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Speaker 1: good Steve Hartley Joy, you gotta use that turn hur

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Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out, turning, got to

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Speaker 1: turn them out, then turn the water the water. Come

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Speaker 1: come on your baby, huh. I show will a good

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You'll listening to the voice? Come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Y'all do took of me what I said? But I

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Speaker 1: do like I say always. It just is a constant

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Speaker 1: reminder of how good God has been. So my question

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Speaker 1: to you is what's stopping you from having the life

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Speaker 1: that you want? What's stopping you from having the life

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Speaker 1: that you want? I know a lot of people who

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Speaker 1: have given up on achieving the life of their dreams,

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Speaker 1: but I know they'd still want them if they could

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Speaker 1: get to them. But they just allowed to settle for

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Speaker 1: so many reasons. So who I'm talking to is you today?

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Speaker 1: What's really at the core of stopping you? What is that?

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Speaker 1: Is it your friends or your souls? Is it the

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Speaker 1: fear of what you think somebody else will think of

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Speaker 1: you if you decide to change. Is it what I

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Speaker 1: used to call the call of the while? Is it

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Speaker 1: the fact that you keep thinking that the thing that

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Speaker 1: you're doing that's providing you these momentary moments of pleasure

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Speaker 1: that really ain't really good or healthy for you, You

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Speaker 1: don't want to stop doing that because you've got just

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Speaker 1: I call that the call at a while. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's just out there. Them streets is calling you, Them

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Speaker 1: lights is calling you. You know, them girls is calling you.

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Speaker 1: Them guys that's on the wrong side keep calling you.

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Speaker 1: You can't seem to make a decision by the right guy.

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Speaker 1: You keep picking the wrong guy all the time. What

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Speaker 1: is it that's stopping you from having the life that

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Speaker 1: that's the reason that's stopping you from having the life

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Speaker 1: that you want to have. It's no good because at

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Speaker 1: the end of the date, here's the real ill. See,

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Speaker 1: God is available, and God is available for all of us,

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Speaker 1: and God has a plan for all of us, and

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Speaker 1: God wants to vary best for all of us. That's

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Speaker 1: the truth of the matter. So now what we're gonna

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Speaker 1: do to get started having that life? First of all,

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Speaker 1: if it's your friends, I want you to understand something

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Speaker 1: your friends can't save you. A lot of your friends

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Speaker 1: don't have the answer themselves. I mean, it's just a

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Speaker 1: wide range of reasons and misery love company. So usually

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Speaker 1: of like company in that bad position. Your friends ain't

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Speaker 1: going to church. You're gonna be their friend. They don't

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Speaker 1: friends don't pray, so why would they offer up prayer

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Speaker 1: as a solution to you. You know, your friends don't

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Speaker 1: out I don't do what they do anymore. Who cares

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Speaker 1: what they think other than you? I mean, really, you

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Speaker 1: And then you know your family back out here, they

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Speaker 1: Then you learn that what is it to stopping you

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Speaker 1: What is it? Why are you a repeat offender? Why

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Speaker 1: why won't you get it together? Why won't you give

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Speaker 1: You keep on. Why would you not give God a try?

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Speaker 1: could really be? What is it that's stopping you? Because see,

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Speaker 1: I got news for you. There's nothing like waking up free.

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Speaker 1: I don't care who you are. There's nothing like waking

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Speaker 1: the satisfaction of knowing that you accomplishing something with your life.

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Speaker 1: But don't you dare sit there man and just ride

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Speaker 1: the roads you went down. It's a whole lot of

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Speaker 1: ways to make your life better. But why would you

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Speaker 1: What is it that's stopping you? Really? Really? So you

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Speaker 1: That Dela thing your mama kept telling you about praying,

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Speaker 1: ain't ever too late to get back to that. It

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Speaker 1: ain't ever too late to turn around, It ain't ever

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Speaker 1: too late to get your life together, it ain't ever

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Speaker 1: late to pray. Don't forget to pray, don't be ashamed

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Speaker 1: to that. Ladies and gentlemen, let me have it. I'm

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Speaker 1: the way I want that attention is in the undivided.

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Charley Strawberry calling for real that damn

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Speaker 1: junior nephew Tommy and behind the seeds, the lady with

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Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy Experience. Well look at you. Yeah, I said,

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Speaker 1: I know stuff, y'all. Y'all think I don't be paying attention. Yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: Junior kind of hurt me those day because he opened up.

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Speaker 1: So I cut it off. I was a present. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you gotta look at it all. You know why was

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Speaker 1: a bad point. That was a backroom top sack. You

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Speaker 1: know what. You know what man need right here. Told

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Speaker 1: me to get the nail, backroom back forward, Get him, Junior,

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Speaker 1: get him? All right, we got house, Junie. When we

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Speaker 1: come back, you give your Instagram to coming up at

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Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the crazy CLO.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to morning show. All right,

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Speaker 1: it is time now for asked the CLO Chief Love

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Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey. But before we get into that, um, Junior,

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Speaker 1: can you give your Instagram your social media information? Please?

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Speaker 1: At Junior shm miss ju n I man, no, man,

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Speaker 1: my uncle he told me to go. He always told man,

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Speaker 1: go out, to leave your best like you work hard,

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Speaker 1: go enjoy it. Did didn't he do? See me? He

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Speaker 1: enjoyed my life. I'm on the damn backboard. Can't You're

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Speaker 1: depressed and I'm depressed. Well, I thought you was at

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Speaker 1: your honest house. None of that was true. Tops or

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Speaker 1: here we go, Celo. This one is from Keyana in Hampton, Virginia.

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Speaker 1: Keyana writes time in graduate school and for the past year,

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Speaker 1: I've been having sex with an underclassman. I'm twenty six

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Speaker 1: Do you understand me? Give me your full name right now,

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Speaker 1: give me some intimate details, and then I'll give you

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Speaker 1: my number to cross the line. You wait till my

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Speaker 1: husband gets here. If this is gonna cost him a candacy,

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Speaker 1: does this so be it? We'll find another church. I'd

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Speaker 1: have some choice words for you right now, Brother Clayton.

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Speaker 1: I will give you my name right now. Do you

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Speaker 1: have a pen? Yes, I'm gonna write it right now.

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Speaker 1: The letter N N is in nancy E P. I

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Speaker 1: know how to spare that talk faston N E P

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Speaker 1: h E W got a name? Is that nephew, your

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Speaker 1: name is Nephew Clayton. My name ain't nephew Clayton. My

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Speaker 1: name is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your husband, Reverend Jonathan. Hold on,

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Speaker 1: you said, this is nephew Tommy, this is God from

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Mourning's your Your husband got me to

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Speaker 1: prank phone call you. Oh Lord, I'm gonna kill it.

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Speaker 1: O Lord that I don't need that. Oh didn't trust me,

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Speaker 1: sent me this morning. I can't believe I let him

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Speaker 1: get me, you know, planks before. Oh my God, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: I will tell you if this was twenty five years ago. Brother,

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Speaker 1: I cussed up a storm. I'm so glad. I'm a

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Speaker 1: save woman. Well listen, listen. Can I ask you one

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Speaker 1: more thing? Yes? What is the baddest radio show in

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Speaker 1: the land, The Steve Morning Show? Oh Lord, all right, nephew.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment and national news for you right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve. We have to

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Speaker 1: say congratulations to our fellow radio brother. We love this guy.

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Speaker 1: He's radio legend. Big Boy, big Boy, Big Boy, yes.

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Speaker 1: So yesterday I'm Big boys fifty second birthday. He received

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Speaker 1: his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, presented to

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Speaker 1: him by doctor Dre Cool. Right, Yeah, yeah, congratulate Yeah,

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Speaker 1: big Boy it is has been a radio icon for

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Speaker 1: almost thirty years in his morning show is syndicated by

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Speaker 1: Premier Radio Networks. I mean he deserves that. He's been

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Speaker 1: He's a legend, Steve. So we just want to show

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Speaker 1: Big Boys some love. Love boy. You know, somebody somebody

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Speaker 1: has sent me something, but I would tape so late

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Speaker 1: I forgot to do it. Somebody asked me to send

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Speaker 1: a video the Big Boy for his birthday bass or something,

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Speaker 1: and I forgot to do it. But if I got

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Speaker 1: to a man who we started out as competitors and

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Speaker 1: we ended up becoming friends while we were both on

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Speaker 1: competitive stations in Los Angeles, and the show of force

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Speaker 1: that we did one time was we were doing something

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Speaker 1: and everybody knew we were supposed to be competitors. But

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Speaker 1: when men and Big Boy stood up and hugged each

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Speaker 1: other on that stage to show unity amongst us, that

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Speaker 1: a whole auditorum a kid stood up and that changed

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Speaker 1: me and Big boys relationship from then on, and we

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Speaker 1: became instead of competitors friends. You know, we still had

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Speaker 1: never an ill words said on my show towards him,

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Speaker 1: And I respected that cat, and he's a bad boy

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Speaker 1: and one of the best I've ever seen. And his

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Speaker 1: studio actually inspired the studio that we built in Atlanta

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Speaker 1: I went out there saw that, I said, man, that's cold.

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Speaker 1: The only thing was he worked the board and I

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Speaker 1: was dedicated to never pushing a button without a check.

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Speaker 1: That was the only damned plea. Will not act like

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Speaker 1: I know how to do this engineering thing that was lost.

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Speaker 1: Congratulate somebody telling him I gave him a big shout

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Speaker 1: out this morning. Will do absolutely. In other entertainment news,

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Speaker 1: while fans of Michael Kay Williams have been mourning his death,

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Speaker 1: fifty Cent has been using it to promote his TV

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Speaker 1: show and his liquor brand. Um. Taking to instam, he

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Speaker 1: posted wide opened emojis along with a screenshot of the

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Speaker 1: breaking news of Michael's death and the caption this is

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Speaker 1: what fifty wrote. Damn. If you didn't see Raising Kine,

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Speaker 1: check it out. Fentenol is no joke killing the clientele.

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Speaker 1: For those of you who don't know PowerBook three, Raising

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Speaker 1: Kanaan is the stars show based on fifties childhood and queens.

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Speaker 1: He also added our rip Michael K. Williams and he

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Speaker 1: hashtags promoting his kannak and his wine lines. It was

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Speaker 1: pretty distasteful and he got a lot of He took

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Speaker 1: it down. He took it down, and then he tasted

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Speaker 1: the headline trended again. Come on, yeah, stop it downright,

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Ladies and gentlemen, miss a trip. Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much, and good morning everybody. This is entered

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Speaker 1: with the News and ABC. Washington Post poll shows that

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Speaker 1: only forty nine percent of Americans asked think this country

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Speaker 1: is now safer from terrorism than it was before the

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Speaker 1: nine eleven attacks twenty years ago. Of course, of nine

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Speaker 1: eleven anniversaries Saturday. As you would expect, planning is well

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Speaker 1: underway by the New York City Police Department by the

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Speaker 1: World Trade Center in advance of this weekend's twentieth anniversary.

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Speaker 1: John Miller is an Depart's Deputy Commissioner of Intelligence and

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Speaker 1: counter Terrorism. We've seen the call to action this year

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Speaker 1: be louder and better organized from terrorist groups than we

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Speaker 1: have seen in prior years, which is why he says,

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Speaker 1: even though there are no credible threats out there right now,

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Speaker 1: there's plenty of reason to remain vigilant, and that is

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Speaker 1: what we are doing. A new Texas law banning abortions

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Speaker 1: after only six weeks is being criticized by many in

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Speaker 1: the country. One of those, New York Congresswoman Alexandriocazio Cortez,

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Speaker 1: or AOC as she's called, who tells CNN that the

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Speaker 1: six week limit just shows Governor Greg Abbott's quote deep

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Speaker 1: ignorance in case no one has informed him before in

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Speaker 1: our life. In his life, six weeks pregnant means two

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Speaker 1: weeks late for your period and two weeks late on

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Speaker 1: cycle can happen if you're stressed, if your diet changes,

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Speaker 1: or for really no reason at all. In other words,

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Speaker 1: it's too soon for most women me to even know

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Speaker 1: that they're pregnant. AOC says she's sorry to have to

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Speaker 1: break down biology one on one on National TV. President

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Speaker 1: Biden is putting is putting up eight nominees for federal

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Speaker 1: court judge ships. His choices are diverse. For instance, A

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Speaker 1: Lucy Coe would be the first Korean American woman to

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Speaker 1: serve on the US Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit.

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Speaker 1: Judge Cole was nominated for the same position by foreign

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Speaker 1: President Obama, but Republicans sat on it and did refuse

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Speaker 1: to take a vote on her. Another Biden pick is

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Speaker 1: African American Superior Court Judge Holly Thomas. Early in her career,

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Speaker 1: she worked as an appellet on appellet cases for the

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Speaker 1: Civil Rights Division of the Justice Department, and Bidens also

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Speaker 1: nominated California Court of Appeals Judge Gabriel Sanchez for a

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Speaker 1: federal judge. Of these judges, by the way, are lifetime

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Speaker 1: positions once they gained them. And finally, na NA that's

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Speaker 1: what Black lives and civil rights demonstrate, as sang in Richmond, Virginia.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday's the stature Robert E. Lee was taken down a

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Speaker 1: remove from a city square that humongous statue erected over

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Speaker 1: one hundred years. Go now back to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Mourning Show.

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Speaker 1: Trending news out of Atlanta, Lenox Square Mall, with luxury

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Speaker 1: brand stores like Neiman Marcus and Louis Vatan will roll

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Speaker 1: out a youth supervision policy. This means all visitors eighteen

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Speaker 1: years or under must be accompanied by a parent or

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Speaker 1: adult twenty one twenty one years of age or older

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Speaker 1: at all times after three p m. Any unsupervised youth

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Speaker 1: under the age of eighteen must leave the property by

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Speaker 1: three pm, and both youth and adults must carry identification.

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Speaker 1: This policy comes to just after multiple violent incidents at

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Speaker 1: the mall, including shooting, armed robbery. The mall said this

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Speaker 1: is to the response of the community who want safe

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Speaker 1: and a pleasant environment and a family friendly environment to

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Speaker 1: shop in. So you know what, look, look, most of

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Speaker 1: us live in Atlanta. I agree with that policy. Now,

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Speaker 1: it's a shame that there are good kids that have

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Speaker 1: to be hurt by this. It is really a shame.

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Speaker 1: But I am telling you, man, that mall used to

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Speaker 1: be a great place to go. I can't tell you

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Speaker 1: that how many times me and Margin and went upstairs

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Speaker 1: on the top of that escalator and had done at

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Speaker 1: that steakhouse right up there. We don't go up there

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Speaker 1: no more. We don't go up there no more. I

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Speaker 1: can't tell you how many times we used to go

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Speaker 1: to Neemon Markets to sit down in the cafe and

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Speaker 1: there no more. And that was in Nemon Markets. Because

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Speaker 1: they shooting in Nemon Markets. It's a damn shame, man.

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Speaker 1: So we don't want nothing that bad. I can't run

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Speaker 1: the risk. And it's just a shame, man that a

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Speaker 1: few mess it up for the minute. But the few

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Speaker 1: is a large number though, see that few to where

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Speaker 1: they started having to put metal detectors at the gate

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Speaker 1: the door because just people just carrying, you know, they're

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Speaker 1: carrying and and and that's it's a sad thing, man.

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Speaker 1: But that mall, then, Nix's Mall, was such a cool

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Speaker 1: place to go. And they got nice shops in there,

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Speaker 1: nice stores, fils, really nice places to go in there.

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Speaker 1: And it's it's just a few that have messed it

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Speaker 1: up for many and so I'm okay with the policy, man,

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Speaker 1: And until we get this thing under control, we we

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Speaker 1: gotta protect the innocent. I'm sorry. Yeah, they said that

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Speaker 1: demanded some kind of change. You have to do that,

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Speaker 1: but that crime spills over. It's not just in that mall.

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Speaker 1: They come into that area to do what they want

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Speaker 1: to do. You know, man, you can't do that, And

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, the riff raff gots to go. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So if you're on it keeps going. Man. Your company

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Speaker 1: by an adult with I D Yeah. All right. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll tell

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Speaker 1: you about the HBCU week. We'll tell you all about

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Speaker 1: that with our special guests Rashaan McDonald coming up right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Multi Emmy Award and NAACP Image Award winning TV film

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Speaker 1: radio producer Rashawn McDonald Ladies and Gentlemen, is the host

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Speaker 1: and producer of the HBCU College Day Tour, which stops

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Speaker 1: in three states in September, including the canvases of HBCUs

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Speaker 1: in Alabama, North Carolina, and Georgia and the first event

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Speaker 1: stop is launching in Alabama. Ladies and gentlemen, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: do it like you do. Ladies and gentlemen with whatever

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Speaker 1: voice I have, put your hands together for the older

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Speaker 1: creative and soul survival money making coversasions, whether you want

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Speaker 1: to have them or not, Da damn U shown them?

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Speaker 1: Mac Donald? Yeah, Man, Man, man or thank because see

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Speaker 1: I emailed Steve he's in DUBI to come on the

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Speaker 1: show to talk about hpc you College Day even when

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Speaker 1: we're back. Immediately Man said, come on the show. Mac.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this because I'm trying to change lives, and

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Speaker 1: only way you're gonna change lives with an event like

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Speaker 1: this is to come on the show, like to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Mornings. So I talk to friends and also friends

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Speaker 1: who have also went to HPCUS and understand the value

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Speaker 1: of what I'm trying to do in the month of

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Speaker 1: September at these three stops. Yeah, absolutely, I guess. So

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Speaker 1: like okay, so, so tell us about this college statement

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Speaker 1: what you got called? Well, what happened is I'm doing

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Speaker 1: something that is first of all, it's free, and you

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Speaker 1: know we got COVID happening right now. And so we're

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Speaker 1: providing facial masks to everybody. We also will be testing

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Speaker 1: in certain locations, also providing hand sanitizers. I want to

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Speaker 1: get that out the way first. We have a clear

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Speaker 1: understanding that there will be social distancing we will from

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Speaker 1: finding masks. We're respecting like five thousand people at Alabama State,

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Speaker 1: five thousand people that went to Salem State and North Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Then in Georgia, we're gonna be in Atlanta, Georgia, in

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Speaker 1: the bed that call it the bed of HBCUs where

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Speaker 1: you have more halls, Bare Hall College, Clark Atlanta University,

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Speaker 1: Mars Brown, and Spellman right here in Atlanta, and we're

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Speaker 1: actually gonna do be COVID testing. But what we're trying

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Speaker 1: to do Steves and team is that it's a free

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Speaker 1: event and I'm bringing military recruiters, corporate recruiters, people will

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Speaker 1: to do is get these high school students and juniors

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Speaker 1: on the spot, or if they don't want to go

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Speaker 1: to college, they can go military opportunity if you want

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Speaker 1: to go into space one boy, aviation technology. Anything is

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Speaker 1: available at these three locations. And that's why I'm so special.

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Speaker 1: I want to make people understand that you can start

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Speaker 1: your dreams at HBCU College Day. Military recruiters, corporate job recruiters,

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Speaker 1: they would be back there taking application for internship. And

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Speaker 1: also the HBCUs. The beauty of it is that I'm

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Speaker 1: a different HBCUs and they're allowing other HBCUs to come

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Speaker 1: on their campus and set up shop and recruit qualified

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Speaker 1: Tier one students. That's what HBCU College Day is all about.

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Speaker 1: And I'm so proud to be able to say that

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Speaker 1: we're doing and promoting these staatee. Harvard Morning Show. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let me answer this question. So when you speak

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Speaker 1: about scholarship opportunities for what do you mean by that

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Speaker 1: people understand about the scholarship opportunities. Okay, all HBCUs give

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Speaker 1: you an opportunity to day roll. Some HBCUs you don't

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Speaker 1: know because you know you don't need an SAT and

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Speaker 1: act scores. Some of you do. If you bring your

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Speaker 1: SAT scores and ACT scores in your high school transcript

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Speaker 1: to an HBCU college day event. Then they can register

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Speaker 1: you on the spot and if your grades and your

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Speaker 1: scores qualify you, you can get scholarships on the spot.

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Scholarships that are four right, scholarships

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Speaker 1: on the spot. Those are the opportunities that we are

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Speaker 1: know that's been thinking about it, considering an opportunity here.

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Speaker 1: It is a chance to get its one stop location.

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Speaker 1: Go to hbc YOU Awards dot Com now and change

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Speaker 1: your life. Sean McCloud, appreciate you calling the same. I

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Speaker 1: love y'all, man, Thank you for the time, man, and

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Speaker 1: get where any We love you. Thank you all right.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next the nephew with Today's spraying phone call.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

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Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, the

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Speaker 1: subject my husband likes other women. What all right? We'll

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Speaker 1: get into that in just a few, but right now

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Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's spraying phone call. What

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Speaker 1: you got for us? Now? All right, y'all, y'all gotta

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Speaker 1: stay wit mean Now, This one right here is dp

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Speaker 1: C a dp Department a D. This is dead person

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Speaker 1: could action age and what did it stand? Dead? He writes?

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Speaker 1: But what you wanted to how's we gonna talk about

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Speaker 1: it if I don't see it now? So it's a

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Speaker 1: prank and it start with D. Yeah, okay, but it's

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Speaker 1: really live though. You're gonna love its Dead Person Collection

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Speaker 1: Agency d d C. Hey, let's go cat diggity. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Darrel police z Darrel. This is

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Speaker 1: uh Tony with DPCA. We wanted to give you a call.

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00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 1: How are you doing today? Uh? Well, what what's what's

703
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Speaker 1: the company? Uh? DPC? Aight? What what that mean? Uh?

704
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: DPCA is a dead Person Collection agency. We actually collect

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Speaker 1: uh money from those that have been that have that

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Speaker 1: are deceased, but people still old them. Are you familiar

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Speaker 1: with um Carlton who passed away six months ago? I

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Speaker 1: know him? Yes, he could do. But what do you

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Speaker 1: want from me? Though? Okay, it's been brought to understanding

710
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Speaker 1: that you actually owed mister Carlton Fisher twelve hundred dollars?

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Speaker 1: Is that correct? Nah? Nah? We're talking about nah? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So how how though, as mister okay, let me let

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Speaker 1: me get this, let me get a clear understanding here.

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Speaker 1: You actually worked with mister Carlton Fisher, correct fact? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is that right? Yes? Okay? So have you borrowed money

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Speaker 1: from mister Carlton Fisher before? Why are you asking though?

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Speaker 1: I'm asking you a clear question, sir, have you borrowed

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Speaker 1: money from mister Carlton Fisher before? I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: I should an though today? Your business though? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: it is my business because I'm with the collection agency

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Speaker 1: and it's been brought to right attention that you owe

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Speaker 1: twelve hundred dollars to him. I don't know what you

723
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Speaker 1: talk about any even send me no letter, so I

724
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Speaker 1: don't even know what's going on. I'll repeat myself again, Sir,

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Speaker 1: my name is Tony. You send me a letter through

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Speaker 1: you send me a letter, Send me a letter though

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Speaker 1: I haven't sent you a letter. I'm telling I don't

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Speaker 1: know why you call me that if you don't send

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Speaker 1: me no letter though. Okay, sir, you owe this money

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Speaker 1: to mister Fisher. See, I'll understand. I don't understand. You

731
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Speaker 1: didn't send me no letter though, and then you're gonna

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Speaker 1: call me though definitely don't send Okay. So here's the deal, sir.

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Speaker 1: If you don't play the twel liner, we will come

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Speaker 1: and take something. We will confiscate something of the same value.

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Speaker 1: So I'm letting you know send me no you you

736
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Speaker 1: even even send me no letter though. If you do that,

737
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Speaker 1: I'll call the police because he didn't send me no

738
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: letter though. You not saying what I'm saying makes no

739
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Speaker 1: sending No. I'm hearing what you're saying, sir, But at

740
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Speaker 1: the end of the day, you're not hearing what I'm

741
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: saying though. You shouldn't even be talking to me right now.

742
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: You gotta send me a letter though. That's how it is.

743
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: A bills. He did not inform you anything, right sir.

744
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: You owe you owe the twelve hundred dollars shirt. We

745
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: both know that you're saying you're skipping a step right

746
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: now though that's what I'm saying. Friends, it doesn't matter

747
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: about the step, sir. You know what you owe, and

748
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know. I'm not gonna go

749
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: back and forth with you. I'm gonna let you know this.

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Speaker 1: We will come and compensate something of the same value. Well,

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Speaker 1: let you know, but I'll let you know first though.

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Speaker 1: You cannot do anything without sending a letter. You did

753
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Speaker 1: not send me no letter and send me no nothing

754
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: though you call me. You're harassing me right about now

755
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: without even send me no letter. That I was saying, like,

756
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Speaker 1: this is the deal, this is what happened, This is

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Speaker 1: when it's due. YadA YadA, even do that, Okay, So

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Speaker 1: let me let me say this to you. We do

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Speaker 1: know if you have a two thousand and seventeen pick

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Speaker 1: up truck, we do you threaten me. I'm just letting.

761
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm letting you know we're picking up something of the

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Speaker 1: same value or more. Okay, you turn me now, that's

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Speaker 1: not that's bull threatened me now. Didn't even send me

764
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Speaker 1: no letter. You just called me up staying like I

765
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Speaker 1: owe you now, didn't even give me no date like.

766
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Speaker 1: Its make no sense though, sir, this is DPCA, this

767
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Speaker 1: is what we do one pass. I don't care if

768
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Speaker 1: you got your government agency. You should be sending me

769
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Speaker 1: a letter. Sorry, you owe mister Fisher twelve hundred dollars.

770
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Speaker 1: He's now deceased. We are going to collect this money.

771
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,240
Speaker 1: All we're gonna collect. What I'm saying is you skip

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Speaker 1: the step. You skip the step. You did not. You

773
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Speaker 1: did not inform me that I owe mine to him.

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Speaker 1: You just tell me right now on the phone. You

775
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Speaker 1: should wants to send a letter though, sorry, do you

776
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Speaker 1: want to send us to send us the money or

777
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Speaker 1: do you want me to pick up even know what

778
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: you're talking about though? Are you talking about my truck?

779
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: You're talking about my truck. No, no no, no, no, no

780
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Speaker 1: no no, we're not doing that. No we're not You're

781
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Speaker 1: not touching my truck right about now. You know what

782
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now, that's it. We're done. We're done. If

783
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Speaker 1: you come on my truck, I want to with you.

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Speaker 1: Hear what I'm saying. I don't care what dollars it's

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Speaker 1: twel dude, I'm telling you right now, you can't send

786
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Speaker 1: me the letter. Now I'm angry. I'm gonna tell me

787
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Speaker 1: your truck come at me. I will come at you hard.

788
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying, baseball bats all that. Don't with me, don't

789
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Speaker 1: with me. You'll get jump. I'll jump you. I'll jump

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Speaker 1: y'all take your truck. Hear me? You'll stay a boy

791
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: from me? Sorry, not all, man, I'm not I'm not

792
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 1: playing either. So are you doing? Yo? Yo? Yo? Yo?

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Speaker 1: Are you listening though I'm listening to you? Are you

794
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: listening to me? You're the person you don't know the

795
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Speaker 1: type of dude I am? Man? I you know, yo?

796
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Speaker 1: You sound man comfortable right about now? Good? Don't be uncomfortable.

797
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Okay, I'm I'm gonna let

798
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Speaker 1: you know this. If I don't get this money by today,

799
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Speaker 1: then then you might as well start not sleeping the

800
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Speaker 1: night because there's a strong possibility what your car, your

801
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 1: car not be there? In your car, I'm I'm playing

802
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Speaker 1: it as clear as possible, sir. Twelve hundred dollars are

803
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Speaker 1: your car. Your truck may not be there in the morning.

804
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Speaker 1: This is your car? Do you want to be there

805
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: after the next one? Though? What are you trying to say?

806
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 1: What are you trying to tell me? What you're trying

807
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: to say? What are you hit? We heard, we heard,

808
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 1: we heard from me exactly, dude? When can we expect?

809
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: When can we expect the twelve hundred dollars I'm telling

810
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: you right about now. Don't cockle my car. I'm doing that,

811
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Speaker 1: all right, I'm doing with you. Don't cou my car.

812
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: Don't fut my card. Don't okay, card, So you don't

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00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: call me back? All right, I'm done, mother hung up?

814
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 1: Call him back? Call him back, man, call him back.

815
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Speaker 1: Who you think? Who you think you hanging up? Pall man?

816
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: Who you think you hanging up? Call me again? You

817
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: call me again? You damn right on me again again.

818
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 1: I'm waiting on the twelve hundred dollars. Okay, Now I

819
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: told you this. I told you. I told you that.

820
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Speaker 1: Now now you're getting me angry though. Now you're getting

821
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: me angry though I told you this. Don't call me

822
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: all right, send me the letter. You don't send me

823
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Speaker 1: the letter They telling about taking my truck. I'll you up. Okay,

824
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 1: you up? Okay, you know what I'm gonna doing. I'll

825
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: tell you what ware you gonna way gonna do, though,

826
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Speaker 1: wa gonna. I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna

827
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Speaker 1: tell you right nod ware you gonna. I'm gonna let

828
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go hang me, come get the truck. I'm

829
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Speaker 1: gonna let timm me come get the truck. Who I'm

830
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Speaker 1: gonna let Timmy come get the truck. I don't know

831
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Speaker 1: who Tommy is? Which Tommy Tommy who? Tom Me? Tell

832
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Speaker 1: me baby, not you Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Baby,

833
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Speaker 1: your boy Trevor at your job got me the prank

834
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Speaker 1: phone call you man, he always be listening to y'all

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Speaker 1: too many. Gosh, oh, I hope my Paul office sat

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Speaker 1: here right now. Man, you want paro, I'm no comment. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, there you go. I'll tell you what this

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Speaker 1: This has only comment. I want to tell me this

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Speaker 1: what is the baddest? And I mean the bandage radio

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Speaker 1: show was in the land, Baby, give me tell me

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Speaker 1: who isn't it the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all bunch

842
00:52:52,360 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: of crazy mon BP were dead first agents A good

843
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 1: idea to do that, huh yeah yeah, I mean get

844
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: your attention right away time. It's like this caller, there

845
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: are a lot of people. There are a lot of

846
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: people who have passed away, and people old those people.

847
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. People old those people. And

848
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: just because someone has passed don't mean you don't steal

849
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: owe them. If they loaned your money, you still owe

850
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 1: them this collection though. Yeah, that's all right. We gotta go,

851
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: nephew with this foolish final Coming up next, my Strawberry letter,

852
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: the subject my husband likes other women. We'll get into

853
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning

854
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you

855
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.

856
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com

857
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter.

858
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: I've on the air, just like we're gonna read this.

859
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: When you hear that right here, right now, buggle up,

860
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: hold on tight, We got it for you here. It

861
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: is a Strawberry letter. Thank you. Nephew's subject my husband

862
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: likes other women. All right, Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm married

863
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: to one of the finest men in my whole town.

864
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: We've been together twenty four years and married for eighteen.

865
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: He was my high school sweetheart and we married young

866
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:31,879
Speaker 1: and had two children early. We started having sex when

867
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 1: we were sixteen, so he was the only man I'd

868
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 1: been with until recently. He has cheated on me, and

869
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: I forgave him because I had checked out of our

870
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 1: marriage and was going through a little depression. We didn't

871
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: go to counseling because he refused to go. Instead, he

872
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 1: offered me a hall pass to make up for what

873
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 1: he did. I may have been depressed, but I'm not crazy,

874
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: so I told him no thanks, and I went out

875
00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: and had an affair on my own discreetly. There's no

876
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: way he'll ever figure out what I'm doing on the side,

877
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: because he's now checked out of our crazy marriage. It's

878
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: nothing for me to find him on the couch with

879
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: his feet up, talking to another female and gossiping with

880
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: her like their girlfriends. He goes shopping with his sister

881
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 1: and his mother all the time, and they have even

882
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: stayed out of town to go shopping at an outlet mall.

883
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: My sister loves to come to me with a bunch

884
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 1: of rumors about my husband, and she tries to stir

885
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: up mess. But I'm not that concerned about what my

886
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: husband is doing. She suggested I call his mom and

887
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 1: sister and ask about the shopping trips and see how

888
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: long my husband is really with them, or if he

889
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: ducks off to go see a female. I don't have

890
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 1: the energy for any of that, so what if he

891
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: likes other women, I'm cheating because I wanted something different,

892
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 1: So I see why he might be interested in other women.

893
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 1: My husband and I have been best friends for almost

894
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: twenty five years, and that's what's most important to me.

895
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 1: Am I wrong for not caring what he's up? Tom?

896
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what this is, but it's certainly not

897
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 1: a marriage. I mean, this is a joke right here.

898
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 1: Why don't you guys just put yourself out of your misery.

899
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 1: You're cheating, He's cheating. This marriage, unfortunately, sounds like it

900
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 1: is run its course. And you ask, is it wrong

901
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 1: that you don't care anymore? Well, I'll only say yes

902
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: if you plan on staying married to him. But this

903
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: is why people get divorced because they don't care anymore.

904
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: They don't give a darn. What good is it being

905
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: married if you don't care about each other? Okay, your

906
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: marriage is just pathetic at this point. I mean, what

907
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: are you holding onto? Is it the memories from back

908
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 1: in the day, the habits, what's comfortable? Is it just

909
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: familiar to you, you say, your best friend? Or are

910
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 1: you waiting for a miracle or for something to change?

911
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,240
Speaker 1: I mean, what is it that you want. You're tired

912
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: and bored with you know, with each other, because you

913
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,799
Speaker 1: guys simply neglected to do the work that it takes

914
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 1: to keep your marriage strong. I mean, the two of

915
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: you have given up on yourselves, You've given up on

916
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: the marriage, You've given up on each other. What do

917
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: you what do you want? And what does he want?

918
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: Do you guys even have any idea? I bet you

919
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: both know what your side pieces need and want. I

920
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: bet you do. And yes, his mom and sister are

921
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: definitely covering for him. I think when he hangs out

922
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: with them, if he won't go to counseling, why don't

923
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: you just go on your own? You know, if you

924
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: feel like there's something salvageable about this marriage, as long

925
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: as you're still married, there is a chance. It's not

926
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: too late. Marriages have come back from all kinds of

927
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: bad things. I mean, you say you don't care, but

928
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: I kind of think you do. Otherwise, why are you

929
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: writing us steve this marriage, oval dis marriage or I

930
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: ain't no saving this. This is not salvageable. And the

931
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: reason I'm saying that it is because it's too back

932
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: and forth, and there's more folthing back so I don't

933
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 1: really know where we're going with this, but let's just

934
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: give you my take because I'm anna the little bit

935
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: of hate shade in the early beginning, because I don't

936
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: like when that a start like this, Dear Steven Shirley,

937
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm married to one of the finest men in the

938
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: whole town. Oh that's how you're gonna. You're gonna, you're gonna,

939
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: You're gonna come to me with that. I'm married to

940
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 1: one of the finest men in my whole town. Well,

941
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: let me knock you down a little bit, because town

942
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: means small populated area. So now, if you was married

943
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: to the finest man in the city, you might have

944
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: something right now, but you're married to the to the

945
00:58:56,200 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 1: finest man in our town. Once again, town small populated area.

946
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: My ranch was in Little Elm, population six hundred and

947
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: thirty people. Hard to find a fine person out of

948
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 1: six hundred and thirty, you got to give just somebody

949
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 1: got ahead of title because out of the six hundred

950
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 1: and thirty people that lived in the township, all of

951
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: them weren't adults all. I'm one young and a lot

952
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: of them probably used to be fine. So I just

953
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 1: wanted to say that and get that out the way.

954
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: That's a little bit of shade and hate and been

955
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: together twenty four years man eighteen high school sweetheart, started

956
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: having sex when y'all was sixteen. Y'all tied each other

957
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: by now, it's the only man you ever been with.

958
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 1: And until recently, oh later took a tourney. He has

959
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: cheated on me and I forgave him because he's the

960
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 1: first time I had checked out of our match and

961
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 1: was going through a little depression. I'm not really sure

962
01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: how to read that. I don't know what a little

963
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: depression is up next to a lot of depression most

964
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: people I noticed the depress is just sad ass people.

965
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 1: I don't know how you be a little sad if

966
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: your ass is just saying hold on, Steve, hold on,

967
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response. Just say about this.

968
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 1: Let coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

969
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: My husband likes other women is the subject. We'll get

970
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to show,

971
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,959
Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

972
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: The subject my husband likes other women. Yeah, okay, here

973
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: we go once again. Let me I'm gonna just read

974
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: let it tear apart. I go to Steven Sherlon. I

975
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 1: mad to find his men in my whole town. Once again,

976
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 1: I'm told you about the little town. Still you know?

977
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: So what you know? How many y'all stayed? At two hundred?

978
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: It's easy to get the title when it are two

979
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: hundred people. Okay, So you married to the little finest

980
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 1: man and atal been together twenty four years, married eighteen.

981
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: He was your high school sweetheart. You got married, you

982
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 1: had kids earlier. You've only had sex with him. You

983
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: started having sex at sixteen. You checked out the marriage.

984
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: He started cheating on you, and you forgave him because

985
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 1: you had checked out of your marriage. That's the first

986
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: time somebody checked out the marriage. So while you checked out,

987
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 1: he checked out two. So y'all been checked out, y'all

988
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: got married early. All this is understandable because you was

989
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 1: going through a little depression. That ain't really why he

990
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: checked out. You know that ain't really why. But you

991
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 1: always trying to give a man an excuse for why

992
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 1: he messed up, So I guess you can let him

993
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 1: have that, all right. We didn't go to counseling because

994
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: he or he didn't want to because see here, don't

995
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 1: see nothing wrong. I told you you checked out. He

996
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 1: been checked out. He cheated because he wanted to. Instead,

997
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: he offered me a Hall pass. Now, ain't that a

998
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: guilt trip? So since I cheated, you can go out

999
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: and cheat to make up for what he did. Now,

1000
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: you might have been depressed, but you ain't crazy, So

1001
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 1: I told him no thanks. And then right after you

1002
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: told him no things. See that's another thing. You checked

1003
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 1: out the marriage. Then he cheated on you. Then he

1004
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: turned around gave you a hall pass. Then you told

1005
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: him no thanks because you ain't crazy. But you went

1006
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 1: out and had an affair on your own, very discreetly.

1007
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: So now you didn't check back out the marriage again.

1008
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 1: There's no way he'll ever figure out what I'm doing

1009
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 1: on the side, because now he's checked out of our

1010
01:02:55,080 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: crazy marriage. Okay, now you checked out, you cheating. He's

1011
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: been checked out, but you think he ain't. So now

1012
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: he didn't checked out again. Then you say it's nothing

1013
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: for me to find him on the couch with his

1014
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: feet up talking to another female gossip we win her

1015
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: like their girlfriend. Then here's the part where it got

1016
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 1: all unbelievable. He goes shopping with his sister and mama

1017
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: all the time, and they stayed out of town to

1018
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: go shopping at an outlet mall. Who go with their

1019
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: mama and their sister to a damn outlet mall at

1020
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 1: the time? What black dude, you know, go out of

1021
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: town with his mama and his sister go shopping at

1022
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: an outlet mall? Who do that? And you know, once

1023
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: again we're back to how small your town is. How

1024
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: the hell you got to go out of town to

1025
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: find a damn mall? That's really a small town. If

1026
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: you got to go out of town to find an

1027
01:03:51,440 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: outlet mall, do y'all stay in the village. Yeah, My

1028
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 1: sister loves to come to me with a bunch of

1029
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 1: rumors about my husband. She tries to stare up mess

1030
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 1: and here's another telltale sign. But I'm not that concerned

1031
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: about what my husband is doing. This is a woman

1032
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 1: who's completely checked out. See is all these check out

1033
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 1: red flags in this marriage? She suggests that I call

1034
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: his mom and sister asked about the shopping trips. See

1035
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 1: how long my husband's really with them? Or if he

1036
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: ducks out to see a female. Here's the next line. Now,

1037
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 1: all these lines sum up the letter. I don't have

1038
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: the energy for any of that. Red flag checked out?

1039
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 1: Next line? So what if he likes other women? What fla? What? What? Oh?

1040
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: Wife says? So what if he likes other women? All

1041
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: these sentences right here is to tell tale in this

1042
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 1: whole letter. Next sentence? You ready for this. I'm cheating

1043
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: because I wanted something different. What listen to the sentences?

1044
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: All of these is back to back. You're ready for

1045
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: the next sentence. I see why he might be interested

1046
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 1: in other women? What any of these sentences by their self?

1047
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: It's damaging evidence, but she put them all in the

1048
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: same paragraph. Ain't back to back to back? You're ready

1049
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 1: for the next one. This is the one that's absurdd.

1050
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 1: My husband and I have been best friends for twenty

1051
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 1: five years, and that's what's most important to me. Are

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01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 1: you nuts? Y'all friend? Y'all best friends that don't give

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01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: a damn about each other? Am I wrong for not

1054
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: caring what he's up to? Now? You ain't wrong with you?

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01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: You don't care? How you wrong for not kid? You

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01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 1: don't care? I told you at the top of this letter.

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01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: This marriage is over. It's been over. You're not in

1058
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: a marriage, y'all is some mess y'all sitting up somewhere,

1059
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: y'all roommates. He got his feet up on a coffee table,

1060
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: talk coffee table, talking to other girl. You in the house,

1061
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 1: ain't no consequence, Ain't nobody busting, no ass, trail over

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01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 1: nobody head you know, or nobody at all. Y'all got

1063
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: all the windows in the house. Yeah, I can drive off.

1064
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 1: Ain't none of his times flat, Ain't no sugar, any

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01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: gas thing? Post your comments on today. Well when you

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01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 1: need I'm right here. That's right. You're listening to show

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01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: all right, coming up at the top of the hour.

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01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: It's Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve, please introduce

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01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 1: our girl from the Talk Girl, the Talk Star. Undo.

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01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:09,439
Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. Now that's an introduction, Steve Hobby. That's

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01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 1: why we are best friends. In my mind for real,

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01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: were tight. We brothers were to gather. Okay, listen, Steve

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01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 1: so clarose, Well, you know me and Steve. You know

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01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: we we we're brothers. I mean we're sisters and brothers,

1075
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 1: but we just like that. We don't like that short describe.

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01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 1: Stop trying to get in the middle of my relationship

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01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: with Steve, Steve, since you're my best friend in my mind, right,

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01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 1: I need love advice by me and Junior, so we

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01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: keep firing going at Junior. Hello Junior, Okay, there it

1080
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: is right there. Okay, now to keep our relationships strong, hot, passionate.

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01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 1: What advice would you give me to keep my relationship

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01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: with Junior strong, hot, and passionate? What avice think? A

1083
01:07:56,640 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 1: lot of things that you are when you come on

1084
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 1: the show, shrill? I think you know, like you and

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01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: I are friends. We've been friends for a long time,

1086
01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: so you don't have to say your best friend. In

1087
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 1: my mind, I'm not your best friend, but we are friends.

1088
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 1: You know, I'm pretty sure in my mind you are

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01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:16,000
Speaker 1: my best friend. Well I know, but you know you

1090
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 1: can't call me with just anything. You know, ain'tthing to

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01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: talk about all that. So, you know, best friends talk

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01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: about anything. You can call me if you got a

1093
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: real problem. But if you got a little problem, I

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01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: probably you know I ain't gonna answer. But you know

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01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 1: we are friends because we've been together for a long time. Yeah,

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01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:40,679
Speaker 1: the relationship between you and Junior, I think I'm gonna

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01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:45,000
Speaker 1: have to intervene here and do some counseling. I'm not

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01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 1: sure if the two of you are on the same

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01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 1: page at all. You're incompatible. Don't know. I didn't know. Hey, hey, wait,

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01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 1: they ain't not see right there? Tommy command and got

1101
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 1: in here and made the ultimate statement, y'all ready you

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01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 1: are not ready to love between the two of y'all

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01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 1: slash age difference, slash direction. I know Junior is too

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01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 1: young for me. I know that it takes a lot

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01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: of vinaments, it takes a lot of exercise. I've been

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01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 1: eating through some vessels and nutrients and things because he's very,

1107
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: very young for me. You know, cereal, I have over

1108
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 1: here in the house right down, because he's very young

1109
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: and the sex is amazing. I will tell you that

1110
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: he didn't knock my wig out about three full times,

1111
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 1: and I had an anchor down like RuPaul drag Race.

1112
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 1: I had an anchor down stair. Knock that out. Share

1113
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 1: we gotta go for real. Coming up to the top

1114
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:10,600
Speaker 1: of the hour, Carla's reality update. Thank you, Cheryl, Bye bye.

1115
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on,

1116
01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 1: Tommy introduced her. She's here. I got it, I got it,

1117
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 1: watched me work and Shirley, I don't need no help.

1118
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 1: I'm just letting me know that early. Okay, ladies and gentlemen,

1119
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 1: getting ready, buckle up and hold on tight. She is here,

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01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:38,960
Speaker 1: Carla Farrell with what reality update coming in? Hot. I

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01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:44,120
Speaker 1: didn't need no help. Go ahead, Carla, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 1: She took her from your nephew. She took her right back,

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01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 1: right back. Thank you, Shirley, thank you. Here we go,

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01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 1: We're Housewives of Atlanta. I just want to start off

1125
01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:54,479
Speaker 1: and say that some of the cast members from the

1126
01:10:54,520 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: past and present season paid their respects at the Celebration

1127
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 1: of Life ceremony for Greg Leeks and Ninie thanked everyone

1128
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 1: for their love and support, including you know, the fans

1129
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 1: and the viewers. So Nini posted pictures from the repass

1130
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 1: or the Celebration of Life ceremony. So there you go,

1131
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac. So Candice, she went too far

1132
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 1: where she blamed Ashley for all the drama that popped

1133
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 1: off on the trip to Williamsburg, Virginia between Wendy and

1134
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 1: Giselle because she went too far, and then she kind

1135
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 1: of told Wendy with the rumors about Eddie and the cheating.

1136
01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 1: So we all know about this from that long trip. Anyway,

1137
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:43,839
Speaker 1: they had a dinner and Candice just had it with Ashley,

1138
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:46,000
Speaker 1: so she just popped off at the dinner, called her

1139
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:55,479
Speaker 1: forehead wide body just fehead Ashley on the cool, got

1140
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 1: a big old forehead on the table. Oh my gosh,

1141
01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 1: it's all all forehead. Yes, yes, yes, yes. But Kansas

1142
01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 1: is getting a little backlash on social media because they said,

1143
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 1: you know, Ashley is saying that she body shamed her,

1144
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: and you know she did. She went too far with

1145
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 1: that one beforehead you was on it. You was right, right, Junior, Yes,

1146
01:12:26,479 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 1: just hollering. All right. So Robin and Giselle they have

1147
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 1: a podcast and Robin said that she was not surprised

1148
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:38,719
Speaker 1: to see that Giselle and Reverend Jamal Bryant are not together,

1149
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 1: and that she said she never saw that, she never

1150
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,559
Speaker 1: saw them together and they just really have too much

1151
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 1: drama from their past. So it was kind of you know, Robin,

1152
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:50,720
Speaker 1: you think Robin always, you know, that's her girl. But

1153
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 1: when she said that, I was like, all right there, Robin.

1154
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: So there you go with that. Real Housewives of Potomac.

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01:12:56,479 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: All right, let's move on to I am ready, Shirley.

1156
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 1: I am counting down for the Real Housewives of Salt

1157
01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:12,559
Speaker 1: Lake City. I cannot wait, but listen to this, Tommy,

1158
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:16,160
Speaker 1: listen to this. They are going to start this season off.

1159
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:21,000
Speaker 1: This is just season two with your girl gen. While

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01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 1: they were taping, she gets a phone call from her

1161
01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:28,719
Speaker 1: husband telling her that the Feds are about to come

1162
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: to the set and arrest her. Yes, sir, yes, sir,

1163
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 1: And they do just that. The Fens show up. Yes

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01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 1: a girl. Yes. While they are taping the show, they

1165
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: are charging her with She targeted elderly victims throughout the

1166
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:50,720
Speaker 1: US and generated they call them lead lists, so they

1167
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: were sold to other participants. So it's basically a federal

1168
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:59,080
Speaker 1: telemarketing fraud case. And so we will see what happens

1169
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: this season on the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City.

1170
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 1: But I like on one part of the promo, I

1171
01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 1: guess Jim was arguing with one of the housewives and

1172
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 1: she said, fraud and I love this housewife she married us.

1173
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 1: She was like, fraud. I know you ain't calling That's

1174
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: what they ain't. That looks like, I know you're not

1175
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 1: calling nobody or fraud and quickly get ready. Thirtieth season

1176
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars. Kenya Moore from the Real Housewives

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01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: of Alanta. Yes, we'll be on. Yeah, your your boot

1178
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:39,679
Speaker 1: will be on their Junior. Also check this out Becky

1179
01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 1: from Full House her daughter college admission scandal. Like uess,

1180
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 1: she gets to be on Dancing with the Stars. So

1181
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:51,839
Speaker 1: we'll be watching hit me up. That looks by Carla

1182
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 1: And what's you guys, Shirley? All right, thank you. More

1183
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 1: trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. A twenty

1184
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to

1185
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 1: the Stave Morning Show. All right, did you guys see

1186
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: the viral video of this sixty one year old man.

1187
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 1: He was on an American Airlines flight to LA from LA,

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01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: I should say, to Salt Lake City. He was growling

1189
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:20,960
Speaker 1: like a dog. Yeah yeah. He was pulling his mask

1190
01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:23,360
Speaker 1: off and on his face, on and off his face.

1191
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 1: He also gave flight attendants to the middle finger. He

1192
01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:30,160
Speaker 1: cursed at them and in addition to screaming God, bless America.

1193
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: The man was arrested and American Airlines thank the flight

1194
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:38,679
Speaker 1: attendants and the other passengers for being so professional. Thank God.

1195
01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 1: So here's the question. I know you want to jump

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01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:47,639
Speaker 1: in here, Tommy junior, what would you have done. If

1197
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 1: you were on this flight, you fly a lot. What

1198
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:57,000
Speaker 1: passenger on here? Yeah, if you were on the flight,

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01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:00,720
Speaker 1: well carry Ever, since I saw the lads that jumped off,

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01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:03,560
Speaker 1: I care duct tape now, so I am prepared for

1201
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 1: my flight. I will duct tape your butt to that

1202
01:16:07,400 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 1: seat now, and I know how to do it. And

1203
01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: I duct tape that mask on his face too. We

1204
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:20,680
Speaker 1: can fly on up out here. Yeah. Absolutely, I'm with

1205
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 1: timmy out because what I do is I put mad

1206
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: dogs down. That's what I did. You want to put

1207
01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:33,560
Speaker 1: like you crat your asses on the ground down? Boy,

1208
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:35,080
Speaker 1: I got him. I'll go ahead and fight a plane.

1209
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:37,680
Speaker 1: I got him. I'm saying, okay, how do we go?

1210
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:42,040
Speaker 1: All right? Thanks guys, I feel safer. Now. More of

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01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three

1212
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:48,400
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're listening Steve

1213
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now for

1214
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:54,639
Speaker 1: asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. But before

1215
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:57,800
Speaker 1: we get into that, um, Junior, can you give your

1216
01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 1: Instagram your social media information? Please? At Junior shms j

1217
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 1: u n hms man. No, man, my uncle he told

1218
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 1: me to go. He always told man, go out to

1219
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 1: leave your best like you work hard, go enjoy it.

1220
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 1: Then didn't he do? See me? He enjoyed my life.

1221
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm on the damn backboard and you're depressed, and I'll depressed.

1222
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 1: But I thought you was at your honest house. I

1223
01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:26,080
Speaker 1: didn't know none of that was true tops or some trees.

1224
01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 1: I don't look like you forgot right. All right, here

1225
01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:37,120
Speaker 1: we go CEO. This one is from Keyana and Hampton, Virginia.

1226
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,599
Speaker 1: Keana writes time in graduate school and for the past year,

1227
01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:43,880
Speaker 1: I've been having sex with an underclassman. I'm twenty six

1228
01:17:43,920 --> 01:17:46,640
Speaker 1: and he's nineteen. He wants to be my boyfriend and

1229
01:17:46,680 --> 01:17:49,759
Speaker 1: said he's going to marry me one day. He's exactly

1230
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,120
Speaker 1: the type of man I want to marry. But I

1231
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 1: can't get past the age difference. I feel like I'm

1232
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 1: robbing the cradle. Is age that big of a deal

1233
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 1: when you think you love someone, please help. If it's

1234
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:02,479
Speaker 1: a deal, if you want it to be a deal,

1235
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,800
Speaker 1: it's also a deal if you make it a deal.

1236
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:08,160
Speaker 1: This is for sure. If he stays alive, he won't

1237
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:11,880
Speaker 1: always be nineteen. That's what sean. And now with that

1238
01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:14,639
Speaker 1: being said, yeah you, yeah, you Rob Craig. He's down

1239
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 1: in nineteen. He's no freshman everything. You put some of

1240
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 1: that senior citizen thing on him, and he well, you know,

1241
01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 1: to him, you know, that's an old woman. Now he's

1242
01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:28,320
Speaker 1: flunking out of school because he either he didn't got

1243
01:18:28,320 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 1: it or ain't getting in no modi. But either way,

1244
01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 1: he's flunking out of school. So you know, no, I

1245
01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:36,160
Speaker 1: don't think you have to be worried about that. You know,

1246
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:38,320
Speaker 1: if he's a good guy, he's a good guy, you know,

1247
01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:41,400
Speaker 1: go forward. But when you take him to your daddy, though,

1248
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:45,599
Speaker 1: he's gonna be a little difficult. All Right, We're moving

1249
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 1: on Michelle and Tampa. Says. My fifty nine year old

1250
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 1: mother recently got a citation for indecent exposure because she

1251
01:18:53,120 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 1: was trying to have sex in her car. She told

1252
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: me that it's my fault she was in the car

1253
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:01,559
Speaker 1: having sex because she has no privacy at home. I

1254
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Speaker 1: moved in with her during the pandemic after I lost

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Speaker 1: my job. Her apartment is small and the walls are thin,

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Speaker 1: so I suggested that she go have sex at her

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Speaker 1: sorry boyfriend's house next time. She cursed me out and

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Speaker 1: told me to be out of her house by next month.

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Speaker 1: How can I fix this mess? What? Well? First of all,

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Speaker 1: you told your mother to go have sex at her

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Speaker 1: sorry boyfriend's house. When you in her house, you stoop?

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Speaker 1: All right, John, When we come back, last break of

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Speaker 1: the day and Steve's closing remarks, you don't want to

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Speaker 1: miss them. We'll be back at forty nine after you're listening.

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Speaker 1: All right, Here we are our last break of the

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Speaker 1: day and Steve, yeah, you can take it away. Here

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Speaker 1: it is. You know, I was thinking something that's helped

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Speaker 1: me in my lifetime, and it was a difficult lesson

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Speaker 1: to learn for me, but I finally got it together

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Speaker 1: years ago, but it took me some time. I must

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Speaker 1: admit I spent all of my twenties and thirties not

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Speaker 1: understanding this, and even a little bit now, just mostly

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Speaker 1: twenties and thirties. So I'm gonna share it with you,

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Speaker 1: and I want you to understand that I'm saying. I'm

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Speaker 1: saying all this in love. You can't share everything with everybody.

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Speaker 1: You know that that that really seems so simple. But

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many times you inadvertly damage yourself,

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Speaker 1: your opportunity, and your journey by not understanding this real

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Speaker 1: simple rule, you cannot You cannot share everything with everybody.

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Speaker 1: You can't. You can't share your visions with everybody because

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Speaker 1: they don't really care. Then everybody's not genuinely interested in

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Speaker 1: your career, goals, your visions, your hopes for tomorrow. A

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01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:15,600
Speaker 1: lot of people you share stuff with don't even understand

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Speaker 1: the thing that you're telling this in your imagination. They

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Speaker 1: don't even get it. And I understand they don't get

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Speaker 1: what's in your imagination because it's something they could never

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Speaker 1: ever possibly imagine. And basically, the number one reason you

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Speaker 1: can't share everything with everybody is just real simple. Most

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Speaker 1: people don't care, you know that. Just sit up and

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Speaker 1: listen to you and look just as concerned as soon

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Speaker 1: as you walk away. Don't give you the idea, the

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Speaker 1: thought you had another another moment of consideration. They don't care.

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Speaker 1: But do you understand something they don't have to. It's

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Speaker 1: perfectly okay that they don't see your vision, share your

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Speaker 1: vision that it's okay that they're not genuinely interested. It's

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Speaker 1: okay that they don't understand what's coming out of your imagination.

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Speaker 1: It's perfectly fine that they don't care because there is

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Speaker 1: really no one else more critical to your journey or

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Speaker 1: your success than God. Nobody. There is no one living

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Speaker 1: that's more critical to your journey or your success than God. Period. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you're blessed and you got a supportive spouse Jack Pott,

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Speaker 1: that's bonus. Or you found someone in your life that

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Speaker 1: you'll ride or die, that's bonus. Or you got one

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Speaker 1: of your friends that's that's what you through thick and thin,

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Speaker 1: and it's hard to find them, but they exist, then

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Speaker 1: that's a bonus. The rest of the people really listen

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Speaker 1: to me, they don't matter. They don't matter because they

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Speaker 1: don't matter. It doesn't matter what they think, say, feel,

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Speaker 1: or give you back because it's irrelevant, non important, significant

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Speaker 1: to your journey or your success. You've got to get

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Speaker 1: this through your head because I spent too much time

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Speaker 1: sharing everything with everybody, thinking I was sharing it in

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Speaker 1: hopes that they might have a piece of information from me.

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Speaker 1: The majority of people I shared it with didn't have

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Speaker 1: nothing from me. I wasted time sitting up there, and

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Speaker 1: then I'll tell you something else that happened. You can

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Speaker 1: tell your big dreams to small minded people if you

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Speaker 1: want to. And now you've given one of the devil's

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Speaker 1: imps the information that he needs to provide obstruction. That's

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Speaker 1: a sad thing, man, But I want you all to

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Speaker 1: be aware because sometimes we seek the wrong people's approval

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Speaker 1: and you end up wasting time. Why does it matter

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Speaker 1: matter to you what they think of you when they

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Speaker 1: don't even care about you? What does it matter what

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Speaker 1: they think of you and they don't even know you?

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Speaker 1: Do you know? Some people post stuff on social media

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Speaker 1: and be just as happy what they picture, their little caption,

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Speaker 1: and you put it online and you're just saying, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm having a great day, or man, I just want

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Speaker 1: to show y'all something that God has blessed me to

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Speaker 1: share with you all. And if you mess around and

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Speaker 1: read your comments, here comes somebody on your comment page

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Speaker 1: that then took your perfectly well intentioned caption and your

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Speaker 1: picture that you meant no harm to anybody post it,

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Speaker 1: and here they come with a bunch of negativity. And

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Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, your day is off course

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Speaker 1: because somebody says something about you that don't even know you.

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Speaker 1: People's opinion of you is none of your business, nor

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Speaker 1: should you make it yours. That negative comment that they

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Speaker 1: put on your timeline in your comments section. If you

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Speaker 1: had never read that, do you know you would have

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Speaker 1: went right on about your married day? Do you know

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Speaker 1: that that blessing you posted would have still been your blessing?

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Speaker 1: Do you know the intent that you posted it with

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Speaker 1: all good will to share something with somebody, to put

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Speaker 1: a positive spin on their day. It would have still

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Speaker 1: been there. But oh no, no, no no, you allowed

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Speaker 1: somebody to matter who don't even matter. Stop telling everybody

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Speaker 1: everything because everybody don't care. Get that through your head.

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Speaker 1: I don't care how fine you are. Somebody don't like you,

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