1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Lincoln Self Food, Holland Bellevue Fitness for foodies from carblooding 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: meat eaters to vegan and everything in between. We've got 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: you covered. Grab a quick lunch or come for Happy Hour. 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: You'll leave craving more. Order online at Lincoln sah dot 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: com Rooking Jewbels. Second dat up date practice makes perfect 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: pretty much everything you do right. Yes, that's why. If 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: you haven't been out on a date in a long 8 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: time and you don't have a lot of practice, you're 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: probably going to screw it up. And that's what Doug 10 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: thinks he did with his first date with a girl 11 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:35,919 Speaker 1: named Rachel that he met online. He's on the phone 12 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: with us right now to do a second date update, 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: and apparently Doug hasn't been out on a date in 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,639 Speaker 1: a long time and thinks that maybe the nerves got 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: the best of him. What's up, Doug? How are you? 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: I'm pretty good. How's everybody over there? Not too bad? Man? 17 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: So how long has it been, First of all, since 18 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: you went out with an actual woman. It's been close 19 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: to a year. I guess it's been a long time 20 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: because I got out of a rather long relationship and 21 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: was just waiting for the right girl in the right time. 22 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: So you met this girl Rachel online that you want 23 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: to call today. Yeah, and what did you like about 24 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: her so much? Our conversations online just seemed to have 25 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: like a really good case and chemistry to it, and 26 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: she's just got some really cool interest. You said that 27 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: you think your nerves got the best to you. Yeah, 28 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: I think so, okay, what do you mean by that? Well, 29 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: you know, I hadn't been out for a while, and 30 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: I tried to go in preparing a little bit, like 31 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: did you prepare like everything that you were going to 32 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: say to her? No? No, no, no no. I saw 33 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: these really nice flowers in the store and I got 34 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: them for her. You know, I just thought that you 35 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: would really like them. But that doesn't sound like nerves. Well, 36 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: I did something else that maybe, you know, I went 37 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: a little too far, and my nerves got the best 38 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:01,919 Speaker 1: to me. I read her a list that I wrote 39 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: at dinner, and it was a list of ten things 40 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: that I really liked about Rachel. Yeah, that's a little 41 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: a little cheesy there, man. So you before the date, 42 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: you sat down and wrote out a list of things 43 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: that you like about her. Yes, it was things like 44 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: I really like your smile lights up a room, and 45 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: and you have a weird sense of humor life like mine. 46 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: You know what, Hey, Doug, I never really asked you 47 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: how long did you talk to her online? I mean 48 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: we're talking. We were talking for a couple of weeks, okay, 49 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: because you didn't like meet her like. And then there 50 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: was the next day You're going out and there was 51 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: there was a little bit of you know, and a 52 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: list of ten things is a long list. What number 53 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: did you realize maybe I should stop? I guess maybe 54 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: around six? Did you tell her that you were nervous? 55 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: Did you discuss up be like, oh god, I'm sorry, 56 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: I haven't done this in a while. Yeah. I mean 57 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: it was kind of like that moment when I got 58 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: to the middle of it where I was like, oh, 59 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm really nervous. Maybe this wasn't the right idea. What 60 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: was her reaction after that? She got a little quiet, 61 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,399 Speaker 1: but then you know, I tried to laugh it off. 62 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 1: I guess I did know this as we were leaving 63 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: the restaurant that she left the flowers, and you know, 64 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: there was a weird awkward moment of like do I 65 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: go back and get them or I don't know, I 66 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 1: was kind of nervous. Should have got back and got 67 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: them and then followed her back to her house. So 68 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: when you said goodbye to her, did everything seem cool? 69 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Did you agree on a second date? Did she seem 70 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: into it? Or well? I walked her to the car 71 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: and I got a little peck kiss and I don't know, 72 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: it seems like she didn't have to kiss me for 73 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: any reason, So I felt like that was a good 74 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: moment to end on. Have you asked her out since? Yeah? 75 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: I texted her, you know, very positive things that I 76 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: had a great time about the date and maybe we 77 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: should go out again soon. And all of the responses 78 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: that I was getting from her were really short. It 79 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: was like sound good and then nothing. And I was like, 80 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: you know, how's your day going? She said it's okay. Yeah, 81 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: that's the worst. When you're like, how's your day going? Fine? 82 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: All right? That sucks? Or would you just get a 83 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: k back about something? I want to go out sometime? K. 84 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't think it had gone bad bad, 85 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: but this was my first date in the long time, 86 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: and I was admittedly nervous, and I know that I 87 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: can do better. So you want to call her? Get 88 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: her on the phone, ask her if you did something wrong, 89 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: and then ask her on a second date. That's what 90 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: I would like to do. Yeah, all right, brooking Jubil 91 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: in the morning. I wish people would take my advice 92 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: and stop trying so hard. I can try just hard enough. 93 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: Like with everything, everything gets better when you stop trying. 94 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: Like I used to really try to do a good 95 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,679 Speaker 1: job at radio and everything else. But once I stopped caring, 96 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: show's ratings are better than ever. Wouldn't you just give 97 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: up and don't try so hard? Things get good? And 98 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: Doug is on the phone with us right now, and 99 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: I think that's his problem. On his first date with 100 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: a girl named Rachel who he met online, he tried 101 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: way too hard by showing up with flowers. That's not 102 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: the bad part. But making a list of the ten 103 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: things that you liked about her, Doug, and then reading 104 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: it to her at dinner probably a turn off. Probably 105 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: at this point you met well. But unfortunately since your date, 106 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: all you've been getting his one word answers from her 107 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: and no second date. So we're about to call her, 108 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone and 109 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: then ask her if it was the list of the 110 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: ten favorite things about Rachel that turned her off and 111 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 1: is making her not want to go out with you again. Doug, 112 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: why don't you just scrap this one and start new. 113 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: I mean, you haven't dated in a year. Maybe you 114 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,239 Speaker 1: need to get a couple other dates under your belt. 115 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: I mean, why is it so important for you to 116 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: get a second date with this girl? It's kind of 117 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: two reasons. I really like her and I want to 118 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: prove that I'm not a nervous, weirdo loser. I mean, 119 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: I think that I let my nerves get the best 120 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: of me, probably because I hadn't been on a data 121 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: in the long time. You know, you want to do over, 122 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: second chance, a second first shot. All right, well, I'm 123 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: gonna die the number right now and see if we 124 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: can get her on the phone. Okay, okay, all right, man, 125 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: hang on, Hello, Hi is Rachel there. This is Rachel. Rachel. 126 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil 127 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jewil from 128 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. The radio show radio show. Yes, 129 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: it is a morning show and we're calling you to 130 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: see if you'll come on the air with us for 131 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: a few seconds and talk to us. Why because you 132 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: recently went out with a listener of ours. I did, yeah, 133 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: and he emailed us and wanted us to call you 134 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: and ask why you're not going out with him on 135 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: a second date. Okay, his name is Doug, and I'm 136 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: sure you probably remember Doug because I'm assuming he's one 137 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: of the only dates you could have gone on that 138 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: made a list of things that he likes about. Oh 139 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I know, Doug, Yeah you do. Okay, 140 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: So so Doug emailed us, right and he told us 141 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: about your date, said that he had a great time 142 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: with you. But since your date, he's been getting like 143 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: one word responses from you, and it's obvious that you 144 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: don't want to go out with him again. But Doug 145 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: really wants to see you and is wondering if he 146 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: did something wrong when you two went out, and if 147 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: you wouldn't mind telling us what that is. He's fine, 148 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: he was a nice guy. He's just a little different. 149 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: Was it too much? Maybe came on too strong too quickly. No, 150 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't that. It was just he's just 151 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: if you guys talk to him. Can you just let 152 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: him know that I said, thanks so much for the date, 153 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: and that he's a really nice guy. Okay, Yeah, we'll 154 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: talk to him about this whole thing. And I appreciate 155 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: you staying on the phone with us, I do. I 156 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: just want to ask you because he told us about everything, 157 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: and he feels really bad about making a list of 158 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: the ten things that he liked about you. Doug, I 159 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: don't know if he shared with you. Hasn't been out 160 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: on a date in a long time, so it's a 161 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: little out of practice. You made him nervous because he 162 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: likes you a lot. Was it the list? I mean, 163 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: the list was weird. Definitely one of my more awkward 164 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: moments on a date. But yeah, I was nerves and 165 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: it was fine and I understood and that was okay, 166 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: that wasn't the main problem. Okay, well, do you mind 167 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: telling me us what the main problem is? Doug wants 168 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: to know. I don't want to come off with sounding 169 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: like weird and rude and petty, but he kept making 170 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: really weird faces, like a nervous tick, almost like I 171 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: don't know, like arrests of the face. It's so hard 172 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: to explain. It was so weird, and I wanted to 173 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: ask if there was something wrong with him, but I 174 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: felt it was true word to do that. Yeah, that's understandable. Hey, 175 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: what's wrong with your face? Oh? Hotly? I mean he 176 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: was so sweet, and he was clearly so nervous, and 177 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: he's you know, he's a good person. I just I 178 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: really couldn't see myself doing that. We don't know much 179 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: about Doug other than he listens to the show and 180 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: he seems like a nice guy when we talked to him. 181 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: Is it obvious that he has a facial tick? Or 182 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: do you think, like, what do you think he was 183 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: doing with his face that made you so uncomfortable? Honestly, 184 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: you guys, I have no idea. It was so weird. 185 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: What did it look like like he was in pain? 186 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: Like every once in a while it would do this 187 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: weird like Grimace thing, but it was like totally random, 188 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: like nothing was going on. Did you ask him if 189 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: he was okay, like if he was honestly in pain 190 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: or I did never feel like there was a right 191 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 1: time to do that, because it was always kind of 192 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: even the middle of stuff happening, and all of a 193 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 1: sudden he would just throw his face and I'd be like, ah, 194 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: but I can't be like that because I'd be really 195 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: horrible and rude. Rachel. Oh my god, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 196 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: I can't take it anymore. I have to interject here. Hey, Rachel, 197 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 1: that's Doug. He's actually on the other line. Oh god, Rachel, 198 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh my god, this is so embarrassing. Okay, 199 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,839 Speaker 1: I mean really, I can ask you now because I'm 200 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: not sitting in front of you. But are you okay? Well, 201 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: I had a surgical procedure recently, and I thought I 202 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: was doing a really good job at like concealing it, 203 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: but I was actually in a lot of pain. What 204 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: I was you know, I guess I was just so 205 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: taken in with you that I was trying really hard 206 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: to ignore the pain that I was actually do. Doug, 207 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: what kind of surgery did you have? Well? I had 208 00:10:56,400 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: a really kind of unfortunate bicycle accident and so embarrassing 209 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: to be doing this on the radio. Um, I basically 210 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 1: injured myself downstairs? You had surgery on it? Yeah, I 211 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: was mountain biking with my buddy and I went off 212 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: a little jump and it just landed wrong. That sucks. 213 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you were talking to her for weeks. Why 214 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: didn't you just wait? Well, because she's so wonderful, and 215 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,199 Speaker 1: I know that if I waited that someone else would 216 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: just snatch her up. Rachel, are you still there? Yeah? Okay, 217 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: what do you think about that? It wasn't a weird 218 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 1: face thing that it's a weird something else that he 219 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: has making making that Um, that's awful. And I cannot 220 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 1: believe you went through a whole dight out saying anything 221 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: if you were in that much pain, that's crazy. I 222 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: was really just trying to focus on a great time 223 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,319 Speaker 1: that I was having, and then I thought we were having. 224 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 1: You are so sweet, but please don't like sacrifice your 225 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: bodies for a date, Rachel. What if Doug would have said, hey, 226 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: let's go out maybe a couple of weeks from now 227 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: because I got some problems, some strained muscles down south. 228 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 1: You would have been pretty understanding about that, wouldn't you. 229 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I probably would want to know a little 230 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: bit more about what's going on in you know, the 231 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: long term effects and all that stuff. But I mean, yeah, 232 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: I don't like thow yourself under the bus on someone 233 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: else's behalf. That's crazy. But you're so great. I thought 234 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: it was worth it. Doug, is everything going to be 235 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 1: working in the future in that department. I'm just looking 236 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 1: out for her best interest, that's all. Yes, the doctor 237 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: said that I had to be back in another month 238 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: or two of it, all right, So you have to 239 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: take things slow if you guys continue to date. Io. So, Rachel, 240 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Doug again, knowing 241 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: what you just learned. We'll pay for a second date 242 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 1: if you give him another shot, only if he's well 243 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 1: enough to go. Okay, Doug, are you are you well 244 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: enough to go on a second date or do you 245 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: need a couple more weeks. I'm good to sit at 246 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: dinner and things like that, taking it slow, but we 247 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 1: couldn't probably, I think we know what you're saying. Dog. 248 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: All right, Well, congratulations, and we'll send you guys out 249 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: on a second date for some dinner. We'll pay for it, 250 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 1: and then anything else is up to you guys and 251 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,599 Speaker 1: Doug's timeline. Rachel, I'm so happy, thanks for giving me 252 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: another shot. I will definitely make it up to you. Yeah, 253 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: he'll make it up to you in about sixty eight weeks. 254 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: Broken jubil in the morning,