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Speaker 1: want to talk about scamming quickly, because you know I'm away.

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Speaker 1: I'm always looking out for the people who listen to us.

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Speaker 1: I'm constantly looking at all the different things that are

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Speaker 1: happening to make sure that none of them. I don't

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Speaker 1: want any of our listeners to be affected by scams

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Speaker 1: that are out there. Camlin, I know you've been scammed

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Speaker 1: before by a psychic.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you didn't have to say that part, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: Told the story before, so I do have to tell

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Speaker 1: I know, I had to. I had to. It's been

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Speaker 1: I had to expose it, Caitlin. Okay, it's been a

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Speaker 1: secret on this show forever, and I had to let

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Speaker 1: everybody know you were scam by a psychic. Okay, it's

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Speaker 3: It's true. It's true.

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Speaker 1: Just quick recap for the new people, people who haven't

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Speaker 1: been listening or who've been slacking or whatever, because you

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Speaker 1: told the story a couple of years ago. But what

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't remember why I started aging, but she

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Speaker 4: wanted like a picture of my palm, and I kept

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Speaker 4: asking Jason and Paulina like, Okay, there's no information she

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Speaker 4: me that I was cursed by witches when I was

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Speaker 4: And then I had to pay more to have yeah,

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Speaker 3: But I did pay her a little bit and send

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Speaker 1: So how much did you give her?

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Speaker 4: I don't remember, but too much. I mean even a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, well you must it must have worked

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Speaker 1: because throughout that time, you know, you got yourself a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're not familiar with that, are either. That

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Speaker 1: This was late at night. It would have been late

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Speaker 1: I'm just old. But we talked about scams because there's

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Speaker 1: AI generated bread Pitt scam. Not familiar with that. But

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Speaker 1: this is just crazy. It's just tragic really in this case,

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Speaker 1: And I will say before I tell jokes, it was

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Speaker 1: but that the old people know. But even an old person,

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Speaker 1: my grandfather, even and it is a ninety two before

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Speaker 1: this elderly Japanese woman was tricked out of thousands of

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Speaker 1: to and where he's posting, and what's public and what's

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Speaker 1: electronically sent him more money because he needed it to

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Speaker 1: buy oxygen. Oh you want to laugh, You want to laugh, Kaitlin.

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Speaker 2: No, I did not do not hold it in.

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Speaker 3: No, I did not.

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Speaker 1: The worst thing he could possibly happen on this show,

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Speaker 1: The very worst thing he could possibly happen is when

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Speaker 1: I say something that is funny, Well, especially when I

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Speaker 1: and you all want to laugh, but you're worried about

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Speaker 1: as equally as bad of a person as I am,

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Speaker 4: Fred, I've talked about pooping my pants if I was

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Speaker 1: That's true. That's an excellent point on this tree. That's

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Speaker 1: an excellent point. But trusting his story, the woman sent

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Speaker 1: him sixty seven hundred dollars because he needed it to

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Speaker 2: Oh that's expensive space.

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Speaker 1: I mean he was in space, and like he kind

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Speaker 1: of buy it from somebody who's silly? Are the Russians?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a real one.

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Speaker 1: Exactly. Romance that love scams or not unique to any

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Speaker 1: one region. The US Federal Trade Commission reports that Americans

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Speaker 1: lost more than a billion dollars to similar schemes in

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Speaker 1: users encountering attempted scams. Officials warn that such scams often

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Speaker 1: target seniors who are vulnerable to arrange of fraudulent schemes.

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Speaker 1: The victim in this case can at least take solace

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Speaker 1: Let's remember our friend's butcher sunny. They could have used

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Speaker 1: It's about thirty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: So it didn't work out. He's the frend Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: Forty thousand music fans they asked. Researchers found that younger

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Speaker 1: as older listeners tend to revisit songs from their youth

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Speaker 3: Can I ask who's not a music fan? Like they

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Speaker 3: asked forty thousand music fans. He's like, no, I'm good,

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Speaker 1: But no, it's Reddit is really the secret, of course,

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Speaker 1: That's not why it's dude, is not proposing to you,

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Speaker 6: No, absolutely not, girl, hey, lining to you. If that's

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Speaker 1: We're moving forward together, right, Yeah, for sure? And then

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Speaker 9: Unless I'm changing if i'm the ex wife, I'm changing

437
00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,200
Speaker 9: the kids' names back to my name, and then.

438
00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:37,879
Speaker 1: That's what my mom did.

439
00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,520
Speaker 2: They Yeah, then clean, sweet goodbye.

440
00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:43,360
Speaker 1: But she doesn't want to change your name. And she's

441
00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,359
Speaker 1: not gonna do it now because it's it's his, it's

442
00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:50,880
Speaker 1: her exes now girlfriend forcing it so so so she's

443
00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:52,439
Speaker 1: not gonna I'm gonna be like, no, I'm not doing it.

444
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,919
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it for you, right, And what does

445
00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,280
Speaker 1: it even mean? Like I was already married to him,

446
00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,080
Speaker 1: I had kids with him, I did it with him.

447
00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,200
Speaker 1: Look at it, like, you can't take that for me?

448
00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,800
Speaker 2: The spy seconds someone tells you.

449
00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,479
Speaker 1: If he didn't care that the first wife didn't have

450
00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,960
Speaker 1: his last name, why does he care about the second one?

451
00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:13,040
Speaker 1: Which is why I wonder if it's her and not him,

452
00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,000
Speaker 1: if this is a she issue, you're no in your head.

453
00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,159
Speaker 4: I feel like it's it's her, and I feel like

454
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,959
Speaker 4: that's a huge red flag, Like what if something that

455
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,080
Speaker 4: actually matters comes up during their marriage?

456
00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 3: She cares about something that does not matter at all?

457
00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, what else do we have to what else do

458
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 1: we have to erase and pretend didn't happen.

459
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I don't know, I'm out on her. I

460
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:31,400
Speaker 3: don't like it.

461
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,560
Speaker 1: You're right, you were in on her previously.

462
00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:35,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know her, but I'm out.

463
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,800
Speaker 1: At one point you were like maybe with her, but

464
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:39,920
Speaker 1: then but now it's out.

465
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 3: I'm moving on.

466
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,480
Speaker 1: We're completely out all this marriage talk. Are you're going

467
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,000
Speaker 1: to have Kiki have second thoughts and other text? Well?

468
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:46,760
Speaker 2: Oh no, girl?

469
00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:47,760
Speaker 1: Are you taking his name?

470
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 2: Yes? On social media?

471
00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 1: On social media? I would think that'd be the one

472
00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 1: place you wouldn't take name.

473
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, no, no, I'll change my Facebook. I had his

474
00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:59,040
Speaker 6: name to my Facebook.

475
00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 1: But what about on like legal documents.

476
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,439
Speaker 2: I don't have to have all that. Okay, minor stuff.

477
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,679
Speaker 1: Deal, we're pump faking a little bit.

478
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 3: Does you know?

479
00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:17,399
Speaker 1: Well he knows him now, boy? Yeah, you know what.

480
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,719
Speaker 1: That's what it says. I'm sorr. I should have read

481
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 1: the fanatics. It's Friday. I apologize. Yeah, I love you.

482
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 1: So you've been in a situation this exact thing. Please.

483
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 11: So I got married in nineteen, had a kid, and

484
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,880
Speaker 11: then like two years out in the marriage, he wanted

485
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 11: to divorce.

486
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:34,119
Speaker 12: You know whatever.

487
00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 11: I didn't necessarily want it, but his second wife three

488
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,120
Speaker 11: years later, asked me if I changed my last name

489
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,679
Speaker 11: and I said no, this is before they obviously got married.

490
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 11: And I said no. I said, if he didn't want

491
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 11: me to have his last name, and then he should

492
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 11: have thought about that before he married me.

493
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: Period.

494
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 1: So this woman wanted to be the only one that

495
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 1: had the last name, like the only like somehow that

496
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,719
Speaker 1: made her elite to something. You've already been married to him.

497
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 1: It happened, It's done.

498
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 12: Right, Yeah, get over it.

499
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly.

500
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 1: Okay, So what we have We had a child with.

501
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 11: It with I had a child with him, and I'm like,

502
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 11: I'm not changing my last name from my child. And

503
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 11: then now he's on his third wife.

504
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:23,680
Speaker 1: Oh boy.

505
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 11: And I kept his last name for like ten ten

506
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 11: ten years, and then I ended up getting remarried and

507
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 11: now I have a totally different last name than any

508
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 11: of my kids.

509
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, it's gonna confusing now, So Tanya, I need

510
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to start drawing a map a little

511
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: bit here to see where everyone's going. We've got three husbands,

512
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 1: we've got two wives, I got three lives. No, it does, no,

513
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 1: there's no judgment. I'm just I'm just trying to make

514
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 1: sure we know who's last name is who's but you

515
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 1: didn't change your last name. She still married him and

516
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 1: then she took the name, and so she had to

517
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 1: get over it.

518
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 11: Yeah she has to because like if he if he

519
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 11: only wanted one person to have his last name, so

520
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 11: he should have thought about that before he married me

521
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 11: or divorced.

522
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: Me, and then the second time and the third too, right, Yeah, yeah,

523
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: I think.

524
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 12: So, maybe actually, maybe try to work on your marriage.

525
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 1: Before you just a wore somebody, you know what. Maybe so, Danya,

526
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: thank you have a good day, and yeah you telling

527
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: me maybe don't be I love you too. Maybe don't

528
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: just be out here giving out your last name like

529
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:29,119
Speaker 1: it's nothing, right, Jillian, Hey, you're saying to girlfriends Dululu here.

530
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 1: I think we all agree on that, right, Oh yeah,

531
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: definitely yeah. I mean what would you do in this situation.

532
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 1: You'd be like, no, I'm not changing it. If you

533
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: were the ex, you're not doing anything for this person.

534
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 12: Yeah, changing your name is just a total tain and

535
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 12: she's not part of your life, to screw it.

536
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to do it for you, you know,

537
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 1: like if I were going to do it I would

538
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: have done it before. I'm not going to do it

539
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: because this guy's new girlfriends intimidated by it. It's just

540
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: a name.

541
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 12: Yeah, Unfortunately, I think the girlfriend really is like in

542
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 12: her own little girls and just so see the reflex

543
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 12: that were clearly improper.

544
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so too. Thank you, Jillian. Have a

545
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: good day you do. If someone text should pay me,

546
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 1: it's gonna be like if I get traded to another

547
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: NFL team or something and it's like, oh, you know

548
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: your number fifty five is already number fifty five, and

549
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I want fifty freads comedy wants fifty five,

550
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 1: and the guy who's got it's like oker million bucks. Hey,

551
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: wake up, you can learn Chinese in less than thirty minutes,

552
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: apparently me.

553
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Fread show is on. You know I like

554
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 2: the thin toilet paper, so if it.

555
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: Was wait, no, I don't know that with those nails

556
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: you like? No, no, no, no, I don't remember this. You

557
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: like thin toilet paper? You would who would hurt you?

558
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 7: No one?

559
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: No one likes toilet paper. We choose your hand and

560
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 1: then watch it.

561
00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 3: Yes, girl, I would.

562
00:23:59,160 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 2: Be so mad if you.

563
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 6: But I like a thin soil and paper I don't

564
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 6: want all that, like a like a cloth like I

565
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 6: don't want all that.

566
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 2: It leaves the rights of doing all that I don't

567
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:08,719
Speaker 2: need that.

568
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: I need as much distance between my skin and whatever

569
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 1: is happening there.

570
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 6: Well, so I will buy Scott in the end. If

571
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 6: Scott is not there, I will buy the off brand

572
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 6: version of Scott Denny.

573
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: Little but her from using You've ever been left waiting

574
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: by the phone? It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Sasha, good morning,

575
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 1: welcome to the program. How are you hi?

576
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 13: Good morning?

577
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 2: Good So what's.

578
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: Going on with this guy Michael? So waiting by the phone,

579
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: of course for trying to figure out if you've been ghosted?

580
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 1: But I mean tell us how you met and about

581
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: any dates you've been on, and you know, kind of

582
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: any information that you can give us to try and

583
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: help you figure this out.

584
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 13: All right.

585
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 14: So I met this guy Michael on Tinder and we

586
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 14: went out to drink and we really hit it off.

587
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 13: So we went to a couple of bars and while

588
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:56,360
Speaker 13: we were.

589
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 14: Like walking from one to the next, he really had

590
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 14: to go to the bathroom and I was like, well,

591
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,160
Speaker 14: my place is right here if you want to use

592
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,959
Speaker 14: my bathroom. But it's like I'm a bit of a

593
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 14: messy person, so I didn't expect him to come over.

594
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 14: So I told him, you know, please, you don't judge me,

595
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 14: and he said he didn't care.

596
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 13: He really had to pee.

597
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 14: So right after we left my apartment just things felt

598
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 14: really off, and I mean we went to one more bar,

599
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 14: things felt weird.

600
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 13: And then I haven't heard from him since.

601
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 14: And like before the apartment, it felt like we were

602
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 14: really hitting it off. So I don't know what changed,

603
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 14: and I don't know why he's not responding to my text.

604
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 1: Okay, cause I get it. So you weren't planning to

605
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: have him over, Sasha, so like you didn't clean the

606
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 1: house up really like didn't make the bet or didn't

607
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,479
Speaker 1: put stuff away or whatever because you figured, well, this

608
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 1: is the first day he's not coming over, so who cares.

609
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: But then when he had to use the restroom, it's like,

610
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: all right, we're going to go to my house. But

611
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: you just need to know that I didn't. I didn't.

612
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready for guests.

613
00:25:58,920 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 13: Right right.

614
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 14: I Like, if he was coming over, I obviously would

615
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 14: have cleaned, but like.

616
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: Right, well, I mean that seems innocent enough, I guess.

617
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: I mean unless you've been on an episode of Hoarders before.

618
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 1: Have you been on the show Hoarders before?

619
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 3: Not yet?

620
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 13: No?

621
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: Not yet? All right, well maybe this is maybe we

622
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 1: see where this is going. But all right, we're gonna

623
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: call this guy Michael in just a second. You'll be

624
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 1: on the phone as well. At some point you're welcome

625
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: to jump in on a call. And the hope, as

626
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: always is that we can straighten this out and then

627
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for.

628
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 2: Sound good, Oh, thank you.

629
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 3: I hope that works out.

630
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: Hey, Sasha, okay, welcome back. Let's call this guy Michael.

631
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,719
Speaker 1: You met on Tinder. You plan to go out for drinks.

632
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: You you did meet up with him. He had to

633
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: use the restrooms, so you were near your home and

634
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: you were like, well, i'll tell you what, we can

635
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: pop in here, but I didn't clean for guests. I

636
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,479
Speaker 1: wasn't prepared to have guests over tonight, just the heads up,

637
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: and he was like, fine, you went in there. You

638
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: do wind up going out and having drinks, but you

639
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: noticed from the point he left your house through the

640
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: drinks the mood changed and then you haven't heard from

641
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: him since the date. And of course you want to

642
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: know what happened. Okay, well, let's call Michael now. Good luck. Hello, Hi,

643
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: this is Michael. Yes, Hi Michael, good morning. My name

644
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning

645
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: radio show, and I have to tell you that we

646
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: are on the radio right now and I would need

647
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Is it okay

648
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 1: if we chat for just a second on the show.

649
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 8: H I guess yeah, okay, great, we know it is weird.

650
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: I admit that it's weird to get called by a

651
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: radio show, And thank you for answering, by the way,

652
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,719
Speaker 1: and for talking to us. But you're welcome to hang

653
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 1: up at any time. But we're trying to get to

654
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: the bottom of a situation. A woman named Sasha has

655
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: reached out to us. Do you recall going out with Sasha?

656
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: You guys met on Tinder apparently?

657
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, I do.

658
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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, So what happened? Because she called us and

659
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: told us that you guys had met and that she

660
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: was excited to hang out with you. She said that

661
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: there was a transition point of the date. I guess

662
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: after you went to her house and used the restroom.

663
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: She told us about you know that and how she

664
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: didn't sort of organize her house or wasn't clean for visitors,

665
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 1: which I think a lot of people can relate to.

666
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: But she says that beyond that point, you know, the

667
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: day got weird and that she hasn't heard from you.

668
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:11,880
Speaker 1: So what happened?

669
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:12,479
Speaker 13: Sure?

670
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: So I guess you.

671
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 8: Guys, I can't believe I'm about to say this, but

672
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 8: she sleeps in a dog bed.

673
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, wait, yeah, so that was she sleeps.

674
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 8: She she she has it like she purchased a bed

675
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 8: for dogs and that's what she uses as her bed.

676
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: So like, oh, I need to understand. So you walk

677
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: in her bed in her bedroom, and like normally there

678
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: would be a bed, you know, hopefully like some form

679
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: of frame or something, and you know it wouldn't be

680
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: on the ground, you know, hopefully. We're like, yeah, right,

681
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: the box spring. We were kind of risen off the

682
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: ground little bit, and you know, maybe a headboard, some sheets,

683
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: you know, like I think. Instead, you walk in and

684
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: where that would all be was just a dog bed

685
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: and like a blanket.

686
00:28:59,120 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 8: Correct.

687
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: Are we sure that isn't her dog's bedroom? You know,

688
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: some some people do that. Some people have an extra

689
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: room and they like set it up like it's their

690
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: dog's room. Are you sure that this is where she sleeps?

691
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 13: Yeah?

692
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 8: No, it was a small it was a small apartment.

693
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 8: It's only one bedroom, and that is where she sleeps.

694
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Speaker 8: And I did not see a dog in sight when

695
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Speaker 8: we went in there.

696
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: Oh there isn't even a dog. Oh, there isn't a dog.

697
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: And also there's really no confusion there. That's it. Wow. Hm,

698
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: let me. I forgot to mention that Sasha is here.

699
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm extremely forgetful, and I apologize. Sasha, do you sleep

700
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: in a dog bed? Which is something I didn't think

701
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: I was going to say today.

702
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 14: Yes, but like, beds are really expensive and I'm very

703
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 14: good with money. And I don't know if you guys

704
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 14: knew this, but like, there are dogs that are like

705
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 14: human size, and if you buy a bets for that

706
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 14: only like eighty bucks.

707
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 13: But if you buy a mattress, I mean not gonna

708
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 13: be over a grand girls.

709
00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 3: I just bought.

710
00:29:58,920 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: We just bought a mattress.

711
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 9: They are a hella expensive for no reason.

712
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 2: There's no reason these mattresses would be this one.

713
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: Okay, But Jason, why are you nodding your head like

714
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: this is a normal, acceptable thing? It's something we haven't

715
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: thought of.

716
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 10: Yeah, I do know that mattress go up to like

717
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 10: seven grand.

718
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: Okay, you do it? You sleep in one mattress?

719
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean at least as they got the air mattress.

720
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Speaker 1: It even looks like it has a box freaking on it.

721
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: You know, you plug it and get it a target

722
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: a couple hundred bucks. Maybe this is my question though,

723
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: what do you do when somebody comes over? Like what

724
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: if things had gone really well with Michael, you know,

725
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: and it's like time to do some stuff. Do you

726
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: guys just both crawl into the dog bed or do

727
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: you get another dog bed and put it next to it,

728
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: or like several lick them up together. I mean, what

729
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: are we doing here exactly?

730
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 13: It sounds really weird when you say it like that.

731
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: Oh now it sounds weird, But I.

732
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Speaker 13: Mean, yeah, it's comfortable. It's big enough for you.

733
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Speaker 14: But like usually, like I mean, I never bring a

734
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Speaker 14: guy over on the first date, but usually if we

735
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 14: like hang out, we'll go to the guys please, and

736
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 14: then like eventually, like I'll explain about my dad and.

737
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 13: Like usually guys are like, oh yeah, like that makes sense.

738
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: Wait, people are actually like that they think that's a

739
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: normal thing.

740
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 14: I don't think anyone thinks it's normal, but nobody seems

741
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 14: to have a problem with it.

742
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 13: But I guess, like I am so single.

743
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I have never heard of

744
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: anything like this before. I think I think it would

745
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 1: probably be good for your health and overall well being

746
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: and things like that to just maybe invest in a bed.

747
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 13: How do you get dirty?

748
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 14: It's just like a different type of mattress, like.

749
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: When you're essentially sleeping on the floor.

750
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 2: What do you eat your food out of?

751
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: Girl?

752
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: Or do you use a dog bowl? In a water bowl?

753
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 1: You know?

754
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 12: No?

755
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: Like, is this kind of a fetish thing?

756
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 3: You get your haircut?

757
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: It's smart? Like, what's see? Girl? Because this is crazy?

758
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: Are your family in France?

759
00:31:58,320 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: Do you eat milk bones?

760
00:31:59,600 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 15: Right?

761
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a notebone? Did you enjoy the

762
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: way it tasted?

763
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 2: Insane?

764
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 3: Your anal glands express.

765
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 5: Yes, and not for pleasure, for utility.

766
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: Do they have to sedate you to clean your teeth?

767
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: This is sounding Jason's life is a lot like dogs.

768
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 2: Apparently, it's crazy.

769
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so Michael, look you liked her up

770
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: until that point. I guess, I mean, it doesn't sounding

771
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: there was much time to really get to nowhere. But

772
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: I am a little concerned with the sort of thought

773
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: process here, and you know what would lead one to

774
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: think this was the right thing to do or a

775
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: good idea. I'm all for saving money. I think there

776
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: are certain things in life that you know, you said

777
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: you were good with money, so you know, I think

778
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 1: it's probably worth an investment in an actual bed and

779
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: some sheets and things like that. But Michael, I don't know.

780
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: You probably have a bed, so she could come over

781
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: to your house. Would you consider giving her another chance? No, don't.

782
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 8: I don't think I want another date here. Like I said,

783
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 8: if she's that's that's a choice that she's making. It's

784
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,959
Speaker 8: a choice that she's making. But it's kind of questioned

785
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 8: everything that I that I have about her. So I'm

786
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 8: not interested.

787
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 12: Huh.

788
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 2: I don't blame you.

789
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: Have you ever barked at anyone, Sasha? None?

790
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 16: As they ask?

791
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: I mean again, Jason, he's finding this far too relatable.

792
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: Maybe you and Jason should go out. Look, Sasha, I

793
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: don't think it's going to work out. He's not interested.

794
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: I wish you the best you knew you. Whatever makes

795
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: you happy, you plan there are other people who think

796
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: this is normal, and so maybe I mean, I suspect

797
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,479
Speaker 1: you'll find someone it would be great, and Michael, good

798
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: luck to you as well. It turns out, guys, that

799
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: if we want to be if we want to experience

800
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: less burnout and we want to feel completely and totally

801
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: fulfilled in our lives, the kind of job that we

802
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: have would dictate whether that we can do that. And

803
00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: I think we're just in the wrong kind of job.

804
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: I think that's why I'm so burnt out. I'm burnt

805
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: It's not because this place is full of skitch and lies.

806
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: It's not that at all. It's not. It has nothing

807
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: to do with the skitch of lies that going around

808
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 1: here all the time. Well, I'll do that for you,

809
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: and then nothing happens. It has to do with the

810
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: fact that we need a more physically demanding or dirty

811
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: job to feel less burnout. Sanitation construction. Even exotic dancers, yes,

812
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: may experience less burnout than those in office roles. This

813
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: could be because they have clear, more tangible tasks and

814
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 1: feel less self conscious about their work. So this is

815
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: the problem. What we need is a dirty job, like

816
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: apparently dirty, meaning any dirty, physically dirty morally, we need

817
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 1: a dirty job.

818
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 2: Take it off.

819
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: But I can kind of see how this is true. Yeah,

820
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: I agree with that too, because, like I suppose, if

821
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: you're doing a job and it's like, here's the here's the.

822
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 9: Build this, Yes, this is the task in hands exactly exactly,

823
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 9: staff these bricks, you know whatever, build this wall.

824
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, make make this person, give you a hundred bucks

825
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: build this? But why is it? Well?

826
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 7: Why?

827
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: Why?

828
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 5: For life?

829
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 2: There you go back on you know what?

830
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: You didn't have to spin that. Okay, you know exactly

831
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: what I meant. All right, don't build that wall, build

832
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: another kind of way. And your construction job. I didn't

833
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: say your construction job in Arizona. I didn't say that.

834
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: I never said that. Okay, do not miss my enjoyed

835
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 1: to sup. I hate you. I'm no longer looking at

836
00:35:55,719 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: you admiringly. And that took three minutes whatever whatever the

837
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: thing is. But do you have one I'm gonna have?

838
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 1: Do you have one of these jobs?

839
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 7: Eight?

840
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: Five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five? Do

841
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 1: you have one of these jobs? And do you think

842
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: that's true? Because you know around here it can be

843
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: a little obscure. You know, we come in here, we

844
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: do a good job. We think we do a good jobs.

845
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: Some people tell us that we saw but it's okay,

846
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: that will always happen. And then and then we kind

847
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: of cross our fingers and we wait. We wait to

848
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: see what the what the ratings people will tell us,

849
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: and usually it's it's decent news. And then every now

850
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 1: and again it's all of a sudden, you guys are

851
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: a bunch of morons. But we have no idea. We

852
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: have no idea. Office workers, though, have unclear tasks and

853
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: are always getting interrupted by emails, messages, notifications, which can

854
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: lead to stress and exhaustion. Apparently having a straightforward, hands

855
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: on job might help reduce burnout.

856
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 12: We do.

857
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 1: I think is also true. I see that if I'm

858
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: constructing a roof or the house, or a wall that's

859
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: part of a house for residential whatever, if okay, if

860
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 1: I'm doing drywall. I mean it's like cleaning though, like

861
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: think about when you clean your house or vacuuming especially,

862
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: it's a very very fulfilling activity because when you're mowing

863
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: the lawn, when you're done, look, I just did that.

864
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: I can see my work as where if I write

865
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: a thousand emails, I don't necessarily walk away feeling like

866
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: I did something, I really did something right.

867
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 9: Yeah, you don't feel completion because it never ends, you know, exactly,

868
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 9: Like with this type of job, like our brains are

869
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 9: always on.

870
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 1: It's not like we just get to clock out. Like

871
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: when I used to dance at Labert in Dallas. You know,

872
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: the housewives, they left feeling great. You know, I made them.

873
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: I made their evening better. I could see. I could

874
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 1: see them turn that front upside down as they handed

875
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: me a twenty.

876
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 3: And then when you got home, the work was done.

877
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: The work was done, and nobody was eating. There were

878
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: no emails from Laberar. No, no, mainly because we didn't

879
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: have emails.

880
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 3: Your house phone occasionally, yeah, no they did.

881
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: They did just to tell me to come in because

882
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: the people were lighting up. They were like, where's the

883
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: master blaster? Where is he? He's like, he can't beat

884
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 1: here all the time. The guy's got to go stretch,

885
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: work out, you know.

886
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 6: Okay, I've had this argument in my house before where

887
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 6: I'm like, you know, your job, you get to turn

888
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,280
Speaker 6: it off when you come home. It's and he's like, girls,

889
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 6: shut up, you just work and talk like you go.

890
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 6: You go have fun with your friends, and I'm like,

891
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 6: it's so much more than that.

892
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,800
Speaker 2: You do not understand.

893
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 6: But he will argue that his job is much more

894
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 6: stressful because it's physically draining, it's you know, time consuming,

895
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 6: and I'm just like, yeah, so people, I don't know.

896
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 6: This has been a hot button in my house before.

897
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 6: Same here, Yeah, like first responder life. Yeah, because like

898
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 6: he can come home and put the ax.

899
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: Down or whatever, doesn't carry.

900
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: Around the house the fire man. For the record, he's

901
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: a firemansire man.

902
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 9: Lives right.

903
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 10: I just feel like, you know, because you can turn

904
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 10: it off, you can leave it at work, whatever. But

905
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 10: with me, it's not like that. I think a lot

906
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 10: of people can relate, you know.

907
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: No, I remember in college, I get a job before

908
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: radio at a sports internship at a sports marketing firm.

909
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: And I'm a sports marketing Oh wow, I'm fancy. I'm

910
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 1: one more khaki is and a button down shirt. I'm

911
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: gonna go to a sports marketing I'm really going places. Well,

912
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: they had a side business. They sold bottleheads of like

913
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 1: sports figures in sets, and what really I did most

914
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 1: of the time was I packed boxes with the six

915
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: bobbleheads that came from a warehouse, so I was essentially

916
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: a manual worker. I did not do a whole lot

917
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: in the office. It was kind of a scheme. Actually

918
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: it was a scheme. I got paid at least. But

919
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: my point is, I remember the first day to go

920
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: go to this warehouse. And so I go to this

921
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: warehouse and I walk in and it's literally a warehouse

922
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: as big as you can imagine, stacked from top to

923
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: bottom with boxes. Like you couldn't walk in to the warehouse.

924
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: There were so many boxes. And my job, with some

925
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: other people was to grab one of each of the

926
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: six Cowboys characters or whatever they were, and put them

927
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 1: in a box and tape it and then someone else

928
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 1: shipped them. The reason I bring this up is because

929
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: at first it was daunting, but after like two weeks,

930
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: the warehouse was empty because we packed them all and

931
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: that was an amazing feeling. It's like, dude, and you

932
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 1: could see it, like you could see as you did

933
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: this job, like the boxes started to disappear, and that

934
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: was it was really very It felt very good. I

935
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: haven't really felt that feeling in radio ever, but I

936
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: just I just think, like, you know, it's you don't

937
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: really have to think about it. You know what your

938
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: objective is. No one's going to email you and tell

939
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: you that you didn't you know, probably that you didn't

940
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 1: do it right. Maybe they will if you really screwed

941
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: it up. But I mean, for the most part, it's stuff.

942
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: I show up and I do my thing. Then I

943
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: leave and I have the satisfaction of knowing that I

944
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: completed the task at hand.

945
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 2: Yeap, Yeah, I like that I missed that.

946
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: Yes, Like I said, it never we never feel done there.

947
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: You go, all right, well, there it is. I'm a carpenter,

948
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 1: finished carpenter, and I still get burned town. Someone said, yeah,

949
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: I guess. So my husband to teamster and delivers beer

950
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 1: in the summer. They're working like fourteen hour days a

951
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: union iron worker here. There's definitely burned out at the

952
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,399
Speaker 1: end of a hard day. But you get the satisfaction

953
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: of driving on bridges and going in buildings that you

954
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: helped build. See that's what I mean. Like if you

955
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: build a skyscraper, if you're part of that, you know,

956
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 1: and then when the thing's done, you like look at

957
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: the skyline, like I help build that. Yeah they hell

958
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: am I going to walk away with? And you know,

959
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 1: whenever this is over right and.

960
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 2: They get a pension.

961
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 1: Fred Show, good morning, thanks for having us on the radio,

962
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 1: on the iHeart app Live and anytime search for the

963
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: Fresh Show on demand. As a parent, Paulina, you're having

964
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: to come up with creative ways you're lying to your child.

965
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,760
Speaker 5: I'm alive, you're lying. You're lying to your kids skates

966
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 5: and lies. It's a sketchy lies. This is how this

967
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 5: is how these the suits work around here with their

968
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 5: skits of lies. And then and then you take the

969
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 5: schedule lize all and you expose your children to them.

970
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 5: Look at the effect having on everyone's life. But how

971
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 5: are you lying to your kid? And then I want

972
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 5: to I want to expound on this.

973
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: You can call in text eight five five five nine

974
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: one three five how do you have to lie to

975
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: your kid? And there's no judgment here because I got

976
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: to imagine that it's just easier sometimes to lie to

977
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: the kid than it is to try and explain to them.

978
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: You know why we can't do the thing that we

979
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: can do because maybe you're busy on other stuff. It's like,

980
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 1: I got to what's the lie?

981
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 10: The one that I'm doing right now is she likes

982
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 10: to wake up and go to sleep, wanting to go

983
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 10: outside first. So she wants to go outside, like I

984
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 10: guess she sees a dog go out right in the morning,

985
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 10: so she feels that she wants to go outside, and

986
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 10: she'll point outside and I say, but outside's closed.

987
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 2: She knows the closed out side is closed.

988
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:47,399
Speaker 10: I say, outside closed, Gigi, outside closed, like it's not yet.

989
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 5: Yeah.

990
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,919
Speaker 10: She doesn't understand time yet, so I can't really say, like, well,

991
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 10: like ten o'clock.

992
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 3: It's open.

993
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 10: But when I'm home on the weekend Saturday morning, I

994
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 10: don't want to go outside at seven thirty.

995
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: Like outside is closed.

996
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 3: It's closed, like like there's a close sign. So she

997
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 3: understands open clothes kind of.

998
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 10: So I'm like closed and she goes closed, Mommy closed.

999
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 3: And I said, yes, mommy closed.

1000
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so wait, is outside open?

1001
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 3: It opens after I have coffee open?

1002
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 10: Yeah, after I do like my morning stuff that I

1003
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 10: need to do, like you know, go these the bathroom

1004
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 10: stuff in peace, right.

1005
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:17,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1006
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,720
Speaker 3: Benzo goes out first though it's told them for Benzo.

1007
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 3: Benzo gets to go and test.

1008
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:21,919
Speaker 2: Out the water.

1009
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: It's not outside for dog, it's not closed for dogs.

1010
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 2: Never closed never.

1011
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:27,360
Speaker 3: Oh, and our house never closed for Benzo.

1012
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1013
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's peed before on the floor and pooped. Yeah,

1014
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 3: that's been great.

1015
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: He's a dog. Yeah. What other lies you're telling your child?

1016
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: I would like to know, because I'm sure it's easier

1017
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: to parent that way.

1018
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 10: She has meltdowns when I let her FaceTime my my

1019
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 10: mother or her grandmother, so like, Bapcha is my mom, right,

1020
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 10: and she's upsets, like I think, like if she had

1021
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 10: a pick save one person, it's Bobcha forever, like who.

1022
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 3: Cares about mom? But I love it.

1023
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 10: And when I let her FaceTime, you know, we got

1024
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 10: to hang up with the phone because that's what we do.

1025
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 10: We have to bound the day. And you know, she

1026
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 10: much she freaks out and I say, Bobcha's working, bob

1027
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 10: Jessic go to work because she understands.

1028
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: Work, which is amazing.

1029
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 10: I love it Daddy work that she associates that with Daddy.

1030
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 10: So I say, bob Cho work. I'm hoping she gets it,

1031
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 10: like Bobcha's got things to do, Bobcha is busy.

1032
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 2: She'll kind of calm down.

1033
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 10: She'll say, Okay, bob Cho work, bob Cho work. So

1034
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 10: that's the only way that can get them off the phone.

1035
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 10: Is that she thinks Grandma's going to work even though

1036
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 10: it's like nine thirty at night. Bocha goes to work.

1037
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. My sister tells the kids like that,

1038
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: the toy story is closed.

1039
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 3: That's a good one.

1040
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it'll drive by it and it's like

1041
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,800
Speaker 1: we'll go in there. No, it's closing. I can't go

1042
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,359
Speaker 1: in there. It's closed. I think that's a pretty common

1043
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: one though, is it's just not open. The thing that

1044
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 1: you don't want to go to, you couldn't go to.

1045
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's closed, it's canceled, doesn't exist. Yeah, we'll have

1046
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 10: a lot of that.

1047
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 3: She's catching on the thing.

1048
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,959
Speaker 10: So she's about eighteen months almost, so she she gets

1049
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 10: a lie and I know it lies and the skits

1050
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 10: are coming.

1051
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 3: I just gets a lot at home, so she'll get

1052
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 3: a taste of that. Have you done a skit and

1053
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 3: a lie to other people?

1054
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 4: Like used her as an excuse because my mom would

1055
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 4: always be like, oh, Kaylan doesn't feel well, we have

1056
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 4: to leave, and I'd be like.

1057
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 3: No, I feel fine. Yeah, that one I've done.

1058
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: That.

1059
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 10: The one that I've done and I'll own is I

1060
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 10: didn't have a sitter. Sorry, I couldn't go like you

1061
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 10: guys know, I'm outside in twenty minutes.

1062
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 15: Like I was an amazing mileage.

1063
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: God bless, I'm so grateful you've wheeled the child in here,

1064
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: so like, yeah, yeah, you're just right exactly if you

1065
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: really wanted to go then and you couldn't just come

1066
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: with you.

1067
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 3: She's always on my hip.

1068
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 10: If I don't have a sitter, like I have her

1069
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 10: with me obviously if she can, you know, I could

1070
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 10: bring a baby. But if I really don't have a sitter,

1071
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 10: like you'll know, you'll know. And that happens once in

1072
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 10: a while. It has happened, like I couldn't go to

1073
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 10: the casino one time, you know, because I didn't have

1074
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 10: a sitter and she wasn't allowed.

1075
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 3: I called the casino and they said, no, I really.

1076
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: Wanted to go out, bring your baby, right.

1077
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 10: But that's the only skin and lie I'll do is like, oh,

1078
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 10: I didn't have a sitter that night.

1079
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 3: Like, no, I had a sitter.

1080
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to go. Oh my god. So

1081
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: I told my kid that you have to have a

1082
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: membership to shop at Target, and only Grandma has one

1083
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,479
Speaker 1: that is really good.

1084
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: That's a good one that is phenomenal.

1085
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 1: I really like that one. You need to use that, Yeah,

1086
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: just pawn everything off on the grandparents. I think people

1087
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: use that. People use the kid and the wife and

1088
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: spouse and you know husband excuse all the time. Oh yeah.

1089
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 1: So the problem with doing that is that here's the

1090
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: target membership story. This is absolutely brilliant. Well brilliant.

1091
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, we.

1092
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 17: Spent way too much money there when my son was

1093
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 17: like three four years old, and so then I told

1094
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 17: him that you have to have a target membership and

1095
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 17: grandma has a target credit card and it works.

1096
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, they save a lot of money.

1097
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, until you know, your child becomes old enough to

1098
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:36,959
Speaker 1: realize that that's a lie and their mom is a liar.

1099
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 7: Well he's six and a half.

1100
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 17: So we're doing great so far.

1101
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: Okay, well good, that's how this is great. You managed

1102
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: to keep it going.

1103
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 2: I like it.

1104
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: Thank you out exactly, have a good day. Yeah. No,

1105
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: it's like people use their spouse. Oh yeah, we can't

1106
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 1: go tonight because so and so says we can't go.

1107
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: And the problem with that is half the time I

1108
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: find out that so and so didn't say that, and

1109
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: then you start to sort of dislike so and so

1110
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 1: because I'd never let you do anything. And then you

1111
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: then you talk to so and so and so, and

1112
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: I never said that. I never said that. And I

1113
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,479
Speaker 1: don't know who's who's telling this skits in the lies?

1114
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 1: Are you lied?

1115
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 7: Did you?

1116
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: Are you really that much of a tyrant? Or is

1117
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: this person lying because they don't want to go? Hey, Angie,

1118
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 1: yeh hi? How do you lie to your kid?

1119
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 15: So?

1120
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 18: When he's fourteen now, so he's he's way too smart.

1121
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 18: But when he was little, whenever I was eating something

1122
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 18: and I didn't want to share, I would tell him

1123
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 18: it was spicy, and he would have like, yeah.

1124
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: That's pretty good, that is pretty good. Yeah, it's just

1125
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:38,919
Speaker 1: spicy for you. You don't want done.

1126
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 18: Yeah, if it was like like a like if I

1127
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 18: made myself buttered noodle, Mommy, can I have some? Oh no,

1128
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 18: it's spicy.

1129
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: You won't like it.

1130
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 18: Smart it's oh man, all the time, I have some.

1131
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 12: No, no, no, no, no, the chocolate is spicy.

1132
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 9: You won't like it.

1133
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: It's pretty good.

1134
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 12: I like it.

1135
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 1: Thank you, Angie. You have a great day, Lily, you too.

1136
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: Let me see here to help with meltdowns. When leaving

1137
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: the park, saying goodbye to the park. Oh, you say

1138
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: goodbye to the park? Okay that we say good night

1139
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 1: to Miss Rachel.

1140
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 10: I let her watch a little bit before bed, and

1141
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 10: I always say, okay, we say good night, Miss Rachel

1142
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 10: and she waved to the TV.

1143
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it works. I haven't had a melt.

1144
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: Down along the same as along as the same lines

1145
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: as Paulina. My son always wants to go outside at

1146
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: the crack of dawn. But whether it's the heat of

1147
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: summer or not, I always say, it's too cold. Hey, Ashley,

1148
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: how you doing.

1149
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,280
Speaker 3: I'm good, Ashley.

1150
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: What do you tell your kid? You lie to your

1151
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: kid because you don't want to do something.

1152
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 3: I lie and tell them the TV died when they

1153
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 3: want to watch Blue for a million times, and.

1154
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 1: I sure they don't know how to turn it on.

1155
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 1: They must not know how to do it themselves.

1156
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 2: No, they do.

1157
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 7: But so we have a Samsung TV and you can

1158
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 7: control it on your phone.

1159
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 16: So I just go to my phone and turn TV off.

1160
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, no, he died, not the dead TV again.

1161
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, might.

1162
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 11: Keep watching the same episodes of Blue.

1163
00:48:58,120 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: That's nice.

1164
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 7: I can't I like it.

1165
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: Thank you, Ashley. Have a good day. Oh this is

1166
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:07,959
Speaker 1: this is wildly traumatic. Whenever there's a carnival, I hate

1167
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 1: the rides, and I tell my four year old the

1168
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: rides are closed to little kids because one fell out.

1169
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 2: Trauma.

1170
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no wow, hey Lisa, Yes, kid's never

1171
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: going to go to ride ever, Lisa, how do you

1172
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 1: lie to your kid?

1173
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 17: I tell my Well, my teenagers now so they know better,

1174
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 17: But I tell I used to tell them that they

1175
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 17: if they were really bad, I would rip up their

1176
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 17: birth certificate and they will have ceased to exist.

1177
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa, whoa? What Hey is that piece of paper

1178
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: is not there? They you not a thing?

1179
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 4: My son, my son and all of his infinite wisdom

1180
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 4: would say, well, you'll miss me.

1181
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 18: How would I miss you if you ever existed?

1182
00:49:54,719 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: Wow, you're trying to erase your child, Lisa. Oh my god,

1183
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna write that one down. Thank you, Lisa.

1184
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,439
Speaker 2: Welcome, I take you out if.

1185
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to use your old text. I don't

1186
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 1: want to buy McDonald's. I say they're out of chicken nuggets.

1187
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 1: We tell our two year old that yogurt is ice cream.

1188
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 2: That's a good one.

1189
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: That's pretty smart. Ummm let me see here. I tell

1190
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: my kids when they're being naughty that I was going

1191
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: to put them in the school for naughty kids. I

1192
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: think that's called prison. When I was little and I

1193
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: had just learned how to read, my mom told me

1194
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 1: one night that McDonald's was closed. As we drove by

1195
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: a scream, but the sign says drive through open twenty

1196
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: four hours. Jam with literacy, I tell you more.

1197
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 2: Fread show next.

1198
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm just missing the guy who breaks every voice of

1199
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: men song down. And it was, yeah, hey, baby, I'm

1200
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 1: sorry that. Please forgive me for all the wrong after

1201
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: and then you gotta go, please forget forgive. I love you.

1202
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to get with her, baby. I didn't

1203
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 1: know she was an Instagram model.

1204
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 2: I didn't know she was.

1205
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 1: So Fred's show is on the woman who has the

1206
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 1: world's longest female tongue. He says that people screaming shock

1207
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,240
Speaker 1: when they see it. It measures three point eight inches long.

1208
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how many times she's sticking her tongue out,

1209
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,959
Speaker 1: but it's three point eight inches long from the tip

1210
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: to her lifts, so that doesn't include the party inside

1211
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,399
Speaker 1: her mouth. How long from the tip to the list

1212
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: almost four inches three point eight inches, So it's about

1213
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 1: this far from here to here cool. It looks like that, which,

1214
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,359
Speaker 1: of course everyone can see. You know when I say

1215
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: it looks like that, because we're on the radio, people

1216
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: scream in shock when she shows her lengthy organ same

1217
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: come on the California resident. Chanelle Tapper reveals that she

1218
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 1: enjoys seeing people's reactions. There's a variety of bizarre tricks

1219
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: she can perform with her extravagantly long tongue, ranging from

1220
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: flipping cups to removing Djenga blocks and soon by curling

1221
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: her tongue around the utensil. Girl, it's like an elephant tusk. Order,

1222
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: it's a fresh shew. It's Kiky's cord. Kiki chuck, Kiki,

1223
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: take it away please? And I hope this isn't mean

1224
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: where it is, you know, And my own means if

1225
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: your opinion is not, don't you share your opinion either.

1226
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 2: Now I can't. I can't make you promises. You know

1227
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:32,320
Speaker 2: how I get down, all right, rite a layer to

1228
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 2: the boss. I don't care what I say.

1229
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,760
Speaker 1: All right, that's so how I feel too. But sometimes

1230
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: it's just deflating. It's just deflating because I'm.

1231
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 2: Like, that's what you heard, Yes, that's what you heard,

1232
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 2: and that's what I see.

1233
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: All right, take it away, all right, let's get into

1234
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 1: the courtroom.

1235
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 6: It says, hey, ki key, am I wrong for blocking

1236
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 6: my sister after she embarrassed me at the car dealership.

1237
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 6: My name is Tony and I recently got into a

1238
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 6: bad car accident that left me without a car for

1239
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 6: a few months. After recovering and working overtime at my job,

1240
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 6: I finally saved up enough money for a down payment

1241
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 6: on a new car.

1242
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 1: During my time.

1243
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 6: Without a car, my sister was nice enough to drive

1244
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 6: me back and forth to work, so she was relieved

1245
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,280
Speaker 6: when I asked her to take me to the dealership

1246
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 6: to finally get a new ride. She helped me pick

1247
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 6: a car. She joined me for the test drive, and

1248
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 6: she waited with me while we worked out the numbers.

1249
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 6: It was going so well into the finance guy told

1250
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 6: me that I needed a co signer m I immediately

1251
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 6: looked at my sister because I'd do it for her

1252
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 6: with no question. However, she quickly said no and refused

1253
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 6: to have any part of the deal. She put me

1254
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 6: in a really bad spot and left me at the

1255
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 6: dealership with no car. Made me leave the dealership with

1256
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 6: no car and I haven't spoken to her since, and

1257
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,399
Speaker 6: I have no plans to am I wrong.

1258
00:53:52,520 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: People were take on this, Hey, Texters, here we come

1259
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: and Tiki, you and I are often aligned on these things,

1260
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: So judge Kiki would say you we.

1261
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 6: Are the bullies, And unfortunately I don't want to bully you, Tony,

1262
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 6: but I wouldn't have signed for you either. Bro, I'm sorry.

1263
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 6: I mean, your sister has done a lot. She's been

1264
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 6: driving you around since you've had your accident. She's set

1265
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 6: at the dealership with you. We know how long that

1266
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 6: can take. And if you need a co signer, what

1267
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 6: have you done to your credit that maybe you know

1268
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 6: she doesn't want to put herself in risk or in

1269
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 6: harm's way of having the same issue. I don't think

1270
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 6: you can ever get wrong at someone for refusing to

1271
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 6: be your co signer. There are a lot of variables here, right.

1272
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: I mean, you know you want to help somebody, especially family,

1273
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 1: get on their feet, and maybe maybe it's worth it

1274
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: to you to help them get transportation, because then that

1275
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 1: takes the burden off of you as well. But my

1276
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: question would be, is there no autumn will be a

1277
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: lot there that you can buy without a co signer, Like,

1278
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 1: are you in? Because if that's true to your point, right,

1279
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: if there's no automobile on the planet that anyone will

1280
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: sell you without a co signer, then we got to

1281
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: work on some other things in our life, right. And

1282
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: I realize people come upon on hard times or whatever,

1283
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 1: but you're asking me to now attach myself to that

1284
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: situation and that is unfair, right, Like, I mean, if

1285
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 1: your credit is so bad that and again, maybe this

1286
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: person's trying to buy a car they can't afford, in

1287
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 1: which case you don't need me to co sign because

1288
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 1: you probably shouldn't be buying this car. Right, Is there

1289
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: any other option? Because when it comes to me attaching

1290
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 1: myself to your tenuous financial situation, I think that might

1291
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: be too much to ask, even for family. It's not

1292
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 1: really fair.

1293
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: I agree with you one hundred percent on this one.

1294
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 6: I mean, and I know how it can feel when

1295
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 6: you're at a dealership and you pick out the car

1296
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 6: and you take it on the drive and you start

1297
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 6: loving everything about it. You got the new car, smell,

1298
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 6: the seats, feel good. You're excited, and then you go

1299
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 6: back and work those numbers and they come back like, ooh,

1300
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 6: we need a co signer. I know you felt away

1301
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,800
Speaker 6: when that happened, but you can't just now think that

1302
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 6: that's your sister's responsibility to now be your co signer.

1303
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 2: Like she's your sister, she doesn't have to do that.

1304
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: I would love to know what kind of car it

1305
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:10,879
Speaker 1: was to a like are you trying to go buy

1306
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: a BMW or something? And because not everybody can most

1307
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: people can't afford you know whatever, you know what I mean,

1308
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,320
Speaker 1: It's like, are you going for a specific thing, because

1309
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: at this point it sounds like anything would do. Any

1310
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: reliable mode of transportation is what you need right now,

1311
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 1: right But asking people when it comes to money, you know,

1312
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 1: that's it's that's not an easy ask because some people

1313
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 1: have worked very hard to put themselves in a good

1314
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:37,959
Speaker 1: financial position and they don't necessarily need you to mess

1315
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: that up for them. And that tends to happen all

1316
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 1: the time, all of the time. You guys are the

1317
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: jury the eight five five five three five? What do

1318
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: you guys think?

1319
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 3: I'm a sucker?

1320
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 10: So I probably would get pulled into this knowing me,

1321
00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 10: But I also don't know if I'm the one that'll

1322
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 10: be asked to be.

1323
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 2: I don't house not needs a car free.

1324
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 3: Are you a co signer? I'm like, oh no, but

1325
00:56:59,560 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 3: I do.

1326
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 2: I just feel like, you know, when I.

1327
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 10: Get my stuff together, which will be soon, I'm not

1328
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 10: cosetting nothing for nobody because I, like you said, work

1329
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 10: too hard to either repair my credit or just you know,

1330
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 10: get it up there.

1331
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 3: Like my mom is such an angel and she I

1332
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 3: know she would do it.

1333
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 10: However, I don't ever want to do that to anybody

1334
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 10: else just because I feel and he's my mom's a example,

1335
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 10: because I know she's like the first person that would

1336
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 10: do what I recall, But I just also would to

1337
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 10: feel bad because if I'm laid on payments and all that,

1338
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 10: it affects her. And that's the last thing I want

1339
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 10: to do is ruin somebody else's future and credit and

1340
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 10: all of that.

1341
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 15: Now.

1342
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 10: I know, like as a mother, if my daughter was

1343
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 10: to ask me and I probably left the co sign

1344
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 10: like college loans or something, I'm sure you'll see my

1345
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 10: name on there in eighteen years that I'll do, like

1346
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 10: I'll know if she can't pay it, like Mama's got her,

1347
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 10: her dad, we got her.

1348
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 3: But that's it, like just my child. That is all,

1349
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 3: no sibling nothing.

1350
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so lets say, well, what if it's lack

1351
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 1: of credit history? You know, maybe would be. But then

1352
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: someone else commented, will how quickly considering how quick this

1353
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: is a text. Considering how quickly Tony was willing to

1354
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: write her sister off for saying no one time after

1355
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: all that help, you can kind of guess how much

1356
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: responsibility and accountability that this person is willing to take.

1357
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: I would say no as well.

1358
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 2: That's a good point, you can.

1359
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 6: She's been driving you around, being your uber all this

1360
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 6: time that you didn't have a car, and then the

1361
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 6: one time she says no, it's like, oh, well, I

1362
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 6: don't I don't even want.

1363
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 2: To talk to you anymore. That's wild.

1364
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: And then someone else suggested on the text, maybe the

1365
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: ask is for a loan, But this also doesn't sound

1366
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: like a person I would want a loan money to

1367
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 1: to be honest.

1368
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 2: Right, And you know how I feel about family with loans.

1369
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 2: I rather just give you.

1370
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how I feel the same way. If the

1371
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: only way that I'm in a position to give a

1372
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: friend or family alone is if I can see it

1373
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: as as never seen, is if I can accept giving

1374
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: it to you and never getting it back because I'm

1375
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: not willing to lose a friendship or a family member

1376
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 1: over money. So if you ask me for money, I

1377
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 1: need to be in a position to essentially gift it

1378
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: to you. Oh yeah, because people will.

1379
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 6: People will take a loan and then act completely normal

1380
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 6: when it's past the payback deadline, like they do keep

1381
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 6: going on and I'm like, all I can think about

1382
00:58:58,480 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 6: is the money.

1383
00:58:58,880 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: I gave you.

1384
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: And then you get in this stuff like you loan

1385
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 1: somebody money and they're supposed to pay you back, and

1386
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden they pull up in the

1387
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: BMW and you're like, wait a minute, you needn't have

1388
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: any money, and now you got this nice car, but

1389
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: like you still owe me money at the stake cause

1390
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 1: and then you start to free, start to feel right,

1391
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: and then you start look at a nice vacation, right

1392
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: right vacation.

1393
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 6: When I loan you money, I want you to eat

1394
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 6: rhymen noodles out the pad until I get my money back.

1395
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you owe me. Why are

1396
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: you spending more money?

1397
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 5: Yes?

1398
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I know it just sounds it sounds harsh,

1399
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 1: But maybe maybe this also might be a blessing for

1400
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:36,479
Speaker 1: this person too. Maybe this person should not be buying.

1401
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 1: Clearly they can't buy the car right, so they probably

1402
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 1: don't need it. There's probably something about this that doesn't

1403
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 1: need to happen that could be even more problematic in

1404
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 1: the future. Hey, Emily, good morning, good morning. Hi Kiki's Carl.

1405
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 1: What say you so?

1406
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 15: I mean, first of all, it's like I think he

1407
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 15: left out a lot of details and probably you know,

1408
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 15: for the reason of wood all be even more against him.

1409
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 15: But too, he doesn't him anything. It's a huge ask,

1410
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 15: and to block her immediately is also just an immature response.

1411
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 15: Why didn't he I don't remember they'll hear she who

1412
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 15: wrote in like why didn't they try to have Yeah,

1413
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 15: why didn't they at least like try to have a

1414
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 15: conversation like, oh, why do you feel uncomfortable being my

1415
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 15: co signer? Or like, you know, because maybe that'll also

1416
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 15: give him an insight into why others wouldn't want to

1417
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 15: co sign or what he could do to get a

1418
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 15: co signer. I don't know, it seems like he has

1419
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 15: unrealistic guess actually, well, and.

1420
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 1: Emily, I agree with the texture and with you that

1421
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: that move in itself says a lot. Also, I've done

1422
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 1: all this for you. I won't co sign. I won't

1423
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 1: attach myself to a loan you know, for a significant

1424
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,040
Speaker 1: amount of money for you, So you just block me.

1425
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 1: So the second that I don't do what you need

1426
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: me to do, then you eliminate me, even though this

1427
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: comes at risk to me, So you don't actually care

1428
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: about me at.

1429
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 2: All, Right, all right, what I can do for you exactly,

1430
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 2: and the.

1431
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: Second I don't do it, then I and then I'm out.

1432
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: We all know people like that, the second you're not

1433
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 1: serving them, then they don't want you in their life anymore.

1434
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: The only way it works is if you serve them.

1435
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: And it's like, nuh no, we don't need people like that.

1436
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 15: He's not thinking about the liability for his sister. Also,

1437
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 15: like what if she's trying to you know, like buy

1438
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 15: a condo or you know, do a big purchase for herself,

1439
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 15: where like my advice when I was looking at condos

1440
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 15: was don't co sign anything, you know, don't do like

1441
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 15: don't shine for anyone. So like you know, she could

1442
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 15: have her home, like things she's trying to get in

1443
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 15: her life that I mean obviously, like you guys just said,

1444
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 15: like it's about him, not her, and that's unfortunate.

1445
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Emily, have a good day, Yeah you too.

1446
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 1: And look, I know that not everybody's in a position

1447
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: to have great credit, and times are tough and people

1448
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 1: aren't making enough money to make ends meet. I'm not

1449
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 1: talking about that, but I am talking about it. It

1450
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: can and does take a lot of sacrifice to put

1451
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 1: yourself in a good financial situation. Oftentimes even people that

1452
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 1: don't have a whole lot are able to do it,

1453
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: but they're having to sacrifice, right. So then for me

1454
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: to just willing nearly cost on on somebody who may

1455
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: not have those same values, then that puts all that

1456
01:01:58,520 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 1: at risk.

1457
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 12: Yes, So so I.

1458
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: Don't think I have to do that for you, especially

1459
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: if we don't share the same financial literacy values or

1460
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: or or financial awareness, the same values in that regard,

1461
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 1: because not everybody. I feel like it's some people will say, well,

1462
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: you know, if you have if you're in a good

1463
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: financial position, it's because you're rich or because you had

1464
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 1: this or that. That's not entirely true. There are people

1465
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: who don't have a ton of money who also don't

1466
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: have a ton of debt because they live within their means. Right,

1467
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: And again I'm not talking about extenuating circumstances. I'm not

1468
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: talking about student loans or medical debt or they're things

1469
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: that you just simply have to spend on, so I

1470
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 1: don't necessarily need to go screw it up because of you.

1471
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 1: And then the second I say no, you block me.

1472
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: You can come on, Tony, come on, hey, Gabby, Hi,

1473
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 1: Hi Gabby, good morning. What do you think?

1474
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 11: Okay?

1475
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 12: I agree with both of you, guys. I do think

1476
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 12: that it is valid that Tony asked her sister to

1477
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 12: be her co signer. But Tony says, I'm sure it

1478
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 12: is just like used to like kind of like giving

1479
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 12: in and doing things that she needs for her but

1480
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 12: she also has to set her own boundaries at some point,

1481
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 12: you know.

1482
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and when it comes to money, I don't.

1483
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily have to have to do that for you. No,

1484
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: it's a very serious topic and it could affect me

1485
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. It could affect my

1486
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: ability to go get a house, in a car or whatever,

1487
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 1: and I think at some point you have to protect yourself. Yeah.

1488
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 12: I feel like it shows more about Tony's character that

1489
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 12: she went right ahead and blocked her sister.

1490
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, Thank you. Gabby, thanks for listening. Have

1491
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: a good day you too. Glad you called. Hey Jessica,

1492
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome, good morning. How you doing, hey, Jessica.

1493
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: So Keikey's court, Basically, it's a it's a brother's sister

1494
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: situation and the sister wants I'm.

1495
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 2: Trying to get because Tony Tony is the brother.

1496
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 1: So Tony is being asked to don't don't want to donate,

1497
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 1: asked to sign on a car, asking his sister is

1498
01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: asking his Okay, I'm trying to get this right, and

1499
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: the sister says no, and so Tony's pissed. But it's like,

1500
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: wait a minute, you know, is that is that an obligation?

1501
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: If if you're not able to get something financially and

1502
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 1: you need someone else to be involved with that, does it.

1503
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 18: Have to be me?

1504
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 7: No, that's not even from talk to about him. He's

1505
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 7: completely wrong. That's not her obligation. He already from the accident,

1506
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 7: he's already financially irresponsible. Because did you have insurance to

1507
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 7: even cover some of the money to get you into

1508
01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:27,440
Speaker 7: a new car?

1509
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good question.

1510
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 7: Yeah. And then on top of that, you have to

1511
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 7: work all these hours work, work, work to have a

1512
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 7: down tatement, so you don't have anything saved in a bank.

1513
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 7: Come on, so now, yeah, yeah, now you want me

1514
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 7: attach my name, my resources to you when you already

1515
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 7: proved that you cannot, you know, you can't take care.

1516
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 14: Of your business.

1517
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, So and the have to block her.

1518
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 7: When she's already you know, stepped up and helped him

1519
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 7: out at the time of me.

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01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 1: So no, and let's also take any consideration. Let's just

1521
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 1: assume that this is a good Obviously it is a

1522
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 1: good sibling because it's been helped this person out, you know,

1523
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: in a lot of other ways. And so this person

1524
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: must feel that she he or she cannot do this

1525
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,440
Speaker 1: because you know what I mean, Because it's not like

1526
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,479
Speaker 1: we're talking about a selfish human being who just doesn't

1527
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: want to, Like, there's contracts here that we don't know.

1528
01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 1: So she obviously is uncomfortable with this notion for some reason.

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01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 1: So what don't we know here? And it has offered

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01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 1: a lot of other solutions, So I don't like it.

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01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it either. Thank you so much, have

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01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: a good day.

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01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 7: Thank you you too.

1534
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: Glad you called Jessica. Hey, Dahlia, Dalia girl, you all right?

1535
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,439
Speaker 3: I'm sorry the phone.

1536
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 1: What do we do with the phone? Yeah? Are you okay? Okay?

1537
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 1: You work in a car dealership, so you know something

1538
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: about this. Yes, I do a little bit.

1539
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 16: I work in the office, so I work a little

1540
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 16: bit with like people trying to sell their cars, and

1541
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 16: a lot of the time they aren't able to because

1542
01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 16: they're co shiner all are. They're the co signer and

1543
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 16: the person who's trying to sell the car. They never

1544
01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 16: made the payments or something, or they're late, so just

1545
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 16: messes up what they're whatever.

1546
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 3: They own the car.

1547
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: So basically you're saying this, this could potentially become a

1548
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: big problem for the unassuming co signer who's simply there

1549
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: just to help you get the money.

1550
01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 16: Oh yeah, definitely, yeah, Jack, I can.

1551
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: Be doing this stuff all right, Dellia, back to juggle

1552
01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:27,440
Speaker 1: on your phone. Have a good day. Bye glad you

1553
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah no.

1554
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 6: Oh no, you and you know your siblings like you

1555
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 6: know you, We all love exactly, And I know I

1556
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 6: know which sibling is loan money to and I know

1557
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 6: which one absolutely.

1558
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 2: Not exactly, and I love them both the same exactly.

1559
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but not enough to give the money my money.

1560
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,440
Speaker 1: Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio, on

1561
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,920
Speaker 1: the iHeart app live and anytime search for the Fred

1562
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 1: Show on demand. I just want to start the day

1563
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 1: with some health news. Do you know how many bodies

1564
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:53,000
Speaker 1: squads A you're supposed to be able to do? Yeah,

1565
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: body squad, body squad? Yeah, body squad. Experts saying the

1566
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 1: squatch or a great indicator of athleticism and they can

1567
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: help increase your performance in a variety of sports. So

1568
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: the Male Clinic says, for most people, one set of

1569
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:12,320
Speaker 1: twelve to fifteen repetitions is adequate. Can you do fifteen

1570
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,560
Speaker 1: body squats? I don't know what a body squat is. Well,

1571
01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 1: to drink enough water basally kind of crap. The body

1572
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: by Gideon makes me do this is kind of crap.

1573
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 3: Is that where you go super low?

1574
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, like like you're like now he's going to probably

1575
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 1: say he's going to watch this and be like it's

1576
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 1: not right, the form's not right, which I have to

1577
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: hire this man.

1578
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:32,840
Speaker 2: Don't break me.

1579
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 3: He's standing up weight, he's getting in a position.

1580
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: Well, I mean yeah, they're huge weights. Obviously they're sometimes

1581
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: like a car on each side, like I have like

1582
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 1: an automobile, not a big automobile, more like like a

1583
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 1: beetle on each side of holding them. Then you would

1584
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: like the knees have to stay out, and then you

1585
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: would go like.

1586
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 7: Down like this.

1587
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: Oh you like as far as you can go. You

1588
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 1: don't get too excited, Jason, You're stay in your seat, OK. Late,

1589
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:05,000
Speaker 1: I can't stand up.

1590
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 3: I tried those the other day for the first time

1591
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 3: a long time, and I'm sore.

1592
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:08,960
Speaker 2: So good for you.

1593
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: How many can you do?

1594
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 4: I did a little like twenty minute full body workout

1595
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 4: at home, which my dog absolutely hated, so we won't

1596
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 4: be doing that anymore.

1597
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 3: But I didn't count how many. The little girl had

1598
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 3: me doing the videos.

1599
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: What did he say, the dog? I think you were

1600
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 1: playing or something.

1601
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:23,439
Speaker 3: She was pissed.

1602
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 4: She kept grabbing me and trying to pull like she

1603
01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 4: didn't like when I would squat down, and then she

1604
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 4: was grabbing onto the weight.

1605
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 3: With her mouth and so then I was lifting her up.

1606
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: Well, there you go.

1607
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:34,639
Speaker 3: They were already enough.

1608
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 1: She's trying to maximize the workout.

1609
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 3: She was so mad. She's just not used to seeing

1610
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 3: me active.

1611
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 1: I guess she's like, get back on the couch next

1612
01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: to me with food that you are doing. What is

1613
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 1: this if we're working towards eating salads, this stuff around

1614
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: here that I don't need you doing that.

1615
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 2: It's not used to it.

1616
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 1: But based on an age a fitness expert, he gives

1617
01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 1: a target number for squat counts. You should be able

1618
01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 1: to do twenty if you're a thirty year old man

1619
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:04,879
Speaker 1: or woman, a goal should be fifty and sixty seconds.

1620
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 1: That sounds aggressive right for men, And I guess forty

1621
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 1: five for a top fitness level. And they're deceptively hard

1622
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:16,840
Speaker 1: after a little while, and then like you'll you'll do

1623
01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 1: however many and then you'll start to like we'll walk

1624
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 1: away from the exercise and you realize like, oh my god,

1625
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: like it's hard to walk. Yeah, And I know people

1626
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:26,719
Speaker 1: are actually fit laughing at me right now, but it's

1627
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: I tell gidding all the time. The trainer man, I'm like, uh,

1628
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 1: first of all, if you do exercises properly, they're really hard.

1629
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: Because I could do push ups all day. They're just

1630
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: not good form. If he if he like makes me

1631
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 1: do exactly what I'm supposed to be doing, it's it's

1632
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 1: super hard. I'm like, why is this so hard? He's like, what,

1633
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:46,200
Speaker 1: Because you're you're fatty. He's never called me them. Let

1634
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:50,559
Speaker 1: me see here, thirty one to forty year old age bracket.

1635
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,400
Speaker 1: You should, I guess, be able to do ten fewer

1636
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 1: so you're more like in the thirty five area. Fast

1637
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:58,920
Speaker 1: forward ten years forty one to fifty year old. Camp

1638
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: the Fitness Expert it says that women should be able

1639
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: to do twenty five and thirty for men if you're

1640
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 1: fifty one to sixty, twenty five for men, twenty for women,

1641
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 1: and then five to fifteen if you're over sixty one

1642
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: is what you're supposed to be doing. Body weight squats.

1643
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 3: They're hard.

1644
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1645
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 3: I can't even sit on the toilet right now. I'm

1646
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 3: so sore. I go like the workout, Yeah, I was okay.

1647
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:22,920
Speaker 3: Well it wasn't just like another side note.

1648
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 2: No, that's a random fact that I was like, okay, wow,

1649
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 2: I do share too much, but not that much.

1650
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 1: No, it was just so wow. It sounds like, oh,

1651
01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 1: it sounds like a great night for somebody.

1652
01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 2: Fread show is on Fred's Fun Fact Fred's Fun.

1653
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:46,559
Speaker 16: So much.

1654
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 1: Learn so much now, guys, I need you to behave

1655
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: yourself okay, because I just know where this is going.

1656
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 1: I read the whole thing and I'm like, oh boy,

1657
01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: here we go. But sign language has tongue twisters in it.

1658
01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:04,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know this, like the same way that it

1659
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 1: could be hard to say words out loud. I guess

1660
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: sign language has the same thing, and apparently they have

1661
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: a name for it.

1662
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:15,679
Speaker 2: Oh do share.

1663
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 1: I'm so scared. I don't know if I can say it.

1664
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 2: Finger Wait a minute, ouch.

1665
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 16: Is what I mean?

1666
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:30,880
Speaker 1: Finger fumblers?

1667
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 7: Oh?

1668
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 1: Say keep? I mean, I just I just knew it. Though,

1669
01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 1: I just I knew I knew it. Go ahead, say

1670
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:44,000
Speaker 1: whatever you're gonna say. And I need to know if

1671
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: this is true though that's really what it's called. But

1672
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 1: many who have practice sign language over the years still

1673
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: fumble over certain sequences in ASL, and that's what they're called.

1674
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,479
Speaker 1: Go ahead and say go ahead, no, go ahead, no,

1675
01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: go ahead.

1676
01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 3: I'm turning a new leaf.

1677
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:02,560
Speaker 1: No you're not, by the way, don't stay on the

1678
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 1: same leaf I'm turning.

1679
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 3: I'm very pure.

1680
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:07,640
Speaker 1: You don't have anything to say about a about a

1681
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:09,760
Speaker 1: finger fumbler, only.

1682
01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 3: That sometimes in my spare time

1683
01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: More fread show next