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Speaker 1: Okay, Hello, my name is Stephanie. I think the title

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Speaker 1: for my story is going to be my dad died

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Speaker 1: and I found out so much information, including I had

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I mean that's that's that's a title for.

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Speaker 3: A story that is that that is a whirlwind. But

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Speaker 3: I mean I want to know how you actually found

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Speaker 4: Let's do it, Stephanie.

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Speaker 2: This is John Sam and Riley from Okay, OPCIA. How

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Speaker 2: you doing, Hi, getting yourself doing great? Doing great? Soe, Hi,

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Speaker 2: we got the whole gang here. We just heard your

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Speaker 2: story about the big information that you found out after

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Speaker 2: your dad's passing, which our our condolence is, by the way,

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Speaker 2: we would love to get like a thirty second breakdown

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Speaker 1: Okay, So basically, so, my dad and I didn't have

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Speaker 1: the best for daily ship, and we you know, we

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Speaker 1: didn't have the best relationship even afterwards, and I was

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Speaker 1: very much Karkatka and he passed away that in September

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Speaker 1: first we think he had like an azure attacking sleep.

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Speaker 1: And when I went over there for the funeral, I

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Speaker 1: When I was over there, I found out that my

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty on about twenty six, and my brother is

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Speaker 1: probably like eighteen nineteen maybe twenty And apparently he lives

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So you had just had a child to go to

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Speaker 4: Is it just your brother? Was there?

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Speaker 2: Was there more people you found out about, like the

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Speaker 1: Did you say the hie? The main thing is that

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Speaker 2: So not not only you found your your brother who

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Speaker 1: No, So he ended up having like I guess, a

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Speaker 1: And then the worst part is my dad was in

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Speaker 3: That's that's so rough. I A lot has happened in

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure because where my dad grew up a

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Speaker 4: To the funeral?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Wow, so you don't like, like but you don't desire

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Speaker 1: I do? I mean, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 3: Was And this was like like when you're talking about

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Speaker 2: Wow, how did you, like, I mean, you know, you

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Speaker 1: I've only struggled with a lot of things. So it's

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Speaker 4: And where and where are you at?

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Speaker 2: With you know, it sounds like you do want to,

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Speaker 4: You do you know where he's at?

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Speaker 1: I think I would film like, even though we didn't

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Speaker 1: I don't consider my siblings havelsibly, they're all my disiblings. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: That's beautiful. Yeah, how really?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if I feel like that approach is maybe the

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Speaker 3: But I think, like, you know, honoring the memories and

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Speaker 3: And it sounds like you're doing that. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: I'm in therapy honestly, Like I wasn't in therapy, I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is I'm impressed and like, honestly inspired by

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Speaker 2: And you're putting in you have the right intentions and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're inspired by your empathy and I.

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Speaker 3: Really appreciate you like calling us and sharing your story.

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Speaker 3: And uh, I really hope that you continue like this

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm sorry, I'm pretty nervous because I wasn't

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Speaker 2: No, we're so grateful that that you answered and shared

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Speaker 3: So we really appreciate you calling in. This was amazing. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: thank you so much for Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate you. Guys. I'm a cute Ben.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much. Thank you awesome. Well you

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Speaker 2: have a great day. Thanks so much again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, wow, there you go. Man, We'll talk strong person,

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Speaker 2: talk about someone who has been through a lot yet

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Speaker 2: Her, working on both you know, building connections with like

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Speaker 3: And also thank you so much for calling ed. We

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Speaker 3: sometimes it's like like this where it's you know, like

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Speaker 2: So absolutely, thank you all.

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Speaker 4: in this toilet. We'll giving you an atomic wedgie. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I love our stereotypical bully voice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I can't remember what the bulling was. I only remember

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Speaker 3: the most epic of nuclear of reactions. Victor tried to

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, So the bullying was like intense. He's

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Speaker 3: So the best bowling led to a fistful of prescription

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Speaker 3: Now your garden variety building, Like this was actually serious.

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Speaker 4: Good God.

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Speaker 3: So after months of doing things the right way right,

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Speaker 2: Right try to trying to like get back at the

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Speaker 2: his eye out. We discussed that possibility and it didn't

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Speaker 4: Interesting.

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Speaker 2: Quite simply, we waited until Victor was documented to be

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Speaker 4: One night.

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Speaker 2: Our posse, the four of us, gathered up with a

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Speaker 2: two craps about whether his eyes were shot out. My goodness,

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Speaker 2: By the end he was rolling around covering his face

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Speaker 2: be lead, leave Victor alone or you will be un alive. God,

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Speaker 2: these guys, I mean, I mean vigilante justice. I mean yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think like if someone bullied someone that hard, you

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Speaker 4: But that wasn't enough, Oh God.

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Speaker 2: We took a bunch of tire irons to his car

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, good thing we were wearing full mask

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Speaker 3: CSI being a thing at all. We used a new

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Speaker 4: What is this young group of mastermind criminals?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 4: What what is going on here? Broy? They want justice?

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Speaker 2: This Jeffrey Dahmer's cousin or something like this. The details

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Speaker 2: of I'm guessing they're like in high school or something

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Speaker 2: like this is a lot.

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Speaker 4: They didn't see.

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Speaker 2: The next thing is just that that they have to

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Speaker 3: They're like anti hero vibes facts, which is cool. When

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Speaker 3: he finally showed up at school, he looked like he

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Speaker 3: anyone know anything about this? The cops try to guilt

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Speaker 2: They brought up crap like he could have lost his

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Speaker 2: My god. The guilt trip strategy to invoke a confession

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Speaker 4: None of us felt guilty.

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Speaker 2: We felt nothing in the slightest for this scum.

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Speaker 4: Being as smart ass as we were.

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Speaker 3: We pointed the finger at Victor and one other friend

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Speaker 1: Wait.

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Speaker 4: Wait, they're not blaming Victor, are they.

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Speaker 3: They're like blaming Victor, but like it's impossible because he

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Speaker 4: Was at work.

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Speaker 2: Oh, because Victor was at work. Yeah, M so weird.

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Speaker 2: I mean it just or Yeah, it's like, who did

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Then he just gets arrested for a crime he never committed. Interesting,

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Speaker 2: the bully was jumpy and never the same. I straight

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Speaker 2: up think we gave him some fairly moderate PTSD from

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Speaker 2: I've never been happier. After a few months, he moved

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Speaker 4: Interesting.

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Speaker 2: I so so, I I do, like, like again, you

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Speaker 2: do you do something, you you you get it back?

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Speaker 4: Like I like that part.

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Speaker 2: I think they went a little to him on him,

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Speaker 2: say what he did, but what he did, but the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a pretty hard effect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean again, I wow, this is what what

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, good for you for standing up to

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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know. It's just too it's just

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Speaker 2: too it was too much. But you know, like maybe

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Speaker 3: I think, you know, maybe he can stop this behavior

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Speaker 2: If it's it's that drastic, that is very very bad.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, I do think it's good that they

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Speaker 2: like basically, he's probably not gonna do that ever again,

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Speaker 2: but uh it's interesting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actions have consequences my friends, yep, in high school.

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Speaker 2: In high school, I was bullied severely, thing pushed down

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Speaker 2: I just couldn't get them. Whether I stayed quiet or

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Speaker 3: And because of all that horrid attention I was getting,

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Speaker 3: no one wanted to be friends with me. I wish

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Speaker 3: I had friends like you back then. Victor was so

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is like, I do think it

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Speaker 2: no no pun intended, but like I yeah, it's just

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Speaker 2: It's just like you'll still you'll you'll rough him up

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Speaker 2: and he'll just be so he'll be just shook from

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Speaker 2: it happening period. I don't know that you need to

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Speaker 2: like massively just destroy him. Yeah, there is one more comment.

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Speaker 2: Koi Gone said it is.

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Speaker 4: Only when authorities fail that vigilantes rise. And did any