1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 4: Don't given them all black the mill bu bu booz. 5 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, listen to. 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 4: Show tont joy. 7 00:00:50,000 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, Joy, You don't use turn love you. 8 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 5: Turn. 9 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 4: You gotta turn. 10 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 6: We got to turn the mouth turn You probably got 11 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 6: to turn the mouth turn out, turn. 12 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: The money cap looking me? Come come on you think that? 13 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 7: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You all 14 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 7: listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now. One 15 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 7: and only is Steve Harvey Man got a radio show? 16 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 7: How good is God? 17 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 2: Huh? Think about it? Just take a slight inventory of 18 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: your own life and say it to yourself when you 19 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 2: get through, how good is God? Think of all the 20 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 2: small things all because that's him. You breathing, that's him. 21 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: You still here, that's him. You got another chance? That's him. 22 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: You ain't out of here. That's him. You got any 23 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: measure of health, that's him. You think it's more to 24 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 2: it than it really is than it already showed up 25 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 2: to be. That's him. All of that. You got any 26 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: dreams or aspirations, you dream of other things, that's him. 27 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: All that, that's him. That's him. Him. Clothes you got, 28 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: that's him every time you eat. That's why they had 29 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: this thing called you say your grace. That's him. See 30 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: that's him, man, that's him. It's amazing. When you take 31 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 2: a small inventory, you find out how big God really 32 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 2: is in your life. Now, the more you turn yourself 33 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: over to him, the bigger he can be for you. See, 34 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: he'll only be as big as you let him. It's 35 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 2: one thing about God. Now, he's a gentleman. He can 36 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: make you do anything. 37 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 8: You know. 38 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 2: You get too big for him, you know, you you 39 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: lose your humbleness. He can humble you. 40 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 9: Now. 41 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 2: God created man with the power of choice. We're the 42 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 2: only creature he created that. He gave us the total 43 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: power of choice when we mate, who we mate with. 44 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: You know everything, all of it. Man. It's a choice 45 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: what we want to be, how much we want to make, 46 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 2: where we want to live, with climate we want to 47 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 2: live in. We can live in cold climates, hot climates. 48 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: You know, we speak different languages. You can go learn 49 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: another language. A bear can't do nothing but be a bear. 50 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: Is he can't go learn how to be a fox. 51 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 2: Ain't gonna learn how to be an otter? He just can't. 52 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: And Ostrich is an ostrich man. He can't come out 53 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: here and fight like a lion. A lion is a lion. 54 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 2: A lion eating meat. He can't eat vegetables. I don't 55 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: care how much meat ain't around. He'll lay down and 56 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: pull up out of here and die because he can't 57 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: eat grass. He just a lion man. You understand this 58 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: that God gave us. We are the one creature he 59 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: created that has total power of choice. You can make 60 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: every decision in your life. What kind of watch you like? 61 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 2: That's the one you can buy. You want to live 62 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 2: in Switzerland, go ahead. You don't like Switzerland, you can 63 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 2: move to Miami. You want to live your life for crime, 64 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 2: go ahead. That's you. He gave you the power choice 65 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 2: you want to do? 66 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 8: Right? 67 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: Come on, So now look at this thing. 68 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: We are all. 69 00:04:55,680 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 2: The results of a series of decisions that we have made. 70 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 2: If we could just identify that the problem is us, 71 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 2: we could began the solution. See that's the problem, y'all, 72 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 2: it's us. It's what we do. I threw my life 73 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: down the hill. I can't tell you how many years 74 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 2: based on some decisions that I was making. Now I 75 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 2: can justify my decision where I wasn't happy and I 76 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: was doing this and I was in miserying y'all on 77 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 2: that he ain't yes to you. When you get through, 78 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: you made the decisions though, and you can look at 79 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: this anyway you want to, y'all. But at the end 80 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 2: of the day, I'm just talking to people that's really 81 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: really wanting to improve their position in life. And how 82 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 2: do you do that? You got to have a solution. 83 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 2: How do you come up with a solution? You got 84 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 2: to identify the problem to even began to solve it. 85 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 2: But if the problem ain't ever you, how you gonna 86 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: solve something that ain't you? See? Okay, let me look 87 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 2: at this one. If somebody say, like I got a 88 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 2: child of mine, man, I just do right here. Man, 89 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: I don't even wanna get into it this morning, bore. 90 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 2: I'm struggling with this this boy. But man, you go 91 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 2: to people, you ask them why they do so I 92 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 2: just did. I just wasn't taking care of business? Why 93 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 2: I just didn't take care of business? Boy, do you 94 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: understand that your life is gonna be filled with you 95 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 2: got to take care of business. So when you're gonna start, 96 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 2: you know what I mean you can't. 97 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 3: You can't. 98 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: You can't go through life. Blame it everybody. 99 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 10: It's got to be you. 100 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: See, you can fix you. 101 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: You can't fix. 102 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: Nobody else if you keep getting married and the marriages 103 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 2: don't work. Hello, Hello, Hello, could it be you? South 104 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 2: Founally had to sit down and just make that decision. 105 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 2: Ain don't need to be coming on the radio talking 106 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: about nobody else and what they did to me, and 107 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:02,119 Speaker 2: y'all just don't know. No, no, no, man, what about 108 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: the part you played in it? Cause see, if you 109 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: got a good marriage, you got a part to play 110 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 2: in that. If you got a bad one, you got 111 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: a part to play in that. Even if it just 112 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: get down to you the one picked them, how about that, mister, 113 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 2: mister I made a decision. The problem is usually within yourself. 114 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 2: Do you know that's the quickest and easy way to 115 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 2: fix your life. That way, you ain't got to check 116 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: with nobody. Here's the beauty of going on and admitting 117 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 2: that it's you. You don't have to check or clear 118 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 2: it with nobody to start the repair process. You don't 119 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 2: need anybody's permission. You ain't got to put it before 120 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: the review board to see if it will pass. It 121 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 2: ain't got to go through Congress. You ain't got to 122 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 2: hope that your local politician get their hands on it 123 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: and make a phone call for you. You ain't got 124 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 2: to ask any counselors to come in and sit with you. 125 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 2: You don't have to check in the rehair. All you 126 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: got to do is decide the problem is me. I'm 127 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: gonna start changing me. Identify the problem, and start with 128 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: the part that you can own up to. Once you 129 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 2: identify the problem, you can start planning on how to 130 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 2: fix this or how to get to accomplishing something. But 131 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 2: remember this plan and is important. If you fail to plan, 132 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 2: then please plan to fail. If you don't know how 133 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 2: to make a plan, let's just start with the basics. 134 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 2: Just make a list of what you want. Make this 135 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 2: list and then go to God in prayer with an 136 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 2: open mind and open your mind up to all the 137 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: clean opportunities that are available here. Why a lot of 138 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: people won't succeed because certain opportunities come along you don't 139 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,839 Speaker 2: want to do them. That kills me. Man, when I 140 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: hear here, I ain't doing that. I know young comedians 141 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 2: that come to me all in time. I'm talking about 142 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: man with you and I say, man, just take every 143 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 2: gig you can, no matter what it pays. Well, listen 144 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 2: to me, son, you can go make that money that 145 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 2: they pay, or you can make the decision to sit 146 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 2: at home and make no money. It's a comedy, hard business. 147 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 2: They ain't paying but one hundred dollars. You gotta drive 148 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 2: fifty miles. But if you drive fifty miles and you 149 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 2: make the hundred and you stand on that stage for 150 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 2: thirty minutes, you are now thirty minutes better than you 151 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: was the last time you went on stage. 152 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 11: Ah. 153 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 2: Man, they ain't man, they don't pay me. I ain't coming. 154 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: You ain't finna be a comedian, man, not not like 155 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: this here. A lot of people just don't want to 156 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 2: do what's necessary to do. So when the opportunity presents 157 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: itself and you open up your mind to it, man, 158 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 2: then get ready to go on and do it. Man, 159 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 2: identify your problem today. Start with the part dash. 160 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: You you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 161 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, take away all the confusion you may 162 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: be feeling today. Take away any negative thoughts you may 163 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 2: have had about waking up on the wrong side of 164 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 2: the bed, because waking up is the key. There is 165 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: joy in waking up. There is a gift that's been 166 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,719 Speaker 2: given to you, and it's called the present. And what 167 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 2: an incredible gift it is. We are all right now 168 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 2: living in the present. That's a gift from God Man, 169 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 2: and the only one can give you that present is 170 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 2: God Almighty. I loving for it, Ladies and gentlemen. This 171 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,599 Speaker 2: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. And the reason we 172 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 2: have been number one for so long is because we 173 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: put him number one. Amen. I don't care what they're saying. 174 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: That's the reason I love. Ladies and gentlemen. Shirley Strawberry 175 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 2: call it for real, Mississippi Monica Junior and the legend 176 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: that is Nephew Tommy Well Junior. What's on your mind today? 177 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,599 Speaker 10: It's not about what's on my mind. We need to 178 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 10: know what's on yours because you know what. 179 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 8: The day is. 180 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: You know what the day is, right? 181 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: Of course, your white Birthday ain't martyr, Oh dog, that's 182 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,719 Speaker 2: that's You know how long I've been thinking about that? 183 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 2: You know the preparations that it goes into this day? 184 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: Do you know the thoughtfulness that I apply to celebrate 185 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 2: this woman every year? Because you know what I ignore 186 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: everything she says. Well, you ain't gotta get me nothing. 187 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: I'm not a child. It's not Christmas. Just you know, 188 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 2: just flowers would be nice. Yeah, ignore all that, all that, 189 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 2: you know, I had my big one last year. Last 190 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: year was my sixty if that was my big one, bro, 191 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 2: I ignore all of that. Yeah yeah, bring it, yeah man, 192 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 2: and show out today, Steve Harvey, show out. I'm letting 193 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 2: her have it. 194 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: Got so nice. 195 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 10: That's good man, that's show too. 196 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 5: Man. You know what I did too? 197 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:23,719 Speaker 9: Man? 198 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 2: What what do you do to for her birthday? I 199 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 2: did all this thought I didn't put into this. Well, 200 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 2: when you're gonna come canceling all I want to eat ragged? 201 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: That's so thoughtful. 202 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 10: I thought about it. Ain't margin's birthday too? 203 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 2: Okay, all night with this one too. Man. 204 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 10: This is the same amount of time he spent playing. 205 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 10: I did the same thing. I ignore everything she said. 206 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: To I did the for the for the look. 207 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 12: Lines. 208 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 10: You ain't gotta give me no poem. I did it anyway. 209 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, look at you, Look at you? 210 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 2: Show did that's nice? 211 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 6: Look? 212 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: When are we gonna hear it? 213 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 13: Jor hey, hey, hey, hey, you can't rush perfection. It's 214 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 13: going to drop in the show. You're gonna you're gonna 215 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 13: drop in masterpiece. We just got to keep listening, all right, 216 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 13: he's coming. 217 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 2: In everything out of work for about to go down 218 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 2: the tube, and. 219 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: Junior's coming in hot with his. 220 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 8: Coming up. 221 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: Thank you guys. 222 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 14: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 223 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 14: will hear from the nephew as he runs that prank 224 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 14: back right after this. 225 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 226 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 13: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 227 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 13: planning and hard work to get in the door. Didn't 228 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 13: make that house a home. Now, all the effort has 229 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 13: built something hugely bout equity. It's the portion of your 230 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 13: homes you truly own that can be tapped the fun. 231 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 10: What's next? 232 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 13: And Rocket Mortgage is here to help you turn your 233 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 13: home's equity into cash. 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Nephew, what you got for us? 239 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: Hot checks? 240 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: Church people at the church. 241 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: Hot checks at the church. 242 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 9: Churchful because good I can still go in now I 243 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 9: have security when I go in probably, well. 244 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: Guy, yeah, yes, that's a good app Yeah, when you. 245 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 9: Going to the church, because those are the people that 246 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 9: are as soon as they see you. It's instant, you know, y'all. 247 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 9: Don't seen y'all remember that? Did y'all see that video 248 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 9: with that man on that front row and a man 249 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 9: came up there and just betot fighting that man busting ante. 250 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 6: Right y. 251 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: For a real baby, Hot checks at the church. Let's 252 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: go catchum. 253 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 9: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Monica, Sister Monica, please, 254 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 9: who's calling? This is brother Deshaun. I'm calling. Actually I'm 255 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 9: a member Greater Missionary Baptist Church. 256 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 15: How can I help you? 257 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: Calling you? Actually about the offering? Now? Did you? 258 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 15: I know you paid your ties, my ties every Sunday. 259 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Now you paid a love offering as well? 260 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 15: Right, yes, I do. 261 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: Okay, Now this past Sunday, I'm looking at a check that. 262 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 15: You left us with the bank, right right, I sure did. 263 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 15: I wrote a check Sunday. 264 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 2: Okay. Now the check, ma'am was two hundred and fifty dollars. 265 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 15: Am I correct, right, right, I wrote two checks for 266 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 15: my tithes and the love Offering. Right, I wrote one 267 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 15: for two fifty. 268 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 9: For the Love offer. 269 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 15: Okay, now what is this called regarding why are you 270 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 15: calling me? 271 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 9: Well, what I wanted to tell you is that I 272 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 9: hate to be a very bad news but your your 273 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 9: check that you wrote for two fifty actually has bounced. 274 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 15: And wait a minute, you said my check bounce for 275 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 15: two hundred and fifty dollars. 276 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 2: Your check bounce. 277 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 9: So what I'm doing is calling you about recouping the 278 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 9: two fifty as well as you know you you cost 279 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 9: us thirty dollars uh in bank fees. 280 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 15: Wait a minute, now, I wrote two checks. I wrote 281 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 15: a check for one hundred dollars. Did that one bounce? 282 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 2: I don't see to it that that that one bounce. 283 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: All I know is the one that the Love Offering 284 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 2: has bounced. 285 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 15: What did you put them in at the same time? 286 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 15: Because I wrote them at the same time. 287 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 9: They all go in on Monday, ma'am. Now I didn't 288 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 9: put them in at the same time. I've been putting 289 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 9: them in for the last two three years. The problem 290 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 9: is why would people write there? 291 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 15: What is your name? 292 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: Brother, Deshaun and you was at his Sunday I was. 293 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 9: I don't think it matters, and when I was there, ma'am, 294 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 9: the problem is is that I didn't put these checks in. 295 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 9: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks. 296 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 15: To the check knowing that they're gonna these checks. There's 297 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 15: a lot of people, right, no, good, well not write 298 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 15: bad check? One clear? Why the other one didn't clear? 299 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 2: Maybe you didn't have enough money for both for them 300 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 2: to clear. 301 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 16: What did you just say? 302 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 9: Maybe you didn't have enough money in the bank for 303 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 9: both of them to clear. And I don't understand why. 304 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 15: People write these plenty money in the bank and all 305 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 15: my checks clear. I don't write no rubber checks. 306 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 9: Well you wrote one on Sunday, and that's the problem. 307 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 9: How you gonna try to give. 308 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 2: A look us? 309 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 15: Wait a minute, I think you got me confused with 310 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 15: somebody else. I don't write no bad checks. 311 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 2: You done wrote that to. 312 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 15: Be nice to you. 313 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 9: I'm trying to be nice to you. Win up, Can 314 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 9: we expect the two fifty plus the thirty dollars? 315 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 15: So we wait thirty dollars. 316 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 2: That's the bank. 317 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,880 Speaker 1: Fees, ma'am for the dollg gone check bouncing my check 318 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:33,479 Speaker 1: din bounced. 319 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 15: I'm gonna check my bank and if my check clear, 320 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 15: you're gonna pay me thirty dollars for calling me harassing 321 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,879 Speaker 15: me about a two hundred and fifty dollar check bounce. 322 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 2: I don't write no why would you write check? 323 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 9: You want to sit up in the church and write 324 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,120 Speaker 9: these big number checks when you know you ain't got 325 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 9: it in the bank. 326 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 15: What did you say? 327 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 2: I said, why would you write these checks when the 328 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 2: money ain't in? 329 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 15: Now, let me tell you one thing. I don't write 330 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 15: no bad checks. And you got a lotter calling me 331 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 15: telling me my check bounce. 332 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 2: Your check is the one that has bounced. 333 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 15: And you tell you what you do since my check bounce, 334 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 15: you paid them since you got all the money, And 335 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 15: don't call me with this again. 336 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: Hello, don't you hang up on me no more? When 337 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 2: are we gonna get this two fifty and this thirty dollars? 338 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 15: Somebody from the church, to my eye, rolled a bad check. 339 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,159 Speaker 15: I'll write no, you didn't write a bad check. I 340 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 15: didn't write no bad Yes, why are you calling me? 341 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 15: Why the treasure don't call me at church? The treasure 342 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 15: is I ain't ever know the deacon call nobody bout 343 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 15: no bad check? Yo is fuller? Thank you? You got 344 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 15: the money? 345 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: I ain't got that in the background. 346 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 2: Who is that? 347 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 15: Never mind who it is. We both go to the 348 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 15: same church, and you gonna call me to my eye 349 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 15: rode a bad check? You don't you call me no more? 350 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 15: And if the check bad, you paid? Okay? 351 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 2: You talking like this? 352 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 15: You pastor know you calling me? 353 00:18:59,280 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 5: Can you ask for that? 354 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 10: Look? 355 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 2: When are we gonna get this? Two hundred and eighty 356 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 2: dollars is what we're looking for from you? 357 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 15: I wrote a check for two fifty and way and 358 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 15: not get to eighty. You put the thirty dollars with it. 359 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 9: You put two fifty in there, It bounced. Thirty dollars 360 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 9: cost us on bank fees. That's too eighty. Where can 361 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 9: the church expect they money? 362 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 15: Never not no to eighty. You will never get to eighty. 363 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 9: You're gonna make me come by your and my check. 364 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 9: Then I'm gonna do what You're gonna make me, come 365 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 9: by your house and get this money. 366 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 15: Bring it on, bring it, bring it? 367 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 2: What is the address on this check? 368 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 15: Check? 369 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 2: I got it off the check. 370 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 9: Bring your on. 371 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 15: I bet you you'll be lipping. 372 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 9: Back and I'm watching you. You better not be spending 373 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 9: no money nowhere. You better not spend nothing until I 374 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 9: get this two. 375 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 15: Fifty plus thirty whatever I want to do. You know 376 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 15: what I am, and you don't call me no more 377 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 15: with this because my check did not bounce. I don't 378 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 15: see how one check went through and the other bounce. 379 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 2: Let me say this to you. 380 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 9: We cannot accept you back into the House of the 381 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 9: Lord no more until you are not don't you come 382 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 9: in Sunday. 383 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 15: Until weekends coming up and there Sunday, and I'm gonna 384 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 15: make sure I find your because you the person I 385 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 15: want to see you. And you know what, I'm gonna 386 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 15: call the pastor right now and ask him because I 387 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 15: don't believe my check bounce. 388 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 2: You fuller, Let me say this before you call pastor. 389 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 15: I got no I'm gonna call pastor. No, you should 390 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 15: have talked with pastor before you call me with this information. 391 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 2: I got one more thing I need to say that You. 392 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 15: Ain't got nothing to say to me. You done upset 393 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 15: me with this talking about I bounced a check. You 394 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 15: should have went to the pastor before you called me 395 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 15: with it. 396 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 9: I talk pastor one I get, but I got one 397 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 9: more thing to say before I leave. 398 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 2: Did you listening? 399 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 15: What do you have to say to me? What do 400 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 15: you have to say now that you're gonna pay the check? 401 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 9: This is his nephew, timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 402 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 2: You just got prayed by your girlfriend? 403 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 15: What did you say? 404 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 2: Baby? 405 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: This is. 406 00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 15: What did you say? 407 00:20:59,480 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 2: I say? 408 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 9: This his nephew Tommy Baby, from the Steve Harvey Morning 409 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 9: Till your girlfriend has pranked you? 410 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 15: I'm at he just left here flying to her. She didn't. 411 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: Let me ask you one more tank though? Baby? What 412 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 2: is the baddest radio show in the land? 413 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 15: The Steve Harvey Morning. 414 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 3: Coming up? 415 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: Next? It is asked the CLO or Chief Love Officer, 416 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building. 417 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 14: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 418 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 14: Hey everyone, quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, 419 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 14: still loving, still connecting, did you know your immune system 420 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 14: weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in. 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Marcus Jordan, Michael Jordan's son, Michael jordan'son's son. 434 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: Oh, he was alcoholic. 435 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 1: Well he had issues, Yeah, he had issues. Yeah, yeah, and. 436 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, Okay, we'll talk about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 437 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 14: That is all coming up at the top of the hour. 438 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 1: But right now it is time to ask the CLO, 439 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:03,120 Speaker 1: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Ready, it's CLO always. 440 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 14: Marie and Dolton writes, I bought a barbecue dinner to 441 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 14: support my friend's business, and the meat was tough and 442 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 14: not seasoned. Well, I want to tell her that's why 443 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 14: her business isn't flourishing, But I don't want to offend 444 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 14: her as a friend. Should I give her constructive criticism? 445 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: That is what she wants to know. 446 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 2: No, just her non by the little dried now in 447 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 2: taste the baubecue. Oh, come on, can't, no, you can't. Okay, 448 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 2: what I've told you, But it's going The business ain't 449 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: going good, no way, it ain't causing her, but to 450 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 2: help it make it better. It was what I'm saying. 451 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 2: Wouldn't you tell them so they can if you are 452 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 2: her friend and you want to keep their friendship by 453 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: the little dry, non tasted barbecue. 454 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: But as her friend, she wants to see her business 455 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: grow and flourish and everything. 456 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 2: Business of fin to grow like that. She can't cook, 457 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 2: take your sales receipt, but if she may tell the 458 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 2: real story, well why. 459 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,680 Speaker 16: She can't say I'm frying. Uh, maybe you should put 460 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 16: a little dry rub or some season. 461 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 2: It's already track a little longer, it's already okay. 462 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 16: Maybe she needs to change out what is it the 463 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 16: chips and the wood that she's You. 464 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 2: All are grillers, you know she needs to start selling 465 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 2: homemade jewelry, jewelry, barbecue, jewel Once you can't cook, you 466 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 2: got to get out of the food beast to sit 467 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 2: out of it. Okay, sell popsicle ass trees anything. 468 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: Ew Moving on to uh, Emani in Tampa. Emani rights. 469 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 14: I have a five year old son that wants to 470 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 14: go trigger treating and I'm not with all of that. 471 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 14: My father is a pastor and he's also against it. 472 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 14: Will my child be hurt if he can't go with 473 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 14: his friend? 474 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 2: He ain't gonna be Yeah, of course he ain't gonna 475 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 2: be hurt. 476 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, So what should she do? 477 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 5: Go with it? 478 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: She said, she's not with it, but you think she 479 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 1: should just do it for her son. 480 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: Her son gonna be hurt. 481 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 1: He not going trick or treating with his friends and 482 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: all of that. But you know, some people aren't into 483 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 1: the holiday. They think it's evil and all of that. 484 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 2: Well it is. It's too much, too much going on 485 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 2: out there. Now. We we throw Halloween parties for the 486 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 2: kids because they're not going. 487 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:35,199 Speaker 1: Trick or treating. 488 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's by the time my grandkids walk down there 489 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 2: long or driveway and go out there gate and make 490 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 2: their right turn, they're gonna be tied anyway they come 491 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 2: back to the house. 492 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: Problems. 493 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even know where to day, but you 494 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 2: can go down there. I hope they feel in his 495 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 2: bag because that next house. 496 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 16: What about the act of letting the kid trick or 497 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 16: treat and then throwing the candy out and all that 498 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 16: and then give them their own. Can they're just participating, 499 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 16: you know, in the activities. That's what we used to 500 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 16: do with the little kids. 501 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, what about that? 502 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's I don't believe you mean that. I 503 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,640 Speaker 2: don't even know what you're talking about. Candy. 504 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't eat the candy that the neighbors give them. 505 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 2: Well, what is you collecting the fault. 506 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: Because you're just doing the activity and being with his friends. 507 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: They're just walking black to black trick or treat. They're 508 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 1: just doing that part of it. 509 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 2: What about that? So I got this snickle, but I 510 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 2: can't have it. 511 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: No, you're gonna eat the snickers that we bought. Yeah, 512 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: we can't have you at the house. We have candy 513 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: for you, but you can go hang out with your friends. 514 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 2: I still got last year candy. 515 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: That the truth. 516 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 2: What to do with this camp You can't eat it? 517 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 2: I give it out this year. 518 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,959 Speaker 1: That's why you can't let them beat Okay, Nope, all right, 519 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 1: we're moving on. Jason and Milwaukee. 520 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 14: Jason writes, I moved in with my girlfriend and she 521 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 14: never tells me when we're having company. She invites her 522 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 14: friends and family members over and I love it if 523 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 14: she gave me a heads up beforehand. 524 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 1: I know it's her house. But am I asking for 525 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 1: too much? 526 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 2: Well, all you got to do is say, hey, baby, 527 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 2: I love your company. Just give me your heads up, 528 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 2: you know, because i'd be walking on how it looking crazy? 529 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 2: I might want to put on a little something else, 530 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: you know. Mon, No, you don't have to tell me 531 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 2: you're having company. Just let me know you're having company. Yeah, 532 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 2: I don't mind who you can have whoever you want 533 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:49,119 Speaker 2: over here. 534 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: I'm trying. 535 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 2: I'm trying to be nice to you know. 536 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,679 Speaker 1: I don't know when I'm having company. 537 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 2: They just come over, you know, stopt When people come 538 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 2: over here, then. 539 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 1: That's what they've been doing. Okay before you got it? 540 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know ding Dong when. 541 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: Hill ding Dong, we ain't here, and I got news for. 542 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 2: I disconnect the doorbell. They be out there all. 543 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 1: But why does he think it's her house? Why doesn't 544 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: he think it's their house? 545 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 8: You know? 546 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 1: He said, I know it's her house, But am I asking. 547 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 2: For too much? Well, he might be saying it's her 548 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 2: house too, Or it could be he moved in with her. 549 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, he did move in with her. 550 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 2: He did. Well, if you moved in with her, you 551 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 2: got to the church when I was quiet. 552 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: Oh, I can't say anything now, That's what I tell. 553 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 2: Dudes right there. Don't move in with nobody. You ain't 554 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 2: got no ownership because she going. She been doing this 555 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 2: for you met, Yeah, exactly. She ain't changing the rules 556 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 2: because you in here. See God bless the child that 557 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 2: has his own. 558 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but they want to live together though obviously. 559 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 2: Well you know y'all can't do it like that. People 560 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 2: people always put the car in front of the horse 561 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 2: and then we wanted to ride, right, That ain't how 562 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: it worked. You moved into this woman's house. She been 563 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 2: doing it hrsway. Now you want her to change because 564 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 2: you live that Yeah? Yeah, so he he doesn't have 565 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 2: any right. Yeah, he four golden rights when you moved 566 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 2: into her house. 567 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: Oh that's cold. 568 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 3: Wow? 569 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, all right, Chason and Milwaukee. Last one. 570 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 14: This is from Chadwick in Gainesville. Chadwick Rights. I helped 571 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 14: my brother out by picking up a box of condoms 572 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 14: for him. He's in college, so I expected my wife 573 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 14: to understand, or at least to mind her business. But 574 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 14: she's mad at me. I didn't do anything wrong. Do 575 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 14: I have to keep explaining to her? 576 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 2: Hell, yeah, that's gonna have to explain that. 577 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, a whole box of condoms. 578 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have to explain that. Three or twill. 579 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 2: I'm a brother in cottage, Twill. 580 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: What thought you were asking me? 581 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 6: I was like, I don't know. 582 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 2: Three. That's going this evening? 583 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 3: All right? 584 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: Thank you, Clo. 585 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 14: Coming up next entertainment news at the top of the hour. 586 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 14: Right after this, what's going on? 587 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: This is your boy Kevin Harty. Right now you're listening 588 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: too that Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey 589 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 590 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 14: Kim Kardashian and her monitor Chris Jenner have filed a 591 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 14: lawsuit against Kim's ex, ray Ja, for a defamation of character, 592 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 14: stemming from a sustained campaign of harassment that has lasted 593 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 14: four years, according to court documents obtained by the Associated Press. Recently, 594 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 14: ray J did a Twitch live stream and stated that 595 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 14: he was about to drop a federal recoke case on 596 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 14: Kim and Chris, and it's about to be crazy. He 597 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 14: implied that it was going to be quote worse than Diddy. 598 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 14: The Kardashian Jenner lawsuit states quote unable to accept the 599 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 14: end of his fleeting relationship with Miss Kardashian over twenty 600 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 14: years ago, ray J has repeatedly sought to attach himself 601 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 14: to the plaintiffs and exploit their prominence for personal game. 602 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 1: I didn't know that's what ray J was over there doing. 603 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 2: Wow, ray J been on one lately, that Cam Newton 604 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 2: podcast he did. 605 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been on. 606 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know whatever. I need to talk to 607 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 2: ray J, man, because he was a good brother. 608 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 11: Man. 609 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, you take colo. 610 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 2: You gotta go sit down somewhere, man. Yeah, this is 611 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 2: you can't make that famous though. I mean, that's how 612 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 2: we got introduced to him. We didn't know Kim did. 613 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: Ray jel Okay, Well that was again over twenty years ago, and. 614 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 2: That's how we met her is through ray J. I 615 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 2: just once I just comes out, this. 616 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: Is your nephew. 617 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 2: That's how we met. 618 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that was a while ago, and she's done 619 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 1: so much more since then. 620 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 2: I think ray J got to relax a little bit. 621 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening with ray J. UNC might 622 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: have to give him a call, just say, hey, man, 623 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 2: you need to pull up you're a good dude. I 624 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 2: don't know where you're going with this hire, but don't 625 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 2: throw your whole life out of the window. I don't 626 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 2: know what's wrong with these people. Read where you asked 627 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 2: God to get you to and then you lose your 628 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 2: rabbid mind. I don't understand that. 629 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: Well, do you think he will listen to you? 630 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 8: No? 631 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 2: Okay, man? He two years ago, I'm in Dubai. Yeah, 632 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 2: my son called me and say, Dad, Kanye won't really 633 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 2: really need to talk to you. That's okay, cool. I 634 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 2: called Can said, Yo, this a of course up. Kanye 635 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 2: talked for twenty five straight minutes, nonstoff. When he got through, 636 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 2: I said, yay, I wouldn't. I wouldn't do it that way, man, 637 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 2: he said, But that's what I'm gonna do. I said, Okay, 638 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 2: what you called me for, I'm just telling you what 639 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do. I'm running it by you. I said, 640 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 2: br that ain't a good mood. So you know, and look, 641 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 2: I don't know everything, but I do have like really 642 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 2: good common sense. I've made a lot of mistakes. Yeah, 643 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 2: I made a lot of mistakes, and sometimes, man, you 644 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 2: just need to run it by somebody a little bit 645 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 2: older than you. It's been in manhood a little bit older. 646 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 2: It ain't that I'm more famous in him. It ain't 647 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 2: that I got mold in him. It's just experience in 648 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 2: life has taught me a number of things. And if 649 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 2: I can share it with you, man, just some stuff 650 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 2: you may not have considered, then it can help you out. 651 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 2: But if you're not gonna listen, that's cool with me. 652 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 2: To go ahead do your things right. But I don't 653 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 2: know what's up with ray J man all this that 654 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,360 Speaker 2: conversation on the Cam Newton podcast that threw me way off. 655 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 3: Showering. 656 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 2: Really, you know we're talking about just because I want 657 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 2: to shower with you, man, Why can't What's what's happening? 658 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 2: We're just going to finish shower. That's just not finna happen. Well, 659 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,359 Speaker 2: when you're talking to a straight man and you say 660 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:32,279 Speaker 2: something like that, you got him throwed off immediately. 661 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because the next follow up question is going 662 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: to be you know. 663 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 2: That's your b that's your business man, no judgment. But 664 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 2: if I need. 665 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 9: I don't know if you're looking across the room thinking 666 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 9: about showering with me, though I don't, I got I 667 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 9: don't that feels like. 668 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 2: That's like, hey, man, hey, that's like that Bobby Brown interview. Boy, Bobby, 669 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 2: I was Bobby set up on their couch. Yeah, Bobby said, Man, 670 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 2: I will beat show blankety clank blank, Bobby set up. 671 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 2: Man looked at him sideway and that's just that's just it. 672 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 2: But I don't I don't know what's over ray J Now. 673 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 1: I was. 674 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,879 Speaker 2: He's such a cool guy, man, smart businessman. I don't 675 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 2: know where he's going with this. But the ain't no 676 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 2: reco case on her, mama. They didn't get it on Puffy. 677 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah what And they had him locked up and didn't 678 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 2: get it on him. 679 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna move on. 680 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 11: Uh. 681 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:39,280 Speaker 14: Flight delays and cancelations worsened this week as a result 682 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 14: of the US government shutdown. The FAA reported staffing shortages 683 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 14: at key airports, including Chicago, Nashville, Dallas, and Newark, where 684 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 14: air traffic controllers continue to work without pay. The US 685 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 14: Transportation Secretary has said staffing in some areas has dropped 686 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:01,279 Speaker 14: to fifty percent, with some controllers calling in sick and 687 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 14: amid mounting stress. More than thirty two hundred flights have 688 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 14: been delayed so far, and union officials warned that fatigue 689 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 14: and financial uncertainty are taking a toll on workers, so 690 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,880 Speaker 14: that could impact air travel this weekend. 691 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,240 Speaker 1: You know, think about that if you want to travel. 692 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 1: This is craziness. This government shut down and everything that's 693 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 1: going on, and this is yeah. 694 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 16: Well this is crazy because the President and Congress they 695 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 16: still get their checks. 696 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, basically still go to work every day. 697 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 2: And yeah, when the governments shut down, the government should 698 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 2: get they check. That's what you're saying. 699 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: The head of the government, not everyone in the government. 700 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 2: The wars that's determining whether it's open or close. They 701 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 2: should also be determining day check too, but they're not. 702 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, and it is very stressful for the 703 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: air traffic control is very strong. You got a guide 704 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:54,840 Speaker 1: those planes. 705 00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:55,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, they overworked. 706 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 3: That's home work. 707 00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:58,959 Speaker 2: That's a life and deaf job. 708 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, we're doing that. Yeah. 709 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 14: Hi, all right, guys, coming up in twenty minutes after 710 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:11,320 Speaker 14: Cam Newton is trending for asking his girlfriend for a 711 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 14: list of her past sexual partners. 712 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:19,720 Speaker 1: We'll talk about that after this. Okay, you're listening Hardy 713 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Hey, everyone, quick health question. 714 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 14: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 715 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 14: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 716 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 14: vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune 717 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 14: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, new macacle, pneumonia, RSV, 718 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 14: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines 719 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 14: you need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot 720 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,920 Speaker 14: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 721 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,280 Speaker 14: Cam Newton has been trending this week after he revealed 722 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,320 Speaker 14: on an episode of his podcast, Asked that he asked 723 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 14: his girlfriend to provide a list of men that she's 724 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 14: been sexually involved with before they began dating. 725 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 6: Uh. 726 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,800 Speaker 14: He's dating social media influencer Jasmine Brown, and she jumped 727 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 14: into the comments to co sign Cam and to let 728 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 14: everyone know that she's cool with his request. She has 729 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 14: no problem with it. Cam explained that he wants to 730 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 14: avoid unnecessary awkwardness. This is why he asked, uh if 731 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 14: it if he happens to be in the room with 732 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:33,320 Speaker 14: one of his girlfriend's past lovers, So that's why he asked. 733 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,720 Speaker 1: That's why he wants the same thing for her exactly 734 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,279 Speaker 1: with the well, I. 735 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:44,800 Speaker 16: Mean he has about what okay, seven kids, baby mama, 736 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 16: come on, DMX. 737 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 2: I't gonna like that. 738 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 10: It was all about five mics. 739 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,800 Speaker 1: So here's a question, though, should you do this? I 740 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: mean it was a good thing to do. Ask your 741 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 1: wife for your partner of for a list of your 742 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 1: past lovers. 743 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 2: That ain't nothing. 744 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 1: I want to know had account, that's that account. I 745 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,440 Speaker 1: mean you do you ask her? No, you don't want 746 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: to know, Thomas? Would you say? 747 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 14: Would you say, Junior? 748 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 10: I said, my wife got a babydag. 749 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 2: I see him, you know, we cool? You know I 750 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 2: see him? 751 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 14: Okay, but you didn't ask her for a list already. 752 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:22,200 Speaker 2: I just saw him. 753 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 10: I saw him kill A lot of guys. 754 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 2: Have to do with somebody. 755 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:27,919 Speaker 3: Get the list. 756 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna be the same. I'm just okay that. 757 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: I think that's truthful. He's talking about he wants to 758 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: avoid unnecessary awkwardness. Cam Newton, what you do find out 759 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: where they're going? 760 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, you gonna do this. 761 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,720 Speaker 10: I don't want to play defense offense. 762 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 6: What you want to know? 763 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 3: Give him? 764 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 2: He ain't gonna be right, probably. 765 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 3: Rule to right? 766 00:39:59,080 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 9: What is your rule? 767 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:00,359 Speaker 3: Woman? 768 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:01,640 Speaker 1: Number? 769 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:01,879 Speaker 9: Three? 770 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? Three? 771 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 1: Are you going to feel funny about three? 772 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:13,239 Speaker 2: What if one of those three is a mega star 773 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,640 Speaker 2: or you know him? Yeah, you know him. 774 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 10: I think that's you know, probably can't worry about. 775 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 2: I don't care. 776 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:21,840 Speaker 1: You mean a football player for cam. 777 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,239 Speaker 14: Because everybody does have a past. I mean, you know 778 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 14: that we all have a pass. But to ask someone 779 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 14: for a list, that's kind of invasion. 780 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,879 Speaker 2: First of all, my first response would have been, there 781 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 2: is no list. Yeah, yeah, I can tell you the 782 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:43,880 Speaker 2: few people I've been with here. It is my baby daddy, 783 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 2: my ex husband, and the dude I was dating before that. 784 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,279 Speaker 2: Any more questions and the. 785 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:55,760 Speaker 1: Lord, yes, shut it down. Three magic number. 786 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:59,239 Speaker 2: Remember that what you can't be doing is writing and 787 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 2: looking up in space. Well now you can't be writing 788 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 2: and pop your friend all this time. 789 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: All right, thank you guys. 790 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 14: Coming up next, Roscoe Wallace. We'll be in the building 791 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 14: right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Carla, 792 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 14: your buddy Ruscoe is here. 793 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 2: We're going on. Everybody, Hey, Roscoe, Ray, we're gonna shire it. Hey, 794 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 2: Romy Junior, everybody with everybody come. 795 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 1: On down ready, all right, let's get things going. 796 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 16: Roscoe going. Happy Friday to you. But today is a 797 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:55,280 Speaker 16: special day. Today is Steve's wife, Marjorie Harvey. It's her birthday, 798 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 16: So why don't you sing a little happy birthday song 799 00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 16: before we get going? 800 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 3: Woo oh. 801 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 2: Your birthday today is today? Oh Dad, I met you 802 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,400 Speaker 2: and all my blues went away. 803 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 5: Ah. 804 00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:26,240 Speaker 11: I'm here to celebrate your birthday. It ain't like any 805 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:31,319 Speaker 11: other day. Yeah, audition to day the. 806 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,840 Speaker 2: Glow Lord gave you me. 807 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 11: It's your birthday, coochar, hope you have many more. I 808 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:53,040 Speaker 11: gotta go shopping for you. Probably have to get some 809 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 11: more your happy. 810 00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: Bird d Yeah, now you got ross at Burt days. 811 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,399 Speaker 2: Old right there. Gave you that to Stevie. He ain't 812 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 2: want to hear it. Came out with heavy. 813 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because that's the version we know. 814 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, the other one I gave you one right there. 815 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,359 Speaker 2: He gonna pick up the patient Hall that he knew. 816 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:24,799 Speaker 2: But he's Stevie though. 817 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 8: Yeah. 818 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 2: I wrote the song out for him, but I ain't 819 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 2: know how to write it in brill That's why he 820 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:29,840 Speaker 2: ain't know it. 821 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,719 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? 822 00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 16: Moving on, Junior's all time favorite R and B group, 823 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:42,479 Speaker 16: Joasy is going to do They're gonna do special dates 824 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 16: and spotted dates in twenty twenty six. 825 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,959 Speaker 1: Spot Yeah yeah, not just a full tour. 826 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 2: So no, hell no, already ain't gonna be a fool too. 827 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 2: You know that got to be spotty day they got. 828 00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 2: They gotta take a risk, find them everybody, you know 829 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 2: where every time they leave time, they gotta go back 830 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 2: and find to of them. 831 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 3: So would you go? 832 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 1: Would you go check out Joasy? I would love to go. 833 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 2: No, I ain't gonna be able to go because I 834 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 2: ain't gonna know which one I'm gonna be on the 835 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 2: show that night. 836 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 1: What do you mean, ca se Jojo, Dalvin Davantae. 837 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,160 Speaker 2: You know they drink and don't remember the dates and 838 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:25,840 Speaker 2: all that. Davon over there with Kaylon and there maybe 839 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:31,399 Speaker 2: Yun Tatum and what up there and Casey to mess 840 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 2: up with j D and then nothing, you know, all 841 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 2: of them late. I ain't got time for that. I'm 842 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 2: go see everywhere the fire everybody, come work, everybody. Can 843 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:44,920 Speaker 2: you go see old jay Ojia, all of them all 844 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 2: the way there. I like to go see group with everybody. 845 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 16: Come okay, well I think they'll all be there. So 846 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 16: why don't you and Junior do a duet, do a 847 00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,719 Speaker 16: collabot little sample of Joasy? 848 00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:01,799 Speaker 1: Come out, y'all? Do life out there. You go tell 849 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 1: me nice one life. 850 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:10,120 Speaker 13: Tip, a joke about one hundred degrees been robbed in 851 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:15,080 Speaker 13: my destiny thinking need figure out. Should have been a 852 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:24,280 Speaker 13: love cha Come on, come on tell me Lie, Lie, Lie, Lie, Lie. 853 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 1: Lie. 854 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, said he gave me lie live lie little 855 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:34,919 Speaker 2: slow lie Lie. 856 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 1: You're trying to not you. 857 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 2: What is you out of wind for? If you have 858 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:43,919 Speaker 2: the practice with your usual notice. 859 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 11: All what do you you went? 860 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:45,800 Speaker 9: Line? 861 00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:52,719 Speaker 2: You said? Said he gave me Lie, Lie Lie, say 862 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,799 Speaker 2: the words life, lie, hearty live lie. 863 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 10: He's joy somebody, it's done me. 864 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:03,839 Speaker 3: He made me die. 865 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 1: Coming up, brank phone call, trying to sound like. 866 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up 867 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,320 Speaker 14: at about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry 868 00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:27,800 Speaker 14: letter for today. The subject is what was she doing 869 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 14: when I was gone? 870 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:31,120 Speaker 6: What was she. 871 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 1: When I was gone? 872 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 2: Before? 873 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,560 Speaker 1: Right after this, find out what that's all about, because 874 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 1: right now the nephew is here with today's brank phone call. Nephew, 875 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:44,160 Speaker 1: what you got? 876 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:53,839 Speaker 9: We are delivering your truck. Delivering your truck sounds pretty yeah, normal, decent, right, 877 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 9: delivering your truck. 878 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 2: Let's see, let's see, let's see just how normally, let's 879 00:46:58,960 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 2: come on, let's go. 880 00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:01,879 Speaker 5: Hello. 881 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 8: Hello, is this uh, let's see what I got here 882 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,320 Speaker 8: on my paperwork? Is this the Wilkins president. 883 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:09,960 Speaker 5: This is missus Wilkins. 884 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,359 Speaker 8: I'm trying to come by and drop the vehicle off 885 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:13,879 Speaker 8: for you guys. 886 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 5: I'm so hard. You must have the wrong number. 887 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 8: What I got is uh, I've already loaded up the 888 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 8: vehicle evidently just got in here to the dealership this morning. 889 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,080 Speaker 8: I just put it on the truck. I should be 890 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 8: at you guys place, probably somewhere around one one thirty 891 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 8: or somebody gonna. 892 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 5: Be there, sir, I think you have the wrong dress. 893 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 12: We didn't. 894 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,560 Speaker 5: We don't have a vehicle that we in order a vehicle, 895 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,800 Speaker 5: so I think you might have gotten the paperwork. 896 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 15: Mixed up or something. 897 00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:40,759 Speaker 8: No, I don't have any paperwork mixed up here. 898 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 5: This is Wilkins right, Well, this is missus Wilkins. I 899 00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,399 Speaker 5: mean that's my husband right. 900 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 8: Let me look at my notes on here I got 901 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,400 Speaker 8: Let's see, I got a g L five fifty SUV 902 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:57,360 Speaker 8: Mercedes Benz black on black got that on the truck. 903 00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 15: We didn't. 904 00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 12: We didn't work a car. 905 00:47:59,600 --> 00:47:59,919 Speaker 15: He didn't. 906 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 5: We didn't order a car. So I don't think, but 907 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,320 Speaker 5: let me what address are you delivering it to. 908 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 8: Let's see here, I got some notes here says this 909 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 8: is a special delivery. Please put bowl on top of it. 910 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:20,840 Speaker 8: It's a Christmas present and we're going to West Timberlake, 911 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:22,319 Speaker 8: West timber Lake. 912 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 5: Now that's that's that's not our address. Are you sure 913 00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:28,320 Speaker 5: it's for a delivery for Wilkins. 914 00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 8: Well, let's say it purchased by miss Wilkins. 915 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:37,240 Speaker 12: Oh, here we go, going to Sandra, going to who Sandra? 916 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 5: Sondra is his ex wife. I am his current wife. 917 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:48,400 Speaker 5: So you're telling me that he orders a car for 918 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:49,960 Speaker 5: her for Christmas? 919 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 8: Uh? This car here is from what I understand. Man, 920 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,840 Speaker 8: looking at the I'm supposed to deliver the actual title 921 00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 8: and everything. This thing's been paid in full. 922 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 5: He bought her a car. 923 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,359 Speaker 8: Are you saying there's no Sondra there? Man? What are 924 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:03,840 Speaker 8: you telling me? 925 00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 5: I am telling you that it sounds to me if 926 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 5: he bought a car for his ex wife. 927 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:10,759 Speaker 15: That's how it all said. 928 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 5: And you said, this is Sondra, Sondra, what's that address? 929 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 10: I can't give me that. 930 00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 5: Give me that address one more time. 931 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 8: Okay, wait wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait a minute 932 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 8: I'll tell you what. 933 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 12: Let me try to call this other number's cell phone number. 934 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 15: I'll do that now. 935 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 5: Don't call any other note. What I need you to 936 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 5: do is bring the car to my house. I'm gonna 937 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,840 Speaker 5: fix this. He bought her a car. You bring the 938 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 5: car to my house and I'm gonna handle it from here. 939 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 8: Well, ma'am, i'm supposed to take this over the off 940 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 8: of Timberlake. I'm supposed to take it out. 941 00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:40,920 Speaker 5: There if the Timberlake. You're gonna bring that to my 942 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 5: house and we gonna deal with it right here. I'm 943 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:43,840 Speaker 5: gonna get. 944 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 15: Charles on the phone. 945 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 5: We're gonna get Sodra up here, and we gonna handle 946 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,239 Speaker 5: this right now. So you bring the phone over here. 947 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:49,839 Speaker 5: What's your name. 948 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,759 Speaker 8: I'm Perkins, ma'am. I'm just I'm just a guy. Drive 949 00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 8: the truck. Why I delivered these vehicles all all day long? 950 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:58,960 Speaker 5: Then you're gonna go ahead and deliver it right over here. 951 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 5: Bring it over my house now, I'm gonna call her. 952 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 5: Get her over here. I'm gonna get him, and we're 953 00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 5: gonna see why the hell he does about her a call? 954 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,320 Speaker 8: Okay, Well, I mean I don't meany of them, is 955 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 8: any possibility that maybe she just she deserves it and 956 00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:12,799 Speaker 8: he wanted to give it. 957 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 9: To her. 958 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,200 Speaker 5: Because she's the ex wife. Did you miss the point 959 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 5: that I said, I'm his current wife. If he's gonna 960 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 5: be buying any type of car. 961 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 15: The car should have been for me. 962 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 5: It shouldn't be for her. I'm the one cooking, cleaning 963 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,279 Speaker 5: iron and all this kind of stuff. But he's gonna 964 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 5: buy her. 965 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:34,120 Speaker 12: Wait, wait, wait a minute, I mean, what time won't 966 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:35,239 Speaker 12: you be here with the car? 967 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 8: I got? Ma'amod I address I got. I'm supposed to 968 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,760 Speaker 8: deliver it off of West Timberlake. I'm not supposed to come. 969 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,239 Speaker 5: Nowhere else then to Westlake. You're gonna bring it to 970 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 5: my house. 971 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:45,560 Speaker 15: That's what you're gonna do. 972 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 5: You're gonna bring that car. It's it's but you're gonna 973 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,799 Speaker 5: bring it to my house, and that's where it's gonna 974 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,719 Speaker 5: be delivered to. I'm gonna fix that, you know what, ma'am. 975 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 12: Damn I got you. 976 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 8: I want to pretty much stay out of this thing. 977 00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 8: All I want to do is deliver this thing off 978 00:50:59,120 --> 00:50:59,600 Speaker 8: timber Lake. 979 00:50:59,600 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 12: I see. 980 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 8: I think I created a problem that that probably wasn't 981 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 8: even gonna be a problem. 982 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 5: You already up. I just I need to know a 983 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,680 Speaker 5: couple of things. Wait, when did he budy car? 984 00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 15: He told me? 985 00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,040 Speaker 5: When that's what he told me? When did hebody the car? 986 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,439 Speaker 8: This car was purchased about but right at a month ago, 987 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 8: but it just got delivered in last night. 988 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 5: Also was a special order cost? 989 00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:20,400 Speaker 2: Okay? 990 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 8: Well, I mean it's at five point fifty. It's the 991 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,279 Speaker 8: biggest suv they got. 992 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:26,799 Speaker 5: Okay, issues okay? 993 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 15: Uh uh? 994 00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 5: Now wait when he came in did you did you 995 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,400 Speaker 5: see him when he came in bout the car with 996 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:31,400 Speaker 5: he with somebody was he? 997 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:32,000 Speaker 8: Ma'am? 998 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 12: I don't. 999 00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,239 Speaker 8: I don't work inside the inside the dealership, ma'am. I 1000 00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,200 Speaker 8: just drive the cars and deliver them. 1001 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:38,719 Speaker 12: Well, how much how much is the car? 1002 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:39,480 Speaker 2: How much was the car? 1003 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:41,960 Speaker 12: Right here on the sister SA. 1004 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,839 Speaker 8: Ninety eight, right at right at ninety nine thousand dollars 1005 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:47,319 Speaker 8: ninety eight? 1006 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:49,640 Speaker 5: You said it was paid in full. 1007 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 8: I don't know how have you charged it or whatever, 1008 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:53,880 Speaker 8: but it says paid. 1009 00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:55,879 Speaker 5: Him it was, But you said it was paid in full. 1010 00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,200 Speaker 5: So you mean to kill me? This phone that bought 1011 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 5: a car his ex wife and paying for them. It's 1012 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,360 Speaker 5: nineteen thousand dollars back. I mean, I really want you 1013 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 5: to try to explain. 1014 00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 8: That to me. 1015 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:07,880 Speaker 12: Is that what you're saying, ma'am? 1016 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,280 Speaker 8: You you asking me to explain some stuff that seems 1017 00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:14,879 Speaker 8: like he needs to be explaining to you the cons they. 1018 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,959 Speaker 5: Had the information that I need. You know, I'm trying 1019 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 5: to figure to out right here because when he gets 1020 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 5: home it is all and popping up and here. 1021 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 8: Okay, now what's this right here? This is the got 1022 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 8: a personalized license plate? What? 1023 00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:30,640 Speaker 5: What's you say? 1024 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:31,399 Speaker 1: What you say? 1025 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,719 Speaker 8: There's a personalized license plate here, but I guess they'll 1026 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 8: put those on when I get there inside the vehicle personalized. 1027 00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,799 Speaker 5: Licensese like, so you have to like special. 1028 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:43,399 Speaker 12: Order those right, I'm assuming it's got love acts on here? 1029 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,439 Speaker 12: What you say, uh l u v X so love 1030 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,040 Speaker 12: AX or love actions? 1031 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:49,800 Speaker 6: You know what? 1032 00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 5: Couldn't get myself together? This is how people get they killed. 1033 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 5: I'm a taste dealing with this. You know what, brand 1034 00:52:58,800 --> 00:52:59,600 Speaker 5: part of my house. 1035 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:00,640 Speaker 8: That's what you do. 1036 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,680 Speaker 5: You bring the car over here, you understand, ma'am brand. 1037 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:07,799 Speaker 8: I'm supposed to take this to the Timberlake off Timberlake Drive. 1038 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,760 Speaker 5: To take the car to bring that to my house. 1039 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,560 Speaker 5: Right now, anybody gonna be driving a new car. It's 1040 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,879 Speaker 5: gonna be me. I can't believe that bout this enough. 1041 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 16: Do you have my dress I got. 1042 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:20,760 Speaker 8: For Apple Forest? 1043 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:24,320 Speaker 5: That's my dress. You bring that call over here, and 1044 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,080 Speaker 5: you bring it here right now. I need to be 1045 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 5: your next delivery because I'm gonna get on this song 1046 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 5: and I'm gonna figure out what is going all over here. 1047 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,520 Speaker 5: I can't believe he won't this stuff for a. 1048 00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,279 Speaker 12: Cars flown down here and I got one more on 1049 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:36,799 Speaker 12: here too. 1050 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 8: That what what? 1051 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:37,840 Speaker 1: What? 1052 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 12: What's the note? 1053 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:42,040 Speaker 8: It says Vernetta you Bnetta? 1054 00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 5: Yes, I'm Brenetda. 1055 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:47,440 Speaker 8: Okay, it says Vernetta. This is nephew Tommy. You've just 1056 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 8: been praised by your husband will Kins Bananda. This is 1057 00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 8: a nephew Tobby baby for the Steve Hobby Mornings. Yo. 1058 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:02,800 Speaker 12: Your husband got me to prink about to get killed. 1059 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:04,120 Speaker 5: It was gonna be. 1060 00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1061 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:09,839 Speaker 15: I'm gonna need me a drink. 1062 00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,200 Speaker 5: I'm gonna give me a drunk. 1063 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,840 Speaker 8: I gotta ask you one more thing, baby. What is 1064 00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 8: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show. 1065 00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 5: In the land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, I 1066 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,239 Speaker 5: thought this was over. I was gonna take that truck 1067 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:24,840 Speaker 5: and run of this. 1068 00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 9: Talk to me, man, I'm still stupid. That's all I 1069 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,400 Speaker 9: want to know. Just give me my confroimation. 1070 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,279 Speaker 2: Right there. That question, that's all I need from y'all. 1071 00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 2: You never know that. I got to just make make 1072 00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:49,279 Speaker 2: sure I still got the Could you not ask us 1073 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,880 Speaker 2: that anymore? What you don't want to hear her? YEA, 1074 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 2: quit asking us? Am I still stupid? 1075 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:57,440 Speaker 1: Don't rhetorical question? 1076 00:54:57,960 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 2: Just continue on as. 1077 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:05,279 Speaker 9: Yes, I'm as stupid as they come, you know, but 1078 00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 9: it's it's from a genius. But it's from a genius perspective. 1079 00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,560 Speaker 9: And that's the part a lot of people don't really understand. 1080 00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:14,600 Speaker 9: There's a lot of genius. 1081 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:19,920 Speaker 2: That's the part you can't explain. Yeah, well, no genius 1082 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 2: really can. Yeah see, most genius don't ever have to 1083 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 2: say they genius. Other people do it. Nobody has ever 1084 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:28,960 Speaker 2: called you a genius. 1085 00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Coming up next my strawberry letter, 1086 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:39,320 Speaker 1: the subject what was she doing when I was gone? 1087 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. 1088 00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,440 Speaker 13: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1089 00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,480 Speaker 13: planning and hard work to get in the door. 1090 00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,359 Speaker 10: Then make that house a home. Now, all that effort has. 1091 00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 13: Built something hugely valuable equity. It's the portion of your 1092 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 13: home you truly own that can be tapped to fun. 1093 00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:55,239 Speaker 1: What's next? 1094 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,400 Speaker 13: And Rocket Mortgage is here to help you turn your 1095 00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:01,160 Speaker 13: home's equity into cash. 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We could be 1103 00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:34,520 Speaker 14: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1104 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,680 Speaker 14: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you 1105 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:38,200 Speaker 14: just never know it could be yours. 1106 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,319 Speaker 1: This one could be you. 1107 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 2: Never no, buckle up and hold on tight. We got 1108 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,080 Speaker 2: it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 1109 00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,440 Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject what was she doing while I 1110 00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 1: was gone? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty three year 1111 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 1: old black man married for nine years. When I got married, 1112 00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: I was young and still in the streets. 1113 00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,920 Speaker 14: Over time, I got an associate's degree and I got 1114 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,840 Speaker 14: a job in a position of leadership. But I was 1115 00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,759 Speaker 14: still hanging out with the same crew, and I got 1116 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,719 Speaker 14: caught up and ended up in jail. A friend of 1117 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 14: mine asked me to drive him to the liquor store, 1118 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,759 Speaker 14: so I did. He went in and came out, and 1119 00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,960 Speaker 14: we left. I had no idea that he had committed 1120 00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,840 Speaker 14: an armed robbery until I was arrested for being a 1121 00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,439 Speaker 14: getaway driver. My wife had just had our third son, 1122 00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 14: but she held me down because she knows I'm not 1123 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,400 Speaker 14: a bad guy. I did my time, and I got home. 1124 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:31,200 Speaker 1: Six months ago. 1125 00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,320 Speaker 14: I listened to the radio show while I was locked up, 1126 00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 14: and this is my favorite subject, so I'm trying to 1127 00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 14: see if you could help me. My wife is a 1128 00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 14: lot different since I got home. She dresses differently, and 1129 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:48,040 Speaker 14: she smokes weed, which is legal in our area. She 1130 00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:51,440 Speaker 14: dictates if and when we have sex, and she rations 1131 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,520 Speaker 14: out money to me. I feel as if I can't 1132 00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,600 Speaker 14: say anything because of what I put her through. 1133 00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:57,760 Speaker 3: While I was locked up. 1134 00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,080 Speaker 1: We were watching TV. 1135 00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 14: The other night, her phone rang and she left the 1136 00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:05,280 Speaker 14: room to talk. I didn't say a word. The next morning, 1137 00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 14: she got a call and I could hear that it 1138 00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:09,840 Speaker 14: was a man on the phone. She talked for about 1139 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:12,200 Speaker 14: three minutes, and as soon as she hung up, I 1140 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 14: told her she has a lot of nerve allowing men 1141 00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 14: to call her while she's home, and there is no 1142 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 14: way this can continue. 1143 00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,880 Speaker 1: She told me to hush and be glad. 1144 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 14: I still have a home because her friends helped her 1145 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,680 Speaker 14: out by doing things in and around the house while 1146 00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 14: I was away. I asked her what in and around 1147 00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 14: the house meant, and she ignored me. I have to 1148 00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,560 Speaker 14: keep cool and not explode on her. What's the best 1149 00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:43,760 Speaker 14: way to approach it? Well, you know right now, the 1150 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,920 Speaker 14: best thing you can do is get yourself together. Okay, 1151 00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:51,800 Speaker 14: time doesn't stop when you go to prison. Stop expecting 1152 00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 14: things to be the same, and you need to think 1153 00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 14: about the future. What was she doing while you were gone, Well, 1154 00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 14: she was surviving. Obviously, she was taking care of three 1155 00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 14: kids alone. She was probably scared. 1156 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:04,280 Speaker 3: You said. 1157 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,680 Speaker 1: She held it down while you were in jail, and 1158 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,960 Speaker 1: she did let you come back home. Okay, but the 1159 00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:15,000 Speaker 1: respect and apparently the love are gone out of this relationship. 1160 00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:19,080 Speaker 14: You see and hear what she's doing. She's talking with 1161 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:21,800 Speaker 14: other men. Of course you don't like it. I mean 1162 00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 14: what man would like that from their wife? So now 1163 00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,960 Speaker 14: you need to concentrate on your next move, and that's 1164 00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:31,280 Speaker 14: being your own man. Because your wife is doing her thing, 1165 00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:32,880 Speaker 14: there's nothing you can do about it. 1166 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:33,840 Speaker 2: Right now, you said it. 1167 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,240 Speaker 14: You have to keep cool and not explode on her. 1168 00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 14: You need to get your dignity, your self respect back. 1169 00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,360 Speaker 14: So I suggest you get a job somewhere, you start 1170 00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,200 Speaker 14: making your own money so she won't have to ration 1171 00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 14: it out to you. 1172 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,240 Speaker 1: As you say, I mean, you know no man wants that. 1173 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 14: Save it for your apartment, you know, then you know, 1174 00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 14: fix the situation with your wife and these kids. You 1175 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 14: might have to arrange visitation rights if you do eventually 1176 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:07,040 Speaker 14: get your own apartment. And I say, making sure your 1177 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,160 Speaker 14: kids are okay. That should be your top priority right 1178 01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:12,920 Speaker 14: now anyway, because they missed a lot of time with you. 1179 01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:17,000 Speaker 14: Your youngest son, Arlie even knows you. You're concentrating on 1180 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,440 Speaker 14: the wrong things. I think you expect things to be 1181 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,360 Speaker 14: the same. Clearly your wife has moved on. You need 1182 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:27,960 Speaker 14: to do the same now, but with purpose. Okay, Steve, this. 1183 01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:29,920 Speaker 2: Is gonna be a tough one to answer for your 1184 01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:34,760 Speaker 2: young brother. So I'm gonna just take you through this 1185 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:39,040 Speaker 2: thing step by step because one of the first things 1186 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:43,760 Speaker 2: when you're trying to solve is problem is taking full 1187 01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:47,120 Speaker 2: responsibility and knowing what it is that you can do 1188 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 2: to bring about change. The question is on the subject 1189 01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,320 Speaker 2: what was she doing while I was gone? Now, you're 1190 01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,800 Speaker 2: thirty three year old black man, married for nine years. 1191 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,800 Speaker 2: When you got married, you were young and stilled in this. 1192 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,439 Speaker 2: So you were twenty four when you got married, same 1193 01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:07,840 Speaker 2: age as me at my first marriage. That is young 1194 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 2: to be married for anybody. But you were still in 1195 01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,920 Speaker 2: the streets. Over time, you got an associate degree, and 1196 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,040 Speaker 2: you got a job in a position of leadership. So 1197 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,440 Speaker 2: you're realizing that you got to do better for yourself. 1198 01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,720 Speaker 2: Here's a mistake you made. But I was still hanging 1199 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,920 Speaker 2: with the same crew, and I got caught up and 1200 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 2: ended up in jail. How many times have I said 1201 01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:35,400 Speaker 2: this to people? Everybody, come with you can't go with you. 1202 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:39,680 Speaker 2: In order to grow, you have to go. I've said 1203 01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:44,000 Speaker 2: it so many different ways. You can't worry about keeping 1204 01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 2: it real. You got to keep it moving. I've said 1205 01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,760 Speaker 2: all of these things that tie us to the hood, 1206 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:53,560 Speaker 2: that ties to our old relationships and friends, but you 1207 01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,920 Speaker 2: can't go get an associate degree. Here's another one that 1208 01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,040 Speaker 2: I said a long time ago. You can't be a 1209 01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,760 Speaker 2: college student a thug in the same sense of said 1210 01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:08,320 Speaker 2: don't match. Thugging and college student don't match. Now, you 1211 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,480 Speaker 2: didn't know what was going on, but you dropped your 1212 01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 2: friend off at a liquor store. He goes in and 1213 01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:15,000 Speaker 2: comes back out. Next thing you know, you arrested because 1214 01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:17,800 Speaker 2: you the getaway car driver. You didn't know this food, 1215 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,840 Speaker 2: went in here and robbed the liquor store. So now 1216 01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:25,040 Speaker 2: you're out and you're an accomplished to committing an armed robbery. 1217 01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:29,560 Speaker 2: Your wife had just had your third son, but she 1218 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,440 Speaker 2: held you down because she knows I'm not a bad guy, 1219 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:35,960 Speaker 2: did my time, and I came home six months ago. 1220 01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:39,880 Speaker 2: Now here's a problem. You're not telling me how long 1221 01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 2: you in. You're not saying that, and you're leaving that 1222 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 2: out of the letter because it helps you. But uncle Steve, 1223 01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:53,120 Speaker 2: no better arm robbery. Even with a plea you year 1224 01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 2: and a half two. Even if they believed you, they 1225 01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,240 Speaker 2: let you plead to this right here, All. 1226 01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,400 Speaker 14: Right, hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's response 1227 01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,920 Speaker 14: coming up. At twenty three minutes after the hour subject 1228 01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:06,720 Speaker 14: what was she doing while I was gone? 1229 01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1230 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:18,680 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. 1231 01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 14: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 1232 01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,640 Speaker 14: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 1233 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 14: vaccines come in. They helped train and strengthen your immune 1234 01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:34,160 Speaker 14: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu newmacacle, pneumonia, RSV, 1235 01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 14: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines 1236 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:42,480 Speaker 14: you need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot 1237 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:46,440 Speaker 14: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 1238 01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,720 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1239 01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,439 Speaker 1: The subject what was she doing while I was gone? 1240 01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,640 Speaker 2: Well, thirty three year old black man married for nine years, 1241 01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:57,960 Speaker 2: was in the streets when you got married. But you 1242 01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:01,280 Speaker 2: messed around and got self degree, congratulate relations, got you 1243 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,760 Speaker 2: a job of positioning leadership. But the mistake you made 1244 01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:06,880 Speaker 2: you were still hanging with the same crew. You got 1245 01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 2: caught up and you got ended up in jail. Now 1246 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:11,960 Speaker 2: you drop a friend off at the liquor store a 1247 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 2: little till you know, he goes in and he robs 1248 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,160 Speaker 2: the place. He comes back and gets in the car. 1249 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,400 Speaker 2: You don't notice until you get arrested because you were 1250 01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 2: the driving the getaway car. Okay, Now, your wife had 1251 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:27,680 Speaker 2: just had your third son, but she held you down 1252 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,640 Speaker 2: in prison jail because she knows you're not a bad guy. 1253 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 2: You did your time, and you got home six months ago. 1254 01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,960 Speaker 2: You didn't really say how much time you're doing. I'm 1255 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:39,960 Speaker 2: assuming a couple of years, you know, eighteen months something 1256 01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,560 Speaker 2: on the plea you did because they believed that you 1257 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,240 Speaker 2: just went in there and you didn't know. But let's 1258 01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:47,400 Speaker 2: say you were gone a couple of years. All right, 1259 01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:50,439 Speaker 2: You come out and you listen to the radio show 1260 01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:53,160 Speaker 2: while you was locked up. Thank you and Strawberry Letter 1261 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:55,520 Speaker 2: won your favorite thing. So that got you through. We 1262 01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,920 Speaker 2: appreciate y'all, brothers. Since it's it's on lockdown, hope we 1263 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:05,760 Speaker 2: do something to get you through. Now you come home 1264 01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,040 Speaker 2: and you notice that your wife is a lot different 1265 01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:13,920 Speaker 2: since she got home. She dresses differently, she smokes weed, 1266 01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 2: which is legal in our area. She dictates if and 1267 01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:21,080 Speaker 2: when we have sex, and she rations out money to me. 1268 01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:23,800 Speaker 2: I feel as though I can't say anything because of 1269 01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:26,400 Speaker 2: what I put her through. While I was locked up 1270 01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:29,400 Speaker 2: now y'all watching TV. The other night, a phone rang. 1271 01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,840 Speaker 2: She left the room to talk. You ain't say nothing. 1272 01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:34,360 Speaker 2: Next morning, she got a call and you could hear 1273 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 2: that it was a man on the phone. She talked 1274 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:38,640 Speaker 2: for about three minutes. As soon as she hung up, 1275 01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 2: I told her she got a lot of nerve allowing 1276 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,520 Speaker 2: men to call her while she's home, and there's no 1277 01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:50,240 Speaker 2: way this can continue. She told me to hush. Pretty sure. 1278 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 2: The word wasn't hushed. I think it was a little 1279 01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:57,840 Speaker 2: bit more harsh than that. I think it started with shut. 1280 01:05:58,800 --> 01:05:59,720 Speaker 1: Shut the front door. 1281 01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:08,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, sure, and glad that you still have a 1282 01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:11,760 Speaker 2: home because her friends helped her out by doing things 1283 01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,360 Speaker 2: in and around the house while I was away. I 1284 01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:16,800 Speaker 2: asked her what in in the house meant, and she 1285 01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:20,280 Speaker 2: ignored me. I have to keep cool and not explode 1286 01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:23,680 Speaker 2: on her. What's the best way to approach it? Well, brother, 1287 01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 2: things have changed. She dressed in different as she's smoking weed. 1288 01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 2: She's gone through a lot holding this family down while 1289 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:37,400 Speaker 2: you was gone. But really, though, brother, these is the 1290 01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:43,720 Speaker 2: consequences of your actions because you didn't leave them streets alone. Well, 1291 01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:45,840 Speaker 2: let's say you left the streets alone, but you hang 1292 01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:51,200 Speaker 2: with the same crew. Association brings on participation. So now 1293 01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 2: here we are. One of your ignorant friends did something 1294 01:06:55,320 --> 01:07:01,000 Speaker 2: ignorant selfishly didn't tell you. Caught up, you had to 1295 01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 2: do time. Now your girl been watching you out in 1296 01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,760 Speaker 2: the streets. She has told you you're leaving that part 1297 01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,480 Speaker 2: out the letter. She then told you stop hanging with 1298 01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:15,600 Speaker 2: them fools. You wouldn't do it because you was keeping 1299 01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:19,640 Speaker 2: it real instead of keeping it moving. You was not 1300 01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:23,440 Speaker 2: forgetting where you're from. You was getting caught up in 1301 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,480 Speaker 2: all that hood and lingo. There ain't got nothing to 1302 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 2: do with your family. So now here's a deal. Shirley 1303 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:35,280 Speaker 2: said it right. You've got to get yourself together. But 1304 01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,640 Speaker 2: now you have a police record. Hard to get employed 1305 01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:43,280 Speaker 2: with a police record. So now you've got everything. All 1306 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,680 Speaker 2: of this you bought on yourself. Brother. So now I 1307 01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 2: can't tell you that your marriage will ever get back 1308 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,440 Speaker 2: because you never really allowed it to get off the 1309 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 2: ground the right way. You stayed out there in them streets. 1310 01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:03,200 Speaker 2: Your marriage could be over. She has male friends. Now, 1311 01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:07,240 Speaker 2: she has people that has done things for her to 1312 01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:10,840 Speaker 2: help her out. Now, I'm gonna just tell you flat out, 1313 01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,000 Speaker 2: if a man had done something to help you out, 1314 01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,000 Speaker 2: then we got to think about that for a second. 1315 01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:20,599 Speaker 2: I'm not saying she did anything, but you a man. 1316 01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,880 Speaker 2: But let's be fair. Let's not be angry with this 1317 01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:29,320 Speaker 2: sister because you put this sister in a position where 1318 01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:33,280 Speaker 2: she had to survive. And once you put a person 1319 01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:36,479 Speaker 2: in survival mode, man, you can't get mad at how 1320 01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:40,519 Speaker 2: they choose to survive. You just can't now why she 1321 01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:46,240 Speaker 2: dressing different. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. 1322 01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:48,799 Speaker 1: I should have changed to see. 1323 01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:53,760 Speaker 2: Is she wearing your clothes? I don't know what this 1324 01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,640 Speaker 2: change or outfits is. Is she wear a lot of 1325 01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:00,760 Speaker 2: your clothes? She wear baseball hats, cocked tail side is 1326 01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:05,559 Speaker 2: I don't know what the close is. But she rationed 1327 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,960 Speaker 2: it out sex and money because she don't know how 1328 01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:11,400 Speaker 2: long you gonna be rung. You might have to go again. 1329 01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:13,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is, brother, but you got 1330 01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:16,760 Speaker 2: to get yourself together. Don't be so angry with the 1331 01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 2: woman because she was put in survival mode. I don't 1332 01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:24,519 Speaker 2: think you should explode on her because you left her 1333 01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 2: in a really, really bad situation with your third son. 1334 01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:34,080 Speaker 2: Woman got three kids, she got put in survival mode. 1335 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:37,400 Speaker 2: She has some male friends, it looks like, and they're 1336 01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:41,960 Speaker 2: not your male friends. Good luck, don't explode on the system. 1337 01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:44,400 Speaker 2: Maybe it's time for you to just go somewhere and 1338 01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,160 Speaker 2: get yourself together, like Sherley say, take care of your kids. 1339 01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,360 Speaker 1: Thank you, all right, Thanks Steve. 1340 01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:52,480 Speaker 14: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve HARVEFM 1341 01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:55,479 Speaker 14: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 1342 01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:59,479 Speaker 14: on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk. 1343 01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:02,439 Speaker 1: Right after this, this is Erica Badu. 1344 01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:03,719 Speaker 2: Hey, this is Dave Chappelle. 1345 01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,000 Speaker 1: It's cip Maale, hust A Gang here, Han, Yoda Kine. 1346 01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:06,200 Speaker 8: Good. 1347 01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,880 Speaker 2: You are tuned in to the Steve have Having Morning Show. 1348 01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:16,599 Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, 1349 01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:20,400 Speaker 14: quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, 1350 01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:24,120 Speaker 14: still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age. 1351 01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:27,360 Speaker 14: That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen 1352 01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:31,200 Speaker 14: your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flue, 1353 01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:35,840 Speaker 14: new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall. Ask 1354 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:39,280 Speaker 14: your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaxsist dot 1355 01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:43,200 Speaker 14: com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or more 1356 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,479 Speaker 14: of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 1357 01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:49,360 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and sports talk. What 1358 01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:51,439 Speaker 1: you got Junior pi Bet. 1359 01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:54,400 Speaker 2: Time to pic Rainia, Baby Rainier. 1360 01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:55,040 Speaker 3: What's going on? 1361 01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:55,800 Speaker 2: Everybody? 1362 01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:56,320 Speaker 1: What's out? 1363 01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:56,639 Speaker 12: Yeah? 1364 01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:57,160 Speaker 1: Who's up? 1365 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:00,560 Speaker 2: You want it? 1366 01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:01,600 Speaker 8: So? 1367 01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:08,880 Speaker 2: I had this made in the produce department, all cauliflower, 1368 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:15,839 Speaker 2: this jacket, I call it white Cloud. 1369 01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:19,479 Speaker 10: Let's go. 1370 01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:23,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be hard this week. Everybody all laugh. 1371 01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:28,600 Speaker 2: Broncos Jets pipping Broncos Jets. All right, here we go. 1372 01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:32,240 Speaker 2: The upsets will continue a little bit. I'm picking the 1373 01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:33,760 Speaker 2: Jets over the Broncos. 1374 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:36,280 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, uh huh. 1375 01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:40,679 Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Piot charges Dolphins, Chargers against the Dolphins. 1376 01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:43,320 Speaker 2: Another pick that we would not get wrong. But I'm 1377 01:11:43,360 --> 01:11:44,760 Speaker 2: going with the Chargers. Yeah. 1378 01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:49,440 Speaker 10: Patriots Saints confusion. 1379 01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:53,000 Speaker 2: Patriots. They will do it again. They undefeated. 1380 01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,759 Speaker 10: You know, Rams versus the Ravens. 1381 01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:58,240 Speaker 2: Rams and the old Ravens are not gonna lose. 1382 01:11:58,320 --> 01:11:58,680 Speaker 1: No to it. 1383 01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:02,040 Speaker 2: The Row. You forget that is Lamar playing. I don't 1384 01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:05,120 Speaker 2: think something. No, oh well, they might not want who 1385 01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:08,560 Speaker 2: they playing MS Rams. 1386 01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:15,320 Speaker 13: Okay, Cardinals, Coats coach, Yeah, Seahawks Jaguars. 1387 01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,479 Speaker 2: Hey, man, why is we naming all these games? Don't 1388 01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:19,320 Speaker 2: nobody care about? 1389 01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:21,400 Speaker 1: Come on schedule. 1390 01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,960 Speaker 3: It's the schedule. Jaguars. 1391 01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 2: They just beat Kansas City there on the road. Duvall, 1392 01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:34,880 Speaker 2: Cowboys Panthers, Cowboys. Man, they finna do it again? Yeah, okay, 1393 01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:39,360 Speaker 2: forty nine Buccaneers, Buccaneers, Buccaneers, baby game. 1394 01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:44,320 Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Brown Steelers, old Rowns. 1395 01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:47,160 Speaker 2: Come through, Browns come through Cleveland. I don't know how, 1396 01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:50,839 Speaker 2: but you know, ain't that pick. 1397 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:54,920 Speaker 10: De Troit Lions versus the chief Detroit? 1398 01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:56,040 Speaker 2: What I just say? 1399 01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:56,840 Speaker 8: A right? 1400 01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:01,479 Speaker 2: Troy Chiefs in trouble man. They playing like David David 1401 01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:08,200 Speaker 2: and to kill himself. I watched Trevor Lawrence fall dropped 1402 01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:12,240 Speaker 2: the ball, fell on the ball, got up, fell again 1403 01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:19,479 Speaker 2: as coch Ingo's packed thirty seconds. That's how he said. 1404 01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:21,759 Speaker 10: What bingals in the package? 1405 01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:26,880 Speaker 2: The package they flack over they finish. See why we 1406 01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:27,559 Speaker 2: traded his. 1407 01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:31,960 Speaker 3: In you get it? 1408 01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:34,840 Speaker 10: Bears and the Commanders. 1409 01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:37,200 Speaker 2: Oh, commanders, baby all day alright. 1410 01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,160 Speaker 10: And the Bills and the Falcons, oh. 1411 01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:45,160 Speaker 2: The Bills not finn lose to in the row it 1412 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,439 Speaker 2: all right, It is no no day. It is to 1413 01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:50,719 Speaker 2: you over here, Colin. 1414 01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 14: Because the number the top of the hour, a man 1415 01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:56,680 Speaker 14: got dumped because he didn't let his girlfriend stay with 1416 01:13:56,800 --> 01:14:00,200 Speaker 14: him and he needs some advice. Right after this, you're 1417 01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:07,080 Speaker 14: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 1418 01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:10,600 Speaker 14: this is from Eddie and Memphis. Eddie says, there was 1419 01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:13,280 Speaker 14: a small fire at my girlfriend's place and she asked 1420 01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:16,200 Speaker 14: to stay with me. My daughters don't like her and 1421 01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:18,360 Speaker 14: didn't want her to stay with me, so I had 1422 01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,720 Speaker 14: to tell my girl to make other arrangements. She told 1423 01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:24,400 Speaker 14: me that there's no way that teenagers should be able 1424 01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 14: to make that kind of decision, and she broke up 1425 01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:27,200 Speaker 14: with me. 1426 01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:28,840 Speaker 1: What was I supposed to do? 1427 01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:33,599 Speaker 2: It's probably best that it is, because if that's why 1428 01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:38,760 Speaker 2: it is, you know, because you considered your daughters. They 1429 01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:42,080 Speaker 2: are teenagers and they don't like it, you know, and 1430 01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:46,200 Speaker 2: you know she gonna move into the space too. Yeah, 1431 01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:47,880 Speaker 2: so and for her to break up with you, it's 1432 01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:50,680 Speaker 2: probably good. Ridgings, man, you've ridden yourself of a lot 1433 01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:51,200 Speaker 2: of problems. 1434 01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:52,400 Speaker 5: You know. 1435 01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:54,920 Speaker 2: What she should have did was try to have some 1436 01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,280 Speaker 2: type of relationship with the girls. But she ain't want 1437 01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:59,640 Speaker 2: to do that now she want to move in there 1438 01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:02,639 Speaker 2: and have girls are all uncomfortable looking outside. They daddy head, 1439 01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:06,000 Speaker 2: He wasn't finna do that, and right now you ain't 1440 01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:08,240 Speaker 2: the choice over his daughters, obviously, sir. 1441 01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:13,600 Speaker 1: Well right, yeah, that was clear. Yeah, yeah, ye, So 1442 01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:15,720 Speaker 1: go and get to step in, all right, We have 1443 01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:18,639 Speaker 1: time for another one. This is from Draca and Philly. 1444 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,320 Speaker 14: Draca says, there's a guy at work that I want 1445 01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:24,400 Speaker 14: to get to know better, but I'm trying to do 1446 01:15:24,560 --> 01:15:27,519 Speaker 14: it discreetly. I try to get his attention, but he 1447 01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:30,680 Speaker 14: seems to be distracted. I asked him if he has 1448 01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:34,080 Speaker 14: a girlfriend, and he said no. Do you think it's 1449 01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:36,960 Speaker 14: a turnoff if I stepped to him and ask him 1450 01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:39,479 Speaker 14: to go out? Is that too forward? 1451 01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:42,679 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well you've already stepped to him when you asked 1452 01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:46,280 Speaker 2: him does he have a girlfriend? Yeah, And then he said, no, 1453 01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:51,759 Speaker 2: you have any regular guye else that looking at you yet? Okay? 1454 01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:53,320 Speaker 2: So what you want to know that for? 1455 01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:53,720 Speaker 1: So? 1456 01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:55,959 Speaker 2: Do you have a Boyfriend's a conversation. 1457 01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:56,960 Speaker 3: He don't, won't you? 1458 01:15:57,640 --> 01:15:59,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, clearly he's uninterested. 1459 01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:03,040 Speaker 2: Right when you asked him did he have a girlfriend? 1460 01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:06,880 Speaker 2: And that conversation just went now, and he kept going. Now, 1461 01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:07,600 Speaker 2: you don't go. 1462 01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:08,680 Speaker 10: He don't want you. 1463 01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:13,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, so so definitely don't step to him and ask 1464 01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:14,080 Speaker 1: him out on. 1465 01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:19,040 Speaker 2: She's already stepped to him. Yeah, but I mean nothing, No, no, 1466 01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:22,720 Speaker 2: surely you don't have to do that to a man. 1467 01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:26,360 Speaker 2: We all prefer your hunters. If you come up to 1468 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:29,400 Speaker 2: me and ask me, do I have a girlfriend? I 1469 01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:33,160 Speaker 2: know you've asked me that for reasons. That's my trigger 1470 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:37,280 Speaker 2: to say to you. Now anything i've been thinking. If 1471 01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:40,040 Speaker 2: it don't trigger nothing, it's because he ain't been thinking 1472 01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:40,840 Speaker 2: of nothing. 1473 01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's just her question. It was it too 1474 01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:45,519 Speaker 1: Is it too forward? 1475 01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:51,360 Speaker 2: And yeah, she's already alone, lady, you can let it go. 1476 01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:54,280 Speaker 2: He's aware of you. You've asked him did he have 1477 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,639 Speaker 2: a girlfriend. He said no, he don't have a girlfriend, 1478 01:16:57,680 --> 01:16:58,880 Speaker 2: and he ain't finna make you it. 1479 01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:02,960 Speaker 14: Yeah, Now what about this line? I try to get 1480 01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:05,680 Speaker 14: his attention, but he seems to be distracted. 1481 01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:09,000 Speaker 2: Tried. You don't have to get no man's attention. We 1482 01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:14,080 Speaker 2: see everything. Yeah, he don't like you. If we want you, 1483 01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:17,559 Speaker 2: we see you. We try to get your attention. Now, 1484 01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:19,719 Speaker 2: if he ain't trying to get your attention, it's because 1485 01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:24,800 Speaker 2: he don't want you. Yeah, something about you he don't like. 1486 01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:27,240 Speaker 1: He seems to be distracted. 1487 01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:33,599 Speaker 2: Five I can Yeah, that's true. It's twenty twenty five. 1488 01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,200 Speaker 2: But you probably should have got that crack tooth fixed. 1489 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:37,320 Speaker 2: That's probably what it is. 1490 01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:40,719 Speaker 1: Oh so it's something that he doesn't like. Oh visual 1491 01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 1: he doesn't that he's something that he doesn't like. 1492 01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:48,719 Speaker 2: Might be that little corner tooth that's real shop or something. 1493 01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:49,080 Speaker 9: I don't know. 1494 01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:54,320 Speaker 2: You never know. Crazy, only like you gotta have your 1495 01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 2: teeth together. I'm not We're not finish. 1496 01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:56,639 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1497 01:17:57,120 --> 01:18:00,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm funny, I'm gonna have you laughing time 1498 01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:07,640 Speaker 2: you laugh. I see your problems with all y'all on 1499 01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:10,599 Speaker 2: this show. All the women on this show got nice teeth, 1500 01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:13,439 Speaker 2: all y'all, Monica got nice team call and got a 1501 01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:15,880 Speaker 2: nice ship. Y'all got nice If y'all had, i'd have 1502 01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:17,880 Speaker 2: been told, y'all you. 1503 01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:18,840 Speaker 16: Have to tell us. 1504 01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:19,680 Speaker 1: So that's the thing. 1505 01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:21,640 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit up on the zoom every day. 1506 01:18:21,680 --> 01:18:24,360 Speaker 2: You got ragged him off. I just send you, Isaiah, 1507 01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:26,760 Speaker 2: you five six seven thousand dollars to just say, hey, 1508 01:18:26,840 --> 01:18:31,960 Speaker 2: go get that chip fixed. I'll help you. I'll help you. 1509 01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:37,479 Speaker 1: I'm trying to knock your tooth thigh. I know, all right, guys, 1510 01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:40,759 Speaker 1: thank you coming up in twe. 1511 01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:43,080 Speaker 2: I'm not fit to help Tommy and Junior. They got 1512 01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:44,400 Speaker 2: raggedy mouth. That's just on that. 1513 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:47,040 Speaker 14: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1514 01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:51,320 Speaker 14: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1515 01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:58,240 Speaker 14: All right, So Tommy, you have some really really big 1516 01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:00,720 Speaker 14: news for us. I think we need a drum roll 1517 01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:01,160 Speaker 14: for this. 1518 01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:02,720 Speaker 3: Please what I get? 1519 01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:04,080 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1520 01:19:04,400 --> 01:19:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Telly, you gotta tell us about it. 1521 01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:11,200 Speaker 1: Ready to Love Detroit is about to air. Tell us 1522 01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:14,439 Speaker 1: about the season premiere Friday November seventh. 1523 01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:17,720 Speaker 9: Friday November seventh. Surely it is going down. It is 1524 01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:20,560 Speaker 9: Ready to Love Detroit. It is the Motown. 1525 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,839 Speaker 2: It is all of that. If you're looking for fashion, 1526 01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:26,400 Speaker 2: they got it. You're looking for style, they got it. 1527 01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:31,200 Speaker 2: You looking for that? Detroit has it. 1528 01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:34,080 Speaker 9: Y'all Gotta be ready, y'all, y'all think Philly was jumping. 1529 01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:36,840 Speaker 9: Y'all gonna love Ready to Love Detroit, Get ready for 1530 01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:40,200 Speaker 9: it is going down. No vemitu seventh Friday Night on 1531 01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:43,519 Speaker 9: the Own Network, hosted by of Course, Yours Truly and 1532 01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:46,960 Speaker 9: Were Rocking Man. We rolling, just finish one. I got 1533 01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 9: on two hundred. Now I'm looking for the two hundred mare. 1534 01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:56,400 Speaker 1: Oh white eight? Yeah, nice, nephew. So Detroit, what's going down? 1535 01:19:56,560 --> 01:20:01,760 Speaker 9: Detroit players, y'all gonna love Detroit from day one. 1536 01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:03,519 Speaker 2: You're gonna love Detroit. So be ready. 1537 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:07,800 Speaker 9: No, I promise you the very first night, y'all gonna 1538 01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:10,120 Speaker 9: be calling tom and saying okay for Tommy. 1539 01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:15,840 Speaker 14: Detroit can give us one little tidbit, just something. I 1540 01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:19,400 Speaker 14: know it's November seven, but something at the time. 1541 01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:26,880 Speaker 2: I want to but I can't that ain't have me. 1542 01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:29,160 Speaker 2: And we'll pack a roll that ain't have We do it. 1543 01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:32,559 Speaker 14: No, you're saving by the time. All right, Coming up next, 1544 01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:34,960 Speaker 14: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We're 1545 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:37,320 Speaker 14: gonna play around of wood. You're rather right after this. 1546 01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:40,160 Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1547 01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:47,280 Speaker 13: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1548 01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:49,280 Speaker 13: planning and hard work to get in the door. 1549 01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:52,160 Speaker 10: Didn't make that house a home. Now all that effort has. 1550 01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:55,400 Speaker 13: Built something hugely valuable, equity. It's the portion of your 1551 01:20:55,439 --> 01:20:57,360 Speaker 13: home you truly own that can be tapped to fun. 1552 01:20:57,479 --> 01:20:59,640 Speaker 13: What's next and rocket mortgage is here to help you 1553 01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:01,840 Speaker 13: turn in your home's equity into cash. 1554 01:21:02,160 --> 01:21:04,000 Speaker 10: Fund your next dream with Rocket Mortgage. 1555 01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,840 Speaker 13: Visit Rocket Mortgage dot com today to find out more. 1556 01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:10,040 Speaker 13: Rocket Mortgage LLC license in fifty states, n m l 1557 01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:12,800 Speaker 13: S Consumer Access dot Org number thirty thirty. 1558 01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:15,320 Speaker 14: It is time now for a round it would you 1559 01:21:15,479 --> 01:21:19,200 Speaker 14: rather would you rather talk like a baby during sex? 1560 01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:22,080 Speaker 14: Or would you rather talk extremely loud? 1561 01:21:22,360 --> 01:21:29,240 Speaker 1: Which one? Baby talk? That's a both? And yeah, yeah, 1562 01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:37,640 Speaker 1: baby talk baby and it's loud. Yeah, Like, let me 1563 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:43,519 Speaker 1: hear an example that's baby talk? 1564 01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:48,599 Speaker 2: Got cool? 1565 01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:53,000 Speaker 11: Yeah? 1566 01:21:53,600 --> 01:22:03,320 Speaker 1: Wow, guys, Okay, that was easy. But I like animals? 1567 01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:04,160 Speaker 2: Sound all right? 1568 01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:09,479 Speaker 14: Would you rather dress up like Frankenstein this Halloween or 1569 01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:11,200 Speaker 14: dress up like Count Dracula? 1570 01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:13,959 Speaker 1: Frankenstein or Dracula. 1571 01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:17,479 Speaker 2: I don't want it with a big boost in the 1572 01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:24,920 Speaker 2: big box head. I want to have cape home a blood. 1573 01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:35,559 Speaker 17: Nicky okay, Dracula sexy. Dracula sounds like around things real soft? 1574 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:41,360 Speaker 17: You know, all right, Junior, Yeah, I'll be drag. I 1575 01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:42,920 Speaker 17: don't want to be frank I don't even know what 1576 01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:43,680 Speaker 17: frank Stein do. 1577 01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:50,679 Speaker 2: What I do for the community, You can't bite nobody 1578 01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:51,680 Speaker 2: was sick and say I know. 1579 01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:01,600 Speaker 10: For the blood transfusions. 1580 01:23:03,200 --> 01:23:05,280 Speaker 1: That far all right? 1581 01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:08,400 Speaker 14: Would you rather visit a hunted house naked? Or would 1582 01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,599 Speaker 14: you rather go to a Halloween party naked? 1583 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,800 Speaker 2: Tommy, I'm gonna go to the party naked, but you're 1584 01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:19,040 Speaker 2: gonna go ASK's. 1585 01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:19,960 Speaker 1: Naked's that just naked, nephew? 1586 01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:22,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, But when you get to the party, when they 1587 01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:25,599 Speaker 2: ask you, what are you? What you what you're gonna be? Oh, 1588 01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:34,439 Speaker 2: you're gonna walk in. There's a little putie. I'm sexy. 1589 01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:36,479 Speaker 2: So when I get to the party, it's on the pop. 1590 01:23:38,560 --> 01:23:41,640 Speaker 9: When I walk in naked, it's I don't know what 1591 01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:44,720 Speaker 9: you If you answer your question, I answer mine. 1592 01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:49,360 Speaker 2: How are you doing naked? Are you going to the party? 1593 01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:53,160 Speaker 2: Answer the question quick? Ask me what I'm doing. I'm 1594 01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:55,840 Speaker 2: gonna go to the party my naked alone. Well, when 1595 01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:57,480 Speaker 2: I walk in, it'll be obviously. 1596 01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:07,120 Speaker 1: Would you rather find true love? Everybody wants to find 1597 01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:10,240 Speaker 1: true love. Would you rather find true love? Or would 1598 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:13,040 Speaker 1: you rather win two million dollars in the lottery? 1599 01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:16,800 Speaker 2: I found true love? True love? Give it to me? Yeah? 1600 01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:19,240 Speaker 1: Why you say that? 1601 01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:20,160 Speaker 10: Who love? 1602 01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:20,439 Speaker 9: You know? 1603 01:24:20,560 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 3: Your nurse? 1604 01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:24,840 Speaker 1: That's today's rounded. Would you rather. 1605 01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:27,280 Speaker 5: Now? 1606 01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,519 Speaker 10: Because if I get it too, it's gonna be hug anyway. 1607 01:24:30,320 --> 01:24:32,680 Speaker 1: Coming up next, our last break of the day, and 1608 01:24:32,760 --> 01:24:34,719 Speaker 1: we'll close out the show with the one and only 1609 01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to the Steve 1610 01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:39,519 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. 1611 01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:46,599 Speaker 13: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, planning, 1612 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:48,120 Speaker 13: and hard work to get in the doors. 1613 01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:50,679 Speaker 10: Didn't make that house a home. Now, all that effort 1614 01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:54,000 Speaker 10: has built something hugely valued, equity. It's the portion of 1615 01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:56,120 Speaker 10: your homes you truly own that can be tapped to fun. 1616 01:24:56,280 --> 01:24:58,439 Speaker 13: What's next and Rocket Mortgage is here to help you 1617 01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:01,479 Speaker 13: turn your home's equity into cash fu on your next 1618 01:25:01,560 --> 01:25:02,799 Speaker 13: drink with Rocket Mortgage. 1619 01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:05,599 Speaker 10: Visit Rocket Mortgage dot com today to find out more. 1620 01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:09,080 Speaker 13: Rocket Mortgage LLC license in fifty states, n m LS 1621 01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:11,599 Speaker 13: Consumer Access dot Org number thirty thirty. 1622 01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:14,280 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1623 01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:19,519 Speaker 1: the day on this Friday is Friday, Fridayday. 1624 01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:21,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just got paid. 1625 01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:30,240 Speaker 1: Birthday weekend. Yeah, Carlo, that's right. Enjoy yourself like I 1626 01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:38,040 Speaker 1: said earlier, celebrate you you birthday. No, No, not going anywhere. 1627 01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:41,320 Speaker 1: I'll be here at the house. 1628 01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:44,200 Speaker 8: Now. 1629 01:25:44,280 --> 01:25:44,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. 1630 01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:49,400 Speaker 16: Fo Fidays week Yeah, yeah, you go I'm looking forward 1631 01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:53,920 Speaker 16: to that. Today is Marjorie's birthday. Marjorie Harvey's birthday, Steve 1632 01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:59,720 Speaker 16: your lovely Fife birthday, Birthday, Happy birthday, Oh what my 1633 01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:00,680 Speaker 16: birth they shout out. 1634 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:01,400 Speaker 2: Can I do one more? 1635 01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:04,719 Speaker 1: My mother in law, Winnifer Ferrell, Today is her birthday. 1636 01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:05,040 Speaker 2: Happy. 1637 01:26:07,240 --> 01:26:08,680 Speaker 1: We're surrounded by libras. 1638 01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:12,600 Speaker 2: Here's my closes the remarks today. 1639 01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:15,680 Speaker 8: This is. 1640 01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:20,360 Speaker 2: Let me just give you a few things that can 1641 01:26:20,479 --> 01:26:25,479 Speaker 2: help you. Uh. And sometimes the things are a little 1642 01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:29,880 Speaker 2: bit challenging, but being successful is very challenging. And most 1643 01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:32,480 Speaker 2: people are in the quest to become happy or successful, 1644 01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:36,200 Speaker 2: most everybody I know. So here's my remarks for you. 1645 01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:42,720 Speaker 2: I want you to get in the practice. You have 1646 01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:46,800 Speaker 2: to practice a couple of things that's not easy to do, 1647 01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:51,040 Speaker 2: but if you can just start practicing them, it will 1648 01:26:51,160 --> 01:26:54,800 Speaker 2: help you on your journey to success. One of the 1649 01:26:54,960 --> 01:26:59,599 Speaker 2: things I have practiced doing and gotten very very well at, 1650 01:27:00,479 --> 01:27:07,360 Speaker 2: I have learned how to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. 1651 01:27:09,720 --> 01:27:13,120 Speaker 2: You got to be all right when it's uncomfortable. You've 1652 01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:17,840 Speaker 2: got to learn how to be okay when it's uncomfortable, 1653 01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:21,840 Speaker 2: because there is going to be so many days and 1654 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:25,000 Speaker 2: so many times in your quest for success. That it's 1655 01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:28,960 Speaker 2: going to be uncomfortable. Now, let me explain it to you. 1656 01:27:29,240 --> 01:27:36,320 Speaker 2: Nobody likes being uncomfortable. It's just not comfortable. But you 1657 01:27:36,439 --> 01:27:39,360 Speaker 2: got to get al right being uncomfortable. You got to 1658 01:27:39,520 --> 01:27:43,200 Speaker 2: understand that this too shall pass. You have to understand 1659 01:27:43,320 --> 01:27:46,080 Speaker 2: that this is a part of the process. You've got 1660 01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:48,880 Speaker 2: to understand that this is a fleeting moment in time 1661 01:27:49,479 --> 01:27:53,160 Speaker 2: that you will get to it. But you got to 1662 01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:57,240 Speaker 2: go through it. Everything I've ever wanted has been on 1663 01:27:57,320 --> 01:28:03,800 Speaker 2: the other side of uncomfortable. Everything I've ever wanted in life, 1664 01:28:03,960 --> 01:28:07,200 Speaker 2: I had to go through it in order to get 1665 01:28:07,439 --> 01:28:11,760 Speaker 2: to it. And it's okay. But you got to learn 1666 01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:14,639 Speaker 2: how to tell yourself some things. You got to talk 1667 01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:18,360 Speaker 2: to yourself when it's uncomfortable. You gotta be able to 1668 01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:21,639 Speaker 2: say it is what it is. You gotta be able 1669 01:28:21,680 --> 01:28:24,880 Speaker 2: to say, this too shall pass. You gotta be all. 1670 01:28:25,040 --> 01:28:27,840 Speaker 2: You gotta learn how to say I'm gonna be all right. 1671 01:28:28,920 --> 01:28:31,040 Speaker 2: You got to make some work. You gotta get some work. 1672 01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:36,160 Speaker 2: God got me. I didn't seen this before. You got 1673 01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:39,240 Speaker 2: to learn how to do that. If you can do that, 1674 01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:42,479 Speaker 2: you know, I told somebody something one time. I think 1675 01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:44,840 Speaker 2: I was talking to Kean Henderson out on the golf 1676 01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:48,400 Speaker 2: course one day. He asked me, saying, of course, been 1677 01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:52,240 Speaker 2: one of the biggest reasons for your success. It was 1678 01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:54,240 Speaker 2: just me and Keon talking. I said, you know what 1679 01:28:54,360 --> 01:29:00,599 Speaker 2: it is, man, I've mastered suffering. I suffer really really well. 1680 01:29:01,600 --> 01:29:04,160 Speaker 2: I suffer and people don't know I'm suffering like I'm 1681 01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:08,439 Speaker 2: suffering right now, but I came to work anyway. I 1682 01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:12,559 Speaker 2: have clothes and remarks anyway. I thank God this morning 1683 01:29:12,640 --> 01:29:17,080 Speaker 2: for a new day anyway, and I'm actually suffering through 1684 01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:20,320 Speaker 2: some things right now, and it's more than one thing. 1685 01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:26,240 Speaker 2: But I have learned how to suffer. I suffer really well. 1686 01:29:27,080 --> 01:29:27,519 Speaker 10: I've learned. 1687 01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:30,360 Speaker 2: I've lived in a car for three years. I've suffered 1688 01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:33,880 Speaker 2: for an extended period of time. I just had to 1689 01:29:34,000 --> 01:29:38,600 Speaker 2: learn little ways to make the suffering bearable because you 1690 01:29:38,840 --> 01:29:41,479 Speaker 2: got to learn how to go through that. That's all. 1691 01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:44,720 Speaker 2: You gotta be okay with it because it'll pass and 1692 01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:49,240 Speaker 2: it's lee And remember this also, everybody, Everything you going 1693 01:29:49,400 --> 01:29:52,840 Speaker 2: through is God preparing you for something you ask for. 1694 01:29:54,560 --> 01:29:57,679 Speaker 2: But He got to get you right. You got lessons, 1695 01:29:57,720 --> 01:30:00,479 Speaker 2: you got to learn, You got strength. You have to 1696 01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:04,360 Speaker 2: build its character. You have to mold, and you got 1697 01:30:04,439 --> 01:30:06,760 Speaker 2: to go through things to have strength. You got to 1698 01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:09,439 Speaker 2: go through things to build character, You got to go 1699 01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:14,560 Speaker 2: through things to get experienced. Because what you're asking God for, 1700 01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:17,679 Speaker 2: he already knows what you need in order to sustain 1701 01:30:17,840 --> 01:30:21,879 Speaker 2: when you get there. So you gotta learn all the lessons, 1702 01:30:22,040 --> 01:30:24,880 Speaker 2: and every time you fail, quit looking at it as 1703 01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:29,680 Speaker 2: a failure. That's just another learned lesson. That's all in 1704 01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:33,120 Speaker 2: order to get to it. You got to go through it. 1705 01:30:34,400 --> 01:30:37,960 Speaker 2: Once you understand that, it simplifies it and doesn't make 1706 01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:40,479 Speaker 2: it easy. It simplifies it. 1707 01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:42,920 Speaker 9: You now know. 1708 01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:47,920 Speaker 2: This is the reason why, and it helps you deal 1709 01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:50,080 Speaker 2: with it. But what happens with a lot of people 1710 01:30:50,240 --> 01:30:52,800 Speaker 2: is when they start going through tough times, they always 1711 01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:59,120 Speaker 2: want to question God, Lord, why me? Because you're the one. See, 1712 01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:02,920 Speaker 2: you gotta remember more what you're asking for, and the 1713 01:31:03,000 --> 01:31:07,720 Speaker 2: bigger you asking for, the bigger the requirements. It's it's 1714 01:31:07,800 --> 01:31:13,559 Speaker 2: not going to get easier. So you know, just understand that, y'all, 1715 01:31:13,720 --> 01:31:17,280 Speaker 2: and and you'll be fine. Now, is it going to 1716 01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:20,200 Speaker 2: be tough? Yep? Is it going to be challenging, Yes, 1717 01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:26,040 Speaker 2: it is, but you will be fine. God got you. 1718 01:31:27,080 --> 01:31:29,760 Speaker 2: God has a plan for you. But there are things 1719 01:31:29,840 --> 01:31:31,760 Speaker 2: you're gonna have to go through in order to get 1720 01:31:31,800 --> 01:31:33,960 Speaker 2: to it. To get to it, you got to go 1721 01:31:34,120 --> 01:31:37,120 Speaker 2: through it. Those are my close remarks today. Hope that 1722 01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:43,800 Speaker 2: helps somebody today listen form relationship with God. It's the 1723 01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:47,280 Speaker 2: most important relationship you'll ever form, because He is there 1724 01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:50,360 Speaker 2: when everybody else has walked away to talk to God. 1725 01:31:50,479 --> 01:31:53,120 Speaker 2: Today'd absolutely love to hear from it, y'all. Stay ask you. 1726 01:31:59,000 --> 01:32:03,080 Speaker 14: For all Steve hat Snow purchase necessary voidware prohibited. 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