WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Shes My GF

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<v Speaker 1>Jewels Second date Update. I'm a little confused by the

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<v Speaker 1>email that we got in for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy named Rich is on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and he emailed us saying that he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update on his girlfriend. But Rich,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that a second date update is just like

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<v Speaker 1>if you win on a date with somebody and they're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back, not an actual relationship, right, Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. But my girlfriend hasn't talked to me since

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<v Speaker 1>our last date. Okay, I thought it maybe qualified. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>one date? Does it make her your girlfriend too? We

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<v Speaker 1>also understand that, right, Rich, this is your real girlfriend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was my real girlfriend. We've been on more than

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<v Speaker 1>one date. Okay, you want to make sure you're not

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<v Speaker 1>that clingy type, Rich, Why not try something new and

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update with someone's actual girlfriend. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about your girlfriend. Her name's Emily. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we originally matched online. That's how we met each other. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were like talking on our phones for like

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks, and then the first time we went out,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like a coffee date. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>very quick, but you know, we really hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>And a couple days later we went out again for

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner date and it was great, like one of

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<v Speaker 1>the best dates I've ever had. Wait, so, how long

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<v Speaker 1>have you guys been dating? Now? Well, how long have

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<v Speaker 1>we been dating? Yeah? But how long have you been

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend girlfriend? I guess I should say so. On our

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<v Speaker 1>last date, we like had the talk and we were like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to be boyfriend girlfriend And then is that

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<v Speaker 1>your third date you had that talk? No, that was

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<v Speaker 1>our second date where we had to talk. Wait, what

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<v Speaker 1>you went to coffee and then he went to dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>Then suddenly you were in a relationship. Yeah, right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we had been talking for like weeks. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>seems quick. Well, why why do you think your girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>isn't calling you back? Now? Did you do something terrible

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<v Speaker 1>on your date? No? I don't think so. I m

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. It was kind of a big

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<v Speaker 1>deal for me, and I wanted it to go well.

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<v Speaker 1>So I saw on her dating profile that she loved

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Gosling, So for the dinner date, I came to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with like a gift basket full of Ryan Gosling movies.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a bad idea. She likes Ryan Gossling. She's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be thinking about him the whole time while she's

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<v Speaker 1>with you. But fably exactly. Yeah, she loved it. She

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was really funny. She thought it was sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after dinner I asked her, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a DVD player at my place. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>go back and watch one of these Ryan Gosling movies?

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, we went back. We watched Crazy Stupid Love.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we started making out a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we made out for a while and then we

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<v Speaker 1>had the talk as like you stopped in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of your makeout session and did she bring it up

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<v Speaker 1>or did you bring it up? I brought it up?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you say? I was like, you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>are we are? We like just making out? Are we

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<v Speaker 1>like dating or okay? And what was her response? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it took a while and we like went

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth, but we decided to make it official.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the vibe when you decided that you're passionate.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, I think, like I know, he

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<v Speaker 1>just blushed. Did you hear that? I mean I was

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<v Speaker 1>obviously like nervous because it's a big conversation and like

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. But in the end we decided to

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<v Speaker 1>make it official. Okay, So is that the last time

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<v Speaker 1>you talked to her? Yeah, That's why I'm so perplexed,

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<v Speaker 1>because like it went really well, and I've been texting

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<v Speaker 1>her and like calling her, and she I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>back from her in like eight days. Whoa, maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know how relationships work. Yeah, let's make an official. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we're like broken up or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if she's like out of town maybe or something. So

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't break up with you, she just stopped talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Yeah. I haven't heard back from her. The

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<v Speaker 1>last time we talked was on our date. And prior

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<v Speaker 1>to your second date, were you guys texting daily? Yeah? Yeah, totally. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's definitely a notable difference. Yeah, And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if I know Emily, she wouldn't do this. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of girl. Okay. After two dates? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, any idea what could have happened? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if she's safe. Do you know that she's

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<v Speaker 1>alive still? Yeah, yeah, no, I know from Facebook, like

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<v Speaker 1>she's still, she's still around. I just she hasn't gotten

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<v Speaker 1>back to me. And you're sure you didn't freak her

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<v Speaker 1>out and she was just agreeing with you to like

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<v Speaker 1>not make it awkward. I don't know, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she wanted to be my girlfriend. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, it's your girlfriend. You know her better

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<v Speaker 1>than we did. All right, Well we'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back and call your girlfriend and find

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<v Speaker 1>out why she's dodging you. Okay, great, thanks, yep, you're

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to it. Right after this broking Jubil in the Morning. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is definitely a first for the second Date update,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and here at Brook and Jubil in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>we're always trying to break the mold, so much so

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<v Speaker 1>that now our segments aren't even about what they're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be about at all, because it's the second Date update.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're about to call Emily because Emily is Rich's girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>They've been dating for a few weeks. I guess they've

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<v Speaker 1>gone out twice, but they have had the talk like

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<v Speaker 1>if their boyfriend and girlfriend, and she said yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>now she's not calling him back. Ever since the last

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<v Speaker 1>time they hung out, she hasn't talked to him. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call her and see if we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why. Rich, are you ready to call your lady? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Okay, segment, where's my girlfriend? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're pretty rational about all this, But if it is

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<v Speaker 1>true that since she hasn't talked to you in eight days,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like trying to break up with you, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you going to feel? I mean, I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>can work through it, you know, I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>have a real connection. Okay, So this is more couples

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<v Speaker 1>counseling than second date update, or maybe a mix of

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<v Speaker 1>both here, if that's what it has to be, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I think I'm the only person in this

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<v Speaker 1>room that actually has done couples councling. I tell this

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Rich, just be wrong. You're wrong every time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so say sorry and you'd be good. Okay, that's really effective. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's great. Yeah, all right, I'm gonna dollar phone number

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<v Speaker 1>right now and see if we can figure out why

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend has stopped talking to you. Here, we go Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Emily? Yes, Hey, Emily? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry who Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Um, oh okay, how can I

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<v Speaker 1>help you? So small dog? Yeah? You got a dog

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<v Speaker 1>or something back there. Now I don't have a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh weird. It sounds like there's like a some whistle

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<v Speaker 1>whining or somebody whistling for a dog or something. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the reason we called you. Yeah, I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you today because somebody sent us an email about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would somebody send you an email about me? Because

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on our show it's called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. That's where if you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off,

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what happened? Are you serious? Yeah, we got

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<v Speaker 1>an email about you? What's that? I don't know quite

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<v Speaker 1>a few people, Yeah, yeah, we have done a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these, and I guess this is a little different though,

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<v Speaker 1>because the guy that emailed us about you is your

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend and he's wondering why you're not talking to him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't have a boyfriend. Is that because

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<v Speaker 1>you just broke up with somebody by stopping talking to them? Um? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really sure. Or are you guys talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't recall having a boyfriend? Okay, and now

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<v Speaker 1>are you the type of person that remembers that type

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<v Speaker 1>of thing? I think I would. I think that would

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<v Speaker 1>be important in my life. Like, oh, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a boyfriend, but now I don't have one.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we're talking to the wrong person. Maybe you are,

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I dial the phone, I'm wrong. You know a

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<v Speaker 1>well named right? Do you know a guy named rich?

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<v Speaker 1>He's the guy that you guys are talking about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he says he's your boyfriend. Are you guys serious? Ye?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you laughing? I thought he was your boyfriend. Oh guys, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now he's totally not my boyfriend. Okay, he totally thinks

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<v Speaker 1>he's your boyfriend. Yeah. He might think a lot of things,

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<v Speaker 1>that is not one of them at all. So how

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<v Speaker 1>can you go out on a couple of dates and

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<v Speaker 1>call somebody like boyfriend or girlfriend? That's like ridiculous. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I thought it was fast, but you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>some people do things differently than I do. Now, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a little psychotics. That's that's a little out there. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you just call the psychotic? Psychotic? Is kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>some of the stuff he has been doing the past

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<v Speaker 1>two days. Like he's blowing up my phone texting me.

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<v Speaker 1>He sent me a Facebook request that we were in

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship and that was totally a joke. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I go on my Instagram and he's putting pepeture yourself

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<v Speaker 1>us by the way, there's like two of them, but

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<v Speaker 1>on the captions he's putting me as his girlfriend, And like,

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<v Speaker 1>after two dates, you don't sound like you're about that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a really nice guy. Like, don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a really really nice guy, but there is no

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<v Speaker 1>reason for me to like be boyfriend and girlfriend with

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<v Speaker 1>anyone after I just like made out with them one time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's also actually on the phone right now and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you, So there is that too. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? Yea, Rich are you there? Yeah, I'm here, Emily, sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get why you're saying all of this. Okay, Rich,

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<v Speaker 1>listen to me. You're really nice and you're really sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>and I totally had a blast, but honey, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>slow up someone's phone after two dates, Like you just

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that. I'm sorry. I mean you can if

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a relationship. I was worried about you. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, what like, who's in a relationship with who? Here?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a relation on it with you. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. We had the talk, we made an

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<v Speaker 1>official where are you talking about? What's after? Remember when

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<v Speaker 1>we were done making out after the last time we

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<v Speaker 1>went out it was going great, and I asked you,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay if I call you my girlfriend now?

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<v Speaker 1>And you said yes? Oh my god, Dad's what you think.

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<v Speaker 1>The talk was, like, are you serious right now? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean now, I just feel like you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make me feel stupid in front of everyone. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>would actually back rich on that. That sounds like the

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me, like can't I call you my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>And you said yes, yeah, exactly. No I said sure,

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<v Speaker 1>and I laughed like, oh, okay, sure or whatever, but no, like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you are my boyfriend. Like I'm sorry, I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make you sound stupid, but that's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>too much for me. No, that's not how I remember it.

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<v Speaker 1>I we it was like a special moment we were connecting,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And now I just feel like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to communicate and I'm trying to make this relationship work,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, you're just putting up wall. Okay, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>there is no like walls. They're wall. So next sist, Rich,

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<v Speaker 1>They're not there because there's nothing there. Do you understand? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess that we're like having an argument

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I think this is different than an argument. Okay, Rich,

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird after two dates that you text me that

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<v Speaker 1>your parents want to meet me, Like, I'm sorry, Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I love is crazy, you know right now, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't want to meet anyone's parents after two days,

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<v Speaker 1>it's extra. I mean, my parents knew each other for

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<v Speaker 1>a month when they got engaged, and like Emily and

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<v Speaker 1>I have known each other for more than a month

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<v Speaker 1>now since we like matched, there's no parents. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad we're communicating about it now. At least. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, if you don't want to meet my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>then you should tell me that you know. Rich, Rich, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's saying that she's not your girlfriend. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's saying that she doesn't want anything to do

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<v Speaker 1>with you at all. Emily, is that really what you're saying, sweetheart?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I kind of have been saying that

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<v Speaker 1>this whole time, like me not texting you for a week,

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<v Speaker 1>you would like give you that response. Rich, you cannot

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<v Speaker 1>be this naive. But that's why I had to talk,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and we made it official. We did know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was laughing hysterically, Rich, like I was literally bending down,

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<v Speaker 1>like my stomach hurt, and I was like, say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>sure whatever, Like I thought you were seriously joking like

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<v Speaker 1>nobody ever as a boyfriend or girlfriend our relationship like

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<v Speaker 1>you say after two dates just made out once, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly sad you were kidding. You know, Emily,

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<v Speaker 1>we can agree to disagree, but I know what happened. Okay, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I didn't want to lead you, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is way too much for me. This is way too

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<v Speaker 1>freaky and that I don't need that right now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Yeah, you know, I totally get what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going too fast, and like I get that, you

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<v Speaker 1>know it's not time and when the time is right,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll meet them. Oh, go like, oh my gosh, like

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<v Speaker 1>we are not in a relationship. I'm not your girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Please stop texting me and calling me. I'm sorry, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. I hear you, Emily. I hear you, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I want to ask you if you'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second day with Rich both of us,

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<v Speaker 1>so we will pay for a second day. No. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>not to scream it. No, she doesn't want anything to

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<v Speaker 1>do with him at all. Wow, Emily, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying this after all we've been through. I just

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<v Speaker 1>said we went out on two dates. Why we went through.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a nice guy, but please just let it go,

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<v Speaker 1>move on with your life, and just you know, stop

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<v Speaker 1>blowing up my phone. That would be nice. When you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna text me write it out and then deleted. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that at least you can feel like you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>it Rich Rich. Obviously you're not getting a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope now you understand that Emily is not

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend. Yeah. I mean, look, Emily, I know this

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<v Speaker 1>has gotten weird, but I get that you're angry. And

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<v Speaker 1>I won't reach out to you because I get that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want me to. But I'll be by the

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<v Speaker 1>phone when you want to get back together together in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Text in at seven, eight, five, and nine

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<v Speaker 1>two says, I think that guy was on the wrong segment.

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<v Speaker 1>He should have been on the Loser Line, Broken Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning talking about today's second date update if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it. Rich wanted to call Emily. Emily is

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<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend and she wasn't calling him back? Or was she?

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<v Speaker 1>We got her on the phone and she said that

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<v Speaker 1>she was just joking. He said that they actually did

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<v Speaker 1>have the talk because we first started talking to We're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how's your girlfriend not calling you back? He said that

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<v Speaker 1>day were making out after one of their dates and

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<v Speaker 1>then he said that they should be boyfriend and girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and she said yes, So he thought they had the talk.

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<v Speaker 1>But when who called her, she says that she was

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<v Speaker 1>just joking and she thought that he was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be funny, and so she's like, yeah, sure or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>we can be together? Haha, No, absolutely not. We've only

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<v Speaker 1>been on like two dates. And then she was creeped

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<v Speaker 1>out because he was trying to get her to meet

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<v Speaker 1>his parents and he tried making their status official on

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<v Speaker 1>social media, so she was like, oh man, this guy

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<v Speaker 1>does actually want to be my boyfriend, and it's way

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<v Speaker 1>too early. We talked to both of them and he

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<v Speaker 1>still didn't get it. At the end of it, he

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<v Speaker 1>said he was sure that they would work things out

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what healthy couples do. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little dumb, but I think it turns out

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<v Speaker 1>he's just a little scary. Yeah, that was a frightening

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<v Speaker 1>He's really hopefully they can figure it out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>those two crazy love birds. He'll be out in the

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<v Speaker 1>bush outside her home, their first little tiff, a little fight. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second at updated, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back to