WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: “I Love You”

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebils second d D pretty simple. You go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with someone and they end up blowing

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<v Speaker 1>you off, you email us, We'll give them a call

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<v Speaker 1>for you to find out why. Today we have Jacqueline

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Jacqueline, how are you hi, Jubal, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you so well? Benel with me? Okay, Gennal with him,

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<v Speaker 1>general with everybody that is not true. No you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think. No you're not. I know you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not Jewil. You have to be worried about. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a dude that won't call you back. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of worried about the whole thing at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? His name is Brad. Brad And what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do on your first date? Well? Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>we originally had met through some friends that I worked with, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and we went out to a happy hour, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>we drank a lot and you know, had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time. And you like to get and you like

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<v Speaker 1>to get hammered, so that's cool, I generally, but I

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't had anything to eat. We actually skipped dinner, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we totally skipped dinner. This rank through dinner, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and then of course one thing, that's another. I took

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<v Speaker 1>him home with me, and I with him nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't ever do you know, I ever do that? So

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't. Do you swear up and down that

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first time you've ever done that. I swear,

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<v Speaker 1>I swear it is the first time. I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>do this, And especially because I know him through work friend,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I don't. I really it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened. And then what he hasn't gotten back to

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<v Speaker 1>your censor. Well, I thought he here's the thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>really thought he would because he actually stayed the n

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even after anything weird, and he kissing goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. I actually offered him for this and

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<v Speaker 1>he said no, But it actually felt like really good, Jacqueline.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he say anything about calling you, Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, i'll talk to you soon. He kissed me goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried to get a hold of him. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard from him. I haven't had a text

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<v Speaker 1>from him. I haven't how long ago with this, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is almost a week ago. Okay, we're gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>him a call then and ask him the question and

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<v Speaker 1>you're prepared to hear whatever he has to say. I'm preparing, preparing, Okay, nice,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we'll call him right after this Brooking Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning se So, Jacqueline emailed us because she

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with a guy named Brad.

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<v Speaker 1>They went to happy hour, ended up drinking a little,

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<v Speaker 1>and he did something she has never ever done before,

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<v Speaker 1>took him home in the morning, he stayed, gave her

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss goodbye, and she hasn't heard from him since.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call and get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out why. Jacqueline. Uh huh, you're ready to give

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<v Speaker 1>him a call? I feel as he's gonna be I think,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your biggest fear of Jacqueline? Um? Oh god, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a fear of not knowing, mostly just not knowing, Jacqueline.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on his ring. Okay, Oh well, I speak to

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<v Speaker 1>Brad please. Yeah? This is Brad. Is this Brad? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning on

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<v Speaker 1>Moving ninety two point five. You got a second, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? I wanted to call you to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about a mutual friend of ours, a girl named Jacqueline.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that ring? A bell. Yes, okay, Uh, well, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you want on a date with her, ended up hooking

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<v Speaker 1>up with her after a happy hour and never called

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<v Speaker 1>her back. So we were just calling to find out,

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<v Speaker 1>like what the deal is? All right? I mean, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I'm not really like a kiss and tell

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<v Speaker 1>kind of guy. You know, I'm not kind of like people. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you definitely did more than kiss anyway. Um, here's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing she emailed us. It's a it's a segment we

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<v Speaker 1>do on our show called Second Date Update where somebody

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<v Speaker 1>goes on a date they don't get a call back,

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<v Speaker 1>so they email us to call and find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not the kind of guy I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really like doing this, but I mean, well

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<v Speaker 1>put it this way. She put you on blast first

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<v Speaker 1>and put your business out there, you might as well

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<v Speaker 1>let her have it, yeah, which which I don't appreciate,

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<v Speaker 1>but whatever. Um okay, I mean, the bottom line is

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<v Speaker 1>that she kind of freaked me out. I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say that she really freaked me out, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like that. What do you mean she freaked you out? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So right after we left together, Okay, we're line there

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<v Speaker 1>and she looked at me and she says I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>She did not, Yeah, are you serious? Two minutes after

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<v Speaker 1>we were done? And then maybe I was drunk. Hey, Brad,

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<v Speaker 1>Jacqueline's on the phone right now, Jacqueline. Did you really

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that you loved him? Do you remember doing that? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember, honestly, Like I can tell you, Brad,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't love you. So I'm sorry that I said that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think I'm really that's why. Okay, now, Jacqueline, Jacqueline,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, you're acting like you're blaming him for not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. I've got to take his side on this.

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<v Speaker 1>If a girl told me she loved me, even if

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<v Speaker 1>she was drunk, I would be a little weirded out context,

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<v Speaker 1>So like maybe it was like, oh of you or

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what, Jacqueline. It's okay. You get swept

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<v Speaker 1>up in the moment, and if anything, Brad should take

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<v Speaker 1>it as testimony to how good he I do remember that? Yeah, right, Brad?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it feel like more than that to you? Do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why it freaked you out? Anytime a girl starts in

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes and says I love you, it freaked you out, man,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when it's only been you've known her for about

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<v Speaker 1>three hours. Are you looking for a relationship right now? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not looking for a marriage and three kids in

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<v Speaker 1>the next I'm not. I'm not either. I'm really not

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<v Speaker 1>that like kind of You're not embarrassed at all by

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<v Speaker 1>the fact, even if you're drunk that you told a

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<v Speaker 1>guy you loved him the first time. I'm I'm completely

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<v Speaker 1>in darts. Are you kidding? Like us? My face, my

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<v Speaker 1>face right now is like flashed wet and I'm like breathing,

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel so stupid if it makes either one,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel better? The only time I've ever told

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<v Speaker 1>anybody I love them for the first time in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been drunk every single one of those times. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's I'm not even over exaggerating. So, Jacqueline, would you

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<v Speaker 1>be interested in going on a second date? If we

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it? Who I'm not. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go first. I don't want to answer a shot, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because Jackline is gonna jump on and be like, of

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<v Speaker 1>course I do, I love it. It's a forgivable accident.

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<v Speaker 1>Um brad is, would you want to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Jacqueline? Just chalk it up? To her

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<v Speaker 1>being drunk. You know, I I just don't have it

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<v Speaker 1>imediate chuck something up to being drunk. I feel wow,

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<v Speaker 1>wow you are? You know if that is her like

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<v Speaker 1>inner life and her inner monologue when she gets drunk,

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<v Speaker 1>she says these things like, I don't I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that's kind of direction. I'm headed. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know you why why would I? Well whatever, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, you know, if he's afraid to be with

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<v Speaker 1>me because I'm amazing, Like, I get it. It happens

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Okay, so you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on your second date, Jacqueline, thank you very much for

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<v Speaker 1>calling in and emailing us and you got the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so in love and Brad, yeah, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Jubil in the morning,