you close your day out, when you're sitting at 63 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: your desk and ain't nobody bothering you. That's a good time. Now. Look, 64 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: you don't have to make no scene. You ain't got 65 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: to let everybody know. Oh I'm spiritual, I love God 66 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: looking me. Oh I'm down, or you ain't gonna do 67 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: none of that. Matter of fact, don't do it for 68 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: that reason, because if that's your reason for doing it, 69 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: that's gonna be your reward. If you want somebody to 70 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: just say, oh, they pray every you know, they pray 71 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 1: at lunch and they had a Bible on their desk 72 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: and they have a bunch of highlights in it. If 73 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: you're sitting it out there so people can see that 74 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: that's what you do, then that's gonna be your reward. Please, No, you, 75 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: that's gonna be your reward. What I want you to do, 76 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: it's pray. Ask God for the things the desires of 77 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: your heart, have a faith, believe in them. But pray earnestly. Man. 78 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: I mean, actually go at it with saying, hey, God, 79 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: listen to me. I can't do this without you. I 80 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 1: need your help. Listen, man, I know a lot of 81 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 1: people that pray. I know a lot of it. If 82 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: I told you the rich and famous that I talk 83 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: to that pray constantly. It would amas you. Go talk 84 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: to God about it. Man. Matter of fact, you have 85 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: already got yourself into trouble. Go talk to God about it. 86 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: You can't see no way out. You're in a situation. 87 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: You're thinking about doing something straight crazy. Pump your brake's partner. 88 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: Slow down a little bit, my man, slow down, don't don't. 89 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: All you're gonna do is make a situation worse. Go 90 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:42,679 Speaker 1: over there today and talk to God. Talk to God 91 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: for real. Just and look, man, you know what. Man, 92 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: Sometimes I've gone to God and I've just said, Hey, God, 93 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: I don't have a clue. Matter of fact, I'm so 94 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: jacked up right now. God, I don't even really know 95 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: what to ask you for. I just need some help. 96 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm so deep is some mess right now. Not only 97 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: can I not see the way out, I can't see 98 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: my way around. There's a there's a poem calling Victus, 99 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: and the opening line says, out of the night that 100 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: covers me black as a pit from pole to pole, 101 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: I thank God for whatever be from my unconquerable soul. 102 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: That this line is so deep. It starts off saying 103 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: I am in deep trouble. I'm in a pit, black 104 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: as a pit, from pole to pole. I'm talking about man. 105 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 1: From over there to over there, it's pitch black and 106 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: and and man, that's man. You've been in that situation before, y'all, 107 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: because I have. I'm talking about black as a pit, 108 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: from pole to pole. God is there, God is available. 109 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: God is always standing by. He just wants you to 110 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: come to him. See, he's been coming to you a 111 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: whole lot of times. He's presented himself. I can't tell 112 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: you how many times he's shown you how good a 113 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: god he is. He's given us all grace and mercy 114 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: without us asking for He's gotten you through some things. 115 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: And you looked at him. Who, Man, I don't know 116 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: how the hell. Okay, that's cool, I'm cool. No, no, no no, no, no, 117 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: that wasn't cool. That was God. Pray man, when you 118 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: out of answers and you don't know what to do, pray. 119 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: If you see some trouble coming, pray if you already 120 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: got into it, Pray if you don't know the answers, 121 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: Pray if you can't see no way out, pray. Pray man, 122 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: Talk to God. Don't make a scene, Just talk to God, 123 00:09:55,280 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: all right. Very important you're listening any show, Ladies and 124 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: gentlemen in us upon us to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 125 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: Us here we got a great show for you. Is 126 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 1: Monday morning. It's a great day. It's a new week, 127 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: it's another chance, an opportunity. God is good. If you 128 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: don't believe it, man, take an inventory, take invatory. Just 129 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: think of all the things you've gotten through, every situation 130 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 1: you've overcome, and everything you're currently being pulled through. And 131 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: congratulate yourself because God has kept you in spite of 132 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: ain't God. Good, Ladies and gentlemen, Steve Harvey Morning Show 133 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: surely strung. Amen. Amen, Good Monday morning to you, Steve Harvey, 134 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: Thank you for that grateful well. Carl is not here today. 135 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: Let's go to Junior morning. Uncle great mentor you are 136 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 1: to me one ever but j Anthony Brown way way 137 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: back and now we're here. Was up Steve Harvey, nephew 138 00:10:54,600 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 1: Tommy King of Pranks, Ya ya in the build. D's Monday, baby. 139 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: Oh it's gonna be ignorant to day yesterday on my 140 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: cheat day. My cheat day is Sunday's Okay, So I 141 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: had Peach Cobbler talking about it. Yeah, I had I 142 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: had butter pecan ice cream Darry free, and I'm telling you, boy, 143 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: this ice cream is really good day free because I've 144 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 1: given up Darry and oh what else? Did I have 145 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: a couple of things but my emotion. I had some 146 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: five guys, Yeah, I had five guys. Ain't had that 147 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: in the year shouting. I had five guys with the 148 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: bag of fries, and my guy bought it to me. 149 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: So I had my love and preheated at three fifty 150 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: weighting on it. He said, no, man, you even na 151 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: I bought it right here is hot? Now threw them 152 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: fries and there took them three burgers off that patty 153 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: and laid them on that put an extra slice of 154 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: cheese on it. Took my own bun and buttered it 155 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:13,319 Speaker 1: and ran it in and skillet got my own or 156 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: smuckers or pickle chip soccers. Yea, laid it out there, 157 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: the extra male uh apart and put it back the game. 158 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: Did your sheet? They mess you up for the whole week. 159 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: I mean, if you ate it like that, not if 160 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, it's just one, just a meal, 161 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: just to wash it all down. So now I just 162 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: drink water. I don't water. Drink water. And coffee. That's 163 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: really it. Peach cobbler ice cream, five guys with fries. 164 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: That's how much peach cobbler? Steve? How much peach? A 165 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: pan of it? Five guys? That's oh, I didn't need 166 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: the whole pan. Are you okay of it? Yeah? That's 167 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 1: what the chief. Are you fasting tomorrow? Huh? Are you 168 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 1: fasting tomorrow? Tomorrow? Intermittent fast to four pm? I just 169 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: go to four pm and I do yoga. I do 170 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: yoga before I come on the air. But when you 171 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: do something like that, you don't think you need to 172 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: go to like ten pm, just like I think you 173 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: need a clinging. I think after that, I'm already. I'm 174 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,079 Speaker 1: on the cleans already. All right, listen coming up with 175 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the CLOS Steve Harvey, 176 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer. Right after you're listening to Steve Harvey 177 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time now? Where, asked 178 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: the CLO. Lauren and South philm Michigan says, I'm a 179 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: thirty thirty year old engaged woman and I don't get 180 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: along with my future father in law because he assumed 181 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: I would take a job alongside my fiance in the 182 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 1: family business. I have no desire to work at a 183 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: dry cleaners. My fiance knows I only have a few 184 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: credits left to get my degree, and he's supporting me 185 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: while I finished school. Is meddling Daddy is causing problems 186 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: and causing my fiance to doubt my loyalty. What should 187 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: I do about it? First of all, explaining your damn 188 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: daddy in law that y'all ain't the Jeffersons right and 189 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: moving on up and you'll never be Yeah, see, we 190 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: ain't fit to move on up in the dry cleaning bus. 191 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: You know now, if you got a business, that was 192 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: your dream, sir, But you can't push this dream on her. 193 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: She going to college for a degree, She got a 194 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: right to pursue her own life goals and aspirations. She 195 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: can't go to college to work at the dry cleaner. 196 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: They ain't nothing wrong working with the dry cleaner. And 197 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: I think you can make a great business out of 198 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: having a dry cleaning business. But if that ain't what 199 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: she won't, that ain't for you to decide. So miss me. 200 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: With all that, we're moving on Pucci and Silver Springs. 201 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: Maryland says, I need your advice in a big mess. 202 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: My best friend and her boyfriend broke up because she 203 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 1: cheated on him. Her boyfriend came to my apartment saying 204 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: he needed to talk to me. He said he's attracted 205 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: to me and wanted to date me. I fell for 206 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: it and we ended up having sex. Once. He filmed 207 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: the whole thing and showed it to my best friend. 208 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: He had told her that he only did it to 209 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 1: get back at her. She took him back and they're 210 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 1: in love again. Meanwhile, we're not speaking. Why can't she 211 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: forgive me too? Like that oak? She forgive me too? 212 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: First of all, she cheated first, so the dude went 213 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: and then got back at her, which you showed it 214 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: to her, aye for aye. So she figured, well, I 215 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 1: did him, you did me. Can we go back? But 216 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: you didn't have to fall for that. Y'all not offended 217 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: to be friends ever. Sharon and Temper Arizona says, I'm 218 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: a fifty eight year old married woman. I've found out 219 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: my husband gave a girl that works with him two 220 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: thousand dollars to help her buy a car. He said, 221 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: she's twenty eight and a single mother, so he helped 222 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 1: her out because she's trying her best to keep her 223 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: job despite not having reliable transportation. He had her come 224 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: by the house so I could meet her. If he's 225 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: being a good samaritan and nothing's up, why couldn't he 226 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: tell me about it beforehand? What's up with that? Because 227 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: you wouldn't have let him get a girl a two 228 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: thousand dollars and he wanted to be a hero. You 229 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: know why he didn't asked you because you wasn't gonna 230 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: let him. That's why you know this ain't this? Ain't 231 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: hall with this little girl. I ain't saying that, But 232 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: I ain't saying that. Yeah, it's still better to ask 233 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: for what is it? Forgiveness than permission? Well, I ain't 234 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: know about a woman to call it. I wasn't sleeping 235 00:16:55,240 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: with Okay, thank you hello on it? Two thousand, Well, 236 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: I ain't never two thousand. That ain't none, So WIFEI 237 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: trust you into it. Ain't nothing now? But what was 238 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: two thousand? If you was in your thirties? Oh, you 239 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 1: couldn't have got two thousand, two thousand dollars. If I 240 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: had two thousand dollars, I wouldn't have been homeless. What 241 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: was two thousand dollars? Or hold shelter, So figure it out. 242 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: Figure it out. Um, all right, So Jay, you have 243 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: been paying child support to a little boy. You become fun, y'all, 244 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: good friends. He loves you, he thinks you your daddy. 245 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 1: You found out he's not, You're not the father. How 246 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 1: do you break it to this little boy? Break? I 247 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: don't know that I break his heart? In payments gonna 248 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: see e Stone definitely stop. No, now you better flying. 249 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: Who the hell this boy? And payment's gonna come to him. 250 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell him I'm not his daddy, especially 251 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: if I've grown fond of him. Man, I love it, 252 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna remove myself as a force in 253 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: this boy's life. The payment's gonna stop Friday. Matter fact, 254 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go down to HR and I'm gonna be 255 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: sitting there on Wednesday when they cut him. Do you 256 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: tell him this is the last payment? How old is 257 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: the boy? He's seven? No? No, he don't need to 258 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: know about no last payment. He don't even understand payments. Yeah, 259 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: he don't get no fourteen. I'm not gonna tell him 260 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: main no last payment either, But you will go ahead 261 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: to find your daddy. Your mama gonna have to tell 262 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: him white, you can't go and field trips no more? 263 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, his lifestyle is going to change. Mama 264 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:06,719 Speaker 1: gonna had to play some stuff to you. But who 265 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 1: I didn't get no shoes this year? Well you what 266 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: if it's real? Dad doesn't have it though? Yeah, and 267 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: you got it and his dad don't have it. Well, 268 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: I'm always helped the boy out. I ain't gonna never 269 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: just cut him out, all right, I'm always be there 270 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: for it, but it won't be in them payments though. 271 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: You're not gonna take this out of my check. Yeah. Now, 272 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna help out when I want to, but you're 273 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: not fit to keep taking this out of my check though, 274 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: that's not going to happen. It ain't the boys fault, 275 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna help him. His lifestyle gonna change because 276 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 1: some information has changed it. His mama can't change daddy's. 277 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: So when daddy's changed, lifestyles changed, No, that's sorry. I'm 278 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 1: gonna help him. Always make sure he don't do without, 279 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 1: but it won't be in them payments like it's been 280 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: coming up. Help him out in the conversational one hand, 281 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: let it's gonna get this mintoring for phrase? What dog. 282 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: You can come to the count you can come to campus, 283 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: stay with me. You ain't gonna stay in the bags 284 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: with were a baby. Let me ask you this. So 285 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 1: you with the little boy and you find out, what 286 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: kind of rejoicement would you do? How would you react? 287 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 1: So he knows, he don't know what's going on, but 288 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,200 Speaker 1: you know that you're glad you just found this out. Well, 289 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: first of all, if he eating ice cream on slap 290 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 1: that on the ground in mid lick, he gonna I'm 291 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: not gonna tell him what is fault, but it's gonna 292 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: be a reaction. Coming up the next this Monday morning, 293 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: you know what, record motel taking death jam here with 294 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 1: church complaints. Right after this you're listening show all right? 295 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, some very 296 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: sad news to report legendary middleweight boxing champ Marvelous Marvin 297 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: Hagler passed away. We'll talk about that. We'll highlight, Yeah, 298 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: we'll highlight his legends career. Yeah, had marvelous marveling yea, 299 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: I know, I know. Plus we'll recap the sixty third 300 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 1: Annual Grammy Awards from last night. We'll also talk about 301 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 1: j Loo and A Rod's rocky relationship. Are they together 302 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: or not? We'll talk about it right now, though, it's 303 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 1: time for the characters. Greed, good evening, good morning, afternoon, 304 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: whomenel a, you are listening. We gather at this grow 305 00:21:53,800 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 1: garious moment into prosity, impetize. We don't or re energize, Deacon, 306 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:23,239 Speaker 1: We fraumatize forwardly in this way we realize when you 307 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 1: when you speak, you you use words that a lot 308 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: of the congregation does not know, and you obviously is 309 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:38,919 Speaker 1: speaking for yourself. All right, everyone, no one else says 310 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: these things but you. They just don't have the voice 311 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: that I have. No, no, no, no, they don't have 312 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 1: the vocablet see you you you run up on a 313 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: on a dictator shield. That's a that's or spontaneous partifically 314 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: of the diction, but any else partifically that's CC right now. 315 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: If you can't repeat it, it's because you don't know it. Now. 316 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,439 Speaker 1: If that I can't repeat it, I just I've never 317 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: heard it, and nobody else have cause you've never heard it. 318 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: Don't mean exactly you've never heard the philosophical or scientific 319 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: equation for evolution. But you that don't mean you're gonna 320 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 1: know it. Well, what is that? What is that formula 321 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,400 Speaker 1: you're talking about? See right there. I'm not gonna tell 322 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 1: you that because you're not gonna know it, know how, 323 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 1: But why don't you do the one thing that you 324 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: do know and that's how to complain? Why don't you 325 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: do that? Don't worry about me. I'm not worried about you, 326 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 1: but I'm just trying to converse with you that nobody 327 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: knows when you when you start preaching and you thank 328 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: you philosopher fighting, nobody knows what you're saying. That's how 329 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's you get shame on you? This are you? 330 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: Why are you waiting time? I'm not complaining, but now 331 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 1: all your church complaints did not just turn into deacon complaints. 332 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: No you're not. No no no no no no no 333 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no, you're not 334 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,439 Speaker 1: gonna do that. Okay, No, no, I just did. I 335 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,719 Speaker 1: just did. You don't tell me what I ain't gonna do. 336 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 1: I just DIDs. Boy, I just did. Now we cannot. 337 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring that up later on. But that what 338 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 1: you want? You don't run up on this hill. So 339 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: here's the deal passed the app there are quite a 340 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: few church complaints today and there were people that was 341 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: just very upset about some things. Now here's what I 342 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: thought I would do differently, because you always get up 343 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 1: upset with me, with me bringing Jesus this boy, get 344 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: on with this hell, you get upset with me bringing 345 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: the news. But I thought I would let you hear 346 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 1: it so you can hear what I hear when I 347 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 1: get it. Let's go. Here's the first one. Antastic man, Oh, 348 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: we need to we need to get an age woman 349 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 1: on Hunt because I don't knows tell you, but last 350 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 1: year all of your dolts are stealing all these shrugs 351 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 1: like you were a fighting name before us and are 352 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: pushing kids out to wife. I don't even know what 353 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: to try. Like, we're gonna do something about this. Put 354 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 1: an age women on this, please. They want an age 355 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 1: limit path on the Eastern egg Hunt that's coming up. 356 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: And then the kids that come was trying to follow him. 357 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 1: And I think what we're gonna have to do is 358 00:25:55,800 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to or bring back to better anting ministry. 359 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: That's what I'm not gonna be doing is addressing or 360 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 1: heat your old with some complaints about the damn Easter egg. 361 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: We don't have to ball none of the egg. I 362 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 1: like my egg sonny side up, if you want a 363 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: little truth about it. And every time we ball it, 364 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:19,959 Speaker 1: you said, even put a color on it. I think 365 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: it's gonna waste the egg. And then a waste the egg, 366 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: gonna waste the paint. You know, you gotta look at 367 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: a different way. It ain't paint is die? Well are 368 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 1: we wasting die or are we wasting a egg? You 369 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: have to look at it that away. What we're wasting 370 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 1: right now, Deacon is time. Well, then let's get to it. 371 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: You want to know what's going on and what people 372 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: upset about. Here's the next one path to that. I 373 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: when I check my voice, man, this is what I get. Hey, hey, 374 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: Deacon death Camp. Hey this Malcolm. Uh. They say as 375 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,439 Speaker 1: to Davis, I know y'all mess around and everything, and 376 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: I ain't telling you what you're doing. But I'm hearing 377 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: your pregnant. That's all I know. I see around around 378 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: brother you Geen's apartment all the time, but I ain't 379 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 1: trying to start no mess. But they say, I know 380 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: y'all cools, but they say she's pregnant. I'm just saying 381 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: you know you didn't held Well, brother Eugene ain't impregnated 382 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: no woman. I know we all know that when we 383 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,199 Speaker 1: do not that we do know that. But I'm just 384 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: so now, why you would even record that. They're saying 385 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: that you have something to do with her. That's o't understand. 386 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn what he said. The confusion 387 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 1: is you said he she's pregnant by brother Eugene. Now 388 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: we were put Eugene out the church, so he's no 389 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: longer member here, So why you didn't drug him back? 390 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: I can't. I don't do complaints again former members. I 391 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: only do current members. I understand, I understand. Why won't 392 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 1: you move on? And then I move on? Now here's 393 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: the next complaint that I heard on my voice. Man, 394 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: I want you to take a lesson. Good afternoon. This 395 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 1: is Blake White. I've been attending the church congregation for 396 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:13,159 Speaker 1: many years now, and I'm wondering, where are we going 397 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: to get some more white people in there? Well, asked 398 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: brother Blake White, when is he gonna bring some more 399 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 1: white We bought him in as a recruiting tool. Obviously 400 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:36,119 Speaker 1: he has failed in that department. Now, don't come at me. 401 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 1: Come at that we're gonna get some white members. I'm 402 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: happy with the membership we got, but I bought him 403 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: in thinking he was gonna bring in some more white folks. No, 404 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: obviously white folk don't want to worship with us. Yeah, 405 00:28:52,080 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: and I can't make Yeah. I have a a question 406 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: about wife fool while with Taylor Swift owned Grammar is 407 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: performing at a campsite. That's a question. I I didn't 408 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: understand that at all, all that fake ass grasp and 409 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: everything we all know you ain't outside. Thank you, Pastor 410 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: and Deacon. Coming up at the top of the hour, 411 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 1: Entertainment news and our national news update with miss Anne 412 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: Trip right after this, you're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show. 413 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: Professional boxer and former undisputed middleweight champ Marvelous Marvin Hagler 414 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: has died at the age of sixty six. His wife 415 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: made the announcement on Facebook. She said, I am sorry 416 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: to make a very sad announcement today. Unfortunately, my beloved husband, 417 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: Marvelous Marvin passed away unexpectedly at his home here in 418 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: New Hampshire. Our family requests that you respect our privacy 419 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: during this difficult time. With Love Haggler. Of course, became 420 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: the undisputed away champ in nineteen eighty. During his professional 421 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: boxing career, he had sixty two wins, three losses, two draws, 422 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: and fifty two wins by a knockout. He was inducted international. Yes, 423 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 1: he was inducted into the Boxing Hall of Fame back 424 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety three. After he retired from the ring, 425 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 1: he moved to Italy to become an actor. Hely after 426 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: the Sugar Ray fight. After Sugar Ray, that's right, because 427 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 1: he couldn't believe he lost. That was the last time, 428 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: and that was a highly controversial win. For there was 429 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: arguments in the barber shops. I'm telling you I was years. 430 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: I was there. I mean, man, they showed that flight 431 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: on why Will the Sports, and I'm telling you, man, 432 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 1: we was at it. We walked about that fight for 433 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: about good eight months in the barber shop and it 434 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: was fifty fifty. Had you met him? Steve met him once. 435 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: I just met him once. I just met him once. 436 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: But it was been passing. It wasn't nothing memorable. I 437 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 1: don't have no stories about it. But if you fight 438 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: sixty two times and you lose three times, he's a 439 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: badass dude and fifty two of the sixty two. Fifty 440 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: two of the sixty two was a knockout. He was 441 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 1: whipping his people's ass. Man, if he would have stuck 442 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: around and not not Italy and went to all of 443 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 1: the boxing traditional stuff, he would be it would be 444 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 1: more done about this right now. But he absolutely went 445 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: off the grid when he lost that fight to Sugar 446 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,719 Speaker 1: Ray Lennard. And you know, and you know they're not 447 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: saying what he died from, but his legal name, his 448 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: legal name was marvelous. His legal name was marvelous Marvin Hagger. 449 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 1: And let me tell you something, man, when he got 450 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: in the rain, your ass had to have it together 451 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: because he was coming to wallow. What was the biggest 452 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 1: fog that that that first round right there, that round 453 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 1: number one. Never seen a fight start that way in 454 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: modern day times. What happened? They was banging. They came 455 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: out for War nine. It was war. They was banging. 456 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 1: That's why I'm telling you right now. The only person 457 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: today that would have fought in that era and been 458 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: effective was Mayweather. You know, Pernelle Whittakernel, all the boys 459 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: was deadly, but the only one today that was fighting 460 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 1: around and now that would have survived back there to 461 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 1: me was Mayweather. Because couldn't none of them boards have 462 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: hooked Alexis way old or and the Hawk prior or 463 00:32:55,240 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 1: beneath tars. They'd all got their ass hohooked, every lad 464 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:08,520 Speaker 1: one of them. Couldn't have whipped nobody, Yson, Fury, Dante Wilder, Joshua, 465 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: couldn't none of them half whooped farming homes, Ali Frasier, Norton, 466 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: spins Dukes, tell us, I can go down to this. 467 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,479 Speaker 1: They couldn't have whipped none of them boys back then, 468 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,479 Speaker 1: Quick Tillers. They couldn't have fought. They couldn't whipped none 469 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 1: of them boys back then. All right, ladies and gentlemen, 470 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: Miss Anne Trill, thank you very very much. The city 471 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 1: of Minneapolis has agreed to pay the family of the 472 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: late mister George Floyd twenty seven million dollars for his 473 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: murder at the hands or should I say, the knee 474 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 1: of a now fired white cop named Derek Chauvin, with 475 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: a half a million dollars of that song to be 476 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: invested in the neighborhood where Floyd was murdered. It's to 477 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: be chatted as the largest pre trial settlement in the 478 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 1: civil rights wrongful death in civil rights history, and attorney 479 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,960 Speaker 1: Benjamin Crump says, the pout and this sends a message 480 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: that black lives do matter and that the word of 481 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 1: a award, by the way comes As jury selection continues 482 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: in Chauvin's trial, by the end of the day on Friday, 483 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 1: six jurors had been selected, three white men, one black man, 484 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 1: one Hispanic man, and a woman who describes herself as 485 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 1: multi racial. Two more prominent congressional Democrats are calling for 486 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 1: New York States Governor Andrew Cuomo to resign after a 487 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: six woman has come forward accused him of groping her. 488 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 1: A seventh over the weekend, unidentified claims that he made 489 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: her feel at one point uncomfortable. The head of the 490 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,920 Speaker 1: House Judiciary Committee, Jerry Nadler, and Representative Alexander Ocasio Cortez 491 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: both saint Cuomo's got to be a no mo and meanwhile, 492 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 1: both the New York State Assembly and the New York 493 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:48,280 Speaker 1: State Attorney General's Office are conducting independent probes. President Biden 494 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: and Vice President Kamala Harris hit the road this week 495 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 1: to make sure that the American people know just what's 496 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: in his new trillion dollar aid package and that they 497 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 1: hear it basically from that horse's mouth, so to speak, 498 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 1: versus scheduled a visit parts of rural Pennsylvania and then 499 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 1: go down to Atlanta. Duke University has ordered his undergraduates 500 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 1: to quarantine themselves for a week because so many of 501 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: them attended rush week for aspiring fraternity and sorority members 502 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: and it was like close quarters and stuff, a lot 503 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: of drinking. I guess our health officials say that the 504 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: recruitment parties have resulted in an uptick apparently in coronavirus infections, 505 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,399 Speaker 1: So they want everybody just kind of stay hunkering down 506 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: in your dorms or whatever for a week and just 507 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 1: make sure everybody gets okay. At last night's Grammy, it 508 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: was Beyonce winning another four awards and now with twenty 509 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 1: eight Grammys, Queen Bay is the winning a single performer 510 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:43,479 Speaker 1: in Grammy history, Male or Female, Living or Debt. Yeah, 511 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: Beyonce is now tied with producer Quincy Jones. That's Queen Bay. 512 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:52,319 Speaker 1: And sadly, we have lost another great boxer. We gotta 513 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 1: let him go. Love Tko. We all love marvelous Marvin Hagler. 514 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 1: He was the undisputed middleweight Champ of the World from 515 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: nineteen eighty to nineteen eighty seven. Inducted into the International 516 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 1: Boxing Hall of Fame in nineteen ninety three. No cause 517 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,720 Speaker 1: of death mentioned. He was sixty six. You know, Leon 518 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: Spinks passed away last month. Now back to the Steve 519 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 520 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 1: come on, introduce your friend you know who about further 521 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: Ado Jay Anthony, that damn Brown In honor of the Drammys. 522 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:33,280 Speaker 1: In honor of Bruno Marsh's brand new song, Oh Yeah, 523 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,919 Speaker 1: here it is. Did I do it? Men? No hit it? 524 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,479 Speaker 1: This is a song about the man who realizes it's 525 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:49,359 Speaker 1: time to stop. It happens in everybody's life. Everybody check 526 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 1: it out? Here we go. What is that look like? 527 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 1: The wearing pants and a cap amate the reader's time 528 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 1: and bolted and the taste some good taste. OK, I 529 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,440 Speaker 1: ain't a most can't buy my trolls. I need a 530 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:13,760 Speaker 1: moaning I just made. I can't remember it's September, eating 531 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: hot wings onion rings with my hot soft stripped smacking 532 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 1: or eating the shame or winout in game, eating and 533 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:29,239 Speaker 1: cause and I mean been by the I think I 534 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: need to stop smoking. Jane need the stop smokeing. I 535 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 1: need to stop smoking now, the stop smoking, the pun 536 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:52,440 Speaker 1: and jokeing. Chane need the stop smoking my baily poking now, Janey, 537 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 1: the zap smokeing. I took the drivel to Oh plain, 538 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: I didna do it. Oh yeah, you're stupid. I like 539 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: the fact that you have no sense. I love Chip Chip. 540 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 1: I don't respect people with sense. I like people with ja. 541 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 1: You need to stop smoke. It's good to see Bruno 542 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,879 Speaker 1: Mars back though with the heater. You know everything he does. 543 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 1: He's a throwback. He's that dude. Man, that's really keeping 544 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 1: good music alive that you know. The Grammys, man, I 545 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 1: like the way they dressed on the Grammys. I love 546 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: the way some of them was dressing. Some of them 547 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,319 Speaker 1: young cast was pimping out there. Boy. All right, guys, 548 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: we're moving on. Coming up at thirty four minutes after 549 00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 1: the hour, gospel music legend and our friend Kirk Franklin. 550 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: It's ending after his oldest son leaked audio of Kirk 551 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 1: kursing him out. We'll talk about it right after this. 552 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Show. Well, I'm sure you, guys, 553 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 1: have heard this story or heard about this story by now. 554 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin's oldest son, carry On Franklin, is thirty three. 555 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 1: He released to audio and audio of a phone conversation 556 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,520 Speaker 1: with Kirk that went left I mean crazy, real fast, 557 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 1: real quick, and Kirk can be heard yelling and cursing 558 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 1: at his son. Kirk use words, be he used ass 559 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 1: and a few f bombs were thrown in there before 560 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: his son hung up. Now the video has gone viral 561 00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 1: on social media, Kirk issued an explanation. He issued an apology. 562 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 1: Kirk admitted to having a toxic, very tense relationship with 563 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 1: his son and stated they've been to counseling for years 564 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: and this private family matter was supposed to be between them. 565 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 1: He added in the recording, the part where he called 566 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 1: a family they therapists to intervene was omitted from the audio. 567 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:08,360 Speaker 1: Kirk asked for compassion and prayers from his fans, parenting 568 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 1: it's hard, but I mean, Steve, I'm gonna put it 569 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: like this, didn't you say you were a guest on 570 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 1: Kirk's show last week? I was a guest on his 571 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 1: podcast last week and one of the questions asked me 572 00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 1: Kirk asked me and joking was uncle, I know you cuss. 573 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 1: Do you have a go to cuss word? And I said, yeah, 574 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,959 Speaker 1: I do. He said, well what is it? I said 575 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 1: it start with the M. And then he said, well 576 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 1: on this podcast you can say it. So I okay, cool. 577 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 1: So I said it and he said, why is that 578 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,320 Speaker 1: your go to word? I said, because it it's a warning, 579 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 1: it's a term of endearment, it's it's an enlightening term. 580 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 1: It's it can use and when I'm being jovial, it 581 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,720 Speaker 1: could be used referring to an enemy or a friend. 582 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: It's just one of the most versatile words that I found. 583 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,399 Speaker 1: And you know, we joked about it, and so this 584 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 1: thing came out. Now here's what I don't like. I 585 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:13,760 Speaker 1: do not like the quote unquote Christian community attacking Kirk 586 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:20,680 Speaker 1: for his language. First of all, it's human. He's a man. 587 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:26,120 Speaker 1: Tommy has a son. I have sons. Tommy got sons, 588 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 1: I got sons, Jake got sons. None of all of 589 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 1: us have had this conversation with our boys, every last 590 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,560 Speaker 1: one of us. But I don't like the Christian community 591 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,359 Speaker 1: jumping on Kirk. You should have never used that type 592 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:47,760 Speaker 1: of language to your son. He don't deserve that. Woa woa, 593 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: oh he had y'all have no ideal when you try 594 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: to provide a life for a child and they have 595 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,680 Speaker 1: this sense of entitlement and nothing you do is enough. 596 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 1: You can ain't fix it. You should have did this, 597 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: But they're old enough to make choices, and when they 598 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 1: make a bad choice and get in a bad position, 599 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: NIC's your fault. I'm gonna say that, I'm gonna let 600 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,719 Speaker 1: the other brothers talk. Then I got something else to say. 601 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 1: Let me, let me, let me, let me jump in, 602 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 1: let me say this. What bothers me more than anything, Steve, 603 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:22,359 Speaker 1: is that there there's words between a man and his son. 604 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 1: What bothers me is for a son who record this 605 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,640 Speaker 1: and put this out there on his father to try 606 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: and destroy his father. That's what bothers me more than anything. 607 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: I already know words go back and forth between a 608 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: man and his son. It happens all the time, it 609 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,359 Speaker 1: happens every day. But for you to say, I'm gonna 610 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 1: put this out across the airwaves on every social media 611 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 1: outlet industry and let everybody know this how this is 612 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,919 Speaker 1: how my dad had talked. That's the part I thought 613 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: was so cruel is what do you do because what 614 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: you have, what you're not realizing, young man, in your 615 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:04,480 Speaker 1: twenty something years old, is that your thirty three, you're 616 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: destroying something that takes care of you. Yeah, your punk ass, 617 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 1: Come on, man, now here a punk asser. He ain't 618 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 1: even my son. Go ahead, John, He is definitely a 619 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,839 Speaker 1: punk ass. And I applaud Kurt for what he did. 620 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,400 Speaker 1: But in my opinion, this is just my opinion. He 621 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 1: left a lot of words out. There's a lot of 622 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 1: cuss words, man, that and he's really a new cursor. 623 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,800 Speaker 1: He's been a Christian loan than he's been a cusser. 624 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,160 Speaker 1: And there's there's several words that he could have used 625 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,360 Speaker 1: that would have got the message across. And I understand 626 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,680 Speaker 1: where he's coming from. You don't owe nobody, and I 627 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 1: mean nobody an apology, not even your son at all. Right, right, 628 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 1: I say this, you guys have sons? Sure, sure, sure, 629 00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 1: hold on, Hold on, hold, Okay, let's bring this back. 630 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: We'll talk about more this when we come back. Right now. 631 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,800 Speaker 1: Get this, Okay, you're listening. She's Steve Harvey Morning Show. 632 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,880 Speaker 1: All right. Before we went to break, we were talking 633 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,960 Speaker 1: about what happened between Kirk Franklin and his son, and 634 00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 1: of course Steve and Tommy and Jay talked about their sons. 635 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,919 Speaker 1: We were Kirk, let's get that understood. We were Kurt, 636 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 1: you're gonna hear the Strawberry letter, You're gonna hear the 637 00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 1: prank phone call. But we wanted to just finish, you know, 638 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 1: just wrap this this um conversation. I think Jay was 639 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,719 Speaker 1: trying to finish up. Go ahead, Jay, No. I was 640 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: just saying that Kurt left out a lot of words. 641 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,719 Speaker 1: And I don't think that he owes his son an 642 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 1: apology for nothing. I don't think he owes the public 643 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 1: and apolo the public. What happened was a lot of 644 00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 1: them fake Christians started attacking him like they don't cuss. Well, 645 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 1: if you don't cuss, you do something. You're sleeping with 646 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,800 Speaker 1: one of the other church members that you ain't supposed 647 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 1: to be sleeping with, your line, your back bite, and 648 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:56,240 Speaker 1: you're stealing your past and judgment. We are all sinners. 649 00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 1: We are all sinners now. A lot of so skip that. 650 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 1: And I told her I talked to Kirk Franklin. I 651 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: called my friend and I told her, I said, hey, 652 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 1: me said, it's a rough day from me, I said me, 653 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 1: get your head up. You did what you were supposed 654 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,839 Speaker 1: to do. All of us didn't cussed our sons out 655 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,880 Speaker 1: because they get to that age where they start smelling, smelling, 656 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 1: they piss like they somebody, And you're not fitting to 657 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,279 Speaker 1: be king over me, partner, And now you're gonna try 658 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: to destroy the one person that can do something for 659 00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,239 Speaker 1: your monkey ass. But you took your thirty three year 660 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: old ass out here, made a bunch of decisions counter 661 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 1: to the way you was raised. And now it's Kirk's fault. No, 662 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 1: it ain't kirk fault. You're thirty three. What y'all don't 663 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,960 Speaker 1: know is it punk ass call asking for money and stuff? 664 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 1: And what Kirk said, Now now all of a sudden, 665 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 1: you ain't this to me? Hold up, man, You can 666 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 1: miss me with all that right there, Kirk, Shoot up man, 667 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:56,480 Speaker 1: and at this man. At the end of the day, 668 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,320 Speaker 1: when you're thinking, why would you cuss out the one 669 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: person that's really there for you when you really need 670 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 1: when you really need help. Right, You'll see what you 671 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 1: want about your daddy, But when you when you really 672 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: up against the wall, who comes through for you all 673 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,759 Speaker 1: the time, all the time, all the time, I don't 674 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,879 Speaker 1: see anything wrong. I didn't see anything wrong with what 675 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 1: Kirk said. We also, he hasn't been saved all his life. 676 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:30,239 Speaker 1: If nobody's perfect in this situation, Saranting is hard. Saranting 677 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,480 Speaker 1: is hard. It is just hard. You want your kids, 678 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 1: You do whatever you can for your kids. You love them, 679 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,480 Speaker 1: you give them the best, you try, you know, to 680 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: try to give them better than what your parents gave you. 681 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 1: All that, and it still boils down to the same thing. 682 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,120 Speaker 1: I think you guys have already said me. You can 683 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 1: never do enough. You can never let me say this. 684 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:54,879 Speaker 1: Though you're saying it's saved, the same people comes too, Yes, 685 00:46:55,239 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 1: the same people are. So we are Kirk's Kurt is 686 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: still saved. But dog, you didn't you didn't You didn't 687 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:05,879 Speaker 1: hit me too hard? I got to come at you. 688 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,319 Speaker 1: It happened. Yeah, look I'm looking at bout I'm right now. 689 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,840 Speaker 1: And that should not be a discussion between father and 690 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: son and what's in the family inside your house. My 691 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 1: parents always told me that my mom was is in 692 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 1: this house, stays in this stay And why was that 693 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,880 Speaker 1: on social media? We don't even we didn't even have 694 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: social media back then. But you don't go telling your 695 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:31,080 Speaker 1: friends or even other family members what happens in our house. 696 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,800 Speaker 1: You didn't tell my grandmama, my mama. Whoop your ass? 697 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:40,520 Speaker 1: You got another ass. And we can talk about this 698 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: all morning, guy, but we gotta get to this prank. 699 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 1: What you guy for us? Now? I got I got 700 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 1: neighborhood watch. I want to keep talking about this, but 701 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: I got a neighborhood watch. Here it is. Come on, hello, 702 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Yeah, it's Johnny. Okay. You're the 703 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,359 Speaker 1: one to be doing the neighborhood watch. You'll be walking 704 00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 1: your dog the neighborhood watch? Is that you? This is 705 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 1: this Johnny? Who is this man? This is PJ? Answer 706 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 1: my question? Are you Johnny? On your road to your road? 707 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm Johnny and I do the neighborhood watch? Who was 708 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 1: the damn Pjy home on? Man, don't call my phone 709 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,920 Speaker 1: yell at me, charging me up. Hey man, it's only 710 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,400 Speaker 1: a two streets over from you. Okay, and you're supposed 711 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,839 Speaker 1: to be the neighborhood watchman, but that ain't what you're 712 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,320 Speaker 1: doing now. I didn't caught you looking in the window 713 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,280 Speaker 1: at my wife when I came outside. You would halfway 714 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,880 Speaker 1: down the street. You when your damn dog, so you 715 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 1: ain't watching the neighborhood. You're looking trying to see something 716 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 1: in the window. That's what you're doing. Picking some man. Please, 717 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 1: I don't look. Man, I'm doing my job. Man, I 718 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 1: do my I do my job. Do the neighborhood. Watch, 719 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: I make sure people ain't bringing nobody houses. I gotta 720 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:53,840 Speaker 1: wat what the hell I want to look at somebody 721 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:58,400 Speaker 1: else's life. I gotta pizza at home. I want you, then, 722 00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: you need to stay out looking people, looking through people. Wonder. Man, 723 00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:05,400 Speaker 1: you're supposed to be watching the neighborhood, not watching my wife. 724 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 1: When you say you live again because we went, I 725 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 1: live too strict. You know what, I'm gonna tell you 726 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,279 Speaker 1: what though, I'll tell you what damn people Tom. I'm 727 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: gonna show you what a damn people Tom is. Now, 728 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you what. No I'm gonna start looking 729 00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 1: through your window, looking at your wife. See why he 730 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:28,279 Speaker 1: served but nothing pete, mister Johnny, but putting your over here, 731 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,480 Speaker 1: I want you to look. I want you to look 732 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,560 Speaker 1: at my damn window. This. Who the hell is this? 733 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,319 Speaker 1: I ain't got time for this, man. I got a job. 734 00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,719 Speaker 1: I got a mortgage. I got kids. I ain't got 735 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:40,960 Speaker 1: time for this. Man. Don't look at a job, man, 736 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,480 Speaker 1: don't don't find a job. I got a head job. 737 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 1: I got a job for when I'm at work. You 738 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 1: got a job, Yeah, you got a job. Client like 739 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,840 Speaker 1: a damn talking about somebody looking at your Why I 740 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,399 Speaker 1: don't body look at your damn wife. Man, got a job. 741 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,480 Speaker 1: But when I'm at a holder, rob, I'm wondering if 742 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,800 Speaker 1: you back of the looking through the window at my wife. 743 00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 1: Please come to my damn house. Please, I'm coming later 744 00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 1: than to look through the window. Fine, I remember the 745 00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,719 Speaker 1: hell you're talking about calling me tell out people and 746 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,120 Speaker 1: it's just damn white you nobody, because that's what you're doing. 747 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: No wife. You probably ain't got no wife. You're probably 748 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:17,399 Speaker 1: married to him damn midget or something you're talking about. Man, 749 00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm not peeping at your wife. You pop got bottle wife, 750 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:24,359 Speaker 1: And you were gonna wonder and I'm wirier still watching 751 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,759 Speaker 1: the neighborhood. But that ain't work I'm doing. I'm gonna 752 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:29,960 Speaker 1: take come over here now because you're a round neighborhood. 753 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 1: You three streets whatever, how many streets whatever you are 754 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 1: for me, Come right now I'm stand outside whip my dog, 755 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 1: pushing on your I want you to come by one 756 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,000 Speaker 1: coming later the night when she is at that shower 757 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,680 Speaker 1: the same way you were looking through my one. Please 758 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,320 Speaker 1: just come by, don't wait, just come by now, please 759 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 1: and I'll wait with I don't talking about right now 760 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 1: when I'm playing somebody with me? You ain't. Probably I'm 761 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 1: getting ready to slow down so I can get ready 762 00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: and tell of my business man. I'm getting ready to 763 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,400 Speaker 1: gold work again the day. Man? What the hell are 764 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 1: you talking about? Bro? I got two damn jobs. I 765 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 1: got a job to worm doing to day and at night, 766 00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: and in between I do the neighborhood watch. I'm doing 767 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 1: your service. I'm helping your lazy U. Stop your watching 768 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,439 Speaker 1: people looking to see if they're looking at your damn watch. 769 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 1: Why don't you get your second job or something? Man? 770 00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,919 Speaker 1: Why don't you google? Whyn't you look at muster dot 771 00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,360 Speaker 1: com or something? What the hell is wrong with you 772 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 1: calling me to mind? I'm peeping at your day on watch? 773 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,480 Speaker 1: Many don't you ever call me when? No? The who 774 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:38,560 Speaker 1: the hell is this anyway? Yeah? Who the hell is this? 775 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 1: Because I got something for you? Who is going to 776 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,839 Speaker 1: tell you who it is. This is nephew Timmy from 777 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,000 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvard Morning Show. You just got franked by 778 00:51:47,120 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 1: your wife Trisha, and he want baby, ain't right, baby, John, 779 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:05,920 Speaker 1: ain't baby? That ain't right? Then you got me man, 780 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 1: because I said, ain't nobody to go get me on? 781 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 1: No prank man, I don't fall ain't time for that, man. Damn. 782 00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 1: Frank White told me you do the neighborhood. Watch oh man, 783 00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,440 Speaker 1: She said, you do the neighborhood you walk, you know, 784 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:21,600 Speaker 1: because what you gotta. Rob Wild told me that's why 785 00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:23,719 Speaker 1: I use niggers. I want to be safe. Man. Just 786 00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:25,880 Speaker 1: can't something happening. I just stick my rock fell on that. 787 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 1: And you got me bad that you you got me 788 00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 1: bad man. You're good. I'm good. Bang. I'm gonna get 789 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,600 Speaker 1: her though. All right. Let me ask you this though, 790 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,800 Speaker 1: what else the baddest and I'm talking about the baddest 791 00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:49,760 Speaker 1: radio show in the land made the Steve Harvey Show. Wow, 792 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:56,160 Speaker 1: you got him. Let y'all laugh a little bit? Is me? 793 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 1: You all are the same stupid, keep stupid, all right, nephew, 794 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,279 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next, it is my strawberry letter. 795 00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 1: The subject. He came home the next day with a 796 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 1: clean shirt on. Oh, we'll talk about it right after 797 00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:26,879 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, it's time 798 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,760 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 799 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 1: and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please submit 800 00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:38,239 Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and 801 00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We've been getting some really good 802 00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 1: one lady lately, and this one probably will be just 803 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,920 Speaker 1: as good. We'll be reading this letter live on the 804 00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 1: air right here, right now, All right, let's get to it. 805 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. 806 00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,360 Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you enough you subject. He 807 00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,120 Speaker 1: came home the next day with a clean shirt on. 808 00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty nine year old woman 809 00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,920 Speaker 1: and I've been engaged for two years. I've never questioned 810 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,279 Speaker 1: my man's loyalty to me, and in the five years 811 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,399 Speaker 1: total that we've been together, I don't think he's ever 812 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:15,359 Speaker 1: cheated on me. We lived together, and I have all 813 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,279 Speaker 1: of his passwords to his phone, social media accounts, and 814 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: his checking account. He has all of mine too. Things 815 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,960 Speaker 1: changed after the COVID lockdown, loosened up and now he's 816 00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,560 Speaker 1: trying to hang out more than usual. Recently, he went 817 00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:32,719 Speaker 1: out with his friends and he called me to say 818 00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,680 Speaker 1: and said that he got too intoxicated to drive home. 819 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 1: He said he was going to spend the night at 820 00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 1: his coworker's house. I was glad he was safe and 821 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:46,400 Speaker 1: I didn't suspect anything. The next morning, I called to 822 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 1: check on him, and his phone went straight to voicemail. 823 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:53,920 Speaker 1: When he finally got home around noon, I was hot. 824 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,839 Speaker 1: He came in and tried to kiss me, and all 825 00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:01,600 Speaker 1: I could smell was laundry detergent and fab softener. Wherever 826 00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 1: he had been. He washed his shirt before he came home. 827 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,319 Speaker 1: The first thing I asked was if he got sick 828 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:11,040 Speaker 1: and threw up on himself. He was all defensive and 829 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 1: said no. And why did I ask him that. I 830 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,160 Speaker 1: told him I could tell his shirt had been washed 831 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,759 Speaker 1: and ironed. He looked like a fool and tried to 832 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 1: say I was crazy. He got on the couch and 833 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 1: immediately fell asleep. I looked through his cell phone and 834 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 1: he had deleted all of his text messages and he 835 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 1: deleted his call log. It's been three days and I'm 836 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,320 Speaker 1: not speaking to him. I want to squash this situation. 837 00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:37,879 Speaker 1: But there's no need to nag him over and over 838 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: for answers. I know he's up to something. How do 839 00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:44,959 Speaker 1: I handle this maturely without trying to break his neck? 840 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:50,040 Speaker 1: Please advise well for starters, the silent treatment is good. 841 00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,719 Speaker 1: The silent treatment is good. I mean, men hate it, 842 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 1: That's why I love it. I am a fan of silence, 843 00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:00,239 Speaker 1: I am. But this guy is all the way wrong. 844 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:04,400 Speaker 1: He's lying, and everything you said makes your case about 845 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 1: the call log and the shirt smelling all fresh and 846 00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:11,080 Speaker 1: clean like he had just washed and ironed it. In 847 00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,880 Speaker 1: a court of law, this case would be dismissed because 848 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,959 Speaker 1: of lack of evidence. But you know, as a woman, 849 00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,239 Speaker 1: with your intuition and how you investigate and smell and 850 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,040 Speaker 1: snoop around and all that, you know you're right. I 851 00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:27,000 Speaker 1: don't think he'll ever admit to cheating or whatever he 852 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 1: was doing in this lifetime. Please do not let him 853 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:32,920 Speaker 1: flip it and try to make it seem like this 854 00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 1: is your fault, like you don't have the right to 855 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,080 Speaker 1: question him. I mean, you guys have been living together 856 00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:41,200 Speaker 1: for five years. You know you have a right to 857 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:45,440 Speaker 1: do whatever you live with this man. It's not nagging, 858 00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 1: and you're not crazy and you're not always complaining. You 859 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:50,640 Speaker 1: just want the truth. But you're not gonna get it. 860 00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:54,120 Speaker 1: He's gonna take it to the grave with his lies 861 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:57,640 Speaker 1: and defensiveness. That's what he's been doing. That's all you're 862 00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,000 Speaker 1: gonna get. So, you know, if you're really fed up 863 00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,360 Speaker 1: up and sick of it at this point and you 864 00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,320 Speaker 1: really want the truth, I mean, you got to be 865 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,800 Speaker 1: prepared to walk away if you're that thick of it, 866 00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: because you're not gonna get that. All right, You're not 867 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:15,320 Speaker 1: gonna get that. Steve im I don't understand the purpose 868 00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:20,800 Speaker 1: for the letter. I really don't. I mean, surely from 869 00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,480 Speaker 1: your standpoint, I can understand everything you said, But from 870 00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:28,800 Speaker 1: my standpoint, I don't even know. It's some stupidity in 871 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:33,640 Speaker 1: this letter that this guy didn't capitalize on. I just 872 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:41,640 Speaker 1: don't understand at all. Here's a woman who has never 873 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:46,280 Speaker 1: questioned her man's loyalty in five years they've been together, 874 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 1: and she says at the top, I don't think he's 875 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:53,480 Speaker 1: ever cheated on me. We live together. I got all 876 00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 1: his passwords to his phone, social media accounts. I got 877 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 1: his checking account. He's got mine too, And but things 878 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 1: changed after COVID lockdown, loosing up, and now he's trying 879 00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,320 Speaker 1: to hang out more than usual. All that is is 880 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: over celebrate. You know, we've been locked up so long. 881 00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,280 Speaker 1: We just over celebrate. Just you know, it's just you know, 882 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 1: you know, as a little kid finally get to go outside, 883 00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,560 Speaker 1: he gonna stay out past the street lights. Now you know, 884 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 1: it's just one of them things, right here we go. 885 00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 1: So he went out with his friends. He called me 886 00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:29,720 Speaker 1: and said he got too intoxicated to drive home. He's 887 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,600 Speaker 1: gonna spend the night at the co worker's house. I 888 00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:37,040 Speaker 1: was glad he was safe and I didn't suspect anything. Okay, 889 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:41,880 Speaker 1: so far, we're working it. The next morning I called 890 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:45,200 Speaker 1: back to check on him. His phone went straight to voicemail. 891 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: This is where he's stupid. See here, in his twenties, 892 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:55,000 Speaker 1: he's stupid. It went straight to voicemail. When he finally 893 00:58:55,080 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 1: got home around noon, Why is your ass out to noon? Boy? 894 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:07,960 Speaker 1: You had to overnight stay you was in. She was glad, 895 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 1: happy for you that you were safe. You'dn't stretched it 896 00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:18,880 Speaker 1: out to noon. Take your ass home early in the morning. 897 00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:22,400 Speaker 1: You too much, You'd have took it too damn fall 898 00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:30,440 Speaker 1: noon should have been home at seven? What is you 899 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:36,800 Speaker 1: laying up that fall? Anyway? As we lay he forgot 900 00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:42,800 Speaker 1: aboube the prize we had to pay? Take your ass home. 901 00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,040 Speaker 1: You should have never been in there past seven am 902 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:49,680 Speaker 1: and answer your damn phone. But I'm gonna tell you 903 00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 1: what happened. And I got the rest everyone we come back. 904 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,840 Speaker 1: This didn't even have to happen. This is a damn 905 00:59:56,080 --> 01:00:02,440 Speaker 1: shame U. It's okay that he stayed out. Okay, Oh, 906 01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm even more mad at him. What are you for waiting? 907 01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 1: I'll tell you this him? All right? All right, we'll 908 01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 1: let for two of Steve's response coming up at twenty 909 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:12,280 Speaker 1: three minutes after be our subject of today's strawberry letter. 910 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,880 Speaker 1: He came home the next day with a clean shirt on. 911 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:18,360 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 912 01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:22,360 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's 913 01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,680 Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter. He came home the next day 914 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:32,200 Speaker 1: with a clean shirt on what this food? Been engaged 915 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 1: to this woman? She twenty nine, dating five years. She 916 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 1: never thought he would cheat on it, never had any idea. 917 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,440 Speaker 1: They got passwords and phone, social media account, all the 918 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:46,080 Speaker 1: check in count information. After COVID was over, he loosened up. 919 01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,680 Speaker 1: He started hanging out a little bit more over, celebrating 920 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,080 Speaker 1: anyone I wanted, his friends, and he called me. He 921 01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:54,439 Speaker 1: said he got too intoxicated to drive home. He said 922 01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 1: he was gonna spend the night at the co worker's house. Now, 923 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 1: the girl said, I was glad he was safe, and 924 01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:06,760 Speaker 1: I didn't suspect anything. Damn dog, you there, you got 925 01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:12,960 Speaker 1: the free night out. She don't suspect nothing. You intoxicated. 926 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:17,320 Speaker 1: You're gonna spend the night. That's all you needed to do. 927 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:25,200 Speaker 1: Spend the night. The moment the sun come up, you 928 01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:32,160 Speaker 1: spent the night. It's over. Take your ass home. But 929 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:37,160 Speaker 1: oh no, this young ass food. He don't answer his voicemail. 930 01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:42,080 Speaker 1: And when he finally got home around noon, I be 931 01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 1: you doesn't took it too far. Wise, you all up 932 01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:53,760 Speaker 1: having breakfast and going to brunch with a fall fool 933 01:01:55,120 --> 01:02:00,880 Speaker 1: spent the night. He came home around noon. I was hot. 934 01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,480 Speaker 1: He came in and tried to kiss me, and all 935 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:07,280 Speaker 1: I could smell was laundry detergent and fabric softed that 936 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,720 Speaker 1: this is a good part of the letter, y'all. The 937 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:14,160 Speaker 1: first thing I asked was if he got sick and 938 01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 1: threw up on himself. He was all defensive and said, 939 01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:22,200 Speaker 1: know why. I asked him that, are you crazy? She 940 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:28,160 Speaker 1: gave you the out. What that's better than the lie 941 01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:33,200 Speaker 1: you told about being drunk? She said, did you throw 942 01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:40,400 Speaker 1: up on yourself and have to wash an iron your shirt? Wow? 943 01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 1: How did you know that? Because the smell that laundry detergent. 944 01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:46,560 Speaker 1: Damn baby, I didn't want to come home with all 945 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 1: that vomit on this shirt. Wow. Man, you so perceptive. 946 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 1: Thank you for carring you was out? How boy, she 947 01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:02,480 Speaker 1: had wrote the life for you. Your dumb mass stared 948 01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 1: the gift horse in the mouth, and your dumbas's got 949 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,160 Speaker 1: defensive and said, no, why would I ask him that? 950 01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,640 Speaker 1: I told him I could tear his shirt had been 951 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:16,720 Speaker 1: washed in iron. That's because it was boy. You couldn't 952 01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:21,160 Speaker 1: come home with that shirt smelling like that. You don't 953 01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:26,160 Speaker 1: know none of the tricks. I've thrown a shirt away back. 954 01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,160 Speaker 1: I'm talking about just it. I came home with no shirt. 955 01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:37,000 Speaker 1: What we're nothing to do is try to explain this shirt. Now. 956 01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:38,920 Speaker 1: I was pulled back then, so you know I had 957 01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:43,439 Speaker 1: a twenty five dollars pr cardeen shirt and I came 958 01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,960 Speaker 1: in the house, old my girl, and she said, where's 959 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,960 Speaker 1: your shirt? I said, I got in a fight and 960 01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,120 Speaker 1: it got toe off. She said, you just like your daddy. 961 01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:56,600 Speaker 1: I said, you damn right, because she's sitting around with 962 01:03:56,640 --> 01:03:58,080 Speaker 1: my mother, and my mother used to tell her that 963 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,200 Speaker 1: my father used to go down on Saturday night, get 964 01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:03,280 Speaker 1: in fight, tear his shirt, come home and change shirts, 965 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 1: and go back and fight again. My dad used to 966 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,400 Speaker 1: fight for money. So I just that was always in 967 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:11,600 Speaker 1: my heart. So I came home with no shirt. He 968 01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:13,880 Speaker 1: looked like a fool and tried to say I was crazy. 969 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,480 Speaker 1: He got on the couch and immediately fell asleep. Oh, 970 01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:23,680 Speaker 1: he wasn't asleep at noon. If he fell asleep at noon, 971 01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 1: that's even more evidence than he'd been up all night 972 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:33,720 Speaker 1: just performing. Yes, I came home doing yard working everything. 973 01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:38,520 Speaker 1: Stupid ass boy. I looked through his cell phone and 974 01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,280 Speaker 1: he had deleted all his text message and he deleted 975 01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:45,880 Speaker 1: his call log. Okay, excellent. So now we don't have 976 01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,680 Speaker 1: a shirt with evidence, we don't have a call log 977 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:54,000 Speaker 1: with evidence. All the evidence is gone. We have a 978 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: woman who says you've never cheated on her in five years. 979 01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,160 Speaker 1: So where we at boy, all you had to do 980 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 1: was take the I threw up you right, I washed 981 01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:08,720 Speaker 1: it and eyed it you right now, she ain't speaking 982 01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 1: to him. I want to squash this situation, but there's 983 01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 1: no need to nag him over and over for answers. 984 01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:17,760 Speaker 1: I know he's up to something. Well, you said for 985 01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:21,720 Speaker 1: five years you never suspected anything. So how do I 986 01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,360 Speaker 1: handle this maturely without trying to break his neck? What 987 01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:29,040 Speaker 1: are you gonna break his neck? For? All the evidence 988 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:33,400 Speaker 1: has been washed away, is somewhere down somebody laundry man. Okay, 989 01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:36,760 Speaker 1: but you got no evidence. So now all you can 990 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:38,600 Speaker 1: do is put this in your memory, break and be 991 01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:41,920 Speaker 1: watchful because if he's that's stupid. He feel to make 992 01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:45,640 Speaker 1: stupid mistakes again because he dumb. He just dumb as 993 01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:54,480 Speaker 1: a damned dope, knocking steed stupid ass. You must have 994 01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:56,800 Speaker 1: vomited on this shirt and washed it and eyed it. 995 01:05:57,320 --> 01:06:01,439 Speaker 1: How did you know? Oh my god, oh my god, 996 01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,520 Speaker 1: that was way better than what I was going to say. 997 01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:06,880 Speaker 1: He's not a player that he thinks he is. My partner. God, 998 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:09,080 Speaker 1: Cutton was bleeding on me and then I watched it. 999 01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 1: This is Heather, all right, listen, listen, hit us up 1000 01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 1: on Instagram Steve Harvey FM with your thoughts on today's 1001 01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:22,520 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand 1002 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:28,080 Speaker 1: coming up next. CBS has launched an internal investigation over 1003 01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 1: the heated discussion between Sharon Osborne and our girl Cheryl Underwood. 1004 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:35,240 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 1005 01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,880 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. CBS is The Talk. Co 1006 01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:43,000 Speaker 1: host Sharon Osborne has faced a lot of backlash after 1007 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:46,360 Speaker 1: she publicly showed support for Pierce Morgan. We talked about 1008 01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:50,440 Speaker 1: this last week when it happened. Pierce harshly remember criticized 1009 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:55,600 Speaker 1: making morgal marcle right after the Oprah interview. On last 1010 01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 1: Wednesday's episode of The Talk, Sharon Osborne got into a 1011 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:04,120 Speaker 1: heated discussion over racism with Cheryl Underwood, her co host, 1012 01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:06,320 Speaker 1: and a clip of her raising her voice at Cheryl 1013 01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:10,560 Speaker 1: went viral. On Friday, CBS issued a statement saying we 1014 01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:14,440 Speaker 1: are committed to a diverse, inclusive, and respectful workplace. All 1015 01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,080 Speaker 1: matters related to the Wednesday episode of The Talk are 1016 01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:22,760 Speaker 1: currently under internal review. Then switched to Friday, Sharon released 1017 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:26,800 Speaker 1: an apology uh saying she was truly sorry she panicked 1018 01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:29,720 Speaker 1: she felt blindsided, She got defensive and allowed her fear 1019 01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:35,800 Speaker 1: and horror of being accused of being a racist racist takeover. Well, 1020 01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:41,800 Speaker 1: since then, the no, she's apologizing because of the backlash 1021 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:45,000 Speaker 1: on social media. This is true. I believe that, Steve. 1022 01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:47,880 Speaker 1: I believe that all my fear. That's that's what the 1023 01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 1: police say. I feared for my life. It was my fear. See, 1024 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 1: that's that's stay go to Lade too. Yeah, I was afraid, 1025 01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:59,840 Speaker 1: yea of what of what? First of all this, sugar honey, 1026 01:07:59,880 --> 01:08:04,040 Speaker 1: I ain't even bout you right this about proast Pierce Marga, 1027 01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:09,120 Speaker 1: What is you in it? Fault? Give a damn who 1028 01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:14,640 Speaker 1: it is? Who is about podcast Pierce Margaret? Who quit? 1029 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:18,080 Speaker 1: Which further proves what you just said? Who got up 1030 01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:21,280 Speaker 1: and quit? Y'all? Y'all got to stop this here, man. 1031 01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:26,400 Speaker 1: We're never gonna cure racism unless you all start understanding 1032 01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:29,960 Speaker 1: what racism really is. You don't have to say the 1033 01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:34,640 Speaker 1: end word to be racist, No, you can do it 1034 01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,639 Speaker 1: is damn man. You think if you don't hate black people, 1035 01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:44,880 Speaker 1: that ain't what racism is. Systemic racism is stuff that's 1036 01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:49,120 Speaker 1: in place. Yes, Sherl doesn't have the right to be 1037 01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:53,760 Speaker 1: hurt for Megan Marco. You should you then don't try 1038 01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:57,360 Speaker 1: to cry. I should be the one for what? So heartless? 1039 01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 1: When did your ass become the victim? What? Educate me? 1040 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:04,920 Speaker 1: Educate me? That's what she was trying to do. My 1041 01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:07,800 Speaker 1: thing is, if you ain't educated about racism by nine, 1042 01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:11,080 Speaker 1: you damn near eighty. You ain't you missed that class, 1043 01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:20,600 Speaker 1: You really missed it. Listen. I gotta say that. I 1044 01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,960 Speaker 1: gotta say that. The show has announced that they will 1045 01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:26,120 Speaker 1: go on a brief hiatus. They'll be off on Monday 1046 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:28,519 Speaker 1: and Tuesday, so they're going to be working behind the 1047 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,679 Speaker 1: scenes try and come up with a better plan. Yeah, 1048 01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:40,200 Speaker 1: why aren't going on hiatus to protect her? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 1049 01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:43,240 Speaker 1: absolutely all right. Coming up at the top of the hour, 1050 01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: we'll do some comedy roulette with j Anthony Brown and 1051 01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:51,000 Speaker 1: the boys right after this know it you're listening show. 1052 01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:57,120 Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time for a comedy roulette 1053 01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:01,680 Speaker 1: and Jay briefly told simple. It is very simple. Take 1054 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:04,240 Speaker 1: some subjects, put them on a wheel, spun the wheel, wedge, 1055 01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:08,320 Speaker 1: stop watch us make it funny? How about that? Here 1056 01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:13,840 Speaker 1: we go. Today's categories are lies. Mechanics will tell you 1057 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:18,200 Speaker 1: when your car is not ready. Okay, here's another one. 1058 01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:25,280 Speaker 1: Unnecessary things people will do with their stimulus checks. And then, uh, 1059 01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 1: stuff that Stacy Dash has to do to get her 1060 01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:33,640 Speaker 1: black card back. Okay, because she lost it, but she 1061 01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:39,000 Speaker 1: went over to the other side. All right, it's been 1062 01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:49,679 Speaker 1: the wheels. Oh it's stuff done. Stuff that Stacy Dash 1063 01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:53,040 Speaker 1: has to do to get her black card back. Let's go. Okay, 1064 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:56,760 Speaker 1: all right, comedy Roulette. What things that Stacy Dash needs 1065 01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:59,320 Speaker 1: to do to get her black card back? You need 1066 01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:05,160 Speaker 1: to clean a big tub of kitlands with no gloves, 1067 01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:11,080 Speaker 1: with no gloves, nothing on your eyes in the restroom. 1068 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: In the restroom, that's what you need to do. You 1069 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:21,840 Speaker 1: gonna have to watch every episode of Good Time, but 1070 01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:29,880 Speaker 1: we want to hit the Lions suit. Things Stacy Dad's 1071 01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:32,040 Speaker 1: gotta do to get her black card back. You're gonna 1072 01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:36,040 Speaker 1: have to sing the black national anthem. And we're talking 1073 01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:41,519 Speaker 1: about every single verse. And I'm talking about one hundred times. 1074 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:48,519 Speaker 1: I was gonna do that one, Tommy, but you took it. 1075 01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:51,360 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna do mine anyway, Come on with it. 1076 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:55,479 Speaker 1: I think she needs to sing the Negro national anthem 1077 01:11:55,600 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 1: at her nephew's basketball game. Little bit just stand up 1078 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:11,639 Speaker 1: and snatched the mic and I got this. I got 1079 01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 1: that Stacy Dads needs to do to get her black 1080 01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:18,639 Speaker 1: card back. We've been in the quarantine, which means church 1081 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,040 Speaker 1: is gonna be back in in a minute. But before 1082 01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:25,400 Speaker 1: you got to go about fifteen black churches getting clean 1083 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:30,400 Speaker 1: out the baptismal pool. You got rubbing. I'm on board. 1084 01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,200 Speaker 1: Get all up in there, clean them out and clean 1085 01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 1: them out. Stacy Dash to get her black card back, 1086 01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:43,640 Speaker 1: she want to start running numbers for all of us, 1087 01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:48,160 Speaker 1: start going hood by hood. Get these numbers and remember 1088 01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:52,920 Speaker 1: every last one. Don't play yes a thing Stacy Dass 1089 01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:55,960 Speaker 1: gotta do to get her black card back. All right, 1090 01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:59,679 Speaker 1: you're gonna eat a lot of chicken, a lot of chicken. 1091 01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,559 Speaker 1: But then you ain't gonna get the use dental flog. 1092 01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:07,800 Speaker 1: You got to use a straw out the broom. No no, no, no, no, no. 1093 01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:12,200 Speaker 1: Tom that little thing on the drumstick, she gotta pick 1094 01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:17,600 Speaker 1: her teeth with that, that little Tommy. When you're on 1095 01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:24,040 Speaker 1: the same page, Stacy Dash has to do a YouTube 1096 01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:31,320 Speaker 1: tutorial on how to fry chicken. I would tune into that. 1097 01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:35,200 Speaker 1: I got one that Steve, you got one. Here we 1098 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:37,080 Speaker 1: go what you need to do to get your black 1099 01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:41,920 Speaker 1: card back. You got the bridge, some short hair women, 1100 01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:46,080 Speaker 1: you got the breede, some short You got to pull 1101 01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,400 Speaker 1: it with your thumbs and get it and breathe it 1102 01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:53,640 Speaker 1: up to get your card back. Go ahead. Stuff that 1103 01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:56,880 Speaker 1: Stacy Dash has to do to get her black card back, 1104 01:13:57,200 --> 01:14:05,000 Speaker 1: she will, Oh, go ahead, I'm sorry, go ahead, go ahead, 1105 01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:09,599 Speaker 1: Steven close it out. Has to throw a house party 1106 01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:14,360 Speaker 1: and go to the liquor store and buy all the liquor. 1107 01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:20,639 Speaker 1: He damn that how you throw a party? Right there? 1108 01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:25,559 Speaker 1: All right, thank you guys, great version of comedy Roulette. 1109 01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:31,400 Speaker 1: More of the Stey Morning Show. Oh no, more of 1110 01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:33,559 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up for twenty minutes 1111 01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,720 Speaker 1: after the hour. Right after this. You're listening to the 1112 01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:43,040 Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. Before we left the break Comedy Roulette. 1113 01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:45,120 Speaker 1: It just got so good to the guys, they wanted 1114 01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:47,160 Speaker 1: to do some more of the subject and stuff that 1115 01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 1: Stacy Dash has to do to get her black card back. 1116 01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:53,000 Speaker 1: Let's go. Yes, I got I was thinking like you 1117 01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:56,240 Speaker 1: and Tommy, Steve. Now the house party. You got to 1118 01:14:56,360 --> 01:15:00,880 Speaker 1: have a house party. Seventy five negroes, but you have 1119 01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:06,960 Speaker 1: no Crown Royal at all none. You haven't you have no. 1120 01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:12,000 Speaker 1: You got to the stove. Now they don't have it. 1121 01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:15,120 Speaker 1: They don't have it at all. Yeah, it's a problem. 1122 01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:20,639 Speaker 1: Got to get black car that we need to see 1123 01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,720 Speaker 1: Stacie Dad come out in public dress, ass seated from 1124 01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 1: the color purple. I need I need to see all right, 1125 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,439 Speaker 1: check it out. Things that Stacy Dad's gotta do to 1126 01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:36,200 Speaker 1: get a black car back. We got you gotta do 1127 01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:40,240 Speaker 1: this right here. You got to do the hustle, the 1128 01:15:40,400 --> 01:15:46,719 Speaker 1: electric slide, and the Cupid shuffle all in one song. 1129 01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:50,760 Speaker 1: You gotta work all that in one song. Okay, one song. 1130 01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:59,639 Speaker 1: You gotta work that thing in last one. Staci Dash 1131 01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:03,439 Speaker 1: got to go to her traditional the church she'd been 1132 01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:08,240 Speaker 1: going to her traditional all white church, and just stars 1133 01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:18,400 Speaker 1: shouting thank you. Now you get all right, we'll have 1134 01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:21,240 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harby morning showing up a thirty 1135 01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:26,960 Speaker 1: three minutes after right after this, you're listening show. Well, 1136 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,439 Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys have heard this story or heard 1137 01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:33,360 Speaker 1: about this story by now. Kirk Franklin's oldest son, carry 1138 01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:36,880 Speaker 1: On Franklin, is thirty three. He released to audio and 1139 01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:40,400 Speaker 1: audio of a phone conversation with Kirk that went left 1140 01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:44,720 Speaker 1: I mean crazy, real fast, real quick, and Kirk can 1141 01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:47,800 Speaker 1: be heard yelling and cursing at his son. Kirk used 1142 01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:51,240 Speaker 1: the words be, he used ass and a few f 1143 01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:54,360 Speaker 1: bombs were thrown in there before his son hung up. 1144 01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:57,679 Speaker 1: Now the video has gone viral on social media, Kirk 1145 01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:02,000 Speaker 1: issued an explanation. He issued an apology. Kirk admitted to 1146 01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:05,560 Speaker 1: having a toxic, very tense relationship with his son and 1147 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:08,519 Speaker 1: stated they've been to counseling for years and this private 1148 01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:12,799 Speaker 1: family matter was supposed to be between them. He added 1149 01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:15,360 Speaker 1: in the recording, the part where he called a family 1150 01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:21,120 Speaker 1: therapist to intervene was omitted from the audio. Kirk asked 1151 01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:24,479 Speaker 1: for compassion and prayers from his fans. Parenting is hard, 1152 01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:27,680 Speaker 1: but I mean, Steve, I'm gonna put it like this. 1153 01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:29,800 Speaker 1: Didn't you say you were a guest on Kirk's show 1154 01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:33,760 Speaker 1: last week? I was a guest on his podcast last 1155 01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:37,719 Speaker 1: week and one of the questions asked me, Kirk asked 1156 01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:41,160 Speaker 1: me and joking was uncle, I know you cussed. Do 1157 01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:43,439 Speaker 1: you have a goal to cuss word? And I said yeah, 1158 01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:45,599 Speaker 1: I do. He said, well, what is it? I said, 1159 01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:48,000 Speaker 1: the start with the M and then he said, well, 1160 01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 1: on this podcast you can say it. So I okay, cool, 1161 01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:53,120 Speaker 1: So I said it, and he said, why is that 1162 01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 1: your goal to word? I said, because it's a warning, 1163 01:17:57,240 --> 01:18:02,360 Speaker 1: it's a term of endearment, it's an enlightening term. It's 1164 01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:06,360 Speaker 1: it can use and when I'm being jovial, it could 1165 01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:11,760 Speaker 1: be used referring to an enemy or a friend. It's 1166 01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:14,920 Speaker 1: just one of the most versatile words that I found. 1167 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:16,680 Speaker 1: And you know, we joked about it, and so this 1168 01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:20,200 Speaker 1: thing came out. Now here's what I don't like. I 1169 01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:26,759 Speaker 1: do not like the quote unquote Christian community attacking Kurt 1170 01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:32,080 Speaker 1: for his language. First of all, he's a man. Tommy 1171 01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:36,280 Speaker 1: has a son. I have sons. Tommy got sons, I 1172 01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:40,479 Speaker 1: got sons. Jake got sons. None of all of us 1173 01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:45,920 Speaker 1: have had this conversation with our boys, every last one 1174 01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:49,799 Speaker 1: of us. But I don't like the Christian community jumping 1175 01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:51,840 Speaker 1: on Kirk. You should have never used that type of 1176 01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:56,160 Speaker 1: language to your son. He don't deserve that. Woa woa 1177 01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:01,120 Speaker 1: oh he had. Y'all have no idea deal When you 1178 01:19:01,240 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 1: try to provide a life for a child and they 1179 01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:08,120 Speaker 1: have this sense of entitlement and nothing you do is enough. 1180 01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,840 Speaker 1: Come on, you can't fix it. You should have did this, 1181 01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:15,439 Speaker 1: and they old enough to make choices. And when they 1182 01:19:15,560 --> 01:19:17,599 Speaker 1: make a bad choice and get in a bad position, 1183 01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:21,160 Speaker 1: nice your fault. What bothers me is for a son 1184 01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:25,280 Speaker 1: who record this and put this out there on his 1185 01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:29,639 Speaker 1: father to try and destroy his father. That's what bothers 1186 01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:32,559 Speaker 1: me more than anything. Coming up, it is our last 1187 01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:37,840 Speaker 1: break of the day. That's it, Okay, and Steve Harvey, 1188 01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 1: you'll have some closing remarks for us coming up forty 1189 01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:43,920 Speaker 1: nine minutes after right after this, you threw me again, Jay, 1190 01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:49,800 Speaker 1: you're listening to show all right, here we are, guys, 1191 01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:54,280 Speaker 1: last break of the day. The week started off right 1192 01:19:54,439 --> 01:20:00,639 Speaker 1: on the right foot and everything. Yes, it's mounted, it's monte, 1193 01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:05,479 Speaker 1: and let's make this up. Let's let's say this one 1194 01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:11,639 Speaker 1: more time. We're riding with kurk Franklin. We ride Kurt Franklin. 1195 01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:15,479 Speaker 1: That's what my closing remarks is about today, because you know, 1196 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:20,639 Speaker 1: first of all, I talked to Kurt and I called 1197 01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:25,960 Speaker 1: him because of the times that I've been up against 1198 01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:28,679 Speaker 1: it or getting torn apart by the media or whatever, 1199 01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:32,600 Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin has always been there for me. So I 1200 01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:36,519 Speaker 1: called him and I told Kirk Kirk, say uncle, I'm 1201 01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 1: having a tough day to day and I just called 1202 01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:41,479 Speaker 1: him to lift him up, to tell him, no, man, 1203 01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:44,080 Speaker 1: get your head about the dirt, because you didn't do 1204 01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:48,840 Speaker 1: nothing wrong. It's just amazing to me. The pain that 1205 01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:53,559 Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin was in was for twofold first of all, 1206 01:20:54,560 --> 01:21:01,920 Speaker 1: the betrayal of his son. That had to be devastated 1207 01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:07,519 Speaker 1: that you would think so little of me, that you 1208 01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:10,560 Speaker 1: would take me in one of my raw's moments and 1209 01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:15,200 Speaker 1: try to destroy me by posting something that was purely 1210 01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:19,080 Speaker 1: between me and you and his son. Knew exactly what 1211 01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:22,000 Speaker 1: he was doing, That's why he posted it, but his 1212 01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:25,160 Speaker 1: son only posted the part that he thought could hurt Kurt. 1213 01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:28,360 Speaker 1: He didn't post a part of what he was asking 1214 01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:31,599 Speaker 1: of Kurt. He didn't post a part of what led 1215 01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 1: up to Kurt's anger. He ain't posted none of the 1216 01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:38,920 Speaker 1: years like Kirk was telling y'all about the therapy. But 1217 01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:42,080 Speaker 1: I'm telling you for a fact, he didn't post and 1218 01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:46,000 Speaker 1: tell you about none of the years that he's tried 1219 01:21:46,080 --> 01:21:50,200 Speaker 1: to make Kirk feel guilty in that and drag him 1220 01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:53,960 Speaker 1: through the mud and expect more. Because Kurt's new family 1221 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:56,120 Speaker 1: was getting this and he didn't feel like he getting 1222 01:21:56,160 --> 01:22:01,439 Speaker 1: that when Kirk's new family was the fruits of his 1223 01:22:01,640 --> 01:22:05,080 Speaker 1: labor over the years. Kirk didn't have it to give before. 1224 01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:09,519 Speaker 1: But this young man, this boy is thirty three years old. 1225 01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:13,559 Speaker 1: How you thirty three years old posting something your father 1226 01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 1: said that don't make no sense? That shows you the 1227 01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:21,400 Speaker 1: lack of manhood that this young man has. So now, 1228 01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:25,439 Speaker 1: the other reason, the second part of it that was 1229 01:22:25,560 --> 01:22:31,439 Speaker 1: hurting Kirk so bad, was the church here. Y'all come here, 1230 01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:37,640 Speaker 1: y'all come with y'all's righteousself. Y'all so righteous man, you 1231 01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:42,320 Speaker 1: can't do nothing when you're a Christian. And like every 1232 01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:45,400 Speaker 1: word out of Kirk's mouth got to have crosses on 1233 01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:50,599 Speaker 1: it because here a gospel singer. Kirk was a man 1234 01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:55,960 Speaker 1: before he was a gospel singer. Kirk was a sinner 1235 01:22:56,280 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 1: before he got saved. Kirk is a sinner to day. 1236 01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:07,840 Speaker 1: But then I got news church. So are you? Oh see, 1237 01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:13,479 Speaker 1: y'all just got Kirk's cussing on tape. You're trying to 1238 01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:18,120 Speaker 1: tell me Kirk the only saved person that cuss. Wait 1239 01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:23,120 Speaker 1: a minute, nephew, Tommy has done a series of pranks 1240 01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:29,280 Speaker 1: with church folks. How many times on the prank have 1241 01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:33,639 Speaker 1: we heard some church folks cussing? Oh Lord, please don't 1242 01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:37,360 Speaker 1: put this on the radio. How many times have you 1243 01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:42,160 Speaker 1: heard past us that getting mad and use profanity? But 1244 01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:44,479 Speaker 1: now Kirk use it now all of a sudden, y'all 1245 01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:47,720 Speaker 1: already ride him to hell. Well, I don't think y'all 1246 01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:51,439 Speaker 1: should do it that way, because y'all ain't better than Kurt. 1247 01:23:52,320 --> 01:23:54,960 Speaker 1: I ain't better than Kirk, and nobody's better than Kurt. 1248 01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:59,200 Speaker 1: The next thing that y'all need to understand, every man 1249 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:02,800 Speaker 1: would have your own son. Practically all of us had 1250 01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:06,519 Speaker 1: had this conversation with our sons. Oh we didn't had 1251 01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,040 Speaker 1: to have some come to Jesus meetings with these boys, 1252 01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:11,839 Speaker 1: because they reached a certain age where they started smelling 1253 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:15,439 Speaker 1: themselves and then all of a sudden they bucking the system. Well, 1254 01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:17,400 Speaker 1: when you buck up against me, you running up into 1255 01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:20,240 Speaker 1: manhood over hill. And now since you want to act 1256 01:24:20,320 --> 01:24:22,120 Speaker 1: like you a thug and a gangster, the here with 1257 01:24:22,200 --> 01:24:24,519 Speaker 1: the old wall, let me show you who the rich 1258 01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:27,599 Speaker 1: who the real old g is hell and he got 1259 01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:31,880 Speaker 1: a taste of it. Tommy has a son. Jay has 1260 01:24:31,920 --> 01:24:35,400 Speaker 1: a son. Tommy got sons, Jay got son, I got sons. 1261 01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:38,680 Speaker 1: They had all bid it. They then all felt the 1262 01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:42,679 Speaker 1: raff and they had it coming, just like Kirk's boy 1263 01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:46,639 Speaker 1: had it coming. So for those of you that don't 1264 01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:49,519 Speaker 1: have sons, that don't know how I work, this hight 1265 01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:52,640 Speaker 1: really go. Kirk been trying to raise that boy for 1266 01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:57,519 Speaker 1: a long time. But nah man, he's so mad at 1267 01:24:57,600 --> 01:25:01,280 Speaker 1: Kirk because he blamed and Kirk. So let me tell 1268 01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:03,360 Speaker 1: you what happens, y'all for those of you that don't 1269 01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:07,439 Speaker 1: have children, when you have children and they get to 1270 01:25:07,479 --> 01:25:10,840 Speaker 1: a certain age, they have the power to make decisions. 1271 01:25:11,439 --> 01:25:14,360 Speaker 1: And once your child can make their own decisions, then 1272 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:18,040 Speaker 1: they're gonna end up in some situations based on those 1273 01:25:18,160 --> 01:25:21,240 Speaker 1: decisions that could have been avoided had they not made 1274 01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:24,320 Speaker 1: those decisions. But it's a funny thing when your child, 1275 01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:27,880 Speaker 1: because of a sense of entitlement, thinks that the situation 1276 01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:32,439 Speaker 1: they in becomes your fault. When old, no, young man, 1277 01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:38,120 Speaker 1: young lady, you made that decision, not based on nothing 1278 01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:42,200 Speaker 1: I taught you, even though I forewarned you. You made 1279 01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:45,360 Speaker 1: this decision anyway. So when you make them bed, you 1280 01:25:45,520 --> 01:25:48,120 Speaker 1: got to lay in it. But don't make the bed. 1281 01:25:48,600 --> 01:25:50,880 Speaker 1: And then because you don't like the way the bed lay, 1282 01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:53,640 Speaker 1: you're mad at me because you're in the bed that's uncomfortable. 1283 01:25:54,080 --> 01:25:58,360 Speaker 1: But it's because of a decision you made. Kirk's Franklin 1284 01:25:58,400 --> 01:26:03,120 Speaker 1: so under made some decision. My son's made some decisions, 1285 01:26:03,439 --> 01:26:09,080 Speaker 1: Tommy's son, Jay's son, Shirley's daughter, Carlin, got a daughter 1286 01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:11,240 Speaker 1: that's gonna come of age that's gonna make a decision. 1287 01:26:11,479 --> 01:26:15,280 Speaker 1: And all y'all passing judgment on Kirk's parenting skills. You 1288 01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:17,639 Speaker 1: don't have no kids that to reach the age where 1289 01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:19,800 Speaker 1: they can make a decision. Oh but that day coming 1290 01:26:20,000 --> 01:26:22,280 Speaker 1: and you're not gonna believe the decisions that they're gonna make. 1291 01:26:22,800 --> 01:26:25,960 Speaker 1: So y'all get off Kirk Franklin's back. You're making a mistake. 1292 01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:28,360 Speaker 1: You come over here, you're gonna get cuss smooth out. 1293 01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,880 Speaker 1: And I do a way better job than Kirk, way better. 1294 01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:34,639 Speaker 1: I got some combinations for your ass. I wish ya would, Kurt, 1295 01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:37,479 Speaker 1: don't on none of y'all, no apology, have a name 1296 01:26:37,600 --> 01:26:51,639 Speaker 1: day for all Steve Every contests. No purchase necessary, void 1297 01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:54,960 Speaker 1: were prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least 1298 01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:58,800 Speaker 1: eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1299 01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:02,479 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the 1300 01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:04,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.