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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all all at all.

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Speaker 3: So don't given a.

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Speaker 3: Listen to I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you

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Speaker 3: Turn out the word. Then up looking, come.

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Speaker 1: Come out you'll think, ah, I said, will come on it.

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Speaker 5: Everybody y'all listening to the voice, come on, dig me

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Speaker 5: now what and on it? Steve Harvey got a radio

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Speaker 5: show man, Oh man, ain't god good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yes, hey, you know I want to remind everybody today

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Speaker 5: that you got to keep pressing forward.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 5: I know it gets difficult out there sometimes, but you

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Speaker 5: got to keep pressing forward. There's nothing else for you

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Speaker 5: to do. The option of quitting, turning back, giving up

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Speaker 5: it cannot be there. The thoughts can pop into your head,

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Speaker 5: but when they do, you got to pray about it.

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Speaker 5: But you got to keep pressing forward. You got to

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Speaker 5: keep it moving, man. I don't care how dark and

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Speaker 5: dirty it get for you. You got to somehow summon

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Speaker 5: it up within you to keep it moving, to keep

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Speaker 5: pressing forward, because the only way you gonna get it is.

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Speaker 5: You got to stay in the race. You know, you've

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Speaker 5: heard it said a thousand times. The race isn't given

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Speaker 5: the end. You got to stay with it. Whatever it is.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what it is for you, but whatever

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Speaker 5: it is, you got to stay with it. Because Quentin,

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Speaker 5: don't let you see the end result, give it up.

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Speaker 5: Don't let you see the end results turning back, don't

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Speaker 5: let you see the end. The only way to see

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Speaker 5: the end results is you got to finish the race.

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Speaker 5: You got to stay in the race because the victory

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Speaker 5: may be nearer than it seems. There's a poem I

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Speaker 5: learned in college under some stressful situations.

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Speaker 1: I just said like that.

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Speaker 5: There is a stanza in this poem called don't Quit

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Speaker 5: that says, often the goal is nearer than it seems

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Speaker 5: to a faint and a faltering man, And often the

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Speaker 5: struggler has given up when he might have captured the

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Speaker 5: victor's cup, and he learns too late, when the night

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Speaker 5: came down, how close he was to the golden crown.

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Speaker 5: Now that's just a stanza in it. The poem is

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Speaker 5: much longer than that. The whole thing because I learned it.

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Speaker 5: But I've always remembered that poem. But you know I'm

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Speaker 5: talking to you today from the standpoint of encouragement.

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Speaker 3: I won't.

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Speaker 5: I want to show you an analogy that I tripped

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Speaker 5: on this morning when I was thinking about something I

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Speaker 5: wanted and I was thinking, you know, okay, if you

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Speaker 5: your job forces you to do this. See, you can't

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Speaker 5: just randomly do this on your job. A job forces

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Speaker 5: you to plan ahead a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 5: A job requires that you go through the procedures in

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Speaker 5: order for something to happen that you want to happen. Example,

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Speaker 5: you want a vacation, you have to put in for

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Speaker 5: that vacation, and that's what it's called on your job,

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Speaker 5: just put in. You may dress it up some other way,

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Speaker 5: but the common sense you have to put in. You

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Speaker 5: got to put in for your vacation. If you want

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Speaker 5: we are now have a position opening.

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Speaker 1: You got to put in for that. You just can't

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Speaker 5: You, because they're probably going to pick the person who

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Speaker 1: So you have to put in for a promotion on

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Speaker 1: But all of these are things that you want.

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Speaker 5: You want vacations, you want a day off here, and

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Speaker 5: now you want some promotions. If you want a raise,

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Speaker 5: you have to go in and request a raise. It

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Speaker 1: You on a vacation time, you got to put in

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Speaker 5: And then they got to they can tell you, yeah,

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Speaker 5: some days off, same thing. Okay, that's the deal with

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Speaker 5: your job. Well that's the deal with your life too.

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Speaker 5: That exact picture that I painted for you that you're

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Speaker 5: problem following him the same rules for your life. What

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Speaker 5: you mean by that, Steve, You got to put in

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Speaker 5: with God. You got to put in for what you

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 5: And it's as simple as that you put in you

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Speaker 5: want some more of this? Some more that you got

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Speaker 5: to put in with God. You put in with your job.

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Speaker 5: You go down there and ask that man what you want,

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Speaker 5: and you ain't got no problem following the rules. Well,

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Speaker 5: put in with God what you want for your list?

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Speaker 5: What's your request? What do you really want? How much

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Speaker 5: money you really trying to make? Where you really trying

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Speaker 5: in your life? What type of person do you? What's

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Speaker 5: the relationship you're looking for?

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Speaker 7: What you want?

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Speaker 1: You got to put in for that, You got to

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Speaker 1: put in. You got to go to God and put

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Speaker 5: See, we'll follow the rules set to us up, set

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Speaker 5: But we simple rules of putting in for your life. Man,

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Speaker 5: we don't even do that. I wish I would put

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Speaker 5: You gotta be kidding me. You think this man that

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Speaker 5: in terms of vacation promos and raisers than God God

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Speaker 5: for you for your life. Man, you keep putting too

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Speaker 5: much faith in Man. That's what's wrong with us. I

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Speaker 5: show hope he give me this raise, I'll show hope.

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Speaker 1: I don't even go to people with that.

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Speaker 5: I go to God about it. Then God touch them

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Speaker 5: That's how you capture this thing, folks. It's not a

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Speaker 5: magic trick. It's just a real simple understanding. Why would

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Speaker 1: It really does. And I'm just a common sense God.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 5: Look, I don't have the education that a lot of

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Speaker 5: life experience. Though, Oh, I've been. I've been getting smacked

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Speaker 5: God for my life that I got now because this

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Speaker 5: And you know, after, as I saw it shaping and forming,

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Speaker 5: then I said, God, could that really be happening? I

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Speaker 5: wonder if you could make me this? Lord, I was wondering, Man,

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Speaker 5: make it happen. If it's in your will.

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Speaker 1: I put in for it, put in for it. Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm working my tail off now because that's a part

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Speaker 5: But then God tells you that too. He says, faith

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Speaker 5: but oh, Lord, have mercy. I'm in line. I'm putting

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Speaker 5: in for all the blessings that's due me. If there's

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Speaker 5: promote some more blessings. I'm lined up. He want to

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Speaker 5: send me on a bigger vacation. I'm lined up.

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Speaker 5: that because they see the hair sets you're gonna lose

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Speaker 5: your job too, so you face with it, carned you.

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Speaker 5: You can stay with us and have a wonderful day,

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Speaker 5: That's the objective of Steve Harvey Morning Show. Glad you

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Speaker 5: understand it, because I don't know what hell I just said.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Charley, you just said, good heavy Friday. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: Calling for real? O, please listen for oh our Lord Jesus.

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Speaker 8: On and King of the Pranks Nephew, tell me yes, sir,

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Speaker 8: Top of the morning, sir, top top top time.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh oh, I got no no, no, no, no, Tommy, Tommy,

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Speaker 5: I want and ordered. I'm accustomed to go for the end.

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Speaker 1: It is my fault.

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Speaker 4: It ain't your fault.

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Speaker 5: As surprised as I am, you must be, for guess

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Speaker 5: who the hell is here today?

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Speaker 1: That damn better man, Anthony Brown.

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Speaker 4: It is not your fault.

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Speaker 1: I don't blame yet.

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Speaker 4: We went into the orniment your custom to you absolutely and.

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Speaker 1: Then and let me tell you something else.

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Speaker 3: He ain't even on zoom.

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Speaker 4: So now out of sight, out of mind to say,

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Speaker 1: Jay and Andy Brown?

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Speaker 3: You speaking?

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Speaker 1: He knew.

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Speaker 4: Orientation I'm having today.

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Speaker 5: It's a long story. It's such a long story. It

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Speaker 5: goes back to nineteen eighty five.

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Speaker 1: Just a long story.

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Speaker 9: We have time.

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I got started in comedy at a

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Speaker 5: and send him a table.

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Speaker 1: I've only been in the business a few months.

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Speaker 5: And I got I had I had fifteen maybe twenty,

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Speaker 5: first night I drove from Cleveland O House, Bloomington, Indiana

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Speaker 5: it was called Nick's.

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Speaker 10: Mm hm.

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Speaker 1: They had accidentally booked two blacks on the same.

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Speaker 4: Back in the day.

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Speaker 1: Oh that was back in the day.

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Speaker 3: They could not.

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Speaker 1: Yet they didn't. No, Oh wow, it was it was

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Speaker 1: very it was it was racing.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that was sure.

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Speaker 1: So I get to the gig.

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Speaker 5: And I'll tell you when the writ come back, how

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Speaker 5: I met the best friend and biggest food all at

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Speaker 1: I ever had all right part.

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Speaker 6: as at the clo at thirty two minutes after right

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Speaker 9: You're listening morning show. All right, Steve, you were telling

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Speaker 9: us how you and Jay.

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Speaker 1: Met, So we met.

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Speaker 5: I had finally got booked my first out of town gig.

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Speaker 5: I was going overnight. I was excited. It was a

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Speaker 5: series of one night as Tom So it was comedy caravan.

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Speaker 5: I drive in and I go to the hotel and

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Speaker 5: they huh it was yeah, Red Rufin in Bloomington, Indiana

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Speaker 1: I go to Red Rufinn and they say, your roommate

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Speaker 5: I said, well, damn, okay, well I ain't. I got

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Speaker 5: eleven dollars, so I don't care who it is. I

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Speaker 1: Wow, said, but he had his stuff all over the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he was making his pants that he was gonna

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Speaker 5: Jay is a really, really good tailor. He can really

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Speaker 5: So I look at the bed, but I say, hey man,

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Speaker 5: I'm your roommate. My name is Steve Harp. He said,

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Speaker 5: you can't stay in here. Now I'm looking at him.

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Speaker 5: He don't know how hard I am.

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Speaker 4: Not that you couldn't stay in there. I had so

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Speaker 5: He had an extra TV. I saw a foe cord

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Speaker 5: all the way across the room. I said, what is

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Speaker 5: I don't know what to tell you this. I got

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Speaker 1: He said, you go.

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Speaker 5: Downstairs because this ain't camp, and get yourself another room.

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Speaker 1: He don't know.

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Speaker 5: I got eleven dollars and say, I'm a man. I

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Speaker 5: no money for that. Now I'm looking at him because

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Speaker 5: I'm hot now, and I said, well, now I'm tight.

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Speaker 5: So he said, hey man, him and Jay gave me

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Speaker 5: thirty dollars. I said, go down there and get your room. Man,

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Speaker 5: and I went down there and got a room. And

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Speaker 5: the first time somebody ever done it like that for me,

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Speaker 5: I got my room.

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Speaker 1: You had thirty dollars. Yeah, he used the headline I had.

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Speaker 1: Jay was making eighteen week when I met him. Oh, donkey,

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Speaker 1: you was balling Jay Dogs.

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Speaker 5: So I went back up to his room because I

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Speaker 5: saw all that stuff, and I said, hey, man, I

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Speaker 5: saw you had an iron in here. Can I use

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Speaker 5: He said, man, you gotta you gotta start getting this stuff.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna be on the road. And I said, okay,

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Speaker 5: hold up, hold up, you know he in word, I

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Speaker 5: ain't finn here all this, Yeah to back dog.

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Speaker 3: I was real.

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Speaker 11: He was trying to help me, but I thought he

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Speaker 11: really he can't let me tell, let me finish.

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Speaker 4: He came back up. He had his hat rolled up

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 4: He was sweating and everything. I ain't want to have

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Speaker 4: an iron.

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Speaker 5: And.

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Speaker 4: So did you beat somever holding? I know you give

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Speaker 4: me any money, didn't get the room, and never a thing,

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Speaker 4: but you beats over holding it.

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Speaker 1: Give me Let me use you.

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Speaker 4: I don't have a nine.

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Speaker 7: Nine.

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Speaker 1: So I went across the street to Target and bought

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Speaker 5: So I ironed my outfit. At we meet up at

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Speaker 5: the club. Jay had a powder blue.

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Speaker 4: Pinto full of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Man packed to the one all the way to the back.

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Speaker 5: I go get my shoes and put them on, and

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Speaker 5: I go out there and I watched Jaffrey Brown Lord

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Speaker 5: have mercy Jesus.

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Speaker 1: He was the most brilliant actor boy I had bever

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Speaker 5: I set there in complete and utter off. He told

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Speaker 5: me I to show. He said, you're pretty funny, man.

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Speaker 1: A couple of moves you need to learn, but even

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Speaker 1: where you're gonna be pretty funny. I said, Man, if

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Speaker 1: I could be funny, this boy right here. So we

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Speaker 1: was on tour the rest dog he was. He had

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Speaker 1: the white folks laughing. So and you know it was

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Speaker 1: no black headliners ever.

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Speaker 4: There wasn't nobody, but there was no black audience either, Timmy.

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Speaker 5: The only black headliners was j Anthony Brown, Byron Allen

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Speaker 8: Bad.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I never saw sitting back because he

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Speaker 1: and all that said. I was sitting up here, going, man,

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Speaker 5: We stayed together that whole week and we got to

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Speaker 5: show the first night, he said, y'all, I want to

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Speaker 5: One day and I was to open there, he said,

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Speaker 5: And we stood on stage and sang that song why

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Speaker 5: can't We be friend? Hands, why can't we be friend?

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Speaker 5: And we had our arm round each other on stage

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Speaker 5: and all the white people joined in. Jay Jah went

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Speaker 5: home that night. Man, I was so emotional sitting on

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Speaker 5: closed the show the same way. We exchanged phone numbers.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't no cell phones, and we made a pack. We said, hey, man,

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Speaker 5: I checked my messages every four hours. And then we

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Speaker 5: became friends. And he said, then we got so close.

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Speaker 5: I said, hey, man, if you ever get in trouble,

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Speaker 5: just leave may day on the machine.

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Speaker 1: May Day.

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Speaker 5: And that's when we knew somebody was in trouble and

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Speaker 5: we had to get in our car try to find

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Speaker 1: He was none of that.

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Speaker 4: Back in the day, she found my book, my entire book.

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Speaker 1: What happened.

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Speaker 4: We ain't got to go into who, but it was found. Okay.

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Speaker 5: Jay had a diary, oh that he kept record of

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Speaker 5: everything he did. He wrote down all his thoughts and everything.

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Speaker 5: And he left it at this girl's house and he

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Speaker 5: so happened. I'm going to Memphis. Now I knew the

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Speaker 5: We we knew each other's people, you know. And he said, man,

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Speaker 5: she found the book.

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Speaker 6: God, God, all right, guys, you gotta wrap up.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 9: You're listening. Morning show time.

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Speaker 3: Now for ask the c l O.

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Speaker 6: Chief Love Office is the Cloe, as a nephew calls him.

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Speaker 6: Steve Harvey is in the building. Now, Steve, I know

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Speaker 6: you're ready, but you may not be ready for this name. Okay,

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Speaker 6: Okay Satchel in Louisiana.

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Speaker 1: To answer this question.

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Speaker 5: I want to thank Jesus, my heavenly father Lord answer.

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Speaker 5: I've wanted nothing more in my career that somebody named

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Speaker 5: Satchel to ask me. So come on, you gotta come on,

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Speaker 5: I'm answer this fully, all right, Satchel says, before you asked.

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Speaker 1: Me the question, this is gonna be an old ass issue.

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Speaker 1: Let's just say that.

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Speaker 6: Watch you know this, all right, hasteve. You and I

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Speaker 6: are the same age, and I'm like you. I'm still

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Speaker 6: out here trying to find the right lady and settled down.

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Speaker 9: I got a divorce. I got a divorce, and my.

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Speaker 6: Wife took me to the cleaners. So it's hard to

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Speaker 6: bring ladies to my one bedroom apartment. At my age,

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Speaker 6: I dress nicely and I still have a nice car,

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Speaker 6: but I can't bring a woman back to my home.

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Speaker 6: I get a retirement check, but it's not much, so

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Speaker 6: I'm working full time again.

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Speaker 9: How can I get my swagger back?

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Speaker 1: Give a three bedroom, Satchel. You can't afford it now.

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Speaker 1: She took it to the bank. She took you to

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Speaker 1: the cleaners.

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Speaker 5: You can't cut back money on what you eat, and

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Speaker 5: you can't cut back money on where you live. And

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Speaker 5: if you embass to bring them back to a one bedroom,

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Speaker 5: put you a three bedroom, put you a cigar lounge

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Speaker 5: in there, and another room sort of looked like you

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Speaker 5: bout something. You gonna have to spread a little bit, Satchel,

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Speaker 5: and get you a little bit, got to get a

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Speaker 5: little bit more. See if you gonna get your swag back,

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Speaker 5: when you get your pag back, that's what's slowing you down.

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Speaker 5: See if that's the stopping point, you gotta cut your

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Speaker 5: corner somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: But you can't cut your corners on what you eat.

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Speaker 5: Where you go to dinner, and and and where you

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Speaker 5: sleep them two places you can't cut corners.

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Speaker 6: Well, he says he dresses nicely and he still has

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Speaker 6: a nice car, so you think he's good.

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Speaker 1: He just got to quit pulling up to that efficiency.

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Speaker 9: All right, Sachel, Wow, uh huh you heard.

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Speaker 8: It from.

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Speaker 1: No, hell no, don't give nothing back or put it

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Speaker 1: on with Satchel. It ain't ever too late. Listen to me.

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Speaker 1: How's he gonna get a three bedroo?

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Speaker 5: Longtimes figured that because Tommy, that's the one thing that's

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Speaker 5: stopping him. He's ashamed of what he taking him back to. Well,

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Speaker 5: you got the spring for more, So get another job.

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Speaker 5: He can get his hustle up. He got something he

447
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Speaker 5: can do. Everybody man stop it admitting to defeat. Okay,

448
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Speaker 5: Sometimes the answer I ain't to cut back. The answer

449
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Speaker 5: is to make mo Why is everybody's answer to everything

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Speaker 5: cut back? Why would God take you to a place

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Speaker 5: and not allow you to stay there? Okay, get your

452
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Speaker 5: hustle on and get you a three bedroom ain't no, damn.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I'm talking to Satchel Tom. You ain't in that

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Speaker 5: age group.

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Speaker 1: You mate, certain need to play some more baseball here.

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Speaker 9: Sexual page, You're a crazy man.

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Speaker 1: Come right here we go moving on.

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Speaker 6: Tanisha and Saint Louis says, I'm a twenty eight year

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Speaker 6: old engaged female and my fiance is a great provider,

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Speaker 6: but he's childish. I moved in with him to get

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Speaker 6: settled before our wedding, and I have to share a

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Speaker 6: closet with his comic books and action figures. He comes

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Speaker 6: home from work and plays his PS five that he

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Speaker 6: got himself for Christmas. He also has a helicopter and

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Speaker 6: a drone that he flies around the neighborhood. Living with

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Speaker 6: him has exposed another side to him. Is this just

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Speaker 6: a phase or should I concerned about his behavior?

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Speaker 5: No, there ain't no phase. He damn there thirty Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you got action figures in your clause at third Comic

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Speaker 5: books and comic books boy, and you fly drones? Around there, man,

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Speaker 5: And you bought a PS five for Christmas.

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Speaker 1: That's what you play with. Man.

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Speaker 5: Hey, little girl, you don't see that. Okay, okay, them

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Speaker 5: red flags, don't collect them.

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Speaker 1: She gonna get dressed and all the avengers in the corset.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you're right, you're right, Philo. Do not enjoy these

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Speaker 9: red flags. Wow, these are my red flags.

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Speaker 1: Better now than later that. Yeah, you just a fiancee.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you walk out now? All right?

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Speaker 10: All right, here we go DJ and Huntsville.

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Speaker 6: My husband found a few text messages between me and

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Speaker 6: my male coworker. The guy asked personal questions like what

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Speaker 6: I sleep in and what's my favorite perfume. I played

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Speaker 6: it off by telling my husband he was getting a

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Speaker 6: gift for his girlfriend. My crazy husband called the guy

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Speaker 6: and I had no idea until I went to work

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Speaker 6: and my cupworker went off on me and told me

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Speaker 6: I need to learn how to delete my texes. My

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Speaker 6: husband and this guy are mad at me, and it's

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Speaker 6: all over a few text messages that weren't that bad.

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Speaker 9: What should I do?

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Speaker 5: Wait a minute, hold on, hold on, man, how your

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Speaker 5: coworker getting mad at you.

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Speaker 1: For not deleting your messages and you married? What are

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Speaker 1: you asking you what you sleep in? Fault?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 5: You lied and said it was cause he was trying

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Speaker 5: to get his girlfriend? What the hell he mad at you?

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Speaker 1: Fault cause you didn't.

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Speaker 5: Delete your text messages now unless lady, it's a little

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Speaker 5: bit more to the text message than you enjoy them.

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Speaker 5: And he's sitting up in here. You told me you

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Speaker 5: was deleting this stuff and you didn't. Now this man

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Speaker 5: came up here and checked me. I just signed up

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Speaker 5: for no ass whooping. I was just trying to get

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Speaker 5: a little extra unless that's the case right now, then,

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Speaker 5: I don't know what you want us to do because

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Speaker 5: you gave this man your number at work and he

509
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Speaker 5: texting you asking you what you sleep in and all

510
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Speaker 5: this hit wasn't for his girlfriend and you know it.

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Speaker 5: So how you want us to fix this for you?

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Speaker 5: This situation you started since to come on? Got be

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Speaker 5: kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Yep?

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Speaker 5: At least you just a warning shot. But it's an

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Speaker 5: ass whooping the next time for sure due to the

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Speaker 5: dude I'm talking about. To the dude, Yeah no, that's

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Yeah, that's exactly what's gonna happen to

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Speaker 5: And he know it too, because He's already called by

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Speaker 5: her husband that text again asking about something else she's wearing.

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Speaker 9: All right, we got to move on. Thank you, Clo.

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Speaker 6: You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. Well, the icon, the legend,

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Speaker 6: the queen of rock and roll, the one and only

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Speaker 6: Tina Turner has passed away. Now, this was after an

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Speaker 6: extended illness. The illness was undisclosed.

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Speaker 1: Ms.

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Speaker 9: Tina was eighty three years old.

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Speaker 6: Angela Bassid paid tribute to the late Tina Turner, whom

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Speaker 6: she portrayed, of Course, in the nineteen ninety three movie

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Speaker 6: What's Love Got to Do with It? Angela said, in

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Speaker 6: part quote, how do we say farewell to a woman

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Speaker 6: who owned her paint and trauma and used it as

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Speaker 6: a means to help change the world through her courage

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Speaker 6: and telling her story, her commitment to stay the course

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Speaker 6: in her life, no matter the sacrifice, and her determination

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Speaker 6: to carve out a space and rock and roll for

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Speaker 6: herself and for others who look like her. Other stars

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Speaker 6: have paid tribute to the late great Tina Turner, of course,

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Speaker 6: Oprah who was her friend, Ringo Starr, one of the Beatles, Elton, John,

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Speaker 6: Jennifer Hudson, Mariah Carey, Diana Ross, Alicia Keys, Rod Stewart,

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Speaker 6: Mick Jagger, and of course Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, yeah, true legend, true, true legend. That was

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Speaker 1: really you know, that was that was a shocker.

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Speaker 5: Yesterday I found out while I was working, guy came

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Speaker 5: out on stage and told me on a commercial break

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Speaker 5: and he said it to me whispered, and I repeated it,

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Speaker 5: but I had my mic on in front of the

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Speaker 5: audience and they just gasped, you know. But you know,

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Speaker 5: and then after that the whole thing started that they

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Speaker 5: got all these lists out about the top fifty iconic

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Speaker 5: female voices, the top thirty best females who change the music,

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Speaker 5: and Tina Turners on all those lists, just all of

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Speaker 5: the lists, you know, rightfully, So, I mean, you know,

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Speaker 5: you know, when things like this happened, you know, we

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Speaker 5: all started saying things. Now, I never met her, and

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Speaker 5: I never had the opportunity to meet there ever before.

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Speaker 5: It's just she just had one of those careers. I

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Speaker 5: think what happened, similar to what Angela Bassett was saying,

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Speaker 5: was her walk, her walk. Her life story was such

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Speaker 5: an inspiration to so many, you know, who come from

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Speaker 5: the bottom or who go through hard times. Tribulations and

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Speaker 5: still somehow by the grace of God making. I think

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Speaker 5: she had one of those types of lives that was

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Speaker 5: a testimony to grit and faith and endurance and uplifting

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Speaker 5: perseverance and you know, I just think it was one

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Speaker 5: of those types of lives.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she brooks many any barriers, Steve she I mean

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Speaker 6: from age you know, she was doing rock and roll

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Speaker 6: when she came up. Then, you know, they were saying

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Speaker 6: that she was I mean, she was doing R and

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Speaker 6: B when she came up. Then they were saying she

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Speaker 6: aged out, you know, but then she wanted to prove

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Speaker 6: that she could not only do R and B, but

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Speaker 6: she could also do rock and roll. You know, she

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Speaker 6: had so many doors closed in her face, but she persevered.

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Speaker 6: I mean even after what she had gone through with Ike,

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Speaker 6: and she persevered. Then she wanted to break into movies.

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Speaker 4: She was able to do that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, just on and on.

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Speaker 6: What a testament her life is for never giving up

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Speaker 6: and to you know, just to continue going in spite

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Speaker 6: of everything, just keep it moving.

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Speaker 2: And that's what she did and inspired so many people.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you look at Beyonce today on stage. If

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Speaker 2: she the way she performs, does not remind you of

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Speaker 2: Tina Turner all the way, all the concerts, Tina Turner's concerts.

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Speaker 1: So many people at her concerts. I've seen concerts live, yes.

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Speaker 9: Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, so many of them. The energy,

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Speaker 9: the beauty from.

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Speaker 8: Lud Bush, Tennessee, good girl as lyrics, lyrics, ad a Son.

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Speaker 6: Just everything about her, everything, her iconic legs.

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Speaker 9: I mean, who had the legs, those legs.

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Speaker 1: What's your favorite though, Proud Mary? What's pro Mary?

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Speaker 4: All day?

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Speaker 1: Pro Mary? See what's your favorite? Of course? My favorite

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Speaker 1: is What's Love Got to Do? What's Love got to

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Speaker 1: Do with? That was probably my favorite song.

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Speaker 5: You know, it was just crazy the way she worked, uh,

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Speaker 5: her her work ethic, I mean, what she endured. It's

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Speaker 5: just it's just one of them stories. Man, it's a

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Speaker 5: Cinderella story. But this Cinderella story was was racked with pain.

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Speaker 5: And it was a public pain too, and I mean

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Speaker 5: it was it was well documented and known what was

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Speaker 5: happening to this woman, you know, in her personal life.

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Speaker 5: And again, you know, you know, we get in the

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Speaker 5: mix like this was in a week, this was Jim Brown.

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Speaker 5: You know, a lot wasn't said about the passing of

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Speaker 5: Jim Brown. But you know, if you're from Cleveland and

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Speaker 5: or if you're really a real football fan, you understood

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Speaker 5: what the passing of Jim Brown meant man, you know,

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Speaker 5: just in terms of social justice and what he did

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Speaker 5: for black people, and how he stood up as an athlete,

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Speaker 5: how he threw all caution to the wind. How they him,

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Speaker 5: Kareem Abdude, Jabbar, Bill Russell and everybody went to the

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Speaker 5: aid of Mohammad al Li when he decided not to

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Speaker 5: be inducted, when he refused to fight in the Vietnam War.

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Speaker 5: How they all rallied around him. A gym was there,

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Speaker 5: a gym was there before that. And so you know,

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Speaker 5: this this week right here is you know, losing two

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Speaker 5: icons in a week is tough. But because they were

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Speaker 5: so much older, you know, as opposed to a Kobe

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Speaker 5: passing or something like that, you know, it just didn't

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Speaker 5: get the social media.

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Speaker 1: And now Tina's getting social media.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of accolades, you know, but sometimes this

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Speaker 5: younger generation just doesn't really know the applications and the

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Speaker 5: impact that some of these people had that made it

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Speaker 5: even possible for your new stars to survive, thrive and

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Speaker 5: do the things they do all right.

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Speaker 6: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 6: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Right after this you're listening Morning Show. The Queen of

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Speaker 9: rock and roll, Tina Turner, has passed away.

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Speaker 6: What a shocker this was MS. Tina was eighty three

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Speaker 6: years old, Steve. Her concerts were amazing. Former President Barack

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Speaker 6: Obama said that Tina Turner was raw, she was powerful,

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Speaker 6: she was unstoppable, and she was on apologetically herself, speaking

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Speaker 6: and singing her truth through joy and pain, triumph and tragedy.

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Speaker 6: Today we joined fans around the world and honoring the queen.

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Speaker 9: Of rock and roll. And that's so true.

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Speaker 6: She was global and they're calling her story one of

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Speaker 6: the greatest or the greatest comeback story in the history

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Speaker 6: of music because of what she endured and how she

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Speaker 6: came back, and it was on top of not just

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Speaker 6: the United States, but the world the great seeing.

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Speaker 1: Her as a kid, seeing her on the Johnny Carson Show,

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Speaker 1: she was major man.

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Speaker 9: She choreographed those those dance moves that she did with

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Speaker 9: the Ike.

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Speaker 5: The show that the well, ain't nobody else know how

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Speaker 5: to do it, and had nobody done it before?

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Speaker 1: So there was just it had to be her, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was reading on to k S.

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Speaker 2: They were saying that back in March, she talked about

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Speaker 2: her health and not taking better care of herself when

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Speaker 2: it came to issues with her kidney, and that she

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Speaker 2: should have taken medication more regular, you know, to help

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Speaker 2: with hot blood pressure, you know, the chronic diseases that

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Speaker 2: set in as you age, high cholesterol.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, whenever we lose somebody, there's lessons to be learned,

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Speaker 5: even at loss. You know, often say behind every moment

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Speaker 5: of adversity, there's a lesson and a blessing, you know.

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Speaker 5: And I mean we should take the time out, just

665
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Speaker 5: like they do at most funerals, to remind people that

666
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Speaker 5: those of us that are still here that we got

667
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Speaker 5: to be mindful that were on that same path. And

668
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 5: you know, you can quicken the trip, you can worsen

669
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Speaker 5: the trip, or you can lengthen the trip, or you

670
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Speaker 5: can smooth out the trip with the decisions that we make.

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Speaker 1: And a lot of these issues we have and are

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Speaker 1: health issues. And it's sad to hear.

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Speaker 5: When a person says, I should have took better care

674
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Speaker 5: of myself, I should have been a little bit more

675
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 5: mindful of my medicine schedule. I should have watched what

676
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 5: I eat. And I think that all of us, you know,

677
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 5: have something to learn from that statement. Right then, I

678
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 5: wish I had it because I don't want to wait

679
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Speaker 5: until I can't do anything about my health.

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Speaker 9: You know.

681
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Speaker 5: Yeah, we can all get on the health and wellness journey.

682
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Speaker 5: No matter where you are right now, if you still here,

683
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Speaker 5: you have a chance to do something.

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Speaker 1: You know, trip, that's true.

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Speaker 6: If you get a chance to, please watch the documentary

686
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Speaker 6: I Tina, I Tina.

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00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 9: It's on Netflix. It's out there, it's streaming, and all

688
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 9: morning long, we are playing Tina turn of music.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 6: Coming up, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

691
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Speaker 6: Show as we celebrate the life of Tina Turner.

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Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: All right, Steve, our very own j Anthony Brown is

694
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Speaker 6: always here with the foolishness.

695
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 9: Can count on him. He's got details on his brand new.

696
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 1: Book, tell us about it.

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Speaker 11: I just finished my new book, Steve, and it's called

698
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Speaker 11: one hundred and one Ways to Start an Argument. Several

699
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Speaker 11: chapters in the book, Chapter one, you know, laugh on

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Speaker 11: the phone for.

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Speaker 4: No reason, just just laugh.

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00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: Argument.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, it's not an argument. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Chapter Chapter

704
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 11: seven is a real good chapter. Take a shower in

705
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 11: the middle of the day, Just just shower. Yeah, you're

706
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Speaker 11: going just showing as a.

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Speaker 4: On Sunday.

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Speaker 11: This is a good one for Sunday. Say say I'm

709
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 11: going to a different church by myself.

710
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 4: That's what you say.

711
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 1: On there's gonna be some hair on well over there.

712
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 11: Here's another ways to start an argument. Yeah, put an

713
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Speaker 11: empty bag in the closet and just walk away. Just

714
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 11: put it up there and just walk away. Yeah, one,

715
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 11: and that, don't about that.

716
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 4: Don't go up there. Don't go up there.

717
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: You mean, don't go up there.

718
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Speaker 11: Don't go up there, don't go up there. All right,

719
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Speaker 11: ways to start argument. Say this phrase right here.

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Speaker 4: This really works. Say I'll be right back and leave,

721
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Speaker 4: just leave, just leave.

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Speaker 1: I'll be right where you're going.

723
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Speaker 4: I'll be right back. I don't worry about where I'm going.

724
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Speaker 1: I'll be right back where everybody. Yeah, just walk out

725
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Speaker 1: of here.

726
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Speaker 4: You you this phrase right here on the phone. This

727
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Speaker 4: really he gets an argument. Say good job, Becky, I'll

728
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Speaker 4: see you tomorrow.

729
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 8: The phone Becky with the good hair back, Why the

730
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Speaker 8: hell you got to encourage Becky.

731
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Speaker 5: Some damn good job, Becky. What's she doing something? As

732
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Speaker 5: gots to be commenting on it?

733
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Speaker 11: This my new book, how to start an argument as

734
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Speaker 11: your mate, your lady? When's when's your friend coming over here?

735
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Speaker 3: You know when she over here?

736
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Speaker 1: In the while? Where is she coming here?

737
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Speaker 3: When?

738
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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, Yeah, thats an arguing right off the tack. Yeah,

740
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Speaker 1: he's a pretty good jay.

741
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Speaker 4: Argument here waves and started argument. No matter what movie

742
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Speaker 4: she says you want to go to, you say.

743
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Speaker 1: Oh, I see you know it. Oh you're je you're

744
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 1: going to movies?

745
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Speaker 4: Okay, can you have time.

746
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Speaker 1: To go see it?

747
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Speaker 12: Yeah, I've seen that.

748
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Speaker 1: I've seen that. I've seen it.

749
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Speaker 4: I've seen it. Here's another one.

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Speaker 11: Here's another one. Ways of starting arguments. You on the

751
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Speaker 11: phone and you laugh real damn loud.

752
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Speaker 4: And then you stopped whispering.

753
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Speaker 1: Till you've been married a bunch of boys. This is

754
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Speaker 1: why he's divorced. You know how to run somebody off?

755
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Speaker 1: Can I get you one?

756
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Speaker 4: Give me one, give me one. I put it in

757
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Speaker 4: the book.

758
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Speaker 1: Buy your wife some running shoes far color?

759
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 12: Yeah, man, yeah, bt, some running shoes that do it.

760
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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: All of a sudden, all of a setting in the

762
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Speaker 12: middle of the day.

763
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Speaker 4: You put on a clean shirt.

764
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Speaker 1: You woke up in one shirt, put on another? What

765
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Speaker 1: you change your shirts for?

766
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Speaker 4: Can I just put on a new shirt?

767
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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: No, you cannot. What was wrong with all? Can just

769
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Speaker 1: go with the book?

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Speaker 13: Jack?

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Speaker 4: Can I just had one more last one moment?

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Ways to start an argument in your house, guaranteed? What

774
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Speaker 1: come in from work and pull your pants off and

775
00:42:50,840 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: they ain't got no drawers? I thank you and Steve,

776
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Speaker 1: you just command with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm nephew.

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Speaker 1: Up next with today's today's prank phone call.

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Speaker 4: Right afterday.

780
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Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

781
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

782
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Speaker 6: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today's subject.

783
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Speaker 6: There are way there were way too many people in

784
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Speaker 6: one bed.

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Speaker 1: What is that about? Way too CALFORNI king, baby? You

786
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Speaker 1: need a California king.

787
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Speaker 7: Right now.

788
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Speaker 6: We'll get into the strawberry letter later, but right now

789
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Speaker 6: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

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Speaker 9: What you got for its nep what's on the menu?

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Speaker 1: This one? Here is this one?

792
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:55,240
Speaker 8: Here is check settlement, cat dog, if you could check settlement?

793
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Speaker 4: Thank you?

794
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Speaker 1: Hello, right, I'm trying to reach outs.

795
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Speaker 8: Please, how you doing? It's attorney over the associates. Huh,

796
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 8: all right, I want to give you a call. I

797
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 8: just got your file that hit my desk, and we

798
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Speaker 8: got a check going after you on Monday. You came

799
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Speaker 8: in yesterday, correct, Yes, Okay, listen, we got a few

800
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Speaker 8: low glitches here. We want to go over with I

801
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Speaker 8: want to go over with you and make sure we

802
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Speaker 8: get this all ironed out before you come in on Monday,

803
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Speaker 8: and I'll have a check definitely waiting on you when

804
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Speaker 8: you get here. All right, You're supposed to be getting

805
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 8: six four hundred and ten dollars okay, Unfortunately is being

806
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Speaker 8: reduced to twelve hundred due to injuries not being as

807
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Speaker 8: as bad as they say. It was a lot of

808
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Speaker 8: calculations got really mixed up on our paperwork here. And

809
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Speaker 8: please keep in mind that on the twelve hundred, we

810
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Speaker 8: still haven't taken out I fee, which is like about

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Speaker 8: thirty three and the third. We'll have a check for

812
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Speaker 8: you on Monday in the ballpark of four to five

813
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Speaker 8: hundred dollars.

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Speaker 7: Oh hold up, okay, I'm still getting it. So what

815
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Speaker 7: was the total monk that y'all got from the loss

816
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 7: from from the should.

817
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 8: Evidently the person that did these calculations completely did them wrong.

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Speaker 1: I do apologize for.

819
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Speaker 8: This being a mishap on our part and it's totally

820
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Speaker 8: screwed up, and I do apologize on the behalf of

821
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Speaker 8: the of the association here that we've dropped the ball

822
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Speaker 8: on that. But your actual check has been reduced to

823
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 8: twelve hundred dollars, okay, and that's without us taking the

824
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Speaker 8: law fees out of it.

825
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Speaker 7: So I just found right because I was six thousand

826
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Speaker 7: dollars cover the doctor bill and the cop practice.

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Speaker 8: Well, from my understanding, man, what they're also stating is

828
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Speaker 8: that your injuries are not that bad, and I don't

829
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Speaker 8: want to be the bear of bad news.

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Speaker 1: They're actually wondering if you were actually hurt at all.

831
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Speaker 7: So I even had to get injections okay from the contractice.

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Speaker 8: Okay, And do you have any I have some medical

833
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Speaker 8: documents here, and I understand that you've been going and

834
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Speaker 8: you probably look like you went over at least at

835
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Speaker 8: least two months going to the doctor and getting and

836
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Speaker 8: getting therapy.

837
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Speaker 2: And I was his call.

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Speaker 7: That's a chiropractice car. That wasn't my decision, Okay.

839
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Speaker 8: Well at this call from my injury exactly, and a

840
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Speaker 8: lot of a lot of these doctor fees, and that

841
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 8: you've gone to eating up a lot of these funds.

842
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Speaker 8: And I tell you, these doctor bills they get pretty

843
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 8: high out there. I do want to apologize what we're

844
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 8: gonna do here, since we've dropped the ball on this.

845
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Speaker 8: We're gonna give you the check for twelve hundred and

846
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 8: not even take the loft fees out of it, and

847
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Speaker 8: I'll have that check waiting on you on Monday morning.

848
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Speaker 7: That's just okay. I understand what you're saying, but I'm

849
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Speaker 7: trying to figure out is from the I need to

850
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Speaker 7: see some paperwork of saying stating what was the total

851
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 7: mount check that was written from the insurance company, plus

852
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Speaker 7: what was the portion that was supposed to be taken

853
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Speaker 7: out for the chiropractic plus it was the point that

854
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 7: was supposed to be taken out from a doctor's itself.

855
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Speaker 7: That you're telling me six thousand that's not gonna wouldn't

856
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 7: have covered that and leave me with only twelve hundred.

857
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 8: Okay, I'm not at liberty to let you look at

858
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 8: this paperwork anymore. I'm calling you basically to let you know,

859
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Speaker 8: I have a twelve hundred dollars check for you. If

860
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 8: you don't want that, then you can go ahead and

861
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 8: take some other legal life.

862
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Speaker 7: I mean, that isn't sign of right, Robert. I mean

863
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Speaker 7: from the entire month, because I got the paperwork from

864
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Speaker 7: the contract to stating what mat was paid.

865
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Speaker 8: I understand that, ma'am. What I'm trying to let you

866
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 8: number issues there there. What's going on right now is

867
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Speaker 8: the response coming back is that you're not actually hurt

868
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Speaker 8: at all. That's what they're saying. They're saying you're not

869
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 8: hated at all. Actually, I don't want to use the words,

870
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,399
Speaker 8: but they're saying that you've been faking this the whole time.

871
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 7: I need to see some paperweight with far to check it.

872
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 7: This doesn't sound right, That doesn't make any sense.

873
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 8: Well, all right now, you know I'm the last person

874
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Speaker 8: that that this file is gonna come across. It's coming

875
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 8: across my desk. This is pretty much a take it

876
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 8: or leave it option, you know.

877
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 7: And if you don't leave, no, no, no no no,

878
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Speaker 7: I mean you let me get at to me because

879
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 7: you are my lord and I am your client.

880
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 8: Well, you're not gonna raise your voice you're not gonna

881
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 8: raise your voice said to me, that's not gonna happen either.

882
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 8: So let's let's pipe it down a bit. Okay, now

883
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 8: here's what we're gonna do. Do you want the twelve

884
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 8: hundred dollars check or do you not want it?

885
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: Now?

886
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Speaker 8: I've already wavered the fees of the of the attorneys here.

887
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 8: Do you want the twelve hundred or do you want

888
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 8: me to reduce it to four hundred?

889
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 7: No, I don't want twelve hundred Because'm gonna take you

890
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 7: to court. So that is the time off. He's supposed to.

891
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 13: Be my lawyer.

892
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 8: I'm being the best attorney that you probably could afford,

893
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 8: young lady. Okay, and I'm trying to do the best

894
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 8: I can to help you. Now, you, from what I

895
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 8: understand is.

896
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 7: Yes, I'm say that's not gonna be acceptable. I just

897
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 7: have to get a lawyer to you. That's not accessible.

898
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 1: You know, you know you people continue to want it.

899
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 7: Take me to offer yesterday when we came in, I didn't.

900
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,879
Speaker 8: I wasn't there doing the meeting yesterday. Like I said,

901
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 8: these papers just landed on my desk today. What I'm

902
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 8: not going to tolerate is you people consistently want team

903
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 8: to file a lawsuit on somebody.

904
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: Now you want to file a lawsuit on me. You

905
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: know you're going way too far with this.

906
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 7: This isn't time right, I want to talk. I've never

907
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 7: heard of you.

908
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 1: Well, now you've heard of me.

909
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 8: I'm and I work here as well, and I'm not

910
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 8: going to stand you uh uh dismantling me.

911
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: The way that you're doing.

912
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 7: I just have to get a lawyer. That's not accessible.

913
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 8: I got one more thing. This is nephew Tommy from

914
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 8: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked. You

915
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 8: got precked by your husband. Oh, your husband told me

916
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 8: she's been waiting on that check.

917
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 9: Yeah.

918
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 7: I was about to go about a little office.

919
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 8: All right, baby, let me ask you something. Tell Tommy,

920
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:49,479
Speaker 8: what is the baddest radio show in the land. All right, baby,

921
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 8: look here, get your check.

922
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 3: Now.

923
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: They're doing praise and worship in the prink.

924
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

925
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 8: You've been waiting on a check, a big one. And

926
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 8: then don't come right. You ever been waiting on that

927
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 8: big check, that accident check, that good settlement?

928
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,839
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and I want it now?

929
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 8: Ja yeah wow, oh man, I was I was waiting

930
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 8: on a big check. One time and and uh and

931
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 8: Jackie did not pay. She she she fell in the

932
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 8: ribs of paying my student loans. I mean like two

933
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,760
Speaker 8: months off and man, I had a ten eleven thousand

934
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 8: dollars check coming.

935
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: I was excited.

936
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 8: Man, they took that whole check, that whole check that

937
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 8: you forgot to pay the bill.

938
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: Boy, you want to talk about upset that day?

939
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 8: You know you couldn't. You couldn't cut. You can't cush

940
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 8: your lady off. But I went outside and question did

941
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 8: you did you blame her for it?

942
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: Uh? Yeah, yeah, it wasn't nobody. I mean I didn't.

943
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: I didn't verbally blame up. But yeah, it was her

944
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: damn fault. I mean yeah, but I say that, but

945
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 1: you kept it to yourself.

946
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 8: Yeah, I kept it to himself. And that's where a

947
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 8: lot of stress come from. We keep all that piped

948
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 8: in out there. But yeah, it is Yeah, I kept it.

949
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 9: For you.

950
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 1: What came, what came out of that is all my well.

951
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: But from what you're not doing that fault.

952
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 3: We pay it.

953
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: She forgot. You pay your own loan, keep up with

954
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: you over the bills.

955
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 8: No, you're not gonna do that. Call when you when

956
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 8: you pay the light bill. You pay that stupid loan bill.

957
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 8: You pay that keep it going. If I make the

958
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 8: money and you're in charge of the money, do your job.

959
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: I was yelling about it. I wish I want, because

960
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 1: you ain't Margie. That's why you ain't. Jacket. So we

961
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: can say this right here, right now. Misplaced anger. Yeah,

962
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: you know it is exactly. I definitely can't say wagon.

963
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: I can't say nothing at all.

964
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 9: All right, coming up today's Strawberry Letters.

965
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 6: Subject there were way too many people in one bed.

966
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 6: We'll get into it right after this.

967
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 9: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

968
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 6: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

969
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:37,720
Speaker 6: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please

970
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 6: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey f M and

971
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 6: click submit Strawberry Letter.

972
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 9: We do all these subjects, but like I said before,

973
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 9: we mostly talk about sex and relationships.

974
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 6: I mean, you know, you can write us about all

975
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 6: this other stuff and we'll try to help you out,

976
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 6: but mostly we talk about sex on this show.

977
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 3: We do look it up.

978
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: Hold on tight, we got it for you here. It

979
00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter.

980
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 6: Thank you, not if you subjects there were way too

981
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 6: many people in one bed. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been

982
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 6: married for twenty two years, and I have a big

983
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 6: problem with my husband. My husband's coworker recently bought a

984
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 6: motorcycle and my husband wants one, so he showed me

985
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 6: pictures of the motorcycle on his phone. As I swiped

986
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 6: through the pictures, my husband walked outside, and so I

987
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 6: kept swiping through his pictures. I went as far back

988
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 6: as March and came across a video of my husband naked.

989
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 6: The video was done two days before my fiftieth birthday,

990
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 6: and it was in a hotel room that had a.

991
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Speaker 1: Jacozie in it.

992
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 6: There were six or seven people in there in one bed,

993
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 6: including two other naked men. My husband laid on the

994
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 6: bed between two of the women and they started kissing

995
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 6: all over his body and the video ended. I was

996
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 6: so upset, my hands started shaking and my heart was racing.

997
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,919
Speaker 6: My husband came back inside and I didn't say a word.

998
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 6: I wanted to ask him all about the art orgy,

999
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 6: but I needed to get some information first. Later on,

1000
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 6: I called my brother to ask him what it meant

1001
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 6: if three guys were naked in one room. He said,

1002
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 6: it is never good for a group of men to

1003
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 6: be naked together unless they're in a locker room. I

1004
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 6: told him it was a hypothetical question, but he said

1005
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 6: he knew exactly why I asked. He reminded me that

1006
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 6: we lived in a small town, and he said there

1007
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 6: have been rumors about my husband being into a lot

1008
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 6: of different sexual things. I told my brother it was

1009
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 6: all true and that I've seen it for myself. He

1010
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 6: advised me to leave my husband because there's nothing else

1011
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 6: to talk about. I don't want my marriage of twenty

1012
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 6: two years to end this way, but there were way

1013
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 6: too many naked people in the bed. Do I take

1014
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 6: my brother's advice and leave or talk to my husband

1015
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 6: and hear his side of the story first? Please help?

1016
00:54:53,920 --> 00:55:02,399
Speaker 6: We need to well, well, okay, all right, I'm sure

1017
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 6: this was a shocker to you.

1018
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 9: I'm sure it was.

1019
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 6: I mean, who wants to find out that their husband

1020
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 6: is cheating this way? Why would he keep something like

1021
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 6: this on his phone anyway? I mean does he go

1022
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 6: back and look at it from time to time? Did

1023
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 6: he want to get caught subconsciously? And it seems like

1024
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 6: everyone in town, according to your brother, knows anyway?

1025
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 9: But you and what a shame.

1026
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 6: After twenty two years of marriage, he's brought unimaginable pain

1027
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 6: and embarrassment and humiliation to you. You said your hands

1028
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 6: were shaken, and I mean so. But what I don't

1029
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 6: get though, is why you didn't say anything right then

1030
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 6: and there when your husband came back in the house.

1031
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: I mean, what more.

1032
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 9: Information did you need? You have him on tape in

1033
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:52,439
Speaker 9: an orgy, You have the evidence, you on his side

1034
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 9: of the story.

1035
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 1: I mean, that was the time to get it.

1036
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 6: And what could he say anyway? What really could he say?

1037
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 6: How could he get explain his.

1038
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 9: Way out of this?

1039
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 6: And listen, don't get me wrong, I know that this

1040
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 6: has turned your entire world upside down, twenty two years

1041
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 6: of marriage with this man. But please, but believe what's

1042
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 6: in front of your eyes. Please believe that and base

1043
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 6: your decision on facts and not the lies that your

1044
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 6: husband could tell you to try to get out of

1045
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 6: this particular mess.

1046
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 9: And this is really way more than just a mess.

1047
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 9: This is a tot stinking mess right here.

1048
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,800
Speaker 6: And you know you don't need you don't deserve this, Okay,

1049
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 6: you deserve better, and please know that, Steve, I'm so

1050
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 6: damn confused.

1051
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 9: Yeah, this damn man.

1052
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, you're about to in a twisted man.

1053
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 5: Oh confused man, let us begin been married twenty two

1054
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 5: years old? Just started over a damn motorcycle? Was before

1055
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 5: I got a damn motorcycle. He showed you a picture

1056
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 5: of the motorcycle and then he walked outside. What you

1057
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 5: left your phone with your wife? And you know you

1058
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 5: do wrong, man. I swiped through the pictures after you

1059
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 5: looked at the motorcycle. So you swiping through him. And

1060
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 5: you went all the way back to March and you

1061
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 5: came across this video your husband had and video of

1062
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 5: your husband naked. Now the video was two days for

1063
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 5: your fiftieth birthday. It was in a hotel room that

1064
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 5: had a jacuzie in it. He would have let her change.

1065
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 5: That was six or seven people in there on the

1066
00:57:54,120 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 5: bed kind of bed was this California king Six seven

1067
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 5: people thrown ass people damn near fifty kate fitting this

1068
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 5: band Now unless the Keebler Els was in there, some

1069
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 5: of the best top cooking makers.

1070
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: In the world. Keep the airs.

1071
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 5: Now, this was inside of a treehouse. I don't understand

1072
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 5: how six seven people and two naked men that's what

1073
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 5: was on the tape. Well, let's stop hittle and see. Yeah,

1074
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 5: it's the two nicked men dat.

1075
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 9: All right, just hold it right there.

1076
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 6: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

1077
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 6: twenty three minutes after the hour.

1078
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 9: My Strawberry letter for today, the subject there were way.

1079
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 6: Too many people in one bed. We'll get back into

1080
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 6: it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

1081
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 6: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

1082
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 9: The subject there were way too many people in one bed.

1083
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: All right?

1084
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 5: This lady Thumbing threw her husband's phone he gave they've

1085
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 5: been married twenty two years. He want a motorcycle, showing

1086
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 5: her the picture of the motorcycle. Left up with the phone,

1087
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 5: went outside. She went all the way back to March

1088
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 5: found this picture video of her husband naked. Now, this

1089
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 5: was two days before her fiftieth birthday. They was in

1090
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 5: the hotel room, had a jacuzzi in it, and there

1091
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 5: was six seven people.

1092
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: In on the bed. Where is this hotel? That was

1093
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: this big bed? Rings is strong and two of the

1094
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 1: people in the bed was naked. Mean, oh, just swear

1095
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 1: it was confusing.

1096
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 5: Then your hug laid on the bed in between two

1097
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 5: of the women, and they started kissing all over his

1098
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 5: body and the video ended.

1099
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: Now you gotta understand why the video ended.

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00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 9: Okay, break that down, you'll break.

1101
00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 1: Off because what was happening after that? You know, that

1102
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: was the part he didn't mind keeping.

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Speaker 5: It's something that happened a little later on, because obviously

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01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 5: he wasn't shooting the video nope. And obviously he got

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01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 5: a copy of it from somebody, because ain't nobody holding

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01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 5: his phone. They was just doing a copy of the video.

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01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 5: He kept a copy. He wonted what about something happened,

1108
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 5: something got out of hand. You didn't need to see that.

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01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 5: Then your husband came back inside. Your hands are shaking you,

1110
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 5: your heart was raising you, and you ain't say a word.

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01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 5: I wanted to ask him about the orgy, but I

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01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 5: needed to get more information first, And I'm sorry, man,

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01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 5: you what more information was you looking for? That was

1114
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 5: your ass, your damn husband butt nicky. That was him

1115
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 5: that laid on the bed with the seven people in it.

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01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 5: He managed somehow to find a crack between two women.

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01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 5: Because this bad is crowded, six seven people in there.

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01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 5: The piece of sheep was showing he jammed it fin

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01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 5: ass down in there, and they started kissing on him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, now you need some more information.

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01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 5: So you called your brother to ask you what it

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01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 5: man if three guys was niked in one room, and

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Speaker 5: then he told you a fact, it ain't ever.

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01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: Good for a group of men.

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Speaker 5: See, if I'm in a room, I'm just saying, ill,

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01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 5: I must be the only one in there that zips

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01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 5: his pants up and down. If we niked, I can

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Speaker 5: be the only one in here. It'd be eight, nine, eleven,

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01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 5: thirteen people in here. But I got to be the

1130
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 5: only one in here that got to let the toilet.

1131
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 5: See up, when we go in the bathroom.

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01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: I'm the only one.

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01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 5: And even when I come out of the people go, Steve,

1134
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 5: why you leave us? See that that's what would have

1135
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 5: to happen because I'm the only man in there. So

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01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 5: and then you asked your brother about it, and then

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01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 5: you said it was a hypothetical question. But your brother said,

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01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 5: y'all live in a small town, and there has been

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01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 5: rumors about your husband being into a lot of different

1140
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 5: sexual things. Because in a small town, see six seven

1141
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 5: people in that room. Somebody told who always in the room.

1142
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: So the rumors is true? Your husband is into some

1143
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 1: other things, all Jesus one of them. Yes, that's difference.

1144
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 1: He's in there, that's him. This is not a rumor.

1145
01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: I told you, brother, it was all true, and you've

1146
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 1: seen it for yourself.

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01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 5: He said, what you're gonna leave your husband because there's

1148
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 5: nothing else to talk about?

1149
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 1: Now? You don't want your marriager twenty two years to

1150
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 1: end this way? Okay? How do you want it to right?

1151
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 2: Uh?

1152
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 5: Do you want it to end which you would have uh,

1153
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 5: sexually transmitted disease? Do you want it to end with

1154
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 5: you finding out some more people pregnant? Do you want

1155
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 5: it to end by getting invited to come and then

1156
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 5: you get mad? Y'all get in a fight. How you

1157
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 5: wanted to end because it's ended? Yeah, but there were

1158
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 5: way too many nicked people in the bed, ma'am. If

1159
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 5: it's one person, and why do you keep saying it

1160
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 5: was way too many nicked people in the bed?

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01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 8: See?

1162
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: You throw it off by the men.

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01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 5: Now I can understand that, see, because I guess, I

1164
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 5: guess I'm just assuming as a woman, you think, and

1165
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:38,000
Speaker 5: if it's another woman you're.

1166
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: Dealing with, you can fight that fight.

1167
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 5: But now you're thinking if he has an appetite for

1168
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 5: something more than women, then it could be trouble for you.

1169
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 5: So that is a dilemma that you have. But one

1170
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 5: nicked person in the bed is a problem. Yeah, he

1171
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 5: had a bunch. Now, your brother then told you, but

1172
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 5: you don't want to do that. So do I take

1173
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 5: my brother's advice and leave or do I talk to

1174
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 5: my husband and hit his side of the store first.

1175
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:09,240
Speaker 5: I would love for you to talk to your husband

1176
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 5: so you can hit his side of the store.

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01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 9: How can he lie his way out of this?

1178
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:15,200
Speaker 1: Okay? Surely? Sureley asked. Then I'm gonna show you. Go

1179
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: ahead ask all.

1180
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,959
Speaker 9: Right, honey, listen, when you walked out of the room,

1181
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 9: I happen to go through your phone and I saw it.

1182
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 1: You went through my phone?

1183
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 9: Yeah, well you left to hear you wanted me to

1184
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 9: look at the picture? Yeah I did.

1185
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 3: You went through my phone?

1186
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 9: You heard what I said? I wow?

1187
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 3: Hell no?

1188
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 1: So now we got a marriage? Why I can't trust

1189
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: you with my phone? Ain't this a bottom?

1190
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 9: Oh that's how you're gonna try to lie on.

1191
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: That's that's weak. That's all I know. It's weak. But

1192
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: that's all. Forget all right.

1193
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 6: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey

1194
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 6: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry

1195
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:56,360
Speaker 6: Letter podcast on demand.

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01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 6: Well, Memorial Day holiday weekend is the official kickoff to summer.

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01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 6: And so, Steve, I gotta ask you what annoys you

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01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 6: the most about summer?

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01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: What annoys me the most about summer is too short?

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01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 5: No, just what annoys me most about some is the

1202
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 5: activities it causes some people to partake in that don't

1203
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 5: need to partake in. And it's like some people shouldn't

1204
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 5: wear tank tops. I just think summer brings out a

1205
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 5: look in some people. You know I've often wanted. I'll

1206
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 5: tell you what I discovered it. You remember when you

1207
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 5: go to Disney all the time?

1208
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 1: I kept going, where.

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01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 5: Do they get these tank tops with the armhole that

1210
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 5: extends all the way down to your belt? No matter

1211
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 5: how big you are, the armhole shows your whole side

1212
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 5: of your body. I discovered that they sell them tank

1213
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 5: tops at Walmart.

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01:05:58,160 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 4: Hey, I don't care.

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01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 5: How big you are, you can get your arm in

1216
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 5: this damn tank top. Now, it might be tight round

1217
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 5: the stomach, but you're gonna be able to get in

1218
01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 5: his armhole. That has always bothered me.

1219
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 9: Yeah, your nephew had on one the other day, like

1220
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:17,160
Speaker 9: to that out.

1221
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: Which it ain't time for him for that. It's like time.

1222
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 1: He ain't quite down.

1223
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 5: You see these sleeves, I got on, get you some sleeves. Talk,

1224
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 5: you're not quite there. I know your little boy, Thank

1225
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 5: you strong. And there are those of us who know

1226
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 5: better also to watch white men in the suburbs cut

1227
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 5: their lawn with them strapped sandals, with them socks on.

1228
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 5: That's another thing that that summer brings out that I

1229
01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 5: almost want to.

1230
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: Stop and take your damn socks out. I just want

1231
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: to say that.

1232
01:06:57,680 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 6: But I.

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01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 5: Also, uh, there are people on beaches unclothed that really

1234
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 5: they need to they need to be be be That's

1235
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 5: what I'm saying.

1236
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 1: And that's really beach band. Beach band.

1237
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:20,440
Speaker 5: There's some people that you know it needs to listen

1238
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 5: to me, fellas if you do put on your swimming

1239
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 5: trunks and you can no longer find the draw string, yeah, surprivate,

1240
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 5: it's time. If you wear two pieces and we can

1241
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 5: only find the top piece, we have a problem.

1242
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 9: Look at the time, we have a problem.

1243
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 5: We're never asking you about Yeah, I'm just telling you

1244
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 5: asked me what aggravates me about something.

1245
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you.

1246
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 9: Morning show.

1247
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 6: All right, guys, time for some laughter here, and this

1248
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 6: might just before our listeners. In certain parts of the country,

1249
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 6: like the northeast or the Midwest, one of the best

1250
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:08,720
Speaker 6: weeks of the year to have sex.

1251
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 9: That's what we're talking about. Because it's not too hot,

1252
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 9: it's not too cold.

1253
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 6: You can open the windows, you don't need the air conditioner,

1254
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 6: you don't need to have to worry about sweating too much.

1255
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:21,719
Speaker 6: Some say, as we get ready to kick off summer,

1256
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 6: it's going to be too hot for sex. Okay, So

1257
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:29,600
Speaker 6: the question to you guys, to you guys is have

1258
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:33,520
Speaker 6: you ever had sex without the air conditioner?

1259
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 1: Is it ever too hot? And hell, I didn't been

1260
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: outside what you talking about? Ain't no answer. I didn't

1261
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: been in a warehouse. What happens them just in the car.

1262
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 5: Foundry before a foundry Ford Motor Company foundry, the foundry.

1263
01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: Cars, Yeah, it's hot in there. Or they make the cars,

1264
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 1: they make engine blocks.

1265
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 5: They pour hot steel into moles and run it through

1266
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 5: a furnace and then the coolert system.

1267
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 1: The whole foundry hot no air conditioning, get it?

1268
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:27,480
Speaker 9: But her hair was sweated out about the half edges.

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01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 1: Gone, yea, I had a helmet.

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01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 9: Ont a helmet on.

1271
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 10: You gotta have a safety helmet. No hot place, ain't

1272
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 10: fall helmets. That's what I was thinking, football helmet.

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01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 1: I didn't like her.

1274
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 5: We ain't got to kiss or nothing. What are we

1275
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 5: talking about a helmet? You have a face mask on.

1276
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 1: If you want to. I've been in a hot ass

1277
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 1: club and that made it happen. I don't know what

1278
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 1: y'all talking about in the club.

1279
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:02,679
Speaker 8: In the club like adjoining wall, you know, wall between

1280
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 8: the where the party but on the other.

1281
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 1: Side, VI, I P tell it the VI P shut?

1282
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:09,360
Speaker 3: What the hell you was?

1283
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 1: You could see you in the b they couldn't see

1284
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:18,519
Speaker 1: they could be he section like that the strip club. Yeah,

1285
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 1: that glass right there, that's a different kind of glass

1286
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: at the strip club. I don't know.

1287
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 9: I've learned something.

1288
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 8: You see but they can't really see it, kind of

1289
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 8: like that interrogation room.

1290
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: You can see but they can't.

1291
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:33,000
Speaker 6: Oh oh, so the question was, have you guys ever

1292
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 6: had sex without air conditioning?

1293
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 9: I guess the answer to that is yes.

1294
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 1: I didn't even know I didn't even know the ad

1295
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:45,600
Speaker 1: was off. I ain't here. We're not in here for

1296
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:46,760
Speaker 1: room conditions.

1297
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 3: What happened? I mean.

1298
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 1: Projects ain't no central and the projects, So.

1299
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 3: What are you doing?

1300
01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 9: Keep the helmet on and you just go back to work.

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01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 6: When you're done, you go back to.

1302
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: Whatever he was doing. You can't take off. Where is

1303
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:03,719
Speaker 1: at lunch?

1304
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 3: Hello?

1305
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 1: Would your lunch break? Thirty minutes? You got to get

1306
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 1: back out of here.

1307
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 11: We got.

1308
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 1: Y'all. Ain't never been nowhere different different. You asked about

1309
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:23,519
Speaker 1: the temperature, Yeah, yeah, all pit, what.

1310
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 9: Come on?

1311
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 1: That's that's that's pretty greasy. That's about all. That's a

1312
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:33,960
Speaker 1: lot going on. Well you ain't no all on you.

1313
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 9: Oh it was just hot.

1314
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 1: Don't get mad at me.

1315
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 3: I mean seriously.

1316
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:49,960
Speaker 13: About now dad furnish, he help projects, Yes, house what

1317
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,719
Speaker 13: I've been in an eighteen wheeler in the back.

1318
01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: Hello, Okay, Well that yeah, no, that's hot. I didn't

1319
01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 1: have no conditioning much. Send it to cheven that's a

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Speaker 1: junior set of car. Yeah, with it all. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a little crack in the window.

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Speaker 5: Just all and we got I've been down at Lake Erie,

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Speaker 5: uh huh, outdoors in the grass, Mosquitos, and hot.

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Speaker 9: How hot was it that day?

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Speaker 1: Hot and humid? Hot, wind blowing me down?

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Speaker 10: I don't like.

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Speaker 1: Why don't they participate?

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Speaker 6: Thanks for sharing, guys so much, they don't More of

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Speaker 6: today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show at

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Speaker 6: twenty minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: The best example for this is me.

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Speaker 5: in a lot of people's life. If you will start

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Speaker 5: to notice that I am improving my look physically now

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Speaker 5: I'm starting to see the physical benefits of it.

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Speaker 1: Now it's starting to come through to where I can

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Speaker 1: notice it.

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Speaker 5: You know, people have noticed it on me before, and

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Speaker 5: then my biggest change was in the way my clothes fit.

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Speaker 1: My fit is totally different now.

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Speaker 5: I had on a suit last week that I had

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Speaker 5: made two years ago, and I refuse to wear it because,

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Speaker 5: you know, my stylists had tried this new look of

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Speaker 5: making my clothes really fit it, and it was just

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Speaker 5: a little bit too much for Uncle Steve.

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Speaker 1: Couldn't take no deep breath, couldn't raise all.

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Speaker 5: That I actually had this suit on, and he posted

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Speaker 5: a picture of it and there's room in.

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Speaker 1: The suit down. Oh that's all I could turn, right.

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Speaker 5: get your green drinks and get started on your health journey.

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Speaker 1: Thanks Steve.

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Speaker 6: Coming up in thirty three minutes after we'll play around it.

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Speaker 6: Would you rather right after this you're listening Hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: The queen of rock and roll, Tina Turner has passed away.

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Speaker 6: What a shocker this was uh mss. Tina was eighty

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Speaker 6: three years old, Steve. Her concerts were amazing. Former President

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Speaker 6: Barack Obama said that Tina Turner was raw, she was powerful,

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Speaker 6: she was unstoppable, and she was unapologetically herself speaking and

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Speaker 6: singing her truth through joy and pain, triumph and tragedy.

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Speaker 6: Today we joined fans around the world and honoring.

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Speaker 9: The Queen of rock and roll. And that's so true.

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Speaker 6: She was global and they're calling her story one of

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Speaker 6: the greatest or the greatest comeback story in the history

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Speaker 6: of music because of what she endured and how she

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Speaker 6: came back, and it was on top of not just

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Speaker 6: the United States, but the world.

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Speaker 8: The great seeing her as a kid, seeing her on

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Speaker 8: a Johnny Carson show, she was major man.

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Speaker 9: She choreographed those dance moves that she did with the ike.

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Speaker 5: The show that this show was well, ain't nobody else

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Speaker 5: know how to do it and had nobody done it before,

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Speaker 5: So there was just it had to be her, you know,

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Speaker 5: I was reading on k C.

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Speaker 2: They were saying that back in March she talks about

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Speaker 2: her health and not taking better care of herself when

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Speaker 2: it came to issues with her kidney, and that she

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Speaker 2: should have taken medication more regular, you know, to help

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Speaker 2: with hot blood pressure, you know, the chronic diseases that

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Speaker 2: set in as you age, high cholesterol.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, whenever we lose somebody, there's lessons to be learned,

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Speaker 5: even in loss. You know, often say behind every moment

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Speaker 5: of adversity, there's a lesson and a blessing, you know.

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Speaker 5: And I mean we should take the time out, just

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Speaker 5: like they do at most funerals, to remind people that

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Speaker 5: those of us that are still here that we got

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Speaker 5: to be mindful that were on that same path. And

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Speaker 5: you know, you can quicken the trip, you can worsen

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Speaker 5: the trip, or you can lengthen the trip, or you

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01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 5: can smooth out the trip with the decisions that we

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Speaker 5: make and a lot of these issues we have and

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Speaker 5: our health issues, and it's sad to hear when a

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01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 5: person says, I should have took better care of myself.

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01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 5: I should have been a little bit more mindful of

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01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 5: my medicine schedule. I should have watched what I eat.

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01:16:54,400 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 5: And I think that all of us, you know, have

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01:16:57,600 --> 01:17:00,599
Speaker 5: something to learn from that statement right there. I wish

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01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:03,639
Speaker 5: I had it, because I don't want to wait until

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Speaker 5: I can't do anything about my health.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:09,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, we can all get on the health and wellness

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01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 5: journey no matter where you are right now, if you

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01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:14,719
Speaker 5: still here, you have a chance to do something.

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Speaker 6: You know, if you get a chance to, please watch

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Speaker 6: the documentary. I Tina, I Tina.

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Speaker 9: All right, we're coming back with more of the Steve

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Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: As a matter of fact, this is our last break

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Speaker 6: of the day, Steve's closing remarks. You don't want to

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Speaker 6: miss it. It's been a good day. We'll be back

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Speaker 6: at forty nine after the hour right after this. You're

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01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 6: listening hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 9: Here we are Steve last break of the day.

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Speaker 1: It's been a good day.

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Speaker 5: I guess a lot of things have been on my

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01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 5: mind in terms of closing remarks, because I try to

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Speaker 5: really really keep people, especially good people who are trying

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01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 5: to stay on the straight and narrow and the positive,

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01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:01,439
Speaker 5: and it gets difficult times. I had a young man

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01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 5: text me the other day and said, big Dog, I

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01:18:05,960 --> 01:18:07,320
Speaker 5: just need some of your wisdom.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 5: I've been doing everything, man, I've been praying. My girl

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Speaker 5: is tripping. I don't know how to handle it. It

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01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 5: just seems like, man, that God ain't letting this thing

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Speaker 5: happen quick enough for me.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 5: And I'm thinking about going back to my old ways, man,

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Speaker 5: but I don't want to. And so I was just

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01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:30,760
Speaker 5: talking to him about a way to handle it. I

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01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:33,120
Speaker 5: sent him send him a couple of things, you know,

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01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:36,680
Speaker 5: and he was talking about how heart it was, and

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Speaker 5: I just told him. I said, look, man, being successful

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01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:42,600
Speaker 5: is very very difficult. If being successful were easy, come on,

1444
01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 5: how many times have you heard that. I don't even

1445
01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 5: have to say it again, everybody would be it. But

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01:18:48,439 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 5: when you're going through something, folks, you have to understand

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01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:57,400
Speaker 5: that you're being tested. You're being processed and tested, You're

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01:18:57,479 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 5: being pushed through the furnace, you're being molded shaped. Sometime

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01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:06,799
Speaker 5: you get real hot in that furnace and you turn liquid,

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Speaker 5: and it looked like you ain't gonna be nothing.

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01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 1: But he just pouring you into this mold. That's all

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Speaker 1: he doing.

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01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 5: All the trials and tribulations and hard times and difficulties

1454
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,920
Speaker 5: that you find yourself facing, he just molding you.

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Speaker 10: Man.

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Speaker 5: He just getting you ready to receive it. Because when

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01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 5: you get it, people are gonna come after it. When

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01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,720
Speaker 5: you get it, people are gonna want it. When you

1459
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,840
Speaker 5: get it, you're gonna draw attention all these things you

1460
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 5: asking God for.

1461
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 1: When he give it to you. You gotta be ready

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01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:36,880
Speaker 1: to receive it.

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01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:39,439
Speaker 5: And you got to know how to appreciate it and

1464
01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:41,439
Speaker 5: handle it when you get it, and you got to

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01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 5: be able to stay in all the storms that come

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01:19:43,640 --> 01:19:46,720
Speaker 5: with it. Because to whom much is given, much is required.

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01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 5: So guess what He requires a lot of you before

1468
01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 5: he give it to you. It ain't just to whom

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01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 5: much is given, much is required, meaning after those of

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01:19:57,320 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 5: you who get something that you owe it to a

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01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 5: bunch people, you ain't got to look at it just

1472
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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 1: To whom much is given, much is required.

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Speaker 5: That great thing that you're asking God for, that incredible

1475
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 5: thing that you want him to see you through, Well,

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01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:13,640
Speaker 5: when he give it to you and he see you

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01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 5: through it, he gonna require something of you to get

1478
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:20,519
Speaker 5: through it. Now when he get through it, Now, guess what.

1479
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:25,799
Speaker 5: You've been tested. You've been five baptized, you've been ran.

1480
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:30,240
Speaker 1: Through the meal. You can handle it. Now, you appreciate it. Now,

1481
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:31,720
Speaker 1: you worked for it.

1482
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:34,800
Speaker 5: Now you earned it, and you're gonna respect it a

1483
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:37,719
Speaker 5: little bit more than somebody who was just giving something.

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01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:43,200
Speaker 5: So when you're going through something, you're being tested. You've

1485
01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 5: been pushed through the furnace. You come out on the

1486
01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:49,639
Speaker 5: other side, you're gonna be fine, but you can't quit

1487
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,640
Speaker 5: for you get to the other side. One of the

1488
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 5: things I set this young man was a plaque that

1489
01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:56,600
Speaker 5: a guy sent me when I was going through some

1490
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:00,519
Speaker 5: really dark moments in my life. The plaque said, if

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01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:06,800
Speaker 5: you're going through hell, don't stop, keep going. If you're

1492
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 5: going through hell, don't stop keep going. Why would you

1493
01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:16,599
Speaker 5: stop in hell? Let's think about that. And you gotta

1494
01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:19,640
Speaker 5: watch the people in your life, man, because you got

1495
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:23,360
Speaker 5: If you go to allow people to make more withdraws

1496
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 5: than deposits into your life, you're gonna soon be in

1497
01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 5: the negative. Sometimes you got to know when to close

1498
01:21:30,360 --> 01:21:34,720
Speaker 5: the accounts. You got some people in your life where

1499
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:38,920
Speaker 5: you need to close the accounts. No, no, no, no,

1500
01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 5: No more accounts receivable, no more accounts, pay a boat,

1501
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:45,600
Speaker 5: no more calling me every time it get dark in

1502
01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:47,920
Speaker 5: your life. And then when something happen in mind, I

1503
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 5: can't find you nowhere. No more one sided friendships, no more.

1504
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 5: I'm giving and you taking. And when I need something,

1505
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:59,920
Speaker 5: you ain't there. Oh excute, I read something mose news pages,

1506
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 5: not copied it, and I have sent it to a

1507
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:06,280
Speaker 5: couple of people already. Excuse me for bothering you, my bad.

1508
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I forgot you only fool with me when

1509
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:15,759
Speaker 5: you need something. Oh excuse me, I'm sorry, my bad.

1510
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 5: I don't mean to bother you. I forgot you only

1511
01:22:20,080 --> 01:22:23,840
Speaker 5: fool with me when you need something. If you allow

1512
01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:26,760
Speaker 5: people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life,

1513
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:29,200
Speaker 5: you gonna soon be in the negative.

1514
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 1: You got to know when they close di it counts

1515
01:22:33,120 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 1: everybody in your life right now.

1516
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 5: You don't need them. You don't need them, not everybody.

1517
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:42,600
Speaker 5: Some people just ain't good for you. I don't know

1518
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:45,160
Speaker 5: if you notice it or not. You keep trying to

1519
01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 5: hang on in there and believe that they gonna be better.

1520
01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 5: You can pray for them too, But some people just

1521
01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 5: who they are now. Prayer changes thing. But if they

1522
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:57,760
Speaker 5: ain't praying for theirself, I don't really know how they work.

1523
01:22:58,840 --> 01:22:58,920
Speaker 6: Now.

1524
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:00,679
Speaker 1: Are some people that can explain ain't it? I can't.

1525
01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:03,040
Speaker 1: I just know.

1526
01:23:03,200 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 5: Man, when you keep on telling somebody something then ain't listening,

1527
01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:09,520
Speaker 5: and they keep bringing your bad news, and they.

1528
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:11,599
Speaker 1: Always the one man that you hear what they said

1529
01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:12,040
Speaker 1: about you?

1530
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 5: Man, you know what I need? Man, You ain't gonna

1531
01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 5: believe what happened to me? Oh man, I can't get

1532
01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 5: around there today.

1533
01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 1: I'm tied up. You're done.

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Speaker 5: If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits

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Speaker 5: in your life, you're gonna soon be in the negative.

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Speaker 5: You have to know when to close the accounts. Just

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Speaker 5: close the accounts. You'll be better for those are my closing.

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Speaker 1: Remarks, big up, all right now wow jeez uh huh yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can go ahead and drop it.

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Speaker 3: You can go ahead.

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Speaker 1: Some people need to hear that.

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Speaker 6: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey

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Speaker 6: dot com. You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.