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Speaker 1: Jewels Second date Update. I'm a little confused by the

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Speaker 1: email that we got in for today's second date update.

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Speaker 1: This guy named Rich is on the phone with us

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Speaker 1: you know that a second date update is just like

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Speaker 1: I know. But my girlfriend hasn't talked to me since

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Speaker 1: our last date. Okay, I thought it maybe qualified. Okay,

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Speaker 1: one date? Does it make her your girlfriend too? We

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Speaker 1: also understand that, right, Rich, this is your real girlfriend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she was my real girlfriend. We've been on more than

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Speaker 1: do a second date update with someone's actual girlfriend. Okay,

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Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about your girlfriend. Her name's Emily. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we originally matched online. That's how we met each other. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we been dating? Yeah? But how long have you been

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Speaker 1: your third date you had that talk? No, that was

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Speaker 1: our second date where we had to talk. Wait, what

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Speaker 1: Then suddenly you were in a relationship. Yeah, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: on your date? No? I don't think so. I m

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Speaker 1: And then after dinner I asked her, you know, I

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Speaker 1: And yeah, we went back. We watched Crazy Stupid Love.

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Speaker 1: You know, we started making out a little bit, and

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Speaker 1: doesn't know how relationships work. Yeah, let's make an official. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But we're about to call Emily because Emily is Rich's girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: They've been dating for a few weeks. I guess they've

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Speaker 1: right now, Rich, just be wrong. You're wrong every time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Emily? Yes, Hey, Emily? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry who Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Um, oh okay, how can I

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Speaker 1: help you? So small dog? Yeah? You got a dog

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Speaker 1: that's not the reason we called you. Yeah, I'm calling

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Speaker 1: Why would somebody send you an email about me? Because

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. That's where if you go out on

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Speaker 1: and ask what happened? Are you serious? Yeah, we got

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Speaker 1: Maybe I dial the phone, I'm wrong. You know a

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Speaker 1: well named right? Do you know a guy named rich?

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Speaker 1: He's the guy that you guys are talking about. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he says he's your boyfriend. Are you guys serious? Ye?

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Speaker 1: I don't have a relation on it with you. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: The talk was, like, are you serious right now? Well,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I kind of have been saying that

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Speaker 1: Please stop texting me and calling me. I'm sorry, you

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