Speaker 1: But I'm talking.
Speaker 2: If a man has you in his house, he wants
Speaker 2: you doing something. I disagree he wants you doing something.
Speaker 1: I disagree.
Speaker 3: You think some men I think if you date somebody
Speaker 3: wealthy en us, they don't want you doing nothing.
Speaker 1: Actually, you're gonna have to wash a sheet of something.
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex Pee Andy's girls
Speaker 1: are in the call.
Speaker 2: Now you are tuned in to another episode of Poor.
Speaker 1: Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.
Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
Speaker 2: guests today, And oh my gosh, you know what I
Speaker 2: meant to do?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: So I'll be reading YouTube comments and stuff because I
Speaker 2: like I like destructive criticism. So when people tell me
Speaker 2: things about the show, I'm always like, Okay, some I
Speaker 2: listen to. Some I don't because I can tell when
Speaker 2: someone's being like genuine. So somebody was like, can y'all
Speaker 2: move that centerpiece? It's kind of distracting. But when I
Speaker 2: looked at him, like it low key is and it
Speaker 2: do be in the way because there's nothing like you mean,
Speaker 2: some movie, I'm gonna move it right. Okay, you can
Speaker 2: just said it right here for now, but I forgot
Speaker 2: to move it so because it was.
Speaker 1: It's just there. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I mean it's you know, the core, but it wasn't
Speaker 3: really adding. Yeah, I mean I feel you, but I
Speaker 3: do feel like something needs to be right there.
Speaker 1: I hate an empty table.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we'll get I don't know something better, but
Speaker 2: it just kind of blocks.
Speaker 3: It's just I like blocks the view. Yes, yeah, I
Speaker 3: mean I understand that. I think I had seen that
Speaker 3: comments too. I don't really be reading the comments. I
Speaker 3: just sometimes see some occasionally when it'll like pop up
Speaker 3: for the notifications.
Speaker 1: We had a video that went viral on YouTube. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so a short. It was the first time.
Speaker 1: We never go viral on the shorts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the shorts never get a whole bunch that'd be
Speaker 3: like and it's like so crazy because it's like.
Speaker 1: An old, old, old YouTube.
Speaker 3: Short from before we even moved to the studio. Remember
Speaker 3: like when we had recorded those two episodes at that
Speaker 3: old studio, I mean at that studio we had to
Speaker 3: rink because we had moved out of the.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 3: We were like talking about men not being able to
Speaker 3: get it back up like.
Speaker 2: Oh for round two, I don remember that. Oh yeah
Speaker 2: I did, And.
Speaker 1: I don't know why.
Speaker 3: It's so random out of nowhere. It just went viral
Speaker 3: and I was at like five hundred thousand. That's so
Speaker 3: crazy on YouTube, and people have been commenting on.
Speaker 1: It every day.
Speaker 3: So every time I look at our YouTube channel, I
Speaker 3: see nothing but comments about that.
Speaker 1: And they've been going in on this like bad, Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, they're so mean. That's why I don't read
Speaker 1: the comments mean to us.
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean some people was being nice, of course,
Speaker 3: but it was a lot of people being like I
Speaker 3: can't believe that this is what the internet has come to.
Speaker 3: These are the conversations and discussions that we're having. Me
Speaker 3: and you could talk about a plethora of serious topics
Speaker 3: and other things, and people will see one clip like
Speaker 3: that and swear that we bird brains and we don't
Speaker 3: have nothing to talk about.
Speaker 2: But you know, it's crazy other than sick. I'll say this.
Speaker 2: When Poor Mind's first started, we were the craziest thing
Speaker 2: because we were The things we would say was like,
Speaker 2: I can't believe that they're saying this on camera, but no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is.
Speaker 1: Now we're very light work, modest, not won't let me
Speaker 1: not sayd I said mild.
Speaker 2: We're very mild to the things that people say on podcasts.
Speaker 1: Now, we ain't as spicy.
Speaker 2: It's so i'd be like, when stuff like that goes viral,
Speaker 2: it's not that crazy. But it's like we are not
Speaker 2: talking about anything that's just so crazy that you haven't
Speaker 2: seen before.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Sometimes, like I said, I just feel like you were
Speaker 3: thinking it, but we just said it, So like, what's
Speaker 3: the problem. It's the same thing you were thinking. But
Speaker 3: it's an issue because we said it publicly. It's something
Speaker 3: that everybody goes but it's always things that everybody goes through.
Speaker 3: It's like you're cringing and you're like clutching your pearls.
Speaker 1: Do remember the cursing? Oh I forgot my ship, Bobby
Speaker 1: gonna bleep it. I'm weak.
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to talk about the dress. The body
Speaker 2: is audience.
Speaker 1: We kind of machine. Are we coordinated? We look at
Speaker 1: like two Hershey kiss bars girl.
Speaker 3: But anyways, Yeah, so this dress, oh my god, it's
Speaker 3: the house to c B dress and it's so hard
Speaker 3: to get into. This is the second time that I
Speaker 3: wore because I wore.
Speaker 2: When we did the The La Live Show for Netflix,
Speaker 2: and then I was like, oh, I never wore it
Speaker 2: for an episode, so I'm gonna put it on today.
Speaker 3: It was a struggle. It was a struggle. It was
Speaker 3: it's like then you have to like lub it up
Speaker 3: the first time you wear it, and it's only a
Speaker 3: certain type of lube you can use.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so late text.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that there's like a whole, like big
Speaker 2: community of like latex lovers.
Speaker 3: I got they can't have it because then you be
Speaker 3: sweating up. Yeah, it start smelling like.
Speaker 1: You have to use a certain I don't have anything real.
Speaker 2: I don't well, I don't have any Latex or anything
Speaker 2: like that in my closet. Just because once I did
Speaker 2: my research on it, I was like, oh, this is
Speaker 2: not for me because you really have to take care
Speaker 2: of late text. You can't just use any type of
Speaker 2: oil like baby oil, because it'll break down.
Speaker 1: The latext and I'll actually rip.
Speaker 2: But there's like a whole community like on TikTok, like
Speaker 2: online they're like latex lovers. So I was actually trying
Speaker 2: to get a Halloween costume one year that was latex,
Speaker 2: and when I did my research on I was like,
Speaker 2: oh no, this is very hardcore.
Speaker 1: This is very hard and speaking of how it is,
Speaker 1: but it's like to me, I don't know, it's too much.
Speaker 1: You just use lube.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but see you are like I won't say petit,
Speaker 2: but you're small, so.
Speaker 1: Yes, ain't nothing about me petite with my weave.
Speaker 2: Well, what I was saying is like, you wear a
Speaker 2: small medium, so you don't you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: For me to put something like that on, I would
Speaker 2: have to go to Grey's Anatomy and get operated on.
Speaker 3: No, No, I don't think so, because I mean that's
Speaker 3: the point though, Like when you put the lub, you
Speaker 3: have to put the lube on your body and you
Speaker 3: have to put it on the jury so that if
Speaker 3: you can just slide in the.
Speaker 1: Movie about it like a snake.
Speaker 3: You gotta just slide in there, and I mean it
Speaker 3: really does help.
Speaker 1: It's just super tight. Yeah, no, thank you.
Speaker 2: I don't like the smell of late ticks. That's what
Speaker 2: I don't really like you walking around smell like a condom.
Speaker 2: I just said it like two minutes ago.
Speaker 3: It's just all I was saying to be smelled like
Speaker 3: a condom because it's so tight and sweating.
Speaker 1: So ti we're we drinking today. I ain't even name
Speaker 1: this one yet.
Speaker 2: I was hoping y'all was gonna get deeper into I.
Speaker 1: Would look, I said on the time. She was not prepared.
Speaker 1: Since y'all went viral, we're gonna call this viral vibe.
Speaker 3: Okay, So this one is you can choose whatever spirit
Speaker 3: of choice again, Autumn winter vibes is what we're coming
Speaker 3: through with this one. We have some pomegranate juice, a
Speaker 3: little bit of lime juice, and some blood orange syrup.
Speaker 1: Y'all know I am obsessed with blood I loved, oh
Speaker 1: my god. And then we topped it off with a
Speaker 1: little bit of ginger beer.
Speaker 3: If you're at home, you could also use like a
Speaker 3: prosecco or like a sparkling rose that would like.
Speaker 1: Be really good with this as well.
Speaker 3: And then we garnish it with some of those pomegranate
Speaker 3: arrows at the bottom, so like when you stir you
Speaker 3: can kind of see him floating around just a little
Speaker 3: bit better.
Speaker 1: It's giving holiday. I'm ready taste really really good.
Speaker 3: I love blood orange jew like those blood orange sam
Speaker 3: pello Greno.
Speaker 1: They are so good.
Speaker 3: I wonder if it was tasting a drink good I
Speaker 3: try one day.
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Speaker 2: before we get into this topic, I just have a
Speaker 2: question I wanted to talk about. I don't like, of course,
Speaker 2: y'all know, we don't like to talk about people specifically,
Speaker 2: I just do. I do have a question I wanted
Speaker 2: to ask you. And I wanted to say this, not
Speaker 2: necessarily in this girl's defense, but I just think it's
Speaker 2: so weird. So and we've talked about this before we
Speaker 2: have on the show, but I just wanted to address
Speaker 2: this real quick, and then we're gonna get into the topic.
Speaker 2: So y'all know, j Nice is it Jay?
Speaker 1: Or Ji? I'm not sure?
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't want to say her name wrong. Y'all
Speaker 2: know I hate pronounced people name wrong. So you know,
Speaker 2: I'm just on Instagram yesterday scrolling, being nosy like I
Speaker 2: always do.
Speaker 1: I'm always in everybody.
Speaker 2: Beasneys, So if you see me in your story, don't
Speaker 2: be like, oh my god, xp No, I'm I'm being
Speaker 2: nosy girl. I'm just being nosy so I can be missy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I think about me, I'll watch anybody page
Speaker 3: from my real page.
Speaker 1: I don't care.
Speaker 3: So if you see me in your view same thing,
Speaker 3: or you came up on my explore page.
Speaker 1: And I was just like, oh, let me go to
Speaker 1: y'all speed, let me go see the tea.
Speaker 2: So basically, she dropped a new line of like workout
Speaker 2: clothes and supplements and all this stuff, and she took
Speaker 2: some bomb ass pictures like I'm not gonna lie their
Speaker 2: beautiful pictures workout gears showing her body and we all
Speaker 2: know she has an amazing body. Yeah, so everybody was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I hate that pipeline of girls getting DDLS to being
Speaker 2: a workout guru person. So it's been going on for
Speaker 2: like two weeks. Everybody been like talking about her eating
Speaker 2: her up online. So she posted yesterday she was like,
Speaker 2: why can y'all just not believe that I did not
Speaker 2: get LiPo?
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to say this.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna give my opinion on what she did
Speaker 2: to her body and give a little tea from somebody
Speaker 2: who's been chopped and screwed on the table forty five times.
Speaker 2: I'd like to know I know little something about a
Speaker 2: one too. This is what I think, and I could
Speaker 2: be completely wrong. But first of all, Jay, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: say Jay. I hope that's her name, but Jay nice.
Speaker 2: If you look at her old picture, she was very petite.
Speaker 2: I mean I'm talking about very skinny. But I always
Speaker 2: say there's different types of skinny, right, you know they
Speaker 2: how like the Victoria's Secret models were skinny, but they
Speaker 2: had a little curve, you know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: That's how she was shaped.
Speaker 2: She was tiny, but she had an hourglass shape. So
Speaker 2: I think whenever she was tiny, she got a little
Speaker 2: one too.
Speaker 1: When I say little one too, I think she got
Speaker 1: ash shots butt shots.
Speaker 2: Right, So I think whenever she got but shots, that's
Speaker 2: when she was like, you know, curvy whatever.
Speaker 1: But as she got older, she gained weight.
Speaker 2: Obviously, she gained weight in the bottom half a lot,
Speaker 2: because she just doesn't that's genetics. She don't gain a
Speaker 2: lot of weight in her stomach. Of course, when you
Speaker 2: gain weight, you're gonna gain weight everywhere, but genetically you'll
Speaker 2: gain weight.
Speaker 3: And that's where I was gonna say, I don't know,
Speaker 3: because that's the thing for me, Like you don't get
Speaker 3: to choose where weight.
Speaker 2: Is, right, but her stomach not that her stomach is big,
Speaker 2: it's not.
Speaker 1: But her waistline got thicker with the rest of her body.
Speaker 1: Like for me, when I.
Speaker 2: Used to gain weight, while I still gain weight, I
Speaker 2: gained weight in my breast. Now does it go all over, yes,
Speaker 2: but weight doesn't really go to like my butt or
Speaker 2: other like.
Speaker 1: My arms, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It would go to my eyes and my breast, it
Speaker 2: would go to other places, but not as much. So
Speaker 2: I truly believe obviously she got her breast done, but
Speaker 2: I don't think that.
Speaker 1: I really don't think she got life.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: I really do not believe that girl got LiPo.
Speaker 2: I think she just naturally has a small waist and
Speaker 2: she got butt shots, and as she got older, she
Speaker 2: gained weight.
Speaker 1: And you know, of course everybody does does a.
Speaker 2: Little face tune, a little one two, so she probably
Speaker 2: you know, does her little pictures, right, so it looks
Speaker 2: like that. But I just think she was a skinny
Speaker 2: girl got butt shots and that's how her body ended
Speaker 2: up looking.
Speaker 1: I really believe it. I don't. It's not given.
Speaker 2: I can you can just kind of tell when somebody
Speaker 2: has had a little life, though sometimes you can't.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you can't.
Speaker 2: But I feel like her waistline has always been like that,
Speaker 2: and it's got a little thicker, but it's not giving BBL.
Speaker 2: It's not giving BBL. It's giving ads shots personally. So
Speaker 2: this is no shade to J I fan.
Speaker 1: Of your work, beautiful body.
Speaker 2: But also on the other side, it's like, why y'all
Speaker 2: care so much? Y'all be trying to clock that tea hard?
Speaker 2: Like y'all be trying to clock her tea so hard,
Speaker 2: but you aren't even worried about your own body.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just think that's people on the internet, though,
Speaker 3: people be trying to clock people's tea.
Speaker 2: So hard, Like why do y'all be trying to clock it?
Speaker 1: So why do you care?
Speaker 3: But I feel like we get that too though about
Speaker 3: what I'm just trying to clock.
Speaker 1: Our tea, Like what have we got done?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: They be like making false accusations about work we got
Speaker 3: done to our face. They be making false accusations about
Speaker 3: work we got done to our bodies. Like it's just
Speaker 3: like whatever I tell you I did. Why you can't
Speaker 3: just take that for being the truth because I'm telling
Speaker 3: the truth to me. It's one thing when people will
Speaker 3: tell you what they've done or just not say nothing, right, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean? I just hate when people lie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like either say what you did, say what you said,
Speaker 3: or either say what you said or just don't say
Speaker 3: nothing at all. I just hate when people lie because
Speaker 3: I just feel like, why lie about it if you've
Speaker 3: got something done?
Speaker 1: Like we live in an era where.
Speaker 3: So many people have had plastic surgery, so many people
Speaker 3: have had procedures done, and it's just.
Speaker 1: Not no reason to lie no more, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 3: Like it's okay, Like I think we've talked about these
Speaker 3: before on the show. Definitely it's it's definitely women out
Speaker 3: there who have.
Speaker 1: Nice natural bodies. Yes, I say this all the time.
Speaker 3: Prior to me getting LiPo, I always had a nice body,
Speaker 3: Like I always had a slim waist, I already had
Speaker 3: hips and stuff. But then it's like I got LiPo
Speaker 3: and then I ended up getting LiPo again, I got
Speaker 3: a little more added to my hips. I don't but
Speaker 3: it's like I don't care when people say stuff, but
Speaker 3: it's just like I hate when people try to make
Speaker 3: accusations and you're not right, because I remember, before I
Speaker 3: even got like a second round of LiPo and got
Speaker 3: any that added to my hips, people were saying that
Speaker 3: I had a BBL and I never had a BBL
Speaker 3: and you know me, you're my best friend, Like, I
Speaker 3: have no reason to lie about these things, And people
Speaker 3: will try so hard to clock that tea because they
Speaker 3: just don't believe that girls can already have Like we're
Speaker 3: black women. I get so tired of saying that, like
Speaker 3: we are the originators of having curves. Why is it
Speaker 3: so hard to believe that some people can just have
Speaker 3: big butts naturally, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Or I have hips naturally. I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: think it's weird. But I hate the girls they lied.
Speaker 1: I hate because hate is a strong word.
Speaker 3: I don't care enough to hate y'all. But I just
Speaker 3: think it's weird. I think it's weird when girls lie,
Speaker 3: just like even when people be trying to clock our tea,
Speaker 3: people be always trying to say I had an ose job.
Speaker 3: If I've had an ose job, I would say I
Speaker 3: had an ose job. But I also have old pictures
Speaker 3: up on the internet from when I was eighteen years old,
Speaker 3: sixteen years old, twenty twenty one years old.
Speaker 1: I have the same nose.
Speaker 3: But why is it hard to believe that a black
Speaker 3: woman hasn't gotten any work done to her face and
Speaker 3: she just has a beautiful pase Like I think it's
Speaker 3: weird and oh and people love to say, oh, we
Speaker 3: y'all have y'all don't have botox and lip feelers.
Speaker 1: That's not surgery, it's not well.
Speaker 2: I'll say this because I'm glad you brought that up too,
Speaker 2: because somebody has sent.
Speaker 1: Me and botox doesn't change.
Speaker 2: Any well, I'll say this I to me personally, it
Speaker 2: does cause I had somebody respond to me. I had
Speaker 2: somebody respond to my story, probably like a week or
Speaker 2: two or they're like, Lex, you were so beautiful, stop.
Speaker 1: Touching your face.
Speaker 2: And I said, like, hirl, have I done a little
Speaker 2: one two Fellers and stuff? Yes, I have, but personally
Speaker 2: I liked it, but it wasn't something that I continue
Speaker 2: to do. But botox is something like I like a
Speaker 2: little botox. Does botox change your face? Yes, it does
Speaker 2: because it relaxes the muscles. Things get you know, a
Speaker 2: little tighter, a little yes, botox does change your face, but.
Speaker 1: Again, who cares?
Speaker 4: Who cares?
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, we are on camera
Speaker 2: on four K camera every week. So if I want
Speaker 2: to do a little one two and I like to
Speaker 2: look good, let me look good. But it doesn't matter
Speaker 2: if you've put a needle to anything. That's how I feel,
Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter. Stop trying to clock tea, tell people, hey,
Speaker 2: you know what, you look good boo, and keep it pushing.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 3: I guess what I'm more so meant when I said
Speaker 3: botox doesn't change anything, is that it's like it's not
Speaker 3: changing the anatomy of my face. Like, my face still
Speaker 3: looks the same, My bone structure is the rme, my
Speaker 3: features are the same. It's not changing anything. All it's
Speaker 3: doing is like stopping my forehead from wrinkling. It's making
Speaker 3: my skin tighter and smoother, that's it. But it's not
Speaker 3: changing the structure or the anatomy or my features.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 3: That's why I hate when people always try to be like, oh, well,
Speaker 3: y'all have had botoks.
Speaker 1: My face is my face.
Speaker 3: I have not had any work done, But I get
Speaker 3: so tired of like having I think we both do
Speaker 3: it just be like whatever at this point.
Speaker 1: At this point, we believe what y'all.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter with me and Lyck tell y'all we've done,
Speaker 3: y'all are still going to believe what y'all want to believe.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if I say I never had that
Speaker 3: injected into.
Speaker 1: My butt, y'all are never gonna believe me. It just
Speaker 1: don't matter.
Speaker 2: I'll say this too, when we were talking about like
Speaker 2: the girls who be lying, Yeah, because there's one girl
Speaker 2: who be lying.
Speaker 1: So bad and I wouldn't. I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't care personally, but I always just like, see
Speaker 2: sometimes it'll get retweeted or posted on my timeline.
Speaker 1: I just be like, it's just so much.
Speaker 2: And this is coming from a professional liar, I'd be
Speaker 2: line for no reason.
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you a professional, you goody so
Speaker 1: I am. I am.
Speaker 2: That's just because you know me. You know too much
Speaker 2: of my truth. If somebody don't know my truth.
Speaker 3: I think you'd be giving away your lives easily. Like
Speaker 3: it's easy to clock eat.
Speaker 1: Not you're trying to clock my tea.
Speaker 3: It's easy because it's too easy to clock.
Speaker 2: But I was just saying, like, when I see this
Speaker 2: person always lying about their body and stuff. But I
Speaker 2: think that goes back to why people don't believe you
Speaker 2: because she had a fire body before and her body
Speaker 2: is still nice.
Speaker 1: But that's why people be like, okay, girl, you if
Speaker 1: she lying these dre a line.
Speaker 3: But anyways, I say that to say, but I will
Speaker 3: actually say though, like that's the difference.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, like you said earlier, it's
Speaker 2: easy just to not say anything.
Speaker 1: Just don't say nothing.
Speaker 2: And for me personally, the reason I've always been honest
Speaker 2: and truthful is because I know I was that young
Speaker 2: girl looking at people older than me or looking up
Speaker 2: to people being like, oh my god, I wish I
Speaker 2: could look like that, not knowing that they've spent like fifty.
Speaker 1: Thousand dollars at the doctor.
Speaker 2: And that's not shade, because when you're a beautiful woman
Speaker 2: and you want to keep up with your looks, that's
Speaker 2: what be happening, that's.
Speaker 1: What be going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I've always been honest, and I be telling girls, hey,
Speaker 2: don't look at me and be like, oh, I want
Speaker 2: to go to the gym and get that, because you're
Speaker 2: not going to the gym to get that. You can
Speaker 2: if you have a night. But that's just what my
Speaker 2: journey was.
Speaker 1: Well, I do have a question. This is a question
Speaker 1: that I have for me.
Speaker 3: I feel like when I was younger, like the first
Speaker 3: round of life O that I got, I was like
Speaker 3: twenty three because I got my boobs done and I
Speaker 3: got life Boat at.
Speaker 1: The same time.
Speaker 3: And for a long time, you know, that was me.
Speaker 3: I would never lie about it. I just wouldn't talk
Speaker 3: about it, Like I just would never talk at I
Speaker 3: would talk about get my boobs done, but I just
Speaker 3: will never talk about Wow.
Speaker 1: Why because I just felt like, I don't know, I
Speaker 1: didn't feel the need to talk about But I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I don't mean to re up to you.
Speaker 2: I think it's so weird how people will be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I got my boobs and I got my boobs done,
Speaker 2: but they won't admit to like bbs because IFO knows y'all.
Speaker 1: Well, well, to me, this is the thing.
Speaker 3: I think that for a long time, and I think
Speaker 3: that other girls, like maybe some of the some of y'all,
Speaker 3: if some of y'all out there, y'all can leave comments
Speaker 3: in the comments, but comments and comments. But like I
Speaker 3: feel like, for me, for a long time, I felt
Speaker 3: like I didn't add nothing to my body, Like I
Speaker 3: just got LiPo and I already had a fire body,
Speaker 3: So I didn't feel like I had really like changed
Speaker 3: anything dramatically. That's why I feel like a lot of
Speaker 3: people didn't know whether or not I had did nothing
Speaker 3: for a long time anyways, because people who knew me
Speaker 3: from high school and college, I already had like a
Speaker 3: nice a nice body, So I don't know. To me,
Speaker 3: I didn't feel like I changed anything to me for
Speaker 3: a long time. I looked at BBLS and LiPo completely different.
Speaker 1: Really yeah, because I feel like a BBO, you're.
Speaker 3: Changing your whole frame, like, and that's what I was
Speaker 3: gonna ask you. Like with you, you don't feel like
Speaker 3: you had to kind of like speak on it because
Speaker 3: your body looked dramatically different from your older pictures the
Speaker 3: when you got that first round off, I mean their
Speaker 3: first BBU.
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy. I didn't feel like I had
Speaker 2: to speak on it.
Speaker 1: But you know, y'all know me. I'm an overshare. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I didn't feel like I had to speak on it.
Speaker 2: Like I remember the first time I went out after
Speaker 2: my first round and people were like, I mean I
Speaker 2: had an anxiety attack because it was so many people like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, and you I got my first round
Speaker 2: in twenty sixteen. That doesn't seem like that long ago.
Speaker 2: But in twenty sixteen, BBOs were not how they are now,
Speaker 2: like right, not, I was the pioneer of the BBL crew.
Speaker 3: No, you were, And I think I think I was
Speaker 3: a pioneer of getting life on that wall.
Speaker 2: You were a pioneer of getting your boobs done for
Speaker 2: black women because black women really weren't getting their boobs
Speaker 2: done at.
Speaker 3: That tause I got my boob That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I got my boobs done. And like, yeah, fifteen, they're about.
Speaker 2: To take this out of context, these hopes think they
Speaker 2: started everything.
Speaker 1: No, but seriously, and I think that that's the thing too,
Speaker 1: because it wasn't that many women getting LiPo back then.
Speaker 3: I just kind of felt like, Okay, I'm just not
Speaker 3: going yeah, I'm just not gonna talk about it. But
Speaker 3: I never cared about telling my friends. Y'all all knew,
Speaker 3: but I don't know.
Speaker 2: Well, I think for me, the reason that I wanted
Speaker 2: to be honest is, like I said, once I found
Speaker 2: out the girls, I used to look up to or
Speaker 2: be like, oh my gosh, she's so fine.
Speaker 1: She so this. I'm like, oh, y'all doing the same thing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I felt like it was my dude diligence.
Speaker 5: To be like, hey, let me tell y'all what the bad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me tell y'all was really going on.
Speaker 2: But I guess, like I said, for me, LiPo, it's
Speaker 2: still changing your anatomy.
Speaker 1: Like for you, you already had.
Speaker 2: An hourglass shape, so that doesn't matter I mean for you.
Speaker 1: So I can see why you think that way.
Speaker 3: I used to think that, but I think that's why
Speaker 3: I started being honest about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because because I don't start to take your shape.
Speaker 2: Because there'll be women out there who they got hips,
Speaker 2: they got a butt, they just have a thick waistline.
Speaker 2: So once they take out that, they do that LiPo
Speaker 2: take out, they fat they're changing the shape of your body.
Speaker 2: So even though your waist was let's say, twenty five inches,
Speaker 2: after you got that surgery, it's twenty three inches. So
Speaker 2: you're changing the shape of your body because now it
Speaker 2: is an illusion that your hips and your butt.
Speaker 1: Look bigger, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So I just feel like this surgery is surgery. Who
Speaker 2: cares clocked tea, don't clock tea. Let the women be beautiful,
Speaker 2: let us do what we want to do. If you
Speaker 2: want to go to the gym, go to the gym, whatever.
Speaker 2: But one if you stop lying, just don't say nothing
Speaker 2: at all. That's my thing. Stop lying. Don't say nothing
Speaker 2: at all. I'm not saying you gotta tell the truth.
Speaker 1: Just stop. Don't say yeah, just don't say nothing.
Speaker 3: Like I said, I never used to lie about having
Speaker 3: life boat. I just will say no body tea, yeah,
Speaker 3: I just.
Speaker 1: Will say nothing.
Speaker 3: But I do think it's very strange to lie about it.
Speaker 1: Just keep it cute and keep it on mute.
Speaker 3: If you don't want to tell the tea, if you
Speaker 3: don't want to spell the te gym, be quiet about it.
Speaker 1: But I do think at the end of.
Speaker 2: The day, it's very weird as fuck.
Speaker 1: That people care so much about what to me, over.
Speaker 2: Everything, over the line, everything, over everything.
Speaker 3: Y'all holls and yall niggas be weird because they really
Speaker 3: ain't show business like what somebody else needs to. They
Speaker 3: body really ain't show business. And if they don't, and
Speaker 3: that's another thing too, I can understand what y'all be
Speaker 3: going in on people that y'all found.
Speaker 1: Out lied about some stuff.
Speaker 3: But like if somebody don't want to share something with you,
Speaker 3: and they be going in in the comments, in on
Speaker 3: the people because they don't want to tell them the tea.
Speaker 3: Nobody owes you to tell you they business if they
Speaker 3: don't want to share their business.
Speaker 1: Right, agreed? I agree one thousand percent.
Speaker 3: People got to stop feeling so entitled to like these
Speaker 3: influencers and celebrities and knowing their business if they don't want.
Speaker 1: To share it with you.
Speaker 2: And let me add this for the filler girlies, and
Speaker 2: this is just my advice. I really need y'all to
Speaker 2: listen to me. For the ladies that get fellers. I
Speaker 2: don't care what your injector tells you. I don't care
Speaker 2: what you're seeing these Please stop going get fillers every
Speaker 2: three to six months.
Speaker 1: Stop doing that.
Speaker 2: Okay, I did a facial balancing what two years ago
Speaker 2: at this point, well, it'll be three Actually, it'll be
Speaker 2: three years in December. It's been three years. I didn't
Speaker 2: facial balancing one time. I liked it. It was a
Speaker 2: cute little one too. But y'all, as we know, like
Speaker 2: fillers don't ever dissolve like they do a little bit
Speaker 2: depending on your body. But people metabolize things differently. Again,
Speaker 2: I don't care what your injector tells you. This comes
Speaker 2: to lips, facial balancing, all that stuff. You do not
Speaker 2: need to go every six months. Y'all are starting to
Speaker 2: really now y'all be talking about our faces like, oh,
Speaker 2: they need to stop, baby, when I tell you, I
Speaker 2: see Helen once a year if that? Yeah, for both,
Speaker 2: And I don't even you're supposed to get botox every
Speaker 2: three to six months. I don't even do that last
Speaker 2: a long time. I go every I probably go once
Speaker 2: a year to do my boatox. But y'all have got
Speaker 2: to I've seen a girl that I didn't know her,
Speaker 2: know her, but I used to see her outside, and
Speaker 2: I've seen before and after of her getting all her injections,
Speaker 2: and I was horrified.
Speaker 1: You know what you one I'm talking about? Yeah, because I.
Speaker 2: Said, if y'all can see me and dre dms, oh
Speaker 2: my god, we'll be talking about all y'all.
Speaker 1: Ah, y'all done of y'all safe? Could y'all be talking
Speaker 1: about us? Though? They do?
Speaker 2: But anyways, y'all gotta stop doing all that stuff. To
Speaker 2: your jawline and this and this, and it just looks
Speaker 2: so stuffed. Like I said, I like to trial on
Speaker 2: one too, but you don't have to go too far.
Speaker 2: The three to six months for fillers is absolutely insane.
Speaker 2: Like I said, I don't care what your injectors are
Speaker 2: telling you. Let me tell you what Big Mama knows.
Speaker 2: I'm not an expert, but I know what I can see.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 3: I agree because I haven't had my lips done since
Speaker 3: twenty twenty one.
Speaker 1: Like, I just feel like if they still.
Speaker 3: Look juicy, then why do I need to add some
Speaker 3: mold Like I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: And granted they are, like.
Speaker 3: In my opinion, smaller than they were when I first
Speaker 3: got them done, but I.
Speaker 1: Just don't they still look full.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't see a reason to add more to it.
Speaker 3: And I just feel like people be going to get
Speaker 3: lip fillers every brix months, every eight months, every twelve months,
Speaker 3: and then they start migrating, yep, because they will migrate.
Speaker 3: And then they start migrating, and then they up here
Speaker 3: And are you even like the duck lips look cause.
Speaker 1: She's just like this. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we got off topic. Okay, we're gonna get
Speaker 2: into the topics. Let me know what y'all think and
Speaker 2: what y'all think about people lying people line. But I
Speaker 2: also want to if y'all think I'm right about j
Speaker 2: nice because I think I'm right just.
Speaker 1: Because I see.
Speaker 2: I worked in the club and I saw girls you
Speaker 2: used to get butt shot and gain weight, and I
Speaker 2: saw what their body would look like, you know, like
Speaker 2: in a year or two or when they gain weight.
Speaker 1: So I just want to Yeah, But like.
Speaker 2: I said, Jay and I you can correct me if
Speaker 2: I'm wrong, Come sit on the couch.
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Speaker 2: media and people talking about this and about that, but
Speaker 2: we have to, you know, give our opinion. I want
Speaker 2: to talk about putting your relationship before work. And when
Speaker 2: I say that, I want to say, like, you haven't
Speaker 2: seen your man for a while, and y'all haven misspend
Speaker 2: the time?
Speaker 1: Is he at work and you at work?
Speaker 2: And he was like, oh, you know, babe, I didn't
Speaker 2: have to go into I got off work early today
Speaker 2: and you're at work. So you like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: my grandma's sick. I gotta go home.
Speaker 1: So you clock out early because you.
Speaker 2: And your man can finally spend some time together. Another situation,
Speaker 2: you go on a date with your man and y'all
Speaker 2: end up getting drunk or whatever. Are y'all having a
Speaker 2: good night In the next morning, you're like, oh, I
Speaker 2: don't want to leave my man. I'm gonna call into
Speaker 2: work today. So you don't want to go to work
Speaker 2: because you just want to lay up with your man
Speaker 2: all day. So I want to talk about putting your
Speaker 2: relationships before work, or before your business or before any
Speaker 2: of your responsibilities. How y'all feel about that? How you
Speaker 2: feel about that time? Cause you got a man?
Speaker 1: Period? Yeah? Never?
Speaker 2: Yeah mm hmm, right, Okay, I like that, Dre. How
Speaker 2: you feel about it?
Speaker 1: Hm?
Speaker 2: No, no, never, absolutely the fuck nights no like no,
Speaker 2: but I do.
Speaker 1: I do feel like.
Speaker 3: That is that is the difference between women and men.
Speaker 3: Like women will cut off their goals, they will not
Speaker 3: work on the things that they want to work on
Speaker 3: when they fall in love or when they're in relationships.
Speaker 3: Whole time, your need is still working though he's still
Speaker 3: working on his goals.
Speaker 1: He's still Wow. We we need that chick.
Speaker 3: We as women, we'll stop working on our goals, We'll
Speaker 3: stop going hard, we'll stop being ambitious. Momentarily get into
Speaker 3: a relationship and we all in love and we want
Speaker 3: to be up under our men men. The whole time,
Speaker 3: your man is still working and he's still getting to
Speaker 3: the bag, he's still getting to his goals. He's not
Speaker 3: letting the effect that y'all in love and y'all like
Speaker 3: happy stop him from progress. I think that that's definitely
Speaker 3: something that women do that we just got to do better.
Speaker 3: Now what I can honestly say, I ain't never really
Speaker 3: subscribe today. I if I'm gonna take off work for you,
Speaker 3: my time is money.
Speaker 1: My time is money, So he gotta pay you to
Speaker 1: take off work.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but even still though I'm not gonna take off Like,
Speaker 3: for example, now that we run our own business, nobody
Speaker 3: could get me to take off work to come do
Speaker 3: anything with Yeah you know what I mean, Like, nobody
Speaker 3: could give me to take off work to come do
Speaker 3: anything with them. We gonna have to schedule it around
Speaker 3: me working around my business. When I was younger, like
Speaker 3: when I used to bartend and stuff, yeah, Like it
Speaker 3: was times where I like, I was dating somebody one
Speaker 3: time and he wanted me to like come to Miami
Speaker 3: with him, and I went. But I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: Like if you want me to take off the whole
Speaker 3: weekend because the club I used to bartend at, that's
Speaker 3: when we used to make the most of our money.
Speaker 1: You want me to take off the whole weekend, you.
Speaker 3: Need to reimburse me, cause rent, dude, I have bills,
Speaker 3: I have things I need to do. You want me
Speaker 3: to come hang with you on leisure time and I'm
Speaker 3: not making all money.
Speaker 1: I'm missing out on the bag.
Speaker 3: So like no, and I would never advise that, Like
Speaker 3: now that I'm older, I say, go to work, go
Speaker 3: to work. Well, don't even be like, oh, you need
Speaker 3: to reimburse me go to work. It depends on your
Speaker 3: job though, Like if it's like a little like part
Speaker 3: time or something like a bartender, you can take.
Speaker 1: A weekend off. But that wasn't part time. That was
Speaker 1: my job job but right, but.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like a career where if you miss it,
Speaker 2: like well, yeah, that's what I'm saying. So if it's
Speaker 2: like a little bartending job or like how I used
Speaker 2: to be at European Waccent, I think that's okay if
Speaker 2: they're like reimbursing you or whatever. But like if you're
Speaker 2: in your career and you need to be there clocking
Speaker 2: it to advance yourself. But also I want to talk
Speaker 2: about the bigger issue, but.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about just but I'm more so I think
Speaker 3: that we both kind of just more so talking about
Speaker 3: like I've never been the type to just take off
Speaker 3: to lay right. We're like and be up under you
Speaker 3: and like, oh, I just want to be around my
Speaker 3: man today.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna call in.
Speaker 3: He asked me to stay home, so I'm gonna just
Speaker 3: call in now I'm going to work.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about the bigger.
Speaker 2: Issue here, though I ain't never dealt with a man
Speaker 2: who would even be happy that I did that.
Speaker 1: The type of man I deal with.
Speaker 2: They The number one thing I always hear from men
Speaker 2: that they love about me is my ambition, and like
Speaker 2: how much they be like, man, you really everything you
Speaker 2: Even the guys I used to talk to, like back
Speaker 2: in the day and what they see me doing now,
Speaker 2: they said, man, this is crazy because everything you said
Speaker 2: you was gonna do, you did it. And even when
Speaker 2: I was dealing with them, when I had to be like,
Speaker 2: oh I gotta go here, I gotta do there, it
Speaker 2: was like, oh, man, do your thing. You know how
Speaker 2: many dates I've canceled or x y Z. Because now,
Speaker 2: for me, working was not different from you, but different
Speaker 2: from a lot of people because I had to go
Speaker 2: to work because I needed to fund my ambitions. I
Speaker 2: needed to fund what I was trying to do, you
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So a lot of times, even
Speaker 2: if a dude was slot me some money to take off,
Speaker 2: I might take off, but I'm gonna pick up some
Speaker 2: extra shits. Nickt Week, the only time I ever took
Speaker 2: off from work, we was going somewhere. I was like, right, So,
Speaker 2: but like I said, I think we need to deal
Speaker 2: with men or partners or people that don't even ask
Speaker 2: you to do something like that. You want to deal
Speaker 2: with somebody who is supporting your goals and supporting your dreams,
Speaker 2: because honestly, that's a red flag to how they're going
Speaker 2: to be later on. This is somebody who don't take
Speaker 2: what you're doing seriously. Yeah, because if they don't feel
Speaker 2: like your job is valuable or what you're doing is valuable,
Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh, yeah, girl, you don't got to
Speaker 2: do that, Come with me.
Speaker 1: They don't feel like you can meet me after or
Speaker 1: you can meet me tomorrow. We can go do something tomorrow.
Speaker 2: Yes, So putting relationships before work, especially for women, that's
Speaker 2: a big no, no, big fact. No, no, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: feel like men don't really do that.
Speaker 3: It's definitely just for women because I feel like men
Speaker 3: don't really.
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes men will the lazy ones.
Speaker 3: You're some lazy men out there, and thankfully I don't
Speaker 3: know none of them, right, So I don't. I've never
Speaker 3: I don't think I have any man in my life,
Speaker 3: from like my daddy to my grandfather, to my uncles,
Speaker 3: to my male friends to men.
Speaker 1: That I've dated, Like no, like, ain't.
Speaker 3: Nobody taking off work, just saying with you, I got
Speaker 3: stuff to do.
Speaker 1: And you should feel the same way. I agree.
Speaker 3: I agree the lazy men they need to get it
Speaker 3: together because that's not a great that's not a good
Speaker 3: quality for a men. So that's not a good quality
Speaker 3: as a person like I. It's like yeah, but like
Speaker 3: I was talking to somebody about this the other day. Women, though,
Speaker 3: some women can be lazy, Like I think, it's not
Speaker 3: a great quality to have and you should work on it.
Speaker 3: But women can be a little lazy because sometimes if
Speaker 3: you beautiful enough, somebody will step in and like help
Speaker 3: you out.
Speaker 1: That's not enough.
Speaker 3: Though I'm not saying it is. I'm just giving contact
Speaker 3: with men. Ain't nobody come and help you?
Speaker 1: You know what? Is it?
Speaker 3: Like nobody's coming to help you, even as a cute man.
Speaker 3: A lot of times not nobody the world don't care
Speaker 3: that you're a cute man.
Speaker 2: Shall don't and cute men get on my thirst. But
Speaker 2: we're not gonna talk about that.
Speaker 1: But I don't think.
Speaker 2: I'll say this about beautiful lazy women. I don't think
Speaker 2: women could be like I think beautiful lazy women are
Speaker 2: kind of like the women that, like, like a man
Speaker 2: will like pick you for like a little a little bit,
Speaker 2: but it's not it's not gonna help you in the
Speaker 2: long run. Every beautiful woman that I know that is
Speaker 2: extremely successful work, they ass off.
Speaker 1: But we're not talking about successful women. Were talking about
Speaker 1: lazy with me. But that's what I'm saying. They're living from.
Speaker 2: If they're not working and they're living off of a man,
Speaker 2: they're living from pen.
Speaker 1: To pen, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: No, I think me and some men really be wanting
Speaker 3: a woman who will stay in the house.
Speaker 1: It's not lazy. A stay at home wife or stay
Speaker 1: at home mom. They're doing a lot. I'm not saying.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that they not.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is if you're staying at home,
Speaker 3: men be wanting some women because what if you're not
Speaker 3: a wife yet, what if you're not a mother yet,
Speaker 3: You just be in the house. Some men just want
Speaker 3: women who be in the house, who don't want to
Speaker 3: go nowhere, who don't want to do nothing. They want
Speaker 3: to take care of you because they like control.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: They were not talking about.
Speaker 3: Much you brought up mothers. I never said this was
Speaker 3: about a stay at home with us.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying the mother. You're doing work. You're
Speaker 1: taking care of the kids, you're taking care of the house.
Speaker 1: That's work. We ain't talking about them, right, but I'm talking.
Speaker 2: If a man has you in his house, he wants
Speaker 2: you doing something. I disagree. He wants you doing something,
Speaker 2: I disagree.
Speaker 3: I think some men, I think if you date somebody
Speaker 3: wealthy enough, they don't want you doing nothing.
Speaker 1: Actually, you don't have to wash a sheet or something.
Speaker 2: You gotta wash a sheet, wipe off a counter. I
Speaker 2: just feel like, as a man, when you came home,
Speaker 2: imagine if you left a baddie in your bed and
Speaker 2: you come back home and she's still lain't in the
Speaker 2: same spot. You ain't gonna like that. You are not
Speaker 2: gonna like that. So even if you do have a
Speaker 2: stay at home, you can't be lazy, but you take it.
Speaker 3: But sometimes I think when people talk about stuff, people
Speaker 3: go to extremes. I think you're going to an extreme level,
Speaker 3: like somebody leaving the house and then coming back home
Speaker 3: and you staying in the same spot.
Speaker 1: That's an extreme level of lazy.
Speaker 3: You could still be lazy and still be out doing
Speaker 3: nothing all day.
Speaker 1: You could be out like I used to be friends
Speaker 1: with this girl.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Lean though too, because me and LeAnn
Speaker 3: both used to be friends with her. She was the
Speaker 3: most busiest person I ever met that was never doing
Speaker 3: nothing like what she used to be doing literally like
Speaker 3: and then when we would call her and be like, hey, girl,
Speaker 3: what you doing?
Speaker 1: You want to go have brunch?
Speaker 3: She would be like, no, I have to do this
Speaker 3: and I have to do this and I have to
Speaker 3: do this, and it would all be nothing. I gotta
Speaker 3: go to Starbucks, yes, but but every day, every day
Speaker 3: from like seven to four.
Speaker 1: But that's our day.
Speaker 3: But doing nothing though you're doing nothing?
Speaker 1: Is it though? Is it?
Speaker 3: Because you'll probably be better off staying at home because
Speaker 3: at least you ain't spending no money.
Speaker 1: But you gotta do.
Speaker 3: But you're not making it back all the money that
Speaker 3: you are spitty, you're not making your bad creating content.
Speaker 1: No. I try. I try to have your back, sister girl.
Speaker 1: So I said that to say, a lot of people
Speaker 1: be fake busy.
Speaker 3: I know so many fake busy people who act like
Speaker 3: they so busy.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I know I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I'll be having days where I plan a whole lot
Speaker 2: of nothing just because I want to get out the house.
Speaker 1: And be moving though, like you know, you gotta be
Speaker 1: moving around. Yeah, but every day doing nothing is crazy. Okay,
Speaker 1: I agree with that.
Speaker 2: Okay, damn it all right, now we're gonna move on
Speaker 2: to this. Well, let us know what y'all think about
Speaker 2: the lazy, because you know that's one of the seven
Speaker 2: daily sins.
Speaker 1: It's that slip, the viral, the viral girl, viral.
Speaker 2: Vibe, I said, viral girl, But no, that is one
Speaker 2: of the seven daily sins.
Speaker 1: I did, girl, What is going on all your life?
Speaker 1: Fit and sharp? I can't get it out? It is
Speaker 1: because okay, first of all, they shot.
Speaker 2: Club so if y'all recognized that background, period because we
Speaker 2: ate this up. But yeah, it's one of the seven
Speaker 2: deadly sins of sloth?
Speaker 1: Isn't that what it is? Sloth isn't what they call it?
Speaker 1: Is it? Yeah? I think it's sloth.
Speaker 2: I'm not, but yeah, that's one of the seven daily sins.
Speaker 2: I feel like out of all the seven, though, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna move on. I feel like, what what would you think.
Speaker 1: The one I needed to work on the most.
Speaker 2: It's a wrath, envy, gluttony, sloth.
Speaker 1: I'm missing three. Let me see.
Speaker 2: Pride, greed, okay, So pride, wrath, gluttony, greed, sloth, envy,
Speaker 2: and lust between lust.
Speaker 1: Oh, I was just about to say, glutton me. You
Speaker 1: know me to a t y'all. Let me tell you
Speaker 1: something I want. You love a good meal. I love
Speaker 1: a hot little burgher. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: That's why I can't hang around Lex too much, so, y'all,
Speaker 3: because I be serious about my diety.
Speaker 1: And when I'm with her, she'd be like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: And then in New York.
Speaker 3: The whole time I was in New York, I was
Speaker 3: eating bad, fucking with legs.
Speaker 1: Every time, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm so bad because I'll be like, oh, y'all want
Speaker 2: a snack, and they'll be like, everybody like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get a snack.
Speaker 2: I order like fifteen burgers, three for each of y'all.
Speaker 2: That's a bed nice snack to me.
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all because we were when we ordered
Speaker 1: the five guys in New York because it was like
Speaker 1: two in the morning.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, Okay, let's get something to eat real
Speaker 3: quick because we haven't ate since earlier. So I put
Speaker 3: one burger in one fry. I talk about ya, don't
Speaker 3: think we need two burgers?
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 3: It's two in the morning. We can lit the burger.
Speaker 3: It's a double patty anyway. I look.
Speaker 1: I love a good burger. Yeah, I'll do a good burger.
Speaker 1: I love tacos.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to work on my out of everything. That
Speaker 2: is something that I just cannot I love a nice
Speaker 2: hank to me.
Speaker 1: What do you think I need to work on?
Speaker 2: Let me see. I think I'll say two of them.
Speaker 2: So it's either I would say pride.
Speaker 3: Oh, that's what I was thinking, pride or greed. I
Speaker 3: think pride because I don't think I'm greedy. I'm too
Speaker 3: generous to be greedy.
Speaker 2: No, when I say greed, but I think let me
Speaker 2: see how they talk about greed. When I say greed,
Speaker 2: you can take it as a good way or a
Speaker 2: bad way, though, but I just think you're a well
Speaker 2: it is, obviously because it's a deadly sin. But I
Speaker 2: it's like you want, you want it all, and you're
Speaker 2: gonna get it by any means necessary. So that could
Speaker 2: be a good thing or it could go to bad.
Speaker 2: But I think you want you want it all.
Speaker 1: I do, but I'm not any means by necessary. Person.
Speaker 2: No, you're not.
Speaker 1: You're not. But that's not what they said. It just
Speaker 1: says greed you. But no, you said that as somebody
Speaker 1: who knows me.
Speaker 3: So I'm saying I don't think i'm in any means
Speaker 3: by necessary person like I'll be letting she go like,
Speaker 3: it's like you gotta babby.
Speaker 1: But pride, definitely, I'll say pride. I think that's the one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm very prideful.
Speaker 2: And I'm very hungry. Pride for the hungry.
Speaker 1: I'm so work that we're gonna work on it in.
Speaker 3: Twenty Yes, I want a burger like she needs to
Speaker 3: work on. It's a scene.
Speaker 2: It's so good. Have you ever had a hot, juicy burger?
Speaker 1: I love personally, I love me a smash burger with
Speaker 1: a little grilled onion. Oh oh the onion, a little
Speaker 1: smash sauce. Mhmm. That's why I need to make me
Speaker 1: an a. I feel you. Okay, I'm gonna work on it. Honestly.
Speaker 2: I have gotten better, obviously because I've you know, I've
Speaker 2: lost a lot of weight.
Speaker 1: I'm active now. But I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's just something about having a nice holt to me.
Speaker 2: But I will say I think glutton me sometimes until
Speaker 2: the points to where like you're overdoing it. Like when
Speaker 2: I'm full, I do stop eating. I think pride with you.
Speaker 1: You have came a long way with your pride too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you actually now much dressed that two words I
Speaker 2: never thought she'd said before, or three words.
Speaker 1: I was wrong, I said, who said that? Who said that? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I don't really feel like I have that much pride
Speaker 3: the oh well, I think when it comes to other people,
Speaker 3: but when it comes to like, well, not even just you,
Speaker 3: but I think in general, when it comes to like
Speaker 3: people in my life that I care about, whether it's
Speaker 3: my partner, whether it's my friends, my mom, like everybody,
Speaker 3: like even I would say, like our staff and stuff Like,
Speaker 3: I feel like I can at meet when I'm wrong
Speaker 3: in situations with people that I care about. You know,
Speaker 3: it's just more so like to the others, to the
Speaker 3: other You'll never see me sweet.
Speaker 1: Period, Pooky. I don't know why I'm like that, but
Speaker 1: I just am.
Speaker 2: Okay, So we gonna work on our glutting and our
Speaker 2: pride in twenty twenty five. I'm not making no promises,
Speaker 2: but you know what, I do.
Speaker 3: Feel like I've started to be even more transparent though
Speaker 3: on the show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you definitely I don't. Yes, you definitely have.
Speaker 2: I think that that is something that people have been
Speaker 2: wanting to see from you, And it's like refreshing because
Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of things that you've been
Speaker 2: through or that you can relate to that people need
Speaker 2: to hear, and things that I can't speak on because
Speaker 2: I don't know how it is, so they only get
Speaker 2: so much from you, But you have you do open
Speaker 2: up a lot more.
Speaker 1: Like even when you talk about your relationship.
Speaker 2: People be like, oh my god, you know because they
Speaker 2: feel like I think a lot of people feel like
Speaker 2: you're unrelatable because you be like, I don't know how
Speaker 2: that is, don't know that emotion, don't know how it feels.
Speaker 2: Because a lot of times people look at you because
Speaker 2: you're so beautiful and you're successful. They be like, oh,
Speaker 2: Drea hasn't made she don't go through nothing but you, who.
Speaker 1: Is my best friend? Can you speak on this? Though?
Speaker 3: When I say that stuff, do I be lying or
Speaker 3: do I be being for real? Like a lot of
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of stuff I just generally
Speaker 3: don't care about. I think it's I'm getting older, I'm
Speaker 3: becoming more emotional, Like I'm starting to be way more
Speaker 3: emotionally in tuned. I think for a really long time
Speaker 3: I was very detached. So that's why I would always say,
Speaker 3: it's not coming from a place of like me thinking
Speaker 3: I'm better and stuff or nothing like that, which is
Speaker 3: where I've always felt like people misunderstood me. It's not
Speaker 3: coming from that place. It's just coming from never been
Speaker 3: through that. It never felt that way because I don't
Speaker 3: I literally did not used to care about a lot.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's that you've never been through it.
Speaker 2: Like I said, I always say this, it's not about
Speaker 2: what you say, it's how you say it. So if
Speaker 2: somebody's talking about an experience and you're like, oh, I
Speaker 2: don't know, never been through.
Speaker 1: That, that's cool.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, as somebody on the platform,
Speaker 2: it will be easier to be like, well, I've never
Speaker 2: been through that.
Speaker 1: So how did you navigate? Like? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So it's not that people would be mad that you
Speaker 2: didn't go through it. I think it was just like
Speaker 2: how it comes off. But like I said, now you
Speaker 2: open up a lot more. And because when you say, oh,
Speaker 2: I've never been through that, it's not that you lying,
Speaker 2: but it used to come off kind of like judge,
Speaker 2: like that was just how people would perceive it. I'm
Speaker 2: knowing you, I know you, so I know you're not
Speaker 2: being judgy, but.
Speaker 3: Because I don't be caring with and now I feel
Speaker 3: like maybe that's a bad thing too.
Speaker 1: But it's like, you gotta care to be judge.
Speaker 2: Right, But what I'm saying is how the audience would
Speaker 2: perceive it, so we know that you don't care. But
Speaker 2: then not caring is another thing of like, Okay, you're
Speaker 2: just a bitch, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So even though you can't.
Speaker 2: Make yourself care about something. But like I said, if
Speaker 2: somebody is talking about something that you haven't experienced but
Speaker 2: a lot of the people have experienced it, or maybe
Speaker 2: some people haven't, they don't want to hear. Oh couldn't
Speaker 2: be me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They don't want to hear that. They would rather hear
Speaker 1: you be like, oh wait, well I'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna let her talk on it because honestly, I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie to y'all. I've never been through that, so
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, versus being like, oh, y'all crazy,
Speaker 2: because you know what, black people say.
Speaker 1: But you know what I feel like too.
Speaker 3: It was all for at least for me, at least
Speaker 3: that's the way I look at it.
Speaker 1: I always felt like I.
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Speaker 1: Better? Right, So you want better?
Speaker 2: That sounds better, you should do better, or versus somebody
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Speaker 2: so like I said. I mean, I know you didn't
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Speaker 2: let me know what seven seven deadly sinning. Y'all gonna
Speaker 2: work on todd which seven daily siner you're gonna work
Speaker 2: on definitely Pride.
Speaker 1: Possibly Wrath. Oh how you be mad? Upset? I read Ooh.
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Speaker 3: So I have seen so I have seen a post
Speaker 3: on social media recently where this girl was based saying
Speaker 3: like a big boundary for her is that her partner
Speaker 3: can't watch porn. And I saw it and I was
Speaker 3: just like, xam you street mmm, because it's just not
Speaker 3: that serious to me, Like I think that if it's excessive, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's a little concerning, because it's like if we're in
Speaker 3: a relationship and you have me, then like, why am
Speaker 3: I always kitchen you watching porn? I've always I don't
Speaker 3: think it's nothing wrong with watch I don't think.
Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with watching porn, but I do feel like, Okay,
Speaker 2: like for me, I feel like you, when you reach
Speaker 2: a certain level of like sexual experience and sexual intelligence
Speaker 2: and emotional intelligence, it shouldn't be something that you're tuned
Speaker 2: into all day every day or something that you need
Speaker 2: to like get off or whatever like that. So I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna say I agree with her because I don't.
Speaker 2: But I can understand it because there'd be some man who, like,
Speaker 2: they'll have sex and they'll go to the bathroom and
Speaker 2: watch porn and still not done yet. That's a little excessive.
Speaker 2: That's when you might be a sexual addict. But I
Speaker 2: also believe like if you can't get in the shower
Speaker 2: and do what you need to do, but you always
Speaker 2: have to look on your phone, it's like are you
Speaker 2: searching for something else? Are you a little more freakier
Speaker 2: than what your partner is giving you? Because me personally,
Speaker 2: I can get off by thinking about something or you know,
Speaker 2: imagining me with my partner or having like if we
Speaker 2: haven't seen each other in a while, I can do
Speaker 2: my due diligence without that. So I can understand what
Speaker 2: she's coming through because there is like a thin line
Speaker 2: between you know, watching porn to like maybe if you're
Speaker 2: doing it, to like hurry up, like, okay, I don't
Speaker 2: have time to like fantasize about my partner and do
Speaker 2: so if you're doing like I got thirty seconds.
Speaker 1: To go and do this.
Speaker 2: Cool, But if it's something like you're always having to
Speaker 2: do I kind of get that a lot of people
Speaker 2: are addicted to porn more than we like to admit,
Speaker 2: and then more than what people talk about.
Speaker 1: And I don't even understand it because porn ain't the same,
Speaker 1: No mo, what do you mean you research? It ain't
Speaker 1: the same no more. Oh my god, I've seen this tweet.
Speaker 1: I've seen this. I've seen this tweet like three weeks ago.
Speaker 1: This girl was like I was so mad.
Speaker 3: I was trying to find a good porn to watch
Speaker 3: because I wanted to masturbate, and I just gave up
Speaker 3: because I was like, fuck it, I couldn't find it
Speaker 3: the good.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even horny no more.
Speaker 3: And I agree, Wow, what's wrong with the porn? It's
Speaker 3: just not that good anymore?
Speaker 1: Like you feel like they be faking. It doesn't seem
Speaker 1: I feel like they be faking.
Speaker 3: I feel like it's hard to find porns that just
Speaker 3: get straight to the point. I don't want all the
Speaker 3: fucking the themes and the cinematics, Like I don't want
Speaker 3: all of they.
Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh my god, who did you.
Speaker 3: No for real though, Like it'll start off in the
Speaker 3: backyard with this.
Speaker 1: With a with a woman watering the lawn whole her
Speaker 1: whole boody hole out.
Speaker 3: She got on a little skirt, booty hole out, she
Speaker 3: watering the lawn, the grass already dead.
Speaker 1: Though. Then it's a mailman who.
Speaker 3: Comes back there trying to deliver. He's trying to deliver
Speaker 3: a package.
Speaker 1: He ain't got no pens. Old this story getting good.
Speaker 3: But then it like will last for like twenty minutes
Speaker 3: before they start fucking. Ain't nobody got time for these?
Speaker 1: Get to the business, you horny?
Speaker 3: Because if I'm putting fast, because who not horny? Who
Speaker 3: not horny? If they looking up a porn? You know
Speaker 3: you know where I'm gonna get down to business. Ain't
Speaker 3: nobody got time to watch all that? It's just not
Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like back in the day,
Speaker 3: they used to get straight to it, and they used
Speaker 3: to have that music playing in the back girl.
Speaker 1: Wow, they just used to be oiled up. Where do
Speaker 1: you go?
Speaker 3: You don't even know if they ain't even put the
Speaker 3: oil on on on camera?
Speaker 2: They do be ashy, But you know what, you got
Speaker 2: eggs more video, You got eggs okay, but you know what,
Speaker 2: This is why I say I'm gonna always shout her out.
Speaker 2: I don't care what y'all say about her. They be
Speaker 2: bullying her and me being mean to her on Twitter,
Speaker 2: MS be nasty. I feel like that's why she's so successful.
Speaker 2: She did her research, she know what to do.
Speaker 1: She be alled up. I don't care if Bobby please,
Speaker 1: but what.
Speaker 2: I'm saying is her pornography looks real. She could be
Speaker 2: probably getting the worst pen that she's ever gotten, but
Speaker 2: you will never know. Yeah, it looks like she is
Speaker 2: really enjoying it. And I really truly believe that is
Speaker 2: why she's so successful.
Speaker 1: It's believable. It's straight to the point. I ain't never
Speaker 1: seen that girl ashy.
Speaker 2: She be urled up, and so I think a lot
Speaker 2: of people are they missing the mark on that it's
Speaker 2: supposed to be a fantasy, y'all not selling a fantasy.
Speaker 2: Y'all are just doing this to try to pay bills.
Speaker 2: But we've talked about that before. Stop doing only fans.
Speaker 2: If you ain't about that life, you gotta get down
Speaker 2: to the needy greedy. Yeah, if you right, If you're
Speaker 2: not at the A V AND Awards, isn't that the
Speaker 2: Porn Star Wards.
Speaker 1: That's what they called. Is that what it's called. The
Speaker 1: only reason I'm not.
Speaker 2: Because horrible, horrible decisions got nominated before. So that's why
Speaker 2: I know, because no one else news name thank.
Speaker 1: You because Mandy, And that's why i know. They got
Speaker 1: nominated twice.
Speaker 3: Given I'm gonna take up for my leos period solidarity.
Speaker 2: They have a no, it's a it's a sex podcast,
Speaker 2: and it's so they got nominated twice. But like I said,
Speaker 2: if you didn't get nominated for an av you ain't
Speaker 2: about your bus stand for I don't know. Let me look,
Speaker 2: you're looking it up. Town got her computer. She ready today,
Speaker 2: she got her Google. I said, it's time for a raise.
Speaker 2: But it is called the AVN, right Adult Video News.
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel like if you ain't been nominated
Speaker 2: for an AVN, you ain't about that life. You ain't
Speaker 2: about that life for real, for real though.
Speaker 3: I mean, because if you don't do it, do it
Speaker 3: full throttle, full throttle.
Speaker 2: But back to the topic, I think there should be
Speaker 2: a little boundary. I think if you catch somebody watching porn,
Speaker 2: you're probably watching porn too much.
Speaker 1: Because there's no reason I should catch you. But I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 3: It's like, what if you having a little me time
Speaker 3: and then I just bursting the room.
Speaker 1: I'm there, What are you watching porn? I've caught you
Speaker 1: watching porn? You you just made that up? Yes you did?
Speaker 1: Now still have the line?
Speaker 2: I told you all line is contagious?
Speaker 1: What was all watching then? Exactly?
Speaker 2: I do I know?
Speaker 1: Be beautiful? I'm so full of shit. Be beautiful? Creamp
Speaker 1: you what you just made that up?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: See? How you be lying?
Speaker 2: I don't know me personally, I like a little storyline.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't because like, what do I need all these
Speaker 3: four This is not how it happened in real life.
Speaker 3: I like something that's as really stick as possible.
Speaker 2: I am weak. Okay, let us know. Do y'all like
Speaker 2: the storyline porn? Or do y'all like it straight?
Speaker 1: And are y'all okay with y'all partner watching porn?
Speaker 5: Or no?
Speaker 1: Personally, I'll watch a little porn with my knee. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: we can watch it together.
Speaker 2: Like that's not bad either, like if we doing it together.
Speaker 2: But I think there's a thin line between it being
Speaker 2: too much and a healthy amount.
Speaker 3: But I feel like, you know when it's too much though,
Speaker 3: like if he always watching form.
Speaker 1: That's why I said, you gotta be watching porn at yeah,
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Speaker 2: how to say his name. I don't know if he
Speaker 2: just I hate when I get people's day wrong. It's
Speaker 2: jms N. I don't know if it's like Jamison he
Speaker 2: just took the vowels out, or it's JMSN.
Speaker 1: It's Jamison. Okay. Cool.
Speaker 2: So Jamison has a song called soft Spot. Apparently this
Speaker 2: song came out like last year. It is like it
Speaker 2: gives like nineties groove. It's like a nineties groove song,
Speaker 2: but it has like an EDM twist to it.
Speaker 1: It's so good.
Speaker 2: So I went into a deep dive of his music
Speaker 2: and I like it.
Speaker 1: It gives me like nostalgia.
Speaker 2: I like when I hear music that's new and updated,
Speaker 2: but it has that like old.
Speaker 1: School twist on it.
Speaker 2: I think that's what a lot of artists are missing
Speaker 2: these days, and you want to make music that we
Speaker 2: can listen to thirty years from now. So my bop
Speaker 2: of the week is Jamison soft Spot. You did your
Speaker 2: big one with that one. It's a groove. So if
Speaker 2: you like the EDM but it got like a hip
Speaker 2: hop type of beat to it, stuff like that, you'll
Speaker 2: like this song.
Speaker 1: Period.
Speaker 3: So my real bip of the week, I won't say wow,
Speaker 3: because I won't.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you of the show.
Speaker 3: But I was on title earlier today and the Trilogy album.
Speaker 3: It's like the anniversary for the Trilogy album really yeah
Speaker 3: the weekend, and so I was listening to it on
Speaker 3: the way here and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: this album was so good and it was just so
Speaker 3: nostalgic because it just brought me back to my college
Speaker 3: day and I really used to love that album. I mean,
Speaker 3: shout out for the weekend. He's still doing his things,
Speaker 3: but but yeah, it was just so nostalgic. So that
Speaker 3: used to be my favorite album and one the week
Speaker 3: I think when I was like a sophomore in college.
Speaker 1: You know what whole eye went down the other day?
Speaker 1: The Dream, Oh yeah, it's.
Speaker 2: The Dream album with all his songs were like flowing
Speaker 2: into one song.
Speaker 1: To the other. Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 2: The Dream was still the song that was such a
Speaker 2: good album, the first one. All of them are good,
Speaker 2: but that first album hit me a little different.
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Speaker 3: a twenty one year old female and I met this
Speaker 3: man at my job when I was nineteen and he
Speaker 3: was thirty three. At the time, I was in my
Speaker 3: little phase of doing me and talking to whoever I
Speaker 3: wanted or you know, other things. We started talking, I
Speaker 3: began staying over at his place, and eventually we got
Speaker 3: into a relationship.
Speaker 1: Big mistake.
Speaker 3: From there, everything started going downhill, and I realized he
Speaker 3: was just a broke boom who was way too emotional
Speaker 3: and thought everything was supposed to go his way, never
Speaker 3: admitting he was wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm different.
Speaker 3: I'm a hustler and my bills are always paid, but
Speaker 3: being young and dumb, I stayed with him and tried
Speaker 3: to help him get back on his feet. When he
Speaker 3: his job, got an eviction notice and had his car repossess,
Speaker 3: I started listening to y'all, and y'all opened my eyes
Speaker 3: for real.
Speaker 1: I realized that kind of situation is.
Speaker 3: For the birds, and I deserve someone who could provide
Speaker 3: and give me the lifestyle I deserve. So I lift
Speaker 3: his ass with no remorse. Thank y'all for that. Keep
Speaker 3: doing your thing, love you and see. And that's why
Speaker 3: I used to be telling y'all couldn't be me, because
Speaker 3: it shouldn't be you neither.
Speaker 2: And I will say this for the young girls. There's
Speaker 2: no reason a thirty three year old man you can
Speaker 2: be coming at a nineteen year old.
Speaker 1: And you know why, you have to really look at
Speaker 1: a man's patterns.
Speaker 2: If there's a thirty something year old man trying to
Speaker 2: date a teenager, it's because he cannot do what it
Speaker 2: needs to do to date a thirty three year old age.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yeah, I said it. If a man is.
Speaker 2: Dating a woman that's extremely young, like, it's different. If
Speaker 2: it's like a twenty eight year old woman and like,
Speaker 2: you know, a late thirties early forties man.
Speaker 1: But if you have a.
Speaker 2: Man who is dating like twenty five and under and
Speaker 2: he's like, well, in his late thirties and forties, it's
Speaker 2: because they can't do what needs to be done for
Speaker 2: a woman his age. So y'all have to pay attention
Speaker 2: to that, because honestly, now being older, like when I
Speaker 2: was younger, though, my mom instilled that in me. She
Speaker 2: was like, you need to ask yourself, why is this
Speaker 2: man not dating women his age?
Speaker 1: Why? Period?
Speaker 3: I agree, I feel like you better than that, queen,
Speaker 3: and she learned, Hey.
Speaker 2: Y'all, I'm an almost twenty four year old female. I've
Speaker 2: been a business owner for six years and have been
Speaker 2: always been on top of my stuff and very mature
Speaker 2: for my age. I recently started bartending, and the night
Speaker 2: life is no joke. I'm young, cute, and know how
Speaker 2: to get my tips out of my customers, which requires
Speaker 2: flirting here and there, even though I'm not interested most
Speaker 2: of the time. There are guys that I meet outside
Speaker 2: of the club that I that find out that I bartend,
Speaker 2: and I feel like they think I'm just gonna go
Speaker 2: for anything because of where I work. And how we
Speaker 2: dress at work. Even the guy I was talking to
Speaker 2: for almost two years started acting different towards me because
Speaker 2: he saw all the attention I was getting. How did
Speaker 2: y'all handle that? As bartenders? I don't want to be
Speaker 2: looked at the wrong way because this is just my job.
Speaker 1: What do you have to say? Again? That goes into
Speaker 1: what we were talking about earlier.
Speaker 2: Any man that's trying to get in the way of
Speaker 2: your money because he feels jealous and x y Z Okay, well,
Speaker 2: if I quit, you gonna pay my bills? I just
Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, I was a maturity level too.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think a man who is not trying to help
Speaker 3: you get out of the situation at you in and
Speaker 3: he disapprove of his.
Speaker 1: Opinion don't matter.
Speaker 3: You got bills to pay and you have things that
Speaker 3: you need to do with your money. And so it's like,
Speaker 3: if you're not gonna help me start the business, or
Speaker 3: if you're not gonna fund my life until the business
Speaker 3: takes off, you can't tell me what you don't want
Speaker 3: me to do, especially if it's not a ring on
Speaker 3: my fence. Come on, it's different if somebody is your husband.
Speaker 3: If this is your husband, then that's different. But like
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to stop living my life and stop doing.
Speaker 3: What I'm doing is paying my views off the hopes
Speaker 3: and dreams that you hopefully are the one and you
Speaker 3: might pick me, right.
Speaker 2: I know. And I also think like absolutely night when
Speaker 2: you're young and your bar sayding, you said you have
Speaker 2: your own business, so he obviously knows that this is
Speaker 2: not like a permanent thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah you know.
Speaker 2: So I feel like if he doesn't see the value
Speaker 2: in you outside of what you do for a living,
Speaker 2: because my job doesn't define me. So if any man
Speaker 2: is taking my job that seriously, I don't care what
Speaker 2: I do. It's like, are you liking me for me?
Speaker 2: Or are you judging me by off of what I do?
Speaker 2: So that also says an important thing. So I think
Speaker 2: that how to navigate through this situation is to focus
Speaker 2: on you. Because guess what, a man ain't gonna like
Speaker 2: we said earlier, a man ain gonna quit his job
Speaker 2: because of what you think or how you feel.
Speaker 1: He gonna go and get that money.
Speaker 2: So until you find somebody that is willing to accept
Speaker 2: your grind, your hustle, your ambition, your job, girl, move on.
Speaker 1: And then two just always.
Speaker 3: Be be aware of people who will meet you doing
Speaker 3: something and then they try to change it about you.
Speaker 3: Come on, I try to make you feel bad about it,
Speaker 3: like you already knew when I met you. This is
Speaker 3: what I was doing. This was my job. Like now
Speaker 3: you got an issue with and now you want me
Speaker 3: to change it. This is what I was already doing.
Speaker 3: You had the option to just not fuck with me.
Speaker 1: Why did you ever have that problem?
Speaker 2: The first place that I worked where you used to
Speaker 2: work at you having booty shorts on.
Speaker 3: But I also was older coming into bartending, so some
Speaker 3: things I would automatically just say no to.
Speaker 1: I personally wasn't comfortable.
Speaker 3: But if I had started bartending when I was younger,
Speaker 3: I would have definitely been outside.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, I'm not as I used to have.
Speaker 2: We literally used to work in throngs. I'm not kidding.
Speaker 2: But when I moved to Atlanta, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: They used to try to make me wear the oufice.
Speaker 2: I said, bro, I'm too old for the year, like
Speaker 2: twenty eight at the time, twenty nine. Real quick, before
Speaker 2: we close this out, y'all know, Bernie's just did her
Speaker 2: interview with Joe Budd. Joe bud, and I have to
Speaker 2: ask y'all this so I won't know how y'all feel.
Speaker 2: Because she said on a slow night she would make
Speaker 2: thirty bands. On a busy night she would do seventy
Speaker 2: k How do you feel about that? Dread what you
Speaker 2: think because they some people been like I'll say this
Speaker 2: as a bartender. During that time, every strip club in
Speaker 2: the every black strip club in the nation tried to
Speaker 2: model themselves after Starlet's them Starlett's girl it was Gracie.
Speaker 1: Oh what's that.
Speaker 2: Girl named Lonnie Blair, Lady Blair or something Bernice. It
Speaker 2: was like the Fine Girls in NYC. And every black
Speaker 2: strip club in America had modeled their strip club how
Speaker 2: it was set up like startenders because they were making
Speaker 2: so much money. I do not think Bernice was capping.
Speaker 2: I really don't. I really do not think she was
Speaker 2: capping because a lot of people were like, oh, she capping.
Speaker 2: But if you were in the industry at this time,
Speaker 2: even me, I was working at Dreams, now, I wasn't
Speaker 2: making nowhere near thirty k night on.
Speaker 1: A slow night, because that would have been babe.
Speaker 2: If I would have made thirty k whe n, I would
Speaker 2: have probably thinking that I made some real, real money.
Speaker 2: But I will say working at Dreams in Houston, I
Speaker 2: used to make a lot of money. I used to
Speaker 2: make a lot of money. So being in New York
Speaker 2: where the money is obviously different. When she said that story,
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, that makes sense. That makes sense
Speaker 2: to me. I don't know how y'all feel about it.
Speaker 3: I just feel like she didn't say she was working
Speaker 3: every day. But I don't understand why that's not believable
Speaker 3: because she wasn't working every day. She didn't say I
Speaker 3: was going to work every day make it thirty thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: I think in New York at the time when they
Speaker 3: used to be barsending, I could believe she made that
Speaker 3: some nights. I don't think it was an every night thing, right,
Speaker 3: but I think she was making it on some nights.
Speaker 3: I do like I used to go bartend in New
Speaker 3: York on occasion, Like I did it probably like three
Speaker 3: or four times, and I made like thousands of dollars
Speaker 3: in one night, you know what I mean. And I
Speaker 3: wasn't even like a popular girl out there in New York.
Speaker 3: I wasn't even as popular on social media as Bernice was.
Speaker 1: So I undred percent believed it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like but I feel like you also had to
Speaker 3: kind of be in like night life back in those
Speaker 3: days and at that time to like really understand how
Speaker 3: much money girls was making. Like even here in Atlanta,
Speaker 3: at the clubs I used to work at that weren't
Speaker 3: even strip clubs.
Speaker 1: We used to make a lot of money on the weekends.
Speaker 3: Like when I used to work at Madusa, we used
Speaker 3: to make a lot of money on Sundays because Sundays
Speaker 3: was the day I would make my whole rent in
Speaker 3: one night, literally, especially if I worked service bar. So
Speaker 3: I just feel like it sounds crazy to people, but
Speaker 3: you have to understand, like how reckless dudes used to
Speaker 3: be spending money backed in I think people is way
Speaker 3: more tight these days, Like guys, is not even right
Speaker 3: now the girls say Starless is not making thirty thousand
Speaker 3: dollars a night.
Speaker 1: They not, But I mean correct, this was like during
Speaker 1: the era. It was a little bit after.
Speaker 2: But y'all have to realize, like women who were dancers
Speaker 2: were becoming famous too, Like this was kind of like
Speaker 2: during that Black China era.
Speaker 1: What was the other Girl Mazani?
Speaker 2: This was like an era where like dancers were becoming famous,
Speaker 2: you know, like Amber Rolls was a dancer, you know,
Speaker 2: then she started dating Kanye like the strip club was
Speaker 2: the place to be. So I don't think she was
Speaker 2: capping at all what you think time.
Speaker 3: I don't think she was capping at all, especially like
Speaker 3: you just said, in that time, people were throwing money.
Speaker 3: You have bartenders and dancers and all that stuff. What
Speaker 3: I thought was funny though, is that Joe said that
Speaker 3: she made the worst drinks though, and that's fully believable.
Speaker 1: That's too. I mean when we worked we worked at
Speaker 1: from time I was a bartender.
Speaker 2: Bartender. Them holes could not make let me not call
Speaker 2: them hose. It's just the drink talking my bad. Them
Speaker 2: girls could not make drinks at all. But they're not
Speaker 2: there for the drinks. They there to be fine. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that was funny, But that's why I don't think think
Speaker 2: Joe had put up an argument with her, because he used.
Speaker 1: To be in there so he used to see.
Speaker 2: That's why he didn't like correct her be like okay,
Speaker 2: you capt because he'd probably been in there some nice where.
Speaker 3: He's why I think he did say that he wasn't
Speaker 3: believing it.
Speaker 1: I didn't finish the club.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I don't think it was like he
Speaker 3: was saying, she was cap I just he was like definitely,
Speaker 3: like for real.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, he.
Speaker 3: Used to be in the club, so I think he know,
Speaker 3: like you can make that kind of money in the club.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just think, but here I go. People always feel
Speaker 3: like I'm being mean. People just need to mind the
Speaker 3: own pockey's worry about your hockeys. Like people, why do
Speaker 3: you think that lady didn't make that kind of money
Speaker 3: if that's what she said she made, Like, why is
Speaker 3: he not believable? She doesn't in my opinion, she doesn't
Speaker 3: look to me like somebody who couldn't have made that
Speaker 3: kind of money and who isn't living the lifestyle reflective
Speaker 3: of she made that kind of money years bad.
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie that lady been. She bought a house,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And she lives on that side
Speaker 1: of the States.
Speaker 2: It's not cheap to buy a house out there, yeah,
Speaker 2: and she've been having a house for a long time.
Speaker 2: To be a homeowner, you gotta be making a lot
Speaker 2: of money, especially if you're living in that Jersey New
Speaker 2: York area.
Speaker 1: But it's the internet where people love to be.
Speaker 2: So shout out to Bernice and her thirty k seventy
Speaker 2: K nights.
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Speaker 4: Or try again? If I hesitate to let you win? Now?
Speaker 6: Would you be yourself or play your role? Tell all
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Speaker 4: That's yourself off and try again, try again. Oh I
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