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Speaker 1: Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: So I'll be reading YouTube comments and stuff because I

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Speaker 2: But you know, it's crazy other than sick. I'll say this.

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Speaker 3: It's like you're cringing and you're like clutching your pearls.

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Speaker 1: It's just super tight. Yeah, no, thank you.

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Speaker 2: If you look at her old picture, she was very petite.

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Speaker 2: Is, right, but her stomach not that her stomach is big,

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Speaker 1: But her waistline got thicker with the rest of her body.

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Speaker 1: I really don't think she got life.

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Speaker 1: I really do not believe that girl got LiPo.

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Speaker 2: I think she just naturally has a small waist and

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Speaker 1: I really believe it. I don't. It's not given.

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Speaker 2: I can you can just kind of tell when somebody

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you can't.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like her waistline has always been like that,

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Speaker 1: Of your work, beautiful body.

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Speaker 2: But also on the other side, it's like, why y'all

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Speaker 2: Like y'all be trying to clock her tea so hard,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just think that's people on the internet, though,

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Speaker 2: So hard, Like why do y'all be trying to clock it?

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Speaker 1: So why do you care?

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Speaker 3: But I feel like we get that too though about

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Speaker 1: Our tea, Like what have we got done?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: They be like making false accusations about work we got

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Speaker 3: done to our face. They be making false accusations about

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Speaker 1: Know what I mean? I just hate when people lie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like either say what you did, say what you said,

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Speaker 3: I just feel like, why lie about it if you've

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Speaker 1: Like we live in an era where.

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Speaker 3: So many people have had plastic surgery, so many people

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Speaker 1: Not no reason to lie no more, you know what

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Speaker 3: Like it's okay, Like I think we've talked about these

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Speaker 1: Nice natural bodies. Yes, I say this all the time.

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Speaker 3: Prior to me getting LiPo, I always had a nice body,

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Speaker 3: Like I always had a slim waist, I already had

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Speaker 3: it's like I don't care when people say stuff, but

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Speaker 3: it's just like I hate when people try to make

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Speaker 3: any that added to my hips, people were saying that

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Speaker 3: I had a BBL and I never had a BBL

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Speaker 3: and you know me, you're my best friend, Like, I

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Speaker 3: just don't believe that girls can already have Like we're

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Speaker 3: black women. I get so tired of saying that, like

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Speaker 3: we are the originators of having curves. Why is it

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Speaker 1: Or I have hips naturally. I don't know. I just

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Speaker 1: I hate because hate is a strong word.

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Speaker 3: I don't care enough to hate y'all. But I just

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Speaker 3: think it's weird. I think it's weird when girls lie,

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Speaker 3: just like even when people be trying to clock our tea,

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Speaker 3: people be always trying to say I had an ose job.

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Speaker 3: If I've had an ose job, I would say I

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Speaker 3: had an ose job. But I also have old pictures

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Speaker 1: I have the same nose.

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Speaker 3: But why is it hard to believe that a black

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Speaker 3: she just has a beautiful pase Like I think it's

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Speaker 3: y'all have y'all don't have botox and lip feelers.

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Speaker 1: That's not surgery, it's not well.

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Speaker 2: I'll say this because I'm glad you brought that up too,

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Speaker 1: Me and botox doesn't change.

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Speaker 2: Any well, I'll say this I to me personally, it

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Speaker 1: Touching your face.

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Speaker 2: And I said, like, hirl, have I done a little

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Speaker 1: Again, who cares?

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Speaker 4: Who cares?

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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, we are on camera

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Speaker 2: if you've put a needle to anything. That's how I feel,

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Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter. Stop trying to clock tea, tell people, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know what, you look good boo, and keep it pushing.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 3: doing is like stopping my forehead from wrinkling. It's making

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 3: That's why I hate when people always try to be like, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: My face is my face.

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Speaker 3: I have not had any work done, But I get

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Speaker 3: it just be like whatever at this point.

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Speaker 1: At this point, we believe what y'all.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter with me and Lyck tell y'all we've done,

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if I say I never had that

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Speaker 1: My butt, y'all are never gonna believe me. It just

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Speaker 2: I'll say this too, when we were talking about like

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Speaker 1: So bad and I wouldn't. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't care personally, but I always just like, see

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Speaker 1: I just be like, it's just so much.

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Speaker 2: And this is coming from a professional liar, I'd be

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Speaker 1: I feel like, if you a professional, you goody so

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Speaker 1: I am. I am.

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Speaker 2: That's just because you know me. You know too much

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Speaker 3: I think you'd be giving away your lives easily. Like

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Speaker 3: it's easy to clock eat.

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Speaker 1: Not you're trying to clock my tea.

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Speaker 3: It's easy because it's too easy to clock.

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Speaker 2: But I was just saying, like, when I see this

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Speaker 2: because she had a fire body before and her body

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00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 2: is still nice.

445
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,920
Speaker 1: But that's why people be like, okay, girl, you if

446
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,040
Speaker 1: she lying these dre a line.

447
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,600
Speaker 3: But anyways, I say that to say, but I will

448
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 3: actually say though, like that's the difference.

449
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:46,240
Speaker 1: I know.

450
00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:48,200
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, like you said earlier, it's

451
00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:49,879
Speaker 2: easy just to not say anything.

452
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 1: Just don't say nothing.

453
00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,840
Speaker 2: And for me personally, the reason I've always been honest

454
00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 2: and truthful is because I know I was that young

455
00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,399
Speaker 2: girl looking at people older than me or looking up

456
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:00,760
Speaker 2: to people being like, oh my god, I wish I

457
00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 2: could look like that, not knowing that they've spent like fifty.

458
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: Thousand dollars at the doctor.

459
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,880
Speaker 2: And that's not shade, because when you're a beautiful woman

460
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,280
Speaker 2: and you want to keep up with your looks, that's

461
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:11,200
Speaker 2: what be happening, that's.

462
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 1: What be going on.

463
00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I've always been honest, and I be telling girls, hey,

464
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 2: don't look at me and be like, oh, I want

465
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:17,880
Speaker 2: to go to the gym and get that, because you're

466
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,800
Speaker 2: not going to the gym to get that. You can

467
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,240
Speaker 2: if you have a night. But that's just what my

468
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 2: journey was.

469
00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,280
Speaker 1: Well, I do have a question. This is a question

470
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 1: that I have for me.

471
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,640
Speaker 3: I feel like when I was younger, like the first

472
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 3: round of life O that I got, I was like

473
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 3: twenty three because I got my boobs done and I

474
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 3: got life Boat at.

475
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:34,919
Speaker 1: The same time.

476
00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 3: And for a long time, you know, that was me.

477
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 3: I would never lie about it. I just wouldn't talk

478
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,399
Speaker 3: about it, Like I just would never talk at I

479
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:42,840
Speaker 3: would talk about get my boobs done, but I just

480
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:43,880
Speaker 3: will never talk about Wow.

481
00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 1: Why because I just felt like, I don't know, I

482
00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 1: didn't feel the need to talk about But I'm sorry.

483
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:50,879
Speaker 1: I don't mean to re up to you.

484
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,640
Speaker 2: I think it's so weird how people will be like, oh,

485
00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,399
Speaker 2: I got my boobs and I got my boobs done,

486
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 2: but they won't admit to like bbs because IFO knows y'all.

487
00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,120
Speaker 1: Well, well, to me, this is the thing.

488
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 3: I think that for a long time, and I think

489
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 3: that other girls, like maybe some of the some of y'all,

490
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,120
Speaker 3: if some of y'all out there, y'all can leave comments

491
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 3: in the comments, but comments and comments. But like I

492
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 3: feel like, for me, for a long time, I felt

493
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:19,439
Speaker 3: like I didn't add nothing to my body, Like I

494
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 3: just got LiPo and I already had a fire body,

495
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 3: So I didn't feel like I had really like changed

496
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 3: anything dramatically. That's why I feel like a lot of

497
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 3: people didn't know whether or not I had did nothing

498
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 3: for a long time anyways, because people who knew me

499
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 3: from high school and college, I already had like a

500
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 3: nice a nice body, So I don't know. To me,

501
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 3: I didn't feel like I changed anything to me for

502
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 3: a long time. I looked at BBLS and LiPo completely different.

503
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 1: Really yeah, because I feel like a BBO, you're.

504
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 3: Changing your whole frame, like, and that's what I was

505
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 3: gonna ask you. Like with you, you don't feel like

506
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 3: you had to kind of like speak on it because

507
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 3: your body looked dramatically different from your older pictures the

508
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 3: when you got that first round off, I mean their

509
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:05,160
Speaker 3: first BBU.

510
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy. I didn't feel like I had

511
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 2: to speak on it.

512
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 1: But you know, y'all know me. I'm an overshare. Yeah,

513
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 1: but I didn't feel like I had to speak on it.

514
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 2: Like I remember the first time I went out after

515
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 2: my first round and people were like, I mean I

516
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,159
Speaker 2: had an anxiety attack because it was so many people like,

517
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: oh my god, and you I got my first round

518
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,640
Speaker 2: in twenty sixteen. That doesn't seem like that long ago.

519
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 2: But in twenty sixteen, BBOs were not how they are now,

520
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 2: like right, not, I was the pioneer of the BBL crew.

521
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 3: No, you were, And I think I think I was

522
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 3: a pioneer of getting life on that wall.

523
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,679
Speaker 2: You were a pioneer of getting your boobs done for

524
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 2: black women because black women really weren't getting their boobs

525
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 2: done at.

526
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 3: That tause I got my boob That's what I'm saying.

527
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 3: I got my boobs done. And like, yeah, fifteen, they're about.

528
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 2: To take this out of context, these hopes think they

529
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 2: started everything.

530
00:22:56,600 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 1: No, but seriously, and I think that that's the thing too,

531
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 1: because it wasn't that many women getting LiPo back then.

532
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 3: I just kind of felt like, Okay, I'm just not

533
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 3: going yeah, I'm just not gonna talk about it. But

534
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 3: I never cared about telling my friends. Y'all all knew,

535
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 3: but I don't know.

536
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 2: Well, I think for me, the reason that I wanted

537
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: to be honest is, like I said, once I found

538
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: out the girls, I used to look up to or

539
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 2: be like, oh my gosh, she's so fine.

540
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: She so this. I'm like, oh, y'all doing the same thing. Yeah.

541
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 1: I felt like it was my dude diligence.

542
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 5: To be like, hey, let me tell y'all what the bad.

543
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me tell y'all was really going on.

544
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 2: But I guess, like I said, for me, LiPo, it's

545
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 2: still changing your anatomy.

546
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: Like for you, you already had.

547
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 2: An hourglass shape, so that doesn't matter I mean for you.

548
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: So I can see why you think that way.

549
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,360
Speaker 3: I used to think that, but I think that's why

550
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 3: I started being honest about it.

551
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, because because I don't start to take your shape.

552
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 2: Because there'll be women out there who they got hips,

553
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 2: they got a butt, they just have a thick waistline.

554
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 2: So once they take out that, they do that LiPo

555
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 2: take out, they fat they're changing the shape of your body.

556
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 2: So even though your waist was let's say, twenty five inches,

557
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: after you got that surgery, it's twenty three inches. So

558
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 2: you're changing the shape of your body because now it

559
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 2: is an illusion that your hips and your butt.

560
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: Look bigger, you know what I'm saying.

561
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 2: So I just feel like this surgery is surgery. Who

562
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 2: cares clocked tea, don't clock tea. Let the women be beautiful,

563
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 2: let us do what we want to do. If you

564
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: want to go to the gym, go to the gym, whatever.

565
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 2: But one if you stop lying, just don't say nothing

566
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: at all. That's my thing. Stop lying. Don't say nothing

567
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 2: at all. I'm not saying you gotta tell the truth.

568
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 1: Just stop. Don't say yeah, just don't say nothing.

569
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 3: Like I said, I never used to lie about having

570
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 3: life boat. I just will say no body tea, yeah,

571
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 3: I just.

572
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: Will say nothing.

573
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 3: But I do think it's very strange to lie about it.

574
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: Just keep it cute and keep it on mute.

575
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 3: If you don't want to tell the tea, if you

576
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 3: don't want to spell the te gym, be quiet about it.

577
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,400
Speaker 1: But I do think at the end of.

578
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: The day, it's very weird as fuck.

579
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: That people care so much about what to me, over.

580
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 2: Everything, over the line, everything, over everything.

581
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 3: Y'all holls and yall niggas be weird because they really

582
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 3: ain't show business like what somebody else needs to. They

583
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 3: body really ain't show business. And if they don't, and

584
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 3: that's another thing too, I can understand what y'all be

585
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 3: going in on people that y'all found.

586
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 1: Out lied about some stuff.

587
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 3: But like if somebody don't want to share something with you,

588
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 3: and they be going in in the comments, in on

589
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 3: the people because they don't want to tell them the tea.

590
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,239
Speaker 3: Nobody owes you to tell you they business if they

591
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 3: don't want to share their business.

592
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: Right, agreed? I agree one thousand percent.

593
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 3: People got to stop feeling so entitled to like these

594
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 3: influencers and celebrities and knowing their business if they don't want.

595
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: To share it with you.

596
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 2: And let me add this for the filler girlies, and

597
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 2: this is just my advice. I really need y'all to

598
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 2: listen to me. For the ladies that get fellers. I

599
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 2: don't care what your injector tells you. I don't care

600
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: what you're seeing these Please stop going get fillers every

601
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 2: three to six months.

602
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: Stop doing that.

603
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I did a facial balancing what two years ago

604
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 2: at this point, well, it'll be three Actually, it'll be

605
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: three years in December. It's been three years. I didn't

606
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: facial balancing one time. I liked it. It was a

607
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 2: cute little one too. But y'all, as we know, like

608
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: fillers don't ever dissolve like they do a little bit

609
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 2: depending on your body. But people metabolize things differently. Again,

610
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 2: I don't care what your injector tells you. This comes

611
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 2: to lips, facial balancing, all that stuff. You do not

612
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 2: need to go every six months. Y'all are starting to

613
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,719
Speaker 2: really now y'all be talking about our faces like, oh,

614
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: they need to stop, baby, when I tell you, I

615
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 2: see Helen once a year if that? Yeah, for both,

616
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 2: And I don't even you're supposed to get botox every

617
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: three to six months. I don't even do that last

618
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: a long time. I go every I probably go once

619
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 2: a year to do my boatox. But y'all have got

620
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 2: to I've seen a girl that I didn't know her,

621
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: know her, but I used to see her outside, and

622
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 2: I've seen before and after of her getting all her injections,

623
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:18,719
Speaker 2: and I was horrified.

624
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: You know what you one I'm talking about? Yeah, because I.

625
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 2: Said, if y'all can see me and dre dms, oh

626
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 2: my god, we'll be talking about all y'all.

627
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 1: Ah, y'all done of y'all safe? Could y'all be talking

628
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 1: about us? Though? They do?

629
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: But anyways, y'all gotta stop doing all that stuff. To

630
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 2: your jawline and this and this, and it just looks

631
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 2: so stuffed. Like I said, I like to trial on

632
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: one too, but you don't have to go too far.

633
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 2: The three to six months for fillers is absolutely insane.

634
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,719
Speaker 2: Like I said, I don't care what your injectors are

635
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: telling you. Let me tell you what Big Mama knows.

636
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 2: I'm not an expert, but I know what I can see.

637
00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: I agree.

638
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 3: I agree because I haven't had my lips done since

639
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 3: twenty twenty one.

640
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: Like, I just feel like if they still.

641
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 3: Look juicy, then why do I need to add some

642
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 3: mold Like I just I don't know.

643
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: And granted they are, like.

644
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 3: In my opinion, smaller than they were when I first

645
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 3: got them done, but I.

646
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: Just don't they still look full.

647
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't see a reason to add more to it.

648
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 3: And I just feel like people be going to get

649
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 3: lip fillers every brix months, every eight months, every twelve months,

650
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 3: and then they start migrating, yep, because they will migrate.

651
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 3: And then they start migrating, and then they up here

652
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 3: And are you even like the duck lips look cause.

653
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: She's just like this. Yeah.

654
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we got off topic. Okay, we're gonna get

655
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 2: into the topics. Let me know what y'all think and

656
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: what y'all think about people lying people line. But I

657
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: also want to if y'all think I'm right about j

658
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 2: nice because I think I'm right just.

659
00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: Because I see.

660
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: I worked in the club and I saw girls you

661
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,800
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Speaker 2: to talk about putting your relationship before work. And when

705
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Speaker 2: I say that, I want to say, like, you haven't

706
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Speaker 1: Is he at work and you at work?

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Speaker 2: And he was like, oh, you know, babe, I didn't

710
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Speaker 2: have to go into I got off work early today

711
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Speaker 2: and you're at work. So you like, oh my god,

712
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Speaker 2: my grandma's sick. I gotta go home.

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Speaker 1: So you clock out early because you.

714
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Speaker 2: And your man can finally spend some time together. Another situation,

715
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: you go on a date with your man and y'all

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Speaker 2: end up getting drunk or whatever. Are y'all having a

717
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Speaker 2: good night In the next morning, you're like, oh, I

718
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Speaker 2: don't want to leave my man. I'm gonna call into

719
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Speaker 2: work today. So you don't want to go to work

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Speaker 2: because you just want to lay up with your man

721
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Speaker 2: all day. So I want to talk about putting your

722
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Speaker 2: relationships before work, or before your business or before any

723
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Speaker 2: of your responsibilities. How y'all feel about that? How you

724
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Speaker 2: feel about that time? Cause you got a man?

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Speaker 1: Period? Yeah? Never?

726
00:31:49,840 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah mm hmm, right, Okay, I like that, Dre. How

727
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Speaker 2: you feel about it?

728
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Speaker 1: Hm?

729
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Speaker 2: No, no, never, absolutely the fuck nights no like no,

730
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Speaker 2: but I do.

731
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Speaker 1: I do feel like.

732
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Speaker 3: That is that is the difference between women and men.

733
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 3: Like women will cut off their goals, they will not

734
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Speaker 3: work on the things that they want to work on

735
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Speaker 3: when they fall in love or when they're in relationships.

736
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Speaker 3: Whole time, your need is still working though he's still

737
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Speaker 3: working on his goals.

738
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Speaker 1: He's still Wow. We we need that chick.

739
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 3: We as women, we'll stop working on our goals, We'll

740
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Speaker 3: stop going hard, we'll stop being ambitious. Momentarily get into

741
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Speaker 3: a relationship and we all in love and we want

742
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: to be up under our men men. The whole time,

743
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 3: your man is still working and he's still getting to

744
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 3: the bag, he's still getting to his goals. He's not

745
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Speaker 3: letting the effect that y'all in love and y'all like

746
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 3: happy stop him from progress. I think that that's definitely

747
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 3: something that women do that we just got to do better.

748
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Speaker 3: Now what I can honestly say, I ain't never really

749
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Speaker 3: subscribe today. I if I'm gonna take off work for you,

750
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Speaker 3: my time is money.

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Speaker 1: My time is money, So he gotta pay you to

752
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Speaker 1: take off work.

753
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but even still though I'm not gonna take off Like,

754
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Speaker 3: for example, now that we run our own business, nobody

755
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Speaker 3: could get me to take off work to come do

756
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Speaker 3: anything with Yeah you know what I mean, Like, nobody

757
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Speaker 3: could give me to take off work to come do

758
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Speaker 3: anything with them. We gonna have to schedule it around

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Speaker 3: me working around my business. When I was younger, like

760
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Speaker 3: when I used to bartend and stuff, yeah, Like it

761
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Speaker 3: was times where I like, I was dating somebody one

762
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Speaker 3: time and he wanted me to like come to Miami

763
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Speaker 3: with him, and I went. But I was like, okay,

764
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Speaker 3: Like if you want me to take off the whole

765
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Speaker 3: weekend because the club I used to bartend at, that's

766
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Speaker 3: when we used to make the most of our money.

767
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Speaker 1: You want me to take off the whole weekend, you.

768
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Speaker 3: Need to reimburse me, cause rent, dude, I have bills,

769
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Speaker 3: I have things I need to do. You want me

770
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Speaker 3: to come hang with you on leisure time and I'm

771
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Speaker 3: not making all money.

772
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Speaker 1: I'm missing out on the bag.

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Speaker 3: So like no, and I would never advise that, Like

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Speaker 3: now that I'm older, I say, go to work, go

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Speaker 3: to work. Well, don't even be like, oh, you need

776
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Speaker 3: to reimburse me go to work. It depends on your

777
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Speaker 3: job though, Like if it's like a little like part

778
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Speaker 3: time or something like a bartender, you can take.

779
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Speaker 1: A weekend off. But that wasn't part time. That was

780
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Speaker 1: my job job but right, but.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like a career where if you miss it,

782
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Speaker 2: like well, yeah, that's what I'm saying. So if it's

783
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Speaker 2: like a little bartending job or like how I used

784
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Speaker 2: to be at European Waccent, I think that's okay if

785
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Speaker 2: they're like reimbursing you or whatever. But like if you're

786
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 2: in your career and you need to be there clocking

787
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Speaker 2: it to advance yourself. But also I want to talk

788
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 2: about the bigger issue, but.

789
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 3: I'm talking about just but I'm more so I think

790
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Speaker 3: that we both kind of just more so talking about

791
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Speaker 3: like I've never been the type to just take off

792
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Speaker 3: to lay right. We're like and be up under you

793
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 3: and like, oh, I just want to be around my

794
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Speaker 3: man today.

795
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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna call in.

796
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Speaker 3: He asked me to stay home, so I'm gonna just

797
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Speaker 3: call in now I'm going to work.

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00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: I want to talk about the bigger.

799
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 2: Issue here, though I ain't never dealt with a man

800
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Speaker 2: who would even be happy that I did that.

801
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Speaker 1: The type of man I deal with.

802
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Speaker 2: They The number one thing I always hear from men

803
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 2: that they love about me is my ambition, and like

804
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Speaker 2: how much they be like, man, you really everything you

805
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Speaker 2: Even the guys I used to talk to, like back

806
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: in the day and what they see me doing now,

807
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 2: they said, man, this is crazy because everything you said

808
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Speaker 2: you was gonna do, you did it. And even when

809
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 2: I was dealing with them, when I had to be like,

810
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 2: oh I gotta go here, I gotta do there, it

811
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 2: was like, oh, man, do your thing. You know how

812
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 2: many dates I've canceled or x y Z. Because now,

813
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: for me, working was not different from you, but different

814
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 2: from a lot of people because I had to go

815
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 2: to work because I needed to fund my ambitions. I

816
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 2: needed to fund what I was trying to do, you

817
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,479
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So a lot of times, even

818
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Speaker 2: if a dude was slot me some money to take off,

819
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 2: I might take off, but I'm gonna pick up some

820
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 2: extra shits. Nickt Week, the only time I ever took

821
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 2: off from work, we was going somewhere. I was like, right, So,

822
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: but like I said, I think we need to deal

823
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 2: with men or partners or people that don't even ask

824
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 2: you to do something like that. You want to deal

825
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 2: with somebody who is supporting your goals and supporting your dreams,

826
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 2: because honestly, that's a red flag to how they're going

827
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,879
Speaker 2: to be later on. This is somebody who don't take

828
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 2: what you're doing seriously. Yeah, because if they don't feel

829
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: like your job is valuable or what you're doing is valuable,

830
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh, yeah, girl, you don't got to

831
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: do that, Come with me.

832
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: They don't feel like you can meet me after or

833
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 1: you can meet me tomorrow. We can go do something tomorrow.

834
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: Yes, So putting relationships before work, especially for women, that's

835
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 2: a big no, no, big fact. No, no, Yeah, I

836
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 2: feel like men don't really do that.

837
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 3: It's definitely just for women because I feel like men

838
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 3: don't really.

839
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,720
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes men will the lazy ones.

840
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Speaker 3: You're some lazy men out there, and thankfully I don't

841
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 3: know none of them, right, So I don't. I've never

842
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 3: I don't think I have any man in my life,

843
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 3: from like my daddy to my grandfather, to my uncles,

844
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 3: to my male friends to men.

845
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: That I've dated, Like no, like, ain't.

846
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 3: Nobody taking off work, just saying with you, I got

847
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 3: stuff to do.

848
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: And you should feel the same way. I agree.

849
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: I agree the lazy men they need to get it

850
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 3: together because that's not a great that's not a good

851
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 3: quality for a men. So that's not a good quality

852
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 3: as a person like I. It's like yeah, but like

853
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 3: I was talking to somebody about this the other day. Women, though,

854
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 3: some women can be lazy, Like I think, it's not

855
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 3: a great quality to have and you should work on it.

856
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 3: But women can be a little lazy because sometimes if

857
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 3: you beautiful enough, somebody will step in and like help

858
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 3: you out.

859
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: That's not enough.

860
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 3: Though I'm not saying it is. I'm just giving contact

861
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 3: with men. Ain't nobody come and help you?

862
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: You know what? Is it?

863
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: Like nobody's coming to help you, even as a cute man.

864
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 3: A lot of times not nobody the world don't care

865
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 3: that you're a cute man.

866
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 2: Shall don't and cute men get on my thirst. But

867
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 2: we're not gonna talk about that.

868
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: But I don't think.

869
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 2: I'll say this about beautiful lazy women. I don't think

870
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: women could be like I think beautiful lazy women are

871
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 2: kind of like the women that, like, like a man

872
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 2: will like pick you for like a little a little bit,

873
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 2: but it's not it's not gonna help you in the

874
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 2: long run. Every beautiful woman that I know that is

875
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 2: extremely successful work, they ass off.

876
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: But we're not talking about successful women. Were talking about

877
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: lazy with me. But that's what I'm saying. They're living from.

878
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 2: If they're not working and they're living off of a man,

879
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: they're living from pen.

880
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: To pen, you know what I mean.

881
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 3: No, I think me and some men really be wanting

882
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,959
Speaker 3: a woman who will stay in the house.

883
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: It's not lazy. A stay at home wife or stay

884
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,800
Speaker 1: at home mom. They're doing a lot. I'm not saying.

885
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that they not.

886
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is if you're staying at home,

887
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 3: men be wanting some women because what if you're not

888
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 3: a wife yet, what if you're not a mother yet,

889
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 3: You just be in the house. Some men just want

890
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 3: women who be in the house, who don't want to

891
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 3: go nowhere, who don't want to do nothing. They want

892
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 3: to take care of you because they like control.

893
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 2: Right.

894
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: They were not talking about.

895
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 3: Much you brought up mothers. I never said this was

896
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 3: about a stay at home with us.

897
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,399
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying the mother. You're doing work. You're

898
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: taking care of the kids, you're taking care of the house.

899
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,919
Speaker 1: That's work. We ain't talking about them, right, but I'm talking.

900
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 2: If a man has you in his house, he wants

901
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 2: you doing something. I disagree. He wants you doing something,

902
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: I disagree.

903
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 3: I think some men, I think if you date somebody

904
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 3: wealthy enough, they don't want you doing nothing.

905
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 1: Actually, you don't have to wash a sheet or something.

906
00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 2: You gotta wash a sheet, wipe off a counter. I

907
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 2: just feel like, as a man, when you came home,

908
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 2: imagine if you left a baddie in your bed and

909
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 2: you come back home and she's still lain't in the

910
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 2: same spot. You ain't gonna like that. You are not

911
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: gonna like that. So even if you do have a

912
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 2: stay at home, you can't be lazy, but you take it.

913
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,280
Speaker 3: But sometimes I think when people talk about stuff, people

914
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,240
Speaker 3: go to extremes. I think you're going to an extreme level,

915
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: like somebody leaving the house and then coming back home

916
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 3: and you staying in the same spot.

917
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: That's an extreme level of lazy.

918
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,919
Speaker 3: You could still be lazy and still be out doing

919
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 3: nothing all day.

920
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: You could be out like I used to be friends

921
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:35,439
Speaker 1: with this girl.

922
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Lean though too, because me and LeAnn

923
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 3: both used to be friends with her. She was the

924
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 3: most busiest person I ever met that was never doing

925
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 3: nothing like what she used to be doing literally like

926
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,359
Speaker 3: and then when we would call her and be like, hey, girl,

927
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 3: what you doing?

928
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: You want to go have brunch?

929
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 3: She would be like, no, I have to do this

930
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 3: and I have to do this and I have to

931
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 3: do this, and it would all be nothing. I gotta

932
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 3: go to Starbucks, yes, but but every day, every day

933
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 3: from like seven to four.

934
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: But that's our day.

935
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 3: But doing nothing though you're doing nothing?

936
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: Is it though? Is it?

937
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 3: Because you'll probably be better off staying at home because

938
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 3: at least you ain't spending no money.

939
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: But you gotta do.

940
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: But you're not making it back all the money that

941
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 3: you are spitty, you're not making your bad creating content.

942
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 1: No. I try. I try to have your back, sister girl.

943
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: So I said that to say, a lot of people

944
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:33,919
Speaker 1: be fake busy.

945
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 3: I know so many fake busy people who act like

946
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 3: they so busy.

947
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes I know I'm not gonna lie.

948
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: I'll be having days where I plan a whole lot

949
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 2: of nothing just because I want to get out the house.

950
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: And be moving though, like you know, you gotta be

951
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 1: moving around. Yeah, but every day doing nothing is crazy. Okay,

952
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: I agree with that.

953
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 2: Okay, damn it all right, now we're gonna move on

954
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 2: to this. Well, let us know what y'all think about

955
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 2: the lazy, because you know that's one of the seven

956
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 2: daily sins.

957
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: It's that slip, the viral, the viral girl, viral.

958
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 2: Vibe, I said, viral girl, But no, that is one

959
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 2: of the seven daily sins.

960
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: I did, girl, What is going on all your life?

961
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: Fit and sharp? I can't get it out? It is

962
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: because okay, first of all, they shot.

963
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 2: Club so if y'all recognized that background, period because we

964
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: ate this up. But yeah, it's one of the seven

965
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 2: deadly sins of sloth?

966
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: Isn't that what it is? Sloth isn't what they call it?

967
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 1: Is it? Yeah? I think it's sloth.

968
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 2: I'm not, but yeah, that's one of the seven daily sins.

969
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 2: I feel like out of all the seven, though, I'm

970
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 2: gonna move on. I feel like, what what would you think.

971
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: The one I needed to work on the most.

972
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 2: It's a wrath, envy, gluttony, sloth.

973
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 1: I'm missing three. Let me see.

974
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 2: Pride, greed, okay, So pride, wrath, gluttony, greed, sloth, envy,

975
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 2: and lust between lust.

976
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: Oh, I was just about to say, glutton me. You

977
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: know me to a t y'all. Let me tell you

978
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: something I want. You love a good meal. I love

979
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: a hot little burgher. Oh my god.

980
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 3: That's why I can't hang around Lex too much, so, y'all,

981
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 3: because I be serious about my diety.

982
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: And when I'm with her, she'd be like, oh my god.

983
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: And then in New York.

984
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 3: The whole time I was in New York, I was

985
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 3: eating bad, fucking with legs.

986
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 1: Every time, y'all.

987
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 2: I'm so bad because I'll be like, oh, y'all want

988
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: a snack, and they'll be like, everybody like.

989
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get a snack.

990
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 2: I order like fifteen burgers, three for each of y'all.

991
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 2: That's a bed nice snack to me.

992
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all because we were when we ordered

993
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: the five guys in New York because it was like

994
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: two in the morning.

995
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: So I'm like, Okay, let's get something to eat real

996
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 3: quick because we haven't ate since earlier. So I put

997
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 3: one burger in one fry. I talk about ya, don't

998
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 3: think we need two burgers?

999
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 2: Girl.

1000
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 3: It's two in the morning. We can lit the burger.

1001
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 3: It's a double patty anyway. I look.

1002
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: I love a good burger. Yeah, I'll do a good burger.

1003
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: I love tacos.

1004
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 2: I'm trying to work on my out of everything. That

1005
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,439
Speaker 2: is something that I just cannot I love a nice

1006
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 2: hank to me.

1007
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: What do you think I need to work on?

1008
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: Let me see. I think I'll say two of them.

1009
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 2: So it's either I would say pride.

1010
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 3: Oh, that's what I was thinking, pride or greed. I

1011
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 3: think pride because I don't think I'm greedy. I'm too

1012
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 3: generous to be greedy.

1013
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: No, when I say greed, but I think let me

1014
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: see how they talk about greed. When I say greed,

1015
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 2: you can take it as a good way or a

1016
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 2: bad way, though, but I just think you're a well

1017
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 2: it is, obviously because it's a deadly sin. But I

1018
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: it's like you want, you want it all, and you're

1019
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 2: gonna get it by any means necessary. So that could

1020
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 2: be a good thing or it could go to bad.

1021
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 2: But I think you want you want it all.

1022
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: I do, but I'm not any means by necessary. Person.

1023
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: No, you're not.

1024
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: You're not. But that's not what they said. It just

1025
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: says greed you. But no, you said that as somebody

1026
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: who knows me.

1027
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,800
Speaker 3: So I'm saying I don't think i'm in any means

1028
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 3: by necessary person like I'll be letting she go like,

1029
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 3: it's like you gotta babby.

1030
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: But pride, definitely, I'll say pride. I think that's the one. Yeah,

1031
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: I'm very prideful.

1032
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 2: And I'm very hungry. Pride for the hungry.

1033
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 1: I'm so work that we're gonna work on it in.

1034
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 3: Twenty Yes, I want a burger like she needs to

1035
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 3: work on. It's a scene.

1036
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 2: It's so good. Have you ever had a hot, juicy burger?

1037
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 1: I love personally, I love me a smash burger with

1038
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: a little grilled onion. Oh oh the onion, a little

1039
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: smash sauce. Mhmm. That's why I need to make me

1040
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 1: an a. I feel you. Okay, I'm gonna work on it. Honestly.

1041
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 2: I have gotten better, obviously because I've you know, I've

1042
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 2: lost a lot of weight.

1043
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm active now. But I don't know.

1044
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 2: It's just something about having a nice holt to me.

1045
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,479
Speaker 2: But I will say I think glutton me sometimes until

1046
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 2: the points to where like you're overdoing it. Like when

1047
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 2: I'm full, I do stop eating. I think pride with you.

1048
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: You have came a long way with your pride too.

1049
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you actually now much dressed that two words I

1050
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 2: never thought she'd said before, or three words.

1051
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: I was wrong, I said, who said that? Who said that? Yeah?

1052
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 3: I don't really feel like I have that much pride

1053
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 3: the oh well, I think when it comes to other people,

1054
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 3: but when it comes to like, well, not even just you,

1055
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 3: but I think in general, when it comes to like

1056
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 3: people in my life that I care about, whether it's

1057
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 3: my partner, whether it's my friends, my mom, like everybody,

1058
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 3: like even I would say, like our staff and stuff Like,

1059
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I can at meet when I'm wrong

1060
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 3: in situations with people that I care about. You know,

1061
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 3: it's just more so like to the others, to the

1062
00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 3: other You'll never see me sweet.

1063
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: Period, Pooky. I don't know why I'm like that, but

1064
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: I just am.

1065
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 2: Okay, So we gonna work on our glutting and our

1066
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 2: pride in twenty twenty five. I'm not making no promises,

1067
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 2: but you know what, I do.

1068
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 3: Feel like I've started to be even more transparent though

1069
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 3: on the show.

1070
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, you definitely I don't. Yes, you definitely have.

1071
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 2: I think that that is something that people have been

1072
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 2: wanting to see from you, And it's like refreshing because

1073
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of things that you've been

1074
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 2: through or that you can relate to that people need

1075
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 2: to hear, and things that I can't speak on because

1076
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 2: I don't know how it is, so they only get

1077
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 2: so much from you, But you have you do open

1078
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:41,919
Speaker 2: up a lot more.

1079
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 1: Like even when you talk about your relationship.

1080
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 2: People be like, oh my god, you know because they

1081
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 2: feel like I think a lot of people feel like

1082
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 2: you're unrelatable because you be like, I don't know how

1083
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,720
Speaker 2: that is, don't know that emotion, don't know how it feels.

1084
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 2: Because a lot of times people look at you because

1085
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 2: you're so beautiful and you're successful. They be like, oh,

1086
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 2: Drea hasn't made she don't go through nothing but you, who.

1087
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,320
Speaker 1: Is my best friend? Can you speak on this? Though?

1088
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 3: When I say that stuff, do I be lying or

1089
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 3: do I be being for real? Like a lot of

1090
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of stuff I just generally

1091
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 3: don't care about. I think it's I'm getting older, I'm

1092
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 3: becoming more emotional, Like I'm starting to be way more

1093
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: emotionally in tuned. I think for a really long time

1094
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 3: I was very detached. So that's why I would always say,

1095
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Speaker 3: it's not coming from a place of like me thinking

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Speaker 3: I'm better and stuff or nothing like that, which is

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Speaker 3: where I've always felt like people misunderstood me. It's not

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Speaker 3: coming from that place. It's just coming from never been

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Speaker 3: through that. It never felt that way because I don't

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Speaker 3: I literally did not used to care about a lot.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's that you've never been through it.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I always say this, it's not about

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Speaker 1: That, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, as somebody on the platform,

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Speaker 1: So how did you navigate? Like? You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So it's not that people would be mad that you

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Speaker 2: didn't go through it. I think it was just like

1113
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 2: how it comes off. But like I said, now you

1114
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Speaker 2: open up a lot more. And because when you say, oh,

1115
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Speaker 2: I've never been through that, it's not that you lying,

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Speaker 2: but it used to come off kind of like judge,

1117
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 2: like that was just how people would perceive it. I'm

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Speaker 2: knowing you, I know you, so I know you're not

1119
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Speaker 2: being judgy, but.

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Speaker 3: Because I don't be caring with and now I feel

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Speaker 1: But it's like, you gotta care to be judge.

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Speaker 2: Right, But what I'm saying is how the audience would

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Speaker 2: then not caring is another thing of like, Okay, you're

1126
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Speaker 1: So even though you can't.

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Speaker 2: Make yourself care about something. But like I said, if

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1130
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Speaker 2: a lot of the people have experienced it, or maybe

1131
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Speaker 2: some people haven't, they don't want to hear. Oh couldn't

1132
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Speaker 1: They don't want to hear that. They would rather hear

1134
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Speaker 1: you be like, oh wait, well I'm.

1135
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Speaker 2: Gonna let her talk on it because honestly, I'm not

1136
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 2: gonna lie to y'all. I've never been through that, so

1137
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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, versus being like, oh, y'all crazy,

1138
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 2: because you know what, black people say.

1139
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Speaker 1: But you know what I feel like too.

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Speaker 3: It was all for at least for me, at least

1141
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Speaker 3: that's the way I look at it.

1142
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Speaker 1: I always felt like I.

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Speaker 3: Wanted, at least wanting to come from a place of like,

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Speaker 3: right you or you should want better for yourself, like

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Speaker 1: Better? Right, So you want better?

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Speaker 2: That sounds better, you should do better, or versus somebody

1149
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Speaker 2: saying what black people say, oh she better than me? Yeah,

1150
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1152
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Speaker 2: mean it like that, but I think that's how people,

1153
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Speaker 2: on definitely Pride.

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Speaker 1: Possibly Wrath. Oh how you be mad? Upset? I read Ooh.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 1: That's real. That's a real self aware moment.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 3: So I have seen so I have seen a post

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Speaker 3: on social media recently where this girl was based saying

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Speaker 3: like a big boundary for her is that her partner

1222
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Speaker 3: can't watch porn. And I saw it and I was

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00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 3: just like, xam you street mmm, because it's just not

1224
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 3: that serious to me, Like I think that if it's excessive, yeah,

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00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 3: that's a little concerning, because it's like if we're in

1226
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Speaker 3: a relationship and you have me, then like, why am

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Speaker 3: I always kitchen you watching porn? I've always I don't

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Speaker 3: think it's nothing wrong with watch I don't think.

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Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with watching porn, but I do feel like, Okay,

1230
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 2: like for me, I feel like you, when you reach

1231
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:39,399
Speaker 2: a certain level of like sexual experience and sexual intelligence

1232
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 2: and emotional intelligence, it shouldn't be something that you're tuned

1233
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Speaker 2: into all day every day or something that you need

1234
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Speaker 2: to like get off or whatever like that. So I'm

1235
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Speaker 2: not gonna say I agree with her because I don't.

1236
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 2: But I can understand it because there'd be some man who, like,

1237
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 2: they'll have sex and they'll go to the bathroom and

1238
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 2: watch porn and still not done yet. That's a little excessive.

1239
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 2: That's when you might be a sexual addict. But I

1240
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 2: also believe like if you can't get in the shower

1241
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 2: and do what you need to do, but you always

1242
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 2: have to look on your phone, it's like are you

1243
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 2: searching for something else? Are you a little more freakier

1244
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 2: than what your partner is giving you? Because me personally,

1245
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 2: I can get off by thinking about something or you know,

1246
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 2: imagining me with my partner or having like if we

1247
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 2: haven't seen each other in a while, I can do

1248
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 2: my due diligence without that. So I can understand what

1249
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 2: she's coming through because there is like a thin line

1250
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 2: between you know, watching porn to like maybe if you're

1251
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 2: doing it, to like hurry up, like, okay, I don't

1252
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Speaker 2: have time to like fantasize about my partner and do

1253
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 2: so if you're doing like I got thirty seconds.

1254
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Speaker 1: To go and do this.

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Speaker 2: Cool, But if it's something like you're always having to

1256
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 2: do I kind of get that a lot of people

1257
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 2: are addicted to porn more than we like to admit,

1258
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Speaker 2: and then more than what people talk about.

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Speaker 1: And I don't even understand it because porn ain't the same,

1260
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: No mo, what do you mean you research? It ain't

1261
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 1: the same no more. Oh my god, I've seen this tweet.

1262
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: I've seen this. I've seen this tweet like three weeks ago.

1263
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:14,399
Speaker 1: This girl was like I was so mad.

1264
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 3: I was trying to find a good porn to watch

1265
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 3: because I wanted to masturbate, and I just gave up

1266
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 3: because I was like, fuck it, I couldn't find it

1267
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 3: the good.

1268
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:21,959
Speaker 1: I wasn't even horny no more.

1269
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Speaker 3: And I agree, Wow, what's wrong with the porn? It's

1270
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 3: just not that good anymore?

1271
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: Like you feel like they be faking. It doesn't seem

1272
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Speaker 1: I feel like they be faking.

1273
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 3: I feel like it's hard to find porns that just

1274
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 3: get straight to the point. I don't want all the

1275
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 3: fucking the themes and the cinematics, Like I don't want

1276
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 3: all of they.

1277
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Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh my god, who did you.

1278
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 3: No for real though, Like it'll start off in the

1279
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 3: backyard with this.

1280
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Speaker 1: With a with a woman watering the lawn whole her

1281
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: whole boody hole out.

1282
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 3: She got on a little skirt, booty hole out, she

1283
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 3: watering the lawn, the grass already dead.

1284
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: Though. Then it's a mailman who.

1285
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 3: Comes back there trying to deliver. He's trying to deliver

1286
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 3: a package.

1287
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: He ain't got no pens. Old this story getting good.

1288
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 3: But then it like will last for like twenty minutes

1289
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 3: before they start fucking. Ain't nobody got time for these?

1290
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 1: Get to the business, you horny?

1291
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 3: Because if I'm putting fast, because who not horny? Who

1292
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 3: not horny? If they looking up a porn? You know

1293
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 3: you know where I'm gonna get down to business. Ain't

1294
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 3: nobody got time to watch all that? It's just not

1295
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like back in the day,

1296
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 3: they used to get straight to it, and they used

1297
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 3: to have that music playing in the back girl.

1298
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: Wow, they just used to be oiled up. Where do

1299
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 1: you go?

1300
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 3: You don't even know if they ain't even put the

1301
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 3: oil on on on camera?

1302
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,959
Speaker 2: They do be ashy, But you know what, you got

1303
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 2: eggs more video, You got eggs okay, but you know what,

1304
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 2: This is why I say I'm gonna always shout her out.

1305
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 2: I don't care what y'all say about her. They be

1306
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 2: bullying her and me being mean to her on Twitter,

1307
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Speaker 2: MS be nasty. I feel like that's why she's so successful.

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Speaker 2: She did her research, she know what to do.

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Speaker 1: She be alled up. I don't care if Bobby please,

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Speaker 1: but what.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying is her pornography looks real. She could be

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Speaker 2: probably getting the worst pen that she's ever gotten, but

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Speaker 2: you will never know. Yeah, it looks like she is

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Speaker 2: really enjoying it. And I really truly believe that is

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Speaker 2: why she's so successful.

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Speaker 1: It's believable. It's straight to the point. I ain't never

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Speaker 1: seen that girl ashy.

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Speaker 2: She be urled up, and so I think a lot

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Speaker 2: of people are they missing the mark on that it's

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Speaker 2: supposed to be a fantasy, y'all not selling a fantasy.

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Speaker 2: Y'all are just doing this to try to pay bills.

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Speaker 2: But we've talked about that before. Stop doing only fans.

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Speaker 2: If you ain't about that life, you gotta get down

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Speaker 2: to the needy greedy. Yeah, if you right, If you're

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Speaker 2: not at the A V AND Awards, isn't that the

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Speaker 2: Porn Star Wards.

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Speaker 1: That's what they called. Is that what it's called. The

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Speaker 1: only reason I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Because horrible, horrible decisions got nominated before. So that's why

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Speaker 2: I know, because no one else news name thank.

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Speaker 1: You because Mandy, And that's why i know. They got

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Speaker 1: nominated twice.

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Speaker 3: Given I'm gonna take up for my leos period solidarity.

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Speaker 2: They have a no, it's a it's a sex podcast,

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Speaker 2: and it's so they got nominated twice. But like I said,

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Speaker 2: if you didn't get nominated for an av you ain't

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Speaker 2: about your bus stand for I don't know. Let me look,

1338
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 2: you're looking it up. Town got her computer. She ready today,

1339
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 2: she got her Google. I said, it's time for a raise.

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Speaker 2: But it is called the AVN, right Adult Video News.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I like that.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel like if you ain't been nominated

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Speaker 2: for an AVN, you ain't about that life. You ain't

1344
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Speaker 2: about that life for real, for real though.

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Speaker 3: I mean, because if you don't do it, do it

1346
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Speaker 3: full throttle, full throttle.

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Speaker 2: But back to the topic, I think there should be

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Speaker 2: a little boundary. I think if you catch somebody watching porn,

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Speaker 2: you're probably watching porn too much.

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Speaker 1: Because there's no reason I should catch you. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's like, what if you having a little me time

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Speaker 3: and then I just bursting the room.

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Speaker 1: I'm there, What are you watching porn? I've caught you

1355
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Speaker 1: watching porn? You you just made that up? Yes you did?

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Speaker 1: Now still have the line?

1357
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Speaker 2: I told you all line is contagious?

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Speaker 1: What was all watching then? Exactly?

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Speaker 2: I do I know?

1360
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Speaker 1: Be beautiful? I'm so full of shit. Be beautiful? Creamp

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Speaker 1: you what you just made that up?

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Speaker 2: What?

1363
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Speaker 1: See? How you be lying?

1364
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Speaker 2: I don't know me personally, I like a little storyline.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't because like, what do I need all these

1367
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 3: four This is not how it happened in real life.

1368
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Speaker 3: I like something that's as really stick as possible.

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Speaker 2: I am weak. Okay, let us know. Do y'all like

1370
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Speaker 2: the storyline porn? Or do y'all like it straight?

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Speaker 1: And are y'all okay with y'all partner watching porn?

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Speaker 5: Or no?

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Speaker 1: Personally, I'll watch a little porn with my knee. Yeah. No,

1374
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Speaker 1: we can watch it together.

1375
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Speaker 2: Like that's not bad either, like if we doing it together.

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Speaker 2: But I think there's a thin line between it being

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Speaker 2: too much and a healthy amount.

1378
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Speaker 3: But I feel like, you know when it's too much though,

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Speaker 3: like if he always watching form.

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Speaker 1: That's why I said, you gotta be watching porn at yeah,

1381
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Speaker 1: for somebody to catch you. That means you like at

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Speaker 1: the dinner table like this on a stake cube.

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Speaker 2: The bop about bowl about bow bow Bow bow bow. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is I don't know

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01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 2: how to say his name. I don't know if he

1434
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 2: just I hate when I get people's day wrong. It's

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Speaker 2: jms N. I don't know if it's like Jamison he

1436
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 2: just took the vowels out, or it's JMSN.

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01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: It's Jamison. Okay. Cool.

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01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 2: So Jamison has a song called soft Spot. Apparently this

1439
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 2: song came out like last year. It is like it

1440
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 2: gives like nineties groove. It's like a nineties groove song,

1441
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 2: but it has like an EDM twist to it.

1442
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Speaker 1: It's so good.

1443
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Speaker 2: So I went into a deep dive of his music

1444
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Speaker 2: and I like it.

1445
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: It gives me like nostalgia.

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01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 2: I like when I hear music that's new and updated,

1447
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 2: but it has that like old.

1448
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: School twist on it.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what a lot of artists are missing

1450
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Speaker 2: these days, and you want to make music that we

1451
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Speaker 2: can listen to thirty years from now. So my bop

1452
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 2: of the week is Jamison soft Spot. You did your

1453
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 2: big one with that one. It's a groove. So if

1454
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 2: you like the EDM but it got like a hip

1455
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 2: hop type of beat to it, stuff like that, you'll

1456
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 2: like this song.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 3: So my real bip of the week, I won't say wow,

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01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 3: because I won't.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you of the show.

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Speaker 3: But I was on title earlier today and the Trilogy album.

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01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 3: It's like the anniversary for the Trilogy album really yeah

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01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 3: the weekend, and so I was listening to it on

1464
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 3: the way here and I was like, oh my god,

1465
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 3: this album was so good and it was just so

1466
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 3: nostalgic because it just brought me back to my college

1467
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 3: day and I really used to love that album. I mean,

1468
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 3: shout out for the weekend. He's still doing his things,

1469
01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: but but yeah, it was just so nostalgic. So that

1470
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 3: used to be my favorite album and one the week

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Speaker 3: I think when I was like a sophomore in college.

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Speaker 1: You know what whole eye went down the other day?

1473
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 1: The Dream, Oh yeah, it's.

1474
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 2: The Dream album with all his songs were like flowing

1475
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 2: into one song.

1476
01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: To the other. Oh my god, Oh my god.

1477
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Speaker 2: The Dream was still the song that was such a

1478
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Speaker 2: good album, the first one. All of them are good,

1479
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Speaker 2: but that first album hit me a little different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, what's up y'all? As Your Girl XP

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Speaker 3: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicle.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be speeling a little tea. Oh my god, No,

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Speaker 1: you didn't.

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Speaker 3: God, everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be

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Speaker 3: doing it right here on Patreon.

1495
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Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday,

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Speaker 2: and it's gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds

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Speaker 2: has grown into its own little entity when we're gonna

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Speaker 1: Here at poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September. Second,

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Speaker 2: Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor our Minds

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Speaker 2: called Item of the Week. But do you have a

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Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here period.

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Speaker 3: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

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Speaker 1: We love to some more. A small business man and

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Speaker 1: a black business said that, but I mean smaade. Any

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01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:51,839
Speaker 1: businesses welcome.

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01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,680
Speaker 2: Do we have an item of the week this week?

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01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 2: You got anything you want to talk about for the

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01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 2: item of the week.

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01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 1: No, I don't have an item of the week this week. Okay, period.

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01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 1: We I don't get into pour your heart out.

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01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,560
Speaker 3: So of course, if you have any questions or testimonials,

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01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 3: you can always send them to ask poor Minds at

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01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 3: gmail dot com. That's askpoure in my nbs at gmail

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01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 3: dot com. Send us your questions, send us your testimonials.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 3: So question number one Heylex Andrea keep me anonymous. I'm

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01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:25,600
Speaker 3: a twenty one year old female and I met this

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01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 3: man at my job when I was nineteen and he

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01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 3: was thirty three. At the time, I was in my

1539
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 3: little phase of doing me and talking to whoever I

1540
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 3: wanted or you know, other things. We started talking, I

1541
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 3: began staying over at his place, and eventually we got

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01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 3: into a relationship.

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01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 1: Big mistake.

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01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 3: From there, everything started going downhill, and I realized he

1545
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,280
Speaker 3: was just a broke boom who was way too emotional

1546
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 3: and thought everything was supposed to go his way, never

1547
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 3: admitting he was wrong.

1548
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm different.

1549
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 3: I'm a hustler and my bills are always paid, but

1550
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 3: being young and dumb, I stayed with him and tried

1551
01:10:58,360 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 3: to help him get back on his feet. When he

1552
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 3: his job, got an eviction notice and had his car repossess,

1553
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,799
Speaker 3: I started listening to y'all, and y'all opened my eyes

1554
01:11:06,840 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 3: for real.

1555
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 1: I realized that kind of situation is.

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01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:12,320
Speaker 3: For the birds, and I deserve someone who could provide

1557
01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 3: and give me the lifestyle I deserve. So I lift

1558
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:17,639
Speaker 3: his ass with no remorse. Thank y'all for that. Keep

1559
01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 3: doing your thing, love you and see. And that's why

1560
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 3: I used to be telling y'all couldn't be me, because

1561
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 3: it shouldn't be you neither.

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01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 2: And I will say this for the young girls. There's

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01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 2: no reason a thirty three year old man you can

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01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 2: be coming at a nineteen year old.

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01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 1: And you know why, you have to really look at

1566
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: a man's patterns.

1567
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 2: If there's a thirty something year old man trying to

1568
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: date a teenager, it's because he cannot do what it

1569
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:44,799
Speaker 2: needs to do to date a thirty three year old age.

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01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yeah, I said it. If a man is.

1571
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 2: Dating a woman that's extremely young, like, it's different. If

1572
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:54,640
Speaker 2: it's like a twenty eight year old woman and like,

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01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 2: you know, a late thirties early forties man.

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01:11:58,720 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 1: But if you have a.

1575
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 2: Man who is dating like twenty five and under and

1576
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 2: he's like, well, in his late thirties and forties, it's

1577
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 2: because they can't do what needs to be done for

1578
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 2: a woman his age. So y'all have to pay attention

1579
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 2: to that, because honestly, now being older, like when I

1580
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 2: was younger, though, my mom instilled that in me. She

1581
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 2: was like, you need to ask yourself, why is this

1582
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 2: man not dating women his age?

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01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 1: Why? Period?

1584
01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 3: I agree, I feel like you better than that, queen,

1585
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 3: and she learned, Hey.

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01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,680
Speaker 2: Y'all, I'm an almost twenty four year old female. I've

1587
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:37,680
Speaker 2: been a business owner for six years and have been

1588
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:40,599
Speaker 2: always been on top of my stuff and very mature

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01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 2: for my age. I recently started bartending, and the night

1590
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 2: life is no joke. I'm young, cute, and know how

1591
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 2: to get my tips out of my customers, which requires

1592
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:51,920
Speaker 2: flirting here and there, even though I'm not interested most

1593
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 2: of the time. There are guys that I meet outside

1594
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 2: of the club that I that find out that I bartend,

1595
01:12:57,640 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 2: and I feel like they think I'm just gonna go

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01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:01,360
Speaker 2: for anything because of where I work. And how we

1597
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 2: dress at work. Even the guy I was talking to

1598
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 2: for almost two years started acting different towards me because

1599
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:09,720
Speaker 2: he saw all the attention I was getting. How did

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01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 2: y'all handle that? As bartenders? I don't want to be

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01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:14,479
Speaker 2: looked at the wrong way because this is just my job.

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01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: What do you have to say? Again? That goes into

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01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 1: what we were talking about earlier.

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01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 2: Any man that's trying to get in the way of

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01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 2: your money because he feels jealous and x y Z Okay, well,

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01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 2: if I quit, you gonna pay my bills? I just

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01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, I was a maturity level too.

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01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 3: I think a man who is not trying to help

1610
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,200
Speaker 3: you get out of the situation at you in and

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01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 3: he disapprove of his.

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01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:36,160
Speaker 1: Opinion don't matter.

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01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:38,840
Speaker 3: You got bills to pay and you have things that

1614
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:41,240
Speaker 3: you need to do with your money. And so it's like,

1615
01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 3: if you're not gonna help me start the business, or

1616
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,599
Speaker 3: if you're not gonna fund my life until the business

1617
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:49,280
Speaker 3: takes off, you can't tell me what you don't want

1618
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 3: me to do, especially if it's not a ring on

1619
01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:55,560
Speaker 3: my fence. Come on, it's different if somebody is your husband.

1620
01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 3: If this is your husband, then that's different. But like

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01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to stop living my life and stop doing.

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01:14:01,400 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 3: What I'm doing is paying my views off the hopes

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01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 3: and dreams that you hopefully are the one and you

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01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,200
Speaker 3: might pick me, right.

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01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 2: I know. And I also think like absolutely night when

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01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 2: you're young and your bar sayding, you said you have

1627
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 2: your own business, so he obviously knows that this is

1628
01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 2: not like a permanent thing.

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01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah you know.

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01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 2: So I feel like if he doesn't see the value

1631
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 2: in you outside of what you do for a living,

1632
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:28,120
Speaker 2: because my job doesn't define me. So if any man

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01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 2: is taking my job that seriously, I don't care what

1634
01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 2: I do. It's like, are you liking me for me?

1635
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:35,559
Speaker 2: Or are you judging me by off of what I do?

1636
01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 2: So that also says an important thing. So I think

1637
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 2: that how to navigate through this situation is to focus

1638
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,920
Speaker 2: on you. Because guess what, a man ain't gonna like

1639
01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:45,559
Speaker 2: we said earlier, a man ain gonna quit his job

1640
01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 2: because of what you think or how you feel.

1641
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:48,759
Speaker 1: He gonna go and get that money.

1642
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 2: So until you find somebody that is willing to accept

1643
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 2: your grind, your hustle, your ambition, your job, girl, move on.

1644
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:57,560
Speaker 1: And then two just always.

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01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 3: Be be aware of people who will meet you doing

1646
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 3: something and then they try to change it about you.

1647
01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:07,519
Speaker 3: Come on, I try to make you feel bad about it,

1648
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 3: like you already knew when I met you. This is

1649
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:11,880
Speaker 3: what I was doing. This was my job. Like now

1650
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 3: you got an issue with and now you want me

1651
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:15,360
Speaker 3: to change it. This is what I was already doing.

1652
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,639
Speaker 3: You had the option to just not fuck with me.

1653
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 1: Why did you ever have that problem?

1654
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 2: The first place that I worked where you used to

1655
01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 2: work at you having booty shorts on.

1656
01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 3: But I also was older coming into bartending, so some

1657
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,479
Speaker 3: things I would automatically just say no to.

1658
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 1: I personally wasn't comfortable.

1659
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:38,360
Speaker 3: But if I had started bartending when I was younger,

1660
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:39,679
Speaker 3: I would have definitely been outside.

1661
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:43,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, I'm not as I used to have.

1662
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 2: We literally used to work in throngs. I'm not kidding.

1663
01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 2: But when I moved to Atlanta, I'm not gonna lie.

1664
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 2: They used to try to make me wear the oufice.

1665
01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 2: I said, bro, I'm too old for the year, like

1666
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:54,160
Speaker 2: twenty eight at the time, twenty nine. Real quick, before

1667
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:57,040
Speaker 2: we close this out, y'all know, Bernie's just did her

1668
01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 2: interview with Joe Budd. Joe bud, and I have to

1669
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:01,800
Speaker 2: ask y'all this so I won't know how y'all feel.

1670
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,280
Speaker 2: Because she said on a slow night she would make

1671
01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 2: thirty bands. On a busy night she would do seventy

1672
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 2: k How do you feel about that? Dread what you

1673
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 2: think because they some people been like I'll say this

1674
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 2: as a bartender. During that time, every strip club in

1675
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:20,680
Speaker 2: the every black strip club in the nation tried to

1676
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 2: model themselves after Starlet's them Starlett's girl it was Gracie.

1677
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:26,639
Speaker 1: Oh what's that.

1678
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 2: Girl named Lonnie Blair, Lady Blair or something Bernice. It

1679
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:35,280
Speaker 2: was like the Fine Girls in NYC. And every black

1680
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 2: strip club in America had modeled their strip club how

1681
01:16:39,160 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 2: it was set up like startenders because they were making

1682
01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:43,960
Speaker 2: so much money. I do not think Bernice was capping.

1683
01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 2: I really don't. I really do not think she was

1684
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 2: capping because a lot of people were like, oh, she capping.

1685
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 2: But if you were in the industry at this time,

1686
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 2: even me, I was working at Dreams, now, I wasn't

1687
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 2: making nowhere near thirty k night on.

1688
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: A slow night, because that would have been babe.

1689
01:16:58,280 --> 01:16:59,679
Speaker 2: If I would have made thirty k whe n, I would

1690
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,040
Speaker 2: have probably thinking that I made some real, real money.

1691
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 2: But I will say working at Dreams in Houston, I

1692
01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:07,640
Speaker 2: used to make a lot of money. I used to

1693
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:10,120
Speaker 2: make a lot of money. So being in New York

1694
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 2: where the money is obviously different. When she said that story,

1695
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:17,400
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, that makes sense. That makes sense

1696
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 2: to me. I don't know how y'all feel about it.

1697
01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 3: I just feel like she didn't say she was working

1698
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 3: every day. But I don't understand why that's not believable

1699
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:29,360
Speaker 3: because she wasn't working every day. She didn't say I

1700
01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:31,599
Speaker 3: was going to work every day make it thirty thousand dollars.

1701
01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 3: I think in New York at the time when they

1702
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 3: used to be barsending, I could believe she made that

1703
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 3: some nights. I don't think it was an every night thing, right,

1704
01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 3: but I think she was making it on some nights.

1705
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 3: I do like I used to go bartend in New

1706
01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 3: York on occasion, Like I did it probably like three

1707
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:50,600
Speaker 3: or four times, and I made like thousands of dollars

1708
01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:52,360
Speaker 3: in one night, you know what I mean. And I

1709
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 3: wasn't even like a popular girl out there in New York.

1710
01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:58,960
Speaker 3: I wasn't even as popular on social media as Bernice was.

1711
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 1: So I undred percent believed it.

1712
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like but I feel like you also had to

1713
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 3: kind of be in like night life back in those

1714
01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 3: days and at that time to like really understand how

1715
01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 3: much money girls was making. Like even here in Atlanta,

1716
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 3: at the clubs I used to work at that weren't

1717
01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 3: even strip clubs.

1718
01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:19,240
Speaker 1: We used to make a lot of money on the weekends.

1719
01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:20,720
Speaker 3: Like when I used to work at Madusa, we used

1720
01:18:20,720 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 3: to make a lot of money on Sundays because Sundays

1721
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 3: was the day I would make my whole rent in

1722
01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 3: one night, literally, especially if I worked service bar. So

1723
01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 3: I just feel like it sounds crazy to people, but

1724
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:37,600
Speaker 3: you have to understand, like how reckless dudes used to

1725
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 3: be spending money backed in I think people is way

1726
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:43,599
Speaker 3: more tight these days, Like guys, is not even right

1727
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 3: now the girls say Starless is not making thirty thousand

1728
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 3: dollars a night.

1729
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: They not, But I mean correct, this was like during

1730
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: the era. It was a little bit after.

1731
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:56,120
Speaker 2: But y'all have to realize, like women who were dancers

1732
01:18:56,200 --> 01:18:59,360
Speaker 2: were becoming famous too, Like this was kind of like

1733
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:00,760
Speaker 2: during that Black China era.

1734
01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:03,520
Speaker 1: What was the other Girl Mazani?

1735
01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:10,760
Speaker 2: This was like an era where like dancers were becoming famous,

1736
01:19:11,120 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 2: you know, like Amber Rolls was a dancer, you know,

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01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:15,280
Speaker 2: then she started dating Kanye like the strip club was

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01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:17,360
Speaker 2: the place to be. So I don't think she was

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01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:18,679
Speaker 2: capping at all what you think time.

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01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 3: I don't think she was capping at all, especially like

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01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:24,719
Speaker 3: you just said, in that time, people were throwing money.

1742
01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 3: You have bartenders and dancers and all that stuff. What

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01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:29,080
Speaker 3: I thought was funny though, is that Joe said that

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01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 3: she made the worst drinks though, and that's fully believable.

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01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:35,680
Speaker 1: That's too. I mean when we worked we worked at

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01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:38,600
Speaker 1: from time I was a bartender.

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01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 2: Bartender. Them holes could not make let me not call

1748
01:19:42,560 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 2: them hose. It's just the drink talking my bad. Them

1749
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 2: girls could not make drinks at all. But they're not

1750
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:57,679
Speaker 2: there for the drinks. They there to be fine. Yeah,

1751
01:19:57,680 --> 01:20:00,160
Speaker 2: that was funny, But that's why I don't think think

1752
01:20:00,520 --> 01:20:02,639
Speaker 2: Joe had put up an argument with her, because he used.

1753
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:03,879
Speaker 1: To be in there so he used to see.

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01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 2: That's why he didn't like correct her be like okay,

1755
01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:10,400
Speaker 2: you capt because he'd probably been in there some nice where.

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01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:12,920
Speaker 3: He's why I think he did say that he wasn't

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01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 3: believing it.

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01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:15,959
Speaker 1: I didn't finish the club.

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01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I don't think it was like he

1760
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:20,400
Speaker 3: was saying, she was cap I just he was like definitely,

1761
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 3: like for real.

1762
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, he.

1763
01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:25,680
Speaker 3: Used to be in the club, so I think he know,

1764
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:28,000
Speaker 3: like you can make that kind of money in the club.

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01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1766
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:34,280
Speaker 3: I just think, but here I go. People always feel

1767
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 3: like I'm being mean. People just need to mind the

1768
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:40,760
Speaker 3: own pockey's worry about your hockeys. Like people, why do

1769
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:42,439
Speaker 3: you think that lady didn't make that kind of money

1770
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 3: if that's what she said she made, Like, why is

1771
01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 3: he not believable? She doesn't in my opinion, she doesn't

1772
01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:50,840
Speaker 3: look to me like somebody who couldn't have made that

1773
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:53,920
Speaker 3: kind of money and who isn't living the lifestyle reflective

1774
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 3: of she made that kind of money years bad.

1775
01:20:56,680 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie that lady been. She bought a house,

1776
01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:02,120
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And she lives on that side

1777
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:02,839
Speaker 1: of the States.

1778
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:05,080
Speaker 2: It's not cheap to buy a house out there, yeah,

1779
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 2: and she've been having a house for a long time.

1780
01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:09,920
Speaker 2: To be a homeowner, you gotta be making a lot

1781
01:21:09,960 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 2: of money, especially if you're living in that Jersey New

1782
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:12,599
Speaker 2: York area.

1783
01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 1: But it's the internet where people love to be.

1784
01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:20,360
Speaker 2: So shout out to Bernice and her thirty k seventy

1785
01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:21,000
Speaker 2: K nights.

1786
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: I believe you, Queen.

1787
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:25,880
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1788
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:30,720
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01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:31,679
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1790
01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:36,240
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1791
01:21:36,240 --> 01:21:37,599
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1792
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:40,519
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1793
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:42,920
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1794
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:44,559
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1795
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:48,600
Speaker 2: Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to

1796
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:53,840
Speaker 2: poor Minds. It's pou are underscore in my nds. Y'all

1797
01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 2: are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see

1798
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,719
Speaker 2: at poor Minds with no underscore, that is at fake page.

1799
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,320
Speaker 2: Do not I follow that page. Okay, they blocked me

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01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 2: Andrea and the pour Mines page on both so we

1801
01:22:06,040 --> 01:22:11,800
Speaker 2: only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok and it's

1802
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:14,639
Speaker 2: p O you are underscore in my nds, all.

1803
01:22:14,640 --> 01:22:17,880
Speaker 1: Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page on

1804
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 1: the Facebook page. It's our face.

1805
01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:23,040
Speaker 3: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

1806
01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:25,599
Speaker 3: least amount of file. So if you're on Facebook one

1807
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 3: that's ours got the least amount of file.

1808
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:30,800
Speaker 1: But one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

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01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:33,640
Speaker 2: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

1810
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:36,760
Speaker 2: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English? Because

1811
01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:38,799
Speaker 2: their captures are like bumba claude?

1812
01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:43,200
Speaker 1: Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No?

1813
01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:48,639
Speaker 2: Check answer below block block pull pull pull.

1814
01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 1: Off, Like that's literally what the captions. I'm like you,

1815
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:54,559
Speaker 1: what that DG is? Bumba claude, bumba claude.

1816
01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:58,800
Speaker 2: We shouldn't have left you without I don't beat the

1817
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 2: step to step to step two step two?

1818
01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 1: Yo, hey baby girl, sing.

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01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:07,639
Speaker 4: What you do to look it to me? What would

1820
01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 4: you say to have your way?

1821
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 1: Would you give up?

1822
01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 4: Or try again? If I hesitate to let you win? Now?

1823
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:18,000
Speaker 6: Would you be yourself or play your role? Tell all

1824
01:23:18,080 --> 01:23:20,800
Speaker 6: the boys I keep it low. If I say no,

1825
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:24,280
Speaker 6: would just turn away? And if play me off.

1826
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 1: I will just stay up.

1827
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:30,439
Speaker 4: The first you don't succeed, then does yourself off and

1828
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 4: try again.

1829
01:23:32,000 --> 01:23:34,799
Speaker 5: You can dust it off and try again, try again,

1830
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:40,000
Speaker 5: because if at first you don't succeeed, hey, you can

1831
01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:41,559
Speaker 5: nothing off and try again.

1832
01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:43,959
Speaker 4: Just yourself off and try.

1833
01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 1: Again, try again, I'm into you.

1834
01:23:47,320 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 4: You into me, but I can't let it go.

1835
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:52,720
Speaker 1: So he's a league not till I see where this

1836
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,600
Speaker 1: could be be turn it e or just so we

1837
01:23:56,040 --> 01:23:58,479
Speaker 1: you know our chemistry is off the chain.

1838
01:23:58,840 --> 01:23:59,799
Speaker 4: It's perfect now.

1839
01:24:00,200 --> 01:24:03,160
Speaker 1: But will it change? They say that, yes, they say't

1840
01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:05,800
Speaker 1: a no, Just do your think. We'll see how it

1841
01:24:05,920 --> 01:24:06,400
Speaker 1: goes up.

1842
01:24:07,040 --> 01:24:12,559
Speaker 5: You don't succeed, you can do falth and try again.

1843
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:16,080
Speaker 5: You can nuss it off and try again. Try you again.

1844
01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 5: If at first you don't succeed, does your self ful?

1845
01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:25,439
Speaker 5: Try again? You can nust it off and try again,

1846
01:24:25,720 --> 01:24:28,519
Speaker 5: try again, thro.

1847
01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:29,080
Speaker 2: It all O.

1848
01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:31,519
Speaker 4: Wait, I may be shy on the first day. What

1849
01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:32,519
Speaker 4: about the next date?

1850
01:24:32,680 --> 01:24:39,880
Speaker 6: Huh, you don't want to do it all over a?

1851
01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 1: What about the next date?

1852
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:52,639
Speaker 5: And if at first you don't succeed, then that's yourself

1853
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:53,840
Speaker 5: off and try again.

1854
01:24:54,600 --> 01:24:55,640
Speaker 4: You can dust it off and.

1855
01:24:55,760 --> 01:24:57,720
Speaker 1: Try again, try again.

1856
01:24:57,880 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 5: Because if at first you don't succeed, you couldn't, that's

1857
01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 5: it off and try again.

1858
01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:11,240
Speaker 4: That's yourself off and try again, try again. Oh I

1859
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:15,120
Speaker 4: don't know that choreography. Oh that was a little too.

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01:25:16,520 --> 01:25:20,360
Speaker 1: Shut out to alah with a little one too. I

1861
01:25:20,360 --> 01:25:26,040
Speaker 1: think they went like something like this that's all I know.

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01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:26,680
Speaker 1: That's all I know.