1 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: Rooking Jebils second d D pretty simple. You go out 2 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: on a date with someone and they end up blowing 3 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: you off, you email us, We'll give them a call 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: for you to find out why. Today we have Jacqueline 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: on the phone. Jacqueline, how are you hi, Jubal, I'm good. 6 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: Are you so well? Benel with me? Okay, Gennal with him, 7 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: general with everybody that is not true. No you're not. 8 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: But I don't think. No you're not. I know you. 9 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: It's not Jewil. You have to be worried about. It's 10 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: a dude that won't call you back. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 11 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm kind of worried about the whole thing at this point. 12 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: What's his name? His name is Brad. Brad And what 13 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: did you guys do on your first date? Well? Uh, 14 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: we originally had met through some friends that I worked with, okay, 15 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: and we went out to a happy hour, um, and 16 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: we drank a lot and you know, had a really 17 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: good time. And you like to get and you like 18 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: to get hammered, so that's cool, I generally, but I 19 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,279 Speaker 1: hadn't had anything to eat. We actually skipped dinner, okay, 20 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: so we totally skipped dinner. This rank through dinner, you know, 21 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: and then of course one thing, that's another. I took 22 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: him home with me, and I with him nice. I 23 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: don't ever do you know, I ever do that? So 24 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: I really don't. Do you swear up and down that 25 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: this is the first time you've ever done that. I swear, 26 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: I swear it is the first time. I really don't 27 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: do this, And especially because I know him through work friend, 28 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 1: you know, like I don't. I really it doesn't matter. 29 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: It happened. And then what he hasn't gotten back to 30 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: your censor. Well, I thought he here's the thing. I 31 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: really thought he would because he actually stayed the n 32 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: I didn't even after anything weird, and he kissing goodbye 33 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: in the morning. I actually offered him for this and 34 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: he said no, But it actually felt like really good, Jacqueline. 35 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: Did he say anything about calling you, Yeah, I mean 36 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: he's like, i'll talk to you soon. He kissed me goodbye. 37 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: Have you tried to get a hold of him. Yeah. 38 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: I haven't heard from him. I haven't had a text 39 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: from him. I haven't how long ago with this, Oh, 40 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 1: this is almost a week ago. Okay, we're gonna give 41 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: him a call then and ask him the question and 42 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: you're prepared to hear whatever he has to say. I'm preparing, preparing, Okay, nice, 43 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: all right, we'll call him right after this Brooking Jubil 44 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: in the morning se So, Jacqueline emailed us because she 45 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: went out on a date with a guy named Brad. 46 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: They went to happy hour, ended up drinking a little, 47 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: and he did something she has never ever done before, 48 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: took him home in the morning, he stayed, gave her 49 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: a kiss goodbye, and she hasn't heard from him since. 50 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna call and get him on the phone and 51 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: find out why. Jacqueline. Uh huh, you're ready to give 52 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: him a call? I feel as he's gonna be I think, 53 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 1: what's your biggest fear of Jacqueline? Um? Oh god, I don't. 54 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 1: It's a fear of not knowing, mostly just not knowing, Jacqueline. 55 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: Hang on his ring. Okay, Oh well, I speak to 56 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: Brad please. Yeah? This is Brad. Is this Brad? This 57 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning on 58 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: Moving ninety two point five. You got a second, Uh, 59 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: what's going on? I wanted to call you to talk 60 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: about a mutual friend of ours, a girl named Jacqueline. 61 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: Does that ring? A bell. Yes, okay, Uh, well, apparently 62 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: you want on a date with her, ended up hooking 63 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: up with her after a happy hour and never called 64 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: her back. So we were just calling to find out, 65 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: like what the deal is? All right? I mean, to 66 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: be honest, I'm not really like a kiss and tell 67 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: kind of guy. You know, I'm not kind of like people. Well, 68 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: you definitely did more than kiss anyway. Um, here's the 69 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: thing she emailed us. It's a it's a segment we 70 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: do on our show called Second Date Update where somebody 71 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: goes on a date they don't get a call back, 72 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: so they email us to call and find out why. 73 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not the kind of guy I am. 74 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: I don't really like doing this, but I mean, well 75 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: put it this way. She put you on blast first 76 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: and put your business out there, you might as well 77 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: let her have it, yeah, which which I don't appreciate, 78 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: but whatever. Um okay, I mean, the bottom line is 79 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: that she kind of freaked me out. I'm just gonna 80 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: say that she really freaked me out, and I don't 81 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: like that. What do you mean she freaked you out? Okay? 82 00:04:54,360 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: So right after we left together, Okay, we're line there 83 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: and she looked at me and she says I love you. 84 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: She did not, Yeah, are you serious? Two minutes after 85 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: we were done? And then maybe I was drunk. Hey, Brad, 86 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: Jacqueline's on the phone right now, Jacqueline. Did you really 87 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: tell him that you loved him? Do you remember doing that? No? 88 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't remember, honestly, Like I can tell you, Brad, 89 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: I don't love you. So I'm sorry that I said that, 90 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: but I think I'm really that's why. Okay, now, Jacqueline, Jacqueline, 91 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: hang on, you're acting like you're blaming him for not 92 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: calling you back. I've got to take his side on this. 93 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: If a girl told me she loved me, even if 94 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: she was drunk, I would be a little weirded out context, 95 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: So like maybe it was like, oh of you or 96 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what, Jacqueline. It's okay. You get swept 97 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: up in the moment, and if anything, Brad should take 98 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: it as testimony to how good he I do remember that? Yeah, right, Brad? 99 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: Did it feel like more than that to you? Do that? 100 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: Why it freaked you out? Anytime a girl starts in 101 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: your eyes and says I love you, it freaked you out, man, 102 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: especially when it's only been you've known her for about 103 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 1: three hours. Are you looking for a relationship right now? Well, 104 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: I'm not looking for a marriage and three kids in 105 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: the next I'm not. I'm not either. I'm really not 106 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: that like kind of You're not embarrassed at all by 107 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: the fact, even if you're drunk that you told a 108 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: guy you loved him the first time. I'm I'm completely 109 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: in darts. Are you kidding? Like us? My face, my 110 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,799 Speaker 1: face right now is like flashed wet and I'm like breathing, 111 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: like I feel so stupid if it makes either one, 112 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: do you feel better? The only time I've ever told 113 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: anybody I love them for the first time in my life, 114 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: I've been drunk every single one of those times. And 115 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: that's I'm not even over exaggerating. So, Jacqueline, would you 116 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: be interested in going on a second date? If we 117 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: pay for it? Who I'm not. I don't want to 118 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: go first. I don't want to answer a shot, you know, 119 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: because Jackline is gonna jump on and be like, of 120 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: course I do, I love it. It's a forgivable accident. 121 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: Um brad is, would you want to go on a 122 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: second date with Jacqueline? Just chalk it up? To her 123 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: being drunk. You know, I I just don't have it 124 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: imediate chuck something up to being drunk. I feel wow, 125 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: wow you are? You know if that is her like 126 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: inner life and her inner monologue when she gets drunk, 127 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: she says these things like, I don't I just don't 128 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: think that's kind of direction. I'm headed. I don't even 129 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: know you why why would I? Well whatever, you know, 130 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: it's fine, you know, if he's afraid to be with 131 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: me because I'm amazing, Like, I get it. It happens 132 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: you guys. Okay, so you don't want to go out 133 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: on your second date, Jacqueline, thank you very much for 134 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: calling in and emailing us and you got the answer. 135 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm so in love and Brad, yeah, I love you. 136 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: Broken Jubil in the morning,