1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the c l O. This 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: is from Bradley in Charlotte Clo. Bradley writes, my girlfriend 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: won't do all of the things I like her to 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: do in the bedroom, so she's not even open to 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: trying new things. It makes our sex life stale and 6 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: I'm getting bored with her. How do I get her 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 1: to try to do better before I go find someone 8 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: else who will? 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how you go do that? Dog, 10 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: because you she don't want to try nothing new? 11 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 3: Bye? 12 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 4: What what is you trying to do? Dog? Sometimes? Sometimes see? 13 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: First of all, let me explain something to you. Yeah, 14 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: see you need to see. You need to see, Dog, 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 2: you gotta do this. You gotta do this in increments. 16 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: You're trying to do whole steps. So you're trying to 17 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 2: get it all and you just gotta do like like 18 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: you gotta do foot movements and try leg movement and 19 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 2: then drew like that. You gotta, you know, put your 20 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: hand on over here. Just try that little stuff first. 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 2: You what you're trying to do is introduce whole new 22 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 2: you're just trying to do you know, see you trying 23 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 2: to get both hands up against the wall in some 24 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 2: high heels and and and you know you ain't gonna 25 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: be able to do that. 26 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 4: Just see if you can get at the way the 27 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:24,919 Speaker 4: heels first. 28 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 2: Just the heels first, don't don't do nothing, Yeah, just 29 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: do Let's put these heels on first, now you know. Now, folk, 30 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 2: you start pulling stuff for my money to the bed, 31 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 2: don't do that yet, because you're gonna scale. 32 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: You know all this. You got a little trunk with 33 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 4: the key on it where the kids can't get in. 34 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 35 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 2: See, you might be doing too much, you know, because 36 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: you don't deal with the little pornold queen. 37 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 4: You used to date a porno queen. 38 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 2: Now you done met this real woman and she ain't 39 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: in the mood for all this. Hell, yeah, y'all you 40 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: had a little stripple. 41 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 4: It, did it? 42 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 3: Did dog? 43 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 4: You gotta you gotta go slow, Pardner. 44 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, take her too fast? Yeah, all right, Moving on 45 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 3: to Paris. 46 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 4: Don't pull out nothing that that make noise. Don't do that. 47 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 3: Paris in Saint Louis, Celo says. 48 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up, say and look here, man, stop 49 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 2: trying to lock her up to stuff. 50 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 4: People don't like that. 51 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 2: There's too much what you know, handcuffed me to the 52 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: rail hold up, I can't get my hand down. You 53 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 2: gotta go slow, dog, you gotta you just gotta get 54 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 2: fur cuffs that don't stay together. 55 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 4: Just wait this fur wrisk band for one evening. That's 56 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 4: all right now, you too, me too much? Abody finish, 57 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 4: get hit. 58 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: We're moving on. Okay, go ahead, Shane Lewis, thank you. 59 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: Whenever I'm on the phone, my husband is all in 60 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: my face. I've tried doing it to him and he 61 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: shoved me gently out of the way. He never talks 62 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: on the phone around me. So how do I get 63 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: the same privacy? Can I push him away the next 64 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: time I get a call? 65 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 4: Yeah? 66 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, good, that's how you do. That's what we're doing. 67 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 2: Why whatever whatever she doing to you, you can perfectly 68 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: do to him, now, that's what you do to me. 69 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. Why is he doing it? Though? That's my question? 70 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 3: All on her Facebook? She's on the phone. That's kind 71 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: of well. 72 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 2: He probably cause football season ain't started. Check a lot 73 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: of me and don't have nothing to do right now 74 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: yet because we don't really watch he needs that. Yeah, 75 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 2: like you got to wreak football season. He ain't gonna 76 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 2: have time for that. 77 00:03:58,480 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 3: All in her face? 78 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: New all right? Moving on to Daria in Southfield, Daria writes, 79 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: I'm almost forty and I'm marrying a man that has 80 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: decided he wants more children. He has two sons by 81 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: his ex wife, so it's weird that he has baby fever. 82 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: He's always known that I don't want children. Is this 83 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: Is it just a phase or will it. 84 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 3: Affect our marriage? 85 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 4: Well? 86 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 2: Oh, you're the manufacturer, so going hard to be hard 87 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: to have it without you and you're over forty. You 88 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: don't want the more kids. You don't want the more kids, 89 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 2: and you've. 90 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 4: Told him that. 91 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: Now all of a sudden he want a baby. Hey, man, 92 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: there could affect your marriage? 93 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 4: Are you you know? 94 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? 95 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 4: He want a baby when he got two sons, they 96 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 4: must not be worth it? Yeah, I could. Wow. 97 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: Could it be that he just loves this woman and 98 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: he wants to make a baby with her. 99 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 3: Could be, but she forty, but she doesn't want one. 100 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 2: And women don't want to do that. Sometimes you gotta 101 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 2: respect that. 102 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,679 Speaker 3: So it is going to do your marriage? 103 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: Then? Look, women should have total control and say so 104 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 2: in their bodies, with their bodies. Nobody else right, not 105 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: not roll versus Wade, not the government. Not a bunch 106 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: of old men sitting around with suits on vote No. 107 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 4: Women. Women should decide what they do with their bodies period. 108 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 2: They want to have a baby or not have a baby, 109 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 2: that's up to them. 110 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 3: The husband has no say. So you're saying, well, he 111 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 3: not gonna carry the baby, but he wants a baby. 112 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 3: He can't carry the baby. 113 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 4: Sure know, I want one hundred million cash, just get everything. 114 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, hello, hello, this is gonna be a problem in 115 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: their marriage for sure. It is, uh huh yeah, all right. 116 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: And they're not married yet, all right. Last one, Steve, Steve, 117 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,799 Speaker 1: this is the last one. 118 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: Colo. This is Edgar and mobile. 119 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: Edgar writes, I'm in a long distance relationship and I 120 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: had a female friend at my house. My girlfriend facetimed 121 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 1: me and I didn't try to hide my friend. My 122 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: girlfriend got mad and hung up. Nothing was going on. 123 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: So why does she act so childish and react like that? 124 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 2: Why did you act so stupid? You're stupid? Man strong 125 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: with you. You're in a long distant relationship. Your girlfriend call, 126 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 2: it's another woman at your house. She can see and 127 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: hear the woman. 128 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 4: She hang up. She mad? Why she acts childish cause 129 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 4: you're stupid. 130 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: You already got a lot of stuff to contend with 131 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: in a long distance relationship, as it is. 132 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 4: Correct, Yeah, are you for real? Man? 133 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 2: You can expect a woman to understand we just friends, 134 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: nothing happened. 135 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 4: What broh? Are you? Are you for real? Man? 136 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,039 Speaker 3: Reverse it? If he called her. 137 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: Br bruh brouh, you already know yep, that's not Why 138 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 2: is that childish? 139 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: He called her childish? Yeah? Yeah, because of the way 140 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 3: because she got mad and hung up. 141 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 4: Man, some dog. 142 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: If your girlfriend never was over there, your friend friend, yo. 143 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 2: Just but if she decided, hey, you know what, before 144 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 2: I leave, let's have sex, would you do it? 145 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 4: The answer is probably m. 146 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 3: Okay, And you're speaking from a man perspected. 147 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, don't come over here. You've been warned. 148 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you come over here, all right. So 149 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 3: she's stroking as not being childish, all right. 150 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.