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Speaker 1: All right, break it down. If you ever have feelings

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Speaker 2: But Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it.

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Speaker 1: Jes stop you feel things. This is feeling things with.

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Speaker 2: Amy and Cat.

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Speaker 3: Happy Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat, and

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Speaker 2: we are starting the show off with exhibit A. If

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Speaker 2: you have been listening to every episode we've ever done so,

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Speaker 2: like you listened last Tuesday and a pe before that,

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Speaker 2: but specifically last Tuesday, I was telling Kat that some

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Speaker 2: tangerines are the size of a ping pong ball.

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Speaker 3: First of all, good job on saying ping pong ball.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I practice, because this is this is a court

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Speaker 2: of law. And I have presented to you a tangerine

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Speaker 3: May I hold it?

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Speaker 4: You? May you know what you didn't do. But I

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Speaker 4: have a couple of things to say. One, you didn't

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Speaker 2: Yes, I did, and then I forgot it. Convenient convenient, Yes.

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 2: I got a ping pong ball from my boyfriend's house.

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Speaker 2: And I'm very mad because I had Exhibit A and

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Speaker 2: Exhibit B. Well, so now I only have a This

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Speaker 2: is bigger than a ping pong ball. No, it's not same.

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Speaker 2: Also if you were to peel it, for sure, okay.

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Speaker 4: Also, I go back to this is my other thing

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Speaker 4: that I'd like to say one. Two more things.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so I did give you this smaller one.

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Speaker 4: I have two things I'd like to say, okay. One

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Speaker 4: It was like both of these together.

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Speaker 3: Period. New sentence.

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Speaker 2: Why are you defending her? I'm not defending her. I

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Speaker 2: And in case people didn't listen last week, which we

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Speaker 3: But you're defending me.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying you felt like you got got

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's umbrella.

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Speaker 2: Maybe just sometimes it's hard to hear. Walker is great

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Speaker 3: Know Okay, Well, I have the feeling of the day.

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Speaker 3: Do you need to say it together?

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Speaker 2: I don't know that we have a thing like it's

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Speaker 3: I think we have been doing feelings.

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Speaker 2: Maybe one day we'll upgrade to imaging. Do you know

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Speaker 3: Wait, why do they call it imaging if it's a sound?

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Speaker 2: I've been feeling very playful. Oh tell me more.

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Speaker 3: That would be so depressing me to be a model.

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Speaker 2: burn You might have them for okay candlesticks, I thought

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Speaker 3: Barkeet, you gave him a really nice last two weeks

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Speaker 2: Let's get back to being playful.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm feeling playful because I'm actually have been feeling

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Speaker 2: What's it called?

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm blanky.

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Speaker 4: Yes, let's go there and get a drink and then

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Speaker 3: And I swear to god, I thought I was on vacation.

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Speaker 3: Warmed up to the idea and I was like, we

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Speaker 2: I love this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I did trick myself. It felt more fun. Like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that they're thinking like nobody's thinking

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Speaker 3: Okay, first of all that.

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Speaker 2: So if you look at another wondering people's stories, eating

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Speaker 4: You don't ever do that where you like cut each other,

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Speaker 2: No, but I mean maybe I'll start because this is

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Speaker 3: Well, I have one more place.

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Speaker 2: I still want to be playful before we get into

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Speaker 3: The beginning of the day to the end of the day.

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Speaker 4: He planned an itinerary and didn't tell anybody what the

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Speaker 2: That's so fun. I know, I texted you and I

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Speaker 3: And I made shirts this year.

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Speaker 2: He was jealous of the shirts. I mean they were retro,

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Speaker 4: First of all, I'm now into airbrush t shirts of course,

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Speaker 2: The shirt class where.

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Speaker 3: I ordered them on Etsy.

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Speaker 2: I'll do it. Those shirts were cool.

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Speaker 2: Oh I loved it. I thought it was so great.

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Speaker 4: Isidic form vacation again? Because I think people definitely thought

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Speaker 2: Oh with your matching t shirts? One hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: The second well, the third location was a really nice place.

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Speaker 2: Which if you ever visit Nashville, that's a really fun

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Speaker 3: It's very good, fancy Italian food.

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Speaker 4: But yes, we went to the speakeasy and the speakeasy

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the waiter was like, I don't know if the

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Speaker 4: That's where I found the ice cube with the flowers

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Speaker 2: Already googling how to make these ice cubes. Oh that

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Speaker 2: Wow, that was pretty cool. Just for people that might

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Speaker 2: And I get that Patrick's planning whole thing, but it's

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Speaker 2: You pay for your own stuff. Okay, well I might

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Speaker 2: have budget, like I can't Patty Day that Wow. Patrick

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Speaker 4: But you also could do this and I we didn't

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Speaker 4: You could just go to somebody's backyard where like the

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Speaker 4: next it's like a progressive day, like a progressive dinner.

444
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:47,880
Speaker 4: Like the next course, we're going to go to Sonzo's

445
00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 4: house and play poetry for Neanderthals. That game, we like,

446
00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 4: that could have been one of the stops. Or now

447
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,160
Speaker 4: we're going to go to this place and get ice cream,

448
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,520
Speaker 4: like you could do this with your kids.

449
00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 3: You know, it was fun.

450
00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,760
Speaker 2: I love it. So okay, thank you for sharing your playful,

451
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:06,600
Speaker 2: your feeling of the day. Feeling that's right, yeah, feeling. Yeah,

452
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 2: I have a feeling and it's happy, okay, because I

453
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,200
Speaker 2: have something that you're going to be like your jaw

454
00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 2: might hit the floor about something that I got for us,

455
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:20,000
Speaker 2: which you're very into now you let's let me see.

456
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 2: You'll guess it when I tell you that it's something

457
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:26,760
Speaker 2: that you rejected for like two years, Like I was

458
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 2: raving about it left and right, and you were like,

459
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,879
Speaker 2: this is stupid snail snail sermum, Yeah, twenty five percent

460
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 2: off code, which I know you texted me the other

461
00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 2: day like Hey, I'm gonna get this and I'll just

462
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,679
Speaker 2: use the code. And I'm like, wait, if you have

463
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 2: a better cold, just wait, because the better code is

464
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 2: happy twenty five and I think until May thirtieth, which

465
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,720
Speaker 2: I want to reach out to him because that's there's

466
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 2: thirty one days in May, so i'd be like, it

467
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 2: ends on May thirtieth, but I know from now today

468
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 2: is May twentieth, when people are listening to this. Oh,

469
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 2: Shannon just told me, Oh, they have a sale, a

470
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,640
Speaker 2: different sale that's starting May thirty first, so it's got

471
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Speaker 2: to cut off. So you'll have ten days from May

472
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 2: twenty to May thirtieth. A twenty five percent off is

473
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 2: like the highest percentage that I've ever had for a

474
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 2: Biopell code, and this is a company I'm at completely organically.

475
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,880
Speaker 2: When I was posting about them on Instagram a couple

476
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 2: of years ago, my face person Carrie, she told me

477
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 2: about it. She was like, I learned about this, I think,

478
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 2: like on YouTube. Some double or triple board certified dermatologist

479
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 2: was like, put this nail serum on your face, and

480
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 2: she's like, you got to order right away. I ordered

481
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 2: it on Amazon and was so nervous on how to

482
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 2: use the ampules. It is confusing. I do have a

483
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 2: how to on my Instagram Radio Amy, and you pop

484
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 2: the ampules and you can do like these treatments, which

485
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 2: I know something that what you can feel playful when

486
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 2: you're doing the treatments because it's like you're out a spa.

487
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:49,640
Speaker 3: I'm out a spa.

488
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm at a spa. Yes, okay, I like that treatment.

489
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 2: You can do your little poppy little ampule pop like

490
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 2: sort of like you're popping the bottle of champagne. It's

491
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 2: like because it's so nice, the crunch is very satisfying.

492
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 2: It's like, oh my gosh, we should go Shannon. I

493
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 2: think I have an ampul up in my bathroom, like

494
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 2: top Dwarf. If you want to grab one. We'll pop

495
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,879
Speaker 2: one live here because you'll be able to hear it,

496
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:14,479
Speaker 2: I think, so I'll do it right into the mic

497
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 2: because it really is it's like a ASMR. Yeah, is

498
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 2: that how you say it? ASMR? It's so satisfying. I

499
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 2: like to like keep on crunching, I know, but when

500
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 2: she crunch, you can crunch the cridle it because I

501
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: try to get every ounce out of that that I

502
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 2: can and I'm like squeezing it. But Happy twenty five

503
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 2: is a code they have until well May thirtieth, so

504
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 2: don't wait till the thirty first, although they will have

505
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: some other sale, but it's the products that I use

506
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 2: that now Kat really loves too, and so it's a

507
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 2: link specific that they created for my page. But I

508
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: love when things just happen organically because I was just

509
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 2: posting out them and they're like who is this girl?

510
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 2: And they DM me and they're like, what how did

511
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 2: you find us? We're just we're like a small company,

512
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: like we and they have been like the sweetest and

513
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 2: they've given codes and just really if we've ever done giveaways,

514
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 2: like they always want to be a part of it.

515
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 2: And I have been a big fan for a long time,

516
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 2: and then Kat didn't believe the hype, and then she

517
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: tried it and she was like, okay, fine, I believe

518
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 2: it now, So why did I waste all my time?

519
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,640
Speaker 2: You need to waste all the time not using it? Yeah, yeah,

520
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 2: if you could go back, But hey, you have it

521
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: here now, okay, ready, yeah, we're gonna are you gonna

522
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 2: pop it that way? Have it and then I'll I

523
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 2: pop it that way. I won't pop it that I'll

524
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: pop it that way just to begin, and I'll do

525
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: it upside. I get it. It's not gonna leak out. Okay,

526
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 2: I'm a snail expert, secretion expert. Now do you have

527
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 2: to say this secretion? We're at the spaw. We're at

528
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 2: the spaw. Okay, so ready one? Two? Wait, I need

529
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 2: to work out. I need to work out my hands.

530
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Speaker 2: I'll yale one. Now I'm nervous and I'm like sweating. Okay,

531
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Speaker 2: ready ready one? Two, guys, the pressure it's not this hard.

532
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: I think I'm nervous. I think I'm nervous. No, no, no,

533
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 2: don't take it out. You don't take it out. You

534
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 2: have it like this and then you put this sleeve

535
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 2: on it to protect it. Right, and then it's not

536
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: this hard. I think I'm just nervous. And then I

537
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 2: really didn't want any juice to drip because I don't

538
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 2: want to waste this, because I will save it like

539
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: this and I will use that tonight before bed or

540
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 2: maybe even in the morning. I'll link the page where

541
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Speaker 2: all the items that are twenty five percent off. It'll

542
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 2: be products that I have used for the last couple

543
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 2: of years, ever since I got to know them and

544
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 2: then started using all their various things. But the ampules

545
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 2: that situation in particular is the ten sage forty and

546
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 2: Shana and I were talking about this the other day

547
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 2: about hell, yeah, it's a priceier thing, but it's a

548
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: it's a treatment that you do, and so it can

549
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: last ten days or you can get a pack and

550
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: save it for like special occasions when you on that glow,

551
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 2: like if you're wanting to going to pretend vacation or something,

552
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 2: or pretenda day. Yeah.

553
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 4: Also just something nice if you want to have like

554
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 4: a special fancy day. Yeah, like if you're going to

555
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 4: a dinner or something like on my vacation dinner.

556
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 2: And so I just thought it was so fun that

557
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 2: they were doing twenty five percent off for us. So

558
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: that is the confirmed code happy twenty five to get

559
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 2: the twenty five and then I'll link that in the

560
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 2: show notes, so you have the radio Amy specific link.

561
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: But cool, that would make you happy. That's a feeling.

562
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 2: Happy's a feelings felt like you got nervous, like happy

563
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: as a feeling. Right, I am nervous on this wedding

564
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 2: for some reason. Like when I couldn't pop that ampuel,

565
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 2: I was like, huh yeah, I gotta work out my hands. Yeah,

566
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 2: did you used to have those little like yes, my

567
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 2: mom did.

568
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Speaker 4: My parents had them too. I'm like, what do those actually?

569
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 4: Maybe they do work?

570
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's important to exercise your hands, like

571
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 2: to prevent I.

572
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Speaker 3: Can't say I ever saw my parents use them, but

573
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 3: I know we had them.

574
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. It's probably some infomercial thing that she bought.

575
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 2: Was like, oh yeah, get me one of those or five.

576
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 4: We had all those kinds of like ab roller things too,

577
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 4: like a little crunch errom machine.

578
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 2: Same, my dad used to do that though I watched

579
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: them app roller Okay, those were clutch. So I got

580
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 2: a DM from a listener about the Karen Read case

581
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: that I want to share here because we didn't just

582
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 2: get this DM. We got multiple emails, We got lots

583
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 2: of people with lots of thoughts.

584
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 3: I feel like I need to clear the air. So

585
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 3: read the DM.

586
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: So I read the DM just kind of sum up.

587
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 2: We have a lot of listeners in Boston. Shout out Boston, Boston.

588
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 2: So this is hey me, I heard you talking about

589
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 2: Karen Read on the podcast. I'm from the Boston area,

590
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 2: and most of this area overwhelmingly thinks she is innocent.

591
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 2: There is so much evidence that didn't get put into

592
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 2: these documentaries. Well put I got it back up because

593
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 2: in case somebody hasn't listened last week, I was like,

594
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 2: I don't know if she did it, and Kat over

595
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 2: here was like, she did it.

596
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 4: But I said, if I was on the jury, I

597
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 4: wouldn't have said she did it.

598
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 2: You just couldn't. You definitely couldn't for it because there

599
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 2: was still reasonable doubt. Right. Yeah, we're a lawyer podcast.

600
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: Now we know the words. Okay, back to the DN.

601
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 2: The Canton PD was already under federal investigation. A cop

602
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 2: was grooming a fourteen year old and got her pregnant

603
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: at sixteen. She was found dead, originally ruled suicide then

604
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 2: later ruled homicide and the officer was accused and other

605
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 2: officer's accused of covering it up. I also don't believe

606
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 2: that the documentary showed the nephew of the homeowner that

607
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 2: had bloody and scraped up knuckles the day after and

608
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 2: he claimed that he fell on ice. I have been

609
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: watching the trial and the homeowners and their family's stories

610
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: are inconsistent. They also destroyed their phones and some cards

611
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 2: on military bases, which when you do that on a

612
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: military base, you can't. You can't dig through and get

613
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 2: stuff like that from a military base. So they did that. Oh,

614
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: I didn't know why that was important. Okay, that makes sense,

615
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 2: because why not just choose a random dumpsters.

616
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 4: He was just trying to find a random one, and

617
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 4: that was the random one he found. But to get

618
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 4: on a military I've never done it before.

619
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 3: I didn't know how you was You.

620
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: Mean got well, I mean he obviously had access to

621
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 2: the military base. But what's interesting about a military based

622
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: trash is you can't go through it no matter who

623
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 2: you are. I guess because like classified. Yeah, okay, that

624
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: makes sense. They went on to say, I can't wait

625
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 2: to hear what the rest of the show thinks, because

626
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 2: this is also something that we're doing on the Bobby

627
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: Bone Show, Like I had them watch it too, which

628
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 2: we've talked about it, but now we're just doing an

629
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,959
Speaker 2: update here. It's insane and I'm not a conspiracy theories

630
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: type person. I respect law enforcement tremendously, but this seems

631
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 2: so corrupt.

632
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 4: And I don't know if you read this part she

633
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 4: said the homeowners rehomed their eight year old dog, ripped

634
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 4: up the carpet in their basement, and immediately sold their house.

635
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I skipped over that, but yes, that's similar.

636
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: So there's the cop with the SIM card that you

637
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 2: got rid of that, and then yeah, the homeowner got

638
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: rid of the dog, and you're.

639
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 3: Like what, So okay.

640
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 4: I appreciate these messages because we got a couple emails

641
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 4: about it too that were similar stories. And I got

642
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 4: some dms of people who are following the case that

643
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 4: sent me some things. And I don't know who it

644
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 4: was that multiple people told us to listen to the

645
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 4: Crime Junkie episode of this, which isn't that old of

646
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 4: an episode.

647
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 3: I think it came out. Is that documentary old?

648
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 2: No, the documentary is I don't know when it came out. Obviously,

649
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 2: it's gaining popularity right now because it has the trial.

650
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: That documentary is the first trial, which everybody kind of knows,

651
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: especially since there's a new trial right now, that that

652
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: was a hung jury, so it's a mistrial and so

653
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 2: now she's being tried again, and that's what's happening currently

654
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 2: at this moment. Yeah, unless it ended like yesterday, which

655
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: I don't know because like by the time people are

656
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: hearing this side, I think.

657
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 4: It's probably still good. Oh yeah, I don't know how

658
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 4: long these are supposed to ast. But I'm having adhd thought.

659
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 4: You know how I was wondering, why would they be

660
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 4: recording that throughout the trial when they made the documentary.

661
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 4: Do you think she got money from that and that's

662
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 4: how she's paying for her lawyers? Because I was really

663
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 4: wondering her defense has to be so expensive to have

664
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 4: to do it again.

665
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I would imagine that she made

666
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: some money from that. And then I which like I too,

667
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: wonder about her legal fees, and I wonder if they're like, Okay, cool,

668
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 2: we're getting publicity because we're going to be on TV

669
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 2: thanks to your trial, so maybe we'll give you a

670
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 2: little discount. Do they have a documentary discount?

671
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 4: They should a documentary discount. Okay, I feel like I

672
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:25,719
Speaker 4: need to do some backtracking.

673
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 2: Go for it.

674
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 3: Okay.

675
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 4: I guess when I was watching the documentary because of

676
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 4: the way it ended, even though I didn't watch the

677
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 4: last fifteen minutes, she just seemed, like I said, her

678
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 4: vibe seemed so nonchalant. Again, how do you act? I

679
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 4: don't know what the right way to act is, but

680
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 4: it was throughout like you're you're she did it, she

681
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 4: didn't do it, she did it, she didn't do it.

682
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 4: And I think I just ended on the she did it.

683
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 2: You know, I.

684
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 4: Forgot about a lot of this stuff. Also, why wouldn't

685
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 4: the documentary talk about.

686
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 2: The nephew who knows?

687
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 3: That's a huge piece.

688
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 4: And I'm now listening to that crime Drunkie podcast. It's

689
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 4: two hours long, so I'm only halfway through it. She overwhelmed, overwhelmingly,

690
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 4: feels so far innocent in.

691
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: The way that they're presenting.

692
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think she does a pretty good job

693
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 4: of presenting facts. And then when something's weird, they're like,

694
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 4: that's weird, isn't it? And Yeah, if this is true,

695
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 4: maybe I'm doing some digging out my own brain. Maybe

696
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 4: a part of me wants her to be guilty, because

697
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 4: that would suck if that.

698
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 3: Many people are involved of framing another person, Like I hate.

699
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 2: That the like we trust law enforcement. We want to

700
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 2: believe they would never do something like this, and that

701
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: would really really suck if people that we trust our

702
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 2: lives with are doing a cover this, like a big

703
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: cover up like this.

704
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't wish.

705
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 4: Her to have killed him, but I wish more that.

706
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 3: That was not a thing that happened.

707
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 4: That there's this big of a conspiracy within law enforcement

708
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 4: with people like you said, that sucks. So I think

709
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 4: my mind is also a little biased because I want

710
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 4: this not to be a real thing.

711
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: I know, Well, the fact is somebody did it, and

712
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: it's like how I don't know what's going to be

713
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 2: the final verdict of this new trial, but it's pretty

714
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: it's pretty sad and crazy because you want justice for

715
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: John for sure. I mean, she wants that, hopefully, the

716
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 2: police want that. Everybody wants that, but it seems so divided,

717
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: like team Pink and Team Blue. I don't like that,

718
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 2: I mean neither because it's not that's not justice for John.

719
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 2: It's not like pick a side. It's just like, let's

720
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: figure out if he killed him.

721
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: That's what they're saying on Crime Junkie, where she was like,

722
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 3: we've lost the plot. It's not even about this.

723
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 4: The people are harassing his parents, like John's parents walking

724
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 4: into like the court and stuff, and that sucks. So

725
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 4: it should be the people that we're supporting is they

726
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 4: lost their son. Watching that documentary, you forget that somebody

727
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 4: died almost which is weird.

728
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 2: And like for her, she's fighting for her life and

729
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 2: her innocence of like I didn't do this. And sometimes

730
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 2: I know when I see her getting like celebratory in

731
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 2: anyway or smiling or laughing or acting fun, I'm like, hah.

732
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: But then years have passed, right, years of past. She

733
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 2: has to move on a little bit, and of course

734
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 2: she wants justice too, but it is a little weird

735
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 2: when she like high fives her lawyer, You're like, wait

736
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 2: a second.

737
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 3: Or or something.

738
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 2: It feels allowed to move.

739
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 4: This can be true at once. I can be happy

740
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 4: that something's going well for me, and I'm not. I'm

741
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 4: trying not to get convicted of murder, and so I

742
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 4: can be happy when I have a win and also

743
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 4: still be sad that my boyfriend died.

744
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 2: Right, except for it is kind of she was like

745
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: texting that other cop like hey you're hot. Yeah, and

746
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: he's like, you're cheating on your boyfriend.

747
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean you heard.

748
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: Her dead, right, And even if she hit him with

749
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 2: a car, and doesn't mean you wanted to kill him, right,

750
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: it's not I forgot about this. But the injuries are

751
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: weird then, yeah, the entries of the dog bites, yes,

752
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 2: everything's it's all weird.

753
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 3: The whole thing is just it doesn't look like somebody

754
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 3: got hit.

755
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: I know. We just thought it'd be a fair to

756
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 2: follow up so Kat could proclaim she's still she doesn't know,

757
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 2: because last week she was saying, I'm sorry, Karen, it

758
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 2: didn't mean to be so, but also she could but

759
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 2: also she could have maybe done it, so so then

760
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 2: I'm not sorry. It's just one of those things where

761
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, we don't know, and it's terrible, and

762
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 2: I just would never want to be in that situation.

763
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 2: I mean, imagine like your boyfriend dies and you had

764
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: nothing to do with it, but then all of a

765
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 2: sudden you're being accused of murdering him and then that's

766
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,240
Speaker 2: now your life and you know you have legal bills

767
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 2: at the imagine that wazoo. And then the whole world

768
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 2: is seeing that, Yeah, you texted some other cop like hey,

769
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: you're hot, and then also that you called your boyfriend

770
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 2: like fifty times saying I know you're hooking up with

771
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:49,959
Speaker 2: another woman right now.

772
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 4: That was maybe the cringiest part of the whole thing,

773
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 4: is watching that guy read those text messages.

774
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Corine, just central for.

775
00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 3: The world to see.

776
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be more. I would throw my SIM

777
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 2: card in the military get trash too.

778
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 3: I get it, I get it, I.

779
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: Get it, I get it.

780
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 4: I'd be like, I do not want any of the

781
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 4: guy that did it. That's not the guy that threw

782
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 4: the SIM card in. Then it was yeah, But honestly.

783
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 2: I don't think it's why. I say, there's two Brian's,

784
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: like the dog owner as a Brian. There's a Brian

785
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: Higgins and a Brian something else. Yeah, maybe so, and

786
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 2: they both have goatee's and they're both police officers, so

787
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 2: it gets confusing. But I think one of the Brian's

788
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 2: threw away the SIM card on and the phone and

789
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 2: the military trash, and then the other Brian got rid

790
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 2: of his dog conveniently, conveniently and his carpet and sold

791
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 2: his house. I saw an article the other day this

792
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,280
Speaker 2: is a little bit related, but like only six two

793
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 2: percent of Americans would put their reputation on the line

794
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 2: to like be a reference for a friend. I thought

795
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 2: that was low, Like what is the quality of our

796
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 2: friendships here America?

797
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 3: A reference for a.

798
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 2: Like a job, or put their their reputation on the

799
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: line like that would be like if my friend wanted

800
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 2: to come and work at my company, that okay, I

801
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: wouldn't say, like, oh yeah, I wouldn't vouch for them,

802
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: would be like a good person.

803
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:27,879
Speaker 3: But would you lie?

804
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 2: But I think most of my friends would be good

805
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: at a job most.

806
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 3: So what about the friend that asked and there wouldn't

807
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 3: be good?

808
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 2: Would you lie? Oh?

809
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 3: I don't know what I would do because I wouldn't lie.

810
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 4: I would be a character witness or a reference for

811
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 4: somebody that I could do that for. But if I

812
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 4: thought you killed your boyfriend, I wouldn't go and do that.

813
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but obviously that I killed my boyfriend. I'm

814
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 2: just talking about our everyday friends, like.

815
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 4: You know, So I guess my point is so, Like,

816
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 4: it's different if you were going to go work at

817
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 4: a job and I didn't work there, Like, if it

818
00:36:58,400 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 4: was you just wrote me as a reference.

819
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 3: Which can you write your friends as your references? You can't?

820
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.

821
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 4: It'd be different. I'd be like, who cares, I don't care.

822
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 4: I want you to get a job, so sure you'd

823
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 4: be good at this. But if you were coming to

824
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 4: work for me at a company and I really cared

825
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 4: about my job and my reputation at that company and

826
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 4: I did not think you would be a good fit

827
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 4: or I didn't know, I would either say I don't

828
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 4: know or I would say I'm not going to do it.

829
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 2: Wow, that would be hard, though. It would be hard

830
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,439
Speaker 2: to do. I think it would be hard, Yeah, because

831
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 2: if I show up and I'm like this lazy, Yeah,

832
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: my work ethic is horrible, and then it would your

833
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 2: reputation on the line, and then people don't trust me,

834
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 2: and that could hurt me. Okay. Hold On Shannon pulled

835
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 2: up the exact article. It says sixty two percent of

836
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 2: Americans would be willing would be willing to put their

837
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 2: reputation on the line by acting as a reference for

838
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 2: a loved one's job or apartment application. This suggests that

839
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 2: a smaller percentage thirty eight percent, would not be willing

840
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 2: to do so.

841
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 3: Oh, that makes sense because most people would do it.

842
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: No, but sixty two percent seems low to me. That's

843
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 2: my point.

844
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 4: I feel like, what, I don't think it's that low. Okay,

845
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 4: it's again it depends. I want more information. I want

846
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 4: to know what job it is.

847
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I guess it's just this is a vague

848
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: survey of Americans. There's lots of chi. I got more questions. Okay, Well,

849
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 2: I wonder how many people would be a character witness

850
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 2: for there that's a bigger deal. Yeah. Well, my friend's

851
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 2: husband's coworker was character witness also. But again, I don't

852
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: know if I was supposed to share that. So I

853
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: should have said, anybody can nail down who you're talking about?

854
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 2: Have reversed it. I should have set made up like

855
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 2: I should.

856
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 4: I should have said, it does sound like you made

857
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 4: that not but I did.

858
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: I didn't. I should have said to be more like,

859
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 2: just so if my friend's listening, I'm talking about her,

860
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 2: I should have said my friend's wife co worker.

861
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 4: Also to add this, who's a man like the wife,

862
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 4: the coworker, the coworker of the way.

863
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 3: Okay, you being a character witness, isn't saying you did

864
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 3: or you didn't.

865
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, it just sounded like I had classified

866
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: information and I don't think I do, But.

867
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: I think you I mean that feel you feel a

868
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 3: little close.

869
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 2: To the inside scoop? Yeah yeah, how how crazy is

870
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 2: it that I know someone who is married to someone

871
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 2: that works with someone that was testifying in this trial

872
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: that everybody's talking about.

873
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 3: Do you know what we call that? I'm nothing burger?

874
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 2: Nothing burger?

875
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 4: It's like nothing where you got this like hot gossip

876
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 4: on the case. Yeah, yeah, Actually don't know who this

877
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 4: person is, if it's a mail or woman, what they said,

878
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 4: what they did, how it went, if it really happened.

879
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,399
Speaker 2: Is that what you say to your clients when they're

880
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 2: in your office and they tell you some story and

881
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 2: you're like, you know what we call that? And therapy

882
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 2: A nothing burger? Who calls it that? I who calls

883
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 2: it that?

884
00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 4: Like?

885
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: You would never say that to a client.

886
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 3: You're not my client. You're not talking about like your trauma.

887
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 3: You're like, I got this inside scoop? And then it

888
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:09,479
Speaker 3: was like.

889
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 2: A it's cool. It's cool, it's cool. Maybe I'll try

890
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 2: to find out more info.

891
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 3: It's a plain cheeseburger. How about that?

892
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: Okay, plain cheeseburger. No ketchup, no ketchup, no toppings, no mayo,

893
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 2: no pickle.

894
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 3: Well, no mayo is a good thing.

895
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: I don't have to have it on a burger. But

896
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:31,760
Speaker 2: I love mayonnaise. I love chicken salad. I love mayonnaise

897
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 2: on my sandwiches. I love Could you eat it with

898
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 2: a spoon? Yeah, I could eat mayonnaise. I you know

899
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 2: how my dad uses mayonnaise, or he did on grilled cheese,

900
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 2: reast and peace on grilled cheese. He like some people

901
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 2: butter the bread and then put on the skillet, but

902
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 2: my dad would basically butter it with mayonnaise Helman's mayonnaise,

903
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 2: And oh it just makes.

904
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 4: The perfect I need to stop talking about it, crispiness.

905
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 4: I'm just thinking about it, and I don't like it.

906
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 2: You don't like anything white. Cat hates a race. You

907
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 2: don't like anything white.

908
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 3: I like mozzarella cheese.

909
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: Are you sure?

910
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: Yes?

911
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 4: I like parmesan cheese. I like Caesar salad dressing. If

912
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 4: you don't tell me what's in it? This is gonna

913
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 4: throw you for a loop. I like ranch, if you

914
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 4: don't talk about the ingredients of it, we're just basically.

915
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 3: Like mayonnaise with a little seasoning in it.

916
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like sour cream. Stop but you don't like Okay, Well,

917
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 2: I got that DM from Instagram, but we also got

918
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 2: all those emails. But I know you're getting dms too,

919
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 2: So DMS things are blowing up thanks to Karen Reid,

920
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 2: which I was like, gosh, we should have really done

921
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 2: a major, major deep dive and delivered something similar to

922
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 2: like crime Junkies, and then we could be like in

923
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: on this, but instead we're not. We're not a good resource,

924
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 2: so people when it comes to this trial, we're not

925
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 2: a lawyer podcast. Although I might get more info from

926
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: my friends husband's coworker, I'll keep you to that and

927
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: then we'll have an exclusive. Okay, but I'll let you

928
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: know on that.

929
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 4: The downloads are gonna be off the chart because you're

930
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,720
Speaker 4: gonna have this like secret piece of information off the charts.

931
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 2: But speaking of Instagram, I did want to talk about

932
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,399
Speaker 2: a post that I saw Upworthy put up, and it's

933
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 2: unhinged parenting hacks from parents all over the country, and

934
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 2: I thought they were kind of funny and they may

935
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,840
Speaker 2: or not be helpful for some of our listeners, and

936
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 2: we can share them with everybody now if you want to. Yeah,

937
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 2: you want to do the first one. This one made

938
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 2: me lol.

939
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 4: Whenever it's bedtime and they are still stuck on Netflix,

940
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 4: I changed the language to Greek or Polish and tell

941
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 4: them they don't understand because they're too tired and it's bedtime.

942
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 2: And that is definitely an unhinged parenting hack. So yeah,

943
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 2: if your kids, I mean, they have to be young

944
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 2: enough to not really understand exactly what's happening. But that's

945
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 2: pretty that's funny. Yeah. Oh yeah, you just don't understand

946
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: because you're tired every time for bed, so it'll be bad.

947
00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,320
Speaker 2: You'll understand in the morning.

948
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 3: Brain's not you need some rest.

949
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 4: Uh.

950
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 2: One parent said, we did Cinderella Sundays, where we cleaned

951
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: all morning and then they wore their princess dresses to

952
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 2: a fancy candle at dinner, followed by a dance party

953
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 2: like quote unquote ball. She got onto like they were

954
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 2: scrubbing the bathroom, cleaning the house, but then they got

955
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: to go to a ball at night. That's sweet Cinderella Sundays.

956
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try that on my kids.

957
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try that on myself. I hate cleaning. Okay.

958
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 4: Uh. Mom told the kids she was allergic to loud noises,

959
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 4: so when she was overstimulated, she would say.

960
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 2: She was having an allergic reaction. And then you don't

961
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 2: want your mom to have an allergic reaction, so quiet down.

962
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 2: Another mom hid all of the stuffed animals and said

963
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: they ran away because the bedroom was dirty, and then

964
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 2: the animals sent a postcard from another kid's clean room,

965
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: and then her kids they clean their room and the

966
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 2: animals returned. Okay, I have to say that is that

967
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: is next level thinking.

968
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 3: Yes, Also that sounds like so much work, but it's

969
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 3: probably not.

970
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: But also some of this stuff where like they're gonna

971
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 2: end up in your office, like because you're a therapist,

972
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: as when they're adults, and they're gonna be like, well,

973
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 2: one time, all my stuffed animals disappeared and then I

974
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 2: got a postcard that they were at this other kid's

975
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: room because their room was clean. And then later I

976
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 2: found out my mom did that.

977
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 4: To wait, that's like, oh, my animals running away from

978
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 4: me and I don't want to be with me because

979
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 4: I was dirty. Yeah wait, that could be sad.

980
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 2: Right, or like, so what if someone came and sat

981
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 2: in your office and they're like, we useduff Cinderella.

982
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 4: My mom made me dress up in rags, like we

983
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 4: would have to clean the house all day. But your stepdaughter,

984
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 4: Yeah no, I think these are fun and silly and

985
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 4: they're playful.

986
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: Yes, speaking of they're playful tie in our Also, I

987
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 2: heard one feeling this wasn't on this, but I heard

988
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 2: a girl on Instagram talking about this.

989
00:44:58,800 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 3: Chelsea explains it all.

990
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 4: She gives like babysitter hacks and stuff like that and

991
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 4: parenting hacks even though she's not a parent. She babysat

992
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 4: when she was younger, and she said to get when

993
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,439
Speaker 4: she babysat, to get kids to put to go to bed,

994
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 4: you know, it's so hard always like you know, tell

995
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: people that they can't understand the language of the TV.

996
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 4: She would have them do a pajama runway show. So

997
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,919
Speaker 4: she'd be like, Okay, it's time for the pajama Runway show.

998
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 4: Go put your pajamas on. And so then it would

999
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 4: get the kids to get ready for bed. They put

1000
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 4: their pajamas on, and then she would have them walk

1001
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 4: down the hall and do their runway and then they

1002
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 4: would go to bed.

1003
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 2: Oh I love that. Yeah, I feel like that could

1004
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 2: backfire a little bit. But at least he gets them in

1005
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 2: their pajamas because they all hyped up and they're ready

1006
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 2: for their fashion show. And then they add music. Yes,

1007
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 2: and they'd be like, I need a change again, yeah

1008
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 2: my second look. Yeah, but then they've got to like

1009
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: brush their teeth. And I mean I was a nightmare

1010
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: to care for as a child, Like I never wanted

1011
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 2: to listen to the sitter. I never wanted to go

1012
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 2: to bed. Really, I was not easy.

1013
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 3: You know something that my mom did from little brother

1014
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 3: that helped him.

1015
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 2: This is a hack.

1016
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 3: I feel like this is not that creative.

1017
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 2: Maybe it is.

1018
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 4: When my little brother was in elementary school, he would

1019
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 4: have these I don't know if there are nightmares or

1020
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 4: he I think it was a nightmare, Like I think

1021
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,720
Speaker 4: he dreamt this that there's alligators crawling all over his walls,

1022
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 4: and so he wouldn't sleep in his bed and he

1023
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 4: had like cool room.

1024
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: He had a race car bed. You know those kids.

1025
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's legit.

1026
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 3: I never got one of those, or did you want one?

1027
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 4: No, but the girls had like the little playhouse bed

1028
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 4: I had like a little anyway, I'm not I've moved

1029
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 4: on from it, clearly anyway. So he would sleep in

1030
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 4: my parents' room every night, and they tried the charts.

1031
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 4: They tried all the sticker charts and stuff like that,

1032
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 4: but he just got so scared. So my mom made

1033
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:47,280
Speaker 4: him alligator spray, and she brought him into the kitchen

1034
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 4: and she got in one of those.

1035
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: Like spray bottles you would use for your hair or use.

1036
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 4: We use them for our hair, and she put water

1037
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 4: in it, and then they would put they put all

1038
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 4: these spices in the bottle, and my mom was like,

1039
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 4: this is.

1040
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 2: Kind of spices. Though now I'm worried his room's gonna

1041
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,439
Speaker 2: smell like she could have, honest pepper, I have no idea.

1042
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 2: It's like very garlicy, a little onion powder.

1043
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 4: Honestly, she could have pretended to put them in. I

1044
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 4: don't remember that part. But she pretended to make a spray.

1045
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 4: And then before at night they would spray his room

1046
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 4: with alligator spray, and no alligators showed up.

1047
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 2: So cute. I love that idea.

1048
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 3: H Then I don't think that would send him to therapy.

1049
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 2: No, not at all. Like my mom, it might be

1050
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 2: a little weird when he gets married and he's got

1051
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 2: his alligator spray his girlfriend or his wife or whatever,

1052
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 2: she's like, what's going on. He's like, I got to

1053
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 2: keep the alligators away if he like never grows out

1054
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 2: of it, but you know, it's like someone's security blanket.

1055
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 3: Wait a second, I should check in with him and.

1056
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 2: See if he still has to spray. What if he

1057
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: never he still does it, but he's like, my wife

1058
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 2: doesn't know, and like every night he's like, this is

1059
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 2: little like teeny Yeah, I wish that were true. Kind

1060
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 2: of ask him we need to follow up, okay, like

1061
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 2: we need to know an update. And I feel that

1062
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: that we robbed people of Jessica's note to us at

1063
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: the beginning, because that is what I pulled for our

1064
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 2: email of the day. Remember when Jessica's asking about what

1065
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 2: Walker Hayes is saying the umbrella. Yeah, that was our

1066
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 2: email the day and we didn't set it up properly,

1067
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: but that's the email that I pulled. I just forgot

1068
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 2: to put it as in bold all cap letters with

1069
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 2: the highlight. Email of the day, So shout out Jessica,

1070
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: thank you for sending in your email.

1071
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 3: That's my line.

1072
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 2: I'm right, thank you for sending in your email. Oh

1073
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 2: the day.

1074
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you get so smiling when you do that.

1075
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's like my line, because it's our videoography,

1076
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 4: imaging imaging. It's our imaging imageing. I knew it was

1077
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 4: something that was wrong, sir, imaging.

1078
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 2: Okay, Kat. Where can people find.

1079
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 4: Us on Instagram at Feeling Things podcast and they can

1080
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 4: email us Hey there at feelingthingspodcast dot com.

1081
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 2: And if you want to call us, you can call

1082
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,720
Speaker 2: us eight seven seven two o seven two o seven seven.

1083
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 2: And you can also watch us on YouTube Feeling Things

1084
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: Podcasts and don't forget to be playful. And also your

1085
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: code if you want to try the nail surum. Everything

1086
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,439
Speaker 2: will be linked in the show notes. But the code

1087
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 2: is happy twenty five feeling happy. We're very happy for

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Speaker 2: twenty five percent off. And I wish there was a

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Speaker 2: easy way to just say biopied dot com, but I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's biopiled dot com slash radio

1091
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Speaker 2: amy that might get you there.

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Speaker 4: That's it.

1093
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Speaker 2: Oh cool, But I mean, if you're already in the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Then you're in the show notes. You just go over.

1095
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: But if you're not familiar, like you can go over

1096
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Speaker 2: and like show notes, like things are linked and then

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Speaker 2: boom it's right there.

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Speaker 4: Boom boom, so easy, easypas lemon, squeezy m hmm.

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Speaker 2: All right, have the day. You need to have five