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Speaker 1: This runs from B on Facebook. B says, it's almost

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Speaker 1: been a year since my ex and I broke up.

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Speaker 2: We were together.

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Speaker 1: Since high school and I live in a small town,

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Speaker 1: so it's been incredibly difficult for me because we see

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Speaker 1: each other all the time. I'm considering moving to another

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Speaker 1: town to get away from him. Would I be getting

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Speaker 1: up too much to move to get away from him?

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Speaker 1: I see a lot. I see lots of other possible

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Speaker 1: benefits to moving to a big city, so it wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be completely about him.

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Speaker 3: We had a lady that had moved from her city

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Speaker 3: to be with her boyfriend. Now you're moving from a

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Speaker 3: city to avoid your boyfriend. I strongly suggest that you

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Speaker 3: find out where this lady moved to in the Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 3: What you need to find out what movie she moved

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Speaker 3: to in the Strawberry letter, because she's going to break

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Speaker 3: up with the dude to fix cause. And if you

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Speaker 3: start dating that man to fix them calls that was

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Speaker 3: in this Strawberry letter. One of the biggest problems in

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Speaker 3: this letter was there's a cousin that stayed with him,

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Speaker 3: but that that's the same age, and they don't know

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Speaker 3: what's wrong with him. But something wrong with him. You

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Speaker 3: need to you need to research our Strawberry letter and

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Speaker 3: avoid the city that she moved to because you start

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Speaker 3: dating him. I'm telling you right now, it's a man

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Speaker 3: that lived with him, that's the same age, just in

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Speaker 3: that room, and they don't know what's wrong with it.

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Speaker 3: That's all I'm going to say. And if he's yelling

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Speaker 3: at the TV, hit the part about it now, ain't

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Speaker 3: nobody even said that the TV was on. That's why

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Speaker 3: we need to be careful. You need to get in

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Speaker 3: there and find out the facts. You mess around. And

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Speaker 3: if you're dating a man, let me just tell you something.

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Speaker 3: I just give you some facts. He's dating a man

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Speaker 3: and he got a backyard of mechanic shop and he

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Speaker 3: detailed cars, and he got an uncle in there to

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Speaker 3: walk around with his tongue hanging out. That just move

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Speaker 3: on back that a little small at the time.

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Speaker 2: All right, we have time for another. We have another one.

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Speaker 2: This is from.

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Speaker 1: MBB FM. Right all my life, I've been going NonStop.

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Speaker 1: I graduated with top honors from college. Now I have

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Speaker 1: a good job, but don't really have much time in

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Speaker 1: the way of hobbies other than a side business.

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Speaker 2: I've been working on for a couple of years.

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Speaker 1: My friends all have hobbies and spend time traveling, but

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Speaker 1: I only work. I don't really know where to start

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Speaker 1: when it comes to unwinding and just enjoying myself. That's

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Speaker 1: not to say that I don't enjoy working, but I

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Speaker 1: just don't know how to turn off and just relax.

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Speaker 2: Is this comment? How can I learn to just relax?

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Speaker 3: Is this a man that wrote this letter?

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Speaker 2: It says mb MB.

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Speaker 3: Well, the advice would happen the device I gived. I

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Speaker 3: have to know it.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a girl. Yeah, yeah, I think I

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Speaker 2: think it was. I thought it was a guy, really

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 3: But well, if it's a guy, you need a woman.

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Speaker 2: Okay, short, okay.

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Speaker 3: And if it's a woman, you need a man because

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Speaker 3: obviously you ain't got to figure out by yourself whoever

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Speaker 3: MB is, maul and Brando or Monica Bond. You need

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Speaker 3: somebody man to create balance in your life. Now. I know,

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Speaker 3: I know what it is to give you all and

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Speaker 3: all when you're in the come up, and I understand that.

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Speaker 3: But you got to have a balance, man, and I

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Speaker 3: never found that balance. I didn't find a balance until

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Speaker 3: I was forty nine.

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Speaker 1: So let's break this down. I graduated with top honors

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Speaker 1: from college. What we know, right, that could be Monica.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now I have a good job, that's.

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Speaker 1: But I don't really have much in the way of

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Speaker 1: hobbies other than a size business.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: She go all the little ragged air Jackson State stuff.

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Speaker 3: She act like that's all that in the bag of chips.

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Speaker 3: She'd be at all that little ragged air Jackson State

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Speaker 3: stuff trying to blow it off back like this.

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Speaker 1: Everything okay, but we're back to Monica. All my friends

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Speaker 1: have hobbies.

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Speaker 3: All her friends are stuck in Mississippi. I ain't seen

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Speaker 3: the ass go nowhere. And her other friend is Shirley,

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Speaker 3: And you know Shirley don't go no damn well because she.

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Speaker 2: Scared the fly. We'll have more of the steam Harvey

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Speaker 2: Morning Show coming on now.

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Speaker 3: You want to let her be over now since she's

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Speaker 3: got volutin

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Speaker 2: After right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show