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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date up date today

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Speaker 1: feels like he was the victim of a pity date.

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Speaker 1: You know what that is where somebody goes out with

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Speaker 1: you just because they know that you like them a lot,

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Speaker 1: so they throw you a bone and then never call

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Speaker 1: you again. That's what he's worried about. His name is Dave. Dave.

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Speaker 1: I've been out on a lot of pity dates in

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Speaker 1: my day, a lot of them. Yeah, it's usually me

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Speaker 1: taking pity on the girl, all right, you know, sure, fine,

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Speaker 1: all right, if you keep asking, I guess I'll go

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Speaker 1: out with you. So I've never been in your shoes, Dave.

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Speaker 1: But first of all, tell us a little bit about

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Speaker 1: the girl that you went out with. What's her name?

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Speaker 1: So her name is Emma, And okay, we worked together

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Speaker 1: for three years and I always liked her. You know,

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Speaker 1: she's she's got freckles and red hair. She's just so

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Speaker 1: cute and so the whole time we were we got

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Speaker 1: along great. Yeah, did you guys flirt at work? I

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Speaker 1: thought we? Did you feel like she liked you? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: she's like, she's no longer here. So I mean, so

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Speaker 1: after your date she quit? Well she had put Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess, I mean put in. What do you Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm very confused now, Dave. All Right, your email said

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Speaker 1: that she was a co worker. You guys worked together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I mean she found another job. She said she

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Speaker 1: was leaving for another better job. Okay. And and this

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Speaker 1: is before your date or after your date. She found

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Speaker 1: the job before our date, but she left right after

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Speaker 1: her date. Okay, okay, all right, that was just the

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Speaker 1: confusing part. So did you feel like you guys were

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Speaker 1: flirty at work when she was there? I did. Why

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Speaker 1: Why did it take you three years to work up

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Speaker 1: enough courage to ask her out? Well? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: because she's not the like one night stand kind of girl.

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Speaker 1: You know, she's somebody that I really liked and thought

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Speaker 1: it could go. I don't know, progress some more. Let

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Speaker 1: me ask you a question, Dave. Yeah, you got a

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Speaker 1: lot of one night stand girls in your life, because

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Speaker 1: I can't picture you really looking up a lot of

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Speaker 1: one night stands. Man, I'm not trying to be mean. No,

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Speaker 1: you know that's not just that's just not me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, So what'd you guys do on your date? Well,

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Speaker 1: first of all, how did you finally get up the

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Speaker 1: courage to ask her out? Then? Well, uh, it was

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Speaker 1: I just it's now or never, So I uh, I

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Speaker 1: I would regret it if I didn't do it. I said,

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Speaker 1: you say it exactly like that, will you go out

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Speaker 1: smoother than that day? Ah? I guess it was a

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Speaker 1: I guess a little both. That's why. Uh, I don't

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Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, she didn't invite

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Speaker 1: standard blowoff statement right there. So Dave, you've been blown

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Speaker 1: I do it if you know so much I like her.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, we're gonna play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on you okay, what are you

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Speaker 1: doing over there? Days? Yeah? What are you doing? Just

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Speaker 1: little nervous, So you're okay, you're nervous. So what are

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Speaker 1: you doing? Yeah? It sounds like you're shuffling papers, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes I get little light headed. I'm just breathing, all right,

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Speaker 1: hey man, all right, so hang out. Breathe for like

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Speaker 1: four minutes, and then we'll be back into your second

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Speaker 1: date update. Okay, all right, cool, thanks, all right, hang

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Speaker 1: on out. You're looking jubil in the morning second updates.

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Speaker 1: You know, normally, at the beginning of these second date

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Speaker 1: updates are trying to say something funny to make everybody laugh.

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Speaker 1: But today I'm just hoping Dave is still alive, Dave,

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Speaker 1: you're there. Yeah, all right, if you missed the first

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Speaker 1: part of the second date update. Dave is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: He wants us to call this girl named Emma. She's

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Speaker 1: a co worker, or she was a co worker. He

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Speaker 1: went out. She's been blowing him off ever since. But

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Speaker 1: the interesting part was when we finished up talking to

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Speaker 1: Dave about his date. You were all over the place,

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Speaker 1: man like you sounded like you were about ready to

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Speaker 1: pass out. Are you doing okay? Yeah, I'm just a

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Speaker 1: to let you know, Dave, we do have paramedics standing by,

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Speaker 1: all right, I've already alerted them, so if you pass out,

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Speaker 1: you'll be okay. Okay, thank you, Okay, all right. Man, Well,

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Speaker 1: her about your date. Okay, Dave, Yeah, you're good. Yeah, yeah, no, no,

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Speaker 1: he said, no, I'm going right now because I don't

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Speaker 1: want to lose day. Huh Hi. I was looking for Emma.

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Speaker 1: This is Emma, Emma, how are you this is Jewil

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Speaker 1: you ever heard a second date update before? No, I'm

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Speaker 1: not really in the car at that time, so okay, No,

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Speaker 1: that's cool, it's all good. Well, you were about to

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Speaker 1: be the star of a second day update, so that's exciting.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? That means that you recently went

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Speaker 1: out on a date with one of our listeners and

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Speaker 1: he liked you a lot, so he wanted me to

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Speaker 1: and ask why you've been blowing him off since you

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Speaker 1: guys went out. Okay, who told you that? His name

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Speaker 1: is Dave? Oh? You know Dave. You used to work

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Speaker 1: with Dave. We've talked to him and he's a very

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Speaker 1: you think it was a friendship thing? Well? Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: bit about your date that you don't think it should

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Speaker 1: want to let him down easy kind of thing. You know,

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Speaker 1: with that hurting his feelings, But like, I've never seen

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Speaker 1: guess so. I mean, like, if you were to step

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Speaker 1: could you He's not the kind of guy I'm attracted

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Speaker 1: I think that would be really awkward because I do too, Emma.

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Speaker 1: I will? I promised you I won't be awkward like

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Speaker 1: you think? I don't know? I mean a second, Dave, Dave? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Why are you making so much noise? It's a deeper bag.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations Dave, Dave, Yeah, congratulations, you got a second date?

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Speaker 1: on accident. If you had today's second date update, Dave

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Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back. Sproken Jewel in

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