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Speaker 2: I love the posts. I love the enthusiasm that pose

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Speaker 2: is bringing. Thank you for coming to two cool moms.

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Speaker 2: I am Joe Gatto, I'm Steven, and we are here

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Speaker 2: moming it up.

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Speaker 3: Moment it up?

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Speaker 2: Oh what happened? You were turning butter? I don't know

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Speaker 2: that was the jackhammer like mix it to a pigeon.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love the dance moves. Stevie.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we're back.

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Speaker 2: We're here. We have a tablecloth.

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Speaker 1: Really nice to core. Yes, apparently you didn't like my

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Speaker 1: shower curtains that I got last.

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Speaker 2: I asked Steve, do me a solid buddy. I'm running

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Speaker 2: little late. I don't want to have a blank table.

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Speaker 2: Could you pick up something to cover the table with?

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Speaker 2: He comes back with two see completely see through light

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Speaker 2: pastel one pink one blue shower curtains.

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Speaker 1: There there was not many options.

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Speaker 2: You're in Manhattan, you're in midtown Manhattan.

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Speaker 1: There was like a CBS, but it's not like they

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Speaker 1: have a picnic or us like there's store. You have

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Speaker 1: to do picnics.

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Speaker 2: You do picnics. I'm not a picnic guy. I can't

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Speaker 2: sit like that that long. I need to cheah put

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Speaker 2: it in a basket. I'm wondering if I ever did

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Speaker 2: a romantic gesture like a picnic you've done. I'm sure

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Speaker 2: I've done a romantic gesture. I never done a picnic,

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Speaker 2: which is odd for me because you think I want

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Speaker 2: to travel with food.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you I mean, but but you know pastries. Pastries,

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Speaker 1: for sure, your pastries.

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Speaker 2: I think the cost. The closest thing I came to

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Speaker 2: a picnic was me and Murr used to do this

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Speaker 2: thing in in New York City in Brian Park, mid

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Speaker 2: Timpinhammy used to do this thing where they would do

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Speaker 2: summer movie nights and they would set up they would

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Speaker 2: show outdoor movies at Brian Park and and you and

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Speaker 2: Murr would me and Mar. So me and mar would

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Speaker 2: get something very much like this tablecloth. We would get

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Speaker 2: like two big blankets, just me and Marr. We would

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Speaker 2: have a basket of goodies and we would just they

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Speaker 2: and you would set up trip and c yeah, and

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Speaker 2: you would sit there and we would just set up

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Speaker 2: and we would invite people to come and join us.

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Speaker 2: And me and murder would throw like, yeah, movie and

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Speaker 1: Wait are you is this pre jokers or pretty sure

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Speaker 1: pre jokers? And you would just invite people to come

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Speaker 2: Come and hang on your Yeah, we would have olive

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Speaker 2: top of nod to share.

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Speaker 1: Really did people take you up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? A couple, Yeah we did. Actually, I actually got

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Speaker 2: my worst one of my one of my worst dates

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Speaker 2: came out of that. Ever. I shared a blanket with

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Speaker 2: with the lady. Yeah, very nice lady. And then we

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Speaker 2: ended up going on the worst first date I've ever

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 2: I showed up?

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Speaker 1: Wait wait okay, so wait hold on, you met her,

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Speaker 1: you met HER's back, but you met her at the thing? Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: so you met her. You struck it up, just girls,

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Speaker 2: She had a friend. We're all talking, hanging out, and

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Speaker 1: Good vibe from her, you should hang out. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: then then you actually so it's weird because you had

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Speaker 1: a great time with a complete stranger for two hours. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then you go on a date in what happened.

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Speaker 2: Well, it was a group setting, and then you go

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Speaker 2: and she goes, she sees what. She goes, you're wearing that?

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Speaker 2: her to change, right. So I'm just sitting in her

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Speaker 2: No, So I said, oh, okay, well, maybe she's just

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Speaker 2: having an off moment. You know, I'm not running. So

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Speaker 2: we ended up going to a restaurant. And the conversation

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Speaker 2: doesn't like to sit next to fat people on airplanes

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Speaker 1: I like this girl, and I was and I was like,

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Speaker 2: So that she was like that and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Get your bingoing out of here, you fat She.

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Speaker 2: Went to the bathroom. I remember she went to the

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Speaker 2: And that's how you know it's a bad thing. I

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, it's okay. So she came back

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Speaker 2: and got it to us there and I did. I

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Speaker 1: If I'm gonna be you, because you're in little little

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Speaker 1: I stopped.

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Speaker 2: I stopped. I was like, Joey, don't go home without dessert.

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Speaker 2: Nobody takes that from Joey.

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Speaker 1: This is how he did.

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Speaker 2: I went, I had the bill and I was like,

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Speaker 2: we're not getting dessert. I said, oh, no, we're not.

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Speaker 2: And she goes. She goes, oh really, She goes, oh,

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Speaker 2: what's the matter to have a good time? I said, honestly, no,

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Speaker 2: but thanks, I hope you you know, take care.

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Speaker 1: I could see that. I think ninety guys would ride

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Speaker 1: it out like best for you you always do, Yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 2: I drive her back to her place. She asked me

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Speaker 2: if I want to come up. I said no, thank you,

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Speaker 2: I'm driving, my cell phone rings and it's her and

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Speaker 2: your floor? Which I to this now thinking about it,

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Speaker 2: could you bring it back? I'm like sure, So I

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Speaker 2: So as I come by and I'm like, okay, what's

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Speaker 2: nice person. I've not had a good time. I'm inconvenience

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Speaker 2: she was like I was like, oh, I said, I said, well,

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Speaker 2: I was like all right, I said, I'll come back

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Speaker 2: Started to go around. She's like, that's a far walk.

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Speaker 2: My heels hurt like that, and I was like, come

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Speaker 2: It's like to throw roll down the window, and just

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Speaker 4: I said, duces, it's just like bangs.

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Speaker 2: And I drove away.

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Speaker 1: And that was the last time you saw Joy Bayhart.

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Speaker 2: That was it. Me and Joy never never caught up

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was that your worst state?

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Speaker 2: New York hands own worst?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 2: The only other bad deed I had is a girl

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Speaker 2: took me for Indian food and that's not for me offense,

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Speaker 2: That's just not my type of food.

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Speaker 1: That's the roll of the dice.

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Speaker 2: So I had never had Indian food, and it was

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Speaker 2: a really nice restaurant and they bring over just it

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Speaker 2: was basically just plates of stuff you like, dip stuff.

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't even like it's.

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Speaker 1: Like it's like that one more time. It's like just

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Speaker 2: I mean, Like you've had Indian food, right, It was

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Speaker 2: like just like just this weird tasting things.

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Speaker 1: Non. What's that non? The bread?

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Speaker 2: I had no? I had done that and I had

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Speaker 2: there was me I had none. It's like I'll take none,

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Speaker 2: I think. I was like, you want not?

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, take one none, it's good for me, right.

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Speaker 2: I literally had bread for dinner. I had the non.

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Speaker 2: So they bring the none, lots of non for everybody,

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Speaker 2: and like all these gross dipping buckets we made.

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Speaker 1: There's some good for me?

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Speaker 2: No, okay, yeah for other people, yeah, people love it

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Speaker 2: for Norfolk Okay. So they had all these things and

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Speaker 2: I tried, Steve, you tried, and you could see the

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Speaker 2: disgust on my face. I couldn't hide it. And the

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Speaker 2: girls like, oh, do you not like Indian food? And

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Speaker 2: I was like, ah, I've never tried it and I said,

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Speaker 2: I had to sit there and just her watch her

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Speaker 2: I was like, this is not the smells and everything

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Speaker 2: No? I was doing He's making me do a what's

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Speaker 1: We want when you don't like something, it's so apparent

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Speaker 2: But there's a way to do that, to be respectful

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Speaker 2: People enjoy and love it. Go ahead to eat it.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not going to judge, but you you will

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Speaker 2: I do this and push it. This your way, people

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll insist to pay for it. And then I'll

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Speaker 2: I like a lot of places around that. We had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very nice.

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Speaker 2: Because we're in Ashy neighborhood now now we're in a

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Speaker 1: We had a good grunch there, fresh seafood.

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Speaker 2: You know what I like about eat eating with you?

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Speaker 2: You're different because you enjoy to eat like I do.

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Speaker 2: No because I pay you don't. Don't tell that on

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Speaker 2: me because you're fighting about it all the time. All

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Speaker 1: I'll take it.

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Speaker 2: So we you and I when we go out to eat,

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Speaker 1: You match makes me.

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Speaker 2: I love that you match my energy with that. When

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Speaker 1: And then you can see it's like, no, my whole

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Speaker 1: Like as soon as I got here, I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, what where am I eat from? And

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Speaker 2: I get I get souls going, Gotta get it going.

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Speaker 1: You gotta get it. Well, they're starting to press again.

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Speaker 1: You did.

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Speaker 2: You're doing all right though the hood, he helps. It

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Speaker 2: And that's the way to think about it.

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Speaker 1: How that didn't get Joe.

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Speaker 2: Your circumference was up, Steve, your circumference a show.

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Speaker 1: I knew.

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Speaker 2: You get a plate face. You get around, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: I look like North Korea propaganda. Kim Jones. Like my

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you like the Mooney Tunes Asian back in nineteen forties,

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Speaker 2: right that far what you bugs?

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Speaker 4: Not like that?

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Speaker 1: That the record bottom glass.

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Speaker 4: Guys, I did not do that. Don't put that out there.

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Speaker 1: That's all folks.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, let's dive in. Let's show you know. Thanks

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Speaker 2: everybody for if you're new to to Two Cool Moms.

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Speaker 2: If you're new to Two Cool Moms, this is what

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Speaker 2: we do here. We help people. We take fans admissions,

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Speaker 2: they give us their delight. Steve and I did the

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Speaker 1: Nobody better, nobody.

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Speaker 2: More, me better. But these are the people you're listening.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, this is what you could afford by the

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Speaker 1: show's free. Okay, this is coming to us from Lauren. Okay, Hey, mommies,

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Speaker 1: love you guys. Saw you in Nashville. Great show at

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Speaker 1: Zany's Live, too cool. Mom's a lot of fun. I

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Speaker 1: Have y'all ever ever experienced that? Do you have any

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Speaker 1: much laughter in my life, Lauren, it was very sweet.

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Speaker 2: Did when did laid off turn into go from fire

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Speaker 2: to laid off? It's the same thing you're going to

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Speaker 2: rough air from turbulence in a plane. Now they say

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Speaker 1: That sounds like a bad Nick Cage movie or person fall.

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Speaker 1: Well, UFOs they changed UFOs.

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Speaker 2: What you a peace?

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Speaker 1: I think it's called no.

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Speaker 2: You think of the Black Eyed peas, you think about

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Speaker 2: But I was like, what can't Yeah, that's different. People

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Speaker 2: where I want.

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Speaker 1: Can't say tranny anymore?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, what do you have to time? Mark?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Okay, okay, okay, all right, what is

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Speaker 1: you want to be back?

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Speaker 4: It's good to be.

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Speaker 1: I can't say colored anymore. Jesus, the iyeard.

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Speaker 2: People are just like what, okay, So what was the question?

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Speaker 1: Got lai fired laid off? Yeah right, but you don't

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Speaker 2: People say laid off. They don't say fired anymore. I

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Speaker 1: What is laid off?

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Speaker 1: What what the technical?

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Speaker 2: same same thing. But I don't know how late fired.

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Speaker 1: I think you would, you would have done something wrong.

443
00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,359
Speaker 1: Laid Off is like, hey, we're making.

444
00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,359
Speaker 2: Redundancy redundancies layoffs, so.

445
00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,640
Speaker 1: We got okay, maybe cut corners and yeah sorry because

446
00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,840
Speaker 1: the act. Yeah yeah yeah. But fired's like security will

447
00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,160
Speaker 1: be at your desk and here's you're fired.

448
00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,640
Speaker 2: Like you yell at somebody can what are you crazy?

449
00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:45,800
Speaker 2: Your fire? You can't be like what are you crazy?

450
00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:49,760
Speaker 2: You're laid off the same, just though laid off is yeah,

451
00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:50,720
Speaker 2: we'll get the door for you.

452
00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:51,400
Speaker 4: Yeah I got.

453
00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,840
Speaker 2: I got laid off. I knew it was coming, though

454
00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:58,520
Speaker 2: I didn't unexpectedly from my accenture, my big consulting gig,

455
00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,480
Speaker 2: my first job I had for five years there in

456
00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,600
Speaker 2: the city, and it was after you have to get

457
00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:06,840
Speaker 2: placed on projects. That's the way consulting works. And I

458
00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,760
Speaker 2: was living at Queens in the time, and they gave

459
00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,359
Speaker 2: me one the same We found this great project for you,

460
00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,879
Speaker 2: but it's in it's in New Jersey. And I was like,

461
00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,560
Speaker 2: I'm not going from Jersey to Jersey every day from Queens.

462
00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,439
Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. It's gonna take me forever to get there.

463
00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,160
Speaker 2: The commute's gonna be insane. And they were like they're like, oh,

464
00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:20,600
Speaker 2: but that's you know, it's a big project. They want

465
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,560
Speaker 2: you on it. And I was like, I was like nah,

466
00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,800
Speaker 2: and they're like you can't say nah, like that's your job.

467
00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:26,640
Speaker 2: You have to go. I'm like, yeah, I'll find something else,

468
00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,720
Speaker 2: Like all right, and all the all the manager, all.

469
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Speaker 1: The way, are you saying you'll find something else in

470
00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,480
Speaker 1: the company and the company? Yeah, They're like, we're the company.

471
00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:34,120
Speaker 1: You're not trying to get.

472
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Speaker 2: A partner in their own project. So I reach out

473
00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:36,879
Speaker 2: to all the partners that will and I was like, Hey,

474
00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:38,320
Speaker 2: does anybody have anything that can put me on? So

475
00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:39,639
Speaker 2: and I had to end up going to Jersey and

476
00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,520
Speaker 2: all the partners really liked me because you know, I

477
00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,360
Speaker 2: was just it was funny. So I tried to get

478
00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,240
Speaker 2: onto these jobs. I couldn't get one, and they're like

479
00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:47,480
Speaker 2: all right. So they're like, all right, you have to

480
00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,359
Speaker 2: take this job. And I was like, that's the And

481
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,320
Speaker 2: the partner called me in one of my friends there

482
00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:53,040
Speaker 2: that I liked, and he was like, Joe, he's like,

483
00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:54,119
Speaker 2: you have to take this job. We're gonna have to

484
00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,760
Speaker 2: lay off. And I was like, just lay me off

485
00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:57,679
Speaker 2: because I knew my heart wasn't in it anymore, and

486
00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm just I'm not going to be

487
00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:00,480
Speaker 2: gonna be miserable. I don't want to do that. I

488
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:02,879
Speaker 2: rather try to find something else. He's like, are you sure.

489
00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,080
Speaker 2: He's like, are you sure? And he's like, give me

490
00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,400
Speaker 2: a week, let me try to find you something else.

491
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:07,879
Speaker 2: So he tried to find something else he couldn't.

492
00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,600
Speaker 1: Well that's nice, I mean that was kind of your decision.

493
00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. So it was like you were telling them elective layoff.

494
00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:14,520
Speaker 1: I would say, yeah, but.

495
00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:16,080
Speaker 2: I got Severn's package, so, which was nice.

496
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:19,680
Speaker 1: Oh that's good. But that's that's nice, especially you quit basically,

497
00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,200
Speaker 1: but you got to say my fourth their hand. That's

498
00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:26,280
Speaker 1: a pretty crafty way of quitting. You turned it into

499
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Speaker 1: a laid off.

500
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:29,959
Speaker 2: Yeahs, average package.

501
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,920
Speaker 1: That's some Jedime Trich. I never had a real job,

502
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,639
Speaker 1: so I don't know, you don't know. Yeah, And like

503
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,879
Speaker 1: the jobs I had, it was waiting tables, cooking. It

504
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,040
Speaker 1: was just like there's a party Friday, fucking I'm going

505
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,640
Speaker 1: and I just quit. So I never, like, I never

506
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Speaker 1: got laid off, although once I worked at Carolines Comedy

507
00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:54,400
Speaker 1: Club here and there was a above Carolines was Comedy Nation.

508
00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,760
Speaker 1: It was like this theme comedy themed restaurant that was

509
00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,440
Speaker 1: open for like a year. And I worked up there

510
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,360
Speaker 1: and I was a host up there, and I would

511
00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 1: host downstairs with Carolines. But Combination was like my main gig.

512
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 1: And uh I remember two weeks before Christmas they fired everybody?

513
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:11,239
Speaker 2: Wow, sir?

514
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 1: So ever since the old everybody stocking? Yo? Oh when

515
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 1: when Carolines closed down, it's like them, Yeah, of course shitty.

516
00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:20,720
Speaker 1: I thought it was so bad. Yeah, she wanted to

517
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Speaker 1: hire the kitchen staff.

518
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 2: Oh not because they were closing the things. Just fired

519
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 2: everybody and hired new people.

520
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 1: Yep, that is shitty clean house.

521
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Speaker 2: Wow.

522
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Speaker 1: Two weeks before Christmas?

523
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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. I guess it's always a certain amount

524
00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,680
Speaker 2: of weeks before Christmas. You'd be like, I got laid

525
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 2: off forty two weeks before Christmas. This bitch fired me

526
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,120
Speaker 2: forty six weeks before Christmas. Like it's January what he's

527
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 2: talking about. So I would say, if you got laid off,

528
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:51,719
Speaker 2: I mean, you got to try to turn everything into

529
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 2: an opportunity right now. Was that your passion? Was that

530
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,959
Speaker 2: your dream job? Probably not right, Let's go get it.

531
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Speaker 2: Let's turn this you're fired into your higher to your

532
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,640
Speaker 2: dream job. That's what I would look at you, That's

533
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 2: what I would say. I would say, look around. But

534
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 2: it's a terrible market out there, so good luck.

535
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,639
Speaker 1: To you, all right.

536
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,640
Speaker 2: Anybody's not really hiring economies in the toilet. But yeah, yeah,

537
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,200
Speaker 2: I mean, but hey, you know you can maybe you

538
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 2: could paint, Maybe you could, like if you are an artisan,

539
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 2: maybe you wanted to always passion. You had a passion, Yep,

540
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:19,199
Speaker 2: you do that.

541
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, while you're under a bridge because you have You've

542
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 1: still got to get a job.

543
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I would say, I mean, getting laid off

544
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 2: does suck. But you know, every I mean every job,

545
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 2: I mean unless it's your dream, dream job, which I

546
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: you know, people throw that term around because I've had

547
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 2: so many different careers. I've had like five or six

548
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 2: different careers, sure, completely different careers, and I've I've taken

549
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 2: away and enjoyed each of them in a different way.

550
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Speaker 2: So I would say, maybe it's just an opportunity for

551
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Speaker 2: a new one. So now just try something new. If

552
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 2: don't get stuck in what you're at, maybe it's a

553
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: chance to like, Okay, I can't get hired here doing

554
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 2: what I was doing right, Maybe make a turn and see,

555
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 2: let me try this out, because.

556
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Speaker 1: Sometimes like those opportunities, like you know, you get hired

557
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: in Montana, You're like, maybe I'll moved him on Tanah. Yeah,

558
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. It's like, oh, you're saying,

559
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: if you got a blank slate, it's like a straight reboot.

560
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:07,119
Speaker 1: Why not?

561
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's an opportunity.

562
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: Sure. I mean I did it with comedy. I moved

563
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: from LA to Nashville, and that's completely like the opposite

564
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 1: of what most people would do. But it was just like,

565
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: I'll do it now and I've been I'm busier now

566
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 1: than I've ever been when I lived in LA, which

567
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: is crazy to think. Wasn't that But everything's changed so much.

568
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 1: But if you've had five careers, what was the most

569
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: fulfilling career you've had?

570
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,119
Speaker 2: Oh, jokers for sure? Yeah, yeah, I mean that was

571
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 2: great to be able to bring comedy to the nation.

572
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,120
Speaker 2: Heal a nation at the time and needed it most.

573
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,159
Speaker 2: I mean, without you know, think about it. Thank goodness.

574
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:42,879
Speaker 2: We were around for a decade. It's part of that

575
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 2: train for a decade.

576
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Speaker 1: I'll never forget when the towers went down and George

577
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 1: Bush is on the megaphone. You guys were right there.

578
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 1: The nation was like we had, God.

579
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Speaker 2: We had I think now, I think, yeah, I mean,

580
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: and you know, Joker, you can't compared to that. That

581
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 2: thing is crazy. But I will say I did have

582
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 2: fulfilling things as fulfilling you know, in each of my jobs.

583
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,679
Speaker 2: I mean I got my family basically for my salesman job,

584
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 2: r I'd met Bessie through that. My whole life through

585
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 2: you know, my whole personal life came from that job,

586
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 2: you know, with Jokers. I got all these opportunities and careers,

587
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 2: you know, through the accenture job that we're talking about.

588
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 2: I definitely got like my people skills for sure. Consulting

589
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 2: is all about dealing with people and working with that.

590
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 2: And I also learned actually how to like run business stuff,

591
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: you know, websites and things of that nature. I learned

592
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 2: a lot of business through that, so which I took

593
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 2: forward with me and each one. And then you know,

594
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: through this I got you, Stevie. There we go. I mean,

595
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: that's it, that's what what what can I want through podcasting?

596
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: This is it? It's all downhill from here.

597
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I wouldn't say that.

598
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, well Good luck to you, Lauren.

599
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope it pans out for you. And you

600
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: know it is. It's all about attitude exactly respective Right,

601
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 2: It's not about the job.

602
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 1: It's about what you make of it, right, Yeah, And

603
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's weird, by the way, does anybody

604
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: give a shit about their jobs? Now? It's just like

605
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many places you go into

606
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: or just like yeah, they don't, they don't care.

607
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: Well. I think perspective as shifts since the world went

608
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 2: through this whole pandemic thing. I think a lot of

609
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 2: people are like realized that their job doesn't matter as

610
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 2: much as it used to to people. And I'm not

611
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 2: even saying like you're talking about like bad service. I'm

612
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 2: not talking about that. I'm talking about like quality of life.

613
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 2: Like it's like everybody's like, you know what am I

614
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 2: doing this home?

615
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 3: Right?

616
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 2: Yeah? Exactly what am I doing this for? Because the

617
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: whole thing got shut off? And I was like, oh shit,

618
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 2: what am I going to do here?

619
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Right?

620
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: You know? And then you put your energy into your family,

621
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 2: into your friends, into your livelihood, you know, and then

622
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 2: it was like, oh, you have to go back to work.

623
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 2: And I was like wait, what about all that stuff

624
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 2: that was so important me for two years?

625
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 1: That's why Jiggy, like, you know he did comedy for years. Yes,

626
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: it's just like I'm so glad he's like a chocolate tear.

627
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: Now follow my troop pass.

628
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: You'd be a great chocolate tear.

629
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Speaker 3: I'd be in like the storefront window, like like the

630
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 3: lint chocolate tears being on the chocolate.

631
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,199
Speaker 1: You would always go like this trofling it up.

632
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. But I will say Jiggy had one of the

633
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: most prolific turns during right when you say during the pandemic,

634
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: Jiggy took online comedy made this whole thing with his

635
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 2: Jiggy took he put on shows.

636
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: Oh he did.

637
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 3: I did that Taste funny cooking comedy show online.

638
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: And then you never heard of it.

639
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 2: What did you plate?

640
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 4: You played it in Florida two weeks ago.

641
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: So I think that did help some people who didn't

642
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 2: really have a good career, Like Jiggy was like, you

643
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 2: know what was he doing?

644
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 3: You know, I was making chocolate.

645
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was that was interesting with the uh by

646
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 1: the way, like when pandemic hit, people are like freaking out,

647
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: Like I loved every second of it.

648
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 2: You have to get you have to put pants on.

649
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 2: It was the best comfort pants.

650
00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: Like literally the whole world is not work like everybody,

651
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 1: it's just like, yeah, no one's going to work. I

652
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: loved it. I loved every beat. I would have loved

653
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: it for one another, like another year. I would have

654
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: totally been on board. The one thing I'll say is

655
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 1: we zip through our savings. Yeah, we had a nice

656
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: little I was like, oh, guys, I think we're good,

657
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: and then pandemic hit. But like you know it, it sucked.

658
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Speaker 1: But at the same time, it was like trying to

659
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: take away to watch movies, popcorn.

660
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 2: Every look, it's it wasn't a good experience overall for everybody, right,

661
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 2: or anybody if you think about it, because it did

662
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 2: it did damage. But most of all, I think on

663
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 2: a personal level, it helped people develop in a way

664
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 2: that you can't even You didn't even think you would

665
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: have to. You didn't even think that it would be possible,

666
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 2: because you couldn't imagine like, hey, you're not gonna work

667
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 2: for two years, Like nobody ever thought that without being

668
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:50,360
Speaker 2: like out of a job and trying to get ustle.

669
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, nobody's gonna work for two years. Hey,

670
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 2: the whole world's changing for two years. Sure, so you

671
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 2: have to really realign.

672
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Speaker 1: So but that's when I started plotting January sixth.

673
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's and you did what.

674
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: It worked definitely, Like I think it was pretty successful.

675
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody could take that away from you. No, as

676
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 2: the mastermind behind January saw me.

677
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 1: I still have Pelosi's Uh okay, I get.

678
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:13,479
Speaker 2: The next complet on her drinking glass. You're having all

679
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 2: the bus's glass.

680
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: Wait, did you ever see a video of her and

681
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 1: her husband going up the stairs in their house?

682
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 2: What? Why do you have that video? Do you? Did

683
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 2: you hack their nest camera? No, I'm not making this up.

684
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys there this video saw

685
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: the other day.

686
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: You know.

687
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: I guess the reputation is like she's a she enjoys

688
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: her wine, okay, and her husband and her husband I

689
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: guess he he you know, he got a DUI recently.

690
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: Oh and but they I guess the word on the

691
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: street is that they enjoyed too. And they enjoyed and

692
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,479
Speaker 1: go Belgia. Right, Yeah, they're going up these steps and

693
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: he he's like trying to make it up, and she's

694
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: like trying to make it.

695
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 2: It just really like it looks.

696
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: Like newborn fawns trying to get like like when Bambi

697
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: was on the ice note looked like that. But finally

698
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,719
Speaker 1: she goes up and he's he he like went up

699
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: before her, and she's holding this glass of wine and

700
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: she's like kind it to the top and then you

701
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: just see Paul Pelosi just shoot straight back down, right

702
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: back down, and she just turns around.

703
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 4: She just goes back up.

704
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: I was like, God, damn, these guys party.

705
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 2: Oh there you go. Star's getting the way. That's really it.

706
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: So check that out. Chance here we go. This is

707
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 1: uh Zoe, Hi too go mommies, love you both. I

708
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: listen to your podcast every day at work. It keeps

709
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: me alive. I have two questions for you to.

710
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: Run and Zoe that you have a job after we

711
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: just covered that last thing.

712
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, stop ragging. Okay, how would you deal with a

713
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: toxic work environment? I'm twenty three and every job I've

714
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: had I've ended up in a management or supervisor position.

715
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm great, Okay, relax, you're twenty three. Just chill out. Zoe.

716
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: Grateful to be receiving decent pay, emphasis on decent, but

717
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: everywhere I go, I deal with rude coworkers and attitude

718
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: from fellow management or staff. Honestly, it makes me miserable.

719
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: What's the best way to deal with this?

720
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 2: Job?

721
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: Hopping I've learned never works. And here's a second question.

722
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: Are y'all hiring I'll do anything.

723
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: We don't want you to come and make this work

724
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 2: environment toxic. We're good? Yeah? Yeah, She's like, hey, I

725
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: always have a toxic work environment.

726
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 4: It's not my fault. Can I come work for you?

727
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 2: I would say, well, you're twenty three, right, so you're

728
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 2: still your perspective on, you're still growing as a professional.

729
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: But I also think it's like everybody's toxic, Like that's

730
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: what it's. It seems like you're just like, I'm grateful

731
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: if we're receiving. But everywhere I go, I deal with

732
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: rout coworkers and attitude from fellow management or staff. It

733
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: makes me missing.

734
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: It might be time to look inward. Yeah, I mean,

735
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: here's a rough truth coming at you, Zoe. It might

736
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 2: be time to look a little bit in word. How

737
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: are you dealing with? What is your relationship with? What's

738
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 2: a soona you put on at work? Right? Are you

739
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 2: somebody that people want to work with. Are you somebody

740
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 2: that people just tolerate it work or somebody that people

741
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: don't like it work? Because it's a big thing. It's

742
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: your contributing factor to your workplace environment for sure. And

743
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 2: people that don't think that are are crazy. You know,

744
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 2: workplaces are toxic. Sure, I'm not talking about the extremes.

745
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about the extremes, you know, but that

746
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 2: the extremes are the extremes most of the work. Right.

747
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 2: People don't like to work. People don't want to work,

748
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: but they do what they have to do. Right, So

749
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: you're there doing your what you have to do. Try

750
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: to make that experience as pleasant as you can. Is

751
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 2: the only satisfaction you're getting into going to this job.

752
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can only do the best that you You're

753
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: ultimately in control of yourself and how you handle or

754
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: communicate or respond to situations. Right, And so, I mean

755
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: it must be kind of funny to be like in

756
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: charge of people like hey, Rick, I need this. That

757
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: would just I would laugh at that.

758
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: It would make me come.

759
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 4: I got to make these copies.

760
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: I would say. It's important to remember, like camaraderie is

761
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 2: huge in a job, and you know, these people aren't

762
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 2: going to be like I've had so many work friends

763
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: and at the time it's like they felt like great

764
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 2: best friends for life, forever friends, and then they're not.

765
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 2: They're people that you work with and they're great and

766
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 2: you it makes experience so much better. So I would say,

767
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 2: try to concentrate on, you know, just be nice, civil,

768
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 2: polite two people at work, and then you'll get that

769
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: in return. I feel, you know, you hope to write.

770
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Speaker 1: I remember when we were on the set of Sullivan's

771
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: son Christine Ever saw, you know, two time twenty award

772
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: winning actress, and we're doing a summer sitcom, and she

773
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Speaker 1: she would ask like, on certain at least once an

774
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: episode though for sure, and usually at least once a day,

775
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: she'd have a problem with something in the script and

776
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: she would have to work through it right. And so

777
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 1: other cast members are.

778
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: Like, it's a sitcom, who gives it shoes?

779
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: Just plow through this right, But she was like, she'd

780
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: have to get to the bottom of it, and she'd

781
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: sit with the director and we don't kind of be

782
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: sitting there. This is a cast of nine people. We're

783
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: all just sitting around and and I learned when I

784
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like the lead, so I know if

785
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: I yawn, it looks bad. I know if I get frustrated,

786
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: it looks bad, and it just ripples down. So I

787
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: always kind of like kept it up top and just

788
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: been like try to be cool, you know. And then

789
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: one day it just like a switch. It was like,

790
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: that's her process, that's her process. She's not imposing it

791
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: on anybody she works. It's just how she has to

792
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: execute her job. And I have my process. My process

793
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: is just give it to me. I'll memorize it. And

794
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 1: I was just bang out the line and I just

795
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: don't think too much about it, you know. And that's

796
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: probably why she has two Tony awards how many of you?

797
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: And I'm at Iheart's studio without an award, without anything.

798
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't even you don't even have a key

799
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 2: card to get in here.

800
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 4: You have to get let up.

801
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I learned you don't validate today. But it was like, okay,

802
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: that's your process. And once I understood that, it helped

803
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: me with everything after that, And there was just like

804
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 1: anytime I saw anybody just strategically doing their own thing,

805
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: it was just like, all right, that's if it takes

806
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: ten minutes, it takes an hour. It's like, all right,

807
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: that's how that's how they feel comfortable doing it, and

808
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: they never impose it on you, and you don't impose

809
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: it on them, and you just you know, I'm not

810
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: going to sit there and go once. You just read

811
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: it and just do it right, right right right? Yeah.

812
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: Uh it's like yeah, yeah, patience is key.

813
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: In a workplace, I think so I would say it

814
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 2: is our friend Zoe here. Uh, you know you have

815
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: to be patient too, Like you guys aren't going to

816
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: be besties in each other's like wedding parties, like you know,

817
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: it takes time to build relationships, and you know, you

818
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: have to really get to know people outside their work too.

819
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: So if you want to it's all about how much

820
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 2: effort you put into anything, as is everything in life.

821
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: But if you want to, like you want your workplace

822
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: to be good, you have to put some energy into it.

823
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: It can't just be like we work together, okay, we

824
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 2: have to be No, it's not like you have to

825
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 2: see how people's weekend was and you know, yeah, exact nature,

826
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: you know.

827
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: I mean, I hate to make everything analogous to like

828
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: being on a set or something. But I remember when

829
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: I when I was getting ready to direct the Opening Act,

830
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 1: which is available on iTunes for one on rental. But

831
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: when I when I was getting ready to do it,

832
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: I was just asking everybody, everybody that had done a

833
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: film before, like, what's the piece of advice you give me?

834
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: And Chris Rock was at the store one night. I

835
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: was like, Chris, I'm about to direct this film. What

836
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: would you would you say? And he said, uh, he

837
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: said direct. He said some of the effect of take

838
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: the time to get to know everybody on your crew.

839
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 1: I go, okay, And I would think that goes without

840
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: saying He's like, He's like, because there will be a

841
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: situation in every one of those departments where something goes

842
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: wrong and you're gonna need them.

843
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

844
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, wow, okay, And and what he

845
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: said was right. I mean, every day something, no matter

846
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: how well you plan anything, something's going to go to

847
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: hell and you've got to rectify it and remedy it.

848
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: And you're relying on these guys to kind of like

849
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: figure it out and you can be there to support it.

850
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: But but what I did was every day I made

851
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: an effort to sit down with different departments and different

852
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: people and spend my lunch time with them and got

853
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: to know them and when they should hit the fan, yeah,

854
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: of course. And I don't think it's I don't think

855
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: you'd do it for like, you know, like you want

856
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: to do something for good karma. It's like you're doing

857
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 1: it because also like you're getting to know them, which

858
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: which was very valuable or nice for sure.

859
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 2: I think. I mean we met our crew family basically,

860
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 2: you know, we went, we got in there, not just

861
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: by saying like it made it fun. We were doing

862
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 2: a fun thing, of course, but it's hard work, and

863
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 2: especially it was more hard work for the crew because

864
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 2: they were not in the part of like when it's

865
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 2: time to make jokes, like they're doing all these stupid

866
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: they're building all the stupid stuff.

867
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Speaker 1: They making sure the.

868
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,479
Speaker 2: Cameras they're there hours before it is, they're hours after,

869
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 2: you know. And I would just do things like, you know,

870
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 2: hang out to the trucks loaded a couple of times

871
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 2: a week, right, you know, hang out and be there

872
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: and you know, see how people do everything. And I'd

873
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 2: also make suggestions about maybe ways we could do a

874
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 2: little bit quicker or better and things like that. But

875
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: I would put the work in and then more like

876
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 2: when it came down to him, people weren't happy. They

877
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 2: knew like, come talk to me, let's figure figure out

878
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 2: a way to make it happy. Especially when it came

879
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 2: to money, right, because a lot of these people were

880
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 2: newer into the scene, having negotiated their own things and whatnot,

881
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 2: and you know, it was like, Okay, let's get you

882
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 2: where you need to be sure, or get you on

883
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 2: a path to be like, Okay, this is what we're

884
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: going to do to get you there. Be patient with it,

885
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 2: just so they felt heard. But I think it's important.

886
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 2: You know, I've always worked in a place and even

887
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 2: like one of my best friends in life I met

888
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 2: working the floora north Stroms, you know, DJ Justin Jerry.

889
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 2: I'm sure he's, you know, one of my best friends.

890
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: He is like he started as a guy that I

891
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 2: folded the T shirts with, right, you know what I mean.

892
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 2: And now we're almost fifteen years later, you know, and

893
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: he's a bottom and he is you mean, he folds

894
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 2: the pants. He folds pants now and I fall shirts.

895
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, like he's like he's one of the you know,

896
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 2: one of the dudes. And it just came from a work,

897
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 2: so you never know what's there.

898
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. My point, Zoe is maybe you know when you

899
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: see somebody having lunch, sit down with them, you're stop

900
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: being less toxic. Yeah, it's about you. We're not hiring over. Okay,

901
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: this is coming up from Brian Briley.

902
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a named Briley.

903
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: Very Briley's like it sounds like it sounds like a

904
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: white country club, like like Riley is swimming in the

905
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: this weekend. You know that's a really white Bridley.

906
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 2: Are you yachting this weekend? Of course I'm yachting. It's

907
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: only three weekends left to Labor Day.

908
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: Briley, did you submit to Yale yet or Harvard or

909
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 1: going to neither? What a name?

910
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 2: Oxford only? Okay, Briley, how do I.

911
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: Get jokes off the heart? Because I'm never able to?

912
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 2: Bridley is not good at English?

913
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: No, how do I get jokes off the heart?

914
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: How do I get jokes? Oh? You can go to

915
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app and you listen to our podcast. Is

916
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 2: that what you meant?

917
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't think so. No, how do I get jokes

918
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: off the heart? So I'm never because I'm never.

919
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I think I get it I think she means

920
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 2: she takes him too heart, too much, and like, how

921
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: does she have a thicker skin?

922
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: I think that's what you're saying.

923
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, is that right? I think that that's how

924
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: I'm interpreting it. So let's go with that.

925
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Briley, There's easier ways to communicate this. I mean,

926
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: who writes.

927
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: Like this Bridley does?

928
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: How do I get jokes off the heart? Because I'm

929
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: never able to see what You're.

930
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,439
Speaker 2: Not operating on Bridley's level though only no word she needs.

931
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm a grown man, you know, Briley, I read. I

932
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: have no idea what this means. All right, you do it.

933
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, you do it.

934
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: You do this one. I'm out of here.

935
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 2: It's cool, mom, I would say. If he's taking things

936
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 2: to heart and she can't shake it, she gets hurt

937
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 2: by people's words, That's what I'm saying.

938
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: Is that? Am I out of my mind? That what

939
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: you guys?

940
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 3: I thought you made I thought it was you said

941
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 3: it was a girl.

942
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 2: Oh is it a gy?

943
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 3: I think you said Briley was swimming. He was swimming

944
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 3: down by the lake.

945
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 1: Briley is a dude.

946
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 2: Well, now, I don't know.

947
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 3: I threw it in Google and it could be either.

948
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: But okay, so let's say, okay, so him, so listen,

949
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 2: So Bridley, let's just go with Brie. Bridley is saying,

950
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 2: I interpret that as they take jokes to heart and

951
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 2: they can't shake it.

952
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think I took it as I how do

953
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: I get jokes off the heart? Because I'm never able

954
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: to tell jokes. That's what I thought, tell jokes from

955
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: the heart.

956
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: Ah, that's the room is nodding to that. The room

957
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 2: is nodding to that, which is weird. How do I

958
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 2: tell jokes? Maybe they're asking two comedians how to tell

959
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:53,399
Speaker 2: jokes and.

960
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: Off the heart?

961
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: How do I? All right, let's go with that one.

962
00:39:59,200 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 2: You can't.

963
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 1: You can't teach like you gotta, you know.

964
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,320
Speaker 2: I will say, though, with practice, don't you think it works?

965
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,919
Speaker 2: Don't you think with you got the jokes? A big

966
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 2: percentage of jokes is delivery. Yeah, being able to tell

967
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 2: a joke, and that comes with practice, right, It's like anything, Yes,

968
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: still trying, still trying to make it happen. I saw Yeah,

969
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: I said, I'm gonna beat you to it. I'm still

970
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,760
Speaker 2: working on it. I'll live it in the game for

971
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 2: forty two years.

972
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: I saw that in your big dumb eyeballs. I saw

973
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: my cherub face and your big cherrub my face face.

974
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, you should be more angelic with a cherub face

975
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 2: like yours, but you're not. You're a little devil. That's

976
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying it, Stevie, Devil's.

977
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: Give me the horror.

978
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 2: That's it.

979
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: Well, okay, so so both ways, I think, how do

980
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: you get jokes off the heart? I would I would

981
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: have interpreted it as you want to tell jokes.

982
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: So let's answer it your way and I'll answer it

983
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 2: my way. Yeah, you answer your question. If that's the question,

984
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 2: what's the answer, I would say, Yeah.

985
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: I mean make your friends laugh, goof off, have fun.

986
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: Do your friends. They'll port you. And the more you

987
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: do it, the better you get at it. I think

988
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: if you're looking at it like from a professional level,

989
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 1: like there's always open mics, Yeah, go try it out.

990
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: You got nothing to you got nothing to lose. That's

991
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: that's the great thing about trying it for the first time.

992
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: And I think once you do it for the first time,

993
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: it'll never get It'll never get worse or harder than

994
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,359
Speaker 1: the first time. The first time you do it. It's

995
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: just like it's so confusing, and it's it goes by

996
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: so quick, and all these variables are shooting at you

997
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: and you're just like you don't know how to take it,

998
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: but you're just chasing the laugh. If you get one,

999
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 1: you're off to the races.

1000
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 2: That's it, Okay. My interpretation, okay, was how do I

1001
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: not take jokes to the heart and I get hurt

1002
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 2: by them? How do I be have about a thick skin?

1003
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: I have a thunk Bridley. Just fast forward to the

1004
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: part where you start talking. I don't know.

1005
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: I would say, bry Um, you know it's hard because

1006
00:41:56,080 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: words sting, words hurt, words deep.

1007
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 1: Why are you looking at me like that?

1008
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 2: Because you need to remember that sometimes you big fucking idiot.

1009
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 2: I would say, But I love you, but you're a

1010
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: fucking jerk. Sometimes I would say, briy. It was a

1011
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 2: lesson I had to learn younger in life because I

1012
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 2: got quick fastep. So I remember this very vividly. It

1013
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 2: was when I was like thirteen years old and I

1014
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: had fourteen years old fifteen years old maybe, and I

1015
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 2: had started being funny and I realized I was making

1016
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: people laugh at people instead of making people laugh with

1017
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: people right, and I could cut I'm quick, and I

1018
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 2: just you know, I would just if somebody get if

1019
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 2: I got a giggle on making fun of someone, I

1020
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 2: would just dig deeper and harder. And I remember one

1021
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 2: guy and I'm at the end, he was like and

1022
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 2: he just came up to me. He just looked me

1023
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 2: in the face. He goes, you're not nice, and it

1024
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 2: just hit me and I was like, oh shit, like

1025
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 2: but we were talking about we're all laughing, but like he's not.

1026
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 2: So now, I always look to make sure that every

1027
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 2: you know, the person that you're talking about, would you

1028
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 2: do a good job on you make sure like when

1029
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 2: you're making fun of people, like you make sure they're

1030
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 2: laughing and have a good time, because that's what we do.

1031
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 1: We want to make less. I had to deal yeah

1032
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: on stage, you know you you take your lumps too. Yeah,

1033
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, that's not how you do it right.

1034
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 2: So I would say, if you're getting you know, if

1035
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 2: it's if it is hurtful and someone is hurting you

1036
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 2: that and it's coming from a friend, talk to the

1037
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: friend because they are your friend, you know. And if

1038
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 2: they're making fun of you in a group, because That's

1039
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 2: what it was with me. I was with a group

1040
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 2: of friends. There's one guy we all picked on and

1041
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 2: it was that And no, it's not Murray. Uh you know,

1042
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 2: where's you know, a lovable loser and he was totally

1043
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: game for it. And I actually treated my whole Murray

1044
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 2: relationship way different because of this relationship that I was

1045
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 2: dealing with in high school. Although I did go to

1046
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 2: high school Murray, it still wasn't Murray. But I would say, like,

1047
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 2: you need to remember that as you know, if you

1048
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 2: are getting hurt, you know, empower yourself to not let

1049
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 2: yourself get hurt by people's jokes. And remember if people

1050
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 2: are joking, words are just words. Sticks and stones might

1051
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: break my bones, but you know, at the end of

1052
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 2: the day, live a good life and fuck that person.

1053
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 2: That's what I would say.

1054
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: Steve nailed it.

1055
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 3: I also put into Google who are you? Google said, uh,

1056
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 3: it took that question how to take jokes off the

1057
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 3: heart and said how to stop taking jokes so seriously?

1058
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 3: And it has eleven steps with pictures. So I would say,

1059
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 3: priorly google it.

1060
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: There we go, there you go.

1061
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 2: If we don't know, if this answer didn't happen, you

1062
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 2: got two cool moms and one cool one cool search engine.

1063
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: So thank you, Jiggy GPT appreciate that. That was incredible insight,

1064
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: and thank you for not mentioning any of the eleven steps.

1065
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: You couldn't give us one one.

1066
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: I could have done.

1067
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: Oh well, let me let me.

1068
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 4: Do it out of time.

1069
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: Cool Moms, we appreciate it. Subscribe, rate, review all that

1070
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:47,760
Speaker 1: good stuff. Email us at two Cool Moms Pod at

1071
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:49,760
Speaker 1: gmail dot com.

1072
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,959
Speaker 2: Yes, or follo us on Instagram at two cool Moms Pod.

1073
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 2: You see me your questions there as well. Stevie's dates

1074
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 2: are up for touring, right, yeah, we're all around at

1075
00:44:58,560 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: where where where do people find your tour?

1076
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: It's breagslist and people find mine on Canol Productions. Is that?

1077
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: Is that right?

1078
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 2: Or yeah, you go to Joe Gattoofficial dot com, but

1079
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,880
Speaker 2: it's a redirect to Canoli Productions dot com.

1080
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: Got it. And my new special is on Punch Up Live.

1081
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 2: That's right.

1082
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: I have two specials of CrowdWork and a stand up

1083
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:22,720
Speaker 1: special and also the live Tapical Moms will be released

1084
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: on Punch Up Live very soon.

1085
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and uh, Jiggy is always available for any Kinsonia.

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Speaker 2: To cater not for comedy.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 4: Thanks guys,