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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date up date today

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<v Speaker 1>feels like he was the victim of a pity date.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what that is where somebody goes out with

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<v Speaker 1>you just because they know that you like them a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>so they throw you a bone and then never call

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<v Speaker 1>you again. That's what he's worried about. His name is Dave. Dave.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been out on a lot of pity dates in

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<v Speaker 1>my day, a lot of them. Yeah, it's usually me

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<v Speaker 1>taking pity on the girl, all right, you know, sure, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, if you keep asking, I guess I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you. So I've never been in your shoes, Dave.

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<v Speaker 1>But first of all, tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that you went out with. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>So her name is Emma, And okay, we worked together

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<v Speaker 1>for three years and I always liked her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's she's got freckles and red hair. She's just so

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<v Speaker 1>cute and so the whole time we were we got

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<v Speaker 1>along great. Yeah, did you guys flirt at work? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought we? Did you feel like she liked you? Um? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, she's no longer here. So I mean, so

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<v Speaker 1>after your date she quit? Well she had put Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, I mean put in. What do you Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very confused now, Dave. All Right, your email said

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<v Speaker 1>that she was a co worker. You guys worked together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean she found another job. She said she

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<v Speaker 1>was leaving for another better job. Okay. And and this

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<v Speaker 1>is before your date or after your date. She found

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<v Speaker 1>the job before our date, but she left right after

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<v Speaker 1>her date. Okay, okay, all right, that was just the

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<v Speaker 1>confusing part. So did you feel like you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>flirty at work when she was there? I did. Why

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<v Speaker 1>Why did it take you three years to work up

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<v Speaker 1>enough courage to ask her out? Well? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's not the like one night stand kind of girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's somebody that I really liked and thought

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<v Speaker 1>it could go. I don't know, progress some more. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask you a question, Dave. Yeah, you got a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of one night stand girls in your life, because

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<v Speaker 1>I can't picture you really looking up a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>one night stands. Man, I'm not trying to be mean. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's not just that's just not me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So what'd you guys do on your date? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, how did you finally get up the

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<v Speaker 1>courage to ask her out? Then? Well, uh, it was

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<v Speaker 1>her last day and she was in the break room. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just it's now or never, So I uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>approached her and I told her that I know we've

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<v Speaker 1>been friends for this long. I've liked you since the

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<v Speaker 1>moment I saw you, and I'd hate to have you

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<v Speaker 1>leave without me doing this. So you know, I know

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<v Speaker 1>I would regret it if I didn't do it. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>will you go out to dinner with me tonight? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you say it exactly like that, will you go out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner with me tonight? Or was it a little

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<v Speaker 1>smoother than that day? Ah? I guess it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little like that. I mean, if you gave her all

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<v Speaker 1>that other information about how you've wanted to ask her

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<v Speaker 1>out since day one, what was her reaction? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did she seem taken aback or was she kind of like, oh, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess a little both. That's why. Uh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it was pity or if it was like

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<v Speaker 1>she was swept off her feet sort of thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You so you can't tell if she was really interested

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<v Speaker 1>or she was just like, oh that's sweet, I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him. Yeah. No, I mean the reason I

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<v Speaker 1>thought now there was a pity dates because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a great time. Um, well, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>drink or two. But then after, you know, she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with her friends. She was meeting up

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<v Speaker 1>with some friends, and then like every time I try

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her, she says she's too busy at work. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So at the end of the day, she didn't invite

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<v Speaker 1>you along to go meet her friends. She just left. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get a kiss or anything like that? On

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<v Speaker 1>the cheek? She's texted you back though. That's nice because

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<v Speaker 1>normally people just ignore someone if they don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see him again. Oh yeah, okay, And what you said

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<v Speaker 1>that she what has she said to you? Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>says she's too busy right now. Okay, that's a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>standard blowoff statement right there. So Dave, you've been blown

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<v Speaker 1>off basically, what exactly are you hoping to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the second date update? This is a girl. I've

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<v Speaker 1>liked her for three years, so I first I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know is if it's a pretty date, and if not,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see where this can go. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>think you can convince her to go out with you again? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I do it if you know so much I like her.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, we're gonna play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man, hang on you okay, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing over there? Days? Yeah? What are you doing? Just

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<v Speaker 1>little nervous, So you're okay, you're nervous. So what are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Yeah? It sounds like you're shuffling papers, and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I get little light headed. I'm just breathing, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hey man, all right, so hang out. Breathe for like

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<v Speaker 1>four minutes, and then we'll be back into your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, all right, cool, thanks, all right, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on out. You're looking jubil in the morning second updates.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, normally, at the beginning of these second date

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<v Speaker 1>updates are trying to say something funny to make everybody laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>But today I'm just hoping Dave is still alive, Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>you're there. Yeah, all right, if you missed the first

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<v Speaker 1>part of the second date update. Dave is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants us to call this girl named Emma. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a co worker, or she was a co worker. He

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<v Speaker 1>asked her out the last couple days before she was

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<v Speaker 1>leaving because he had a crush on her forever they

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<v Speaker 1>went out. She's been blowing him off ever since. But

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<v Speaker 1>the interesting part was when we finished up talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Dave about his date. You were all over the place,

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<v Speaker 1>man like you sounded like you were about ready to

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<v Speaker 1>pass out. Are you doing okay? Yeah, I'm just a

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<v Speaker 1>little nervous. Is this normal for you? I guess. Just

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<v Speaker 1>to let you know, Dave, we do have paramedics standing by,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I've already alerted them, so if you pass out,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be okay. Okay, thank you, Okay, all right. Man, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial the phone him right now and ask

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<v Speaker 1>her about your date. Okay, Dave, Yeah, you're good. Yeah, yeah, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, no, I'm going right now because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to lose day. Huh Hi. I was looking for Emma.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Emma, Emma, how are you this is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard a second date update before? No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not really in the car at that time, so okay, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool, it's all good. Well, you were about to

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<v Speaker 1>be the star of a second day update, so that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? That means that you recently went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with one of our listeners and

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<v Speaker 1>he liked you a lot, so he wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>call you. See if I get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask why you've been blowing him off since you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out. Okay, who told you that? His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Dave? Oh? You know Dave. You used to work

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<v Speaker 1>with Dave. We've talked to him and he's a very

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy. But he's just curious if he did something

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on your date, and that's why you've been kind

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<v Speaker 1>of blowing him off. Giving him the is the excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a really nice guy. But I really didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know we were going out on a date. Oh did

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<v Speaker 1>you think it was a friendship thing? Well? Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>we worked here for many years. He's always so sweet

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<v Speaker 1>to me, always like bring me coffee from the break

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<v Speaker 1>room and when I told him I was leaving. He

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<v Speaker 1>looked really upset, and so I thought we'd, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>hang out as coworkers. And so I was leaving. You

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<v Speaker 1>know how people do that when people leave a job. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. And I thought that's what he met. And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that's what we were doing until like the

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<v Speaker 1>day of and he was insisting on picking me up,

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<v Speaker 1>which was like a red flag or I was like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he thinks this is a date. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you a question, Emma. When we talked to Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he had a crush on you the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time he was working with you. Did you know that

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<v Speaker 1>he had a crush on you? Or was that when

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<v Speaker 1>it became obvious. I mean, I could tell you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I still thought it was just like a friendly

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<v Speaker 1>like we don't have that kind of romantic vibe at

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<v Speaker 1>all as far as I could see, even though he

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<v Speaker 1>had a crush on me. Didn't he tell you though?

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<v Speaker 1>When he asked you out, I've been wanting to do

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<v Speaker 1>this since the day I saw you. He was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like mumbling, I really wasn't sure. Sometimes I've hard

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<v Speaker 1>to understand what he's talking about. Yeah, but like I

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<v Speaker 1>really thought it was a hangout until like he insisted

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<v Speaker 1>on picking me off at my house and then he

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<v Speaker 1>showed up with like a dozen red roses, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh no, he definitely thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Still could have been a work hang out

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<v Speaker 1>at that point. I give all of my roses all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. So at that point you knew. At that point,

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<v Speaker 1>you knew it was more than just a co worker hangout.

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<v Speaker 1>A hundred percent. Knew, Like, again, he is a really

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<v Speaker 1>sweet person and he was always he was like, actually

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<v Speaker 1>the nicest to me at my job out of anyone

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<v Speaker 1>for the whole time I worked there. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice guy. We've talked to him a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about your date that you don't think it should

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<v Speaker 1>have been a date, But did you enjoy it? It

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<v Speaker 1>was so awkward, you guys. It was like he had

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<v Speaker 1>the waitress put his plate on the same side of me,

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<v Speaker 1>so instead of sitting across like two regular people, he

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<v Speaker 1>sat right next to me. All right, some people do that. Though.

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<v Speaker 1>I know him from being a coworker, and he's always

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like mumbling and nervous and awkward. But I

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<v Speaker 1>want to let him down easy kind of thing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>with that hurting his feelings, But like, I've never seen

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<v Speaker 1>him so nervous, probably because he likes you. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess so. I mean, like, if you were to step

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<v Speaker 1>back and try to see him in a romantic light,

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<v Speaker 1>could you He's not the kind of guy I'm attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to generally, So I bet you he's a stallion in

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. Emma, neverything about that. No, No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. Well, would you be willing to

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<v Speaker 1>at least tell him the reason why you been kind

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<v Speaker 1>of blowing him off instead of just saying that you're busy,

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<v Speaker 1>just let him know, Hey, you're not really my type.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that would be really awkward because I do too, Emma.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I want to make it happened, because

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<v Speaker 1>Dave is actually on the phone listening right now. No,

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<v Speaker 1>are you serious? Yep? Dave? You there? Hey? Hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you feeling good? Very good? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>say hi to Emma? Hey? Emma? Hi, Dave? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>hear that? Yeah? I'm really sorry. And I just know

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<v Speaker 1>that there is a girl out there for you, because

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<v Speaker 1>you are a really nice guy and I just am

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<v Speaker 1>not that girl for you. You know that you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked working with you all that time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you, you know, to be get your

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<v Speaker 1>feelings hurt, you know. But here, I know I am

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<v Speaker 1>a little longerous first, but I mean I could become

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<v Speaker 1>the man you want me to be. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so, Dave. I mean there's a lot of girls

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<v Speaker 1>out there, you know, and I think you should keep trying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to maybe find someone that's a better fit

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Okay, man, Yeah, do you feel like she's

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<v Speaker 1>making the wrong decision here? Well, yeah, you know I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do this if I didn't really like like her.

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<v Speaker 1>And am I go out on one more date with me?

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<v Speaker 1>I will? I promised you I won't be awkward like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, Dave. I did have a nice time on

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<v Speaker 1>our date, and I think we really do get along.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that you're so nervous and you just seem

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<v Speaker 1>to have so many anxieties that I'm not sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm nervous, but this is just because I

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<v Speaker 1>care about something so much that you know this comes up.

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<v Speaker 1>But um, you know, we always got a long greak,

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<v Speaker 1>don't we. I mean, we did along really well, and

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<v Speaker 1>you are a really I mean, you are a good

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<v Speaker 1>looking guy. Really? Do you think you're really good looking? Well? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you are. You're just, you know, a little nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>but you are a good looking You're a really like

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<v Speaker 1>a handsome face. See Dave, you hear that you're sexy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's the way I feel when a girl calls

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<v Speaker 1>me a good looking too? Man, Dave? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing? I'm just breathing it? Okay, Ama, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think? I don't know? I mean a second, Dave, Dave? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? Dude? What are you doing? Though? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you making so much noise? It's a deeper bag.

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<v Speaker 1>You're breathing into a paper bag. Yeah, okay, well here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put it down. Yeah, put the paper bag down

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<v Speaker 1>for a second if you can. All right, Emma, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go? Would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on the second date with Dave? I will pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>give him one more shot. He sounds like a great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll leave the paper bag at home so I won't

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<v Speaker 1>love again much. I mean I would see this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like all the guys I've ever dated, David's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>like probably the sweetest and most caring, I consider it

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<v Speaker 1>and nicest like he may not be polished, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit rough around the edges, you know that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he would go to the ends of the

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<v Speaker 1>earth for me, you know, so, well, then why not

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again the ends of the earth

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Jesus, that sounds like somebody I'd want to

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<v Speaker 1>spend some time with. Yeah, I really like you. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will go out on a date. When there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Dave, Dave, Yeah, congratulations, you got a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>You gonna be okay? You are you breathing into the

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<v Speaker 1>bag again, Dave? No, No, all right, then keep breathing

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<v Speaker 1>into the bag, and texted at seventy five nine and

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<v Speaker 1>two says, this girl's gonna kill Daves, not on purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>on accident. If you had today's second date update, Dave

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call this girl named Emma. They worked together

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<v Speaker 1>for a few years and he finally got up the

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<v Speaker 1>courage to ask her out, and we called Emma. She

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<v Speaker 1>said she didn't even realize their date was an actual date.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have to hear the second date update because

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<v Speaker 1>Dave's very nervous guy, hyperventilating the whole time. Him. She

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was really sweet, but never really saw him

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<v Speaker 1>in a romantic light. That's why she didn't realize it

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<v Speaker 1>was a date. Poor guy. Everybody wants Dave to smoke

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<v Speaker 1>some weed. Yeah, they're like, Dave, you need to chill out, man.

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<v Speaker 1>You're saying he should smoke a little weed, relax a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, because he's very high strung and very nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>He admitted that he was shy, but he swore he

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<v Speaker 1>could step up his game on a second date and impressor,

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<v Speaker 1>And she said, yes, she's going to give it a try,

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<v Speaker 1>and hopefully Dave doesn't pass out and die on him day.

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<v Speaker 1>Wish him luck, though. I just want to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant where they have their next date, just so

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<v Speaker 1>I can watch. Yet to be there so I can

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<v Speaker 1>call the emergency people, the MTS safety reason. Remember you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second day up. They all have

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<v Speaker 1>to do his email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back. Sproken Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,