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Speaker 1: Second date update today, Tara is on the phone to
Speaker 1: do a second date update. And I'm just gonna go
Speaker 1: ahead and guess that Tara is scary. Her email said
Speaker 1: that she took a dude back to her house and
Speaker 1: then he just kind of like got skittish and ran
Speaker 1: off before the end of the night, before anything could happen. Also,
Speaker 1: I've dated a few taras, and taras are always scary. Tara,
Speaker 1: how are you, um high? Yeah, I'm scary. Sounds scary?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I see what you're talking about, Jewel,
Speaker 1: Hang up, hang up. I'm not scary. Okay, we'll find
Speaker 1: out in a little while when we try to get
Speaker 1: this dude on the phone. Before we get into what
Speaker 1: happened on your date? What's the name of the guy
Speaker 1: that you want to call today? Ben? Ben? All right?
Speaker 1: And where'd you meet Ben? We met at a bar. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a very old school way to meet people these days,
Speaker 1: I know, I know. And did you approach him or
Speaker 1: the other way? Around. He gave up to me first. Okay.
Speaker 1: And then when you guys met at the bar, is
Speaker 1: this a date you're talking about or did you guys
Speaker 1: actually go out and do something. We actually went out.
Speaker 1: We had just talked a little bit for the bar,
Speaker 1: kind of exchanged numbers. They're bout the separate group. Were
Speaker 1: you shocked when you actually got a call? I was?
Speaker 1: I really was. He texted me and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, the guy from the bar text me. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what did you guys do when you went out?
Speaker 1: We went ticket tacos. Nice, that's a good date. Who
Speaker 1: doesn't love tacos? Yeah, we were there for I don't know,
Speaker 1: probably like five hours or so. Was a long, like date, cow,
Speaker 1: that's a lot of tacos. Yeah, this wasn't tacos. You know,
Speaker 1: there's alcohol too. We had a lot of drink. Okay.
Speaker 1: We like talking about Leary went to school and our
Speaker 1: families and I mean, like we a lot of same interests. Okay.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys were hitting it off. Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: I thought it was going really great. And your email
Speaker 1: said that you guys actually went back to your house. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I asked him back to my place and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd love to. Yeah, I know. And then you know,
Speaker 1: we got back and you gave him a tour and uh,
Speaker 1: you know we ended up in my room. Um, sorry,
Speaker 1: but no, that's it. We're just waiting. It's funny. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you start making out in your bedroom making out
Speaker 1: or whatever, and uh, you know, I felt like things,
Speaker 1: you know, were probably gonna the next level. So I
Speaker 1: was like, how do you go to the bathroom? And
Speaker 1: when I came out, he wasn't in my room anymore.
Speaker 1: And where was he? He was putting on his shoes
Speaker 1: at the front door. Okay, so this is when he left. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I asked if everything was okay, and he said yeah,
Speaker 1: and he would text me when he got home. And
Speaker 1: he didn't really say anything. All wow, do you think okay?
Speaker 1: So you don't, and do you think anything could have
Speaker 1: happened in the time you guys are messing around, You
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom, came out that would have made
Speaker 1: him have second thoughts? I'm not sure. I went back
Speaker 1: to my room and then it looked like my closet
Speaker 1: door was open, so maybe he did some snoopy. But
Speaker 1: other than that, I mean, nothing happen when I was
Speaker 1: with him, And you don't have like all of your
Speaker 1: boyfriend's clothes in your closet, and it just dawned on
Speaker 1: him that you were single or something like that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I have like private things in there I wouldn't want
Speaker 1: him to see, but like, you know, nothing out of
Speaker 1: the ordinary that I think that would like mix someone
Speaker 1: immediately wouldn't leave my house. Okay, So no dead bodies,
Speaker 1: Yeah right, No, there's no dead bodies in my closet. Okay,
Speaker 1: So has he talked to you at all since he left? No,
Speaker 1: he didn't even text. Anybody was home. And yeah, I've
Speaker 1: been trying to get a hold of him, and I
Speaker 1: just don't get it, because it was like a really
Speaker 1: great day. Do you think there's any chance that, like
Speaker 1: you were moving too fast for him? Maybe that's it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it seemed like he was into it and things are
Speaker 1: going great. But if he liked you and it was
Speaker 1: just that you're moving a little too fast, you think
Speaker 1: he would at least respond to you and talk to you. Right, Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: those guys, that's the best moment when they think they're
Speaker 1: gonna get some. So I don't know what's geared him off. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, like, if he's not used to that,
Speaker 1: maybe that would be a reck flight for him. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm checking with myself and his shoes to
Speaker 1: like figure out what would wrong. Yeah, yeah, it'd be
Speaker 1: a very rare dude if he's not used to that.
Speaker 1: But maybe who knows, Maybe he's a virgin or something
Speaker 1: like that, and he got just scared and ran out
Speaker 1: of the house, right. Yeah. He didn't seem like he
Speaker 1: was very religious or anything or conservative on the date,
Speaker 1: but I mean, and I feel if you spend like
Speaker 1: five hours with somebody and a full on makeout session,
Speaker 1: you know whether they're a virgin or not. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: a good kisser. Yeah, he was a great kisser. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Well we'll play a song and then come
Speaker 1: back and call him and get your second eight update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so good, all right, brooking jubil in the morning. Everybody
Speaker 1: knows that the one thing you do as soon as
Speaker 1: somebody leaves you alone in their house is you start
Speaker 1: rifling through all of their personal things to see what
Speaker 1: kind of people they really are. I do. I do
Speaker 1: it to myself even when I'm home. I go through
Speaker 1: my own stuff, and I'm surprised by things all the time,
Speaker 1: like whoa, what's a stack of unpaid bills? What a
Speaker 1: deadbeat this guy is? Anyway, that's the situation that Tara,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone for a second day update right now,
Speaker 1: I think she might be dealing with it. She went
Speaker 1: out with a dude named Ben. They hung out, went
Speaker 1: back to her place, and they were making out in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. Seemed like it was going to lead to
Speaker 1: other places. She got up to go to the bathroom,
Speaker 1: and then when she came out, he was already putting
Speaker 1: on his shoes and wanted to leave. And she thinks
Speaker 1: maybe he looked through her closet and might have seen
Speaker 1: something that he shouldn't have seen, although I don't know
Speaker 1: what that would be, But that's the only excuse that
Speaker 1: she can think of. What do you think the item
Speaker 1: is that could have scared him in your closet? Do
Speaker 1: you have any idea? I honestly have no idea, Like
Speaker 1: in my head, I think maybe there's like another girl.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like, oh, you mean that you have
Speaker 1: another girl in her closet? Yeah, because yeah, that would
Speaker 1: be kind of scary, you know, you mean that maybe
Speaker 1: he was dating someone else and he had like a
Speaker 1: moment of being a conscious moral person and that he yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, there's nothing in my closet that
Speaker 1: should make someone run to the hill. Okay. Did he
Speaker 1: seem kind of weird when he was leaving? He got
Speaker 1: really quiet, So I've foused in a relationship, you know,
Speaker 1: and maybe he thought like, oh, I'm near cheating and
Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, needed to get out there
Speaker 1: and think. If you're on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: making out with in the back bedroom, you've crossed the
Speaker 1: line of cheating already. But whatever, Well, I'm gonna die
Speaker 1: this one him right now and see if we can
Speaker 1: figure it out for you. Okay, okay, cool, Okay? Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is this Ben? Yeah? Who's this Ben? What's up? Dude?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from the radio show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who is this
Speaker 1: Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um,
Speaker 1: trying to sell something? No, I'm not trying to sell
Speaker 1: it selling radios. No, not trying to sell you anything.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show and one of our listeners emailed
Speaker 1: us about you. That's why we're calling Okay, um, it's
Speaker 1: somebody that you went on a date with. That's weird. Okay.
Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show it's called the
Speaker 1: second Date Update. It's where if you go out on
Speaker 1: a date with somebody and then end up not talking
Speaker 1: to them after, they can email us to get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what happened. And we
Speaker 1: got an email from Tara the other day from Tara. Okay,
Speaker 1: you remember going out with Tara? Yeah, I mean it's
Speaker 1: just like a like one day thing, right, Yeah, she
Speaker 1: told us about your date. What did she tell you, guys? Well,
Speaker 1: she told us that you guys hung out, I had
Speaker 1: some drinks and tacos, and then went back to her
Speaker 1: place and you started messing around a little bit, and
Speaker 1: then she got up to go to the bathroom and
Speaker 1: by the time she got out, you were like putting
Speaker 1: on your shoes and seemed kind of sketched out when
Speaker 1: we're leaving. Yeah, she said that she thought you two
Speaker 1: were having a great time, so she didn't understand why
Speaker 1: you bailed and then aren't calling her back, So she
Speaker 1: emailed you guys about that. Well, you weren't getting back
Speaker 1: to her, so I mean you could probably understand if
Speaker 1: someone bails with no word in the middle of a
Speaker 1: makeout session, you're gonna one or what happened? So she
Speaker 1: went through all that, she emails you guys, and I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know that son's kind of desperate, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, maybe she is a little desperate. But regardless,
Speaker 1: she liked you a lot. Did you not like her? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not really into her what any particular reason. I mean,
Speaker 1: it just kind of we got weird when we got
Speaker 1: back to her place. So everything was good up until
Speaker 1: her place. Yeah, I didn't have any idea about like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't really I don't feel like
Speaker 1: safe like telling y'all you don't feel safe telling me? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I don't know, like the smartest thing
Speaker 1: for me why. I mean, I left for like a
Speaker 1: really like specific reason. You know. It was like, yeah
Speaker 1: that that was the thing that was confusing to me
Speaker 1: about her story, was you're hanging out with her for
Speaker 1: so long, you go back to her place, you guys
Speaker 1: are messing around. Clearly you liked at a certain point,
Speaker 1: and then you're just just bounced. Yeah, I mean, it's
Speaker 1: gonna hard to like say, is it? Should she know
Speaker 1: what it is? Like? Are you you baffled that she
Speaker 1: doesn't know why you left? I mean, I think she
Speaker 1: has some idea. I doubt I'm the first person to
Speaker 1: like kind of not be into that. Okay, so she's
Speaker 1: into freaky stuff. I don't know what she's doing too.
Speaker 1: I I don't feel comfortable talking about it. Okay. Well, look,
Speaker 1: whenever anybody agrees to do one of these second date updates,
Speaker 1: we always tell them that they might hear something that
Speaker 1: they're not gonna like. So she's prepared to hear whatever
Speaker 1: the reason is. I don't know about this one. I
Speaker 1: don't know if she she wants me telling everyone this. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, but what we told her, Like, she she
Speaker 1: knows that her dirty laundry could be aired. So if
Speaker 1: you're telling me she's into some weird stuff, she's fully
Speaker 1: prepared to put that out there. I mean we warned her, Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean if she's okay with hearing whatever, then yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Sweet. So I was just like sitting
Speaker 1: there while she was in the restroom, kind of like
Speaker 1: looked around. I saw Nico on her nightstand. There's this thing,
Speaker 1: look like it was kind of half under her lamp
Speaker 1: and it looks like she was trying to hide it.
Speaker 1: So I grab it and it's this checklist okay, and
Speaker 1: on the top of it said things to get, things
Speaker 1: to get like her grocery store list or something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's real different than that. Okay, what are the things
Speaker 1: that she needs to get that freaks you out? So
Speaker 1: you had like long blonde and then had like a
Speaker 1: check mark next to it, and then it like said
Speaker 1: short black. I had like another check mark next to that.
Speaker 1: So I'm looking at this thing and I'm thinking this
Speaker 1: is weird, like what's happening here? Like, and then the
Speaker 1: next one was said short men's brown, and there was
Speaker 1: like nothing after it was just like blank I was
Speaker 1: talking about hair brown? Yeah, yeah, So you know that's
Speaker 1: what I was thinking too, right, like maybe she's a
Speaker 1: hairstylist or there's like a wig that she's I don't
Speaker 1: know hair. I don't know it's well because I have
Speaker 1: short brown hair. So I was thinking, okay, and there's
Speaker 1: like weird twins. And then I opened the nightstand and
Speaker 1: it's like these bags of hair. So I got bags
Speaker 1: of hair and her nightstand like how big, like gallon
Speaker 1: sized bags? Wow? You think she was going out with
Speaker 1: you to try to harvest your hair, Dude, I think
Speaker 1: she was trying to get my hair. There's no way,
Speaker 1: there's got to be sublogical explanation for this. You think
Speaker 1: you went out with the psycho hair collector. I mean
Speaker 1: that's what those bags were, right, So, yeah, it just
Speaker 1: really freaked me out. She was obviously hiding that list,
Speaker 1: and then like these were you know, these bags of
Speaker 1: hair were just sitting there, and I don't know, I
Speaker 1: kind of got some creepy vibes from her just as
Speaker 1: a person, but I thought she was hot, so went
Speaker 1: back to her plate. And that's how she gets your hair,
Speaker 1: which happened to all other men too. If I went
Speaker 1: back to a chick's house and there were bags of
Speaker 1: human hair there, I would have a few questions. I
Speaker 1: kind of I feel you on that. Yeah, so I
Speaker 1: kind of just got out of there. I can't believe
Speaker 1: you didn't ask her about them. You don't want to.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to hold that in. I'd be
Speaker 1: like I would be freaking out and yelling at her
Speaker 1: from the bedroom to the bathroom, like what is going on?
Speaker 1: I wanted to live another day, so okay, well, Ben,
Speaker 1: I do have to tell you something though. She's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening to this conversation and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. What y Yeah, and now we're
Speaker 1: all scared tera are you still there? Yeah? Ben, this
Speaker 1: is karah. Why are you laughing? You're laughing, hair lady.
Speaker 1: That's even more psycho. No, I can't believe this, like
Speaker 1: you have it all wrong and completely dumped conclusions like
Speaker 1: I just like don't know why you didn't ask me.
Speaker 1: You want to talk about this everyone about your I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: the Checklisi saw was her hair? Like that is crass? Okay,
Speaker 1: So you do collect hair? The bags of the nightstands
Speaker 1: are hair? Okay? Yeah? Is this sounding worse and you're
Speaker 1: so happy about it? No, it's funny. It's funny to
Speaker 1: me because I sound like a murderer on the radio.
Speaker 1: I am not a murderer. What are you doing? Hair? No?
Speaker 1: I make hair dolls and I tell them on e
Speaker 1: ssy do and I know that's weird. So I have
Speaker 1: a couple of friends who work at Swans and I
Speaker 1: was thinking, like, okay, they're just throwing it out. What
Speaker 1: if I use them to like kind of the artistic
Speaker 1: and make art and make like a silly thing. People
Speaker 1: end up loving them, and I make pretty good money
Speaker 1: doing it. So you make dolls out of hair, just
Speaker 1: hare dolls. Yeah, and people are obsessed with them. Wait, okay,
Speaker 1: now it's still sounding creeping to me. It just got creepier. Actually,
Speaker 1: somehow you went from being a murderer creepy and now
Speaker 1: you're just somebody who sits in your house and makes
Speaker 1: hair dolls. I mean, if you make the money I
Speaker 1: make doing them, you do it too. What is a
Speaker 1: hair doll? Is it like you're just putting hair on
Speaker 1: a doll? Or is it all of out of hair?
Speaker 1: It's all out of hair. You know, it's kind of
Speaker 1: like a corn hull doll. But it's like with hair. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's not voodoo. I don't make it for voodoo purposes.
Speaker 1: So maybe it's trying to get my hair for a
Speaker 1: hair doll. That's not a list for you. That was
Speaker 1: not you. You just happen to have short brown hair,
Speaker 1: like I just needed like a shorter hair for the
Speaker 1: dollars making and I needed to tell my friend that
Speaker 1: I needed that. I mean, it just seems weird that
Speaker 1: you keep all this hair in your drawer and that
Speaker 1: you're collecting it and selling it. I mean, yeah, that
Speaker 1: does sound really weird, but like I'm not lying about it.
Speaker 1: You know, like I can give you my friend Shannon's number,
Speaker 1: she's the main girl I get the hair frown. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. I mean, I'm not like trying to take
Speaker 1: your hair and you know, put voodoo spells on you.
Speaker 1: I promise you I'm not doing that. No, I mean
Speaker 1: that's fun. Like I don't think you're lying about this,
Speaker 1: but the truth isn't like better that it is bad.
Speaker 1: I mean kind, I'm not saying it's not weird. It's
Speaker 1: very weird. But I mean that's how I make extra income.
Speaker 1: I went on to vacations last year with this money
Speaker 1: I made you their dolls so looks pretty good doll
Speaker 1: or buying hair dolls made out of a stranger's hair, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I have no idea for people that
Speaker 1: like your hair dolls. They are you? You promised that
Speaker 1: you weren't trying to harvest Ben's hair, like you didn't
Speaker 1: see him when you're out at the bar and you're like,
Speaker 1: that's exactly what I need for my next hair doll.
Speaker 1: It must get him back to my place. No, I'm
Speaker 1: not a creepy hair witch. I don't try to find
Speaker 1: hair victim. I literally just tell my friends from the salon, like, hey,
Speaker 1: if you have this, let me know. I've never ever
Speaker 1: gone out with anyone that specializes in making hair dolls. Well,
Speaker 1: you expand your horizons a little bit, Ben, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with hair again on a second date?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. No, I think I'm a
Speaker 1: good guys. This will creaked me out. It's weird. Come on,
Speaker 1: it's a hobby. Everybody has weird hobbies. I can give
Speaker 1: you my at the shops and you can look at
Speaker 1: them and see how ridiculous they are. No, I get
Speaker 1: what the hair dolls are. I'm really cool. If I
Speaker 1: don't see these hair dolls, I don't really want a
Speaker 1: hair doll. I don't need to know anymore about these
Speaker 1: hair dolls. I think I'm good. Thank you. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: then I will ask you, since we're kind of friends
Speaker 1: a little bit, now, maybe you could donate. You know,
Speaker 1: let me know when you get your next haircut. So
Speaker 1: you are still trying to get his hair. Now, you're
Speaker 1: still trying to get my hair. No, No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: You have a great set of hair, bend, deal with it.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm going to keep it. Maybe Broken Jewel
Speaker 1: would want to donate. Ben. Absolutely, I'm gonna open somebody
Speaker 1: to make a doll in my hair. For years, nobody's
Speaker 1: ever taken me up on it, though. I'll give you
Speaker 1: a ten percent commission. All right, sweet, I'll send you
Speaker 1: all my hair, all of my body hair. You get it. Tara, Okay,
Speaker 1: Now I'm starting to get scared because a lot of
Speaker 1: people texting in at seven, eight, five to nine too
Speaker 1: said they've been searching Etsy for hair dolls and have
Speaker 1: found nothing. So she's really making hair dolls or something else.
Speaker 1: It's Broken Jewel in the morning talk about today's second
Speaker 1: Adight update if you missed it, Tara wanted to call
Speaker 1: this dude named Ben, and Ben found a bunch of
Speaker 1: hair in her place and like a list for hair
Speaker 1: that she needed. His type of hair was also on
Speaker 1: the list, so it creeped him out. That's why he
Speaker 1: wasn't calling her back. But she claimed it's just a
Speaker 1: hobby and she uses the hair to make hair dolls
Speaker 1: that she sells on Etsy. I immediately searched it on
Speaker 1: se two and the closest thing I could find was
Speaker 1: a Japanese woman who was making dolls with real human hair,
Speaker 1: but not dolls made out of you. I don't think that, yes,
Speaker 1: So anyway, Ben was worried that she was just trying
Speaker 1: to harvest his hair, so he didn't want to go
Speaker 1: out with her again. And from all of our research
Speaker 1: in the last couple of minutes, I think Ben made
Speaker 1: the right choice. Oh I feel really naive. I was
Speaker 1: defending her. If you want to do a second update,
Speaker 1: remember you can just emailed the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back.