1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: My ex wife asked to see me after four years 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: so she could sabotage my new relationship. Oh it's terrible, brother. 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: Oh. 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: Rather, I want to preface this by saying that I 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: have no intentions of getting back with my ex and 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm in a very happy relationship with my now fiance. 7 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: And I'm sorry this is long. I just wanted to 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: add all the context, and I'm not the best with words. 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: By the way, This comes from Hot Professional sixty two 10 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: to forty nine on the r slash Okay Storytime Separate It. 11 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: I forty six male, married my ex wife forty five female, 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: when we were both twenty six and twenty five, respectively. 13 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: At that time, we were both in the fence about 14 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: having kids. I knew since college that I wanted to 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 1: retire early, and my dream of having financial freedom was 16 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: what really made me realize that kids didn't fit into 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: the life I wanted. I was trying to find the 18 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 1: right time to talk with her about it, but over 19 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: the next few weeks, she started dropping hints that she 20 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: wanted kids. She started showing me photos of her friends kids, 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: commenting on our knee and nephew's joking about her getting 22 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: slash being pregnant. That one freaked me out and even 23 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: bought me a book on the Joys of fatherhood that 24 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: she thought I'd find interesting. 25 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 3: Oh. 26 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: I sat her down and asked her if she wanted kids. 27 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: He's like, Babe, I don't know if this is just me, 28 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: but something's giving me the idea that made you want kids. 29 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 4: I'm just floating this out there. I feeling maybe picking 30 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 4: up a vibe. He gave me the book about how 31 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 4: I would want the cads. 32 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 2: Do you want the kids? The book says, I could 33 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: be wrong, I could eight, and I could be wrong. 34 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: Could be wrong, and I could be wrong. 35 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,199 Speaker 1: I sat her down and asked her if she wanted kids, 36 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: and she admitted that over the years she had grown 37 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: to want a family. We had a conversation about it, 38 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: and I realized that neither one of us were going 39 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: to change her minds. I didn't want to keep her 40 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: from what she wanted in life, so I brought up divorce. 41 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: She really didn't want divorce and kept trying to get 42 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: me to want kids, but I stuck to what I 43 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: wanted and we ended up separating, which I think that 44 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: is sometimes the only solution in those situations where it 45 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: is such a clear deal breaker. 46 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 4: That it's hard to find an impass between. You can't 47 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 4: just have like a half at an imaginary kid. 48 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: No, it won't work. I'll let me tell you doesn't work. 49 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: We were still young and she could find someone to 50 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: have the family she wants with. I didn't want her 51 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: to resent me for forcing my life choices on her. 52 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: Even after I filed for divorce, she still didn't agree 53 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: with me and dragged it out as long as she could, 54 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: so the divorce took almost two years. I dated over 55 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,839 Speaker 1: the years, but never really found someone that I could 56 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: see myself sharing the rest of my life with until 57 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: I met my now fiance four years ago. Apparently, my 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: ex wife struggled with dating as well and hasn't remarried yet. 59 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: She has a son, but the kid's dad isn't in 60 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: the picture. She recently reached out to me and asked 61 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 1: if we can meet it to catch up. I talked 62 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: with my fiance about it, and she thought it'd be 63 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: a great way to clear up any bad blood between us, 64 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: so I agreed to meet up with her for coffee. 65 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: Things seemed to be going well until she brought up 66 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 1: her son. She asked me if I was willing to 67 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: be a part of his life as a masculine influence. Oh, 68 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: it's so funny that he's like, hey, I don't want kids, 69 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: and then five years past and she's like, hey, do 70 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: you want me want kids? And he's like no, let's 71 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: get a divorce. And then she comes back and she's like, no, 72 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: this is not your son, but you maybe want this kid. 73 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: He's like, I didn't. I don't want kids. 74 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 4: I kind of I feel for the mom though absolutely 75 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 4: it's being a single mom in the picture. It's like 76 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,679 Speaker 4: that is what's But it's like it's good for a 77 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 4: kid to have some kind of like a masculine figure 78 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 4: in their life. But it's like it's unfair to go 79 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 4: to your ex who was explicitly like I don't don't 80 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 4: want children. 81 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: And then be like, hey mom, you have to fix 82 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: my or not fix my kid, but like you have 83 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 2: to be there please. 84 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 4: Like PSE think you no, that't make any sense. 85 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: And I told her I was glad that she was 86 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: able to have a child, but that it still wasn't 87 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: something I was interested in. She tried to change my 88 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: mind by saying that we could be a family again. 89 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: She kept trying to convince me, and I kept trying 90 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: to change the subject. I admit I got frustrated because 91 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: things weren't going as I hope they would, and I 92 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: told her that I was happy with my fiance's name 93 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: and that I was not in twisted in her with 94 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: my fiance and I was not interested in her. She 95 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: started to insult my fiance, so I left. I thought 96 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: what happened was crazy. When I agreed to meet it 97 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: with her, it never even occurred to me that she 98 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: might want to get back together, considering how long it's 99 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: been and you know, I'm not single. She kept messaging me, 100 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: so I blocked her, and I don't plan on talking 101 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: with her again. I was talking with my sister and 102 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: her husband about it, and they said that while I'm 103 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: totally right for rejecting her now, that it was an 104 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: a whole move on my part to divorce her in 105 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: the first place, and that I was now being an 106 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 1: a hole again by not being a part of her 107 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 1: kid's life. Your sister and her husband are crazy. That's 108 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: that is wild to be like, You're not allowed to 109 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,799 Speaker 1: divorce her even though you had different, you know, desires 110 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: for your life, and also you have to be a 111 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: part of a kid's life. Who is not your child? 112 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 4: People, people have crazy hang ups when it comes to kids, truly, 113 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 4: And it's like, I guess I kind of had one, 114 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 4: like in one of the last stories we told. 115 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 2: But I mean I pivoted, I pivoted. 116 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: To pivoted, God, pivot off of it. 117 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 4: But like, this is somebody who is been out of 118 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 4: your life. You've literally gotten and you're engaged. You're engaged. 119 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 1: She is her own kid. 120 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 2: Like it's it's no, it's not gonna that. That's not 121 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: going to be the move. That's not the move. No, 122 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: that's not the move. 123 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: Not the move. 124 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 3: Leave. 125 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: They both agreed that my ex was right for wanting 126 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: to work it out. But what, like, I'm sorry, what 127 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: about your fiance? 128 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? 129 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: Are they just forgetting that you have a fiance? 130 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 4: How are you gonna let this woman like insult your fiance? 131 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 4: I mean, well you didn't you left. I'm really talking 132 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 4: more from the perspective of his family that are trying 133 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 4: to tell him that he's an a hole. 134 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 2: Like, no, dude, he stood on business. 135 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: He stood on business exactly. They said, it's my fault 136 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: that her child doesn't have a father. What's not even 137 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 1: his kid? What what it's by associations like you you 138 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: had a relationship. It's like all of your ex's children's, 139 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: you know, future children are now your responsibility. 140 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: I mean, like, imagine this with anything that's not a kid. 141 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 2: Imagine this with a dog. 142 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 4: You imagine you have an ex and like you were, 143 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 4: have a dog and then they come to you and 144 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 4: they're like, I need you to take care of this 145 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 4: dog with fifty this is your dog right now. 146 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 2: I was in the camera. 147 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: They said it was my fault that our kid doesn't 148 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: have a father, and that if I had given kids 149 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: a chance, I would have changed my mind. I just 150 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: don't agree that kids are something one should compromise on. Agreed. 151 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: I just don't see how it's possible for it to 152 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: not be a bad situation for everyone involved. That breeds resentment. 153 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: I don't know my ex's child at all, and I 154 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 1: don't agree that it's my responsibility to step up just 155 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: because this biodad didn't. I asked some other friends and family, 156 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: and they agreed with my sister, what is up with 157 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: your family? Your family's crazy. 158 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 2: I think your family liked your ex more than they 159 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: like you, buddy. 160 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: Apparently, what that so now I'm not sure if what 161 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: I did was wrong or not, and I was just 162 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: wrongly justifying it to myself and there is an update, 163 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,239 Speaker 1: But no, you're not wrong. 164 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. There's got to be some kind of conspiracy. 165 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: There's got to be something going. 166 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: I don't know what it would be. 167 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: Whose Why is everyone against you? 168 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 2: It's a child own family, Like is this I don't know. 169 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: I don't get it. I just don't get it, and 170 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: I'm I'm being honest about that. 171 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 4: From everything that we have heard, it's like there's no 172 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 4: way that it's your responsibility and that you're an a 173 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 4: hole for not wanting to Like. 174 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, unless this is secretly your kid, but yeah, your camp. 175 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: There is an update, so let's get into it. My 176 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: ex wife somehow got a hold of my fiance's phone number. 177 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: She contacted her yesterday and made false accusations that I 178 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: cheated on her when we met up for coffee. Your 179 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: ex wife sucks. Obviously, my fiance didn't believe her and 180 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: just blocked her number. This morning, my sister showed up 181 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,559 Speaker 1: uninvited to my fiance's house with her kids, demanding to talk. 182 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: It sounds like the sister and the ex are. 183 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: Like in cahoots. Yes, I was gonna kohoots there. They're 184 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: co hooters, freaking. 185 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: Khudin all the way downtown. That was a good one. 186 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: Yes, score score on coha Annie. 187 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: Yes, we don't live together and I was not there. 188 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: My fiance originally wasn't going to let them in, but 189 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: my sister sat on her porch and refused to leave. 190 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: It was cold and windy, and the kids didn't have 191 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: coats on, and since it's not the kid's fault, she 192 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: ended up giving in. Wow, she used her The sister 193 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: used her kids to guilt Opie's fiance into letting her in. 194 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: She's put that's ridiculous, that's that's psychotic behavior, folks. That's 195 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 2: pretty bad parents, Like. 196 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to say it, but it's pretty bad parenting. 197 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: She put on a show for the kids and made 198 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: some coffee to prepare herself for whatever crap my sister 199 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: was going to say. My sister started a whole spiel 200 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: about how if she my fiance really cared about me 201 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: and not just my money, then she would do what's 202 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: best for me and leave. My sister claimed that since 203 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: I'll always be connected to my ex, that I will 204 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: be forever unhappy if I'm with anyone else. Apparently, if 205 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: my fiance doesn't leave me, it's proof that she's only 206 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: with me for my money. And then and that it's 207 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 1: obvious that my ex and our child which wtf, it's 208 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: not my kid, would actually use the money in a 209 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: godly way. 210 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 2: Yo, it's time to go. No conn. It's kind of no. 211 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: Contact with your sister. You got she's interfering with your 212 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: relationship and was also like trying to force you to 213 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 1: be a parent when you explicitly have stated that. 214 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 4: You do not want to do that, and she's literally 215 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 4: trying to get your fiance to leave you. Yeah, you 216 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 4: gotta pick up and go somewhere else and for like 217 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 4: you got to got to lose their number and that's 218 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 4: but also try to. 219 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 2: Split up you and your fiance for over a kid 220 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 2: it's not yours. 221 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: And is saying that that is your kid and your responsibility, 222 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: which is wild. 223 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 2: It hurts my head, hurts my head is aching? Okay? 224 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, My fiance laughed in my sister's face and 225 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: just stared at her until she left. My fiance and 226 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: I are both a little confused by what she said. 227 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: I am better off financially than my fiance, but not 228 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: by that much. I am also not religious, so even 229 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: if I did get back with my ex, me and 230 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: my money would still not be godly. We know she's crazy, 231 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: but again, why did she think her plan would do anything? 232 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: After my sister left, my fiance called me and told 233 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: me what happened. I called my sister to tell her 234 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: to leave my fiance alone and that she was crazy 235 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: and illusional. That's how you stand up for. 236 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 4: Your partner on business. And it sounds like she's a 237 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 4: real one too, because she's the one who laughed in 238 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 4: her face. 239 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, you leave this gun. She's like, he's 240 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 2: broke money. I make as much money as this guy 241 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 2: we're talking about. 242 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: But you know what would be you standing on business 243 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: joining us live every weekday at three? 244 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 4: Also, I was saying that it broke is like, you know, 245 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 4: she sounds like a funny, cheeky little. 246 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, she'd be saying that was a joke. Clearly, she's 247 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 2: extremely supportive. 248 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: Exactly. Thank you for clarifying that, because I just really 249 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: wasn't sure about her anymore. Yeah, tru, I just didn't 250 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: know her anymore. Yeah, don't let my words make you 251 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: split with your fiance. She defended herself by saying that 252 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: she knew what was best for me, and I believe 253 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: this is the sister and was just protecting me from 254 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: going through with the wedding since my fiance was obviously 255 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: taking advantage of me, and that since I'm under her spell, 256 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: I can't protect myself. I again told her she was 257 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 1: crazy and delusional and told her that I never wanted 258 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: to hear from her or anyone who's siding with my 259 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 1: ex again, and to please pass the message on every 260 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: time a family member or friend messages me about it, 261 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 1: which has been six just since this morning. I asked 262 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: them what their thoughts on the matter are and if 263 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: they sided with my ex or sister, I block them, 264 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 1: And I think that's the way. 265 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 4: To go absolutely, because that is it's unhinged to really 266 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 4: it's not fair. 267 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: It's not fair for them to make you think that 268 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 1: you're in the wrong for something that is not your 269 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: responsibility in the slightest and you know it's not. 270 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 4: Like it's really all of this goes back to the 271 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:40,079 Speaker 4: baby daddy. Is yeah, that's his This is really all 272 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 4: his fault, like exactly and is it? Could you say 273 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 4: it's on her for being like, I don't know, probably 274 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 4: not like you can't you can't blame somebody for being 275 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 4: with somebody who turns into a scumbag and gas. 276 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: But like, but I think it's the thing is that 277 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: it is her. It is even though it sucks what 278 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: happened to her, it doesn't mean that it's anyone else's 279 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: responsibility besides her and should have been the baby daddies. 280 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,199 Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know, it's me. 281 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 4: It's pretty like a pretty desperate move to just like 282 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 4: like try to try to Gasta being like, yeah, actually, 283 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 4: this is your kid. 284 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: This is your kid. 285 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 4: It's your kid in spirit, right and if you don't 286 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 4: take care of the kid, and you're gonna have to 287 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 4: explain that to the big man upstairs. 288 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, the spirit too, because. 289 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: You're not being very godly right now. I'll tell you 290 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 1: how much for free m But that is the end 291 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: of that story. Are there any donations that we need 292 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: to read? 293 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 2: I don't think so. 294 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 4: But I do want to say everyone in chat that 295 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 4: made a comment about my Bob Ross shirt, I love 296 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 4: you and thank you. 297 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: Really good shirt. I did notice that. Thank you, and 298 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: I appreciate. 299 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 2: That little Bobby Bobby. I'm gonna customize it soon, Bobby. 300 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I do a little embroidery. I'll do a 301 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 2: little embroidery here and there. 302 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 4: Put a little little happy accident somewhere on there. Might 303 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 4: put it in the middle of the galaxy. 304 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know. 305 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: You maybe have to wait and see. 306 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: I like it, but that is the end of that 307 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: story and the end of that episode, so I will 308 00:12:58,200 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: have to leave just. 309 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 2: Their Yeah, I think so. I think the last one 310 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 2: was the Melissa and Ace. 311 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 5: Do we have? 312 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: I think that's it? 313 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, is there anything there? All right? I will 314 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: hand you off to Riley for a little bit and 315 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: then I will come back shortly. 316 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 4: Ghali dokhali, So Riley. While you were gone, we named 317 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 4: all the worms. Oh gosh, it's a lot of worms. 318 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 2: They're mostly one on mine. 319 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 6: I have one on my microphone. 320 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 2: Did you name it? I think is name like Steve. 321 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 6: Steve. 322 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 2: Steve's a good worm name. 323 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 6: It's pretty solid. I can Steve. 324 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. 325 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: Have you read one yet? 326 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: I don't think I have not read one yet. I 327 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 2: give it a shot. Guys, are we going to find 328 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 2: out if I'm literate or not? Right now? Let's see 329 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 2: This is a episode, by the way, so we're gonna 330 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 2: do that. 331 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 6: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 332 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 7: Time for okop Relam. My wife's been snooping on my 333 00:13:55,520 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 7: laptop and she discovered something that she shouldn't tap. Snoopers 334 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 7: get a snoop and they're gonna find some shit that 335 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 7: you don't want to be snooped around. 336 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 6: And you know, sometimes snoopers get scooped, sometimes you scooped. 337 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 7: And also it sounds like they the snoopy got snooped 338 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 7: and scooped into this reddit story. 339 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 3: And you know who scooped This Retta story over to 340 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 3: us was one of our. 341 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 6: Bury own no in our slash Okop show. 342 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 7: Every week we take the two most up forwarded stories 343 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 7: we share it on the show, just like this. So 344 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 7: if you want to share your own story to get 345 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 7: featured on the show, go to our subreddit our slash Okop. 346 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 6: Show and send it in. 347 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 7: Thank you, thank you. I want to read some of 348 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 7: the other stories on that there. They're pretty funny. Yeah, exactly, 349 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 7: get throw them up. 350 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 6: Interesting. This one comes from level reaction four, five, six, nine. 351 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 6: I love the numbers. Oh yes, okay, we'll sip into it. 352 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 3: I twenty six male have been with my wife twenty 353 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 3: four female for a little under five years. Wow, stating 354 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 3: for three, engaged for one, and married for just under one. 355 00:14:58,240 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 3: She is the love of my life and I know 356 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 3: like the back of my hand. I know her needs. 357 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 3: Once when she would prefer water over diet coke when 358 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 3: she is starting to slip into a depressive state, anxiety triggers, 359 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 3: et cetera. 360 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 7: Wow, sounds like you're right. Op's a good good right now. 361 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 7: The one thing she is always worried about is that 362 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 7: I will leave her or cheat on her. Okay, her 363 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 7: parents had issues and she thinks all be the same. Okay, 364 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 7: that next makes that's good context and know probably some 365 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 7: marriage counseling in order, yeah, yes, yes, to combat this. 366 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 3: She has full access to my phone and personal computer. However, 367 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 3: my work computer is completely off limits due to the nature. 368 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 6: Of my job. 369 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 7: Makes sense, high security, high security. I recently got a 370 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 7: promotion and now have people who report to me. One 371 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 7: of these people is female. 372 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 5: Oh goodness, Suzzy. 373 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 3: Sometimes if I'm away from my computer and they have 374 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 3: a question, they will call or text my personal phone. 375 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:08,359 Speaker 6: And I typically reply with let me get online. 376 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 3: So we can talk over teams which is the business 377 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 3: platform views. Recently, she has looked through my phone and 378 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 3: saw that the girl who reports to me has texted 379 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 3: me quite a few times since she is new. And 380 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 3: I always say I'll be online shortly. What does oh 381 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: goodness doesn't mean you want to be on that time? 382 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 6: And my line on my thick hard line. 383 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 7: And how shortly are we talking about really short or 384 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 7: crazy short? 385 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 6: My wife wants to be in my thick long line. 386 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 3: If there's one thing that's for sure, if me and 387 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: Sam were working at this company, we would be fired. 388 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 3: It's always slight side note. It always just makes me 389 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 3: laugh at like the stories and content that get all 390 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 3: of these giant companies to reach out to us for 391 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,479 Speaker 3: brand deals. Their own employees would be fired for sharing 392 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 3: the same story. Yeah, for sure, it is pretty hilarious, 393 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 3: But go us. My wife showed her friends the text 394 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 3: thread and they all think that it is sus and 395 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 3: we are talking about stuff on the one device that 396 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 3: I never let my wife see. Okay, I wasn't putting 397 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 3: two and two together. 398 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 7: This is there's a conspiracy going. Yeah, I actually don't 399 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 7: think so. I mean, like he probably works in like 400 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 7: a cybersecurity whatever. 401 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 6: Yes, dude. 402 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 3: Some of those things are Like I one time working 403 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 3: for a startup, we had to get the certification. They 404 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 3: send representatives randomly to your office and sometimes I think 405 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 3: sometimes to your home wow, at random times to pass 406 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 3: the inspection. Because if you have a USB sitting out 407 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 3: that has classified information, someone could literally walk into the 408 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 3: office take it. 409 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 6: Yeah. I mean I have a. 410 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 7: A friend that works for like a defense company, like 411 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 7: lockeybah and like if you're like level black, you can't 412 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 7: you you do not have access to the Internet. When 413 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 7: you walk in. You have a completely different computer that 414 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 7: does not move from the safe zone. That makes sense. 415 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 7: I'm surprised you're still alive. Oh yeah, they have a hit. 416 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 6: On me right now? 417 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly right. FBI just bust outs the door. Podcast 418 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 7: is over. Boys, We're taking him, We're swatting them. 419 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. 420 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 3: So when this was all brought to my attention, I 421 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 3: showed her texts from my other reports. And I always 422 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 3: say I'll talk online, so consistent for everyone. The reason 423 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 3: I always say I'll talk online is because of the 424 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 3: technical data I deal with. My company takes cybersecurity very seriously. 425 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 3: To log in in the morning, there are three passwords 426 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 3: I need to input because it takes so. 427 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 6: Long to log in it's insane. That's a lot, a lot. 428 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,400 Speaker 3: I typically just turn off my screen when I walk 429 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 3: away instead of locking it. I figured, I'm in my 430 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 3: own home and typically the only people with me are 431 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 3: my dogs or my wife. 432 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 6: But can you trust the dogs? 433 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 5: They're secret spies out to get you. In a world 434 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 5: where you can't trust man's best friend, who can you trust? 435 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 5: Starring Jack Nicholson, There's the dogs and Nicholas Cage as 436 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 5: the man. 437 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 3: You're barking up the wrong tree if you think I 438 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 3: won't steal your data, Campadre this Summer and George Lopez 439 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 3: as the Chihuahua. 440 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 6: Hold on to your sombreros. We're getting the data. 441 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 3: The other day, I am working at home at my 442 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 3: in home office while my wife had some friends over 443 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 3: and I have to go to the bathroom, so I 444 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 3: turn off my screen to relieve myself. I decide to 445 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 3: also grab coffee from the kitchen, and when I come back, 446 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 3: I see my wife at my desk with her friends 447 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 3: around her. 448 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 7: Yeah, she has too much time. Yeah, what are we 449 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 7: doing during the work today? Like you're having all your 450 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 7: friends over, just like causing a ruckus. 451 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 3: It's too much. I flip out and ask what they 452 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 3: think they're doing. And they are reading the messages with 453 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 3: my coworkers. 454 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 6: What again, These. 455 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 3: Messages contain technical data that is not open to the public. 456 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 3: I kick her friends out of the house and tell 457 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 3: them they may have put my job in jeopardy since 458 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 3: I now have to report a breach of security, and 459 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 3: this breach of security is now. 460 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 6: Being shared with oops. 461 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 4: See. 462 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 3: Her friends argue that they were looking out for my 463 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 3: wife as a suspicious and I always answer on the computer. 464 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 3: All in all, I kicked her friends out and told 465 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 3: them to never come back again. 466 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, those but low key. 467 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 7: Those friends are like damaging, like they're painting seeds seeds 468 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 7: and endangering his off. 469 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 3: For real, like appreciating it's a lot. I called my 470 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 3: boss with my wife and told my boss everything and 471 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 3: made my wife tell me which conversations she read to 472 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 3: determine what she saw. My boss told me I got 473 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 3: lucky and nothing too sensitive was in the messages, and 474 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 3: in private he told me to maybe go get couples counseling. 475 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 6: Maybe that is what you should do. 476 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, my wife told her friends what I made her do, 477 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 3: and they all think I overreacted and I'm a complete 478 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 3: butthole for embarrassing. 479 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 6: Her to my boss. What do you all think this is? 480 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 3: This is from one of our own this is from 481 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 3: the Okay game, So maybe please definitely give give op 482 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 3: some some of your thoughts, Sam, what are your thoughts? 483 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 6: I think it depends on how sensitive. 484 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 7: Like, yeah, it feels a little bit by the book 485 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 7: and like maybe Op is I gotta buy the book 486 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,199 Speaker 7: kind of Yeah, yeah, yeah, it feels a little bit 487 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 7: by the book to like, you know, they were just 488 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 7: snooping for you know, gossip and like to go report 489 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 7: it to your boss feels Yeah, that part was a 490 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 7: little like over the top. Yeah, definitely bad at them 491 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 7: to snoop through your computer reprimand them personally, but to 492 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 7: go to the boss seems, I agree, actually be a 493 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 7: little unnecessary. But also like what if it's like, you know, 494 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 7: what if he's dealing with tactical nukes or something, or 495 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 7: like I don't know, like super sensitive information like financials 496 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 7: where it's like maybe there's a way to access financial 497 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 7: trading stuff like that whatever, you know, yeah, or like 498 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:44,719 Speaker 7: passwords stuff like that, So like I can I can 499 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 7: understand if he really values his job like he he 500 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 7: wants to ensure that nothing's fucked up. But I think 501 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 7: the I think like tiny tiny little bit of the 502 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 7: a hole for that, but I think think mainly the 503 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 7: wife and the friends. Yes, for intruding on his like 504 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 7: he's doing every like he's even like allowing her to 505 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 7: look like open phone and laptop policy just not my 506 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 7: work computer. 507 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yeah, like that that is truly as open 508 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 3: as you can get. And also just for like for 509 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 3: all the friends, like no one was like, hey, like. 510 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 6: Is this this not a breach of trust? 511 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 7: Are we is this a? Is this not a breach 512 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 7: of trust? B? Do we think like what if somehow 513 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 7: someone finds out and OP gets like fired or something like, 514 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 7: I mean how how that would be terrible bro awful. Also, 515 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 7: it's the work day. 516 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,199 Speaker 6: What are all they what are they doing? Like are 517 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 6: you talking about this. 518 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 7: T tea like goodness, gracious do the gossip or elsewhere? Yeah, 519 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 7: but that's our final story. We do want to read 520 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 7: some comments from our last mega episode. We do so 521 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 7: the Griffin so on our on our stepdad demands I 522 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,400 Speaker 7: pay sixty K. We did a bunch of different stories 523 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 7: and it was one of our first, Like we were 524 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 7: experimenting with this new long format. Yes you're seeing right here, 525 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 7: and the griffin Doro Tako nine six six seven says, 526 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 7: I prefer the long videos to the short ones. Loll 527 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 7: we noticed, which is why we're doing it. Moore and 528 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,360 Speaker 7: nine people like that as well. So to me, that's 529 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 7: like all right, people are letting us know which is good. 530 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 7: Like we want that feedback very much. So next one 531 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 7: came from Kiya Tequila. So Kia was talking about the 532 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 7: first story. 533 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 3: Basically what happened was the two parents that raised Op 534 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:39,479 Speaker 3: just did not provide for Op, did not give her 535 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 3: much support, and then they they turned back around and 536 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 3: demand sixty thousand dollars. So this is what Kiya had 537 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 3: to say, first story. I would never be with a 538 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 3: man like that. Women really will be with anyone. Oh 539 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 3: man throwing it down, Kia, your kids are suffering. Everyone 540 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 3: is suffering, and the mom is just as much of 541 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 3: the problem. They're both the a holes mom and stepdad. 542 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 6: Gross. 543 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean literally in the story like before a child, 544 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:10,439 Speaker 3: they would like not provide that. I believe it was 545 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 3: there was the child between the two of them because 546 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: it was the stepdad situation. 547 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 6: They're both of their child. 548 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 3: I think they gave like the preferential treatment and then 549 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 3: all the other steps, you know, the step children, they 550 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 3: they kind of like I remember. 551 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 7: That when they wouldn't allowed like they like made them 552 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 7: like they were all living in the house. 553 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, for my memory. 554 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 7: So it's like that's totally true, Like that's so that's 555 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 7: so sad that you would have like any children's step 556 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 7: or otherwise. I mean, and Opie's mom was Opie's biological mom, 557 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 7: Like why did Opie's mom allow that? Like super sad 558 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 7: that But if you want to check out that story, uh, 559 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 7: go go go watch it. 560 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,360 Speaker 6: That's right, that's a great one. 561 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 7: And also if you made it to the end of 562 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,120 Speaker 7: the episode, we want to know who the real ones are. 563 00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 7: Please comment gastro intestinal outburst syndrome. 564 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 6: Yes, if you could type. 565 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 7: If we have one person that types out all that, 566 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 7: I will literally fly to you and give you a hug, 567 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 7: a little kiss. Yes, right, we love you. Thanks for watching.