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Speaker 1: Today's second date update. Ashley is on the phone, and

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Speaker 1: I'm having trouble telling what Ashley does for a living

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Speaker 1: because her email said she's a bassist, but because I

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Speaker 1: don't know if that's another word for a dental hygienist

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Speaker 1: or if I'm saying it right, or is it bassist?

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Speaker 1: Bassist like a fisherman? Is she a fisherman? Actually? Are

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Speaker 1: you a bassist or a bassist? What are you? Well? Listen,

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Speaker 1: if I'd had anything to do with dental hygiene, I'd

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Speaker 1: have a heck of a lot more money. I am

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Speaker 1: a bassist. I play bass in a band. That's sweet, man,

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Speaker 1: I still don't know what that means. Okay, well that's

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Speaker 1: the bass. Okay, where did a fish come in? Where

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Speaker 1: did the fish come in? Ashley? You know you got

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Speaker 1: the big bass hanging on your wall. But that's an

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Speaker 1: entirely different monster. Okay, okay, so you play you're playing

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Speaker 1: a band? Yeah, all right, And is that how you

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Speaker 1: met the guy you want to call today? He was

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Speaker 1: impressed by your bassing skills. Yes, it is. I've been

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Speaker 1: promoting my band with a couple of my bandmates and

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Speaker 1: we tend to go to shows and we hand out

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Speaker 1: flyers to similar sounding music, and well, I guess Billy

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Speaker 1: was one of the guys that took a flyer and he,

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Speaker 1: you know, he seemed pretty straight laced for the kind

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Speaker 1: of music we play. But he was really nice and

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Speaker 1: he ended up coming to the show and he brought

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Speaker 1: a couple of friends when we hung out afterwards. You

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Speaker 1: say straight laced. So what kind of music you play? Polka,

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Speaker 1: easy listening type stuff. We're definitely a little bit more

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Speaker 1: on the alternative side, a little more rock, almost kind

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Speaker 1: of punk. Was there a famous band that we would

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Speaker 1: know that it would be like your sound? We have

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Speaker 1: a very similar sound to the Arctic Monkey. Okay, no

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Speaker 1: idea who that is. So he came to your show? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah he did. And did it feel like he came

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Speaker 1: because he liked you? I don't know if he came

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Speaker 1: to see me but he certainly stayed afterwards because of

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Speaker 1: me in our conversation. Oh cool, it's cool. Okay, how

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Speaker 1: long did you guys hang out? It was a pretty

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Speaker 1: late night. Actually, he came back to my house and

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Speaker 1: he was over till about two wish. All right, So

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Speaker 1: by coming back to your house, does that mean you

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Speaker 1: guys played instruments together? You not made music. We just

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Speaker 1: made out. That's all that happened. That's awesome. Well, that's

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Speaker 1: obviously he was into you. Then if he went back

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Speaker 1: to your place and made out with you, Yeah, do

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Speaker 1: you think he was expecting more and was disappointed that

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Speaker 1: he didn't get it? I hope not. It didn't seem

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Speaker 1: that way. He was the one that said evedn't want

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Speaker 1: the night to end, but he didn't seem too pushy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like he was just trying to get

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Speaker 1: laid based basically, No, it didn't seem like that at all.

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Speaker 1: And what was it like when the night ended? We

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Speaker 1: nice time. Then he left. So have you guys talked

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Speaker 1: at all since? No, he's like completely ghosted me. Why

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Speaker 1: do you think that it could be anything? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I've been told my place can be a little bit intimidating. Why.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I grew up in a pretty sheltered household,

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Speaker 1: kind of like to take advantage of art when I

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Speaker 1: So I mean, if you could still be in the

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Speaker 1: But I don't think you would have gone and made

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Speaker 1: You're an interesting person, Ashley. Thank you. I think you're like,

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Speaker 1: you play in a band, like a punk band, You're

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Speaker 1: into all sorts of art, and then you like this

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Speaker 1: be a fan of this show. Well, you know, you're

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Speaker 1: all right, okay, Well play a song and then come

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Speaker 1: All right, Wait, thanks guys, hang on brooking jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning second date update if you're just joining us

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Speaker 1: for today's second date update. Ashley is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: And Ashley is a bassist. What does that mean? She

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Speaker 1: plays an instrument called the bass. They have it in

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Speaker 1: these things called bands. Oftentimes there's multiple instruments. Well, she

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Speaker 1: sort of punk alternative rock punk mix rap mix, just

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Speaker 1: description is? Ashley? Yeah, I think that's okay, perfect, great,

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Speaker 1: all right, I'll stop trying to figure you out now.

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Speaker 1: But she wants to call dude named Billy today. She

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Speaker 1: actually met him at a show and they hung out

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Speaker 1: for a while, even went back to her place and

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Speaker 1: made out. But now she's not hearing back from him.

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Speaker 1: She maybe her art collection kind of weirded him out,

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Speaker 1: but other than that, everything seemed to be going fine.

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Speaker 1: All right, Ashley, I'm about to give him a call

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Speaker 1: you ready, Yes, I'm ready. I can not believe this

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Speaker 1: guy isn't calling you back, because everyone knows the hottest

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Speaker 1: member of the band is always the bassist. Obviously, Seriously,

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Speaker 1: you deserve a call back, thank you, or I will

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Speaker 1: go out with you later. I have a thing for Bassis.

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Speaker 1: I just dion can't help myself. That's a no. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll move on. I know this is all awkward, not

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Speaker 1: the first time. Let's call Billy and see how that goes.

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Speaker 1: See if that goes any better. Here we go, Ashley, Hello,

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Speaker 1: all right, ask to Billy please, this is Billy, Hey, Billy,

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Speaker 1: how you doing many? Just waking up? Yeah, I was

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Speaker 1: doing that. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Sorry to disturb your sleep, man, Yeah, no problem.

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Speaker 1: Why did you say you guys are calling? I'll explain.

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Speaker 1: My name is Jebel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show, okay, okay, okay, And we do

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Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of that. I haven't

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Speaker 1: heard of that. I mean, even if you did, you

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Speaker 1: probably wouldn't even know it. Right now, you sound like

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Speaker 1: you were in a deep sleep. So if you go

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Speaker 1: So we got an email about you from a woman

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Speaker 1: named Ashley. I know and Ashley Okay, okay. And the

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Speaker 1: Ashley that we're talking about is hopefully the same one

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Speaker 1: that you say. You know. She plays the bass in

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Speaker 1: a band. Okay, Yeah, we know her. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: she did something wrong. Oh okay, um, I mean yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was a good time, but I just

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, what's making you question it?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, you went back to her

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Speaker 1: It was cool. It was a good time. I just yeah,

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Speaker 1: Actually that was pretty cool, Like it was pretty cool. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, at the end, things just got kind

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Speaker 1: that sucks, and Billy don't think broke chicks? Is that it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I gave her three hundred. And I actually felt

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. We did have a good time,

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Speaker 1: Ashley met this dude, Billy at one of her band's shows,

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Speaker 1: herself exactly. Whatever you want to do a second day up.

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Speaker 1: They don't have to do is email the show and

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