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Speaker 1: sh dot com Rooking Jewels. Second Dato date. The guy
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date up date today
Speaker 1: feels like he was the victim of a pity date.
Speaker 1: You know what that is where somebody goes out with
Speaker 1: you just because they know that you like them a lot,
Speaker 1: so they throw you a bone and then never call
Speaker 1: you again. That's what he's worried about. His name is Dave. Dave.
Speaker 1: I've been out on a lot of pity dates in
Speaker 1: my day, a lot of them. Yeah, it's usually me
Speaker 1: taking pity on the girl, all right, you know, sure, fine,
Speaker 1: all right, if you keep asking, I guess I'll go
Speaker 1: out with you. So I've never been in your shoes, Dave.
Speaker 1: But first of all, tell us a little bit about
Speaker 1: the girl that you went out with. What's her name?
Speaker 1: So her name is Emma, And okay, we worked together
Speaker 1: for three years and I always liked her. You know,
Speaker 1: she's she's got freckles and red hair. She's just so
Speaker 1: cute and so the whole time we were we got
Speaker 1: along great. Yeah, did you guys flirt at work? I
Speaker 1: thought we? Did you feel like she liked you? Um? Well,
Speaker 1: she's like, she's no longer here. So I mean, so
Speaker 1: after your date she quit? Well she had put Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess, I mean put in. What do you Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm very confused now, Dave. All Right, your email said
Speaker 1: that she was a co worker. You guys worked together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I mean she found another job. She said she
Speaker 1: was leaving for another better job. Okay. And and this
Speaker 1: is before your date or after your date. She found
Speaker 1: the job before our date, but she left right after
Speaker 1: her date. Okay, okay, all right, that was just the
Speaker 1: confusing part. So did you feel like you guys were
Speaker 1: flirty at work when she was there? I did. Why
Speaker 1: Why did it take you three years to work up
Speaker 1: enough courage to ask her out? Well? I don't know,
Speaker 1: because she's not the like one night stand kind of girl.
Speaker 1: You know, she's somebody that I really liked and thought
Speaker 1: it could go. I don't know, progress some more. Let
Speaker 1: me ask you a question, Dave. Yeah, you got a
Speaker 1: lot of one night stand girls in your life, because
Speaker 1: I can't picture you really looking up a lot of
Speaker 1: one night stands. Man, I'm not trying to be mean. No,
Speaker 1: you know that's not just that's just not me. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, So what'd you guys do on your date? Well,
Speaker 1: first of all, how did you finally get up the
Speaker 1: courage to ask her out? Then? Well, uh, it was
Speaker 1: her last day and she was in the break room. Oh,
Speaker 1: I just it's now or never, So I uh, I
Speaker 1: approached her and I told her that I know we've
Speaker 1: been friends for this long. I've liked you since the
Speaker 1: moment I saw you, and I'd hate to have you
Speaker 1: leave without me doing this. So you know, I know
Speaker 1: I would regret it if I didn't do it. I said,
Speaker 1: will you go out to dinner with me tonight? Did
Speaker 1: you say it exactly like that, will you go out
Speaker 1: to dinner with me tonight? Or was it a little
Speaker 1: smoother than that day? Ah? I guess it was a
Speaker 1: little like that. I mean, if you gave her all
Speaker 1: that other information about how you've wanted to ask her
Speaker 1: out since day one, what was her reaction? I mean,
Speaker 1: did she seem taken aback or was she kind of like, oh, uh,
Speaker 1: I guess a little both. That's why. Uh, I don't
Speaker 1: know if it was pity or if it was like
Speaker 1: she was swept off her feet sort of thing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You so you can't tell if she was really interested
Speaker 1: or she was just like, oh that's sweet, I'll go
Speaker 1: out with him. Yeah. No, I mean the reason I
Speaker 1: thought now there was a pity dates because you know,
Speaker 1: we had a great time. Um, well, I had a
Speaker 1: drink or two. But then after, you know, she wanted
Speaker 1: to hang out with her friends. She was meeting up
Speaker 1: with some friends, and then like every time I try
Speaker 1: to talk to her, she says she's too busy at work. Okay,
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, she didn't invite
Speaker 1: you along to go meet her friends. She just left. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you get a kiss or anything like that? On
Speaker 1: the cheek? She's texted you back though. That's nice because
Speaker 1: normally people just ignore someone if they don't want to
Speaker 1: see him again. Oh yeah, okay, And what you said
Speaker 1: that she what has she said to you? Well, she
Speaker 1: says she's too busy right now. Okay, that's a pretty
Speaker 1: standard blowoff statement right there. So Dave, you've been blown
Speaker 1: off basically, what exactly are you hoping to get out
Speaker 1: of the second date update? This is a girl. I've
Speaker 1: liked her for three years, so I first I want
Speaker 1: to know is if it's a pretty date, and if not,
Speaker 1: I want to see where this can go. Okay, you
Speaker 1: think you can convince her to go out with you again? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I do it if you know so much I like her.
Speaker 1: All right, well, we're gonna play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on you okay, what are you
Speaker 1: doing over there? Days? Yeah? What are you doing? Just
Speaker 1: little nervous, So you're okay, you're nervous. So what are
Speaker 1: you doing? Yeah? It sounds like you're shuffling papers, and
Speaker 1: sometimes I get little light headed. I'm just breathing, all right,
Speaker 1: hey man, all right, so hang out. Breathe for like
Speaker 1: four minutes, and then we'll be back into your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, all right, cool, thanks, all right, hang
Speaker 1: on out. You're looking jubil in the morning second updates.
Speaker 1: You know, normally, at the beginning of these second date
Speaker 1: updates are trying to say something funny to make everybody laugh.
Speaker 1: But today I'm just hoping Dave is still alive, Dave,
Speaker 1: you're there. Yeah, all right, if you missed the first
Speaker 1: part of the second date update. Dave is on the phone.
Speaker 1: He wants us to call this girl named Emma. She's
Speaker 1: a co worker, or she was a co worker. He
Speaker 1: asked her out the last couple days before she was
Speaker 1: leaving because he had a crush on her forever they
Speaker 1: went out. She's been blowing him off ever since. But
Speaker 1: the interesting part was when we finished up talking to
Speaker 1: Dave about his date. You were all over the place,
Speaker 1: man like you sounded like you were about ready to
Speaker 1: pass out. Are you doing okay? Yeah, I'm just a
Speaker 1: little nervous. Is this normal for you? I guess. Just
Speaker 1: to let you know, Dave, we do have paramedics standing by,
Speaker 1: all right, I've already alerted them, so if you pass out,
Speaker 1: you'll be okay. Okay, thank you, Okay, all right. Man, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial the phone him right now and ask
Speaker 1: her about your date. Okay, Dave, Yeah, you're good. Yeah, yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: he said, no, I'm going right now because I don't
Speaker 1: want to lose day. Huh Hi. I was looking for Emma.
Speaker 1: This is Emma, Emma, how are you this is Jewil
Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, have
Speaker 1: you ever heard a second date update before? No, I'm
Speaker 1: not really in the car at that time, so okay, No,
Speaker 1: that's cool, it's all good. Well, you were about to
Speaker 1: be the star of a second day update, so that's exciting.
Speaker 1: What does that mean? That means that you recently went
Speaker 1: out on a date with one of our listeners and
Speaker 1: he liked you a lot, so he wanted me to
Speaker 1: call you. See if I get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and ask why you've been blowing him off since you
Speaker 1: guys went out. Okay, who told you that? His name
Speaker 1: is Dave? Oh? You know Dave. You used to work
Speaker 1: with Dave. We've talked to him and he's a very
Speaker 1: nice guy. But he's just curious if he did something
Speaker 1: wrong on your date, and that's why you've been kind
Speaker 1: of blowing him off. Giving him the is the excuse.
Speaker 1: He's a really nice guy. But I really didn't even
Speaker 1: know we were going out on a date. Oh did
Speaker 1: you think it was a friendship thing? Well? Yeah, because
Speaker 1: we worked here for many years. He's always so sweet
Speaker 1: to me, always like bring me coffee from the break
Speaker 1: room and when I told him I was leaving. He
Speaker 1: looked really upset, and so I thought we'd, like, you know,
Speaker 1: hang out as coworkers. And so I was leaving. You
Speaker 1: know how people do that when people leave a job. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure. And I thought that's what he met. And
Speaker 1: I thought that's what we were doing until like the
Speaker 1: day of and he was insisting on picking me up,
Speaker 1: which was like a red flag or I was like, oh, no,
Speaker 1: I think he thinks this is a date. Let me
Speaker 1: ask you a question, Emma. When we talked to Dave,
Speaker 1: he said he had a crush on you the whole
Speaker 1: time he was working with you. Did you know that
Speaker 1: he had a crush on you? Or was that when
Speaker 1: it became obvious. I mean, I could tell you know,
Speaker 1: but I still thought it was just like a friendly
Speaker 1: like we don't have that kind of romantic vibe at
Speaker 1: all as far as I could see, even though he
Speaker 1: had a crush on me. Didn't he tell you though?
Speaker 1: When he asked you out, I've been wanting to do
Speaker 1: this since the day I saw you. He was kind
Speaker 1: of like mumbling, I really wasn't sure. Sometimes I've hard
Speaker 1: to understand what he's talking about. Yeah, but like I
Speaker 1: really thought it was a hangout until like he insisted
Speaker 1: on picking me off at my house and then he
Speaker 1: showed up with like a dozen red roses, and so
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, he definitely thought it was
Speaker 1: a date. Still could have been a work hang out
Speaker 1: at that point. I give all of my roses all
Speaker 1: the time. So at that point you knew. At that point,
Speaker 1: you knew it was more than just a co worker hangout.
Speaker 1: A hundred percent. Knew, Like, again, he is a really
Speaker 1: sweet person and he was always he was like, actually
Speaker 1: the nicest to me at my job out of anyone
Speaker 1: for the whole time I worked there. It sounds like
Speaker 1: a really nice guy. We've talked to him a little
Speaker 1: bit about your date that you don't think it should
Speaker 1: have been a date, But did you enjoy it? It
Speaker 1: was so awkward, you guys. It was like he had
Speaker 1: the waitress put his plate on the same side of me,
Speaker 1: so instead of sitting across like two regular people, he
Speaker 1: sat right next to me. All right, some people do that. Though.
Speaker 1: I know him from being a coworker, and he's always
Speaker 1: kind of like mumbling and nervous and awkward. But I
Speaker 1: want to let him down easy kind of thing. You know,
Speaker 1: with that hurting his feelings, But like, I've never seen
Speaker 1: him so nervous, probably because he likes you. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess so. I mean, like, if you were to step
Speaker 1: back and try to see him in a romantic light,
Speaker 1: could you He's not the kind of guy I'm attracted
Speaker 1: to generally, So I bet you he's a stallion in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. Emma, neverything about that. No, No, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Well, would you be willing to
Speaker 1: at least tell him the reason why you been kind
Speaker 1: of blowing him off instead of just saying that you're busy,
Speaker 1: just let him know, Hey, you're not really my type.
Speaker 1: I think that would be really awkward because I do too, Emma.
Speaker 1: And that's why I want to make it happened, because
Speaker 1: Dave is actually on the phone listening right now. No,
Speaker 1: are you serious? Yep? Dave? You there? Hey? Hey man,
Speaker 1: how are you feeling good? Very good? Why do you
Speaker 1: say hi to Emma? Hey? Emma? Hi, Dave? Did you
Speaker 1: hear that? Yeah? I'm really sorry. And I just know
Speaker 1: that there is a girl out there for you, because
Speaker 1: you are a really nice guy and I just am
Speaker 1: not that girl for you. You know that you are.
Speaker 1: I really liked working with you all that time, and
Speaker 1: I don't want you, you know, to be get your
Speaker 1: feelings hurt, you know. But here, I know I am
Speaker 1: a little longerous first, but I mean I could become
Speaker 1: the man you want me to be. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: think so, Dave. I mean there's a lot of girls
Speaker 1: out there, you know, and I think you should keep trying,
Speaker 1: you know, to maybe find someone that's a better fit
Speaker 1: for you. Okay, man, Yeah, do you feel like she's
Speaker 1: making the wrong decision here? Well, yeah, you know I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do this if I didn't really like like her.
Speaker 1: And am I go out on one more date with me?
Speaker 1: I will? I promised you I won't be awkward like
Speaker 1: you said, Dave. I did have a nice time on
Speaker 1: our date, and I think we really do get along.
Speaker 1: It's just that you're so nervous and you just seem
Speaker 1: to have so many anxieties that I'm not sure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I'm nervous, but this is just because I
Speaker 1: care about something so much that you know this comes up.
Speaker 1: But um, you know, we always got a long greak,
Speaker 1: don't we. I mean, we did along really well, and
Speaker 1: you are a really I mean, you are a good
Speaker 1: looking guy. Really? Do you think you're really good looking? Well? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you are. You're just, you know, a little nervous,
Speaker 1: but you are a good looking You're a really like
Speaker 1: a handsome face. See Dave, you hear that you're sexy?
Speaker 1: Yeah that's the way I feel when a girl calls
Speaker 1: me a good looking too? Man, Dave? What do you
Speaker 1: keep doing? I'm just breathing it? Okay, Ama, what do
Speaker 1: you think? I don't know? I mean a second, Dave, Dave? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Dude? What are you doing? Though? Like?
Speaker 1: Why are you making so much noise? It's a deeper bag.
Speaker 1: You're breathing into a paper bag. Yeah, okay, well here,
Speaker 1: I'll put it down. Yeah, put the paper bag down
Speaker 1: for a second if you can. All right, Emma, would
Speaker 1: you like to go? Would you like to go out
Speaker 1: on the second date with Dave? I will pay for it,
Speaker 1: give him one more shot. He sounds like a great guy.
Speaker 1: He'll leave the paper bag at home so I won't
Speaker 1: love again much. I mean I would see this, and
Speaker 1: I like all the guys I've ever dated, David's definitely
Speaker 1: like probably the sweetest and most caring, I consider it
Speaker 1: and nicest like he may not be polished, and he's
Speaker 1: a little bit rough around the edges, you know that.
Speaker 1: I know he would go to the ends of the
Speaker 1: earth for me, you know, so, well, then why not
Speaker 1: go out with him again the ends of the earth
Speaker 1: for you? Jesus, that sounds like somebody I'd want to
Speaker 1: spend some time with. Yeah, I really like you. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: I will go out on a date. When there you go.
Speaker 1: Congratulations Dave, Dave, Yeah, congratulations, you got a second date?
Speaker 1: You gonna be okay? You are you breathing into the
Speaker 1: bag again, Dave? No, No, all right, then keep breathing
Speaker 1: into the bag, and texted at seventy five nine and
Speaker 1: two says, this girl's gonna kill Daves, not on purpose,
Speaker 1: on accident. If you had today's second date update, Dave
Speaker 1: wanted to call this girl named Emma. They worked together
Speaker 1: for a few years and he finally got up the
Speaker 1: courage to ask her out, and we called Emma. She
Speaker 1: said she didn't even realize their date was an actual date.
Speaker 1: And you have to hear the second date update because
Speaker 1: Dave's very nervous guy, hyperventilating the whole time. Him. She
Speaker 1: thought he was really sweet, but never really saw him
Speaker 1: in a romantic light. That's why she didn't realize it
Speaker 1: was a date. Poor guy. Everybody wants Dave to smoke
Speaker 1: some weed. Yeah, they're like, Dave, you need to chill out, man.
Speaker 1: You're saying he should smoke a little weed, relax a
Speaker 1: little bit, because he's very high strung and very nervous.
Speaker 1: He admitted that he was shy, but he swore he
Speaker 1: could step up his game on a second date and impressor,
Speaker 1: And she said, yes, she's going to give it a try,
Speaker 1: and hopefully Dave doesn't pass out and die on him day.
Speaker 1: Wish him luck, though. I just want to be in
Speaker 1: the restaurant where they have their next date, just so
Speaker 1: I can watch. Yet to be there so I can
Speaker 1: call the emergency people, the MTS safety reason. Remember you
Speaker 1: want to do a second day up. They all have
Speaker 1: to do his email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back. Sproken Jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning,