Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
Speaker 1: She couldn't She cleaned and cared for her children and
Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't
Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.
Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 2: Sit, we're good Mom's bad choices.
Speaker 3: Who single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all
Speaker 3: their bad choices.
Speaker 2: And sound out they were so bad.
Speaker 3: After all, we're expert overshares and your new besties. Sit
Speaker 3: back and enjoy the ride. I can do it. Welcome
Speaker 3: back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Mila.
Speaker 3: Happy hump Day, bitches, Happy motherfucking hump Day. It is
Speaker 3: our last episode of the year. We made it, Nigga,
Speaker 3: We made it, Nigga, we made it.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's the beat, but in my
Speaker 2: head it sounds so in the spirit of twenty twenty
Speaker 2: five being over. I don't know if you're watching our
Speaker 2: YouTube right now, but if you're not, I just want
Speaker 2: to encourage you to go check out are You Tube
Speaker 2: because we're wearing special outfits for today. Now. I this
Speaker 2: was spirit led, this was you for My outfit was
Speaker 2: spirit guided.
Speaker 3: I just let the universe you needed to do today.
Speaker 2: I just came. I brought I thought that I brought
Speaker 2: my sparkly pants, like I.
Speaker 3: Thankt her this morning. It's the New Year's episode. Should
Speaker 3: we were Sparkles. She was like, I guess it's gonna
Speaker 3: be a little bit early. I was like, well, at
Speaker 3: least speaking dress festive. She's like, I was like, we
Speaker 3: don't have to. She's like, well, you're not going to
Speaker 3: just were Sparkles without me.
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, she can, Yeah exactly.
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, and so I wore this show.
Speaker 2: Show you off a baby, get up, come on, show
Speaker 2: showed off, showed off, yes, yes, uh showed the front
Speaker 2: this lick, get this lip yep. Yes, it's Sparkles, it's glitters.
Speaker 2: It's giving disco, Barbie, Barbie and Abisa.
Speaker 3: Why I own this? Who knows? But the point is
Speaker 3: I pulled this baby.
Speaker 2: We need we need a shoe cam. Shoe cam. Yeah.
Speaker 2: This is for our foot fetish lovers. Where I'm joining
Speaker 2: only feet in twenty twenty six, is there all a
Speaker 2: public service announcement? I'm joining only feet?
Speaker 3: Is there an only feet?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: And I'm joining me too.
Speaker 2: The people have spoken. I did a poll on Instagram
Speaker 2: and ninety eight percent whatever two percent said no, fuck y'all,
Speaker 2: but ninety eight percent said yes, and there were like
Speaker 2: thirty people that voted, including my mother. My mother has
Speaker 2: approved my foot journey, and so because she has approved,
Speaker 2: I can move forward now without shame. Rancelova, thank you
Speaker 2: for your support and my only foot page. You're crazy
Speaker 2: hit the Lincoln.
Speaker 3: His description.
Speaker 2: Anyway, I forgot my pants on the bed, including I
Speaker 2: had sparkly earrings as well. I was like, I had
Speaker 2: my like basic shirt and I had like my sparkly pants. Anyway,
Speaker 2: I get here and I have nothing, no earring, no
Speaker 2: fucking sparkly pant, just yellow polka dot parachute.
Speaker 3: Pants and I'm wearing this.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I was like, I thought I looked in
Speaker 2: the closets. I say, I feel like there's a piece
Speaker 2: of fabric here. There's gotta be fabric. I don't know why.
Speaker 2: I knew that there was.
Speaker 3: Because I bought that, but I thought that it was left.
Speaker 2: I don't know why. I feel like there's sparkling. And
Speaker 2: then she gets here and I'm like, is there fabric here?
Speaker 2: And she's like, actually, she pulls this black, long piece
Speaker 2: of fabric and I decided to wrap it around my body.
Speaker 2: Let me give let me give you a little at OTD.
Speaker 2: This is custom custom gtur Okay.
Speaker 3: She's wrapped it around several times to create layers and
Speaker 3: body Yadayadi layers and texture split that custom created.
Speaker 2: A layers dresses cotour bi Erica. You know, I'm just
Speaker 2: here to prove that you can do anything. You can
Speaker 2: do anything at any point in your life. Just start.
Speaker 2: You can. But when I put it on, I looked
Speaker 2: in the mirror. The first thing I thought was, Oh,
Speaker 2: this is perfect because this is the funeral for twenty
Speaker 2: twenty five. This is like the funeral and you're like
Speaker 2: ushering us into twenty twenty six in Sparkle fashion.
Speaker 3: You're the twenty twenty five and I'm twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2: Yes we are. This is the birth. This is the
Speaker 2: birth and the death life cycles. Yes, you can't have
Speaker 2: the dock without the light, the light without the dock.
Speaker 3: So yeah, if you're wondering if buy our outfits are
Speaker 3: totally matching, that's why, because we're representing two sides of
Speaker 3: the coin. Yes, we're having a funeral for twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2: I think that a lot of people can attest that
Speaker 2: this year has been a bit challenging in different ways.
Speaker 2: If it hasn't, thank thank God for you. But for me,
Speaker 2: it's been a bit. I feel like I've been walking
Speaker 2: through a lot of I feel like I'm on the edge,
Speaker 2: Like I've been walking up this mountain and I'm like
Speaker 2: scared to like jump on to the other side, and
Speaker 2: so instead I'm just like wallowing in the lack of surrender.
Speaker 2: And so I'm I'm ready. This is my funeral to
Speaker 2: resisting surrender. So it feels good because your feels to
Speaker 2: resisting surrender.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I guess twenty twenty five it went by.
Speaker 3: I think we say this every year, but all the
Speaker 3: years go by fast. I was just twenty twenty four
Speaker 3: and now it's twenty twenty six and I'm just somewhere
Speaker 3: trying to catch up again. But I feel like it
Speaker 3: was a pretty outside of the obvious America dying quickly
Speaker 3: not slowly. It's been decent, but I guess it's pretty
Speaker 3: hard to have a decent year when everything around you
Speaker 3: is burning like humanity. And I think I think it
Speaker 3: my year has been I have so many things to
Speaker 3: be grateful for. And I think this year showed me
Speaker 3: how important it is to observe and protect what like
Speaker 3: your piece overall and how you allow it to impact you.
Speaker 3: So like I realized this year how much social media
Speaker 3: impacts me, Like I noticed the shifts in like my
Speaker 3: happiness even like when I am looking at that more
Speaker 3: and more and more, so like you could be living
Speaker 3: like the best life ever, but then you can feel
Speaker 3: like in fear things you don't even know where it
Speaker 3: comes from.
Speaker 2: So some of the fear that I feel like I'm
Speaker 2: ready to let go as the fear that's not even
Speaker 2: my own, because there's a lot of fear that's not
Speaker 2: even my own that's being like projected onto me and
Speaker 2: then I'm applying it to my life when I didn't.
Speaker 2: That wasn't even like crystallized in my body or by me.
Speaker 2: It was by something else or something I observed.
Speaker 3: I mean definitely, when I think about there is times
Speaker 3: in this year, like things that happen politically or you know,
Speaker 3: like on a world scale, and I was like, are
Speaker 3: we gonna make it like the beginning last year, I
Speaker 3: was like, we have to leave the country next week,
Speaker 3: or we're gonna all die and I was serious, and
Speaker 3: the fear was literally living in my body. And then
Speaker 3: like every month, I'm like, oh, we're not dead yet.
Speaker 3: We're not dead yet. And now we're here, We're not
Speaker 3: dead yet. It's still miserable and crazy, but it is.
Speaker 3: There is a level of fear and sadness. I realized
Speaker 3: there's like a lot of sadness on the Internet, and
Speaker 3: although some of it's informative, it's also like you really
Speaker 3: have to pick and choose, and I think it's difficult
Speaker 3: to do that, to filter it out because it's like
Speaker 3: there's this weird like balance between I'm grateful I have
Speaker 3: this thing and this thing and I have a roof
Speaker 3: over my head and fit on the table, And then
Speaker 3: it's like, well, how can I exist here when people
Speaker 3: are literally being starved to death and being bombed and
Speaker 3: dying for absolutely no reason, Like you feel like you're
Speaker 3: supposed to do something but you don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: But then you're like living in your regular life day
Speaker 3: to day and crying about shit that doesn't matter and
Speaker 3: meaning people can't even eat, so it's like you're constantly
Speaker 3: in a state of like confusion.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then also as you're saying this, I'm thinking
Speaker 2: about like how those particular situations then also make you
Speaker 2: question your relationships with people. And so that's a whole
Speaker 2: other layer that's happening in the background of your psyche
Speaker 2: of like that feeling unsafe as well, like feeling like
Speaker 2: can I trust you? Like do I fuck with you?
Speaker 2: Like if something went down to so now you're looking
Speaker 2: at Jackie different when Jackie was just your homegirl last
Speaker 2: year and y'all were picnicking with kids, you know.
Speaker 3: So it's like, because there's a level of surfaceness that
Speaker 3: I feel like Americans have had, like the privilege of bypassing.
Speaker 3: Like there's a level of depth that Americans have had
Speaker 3: the level of bypassing because we pretend to be in
Speaker 3: this little bubble and like don't acknowledge the fucked up
Speaker 3: shit that America does. And so when it comes to
Speaker 3: the forefront and people are not on the same page
Speaker 3: as you, you're like, oh, you don't care about people, Wow,
Speaker 3: I don't care about like humanity. If they don't, they're not, like,
Speaker 3: look like you don't share the same religious beliefs as you.
Speaker 3: That's interesting, And then it makes you like shift, like
Speaker 3: did I ever know you? Who the fuck are you?
Speaker 3: Why are we friends? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 2: So anyway, I've just yeah that that piece I'm really
Speaker 2: I want to let go in twenty twenty six because
Speaker 2: that's going to continue just by design. That's an agenda
Speaker 2: they're pushing anyway, but I don't have to participate in it.
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I realized too, is that it's an
Speaker 3: agenda like the shifting of feelings. And you know, recently,
Speaker 3: I guess, I don't know, we talked about this. Uh
Speaker 3: what's the fucking fuck fuck uh Tesla guy Uh yeah,
Speaker 3: Elon Musk he mistake like he added locations to Twitter.
Speaker 2: I saw that like a fucking fuck tart.
Speaker 3: And then like come to find out all of these
Speaker 3: like like all these MAGA accounts were like in somewhere
Speaker 3: in like Russia or like all it was like basically
Speaker 3: robot accounts. And it goes to show how intentional the
Speaker 3: manipulation of our feelings is. And I was also seeing
Speaker 3: something and that we're saying like like obviously like love
Speaker 3: is the highest frequency, but like the lowest frequency is
Speaker 3: like sadness and anger, And if they can manipulate masses
Speaker 3: through this fucking tiny box to be angry, to be sad.
Speaker 3: Then they have they have full total control without having to,
Speaker 3: Like they already controlled food, They're already controlling our minds,
Speaker 3: so like then they can just control the narrative. And
Speaker 3: it made me think about Bali when we were in
Speaker 3: the pool we ran in. We were in Bali, a
Speaker 3: thousand million miles from America, and you know, we're having
Speaker 3: a good time, and this fucking woman is there wearing
Speaker 3: a fucking Maga hat and I was like, immediately I
Speaker 3: saw the red hat and I was like, this can't
Speaker 3: possibly be what I think it is. In Bali and
Speaker 3: this fucking ugly hideous had came.
Speaker 2: To fuck with us, had way over she came to
Speaker 2: fuck with us because I had seen her earlier and
Speaker 2: I stared her the fun.
Speaker 3: Had way too much face lifts. It just wasn't looking good.
Speaker 2: She came to swim right in front of us, just
Speaker 2: flowed around.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're a group of fourteen black women, so why
Speaker 3: the fuck would you swim your white ass in that
Speaker 3: fucking red hat over here? And it immediately, like it
Speaker 3: really pissed me off. And as much as I was
Speaker 3: trying to ignore it, I started to recognize, like how
Speaker 3: much power that hat had over me, because me and Erica.
Speaker 2: Definitely questioned her, interrogated her, and then I might.
Speaker 3: Have splashed a few splashes she did, pretending like I
Speaker 3: was stretching. Oh oops.
Speaker 2: I interrogated her first with a shout out to Nicole
Speaker 2: from the retree for saving she made me. She was like,
Speaker 2: let's go have a great day, ma'am. She like cut
Speaker 2: the conversation because she could see where I was going
Speaker 2: with it, I.
Speaker 3: Mean, and Eric trying to get in a fight.
Speaker 2: And so then I told me. I was like, I
Speaker 2: went over there, and she's like you, what did you say?
Speaker 2: And I was like, Nicole made me cut, like made
Speaker 2: me feel like I needed to like leave. She's like,
Speaker 2: fuck that, let's go back. We swim back over to
Speaker 2: the bar.
Speaker 3: Children.
Speaker 2: The thought of it is, actually.
Speaker 3: We're leading a retreat. We said, we're at a pool,
Speaker 3: We're at a pool lounge party. Let's go, let's go
Speaker 3: pick a bone with this bitch that we don't know.
Speaker 3: So we swam back over like fucking black mermaids. But
Speaker 3: didn't she tell you that she was like married to
Speaker 3: an American or.
Speaker 2: She said she's married to an American and she just
Speaker 2: she's about common sense. She believes in common.
Speaker 3: Sense, That's what she said. And then I said, let's
Speaker 3: swim back over there. I said, common sense, huh, she believes.
Speaker 3: Let's as like we I initiated, let's go back. Let's
Speaker 3: I think I need to go back over there. And
Speaker 3: then I just decided to just be like, I'm so
Speaker 3: happy we're black and we never have to get like
Speaker 3: have to have the embarrassment of having a terrible facelift
Speaker 3: and just like hiding from the sun and looking hideous.
Speaker 3: I'm so croud to be black and beautiful and young
Speaker 3: and wow, God, that's and you know what I just
Speaker 3: I at that very moment, I decided that I was
Speaker 3: going to be a Karen and I was just going
Speaker 3: to say everything I wanted to say without looking at her,
Speaker 3: and then she could just hear me. And I was like,
Speaker 3: I'm so sick of ignorant, ugly hate to be themselves,
Speaker 3: white people spreading hate and Melissa, I was just going
Speaker 3: on and she was right there.
Speaker 2: She know she heard you. She eventually left.
Speaker 3: She kept looking at me, and then I said, you.
Speaker 2: Guys actually talk. No, Yeah, she eventually just left.
Speaker 3: Good. I kept going I know she did slashed. She
Speaker 3: came for her that her alcohol choices. I think she
Speaker 3: was like drinking bottom chelf. I was like, I'm so
Speaker 3: happy we won't have to be kind of four top
Speaker 3: shelf liquor. That's disgusting, especially at that big age.
Speaker 2: I was just maybe I was drunk, you were drunk.
Speaker 2: We were all drunk. We had had lots of shots
Speaker 2: at that point.
Speaker 3: And I was like stretching and like splashing, and then
Speaker 3: she finally left. But then I realized, Wow, she really
Speaker 3: made me angry. And I don't even know this bitch,
Speaker 3: and I probably didn't have to go that far. And
Speaker 3: but it's just again back to the point here, other
Speaker 3: than us harassing this woman in the maga hat in
Speaker 3: motherfucking Bali, because why are you wearing it? You know
Speaker 3: what it means? Well, she knew it.
Speaker 2: It's not American at all.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, why are you even wearing it? But I
Speaker 3: realize how much power we give like others, especially black people,
Speaker 3: Like I could go down the black people loophole. All
Speaker 3: my my feed is about black power and also black history,
Speaker 3: which obviously in America is sad and makes me angry.
Speaker 3: But then it's like, what are you consuming? Because there's
Speaker 3: a lot of black joy too, there's a lot of
Speaker 3: black love. There's a lot of beautiful things, and it's
Speaker 3: like if you go down the route of sadness, you
Speaker 3: will find yourself there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, it's true, It's very true. I even I
Speaker 2: have this app on my phone. It's called be Present
Speaker 2: And this is not an ad. I'm paying for this app,
Speaker 2: and it literally I know you can kind of get
Speaker 2: on Locke. I think is it unlocked. It'll kick you
Speaker 2: out maybe with your phone, and there's settings on your
Speaker 2: phone to like guard your intake of how much time
Speaker 2: you're on social media. This app makes it really.
Speaker 3: Hard, like really hard to get back in, to get
Speaker 3: back in, like.
Speaker 2: You really got to try, you'll and it'll like, like
Speaker 2: my social media this this is actually annoying and actually
Speaker 2: need to change it right but right now it only
Speaker 2: allows me to be on Instagram five minutes at a time,
Speaker 2: and so sometimes when I'm making a real I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 2: but it shows me how I have it ready to go. No,
Speaker 2: but but I I really do, I will. I really
Speaker 2: I think that we have to kind of be a
Speaker 2: bit vigilant in that way. I don't think there's really
Speaker 2: a way at this point that you can really totally
Speaker 2: protect yourself on social media and what you intake, because
Speaker 2: like even with Instagram, like they are half of my feed,
Speaker 2: isn't even my feed. I have to select my feed,
Speaker 2: like I have to say, like only show me my following,
Speaker 2: my followers.
Speaker 3: Oh, is that they're a setting for that is sometime
Speaker 3: who the fuck are these people?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Sing for that and I realized I'm nosy, So so
Speaker 3: I start the I start the first ten seconds, but you.
Speaker 2: Have to go every time you open the app, you
Speaker 2: have to select that. Oh it's not like a setting.
Speaker 2: You can just at least not to But that's also
Speaker 2: intentional exactly because we have Instagram's the Devil also which
Speaker 2: like I mean not also like for sure yeah the
Speaker 2: Devil Instagram Yeah meta essentially meta.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So anyway, that that I'm going to keep and this
Speaker 2: energy in twenty twenty six because it's actually been helping,
Speaker 2: and because I don't really feel like you can really
Speaker 2: safeguard the Internet, like if I'm committed to like not,
Speaker 2: I know that I'm I'm too sensitive. I can't look
Speaker 2: at I cannot scroll, nor do I want to numb
Speaker 2: myself to be able to scroll between a dying child
Speaker 2: in Gaza and a fucking like Chris Corsini's sending the
Speaker 2: showing sharing my scorpio horoscope for the months.
Speaker 3: That's also probably a big, a big like agenda is that,
Speaker 3: of course, it's the numbing of absolutely we've been We've
Speaker 3: been being numbed for years at this point. But I'm
Speaker 3: I'm I'm just like really, I'm opting out. I don't
Speaker 3: want to be part of it anymore. So I realized
Speaker 3: how much it can I could just like go, go go,
Speaker 3: and then suddenly I'm like, bit, what the fuck have
Speaker 3: we even done doing?
Speaker 2: Even holding your breath for five minutes not even realizing
Speaker 2: it doesn't Yeah, why am I anxious?
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's also a funeral to that as well.
Speaker 3: So we're releasing instagram Ish in twenty twenty six. Maybe
Speaker 3: we should do a toast. Okay, yes, it's only eleven am,
Speaker 3: but they didn't have sparkling apple ciders, so here we
Speaker 3: are should be open one at a time. Maybe drink
Speaker 3: open that one. Okaykay?
Speaker 2: What are you guys releasing in twenty twenty six, So
Speaker 2: let us know in the comments if you're on our
Speaker 2: YouTube channel or if you're in our discord, let's talk
Speaker 2: about it because I want to know, because I need inspirations.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you need to hear other people's releases. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's and that too. Let me add that one and
Speaker 2: m because yeah, it feels like what twenty twenty five
Speaker 2: is also revealed to me and probably my age too,
Speaker 2: as I'm getting older and my daughter's getting older. Is
Speaker 2: just like like we're in the middle of part of
Speaker 2: our life. If we're lucky, like God forbid anything happened
Speaker 2: to us. We're in the middle part of our life.
Speaker 2: But like we're starting to see how precious life is
Speaker 2: and how quick it goes, and like I want to
Speaker 2: fucking I want to like make sure that I'm doing
Speaker 2: all the shit that I want to do with the
Speaker 2: things that I've acquired. Like we've worked really hard to
Speaker 2: be able to like live a life of live a life,
Speaker 2: sharing our stories, living a live a life storytelling, live
Speaker 2: a life where we can be virtual in some capacity
Speaker 2: if we want to. You know, we have the option.
Speaker 2: We have we have flexibility, Like we get to try,
Speaker 2: like am I fully capitalizing on all the manifestations that
Speaker 2: I asked for? Like am I am I enjoying the
Speaker 2: fruits of them, or am I just like continuously trying
Speaker 2: to create more of the fruits. And I do think
Speaker 2: that I enjoy them, but I want to go even harder.
Speaker 3: No, I realize that I don't know if it's human
Speaker 3: nature or capitalism, but there's a level of like more
Speaker 3: and more and more and more, more and more anxiousness
Speaker 3: and like, uh, just consumerism more like buy more, spend more.
Speaker 3: And you know, you always read those like memes or whatever,
Speaker 3: like people in their old age when they ask them
Speaker 3: like if you could tell your younger self anything, what
Speaker 3: would it be?
Speaker 2: Everything?
Speaker 3: And everyone's like, don't worry so much.
Speaker 2: Don't worry every.
Speaker 3: Single once, Like, don't worry so much. Do the things
Speaker 3: that make you scared live more. And my biggest fear
Speaker 3: and I realized, like I don't ever want to like
Speaker 3: be sitting at death's fucking doorstep and be like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, Like even the things that I did that
Speaker 3: I enjoyed, I wasn't fully in them because I was
Speaker 3: worried about something else, you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 3: what if like you have this a beautiful life and
Speaker 3: you've had like we've we've just created a bunch of
Speaker 3: shit and then a bunch of shit that we've like
Speaker 3: really fought for and we do we live a life
Speaker 3: of like leisure. We get to decorate our woman cave
Speaker 3: and like come into our office and be late or whatever.
Speaker 3: Like there's no clocking in, which essentially is the worst
Speaker 3: I mean, not the worst, but like it's it's not flexible,
Speaker 3: and like are we really great? Like are we really
Speaker 3: in the presence of the life that we've created for ourselves,
Speaker 3: you know? And I'm like, of course, We'm not like
Speaker 3: Paris Hilton Rich.
Speaker 2: I Yeah, twenty twenty three really showed me how bad
Speaker 2: of a job I was doing with that. Twenty four sorry,
Speaker 2: it really showed me how a bad of a job
Speaker 2: I was doing with that and twenty twenty three. Honestly,
Speaker 2: this year I have felt more present, but I have
Speaker 2: that it's the enjoyment of the things that I've created
Speaker 2: that I've like I didn't fully I think expand in
Speaker 2: because there's a lot of fear too, like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: do I am I gonna like this like scarcity mentality
Speaker 2: I felt creeping back into me that I've had to
Speaker 2: release because I know that I'm abundant. I know that
Speaker 2: like every time I'm at my last, like I'm always
Speaker 2: provided for And also I have a lot of fucking
Speaker 2: skills and I can really do and.
Speaker 3: Create anything I want.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that too, Like I really had to sit
Speaker 2: with myself recently and be like, bitch, you can do
Speaker 2: did did? Did? And like have you fully? Like like
Speaker 2: you haven't flexed all these muscles a because you've been
Speaker 2: doing like this over here, But if you need to,
Speaker 2: you can and you can do it well. So I
Speaker 2: think a lot of times too, like we forget we
Speaker 2: have these these other skill sets. We forget how to
Speaker 2: like bring them all together again as well, Like like
Speaker 2: maybe you're a painter, maybe you're a creative, but like
Speaker 2: now you're you've been in a corporate job for a
Speaker 2: long time, so you feel like that part of you
Speaker 2: has to die, but you're kind of dying in corporate
Speaker 2: Like how do we braid all these things together? And
Speaker 2: like remind you of that bitch that you were over
Speaker 2: here can still exist in this space and like living
Speaker 2: a life and building a life of real alignment and
Speaker 2: like we've done that, We have done that.
Speaker 3: I mean, how are we perfect in it? Absolutely not?
Speaker 2: Like no, but like I know that that is something
Speaker 2: that that we're masters at and I and then I'm
Speaker 2: a master in too, and that's something that I'm bringing
Speaker 2: with me in twenty twenty six. Like I'm I've been
Speaker 2: working on this program, the Sacred CEO program that I've
Speaker 2: been just like scared to do, scared to do it alone,
Speaker 2: scared to talk about it out loud, just like kind
Speaker 2: of ide eating in my like cave of like what
Speaker 2: are what are all the things I can do? And
Speaker 2: it's like twenty twenty six, like I'm not like scared
Speaker 2: anymore around like what I'm capable of and also but
Speaker 2: also knowing that the reason I've had the luxury of
Speaker 2: being more present this year is because I've had I
Speaker 2: don't want to say I've had less things to do
Speaker 2: because for granted we've had six retreats this year, but
Speaker 2: like we've had a chiller year, like we would have
Speaker 2: had like four retreats a tour, like you know, like
Speaker 2: a thousand things to do. And so like I just
Speaker 2: want to go into twenty twenty six with like being
Speaker 2: able to be even more abundant, but doing like less,
Speaker 2: doing less, and just like being really intentional about like
Speaker 2: what it is that we do together so that we're
Speaker 2: not like running thin and like overwhelmed and it's putting
Speaker 2: stress on our relationship and our business and our entity.
Speaker 2: And then like same with me, Like same here and
Speaker 2: like having the space to spend with my family and friends,
Speaker 2: like having the desire, having the energy to do it.
Speaker 3: The energy because I feel like I'm always tired. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so was I.
Speaker 2: I said something the other day to you in the
Speaker 2: park about energy and I like wanted to remember what
Speaker 2: it was, energy scarcity. Like they're like I was talking
Speaker 2: about how like not feeling like I have enough for everyone,
Speaker 2: not feeling like I have enough for everything to do,
Speaker 2: and like just like of like of so avoiding being
Speaker 2: you know, being avoidant, being like more reserved and like
Speaker 2: trying to like be like how do how do I
Speaker 2: maintain like being present for my daughter? I' felt like
Speaker 2: been with her more than ever over the last year,
Speaker 2: and like how do I maintain being like present in
Speaker 2: my relationship? Like I'm also like there's a strain on
Speaker 2: family right now, so like how do I be present
Speaker 2: here and show up for them? And then like my friends,
Speaker 2: like I feel like my like hang out with my
Speaker 2: friends is taking like more of a back seat because
Speaker 2: I'm like I don't have a lot of energy for
Speaker 2: that right now, but I know that like I need that.
Speaker 2: I know I need that energy, and so like I'm
Speaker 2: removing this idea of like scarcity.
Speaker 3: Energy and that I have a lot of energy and
Speaker 3: that I just have to.
Speaker 2: Like find different ways to distribute them in better ways
Speaker 2: that don't feel exhausting for me.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, And just like prioritizing where your time goes
Speaker 3: and with who and like not on the phone or
Speaker 3: not worrying because I think I realized too, like the
Speaker 3: worry is such an energy drainer and sometimes you spend
Speaker 3: so much time worrying. Is that like it's it's literally
Speaker 3: taking up capacity in your brain and in your in
Speaker 3: your your frequency. Like when you could be like with
Speaker 3: your family, or you could be enjoying like the house
Speaker 3: that you've created or the love that you've created, and
Speaker 3: instead we're like in fear of something and that is
Speaker 3: consuming so much of our brain space and of our Like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I do feel like I've been like more present this year,
Speaker 3: like trying to take it, you know, be like really present.
Speaker 3: We have had six retreats this year, and I realized,
Speaker 3: like we've literally gone out of the country at least
Speaker 3: every other month in the entire year, and it's like
Speaker 3: it's beautiful and it's also draining, and it's like not
Speaker 3: I obviously I think we wish to be able to
Speaker 3: travel all the time and leisure and make money and
Speaker 3: do these things, but it's also like when you pack
Speaker 3: your stuff and then unpack and then get there and
Speaker 3: then your jet lag, and then you get back and
Speaker 3: then you have things that jump into and then there's
Speaker 3: the next project, and it's like it can be consuming
Speaker 3: and like finding the balance in it all, and I know,
Speaker 3: like there's just so much as you get older, there's
Speaker 3: so much to like not sort through, but like recognize
Speaker 3: it through and then execute and body execute because it's
Speaker 3: like I can have the concept here, I can understand it,
Speaker 3: I can say it. I can see that I'm consuming
Speaker 3: so much time on social media.
Speaker 2: But then there's a.
Speaker 3: Next step of actually executing, putting the phone down, putting
Speaker 3: the app on the phone that says get the fuck
Speaker 3: off the phone, actively choosing joy instead of worry instead
Speaker 3: of anger, and then like you know, like there's steps
Speaker 3: and it doesn't happen overnight, and I know we've been
Speaker 3: talking about you know, being present and all these resting
Speaker 3: being present, doing live we historically do too much, period
Speaker 3: and like just coming off that ledge and like also
Speaker 3: not comparing, Oh, this person over here is doing this,
Speaker 3: this podcast is doing that. Wherever we invited to this,
Speaker 3: you know, like just like everything is fucking fine. You
Speaker 3: don't have to be invited to every fucking shindig. You
Speaker 3: don't have to do it, you know, like you know,
Speaker 3: but like there is there's a level of like, like
Speaker 3: you said, we've been provided for. I have to think
Speaker 3: about that in every aspect of my life. Is like
Speaker 3: I have manifested so many beautiful things. There's no way
Speaker 3: God has brought me this far to be like haha
Speaker 3: filled you bitch. You know, like there's no way I
Speaker 3: got this far. Like sometimes in like the last couple
Speaker 3: of years, and I was worried about money, or worried
Speaker 3: about finances, worried about whatever the fuck. I'm just like
Speaker 3: there were so many things I was worried about that
Speaker 3: now had been taken care of. I can't imagine that
Speaker 3: God would suddenly rip those things from underneath me. Like
Speaker 3: if I can create this, I can create this, I
Speaker 3: can create my reality and so I just have to
Speaker 3: stay in that, you know, just like everything is going
Speaker 3: to be okay, and any challenge that comes at me,
Speaker 3: I can. I have all the tools I need to
Speaker 3: face them. Yeah. So it's just I totally resonate with that,
Speaker 3: and going into twenty twenty six, I just hope that
Speaker 3: we can continue on that route of being present and
Speaker 3: you know, expecting more and while also having rest and
Speaker 3: feeling like we have enough energy to pour into all
Speaker 3: the things that we love and the people that we love,
Speaker 3: because like that's really what I don't want to look
Speaker 3: back at my life and be like, damn, like but
Speaker 3: I really like I fell in love, and I had
Speaker 3: this beautiful relationship, and I had this beautiful kid and
Speaker 3: this like every stage has been beautiful, but like, was
Speaker 3: I really there? So really an appreciation of it because
Speaker 3: some people don't experience the lives that we're getting to experience.
Speaker 3: So like, as I'm in it, I really want to
Speaker 3: like milk every drop. So let's do a toast Jeers
Speaker 3: twenty twenty six and making it the best year yet.
Speaker 2: Yes to being present and confidence in the stillness and
Speaker 2: the slowness even, confidence in the slowness even and.
Speaker 3: Confident in just our offerings to the.
Speaker 2: World and letting go of things we can't change, or yeah, surrendering.
Speaker 3: And being intentional. Amen, love you, love you. Woh next
Speaker 3: Life Prosecco twelve in the afternoon. Yum yum, yum yum.
Speaker 3: It's actually pretty delicious. Let's just take a breath real quick, guys.
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna hit my little singing bowl here for you.
Speaker 4: Hm, I just take a deep breath in through your nose.
Speaker 3: Oh, by the way, yesterday I think I saw alien life.
Speaker 3: What are you talking about? Yeah, aliens in this guy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so Irie.
Speaker 2: Is on she's playing club volleyball, which, by the way,
Speaker 2: I don't if there's any like club parents, listen, But
Speaker 2: why didn't y'all tell me this shit is intense? Club
Speaker 2: is not, And I shouldn't. You didn't even need to
Speaker 2: tell me because I played club, But I was. I
Speaker 2: forgot because I was the kid. I was just doing stuff.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize how much time my mom spent doing
Speaker 2: stuff like driving to tournaments, like spending money on the weekend,
Speaker 2: going to a tournament to go like watch me fucking
Speaker 2: lose and shit like and then telling you you're still
Speaker 2: good me crying because I for sure cried I was
Speaker 2: a really bad loser.
Speaker 3: Just annoying.
Speaker 2: Like Wow, anyway, I'm really excited about this chapter of
Speaker 2: my life. But I was on a club volleyball team
Speaker 2: and sometimes they practice in Malibu, which is like a blessing. Actually,
Speaker 2: Like when they told me that, I was like, Oh,
Speaker 2: that's kind of annoying, but it's not far from me.
Speaker 2: I was like, actually, I'm to be great because I
Speaker 2: don't have to go all the time, and like sometimes
Speaker 2: I can just pop over the beach, which is like
Speaker 2: I need to spend more time over there. Anyway, So
Speaker 2: last night I dropped her off and then and she
Speaker 2: kim went to this beach like I have to take
Speaker 2: it to this speach.
Speaker 3: It's called Point Doom. Is a Point Doom?
Speaker 2: Yes, Point Doom, And you like it's kind of like
Speaker 2: the beach we like to go to, you know, where
Speaker 2: you like drive through the neighborhood and then you like
Speaker 2: it's like farther down the same kind of scenario, but
Speaker 2: the water like the tide. I went for my birthday.
Speaker 2: That's where I went for my birthday, and the tide
Speaker 2: was really high, so like I was like basically sitting
Speaker 2: on the rocks a little bit of sand. This time
Speaker 2: at night, because it was around like seven o'clock. The
Speaker 2: tide was so pulled back, like it was like you
Speaker 2: don't remember, you know in Costa Rica how you can
Speaker 2: like kind of walk really far out like when we're
Speaker 2: on the Pacific side to surf, Like how much?
Speaker 3: How far back? Yeah? Like it was like that. I
Speaker 3: was like, what the fuck?
Speaker 2: And it was so it was pitch black that I
Speaker 2: could even see the moon. It was just like stars.
Speaker 2: I just love the beach at night. I feel like
Speaker 2: people need to you need to go the beach more
Speaker 2: time there. It's like portal shit going on over there.
Speaker 3: Have you been to dark Wiler where could take the fire?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I have, but I think it was even like
Speaker 2: eerier because there was no light. It was pitch black.
Speaker 2: And so anyway, I'm looking up at the stars and
Speaker 2: I'm looking at one and then I'm like is that
Speaker 2: a star? And it kind of starts moving and then
Speaker 2: it starts really starts moving, but it's like traveling kind
Speaker 2: of like like erratically. It's not like like a plane. Okay,
Speaker 2: it's I was like, what the fuck do you see that?
Speaker 2: He's like, I do see that and then all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, it like glides behind a cloud and the
Speaker 2: I and like it was.
Speaker 3: Gone, heard you bitch?
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck? Then I saw another one.
Speaker 2: I'm now, I'm now, I'm fully convinced that like ninety
Speaker 2: percent of the stars are not really.
Speaker 3: Stars or just well some of you are satellites. You
Speaker 3: can tell which ones are satellite. So because I look generous, no,
Speaker 3: I know those ones are usually kind of bright. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: like this was I.
Speaker 2: Don't know, this was alien light, like not three autlists
Speaker 2: has stopped, but yeah, what is the update on three outlets?
Speaker 2: Like what's gonna happen in twenty twenty six or three outlets?
Speaker 3: I think with the same with three at three outlysts
Speaker 3: is that it was coming straight towards Earth and now
Speaker 3: it's stopped, like directly in front of it or something
Speaker 3: like that. It's like we're keeping up. Oh, whatever happened
Speaker 3: to that alien blob that was in the container? He
Speaker 3: released it yet well.
Speaker 2: He was setting pieces of it.
Speaker 3: In the mail. Yeah, he released it into like in
Speaker 3: the Panamanian Creek or something. Was that fake? God? The
Speaker 3: Internet is so annoying with its fake news and its
Speaker 3: AI and like, why do we even have to figure
Speaker 3: this shit out? Why can't people just tell the truth,
Speaker 3: Like regular fucking humans? Are you looking at three outlants?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it says in twenty twenty six, the interstellar comet
Speaker 2: three I or three one at LISS will remain obs
Speaker 2: observable with small telescopes as it moves away from Earth
Speaker 2: and towards Jupiter.
Speaker 3: You're lying, it was just right next to Earth. The object,
Speaker 3: a rare visitor from outside of our solar system, will
Speaker 3: continue to be visible in spring twenty twenty six. How
Speaker 3: do you know?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 2: You don't know where it's How fuck do you? Why
Speaker 2: am I even looking at this?
Speaker 3: Lies?
Speaker 2: These lies of fucking googles.
Speaker 3: They've been lying to us.
Speaker 2: They're always lying. You can't trust anything. That's why you
Speaker 2: have to Literally you gotta have intuition. That's the only
Speaker 2: that's what you should be feeding in twenty twenty six,
Speaker 2: Literally water it every day, Do fucking exercise, Do all
Speaker 2: the exercises day.
Speaker 3: They have lied to us about literally every.
Speaker 2: Cause at this point, like there's just no like it's
Speaker 2: it's impossible. You have to listen to your elders and
Speaker 2: you have to use your discernment but.
Speaker 3: Then you see, like I think, as black people, there's
Speaker 3: kind of an element of knowing that they've lied to us,
Speaker 3: and it covered a lot of history and a lot
Speaker 3: of truth because as black people, they've done that to us.
Speaker 3: But the white people, you guys, they're lying to you too.
Speaker 3: Like when I see like stupid ignorant, like maga, like
Speaker 3: white people like the person a Trump is so smart,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, you guys. You guys are dumb.
Speaker 3: Everybody's dumb, honestly, Like I want everybody to know, if
Speaker 3: you listen to our podcast, you're probably not dumb. So
Speaker 3: this is for everybody else that doesn't listen to the podcast.
Speaker 3: I hate to break it to everybody, but like ninety
Speaker 3: eight point nine percent of like the population is dumb.
Speaker 3: It's true. It's it has to be true because like
Speaker 3: there's certain things that you hope as a like as
Speaker 3: human as a collective, that we re for. Like everyone's
Speaker 3: just using their intuition and their common sense, but common
Speaker 3: sense is not so common. So just beware out of there.
Speaker 3: Who you choose to be friends with. You should be
Speaker 3: like a friend like filter yet like a questionnaire, like
Speaker 3: what do you think about this? Maybe next year, I'm
Speaker 3: going to go into my friendships with Like.
Speaker 2: So we're doing for a friend to check in?
Speaker 3: What do you what are your thoughts if Jane goes
Speaker 3: to a different country and brings her Bible and that
Speaker 3: country did not ask for that Bible or her thoughts?
Speaker 3: Should Jane go home or should Jane proceed.
Speaker 6: A?
Speaker 2: Hell?
Speaker 3: Yeah, be hell no, preach Jesus. See, Jane has every
Speaker 3: right to be there. Okay, well you only got a
Speaker 3: thirty percent of the above. We can't be friends. There
Speaker 3: should just be calm. I'm gonna sit out a fucking
Speaker 3: survey if we just like, if I meet you, I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, you're so cool. Can you just fill
Speaker 3: out this survey and then I'll get back to you
Speaker 3: about our friendship, about our lunch date? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Are you where? Are you ready?
Speaker 3: Are you ready to cut off your friends? Cut off friends?
Speaker 3: I cut off friends right in the beginning, and this
Speaker 3: year I remember it just got cut off and I
Speaker 3: looked and I'm not missing a goddamn thing. Because I
Speaker 3: have a lot of friends, too many. Probably I need
Speaker 3: to have more discernment.
Speaker 2: I can use. Yeah you can, Yeah, I think I
Speaker 2: I don't think I know in myself that there's no
Speaker 2: space for like at this point in my life and
Speaker 2: this point in my Yeah, there's no space for people
Speaker 2: that are not moving with the compass of love in
Speaker 2: that way. Like if that's not if it's about just
Speaker 2: yourself and your own interests and not the interest of community. Honestly,
Speaker 2: that's the most important to me, because I think it's
Speaker 2: really easy to be even me, like, it's very easy
Speaker 2: for a human to be indoctrined into just thinking about themselves.
Speaker 2: I think that humans innately are a little bit narcissistic
Speaker 2: in ways, and so it's easy to tap that that
Speaker 2: thing in you. But I think like community from the
Speaker 2: beginning of time we've seen is that's when it was
Speaker 2: going well, and now we've become so individualistic that I
Speaker 2: don't really want to have people around me that are
Speaker 2: just like, well, I really needed my my tap, my business,
Speaker 2: my taxes, and that's not that.
Speaker 3: Has homeless people are.
Speaker 2: That is what has gotten us here. That is why.
Speaker 2: And everyone's like, how.
Speaker 3: Did we get here?
Speaker 2: It's like, because you failed every fucking test, bitch, that's why,
Speaker 2: every single one. So yeah, cheers to people that are
Speaker 2: in alignment with your I don't.
Speaker 3: Want to say beliefs, but yeah, just your core.
Speaker 2: Values like your pillars. Yeah, your mission statement, like the
Speaker 2: energy that you are trying to be in all the
Speaker 2: time too, is important. So yeah, did you make any
Speaker 2: bad choices this week? Bad mom?
Speaker 6: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom so good.
Speaker 3: I mean, this is not naughty at all. This is
Speaker 3: just like, this is mom. Shit. I took my daughter's
Speaker 3: phone away. It's still like, by the way, I still
Speaker 3: have her.
Speaker 2: Phone, and I I don't know, I just like I
Speaker 2: don't need phones. I like, the longer I have it,
Speaker 2: the more I feel like I don't need to give
Speaker 2: it back.
Speaker 3: No, I'm like, you don't even really need it. Why
Speaker 3: would you have a phone? Like I struggle being addicted
Speaker 3: to it, So why the fuck would I give you one?
Speaker 3: I'm just not it doesn't make any sense. I didn't
Speaker 3: get to the phone to begin with. The dad did,
Speaker 3: and like now, I had a conversation with the teacher
Speaker 3: and she was saying there's some things that she isn't
Speaker 3: doing her homework, so it was an excuse to take it.
Speaker 3: But just in general, like, you don't need this. You
Speaker 3: need to be in an extracurricular activity. You need to
Speaker 3: read a fucking book like we're I'm not about to
Speaker 3: just because we're here in this time and everybody has
Speaker 3: a phone. Because I feel that way. I'm I don't
Speaker 3: want her to be traumatized because I took her phone
Speaker 3: and everybody else has it. But it's like you're going
Speaker 3: to thank me later, right, So no phones for kids
Speaker 3: in twenty twenty six. If you had sixteen, you don't
Speaker 3: need a phone. I think I might not give it back.
Speaker 2: I mean it's not her I mean her dad pays
Speaker 2: the bill, so he might be like, where the fuck
Speaker 2: is her phone? But I think I just have to
Speaker 2: have a conversation with him because I just don't think.
Speaker 2: I think okay. So my bad joys of the week
Speaker 2: was assuming that there was like going to be a
Speaker 2: bunch of crazy shit on my daughter's phone and thinking
Speaker 2: the worst and spiraling before I even had the evidence,
Speaker 2: and not to say that that perhaps she deleted some
Speaker 2: shit and I didn't see everything. But I think, like
Speaker 2: I realized how I caught myself sort of, but I
Speaker 2: realized how how I was parented was showing up and
Speaker 2: like a lot of distrust, like off the gate when
Speaker 2: my daughter hasn't shown me that she's distrustful. Ever, really,
Speaker 2: like I really had to think, like has I relied
Speaker 2: to me a lot? Like what about iries.
Speaker 3: Making me feel like I don't believe you? You know?
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh no, this is like this
Speaker 2: And I think that's also that's come up a lot
Speaker 2: over the last few months. Is just like my trust
Speaker 2: issues and how I think they're like, uh, I think
Speaker 2: they're limited to like romantic relationships or something and my father,
Speaker 2: but like and maybe men, but like how it's like
Speaker 2: I kind of across the board. It's like everyone can
Speaker 2: get this energy. And so yeah, I think my bad
Speaker 2: choice of the week was was that was just like
Speaker 2: and she and she called me out on it, and
Speaker 2: so like she was like, you just don't trust me,
Speaker 2: you know, I feel like you don't trust me, And
Speaker 2: I was like.
Speaker 3: Not the amusing word.
Speaker 2: No, it's like this behavior is not showing that I
Speaker 2: could trust you. But also i'm your parents, so I
Speaker 2: need to give me your phone. So like I want
Speaker 2: to like find the balance between those things and like
Speaker 2: really work on just being able to even communicating with
Speaker 2: her better about why I'm where I'm why I'm asking
Speaker 2: for certain things because I think I'm parenting too, like
Speaker 2: and there still is this element that like because I'm
Speaker 2: your parent, that's why that exists. But I think that
Speaker 2: I think some of that comes from our parents and
Speaker 2: their parents not having the language to explain things. And
Speaker 2: I want to get better.
Speaker 3: At the language like for explaining things to her.
Speaker 2: So she is clear about why so that she can be.
Speaker 3: No, it's not like because I'm the parent, I said
Speaker 3: so yeah.
Speaker 2: And then so she knows how to express herself too,
Speaker 2: and so it makes sense her and like I was
Speaker 2: a very like logical person, like if I tell her
Speaker 2: and break things down, like she'll get it. So it's
Speaker 2: me like I need to I need to really be
Speaker 2: able to like have the language.
Speaker 3: For I'm taking your shit because you don't need it
Speaker 3: because it's ridiculous and it's addicting and it's not good
Speaker 3: for your brain development.
Speaker 2: Yes, that and also other like other I'm sure future
Speaker 2: situations that may come up where like I am with
Speaker 2: something like where I'm like I trust you, Iri, and
Speaker 2: I'm like give me all your shit and let me
Speaker 2: look through every single piece of it. I mean, we
Speaker 2: were just but it's really not about trust. It's more
Speaker 2: so about like they're developing and understanding what safety looks
Speaker 2: like and what it means and what's acceptable and what
Speaker 2: isn't and unless I'm like safeguarding that and explaining this
Speaker 2: is not safe, let me tell you why she might
Speaker 2: not know that that's not safe. So to her, she's
Speaker 2: like I thought this was normal. No, girl, this shit
Speaker 2: ain't normal. The Nigon roadblocks asking for your age ASL
Speaker 2: is not normal. That's not what happened that ASL.
Speaker 3: That is so long.
Speaker 2: But like, yeah, bitch, because we were ten on ASL.
Speaker 3: I mean there is so many I know. Lena was
Speaker 3: like we were looking at something and she was like
Speaker 3: talking about, oh, you're watching, Like I don't know something
Speaker 3: about this. She knows everything about the zombiefore Zombie four
Speaker 3: characters like in real life. And she's like, oh, so
Speaker 3: and so was dating so and so in real life.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, how old is he?
Speaker 2: How old is she?
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, that's weird, right, because it was like
Speaker 3: a big age difference. And I was like, yeah, super weird,
Speaker 3: super weird. It's like someone's way older than you. Like
Speaker 3: that's weird.
Speaker 2: This is your opportunity teachable moment.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was like, because like the maturity is not there.
Speaker 3: So if a guy wants to date you and you're
Speaker 3: they're way older, that's super weird. Maybe any all my vocabulary.
Speaker 2: Super se super words.
Speaker 3: I was like really trying to like when she said it,
Speaker 3: I was like, yep, weird. I hope she gets it.
Speaker 3: I hope I'm really emphasizing the weird.
Speaker 2: I think my mom said this was weird.
Speaker 3: Trying to remember why I know what was weird.
Speaker 2: She just kept saying that word. You know, you can't
Speaker 2: get creepy. I was like, I think I said creepy,
Speaker 2: but sometimes that you gotta Yeah, creepy is a strong one.
Speaker 2: Creepy wrong, illegal, illegal, jail, jail time. That's that's what
Speaker 2: the language I'm have to use for Ira. She's so
Speaker 2: scared of the police. Please polease, So if you do that,
Speaker 2: the police will come.
Speaker 3: You lie to me, the police will come.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Luna is very like gotta turn the music up too,
Speaker 3: lout like turn it down. I'm like, why we're in
Speaker 3: the car, Like, I'm your mom, who's gonna get us
Speaker 3: in trouble?
Speaker 2: So weird?
Speaker 3: I'm like, what the hell is your problem? Are you
Speaker 3: fucking afraid of everything? But then I see my own
Speaker 3: like fear in things, and like I've had to tell
Speaker 3: myself a lot of times, like you're not in trouble,
Speaker 3: like no one's coming to get you, because I'm like
Speaker 3: always liken it a little bit. But my mom's like
Speaker 3: that a little bit, like fearful, and I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 3: what is your problem? Like relax? But then I have it.
Speaker 3: It's like innately in me in ways too, and I'm
Speaker 3: just like, I don't I don't want to do things
Speaker 3: and indulge and have fun and then be like like, bitch,
Speaker 3: are you gonna If you're gonna do it, just do it.
Speaker 3: If you're gonna have the fun, just do it, because
Speaker 3: all the way to go all the way. So I'm
Speaker 3: realizing that too, like if you're gonna do it, do
Speaker 3: it with guiltless. Do it guiltless and free. Don't be
Speaker 3: doing it and then feeling like paranoid about it. If
Speaker 3: you're gonna be paranoid about it, just don't fucking do
Speaker 3: it to begin with.
Speaker 2: That makes me think of this reel that I saw,
Speaker 2: this clip that I saw of share and if you
Speaker 2: saw it, but she was it was like not maybe
Speaker 2: she's a little bit younger than she is now seventy,
Speaker 2: Like did you see the new clip of her where
Speaker 2: she's like, what was it for? It was for uh,
Speaker 2: uber eats or something or door dash or something. And
Speaker 2: then like she's like, take me back to nineteen eighty,
Speaker 2: and like she goes back, but she ends up being
Speaker 2: in like eighteen eighty and it's like she's dressed in
Speaker 2: like her leather outfit with her boots like regular share
Speaker 2: but she's like in eighteen eighty.
Speaker 3: And they're like, she's a witch.
Speaker 2: I remember we're talking about like there's the witches of
Speaker 2: Hollywood and like older. So they have her on the
Speaker 2: steak and she's about to get burnt on the steak,
Speaker 2: and anyway you watch it, I think of us saying
Speaker 2: that like some of these like old women that like
Speaker 2: don't age and are super fab are witches that like
Speaker 2: date young men and their I.
Speaker 3: Just watched, uh, what does the movie you watch with
Speaker 3: Goldie Han and Death Becomes which reminds me of old
Speaker 3: ladies who know who don't want to age, and then
Speaker 3: at the end they returned to vampires, but they're hideous.
Speaker 3: Because I was like, wow, this is this is where
Speaker 3: I'm at, like a rebound to age and they could
Speaker 3: go either way, like I could do it with grace
Speaker 3: or I'd just be them and it's not good. But
Speaker 3: but in this so in this clip of Share, she
Speaker 3: was saying someone I think a reporter asked her, like,
Speaker 3: what is your like, what's something that you wish you
Speaker 3: would have done like more of even in your youth
Speaker 3: because she was a little bit older, and she was like,
Speaker 3: and you know, Share is known as an icon for
Speaker 3: being pretty bold, like even in the seventies and sixties,
Speaker 3: she was wearing like these like sexy outfits like her
Speaker 3: her belly show it like she was on her comedy
Speaker 3: show or her whatever that was, the whatever, the Sunny
Speaker 3: and Share show.
Speaker 2: She was taking a lot of risks, especially for a
Speaker 2: woman at that time. And she was like, I wish
Speaker 2: I would have went harder. Really yeah, and the like.
Speaker 2: And they were like, really, that's exactly what they said,
Speaker 2: like really like you were you were you went pretty
Speaker 2: hard Share, And she's like, no, because there are moments
Speaker 2: where even I overthought things or I held back and
Speaker 2: like I wish I didn't. I wish I just went
Speaker 2: all the way like and I was like, wow, for
Speaker 2: someone who's who like we perceives has gone all the
Speaker 2: way in some capacity in a lot of ways with
Speaker 2: her career, her success, how she shows up in the world,
Speaker 2: Like what she says publicly, Yeah, she always she's like,
Speaker 2: I wish I would have been even more That's what
Speaker 2: she said. I wish I would have been even more bold.
Speaker 3: Well, it's a lesson for women all over the world,
Speaker 3: because I think there's always like this uh teeter totter,
Speaker 3: that we're like, am I doing too much? Have I
Speaker 3: gone too far? Even when you do it and you're
Speaker 3: like yeah, and then you're like, you know, like there's
Speaker 3: always like a cringe because the backlash because the society
Speaker 3: that we live in, there's always like so much background
Speaker 3: noise about whether like we're doing like we're doing too much.
Speaker 3: But men historically do whatever the fuck they want and
Speaker 3: it's fine. So interesting even though I saw that Share
Speaker 3: also said she's gonna marry a One. Is that his name?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: A one girl?
Speaker 2: That's Ace whatever his name is, Amber's baby daddy.
Speaker 3: Maybe realize Amber has been canceled ever since she endorsed Trump.
Speaker 3: I haven't heard.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just don't think we're being fed her algorithm.
Speaker 2: She's doing just fine over.
Speaker 3: There, She's dumb. She's so dumb. She's very disappointing. I
Speaker 3: wish she never started talking so disappointed. It was so
Speaker 3: much better when she was quiet, ay and just one
Speaker 3: of the glasses. I'll say it all the time, like
Speaker 3: she was so much better when she was mute, and
Speaker 3: that Kanye didn't let her speak. It's true. I remember
Speaker 3: the first time I think I talked about this on
Speaker 3: the show.
Speaker 2: The first time I ever heard her talk. I had
Speaker 2: no idea because she'd been mute for so long. The
Speaker 2: first time I ever heard her talk on an interview,
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, oh my god. It was like
Speaker 2: not what I was expecting.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, but yeah, I wonder how
Speaker 3: she feels knowing like her baby daddy's over there living
Speaker 3: his best life with Share, Like can you imagine if
Speaker 3: your baby daddy like left you and then he went
Speaker 3: with Share like the richest, most non aging, most like
Speaker 3: iconic and American history, Like, can you imagine if your
Speaker 3: baby's over there with Share and your baby daddy like
Speaker 3: keep this.
Speaker 2: Maybe she doesn't care, Maybe she's like, yeah, she seems
Speaker 2: like she's like cool with pretty much anything except defending
Speaker 2: black people. I mean, she's cool with that fucking tattoo
Speaker 2: in her forehead. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: She looks like she's a bitch that's gonna go for anything.
Speaker 3: Remember we saw her in the car in the back
Speaker 3: of us. I know we were like, is it a.
Speaker 2: Weird white guy?
Speaker 3: Yeah? In the car? Yeah, poor baby. Yeah, I mean yeah,
Speaker 3: I think that's a that's a message to us too.
Speaker 3: Like as much as we press push the envelope and
Speaker 3: we've been bold, you know, we're always like, was it
Speaker 3: too much?
Speaker 2: We go too far?
Speaker 3: And no, if it's the truth, it's the truth. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Maybe today's affirmation is twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2: Be bold, be bolder, bitch.
Speaker 3: Be bolder, bitch, be bolder, be bolder bitch. Not just bold,
Speaker 3: be bolder. And I'm not talking about Colorado.
Speaker 2: No, although if you want to climb those that's pretty
Speaker 2: bold too. Speaking of Colorado, are you gonna are we
Speaker 2: gonna go to Are we gonna go? Pull up on
Speaker 2: our retreat girls? So our retreat girls are real friends
Speaker 2: in real life. So when you come to our retreat,
Speaker 2: we create this like a sacred circle that is made.
Speaker 2: And I would say, like some retreat girls like are
Speaker 2: like bond really really closely. This might be like the
Speaker 2: closest retreat group by and they have.
Speaker 3: Some exit like some people were executing shit in there,
Speaker 3: like they are planning their own retreat to Colorado because
Speaker 3: they can't wait until the next one.
Speaker 2: They're like, fuck y'all, y'all took too long. Twenty twenty
Speaker 2: six when April na, but did you see that itinerary?
Speaker 3: They have an itinerary colors pink and hot pink and
Speaker 3: burgundy leather night. I forgot to tell you. One of
Speaker 3: them when they were asked, well, I know they One
Speaker 3: of them asked me if I wanted to come surprise
Speaker 3: the girls and do a performance. I was like, what
Speaker 3: are you talking about?
Speaker 2: A performance?
Speaker 3: Performance? Sexy? I was it would be so fun if
Speaker 3: you was like, why are you pumping me up like this?
Speaker 3: I can just have a vision, Like do were you
Speaker 3: were considering it?
Speaker 2: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I consider for like one second.
Speaker 2: I told them I might pull up because I was like,
Speaker 2: so are we going to ski?
Speaker 3: You know, me and me less? And I said the said, no,
Speaker 3: one wants to do that. That's what I heard. They
Speaker 3: were like, no. We decided to take mushrooms to go
Speaker 3: to the museum. They're like, if you want to do that,
Speaker 3: you can, though I was, I.
Speaker 2: Don't want to miss that day, and I was like, well,
Speaker 2: maybe me and we are going to stay extra few
Speaker 2: days so that we can get our black girl ski
Speaker 2: rocks off.
Speaker 3: I have to ski and like that's all the way
Speaker 3: to fucking Colorado and I think the house is like
Speaker 3: right next to a lift. Yeah, there's no way. I
Speaker 3: mean we might, I told her. I actually told her
Speaker 3: I was to look at tickets and then I didn't,
Speaker 3: but I need to look at tickets because what the fuck?
Speaker 2: Then I got like, well, how are you gonna have
Speaker 2: a retreat without us?
Speaker 3: Why can't wait?
Speaker 2: It's fine now, I love it, I know, I'm just
Speaker 2: I'm so happy. I'm so happy that like the women
Speaker 2: are bonding like that. That's really the whole purpose of
Speaker 2: what we do. That's the purpose of.
Speaker 3: The retreat, so that you know that you have like
Speaker 3: a like a set community to connect with after the
Speaker 3: shit is over, and you actually have friends you can
Speaker 3: reach out to. And the thing is, when you spend
Speaker 3: seven days, six days with a group of people, you're
Speaker 3: gonna know all their shit, you know, like we share
Speaker 3: and like there's intimate moments that like once you've told ten, twelve,
Speaker 3: twenty people, you're like, these are the bitches I'm gonna
Speaker 3: tell again, Like, yeah, you can follow up with those
Speaker 3: people because they've already been in invited into your world in.
Speaker 2: A lot of ways, and they've they've witnessed you however
Speaker 2: it is you decided to show up there. So if
Speaker 2: that's who you are trying to embody, but you don't
Speaker 2: know how to embody that at home, they've already accepted
Speaker 2: you that way, do you.
Speaker 3: Know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like if you're like quiet at home, but like at
Speaker 2: the retreat you are a little bit loud, like when
Speaker 2: you know when you get there you can show up
Speaker 2: as the person that you say you want to be.
Speaker 2: So I think that's like also the beauty of it,
Speaker 2: because that's what it's That's what I'm witnessing, That's what
Speaker 2: that's what it feels like.
Speaker 3: I know we talk about this that, but you have
Speaker 3: no idea how often like girls come in one way
Speaker 3: and then leave a toll a different way, like right now,
Speaker 3: shout out to Toya, she was so quiet And two
Speaker 3: things I recognize I guess less because we've done it.
Speaker 3: Nineteen times and we lead the retreat, but like there's
Speaker 3: such a level of anxiety for some of the women
Speaker 3: that are coming into this space in a foreign country
Speaker 3: with people they don't know. And I talked to someone
Speaker 3: yesterday from this last retreat in Bali, and she told
Speaker 3: me she was like, honestly, I prior to the retreat.
Speaker 2: I did therapy. She told me that to prepare.
Speaker 3: For the retreat so that I would not be in
Speaker 3: my head and I wouldn't be in my nerves and
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be having anxiety. And I was like, it's
Speaker 3: a really good idea.
Speaker 2: Afford it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, because you're not coming there like trying to
Speaker 3: work through all those things you've kind of already had,
Speaker 3: Like you've already worked through them a little bit, and
Speaker 3: it's not really that anxiety. It's just the idea that's
Speaker 3: more like gives you more anxiety than it actually being there,
Speaker 3: because as soon as you get there, like it kind
Speaker 3: of like slushes off because everyone's so open. But this
Speaker 3: one particular person was super like I could tell like
Speaker 3: her her like all her walls were up. She was
Speaker 3: just like almost like very like very paranoid about everything
Speaker 3: else going on. She's like I can't find my money,
Speaker 3: I can't find my bag. I was like in her
Speaker 3: room looking through her shit. And then next day was like,
Speaker 3: did you find your shit? She's like, I found it.
Speaker 3: I hit it for myself. I was high. I was like, girl, like,
Speaker 3: I'm like, did we have a thief? What's going?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 3: You know, but like seeing everybody come down into their
Speaker 3: nervous system and seeing the transformations that happen is so
Speaker 3: powerful and so dope, and like just to see them
Speaker 3: stay in that comfortability and say we're going to do
Speaker 3: it again and again. It's like it's a really beautiful,
Speaker 3: really beautiful thing to be able to like share in
Speaker 3: that space and a very intimate level with each other
Speaker 3: and like feel trustworthy in that way. So I'm just like,
Speaker 3: I'm really grateful for that. One of the girls in
Speaker 3: this last Retrea, I don't know if I said this
Speaker 3: already said that She's like sometimes when I'm like, in
Speaker 3: certain situations, I think, WWJD, what would Jamila do? And
Speaker 3: I was like, really, I think that, Like Jesus. She's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: do I think about it all the time. I'm like
Speaker 3: not being bold enough. I was like, really, that's the
Speaker 3: nicest thing anybody ever told me that's beautiful. But it's interesting,
Speaker 3: like when you come into an intimate space with people,
Speaker 3: you can really channel other people. Sometimes I'm like, let
Speaker 3: me even me like this person, or like let me come.
Speaker 3: When I walk into a situation, I know it's like
Speaker 3: not maybe in my personality, I can just reach for
Speaker 3: my like who's your alter ego? What's that alter ego
Speaker 3: for you? Exactly? Yeah, And it's necessary, you know, because
Speaker 3: sometimes you don't feel like you have the tools, but
Speaker 3: you know that one friend that does and you can
Speaker 3: even call them. I've called girls like, hey, I need
Speaker 3: your advice on this or whatever, because you know that
Speaker 3: that's maybe their for their wheelhouse. Yeah. So this is
Speaker 3: just to endorsement to make more friends that are in
Speaker 3: alignment with you and people that you you know, aspire
Speaker 3: to be like because there's medicine there. And if you're
Speaker 3: thinking about coming to a Good Vibe retreat in twenty
Speaker 3: twenty six, this is your sign because we are running
Speaker 3: a New Year's sale for five hundred dollars off, which
Speaker 3: is a lot, and you don't want to miss the opportunity.
Speaker 3: So don't say we didn't give you a discount. Don't
Speaker 3: say we didn't encourage you. Every year we get on
Speaker 3: this motherfucking mic and tell you how important it is.
Speaker 3: And you know, so take the opportunity, take the discount,
Speaker 3: prioritize yourself. Come on all inclusive retreat. You don't have
Speaker 3: to think about, worry about anything. You're gonna leave with
Speaker 3: friends and you're gonna leave with life changing experiences.
Speaker 2: We have three retreats to choose from Jamaica. If by
Speaker 2: the time you hear this it isn't sold out, because
Speaker 2: we only have one spot left and that.
Speaker 3: Was two no so e Mommy and Me retreat.
Speaker 2: So if you're like I want to bring this medicine
Speaker 2: to me and my child, I want to go to
Speaker 2: Costa Rica with my kid and feel all the vibes,
Speaker 2: that's that retreat. And then also are of course our
Speaker 2: annual women's retreat in Costa Rica. We're working on one
Speaker 2: at the end of the year. We're gonna announce that
Speaker 2: one soon. But make sure you tap in click the
Speaker 2: link of this episode description, use the code what's the
Speaker 2: code new new new any w any w new new
Speaker 2: for five hundred dollars off till the end of this year.
Speaker 2: This is gonna be done January first, and I'm not
Speaker 2: discounting this shaite no more beach, this yo lasmafucking time.
Speaker 2: But yeah, come I can't. I just like it makes
Speaker 2: me so happy. So shout out to I think that
Speaker 2: was Retreat eighteen, right, Retreat eighteen for creating another retreat
Speaker 2: for y'all in Colorado.
Speaker 3: I might get my dance I might get my dance
Speaker 3: moves together, so I could be the surprise.
Speaker 2: Well you're not. They're not gonna be surprised now they're
Speaker 2: listening to this. I want to come and hang out
Speaker 2: and go to them, go to the mush go to
Speaker 2: the museum on mushrooms, and.
Speaker 3: Then everybody, everybody has like a different day they're responsible for.
Speaker 3: Did you know that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I saw.
Speaker 3: I'm like, well this is I love it. You know,
Speaker 3: how are you all to be on the team because
Speaker 3: it's just me and this bitch and just two of
Speaker 3: us were here.
Speaker 2: See that's the thing too, is like you find your
Speaker 2: travel your travel crew, and.
Speaker 3: Because you know that they're already willing to travel, you
Speaker 3: know who's with the ships, who's not, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 2: So it's like you find your travel crew, which is
Speaker 2: really important because I think a lot of times women
Speaker 2: we don't travel because we are waiting for someone to
Speaker 2: come with us and we're not in a friend group
Speaker 2: that likes to travel. That's not their priority. So get
Speaker 2: show us a travel group in twenty twenty.
Speaker 3: Six very important. What was your favorite episode this year?
Speaker 2: I was looking through our catalog this year, and we've
Speaker 2: had some really good guests. I don't low you forgot.
Speaker 2: It's so hard because we came in hot. We came
Speaker 2: in hot like the first few months, so I would
Speaker 2: say slum Flower.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was really good.
Speaker 2: It's definitely one of my favorite episodes. That episode was
Speaker 2: called The Mother Wound, and she stove deep and shared
Speaker 2: so much about her story and journey with her mother
Speaker 2: and cutting her mother off and protecting herself and why
Speaker 2: and that that episode is very triggering for a lot
Speaker 2: of people, but also resonated with so many people I
Speaker 2: didn't realize to have that experience of their mother, and
Speaker 2: also like seeing that like recently like coming becoming more
Speaker 2: and more people are talking about it more and more,
Speaker 2: like the going no contact with a parent because yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just that's not my journey, but
Speaker 2: I understand it and listening to it like I wouldn't,
Speaker 2: I would end, but I can only imagine how incredibly
Speaker 2: painful that that that would.
Speaker 3: Be, well, mourning someone who birthed you, right.
Speaker 2: It's a different type of it's a different you know.
Speaker 2: So that one was that on the serious note. I'm
Speaker 2: looking you know, Corine Stephans, She's always I just love
Speaker 2: her mind and I just love the way. I just
Speaker 2: love how calculated that woman is. She is just I
Speaker 2: just love she's a storyteller, like she knows how to
Speaker 2: draw you in from the very beginning. So if you
Speaker 2: haven't listened to that one, that's a two part episode.
Speaker 2: Every episode we've ever we had an episode with her
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty two, I want to say, and it
Speaker 2: was also a two part because once she sits on
Speaker 2: this couch, no, it's twenty twenty three, twenty twenty three.
Speaker 2: Once she sits on this couch, it's we could sit
Speaker 2: and listen to that woman for hours, so we do.
Speaker 2: We're like, we know we're not going to see you
Speaker 2: for two years, so tell us everything.
Speaker 3: Literally. One of my other well, one of my favorite
Speaker 3: guests this year was definitely Parties Founting Amen Lord Fine
Speaker 3: Tall Chocolate Tree Chocolate tree. He's just so tall.
Speaker 2: You know, when he walked into the studio, I was
Speaker 2: not anticipating that height, nor was I upset. Okay, those
Speaker 2: tight jeans, those thick thighs, those big boots, that those
Speaker 2: big pearly whites, those what those smile that smiles up.
Speaker 3: To no good like Rich screams Rich, No Columbia American Veneers.
Speaker 2: He paid full price. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love a chocolate man with like pearly white teeth.
Speaker 3: It always reminds me of the Coldest Winter Ripper when
Speaker 3: she introduces Midnight to the to the saga. Sorry, I
Speaker 3: just went to my junior high horn.
Speaker 2: And he loves his mom and called his mom and
Speaker 2: grandma on the show. You guys, if you haven't listened
Speaker 2: to that episode, we've had Party Fontaine on the show.
Speaker 2: If you don't know who is go look him up.
Speaker 2: Go look him up. He's a writer, a rapper. He
Speaker 2: ghost writes, and I don't think it's a ghostwriter. He
Speaker 2: writes for Cardi B and she's.
Speaker 3: Winning right now, go slide into his DMS. We've had
Speaker 3: so many good episodes this year. I'm just scrolling.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I know, it's like I forget because we've had you guys,
Speaker 3: we've hit over four hundred episodes in our like two seasons,
Speaker 3: three seasons, don't know how many seasons. Our Good Mom's
Speaker 3: lifetime twenty twenty six, Good Moms will turn eight, and
Speaker 3: we've had over four hundred episodes, which is a pretty
Speaker 3: big deal. Yeah, we're executive producers, Okay, writers, talent, make up,
Speaker 3: and like.
Speaker 2: That's why I like, some of these episodes need to
Speaker 2: be ran back, and we did that in November. We
Speaker 2: re we re posted older episodes because some of y'all
Speaker 2: missed them when we okay, we posted Mel Robins. So
Speaker 2: we've had Mel Robbins on the show, right, and that's
Speaker 2: she's like a big fucking deal. And we like back then,
Speaker 2: I think reels were just getting figured out. She was
Speaker 2: like even the way that the clips were shot weren't
Speaker 2: even like really in real form. But when we do,
Speaker 2: you know how many people message me when we posted
Speaker 2: Mel Robins, like two weeks ago.
Speaker 3: Congratulations you have Robins on the show.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's incredible. I'm like, just two years three years ago,
Speaker 2: we have her back on. We need to call her.
Speaker 2: But there's just a lot of good, good guests that
Speaker 2: we've had on that I've forgotten about.
Speaker 3: Also, you know, it was a good episode of Shayla
Speaker 3: Shayla Murray, Shayla Marie She'd love her. Yeah, she was
Speaker 3: really a good episode. What I don't know it was
Speaker 3: gonna be episode. Also, we had like a spicier episode
Speaker 3: with four where we get to walk him like a
Speaker 3: dog to the liquor store, which is always like something
Speaker 3: fun to do. I always like a I like like
Speaker 3: a guest that's down for the get down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's definitely down for the get down.
Speaker 3: So they just wanted to just touch on, you know,
Speaker 3: some of our our faves, our faves.
Speaker 2: And also you know what, I think that we should
Speaker 2: leave links for them, and like you guys, We're gonna
Speaker 2: leave links for you guys so you can hear these
Speaker 2: episodes because they're worth listening. You're about to be chilling
Speaker 2: in the holiday season. Hopefully you don't have that much
Speaker 2: work to do. Those kids are going to be annoying
Speaker 2: the fuck out of you.
Speaker 3: I'm looking at these episode titles and like, I don't
Speaker 3: know if it's We're ridiculous or may slob on my
Speaker 3: knob ASMR featuring Lovely Mill.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 3: Monogamous monster. Oh yeah, what does that even mean? It's
Speaker 3: just pretty We're pretty ridiculous black people can Karen too
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Militant Daddy featuring Derek Grace too. Yeah. We
Speaker 3: I guess we really know how to name the episode.
Speaker 3: I'm really proud of this, this, this piece of work.
Speaker 3: We do have such a range in our business. So
Speaker 3: and we even we even had what was the what's
Speaker 3: the girl who got the Jeffrey Epstein girl? Oh, Lisa Phillips, Ye, Lisa,
Speaker 3: Lisa Phillips was a good episode.
Speaker 2: Lisa Phillips was really great because it's continued. It's like
Speaker 2: continuing to unfold as we as time goes.
Speaker 3: Yeah. As president, So yeah, we have a lot of
Speaker 3: juicy episodes in our catalog that I'm proud of. So
Speaker 3: if you were just coming in now, I always go
Speaker 3: back to the beginning. Always check what we were doing eight
Speaker 3: years ago, because we're pretty much different bitches than when
Speaker 3: we started. There's a lot, there's a lot of evolution
Speaker 3: that's happened, same but different, the same, same but different.
Speaker 3: Tarot time, Tarot time. Okay, maybe we should each choose one. Okay,
Speaker 3: I got the Ten of Wands reversed, which it looks
Speaker 3: pretty intemped. When the ten of wands reverse appears in
Speaker 3: a tarot reading, it's often a sign that you're trying
Speaker 3: to do too much by yourself and your effort to
Speaker 3: be everything to everyone. You have found yourself struggling under
Speaker 3: the weight of it all. Delegate and share the work
Speaker 3: you don't have to do it alone, and be firm
Speaker 3: and saying no to the things you know you cannot
Speaker 3: take on. It is imperative you put your self care
Speaker 3: in personal wellbeing first, otherwise you'll burn yourself out and
Speaker 3: be of no help to anyone. It's just like they say,
Speaker 3: put on your own oxygen mask first before helping others. Similarly,
Speaker 3: the ten of wands reverse suggests that you're carrying a
Speaker 3: heavy weight on your shoulders, but you're keeping this private
Speaker 3: and unwilling to share your burden with others. You may
Speaker 3: be grappling with emotional trauma, carrying a dark seeker, or
Speaker 3: dwelling with increased responsibilities. However, you do not feel comfortable
Speaker 3: sharing this with others by talking about it or asking
Speaker 3: for help. In effect, you are pushing away the people
Speaker 3: who can help you. It may also be a huge
Speaker 3: relief to you when you do share some of this
Speaker 3: burden with others as they are ready and willing to
Speaker 3: support you.
Speaker 5: Hm, okay, bag lady this morning. You can't hurt your back.
Speaker 3: Take them bags off your back right now. Are you
Speaker 3: worrying about matters that do not concern you or cannot
Speaker 3: be changed. Do not become a martyr and take on
Speaker 3: more than you can realistically handle. This is probably for
Speaker 3: like every woman listening right now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like a overall moving into this next year,
Speaker 2: like we can't keep carrying the weight how we've been
Speaker 2: carrying it. Our back are fucked one shoulders higher than
Speaker 2: the other. It's it's no.
Speaker 3: I just realized, like sometimes it's so second nature or
Speaker 3: first nature or whatever that when you finally do get
Speaker 3: to sit in your own shit, it's like, huh, Like
Speaker 3: who am I? What is it that I need? It's
Speaker 3: like almost a foreign like it's hard to almost conceptualize
Speaker 3: what it is that you actually need because you've been
Speaker 3: so removed from it for so long and tapped into
Speaker 3: what everybody else needs. So I think that's something important
Speaker 3: to take into twenty twenty six. It's just not caring
Speaker 3: too much and being able to say no, mm hmm, okay,
Speaker 3: well I got the world card reversed. We're reading reversed.
Speaker 3: I mean I picked it up one reversed and so
Speaker 3: I okay.
Speaker 2: So the world card reversed represents seeking personal closure, shortcuts
Speaker 2: and delays. The world reverse suggests that you are seeking
Speaker 2: closure on a personal issue. Perhaps you are still emotionally
Speaker 2: attached to a past relationship.
Speaker 3: And want to move on.
Speaker 2: You need to let go of the past to move on.
Speaker 2: Fighting closure may be an intensely personal journey, something you
Speaker 2: manage through journaling, visualization, energy work, and therapy. The world
Speaker 2: reverse can signify that you want to fulfill a big
Speaker 2: goal or complete a big project, but you're not taking
Speaker 2: all the steps necessary to get there. You may opt
Speaker 2: for the easiest or quickest path to attain your goal,
Speaker 2: but it won't lead to the outcome you intend. Climbing
Speaker 2: a mountain from the bottom up is an entirely different
Speaker 2: experience from getting a helicopter ride to the peak, even
Speaker 2: though the destination is the same. You need to experience
Speaker 2: the trials and tribulations along the way so you can
Speaker 2: learn and grow, and when you do reach your goal,
Speaker 2: you enjoy such a fantastic sense of achievement. Don't be
Speaker 2: afraid to set stretch goals for yourself, even if it
Speaker 2: means during hardships or challenges along the way, it will
Speaker 2: make the victory even sweeter the world. Reverse can also
Speaker 2: indicate a time when you are close to finishing a
Speaker 2: project or goal, but forever whatever reason, you lose focus
Speaker 2: and lack and slack off. Right at the end, you
Speaker 2: only have a short way to go, So why stop now?
Speaker 2: Re energy and remind yourself how wonderful life will be
Speaker 2: when you get the thing.
Speaker 3: You wanted for so long? The result there you go,
Speaker 3: focus on the results.
Speaker 2: Completion, completion, Yes, completion energy. I'm bringing that into twenty
Speaker 2: twenty six to two.
Speaker 3: That's so interesting. I think sometimes people get so caught
Speaker 3: up on like the journey that it blurs the outcome,
Speaker 3: and so it's hard to manifest that way. But it's
Speaker 3: definitely necessary to manifest backwards. How do I feel and
Speaker 3: the like the end result? What do I feel when
Speaker 3: I like get this love that I've manifested, but I
Speaker 3: feel I get the job that I've manifested. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: We're gonna be the perks of that job. How is
Speaker 3: that going to feel And I think sometimes that is
Speaker 3: like we think about step one instead of step ten,
Speaker 3: and like you get to think of step ten in
Speaker 3: order to start moving towards it and to like understand
Speaker 3: you deserve it and you're worthy of it, and that
Speaker 3: like it's a realistic, obtainable goal. Yeah, you have to
Speaker 3: see it and it's completion for sure. I think that's
Speaker 3: even in business too, like working backwards, Yeah, what do
Speaker 3: I want?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: What would I want? What's the number?
Speaker 2: I want to feel good? Okay, working backwards? From that place,
Speaker 2: you can apply that also to your life.
Speaker 3: Amen? Aha, Amen? Any final closing words for twenty twenty five.
Speaker 3: It's our last, absolute last episode of twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2: Well, let's just I want to take a hit. Where's
Speaker 2: the joint if we rolling? No, we haven't smoked this
Speaker 2: whole time.
Speaker 3: No, what the fuck? Yeah you're supposed to.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like we have to roll
Speaker 2: a joint for twenty twenty five.
Speaker 3: There's papers right there.
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, here you sage, sage, just down like
Speaker 2: the sage. We're clearing the energies.
Speaker 3: Clear the energy for twenty twenty five because it's the funeral. Yes,
Speaker 3: We're clearing this funeral energy. We're laying her to rest,
Speaker 3: open a window, cleansing the set, cleansing the good Mom's
Speaker 3: sign f new energy next year.
Speaker 2: You know, we are playing to rest. Any versions of
Speaker 2: ourselves that our higher self does.
Speaker 3: Not approve of.
Speaker 2: Our higher self is called ring ring bitch, You're not invited.
Speaker 2: You're not invited to twenty twenty six, lovey love your
Speaker 2: higher self. We're putting away any fears. We're death to fears,
Speaker 2: death to distrust, and bringing light into understanding our wants,
Speaker 2: our needs, our desires, listening to our bodies, coming into
Speaker 2: practice with our bodies, taking more mushrooms.
Speaker 3: Thinking about Orlando went out of town this weekend, like
Speaker 3: right now, like you just left at very moment. Yeah,
Speaker 3: And I was actually really pissed because he did invite
Speaker 3: me to his annual friend Christmas fucking sore away or
Speaker 3: whatever the fuck. And I'm still mad. I also realize
Speaker 3: I don't get over things easily. I can hold onto
Speaker 3: some shit like I could be fine, but in my
Speaker 3: back of my mind, I'm like, fuck you probably not healthy.
Speaker 3: But I was, like I always say this every time
Speaker 3: he goes out of town. I'm like, do I need
Speaker 3: to do mushrooms alone. But one of the last times
Speaker 3: I did mushrooms like a full dose with Orlando. Have
Speaker 3: you ever experienced like sleep paralysis? And there's a couple
Speaker 3: like sometimes it's happens to me where I can like
Speaker 3: lay down but my mind is still up and I
Speaker 3: want to move, but I can't move my body, and
Speaker 3: I like am kind of panicking, like move, move, but
Speaker 3: I can't. So then I remembered that, and I was like,
Speaker 3: do I need to do mushrooms alone? What if I
Speaker 3: get like stuck? But I guess I'll I'll get unstuck eventually.
Speaker 3: That I was thinking about doing mushrooms by myself in
Speaker 3: my house, but then like, when I think about it,
Speaker 3: sounds kind of scary, But then I also feel like
Speaker 3: it's kind of necessary before the new year.
Speaker 5: But do it.
Speaker 3: Something's telling you to do it. Yeah, and you even
Speaker 3: if you do.
Speaker 2: Get this paralysis, you'll be able to save yourself.
Speaker 3: True, you know, Siri, call call somebody. So maybe I'll
Speaker 3: do that tonight tonight. Maybe oh fuck it, Yeah, go
Speaker 3: for it. I means either tonight or tomorrow or some
Speaker 3: I ripped it. Maybe I have to cut this. I
Speaker 3: get a mini Okay.
Speaker 2: I started taking mushrooms more recently like the tea, and
Speaker 2: I wanted to start microdosing more often going into this
Speaker 2: next year. And I feel like because I've been very
Speaker 2: heady in my lately and I just felt like I
Speaker 2: need to get in my body. And it's been good.
Speaker 3: It's been cool.
Speaker 2: You've been taken every day. I just started like two
Speaker 2: days ago with a tea which one that that one
Speaker 2: we have I low, it's very low dose.
Speaker 3: I feel so torn because every time I try to
Speaker 3: take a micro dose, you know, it's not so micro
Speaker 3: And then Aaron said that I should do it the
Speaker 3: first time. I hard.
Speaker 2: I took the first time that I took it, which
Speaker 2: was two days ago, I felt that way, and then
Speaker 2: I did yesterday I took it and I felt better.
Speaker 2: I felt a little bit better. So I do think
Speaker 2: it is like a level of your body getting familiarizing
Speaker 2: itself with the medicine again because we've if you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's like it has to be like kind of reintegrated.
Speaker 3: I also feel like, probably I get I have a
Speaker 3: big reaction because I do. I don't avoid it, but
Speaker 3: I really do wait until there's like we've really planned
Speaker 3: it we're in Joshua Tree now we're doing the full dose.
Speaker 3: Like it's not I know that there's a level of
Speaker 3: psilocybin that is work, it's therapy. It's not all fun
Speaker 3: and games, and there's like a level of like events.
Speaker 3: Am I ready for that? Do I need that right now?
Speaker 3: And there's an avoidance a little bit, but I mean overall,
Speaker 3: it's not like it's not a medicine that I'm scared of.
Speaker 3: It's just like, am I ready for that right now?
Speaker 3: And then like I've never done it alone? And but
Speaker 3: I have so many I have so much mushrooms at
Speaker 3: my fucking house. Do mushrooms go back? The dry ones
Speaker 3: become less potent and crunchy and gross? Like you can
Speaker 3: make tea though, right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't know if it would be.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I'm not them. I don't know.
Speaker 3: That's so much mushrooms of my house. Well, bring them over,
Speaker 3: because you know I have a mushroom party. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: was gonna tell you I can bring some too. We
Speaker 3: can also order some. Oh you got some. That's why
Speaker 3: I just had the mushroom man deliver mushrooms to me
Speaker 3: today here at the studio seeing the mushroom Man, the
Speaker 3: mushroom Man, the mushroom.
Speaker 2: Man, Tuck heavy with the Instagram, solely Magic, solely with y,
Speaker 2: solely Magic. So go check out solely Magic. If you
Speaker 2: need some mushrooms from a fine ass black man. And
Speaker 2: that makes good chocolate mushrooms. That is a good person,
Speaker 2: so you know, energetically and he makes them think he
Speaker 2: hand makes them, so you know. I think it's important
Speaker 2: who handles your medicine as well, So make sure your
Speaker 2: medicine is being handled by someone you trust.
Speaker 3: And then I wonder why I always get random text
Speaker 3: me like DMS like, hey, do you have a mission plug? Hey,
Speaker 3: I'm in so and so do you have I'm like,
Speaker 3: am I a drug dealer on the internet?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: I have a question though, guys, if you're listening, does
Speaker 2: anybody because we're gonna do our research. But actually, never mind,
Speaker 2: I can't even say it here because that's going to
Speaker 2: ruin the surprise.
Speaker 3: Never mind, forget it that surprise.
Speaker 2: Oh I know to see if Yeah.
Speaker 3: You don't need to look any further.
Speaker 2: Okay, right, we got it, We got this.
Speaker 3: We can handle this ourselves. Have you seen the fifty
Speaker 3: cent do about PDD?
Speaker 2: Yes? I'm watching it, I'm like, it's so long.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I didn't. I keep falling asleep.
Speaker 2: It parts and I wake up and it's so.
Speaker 3: Happening, and I think, like so many episodes.
Speaker 2: I feel there's only four episodes, but I think each
Speaker 2: episode must be like two hours, no, one hour.
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 2: I don't know, unless my attention span is that low
Speaker 2: that I can't focus for more than one hour.
Speaker 3: But it's depressing. There's that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I started twitch thinking about it.
Speaker 3: What I will say is like, I'm not a huge
Speaker 3: fifty sent fan because I think he's a cancer. That
Speaker 3: is sad. But what I will say is he's definitely
Speaker 3: not lying like Diddy everything he said about Diddy as
Speaker 3: far as wanting to be the star and feeling deeply
Speaker 3: insecure and so he'll off people and just do anything
Speaker 3: to be the spotlight, even though he can't wrap and
Speaker 3: he's not even a really good dancer. When I saw him,
Speaker 3: come did you go out to the park where he
Speaker 3: comes out and does like the tribute to Biggie, Okay,
Speaker 3: with having that.
Speaker 2: Different lens made it seems crazy. It's great he came
Speaker 2: out with his fucking you know, a little dancing does dance, bitch,
Speaker 2: But now that dance feels different because that dance is
Speaker 2: always not I mean, it's always been funny to me,
Speaker 2: it's not right now, I'm like, it's like psychopathic to me.
Speaker 3: Now when I look at it, I'm like, what the fuck? Asath?
Speaker 3: He is definitely and and you just see you can
Speaker 3: see it in his eyes, there's a darkness. And also
Speaker 3: like he's been infamous in the industry for fucking his artists.
Speaker 2: Well not well, this is just like I think he's
Speaker 2: a human that has been like groomed too as a child,
Speaker 2: with which she also shed light onto, like about his
Speaker 2: mom like always dressing him up. And he's like kind
Speaker 2: of like a drug dealer even though that wasn't his life,
Speaker 2: you know, And so like he's trying to like live
Speaker 2: up to the persona of these people that he's supposed
Speaker 2: to admire. And how that just that like perhaps at
Speaker 2: that point in his life, if we can like take
Speaker 2: a screenshot like he was still he's pure, right, And
Speaker 2: how something can sour so severely with like constant poison, praise,
Speaker 2: poison and praise, poison and praise and then just like
Speaker 2: an ego, Well then yeah, and then that ego.
Speaker 3: Deep insecure paired with ego, paired with money, paired with penis.
Speaker 2: Well, the poison is the ego.
Speaker 3: It's not good.
Speaker 2: And then people praise you, so like that's where those
Speaker 2: the level ten narcissists are birthed.
Speaker 3: But but praise without praise with insecurity is a terrible
Speaker 3: combination when you're deeply insecure and then people are feeding
Speaker 3: like this false sense of who you are because probably
Speaker 3: that part of him is not authentic. So you're still
Speaker 3: deeply insecure, but now you're getting money and praise on
Speaker 3: top of it, which is giving you this god complex.
Speaker 3: It's like you like, no matter how much people praise
Speaker 3: you and pour into you and pray, like, you're never
Speaker 3: gonna truly feel good about yourself. And so there's a
Speaker 3: like a bottomless pit of consuming of things and money
Speaker 3: and people that are expendable, and like that you create
Speaker 3: this god complex and then it creates Ditty. It's sad.
Speaker 2: And then his children too, like his son, his oldest son,
Speaker 2: I would guess, would try is the oldest Custin Mesa.
Speaker 3: Yeah, really, we don't really hear from him.
Speaker 2: No, he's with him all the time. He's the one
Speaker 2: who was like the studio when that shooting thing happened,
Speaker 2: and they said that he was involved in that. He
Speaker 2: was also they also basically said they were like Diddy
Speaker 2: and him would be with like same bitches in the
Speaker 2: same room.
Speaker 3: Like that's you say, is that really his son? They
Speaker 3: don't really look much alike. They always try to say
Speaker 3: that he's the security son. I mean, who fucking knows.
Speaker 3: That's because that other son right after him looks just
Speaker 3: the fuck like him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but also his mom kind of they kind of
Speaker 2: look alike too.
Speaker 3: Did look like But also, what's up with Quincy? Why
Speaker 3: would you? Why are you like disowning your own father
Speaker 3: to be with, Like that's weird because.
Speaker 2: He's paid and his dad is and his dad's kind
Speaker 2: of broke, I think now because he pulled him down.
Speaker 2: But like that to me as a man, his dad
Speaker 2: wasn't there for him. His dad was not in his life.
Speaker 2: He was not a good father.
Speaker 3: Wasn't because Diddy was all in the video. No, it's
Speaker 3: because I think he had I think he had a
Speaker 3: drug problem.
Speaker 2: Was the drinking problem.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So Diddy was his dad, but I think when
Speaker 3: it was time for him, I think he I think
Speaker 3: did he also puts some extras on it, Like I
Speaker 3: think he probably got something out of saying, like your
Speaker 3: son's mind now even when because he's been clean, like
Speaker 3: he's been clean, I'll be sure.
Speaker 2: I mean, we don't know what kind of damage that
Speaker 2: did to that their relationship and with what that means,
Speaker 2: you know, and also the power of money and the
Speaker 2: power of like and also if you're vulnerable and you
Speaker 2: do need a fatherly influence, and this is the best
Speaker 2: one you got, Like you're gonna go. This one's pretty good.
Speaker 2: This one's going to santral Pe every summer, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like kick Nigga, why he's down, Like
Speaker 2: I'm gonna choose a daddy, I'm an choose Diddy.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, oh my god, Massa all
Speaker 3: a mess. But then I know I was thinking, like
Speaker 3: the crazy part about him being Diddy. None of the
Speaker 3: kids who all it's like all attempted to have music
Speaker 3: careers ever did anything. Is there a level of I'm
Speaker 3: the only star in this family? I mean, it was
Speaker 3: giving that he just yeah, you know, we should have
Speaker 3: known when he put himself in dirty money Nigga, why
Speaker 3: are you in dirty money?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like not talking about shit. Why but who told
Speaker 3: him to put himself in dirty money?
Speaker 6: Why?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was too good. And then Aubrey
Speaker 3: do you see her testimony?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that message that she got, that message that she
Speaker 2: got from someone about her. There is her assault, their assault,
Speaker 2: the assault of him. No what they're saying, Oh god,
Speaker 2: I don't even know if I should share it on here.
Speaker 2: It's like pretty basically like some woman that she knows,
Speaker 2: basically throw in saying that that she doesn't even know
Speaker 2: this woman like wrote in a testimony saying that she
Speaker 2: saw Diddy and his security guard assaulting her when she
Speaker 2: was passed out on the couch and that she's one
Speaker 2: hundred percent sure it was Aubrey. And Aubrey was on
Speaker 2: the documentary said I have I have this, I've read it,
Speaker 2: but like I have no I have no memory of
Speaker 2: this moment. And she's like, I just want to be
Speaker 2: done with this, but like, I have no memory of
Speaker 2: this moment that I missed that part.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know it was there.
Speaker 2: It was dark.
Speaker 3: I think that's what I was like, all right, I
Speaker 3: need to turn this off watching did clean? Why did
Speaker 3: you do? I mean, I guess there's something you could
Speaker 3: do because it's two grown ass men. I mean, he
Speaker 3: has so many sexual assault cases pending.
Speaker 2: That's what. You know what Curtis Jackson is petty because
Speaker 2: at the have you noticed at the beginning and end
Speaker 2: of every single episode he puts the same shit that
Speaker 2: Diddy was accused of sex trafficking, Like he puts it
Speaker 2: at the beginning just in case you forgot the episode.
Speaker 3: It is necessary for you to have context going into
Speaker 3: each other's well, hopefully you've been watching the whole scene.
Speaker 3: You gotta put on every episode exactly.
Speaker 2: And apparently he went.
Speaker 3: One of the only interviews he did was on ABC
Speaker 3: because they showed in jail. I didn't think about that,
Speaker 3: but because it's actually it's it's TV, it's like basic cable.
Speaker 2: He said, I'm gonna go on this one.
Speaker 3: You get one, no streaming. I'm gonna go on the
Speaker 3: regular daytime ABC News because I know they're playing it
Speaker 3: in the fucking wreck room. That's worse. You know, this
Speaker 3: brings me to and I'm not to say that women
Speaker 3: they're not like women monsters, but men, men going unchecked,
Speaker 3: like paired with patriarchy and just like honestly the ability
Speaker 3: to get away with it is like it really has
Speaker 3: created some monsters, and like we got a lot of
Speaker 3: we got a a lot of like pushback or whatever.
Speaker 3: I don't have the criticism when current Stefan's was on
Speaker 3: the show this year and said that for women, men
Speaker 3: are the apex predator, yeah, like absolutely, But there were
Speaker 3: so many people who were like, like men who are
Speaker 3: offended by that, And I think that is the problem.
Speaker 2: I realized this is my I realized.
Speaker 3: Like, this is my thing about making bold statements or
Speaker 3: saying stuff like marry the whore or like, you know,
Speaker 3: like being extreme ish is because I think like, if
Speaker 3: there is not a basic understanding as a man that
Speaker 3: men have gotten away with some crazy fuck shit and
Speaker 3: continue to have like uh, like are judged on a
Speaker 3: completely different standard than women. If you don't have as
Speaker 3: a man, if you don't take, if you don't take
Speaker 3: acknowledgment for the privilege that you have, I can't trust
Speaker 3: you if you don't know that men have just like
Speaker 3: have have abused women historically on a large scale. Like
Speaker 3: if you don't just agree with the basic facts of
Speaker 3: that and you don't know that and you're like not
Speaker 3: all man, then I have to watch you.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, your friendship survey. Yeah, the
Speaker 2: perfect one to.
Speaker 3: Add, because you know why. I also sometimes I'll meet
Speaker 3: men like just on some friendly shit and like talk
Speaker 3: to them and they seem really smart and they seem
Speaker 3: like they're healing and they're spiritual. And then they're like, yeah,
Speaker 3: but like my yeah, I do like believe in multiple women,
Speaker 3: but like my women, I'm the only man. And then
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, but you're stupid, Like yeah, like I've
Speaker 3: been so disappointed.
Speaker 2: Like maybe just got to start off the gate. I
Speaker 2: have a few questions before we continue this conversation.
Speaker 3: Right, because I feel like I get so disappointing when
Speaker 3: I think there's a smart man, but then he goes
Speaker 3: down and like in the depths of his conversation there's
Speaker 3: still some like misogyny, you know, and I'd like that
Speaker 3: really disappoints me. But I think men are the problem.
Speaker 3: I mean we are too, because we fed into a
Speaker 3: lot of these stereotypes and like the fragile male ego.
Speaker 3: Humans are the problem. Oh god, I hope I'm an alien.
Speaker 2: I told you, bitch, those aliens are close. But I
Speaker 2: saw those aliens last night at the beach. Literally that's
Speaker 2: what the message I got, And I was.
Speaker 3: Like, whow, they're close. They've been close. They right into
Speaker 3: the water.
Speaker 2: I mean they're on the ground too, they're here. But like,
Speaker 2: I just I know that that's what it was. That
Speaker 2: was not a fucking satellite. That was some other extraterrestrial
Speaker 2: shit that I saw. And we've probably been.
Speaker 3: Did you check the did you check the like around
Speaker 3: those dates that you're there? Did you check like any news?
Speaker 3: It was yesterday? Oh? Yeah, Like you should check online,
Speaker 3: just Google, like UFO spotting Malibu or something Monday or
Speaker 3: whatever date is there's day eight o'clock or whatever, just
Speaker 3: to see because sometimes you'd be surprised when people report
Speaker 3: things Malibu serious. UFO based off Malibu vanishes from Google Earth. No,
Speaker 3: this is August.
Speaker 2: Oh, surf cam captures possible UFO sighting and socow off Malibu.
Speaker 3: Is it yesterday?
Speaker 2: This is December fourth?
Speaker 3: I mean they're all around us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's December right now.
Speaker 3: Oh, they're still hanging out and I saw what I saw.
Speaker 2: Has anyone else in Aliens? I know, I know somebody
Speaker 2: else seen Aliens's cool. Look up, look up more often.
Speaker 2: I think we just don't look up enough.
Speaker 3: There's a documentary. Actually, I've been wanting to watch it
Speaker 3: with Luna my dad. When I was little, I watched
Speaker 3: so much like UFO stuff. This is why I am
Speaker 3: the way I am. I've watched so much Black Power
Speaker 3: stuff and UFO stuff and also things like The Godfather.
Speaker 3: But there's a movie on Netflix. I've looked at what
Speaker 3: it's called, but there's a there's a UFO sighting and
Speaker 3: I want to say, South Africa. Is that a school?
Speaker 3: And it just so happened that all the faculty at
Speaker 3: that time was like had left the area and all
Speaker 3: the kids, I want to say that between like seven
Speaker 3: and eight all report back seeing all the same things
Speaker 3: and getting the same exact messages. And they were all
Speaker 3: like interviewed separately, and there's like basically like they came
Speaker 3: out told them the message, and the message was they
Speaker 3: had images of like that the technology that we start
Speaker 3: to indulge in is what's going to be the end
Speaker 3: of also be the end of us. Of course it
Speaker 3: is pollution. They'd like all talked about pollution. It was
Speaker 3: really interesting. So now I got to watch it because
Speaker 3: it's about kids and they said that they come to
Speaker 3: people that they don't have like the purest minds.
Speaker 1: What is this?
Speaker 3: What is it called? I don't know, let me look
Speaker 3: it up.
Speaker 2: Documentary South Africa, Aliens South Africa, UFO documentary.
Speaker 3: Eye service is bad anyway? District not no.
Speaker 2: Hi now, Yeah, we're hi. Thanks for joining us. I
Speaker 2: hope you guys really. I hope you guys really have
Speaker 2: a beautiful holiday and that you're easing into twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to do more podcasting and more talking
Speaker 2: and sharing and opening up of our community in twenty
Speaker 2: twenty six and growing and evolving and expanding in our
Speaker 2: relationship and our friendship and watching our kids grow up
Speaker 2: and being present in the most easeful, spacious way.
Speaker 3: And I hope that for you. And I'm high as
Speaker 3: hell now. So that's all I got. Please, if you're
Speaker 3: watching this, if you're listening, please leave every review and
Speaker 3: please tell us what you want to see or hear
Speaker 3: more of next year. Yeah. You know, we've been doing
Speaker 3: this for eight years. It's just two of us, two
Speaker 3: brains back and forth having ideas and things. But it
Speaker 3: would be really nice if you know, if you're on
Speaker 3: a discord, if you're not on discord during Patreon, so
Speaker 3: you can be in our discord. We're talking a lot
Speaker 3: over there, but we want feedback and we tend to
Speaker 3: lean into our community, So call of it. Texta bitch,
Speaker 3: let us know what do you want to see and
Speaker 3: hear from? And like, who do you want to hear from?
Speaker 3: With guests, I love you. I'm deeply grateful for everyone
Speaker 3: who has discovered us and followed us and stayed on
Speaker 3: the on the airwaves with us. It's a blessing to
Speaker 3: be able to do this for eight years almost And yeah,
Speaker 3: I love you guys.
Speaker 1: Please, Yeah, I'm live, been so good.
Speaker 3: Can't you tell?
Speaker 6: I went through a drought?
Speaker 3: That's it till I found out?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 3: May my have been known?
Speaker 2: Art?
Speaker 6: I used to be broken tail now got the blues,
Speaker 6: dancing might Beyonce Jisell, throat shot with popping. It's cowering
Speaker 6: our voices, patriarchy, ketch it in the bus to exploit us.
Speaker 2: Women put the p and powers, So what's pointing?
Speaker 3: And they want me to be good?
Speaker 1: So I made bad choices.
Speaker 6: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.
Speaker 6: It's in on for cannabis in ther backbone, walked in
Speaker 6: Boston's cap and I blew his cat boss hot Dog.
Speaker 6: Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie in the
Speaker 6: waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.
Speaker 3: Mother, rent the lover when too.
Speaker 2: It's like a water sign where you're.
Speaker 6: Rent the winter essential will when the summertime.
Speaker 3: I do it all. Ain't know one that needs to
Speaker 3: run it by