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Speaker 1: Jewels Second date Update. I'm a little confused by the
Speaker 1: email that we got in for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: This guy named Rich is on the phone with us
Speaker 1: right now, and he emailed us saying that he wants
Speaker 1: to do a second date update on his girlfriend. But Rich,
Speaker 1: you know that a second date update is just like
Speaker 1: if you win on a date with somebody and they're
Speaker 1: not calling you back, not an actual relationship, right, Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I know. But my girlfriend hasn't talked to me since
Speaker 1: our last date. Okay, I thought it maybe qualified. Okay,
Speaker 1: one date? Does it make her your girlfriend too? We
Speaker 1: also understand that, right, Rich, this is your real girlfriend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was my real girlfriend. We've been on more than
Speaker 1: one date. Okay, you want to make sure you're not
Speaker 1: that clingy type, Rich, Why not try something new and
Speaker 1: do a second date update with someone's actual girlfriend. Okay,
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about your girlfriend. Her name's Emily. Okay,
Speaker 1: we originally matched online. That's how we met each other. Okay,
Speaker 1: and we were like talking on our phones for like
Speaker 1: three weeks, and then the first time we went out,
Speaker 1: it was just like a coffee date. It was like
Speaker 1: very quick, but you know, we really hit it off.
Speaker 1: And a couple days later we went out again for
Speaker 1: a dinner date and it was great, like one of
Speaker 1: the best dates I've ever had. Wait, so, how long
Speaker 1: have you guys been dating? Now? Well, how long have
Speaker 1: we been dating? Yeah? But how long have you been
Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend? I guess I should say so. On our
Speaker 1: last date, we like had the talk and we were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're going to be boyfriend girlfriend And then is that
Speaker 1: your third date you had that talk? No, that was
Speaker 1: our second date where we had to talk. Wait, what
Speaker 1: you went to coffee and then he went to dinner?
Speaker 1: Then suddenly you were in a relationship. Yeah, right, Well,
Speaker 1: you know we had been talking for like weeks. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: seems quick. Well, why why do you think your girlfriend
Speaker 1: isn't calling you back? Now? Did you do something terrible
Speaker 1: on your date? No? I don't think so. I m
Speaker 1: for a second date. It was kind of a big
Speaker 1: deal for me, and I wanted it to go well.
Speaker 1: So I saw on her dating profile that she loved
Speaker 1: Ryan Gosling, So for the dinner date, I came to
Speaker 1: dinner with like a gift basket full of Ryan Gosling movies.
Speaker 1: It's not a bad idea. She likes Ryan Gossling. She's
Speaker 1: gonna be thinking about him the whole time while she's
Speaker 1: with you. But fably exactly. Yeah, she loved it. She
Speaker 1: thought it was really funny. She thought it was sweet.
Speaker 1: And then after dinner I asked her, you know, I
Speaker 1: have a DVD player at my place. You want to
Speaker 1: go back and watch one of these Ryan Gosling movies?
Speaker 1: And yeah, we went back. We watched Crazy Stupid Love.
Speaker 1: You know, we started making out a little bit, and
Speaker 1: then we made out for a while and then we
Speaker 1: had the talk as like you stopped in the middle
Speaker 1: of your makeout session and did she bring it up
Speaker 1: or did you bring it up? I brought it up?
Speaker 1: What did you say? I was like, you know, what
Speaker 1: are we are? We like just making out? Are we
Speaker 1: like dating or okay? And what was her response? I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, it took a while and we like went
Speaker 1: back and forth, but we decided to make it official.
Speaker 1: What was the vibe when you decided that you're passionate.
Speaker 1: I think, you know, I think, like I know, he
Speaker 1: just blushed. Did you hear that? I mean I was
Speaker 1: obviously like nervous because it's a big conversation and like
Speaker 1: a big deal. But in the end we decided to
Speaker 1: make it official. Okay, So is that the last time
Speaker 1: you talked to her? Yeah, That's why I'm so perplexed,
Speaker 1: because like it went really well, and I've been texting
Speaker 1: her and like calling her, and she I haven't heard
Speaker 1: back from her in like eight days. Whoa, maybe she
Speaker 1: doesn't know how relationships work. Yeah, let's make an official. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if we're like broken up or you know,
Speaker 1: if she's like out of town maybe or something. So
Speaker 1: she didn't break up with you, she just stopped talking
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah. I haven't heard back from her. The
Speaker 1: last time we talked was on our date. And prior
Speaker 1: to your second date, were you guys texting daily? Yeah? Yeah, totally. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's definitely a notable difference. Yeah, And I mean,
Speaker 1: if I know Emily, she wouldn't do this. She's not
Speaker 1: this kind of girl. Okay. After two dates? All right,
Speaker 1: all right, any idea what could have happened? I mean,
Speaker 1: I wonder if she's safe. Do you know that she's
Speaker 1: alive still? Yeah, yeah, no, I know from Facebook, like
Speaker 1: she's still, she's still around. I just she hasn't gotten
Speaker 1: back to me. And you're sure you didn't freak her
Speaker 1: out and she was just agreeing with you to like
Speaker 1: not make it awkward. I don't know, but I mean,
Speaker 1: she said she wanted to be my girlfriend. All right,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, it's your girlfriend. You know her better
Speaker 1: than we did. All right, Well we'll play a song
Speaker 1: and then come back and call your girlfriend and find
Speaker 1: out why she's dodging you. Okay, great, thanks, yep, you're
Speaker 1: welcome to it. Right after this broking Jubil in the Morning. Well,
Speaker 1: this is definitely a first for the second Date update,
Speaker 1: you know, and here at Brook and Jubil in the Morning,
Speaker 1: we're always trying to break the mold, so much so
Speaker 1: that now our segments aren't even about what they're supposed
Speaker 1: to be about at all, because it's the second Date update.
Speaker 1: But we're about to call Emily because Emily is Rich's girlfriend.
Speaker 1: They've been dating for a few weeks. I guess they've
Speaker 1: gone out twice, but they have had the talk like
Speaker 1: if their boyfriend and girlfriend, and she said yes, and
Speaker 1: now she's not calling him back. Ever since the last
Speaker 1: time they hung out, she hasn't talked to him. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her and see if we can figure
Speaker 1: out why. Rich, are you ready to call your lady? Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's do it. Okay, segment, where's my girlfriend? I mean,
Speaker 1: you're pretty rational about all this, But if it is
Speaker 1: true that since she hasn't talked to you in eight days,
Speaker 1: she's like trying to break up with you, how are
Speaker 1: you going to feel? I mean, I feel like we
Speaker 1: can work through it, you know, I feel like we
Speaker 1: have a real connection. Okay, So this is more couples
Speaker 1: counseling than second date update, or maybe a mix of
Speaker 1: both here, if that's what it has to be, all right.
Speaker 1: You know, I think I'm the only person in this
Speaker 1: room that actually has done couples councling. I tell this
Speaker 1: right now, Rich, just be wrong. You're wrong every time. Okay,
Speaker 1: so say sorry and you'd be good. Okay, that's really effective. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's great. Yeah, all right, I'm gonna dollar phone number
Speaker 1: right now and see if we can figure out why
Speaker 1: your girlfriend has stopped talking to you. Here, we go Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi is this Emily? Yes, Hey, Emily? How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry who Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Um, oh okay, how can I
Speaker 1: help you? So small dog? Yeah? You got a dog
Speaker 1: or something back there. Now I don't have a dog.
Speaker 1: Oh weird. It sounds like there's like a some whistle
Speaker 1: whining or somebody whistling for a dog or something. Anyway,
Speaker 1: that's not the reason we called you. Yeah, I'm calling
Speaker 1: you today because somebody sent us an email about you.
Speaker 1: Why would somebody send you an email about me? Because
Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show it's called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update. That's where if you go out on
Speaker 1: a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off,
Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and ask what happened? Are you serious? Yeah, we got
Speaker 1: an email about you? What's that? I don't know quite
Speaker 1: a few people, Yeah, yeah, we have done a lot
Speaker 1: of these, and I guess this is a little different though,
Speaker 1: because the guy that emailed us about you is your
Speaker 1: boyfriend and he's wondering why you're not talking to him. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't have a boyfriend. Is that because
Speaker 1: you just broke up with somebody by stopping talking to them? Um? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure. Or are you guys talking about?
Speaker 1: Like I don't recall having a boyfriend? Okay, and now
Speaker 1: are you the type of person that remembers that type
Speaker 1: of thing? I think I would. I think that would
Speaker 1: be important in my life. Like, oh, by the way,
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend, but now I don't have one.
Speaker 1: Maybe we're talking to the wrong person. Maybe you are,
Speaker 1: Maybe I dial the phone, I'm wrong. You know a
Speaker 1: well named right? Do you know a guy named rich?
Speaker 1: He's the guy that you guys are talking about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he says he's your boyfriend. Are you guys serious? Ye?
Speaker 1: Are you laughing? I thought he was your boyfriend. Oh guys, okay,
Speaker 1: now he's totally not my boyfriend. Okay, he totally thinks
Speaker 1: he's your boyfriend. Yeah. He might think a lot of things,
Speaker 1: that is not one of them at all. So how
Speaker 1: can you go out on a couple of dates and
Speaker 1: call somebody like boyfriend or girlfriend? That's like ridiculous. I
Speaker 1: mean I thought it was fast, but you know what,
Speaker 1: some people do things differently than I do. Now, that's
Speaker 1: a little psychotics. That's that's a little out there. Did
Speaker 1: you just call the psychotic? Psychotic? Is kind of like
Speaker 1: some of the stuff he has been doing the past
Speaker 1: two days. Like he's blowing up my phone texting me.
Speaker 1: He sent me a Facebook request that we were in
Speaker 1: our relationship and that was totally a joke. And then
Speaker 1: I go on my Instagram and he's putting pepeture yourself
Speaker 1: us by the way, there's like two of them, but
Speaker 1: on the captions he's putting me as his girlfriend, And like,
Speaker 1: after two dates, you don't sound like you're about that. No,
Speaker 1: he's a really nice guy. Like, don't get me wrong,
Speaker 1: he's a really really nice guy, but there is no
Speaker 1: reason for me to like be boyfriend and girlfriend with
Speaker 1: anyone after I just like made out with them one time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's also actually on the phone right now and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you, So there is that too. Are
Speaker 1: you serious? Yea, Rich are you there? Yeah, I'm here, Emily, sweetheart.
Speaker 1: I don't get why you're saying all of this. Okay, Rich,
Speaker 1: listen to me. You're really nice and you're really sweet,
Speaker 1: and I totally had a blast, but honey, you can't
Speaker 1: slow up someone's phone after two dates, Like you just
Speaker 1: can't do that. I'm sorry. I mean you can if
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship. I was worried about you. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, what like, who's in a relationship with who? Here?
Speaker 1: I don't have a relation on it with you. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. We had the talk, we made an
Speaker 1: official where are you talking about? What's after? Remember when
Speaker 1: we were done making out after the last time we
Speaker 1: went out it was going great, and I asked you,
Speaker 1: is it okay if I call you my girlfriend now?
Speaker 1: And you said yes? Oh my god, Dad's what you think.
Speaker 1: The talk was, like, are you serious right now? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean now, I just feel like you're trying to
Speaker 1: make me feel stupid in front of everyone. Okay, I
Speaker 1: would actually back rich on that. That sounds like the
Speaker 1: talk to me, like can't I call you my girlfriend?
Speaker 1: And you said yes, yeah, exactly. No I said sure,
Speaker 1: and I laughed like, oh, okay, sure or whatever, but no, like, yes,
Speaker 1: you are my boyfriend. Like I'm sorry, I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to make you sound stupid, but that's a little bit
Speaker 1: too much for me. No, that's not how I remember it.
Speaker 1: I we it was like a special moment we were connecting,
Speaker 1: you know, And now I just feel like I'm trying
Speaker 1: to communicate and I'm trying to make this relationship work,
Speaker 1: and you know, you're just putting up wall. Okay, listen,
Speaker 1: there is no like walls. They're wall. So next sist, Rich,
Speaker 1: They're not there because there's nothing there. Do you understand? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean I guess that we're like having an argument
Speaker 1: right now. I think this is different than an argument. Okay, Rich,
Speaker 1: it's weird after two dates that you text me that
Speaker 1: your parents want to meet me, Like, I'm sorry, Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I mean, I love is crazy, you know right now, dude,
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to meet anyone's parents after two days,
Speaker 1: it's extra. I mean, my parents knew each other for
Speaker 1: a month when they got engaged, and like Emily and
Speaker 1: I have known each other for more than a month
Speaker 1: now since we like matched, there's no parents. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm glad we're communicating about it now. At least. I
Speaker 1: feel like, if you don't want to meet my parents,
Speaker 1: then you should tell me that you know. Rich, Rich, No,
Speaker 1: I think she's saying that she's not your girlfriend. I
Speaker 1: think she's saying that she doesn't want anything to do
Speaker 1: with you at all. Emily, is that really what you're saying, sweetheart?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I kind of have been saying that
Speaker 1: this whole time, like me not texting you for a week,
Speaker 1: you would like give you that response. Rich, you cannot
Speaker 1: be this naive. But that's why I had to talk,
Speaker 1: you know, and we made it official. We did know.
Speaker 1: I was laughing hysterically, Rich, like I was literally bending down,
Speaker 1: like my stomach hurt, and I was like, say, okay,
Speaker 1: sure whatever, Like I thought you were seriously joking like
Speaker 1: nobody ever as a boyfriend or girlfriend our relationship like
Speaker 1: you say after two dates just made out once, Like
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly sad you were kidding. You know, Emily,
Speaker 1: we can agree to disagree, but I know what happened. Okay, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't want to lead you, but this
Speaker 1: is way too much for me. This is way too
Speaker 1: freaky and that I don't need that right now. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, you know, I totally get what you're saying.
Speaker 1: We're going too fast, and like I get that, you
Speaker 1: know it's not time and when the time is right,
Speaker 1: you'll meet them. Oh, go like, oh my gosh, like
Speaker 1: we are not in a relationship. I'm not your girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Please stop texting me and calling me. I'm sorry, you
Speaker 1: know what. I hear you, Emily. I hear you, and
Speaker 1: that's why I want to ask you if you'll go
Speaker 1: out on a second day with Rich both of us,
Speaker 1: so we will pay for a second day. No. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: not to scream it. No, she doesn't want anything to
Speaker 1: do with him at all. Wow, Emily, I can't believe
Speaker 1: you're saying this after all we've been through. I just
Speaker 1: said we went out on two dates. Why we went through.
Speaker 1: You're a nice guy, but please just let it go,
Speaker 1: move on with your life, and just you know, stop
Speaker 1: blowing up my phone. That would be nice. When you're
Speaker 1: gonna text me write it out and then deleted. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that at least you can feel like you're saying
Speaker 1: it Rich Rich. Obviously you're not getting a second date,
Speaker 1: and I hope now you understand that Emily is not
Speaker 1: your girlfriend. Yeah. I mean, look, Emily, I know this
Speaker 1: has gotten weird, but I get that you're angry. And
Speaker 1: I won't reach out to you because I get that
Speaker 1: you don't want me to. But I'll be by the
Speaker 1: phone when you want to get back together together in
Speaker 1: the morning. Text in at seven, eight, five, and nine
Speaker 1: two says, I think that guy was on the wrong segment.
Speaker 1: He should have been on the Loser Line, Broken Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning talking about today's second date update if
Speaker 1: you missed it. Rich wanted to call Emily. Emily is
Speaker 1: his girlfriend and she wasn't calling him back? Or was she?
Speaker 1: We got her on the phone and she said that
Speaker 1: she was just joking. He said that they actually did
Speaker 1: have the talk because we first started talking to We're like, okay,
Speaker 1: how's your girlfriend not calling you back? He said that
Speaker 1: day were making out after one of their dates and
Speaker 1: then he said that they should be boyfriend and girlfriend
Speaker 1: and she said yes, So he thought they had the talk.
Speaker 1: But when who called her, she says that she was
Speaker 1: just joking and she thought that he was trying to
Speaker 1: be funny, and so she's like, yeah, sure or whatever,
Speaker 1: we can be together? Haha, No, absolutely not. We've only
Speaker 1: been on like two dates. And then she was creeped
Speaker 1: out because he was trying to get her to meet
Speaker 1: his parents and he tried making their status official on
Speaker 1: social media, so she was like, oh man, this guy
Speaker 1: does actually want to be my boyfriend, and it's way
Speaker 1: too early. We talked to both of them and he
Speaker 1: still didn't get it. At the end of it, he
Speaker 1: said he was sure that they would work things out
Speaker 1: because that's what healthy couples do. I thought it was
Speaker 1: just a little dumb, but I think it turns out
Speaker 1: he's just a little scary. Yeah, that was a frightening
Speaker 1: He's really hopefully they can figure it out. You know,
Speaker 1: those two crazy love birds. He'll be out in the
Speaker 1: bush outside her home, their first little tiff, a little fight. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second at updated, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back to