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<v Speaker 1>Second date update today, Tara is on the phone to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update. And I'm just gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and guess that Tara is scary. Her email said

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<v Speaker 1>that she took a dude back to her house and

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<v Speaker 1>then he just kind of like got skittish and ran

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<v Speaker 1>off before the end of the night, before anything could happen. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I've dated a few taras, and taras are always scary. Tara,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you, um high? Yeah, I'm scary. Sounds scary?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I see what you're talking about, Jewel,

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<v Speaker 1>Hang up, hang up. I'm not scary. Okay, we'll find

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<v Speaker 1>out in a little while when we try to get

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<v Speaker 1>this dude on the phone. Before we get into what

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<v Speaker 1>happened on your date? What's the name of the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to call today? Ben? Ben? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>And where'd you meet Ben? We met at a bar. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a very old school way to meet people these days,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know. And did you approach him or

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<v Speaker 1>the other way? Around. He gave up to me first. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when you guys met at the bar, is

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<v Speaker 1>this a date you're talking about or did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>actually go out and do something. We actually went out.

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<v Speaker 1>We had just talked a little bit for the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of exchanged numbers. They're bout the separate group. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you shocked when you actually got a call? I was?

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<v Speaker 1>I really was. He texted me and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, the guy from the bar text me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you guys do when you went out?

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<v Speaker 1>We went ticket tacos. Nice, that's a good date. Who

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't love tacos? Yeah, we were there for I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>probably like five hours or so. Was a long, like date, cow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot of tacos. Yeah, this wasn't tacos. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's alcohol too. We had a lot of drink. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We like talking about Leary went to school and our

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<v Speaker 1>families and I mean, like we a lot of same interests. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys were hitting it off. Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was going really great. And your email

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<v Speaker 1>said that you guys actually went back to your house. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I asked him back to my place and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to. Yeah, I know. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we got back and you gave him a tour and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we ended up in my room. Um, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, that's it. We're just waiting. It's funny. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you start making out in your bedroom making out

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and uh, you know, I felt like things,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, were probably gonna the next level. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, how do you go to the bathroom? And

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<v Speaker 1>when I came out, he wasn't in my room anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And where was he? He was putting on his shoes

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<v Speaker 1>at the front door. Okay, so this is when he left. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I asked if everything was okay, and he said yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would text me when he got home. And

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't really say anything. All wow, do you think okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't, and do you think anything could have

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<v Speaker 1>happened in the time you guys are messing around, You

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<v Speaker 1>went to the bathroom, came out that would have made

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<v Speaker 1>him have second thoughts? I'm not sure. I went back

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<v Speaker 1>to my room and then it looked like my closet

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<v Speaker 1>door was open, so maybe he did some snoopy. But

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<v Speaker 1>other than that, I mean, nothing happen when I was

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<v Speaker 1>with him, And you don't have like all of your

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend's clothes in your closet, and it just dawned on

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<v Speaker 1>him that you were single or something like that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I have like private things in there I wouldn't want

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<v Speaker 1>him to see, but like, you know, nothing out of

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<v Speaker 1>the ordinary that I think that would like mix someone

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<v Speaker 1>immediately wouldn't leave my house. Okay, So no dead bodies,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, No, there's no dead bodies in my closet. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So has he talked to you at all since he left? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't even text. Anybody was home. And yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to get a hold of him, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't get it, because it was like a really

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<v Speaker 1>great day. Do you think there's any chance that, like

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<v Speaker 1>you were moving too fast for him? Maybe that's it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it seemed like he was into it and things are

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<v Speaker 1>going great. But if he liked you and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just that you're moving a little too fast, you think

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<v Speaker 1>he would at least respond to you and talk to you. Right, Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>those guys, that's the best moment when they think they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get some. So I don't know what's geared him off. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess, like, if he's not used to that,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that would be a reck flight for him. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm checking with myself and his shoes to

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<v Speaker 1>like figure out what would wrong. Yeah, yeah, it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>a very rare dude if he's not used to that.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe who knows, Maybe he's a virgin or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and he got just scared and ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of the house, right. Yeah. He didn't seem like he

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<v Speaker 1>was very religious or anything or conservative on the date,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, and I feel if you spend like

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<v Speaker 1>five hours with somebody and a full on makeout session,

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<v Speaker 1>you know whether they're a virgin or not. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>a good kisser. Yeah, he was a great kisser. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Well we'll play a song and then come

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<v Speaker 1>back and call him and get your second eight update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so good, all right, brooking jubil in the morning. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>knows that the one thing you do as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>somebody leaves you alone in their house is you start

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<v Speaker 1>rifling through all of their personal things to see what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of people they really are. I do. I do

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<v Speaker 1>it to myself even when I'm home. I go through

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<v Speaker 1>my own stuff, and I'm surprised by things all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>like whoa, what's a stack of unpaid bills? What a

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<v Speaker 1>deadbeat this guy is? Anyway, that's the situation that Tara,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone for a second day update right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she might be dealing with it. She went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a dude named Ben. They hung out, went

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<v Speaker 1>back to her place, and they were making out in

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. Seemed like it was going to lead to

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<v Speaker 1>other places. She got up to go to the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when she came out, he was already putting

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<v Speaker 1>on his shoes and wanted to leave. And she thinks

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he looked through her closet and might have seen

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<v Speaker 1>something that he shouldn't have seen, although I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what that would be, But that's the only excuse that

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<v Speaker 1>she can think of. What do you think the item

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<v Speaker 1>is that could have scared him in your closet? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have any idea? I honestly have no idea, Like

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<v Speaker 1>in my head, I think maybe there's like another girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like, oh, you mean that you have

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<v Speaker 1>another girl in her closet? Yeah, because yeah, that would

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<v Speaker 1>be kind of scary, you know, you mean that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he was dating someone else and he had like a

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<v Speaker 1>moment of being a conscious moral person and that he yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I don't know, there's nothing in my closet that

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<v Speaker 1>should make someone run to the hill. Okay. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>seem kind of weird when he was leaving? He got

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<v Speaker 1>really quiet, So I've foused in a relationship, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe he thought like, oh, I'm near cheating and

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like, you know, needed to get out there

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<v Speaker 1>and think. If you're on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>making out with in the back bedroom, you've crossed the

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<v Speaker 1>line of cheating already. But whatever, Well, I'm gonna die

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<v Speaker 1>this one him right now and see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out for you. Okay, okay, cool, Okay? Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Ben? Yeah? Who's this Ben? What's up? Dude?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who is this

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<v Speaker 1>Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to sell something? No, I'm not trying to sell

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<v Speaker 1>it selling radios. No, not trying to sell you anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show and one of our listeners emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us about you. That's why we're calling Okay, um, it's

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that you went on a date with. That's weird. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show it's called the

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. It's where if you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody and then end up not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to them after, they can email us to get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out what happened. And we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email from Tara the other day from Tara. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you remember going out with Tara? Yeah, I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like a like one day thing, right, Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your date. What did she tell you, guys? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us that you guys hung out, I had

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<v Speaker 1>some drinks and tacos, and then went back to her

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<v Speaker 1>place and you started messing around a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she got up to go to the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 1>by the time she got out, you were like putting

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<v Speaker 1>on your shoes and seemed kind of sketched out when

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<v Speaker 1>we're leaving. Yeah, she said that she thought you two

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<v Speaker 1>were having a great time, so she didn't understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you bailed and then aren't calling her back, So she

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<v Speaker 1>emailed you guys about that. Well, you weren't getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to her, so I mean you could probably understand if

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<v Speaker 1>someone bails with no word in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 1>makeout session, you're gonna one or what happened? So she

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<v Speaker 1>went through all that, she emails you guys, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't know that son's kind of desperate, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, maybe she is a little desperate. But regardless,

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<v Speaker 1>she liked you a lot. Did you not like her? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really into her what any particular reason. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it just kind of we got weird when we got

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<v Speaker 1>back to her place. So everything was good up until

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<v Speaker 1>her place. Yeah, I didn't have any idea about like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't really I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>safe like telling y'all you don't feel safe telling me? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm I don't know, like the smartest thing

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<v Speaker 1>for me why. I mean, I left for like a

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<v Speaker 1>really like specific reason. You know. It was like, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>that that was the thing that was confusing to me

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<v Speaker 1>about her story, was you're hanging out with her for

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<v Speaker 1>so long, you go back to her place, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are messing around. Clearly you liked at a certain point,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're just just bounced. Yeah, I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hard to like say, is it? Should she know

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<v Speaker 1>what it is? Like? Are you you baffled that she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know why you left? I mean, I think she

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<v Speaker 1>has some idea. I doubt I'm the first person to

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of not be into that. Okay, so she's

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<v Speaker 1>into freaky stuff. I don't know what she's doing too.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't feel comfortable talking about it. Okay. Well, look,

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<v Speaker 1>whenever anybody agrees to do one of these second date updates,

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<v Speaker 1>we always tell them that they might hear something that

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<v Speaker 1>they're not gonna like. So she's prepared to hear whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the reason is. I don't know about this one. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she she wants me telling everyone this. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but what we told her, Like, she she

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<v Speaker 1>knows that her dirty laundry could be aired. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling me she's into some weird stuff, she's fully

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<v Speaker 1>prepared to put that out there. I mean we warned her, Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if she's okay with hearing whatever, then yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you. Sweet. So I was just like sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there while she was in the restroom, kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>looked around. I saw Nico on her nightstand. There's this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>look like it was kind of half under her lamp

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<v Speaker 1>and it looks like she was trying to hide it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I grab it and it's this checklist okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>on the top of it said things to get, things

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<v Speaker 1>to get like her grocery store list or something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's real different than that. Okay, what are the things

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<v Speaker 1>that she needs to get that freaks you out? So

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<v Speaker 1>you had like long blonde and then had like a

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<v Speaker 1>check mark next to it, and then it like said

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<v Speaker 1>short black. I had like another check mark next to that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm looking at this thing and I'm thinking this

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<v Speaker 1>is weird, like what's happening here? Like, and then the

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<v Speaker 1>next one was said short men's brown, and there was

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing after it was just like blank I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about hair brown? Yeah, yeah, So you know that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I was thinking too, right, like maybe she's a

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<v Speaker 1>hairstylist or there's like a wig that she's I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know hair. I don't know it's well because I have

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<v Speaker 1>short brown hair. So I was thinking, okay, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>like weird twins. And then I opened the nightstand and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like these bags of hair. So I got bags

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<v Speaker 1>of hair and her nightstand like how big, like gallon

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<v Speaker 1>sized bags? Wow? You think she was going out with

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<v Speaker 1>you to try to harvest your hair, Dude, I think

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<v Speaker 1>she was trying to get my hair. There's no way,

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<v Speaker 1>there's got to be sublogical explanation for this. You think

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with the psycho hair collector. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's what those bags were, right, So, yeah, it just

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<v Speaker 1>really freaked me out. She was obviously hiding that list,

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<v Speaker 1>and then like these were you know, these bags of

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<v Speaker 1>hair were just sitting there, and I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of got some creepy vibes from her just as

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<v Speaker 1>a person, but I thought she was hot, so went

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<v Speaker 1>back to her plate. And that's how she gets your hair,

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<v Speaker 1>which happened to all other men too. If I went

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<v Speaker 1>back to a chick's house and there were bags of

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<v Speaker 1>human hair there, I would have a few questions. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of I feel you on that. Yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just got out of there. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't ask her about them. You don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be able to hold that in. I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like I would be freaking out and yelling at her

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<v Speaker 1>from the bedroom to the bathroom, like what is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to live another day, so okay, well, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>I do have to tell you something though. She's actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening to this conversation and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. What y Yeah, and now we're

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<v Speaker 1>all scared tera are you still there? Yeah? Ben, this

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<v Speaker 1>is karah. Why are you laughing? You're laughing, hair lady.

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<v Speaker 1>That's even more psycho. No, I can't believe this, like

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<v Speaker 1>you have it all wrong and completely dumped conclusions like

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<v Speaker 1>I just like don't know why you didn't ask me.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to talk about this everyone about your I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Checklisi saw was her hair? Like that is crass? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you do collect hair? The bags of the nightstands

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<v Speaker 1>are hair? Okay? Yeah? Is this sounding worse and you're

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<v Speaker 1>so happy about it? No, it's funny. It's funny to

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<v Speaker 1>me because I sound like a murderer on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not a murderer. What are you doing? Hair? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I make hair dolls and I tell them on e

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<v Speaker 1>ssy do and I know that's weird. So I have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of friends who work at Swans and I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking, like, okay, they're just throwing it out. What

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<v Speaker 1>if I use them to like kind of the artistic

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<v Speaker 1>and make art and make like a silly thing. People

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<v Speaker 1>end up loving them, and I make pretty good money

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. So you make dolls out of hair, just

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<v Speaker 1>hare dolls. Yeah, and people are obsessed with them. Wait, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now it's still sounding creeping to me. It just got creepier. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>somehow you went from being a murderer creepy and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're just somebody who sits in your house and makes

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<v Speaker 1>hair dolls. I mean, if you make the money I

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<v Speaker 1>make doing them, you do it too. What is a

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<v Speaker 1>hair doll? Is it like you're just putting hair on

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<v Speaker 1>a doll? Or is it all of out of hair?

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<v Speaker 1>It's all out of hair. You know, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a corn hull doll. But it's like with hair. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not voodoo. I don't make it for voodoo purposes.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe it's trying to get my hair for a

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<v Speaker 1>hair doll. That's not a list for you. That was

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<v Speaker 1>not you. You just happen to have short brown hair,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just needed like a shorter hair for the

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<v Speaker 1>dollars making and I needed to tell my friend that

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<v Speaker 1>I needed that. I mean, it just seems weird that

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<v Speaker 1>you keep all this hair in your drawer and that

0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:31.960
<v Speaker 1>you're collecting it and selling it. I mean, yeah, that

0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:34.520
<v Speaker 1>does sound really weird, but like I'm not lying about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like I can give you my friend Shannon's number,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the main girl I get the hair frown. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. I mean, I'm not like trying to take

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<v Speaker 1>your hair and you know, put voodoo spells on you.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you I'm not doing that. No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's fun. Like I don't think you're lying about this,

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<v Speaker 1>but the truth isn't like better that it is bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean kind, I'm not saying it's not weird. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very weird. But I mean that's how I make extra income.

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<v Speaker 1>I went on to vacations last year with this money

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<v Speaker 1>I made you their dolls so looks pretty good doll

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<v Speaker 1>or buying hair dolls made out of a stranger's hair, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I have no idea for people that

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<v Speaker 1>like your hair dolls. They are you? You promised that

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't trying to harvest Ben's hair, like you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see him when you're out at the bar and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what I need for my next hair doll.

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<v Speaker 1>It must get him back to my place. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a creepy hair witch. I don't try to find

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<v Speaker 1>hair victim. I literally just tell my friends from the salon, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have this, let me know. I've never ever

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<v Speaker 1>gone out with anyone that specializes in making hair dolls. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you expand your horizons a little bit, Ben, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with hair again on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. No, I think I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>good guys. This will creaked me out. It's weird. Come on,

0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:55.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a hobby. Everybody has weird hobbies. I can give

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<v Speaker 1>you my at the shops and you can look at

0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:00.840
<v Speaker 1>them and see how ridiculous they are. No, I get

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<v Speaker 1>what the hair dolls are. I'm really cool. If I

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<v Speaker 1>don't see these hair dolls, I don't really want a

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<v Speaker 1>hair doll. I don't need to know anymore about these

0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:11.880
<v Speaker 1>hair dolls. I think I'm good. Thank you. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then I will ask you, since we're kind of friends

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, now, maybe you could donate. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>let me know when you get your next haircut. So

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<v Speaker 1>you are still trying to get his hair. Now, you're

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<v Speaker 1>still trying to get my hair. No, No, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a great set of hair, bend, deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I'm going to keep it. Maybe Broken Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>would want to donate. Ben. Absolutely, I'm gonna open somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to make a doll in my hair. For years, nobody's

0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:39.760
<v Speaker 1>ever taken me up on it, though. I'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>a ten percent commission. All right, sweet, I'll send you

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<v Speaker 1>all my hair, all of my body hair. You get it. Tara, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm starting to get scared because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people texting in at seven, eight, five to nine too

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<v Speaker 1>said they've been searching Etsy for hair dolls and have

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<v Speaker 1>found nothing. So she's really making hair dolls or something else.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Broken Jewel in the morning talk about today's second

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<v Speaker 1>Adight update if you missed it, Tara wanted to call

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<v Speaker 1>this dude named Ben, and Ben found a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>hair in her place and like a list for hair

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<v Speaker 1>that she needed. His type of hair was also on

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<v Speaker 1>the list, so it creeped him out. That's why he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling her back. But she claimed it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>hobby and she uses the hair to make hair dolls

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<v Speaker 1>that she sells on Etsy. I immediately searched it on

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<v Speaker 1>se two and the closest thing I could find was

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<v Speaker 1>a Japanese woman who was making dolls with real human hair,

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<v Speaker 1>but not dolls made out of you. I don't think that, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, Ben was worried that she was just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to harvest his hair, so he didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again. And from all of our research

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<v Speaker 1>in the last couple of minutes, I think Ben made

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<v Speaker 1>the right choice. Oh I feel really naive. I was

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<v Speaker 1>defending her. If you want to do a second update,

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<v Speaker 1>remember you can just emailed the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.