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Speaker 1: What up, y'all? What's up?

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Speaker 2: Welcome, Welcome, Welcome to adulting. I feel like every time

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Speaker 2: we do this, I grow a little bit, a little taller,

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Speaker 2: a little wiser, a little stronger.

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Speaker 3: I guess I think it makes me a little older.

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Speaker 1: But go ahead, like rings on a tree.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, yes, rings on my titty. Hey everyone,

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Speaker 4: welcome to adulting. I'm Michelbyeau. This is Jordan Carlos. One

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Speaker 4: day he'll be confident enough.

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Speaker 3: To just go through the intro.

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Speaker 4: Do it, Jordan, you know what, I am confident enough

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Speaker 4: to do the ull see right now? Back up, back

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Speaker 4: the fuck back up, not picking the levels.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? I'm Jordan Carlos. Welcome to adulting.

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Speaker 2: I love this show so much because I get to

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Speaker 2: do it with one of my besties.

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Speaker 1: In the entire world. Michelle Buteau.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Michelle renee Alissando Fra Polonia Heih Smith the second

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Speaker 2: and I get that's right with her. She's only been

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Speaker 2: up since six thirty in the morning. Everybody where her

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Speaker 2: kids bounce up and down on her bed like a

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Speaker 2: goddamn trampoline.

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Speaker 1: Dude, you sleep in a bouncy castle. Why did these

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Speaker 1: kids do this.

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Speaker 3: My body is a bouncy castle, that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: My body is a tempopedic mattress, and everybody wants to

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Speaker 4: just balance some red wine on it.

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Speaker 3: It's hard looking this fun.

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Speaker 4: Like with the with the titties and the booty they

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Speaker 4: want to jump on and then like, my little otis

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Speaker 4: is lifting my titties up. He's like, mamma, you will

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Speaker 4: be so heavy, and I say, yes, he does, he does.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 4: I call them my tas my titty assistant because they

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Speaker 4: just hold them up.

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Speaker 3: And that's what love is for. Keep shining, hold.

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Speaker 1: One up right. That's amazing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thanks so much. But you know, I'm really trying.

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Speaker 4: I always say this, I'm really trying to find motherfucking

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Speaker 4: joy in the day today. Like the dishwasher. Sometimes I

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Speaker 4: have to be like, bitch, you got a dishwasher and

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Speaker 4: you live in New York. You've made it, you've made it,

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Speaker 4: but you gotta feel it again. And I'm just like, ooh,

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Speaker 4: my feet are dirty, but bitch, you got all ten toes.

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Speaker 4: You ever seen my left foot? That motherfucker was getting

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Speaker 4: shit done with his left foot. He also had seventeen

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I watch ninety D Fiance to make myself feel better,

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Speaker 4: and it works. What do you watch to make yourself

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Speaker 4: feel better?

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Speaker 2: What do I watch to make myself feel better? I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you right now. I've been watching a lot

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Speaker 2: of stuff that our friends have been making. Namely, I

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Speaker 2: said I watched The Circle did that?

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Speaker 1: Loved it? Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Ooh, Jordan has entered the chat everywhat chat.

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Speaker 2: I've been watching Ted Lasso because my friend Jamie Lee

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Speaker 2: is the executive producer there.

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Speaker 4: That's right, really good love Jamie Luke.

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Speaker 3: I love Jimmi Lee. We gotta get her on the show.

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Speaker 3: Jimmie Lee, I know.

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Speaker 4: I was like, uh, I'm getting tired, I'm slurring words here.

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Speaker 2: We are, Jamie Lee. I've been watching a League of

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Speaker 2: their Own. Abby Jacobsen made that. But I've also been

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Speaker 2: watching Bust Down because our good buddy Lanson Kerman is

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Speaker 2: on that.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, oh that's really cool though, Jordan. I love

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Speaker 4: that you are not only watching your friends things and

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Speaker 4: supporting them, but also they have been females like you

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Speaker 4: just listed three incredible females me lol. Jamie and Abby,

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Speaker 4: and I just love that networks all of a sudden

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Speaker 4: have money to give us a do dope shit bitch.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Yeah, I love I love shows

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Speaker 3: in New York.

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Speaker 4: I feel like New York is such a specific place,

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Speaker 4: you know, whether you're a rich bitch or whether get

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Speaker 3: It's a little gully.

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Speaker 4: It's such a colorful, fucking play. Truly, Like sometimes I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, they're beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Damn it. This place is so gorgeous and so nothing

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Speaker 4: irks me fucking more, okay than when people do a

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Speaker 4: show about New York not in New York.

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Speaker 1: Marta Coffin were looking at you. I'm not naming names.

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Speaker 4: It's not how I met your mother, lol. But no,

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Speaker 4: I'm just like I know when it's a set. I

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Speaker 4: you understand, you know, like Atlanta is beautiful, Alanta is Atlanta, Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: Is not New York.

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Speaker 4: I hate to be this bitch, but truly, like Toronto,

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Speaker 4: I love you, honey, thank you for giving us Drake

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Speaker 4: and what Justin, Justin Bieber and Deborah Cox love you

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Speaker 4: so much.

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Speaker 3: And everybody else from Toronto, thank.

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Speaker 5: You, Toronto.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel but I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't. Did you ever watch Friday Night Lights?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched Friday Night Okay, but not a lot

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Speaker 2: of it.

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Speaker 4: I have to admit, I'm just saying you're from Texas?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Does it just irk you when you could tell it's

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Speaker 4: not Texas or what is not a southern accent specifically

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Speaker 2: You want authentic, you want to smell it. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: there's no substitute. There is no substitute. You're absolutely right,

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Speaker 2: there is no substitute really for New York City.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean sometimes and things are.

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Speaker 2: Shot in Texas, like the whole show Dallas was shot

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Speaker 2: was like, that's not what Dallas really looks like. And

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Speaker 2: it was like shot so that it looked like there's

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Speaker 2: oil derecks every place in oil pumps, and that's just

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Speaker 2: not what the city looks like.

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Speaker 1: It's very bland and boring. But it does not look

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Speaker 2: And actually I wish it looked like that, but it doesn't,

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Speaker 2: you know, so yeah, I feel you. There is no

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Speaker 2: substitute for New York. There is no substitute for Brooklyn.

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Speaker 2: I love when you shoot New York. I love taking

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Speaker 2: up whole blocks. I love a good head ad truck.

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Speaker 2: It's just those long trucks, blue and white trucks that

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Speaker 1: And you're like, that's right. I'm doing teens around here,

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Speaker 1: big tings.

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Speaker 2: And I love bl bl bloh. But I advise you, right,

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Speaker 2: I advise you right now on your show. I'm not

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Speaker 2: whatever you do, Michelle. If you have a bodega in

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Speaker 2: the in the in the script, put that in a studio.

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Speaker 1: Do not do not. This should be a law. Do

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Speaker 1: not shoot in a bodega in New York.

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Speaker 3: Why I'm shot in About Digga in New York?

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Speaker 5: Can I tell you?

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Speaker 3: I was shot in About Digga in New.

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Speaker 4: York for a movie called Almost Love, directed and written

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Speaker 4: by Mike Doyle, who's an amazing actor and director, and

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Speaker 4: we should have him on the show.

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Speaker 3: And my body it felt like I was.

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Speaker 4: Just in the middle seat of an airplane because my tities.

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Speaker 4: We're hitting, just knocking planting chips off the fucking racks

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, He's like just walk

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Speaker 4: I was like, I'm trying to do it.

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Speaker 3: But every time I had a walk and.

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Speaker 4: Talk, like my body was just like like the alpa.

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Speaker 3: Was flying off.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, I mean.

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Speaker 3: But it's authentic.

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Speaker 5: It's authentic.

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Speaker 2: But you know what else is going on? People use

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Speaker 2: that as their pantry. They always come. Sometimes that's your pantry.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes that's your weed spot, and people like the people

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Speaker 2: of New York City are.

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Speaker 1: Like, what what's going on now?

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Speaker 2: I've had people full on just fully walk into a

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Speaker 2: scene like, yeah, I'm trying to get chop cheese right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, my man, we're shooting as commercial.

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Speaker 1: Could you please?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but somebody should be telling them not now, because

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Speaker 4: a bodega is on every corner. If you guys don't

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Speaker 4: know what a bodega is, George, yeah, can you explain.

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Speaker 4: But it's so much more than a deli. It's okay,

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Speaker 4: you know how you think of like barbershops as like

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Speaker 4: a place where you can go have a kiki that

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Speaker 4: is sort of a bodega shop. But you can stay

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Speaker 4: there for a while, or you can keep it moving.

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Speaker 4: They might have your favorite sandwich. It definitely is not clean,

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Speaker 4: but it's not dirty.

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Speaker 2: It's it's uh, it's usually like there's no vermin in

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Speaker 2: there because there's the bodega cat. And then, of course

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Speaker 2: you can always check out what the headlines are in

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Speaker 2: the New York Post.

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Speaker 1: Not buying either, not buying either. You're not gonna buy either,

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Speaker 1: No you're not.

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Speaker 4: You ain't gonna buy it, not even for the horoscope.

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Speaker 1: Don't even. Don't you do it? The horoscope?

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Speaker 5: Don't you do it? Don't you?

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Speaker 2: You can flip to page six and see what Cindy

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Speaker 2: Adams is talking about, but don't you buy that?

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Speaker 3: Now you can go to page six dot com.

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Speaker 1: You could do that. See.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know why they print that that paper anymore,

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Speaker 2: but there it is.

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Speaker 5: You know what?

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Speaker 4: But this is what I Okay, So if you guys

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Speaker 4: don't know what page six is, page six is obviously

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Speaker 4: the page six in those and it gives you all

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Speaker 4: the celebrity dish right, the gossip. But it's like before

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Speaker 4: we even had all these other shows about entertainment. We

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Speaker 4: happened in Vegas, And so page six is so iconic

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Speaker 4: and monumental they turned it into a TV show right

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Speaker 4: to give you all the headlines. And what's so crazy,

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Speaker 4: Jordan that you brought that up is because our guest

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Speaker 4: for this stellar, motherfucking episode of adulting that you do

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Speaker 4: not want to miss and listen to more than one

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Speaker 4: time features has Bebby Smith, Black beautiful, big titty icond

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Speaker 4: of New York and resident of the motherfucker world. And

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Speaker 4: she was one of the hosts on page six, and like, look,

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Speaker 4: she is so much more.

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Speaker 3: Than page six.

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Speaker 4: Sorry page six, I said it, She's all the pages

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Speaker 4: in the book.

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Speaker 3: In fact, she's written a book, bev Lations.

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Speaker 4: Should you read it?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Should you keep it next to your night standing with

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Speaker 4: Jensen cereals you are a bad us? Yes, because it

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Speaker 4: is a brown titty bible. You heard it here first

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Speaker 4: and hopefully not least. So please everybody do what you

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Speaker 4: are doing already and enua the isms that is miss

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Speaker 4: Bevy motherfucker Smith.

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Speaker 1: Did we get any of that.

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna get better than that, bitch.

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Speaker 4: I know, make some noise if you're in your twenties,

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Speaker 4: Fuck it, make some noise if you're in your thirties.

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Speaker 4: She I think like she was the sixth West. That is,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a voice here, that is that voice

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Speaker 4: I can't tell she needs a orgasm where just knows

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Speaker 4: Like it's good? Do you know how to do it?

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Speaker 4: Of course, if you and your forties make some motherfucker noise. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 4: Thank you for coming and making all the plants. You

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Speaker 4: You did it? Keep talking about it.

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Speaker 1: Everything's trash? Okay?

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Speaker 1: What did you go to school for when I go

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Speaker 4: Why did you sound like Obama when you said.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy with Michelle. Oh my god, the other Michelle.

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Speaker 4: It's weird every time, but I love it and I

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Speaker 4: what you've gone for. This's my whole life. It's like

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Speaker 4: It was a real ass, long ass journey of believing

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Speaker 4: make her look good. Maybe I can make myself look good.

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Speaker 4: Nine to eleven happened. I'm like, we're all gonna die.

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Speaker 4: We are not promised tomorrow. What the fuck am I

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Speaker 4: waiting for? Why am I waiting for someone else to

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Speaker 4: And so I wrote the book that was crazy. And

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Speaker 4: I'm like it is important. They're like, yeah, bitch, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: we should make it a show. They're like, that's what

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Speaker 4: we just said, bitch, And they go, you're really funny.

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Speaker 5: I said, I am right. They're like, look at all.

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Speaker 4: The stuff you've done.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I've done a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 4: They're like, how long is this gonna go on? I said, okay,

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Speaker 4: Number one thank God of age?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's number one true, come on, don.

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Speaker 4: I mean, oh you guys.

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Speaker 3: You guys, thank God to age.

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Speaker 4: Well, I thank god, Like we live in a time

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Speaker 4: do you know what I mean? Like, we just gotta

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Speaker 4: Like if you have a thought or a thoughty, hey

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Speaker 4: just kidding, can you.

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Speaker 1: Different area?

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Speaker 2: Can you just be serious about your experience for a second,

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Speaker 4: Be yummy, yummy yummy. No, I'm just kidding, but like, well,

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, if you have a German of an idea,

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Speaker 4: talk shit. People talk shit about Tina Turner, Grace Jones,

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Speaker 4: know what, they are fucking perfect? Ju I mean, like

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Speaker 4: Holly Berry's getting cheated on.

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Speaker 1: Go out and live your life.

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Speaker 5: It don't fucking matter. Bars fucking that's my.

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Speaker 4: Big titty ted talk.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: What Oh my gosh, I'm in some kind of way.

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Speaker 1: I'm in some happy for you.

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Speaker 5: I'm happy for.

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Speaker 4: Us, friend, look at us filming in New York, no

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Speaker 4: drug test. It's great and I living my lives edibles

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Speaker 5: Let's get on with that show.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 4: I am very excited for our guests. Yes, because I

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Speaker 4: know she don't like to do things. She is very picky,

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Speaker 3: I love picky people. You better show me what standards

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Speaker 3: But every think on my plate? How did she? What's that?

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, she's a fashion maven.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I mean icon, and she's here doing our little show.

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Speaker 4: Adult to give it up, forty.

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Speaker 1: Bevy Smith.

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Speaker 2: Everybody doesn't she look amazing doing.

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Speaker 1: It all in heels and with a purse.

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Speaker 4: Run a purse up, put your first here, give me

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Speaker 4: your chair and stands ma'am, Wait, what's happening?

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Speaker 5: No, No, let's get joined another chair. Too tight? It

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Speaker 5: too tight. I'm always in a dress, so my vagina

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Speaker 4: You know what do you ever feel like when you

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's so awful.

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Speaker 3: I will give America a pap smerror.

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Speaker 4: It's too much.

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Speaker 6: Yes, you always are fearful that like you're gonna see

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Speaker 1: You got a chair for you?

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Speaker 5: I don't want, no, want to be on the same

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Speaker 3: Well, now he's gonna be larger.

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Speaker 5: No, don't, don't have that chair. Take the chair in

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Speaker 6: I never asked for a chair unless everyone else has

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Speaker 4: Ma'am, ma'am, you brought your person on stage, I'm not here.

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Speaker 6: That means all the credit cards go through honey, right,

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Speaker 6: all of them. No, but that was only because my

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Speaker 6: So I think, just and this is Brooklyn. See, I'm

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Speaker 6: Brooklyn is really about. You people with your little gentrified

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Speaker 5: Don't really know what it's about. You know what?

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Speaker 5: But were you in the house when it was okay?

445
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Speaker 3: Oh bo?

446
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 6: But by how many people that like hear a biggie

447
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 6: song they're like, yeah, Brooklyn, we're Brooklyn at Meanwhile, where

448
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 6: was they at when Brooklyn was really Brooklyn. They went

449
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 6: Oklahoma or something. So that's what I'm gonna say.

450
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Speaker 3: A couple of things there.

451
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 4: I love to unpack this because I moved to Brooklyn

452
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 4: twenty thirteen with my white husband. I'm like, am I

453
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 4: part of the problem with solution? But it's very confusing

454
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 4: as a Caribbean American. One two went to Kendrick Lamar

455
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 4: concept probably twenty seventeen Barclay's was.

456
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,399
Speaker 5: That all white or white?

457
00:21:59,600 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

458
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 4: It was like lawyers from Long Island and their kids,

459
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 4: And I'm like, where are y'all at at the BLM protests?

460
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 4: But you know every word of every song. But also

461
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 4: like I'm just trying to figure out if it's a

462
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 4: good thing or a bad thing.

463
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Speaker 1: Gentrification definitely bad.

464
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 6: Well I I well, I mean, please, Darling, you look

465
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Speaker 6: like fucking dick cab it down there?

466
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Speaker 5: Have this? Have it?

467
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: You know what here, Let's put the purse in the chair,

468
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 2: the person the chair the purse is I mean.

469
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Speaker 1: That is yeah, that is the moment right there, That

470
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Speaker 1: is the moment there is a person.

471
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, purse first, Like bop the track when says I

472
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 4: moved to Brooklyn in two thousand and one, so fairly

473
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 4: early an Italian neighborhood.

474
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 2: So I gingriflied that neighborhood and it is now thoroughly

475
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Speaker 2: not Italian. They're like, which one never gonna tell?

476
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

477
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 4: All right, Yeah, I love that you describe yourself as

478
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 4: a late bloomer, a great bloomer.

479
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 6: Well, actually, Chris Rock called me a late bloomer, and

480
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 6: I just decided to not take it as an insult

481
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 6: but to embrace it. Yeah, Chris Rock called me a

482
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 6: late bloomer. I never thought myself as a late bloomer

483
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,360
Speaker 6: because I've been successful since I was in my twenties,

484
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 6: but I was not successful as an entertainment person until

485
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 6: I got into my forties, So hence the late bloomer.

486
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 4: Did you always have, you know, a passion for entertainment

487
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 4: or did you just fall into it? Were you the

488
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 4: funny one at the office exactly?

489
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 6: That's why I always tell people like the funny one

490
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 6: the office has probably got what it takes to actually

491
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 6: make it in the business, but they just don't know it.

492
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was definitely, you know. I so my dream.

493
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Speaker 6: Montage of a bad life for me, Not a bad

494
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 6: life for other people, but a bad life for me,

495
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 6: is I am married to an amazing city worker who's

496
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 6: a supervisor. Sure, oh wait wait wait wait, I like

497
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 6: and twenty five thousand dollars a year, now do not exactly?

498
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 6: I am an office manager and I make one hundred

499
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 6: and fifty. But I also skim off the side. Okay, okay,

500
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 6: from the Petty cast. From the Petty cast. We have

501
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Speaker 6: a Yes, we have a time share where we have

502
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Speaker 6: in Florida. Of course, don't time share, sir, and and

503
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Speaker 6: I and we have a co op. And we have

504
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 6: two children who go to parochial school, which is the

505
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 6: middle class, lower middle class version of a private school.

506
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 6: It's amazing. Shout out to everyone in here who went

507
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 6: to private school. I did not went to public school,

508
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 6: so that I'm never trying to diss.

509
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 5: But so that was like my idea.

510
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Speaker 1: Of my dream.

511
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Speaker 6: And in that dream and that onash, I was the

512
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 6: very popular office manager. And because I was funny, everyone

513
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 6: wanted to come and tell me their problems, their stories.

514
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 6: I always had the best big goods, old laying away

515
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 6: themist yes, so moist, yes, so moist.

516
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 4: Yes, the secret ingredient's nutmeke go.

517
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 5: On yes, yes.

518
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 6: And so that was my life and I never even

519
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 6: thought about being in entertainment until I was like super

520
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 6: successful as a fashion a luxury fashion advertising executive.

521
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 5: All those words. I know, but it's trill. But what

522
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 5: was it like.

523
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 6: Luxury fashion advertising executive actually executorists. But I tried to spear, y'all,

524
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 6: you better put it on it. Yeah, yeah, no, but

525
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 6: it was really a great gig. Like in two thousand

526
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 6: and five, I was like making three hundred and fifty

527
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 6: thousand dollars a year, So.

528
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Speaker 5: Bitch, put all the words on it. Okay, yes, So

529
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 5: it was. It was a really nice life until it wasn't.

530
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 5: And then I decided I don't want this. I want

531
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 5: to do something different.

532
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 6: I said, I'm gonna give the old show business an

533
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 6: old twirl. And I said, I think I got Well,

534
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 6: it takes to razzle dazzle, yes, and you do, and

535
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 6: so far it seems that I do.

536
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: I'll say sorry.

537
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 2: I was just gonna ask you, what was that kind

538
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 2: of point where you were, like your saturation point, where

539
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 2: you're like, Okay, I'm gonna leave all this corporate America

540
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: behind and I'm gonna go and be an artist.

541
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Speaker 6: Well, it was really basically, really very easy. I was

542
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 6: burnt out. I was a heinous person. I had ten

543
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 6: assistants in five years. You're not a great person if

544
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 6: you have ten assistants in five years.

545
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: Ten assistants in five years.

546
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that means you're going through the folks.

547
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 5: Okay, like a boxer and themIn donuts when you smoke too.

548
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 3: Much of me, I should just get them instead of

549
00:26:59,440 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 3: dunk a donut.

550
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 5: You shut?

551
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 3: That makes sense?

552
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 1: Shut? Yeah? Was it? You had a certain kind of disposition?

553
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 5: What was that? Well?

554
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 6: You know, in fashion, as everyone who's watched Devil Wiz

555
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 6: Father can attest to, being a bitch is a really

556
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 6: good business.

557
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: It's a really great skill.

558
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 6: Interesting if you're in fashion, Yeah, being a bitch is

559
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 6: a is a big business.

560
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: You know.

561
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 4: I have to ask you about working in the fashion

562
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 4: industry because you know, now we're writing my show, I'm

563
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:34,719
Speaker 4: going to be playing a plus sized stylist by choice.

564
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I want the clothes to look good.

565
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

566
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 4: And I'm tired of settling for your black and cheetah

567
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I mean, no shade if

568
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 4: you like that. But I'm just like, it's there's no

569
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 4: inclusivity whatsoever.

570
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 5: No, no, no, And it's and.

571
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 4: Now like I feel like places are just like jumping

572
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 4: on the bandwagon. I don't know if they really believe

573
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 4: that everybody is beautiful or if they just want money.

574
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 6: They just want money, that's it. They just want money.

575
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 6: But we don't really care what their intentions are. Really, honestly,

576
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 6: we don't have to care. The fashion business doesn't like

577
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 6: women of any shape or size. Come on, they don't

578
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 6: like women, And it's a business built on feeding off

579
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 6: of your insecurities, encouraging them so that then you can.

580
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 5: Buy their product. That won't work.

581
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 6: It will not make you feel better about yourself for

582
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 6: longer than like an hour, and then you go back

583
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 6: and you buy something else.

584
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 4: And it's just But isn't that America?

585
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 6: Yes, consumerism, Yes, it's consumerism.

586
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 5: So yes, So.

587
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 6: That's fashion is just a part of capitalism and consumerism.

588
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 6: It's just more glamorous and sexy. And it was glamorous,

589
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,719
Speaker 6: like I'm sill on Jordan backstage. I went to Europe

590
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,719
Speaker 6: six times a year for like, you know, flying first class,

591
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 6: staying in suites at the best hotels, and it was

592
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 6: like Milan, Paris, Rome, London.

593
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 1: It was all the things. It was chic, Van Shick's thing.

594
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 3: But it was it was, Yes, it was especially.

595
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 5: For a black girl from Harlem, and you.

596
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 6: Know whose dad was a copper refined and reforman and

597
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 6: whose mom cleaned houses. So yeah, it was definitely wow.

598
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 6: Moving on up, we finally got a piece of the

599
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,239
Speaker 6: pie kind of moment. But because of the way I

600
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 6: was raised by these amazing people, I also knew that

601
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 6: I was deserving of that. So I didn't grow up

602
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 6: in a space where you gotta work ten times harder

603
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 6: than the white person to make it.

604
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 5: I never heard that.

605
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 6: My parents were like, you're great, do your best, work

606
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 6: really hard, do what you say.

607
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 5: You're gonna do, and you're gonna make it. And that

608
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 5: was my formula. I I've never tried to outwork nobody.

609
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 6: And to this day I'm the most vacation taking bitch

610
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 6: you will ever be. Yes, you better take that vacation

611
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 6: just so no, I'm I'm in saying, as a matter

612
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 6: of fact, when you did. I had a I did

613
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 6: a show called Page six TV and Michelle for six.

614
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 5: Don't say it.

615
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 4: Like that, sorry, I'm at page six.

616
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 3: You're like Dunkin Donuts.

617
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 4: Get the fuck exactly exactly.

618
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 6: That's the way you mean it, but Michelle actually subbed

619
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 6: for me because I was on vacation. I literally on

620
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 6: that job, which was a daily TV show. I had

621
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 6: I think written into my contract twelve weeks vacation something

622
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 6: in Oh.

623
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I don't want to be there.

624
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 2: What in the European lifestyle exactly, that's amazing.

625
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 5: I have a job at Serious SEXIM. I have a

626
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 5: radio show called Bevilations.

627
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 6: Channel one two, and I literally have I think ten

628
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 6: weeks vacation there.

629
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm not working. You trying to get ten

630
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 5: minutes in Spain? What the hell is happening a dinner

631
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 5: at nine p m? What you can negotiaate me? And

632
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 5: when in if you can negotiate it?

633
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 6: But you probably like you just say that again, but

634
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 6: you probably like to work. And you can negotiate anything

635
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 6: in life.

636
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 4: You can negotiate anything in life, that's like business or

637
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 4: personal relationship. You can negotiate anything.

638
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: Anything in life.

639
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 5: But we just have to know that we have to

640
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 5: own that shit.

641
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 6: We have to be comfortable and who we are and

642
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 6: know that our gifts will make room for us. I

643
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 6: know that's so like trite, but it's really actually fuck true.

644
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: Your gifts will make room for you.

645
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 6: But you have to know that and go forth and

646
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 6: act as though it will. Yeah, and that's what you

647
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 6: call it.

648
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 5: Revelation. We're just the name of my folk revelations.

649
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 6: Lessons from my mother Auntie Besty.

650
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 5: Please go buy it.

651
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, give me an airing on. I love this. Wait

652
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 4: a minute, let's talk vacation. Yes, yes, do you have

653
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 4: friends that don't know how to vacation?

654
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 6: Well, I have friends who don't believe in vacation.

655
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 3: I don't unders saying what that means.

656
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 6: People are like I just like after three days, I'm

657
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 6: like restless and I just need to get back home.

658
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 6: I'm like, what that makes no sense to me. So

659
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 6: I am a solo traveler. I'm a solo traveler meant

660
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 6: to India alone, Africa alone. I know this, Mike sounds

661
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,959
Speaker 6: sad or something, but it's really amazing. I've been all

662
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 6: over the world by myself. I've also traveled with people

663
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 6: to exactly places in the world, but I've definitely been

664
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 6: all over the world, probably to six continents by myself. Wow,

665
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 6: I've never been the Antarctica. So if anyone's out there

666
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 6: who wants to take.

667
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 4: Me Jordan, Jordan's got a wife.

668
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: So I'm looking you know, I'm looking for some cushion

669
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: in the push and pushing in the cushion.

670
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 4: Oh okay, where are.

671
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 5: There any single man anybody want? Cool? Yeah? Cool, great show.

672
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 4: But like, also a fun rule is taking trips to

673
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 4: meet guys, not to bring them, Like why bring sand

674
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 4: to the beach?

675
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

676
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 5: I also don't.

677
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 6: I literally don't ever go on a trip with the

678
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 6: mindset of I'm going to get some cock.

679
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 5: Okay, that's not my jam.

680
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 3: No, not Stella.

681
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 6: So I'm definitely never gonna be Stella getting a groove back.

682
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't lose my groove.

683
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, why are we marrying the vacation dick? That's not?

684
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 6: Oh my god, they bringing them back so I can

685
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 6: send your house on and play PlayStation that's and.

686
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 4: Just order all the uber eats. I don't like that.

687
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 4: So what do you look for in a good vacation?

688
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 4: Is it? Do you like to go travel like and

689
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 4: do a bunch of stuff all day? Are you just

690
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 4: sitting on a beach?

691
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 6: No, it's It's really depends on where I'm at with it.

692
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: Now.

693
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 6: I told you guys, I get a lot of vacation,

694
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 6: so I am able to mix it up. So sometimes

695
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 6: I'm exploring really amazing cities.

696
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: I like you NESCo.

697
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 6: Spaces, shout out to you, NESC.

698
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 5: I don't know I'm making on.

699
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: It's world heritage sites.

700
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 5: Yes you can be black and from more all them.

701
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 5: It sound like this, and know what you mess?

702
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 3: What federal funding in Jersey? I have no clue.

703
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 5: So wait a minute.

704
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 4: Not to be a Debbie Downer, but I just like

705
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 4: to talk about the real, real traveling by yourself as

706
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 4: a beautiful black buxom woman making eye contact, looking friendly.

707
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes people want to touch her.

708
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 6: Hair, and sometimes people think you're a prostitute.

709
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 4: That part has happened to me. Spain, Los Rumbelo something

710
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 4: Geneva for me. Interesting Geneva of all places.

711
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 6: In the wardrobe, Wilson Hotel, Wardrone, Wilson. I feel like

712
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 6: that's where it would happen.

713
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 5: You know. But did you know there's a woman that

714
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:51,720
Speaker 5: Woodrow Wilson was black?

715
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: Someone google it?

716
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 3: What the fuck?

717
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 1: Yeah?

718
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 5: Well yeah, yeah Wilson.

719
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 1: Look, no, I see that because Woodrow were the first

720
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 1: thing he did when he got to DC. He was like,

721
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: there's too many black people walking around here.

722
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: He was doing too much. You know what I'm saying

723
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 2: he's doing too much. He invited segregation. Yeah, and then

724
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:12,919
Speaker 2: he was like, he's like, we need to watch Birth

725
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: of a Nation in the White House. Yes, exactly, who

726
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 2: who fucking does that except a secretly black person?

727
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead, So there you go, Jean Cognegro.

728
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 4: I said, yeah, do you go dancing by yourself all

729
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 4: the time? Interesting?

730
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:27,439
Speaker 6: Yeah?

731
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 1: No, no, No, you're your own company?

732
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 4: You really do.

733
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: I enjoy my own company also too.

734
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 6: Honestly, guys, life is really short, even though I have

735
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 6: great jeans.

736
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 5: My father died at ninety five.

737
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 6: My mother is ninety four, so I'll probably be around

738
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 6: forever of the day. But still, especially with all the

739
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 6: vacations I'm taking. But still, life is short and so

740
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 6: well for me. I'm a scorpio, so I'm heatonistic, and.

741
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: I really do.

742
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 5: I take my pleasures seriously.

743
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 4: Oh that eye contact was serious.

744
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 5: It was.

745
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 3: Serious.

746
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 4: So let me ask you a question. As a person

747
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:14,240
Speaker 4: who is also joyful, I attract a lot of sad

748
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 4: people who want me to help them have fun.

749
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 2: Fu.

750
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: Man, Wow, we're doing this right now.

751
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 5: You're not sad?

752
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, thank you. I'm a New York lonely boy,

753
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 2: that's all, you know.

754
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:42,399
Speaker 5: I love that.

755
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're fun. I don't know, but I love that.

756
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: I enjoy the river. It's nice, just love looking at

757
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: his depth.

758
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 4: Go on, how do you deal with friends who always

759
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 4: want to see the glass half full?

760
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:01,479
Speaker 5: I don't really have friends like that.

761
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: I'm not.

762
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 5: That's that doesn't bring me joy? Got it?

763
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 6: So I'm also a selfish person, and ladies take that

764
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 6: up as a fucking hobby.

765
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: Learn to be fucking self.

766
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 4: You heard it here first, bitches.

767
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 6: Bitches, No, I'd like no, I take my pleasures seriously

768
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 6: because if I don't, who will you teach people who

769
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 6: how to treat you?

770
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, you teach people how to treat you.

771
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 6: So you have to like show up and show out

772
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 6: and let people know. Yeah, not so much with your

773
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 6: Debbie down the bullshit. And if you are like that,

774
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 6: unless you're a client aka someone who's gonna pay me,

775
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 6: you know, a five figure check to come and speak somewhere,

776
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 6: then I will permit you to be a Debbie Downer.

777
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 1: Because it's just one dinner, three hours. I'm gonna get

778
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: you fucked up.

779
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 6: We're gonna have a great time, and then at the

780
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 6: end of it, I'm gonna get a fucking up. Wait

781
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 6: on my check, please believe. Oh wow, I'm gonna show

782
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 6: you how to do this. Son, how come we're not taking.

783
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 4: Down almost write it down for me, Jordan, I have

784
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 4: something to tell you.

785
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm just kidding. Can you imagine? Can you imagine?

786
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 4: Okay, so the audience wrote down some questions about adulting

787
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 4: and they want us to answer them.

788
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:24,439
Speaker 1: Me down.

789
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 6: Oh, I guess we did just have a lot of

790
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 6: conversations about adulting.

791
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 3: Oh, how late.

792
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 4: It's too late to venmo someone.

793
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 6: I'm an instant venmoer instant as soon as it goes down.

794
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: I'm like in my Venmo situation.

795
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 4: Damn, I used to be good at it, but now

796
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 4: I owe you money. I know that. And then don

797
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 4: is Don will give me two days and he's just like,

798
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 4: I know you're busy.

799
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: You get a grace period.

800
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I used to be quick about it, but I say.

801
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 3: Say, I say, depends how much it is, Yeah.

802
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: Like, don't wait three days. But definitely, I mean for

803
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: you right now, I'm charging you the market rate.

804
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 5: But honey, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're we're.

805
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 3: Good like that. He knows I'm good for it.

806
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, So right, I gotta I gotta. Oh, here's

807
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: a question. How old is too old to do party drugs?

808
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 5: Oh?

809
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 6: Okay, now I have this to say about party drugs.

810
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 3: Let's talk about it. Oh wow.

811
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 6: I honestly, I honestly believe in New York City forty

812
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 6: In Kansas twenty eight, I feel.

813
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 4: Like because Kansas came out voting, they get like a

814
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 4: little leeway.

815
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 1: Okay, it's true. On the referendum, everybody's like, what happened?

816
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 1: All right? So how do I love being smart? How

817
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: do I get over?

818
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 2: How do I get over my fear of dating online dating?

819
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 2: How do I give my fear of online dating? Oh?

820
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 3: Do it as much as possible?

821
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 4: Yeah? And and did you find your husband on the No,

822
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:09,919
Speaker 4: it was just a one night stand.

823
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 3: It was old fashioned.

824
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, just getting tipsy and you know, just you know,

825
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 4: I put it in my wedding vows. Do you remember, mom? Oh,

826
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 4: someone goes, what's up with wisdom teeth?

827
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 2: Hannibal lecters in the house. Everybody with wisdom teeth?

828
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: What is all of them? I guess?

829
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

830
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know why you have to get rid of them, right,

831
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 4: because they're too big for your mouth?

832
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: Talk about it?

833
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 2: You know, I know that I have my wisdom teeth

834
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 2: still because I I thought I knew you.

835
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,760
Speaker 5: I know I.

836
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 2: If you have to get them removed because they're bumping

837
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 2: up against like a nerve, like, do that?

838
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 5: Get rid of them? What's up with wisdom teeth?

839
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: Why?

840
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 5: Why are we asking such weird?

841
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

842
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 5: Sorry?

843
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 4: To get back to online dating?

844
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 5: Yes?

845
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 4: Please, I say, fake it till you make it the

846
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 4: best version of yourself. Ask people a lot of questions.

847
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 4: Don't talk for more than two days, get right to it.

848
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 4: To set a coffee, Do a coffee or a drink.

849
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 4: Don't do a dinner. Do it during the day. If

850
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 4: you're not feeling safe, do it a neighborhood that you know.

851
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 4: Share your location with a friend. If you like them,

852
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,359
Speaker 4: don't keep it going. Just set another date and see

853
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 4: if they show up. You welcome?

854
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 5: Oh right, advice?

855
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 1: What tonys for you?

856
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 4: What are you working on next? We love you?

857
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 5: Oh that's so sweet.

858
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,320
Speaker 1: Why am I working on next? Well?

859
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 6: I'm in season two of Amazon Primes Harlem who byes

860
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 6: We Love Tracy Oliver Jasey Aliber at the age of

861
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 6: fifty five. I'm a young actress Angelu type.

862
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: I feel Angenu in my spirit.

863
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 3: Look from the waist downright.

864
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 5: Hello, you know, ooh.

865
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 4: This is ooh, this is a great question. I think

866
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 4: everybody on stage should answer this one. What advice would

867
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 4: you give your mid twenty year old self?

868
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 1: What if I should you give your mid twenty year

869
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: old self?

870
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

871
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 5: Oh I love this question, right.

872
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 2: Okay, No, I'm like, I'm like, all right, oh no,

873
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 2: I go my mid twenty year old self. Yeah, just

874
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: that you're doing the right thing, don't doubt yourself so much.

875
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: And yeah, you're actually deserving of a career, you know,

876
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: and your wisdom.

877
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 5: Teeth are fine just where they are.

878
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 4: Yes, oh, we never had an airhorn for someone's mouth.

879
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 6: Wait, and I would tell myself, yes, please, yes, go ahead.

880
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 5: Fuck Tupac.

881
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 1: That's so weird. That was the same advice.

882
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 2: That's something I was going to give myself, but I

883
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: stumbled ahead, Yeah, yeah, go ahead, and fuck.

884
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 5: Pop, give me a minute.

885
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: I'm feeling vulnerable to unpack that.

886
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 4: Whoa, I didn't know it was bad.

887
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: Bitch a clock.

888
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, bitches. Uh, don go ahead before.

889
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: I do it, though, Belly, your video just hit ted

890
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: talk just hit too many of views.

891
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's worth the watch. It's so good, so good.

892
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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 6: Please go watch Get It Up the Three.

894
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: I would tell myself that the world is way bigger

895
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 2: than Cincinnati, you know what I'm saying. I was doing

896
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 2: a lot of things and living for Cincinnati in my

897
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 2: mid twenties, and you know, it was a good foundation,

898
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 2: a good base.

899
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: But I took a message elsewhere, you know.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, yo, Cincinnati.

901
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 1: Oh, what's the name of that place.

902
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 6: It's got some kind of cute nickname, Cincy or the Natty, the.

903
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: Queen City, the Queen City, the Queen City.

904
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Speaker 3: Yes, that's about it.

905
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm expecting more.

906
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 4: I think everybody from Cincinnati is no shade. Thank you

907
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 4: for being here.

908
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: Wow, damn, what would your advice to your self?

909
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 4: Ben, I'm gonna be honest. I feel like it happens

910
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 4: the way it's supposed to.

911
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

912
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 4: So, you know, I was raised to be thoughtful and

913
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Speaker 4: polite and kind.

914
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 3: I still am that person. I've got my temper in check.

915
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 4: My husband would say different, but fuck him, and so yeah,

916
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't think I would. I think

917
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Speaker 4: it just happens the way it's supposed to be, you know. Yeah,

918
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:46,280
Speaker 4: yeah like that. Sorry, that was really underwhelming.

919
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: It's hard to top fucking tupac. I mean, we.

920
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 4: Asked all our guess, what is the most adult thing

921
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 4: you want to do for yourself this year that you

922
00:44:58,719 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 4: haven't yet?

923
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the most adult thing?

924
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 5: Yes, so pleas right, have a colliption fit?

925
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 3: Why we got these lights on?

926
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 5: What is going on?

927
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 4: Did your body just hit some switches? What's the most

928
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 4: adult thing?

929
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god? The most adult thing is?

930
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 6: Oh god, I'm going to start shopping at Lululemon.

931
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. Give it up for Bebby Smith met anybody amazing?

932
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Speaker 5: Thank you? Yeah?

933
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

934
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 5: You know what.

935
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: I love Bebby so much. I feel like.

936
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 4: When I invite her over, when she finally comes over,

937
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 4: it'll be the real Champagne in the good glass, you know.

938
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 5: What I mean.

939
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 4: She's a friend that's just like, open up the good lotion, bitch,

940
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 4: like you enjoy your life.

941
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

942
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 4: Like the minute, the minute I left the live show

943
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 4: with Bevy, I went to Delta dot com to see

944
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:10,359
Speaker 4: how much tickets.

945
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 3: To the a Malfy Coast was.

946
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 4: On the car ride, she looked at me up and down.

947
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 4: She's like, yeah, but you like to work. I'm like, damn,

948
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 4: I do but I love to work at having fun too,

949
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 4: and so I want to do that. Like you even

950
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 4: see me on vacation, like, yeah, it takes me a

951
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 4: little minute to warm up to getting in the water.

952
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,720
Speaker 4: I enjoy when other people are having a good time,

953
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 4: and that's just how the women and my family are.

954
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 4: But I want to like go and do it myself

955
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 4: and not worry if everyone's okay.

956
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 1: Yes, you want to break free and kind of just enjoy. Yes.

957
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 2: I really appreciated how she travels by herself. Yeah, and

958
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 2: that's totally okay. I mean it's not for everybody, but

959
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 2: it's also okay. That's what That's what I think she

960
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 2: really highlighted for me. I was like, oh my gosh,

961
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 2: the adventure. She's just so self possessed and knows who

962
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 2: she is and like turning that gear at thirty eight

963
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 2: and deciding that what she was doing, albeit she was

964
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 2: at the top of her form, top of her game,

965
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 2: making that money and successful, was not for her, despite

966
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 2: society telling her otherwise.

967
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 5: Ough, she has.

968
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 4: Had nine lives and I love that one job will

969
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 4: not defind her. And I think that we get stuck

970
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 4: in this, like even people asking my kids all the

971
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 4: time what do you want to be when you grow up?

972
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 4: It's like, they're three and a half. Let's get through

973
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 4: potty training. Plus they could be more than one thing.

974
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 4: Which school do you want to send them to?

975
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 3: Michelle? Hello, we are still trying.

976
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 4: To take a poop in a toilet. But I'll tell

977
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 4: you what, Whether they want to go to school or not,

978
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 4: that is up to them. That is a conversation that

979
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 4: we could have later. You know, doing things because we

980
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 4: think we're supposed to do them, you know, to make

981
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 4: society happy or to assimilate or whatever is not the move.

982
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 3: It is not the bag. It is really.

983
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 4: Finding your own joy, you know, within and if it's

984
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 4: actually going to school. I have cousins that love to

985
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 4: get degrees, you know, that's how they find joy. And

986
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, do that That's not me? But I'm not

987
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 4: mad at it. Yeah, what is that for you?

988
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: You mean finding like what brings me joy in that way?

989
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd say I do feel like the accomplishment of

990
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 2: a project makes me feel that way, especially if it's

991
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: something that I came up with myself. Finishing completion makes

992
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 2: me happy. Completing a book makes me happy, Completing a series.

993
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:33,279
Speaker 2: I'm a completionist. I love that I'm a completist. I

994
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 2: think that's how it said. That's what brings me black

995
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 2: boy joy, as you said, and just those little things

996
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 2: make me because I have a lot of like issues

997
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 2: with self worth. So when I do them and I

998
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 2: say I can get through this, m M, I'll never

999
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 2: maybe treble up to where like Bevy's at, where she's

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Speaker 2: like and.

1001
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,760
Speaker 1: Then I went to caprit by myself.

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Speaker 5: You know.

1003
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: But it's like just dispelling the voices that kind of

1004
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 2: like yes live and here rent free and saying I

1005
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 2: can be intelligent and have this knowledge without being second

1006
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 2: place to other people and like know what I know,

1007
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 2: know my stuff and if that's imposing on others, then

1008
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 2: that's their problem.

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00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: That's my long journey.

1010
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 3: Look, look, I love that.

1011
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 4: I just saw this on Ali Womback's podcast with her wife.

1012
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 4: Everybody has needs, but nobody wants to be needy. But

1013
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 4: if you need it, yeah, you take it, you get it.

1014
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 4: And so thank you guys for podcasting. Everybody who's podcasting

1015
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 4: out there, everybody who's listening to this who feels like

1016
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 4: they want to start a podcast, why.

1017
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 3: The fuck that?

1018
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?

1019
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 3: Just like why the fuck not.

1020
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,839
Speaker 4: There's more than one supermarket, there gonna be one more

1021
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 4: than one podcast, and also finding your joy and figuring

1022
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 4: out what you need. Man, go ahead and do it.

1023
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,439
Speaker 4: If you haven't done it this year, fucking figure it out.

1024
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Speaker 3: I gotta go take my broth. Love you guys.

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Speaker 4: Bye, It's time for the edible Jordan.

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking I know, Ray Bye, get out of here.

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Speaker 1: This has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 4: Our senior producer is Natalie Wrinn.

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Speaker 1: Senior managing producer is Hannah Kyle Kreichney.

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Speaker 3: This episode was sound design.

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Speaker 1: And engineered by Ry Obam.

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Speaker 4: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

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Speaker 1: Our theme song in live show DJing is by DJ

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Speaker 1: don Well.

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Speaker 4: This Bellhouse show was produced by Olivia Levine. Photography by

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Speaker 4: Chist Spender, most artwork by Jamie Bechtel. Executive produced by

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Speaker 4: Karen Kilgarriff, Georgia Hartstark and Danielle Kramer.

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Speaker 1: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pot.

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Speaker 4: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.