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Speaker 1: the Fredshell. Hey, Jesse, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you hey, I'm doing good things.

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Speaker 1: Are you all right doing? Okay? What's going on with

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Speaker 1: You guys, tell us how you met, and then about

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on, and then why do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we met on Tinder and she was beautiful,

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Speaker 2: We hooked up and I thought that was a good sign.

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Speaker 2: just like I don't know, we had good chemistry. I

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Speaker 2: surprising to me that, like it's just complete ghosting after

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Speaker 1: These are always the puzzling ones for me, where the

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Speaker 1: So you know, it's kind of weird that then after

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Speaker 1: come back in a couple of minutes, gonna call Summer.

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Speaker 1: out and then set you guys up on another date.

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Speaker 1: And Pa, let's see what's up in parks to you

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone right after Submarina Carpenter back in

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Speaker 1: two minutes. It's the Fred Show, the Carpenter, It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. It's tew hundred bucks with the show is

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Speaker 1: Shelley in ten minutes. You win. After the entertainer report

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Speaker 1: that's coming up to Hey Jesse, Hey, okay, let's call Summer.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you met on one of the apps. You

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Speaker 1: went out, had a great date, it went back to

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Summer.

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is Hey Summer. Hi, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning

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Speaker 1: radio show, and I do have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a dude named Jesse who reached out to us. I

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Speaker 1: So he told us he called us. He told us

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Speaker 3: Well, I can't.

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Speaker 4: I can't believe I really have to share all these

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Speaker 1: It is a little weird, but we'd love to know

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean you don't know and judge me here,

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Speaker 1: So you're you were disturbed by his ripped Holy Boxer

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Speaker 3: Know how do you think those holes were created? Exactly like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I was just making sure I get it. I would

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Speaker 1: I mean, you need to have one pair of underwear

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm honestly like shocked that that's what that that's

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Speaker 2: It was laundry day. I threw him on. I didn't

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess there could be reservations, Like I

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Speaker 1: I guess I guess you could go there, But I

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Speaker 2: That's too far. That's straight up too far. I like,

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Speaker 4: It just tells me you don't like take care of

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Speaker 4: That was our first date.

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Speaker 1: I was cute.

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, I guess I do think about that, like

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Speaker 2: What's it? Like? What's it mean? If I don't like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean are you cheap? Like are you do

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Speaker 1: you not? I don't know, but I mean the clothes

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, everything led to a point where there

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Speaker 1: Apparently like it.

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Speaker 4: I cannot see it.

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Speaker 1: I don't blame you. Really, you would just qualify a

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Speaker 4: Absolutely at least have the decency to like kick it

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Speaker 1: But he eventually has to put him back on to leave.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, especially not to see that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'll admit it.

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Speaker 1: I have had holes in my underwear before, like that's

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Speaker 3: However, I would never let a man see that, not

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: I mean, are we asking too much for just one

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Speaker 3: God?

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Speaker 1: Okay, but we must remember it all led to the

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Speaker 1: so everything was going to the communication was good, obviously,

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Speaker 1: he was presentable from the exterior, He was put together,

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Speaker 1: he was clean, he showered. I mean there were no issues. Wow, Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Saying like it with a guy who doesn't shower for

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Speaker 2: three days, right, choice, that's true.

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Speaker 1: We don't know that all the underwear is this way.

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Speaker 1: Like maybe he maybe that was just the last pair.

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Speaker 1: We've all been there, we've all been down to the

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Speaker 2: Commando, right like I laundry day. Okay, well.

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Speaker 1: We got another issue. Yeah, Hey, he's frustrated. He liked

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Speaker 1: the girl and he's upset. He's upset because he's being

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Speaker 1: out disqualified because of his holy underwear. All right, look, Summer,

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Speaker 1: let's say that we use part of the budget for

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Speaker 1: this date and we get the man some new shonies, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: some new fruit of the loom. We send the guy

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Speaker 1: over to Tommy John or whatever, get him some nice fancy,

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Speaker 1: some nice fancy boxer briefs. Then, Summer, would you give

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's too late. It's just I'm not his mom,

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Speaker 4: and I already feel like we're momming him with the boxes,

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Speaker 4: saying like you should be like grown a doll, and no,

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Speaker 4: you shouldn't be wearing Holly underwear on a first date.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a good point. I'm not asking for a lot.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I hear you. I'm just I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: I'm really trying to see the good of this. But

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Speaker 1: I understand you. This is your expectation. I think it's fair.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, I'm sorry, Jesse. We can't fix this one

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Speaker 2: No. I I found through this, through this chat that

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's skipped for me either.

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Speaker 1: But underw away, Let's just get some new underwear. Let's

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Speaker 1: make sure we don't have holes in our underwear. We

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Speaker 1: are grown ups. I mean, it's it's an easy thing

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Speaker 1: to do, right, Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's I'll get new underwear.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, good of us. We did our good deed today.

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Speaker 1: That's wonderful summer. Thank you for your time, Jesse, you

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Speaker 1: as well. Best have luck to both of you.

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Speaker 2: A