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Speaker 1: Second date update today, Tara is on the phone to

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Speaker 1: do a second date update. And I'm just gonna go

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Speaker 1: ahead and guess that Tara is scary. Her email said

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Speaker 1: then he just kind of like got skittish and ran

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Speaker 1: off before the end of the night, before anything could happen. Also,

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Speaker 1: I've dated a few taras, and taras are always scary. Tara,

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Speaker 1: how are you, um high? Yeah, I'm scary. Sounds scary?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I see what you're talking about, Jewel,

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Speaker 1: Hang up, hang up. I'm not scary. Okay, we'll find

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Speaker 1: out in a little while when we try to get

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Speaker 1: this dude on the phone. Before we get into what

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Speaker 1: happened on your date? What's the name of the guy

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Speaker 1: that you want to call today? Ben? Ben? All right?

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Speaker 1: And where'd you meet Ben? We met at a bar. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's a very old school way to meet people these days,

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Speaker 1: I know, I know. And did you approach him or

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Speaker 1: the other way? Around. He gave up to me first. Okay.

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Speaker 1: And then when you guys met at the bar, is

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Speaker 1: actually go out and do something. We actually went out.

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Speaker 1: We had just talked a little bit for the bar,

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Speaker 1: kind of exchanged numbers. They're bout the separate group. Were

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Speaker 1: I really was. He texted me and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, the guy from the bar text me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what did you guys do when you went out?

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Speaker 1: We went ticket tacos. Nice, that's a good date. Who

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Speaker 1: doesn't love tacos? Yeah, we were there for I don't know,

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Speaker 1: that's a lot of tacos. Yeah, this wasn't tacos. You know,

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Speaker 1: there's alcohol too. We had a lot of drink. Okay.

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Speaker 1: We like talking about Leary went to school and our

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys were hitting it off. Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was going really great. And your email

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Speaker 1: I asked him back to my place and he was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but no, that's it. We're just waiting. It's funny. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And where was he? He was putting on his shoes

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Speaker 1: And I asked if everything was okay, and he said yeah,

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Speaker 1: figure it out for you. Okay, okay, cool, Okay? Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Ben? Yeah? Who's this Ben? What's up? Dude?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who is this

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Speaker 1: Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um,

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Speaker 1: trying to sell something? No, I'm not trying to sell

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Speaker 1: it selling radios. No, not trying to sell you anything.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show and one of our listeners emailed

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Speaker 1: us about you. That's why we're calling Okay, um, it's

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. It's where if you go out on

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Speaker 1: got an email from Tara the other day from Tara. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you remember going out with Tara? Yeah, I mean it's

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Speaker 1: You have a great set of hair, bend, deal with it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm going to keep it. Maybe Broken Jewel

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Speaker 1: would want to donate. Ben. Absolutely, I'm gonna open somebody

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Speaker 1: all my hair, all of my body hair. You get it. Tara, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Adight update if you missed it, Tara wanted to call

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