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Speaker 2: How are you hey, I'm doing okay?

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Speaker 1: How are you all right? Just okay? What's going on

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Speaker 3: Charles? And I'm okay too? By the way, thanks for asking.

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Speaker 3: Charles is a guy that you met recently. I got

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I met Charles through one of my coworkers and

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Speaker 2: Through some other job, not important, but he said that.

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Speaker 4: He was good looking and successful and really loved his

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Speaker 3: Okay, so this guy's out here like he's a serious person,

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Speaker 3: So you're thinking, Okay, these are all good qualities and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, and he seemed to check all the boxes.

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Speaker 4: I trust my coworker, so yeah, I thought it sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened next?

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Speaker 4: Well, I sassed him photos Evan and he was great

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Speaker 4: Him not long after that at all. He asked me

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Speaker 4: So I told him my plans were to go out

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Speaker 4: He, like I said, he checked all the boxes. He

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Speaker 4: He got along with all my friends, which is such

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Speaker 2: He seems really great and I really liked him.

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Speaker 4: I thought, I thought it was a great time, But

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Speaker 1: Don't know, I have no I don't know you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not invested in you, So I mean, and in

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Speaker 1: Well that's a good endorsement, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I would think so, And you don't have the awkwardness

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Speaker 2: Come up with conversations.

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Speaker 4: I mean it was like a group of people and

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Speaker 2: But you haven't from them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you haven't heard from him since.

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Speaker 2: No, he hasn't reached out.

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Speaker 4: He hasn't responded to any of my texts.

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Speaker 3: That's why we're here. So let's call this guy Charles.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he's been busy or broke his phone or totally

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Speaker 3: So good, Abby, let's find out what's going on in

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Speaker 3: make us a preset. Abby. All right, let's call Charles.

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Speaker 3: You guys were actually set up by somebody. I was

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Charles?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: This is him, Hi Charles, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 3: I'm calling from the Friend Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: Can which that for a little bit? Would you mind?

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Speaker 5: I mean, why are you calling me?

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Speaker 3: calling on behalf of a woman named Abby, who I

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Speaker 3: guess you were set up with, and you guys recently

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I know Abby.

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Speaker 1: Why why is that?

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Speaker 5: She come on, she contacted you guys to do this.

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Speaker 5: Whoa, he's driving everything that not? Apparently?

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Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm you know, Charles, I have to

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Speaker 3: I forgot that Abby is here.

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Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. She's been so quiet heavy.

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Speaker 3: You forgot to tell us that you took him on

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Speaker 2: Okay, not my ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Well, because it's currently because it still happens sometimes.

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Speaker 2: No, never my boyfriend. I'm sorry. I guess I'm a

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Speaker 4: He he's not my boyfriend. It's never been a relationship.

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Speaker 1: That was last boating season. This voating season, we're not

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 4: Look, a good deal is a good deal on a boat.

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Speaker 4: They're expensive, and I'm able to get a really good discount.

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Speaker 4: I don't see anything crazy with that if I'm not

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Speaker 3: No, no, I didn't. I don't think you're doing anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: But how long do you expect to continue getting this

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. He's a nice guy. Other

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: So well no, no, no, I'm not. I'm not shaming you

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Speaker 3: they're like, you know what it's on us tonight? And

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, because I used to sleep with the

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Speaker 3: But thanks for the free food. I mean, wouldn't that

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Speaker 3: Why did we come here?

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Speaker 2: I mean, he didn't have to come so.

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Speaker 1: And is the captain a generous lover? Well, I mean

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Speaker 3: Is he good at his craft or is it something

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Speaker 2: I mean it was it was worth the discount. I'll

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Speaker 1: Wow, no, wonder, that's weird.

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Speaker 3: Like if I'm out with all my buddies and the

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Speaker 3: of funny. I would wow. So Charles, you were you

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Speaker 2: You feel right?

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't think.

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Speaker 6: I don't think my feelings to uh too out of place.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: And here's the thing. I mean, my issue with it

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Speaker 2: No, it's not always like that.

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Speaker 4: So it's and so it wouldn't continue happening if if

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Speaker 3: We still go on the boat. I like what you

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Speaker 1: I just I think it would be uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: That's fine that he's allowed to feel that way, But

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Speaker 4: to be honest, I think I'm not really interested anymore.

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Speaker 4: I think I need to be with somebody who's a

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Speaker 3: And why not in your head, this is not insecure anybody.

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Speaker 1: She says, she's not gonna do it anymore. So, well,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's nice to have a friend with a boat.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I've done some stuff in my past.

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Speaker 1: You can judge me about it, right right.

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Speaker 3: But do you do you still take uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: Kind of pep boys.

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Speaker 6: Different if she was like, I'm going to keep sleeping

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Speaker 1: But she's like, oh, if I'm gonna okay with.

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Speaker 3: Charles, one more question than Abby and you've been very

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Speaker 3: So Charles, it would appear he's not interested. So then

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Speaker 1: I mean, MS, we want to come girls? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I mean, I guess my thing is like you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like the boat. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, look, Charles, I'll ask the question.

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Speaker 3: I know the answer. Would you like to go out

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Speaker 3: with Abby again? Not on a boat? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 3: You can pick the blaze this time.

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Speaker 5: No, but this is it. You know, this was fun

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Hey Abby, look I wish you the best.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate your honesty. It may have been a little

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Speaker 3: maybe that's not the first date spot.

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Speaker 2: Well all right, I'm sure that's how you feel.

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