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Dear 11 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty five year old married woman 12 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: and I've been married for three years, but I've been 13 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: with my husband for over eight years. He was supposed 14 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: to be a one night stand, but he ended up 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: rocking my world and I kept going back for more. 16 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: He grew on me and I ended up falling in 17 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: love with him. It's no secret that he fell in 18 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: love with me first, and he loves to tell people 19 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: how he pursued me until I gave in to him. 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: He is not the most handsome man, but he's got 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: a pure heart and he's a beast in the bedroom. 22 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: Looking at him, you'd never guess it. So I don't 23 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: have to worry about anyone trying to take my man. 24 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: The only problem is my sex drive is higher than his, 25 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: and he has told me that he's having a hard 26 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: time keeping up with me. He is becoming more and 27 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: more paranoid that I'm thinking paranoid, thinking I'm going to 28 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: cheat on him. I have told him that there are 29 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: ways to keep me happy in the bedroom, but he's 30 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: not willing to allow anyone else in our bed. I 31 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: have a college friend and we fooled around in college, 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: and my husband knows her well. I asked him if 33 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 1: she can join us in the bedroom, and he said 34 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: he didn't want anything she had to offer. He said 35 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: he'd rather pick out a female for us, but he 36 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: keeps stalling and putting it off. I'm hoping that I 37 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: don't end up cheating on him with my college friend. 38 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: I was chatting with a girlfriend recently and she said 39 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: her man's been begging her for a MANAGUTOI, so why 40 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: is my husband interested in one? He was lying in 41 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: bed the other night watching an explicit video of a 42 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: manaja Twas and I asked him if he was taking notes. 43 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: He got upset and told me to stop asking him 44 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: about it. Why is he depriving me of my fantasy? 45 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: What's his deal? What's his deal? Shut up, Tommy, what's 46 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: his deal? He's probably thinking, what's your deal? You know? 47 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: Marriage isn't designed for other people to participate. It's just 48 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: not I mean, at the altar, it's just the two 49 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 1: of you taking your vows. That's why when you step out, 50 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: it's called cheating, it's called adultery, it's called an affair 51 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: or whatever. I mean, there's nothing in the vows about 52 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: manage twas. You know that your husband just doesn't want 53 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: any part of it. And fantasies, really and truly fantasies 54 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: are supposed to be just that. Fantasies are supposed to 55 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: be in your head. And you know, I know it's 56 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: the end thing right now, manage twas bringing someone else 57 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: in your bedroom and all of that, and you know, 58 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: talking about it, having no shame about It's especially popular 59 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: it scenes with young people, but everyone, not everyone. Try 60 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: to control yourself, Tommy. Not everyone is into is one 61 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: of those people. He does not want to share you. 62 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: What about that? Aren't you getting He doesn't want to 63 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: share you with anyone, your college friend, anyone. He loves you. 64 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to partake in any kind of freakiness 65 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: you know that you got going on, or that you 66 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: want to do right now. He just doesn't. And guess 67 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: what that is? Okay, that's okay. Does that make him 68 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: a bad husband? No? Does it make him a boring husband? No? 69 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: It just means he's not into it. He's not unattentive 70 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: to you. You didn't say anything like that. You said 71 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: he was a beast in the bedroom. You said that, 72 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: you know, in life, we just don't always get everything 73 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: we want. They are rules to this. I mean, you're 74 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: and your husband are just not on the same page 75 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: with this. He even asked you to star. I'm asking 76 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: him about it, which means he's not interested. He's not 77 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: cool with it. You can't wait for someone to jump 78 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: in your bed, and he's just not into that. You 79 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: gotta give him that. It's a major problem in your 80 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: marriage and it's going to continue to be if you 81 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 1: keep pressing him on this, and if you do step 82 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: out on him and start cheating or whatever. Don't use 83 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: him as an excuse like he pushed you out there. 84 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: This is something you want to do. You can't control yourself, Okay, 85 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: so don't blame this on your husband if you do. 86 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: And it sounds like you're headed in that direction, ma'am, Steve, 87 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: I'm going I'm gonna get some green tea. I don't 88 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: even want to hear. Go ahead, you got You're disgusted. Tommy, 89 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,679 Speaker 1: thirty five year old married woman, been married three years 90 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: but with husband eight Now, this was supposed to be 91 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: a one nice staying but he ended up oh rocking 92 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: her world and so she kept going back for more, 93 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: meaning she was frung. He grew on me. I ended 94 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: up falling in love with him, and it's no secret 95 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: he fell in love with me first. But he loves 96 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: to tell people how he pursued me until I gave 97 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: in to him. What he needs this bragging right, and 98 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: I think we're about to find out why he's not 99 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: the most handsome man. He wants everybody to know that 100 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: he pursued you until you gave in. He's sending the 101 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: message clears the bell that looks don't matter. But right 102 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: after this you kind of let us he in on 103 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: a little secret. He's not the most handsome man, but 104 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: he has a pure heart. And he's a beast in 105 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: the bedroom. Now is he a beast in the bed 106 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: room because he good? And now? Or that's how he looked? 107 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: You know what she meant? I don't know nothing. I'm 108 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: reading it to the letter. She said, he is not 109 00:05:54,560 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: the most handsome man, but he abase in the bed room. Well, 110 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: I have a question for you. Is it cause of 111 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: what he's doing or is it how he looked when 112 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: he doing it? Because I'm gonna tell you right now. 113 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: You just said he wasn't attractive and he in that 114 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: making face about damn. They got to be on bad 115 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 1: all at times. You know better now then she did. 116 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: Here's another little trip looking at him. You never guess it, 117 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't guess what that he was in the room, thought, Well, 118 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: how is he of your response? Coming up? At twenty 119 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour's subject, he doesn't like different 120 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: types of cookies. We'll get back into it right after this. 121 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Now, come on, Steve, let's 122 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 1: recap the letter. Today's strawberry letter. The sub doesn't different 123 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: types of cookies. Well, this woman to marry what she 124 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: thought was gonna be a one nice thing, because obviously 125 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: he rocked to a world, and she went back for more, 126 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: messed around and fell in love with him. Has gone 127 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: on to admit that he is not the most handsome man, 128 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: but he is a beast in the bedroom. I've equated 129 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: that to you just said he wasn't a handsome man, 130 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: so ill he's a beast in the bedroom. He probably 131 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: a beast on the elevator two. Probably beast sitting over 132 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: there in his cubic. He probably a beast when he 133 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: up in that trunk going to work. He probably a 134 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: beast when he dined at the gym. He probably a 135 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: beast sitting up at the doctor's office. You just said 136 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: the boy wasn't that attractive, and looking at him, you 137 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: never guess it. So I don't have to worry about 138 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: anybody trying to take my man, which is another sign 139 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:02,239 Speaker 1: that don't nobody want him? Now, this man when she says, 140 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: if you look at him, you can't tell, and so 141 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: she don't have to worry about nobody trying to take 142 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: home man, don't don't nobody want it? Looking at him, 143 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: you can't tell. He's a beast in the bedroom. You 144 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: stop and seeing this is how you can't get to 145 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: the bedroom part without getting past where he looked. She 146 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: now knows that she ain't got to worry about nobody 147 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: trying to take home man coume. Do nobody know that? 148 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: But you? And he might as well be a beast 149 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: in the bedroom. Why not? Hell see other ass dudes. No, 150 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: we got one shot. We got to come up in 151 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: here clowning. You're saying that about yourself too, Well, oh yeah, 152 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: I ain't never been that attractive. I know that, there 153 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: ain't no problem with it. I'm always been okay with that. 154 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: I understand exactly what that is. They don't make no doing. 155 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know why Tommy won't come to 156 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: it either. You know, I told you several times, you know, 157 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: I know what you well, okay, well your little beast 158 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: looking at ass be here bes in the bed room? Here, hey, 159 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: here be so on TV. He's becoming more and more paranoid, 160 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: thinking I'm going to cheat on him. I told him 161 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 1: that always to keep me happy in the bedroom. But 162 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: he's not willing to allow anyone else in our bed. 163 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: Like Shirley said, you ever thought this man just loves you? 164 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: And I got another reason. He don't want anybody into 165 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: any And let's get into that in a minute. I 166 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: have a college friend who we food a run in college, 167 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: and my husband knows her well. I asked him if 168 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: she can join us in the bedroom. He said he 169 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 1: didn't want nothing. She had offer. Why because Tommy, why 170 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: see this woman right here obviously ain't got good taste. Now, 171 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: husband ugly is hell the girl, and I about bet 172 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: you this little health for it. I'm thinking this little 173 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: health problem to looked like mighty Joe Young and her husband. 174 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: He just said I don't want nothing. She got the offer. Now, 175 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: when an ugly man tell a woman he don't want nothing, 176 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: she got an offer. Whoa she ugly? He said he'd 177 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: rather pick out a female force right there, let me 178 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: pick one out, Mike, want your a little ugly ass friend. 179 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: But he keeps stalling and putting it off. I'm hoping 180 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: I don't even end up cheating on him with my 181 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: college friend. I was chatting with the girlfriend. He said, 182 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 1: I left this part of rout, but right here, Um, 183 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: the only problem is my sex driver is high than 184 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: his and he's told me he's having a hard time 185 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: keeping up with me. That's the part I left out. 186 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: And he's becoming more and more paranoid, thinking I'm gonna 187 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: cheat on him. You know, ugly people always think they're 188 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: gonna get left. They always do because he's always thinking 189 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: she gonna find somebody cute, which is easy, you know, 190 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: because when you ain't a trap to damn there, everybody 191 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: cute him. Damn there, everybody boy. So she didn't want 192 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: want to. He said he'll pick out a female, but 193 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: he keeps stalling. I'm hoping I don't end up cheating 194 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: on him. I was chatting with a girlfriend recently. She 195 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: said her man been begging her for manage tire. So 196 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: why isn't my husband interested in one? Because maybe your 197 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: husband just really did want to be married. Surely told 198 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: you that he was lying in bed the other night 199 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: watching an explicit video of a manage a twa not 200 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: to manage twat. Now listen to me, he ugly right, 201 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: He got to watch the video. That's where he learned 202 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: what to do. No no, no, no no. He get 203 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: these moves on what he gonna do to his wife 204 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: from these movies. Okay, that's how I hear best in bed, 205 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: he didn't picked up a couple couple moves. And now 206 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: I asked if he was taking notes. He got upset 207 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: and told me to stop asking him. I'm about this. 208 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: Why is he depriving me of my fantasy? What is 209 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: his deal? Well, lady, like I said, maybe he won't 210 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: to just you. And it was amazing to me. Is 211 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 1: you got what most people are looking for, somebody that 212 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: wants them and only them. But you don't want that 213 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: because you greedy, You got a high sex drive. You 214 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: want to bring some other people into the bedroom. And 215 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 1: then your girlfriend who said her boyfriend begging her or 216 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 1: manage twice. So why ain't my husband interested? There's a 217 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: lot of me and ain't interested in that. You ain't 218 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: coming to my house. I don't want that. I'm not 219 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: sharing my wife. Maybe the man just don't want to 220 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: share his wife with no damn body. Damn that's all 221 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: that is. Lady asks y'all to help her get some cookies, 222 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: and y'all not helping to get the cookies. Y'all doing something, man, 223 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: But go ahead, don't do what you're doing. She didn't 224 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 1: ask you that, She said, why is he depriving me 225 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: of the fantasy? See, that's why you don't do the 226 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: strap bed. Now you just do what you're good at doing. 227 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: What you're the Dawn Planks? All right? Leave us your 228 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram and Steve Harvey FM, 229 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming 230 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: up in ten minutes. 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