1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the clo our 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: chief love Officer, Steve Harvey, that is you again. Welcome back, Steve. 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: This is from Tyrone in Auburn. Tyrone writes, My wife 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: called me on the way home and told me to 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 1: bring her smoothie and a dozen donuts. I told her 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: that she didn't need either one of those, but I 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: was joking and picked them up anyway. I got home 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: and she threw the smoothie on me. She said I 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: hurt her feelings. Should I stop joking with her altogether? 10 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, she ain't got no sense of humor dog 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 2: at all. 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 3: But I will tell you this though she threw that 13 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 3: smovie on you, but she ate them donuts though. I'm 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 3: just gone, and behind every joke is a touch of seriousness. 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 2: So you had decided she don't need either one in im. 16 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 2: She know it. She know it, and you bought it. 17 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 3: Anyway, she threw the smoothie on you, but she ate 18 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 3: them donut, all of them. You ain't get am donut. 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 3: So bro hanging there, man, Sometimes they go through that. 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: But you know, next time, just bring the smoothie and 21 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 3: the doughnuts and shut up. 22 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? 23 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: Next is Justine, what you could all you could do 24 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 3: is here next time you walk through the door, stumbling 25 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: the doe, waste the smoothie and oh donuts all in 26 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: the flow. 27 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: God, don't just do that, my bad. 28 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 3: They try to hear them, pick them up like like 29 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 3: she ain't looking from back in the box. 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: There you go, All right, let's see this is Justine 31 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: and Charlotte now, colo Justin writes. A random guy commented 32 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: under one of my pictures that my boyfriend is a 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: lucky guy. My boyfriend responded with a nasty comment. I 34 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: was shamed. Should I block my boyfriend now? Ooh ooh, well, 35 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: you know, some random guy just comments. 36 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 3: Well, but obviously she enjoys the random guy comments and 37 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 3: she don't want her boyfriend shutting it down. But now, 38 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 3: if you block your boyfriend, you're gonna have another But 39 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 3: see in a minute, he not finna be your boyfriend, 40 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: So go on block him, so y'all can start the 41 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 3: process of breaking up. Because this is where this is head. Yeah, yeah, this, this, 42 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 3: this is gonna break them up. Yeah if he block 43 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 3: her because she wants to continue hearing with these random 44 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 3: guys and saying about her, Yeah, that's because she's seeking 45 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: attention and he ain't giving it to her. And then 46 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 3: when she get attention, he gonna shut it down with 47 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,399 Speaker 3: a nasty comment. I was so ashamed. Should I block him? 48 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 2: Yes? Block him and get ready to break up? What 49 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: did he say? 50 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: What did the boyfriend say? 51 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 2: What was the nasty comment say? Man, she ain't yours 52 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: to be talking about. 53 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 3: I'm lucky. You don't tell me I'm lucky. I can 54 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 3: get anybody. I won't talking about I'm lucky. So wise, 55 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 3: I'm lucky. 56 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 2: You've seen me? Now, have you seen me? 57 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 3: He had a real insecure, nasty Yeah. 58 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, they might break you after all. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, 59 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 2: this ain't going nowhere. Uh uh all right. 60 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: Moving on to Tron in Mount Vernon, Tron writes, I 61 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 1: was engaged to a woman that always asked me for money, 62 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: So I broke up with her after talking to my 63 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: pastor and my uncle's They said, that's my role in 64 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: my woman's life. But am I supposed to give her 65 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: money before I make her my wife? Before I make her? 66 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: Well, here's the deal, man, If you're not gonna give 67 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: her no money before she's your wife, what's gonna make 68 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 3: you give her money because she is your wife. You know, y'all, 69 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 3: y'all don't understand. Y'all got to practice what you're gonna do. 70 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: You gonna get some idea of what it's like. You know, 71 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 3: if you how you gonna see you gonna all of 72 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 3: a sudden treat her wifey after she become the wife. Now, 73 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: I'm not saying you got to honor every single request, 74 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 3: but you know now you do have a job in 75 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: this thing, man, because you know you asking you steady 76 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 3: asking for stuff now right, steady asking for stuff. And 77 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: you know sometimes y'all want to just keep getting what 78 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 3: you want to get, but you don't want to. You 79 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: got all this costs money. Somebody told me this, he said, Man, listen, 80 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 3: quit calling women gold diggers. All women are expensive, all 81 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 3: of them. You just got to find the one you 82 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 3: can afford. Ain't go on and live your life. Yeah see, 83 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: you got to get out that high end business because 84 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 3: you ain't a high end player. 85 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 2: That's all. All women are expensive. 86 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 3: All women want something and needs something and they want 87 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 3: to marry somebody that can help provide it. 88 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 2: It's called security. 89 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 3: And if you don't want to demonstrate the security, man, 90 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 3: then go on and keep living like these cats. Out 91 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 3: here with all these bushwhack theories about you know, woman 92 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: got to bring something to the table, a lot to 93 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 3: the table. It's called herself and the ability to produce 94 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: another youth. You can't do that, dog, I don't know 95 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 3: what you think. This is what what's your job? 96 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: Dog? 97 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 3: If a woman's job is to support you, be loyal 98 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 3: to you, and provide you with a family and constant sex, 99 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: what is your role? 100 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 1: But let me ask you this, Steve, where they get 101 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: that from. 102 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 3: The table because we the older generation, this is our fault. 103 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 3: We stopped teaching it. See, we were so busy benefiting 104 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 3: from affirmative action in the civil rights movement. We forgot 105 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 3: to teach the generation below us that it was okay 106 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: to be cool, that was okay to love and take 107 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 3: care of your woman. And then we let it affect 108 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 3: the music. Now, ain't nobody loving on their women no more? 109 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 3: They got to have two, three, four. They talk about 110 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 3: all types of quad relationships and what I want in 111 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 3: on woman, and and we forgot to tell them, no, man, 112 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 3: this is your jo because our music change. We used 113 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: to write songs about how we loved and felt about women. 114 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 3: Now the music can't change. Where you they just are 115 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 3: innate objects. 116 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: Tell me what the music is at. Oh, get out 117 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: the way, get out the way. 118 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 3: That's all got blanks in different area because that's oh 119 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 3: that ain't even the new stuff. The new stuff is 120 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 3: worse than that because it's just trick. The new stuff 121 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 3: don't even They don't even take no time to write 122 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 3: no song. 123 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 2: Now. 124 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, they just up in here talking now now the 125 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: women are countering with wop. 126 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 2: All this whole, all this conversation about this is on 127 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: the radio. 128 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: Now where we're going so now we didn't work to 129 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 3: a place now where I don't see how we're coming back. 130 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: All right, welcome back, Steve, Thank you for having me. 131 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: You don't want to add anything else to that. 132 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 2: What happened? I got shine, We gotta go the cloud? 133 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,119 Speaker 2: What happened to that? Coming out with my girl? 134 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:14,679 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. 135 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: I like strength tricks everywhere for you. Right after this, 136 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 2: he's back. You're listening Hardy Morning Show.