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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 2: It is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject do I stay or move?

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Speaker 3: On?

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Speaker 1: To number five? There's Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty four years

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Speaker 1: old and I'm married to my third husband. I have

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Speaker 1: a tendency to get bored in relationships, so I was

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Speaker 1: really trying to make my marriage work. I get hit

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Speaker 1: on by men at least three times a week, and

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Speaker 1: I always have to flash my diamond ring so men

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Speaker 1: know I'm taken. I guess it's my cute dimples and

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Speaker 1: my sweet voice. Each one of my husbands told me

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Speaker 1: that it's the baby talk that drove them crazy. Whatever

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Speaker 1: it is, I know I can always get am but

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Speaker 1: my current husband is boring and he's not into explicit videos.

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Speaker 1: Or role playing. We've only been married two years and

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Speaker 1: he's already stopped flipping me around when we're intimate. I

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Speaker 1: was telling my sister how plain our sex is, and

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Speaker 1: he overheard me on the phone. He went off yelling

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Speaker 1: and screaming at me. He threw my past and up

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Speaker 1: in my face. He said that I'm in the I'm

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Speaker 1: the problem in all of my failed relationships because I

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Speaker 1: want to stay young and do things young women do.

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Speaker 1: My sisters heard everything that he said to me and

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Speaker 1: told me to get out of the house to clear

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Speaker 1: my head. I met her at a cafe and we

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Speaker 1: had some drinks, and then in walked the man of

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Speaker 1: my dreams. He had on a number five jersey, but

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Speaker 1: he was not playing no games at all. That night

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Speaker 1: he had me twisted up all kinds of ways at

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Speaker 1: his house and he made me forget about my marriage.

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Speaker 1: I've called him number five and we've been messing around

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Speaker 1: for like three months. He wants me to leave my

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Speaker 1: husband for him. My husband never apologized for the way

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Speaker 1: he talked to me, so if we break up, it

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Speaker 1: won't be my fault. I feel like I should be

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Speaker 1: single and just do me for a while. Should I

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Speaker 1: try to make this third marriage work or move on

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Speaker 1: to number five? Have you ever tried to make your

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Speaker 1: marriage or any of your marriages work for that matter,

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Speaker 1: Because it seems like when the bad times come, when

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Speaker 1: you get bored and all that and bad times are

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Speaker 1: going to come into marriage. We all know that you're

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Speaker 1: ready to give up and just move on.

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Speaker 2: You quit.

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Speaker 1: That's really sad because if you're only around for the

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Speaker 1: good times, you're never going to be happy, never, because

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Speaker 1: that just isn't how marriage works. So here you are

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Speaker 1: ready to quit yet again. I love that you don't

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Speaker 1: even consider for a moment what your husband said might

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Speaker 1: be true. He said, you're the problem because you want

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Speaker 1: to stay young and do what young women do. Well,

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Speaker 1: what's going to be different with you if you divorce

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Speaker 1: husband number three and get with this guy you just

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Speaker 1: met nothing, If you don't put any effort into it,

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Speaker 1: you'll just get bored all over again. You said that

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Speaker 1: you get you have a tendency to get bored in relationships.

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you even love your husband? I don't

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Speaker 1: even You haven't mentioned that, not one time in this

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Speaker 1: whole letter. And what's gonna happen if you do leave

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Speaker 1: him and go for number five, the man who had

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Speaker 1: you flipped around. You know, after you met him for

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Speaker 1: one night, how long will it take you to get

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Speaker 1: bored with him? You can't leave a whole marriage based

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Speaker 1: on a one night's stand. That's never gonna work, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: It's just never gonna work.

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Speaker 2: Steve, I didne wrote so many notes down right here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let the finished this up.

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 3: I just have so many things that's I really don't

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Speaker 3: need to read this letter. But it's just nothing in

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Speaker 3: this letter makes any sense at all. You're fifty four

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Speaker 3: years old and married to my third husband. I have

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Speaker 3: a tendency to get bored in relationship. I was really

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Speaker 3: trying to make my marriage work, really, and then right

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Speaker 3: after that statement right there, all that she negates everything.

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Speaker 3: Right after this, I was really trying to make my

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Speaker 3: marriage work. I get hit on by men at least

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Speaker 3: three times a week, and I have to flash my

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Speaker 3: diamond rings so me and know I'm taking no. See,

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Speaker 3: the reason you get hit on by men three times

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Speaker 3: a week is because.

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Speaker 2: You look like that. You look like that, you draw.

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Speaker 3: Listen to me, Whatever you put out is what comes

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Speaker 3: back to you. You put out, Look at me, listen

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Speaker 3: to me, see me, watch me, And that's what men do.

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Speaker 3: We hunted, So we do you, we do, see you,

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Speaker 3: we do look at you, we do, won't you?

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Speaker 2: That ain't nothing new.

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Speaker 3: If all the women acted the way you act, they

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Speaker 3: could all get hit on three times a week. But

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Speaker 3: you married, though, Where are you? Where you always getting

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Speaker 3: hit on three times a week? All right, here we go.

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Speaker 3: I guess it's my cue dimples in my sweet voice.

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Speaker 2: That could be part of it. That could be.

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Speaker 3: Each one of my husbands told me that this the

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Speaker 3: baby talk that drove them crazy.

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Speaker 2: That's the listening talk to somebody's TV. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: that baby talk driving crazy.

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Speaker 3: But that baby talk don't keep them, don't do it,

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Speaker 3: cause see, how do we do all this baby talking?

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Speaker 3: We gotta do some grown folks stuff. And we got

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Speaker 3: many bills up in here. Hey, we need to save

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Speaker 3: some money, you know. But you got you, you got

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Speaker 3: at one point in time, you got you gotta move on,

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Speaker 3: all right? Anyway? I know I can always get a man,

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Speaker 3: Yes you can, but you can't keep one. You are

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Speaker 3: on husband number three at fifty four. Getting a man

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Speaker 3: is one thing, Keeping them is another. Now you can

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Speaker 3: make mistakes and pick the wrong man. I gotten that,

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Speaker 3: But damn, all you talking about is you get bored

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Speaker 3: in your relationship.

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Speaker 2: All relationships hit the boring point.

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Speaker 3: They all get you, all get all getting regular after

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Speaker 2: All of them do.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody, So man, my marriage is just feel with

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Speaker 3: excitement the whole time. No, it's not these days when

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Speaker 3: you be sitting there going wild. But now I want

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Speaker 3: to get boring for you. You think you I can

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Speaker 3: always get him in, but you can't keep one. My

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Speaker 3: current husband is boring and he's not into explicit videos

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Speaker 3: of role play.

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Speaker 2: No, I won't do that.

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Speaker 3: Explicit videos and role playing what you want to play?

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Speaker 2: I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Be a pirate tonight. I don't want to wear a patch.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to parent in the bedroom tonight.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject do I stay

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Speaker 1: or move?

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Speaker 3: On?

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Speaker 1: To number five? We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show. All right, Steve, come on,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's crazy Strawberry letter. But the subject is

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Speaker 1: do I move or do I stay or move on

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Speaker 1: to number five?

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Speaker 3: Look, lady been married three times, she's fifty four years old.

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Speaker 3: She's complaining that all her relationships get boring. And you know,

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Speaker 3: she says that she get hit on three times a

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Speaker 3: week by men.

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Speaker 2: She has to flash her diamond rings. So men, no,

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Speaker 2: she taken.

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Speaker 3: But see, they wouldn't know you was available if you

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Speaker 3: weren't acting a certain way. Then you like that, so

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Speaker 3: now you want to flash your ring. It's the way

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Speaker 3: you acting is drawing. I'm telling you you attract what

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Speaker 3: you put out. That's what you're doing. Whatever it is.

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Speaker 3: I know I can always get a man. Oh that's cool.

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Speaker 3: Most women can. He's keeping them. That's the problem. See

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Speaker 3: a lot of women can go out here. Most women

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Speaker 3: them that's another problem. But my current husband is born.

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Speaker 3: He's not into explicit videos or role player. He ain't

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Speaker 3: into that. He don't like that. Okay, and we've only

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Speaker 3: been married two years and now here we go, and

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Speaker 3: he's already stopped flipping me around when we are intimate,

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Speaker 3: So he didn't already stopped flipping you around. I was

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Speaker 3: telling my sister how play our sex is you know

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Speaker 3: why he stopped flipping you around? Cause when he flipped

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Speaker 3: you around, he know what he gonna get. You know what, lady,

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Speaker 3: you ain't all you think you are. Maybe all this

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Speaker 3: flipping sex where you got to have, maybe it ain't

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Speaker 3: stable moves because flipping ain't your thing no more.

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Speaker 2: You're fifty four.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever thought about why he stopped flipping? Maybe

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Speaker 3: you don't flip the same no more. Most some own

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Speaker 3: bios when she get fifty four, she aint gonna be

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Speaker 3: flipped like this no more.

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Speaker 2: And she a professional flipper.

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Speaker 3: But I can bet you when some own bios turned

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Speaker 3: fifty four, she ain't gonna be a flipped like that

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Speaker 2: Not he a coming, Nacha. She ain't in the Olympics

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Speaker 2: no more. Not here coming coming, come and Chi coming nacha.

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Speaker 3: You can call him what you gonna call her, but

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Speaker 3: all this stuff, you don't know. Nobody flipped at fifty

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Speaker 3: four like they used to. He overheard me on the phone.

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Speaker 3: He went off yelling, screaming at me, and he threw

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Speaker 3: the past and he said, your problem is all your

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Speaker 3: fair relationships, because I want to stay young and do

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Speaker 3: things young women do, but you can't do it no more.

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Speaker 3: Young women like to get flipped, but they good at flipping.

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Speaker 3: See flipping your old lass nights different flip you one time,

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Speaker 3: you help go out ship you one time. Then you

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Speaker 3: get a Charlie Hall tried to flip your last week.

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Speaker 3: You hit your two folk against the head boy. Now

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Speaker 3: you complain and stuff tied of flipping you. I want

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Speaker 3: to stay young and do things that young women do.

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Speaker 3: You fifty four, you can do some things, you just

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Speaker 3: can't do them the same way. My sister heard everything

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Speaker 3: he said and told me to get out the house,

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Speaker 3: clear my head. I met her at a cafe and

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Speaker 3: we had some drinks, and then in walked the man

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Speaker 3: of my dream. He had on the number five jersey.

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Speaker 2: I be damned.

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Speaker 3: Reggie Bush walked in, Charles White walk in. These are

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Speaker 3: all the number fives our lives. Yeah, but it was

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Speaker 3: not playing no games at all that night. So you

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Speaker 3: just saw him one time. Now you're at his house.

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Speaker 3: He had me twisted up all kinds of ways in

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Speaker 3: his house, and he made me forget about my marriage.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Wow, just like that one night, Sam.

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Speaker 3: I call him number five and weve been messing around

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Speaker 3: for like three months. He wants me to leave my

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Speaker 3: he talked to me, so if we break up, it

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Speaker 3: won't be my fault. Okay, okay, I see this coming.

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Speaker 3: I see this coming. I feel like I should be

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Speaker 3: single and just do me for a while.

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Speaker 2: You gonna be single, Don't worry.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got to wish. Don't worry about it this coming.

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Speaker 3: Should I try to make this third marriage work or

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Speaker 3: move on the number five? I strongly suggest you move

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Speaker 3: on the number five. You've been at number five house

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Speaker 2: Should you move on? You're over that now. You're probably

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna be able to keep number five either,

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Speaker 3: because number five gonna get tired.

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Speaker 2: Of flipping you.

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Speaker 3: Because relationships have to be about molding flipping, and when

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Speaker 3: you get in a real relationship, it turns into what

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Speaker 3: the relationship is, how we have a relationship together in

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Speaker 3: all things, not just flipping. Do you know you spend

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Speaker 3: Do you know that the majority of your hours will

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Speaker 3: be spent not having sex.

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Speaker 2: I believe that. Please understain and lady, I got something.

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Speaker 2: Tell you. Your husband's right, it's you. The problem is

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Speaker 2: you and you ain't learned a damn thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, staying young is great, but at one point you

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Speaker 3: have to mature because you are changing as a person.

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Speaker 3: Any people that don't change as they get older, you are.

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Speaker 3: You are dealing with a fool. You ain't gonna ever

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Speaker 3: have nothing. You know what breaks you up? What attracts

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Speaker 3: you to me and is your baby talk. You know

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Speaker 3: what make him leave, your baby ways because you was

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Speaker 3: a silly, little simple I like that.

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Speaker 1: Say that again?

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Speaker 2: That was good.

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Speaker 3: You can attract them with your baby talk. For what

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Speaker 3: makes him leave is your baby ways, So you can

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Speaker 3: keep on with your little God got hey, baby, American

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Speaker 3: Express is gonna close the card.

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Speaker 2: I do want to close the car? Yeah, well we

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Speaker 2: gotta make a payment. Oh, I want you to flip me.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, hey, American Express on a flip too. They

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Speaker 3: want to slip a check over to him. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: got thirty days. We gotta we gotta flip some money

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Speaker 3: over there. So, lady, you're never gonna have nothing. I

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Speaker 3: strongly suggest you leave this husband and go on to

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Speaker 3: number five because you ain't acting like a wife no way,

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Speaker 3: and to be good riddles. Maybe your man can find

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Speaker 3: somebody that want to be married and treat him right.

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Speaker 3: Because you ain't gonna do nothing. You ain't never have nothing.

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Speaker 3: Number five you send me boy, wait till number thirty

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Speaker 3: two come through.

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Speaker 1: That dope bra volks your domain.

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Speaker 2: Jim Brown O Jay Sophy On.

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