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<v Speaker 1>But I'm talking.

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<v Speaker 2>If a man has you in his house, he wants

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<v Speaker 2>you doing something. I disagree he wants you doing something.

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree.

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<v Speaker 3>You think some men I think if you date somebody

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<v Speaker 3>wealthy en us, they don't want you doing nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, you're gonna have to wash a sheet of something.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex Pee Andy's girls

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<v Speaker 1>are in the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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<v Speaker 1>Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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<v Speaker 2>We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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<v Speaker 2>guests today, And oh my gosh, you know what I

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<v Speaker 2>meant to do?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll be reading YouTube comments and stuff because I

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<v Speaker 2>like I like destructive criticism. So when people tell me

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<v Speaker 2>things about the show, I'm always like, Okay, some I

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<v Speaker 2>listen to. Some I don't because I can tell when

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<v Speaker 2>someone's being like genuine. So somebody was like, can y'all

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<v Speaker 2>move that centerpiece? It's kind of distracting. But when I

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<v Speaker 2>looked at him, like it low key is and it

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<v Speaker 2>do be in the way because there's nothing like you mean,

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<v Speaker 2>some movie, I'm gonna move it right. Okay, you can

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<v Speaker 2>just said it right here for now, but I forgot

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<v Speaker 2>to move it so because it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just there. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's you know, the core, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>really adding. Yeah, I mean I feel you, but I

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<v Speaker 3>do feel like something needs to be right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate an empty table.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe we'll get I don't know something better, but

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<v Speaker 2>it just kind of blocks.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just I like blocks the view. Yes, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean I understand that. I think I had seen that

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<v Speaker 3>comments too. I don't really be reading the comments. I

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<v Speaker 3>just sometimes see some occasionally when it'll like pop up

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<v Speaker 3>for the notifications.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a video that went viral on YouTube. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm so a short. It was the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>We never go viral on the shorts.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the shorts never get a whole bunch that'd be

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<v Speaker 3>like and it's like so crazy because it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>An old, old, old YouTube.

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<v Speaker 3>Short from before we even moved to the studio. Remember

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<v Speaker 3>like when we had recorded those two episodes at that

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<v Speaker 3>old studio, I mean at that studio we had to

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<v Speaker 3>rink because we had moved out of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah yeah yeah, okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>We were like talking about men not being able to

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<v Speaker 3>get it back up like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh for round two, I don remember that. Oh yeah

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<v Speaker 2>I did, And.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so random out of nowhere. It just went viral

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<v Speaker 3>and I was at like five hundred thousand. That's so

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<v Speaker 3>crazy on YouTube, and people have been commenting on.

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<v Speaker 1>It every day.

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<v Speaker 3>So every time I look at our YouTube channel, I

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<v Speaker 3>see nothing but comments about that.

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<v Speaker 1>And they've been going in on this like bad, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, they're so mean. That's why I don't read

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<v Speaker 1>the comments mean to us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I mean some people was being nice, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was a lot of people being like I

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<v Speaker 3>can't believe that this is what the internet has come to.

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<v Speaker 3>These are the conversations and discussions that we're having. Me

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<v Speaker 3>and you could talk about a plethora of serious topics

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<v Speaker 3>and other things, and people will see one clip like

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<v Speaker 3>that and swear that we bird brains and we don't

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<v Speaker 3>have nothing to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, it's crazy other than sick. I'll say this.

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<v Speaker 2>When Poor Mind's first started, we were the craziest thing

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<v Speaker 2>because we were The things we would say was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe that they're saying this on camera, but no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying is.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're very light work, modest, not won't let me

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<v Speaker 1>not sayd I said mild.

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<v Speaker 2>We're very mild to the things that people say on podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, we ain't as spicy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so i'd be like, when stuff like that goes viral,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not that crazy. But it's like we are not

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<v Speaker 2>talking about anything that's just so crazy that you haven't

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<v Speaker 2>seen before.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes, like I said, I just feel like you were

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<v Speaker 3>thinking it, but we just said it, So like, what's

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<v Speaker 3>the problem. It's the same thing you were thinking. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's an issue because we said it publicly. It's something

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<v Speaker 3>that everybody goes but it's always things that everybody goes through.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like you're cringing and you're like clutching your pearls.

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<v Speaker 1>Do remember the cursing? Oh I forgot my ship, Bobby

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<v Speaker 1>gonna bleep it. I'm weak.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I want to talk about the dress. The body

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<v Speaker 2>is audience.

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<v Speaker 1>We kind of machine. Are we coordinated? We look at

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<v Speaker 1>like two Hershey kiss bars girl.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyways, Yeah, so this dress, oh my god, it's

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<v Speaker 3>the house to c B dress and it's so hard

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<v Speaker 3>to get into. This is the second time that I

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<v Speaker 3>wore because I wore.

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<v Speaker 2>When we did the The La Live Show for Netflix,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I was like, oh, I never wore it

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<v Speaker 2>for an episode, so I'm gonna put it on today.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a struggle. It was a struggle. It was

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<v Speaker 3>it's like then you have to like lub it up

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<v Speaker 3>the first time you wear it, and it's only a

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<v Speaker 3>certain type of lube you can use.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so late text.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that there's like a whole, like big

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<v Speaker 2>community of like latex lovers.

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<v Speaker 3>I got they can't have it because then you be

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<v Speaker 3>sweating up. Yeah, it start smelling like.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to use a certain I don't have anything real.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't well, I don't have any Latex or anything

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<v Speaker 2>like that in my closet. Just because once I did

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<v Speaker 2>my research on it, I was like, oh, this is

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<v Speaker 2>not for me because you really have to take care

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<v Speaker 2>of late text. You can't just use any type of

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<v Speaker 2>oil like baby oil, because it'll break down.

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<v Speaker 1>The latext and I'll actually rip.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's like a whole community like on TikTok, like

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<v Speaker 2>online they're like latex lovers. So I was actually trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get a Halloween costume one year that was latex,

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<v Speaker 2>and when I did my research on I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh no, this is very hardcore.

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<v Speaker 1>This is very hard and speaking of how it is,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like to me, I don't know, it's too much.

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<v Speaker 1>You just use lube.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but see you are like I won't say petit,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're small, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, ain't nothing about me petite with my weave.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what I was saying is like, you wear a

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<v Speaker 2>small medium, so you don't you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>For me to put something like that on, I would

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<v Speaker 2>have to go to Grey's Anatomy and get operated on.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I don't think so, because I mean that's

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<v Speaker 3>the point though, Like when you put the lub, you

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<v Speaker 3>have to put the lube on your body and you

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<v Speaker 3>have to put it on the jury so that if

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<v Speaker 3>you can just slide in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Movie about it like a snake.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta just slide in there, and I mean it

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<v Speaker 3>really does help.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just super tight. Yeah, no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like the smell of late ticks. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really like you walking around smell like a condom.

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<v Speaker 2>I just said it like two minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just all I was saying to be smelled like

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<v Speaker 3>a condom because it's so tight and sweating.

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<v Speaker 1>So ti we're we drinking today. I ain't even name

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<v Speaker 1>this one yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I was hoping y'all was gonna get deeper into I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would look, I said on the time. She was not prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>Since y'all went viral, we're gonna call this viral vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So this one is you can choose whatever spirit

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<v Speaker 3>of choice again, Autumn winter vibes is what we're coming

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<v Speaker 3>through with this one. We have some pomegranate juice, a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit of lime juice, and some blood orange syrup.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know I am obsessed with blood I loved, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. And then we topped it off with a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of ginger beer.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're at home, you could also use like a

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<v Speaker 3>prosecco or like a sparkling rose that would like.

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<v Speaker 1>Be really good with this as well.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we garnish it with some of those pomegranate

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<v Speaker 3>arrows at the bottom, so like when you stir you

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<v Speaker 3>can kind of see him floating around just a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit better.

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<v Speaker 1>It's giving holiday. I'm ready taste really really good.

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<v Speaker 3>I love blood orange jew like those blood orange sam

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<v Speaker 3>pello Greno.

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<v Speaker 1>They are so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if it was tasting a drink good I

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<v Speaker 3>try one day.

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<v Speaker 2>before we get into this topic, I just have a

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<v Speaker 2>question I wanted to talk about. I don't like, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all know, we don't like to talk about people specifically,

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<v Speaker 2>I just do. I do have a question I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you. And I wanted to say this, not

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily in this girl's defense, but I just think it's

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<v Speaker 2>so weird. So and we've talked about this before we

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<v Speaker 2>have on the show, but I just wanted to address

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<v Speaker 2>this real quick, and then we're gonna get into the topic.

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<v Speaker 2>So y'all know, j Nice is it Jay?

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<v Speaker 1>Or Ji? I'm not sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't want to say her name wrong. Y'all

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<v Speaker 2>know I hate pronounced people name wrong. So you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just on Instagram yesterday scrolling, being nosy like I

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<v Speaker 2>always do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always in everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Beasneys, So if you see me in your story, don't

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<v Speaker 2>be like, oh my god, xp No, I'm I'm being

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<v Speaker 2>nosy girl. I'm just being nosy so I can be missy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when I think about me, I'll watch anybody page

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<v Speaker 3>from my real page.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you see me in your view same thing,

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<v Speaker 3>or you came up on my explore page.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just like, oh, let me go to

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<v Speaker 1>y'all speed, let me go see the tea.

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<v Speaker 2>So basically, she dropped a new line of like workout

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<v Speaker 2>clothes and supplements and all this stuff, and she took

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<v Speaker 2>some bomb ass pictures like I'm not gonna lie their

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful pictures workout gears showing her body and we all

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<v Speaker 2>know she has an amazing body. Yeah, so everybody was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I hate that pipeline of girls getting DDLS to being

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<v Speaker 2>a workout guru person. So it's been going on for

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<v Speaker 2>like two weeks. Everybody been like talking about her eating

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<v Speaker 2>her up online. So she posted yesterday she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>why can y'all just not believe that I did not

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<v Speaker 2>get LiPo?

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<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to say this.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm gonna give my opinion on what she did

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<v Speaker 2>to her body and give a little tea from somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who's been chopped and screwed on the table forty five times.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like to know I know little something about a

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<v Speaker 2>one too. This is what I think, and I could

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<v Speaker 2>be completely wrong. But first of all, Jay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>say Jay. I hope that's her name, but Jay nice.

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<v Speaker 2>If you look at her old picture, she was very petite.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I'm talking about very skinny. But I always

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<v Speaker 2>say there's different types of skinny, right, you know they

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<v Speaker 2>how like the Victoria's Secret models were skinny, but they

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<v Speaker 2>had a little curve, you know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how she was shaped.

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<v Speaker 2>She was tiny, but she had an hourglass shape. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think whenever she was tiny, she got a little

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<v Speaker 2>one too.

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<v Speaker 1>When I say little one too, I think she got

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<v Speaker 1>ash shots butt shots.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So I think whenever she got but shots, that's

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<v Speaker 2>when she was like, you know, curvy whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But as she got older, she gained weight.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, she gained weight in the bottom half a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>because she just doesn't that's genetics. She don't gain a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of weight in her stomach. Of course, when you

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<v Speaker 2>gain weight, you're gonna gain weight everywhere, but genetically you'll

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<v Speaker 2>gain weight.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's where I was gonna say, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>because that's the thing for me, Like you don't get

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<v Speaker 3>to choose where weight.

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<v Speaker 2>Is, right, but her stomach not that her stomach is big,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>But her waistline got thicker with the rest of her body.

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<v Speaker 1>Like for me, when I.

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<v Speaker 2>Used to gain weight, while I still gain weight, I

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<v Speaker 2>gained weight in my breast. Now does it go all over, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but weight doesn't really go to like my butt or

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<v Speaker 2>other like.

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<v Speaker 1>My arms, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>It would go to my eyes and my breast, it

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<v Speaker 2>would go to other places, but not as much. So

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<v Speaker 2>I truly believe obviously she got her breast done, but

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't think she got life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do not believe that girl got LiPo.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she just naturally has a small waist and

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<v Speaker 2>she got butt shots, and as she got older, she

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<v Speaker 2>gained weight.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, of course everybody does does a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little face tune, a little one two, so she probably

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<v Speaker 2>you know, does her little pictures, right, so it looks

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<v Speaker 2>like that. But I just think she was a skinny

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<v Speaker 2>girl got butt shots and that's how her body ended

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<v Speaker 2>up looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I really believe it. I don't. It's not given.

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<v Speaker 2>I can you can just kind of tell when somebody

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<v Speaker 2>has had a little life, though sometimes you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you can't.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like her waistline has always been like that,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's got a little thicker, but it's not giving BBL.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not giving BBL. It's giving ads shots personally. So

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<v Speaker 2>this is no shade to J I fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Of your work, beautiful body.

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<v Speaker 2>But also on the other side, it's like, why y'all

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<v Speaker 2>care so much? Y'all be trying to clock that tea hard?

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<v Speaker 2>Like y'all be trying to clock her tea so hard,

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<v Speaker 2>but you aren't even worried about your own body.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just think that's people on the internet, though,

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<v Speaker 3>people be trying to clock people's tea.

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<v Speaker 2>So hard, Like why do y'all be trying to clock it?

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<v Speaker 1>So why do you care?

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like we get that too though about

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm just trying to clock.

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<v Speaker 1>Our tea, Like what have we got done?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>They be like making false accusations about work we got

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<v Speaker 3>done to our face. They be making false accusations about

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<v Speaker 3>work we got done to our bodies. Like it's just

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<v Speaker 3>like whatever I tell you I did. Why you can't

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<v Speaker 3>just take that for being the truth because I'm telling

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<v Speaker 3>the truth to me. It's one thing when people will

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<v Speaker 3>tell you what they've done or just not say nothing, right, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what I mean? I just hate when people lie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like either say what you did, say what you said,

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<v Speaker 3>or either say what you said or just don't say

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<v Speaker 3>nothing at all. I just hate when people lie because

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like, why lie about it if you've

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<v Speaker 3>got something done?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we live in an era where.

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<v Speaker 3>So many people have had plastic surgery, so many people

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<v Speaker 3>have had procedures done, and it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Not no reason to lie no more, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's okay, Like I think we've talked about these

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<v Speaker 3>before on the show. Definitely it's it's definitely women out

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<v Speaker 3>there who have.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice natural bodies. Yes, I say this all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Prior to me getting LiPo, I always had a nice body,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I always had a slim waist, I already had

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<v Speaker 3>hips and stuff. But then it's like I got LiPo

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<v Speaker 3>and then I ended up getting LiPo again, I got

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<v Speaker 3>a little more added to my hips. I don't but

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<v Speaker 3>it's like I don't care when people say stuff, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's just like I hate when people try to make

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<v Speaker 3>accusations and you're not right, because I remember, before I

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<v Speaker 3>even got like a second round of LiPo and got

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<v Speaker 3>any that added to my hips, people were saying that

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<v Speaker 3>I had a BBL and I never had a BBL

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<v Speaker 3>and you know me, you're my best friend, Like, I

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<v Speaker 3>have no reason to lie about these things, And people

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<v Speaker 3>will try so hard to clock that tea because they

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<v Speaker 3>just don't believe that girls can already have Like we're

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<v Speaker 3>black women. I get so tired of saying that, like

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<v Speaker 3>we are the originators of having curves. Why is it

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<v Speaker 3>so hard to believe that some people can just have

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<v Speaker 3>big butts naturally, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I have hips naturally. I don't know. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think it's weird. But I hate the girls they lied.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate because hate is a strong word.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care enough to hate y'all. But I just

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<v Speaker 3>think it's weird. I think it's weird when girls lie,

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<v Speaker 3>just like even when people be trying to clock our tea,

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<v Speaker 3>people be always trying to say I had an ose job.

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<v Speaker 3>If I've had an ose job, I would say I

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<v Speaker 3>had an ose job. But I also have old pictures

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<v Speaker 3>up on the internet from when I was eighteen years old,

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen years old, twenty twenty one years old.

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<v Speaker 1>I have the same nose.

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<v Speaker 3>But why is it hard to believe that a black

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<v Speaker 3>woman hasn't gotten any work done to her face and

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<v Speaker 3>she just has a beautiful pase Like I think it's

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<v Speaker 3>weird and oh and people love to say, oh, we

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<v Speaker 3>y'all have y'all don't have botox and lip feelers.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not surgery, it's not well.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say this because I'm glad you brought that up too,

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<v Speaker 2>because somebody has sent.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and botox doesn't change.

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<v Speaker 2>Any well, I'll say this I to me personally, it

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<v Speaker 2>does cause I had somebody respond to me. I had

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<v Speaker 2>somebody respond to my story, probably like a week or

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<v Speaker 2>two or they're like, Lex, you were so beautiful, stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Touching your face.

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, like, hirl, have I done a little

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<v Speaker 2>one two Fellers and stuff? Yes, I have, but personally

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<v Speaker 2>I liked it, but it wasn't something that I continue

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<v Speaker 2>to do. But botox is something like I like a

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<v Speaker 2>little botox. Does botox change your face? Yes, it does

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<v Speaker 2>because it relaxes the muscles. Things get you know, a

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<v Speaker 2>little tighter, a little yes, botox does change your face, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, who cares?

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<v Speaker 4>Who cares?

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<v Speaker 2>At the end of the day, we are on camera

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<v Speaker 2>on four K camera every week. So if I want

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<v Speaker 2>to do a little one two and I like to

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<v Speaker 2>look good, let me look good. But it doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 2>if you've put a needle to anything. That's how I feel,

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<v Speaker 2>But it doesn't matter. Stop trying to clock tea, tell people, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, you look good boo, and keep it pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess what I'm more so meant when I said

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<v Speaker 3>botox doesn't change anything, is that it's like it's not

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<v Speaker 3>changing the anatomy of my face. Like, my face still

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<v Speaker 3>looks the same, My bone structure is the rme, my

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<v Speaker 3>features are the same. It's not changing anything. All it's

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<v Speaker 3>doing is like stopping my forehead from wrinkling. It's making

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<v Speaker 3>my skin tighter and smoother, that's it. But it's not

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<v Speaker 3>changing the structure or the anatomy or my features.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I hate when people always try to be like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all have had botoks.

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<v Speaker 1>My face is my face.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not had any work done, But I get

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<v Speaker 3>so tired of like having I think we both do

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<v Speaker 3>it just be like whatever at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, we believe what y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't matter with me and Lyck tell y'all we've done,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all are still going to believe what y'all want to believe.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't matter if I say I never had that

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<v Speaker 3>injected into.

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<v Speaker 1>My butt, y'all are never gonna believe me. It just

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<v Speaker 1>don't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say this too, when we were talking about like

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<v Speaker 2>the girls who be lying, Yeah, because there's one girl

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<v Speaker 2>who be lying.

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<v Speaker 1>So bad and I wouldn't. I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care personally, but I always just like, see

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes it'll get retweeted or posted on my timeline.

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<v Speaker 1>I just be like, it's just so much.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is coming from a professional liar, I'd be

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<v Speaker 2>line for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, if you a professional, you goody so

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I am.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just because you know me. You know too much

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<v Speaker 2>of my truth. If somebody don't know my truth.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you'd be giving away your lives easily. Like

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<v Speaker 3>it's easy to clock eat.

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<v Speaker 1>Not you're trying to clock my tea.

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<v Speaker 3>It's easy because it's too easy to clock.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was just saying, like, when I see this

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<v Speaker 2>person always lying about their body and stuff. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think that goes back to why people don't believe you

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<v Speaker 2>because she had a fire body before and her body

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<v Speaker 2>is still nice.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's why people be like, okay, girl, you if

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<v Speaker 1>she lying these dre a line.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyways, I say that to say, but I will

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<v Speaker 3>actually say though, like that's the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying is, like you said earlier, it's

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<v Speaker 2>easy just to not say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't say nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>And for me personally, the reason I've always been honest

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<v Speaker 2>and truthful is because I know I was that young

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<v Speaker 2>girl looking at people older than me or looking up

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<v Speaker 2>to people being like, oh my god, I wish I

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<v Speaker 2>could look like that, not knowing that they've spent like fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>Thousand dollars at the doctor.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's not shade, because when you're a beautiful woman

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<v Speaker 2>and you want to keep up with your looks, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what be happening, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>What be going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I've always been honest, and I be telling girls, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>don't look at me and be like, oh, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to go to the gym and get that, because you're

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<v Speaker 2>not going to the gym to get that. You can

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<v Speaker 2>if you have a night. But that's just what my

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<v Speaker 2>journey was.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I do have a question. This is a question

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<v Speaker 1>that I have for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like when I was younger, like the first

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<v Speaker 3>round of life O that I got, I was like

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<v Speaker 3>twenty three because I got my boobs done and I

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<v Speaker 3>got life Boat at.

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<v Speaker 1>The same time.

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<v Speaker 3>And for a long time, you know, that was me.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never lie about it. I just wouldn't talk

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<v Speaker 3>about it, Like I just would never talk at I

0:20:41.400 --> 0:20:42.840
<v Speaker 3>would talk about get my boobs done, but I just

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<v Speaker 3>will never talk about Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Why because I just felt like, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel the need to talk about But I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to re up to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's so weird how people will be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I got my boobs and I got my boobs done,

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<v Speaker 2>but they won't admit to like bbs because IFO knows y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, well, to me, this is the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that for a long time, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>that other girls, like maybe some of the some of y'all,

0:21:04.720 --> 0:21:07.120
<v Speaker 3>if some of y'all out there, y'all can leave comments

0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:12.320
<v Speaker 3>in the comments, but comments and comments. But like I

0:21:12.359 --> 0:21:15.760
<v Speaker 3>feel like, for me, for a long time, I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like I didn't add nothing to my body, Like I

0:21:19.480 --> 0:21:22.000
<v Speaker 3>just got LiPo and I already had a fire body,

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<v Speaker 3>So I didn't feel like I had really like changed

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<v Speaker 3>anything dramatically. That's why I feel like a lot of

0:21:29.480 --> 0:21:31.960
<v Speaker 3>people didn't know whether or not I had did nothing

0:21:32.000 --> 0:21:33.960
<v Speaker 3>for a long time anyways, because people who knew me

0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:36.960
<v Speaker 3>from high school and college, I already had like a

0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:39.800
<v Speaker 3>nice a nice body, So I don't know. To me,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't feel like I changed anything to me for

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<v Speaker 3>a long time. I looked at BBLS and LiPo completely different.

0:21:46.400 --> 0:21:48.919
<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, because I feel like a BBO, you're.

0:21:48.840 --> 0:21:51.720
<v Speaker 3>Changing your whole frame, like, and that's what I was

0:21:51.720 --> 0:21:55.080
<v Speaker 3>gonna ask you. Like with you, you don't feel like

0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:57.520
<v Speaker 3>you had to kind of like speak on it because

0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:02.040
<v Speaker 3>your body looked dramatically different from your older pictures the

0:22:02.080 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 3>when you got that first round off, I mean their

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<v Speaker 3>first BBU.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what's crazy. I didn't feel like I had

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<v Speaker 2>to speak on it.

0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:13.679
<v Speaker 1>But you know, y'all know me. I'm an overshare. Yeah,

0:22:13.880 --> 0:22:16.000
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't feel like I had to speak on it.

0:22:16.080 --> 0:22:18.800
<v Speaker 2>Like I remember the first time I went out after

0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:21.800
<v Speaker 2>my first round and people were like, I mean I

0:22:21.840 --> 0:22:24.159
<v Speaker 2>had an anxiety attack because it was so many people like,

0:22:24.200 --> 0:22:27.080
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, and you I got my first round

0:22:27.080 --> 0:22:29.640
<v Speaker 2>in twenty sixteen. That doesn't seem like that long ago.

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<v Speaker 2>But in twenty sixteen, BBOs were not how they are now,

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<v Speaker 2>like right, not, I was the pioneer of the BBL crew.

0:22:36.680 --> 0:22:38.960
<v Speaker 3>No, you were, And I think I think I was

0:22:39.000 --> 0:22:40.880
<v Speaker 3>a pioneer of getting life on that wall.

0:22:41.040 --> 0:22:43.679
<v Speaker 2>You were a pioneer of getting your boobs done for

0:22:43.720 --> 0:22:46.000
<v Speaker 2>black women because black women really weren't getting their boobs

0:22:46.000 --> 0:22:46.320
<v Speaker 2>done at.

0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:47.920
<v Speaker 3>That tause I got my boob That's what I'm saying.

0:22:47.960 --> 0:22:52.360
<v Speaker 3>I got my boobs done. And like, yeah, fifteen, they're about.

0:22:52.160 --> 0:22:54.359
<v Speaker 2>To take this out of context, these hopes think they

0:22:54.440 --> 0:22:55.160
<v Speaker 2>started everything.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but seriously, and I think that that's the thing too,

0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:05.120
<v Speaker 1>because it wasn't that many women getting LiPo back then.

0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:07.600
<v Speaker 3>I just kind of felt like, Okay, I'm just not

0:23:07.640 --> 0:23:09.560
<v Speaker 3>going yeah, I'm just not gonna talk about it. But

0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:12.320
<v Speaker 3>I never cared about telling my friends. Y'all all knew,

0:23:12.800 --> 0:23:13.640
<v Speaker 3>but I don't know.

0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:15.720
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think for me, the reason that I wanted

0:23:15.760 --> 0:23:18.280
<v Speaker 2>to be honest is, like I said, once I found

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.480
<v Speaker 2>out the girls, I used to look up to or

0:23:20.600 --> 0:23:21.960
<v Speaker 2>be like, oh my gosh, she's so fine.

0:23:21.960 --> 0:23:24.840
<v Speaker 1>She so this. I'm like, oh, y'all doing the same thing. Yeah.

0:23:24.880 --> 0:23:26.919
<v Speaker 1>I felt like it was my dude diligence.

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 5>To be like, hey, let me tell y'all what the bad.

0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let me tell y'all was really going on.

0:23:32.119 --> 0:23:36.640
<v Speaker 2>But I guess, like I said, for me, LiPo, it's

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:38.440
<v Speaker 2>still changing your anatomy.

0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:40.359
<v Speaker 1>Like for you, you already had.

0:23:40.280 --> 0:23:43.520
<v Speaker 2>An hourglass shape, so that doesn't matter I mean for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can see why you think that way.

0:23:45.359 --> 0:23:47.360
<v Speaker 3>I used to think that, but I think that's why

0:23:47.359 --> 0:23:48.639
<v Speaker 3>I started being honest about it.

0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:50.959
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because because I don't start to take your shape.

0:23:50.960 --> 0:23:53.720
<v Speaker 2>Because there'll be women out there who they got hips,

0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:56.040
<v Speaker 2>they got a butt, they just have a thick waistline.

0:23:56.080 --> 0:23:57.920
<v Speaker 2>So once they take out that, they do that LiPo

0:23:58.040 --> 0:24:01.280
<v Speaker 2>take out, they fat they're changing the shape of your body.

0:24:01.440 --> 0:24:04.640
<v Speaker 2>So even though your waist was let's say, twenty five inches,

0:24:04.920 --> 0:24:07.320
<v Speaker 2>after you got that surgery, it's twenty three inches. So

0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:10.280
<v Speaker 2>you're changing the shape of your body because now it

0:24:10.359 --> 0:24:12.640
<v Speaker 2>is an illusion that your hips and your butt.

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Look bigger, you know what I'm saying.

0:24:14.000 --> 0:24:17.120
<v Speaker 2>So I just feel like this surgery is surgery. Who

0:24:17.200 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 2>cares clocked tea, don't clock tea. Let the women be beautiful,

0:24:20.640 --> 0:24:22.720
<v Speaker 2>let us do what we want to do. If you

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:24.560
<v Speaker 2>want to go to the gym, go to the gym, whatever.

0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 2>But one if you stop lying, just don't say nothing

0:24:29.640 --> 0:24:32.760
<v Speaker 2>at all. That's my thing. Stop lying. Don't say nothing

0:24:32.800 --> 0:24:34.439
<v Speaker 2>at all. I'm not saying you gotta tell the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Just stop. Don't say yeah, just don't say nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I said, I never used to lie about having

0:24:40.760 --> 0:24:45.000
<v Speaker 3>life boat. I just will say no body tea, yeah,

0:24:45.040 --> 0:24:45.280
<v Speaker 3>I just.

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:46.040
<v Speaker 1>Will say nothing.

0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:49.400
<v Speaker 3>But I do think it's very strange to lie about it.

0:24:49.560 --> 0:24:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Just keep it cute and keep it on mute.

0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:54.800
<v Speaker 3>If you don't want to tell the tea, if you

0:24:54.800 --> 0:24:57.520
<v Speaker 3>don't want to spell the te gym, be quiet about it.

0:24:57.560 --> 0:24:59.400
<v Speaker 1>But I do think at the end of.

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<v Speaker 2>The day, it's very weird as fuck.

0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:08.320
<v Speaker 1>That people care so much about what to me, over.

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Everything, over the line, everything, over everything.

0:25:17.359 --> 0:25:21.080
<v Speaker 3>Y'all holls and yall niggas be weird because they really

0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:23.919
<v Speaker 3>ain't show business like what somebody else needs to. They

0:25:23.920 --> 0:25:26.280
<v Speaker 3>body really ain't show business. And if they don't, and

0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:28.919
<v Speaker 3>that's another thing too, I can understand what y'all be

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:30.720
<v Speaker 3>going in on people that y'all found.

0:25:30.440 --> 0:25:31.920
<v Speaker 1>Out lied about some stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>But like if somebody don't want to share something with you,

0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:38.119
<v Speaker 3>and they be going in in the comments, in on

0:25:38.200 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 3>the people because they don't want to tell them the tea.

0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:43.239
<v Speaker 3>Nobody owes you to tell you they business if they

0:25:43.240 --> 0:25:45.000
<v Speaker 3>don't want to share their business.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, agreed? I agree one thousand percent.

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:51.399
<v Speaker 3>People got to stop feeling so entitled to like these

0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:55.280
<v Speaker 3>influencers and celebrities and knowing their business if they don't want.

0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:56.120
<v Speaker 1>To share it with you.

0:25:57.040 --> 0:26:02.000
<v Speaker 2>And let me add this for the filler girlies, and

0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 2>this is just my advice. I really need y'all to

0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:06.679
<v Speaker 2>listen to me. For the ladies that get fellers. I

0:26:06.680 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 2>don't care what your injector tells you. I don't care

0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:12.080
<v Speaker 2>what you're seeing these Please stop going get fillers every

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:12.920
<v Speaker 2>three to six months.

0:26:13.920 --> 0:26:14.639
<v Speaker 1>Stop doing that.

0:26:15.480 --> 0:26:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I did a facial balancing what two years ago

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:20.800
<v Speaker 2>at this point, well, it'll be three Actually, it'll be

0:26:20.840 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 2>three years in December. It's been three years. I didn't

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:25.320
<v Speaker 2>facial balancing one time. I liked it. It was a

0:26:25.320 --> 0:26:28.879
<v Speaker 2>cute little one too. But y'all, as we know, like

0:26:29.280 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 2>fillers don't ever dissolve like they do a little bit

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:35.879
<v Speaker 2>depending on your body. But people metabolize things differently. Again,

0:26:36.200 --> 0:26:38.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't care what your injector tells you. This comes

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:42.920
<v Speaker 2>to lips, facial balancing, all that stuff. You do not

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 2>need to go every six months. Y'all are starting to

0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:48.719
<v Speaker 2>really now y'all be talking about our faces like, oh,

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:51.679
<v Speaker 2>they need to stop, baby, when I tell you, I

0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:54.880
<v Speaker 2>see Helen once a year if that? Yeah, for both,

0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:57.160
<v Speaker 2>And I don't even you're supposed to get botox every

0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 2>three to six months. I don't even do that last

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:03.240
<v Speaker 2>a long time. I go every I probably go once

0:27:03.280 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 2>a year to do my boatox. But y'all have got

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:11.640
<v Speaker 2>to I've seen a girl that I didn't know her,

0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 2>know her, but I used to see her outside, and

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:17.440
<v Speaker 2>I've seen before and after of her getting all her injections,

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:18.719
<v Speaker 2>and I was horrified.

0:27:19.840 --> 0:27:21.800
<v Speaker 1>You know what you one I'm talking about? Yeah, because I.

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Said, if y'all can see me and dre dms, oh

0:27:26.840 --> 0:27:28.560
<v Speaker 2>my god, we'll be talking about all y'all.

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Ah, y'all done of y'all safe? Could y'all be talking

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:33.159
<v Speaker 1>about us? Though? They do?

0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 2>But anyways, y'all gotta stop doing all that stuff. To

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:40.919
<v Speaker 2>your jawline and this and this, and it just looks

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 2>so stuffed. Like I said, I like to trial on

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 2>one too, but you don't have to go too far.

0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 2>The three to six months for fillers is absolutely insane.

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I don't care what your injectors are

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:55.520
<v Speaker 2>telling you. Let me tell you what Big Mama knows.

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:58.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm not an expert, but I know what I can see.

0:27:58.400 --> 0:27:59.080
<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree because I haven't had my lips done since

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:02.600
<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty one.

0:28:02.640 --> 0:28:04.639
<v Speaker 1>Like, I just feel like if they still.

0:28:04.320 --> 0:28:09.159
<v Speaker 3>Look juicy, then why do I need to add some

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 3>mold Like I just I don't know.

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 1>And granted they are, like.

0:28:12.960 --> 0:28:16.040
<v Speaker 3>In my opinion, smaller than they were when I first

0:28:16.040 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 3>got them done, but I.

0:28:18.080 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Just don't they still look full.

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:23.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't see a reason to add more to it.

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 3>And I just feel like people be going to get

0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 3>lip fillers every brix months, every eight months, every twelve months,

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:33.480
<v Speaker 3>and then they start migrating, yep, because they will migrate.

0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:35.880
<v Speaker 3>And then they start migrating, and then they up here

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:39.480
<v Speaker 3>And are you even like the duck lips look cause.

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 1>She's just like this. Yeah.

0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we got off topic. Okay, we're gonna get

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 2>into the topics. Let me know what y'all think and

0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:53.920
<v Speaker 2>what y'all think about people lying people line. But I

0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:55.880
<v Speaker 2>also want to if y'all think I'm right about j

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:58.680
<v Speaker 2>nice because I think I'm right just.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I see.

0:28:59.320 --> 0:29:01.040
<v Speaker 2>I worked in the club and I saw girls you

0:29:01.160 --> 0:29:03.800
<v Speaker 2>used to get butt shot and gain weight, and I

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.120
<v Speaker 2>saw what their body would look like, you know, like

0:29:06.160 --> 0:29:07.760
<v Speaker 2>in a year or two or when they gain weight.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to Yeah, But like.

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<v Speaker 2>just been a lot of things going on in the

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<v Speaker 2>media and people talking about this and about that, but

0:30:44.720 --> 0:30:48.680
<v Speaker 2>we have to, you know, give our opinion. I want

0:30:48.680 --> 0:30:52.440
<v Speaker 2>to talk about putting your relationship before work. And when

0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:55.440
<v Speaker 2>I say that, I want to say, like, you haven't

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 2>seen your man for a while, and y'all haven misspend

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<v Speaker 2>the time?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he at work and you at work?

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<v Speaker 2>And he was like, oh, you know, babe, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have to go into I got off work early today

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 2>and you're at work. So you like, oh my god,

0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 2>my grandma's sick. I gotta go home.

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<v Speaker 1>So you clock out early because you.

0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 2>And your man can finally spend some time together. Another situation,

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:20.800
<v Speaker 2>you go on a date with your man and y'all

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:23.000
<v Speaker 2>end up getting drunk or whatever. Are y'all having a

0:31:23.000 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 2>good night In the next morning, you're like, oh, I

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 2>don't want to leave my man. I'm gonna call into

0:31:26.080 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 2>work today. So you don't want to go to work

0:31:28.080 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 2>because you just want to lay up with your man

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:31.320
<v Speaker 2>all day. So I want to talk about putting your

0:31:31.360 --> 0:31:34.720
<v Speaker 2>relationships before work, or before your business or before any

0:31:34.760 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 2>of your responsibilities. How y'all feel about that? How you

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.640
<v Speaker 2>feel about that time? Cause you got a man?

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<v Speaker 1>Period? Yeah? Never?

0:31:49.840 --> 0:32:02.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah mm hmm, right, Okay, I like that, Dre. How

0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 2>you feel about it?

0:32:05.320 --> 0:32:05.440
<v Speaker 1>Hm?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, never, absolutely the fuck nights no like no,

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:14.480
<v Speaker 2>but I do.

0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like.

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<v Speaker 3>That is that is the difference between women and men.

0:32:20.000 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 3>Like women will cut off their goals, they will not

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 3>work on the things that they want to work on

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:28.200
<v Speaker 3>when they fall in love or when they're in relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>Whole time, your need is still working though he's still

0:32:31.760 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 3>working on his goals.

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<v Speaker 1>He's still Wow. We we need that chick.

0:32:37.320 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 3>We as women, we'll stop working on our goals, We'll

0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:57.760
<v Speaker 3>stop going hard, we'll stop being ambitious. Momentarily get into

0:32:57.840 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 3>a relationship and we all in love and we want

0:33:00.440 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 3>to be up under our men men. The whole time,

0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:05.920
<v Speaker 3>your man is still working and he's still getting to

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:08.440
<v Speaker 3>the bag, he's still getting to his goals. He's not

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 3>letting the effect that y'all in love and y'all like

0:33:10.800 --> 0:33:14.760
<v Speaker 3>happy stop him from progress. I think that that's definitely

0:33:14.800 --> 0:33:18.280
<v Speaker 3>something that women do that we just got to do better.

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<v Speaker 3>Now what I can honestly say, I ain't never really

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<v Speaker 3>subscribe today. I if I'm gonna take off work for you,

0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:28.240
<v Speaker 3>my time is money.

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:31.760
<v Speaker 1>My time is money, So he gotta pay you to

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 1>take off work.

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:35.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but even still though I'm not gonna take off Like,

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:39.640
<v Speaker 3>for example, now that we run our own business, nobody

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 3>could get me to take off work to come do

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 3>anything with Yeah you know what I mean, Like, nobody

0:33:44.800 --> 0:33:46.280
<v Speaker 3>could give me to take off work to come do

0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:49.000
<v Speaker 3>anything with them. We gonna have to schedule it around

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:52.440
<v Speaker 3>me working around my business. When I was younger, like

0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 3>when I used to bartend and stuff, yeah, Like it

0:33:54.640 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 3>was times where I like, I was dating somebody one

0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:59.440
<v Speaker 3>time and he wanted me to like come to Miami

0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 3>with him, and I went. But I was like, okay,

0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 3>Like if you want me to take off the whole

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.360
<v Speaker 3>weekend because the club I used to bartend at, that's

0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:07.880
<v Speaker 3>when we used to make the most of our money.

0:34:08.560 --> 0:34:10.680
<v Speaker 1>You want me to take off the whole weekend, you.

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:16.880
<v Speaker 3>Need to reimburse me, cause rent, dude, I have bills,

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 3>I have things I need to do. You want me

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 3>to come hang with you on leisure time and I'm

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 3>not making all money.

0:34:23.239 --> 0:34:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm missing out on the bag.

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 3>So like no, and I would never advise that, Like

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:29.919
<v Speaker 3>now that I'm older, I say, go to work, go

0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 3>to work. Well, don't even be like, oh, you need

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:35.839
<v Speaker 3>to reimburse me go to work. It depends on your

0:34:35.920 --> 0:34:38.000
<v Speaker 3>job though, Like if it's like a little like part

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:40.480
<v Speaker 3>time or something like a bartender, you can take.

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 1>A weekend off. But that wasn't part time. That was

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:43.759
<v Speaker 1>my job job but right, but.

0:34:44.120 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like a career where if you miss it,

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:48.759
<v Speaker 2>like well, yeah, that's what I'm saying. So if it's

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 2>like a little bartending job or like how I used

0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:53.719
<v Speaker 2>to be at European Waccent, I think that's okay if

0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:55.799
<v Speaker 2>they're like reimbursing you or whatever. But like if you're

0:34:55.800 --> 0:34:59.840
<v Speaker 2>in your career and you need to be there clocking

0:34:59.840 --> 0:35:03.239
<v Speaker 2>it to advance yourself. But also I want to talk

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:04.719
<v Speaker 2>about the bigger issue, but.

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about just but I'm more so I think

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:09.279
<v Speaker 3>that we both kind of just more so talking about

0:35:09.880 --> 0:35:11.759
<v Speaker 3>like I've never been the type to just take off

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 3>to lay right. We're like and be up under you

0:35:15.719 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 3>and like, oh, I just want to be around my

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:18.040
<v Speaker 3>man today.

0:35:18.080 --> 0:35:18.880
<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna call in.

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:20.600
<v Speaker 3>He asked me to stay home, so I'm gonna just

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:23.320
<v Speaker 3>call in now I'm going to work.

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about the bigger.

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:28.919
<v Speaker 2>Issue here, though I ain't never dealt with a man

0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:31.879
<v Speaker 2>who would even be happy that I did that.

0:35:32.920 --> 0:35:33.960
<v Speaker 1>The type of man I deal with.

0:35:34.040 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 2>They The number one thing I always hear from men

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:40.840
<v Speaker 2>that they love about me is my ambition, and like

0:35:40.840 --> 0:35:43.440
<v Speaker 2>how much they be like, man, you really everything you

0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 2>Even the guys I used to talk to, like back

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:47.640
<v Speaker 2>in the day and what they see me doing now,

0:35:47.640 --> 0:35:49.879
<v Speaker 2>they said, man, this is crazy because everything you said

0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 2>you was gonna do, you did it. And even when

0:35:52.080 --> 0:35:53.520
<v Speaker 2>I was dealing with them, when I had to be like,

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.000
<v Speaker 2>oh I gotta go here, I gotta do there, it

0:35:55.080 --> 0:35:56.719
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, man, do your thing. You know how

0:35:56.760 --> 0:36:00.359
<v Speaker 2>many dates I've canceled or x y Z. Because now,

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 2>for me, working was not different from you, but different

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:06.040
<v Speaker 2>from a lot of people because I had to go

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:12.960
<v Speaker 2>to work because I needed to fund my ambitions. I

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:14.600
<v Speaker 2>needed to fund what I was trying to do, you

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:17.479
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying. So a lot of times, even

0:36:17.520 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 2>if a dude was slot me some money to take off,

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 2>I might take off, but I'm gonna pick up some

0:36:21.480 --> 0:36:23.920
<v Speaker 2>extra shits. Nickt Week, the only time I ever took

0:36:23.920 --> 0:36:27.040
<v Speaker 2>off from work, we was going somewhere. I was like, right, So,

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:29.520
<v Speaker 2>but like I said, I think we need to deal

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:31.879
<v Speaker 2>with men or partners or people that don't even ask

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:34.000
<v Speaker 2>you to do something like that. You want to deal

0:36:34.000 --> 0:36:36.680
<v Speaker 2>with somebody who is supporting your goals and supporting your dreams,

0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:39.239
<v Speaker 2>because honestly, that's a red flag to how they're going

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:41.879
<v Speaker 2>to be later on. This is somebody who don't take

0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:44.719
<v Speaker 2>what you're doing seriously. Yeah, because if they don't feel

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 2>like your job is valuable or what you're doing is valuable,

0:36:46.960 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 2>they'll be like, oh, yeah, girl, you don't got to

0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:49.440
<v Speaker 2>do that, Come with me.

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 1>They don't feel like you can meet me after or

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:54.360
<v Speaker 1>you can meet me tomorrow. We can go do something tomorrow.

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:59.319
<v Speaker 2>Yes, So putting relationships before work, especially for women, that's

0:36:59.320 --> 0:37:03.400
<v Speaker 2>a big no, no, big fact. No, no, Yeah, I

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:04.840
<v Speaker 2>feel like men don't really do that.

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:08.080
<v Speaker 3>It's definitely just for women because I feel like men

0:37:08.200 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 3>don't really.

0:37:09.080 --> 0:37:11.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean sometimes men will the lazy ones.

0:37:12.680 --> 0:37:14.879
<v Speaker 3>You're some lazy men out there, and thankfully I don't

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:17.680
<v Speaker 3>know none of them, right, So I don't. I've never

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:20.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I have any man in my life,

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:25.200
<v Speaker 3>from like my daddy to my grandfather, to my uncles,

0:37:25.239 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 3>to my male friends to men.

0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>That I've dated, Like no, like, ain't.

0:37:29.840 --> 0:37:32.440
<v Speaker 3>Nobody taking off work, just saying with you, I got

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:33.360
<v Speaker 3>stuff to do.

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:38.160
<v Speaker 1>And you should feel the same way. I agree.

0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 3>I agree the lazy men they need to get it

0:37:42.080 --> 0:37:44.839
<v Speaker 3>together because that's not a great that's not a good

0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:46.920
<v Speaker 3>quality for a men. So that's not a good quality

0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 3>as a person like I. It's like yeah, but like

0:37:51.080 --> 0:37:54.320
<v Speaker 3>I was talking to somebody about this the other day. Women, though,

0:37:54.440 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 3>some women can be lazy, Like I think, it's not

0:37:56.760 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 3>a great quality to have and you should work on it.

0:37:59.000 --> 0:38:02.160
<v Speaker 3>But women can be a little lazy because sometimes if

0:38:02.200 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 3>you beautiful enough, somebody will step in and like help

0:38:05.239 --> 0:38:05.600
<v Speaker 3>you out.

0:38:05.680 --> 0:38:06.319
<v Speaker 1>That's not enough.

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:09.160
<v Speaker 3>Though I'm not saying it is. I'm just giving contact

0:38:09.640 --> 0:38:13.360
<v Speaker 3>with men. Ain't nobody come and help you?

0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:15.080
<v Speaker 1>You know what? Is it?

0:38:15.239 --> 0:38:17.719
<v Speaker 3>Like nobody's coming to help you, even as a cute man.

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 3>A lot of times not nobody the world don't care

0:38:19.960 --> 0:38:20.839
<v Speaker 3>that you're a cute man.

0:38:21.080 --> 0:38:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Shall don't and cute men get on my thirst. But

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:25.239
<v Speaker 2>we're not gonna talk about that.

0:38:25.840 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think.

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 2>I'll say this about beautiful lazy women. I don't think

0:38:33.520 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 2>women could be like I think beautiful lazy women are

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.839
<v Speaker 2>kind of like the women that, like, like a man

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:42.000
<v Speaker 2>will like pick you for like a little a little bit,

0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:43.920
<v Speaker 2>but it's not it's not gonna help you in the

0:38:43.960 --> 0:38:46.440
<v Speaker 2>long run. Every beautiful woman that I know that is

0:38:46.480 --> 0:38:48.319
<v Speaker 2>extremely successful work, they ass off.

0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 1>But we're not talking about successful women. Were talking about

0:38:50.640 --> 0:38:54.360
<v Speaker 1>lazy with me. But that's what I'm saying. They're living from.

0:38:54.560 --> 0:38:56.759
<v Speaker 2>If they're not working and they're living off of a man,

0:38:56.800 --> 0:38:57.920
<v Speaker 2>they're living from pen.

0:38:57.760 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 1>To pen, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think me and some men really be wanting

0:39:02.840 --> 0:39:04.959
<v Speaker 3>a woman who will stay in the house.

0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:07.719
<v Speaker 1>It's not lazy. A stay at home wife or stay

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:10.800
<v Speaker 1>at home mom. They're doing a lot. I'm not saying.

0:39:11.080 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that they not.

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:14.440
<v Speaker 3>But what I'm saying is if you're staying at home,

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 3>men be wanting some women because what if you're not

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 3>a wife yet, what if you're not a mother yet,

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:20.520
<v Speaker 3>You just be in the house. Some men just want

0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 3>women who be in the house, who don't want to

0:39:22.680 --> 0:39:24.440
<v Speaker 3>go nowhere, who don't want to do nothing. They want

0:39:24.480 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 3>to take care of you because they like control.

0:39:26.920 --> 0:39:27.120
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:39:27.160 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>They were not talking about.

0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:30.520
<v Speaker 3>Much you brought up mothers. I never said this was

0:39:30.560 --> 0:39:31.799
<v Speaker 3>about a stay at home with us.

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:35.399
<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying the mother. You're doing work. You're

0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:37.600
<v Speaker 1>taking care of the kids, you're taking care of the house.

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:40.919
<v Speaker 1>That's work. We ain't talking about them, right, but I'm talking.

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 2>If a man has you in his house, he wants

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:46.320
<v Speaker 2>you doing something. I disagree. He wants you doing something,

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:47.040
<v Speaker 2>I disagree.

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:49.320
<v Speaker 3>I think some men, I think if you date somebody

0:39:49.360 --> 0:39:51.560
<v Speaker 3>wealthy enough, they don't want you doing nothing.

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:54.720
<v Speaker 1>Actually, you don't have to wash a sheet or something.

0:39:57.120 --> 0:40:00.560
<v Speaker 2>You gotta wash a sheet, wipe off a counter. I

0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:02.799
<v Speaker 2>just feel like, as a man, when you came home,

0:40:03.120 --> 0:40:05.840
<v Speaker 2>imagine if you left a baddie in your bed and

0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 2>you come back home and she's still lain't in the

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 2>same spot. You ain't gonna like that. You are not

0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:11.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna like that. So even if you do have a

0:40:11.640 --> 0:40:15.279
<v Speaker 2>stay at home, you can't be lazy, but you take it.

0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:18.280
<v Speaker 3>But sometimes I think when people talk about stuff, people

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:21.240
<v Speaker 3>go to extremes. I think you're going to an extreme level,

0:40:21.280 --> 0:40:24.120
<v Speaker 3>like somebody leaving the house and then coming back home

0:40:24.120 --> 0:40:25.360
<v Speaker 3>and you staying in the same spot.

0:40:25.880 --> 0:40:27.880
<v Speaker 1>That's an extreme level of lazy.

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:30.919
<v Speaker 3>You could still be lazy and still be out doing

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:31.799
<v Speaker 3>nothing all day.

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:34.840
<v Speaker 1>You could be out like I used to be friends

0:40:34.840 --> 0:40:35.439
<v Speaker 1>with this girl.

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:37.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Lean though too, because me and LeAnn

0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 3>both used to be friends with her. She was the

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:43.359
<v Speaker 3>most busiest person I ever met that was never doing

0:40:43.400 --> 0:40:48.799
<v Speaker 3>nothing like what she used to be doing literally like

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.359
<v Speaker 3>and then when we would call her and be like, hey, girl,

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:51.799
<v Speaker 3>what you doing?

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:52.640
<v Speaker 1>You want to go have brunch?

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<v Speaker 3>She would be like, no, I have to do this

0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:54.920
<v Speaker 3>and I have to do this and I have to

0:40:54.960 --> 0:40:57.160
<v Speaker 3>do this, and it would all be nothing. I gotta

0:40:57.200 --> 0:41:03.359
<v Speaker 3>go to Starbucks, yes, but but every day, every day

0:41:03.400 --> 0:41:04.680
<v Speaker 3>from like seven to four.

0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:06.319
<v Speaker 1>But that's our day.

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 3>But doing nothing though you're doing nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it though? Is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Because you'll probably be better off staying at home because

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 3>at least you ain't spending no money.

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:21.920
<v Speaker 1>But you gotta do.

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:23.880
<v Speaker 3>But you're not making it back all the money that

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:26.920
<v Speaker 3>you are spitty, you're not making your bad creating content.

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:30.319
<v Speaker 1>No. I try. I try to have your back, sister girl.

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:32.440
<v Speaker 1>So I said that to say, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>be fake busy.

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:36.600
<v Speaker 3>I know so many fake busy people who act like

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<v Speaker 3>they so busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I know I'm not gonna lie.

0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:42.279
<v Speaker 2>I'll be having days where I plan a whole lot

0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:43.839
<v Speaker 2>of nothing just because I want to get out the house.

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>And be moving though, like you know, you gotta be

0:41:47.040 --> 0:41:51.799
<v Speaker 1>moving around. Yeah, but every day doing nothing is crazy. Okay,

0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>I agree with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, damn it all right, now we're gonna move on

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.560
<v Speaker 2>to this. Well, let us know what y'all think about

0:41:59.640 --> 0:42:01.439
<v Speaker 2>the lazy, because you know that's one of the seven

0:42:01.520 --> 0:42:05.080
<v Speaker 2>daily sins.

0:42:02.760 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 1>It's that slip, the viral, the viral girl, viral.

0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 2>Vibe, I said, viral girl, But no, that is one

0:42:19.800 --> 0:42:21.800
<v Speaker 2>of the seven daily sins.

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:29.200
<v Speaker 1>I did, girl, What is going on all your life?

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Fit and sharp? I can't get it out? It is

0:42:34.880 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>because okay, first of all, they shot.

0:42:36.960 --> 0:42:40.920
<v Speaker 2>Club so if y'all recognized that background, period because we

0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:44.080
<v Speaker 2>ate this up. But yeah, it's one of the seven

0:42:44.200 --> 0:42:46.240
<v Speaker 2>deadly sins of sloth?

0:42:46.360 --> 0:42:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that what it is? Sloth isn't what they call it?

0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Is it? Yeah? I think it's sloth.

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:56.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm not, but yeah, that's one of the seven daily sins.

0:42:57.080 --> 0:43:00.799
<v Speaker 2>I feel like out of all the seven, though, I'm

0:43:00.800 --> 0:43:04.279
<v Speaker 2>gonna move on. I feel like, what what would you think.

0:43:04.200 --> 0:43:06.600
<v Speaker 1>The one I needed to work on the most.

0:43:07.120 --> 0:43:13.360
<v Speaker 2>It's a wrath, envy, gluttony, sloth.

0:43:15.400 --> 0:43:17.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm missing three. Let me see.

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 2>Pride, greed, okay, So pride, wrath, gluttony, greed, sloth, envy,

0:43:35.600 --> 0:43:39.239
<v Speaker 2>and lust between lust.

0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I was just about to say, glutton me. You

0:43:42.480 --> 0:43:44.960
<v Speaker 1>know me to a t y'all. Let me tell you

0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 1>something I want. You love a good meal. I love

0:43:47.160 --> 0:43:50.120
<v Speaker 1>a hot little burgher. Oh my god.

0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:53.000
<v Speaker 3>That's why I can't hang around Lex too much, so, y'all,

0:43:53.040 --> 0:43:54.840
<v Speaker 3>because I be serious about my diety.

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:59.200
<v Speaker 1>And when I'm with her, she'd be like, oh my god.

0:43:59.520 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 1>And then in New York.

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:02.400
<v Speaker 3>The whole time I was in New York, I was

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:04.600
<v Speaker 3>eating bad, fucking with legs.

0:44:04.160 --> 0:44:05.439
<v Speaker 1>Every time, y'all.

0:44:05.440 --> 0:44:07.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm so bad because I'll be like, oh, y'all want

0:44:07.280 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 2>a snack, and they'll be like, everybody like.

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:09.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's get a snack.

0:44:09.400 --> 0:44:12.560
<v Speaker 2>I order like fifteen burgers, three for each of y'all.

0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:14.560
<v Speaker 2>That's a bed nice snack to me.

0:44:14.840 --> 0:44:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell y'all because we were when we ordered

0:44:16.800 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 1>the five guys in New York because it was like

0:44:19.080 --> 0:44:19.880
<v Speaker 1>two in the morning.

0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:22.040
<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, Okay, let's get something to eat real

0:44:22.120 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 3>quick because we haven't ate since earlier. So I put

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 3>one burger in one fry. I talk about ya, don't

0:44:30.680 --> 0:44:32.000
<v Speaker 3>think we need two burgers?

0:44:32.400 --> 0:44:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Girl.

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:35.480
<v Speaker 3>It's two in the morning. We can lit the burger.

0:44:35.640 --> 0:44:39.000
<v Speaker 3>It's a double patty anyway. I look.

0:44:40.800 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I love a good burger. Yeah, I'll do a good burger.

0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I love tacos.

0:44:46.800 --> 0:44:50.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to work on my out of everything. That

0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:53.439
<v Speaker 2>is something that I just cannot I love a nice

0:44:53.480 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 2>hank to me.

0:44:54.880 --> 0:44:56.000
<v Speaker 1>What do you think I need to work on?

0:44:57.520 --> 0:45:02.080
<v Speaker 2>Let me see. I think I'll say two of them.

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:06.279
<v Speaker 2>So it's either I would say pride.

0:45:06.680 --> 0:45:11.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's what I was thinking, pride or greed. I

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 3>think pride because I don't think I'm greedy. I'm too

0:45:13.520 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 3>generous to be greedy.

0:45:14.520 --> 0:45:16.880
<v Speaker 2>No, when I say greed, but I think let me

0:45:16.920 --> 0:45:19.680
<v Speaker 2>see how they talk about greed. When I say greed,

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:22.120
<v Speaker 2>you can take it as a good way or a

0:45:22.160 --> 0:45:24.759
<v Speaker 2>bad way, though, but I just think you're a well

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:27.480
<v Speaker 2>it is, obviously because it's a deadly sin. But I

0:45:27.560 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 2>it's like you want, you want it all, and you're

0:45:30.200 --> 0:45:33.200
<v Speaker 2>gonna get it by any means necessary. So that could

0:45:33.200 --> 0:45:35.799
<v Speaker 2>be a good thing or it could go to bad.

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:38.600
<v Speaker 2>But I think you want you want it all.

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I do, but I'm not any means by necessary. Person.

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:42.640
<v Speaker 2>No, you're not.

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:45.000
<v Speaker 1>You're not. But that's not what they said. It just

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:48.960
<v Speaker 1>says greed you. But no, you said that as somebody

0:45:49.040 --> 0:45:49.759
<v Speaker 1>who knows me.

0:45:49.840 --> 0:45:51.800
<v Speaker 3>So I'm saying I don't think i'm in any means

0:45:51.800 --> 0:45:54.600
<v Speaker 3>by necessary person like I'll be letting she go like,

0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 3>it's like you gotta babby.

0:45:56.760 --> 0:46:00.640
<v Speaker 1>But pride, definitely, I'll say pride. I think that's the one. Yeah,

0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:02.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm very prideful.

0:46:02.320 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 2>And I'm very hungry. Pride for the hungry.

0:46:10.200 --> 0:46:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm so work that we're gonna work on it in.

0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:16.719
<v Speaker 3>Twenty Yes, I want a burger like she needs to

0:46:16.719 --> 0:46:18.640
<v Speaker 3>work on. It's a scene.

0:46:18.960 --> 0:46:24.280
<v Speaker 2>It's so good. Have you ever had a hot, juicy burger?

0:46:24.440 --> 0:46:29.560
<v Speaker 1>I love personally, I love me a smash burger with

0:46:29.600 --> 0:46:37.200
<v Speaker 1>a little grilled onion. Oh oh the onion, a little

0:46:37.239 --> 0:46:42.840
<v Speaker 1>smash sauce. Mhmm. That's why I need to make me

0:46:42.840 --> 0:46:47.480
<v Speaker 1>an a. I feel you. Okay, I'm gonna work on it. Honestly.

0:46:47.520 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 2>I have gotten better, obviously because I've you know, I've

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:50.839
<v Speaker 2>lost a lot of weight.

0:46:51.000 --> 0:46:53.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm active now. But I don't know.

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:56.200
<v Speaker 2>It's just something about having a nice holt to me.

0:46:57.000 --> 0:47:00.479
<v Speaker 2>But I will say I think glutton me sometimes until

0:47:00.480 --> 0:47:03.239
<v Speaker 2>the points to where like you're overdoing it. Like when

0:47:03.280 --> 0:47:08.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm full, I do stop eating. I think pride with you.

0:47:08.760 --> 0:47:10.920
<v Speaker 1>You have came a long way with your pride too.

0:47:11.680 --> 0:47:16.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you actually now much dressed that two words I

0:47:16.360 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 2>never thought she'd said before, or three words.

0:47:20.400 --> 0:47:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I was wrong, I said, who said that? Who said that? Yeah?

0:47:27.800 --> 0:47:30.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't really feel like I have that much pride

0:47:30.360 --> 0:47:33.960
<v Speaker 3>the oh well, I think when it comes to other people,

0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:36.799
<v Speaker 3>but when it comes to like, well, not even just you,

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:38.799
<v Speaker 3>but I think in general, when it comes to like

0:47:38.880 --> 0:47:41.680
<v Speaker 3>people in my life that I care about, whether it's

0:47:41.760 --> 0:47:46.080
<v Speaker 3>my partner, whether it's my friends, my mom, like everybody,

0:47:46.120 --> 0:47:48.680
<v Speaker 3>like even I would say, like our staff and stuff Like,

0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:50.680
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I can at meet when I'm wrong

0:47:50.840 --> 0:47:53.080
<v Speaker 3>in situations with people that I care about. You know,

0:47:53.560 --> 0:47:57.960
<v Speaker 3>it's just more so like to the others, to the

0:47:58.000 --> 0:47:59.920
<v Speaker 3>other You'll never see me sweet.

0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Period, Pooky. I don't know why I'm like that, but

0:48:03.600 --> 0:48:04.480
<v Speaker 1>I just am.

0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:06.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we gonna work on our glutting and our

0:48:06.920 --> 0:48:11.719
<v Speaker 2>pride in twenty twenty five. I'm not making no promises,

0:48:11.840 --> 0:48:12.799
<v Speaker 2>but you know what, I do.

0:48:12.719 --> 0:48:14.880
<v Speaker 3>Feel like I've started to be even more transparent though

0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:15.399
<v Speaker 3>on the show.

0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:19.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you definitely I don't. Yes, you definitely have.

0:48:20.160 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 2>I think that that is something that people have been

0:48:23.719 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 2>wanting to see from you, And it's like refreshing because

0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:30.719
<v Speaker 2>I think there's a lot of things that you've been

0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:33.759
<v Speaker 2>through or that you can relate to that people need

0:48:33.800 --> 0:48:36.000
<v Speaker 2>to hear, and things that I can't speak on because

0:48:36.000 --> 0:48:38.839
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how it is, so they only get

0:48:38.920 --> 0:48:41.200
<v Speaker 2>so much from you, But you have you do open

0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:41.919
<v Speaker 2>up a lot more.

0:48:42.200 --> 0:48:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Like even when you talk about your relationship.

0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:45.759
<v Speaker 2>People be like, oh my god, you know because they

0:48:45.800 --> 0:48:47.440
<v Speaker 2>feel like I think a lot of people feel like

0:48:47.440 --> 0:48:50.160
<v Speaker 2>you're unrelatable because you be like, I don't know how

0:48:50.160 --> 0:48:52.720
<v Speaker 2>that is, don't know that emotion, don't know how it feels.

0:48:52.920 --> 0:48:54.799
<v Speaker 2>Because a lot of times people look at you because

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 2>you're so beautiful and you're successful. They be like, oh,

0:48:57.640 --> 0:49:00.239
<v Speaker 2>Drea hasn't made she don't go through nothing but you, who.

0:49:00.200 --> 0:49:03.320
<v Speaker 1>Is my best friend? Can you speak on this? Though?

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:06.920
<v Speaker 3>When I say that stuff, do I be lying or

0:49:06.960 --> 0:49:08.600
<v Speaker 3>do I be being for real? Like a lot of

0:49:08.920 --> 0:49:11.320
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a lot of stuff I just generally

0:49:12.560 --> 0:49:15.560
<v Speaker 3>don't care about. I think it's I'm getting older, I'm

0:49:15.560 --> 0:49:19.160
<v Speaker 3>becoming more emotional, Like I'm starting to be way more

0:49:19.200 --> 0:49:22.120
<v Speaker 3>emotionally in tuned. I think for a really long time

0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:26.239
<v Speaker 3>I was very detached. So that's why I would always say,

0:49:26.239 --> 0:49:28.240
<v Speaker 3>it's not coming from a place of like me thinking

0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:30.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm better and stuff or nothing like that, which is

0:49:30.640 --> 0:49:33.759
<v Speaker 3>where I've always felt like people misunderstood me. It's not

0:49:33.760 --> 0:49:36.719
<v Speaker 3>coming from that place. It's just coming from never been

0:49:36.760 --> 0:49:38.959
<v Speaker 3>through that. It never felt that way because I don't

0:49:39.520 --> 0:49:41.560
<v Speaker 3>I literally did not used to care about a lot.

0:49:41.640 --> 0:49:43.799
<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't think it's that you've never been through it.

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:45.520
<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I always say this, it's not about

0:49:45.520 --> 0:49:47.560
<v Speaker 2>what you say, it's how you say it. So if

0:49:47.600 --> 0:49:49.640
<v Speaker 2>somebody's talking about an experience and you're like, oh, I

0:49:49.680 --> 0:49:51.440
<v Speaker 2>don't know, never been through.

0:49:51.239 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 1>That, that's cool.

0:49:52.560 --> 0:49:54.760
<v Speaker 2>But what I'm saying is, as somebody on the platform,

0:49:54.760 --> 0:49:56.560
<v Speaker 2>it will be easier to be like, well, I've never

0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:57.080
<v Speaker 2>been through that.

0:49:57.120 --> 0:49:59.840
<v Speaker 1>So how did you navigate? Like? You know what I'm saying.

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:03.279
<v Speaker 2>So it's not that people would be mad that you

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:04.960
<v Speaker 2>didn't go through it. I think it was just like

0:50:05.040 --> 0:50:08.799
<v Speaker 2>how it comes off. But like I said, now you

0:50:08.960 --> 0:50:11.759
<v Speaker 2>open up a lot more. And because when you say, oh,

0:50:11.800 --> 0:50:13.760
<v Speaker 2>I've never been through that, it's not that you lying,

0:50:14.360 --> 0:50:17.000
<v Speaker 2>but it used to come off kind of like judge,

0:50:17.160 --> 0:50:20.840
<v Speaker 2>like that was just how people would perceive it. I'm

0:50:20.880 --> 0:50:23.400
<v Speaker 2>knowing you, I know you, so I know you're not

0:50:23.520 --> 0:50:24.560
<v Speaker 2>being judgy, but.

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:27.800
<v Speaker 3>Because I don't be caring with and now I feel

0:50:27.800 --> 0:50:29.319
<v Speaker 3>like maybe that's a bad thing too.

0:50:29.400 --> 0:50:32.480
<v Speaker 1>But it's like, you gotta care to be judge.

0:50:33.239 --> 0:50:37.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, But what I'm saying is how the audience would

0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:40.200
<v Speaker 2>perceive it, so we know that you don't care. But

0:50:40.239 --> 0:50:43.000
<v Speaker 2>then not caring is another thing of like, Okay, you're

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.320
<v Speaker 2>just a bitch, you know what I'm saying.

0:50:45.560 --> 0:50:46.680
<v Speaker 1>So even though you can't.

0:50:46.480 --> 0:50:50.360
<v Speaker 2>Make yourself care about something. But like I said, if

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:54.080
<v Speaker 2>somebody is talking about something that you haven't experienced but

0:50:54.239 --> 0:50:56.319
<v Speaker 2>a lot of the people have experienced it, or maybe

0:50:56.320 --> 0:50:59.400
<v Speaker 2>some people haven't, they don't want to hear. Oh couldn't

0:50:59.440 --> 0:51:01.280
<v Speaker 2>be me, you know what I'm saying.

0:51:01.680 --> 0:51:03.080
<v Speaker 1>They don't want to hear that. They would rather hear

0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you be like, oh wait, well I'm.

0:51:04.400 --> 0:51:05.960
<v Speaker 2>Gonna let her talk on it because honestly, I'm not

0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:07.839
<v Speaker 2>gonna lie to y'all. I've never been through that, so

0:51:08.080 --> 0:51:10.280
<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm saying, versus being like, oh, y'all crazy,

0:51:10.719 --> 0:51:12.720
<v Speaker 2>because you know what, black people say.

0:51:12.719 --> 0:51:14.399
<v Speaker 1>But you know what I feel like too.

0:51:15.160 --> 0:51:17.319
<v Speaker 3>It was all for at least for me, at least

0:51:17.360 --> 0:51:18.480
<v Speaker 3>that's the way I look at it.

0:51:18.840 --> 0:51:21.320
<v Speaker 1>I always felt like I.

0:51:20.719 --> 0:51:23.239
<v Speaker 3>Wanted, at least wanting to come from a place of like,

0:51:25.200 --> 0:51:28.759
<v Speaker 3>right you or you should want better for yourself, like

0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:33.720
<v Speaker 3>not so much like oh couldn't be me like you stupid,

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:34.879
<v Speaker 3>but just more so like.

0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Better? Right, So you want better?

0:51:38.520 --> 0:51:42.280
<v Speaker 2>That sounds better, you should do better, or versus somebody

0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:46.799
<v Speaker 2>saying what black people say, oh she better than me? Yeah,

0:51:46.840 --> 0:51:49.000
<v Speaker 2>you saying, bitch, you not better than me? You're actually

0:51:49.160 --> 0:51:52.440
<v Speaker 2>so like I said. I mean, I know you didn't

0:51:52.480 --> 0:51:54.640
<v Speaker 2>mean it like that, but I think that's how people,

0:51:54.880 --> 0:51:55.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, perceived.

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<v Speaker 3>So I have seen so I have seen a post

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<v Speaker 3>like a big boundary for her is that her partner

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<v Speaker 3>can't watch porn. And I saw it and I was

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<v Speaker 3>just like, xam you street mmm, because it's just not

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<v Speaker 3>that serious to me, Like I think that if it's excessive, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's a little concerning, because it's like if we're in

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship and you have me, then like, why am

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<v Speaker 3>I always kitchen you watching porn? I've always I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think it's nothing wrong with watch I don't think.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nothing wrong with watching porn, but I do feel like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>like for me, I feel like you, when you reach

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<v Speaker 2>a certain level of like sexual experience and sexual intelligence

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<v Speaker 2>and emotional intelligence, it shouldn't be something that you're tuned

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<v Speaker 2>into all day every day or something that you need

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<v Speaker 2>to like get off or whatever like that. So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna say I agree with her because I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But I can understand it because there'd be some man who, like,

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<v Speaker 2>they'll have sex and they'll go to the bathroom and

0:55:58.960 --> 0:56:02.080
<v Speaker 2>watch porn and still not done yet. That's a little excessive.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when you might be a sexual addict. But I

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<v Speaker 2>also believe like if you can't get in the shower

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<v Speaker 2>and do what you need to do, but you always

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<v Speaker 2>have to look on your phone, it's like are you

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<v Speaker 2>searching for something else? Are you a little more freakier

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<v Speaker 2>than what your partner is giving you? Because me personally,

0:56:20.520 --> 0:56:24.560
<v Speaker 2>I can get off by thinking about something or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>imagining me with my partner or having like if we

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<v Speaker 2>haven't seen each other in a while, I can do

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<v Speaker 2>my due diligence without that. So I can understand what

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<v Speaker 2>she's coming through because there is like a thin line

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<v Speaker 2>between you know, watching porn to like maybe if you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing it, to like hurry up, like, okay, I don't

0:56:40.239 --> 0:56:42.480
<v Speaker 2>have time to like fantasize about my partner and do

0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:44.880
<v Speaker 2>so if you're doing like I got thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>To go and do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool, But if it's something like you're always having to

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<v Speaker 2>do I kind of get that a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>are addicted to porn more than we like to admit,

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<v Speaker 2>and then more than what people talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't even understand it because porn ain't the same,

0:56:59.000 --> 0:57:04.279
<v Speaker 1>No mo, what do you mean you research? It ain't

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<v Speaker 1>the same no more. Oh my god, I've seen this tweet.

0:57:08.400 --> 0:57:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I've seen this. I've seen this tweet like three weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>This girl was like I was so mad.

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to find a good porn to watch

0:57:16.280 --> 0:57:18.320
<v Speaker 3>because I wanted to masturbate, and I just gave up

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<v Speaker 3>because I was like, fuck it, I couldn't find it

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<v Speaker 3>the good.

0:57:20.560 --> 0:57:21.959
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't even horny no more.

0:57:22.440 --> 0:57:25.040
<v Speaker 3>And I agree, Wow, what's wrong with the porn? It's

0:57:25.160 --> 0:57:27.320
<v Speaker 3>just not that good anymore?

0:57:27.480 --> 0:57:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Like you feel like they be faking. It doesn't seem

0:57:29.360 --> 0:57:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like they be faking.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's hard to find porns that just

0:57:32.960 --> 0:57:36.840
<v Speaker 3>get straight to the point. I don't want all the

0:57:36.880 --> 0:57:40.400
<v Speaker 3>fucking the themes and the cinematics, Like I don't want

0:57:40.480 --> 0:57:41.200
<v Speaker 3>all of they.

0:57:41.520 --> 0:57:56.400
<v Speaker 2>They'd be like, oh my god, who did you.

0:57:49.720 --> 0:57:52.720
<v Speaker 3>No for real though, Like it'll start off in the

0:57:52.800 --> 0:57:54.720
<v Speaker 3>backyard with this.

0:57:54.680 --> 0:58:00.480
<v Speaker 1>With a with a woman watering the lawn whole her

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:01.520
<v Speaker 1>whole boody hole out.

0:58:01.560 --> 0:58:03.440
<v Speaker 3>She got on a little skirt, booty hole out, she

0:58:03.680 --> 0:58:06.040
<v Speaker 3>watering the lawn, the grass already dead.

0:58:06.120 --> 0:58:10.200
<v Speaker 1>Though. Then it's a mailman who.

0:58:09.960 --> 0:58:13.360
<v Speaker 3>Comes back there trying to deliver. He's trying to deliver

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<v Speaker 3>a package.

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<v Speaker 1>He ain't got no pens. Old this story getting good.

0:58:21.800 --> 0:58:24.480
<v Speaker 3>But then it like will last for like twenty minutes

0:58:24.480 --> 0:58:27.520
<v Speaker 3>before they start fucking. Ain't nobody got time for these?

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<v Speaker 1>Get to the business, you horny?

0:58:32.120 --> 0:58:36.120
<v Speaker 3>Because if I'm putting fast, because who not horny? Who

0:58:36.240 --> 0:58:39.760
<v Speaker 3>not horny? If they looking up a porn? You know

0:58:39.920 --> 0:58:41.960
<v Speaker 3>you know where I'm gonna get down to business. Ain't

0:58:41.960 --> 0:58:44.080
<v Speaker 3>nobody got time to watch all that? It's just not

0:58:44.400 --> 0:58:45.720
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like back in the day,

0:58:45.760 --> 0:58:48.000
<v Speaker 3>they used to get straight to it, and they used

0:58:48.040 --> 0:58:49.800
<v Speaker 3>to have that music playing in the back girl.

0:58:51.680 --> 0:58:56.240
<v Speaker 1>Wow, they just used to be oiled up. Where do

0:58:56.240 --> 0:58:56.440
<v Speaker 1>you go?

0:58:56.480 --> 0:58:57.760
<v Speaker 3>You don't even know if they ain't even put the

0:58:57.800 --> 0:58:59.880
<v Speaker 3>oil on on on camera?

0:59:00.760 --> 0:59:04.959
<v Speaker 2>They do be ashy, But you know what, you got

0:59:05.040 --> 0:59:10.360
<v Speaker 2>eggs more video, You got eggs okay, but you know what,

0:59:10.640 --> 0:59:13.560
<v Speaker 2>This is why I say I'm gonna always shout her out.

0:59:13.560 --> 0:59:15.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't care what y'all say about her. They be

0:59:15.080 --> 0:59:17.320
<v Speaker 2>bullying her and me being mean to her on Twitter,

0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:21.000
<v Speaker 2>MS be nasty. I feel like that's why she's so successful.

0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:22.920
<v Speaker 2>She did her research, she know what to do.

0:59:23.440 --> 0:59:27.120
<v Speaker 1>She be alled up. I don't care if Bobby please,

0:59:28.440 --> 0:59:28.919
<v Speaker 1>but what.

0:59:28.840 --> 0:59:33.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying is her pornography looks real. She could be

0:59:33.920 --> 0:59:36.840
<v Speaker 2>probably getting the worst pen that she's ever gotten, but

0:59:36.880 --> 0:59:39.320
<v Speaker 2>you will never know. Yeah, it looks like she is

0:59:39.400 --> 0:59:42.840
<v Speaker 2>really enjoying it. And I really truly believe that is

0:59:42.880 --> 0:59:44.240
<v Speaker 2>why she's so successful.

0:59:44.280 --> 0:59:47.680
<v Speaker 1>It's believable. It's straight to the point. I ain't never

0:59:47.720 --> 0:59:48.880
<v Speaker 1>seen that girl ashy.

0:59:49.400 --> 0:59:53.240
<v Speaker 2>She be urled up, and so I think a lot

0:59:53.240 --> 0:59:56.080
<v Speaker 2>of people are they missing the mark on that it's

0:59:56.120 --> 0:59:58.560
<v Speaker 2>supposed to be a fantasy, y'all not selling a fantasy.

0:59:58.640 --> 1:00:00.560
<v Speaker 2>Y'all are just doing this to try to pay bills.

1:00:00.560 --> 1:00:03.479
<v Speaker 2>But we've talked about that before. Stop doing only fans.

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<v Speaker 2>If you ain't about that life, you gotta get down

1:00:06.600 --> 1:00:11.120
<v Speaker 2>to the needy greedy. Yeah, if you right, If you're

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<v Speaker 2>not at the A V AND Awards, isn't that the

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<v Speaker 2>Porn Star Wards.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they called. Is that what it's called. The

1:00:16.360 --> 1:00:17.040
<v Speaker 1>only reason I'm not.

1:00:18.880 --> 1:00:22.880
<v Speaker 2>Because horrible, horrible decisions got nominated before. So that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I know, because no one else news name thank.

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<v Speaker 1>You because Mandy, And that's why i know. They got

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<v Speaker 1>nominated twice.

1:00:33.560 --> 1:00:38.320
<v Speaker 3>Given I'm gonna take up for my leos period solidarity.

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<v Speaker 2>They have a no, it's a it's a sex podcast,

1:00:41.720 --> 1:00:46.919
<v Speaker 2>and it's so they got nominated twice. But like I said,

1:00:46.920 --> 1:00:49.120
<v Speaker 2>if you didn't get nominated for an av you ain't

1:00:49.120 --> 1:00:52.919
<v Speaker 2>about your bus stand for I don't know. Let me look,

1:00:54.080 --> 1:00:56.480
<v Speaker 2>you're looking it up. Town got her computer. She ready today,

1:00:56.640 --> 1:01:03.480
<v Speaker 2>she got her Google. I said, it's time for a raise.

1:01:03.640 --> 1:01:12.520
<v Speaker 2>But it is called the AVN, right Adult Video News.

1:01:12.560 --> 1:01:14.800
<v Speaker 1>I like that. I like that.

1:01:14.880 --> 1:01:17.080
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I feel like if you ain't been nominated

1:01:17.120 --> 1:01:20.600
<v Speaker 2>for an AVN, you ain't about that life. You ain't

1:01:20.640 --> 1:01:22.360
<v Speaker 2>about that life for real, for real though.

1:01:22.240 --> 1:01:24.320
<v Speaker 3>I mean, because if you don't do it, do it

1:01:24.360 --> 1:01:26.080
<v Speaker 3>full throttle, full throttle.

1:01:26.360 --> 1:01:29.320
<v Speaker 2>But back to the topic, I think there should be

1:01:30.960 --> 1:01:34.200
<v Speaker 2>a little boundary. I think if you catch somebody watching porn,

1:01:34.640 --> 1:01:36.000
<v Speaker 2>you're probably watching porn too much.

1:01:36.000 --> 1:01:39.920
<v Speaker 1>Because there's no reason I should catch you. But I

1:01:39.960 --> 1:01:40.280
<v Speaker 1>don't know.

1:01:40.400 --> 1:01:42.280
<v Speaker 3>It's like, what if you having a little me time

1:01:42.480 --> 1:01:45.160
<v Speaker 3>and then I just bursting the room.

1:01:45.400 --> 1:01:47.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm there, What are you watching porn? I've caught you

1:01:47.600 --> 1:01:51.760
<v Speaker 1>watching porn? You you just made that up? Yes you did?

1:01:52.480 --> 1:01:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Now still have the line?

1:01:54.000 --> 1:01:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I told you all line is contagious?

1:01:56.960 --> 1:02:00.840
<v Speaker 1>What was all watching then? Exactly?

1:02:02.200 --> 1:02:03.200
<v Speaker 2>I do I know?

1:02:04.560 --> 1:02:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Be beautiful? I'm so full of shit. Be beautiful? Creamp

1:02:12.840 --> 1:02:16.959
<v Speaker 1>you what you just made that up?

1:02:18.600 --> 1:02:18.680
<v Speaker 2>What?

1:02:20.240 --> 1:02:21.360
<v Speaker 1>See? How you be lying?

1:02:21.880 --> 1:02:25.360
<v Speaker 2>I don't know me personally, I like a little storyline.

1:02:25.680 --> 1:02:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

1:02:26.920 --> 1:02:29.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't because like, what do I need all these

1:02:30.000 --> 1:02:32.000
<v Speaker 3>four This is not how it happened in real life.

1:02:32.000 --> 1:02:34.480
<v Speaker 3>I like something that's as really stick as possible.

1:02:35.000 --> 1:02:37.400
<v Speaker 2>I am weak. Okay, let us know. Do y'all like

1:02:37.480 --> 1:02:40.280
<v Speaker 2>the storyline porn? Or do y'all like it straight?

1:02:40.640 --> 1:02:42.800
<v Speaker 1>And are y'all okay with y'all partner watching porn?

1:02:42.840 --> 1:02:42.960
<v Speaker 5>Or no?

1:02:43.160 --> 1:02:45.520
<v Speaker 1>Personally, I'll watch a little porn with my knee. Yeah. No,

1:02:45.640 --> 1:02:46.520
<v Speaker 1>we can watch it together.

1:02:46.560 --> 1:02:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Like that's not bad either, like if we doing it together.

1:02:48.680 --> 1:02:50.480
<v Speaker 2>But I think there's a thin line between it being

1:02:50.520 --> 1:02:53.080
<v Speaker 2>too much and a healthy amount.

1:02:52.800 --> 1:02:55.120
<v Speaker 3>But I feel like, you know when it's too much though,

1:02:55.200 --> 1:02:57.240
<v Speaker 3>like if he always watching form.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I said, you gotta be watching porn at yeah,

1:03:01.680 --> 1:03:03.840
<v Speaker 1>for somebody to catch you. That means you like at

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<v Speaker 1>the dinner table like this on a stake cube.

1:03:11.320 --> 1:03:11.680
<v Speaker 2>My home.

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1:03:18.080 --> 1:03:20.360
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1:03:20.440 --> 1:03:23.800
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<v Speaker 2>The bop about bowl about bow bow Bow bow bow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So my bop of the week is I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how to say his name. I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 2>just I hate when I get people's day wrong. It's

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<v Speaker 2>jms N. I don't know if it's like Jamison he

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<v Speaker 2>just took the vowels out, or it's JMSN.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Jamison. Okay. Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So Jamison has a song called soft Spot. Apparently this

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<v Speaker 2>song came out like last year. It is like it

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<v Speaker 2>gives like nineties groove. It's like a nineties groove song,

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<v Speaker 2>but it has like an EDM twist to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So I went into a deep dive of his music

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<v Speaker 2>and I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It gives me like nostalgia.

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<v Speaker 2>I like when I hear music that's new and updated,

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<v Speaker 2>but it has that like old.

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<v Speaker 1>School twist on it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what a lot of artists are missing

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<v Speaker 2>these days, and you want to make music that we

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<v Speaker 2>can listen to thirty years from now. So my bop

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<v Speaker 2>of the week is Jamison soft Spot. You did your

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<v Speaker 2>big one with that one. It's a groove. So if

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<v Speaker 2>you like the EDM but it got like a hip

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<v Speaker 2>hop type of beat to it, stuff like that, you'll

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<v Speaker 2>like this song.

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<v Speaker 1>Period.

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<v Speaker 3>So my real bip of the week, I won't say wow,

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<v Speaker 3>because I won't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you of the show.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was on title earlier today and the Trilogy album.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like the anniversary for the Trilogy album really yeah

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<v Speaker 3>the weekend, and so I was listening to it on

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<v Speaker 3>the way here and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>this album was so good and it was just so

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<v Speaker 3>nostalgic because it just brought me back to my college

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<v Speaker 3>day and I really used to love that album. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>shout out for the weekend. He's still doing his things,

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<v Speaker 3>but but yeah, it was just so nostalgic. So that

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<v Speaker 3>used to be my favorite album and one the week

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<v Speaker 3>I think when I was like a sophomore in college.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what whole eye went down the other day?

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<v Speaker 1>The Dream, Oh yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>The Dream album with all his songs were like flowing

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<v Speaker 2>into one song.

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<v Speaker 1>To the other. Oh my god, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>The Dream was still the song that was such a

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<v Speaker 2>good album, the first one. All of them are good,

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<v Speaker 2>but that first album hit me a little different.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, what's up y'all? As Your Girl XP

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<v Speaker 2>Call And we have a very exciting announcement today.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicle.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be speeling a little tea. Oh my god, No,

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<v Speaker 3>God, everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds

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<v Speaker 2>has grown into its own little entity when we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have a lot of fun still over.

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<v Speaker 1>Here at poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September. Second,

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor our Minds

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<v Speaker 1>Your opportunity is here period.

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<v Speaker 3>If you have an item or you have a business

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<v Speaker 3>Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

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<v Speaker 1>businesses welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we have an item of the week this week?

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<v Speaker 2>You got anything you want to talk about for the

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<v Speaker 2>item of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't have an item of the week this week. Okay, period.

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<v Speaker 1>We I don't get into pour your heart out.

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<v Speaker 3>So of course, if you have any questions or testimonials,

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<v Speaker 1>Period.

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<v Speaker 3>So question number one Heylex Andrea keep me anonymous. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a twenty one year old female and I met this

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<v Speaker 3>man at my job when I was nineteen and he

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<v Speaker 3>was thirty three. At the time, I was in my

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<v Speaker 3>little phase of doing me and talking to whoever I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted or you know, other things. We started talking, I

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<v Speaker 3>began staying over at his place, and eventually we got

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<v Speaker 3>into a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Big mistake.

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<v Speaker 3>From there, everything started going downhill, and I realized he

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<v Speaker 3>was just a broke boom who was way too emotional

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<v Speaker 3>and thought everything was supposed to go his way, never

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<v Speaker 3>admitting he was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm different.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a hustler and my bills are always paid, but

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<v Speaker 3>being young and dumb, I stayed with him and tried

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<v Speaker 3>to help him get back on his feet. When he

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<v Speaker 3>his job, got an eviction notice and had his car repossess,

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<v Speaker 3>I started listening to y'all, and y'all opened my eyes

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<v Speaker 3>for real.

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that kind of situation is.

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<v Speaker 3>For the birds, and I deserve someone who could provide

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<v Speaker 3>and give me the lifestyle I deserve. So I lift

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<v Speaker 3>his ass with no remorse. Thank y'all for that. Keep

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<v Speaker 3>doing your thing, love you and see. And that's why

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<v Speaker 3>I used to be telling y'all couldn't be me, because

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<v Speaker 3>it shouldn't be you neither.

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<v Speaker 2>And I will say this for the young girls. There's

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<v Speaker 2>no reason a thirty three year old man you can

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<v Speaker 2>be coming at a nineteen year old.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know why, you have to really look at

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<v Speaker 1>a man's patterns.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's a thirty something year old man trying to

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<v Speaker 2>date a teenager, it's because he cannot do what it

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<v Speaker 2>needs to do to date a thirty three year old age.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, yeah, I said it. If a man is.

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<v Speaker 2>Dating a woman that's extremely young, like, it's different. If

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<v Speaker 2>it's like a twenty eight year old woman and like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a late thirties early forties man.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Man who is dating like twenty five and under and

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, well, in his late thirties and forties, it's

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<v Speaker 2>because they can't do what needs to be done for

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<v Speaker 2>a woman his age. So y'all have to pay attention

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<v Speaker 2>to that, because honestly, now being older, like when I

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<v Speaker 2>was younger, though, my mom instilled that in me. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you need to ask yourself, why is this

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<v Speaker 2>man not dating women his age?

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<v Speaker 1>Why? Period?

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, I feel like you better than that, queen,

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<v Speaker 3>and she learned, Hey.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all, I'm an almost twenty four year old female. I've

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<v Speaker 2>been a business owner for six years and have been

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<v Speaker 2>always been on top of my stuff and very mature

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<v Speaker 2>for my age. I recently started bartending, and the night

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<v Speaker 2>life is no joke. I'm young, cute, and know how

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<v Speaker 2>to get my tips out of my customers, which requires

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<v Speaker 2>flirting here and there, even though I'm not interested most

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<v Speaker 2>of the time. There are guys that I meet outside

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<v Speaker 2>of the club that I that find out that I bartend,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like they think I'm just gonna go

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<v Speaker 2>for anything because of where I work. And how we

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<v Speaker 2>dress at work. Even the guy I was talking to

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<v Speaker 2>for almost two years started acting different towards me because

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<v Speaker 2>he saw all the attention I was getting. How did

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<v Speaker 2>y'all handle that? As bartenders? I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 2>looked at the wrong way because this is just my job.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you have to say? Again? That goes into

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<v Speaker 1>what we were talking about earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>Any man that's trying to get in the way of

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<v Speaker 2>your money because he feels jealous and x y Z Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 2>if I quit, you gonna pay my bills? I just

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<v Speaker 2>feel like, yeah, I was a maturity level too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a man who is not trying to help

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<v Speaker 3>you get out of the situation at you in and

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<v Speaker 3>he disapprove of his.

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<v Speaker 1>Opinion don't matter.

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<v Speaker 3>You got bills to pay and you have things that

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<v Speaker 3>you need to do with your money. And so it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>if you're not gonna help me start the business, or

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<v Speaker 3>if you're not gonna fund my life until the business

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<v Speaker 3>takes off, you can't tell me what you don't want

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<v Speaker 3>me to do, especially if it's not a ring on

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<v Speaker 3>my fence. Come on, it's different if somebody is your husband.

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<v Speaker 3>If this is your husband, then that's different. But like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm supposed to stop living my life and stop doing.

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<v Speaker 3>What I'm doing is paying my views off the hopes

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<v Speaker 3>and dreams that you hopefully are the one and you

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<v Speaker 3>might pick me, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. And I also think like absolutely night when

1:14:13.520 --> 1:14:15.640
<v Speaker 2>you're young and your bar sayding, you said you have

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<v Speaker 2>your own business, so he obviously knows that this is

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<v Speaker 2>not like a permanent thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like if he doesn't see the value

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<v Speaker 2>in you outside of what you do for a living,

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<v Speaker 2>because my job doesn't define me. So if any man

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<v Speaker 2>is taking my job that seriously, I don't care what

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<v Speaker 2>I do. It's like, are you liking me for me?

1:14:33.720 --> 1:14:35.559
<v Speaker 2>Or are you judging me by off of what I do?

1:14:35.640 --> 1:14:38.519
<v Speaker 2>So that also says an important thing. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>that how to navigate through this situation is to focus

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<v Speaker 2>on you. Because guess what, a man ain't gonna like

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<v Speaker 2>we said earlier, a man ain gonna quit his job

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<v Speaker 2>because of what you think or how you feel.

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<v Speaker 1>He gonna go and get that money.

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<v Speaker 2>So until you find somebody that is willing to accept

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<v Speaker 2>your grind, your hustle, your ambition, your job, girl, move on.

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<v Speaker 1>And then two just always.

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<v Speaker 3>Be be aware of people who will meet you doing

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<v Speaker 3>something and then they try to change it about you.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, I try to make you feel bad about it,

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<v Speaker 3>like you already knew when I met you. This is

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<v Speaker 3>what I was doing. This was my job. Like now

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<v Speaker 3>you got an issue with and now you want me

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<v Speaker 3>to change it. This is what I was already doing.

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<v Speaker 3>You had the option to just not fuck with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you ever have that problem?

1:15:21.760 --> 1:15:24.280
<v Speaker 2>The first place that I worked where you used to

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<v Speaker 2>work at you having booty shorts on.

1:15:29.640 --> 1:15:32.360
<v Speaker 3>But I also was older coming into bartending, so some

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<v Speaker 3>things I would automatically just say no to.

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<v Speaker 1>I personally wasn't comfortable.

1:15:36.640 --> 1:15:38.360
<v Speaker 3>But if I had started bartending when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 3>I would have definitely been outside.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, man, I'm not as I used to have.

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<v Speaker 2>We literally used to work in throngs. I'm not kidding.

1:15:46.560 --> 1:15:48.120
<v Speaker 2>But when I moved to Atlanta, I'm not gonna lie.

1:15:48.160 --> 1:15:49.519
<v Speaker 2>They used to try to make me wear the oufice.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, bro, I'm too old for the year, like

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<v Speaker 2>twenty eight at the time, twenty nine. Real quick, before

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<v Speaker 2>we close this out, y'all know, Bernie's just did her

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<v Speaker 2>interview with Joe Budd. Joe bud, and I have to

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<v Speaker 2>ask y'all this so I won't know how y'all feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Because she said on a slow night she would make

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<v Speaker 2>thirty bands. On a busy night she would do seventy

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<v Speaker 2>k How do you feel about that? Dread what you

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<v Speaker 2>think because they some people been like I'll say this

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<v Speaker 2>as a bartender. During that time, every strip club in

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<v Speaker 2>the every black strip club in the nation tried to

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<v Speaker 2>model themselves after Starlet's them Starlett's girl it was Gracie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what's that.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl named Lonnie Blair, Lady Blair or something Bernice. It

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<v Speaker 2>was like the Fine Girls in NYC. And every black

1:16:35.280 --> 1:16:39.160
<v Speaker 2>strip club in America had modeled their strip club how

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<v Speaker 2>it was set up like startenders because they were making

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<v Speaker 2>so much money. I do not think Bernice was capping.

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<v Speaker 2>I really don't. I really do not think she was

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<v Speaker 2>capping because a lot of people were like, oh, she capping.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you were in the industry at this time,

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<v Speaker 2>even me, I was working at Dreams, now, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>making nowhere near thirty k night on.

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<v Speaker 1>A slow night, because that would have been babe.

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<v Speaker 2>If I would have made thirty k whe n, I would

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<v Speaker 2>have probably thinking that I made some real, real money.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will say working at Dreams in Houston, I

1:17:05.840 --> 1:17:07.640
<v Speaker 2>used to make a lot of money. I used to

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<v Speaker 2>make a lot of money. So being in New York

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<v Speaker 2>where the money is obviously different. When she said that story,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, that makes sense. That makes sense

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<v Speaker 2>to me. I don't know how y'all feel about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like she didn't say she was working

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<v Speaker 3>every day. But I don't understand why that's not believable

1:17:27.120 --> 1:17:29.360
<v Speaker 3>because she wasn't working every day. She didn't say I

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<v Speaker 3>was going to work every day make it thirty thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>I think in New York at the time when they

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<v Speaker 3>used to be barsending, I could believe she made that

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<v Speaker 3>some nights. I don't think it was an every night thing, right,

1:17:39.120 --> 1:17:41.120
<v Speaker 3>but I think she was making it on some nights.

1:17:41.160 --> 1:17:43.519
<v Speaker 3>I do like I used to go bartend in New

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<v Speaker 3>York on occasion, Like I did it probably like three

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<v Speaker 3>or four times, and I made like thousands of dollars

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<v Speaker 3>in one night, you know what I mean. And I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't even like a popular girl out there in New York.

1:17:55.479 --> 1:17:58.960
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't even as popular on social media as Bernice was.

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<v Speaker 1>So I undred percent believed it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like but I feel like you also had to

1:18:04.479 --> 1:18:06.880
<v Speaker 3>kind of be in like night life back in those

1:18:06.960 --> 1:18:10.160
<v Speaker 3>days and at that time to like really understand how

1:18:10.240 --> 1:18:13.200
<v Speaker 3>much money girls was making. Like even here in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 3>at the clubs I used to work at that weren't

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<v Speaker 3>even strip clubs.

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<v Speaker 1>We used to make a lot of money on the weekends.

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<v Speaker 3>Like when I used to work at Madusa, we used

1:18:20.720 --> 1:18:23.400
<v Speaker 3>to make a lot of money on Sundays because Sundays

1:18:23.479 --> 1:18:25.880
<v Speaker 3>was the day I would make my whole rent in

1:18:25.960 --> 1:18:29.479
<v Speaker 3>one night, literally, especially if I worked service bar. So

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like it sounds crazy to people, but

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<v Speaker 3>you have to understand, like how reckless dudes used to

1:18:37.600 --> 1:18:39.800
<v Speaker 3>be spending money backed in I think people is way

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<v Speaker 3>more tight these days, Like guys, is not even right

1:18:43.640 --> 1:18:46.160
<v Speaker 3>now the girls say Starless is not making thirty thousand

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<v Speaker 3>dollars a night.

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<v Speaker 1>They not, But I mean correct, this was like during

1:18:51.240 --> 1:18:52.840
<v Speaker 1>the era. It was a little bit after.

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<v Speaker 2>But y'all have to realize, like women who were dancers

1:18:56.200 --> 1:18:59.360
<v Speaker 2>were becoming famous too, Like this was kind of like

1:18:59.439 --> 1:19:00.760
<v Speaker 2>during that Black China era.

1:19:00.840 --> 1:19:03.520
<v Speaker 1>What was the other Girl Mazani?

1:19:04.760 --> 1:19:10.760
<v Speaker 2>This was like an era where like dancers were becoming famous,

1:19:11.120 --> 1:19:13.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, like Amber Rolls was a dancer, you know,

1:19:13.080 --> 1:19:15.280
<v Speaker 2>then she started dating Kanye like the strip club was

1:19:15.360 --> 1:19:17.360
<v Speaker 2>the place to be. So I don't think she was

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<v Speaker 2>capping at all what you think time.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think she was capping at all, especially like

1:19:20.920 --> 1:19:24.719
<v Speaker 3>you just said, in that time, people were throwing money.

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<v Speaker 3>You have bartenders and dancers and all that stuff. What

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<v Speaker 3>I thought was funny though, is that Joe said that

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<v Speaker 3>she made the worst drinks though, and that's fully believable.

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<v Speaker 1>That's too. I mean when we worked we worked at

1:19:36.320 --> 1:19:38.600
<v Speaker 1>from time I was a bartender.

1:19:38.640 --> 1:19:42.519
<v Speaker 2>Bartender. Them holes could not make let me not call

1:19:42.560 --> 1:19:45.320
<v Speaker 2>them hose. It's just the drink talking my bad. Them

1:19:45.320 --> 1:19:50.040
<v Speaker 2>girls could not make drinks at all. But they're not

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<v Speaker 2>there for the drinks. They there to be fine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that was funny, But that's why I don't think think

1:20:00.520 --> 1:20:02.639
<v Speaker 2>Joe had put up an argument with her, because he used.

1:20:02.560 --> 1:20:03.879
<v Speaker 1>To be in there so he used to see.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why he didn't like correct her be like okay,

1:20:07.200 --> 1:20:10.400
<v Speaker 2>you capt because he'd probably been in there some nice where.

1:20:10.400 --> 1:20:12.920
<v Speaker 3>He's why I think he did say that he wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>believing it.

1:20:13.520 --> 1:20:15.959
<v Speaker 1>I didn't finish the club.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean I don't think it was like he

1:20:17.479 --> 1:20:20.400
<v Speaker 3>was saying, she was cap I just he was like definitely,

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<v Speaker 3>like for real.

1:20:21.600 --> 1:20:24.120
<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, he.

1:20:24.280 --> 1:20:25.680
<v Speaker 3>Used to be in the club, so I think he know,

1:20:25.960 --> 1:20:28.000
<v Speaker 3>like you can make that kind of money in the club.

1:20:28.040 --> 1:20:28.519
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

1:20:29.160 --> 1:20:34.280
<v Speaker 3>I just think, but here I go. People always feel

1:20:34.320 --> 1:20:37.120
<v Speaker 3>like I'm being mean. People just need to mind the

1:20:37.200 --> 1:20:40.760
<v Speaker 3>own pockey's worry about your hockeys. Like people, why do

1:20:40.760 --> 1:20:42.439
<v Speaker 3>you think that lady didn't make that kind of money

1:20:42.439 --> 1:20:44.200
<v Speaker 3>if that's what she said she made, Like, why is

1:20:44.200 --> 1:20:47.280
<v Speaker 3>he not believable? She doesn't in my opinion, she doesn't

1:20:47.320 --> 1:20:50.840
<v Speaker 3>look to me like somebody who couldn't have made that

1:20:50.960 --> 1:20:53.920
<v Speaker 3>kind of money and who isn't living the lifestyle reflective

1:20:54.000 --> 1:20:56.439
<v Speaker 3>of she made that kind of money years bad.

1:20:56.680 --> 1:20:59.040
<v Speaker 1>Not gonna lie that lady been. She bought a house,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. And she lives on that side

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<v Speaker 1>of the States.

1:21:02.880 --> 1:21:05.080
<v Speaker 2>It's not cheap to buy a house out there, yeah,

1:21:05.160 --> 1:21:07.040
<v Speaker 2>and she've been having a house for a long time.

1:21:07.120 --> 1:21:09.920
<v Speaker 2>To be a homeowner, you gotta be making a lot

1:21:09.960 --> 1:21:11.960
<v Speaker 2>of money, especially if you're living in that Jersey New

1:21:12.040 --> 1:21:12.599
<v Speaker 2>York area.

1:21:12.760 --> 1:21:14.559
<v Speaker 1>But it's the internet where people love to be.

1:21:16.320 --> 1:21:20.360
<v Speaker 2>So shout out to Bernice and her thirty k seventy

1:21:20.439 --> 1:21:21.000
<v Speaker 2>K nights.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe you, Queen.

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<v Speaker 1>the Facebook page. It's our face.

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<v Speaker 3>The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

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<v Speaker 3>least amount of file. So if you're on Facebook one

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<v Speaker 3>that's ours got the least amount of file.

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<v Speaker 1>But one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>Make if you actually look at the content, because the

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<v Speaker 2>caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English? Because

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<v Speaker 2>their captures are like bumba claude?

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<v Speaker 1>Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Check answer below block block pull pull pull.

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<v Speaker 1>Off, Like that's literally what the captions. I'm like you,

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<v Speaker 1>what that DG is? Bumba claude, bumba claude.

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<v Speaker 2>We shouldn't have left you without I don't beat the

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<v Speaker 2>step to step to step two step two?

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<v Speaker 1>Yo, hey baby girl, sing.

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<v Speaker 4>What you do to look it to me? What would

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<v Speaker 4>you say to have your way?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you give up?

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<v Speaker 4>Or try again? If I hesitate to let you win? Now?

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<v Speaker 6>Would you be yourself or play your role? Tell all

1:23:18.080 --> 1:23:20.800
<v Speaker 6>the boys I keep it low. If I say no,

1:23:21.240 --> 1:23:24.280
<v Speaker 6>would just turn away? And if play me off.

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<v Speaker 1>I will just stay up.

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<v Speaker 4>The first you don't succeed, then does yourself off and

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<v Speaker 4>try again.

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<v Speaker 5>You can dust it off and try again, try again,

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<v Speaker 5>because if at first you don't succeeed, hey, you can

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<v Speaker 5>nothing off and try again.

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<v Speaker 4>Just yourself off and try.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, try again, I'm into you.

1:23:47.320 --> 1:23:49.320
<v Speaker 4>You into me, but I can't let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's a league not till I see where this

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<v Speaker 1>could be be turn it e or just so we

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<v Speaker 1>you know our chemistry is off the chain.

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<v Speaker 4>It's perfect now.

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<v Speaker 1>But will it change? They say that, yes, they say't

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<v Speaker 1>a no, Just do your think. We'll see how it

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<v Speaker 1>goes up.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't succeed, you can do falth and try again.

1:24:13.280 --> 1:24:16.080
<v Speaker 5>You can nuss it off and try again. Try you again.

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<v Speaker 5>If at first you don't succeed, does your self ful?

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<v Speaker 5>Try again? You can nust it off and try again,

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<v Speaker 5>try again, thro.

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<v Speaker 2>It all O.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, I may be shy on the first day. What

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<v Speaker 4>about the next date?

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<v Speaker 6>Huh, you don't want to do it all over a?

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<v Speaker 1>What about the next date?

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<v Speaker 5>And if at first you don't succeed, then that's yourself

1:24:52.680 --> 1:24:53.840
<v Speaker 5>off and try again.

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<v Speaker 4>You can dust it off and.

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<v Speaker 1>Try again, try again.

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<v Speaker 5>Because if at first you don't succeed, you couldn't, that's

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<v Speaker 5>it off and try again.

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<v Speaker 4>That's yourself off and try again, try again. Oh I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know that choreography. Oh that was a little too.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut out to alah with a little one too. I

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<v Speaker 1>think they went like something like this that's all I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I know.