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Speaker 2: Dame is taking over Las Vegas this January for his

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Speaker 2: got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth

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Speaker 2: I think I already know the answers, but I'm going

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Speaker 2: to keep them to myself for just until you answer.

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Speaker 2: But do you, honestly do you guys look at other relationships?

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Speaker 2: Actually I know I know how Jace would answer too.

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Speaker 2: But do you look at other relationships and say.

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Speaker 3: I want that there are There are a few. I

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Speaker 3: will say marriages I have a heart like newly are

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Speaker 3: married people? I'm either that's not real?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait what?

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Speaker 2: You cannot judge someone based on how they just met

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Speaker 2: or how they just got married. I think the only

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Speaker 2: way to judge a relationship is after five years?

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Speaker 3: Oh read it?

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Speaker 1: Five years?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, sure, I've been in a wedding before

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Speaker 2: and been like, that's wonderful. Talk to me on Monday,

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Speaker 2: or talk to me after the honeymoon, or talk to

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Speaker 2: me when the utility bill comes in at the condo,

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Speaker 2: you know, six months later, and someone forgot to pay

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Speaker 2: it and there's a late fee and the whole thing's over.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying people don't love each other. I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying that people don't have amazing relationships and long marriages

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Speaker 2: and long lives together. But I cannot judge that one

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Speaker 2: based on their wedding day or based on within the

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Speaker 2: first six months of meeting each other. Talk to me

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Speaker 2: after five years of a relationship, and I don't think

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Speaker 2: the emotions are the same.

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Speaker 3: You're speaking facts.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we beloved might be the same.

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Speaker 5: Idolize anybody's relationship because you really don't know what's going

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Speaker 5: on with That's right, That's what I mean. But there

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Speaker 5: are relationships that you look at and it makes you

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Speaker 5: believe in love. Like, yes, I was shook when Keith

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Speaker 5: Urban did that. You know what I'm saying, Like that

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Speaker 5: really took the wind beneath my whin. I know, so,

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Speaker 5: you know, but I look at their relationship like it's

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Speaker 5: a beautiful couple. Our boss, for example, the way he

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Speaker 5: talks to me about his wife. I wish that my

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Speaker 5: husband or I hope that my husband one day will

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Speaker 5: talk about his wife that way.

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Speaker 3: So they're one of mine. Actually, yes, because they have

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Speaker 3: fun love them.

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Speaker 5: So it's like I don't idolize, you know, shut out

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Speaker 5: to James Marci Man.

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Speaker 3: I just get so emotional I.

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Speaker 2: Do that, you know, like, you know what I think?

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Speaker 2: You know what I think it's her. Hey, look I

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Speaker 2: just had dinner with them. I agree with you. I

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Speaker 2: think she beats his ass at home.

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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 2: I think she beats his ass. I think she beats

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Speaker 2: the crap out of them. That's what I think. That's

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Speaker 2: what I think.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes, Yeah, maybe he eats it.

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Speaker 1: No does.

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Speaker 3: They're one of the couples that I look at.

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, you guys genuinely like each other, And

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Speaker 5: I think that that's very rare.

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Speaker 3: Real.

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Speaker 1: No, I get that.

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Speaker 3: I get that, like I would take there.

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Speaker 2: Really, but that should be the minimum expectation of a marriage.

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Speaker 5: I mean, but it's hard out here for it, you know,

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Speaker 5: it is hard. I get the way Hobby, let Paulina

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Speaker 5: use that credit card?

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Speaker 2: If you mean the way that he texts every morning

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Speaker 2: and says, good morning. Don't use the credit card anymore.

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Speaker 5: She says, it's so nice, like you're never taking it away, right.

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Speaker 4: And after what she put him through, I do believe

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Speaker 3: She clips her toenails in the bed. She loves her.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a difference, though, between loving each other

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Speaker 1: Do I want someone to love me that much? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But us all Now, I.

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Speaker 2: Really could have Kiki would just be the wind beneath

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Speaker 2: my waives. You already are, then I can go home alone.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's not one for you.

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Speaker 2: And I'm with you, guys. I'm also with you Ki that, uh,

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Speaker 2: you can't. I don't think you can eat even the

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Speaker 2: relationships that you look at. And I'm more suspect of

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Speaker 2: the relationships that you look at from the outside and say, wow,

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Speaker 2: they're perfect. That's perfect. I don't buy it. For example,

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Speaker 2: my parents have both been divorced. My mom wants my dad.

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Speaker 2: This is his third marriage. They've been together for almost

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Speaker 2: forty years, thirty thirty six years. I think, and I'll

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Speaker 2: be honest with you, there are moments when I've been present,

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Speaker 2: and I think these two hate each other right now,

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Speaker 2: like oh yeah, like hate. But I'll tell you something

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Speaker 2: I don't think, And there have been times when I

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Speaker 2: thought maybe it was over. Honestly, they will be together

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Speaker 2: forever until they die. They will, and that to me

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Speaker 2: is not an attractive relationship at all times. In fact,

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Speaker 2: I would say half the time, I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 2: know how you do. I don't know how you do

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Speaker 2: him and how he does you. I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: But they love each other deeply. And so I think

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Speaker 2: sometimes the things that people look at and say that's

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Speaker 2: what I want aren't necessarily of things that people actually

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Speaker 2: really would need or the things that are real that

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Speaker 2: keep the thing going forever, because it's not always pretty

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Speaker 2: spoken from the guy who's never been married and only

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Speaker 2: had six month relationships.

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Speaker 3: But that's real though you drop effects.

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Speaker 2: So I think sometimes when you see oh my god,

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Speaker 2: they're so blissfully happy, oh my god, I think that's

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Speaker 2: that's not that's not the equation for the relationship that

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Speaker 2: I think people really want, that has that solid foundation

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Speaker 2: to where bad things can happen and they're still there. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the stuff that you see when you first meet

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Speaker 2: someone and you're blissfully in love. That's not when they

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Speaker 2: crapped in a toilet and clogged it and you walk

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Speaker 2: in there and like, what did you do? You know?

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Speaker 1: And I don't know? And then and then who knows? Whatever?

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Speaker 2: Whatever scenario is so unattractive and you're like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: really you again with this?

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Speaker 1: Eat some fiber bro like you know something? Lord more

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Speaker 2: to three seven three three seven now for a chance

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Speaker 5: I'm telling me.

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Speaker 2: Look for running in our diaries except we say them.

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Speaker 2: Allowed to call them blogs?

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Speaker 3: Kiki go all right, thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 5: Have you guys ever been scammed like I'm talking about,

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Speaker 5: like bigtime scammed?

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Speaker 1: Have you ha?

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Speaker 3: Has it ever happened?

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Speaker 5: Because in this this wedding planning process, as I'm booking vendors,

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Speaker 5: different people, I feel like everything is it could be

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Speaker 5: a scam.

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Speaker 3: Might be a scam.

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Speaker 5: Because a lot of people they want their money upfront,

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Speaker 5: you know, and I'm not really a money upfront type

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Speaker 2: So yeah, especially you gotta have the money, give it

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Speaker 2: up front, which is that that's usually my issue with

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Speaker 2: money upfront is oh so I need to now then yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: And so I've been talking.

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Speaker 1: I thought I had until twenty twenty seven.

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Speaker 5: Well, and that's how I feel because the wedding is

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Speaker 5: not until twenty twenty seven. So I'm like, wait a minute,

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Speaker 5: you won't you want all this money up front? Like

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Speaker 5: what something could happen to you tomorrow and I never

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Speaker 5: see my money again. You know, I'm nervous about the

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Speaker 5: whole process, and I'm just trying to avoid being scammed.

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Speaker 5: And I was talking to my friends earlier this week

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Speaker 5: and they had these horrible stories about being scammed from

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Speaker 5: businesses that they invested in, and you know, just trusting

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Speaker 5: people with money, and I'm like are people like, how

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Speaker 5: have you been hadince happened to y'all?

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Speaker 3: Isn't usually a deposit, Like I'm the full money up

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Speaker 5: Lot of them do just want deposit and the deposits

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Speaker 5: because we're talking about weddings a thousands of dollars.

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Speaker 3: You know, how can you.

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Speaker 1: Buy insurance for this? Can't you buy wedding insurance? Oh? Really?

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Speaker 2: I think you can say. I think I read it

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Speaker 2: about that, that Raleigh wedding and that venue. I don't

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Speaker 2: even know if that was ever a result, but we

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Speaker 2: the groom or the fiance. The groom passed away and

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Speaker 2: then they didn't get any money back. And again I

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Speaker 2: don't know if that's been rectified, but as of a

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Speaker 2: you know, a few weeks ago, they were just out

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Speaker 2: the money, right, And I think that I read somewhere

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Speaker 2: that you could get wedding insurance okay, yeah, which might

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Speaker 2: be worth it just in case.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 5: I wonder how that works though, Like so you can

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Speaker 5: they're saying I don't like insurance.

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Speaker 3: At them, Okay, that'll be a problem with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's like I'm sure it's that you're

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Speaker 2: covered up to a certain amount or something if something happens,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not sure what the terms are.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: For instance, this lady reached out to me and she

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Speaker 5: wants to collab on making my wedding dress.

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Speaker 3: But she's in Africa, so right, right, even like measure

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Speaker 3: I mean.

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Speaker 1: So we've been talking over Zoom. She's going to look

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Speaker 1: at a picture of you and like, I got it.

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Speaker 5: No, I'll go get measured here, send her the measurements,

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Speaker 5: and like we have these Zoom meetings and like she's

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Speaker 5: calling me at ten o'clock at night because of the

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Speaker 5: time difference, And.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, how did you find out about this person?

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Speaker 3: You reached out to me? What's in it for her

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Speaker 3: over in Africa? I mean money?

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Speaker 1: So like to get paid, that's right.

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Speaker 5: So she'll give me a discount on a dress, but

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Speaker 5: I need to be paid. The dress needs to be

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Speaker 5: paid in full before they will ship the dress.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, this feels a little scammy. And she

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Speaker 3: reached out to you.

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Speaker 1: Did I don't know?

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Speaker 5: And I'm just like, while we scamming each other, like

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Speaker 5: comel man, I don't know, I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: I don't know you.

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Speaker 1: Know you ever scammed?

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Speaker 3: Was I ever scammed?

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Speaker 1: You were.

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Speaker 2: Like that any digital money sharing platform? Because she tried

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Speaker 2: to quote unquote move money around and it didn't work out.

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Speaker 4: I choose to stay quiet situations that I don't, you know,

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Speaker 3: But you know, I, uh, yeah, I've been scammed. Actually

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Speaker 4: This is a really dumb story and it's not even

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Speaker 4: that she had a serious So all my friends when

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Speaker 4: we were younger, we got i DS.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna just say that, right, we got some id's.

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Speaker 1: Okay, accurate in from on them.

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Speaker 4: You're saying, no, the guy never he took my money,

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Speaker 4: but I never got mine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I never got mine. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: I messaged him and it wasn't It wasn't good, So

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Speaker 4: I left it alone. I was like, you know what

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Speaker 4: came my A little hundred dollars crusty, You're fine, Like

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Speaker 4: I don't. I'm gonna argue with you about it. That

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Speaker 4: was my only scam. Now after that, you know, things

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Speaker 4: have happened. I've been involved in stuff, but it wasn't bad.

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Speaker 4: I would never scam anybody personally. That would make me

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Speaker 2: To get people lots and lots of money, you know

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Speaker 2: ahead of time, knowing that eighteen months from now is

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Speaker 2: when I claim it, you know exactly.

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Speaker 5: And people are making a good someone made a good

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Speaker 5: point on the text. They say, key key, they don't

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Speaker 5: want to get scammed by you or you're canceled wedding.

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Speaker 3: That could be.

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Speaker 2: True, right, and the deposit I get right, because if

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Speaker 2: I'm saying to you, I'm going to be available on

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Speaker 2: that date. I understand that, but I see well, and

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Speaker 2: of my control. Right, But if you just change your mind,

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Speaker 2: or you guys break up, or you decide I want

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Speaker 5: Right now, the event the event is happening, with or

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Speaker 1: Maybe a celebration of you either way.

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Speaker 5: Right, So I'm just like this whole thing is just

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Speaker 2: I remember when I was really pretty young, I mean

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Speaker 1: So we go over.

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Speaker 2: There was a Saturday night, my parents were on a date,

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Speaker 2: he just didn't go. He just he was the wedding

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Speaker 2: you have any ida? Of course I did, and I

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Speaker 2: this dude just wasn't feeling it. I would be deva.

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Speaker 2: I mean, don't you get sued for something like that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, can you the day of your wedding and

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Speaker 2: you're getting everything ready and like the music just doesn't show.

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Speaker 5: Up right, Like you cannot you cannot play with people

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Speaker 5: on their wedding day, like hairstyles, makeup artists the past.

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Speaker 5: Everybody needs to be information or else I will come

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Speaker 2: Well, and I suppose now, all these years later, I mean,

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Speaker 2: get someone's playlist going. At least there'd be a vibe. Now,

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that's that's not a substitute, but like then, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean this was in the nineties, like what were you?

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do? Like get someone's case logic

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Speaker 2: Yeah he skipping turn the radio use for our medium,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I don't. I just remember. I don't

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Speaker 2: that's gonna kill your business now, especially because now you've

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