WEBVTT - Ep146: Diaper Bondage feat. Diaper Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, horror Hive, I wanted to make the announcement again.

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<v Speaker 1>I know some of you already know because y'all are

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<v Speaker 1>making your payments now, but we will be in the

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<v Speaker 1>grill Jamaica for Memorial Day weekend for Moca Fest a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of you guys. Actually, I actually have been getting

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<v Speaker 1>some some tweets lately talking about where are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>dropping the tickets for Jamaica. So just so you guys know,

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<v Speaker 1>we are doing a live show in Jamaica on top

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<v Speaker 1>of partying with you guys for the week. But the

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<v Speaker 1>live show comes with the party package. So go to

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<v Speaker 1>Moca fest dot com right now and use promo code

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<v Speaker 1>horrible that's w h O R E I B L

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<v Speaker 1>E and say fifty dollars on your package. Now, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can come in groups of one, twos, and threes.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be a good as fun ass TOWRK tactic

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<v Speaker 1>as time. I'm excited. I did actually get to experience

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<v Speaker 1>Moca Fest and can't coon this year, and boy, the

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<v Speaker 1>people are very good looking. So I'm hoping that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't funk fans because that's what I don't want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm excited to see all of you guys in Jamaica.

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<v Speaker 1>Get your tickets now again. That's at Moca Fest dot

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<v Speaker 1>Com promo code Horrible Horrible Decisions Live. You guys have

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<v Speaker 1>been hearing us talk about it on every fucking episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not talking no more. I'm gonna yell it

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<v Speaker 1>at you. January bitch, you need to be at the

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<v Speaker 1>first motherfucking goddamn show. On the eighteenth, We're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>in Detroit. I am so excited to gamble. I know

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<v Speaker 1>I keep talking about that. Yeah, we have to do

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<v Speaker 1>a show. Yeah, we have to sell merch. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing the me and greet, But Monday, I'm ready

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<v Speaker 1>to gamble. So come to the show and then watch

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<v Speaker 1>me blow all my money and be in tears. Cleveland.

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<v Speaker 1>What day are we gonna be there, Mandy, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>the smartest of the two. Okay, Well, hell be in

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<v Speaker 1>Cleveland on the one and then we are ending the

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<v Speaker 1>Midwest in Chicago on this that week, we are also

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<v Speaker 1>doing New York City, so fay on we will be

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<v Speaker 1>at Sony Hall. And if you guys saw that we

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<v Speaker 1>hold out Friday, we have news for you. If you

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<v Speaker 1>have not seen on our social Media's we added a

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<v Speaker 1>second show, so New York City, get your tickets now

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<v Speaker 1>for January is on the Vain Team five Sony Hall,

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<v Speaker 1>Get your tickets now. We're looking forward to meeting and

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<v Speaker 1>seeing you all and putting on a hell of a show.

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<v Speaker 1>Get your tickets now at Horrible Decisions dot Com. Battle like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't like, you know what I'm saying. If

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't on this coat, well day, I guess Texas

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<v Speaker 1>and the Coach it's in the middle. We're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>in Dallas, bitch, go to Horrible Decisions dot Com. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. And then we're in Houston on the three.

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<v Speaker 1>So again, we're looking forward to seeing you guys in Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>the Midwest, New York and stay tuned because in January

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<v Speaker 1>we will be posting tickets for the Southeast and the West,

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<v Speaker 1>So get your tickets now Horrible Decisions dot Com. Now

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<v Speaker 1>let's get on with the shop. We hear y'all, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've been before we started this week's episode of Horrible Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to give all of you guys a motherfucker

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<v Speaker 1>Mary chrismas. Um. I know it's the twenty three, but

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<v Speaker 1>y'all gonna listen through because they none of y'all hoo

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna be at work for the ones who do

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<v Speaker 1>have jobs. So Mary Chrismas, except for the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>work in retail, I'm sorry for you. I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pray for you because bitch I worked in retail when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in high school, and that she's not fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, this is not Black Friday. I've cried real

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<v Speaker 1>tears on Black Friday and a customer was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you get together. But here I am bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm am a co worker crime Black Friday. So there's that. Um. Anyways, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>did see girl Mandy v a k A full Court

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<v Speaker 1>Pumps a k A peg the Stadion a k A.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody added Peggan good um, and you know I'm that

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<v Speaker 1>bitch and I'm sitting next to my co host, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wheezy. I'm terrified you guys, this is one of

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<v Speaker 1>my scary episodes. I'm like, oh, ship, it's a dude

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<v Speaker 1>off the internet, monniga. No, it's funny. Like I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking to myself this morning, I know you hit both

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<v Speaker 1>me and Mandy up and I was like, Yo, this

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be one of our super interesting episodes

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<v Speaker 1>and probably a fan favorite because the essence of Horrible

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<v Speaker 1>Decisions is to interview people about their kinks and somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>around the way. You know, we get influencers, we get

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<v Speaker 1>other podcasters, but this is really exciting ship because it's

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<v Speaker 1>someone that lives in the stuff that we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>every week. And even though I think this is nuts,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot wait for you to change my mind. Although

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<v Speaker 1>we are an anti kink shaming podcast, but she's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say she did the same as a photographer.

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<v Speaker 1>Find you. Shout out to all the foot lovers. Jesus Christ,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be having a black people when I go on

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<v Speaker 1>lives now. They're like, but let me see your feet though,

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<v Speaker 1>But no, I just want to hear talking about Bob.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard yourself talking about blood? Um? I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>what I wouldn't do blow, but I'm not. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nasty. I mean calling people weirdos. It's just nasty.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it's cool for us to be Nancy,

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<v Speaker 1>but you Nancy, it's fuck calling the weirdows. You can

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<v Speaker 1>take it as shame both. I love to tease about shape.

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<v Speaker 1>If you thought you weren't gonna be teas on the slot.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're in the wrong place, baby, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you think I ain't got the fucking baby jokes bits

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<v Speaker 1>on the baby, get ready for it the whole fucking time.

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<v Speaker 1>But y'all know, on my commute here, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to like three episodes, So I did my

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<v Speaker 1>homework good, I expect. Do you wet your wife? Have

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<v Speaker 1>you listened to anything before in your way? Um? Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I listened to like two episodes on the

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<v Speaker 1>way here. But um, when normal listeners to you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>So I agree, who were jokes? And everything I understanding

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<v Speaker 1>come from a good place, isn't already jokes on you?

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<v Speaker 1>So I got on live on the Horrible Decisions page

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm letting people know the guests that we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have for December. So I brought up, um Corey, shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to the pastor who came onto Horrible Decisions this

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<v Speaker 1>month wonderful episode, and I talked about we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a guy who wears diapers. Little did I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I started talking about my thoughts and it was in

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<v Speaker 1>the room They're like, wait, diaper boys. The audience has

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<v Speaker 1>already started like questioning and I was like, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>taking some of your questions and make sure I asked

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<v Speaker 1>them when he comes on the show. So I am

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<v Speaker 1>really glad to have you. I'm glad to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the holiday season. It's just crazy because you

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<v Speaker 1>look normal, but I know it's in there. That's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the that's one of the best things about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's one of the reasons I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>be on the show. Not only like Nicka has a

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<v Speaker 1>Nike sweater on, like once again, you will never know,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's that's the essence of a kink and fetish.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, everyone always wants to take a kink or

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<v Speaker 1>a fetish and they want to throw an explanation on

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<v Speaker 1>top of it. They wanted people generally that can't understand

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<v Speaker 1>fetishes or sexual kinks, right. They feel like this has

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<v Speaker 1>to have came from trauma, from something exactly, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. So everybody's gonna think your ship was

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<v Speaker 1>wet all your life. They're gonna be like, damn, nobody

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<v Speaker 1>ever changes. Yeah, no, I definitely want to get into

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<v Speaker 1>into that. And I put that question down, Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we can we can. I was gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>a quick catch up. Um we as a rant I.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't really talked much about my love life. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I have on our Patreon episodes, I've opened up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more. Um. It's funny because I am

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<v Speaker 1>currently talking to a scientist ironically, Um, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe in science computer science. So that was getting on

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<v Speaker 1>me because they like Dann, he'd being he'd be caring

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<v Speaker 1>computer viruses and ship in a computer lab. What you got,

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<v Speaker 1>what you got, what you got to say? So do

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<v Speaker 1>you be talking about about science? So listen, the crazy

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<v Speaker 1>thing is not so he No, I don't believe it, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so I swear the guy. So we'd be talking and

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<v Speaker 1>yet we were drunk and we we were like around seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>the crazy thing is like and he's into like these

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<v Speaker 1>Beyond burgers and I think we did talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>on a Patroon episode. So I'll be like like eating

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<v Speaker 1>science and ship. So I get on him about that

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like vegan. It ain't even meet so like

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's cute. He's very educated. Um, No, kids were

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<v Speaker 1>the same age, So we're bonding. I do have a

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<v Speaker 1>flight already to go see him next month. Um, so

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be spending maybe a weekend in the cabins. But

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<v Speaker 1>I did also just start me talking to this other guy. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's local. He's in New York. And it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't really been looking for anyone, and literally,

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<v Speaker 1>in our first conversation, he's sounded like me everything I've

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<v Speaker 1>been telling my friends I want or don't want from

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<v Speaker 1>just talking to someone or dating. He came out and said,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's big on consistency, he's big on seeing each

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<v Speaker 1>other when we can. His schedule is also very busy. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so both of us travel a lot, so it's just

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<v Speaker 1>us making time. He is older, a decade older. But

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<v Speaker 1>but he was like, you know what, I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>you forget my age. So I'm like, I bet we

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<v Speaker 1>can do that. Um So yeah, so right now I

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<v Speaker 1>am talking to the two guys scientists. Bay is PhD.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I coined him. Scientist is my age. Um. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the new guy, I gotta I gotta come up

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<v Speaker 1>with a nickname right right now, I'll call him Aries

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<v Speaker 1>because that was our joke. He said he's an aries,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, I never met one of them. That's

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't know that's his sign. It's Aria, y'all know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe in that shit either, U. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like we're just funny. And I told him, I was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never met no areas. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what the niggas be, like, so you're gonna represent for

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<v Speaker 1>the whole area's nation, But I don't believe in that. April,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what oh MARCHI April Okay, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got no niggas in the months, um, so

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<v Speaker 1>at least he'll get what I um. But yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of like my dating life right now. Still

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<v Speaker 1>no sex um and seven won't be going into with me.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's cut off and no for sure. Like and

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<v Speaker 1>every time I cut him off before, I got like

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<v Speaker 1>into this little vibe like oh but if he hit me, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go get him some plussy um. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>not interested in him, like I see his pictures. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to suck his dick for twenty minutes like

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<v Speaker 1>I used to. I'm like, yeah, no, this this twenty years,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years, um, this seven years of fucking with him

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of it's come to his end. You just

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<v Speaker 1>woke up one day. I'm just like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just felt like he had it real easy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be my niggas don't have it easy with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the easiest person, and he just had it

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<v Speaker 1>real easy and he just ain't act right. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he took. He took how easy I gave it to him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for that's what it is. Yes, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>nigga and I'm not nothing that, but that's what I'm like. Soft,

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<v Speaker 1>but like who I was seven years ago and then

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<v Speaker 1>who I am now. So sometimes he's still becoming at

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<v Speaker 1>me like, um, you know the bitch living with two roommates,

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<v Speaker 1>going to school, living off financial aid and you know what, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no nigga, Like I'm I'm kind of lit now, so

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<v Speaker 1>you you gotta be act accordingly like all my other

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<v Speaker 1>holes who call me superstar and like gass me he

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<v Speaker 1>superstar homes and they and they still gass me boy,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead about called Cassidy. So, like I've said on

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast before, I do like to be the most

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<v Speaker 1>hood person in my building. That's just something that makes

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<v Speaker 1>me know I'm in the right place when I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>ghetto bitch of the building, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>because I can't have nobody it's like on top like

0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:38.960
<v Speaker 1>above me. Now, so because of that, most people stay

0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:40.520
<v Speaker 1>out of my fucking way. They see me and they

0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:42.280
<v Speaker 1>kind of like be overboard with like the nice how

0:12:42.320 --> 0:12:44.200
<v Speaker 1>are you? But I'm also the only like black person

0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:48.200
<v Speaker 1>in building. So underneath me, you know, sund travels up

0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:53.079
<v Speaker 1>there is a woman who I thought it was a hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>It is not. She just has so much to sing

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<v Speaker 1>about and it's not good. Um it's show tunes. Um

0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:08.000
<v Speaker 1>it's been Atlantis Morisset. I really like Atlantis. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know, like just but I could tell if by

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<v Speaker 1>like the road like some Broadway ship, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. But I know to me doing but um,

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<v Speaker 1>specifically today I had it with this whole she sang

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<v Speaker 1>this song I think it was. Was it Michelle Branch

0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:43.880
<v Speaker 1>because you're wear to me, so it was really, but

0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:46.960
<v Speaker 1>we're so fucking bad. I was like, you know what,

0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be like a dream crusher, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. But someone had to crush my

0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:54.520
<v Speaker 1>dreams before. Like there were a lot of things I

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<v Speaker 1>used to want to do that I wasn't set out

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<v Speaker 1>to do. And I said this on my Graham, like

0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.360
<v Speaker 1>I went to school for journalism. Was it really did that?

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<v Speaker 1>And someone hadn't let me know. So I was like,

0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I need to do this for her. It's not like

0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm one of her friends. So I feel like if

0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:13.679
<v Speaker 1>I do it, what what's she gonna do get mad

0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:15.880
<v Speaker 1>at me? And I already know when I left her

0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:18.040
<v Speaker 1>apartment today, I already know for a fact she called

0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.880
<v Speaker 1>one of her friends like this fucking black horror upstairs.

0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:23.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she's black, and she looks like

0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:26.240
<v Speaker 1>it maybe Latina. I don't know. I could tell you

0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:28.800
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what she said. I went down there. I

0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, Hey, this is really awkward and I'm sorry

0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:35.720
<v Speaker 1>that I have to do this. Oh my god, you

0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:45.240
<v Speaker 1>started out, Yes I did. Why because what's he immediately starting? Alright?

0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Because yo uneasy for me? Because I had a neighbor

0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:52.800
<v Speaker 1>come to my door, so I want to hear how

0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:55.520
<v Speaker 1>we had the same We have the same bedroom, it's

0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:57.880
<v Speaker 1>the same layout. So she sings in the bedroom and

0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I can hear it almost. It really woke me up

0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:02.560
<v Speaker 1>this morning and I was like this is to know

0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:06.640
<v Speaker 1>and bro if I could hear the lyrics clearly and

0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.280
<v Speaker 1>absolutely mad. So I went downstairs. I was like, listen

0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:10.800
<v Speaker 1>and she had to swile on her face to this

0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:12.960
<v Speaker 1>made me feel bad. She was holding a bowl of

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<v Speaker 1>like something she was whisking in her whitest way. Hey,

0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh no, so I almost didn't say it,

0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.000
<v Speaker 1>but I was like, I was like, listen, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>awkward and I don't know how to say this, but

0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that you know that I can hear you.

0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:28.160
<v Speaker 1>And she's like, I don't know what you're talking about.

0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:33.760
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't think you know that I

0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:36.120
<v Speaker 1>can hear you singing, but I can't hear you singing.

0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:38.560
<v Speaker 1>So I wait for her to say something is she

0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:43.480
<v Speaker 1>will say anything goes oh, like you sing loud, like

0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.680
<v Speaker 1>it woke me up today, and she was like okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, but like all the time you sing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, like if I don't think that's

0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.760
<v Speaker 1>your job, I don't know if it is. But like

0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.760
<v Speaker 1>I was like, just so you know, I've normally gone

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<v Speaker 1>from like eleven to like four, like those of the

0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:02.760
<v Speaker 1>times I'm not here. I was like, so maybe even

0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.600
<v Speaker 1>if I am here, maybe you could just not sing

0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:09.760
<v Speaker 1>before eleven. She still said nothing to me, So then

0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:13.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm left to fucking finish the sentence out. I'm like, okay,

0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to be rude. How don't I say

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<v Speaker 1>I just really didn't think you could know that you

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<v Speaker 1>get singing like no one can hear you, but I

0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:23.320
<v Speaker 1>can hear you. And she just like nodded at me

0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:26.080
<v Speaker 1>like okay, Like she was so upset, and so I'm like,

0:16:26.120 --> 0:16:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling really bad, right, so I get up the stairs,

0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:29.960
<v Speaker 1>and right as I get up, I can hear this.

0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:32.120
<v Speaker 1>She grabbed the phone. She's like hello, like she was

0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:35.160
<v Speaker 1>getting ready to tell somebody. This bitch came down here.

0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Was I wrong? And what I said? You know you

0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:43.400
<v Speaker 1>kind of schedule, So I will say, what you did

0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:45.800
<v Speaker 1>happen to me. When I lived in Miami, I lived

0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:48.560
<v Speaker 1>on the top floor, but me and my me and

0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.000
<v Speaker 1>my roommate at the time worked in the clubs, so

0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:54.680
<v Speaker 1>of course we work opposite hours of everyone else, and

0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.200
<v Speaker 1>when we would get ready at night, we put on

0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:59.840
<v Speaker 1>our heels. We had a marble floor. The guy who

0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:03.880
<v Speaker 1>is underneath us came up and was like, hey, I

0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:06.600
<v Speaker 1>gave the times that he hears us let us know

0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:08.159
<v Speaker 1>he has to be to work in the morning, and

0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.399
<v Speaker 1>how we wake hme up before his alarm clock in

0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:14.440
<v Speaker 1>the morning and while we're getting ready at night. So,

0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.439
<v Speaker 1>but he came kind of like you gave us his

0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:19.880
<v Speaker 1>schedule and then was like, and I don't know if

0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:21.320
<v Speaker 1>it's something I need to do, but I can buy

0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:27.359
<v Speaker 1>you guys some slippers. Um, since mar so he heard us,

0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:31.199
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not gonna lie me and my roommates response

0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:34.600
<v Speaker 1>to that was maybe you should buy a house. Um,

0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I swear to god, we both we live on pen

0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:42.679
<v Speaker 1>we're on the pent house floor. You're below us on Like,

0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:44.960
<v Speaker 1>all right, I know it's more than yours and buy

0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:46.840
<v Speaker 1>another house. Yeah, but you know you live in a

0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:50.200
<v Speaker 1>building with other people, and you gotta be respectful. I'm

0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:52.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting by a house. If you don't want anybody

0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:54.280
<v Speaker 1>knocking on your door, Okay, well you can knock on

0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:55.960
<v Speaker 1>my door, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna get you

0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.240
<v Speaker 1>to your request. You're telling me you don't live on

0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:00.399
<v Speaker 1>the top floor. Now, what if you that happened? I

0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:03.879
<v Speaker 1>hear I hear them slim their doors. They have kids.

0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I hear them back. Absolutely have the right to check them. Yeah,

0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:10.560
<v Speaker 1>but they're living in their normal space the way I am.

0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:13.520
<v Speaker 1>If I want a sound proof surrounding, I should probably

0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:15.040
<v Speaker 1>stay in the house. What was the time that you

0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:17.800
<v Speaker 1>were making all that noise? I mean like eleven, because

0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:19.920
<v Speaker 1>we would leave the house like so so nine, nine

0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:22.080
<v Speaker 1>to ten because we had to be both out by

0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:24.400
<v Speaker 1>eleven and then we would get in. It's Miami still

0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:27.879
<v Speaker 1>five or six in the morning. That's crazy. Tell us somebody,

0:18:27.920 --> 0:18:29.720
<v Speaker 1>you gotta buy a house. See, but you were telling

0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:32.479
<v Speaker 1>this ship not to sing during like normal operating hours.

0:18:32.960 --> 0:18:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Is like I just told her thing before eleven am

0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:37.600
<v Speaker 1>because if you're scheduling. But that's not fair because then

0:18:37.640 --> 0:18:39.840
<v Speaker 1>like that's how she wakes up to be fair if

0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:43.400
<v Speaker 1>it was five am, because that's a crazy that's that's

0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:49.120
<v Speaker 1>where I was working around my work hours. Those are

0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:51.159
<v Speaker 1>my work hours. I worked at night down there. Just

0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:54.200
<v Speaker 1>because you have a nine to five and just because

0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you leave your house between eleven to four, I'm not

0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:59.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna move around how I live my life based off

0:18:59.119 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 1>someone else's works. Slippers comment, Oh me at heart. We said,

0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:08.040
<v Speaker 1>oh we're going out tonight and aren't click to hills bitch. Yeah,

0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:09.960
<v Speaker 1>so we were. We were petty that night, but yeah,

0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:13.920
<v Speaker 1>to offer us slippers not but also were called the board.

0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:16.240
<v Speaker 1>I'd have been like, yo, like was a real ship.

0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:18.520
<v Speaker 1>This is your first one. I'm just telling you as

0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:22.320
<v Speaker 1>your first morning, I'm not giving it to you. Yeah.

0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Luckily we we played homeowners association fee is the same

0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:30.760
<v Speaker 1>way he did. I mean you, well, we paid it

0:19:30.840 --> 0:19:33.520
<v Speaker 1>a part of our god damn, as a part of

0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:36.240
<v Speaker 1>our rank, and we paid trash. Miami was not with

0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:39.000
<v Speaker 1>home owners fees as a renter. Why would you pay

0:19:39.040 --> 0:19:41.040
<v Speaker 1>homeowners fez of the renter you probably paid they were,

0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:43.359
<v Speaker 1>Well they were. That's why we got not that we

0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:46.639
<v Speaker 1>got kicked out, but we were like the owners of

0:19:46.640 --> 0:19:49.800
<v Speaker 1>our home. His partner lost his job and they literally

0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:51.760
<v Speaker 1>came to us before our least was up and was like,

0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:55.720
<v Speaker 1>hey guys, um my partner lost his job and can

0:19:55.760 --> 0:19:57.639
<v Speaker 1>we work something that we need to move back in

0:19:57.680 --> 0:19:59.240
<v Speaker 1>our place and everything like. So, even how it was

0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:03.000
<v Speaker 1>set up, we weren't paying through the actual it was

0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:05.160
<v Speaker 1>through them to where when his partner lost his job,

0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:08.600
<v Speaker 1>he came. So imagine if that nigga felt like fucking

0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:13.119
<v Speaker 1>calling downstairs. Yeah I know yeah, but and imagine if

0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:17.680
<v Speaker 1>you're sucking, I'm leasing this bitch and I'm getting noise

0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:20.160
<v Speaker 1>in place that I never had on when I lived there. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm curious though, so like, how can you have

0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:23.639
<v Speaker 1>really made that works? Because all you did was just

0:20:23.680 --> 0:20:27.120
<v Speaker 1>tell her, you know that she sings before I could

0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:28.399
<v Speaker 1>have told her how bad it was. So that's what

0:20:28.480 --> 0:20:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, dude, do you tell the super when you

0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:37.120
<v Speaker 1>called over a noise complaint like people like you get

0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:39.120
<v Speaker 1>like I think you get like three. It's a very

0:20:39.119 --> 0:20:40.719
<v Speaker 1>serious call. That's why I said, you couldn't even kick

0:20:40.760 --> 0:20:43.280
<v Speaker 1>that here it's and I'll say in New York then

0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not. Because in my last home, the Puerto Ricans upstairs,

0:20:47.280 --> 0:20:50.280
<v Speaker 1>they took over the whole alley. My walls would vibrate.

0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:52.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you know we called on them and they were

0:20:52.080 --> 0:20:56.879
<v Speaker 1>Section eight tenants. Do you know nothing ever happened, never happened,

0:20:57.000 --> 0:21:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and we called weekly, I mean we called weekly and

0:21:00.520 --> 0:21:02.639
<v Speaker 1>they never kicked out in they were section So I

0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:04.480
<v Speaker 1>know someone that got kicked out of their New York

0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:06.080
<v Speaker 1>home for annoying, I would just say in New York

0:21:06.119 --> 0:21:09.359
<v Speaker 1>then maybe also lived in the BARNX So maybe the BARNX.

0:21:09.400 --> 0:21:11.480
<v Speaker 1>They're not taking noise complaints because they deal with murders.

0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:15.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what. I don't know the Copsle's like,

0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:19.560
<v Speaker 1>listen what she want us to do. They're playing music

0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:23.200
<v Speaker 1>about the construction one time and I want to live.

0:21:23.240 --> 0:21:27.600
<v Speaker 1>They called me construction Carol. Because I lost it, I said, okay,

0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I hear them right now. So I knew that like

0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:34.640
<v Speaker 1>construction couldn't go past six pm. I read plus yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:21:34.680 --> 0:21:36.440
<v Speaker 1>I googled it because I was like, this can't be right.

0:21:36.880 --> 0:21:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I said, maybe they really working all some ship Because

0:21:38.920 --> 0:21:42.439
<v Speaker 1>I got a subway by my house bro atn I

0:21:42.480 --> 0:21:47.280
<v Speaker 1>was like, that's it. Yes, I fucking go downstairs. I'm

0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:49.920
<v Speaker 1>in a robe and slippers. I know, I looked white

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:53.280
<v Speaker 1>as book and I was like, so if no one's

0:21:53.280 --> 0:21:55.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna stop this, you guys are gonna stop. It's just

0:21:56.040 --> 0:21:59.240
<v Speaker 1>not gonna stop tonight. No, not wroblem. I'm asking you.

0:21:59.680 --> 0:22:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be next because I'm yellow. So the

0:22:02.600 --> 0:22:05.840
<v Speaker 1>guy fuckings like, man, we have to do this tonight

0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:09.760
<v Speaker 1>because there's a dog stuck underneath. He's like so there, yeah,

0:22:09.760 --> 0:22:11.800
<v Speaker 1>at six pm, but it's only if there's an emergency,

0:22:12.760 --> 0:22:16.119
<v Speaker 1>said do you know who olds the dog? Like is

0:22:16.240 --> 0:22:20.400
<v Speaker 1>just someone dog or a dog? And then everybody looking

0:22:20.440 --> 0:22:25.560
<v Speaker 1>at me like I'm fucking rude. Mean this dog was stock,

0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:34.639
<v Speaker 1>so damn dog. It's one night of sleep. That's just

0:22:34.640 --> 0:22:39.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna sit on this. It's a straight straight So wait,

0:22:39.480 --> 0:22:42.040
<v Speaker 1>three one one. I called three one one, and you

0:22:42.040 --> 0:22:43.920
<v Speaker 1>can tell this nigg has been taking calls all night.

0:22:44.000 --> 0:22:47.199
<v Speaker 1>He's like, what's your emergency at the edge, No know,

0:22:47.240 --> 0:22:50.760
<v Speaker 1>what's your non emergency? I'm like, my non emergency is

0:22:50.800 --> 0:22:53.560
<v Speaker 1>about to be one. There's a dog stuck. They ain't

0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:56.080
<v Speaker 1>get that motherfucker out. Yeah, it's been five hours. I

0:22:56.119 --> 0:22:58.439
<v Speaker 1>said that I can't sleep, and then I really was like,

0:22:59.040 --> 0:23:00.560
<v Speaker 1>let me turn it up or not, just like I

0:23:00.600 --> 0:23:11.080
<v Speaker 1>have children, kids care No, I don't care about my

0:23:11.200 --> 0:23:13.880
<v Speaker 1>kids even tell I need a good excuse to get

0:23:14.960 --> 0:23:16.640
<v Speaker 1>He was sick of me too. He was like, well,

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let you know right now with three one one,

0:23:18.800 --> 0:23:20.960
<v Speaker 1>we have up to seven hours to answer noise. I'm like,

0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:22.720
<v Speaker 1>that said, no problem, I guess I'll call the nine.

0:23:22.760 --> 0:23:25.520
<v Speaker 1>Then what I'm saying they don't take noise complaints in

0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:28.240
<v Speaker 1>New York like that for real at all? Like they

0:23:28.240 --> 0:23:30.399
<v Speaker 1>have seven hours to even respond to noise complaint. In

0:23:30.400 --> 0:23:32.040
<v Speaker 1>seven hours, they're not gonna be you gotta be white

0:23:32.040 --> 0:23:35.640
<v Speaker 1>about music anymore. Well, well maybe that's why people win.

0:23:35.680 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's why they don't respond in the Bronx, because

0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:40.160
<v Speaker 1>I like I am. They know, Yeah, my name is Karen.

0:23:40.200 --> 0:23:42.840
<v Speaker 1>I moved here for work, okay, just a little bit

0:23:43.080 --> 0:23:46.159
<v Speaker 1>up um, you know, for my normal. But here I

0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:51.720
<v Speaker 1>am up on the six Jenny, and someone needs to

0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:55.280
<v Speaker 1>come and get these theta else it is all day,

0:23:55.440 --> 0:23:59.919
<v Speaker 1>I know. I'm telling That's why even when I'll be

0:24:00.080 --> 0:24:02.359
<v Speaker 1>on the Orchard Beach, I'll be like, why are you

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:04.240
<v Speaker 1>going to Archer Beach? Because first off, it's only a

0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:08.679
<v Speaker 1>ten minute drive, and I like the beach with Nigga.

0:24:09.000 --> 0:24:11.040
<v Speaker 1>If you strike Puerto Rico when I go there and

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I know, I can't listen to any I'll

0:24:14.359 --> 0:24:17.280
<v Speaker 1>be saying about Puerto rican bring spaghetti. You're bringing their

0:24:17.280 --> 0:24:21.240
<v Speaker 1>goddamn their entire family with them. And then they bring

0:24:21.280 --> 0:24:25.720
<v Speaker 1>flags the size of a sucking building. When Andrew that

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 1>ship talking about what do you need electricity for the beach? No, no,

0:24:32.480 --> 0:24:37.520
<v Speaker 1>it's literally the signs of that's Wames, bitch, and you

0:24:37.560 --> 0:24:39.879
<v Speaker 1>need a whole set up they do. I washed the

0:24:40.000 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>bitch with one of those um like a pank. What

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:45.440
<v Speaker 1>do you do pancakes on top of like the stove thing,

0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:48.879
<v Speaker 1>the electrical stove. And I'm like, couldn't y'all have just

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:57.120
<v Speaker 1>packaged and top away food? Why this was your body?

0:24:57.280 --> 0:25:02.000
<v Speaker 1>You everything, but all your noise came right there right

0:25:01.400 --> 0:25:06.560
<v Speaker 1>all that roommate Crisly used to go there and I'll

0:25:06.560 --> 0:25:08.560
<v Speaker 1>be like, you know, we're probably not going to hear

0:25:08.600 --> 0:25:10.520
<v Speaker 1>our own music, right Nope, So we're staying here trying

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:16.560
<v Speaker 1>to listen to hip hop hop? Are you here all summer?

0:25:17.080 --> 0:25:30.959
<v Speaker 1>Like a circuit? Babies ring? Like? Are you ready to

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:34.919
<v Speaker 1>listen to Gasolina? Okay? Just like that over? Did you

0:25:34.960 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 1>guys know what Gasolina is about? Guess no? Gla oh,

0:25:42.280 --> 0:25:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I think well, at first I used to think it

0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:47.320
<v Speaker 1>was come and then now I thought I thought it

0:25:47.359 --> 0:25:49.639
<v Speaker 1>was like give me more, like give me a like

0:25:49.800 --> 0:25:52.160
<v Speaker 1>fuck me harder. Okay, see now they're about to come

0:25:52.480 --> 0:25:57.119
<v Speaker 1>for us. I'm sorry. When I was in Puerto Rico,

0:25:57.640 --> 0:26:00.800
<v Speaker 1>the fucking song came on and everybody was like doing

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:02.199
<v Speaker 1>this thing with it and it goes like you know,

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:05.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I know what I thought we'd I was like, no,

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:09.200
<v Speaker 1>this is about the coca. I was like, no, I

0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:13.399
<v Speaker 1>did not. I didn't know that because the yes the

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:19.840
<v Speaker 1>only part I really know. It's got to be Likelina listen,

0:26:20.840 --> 0:26:22.719
<v Speaker 1>which was give me more gas, which again that's why

0:26:22.760 --> 0:26:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought it meant like me harder. Oh That's why

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:28.639
<v Speaker 1>I thought it. Man. We because we just Okay, so

0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:31.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe they call Coke gas in Puerto Rico, I find out,

0:26:31.960 --> 0:26:36.840
<v Speaker 1>because um right, Um, anyways, we're gonna get into our

0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:39.159
<v Speaker 1>vanilla ship. And I did find this little article that

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:40.879
<v Speaker 1>was sitting, but maybe we'll save it for a Patron

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 1>episode because although we are discussing this a couple of

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 1>weeks late, um, we all walked into the room and

0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I felt like we all had our opinions on this

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:56.399
<v Speaker 1>Lizzo situation. Um and so if you guys saw a

0:26:56.440 --> 0:26:59.040
<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks ago, Lizzo decided to go to a

0:26:59.119 --> 0:27:02.200
<v Speaker 1>Lakers game with her whole ass out, and it caused

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 1>an uproar on social media. And I know that we

0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:08.359
<v Speaker 1>are all here for women empowerment and all these things,

0:27:08.640 --> 0:27:11.879
<v Speaker 1>but I think, um, we all maybe have different viewpoints

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:14.760
<v Speaker 1>about this. Um So, as a man, we'll start with

0:27:14.800 --> 0:27:17.920
<v Speaker 1>our guests. Um, as a man, what are your thoughts

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 1>on because you said John I was even talking about

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 1>it in the group chat and man, what we're what

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>we're What are the men thoughts, most of whom were

0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:33.920
<v Speaker 1>jokes and uh yeah, definitely RICKISSI jokes. So, I mean,

0:27:34.440 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't have anything negative to say about that with

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 1>her doing that, mainly because I don't know. I like

0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Little's personality so much. It's such a it's such an outgoing,

0:27:42.560 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>confident personality, and I could tell that it stems from

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:48.960
<v Speaker 1>her being very you know, not secure with herself, you know,

0:27:49.040 --> 0:27:51.520
<v Speaker 1>having so many doors closed on her because of her

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:53.879
<v Speaker 1>her her weight, and you know, being body shamed and

0:27:53.880 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. So when seeing her do something like that,

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:00.119
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's like she's living her best life if

0:28:00.119 --> 0:28:02.760
<v Speaker 1>you just have a fucking live. I mean, I don't

0:28:02.800 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 1>see anything wrong with it at all. What's wep And actually,

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:08.920
<v Speaker 1>if that's what she's gonna do, wander sent. I think her,

0:28:09.359 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 1>from where she's come from and the growth that she's taken,

0:28:12.600 --> 0:28:15.439
<v Speaker 1>she's earned the right to do that. And as long

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 1>as she's wonder saying comfortable in her own skin, and

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:21.520
<v Speaker 1>it's not just like something that she's portraying. If she

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:24.359
<v Speaker 1>truly fails, I love myself this much, I can do

0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 1>it alls necessary. I want to ask, because I found

0:28:27.320 --> 0:28:29.320
<v Speaker 1>this to be a shitty excuse. Like I feel like

0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:31.440
<v Speaker 1>people just threw it out because they didn't like her outfit.

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 1>They were like, oh, but the kids, you have kids.

0:28:34.800 --> 0:28:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I felt like kids, they've seen worse on the internet.

0:28:37.720 --> 0:28:40.520
<v Speaker 1>There's black bodies on the news every fucking day. Like,

0:28:40.960 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 1>I really feel like the kid thinks bullshit, What do

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:44.240
<v Speaker 1>you think about if your kids were there with you?

0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 1>Which you cares? Uh? How your kids? Oh uh? Two

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>and twelve? Because I think that was the issue too.

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 1>She ended up on the Megatron and she turned around

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 1>and started working, and clearly that's the problem of her

0:28:58.080 --> 0:29:02.160
<v Speaker 1>whole back side out Um. So if you see that,

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:05.640
<v Speaker 1>that specific image ended up on the big screen. So

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:08.760
<v Speaker 1>that's where it's like there were kids there. Um. So

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>here's my thing. A lot of people brought up her

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 1>size and the confidence and that My thing is that

0:29:14.520 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 1>outfit will look good on nobody. It's just to me,

0:29:17.840 --> 0:29:22.080
<v Speaker 1>it's in poor taste. Um. And to me, I think

0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 1>it's also you have you have all the success from

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:29.000
<v Speaker 1>truth hurts and all of your singles this year. To me,

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:32.600
<v Speaker 1>this is like attention seeking cloud chasing that I don't

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:37.400
<v Speaker 1>think she needs. Um. I don't. I don't. I personally

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 1>don't think it would have looked good on anybody size. UM.

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:43.719
<v Speaker 1>And then also something else that I thought was corny.

0:29:44.040 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 1>She then posted a video to her Twitter and said,

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 1>this is my inspiration, and her inspiration was Rihanna's met

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Gala gown, which clearly was all of the diamonds. It

0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 1>was completely see through. UM. And one of the points

0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:03.120
<v Speaker 1>that I that I did see as well. UM. And

0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 1>there goes um Rihanna's working in her beautiful gown which

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:10.200
<v Speaker 1>was completely see through. However, we know that she wore

0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 1>that on a red carpet. She didn't wear it to

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>a basketball game. When it comes to basketball games, I

0:30:15.840 --> 0:30:18.480
<v Speaker 1>don't even wear heels sometimes to them. So I do

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 1>think it's also just there's a time and a place.

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:23.560
<v Speaker 1>It's fine show your ass, But I think there's a

0:30:23.600 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 1>time in a place, and that was at the time.

0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:29.560
<v Speaker 1>I think the main issue is that, UM, when the

0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:32.720
<v Speaker 1>outfit was bad, don't find this cloud chasing at all.

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I think that when you're at a certain level like

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:41.480
<v Speaker 1>cloud chasing is a name dropping using other things to

0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>cloud like you're using other things to race to the top. Um.

0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe you can use your own body to

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:48.680
<v Speaker 1>cloud chase. I could believe you can maybe do something thirsty,

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 1>but like, no, I don't think that was it lizzles

0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>on top serious and to me, I prefer to cloud

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:57.880
<v Speaker 1>as if like if if, Yes, you're you're not only

0:30:58.240 --> 0:31:01.520
<v Speaker 1>name dropping and being around people um to elevate yourself,

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 1>but also doing things like this to have people talk

0:31:05.120 --> 0:31:09.719
<v Speaker 1>about you doing things with purpose. So that's something I

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>like a lot that people are bringing up. What if

0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 1>lady God God did this. I'm gonna be real again.

0:31:13.560 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 1>We can agree to disagree. But no, I don't think

0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:18.440
<v Speaker 1>this was cloud chasing. I think this was very like

0:31:19.920 --> 0:31:23.000
<v Speaker 1>if you can do this, you don't give a fuck, right,

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 1>This is a very I don't give a fuck type

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 1>of attitude. Now, the problem with that is that I

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:33.520
<v Speaker 1>want to support people like this. I just don't support

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.560
<v Speaker 1>ugly clothes. That's something I don't. It's really bad, it's

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>not I love to dress all the way fucking left.

0:31:39.640 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>I hate ship that looks like an Instagram, and I

0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 1>really love dressing all the way left, but that to

0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:47.200
<v Speaker 1>me isn't left. It's just not done well. And I

0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:49.480
<v Speaker 1>think that what sucks about that too is that a

0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of people are saying, oh, you're fat shaming. There's

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 1>a girl that I'm actually really really really want to

0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 1>have on here. Her name is Ashley Chubby Bunny um

0:31:58.160 --> 0:31:59.720
<v Speaker 1>On I g I met her in person too. She's

0:31:59.720 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 1>a dope chick. She's very pro fat girl. She loves

0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>using the word fat um. She always post big women.

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:10.760
<v Speaker 1>She's dope as fuck, and she was saying that everybody's

0:32:10.800 --> 0:32:13.440
<v Speaker 1>fat phobic. Who isn't working with this? And I would

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:15.920
<v Speaker 1>love to have a conversation with her about how No,

0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:19.160
<v Speaker 1>the outfit was just taggy, like I feel like a

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:22.240
<v Speaker 1>skinny ass, it'd be like this what um. I don't

0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:24.400
<v Speaker 1>like how people were like, oh, you know, she just

0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't have the body for that. Absolutely not. I work

0:32:27.960 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 1>out And then I'm gonna be honest about that. I

0:32:33.320 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>did not see that video working on the side. So

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:38.840
<v Speaker 1>what I've seen was we should walking backstagege Now what

0:32:38.880 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that, I'm thinking it was definitely it was

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:45.520
<v Speaker 1>a I mean, it was distasteful to do that, but

0:32:45.800 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of comic. Now not think about it, because

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:51.800
<v Speaker 1>that's what kind of comical, because now it reminds me

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:53.880
<v Speaker 1>the way she's acting, it reminds me of that drunk

0:32:53.960 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 1>hunt at the at your cookout and then she's, oh,

0:32:58.880 --> 0:33:01.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna drop it like it's young boys. Don't nothing

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>about this. You know. It's something you said though that

0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I like you said. It comes to my place of beingsecured.

0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 1>I know that there's so many people online that shameless

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:11.560
<v Speaker 1>those bodies. She's posted a lot of stuff on her

0:33:11.600 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Instagram with like, um, not all the way, like showing

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>anything but just her bare body, even her album cover,

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 1>and people talking about how we don't want to see

0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:22.280
<v Speaker 1>that stuff, and I kind of do like when big

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:26.920
<v Speaker 1>girls be like bit, that's what I don't agree with.

0:33:27.000 --> 0:33:30.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I follow her Instagram. I love her Instagram like

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:33.719
<v Speaker 1>I love her. I mean, these the pictures of her

0:33:33.720 --> 0:33:36.959
<v Speaker 1>showing her body, I love it. I don't know if

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:39.240
<v Speaker 1>I secretly love big Girls. I might just I don't know,

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:42.120
<v Speaker 1>but I love her confidence that she showed on Instagram.

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 1>But it's just that when everyone looks at the pictures,

0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 1>like no one wants to see that, blah blah, blah.

0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 1>And then they had the video where she actually where

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>she's uh, where she's um when she makes the comment

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:59.520
<v Speaker 1>about the one of the players when um, so she

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:01.840
<v Speaker 1>makes that comments and that kind of that kind of

0:34:01.880 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>that that set me off. And then I started to

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.040
<v Speaker 1>see all the comments. Everyone was saying, oh, she you know,

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:08.560
<v Speaker 1>she cursed them, she took her shot, so he's missing

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 1>all his shots. All the negli they were saying what

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 1>she said. So ultimately, when when I said, you know,

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:20.640
<v Speaker 1>let's definitely talk about Lizzle, I felt about that originally,

0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:23.440
<v Speaker 1>and like everybody just completely just started a tagging. People

0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:25.760
<v Speaker 1>are so scared to say that they find this sexy,

0:34:26.160 --> 0:34:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I think so they are. Men and women are terrified

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:32.959
<v Speaker 1>to call this beautiful. They're terrified to acknowledge this body type.

0:34:33.000 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 1>It's a really fucking weird thing. I've never experienced being big,

0:34:37.200 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 1>but I've had big girl friends and ship like that,

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:41.799
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know any of them that like, we're

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:46.239
<v Speaker 1>never getting from I mean, so it sucks. I talked

0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:49.800
<v Speaker 1>about it on UM we didn't. I talked about my

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:52.880
<v Speaker 1>my weight loss, but also just the body image episode

0:34:52.920 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 1>on our Patreon, and that's the thing a lot of

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:58.960
<v Speaker 1>people would secretly like big girls, but don't want their

0:34:58.960 --> 0:35:01.360
<v Speaker 1>friends to know or we'll shame big girls on the timeline,

0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:03.640
<v Speaker 1>but then slide in my d MS talking about, oh,

0:35:03.640 --> 0:35:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I just want to see if I can handle it,

0:35:04.920 --> 0:35:08.840
<v Speaker 1>like like, so they do like the curves of women. Um.

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.360
<v Speaker 1>But for whatever reason, yeah, society has made it to

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:14.200
<v Speaker 1>where men are ashamed to admit that this is their

0:35:14.280 --> 0:35:17.239
<v Speaker 1>preference or that they actually do like big women. Um.

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>And we received that as big women. So um yeah,

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:23.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad we were we were able to touch on this.

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:26.720
<v Speaker 1>I do want to bring up this other vanilla ship um,

0:35:26.719 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 1>because God damn it. I want you all to guess

0:35:28.560 --> 0:35:31.720
<v Speaker 1>the state. And y'all already know what I'm talking about.

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:35.440
<v Speaker 1>So this comes from Mirror dot co UK. It says

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:39.200
<v Speaker 1>Tory lives with three of her partners in Jacksonville, Florida,

0:35:39.520 --> 0:35:42.080
<v Speaker 1>and is seven months pregnant with her first child, which

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 1>will be brought up by all of her lovers. Guess

0:35:46.680 --> 0:35:49.160
<v Speaker 1>the state Florida. You already know. If it's against the state,

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 1>it's Mother Florida News. So it's one of your old woman.

0:35:56.719 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 1>Isn't a Polly Aversus relationship with four men? And it's

0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 1>pregnant and plans to raise the baby with all of

0:36:01.560 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 1>her lovers as the daddy. Tori lives with three of

0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:08.000
<v Speaker 1>her partners in Jacksonville, Florida, and despite being in an

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:11.200
<v Speaker 1>open relationship, she's the only one who has multiple partners.

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Seven months ago, Tori found out that she was pregnant

0:36:13.680 --> 0:36:15.960
<v Speaker 1>with the baby girl, who they will welcome into their

0:36:16.040 --> 0:36:19.320
<v Speaker 1>unconventional family in Florida. She met one of her partners

0:36:19.360 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 1>eighteen in high school and then got into a relationship

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:25.960
<v Speaker 1>with Travis two months ago. Their love story began three

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:28.400
<v Speaker 1>years ago, and she has since announced her engagement to

0:36:28.600 --> 0:36:31.839
<v Speaker 1>Travis Um. She also found love in a long term

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:35.359
<v Speaker 1>mutual friend, Ethan and Christopher, who is the baby's father.

0:36:35.800 --> 0:36:38.319
<v Speaker 1>She said, Chris is the biological father. We just know

0:36:38.440 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was.

0:36:41.280 --> 0:36:42.840
<v Speaker 1>There was like a video on Twitter is at the

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:45.880
<v Speaker 1>same one where they yeah, they posed together. She's in

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 1>a picture that funny looking people. Listen, Um, I ain't

0:36:53.520 --> 0:36:56.560
<v Speaker 1>go coming funny because it looks like, um, maybe not

0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:59.360
<v Speaker 1>everything is there for all that baby's gonna come out gorgeous?

0:36:59.480 --> 0:37:03.319
<v Speaker 1>Is not work for God, thank you? Playing so the

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 1>men said care everybody online dragging you dont get his

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:11.960
<v Speaker 1>babies beautiful, the men, curly man, you got it that

0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 1>they are raising the baby together and so everyone is

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>the dad. Everyone is very, very excited to be raising

0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:19.960
<v Speaker 1>a baby together. Did I ever tell you about the

0:37:20.040 --> 0:37:22.239
<v Speaker 1>Russian Roulette thing? I said with my friends? This is

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:25.319
<v Speaker 1>so crazy, but this was also like drug talk. So

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:28.360
<v Speaker 1>two of them were black. Two them are why my

0:37:28.360 --> 0:37:32.759
<v Speaker 1>best boyfriends. Right, I've got Enoch, James, Christopher, and Vinnie. Um.

0:37:32.880 --> 0:37:35.000
<v Speaker 1>They've all been on the podcast, probably except for e

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:39.399
<v Speaker 1>and Um. Yeah, we super close, tattooed on each other.

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 1>It's weird codependent friendship, but I love it. And I

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:44.920
<v Speaker 1>don't remember what drug we were doing. It was probably molly.

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:48.800
<v Speaker 1>It feels like a Molly moment. But years ago we said, Okay,

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:51.719
<v Speaker 1>if we're all single in ten years and we all

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:54.759
<v Speaker 1>don't have kids in ten years, I'll get pregnant. We'll

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 1>do this thing when we take everybody's coming to jar

0:37:57.120 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and we'll Russian Roulette it and then I'll get a

0:37:59.520 --> 0:38:01.880
<v Speaker 1>Turkey Easter and we'll figure out whose baby is going

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:04.040
<v Speaker 1>to be. There's a half chance that maybe we'll come

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:15.400
<v Speaker 1>out black, and a half chance maybe we'll come out white. Definitely, definitely. Anyway,

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 1>we all agreed to do this ship right, We're like,

0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:19.440
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, yes, we'll all have a piece of

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:23.440
<v Speaker 1>each other. And Vinnie was like, oh my god, what

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:25.359
<v Speaker 1>if it looks like all of us, I'm like one

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 1>the egg. So Christopher's gay ass was like, I mean

0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:33.680
<v Speaker 1>not the vine is either. But I just remember he

0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:36.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't want to do it, but I'll

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:41.600
<v Speaker 1>do it. It It was so weird. I don't know who

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 1>was on the mall even. Anyway. All I know is

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:46.919
<v Speaker 1>that was like seven years ago. I'm just gonna ask

0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:48.719
<v Speaker 1>how long ago that was. So in three more years

0:38:48.719 --> 0:38:50.919
<v Speaker 1>we're about to see this come from Maybe it wasn't

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:53.400
<v Speaker 1>a seven years ago. Decisions are still going to three

0:38:53.480 --> 0:38:57.560
<v Speaker 1>years sid And I really even when I woke up

0:38:57.560 --> 0:38:59.120
<v Speaker 1>in the one, I haven't remembered it. And I was like,

0:38:59.120 --> 0:39:02.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, well raise it as a communal baby.

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:11.120
<v Speaker 1>To fund that have been for me is not copd coccol.

0:39:11.880 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Would you want to do a test to figure out

0:39:13.560 --> 0:39:15.960
<v Speaker 1>who's who's like the actual father or would you just

0:39:16.000 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 1>want to let and just figure that out there's that

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:26.319
<v Speaker 1>baby is mixed as fuck. I would want to know

0:39:26.640 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 1>just in case. Yo, mean, so Enoch's family is like

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 1>super straight, like seventh Ad event is like they I

0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:39.360
<v Speaker 1>don't even know if they know who fucking Beyonting is.

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:41.680
<v Speaker 1>That's how like for the culture, y'all got to do

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:47.759
<v Speaker 1>this on more right that we've never had sex. I've

0:39:47.800 --> 0:39:50.759
<v Speaker 1>never had sex with any of us every day, but

0:39:51.880 --> 0:39:55.279
<v Speaker 1>you go and base yourself, but there's coming what you

0:39:55.280 --> 0:39:59.279
<v Speaker 1>mean this is a whole other step. I know, but

0:39:59.320 --> 0:40:01.759
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna okay any of them because we're like,

0:40:02.280 --> 0:40:04.800
<v Speaker 1>that's worse. Yeah, turkey basting is worse. What do you

0:40:04.800 --> 0:40:06.840
<v Speaker 1>mean stand on top of you on your head and

0:40:06.840 --> 0:40:10.080
<v Speaker 1>you just yo? Y'all never watched the L word. This

0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:14.960
<v Speaker 1>is how lesbians have babies. Y'all have never seen turkey

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:18.200
<v Speaker 1>based so I've heard of it, but I thought like

0:40:18.239 --> 0:40:21.280
<v Speaker 1>as soon as sperm like hits the hare, it dies. Well, okay,

0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:23.920
<v Speaker 1>so normally you can you do this in a doctor's office,

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:28.360
<v Speaker 1>but but they have special official Are you gonna like

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I thought, I thought we were doing this jar thing. Well,

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:35.280
<v Speaker 1>the chances are I'm probably not gonna do it anyway, goddamned,

0:40:35.719 --> 0:40:45.160
<v Speaker 1>just in case, maybe feel like you do the tour pregnant. Really,

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:49.080
<v Speaker 1>let yo imagine the fucking tour promo picks. I'll be

0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:51.880
<v Speaker 1>like Ali Wong of sex. They'd be like, Yo, who

0:40:51.960 --> 0:40:54.919
<v Speaker 1>is it? I should stand up? He'd be like, what,

0:40:54.960 --> 0:40:58.080
<v Speaker 1>who is it? How do you figure that out? You

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:00.120
<v Speaker 1>even gonna hold you? I refused to be one in

0:41:00.200 --> 0:41:02.960
<v Speaker 1>bitches that just pop out with a belly and a

0:41:03.000 --> 0:41:05.160
<v Speaker 1>baby on the way with no man in sight. I'm

0:41:05.160 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be that bitch like you're gonna know who

0:41:06.560 --> 0:41:08.440
<v Speaker 1>the baby daddy is? Y'all ain't gonna be in my

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:11.399
<v Speaker 1>comments asking who the baby y'all gonna know? Really, see,

0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, y'all ain't gonna do much potential because

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I understand why people like don't want to if you're

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:20.879
<v Speaker 1>a personality, because it's just like, if you're gonna share

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:22.560
<v Speaker 1>your pregnancy, do you want to share the person you

0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:23.920
<v Speaker 1>want to share a pictures of the baby? Like, I

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:26.359
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm cool women who don't. I think it's

0:41:26.360 --> 0:41:27.960
<v Speaker 1>okay to have that private part of it. Well, if

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:30.279
<v Speaker 1>you're if you're a personality and then you are, you

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.880
<v Speaker 1>just show up pregnant without you know, showing you know

0:41:32.960 --> 0:41:35.839
<v Speaker 1>the father or whatever. All letting it be known. You're

0:41:35.880 --> 0:41:38.200
<v Speaker 1>just opening the door for hope and speculations. But because

0:41:38.200 --> 0:41:43.200
<v Speaker 1>an asshole is gonna assume you don't know your baby daddy,

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:46.799
<v Speaker 1>not right. But I mean to me, I just I

0:41:46.840 --> 0:41:48.960
<v Speaker 1>just don't want that out and like, but to me,

0:41:49.480 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I've also been kind of and even though I posted

0:41:53.280 --> 0:41:55.320
<v Speaker 1>you know some guys on Instagram and I've seen the

0:41:55.400 --> 0:41:57.840
<v Speaker 1>response and it's it's up in the air. I would

0:41:57.840 --> 0:42:03.239
<v Speaker 1>hope that the person that I do don't get pregnant with. Um.

0:42:03.360 --> 0:42:07.040
<v Speaker 1>It's already announced that that's my partner. UM. And it's

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:09.319
<v Speaker 1>crazy because the one of the guys that I'm talking

0:42:09.360 --> 0:42:12.560
<v Speaker 1>to now, he does have two kids. So PhD has

0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:16.359
<v Speaker 1>no kids. The new guy has kids. And I was like, oh, um,

0:42:16.560 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't want any I'm like, do you want anymore? UM?

0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:23.280
<v Speaker 1>He's like, well, I want twins, but if what the funk?

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:26.879
<v Speaker 1>I hate when people craft their baby. He did say

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:34.080
<v Speaker 1>yeah no. But when I was like, well, I don't

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:35.920
<v Speaker 1>know if I want any kids, He's like, well, if

0:42:35.960 --> 0:42:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm with someone and they don't want kids, as long

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:39.799
<v Speaker 1>as they're open to more dogs because I like dogs,

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:41.680
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, that's all I want is dogs. I'm

0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>fine with kidding dogs that did he fuck it? I't

0:42:47.320 --> 0:42:49.480
<v Speaker 1>they just say whatever they want. I saw this picture

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:51.759
<v Speaker 1>of Russell Wilson the other day and it said me

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:58.200
<v Speaker 1>before I smashed, and then it was future. Okay. So

0:42:58.280 --> 0:43:00.120
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<v Speaker 1>with the show, all right, guys. Well, we're gonna go

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:05.400
<v Speaker 1>ahead and get into our kink in the week and

0:45:05.400 --> 0:45:07.320
<v Speaker 1>our kick in the week is actually going to flow

0:45:07.520 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 1>right into our horrible decision. So the kink of the week, um,

0:45:11.080 --> 0:45:13.040
<v Speaker 1>and why we have our lovely guests on the mic

0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:17.440
<v Speaker 1>with us. Is diaper fetishism or diaper bondage um For

0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:20.200
<v Speaker 1>those of you who don't know, diaper fetishism is a

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 1>sexual fetish where an individual derives sexual pleasure from either

0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:28.080
<v Speaker 1>wearing a diaper, seeing others were diapers, or both. Kink

0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 1>Ley Um, which is where I'm getting this information from,

0:45:30.840 --> 0:45:35.719
<v Speaker 1>describes it as an association with infantilism and childlike fantasies.

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:39.320
<v Speaker 1>For some individuals, it is only the thought of wearing

0:45:39.320 --> 0:45:41.640
<v Speaker 1>a diaper or the thought of someone else wearing a

0:45:41.640 --> 0:45:44.719
<v Speaker 1>diaper that causes sexual arousal. No, I could have said

0:45:44.719 --> 0:45:47.759
<v Speaker 1>white people, but we're here with this is the reason

0:45:47.800 --> 0:45:50.879
<v Speaker 1>why I'm here. I'm so glad. So yeah, guys, he's

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:54.240
<v Speaker 1>not white um. While for others it is the infant

0:45:54.239 --> 0:45:58.399
<v Speaker 1>slash caretaker role play that simulates excite excitation For some

0:45:58.520 --> 0:46:02.080
<v Speaker 1>individuals which I also want to ask where you lie

0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:05.239
<v Speaker 1>in the spectrum, it is also um the act of

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:08.319
<v Speaker 1>urinating or defecating in a diaper that is the source

0:46:08.320 --> 0:46:11.520
<v Speaker 1>of arousal. Diaper fetishism can also be used within the

0:46:11.560 --> 0:46:14.120
<v Speaker 1>context of b D s M, where the diaper is

0:46:14.200 --> 0:46:17.640
<v Speaker 1>used as a source of humiliation. So now we're going

0:46:18.000 --> 0:46:20.280
<v Speaker 1>to get into our whole decision where we have answers.

0:46:20.480 --> 0:46:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Our guest today is into diaper bondage diaper fetishism and

0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:28.880
<v Speaker 1>is also married to where he and his wife engaged

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:33.800
<v Speaker 1>in the act correct kind of we're making all way there, Okay,

0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:38.160
<v Speaker 1>so let's just do what's we gotta know? When did

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 1>you first put that pull up on? After pull up age?

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:51.080
<v Speaker 1>First off, not a pull up? Okay, even think pamper

0:46:51.080 --> 0:46:55.239
<v Speaker 1>and um, but I don't know, I don't be changing pampers.

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I would say, Uh, I think I was like probably

0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:02.839
<v Speaker 1>eight nine years old, and I had like a my

0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:04.800
<v Speaker 1>best friend lived next door. He had an older sister.

0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Now I kind of thought about this like like a

0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:09.640
<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks ago. I was like, holy shit, that's

0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:13.080
<v Speaker 1>why you was from. And um, what she used to

0:47:13.080 --> 0:47:14.560
<v Speaker 1>like to do is we used to kind of play

0:47:14.600 --> 0:47:16.920
<v Speaker 1>house and she one time she actually wanted to put

0:47:16.960 --> 0:47:21.600
<v Speaker 1>the diaper on me. And yeah, yeah she was she

0:47:21.640 --> 0:47:24.920
<v Speaker 1>was considerably a little bit older, and um, we did

0:47:24.960 --> 0:47:27.200
<v Speaker 1>that one time though, so I never really thought about it. Again,

0:47:27.320 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 1>I never really thought about it, but then kind of

0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:31.160
<v Speaker 1>like years down the road, were you attracted to her

0:47:31.160 --> 0:47:33.719
<v Speaker 1>at that time? Um? I think so a little bit.

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I think I had I had a little childhood. So

0:47:36.160 --> 0:47:38.919
<v Speaker 1>your friend was the dad, she was the mom. What

0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:42.719
<v Speaker 1>was no, actually actually my friend wasn't even around. It

0:47:42.800 --> 0:47:46.759
<v Speaker 1>was actually her. I was just like house, yeah, her

0:47:46.880 --> 0:47:51.000
<v Speaker 1>and and and her friends. And years down the road said,

0:47:51.560 --> 0:47:55.440
<v Speaker 1>years down the road. Um, I kinda I figured more.

0:47:55.640 --> 0:47:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I I dabbled in the b D s M world,

0:47:59.480 --> 0:48:03.360
<v Speaker 1>and I kind realized, I mean, I do like being submissive.

0:48:03.520 --> 0:48:07.360
<v Speaker 1>I like the sub role, and um so just I

0:48:07.360 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know, just like some somehow I was in a

0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 1>conversation with with a woman who was actually a dumb

0:48:12.800 --> 0:48:15.520
<v Speaker 1>at the time, and this is probably like I'm like,

0:48:15.800 --> 0:48:19.560
<v Speaker 1>uh my early twenties, mid twenties or so, and um,

0:48:21.000 --> 0:48:24.120
<v Speaker 1>I just kind of conversating with her, conversating with her,

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:28.000
<v Speaker 1>trying to you know, she's she's talking about humiliating me

0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:31.319
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that, just you know, degradation part of it.

0:48:31.560 --> 0:48:35.200
<v Speaker 1>And I kind of weaseled that diaper thing into into

0:48:35.239 --> 0:48:38.480
<v Speaker 1>her head and um and had her to the you

0:48:38.480 --> 0:48:41.080
<v Speaker 1>know that she all right, you know what, put a

0:48:41.120 --> 0:48:42.840
<v Speaker 1>diaper on right now, I'm gonna put a diaper on you.

0:48:42.880 --> 0:48:44.840
<v Speaker 1>So she made it into the humiliation thing and that

0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:47.480
<v Speaker 1>just love me crazy, just like I kind of wanted

0:48:47.480 --> 0:48:49.640
<v Speaker 1>it and I just weaseled it in there and then

0:48:49.640 --> 0:48:52.400
<v Speaker 1>when she made me do it. Um, I think that

0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:54.600
<v Speaker 1>was like pretty much the beginning of it. But how

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:56.759
<v Speaker 1>would were you at this point when you realized you

0:48:56.800 --> 0:48:59.799
<v Speaker 1>were into B D S M and then engaging? How

0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:05.000
<v Speaker 1>want get around about age? Okay, so you about you

0:49:05.080 --> 0:49:13.360
<v Speaker 1>look twelve? You do look you do look lak out.

0:49:13.800 --> 0:49:16.960
<v Speaker 1>So I guess my question is you realize this is

0:49:17.000 --> 0:49:19.880
<v Speaker 1>something you're into. Did you in this dumb were you

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:23.759
<v Speaker 1>dating or was she just a sexual partner? And if so,

0:49:24.680 --> 0:49:29.400
<v Speaker 1>how did that transform your sexual like like your sexuality

0:49:29.480 --> 0:49:33.240
<v Speaker 1>with with her? Whether Sorry, I know you'll be getting

0:49:33.440 --> 0:49:35.120
<v Speaker 1>on us about asking a lot of questions and not

0:49:35.160 --> 0:49:36.919
<v Speaker 1>letting them finish, So I'm going to try to were

0:49:36.960 --> 0:49:39.560
<v Speaker 1>you and her in a relationship, so this was just

0:49:39.600 --> 0:49:42.320
<v Speaker 1>a sex partner, At what point did you start introducing

0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:46.040
<v Speaker 1>this into your relationships? All right? So into my my

0:49:46.120 --> 0:49:49.680
<v Speaker 1>personal relationship. Yes, I've never introduced it into a personal relationship.

0:49:50.760 --> 0:49:58.360
<v Speaker 1>Why no, this is what I wanted to get to Okay, no, no,

0:49:58.760 --> 0:50:02.400
<v Speaker 1>um no, I just wasn't in a serious relationship until

0:50:02.640 --> 0:50:04.800
<v Speaker 1>like a couple of years later when I when I

0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:08.120
<v Speaker 1>met my wife, And I feel like it's something that's

0:50:08.200 --> 0:50:10.920
<v Speaker 1>so taboo that it does have to be someone you're

0:50:10.920 --> 0:50:13.920
<v Speaker 1>more serious with as it like, because I feel like

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:16.799
<v Speaker 1>there's two sides to this coin. You know what it

0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>sounds like. You know you like it, but you know

0:50:18.719 --> 0:50:21.080
<v Speaker 1>what other people are looking at that. So are you like, Yo,

0:50:21.360 --> 0:50:22.879
<v Speaker 1>I could do it with whoever because I don't give

0:50:22.880 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 1>a funk, or I have to save it for a

0:50:24.520 --> 0:50:27.640
<v Speaker 1>more sacred relationship because they'll respect me at that point.

0:50:27.880 --> 0:50:30.359
<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, just like I think that's what any kink,

0:50:30.440 --> 0:50:32.920
<v Speaker 1>any king pred No matter what it is, Um, it

0:50:32.960 --> 0:50:36.319
<v Speaker 1>could be seen as as taboo or not normal. So

0:50:36.440 --> 0:50:38.879
<v Speaker 1>what you definitely do want to do? Um, you want

0:50:38.880 --> 0:50:41.480
<v Speaker 1>to It doesn't even have to be like I don't

0:50:41.520 --> 0:50:44.440
<v Speaker 1>have to feel like it like that that that connection

0:50:44.480 --> 0:50:47.280
<v Speaker 1>of someone that you think is gonna be a life partner. Um,

0:50:47.320 --> 0:50:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you more want to make sure that it's someone you

0:50:49.600 --> 0:50:53.040
<v Speaker 1>know that you can trust or someone who's not judgmental.

0:50:53.719 --> 0:50:57.720
<v Speaker 1>So um, that's more. That's more of it. Like I usually,

0:50:57.760 --> 0:50:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to make sure that it's someone who's not judgmental,

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:03.839
<v Speaker 1>someone who's who knows me first, you know, before you

0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:06.399
<v Speaker 1>know my kink. That's the problem that everyone asked about

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:08.799
<v Speaker 1>the kink first and then they make the inference of

0:51:08.960 --> 0:51:11.960
<v Speaker 1>who you are as a person. Absolutely, I mean we

0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:13.759
<v Speaker 1>get we go through it every week, right, and like

0:51:13.800 --> 0:51:16.239
<v Speaker 1>I said, I obviously this is what I do. King

0:51:16.320 --> 0:51:20.080
<v Speaker 1>Shaman is it's all jokes to me because we know

0:51:20.160 --> 0:51:24.359
<v Speaker 1>that like on the scale of quote unquote normal and vanilla, right,

0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 1>there are people out there that legitimately think they're choking

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:31.560
<v Speaker 1>and spanking lives is kinky ship. But really it's like

0:51:31.640 --> 0:51:36.440
<v Speaker 1>scratching the surface because I feel like when it comes

0:51:36.440 --> 0:51:39.279
<v Speaker 1>to my kinks, um, they are things that I've been

0:51:39.320 --> 0:51:42.640
<v Speaker 1>able to do with people who are specific and into

0:51:42.719 --> 0:51:45.839
<v Speaker 1>that kink um. However, with people that I've talked more

0:51:45.920 --> 0:51:48.719
<v Speaker 1>relationship things with, I've been willing to give up those

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:50.520
<v Speaker 1>kinks to people who may not be into it. So

0:51:50.600 --> 0:51:53.000
<v Speaker 1>just like you're trying to wean maybe your wife into

0:51:53.000 --> 0:51:58.040
<v Speaker 1>accepting that, I it's been difficult for me with dating

0:51:58.520 --> 0:52:02.520
<v Speaker 1>and like differentiating, but my kink lifestyle and my dating

0:52:02.560 --> 0:52:06.200
<v Speaker 1>long term lifestyle. How do you explore your kink without

0:52:06.239 --> 0:52:10.360
<v Speaker 1>your wife? Good question, well, good question. My kink is

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:14.280
<v Speaker 1>more or on on the diaper lover, like, you know, area

0:52:14.320 --> 0:52:19.200
<v Speaker 1>of it. So it's liking to wear. Yeah, yeah, it

0:52:19.239 --> 0:52:21.680
<v Speaker 1>definitely is. So you got deal, all right? So you

0:52:21.760 --> 0:52:24.080
<v Speaker 1>got you got adult babies and you have diaper lovers

0:52:24.880 --> 0:52:28.520
<v Speaker 1>the okay, so you got some a dope babies, you

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:32.400
<v Speaker 1>got some diaper lovers. So you don't google gota No, okay,

0:52:32.480 --> 0:52:33.880
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be fed with a bottle. You

0:52:33.880 --> 0:52:38.000
<v Speaker 1>don't wear bibs, you don't because that's more of the baby. Yes,

0:52:38.120 --> 0:52:41.040
<v Speaker 1>that's more of Yeah, that's more of the regression. I'm

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:42.799
<v Speaker 1>not gonna say I don't want to because once again,

0:52:42.800 --> 0:52:45.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm still exploring this. I've been a diaper lever for

0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:48.160
<v Speaker 1>quite some time. But from what I understood me, I

0:52:48.239 --> 0:52:51.239
<v Speaker 1>like research. I love reading, so I like to understand,

0:52:51.760 --> 0:52:54.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, how other people see it. So there was

0:52:54.320 --> 0:52:58.360
<v Speaker 1>actually a paper written by a psychologist that actually explain

0:52:58.440 --> 0:53:02.200
<v Speaker 1>that there is actually is a spectrum of it. You know,

0:53:03.520 --> 0:53:05.959
<v Speaker 1>uh like adult babies on this side, you have diaper

0:53:06.040 --> 0:53:08.600
<v Speaker 1>lovers on this into the spectrum what do you follow

0:53:08.600 --> 0:53:11.480
<v Speaker 1>on that spectrum. I think I was more diaper lover,

0:53:11.719 --> 0:53:15.600
<v Speaker 1>but I think always I've been in the middle. Is

0:53:15.640 --> 0:53:20.000
<v Speaker 1>there a baby talk going on? Um, because I've explained

0:53:20.000 --> 0:53:23.400
<v Speaker 1>to us more so like just walk us through, like

0:53:23.640 --> 0:53:25.440
<v Speaker 1>is it being put on you or do you have

0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:29.120
<v Speaker 1>it on? Okay, so it's more all right. So if

0:53:29.120 --> 0:53:32.560
<v Speaker 1>it's the age thing, more at age play, let's just

0:53:32.600 --> 0:53:35.800
<v Speaker 1>make it clear. It's like role playing. UM in certain

0:53:35.800 --> 0:53:39.239
<v Speaker 1>scenarios and maybe people who really regress psychologically, but in

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:41.200
<v Speaker 1>my in my situation, I would want it to be

0:53:41.320 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 1>just strictly role play. So say with my with my

0:53:44.239 --> 0:53:47.160
<v Speaker 1>with my wife, UM, I'll never you know, try to

0:53:47.160 --> 0:53:50.040
<v Speaker 1>coerce her into wanting it. I mean just letting her

0:53:50.080 --> 0:53:53.319
<v Speaker 1>know her accept it. Um. She's really cool about it,

0:53:53.360 --> 0:53:55.400
<v Speaker 1>and she kind of liked it, you know, it was

0:53:55.480 --> 0:53:59.200
<v Speaker 1>cute to her. Um. But we never really did the

0:53:59.200 --> 0:54:01.840
<v Speaker 1>whole regression because you know, I'm still new to it.

0:54:01.960 --> 0:54:04.680
<v Speaker 1>I do want to try it. Um. She's new to it,

0:54:04.760 --> 0:54:06.600
<v Speaker 1>so she really doesn't know what to do. So saying

0:54:06.640 --> 0:54:10.600
<v Speaker 1>that is actually so interesting because you said your thirty

0:54:10.640 --> 0:54:13.000
<v Speaker 1>five that started at twenty four, and so for the

0:54:13.000 --> 0:54:16.600
<v Speaker 1>people listening who may be exploring their kinks as well.

0:54:16.920 --> 0:54:19.680
<v Speaker 1>For you to be a decade into knowing that this

0:54:19.760 --> 0:54:22.600
<v Speaker 1>is your kink, but still researching it, still figuring out

0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:25.200
<v Speaker 1>where you lie. I think that that is that's so

0:54:25.320 --> 0:54:27.480
<v Speaker 1>telling to the people who listen to the show and

0:54:27.920 --> 0:54:30.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, may feel like, oh my god, I'm jumping

0:54:30.400 --> 0:54:31.960
<v Speaker 1>into the deep end with this, but to know that

0:54:32.000 --> 0:54:34.640
<v Speaker 1>you can't kind of do babysips and still research and

0:54:34.680 --> 0:54:37.879
<v Speaker 1>read and go on message boards and figure out what

0:54:37.920 --> 0:54:40.680
<v Speaker 1>it is about the king that you like, why it

0:54:40.760 --> 0:54:42.920
<v Speaker 1>turns you on. And I guess so my question to

0:54:42.920 --> 0:54:46.799
<v Speaker 1>you now is you like wearing the diapers, um, but

0:54:46.920 --> 0:54:50.239
<v Speaker 1>your wife is still figuring it out. So is that

0:54:50.360 --> 0:54:53.000
<v Speaker 1>something that you do when she's not home or has

0:54:53.000 --> 0:54:55.960
<v Speaker 1>she allowed you to reach out to maybe sex workers

0:54:56.000 --> 0:54:59.800
<v Speaker 1>to engage in this kink? No? UM, definitely uh no

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:04.480
<v Speaker 1>to the sex worker situation. However, However, like kind of

0:55:04.600 --> 0:55:08.640
<v Speaker 1>earlier in the relationship or so, UM, it was times

0:55:08.640 --> 0:55:12.239
<v Speaker 1>when I did reach out to UM to uh, I

0:55:12.239 --> 0:55:15.359
<v Speaker 1>would say like dumb sex workers or so, but it's

0:55:15.400 --> 0:55:19.440
<v Speaker 1>always it's been like UM, you know, text messages and honestly,

0:55:19.800 --> 0:55:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I remember you guys had someone up here UM who

0:55:22.120 --> 0:55:24.160
<v Speaker 1>was talking about being a sex worker, and she explained,

0:55:24.440 --> 0:55:28.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, these girls are actually your dude sliding their

0:55:28.440 --> 0:55:30.359
<v Speaker 1>d m s and they entertain them and these guys

0:55:30.400 --> 0:55:32.239
<v Speaker 1>that get off to it. So my wife heard that

0:55:32.280 --> 0:55:34.359
<v Speaker 1>episode first, and I always told I told her that's

0:55:34.360 --> 0:55:39.719
<v Speaker 1>why I did, because she found I don't even she

0:55:39.760 --> 0:55:43.640
<v Speaker 1>described herself. Yeah, she goes by Marley mistress, but she

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:48.000
<v Speaker 1>definitely went into saying that she makes the guys pay

0:55:48.080 --> 0:55:50.839
<v Speaker 1>because they do get off just by the conversation going

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:52.759
<v Speaker 1>back and forth, and she refuses to go back and forth,

0:55:52.760 --> 0:55:57.359
<v Speaker 1>and I, you know, my wife she found she found

0:55:57.400 --> 0:55:58.640
<v Speaker 1>it out that I was doing that, and it was

0:55:58.680 --> 0:56:01.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of hard to explain that to listen, I don't

0:56:01.040 --> 0:56:03.560
<v Speaker 1>want to meet them, but yes, that's more true. The

0:56:03.600 --> 0:56:06.720
<v Speaker 1>guys do get off to that. She does. She consider

0:56:06.760 --> 0:56:10.000
<v Speaker 1>that cheating knowing that you were getting off with those exchanges. Well,

0:56:10.040 --> 0:56:13.320
<v Speaker 1>but more more so because it was it was behind

0:56:13.320 --> 0:56:18.080
<v Speaker 1>her back. Yeah, I found like ten different women were

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:22.520
<v Speaker 1>women like plus like, you're probably thinking, how is it

0:56:22.520 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to suck them in real life?

0:56:24.520 --> 0:56:28.560
<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly, So I like trying to explain that to them,

0:56:28.600 --> 0:56:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Like it's very it's very hard to explain something that's

0:56:31.600 --> 0:56:33.960
<v Speaker 1>that's off the beaten path from what people believe. So

0:56:34.080 --> 0:56:35.839
<v Speaker 1>if you're calling them, you gotta want to suck them.

0:56:35.880 --> 0:56:38.080
<v Speaker 1>That's what we want to believe, right that that's it's

0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:41.040
<v Speaker 1>easier to understand that. But when they when you're trying

0:56:41.040 --> 0:56:44.120
<v Speaker 1>to explain the psychologically, like listen, it's not that. But

0:56:44.200 --> 0:56:46.839
<v Speaker 1>I really can't explain what I like about it. That's

0:56:46.840 --> 0:56:49.200
<v Speaker 1>the hard part. And that's the part. I don't think

0:56:49.280 --> 0:56:51.520
<v Speaker 1>more people can explain exactly what they like about it.

0:56:51.560 --> 0:56:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I do want to get back to specifically what happens

0:56:55.120 --> 0:56:57.759
<v Speaker 1>in like a quote unquote session with you, Like, let's

0:56:57.840 --> 0:57:00.279
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about that more so because I want to

0:57:00.280 --> 0:57:02.399
<v Speaker 1>know if you just diis in the diaper or like

0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:06.520
<v Speaker 1>have you repeated one? Yes? I have? Okay, So is

0:57:06.560 --> 0:57:11.080
<v Speaker 1>there like clean up on the other persons? Um no,

0:57:11.200 --> 0:57:16.040
<v Speaker 1>because my wife want yeah, like during our our because

0:57:16.080 --> 0:57:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like the cleanup is probably like the heart

0:57:18.520 --> 0:57:22.160
<v Speaker 1>you like about it, like getting white, yes, getting white,

0:57:22.200 --> 0:57:24.880
<v Speaker 1>getting changed. There is something intimate about that, I mean,

0:57:25.400 --> 0:57:30.000
<v Speaker 1>something very intimate about that. You were shipping one I

0:57:30.080 --> 0:57:33.440
<v Speaker 1>have once before? Yes, Yeah, that's the story I want

0:57:33.440 --> 0:57:36.080
<v Speaker 1>to hear about. Can we talk about how that session went,

0:57:36.280 --> 0:57:38.680
<v Speaker 1>and like that was that session was just it was

0:57:38.720 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 1>just me by myself experiencing you just want to try ye.

0:57:42.440 --> 0:57:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, so you your wife. I was like, she,

0:57:46.760 --> 0:57:50.200
<v Speaker 1>she's okay with me wearing around her. She's okay with that,

0:57:50.600 --> 0:57:54.200
<v Speaker 1>and like she always wants to know how how you know,

0:57:54.600 --> 0:57:57.280
<v Speaker 1>how can I be more involved with it? So I

0:57:57.360 --> 0:57:59.480
<v Speaker 1>love that you if you were like, so do you

0:57:59.520 --> 0:58:03.760
<v Speaker 1>like pull it to the side the fun want One

0:58:03.800 --> 0:58:06.720
<v Speaker 1>memorable time that I loved and and and she loved

0:58:06.720 --> 0:58:08.680
<v Speaker 1>it too, was that I was wearing it once and

0:58:08.840 --> 0:58:12.840
<v Speaker 1>she um pulled up paintings aside and just rote and

0:58:13.000 --> 0:58:15.640
<v Speaker 1>rubbed her pussy on the on the diaper and she

0:58:16.320 --> 0:58:19.440
<v Speaker 1>she's got she got so fucking wet. Really such a

0:58:19.720 --> 0:58:24.480
<v Speaker 1>crazy turn on. And uh, recently, UM, like, like I said,

0:58:24.520 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 1>she's trying to she's still trying to figure he's figuring

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:28.720
<v Speaker 1>out what turned her on and stuff like that, because

0:58:28.720 --> 0:58:31.360
<v Speaker 1>I always wanted to push that, you know, no you masturbate.

0:58:31.400 --> 0:58:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I always want to want to masturbate. And I had

0:58:33.520 --> 0:58:36.080
<v Speaker 1>that guilt with it, you know, And UM, I mean

0:58:36.280 --> 0:58:38.240
<v Speaker 1>thank you. Shout out to you guys. Definitely become telling

0:58:38.280 --> 0:58:41.480
<v Speaker 1>you listening to your podcast for her has opened her up.

0:58:41.640 --> 0:58:47.560
<v Speaker 1>So it's amazing. So, um, that's so dope. Yeah, then

0:58:47.840 --> 0:58:54.920
<v Speaker 1>here can you clean it? So one of her major

0:58:55.320 --> 0:58:59.280
<v Speaker 1>um maroging zones is her titties, and UM, I don't

0:58:59.360 --> 0:59:02.040
<v Speaker 1>think that I was able to really figure that out,

0:59:02.760 --> 0:59:06.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean and really touch those points until recently. And um,

0:59:06.720 --> 0:59:09.880
<v Speaker 1>sucking her titties like she's super wet. She loved to

0:59:09.960 --> 0:59:15.360
<v Speaker 1>her that that that makes So what I wanted to

0:59:15.400 --> 0:59:17.440
<v Speaker 1>say is is that when I realized is that, hey,

0:59:17.440 --> 0:59:19.560
<v Speaker 1>if there's something, if you have a kink or something

0:59:19.600 --> 0:59:21.600
<v Speaker 1>and you want to get your partner involved, find out

0:59:21.600 --> 0:59:23.720
<v Speaker 1>a way to make that connect to something that turns

0:59:23.720 --> 0:59:27.520
<v Speaker 1>them on. Because me sucking sucking on her titties and

0:59:27.240 --> 0:59:29.840
<v Speaker 1>and and if I'm wearing one, like she would say

0:59:29.880 --> 0:59:32.240
<v Speaker 1>the little things and I'm me, I'm more of a

0:59:32.320 --> 0:59:34.800
<v Speaker 1>like a verbal mental type of person, and she would

0:59:34.800 --> 0:59:39.120
<v Speaker 1>say things like, oh yeah, baby, take ye know theeds. Uh,

0:59:39.240 --> 0:59:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the milk is all for you, baby, it's all forby.

0:59:43.440 --> 0:59:48.160
<v Speaker 1>It's stuff like that, and it drives me crazy. About

0:59:48.240 --> 0:59:55.520
<v Speaker 1>eight years and if she looks like this is well,

0:59:55.560 --> 0:59:58.600
<v Speaker 1>she knew about the diapers probably like four years into

0:59:58.600 --> 1:00:01.760
<v Speaker 1>our relationship. But like this now, like really trying to

1:00:01.760 --> 1:00:05.280
<v Speaker 1>incorporate it in like too uh two years and she

1:00:05.360 --> 1:00:09.640
<v Speaker 1>a black woman. I saw your you were like, oh,

1:00:09.640 --> 1:00:11.240
<v Speaker 1>if you don't think I'm a real person, you tagged

1:00:11.240 --> 1:00:13.600
<v Speaker 1>your page. Yes, I remember looking through your page. I'm

1:00:13.640 --> 1:00:16.440
<v Speaker 1>like this normal, asked nigga. They had a picture with

1:00:16.520 --> 1:00:19.440
<v Speaker 1>their kids. It wasn't your kids, yeah, and like dressed

1:00:19.520 --> 1:00:22.560
<v Speaker 1>up and I was like wow. And you know, it's

1:00:22.560 --> 1:00:26.080
<v Speaker 1>great to see because so many people I know that

1:00:26.120 --> 1:00:28.880
<v Speaker 1>are kinky that hit me up, like you just never

1:00:28.920 --> 1:00:31.040
<v Speaker 1>get to see them in their normal life. And it's

1:00:31.080 --> 1:00:34.160
<v Speaker 1>just so exhilarating to see you with your kids at

1:00:34.160 --> 1:00:36.920
<v Speaker 1>the school. And then you were your diaper ship because

1:00:36.960 --> 1:00:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you don't have a diaper page, which is where you

1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:42.200
<v Speaker 1>had us up from, and so you pose in the diaper.

1:00:42.240 --> 1:00:44.280
<v Speaker 1>You don't show your face. Um, I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>have tattoos. So that so that helps. Now, are you

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a kink community with that page? Or what? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, um, not really, Honestly, it might sound weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have that page more so for those who's

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<v Speaker 1>not within the community, more so for anyone who's curious about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kinks or so so just to I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>people are going to message you about it when you

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<v Speaker 1>dropped the page name on Instagram and will put it

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<v Speaker 1>in the description um for this episode as well. It's

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<v Speaker 1>handsome underscore black underscore diaper lover. How many other black

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<v Speaker 1>people have you met that are into this? A few?

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<v Speaker 1>A few, but you know you would kind of know

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<v Speaker 1>that they're mean. How I mean, I don't know, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know because I didn't think it's yeah. But and

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy because I do most of my mont any

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<v Speaker 1>like real, I haven't many masculine black guys white men.

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<v Speaker 1>On the other hand, I've seen majority of any mean

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<v Speaker 1>they have like pages with with their with their with

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<v Speaker 1>their wives or speaking others who really have that that

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<v Speaker 1>mommy baby roll um cool pages, cool pages to follow,

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<v Speaker 1>gives you some great ideas to understand. But um, that's

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<v Speaker 1>I mainly see. You don't see too many masculine guys.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm the mask thing. I liked that you wrote

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<v Speaker 1>that in You Know your d M. You mentioned the

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<v Speaker 1>masculinity part of it. I really do believe that mask

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<v Speaker 1>sub exist. It's just that as a masculine person, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to like know that you're almost letting your guard down.

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<v Speaker 1>A bit to do it, and it's just like, funck

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<v Speaker 1>should I Like, I'm at a dude. Once I was

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<v Speaker 1>at a music festival. I don't remember where I was at,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I told him what I did for a living,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like spilling all this out to me super

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<v Speaker 1>mask and was like, I was like, you should totally

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<v Speaker 1>try it. There's so many women that would love to

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<v Speaker 1>domb you Like, it's gonna be so fucking easy to find.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like yeah, but like then I have

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<v Speaker 1>to reveal myself. Like I'll just go without it. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's telling me and he was mid thirties. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're never going to experience being stuck because you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to ask for it. He was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't, but it's not even asking. I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women, um, it's specifically so I I refer

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<v Speaker 1>to myself as a dom and I think that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women that are because if they're meeting masculine men,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of men are very masculine. Men are assertive,

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<v Speaker 1>they just take the dom position. And so as a

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<v Speaker 1>woman who may not be as confident with being a

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<v Speaker 1>dom or may you know regrets from dealing with a

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<v Speaker 1>dom because they know that that's not what they want,

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<v Speaker 1>they probably don't open up to it as much. But

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<v Speaker 1>I would like. I'll say a lot of the men

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<v Speaker 1>that I have either pegged or that i've dominated, I

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<v Speaker 1>get turned on that they are masculine, you know, showing men.

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<v Speaker 1>So not only are they really tall, they look like

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<v Speaker 1>they can protect me. They're like and they just come

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<v Speaker 1>across as very super masculine. Nothing about them as feminine,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what turns me on with even dominating with you.

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<v Speaker 1>They can let that guard down, but it does. It

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<v Speaker 1>does take time to talk to a masculine man and

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<v Speaker 1>let them know your skill the man and you're still

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<v Speaker 1>the man um and we can switch. So I do switch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let them know that they can still put the

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<v Speaker 1>ship out of me and do their dom part. But

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<v Speaker 1>I like to let them know like I'd love for

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<v Speaker 1>you to be my sub and the guy that I

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<v Speaker 1>pissed on before. Um he used to actually love when

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<v Speaker 1>we switched. When I was dominating him, he would like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your little bit, right, so he liked he liked

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<v Speaker 1>to actually be talked down to and be my stub.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when we would switch, he'd be like you're

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<v Speaker 1>my slut. Like honestly, like half of domming is talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the majority of it definitely, which is why

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<v Speaker 1>my most memorable experience I always talk about how he

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<v Speaker 1>said nothing to me, Like the time I got dominated

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<v Speaker 1>the best. It was like no fucking words. It was crazy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and that ship was nuts, like minimal words, but like

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<v Speaker 1>normally it's just like a lot, just minimal verbit like

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<v Speaker 1>he even at one point used his hand to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me just to like sit and then like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think when you like talking turns us on so much,

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<v Speaker 1>but when you're able to feel energy without words like

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<v Speaker 1>that in a room, you could yell at someone and

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<v Speaker 1>curse them out all you want, but when you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're angry and you could both sit there and Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's crazy though, because when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually used to hate instruction, direction, words did I

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<v Speaker 1>make you come? Or niggas who talked too much, because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think that it was supposed to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of sex. But now as I'm comfortable with knowing

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<v Speaker 1>what I want and saying that and also be the

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<v Speaker 1>person to give direction, I enjoy getting feedback and hearing

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<v Speaker 1>moans and and just hearing my lovers. So in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of I guess wearing the diaper, you use it now

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<v Speaker 1>during masturbation more so you would say correct, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't say that. I would say, uh, if I'm masturbating,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually not wearing it. Maybe okay, most of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say that a little closer for you, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>usually not wearing it during masturbation. But when I, if

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<v Speaker 1>I do wear it, it may lead up to masturbation,

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<v Speaker 1>but you get aroused, you get hard in the diaper

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<v Speaker 1>um sometimes sometimes How often do you engage in diaper play?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm once a week? Maybe. I do have a

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<v Speaker 1>quick question now, just the brand of diapers matter? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I did see this on your page. Yes, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so there are many different brands. Let me tell you

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<v Speaker 1>a story about when I figured this out, right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. This is uh So, when I first

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<v Speaker 1>got into it, right, I always thought it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like depends or you know, just regular. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>depends too. I thought that's it. But not only we

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<v Speaker 1>we came in here and mentioned not saying loves. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>talk more, but we mentioned not saying loves. We know

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<v Speaker 1>Pampers is now brand the same way we appreciate clean

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<v Speaker 1>X with cleanex with tissues. So this brand that you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about is for adults? Are these are actually fetish diapers?

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<v Speaker 1>Right here? That's the baby ducks and let it out,

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<v Speaker 1>get the comments, get them. So it's it's called if

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<v Speaker 1>you go up, you see there's actually more and it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually it's actually it's actually a big business. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's the name brand of these for those of

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<v Speaker 1>you who aren't watching us on YouTube is little for big,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the name. There's tygables, there's uh rayers are eight. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I did. Actually you brought a pamper with you? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. He came with the props. I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>ask you if you are not wearing you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just hold on. I'm trying to find a comment that

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<v Speaker 1>talks about wearing them for fetishism. This one is a

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<v Speaker 1>little for big, Okay for big? This is a Dampers big.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it is. Isn't it too big for you? It

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<v Speaker 1>goes past your belly button? Okay, so it gotta be big.

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<v Speaker 1>This is do they come into They come in different sizes.

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<v Speaker 1>What size is this? This? This is a media biggest

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<v Speaker 1>could she put it on? All right? Let me see

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<v Speaker 1>what is it? This is like just feels I'm putting

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<v Speaker 1>the diaper on. Wait, don't stick it and in the elasticity.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, he ain't gonna put Now it's been in

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<v Speaker 1>your crush. I can use it. Yeah, I can stick.

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<v Speaker 1>She about to sit in a camp for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the show. Also, it doesn't even really so it's

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm patting yours. Wait let me see this fucking plessy.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you how do you fill in it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, clearly you're you're putting it on over pants,

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<v Speaker 1>but marthus minute from my tity might maybe coming out. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it feels puffy. Is that a part of what you like?

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<v Speaker 1>The feeling of it? Do you see that people leave

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<v Speaker 1>reviews talking about, um, the book sulkiness or the softness

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<v Speaker 1>and for some people the like the sound to make

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<v Speaker 1>the crinkliness you're gonna have like plastic back diapers and

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<v Speaker 1>clothes back diapers and not coming to realize like I

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<v Speaker 1>really love the plastic back more like as like a

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<v Speaker 1>baby diaper work today And I didn't know where this

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<v Speaker 1>was no idea, but now its heading out of nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>with a bank piste in it. Mm hmm, like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't sit in the piss right what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wearing here? You take it off because as an adult

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<v Speaker 1>you can. But as an adult, like I know that

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<v Speaker 1>you can get diaper rash as a baby, yet no

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. You've never had gotten lucky. Okay, you've gotten lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>Um So, I guess the things that um they definitely

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<v Speaker 1>go for is the stretchiness of it. Um. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're wearing your right now, it can't always

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<v Speaker 1>be sexual? Is it not always? It's not always sexual.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's another thing. It's not. It's not just a

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<v Speaker 1>primarily a sexual king for me? Can you go to

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<v Speaker 1>Little Squirts? Yes? This is Rears Okay, so Rares is

1:10:17.400 --> 1:10:21.439
<v Speaker 1>another brand that we see. There is leak protection. I love. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>For those of you who are interested in I was

1:10:24.360 --> 1:10:27.640
<v Speaker 1>about to say, there's discrete delivery, so it shifts discreetly

1:10:27.680 --> 1:10:30.600
<v Speaker 1>in plane and unmarked packaging to your doorstep. So for

1:10:30.680 --> 1:10:34.559
<v Speaker 1>those of you who may be interested in ordering these, um,

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<v Speaker 1>your neighbors don't have to know that you're ordering adult diapers. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you go down to the comments? Um so I

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<v Speaker 1>want so? Yeah, this person actually says the tape isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that good in these? So I wanted to ask you.

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<v Speaker 1>This person says, I really wanted to like these because

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<v Speaker 1>the pattern is cute. So does the pattern affect your

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<v Speaker 1>purchase of the diapers? And does does the pattern affect

1:10:57.479 --> 1:11:00.960
<v Speaker 1>your arousal while wearing them? Uh? It does affect my arousal,

1:11:01.000 --> 1:11:04.400
<v Speaker 1>but it does affect my like my interest in getting them,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, like, uh, I enjoyed. A lot of

1:11:07.400 --> 1:11:09.680
<v Speaker 1>people are talking about the designs. The more yeah, the

1:11:09.760 --> 1:11:13.920
<v Speaker 1>design of it, um, it does it makes me feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more vulnerable, I would say, so, like

1:11:17.040 --> 1:11:21.280
<v Speaker 1>once again it plays into that domb sub dynamic and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let the designs, let me model them. So

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<v Speaker 1>the um the diaper that Wheezy has on right now

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<v Speaker 1>has um, teddy Bears, bottles, Binkies, bunny rabbits, um and

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<v Speaker 1>and actually would these not be considered feminine as well?

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<v Speaker 1>With the pink colors? Are there do that differentiate between

1:11:45.240 --> 1:11:49.680
<v Speaker 1>boy diapers and girl diapers? And some may, some may

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<v Speaker 1>Uh So like the first ones I had on the list,

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<v Speaker 1>we're blue, those same ones coming pink also, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they can differentiate. I mean, just like any other dob

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<v Speaker 1>dom sub dynamic. There are UM sissies as well. There

1:12:05.800 --> 1:12:09.679
<v Speaker 1>are sissy babies that might be UH guys who want

1:12:09.680 --> 1:12:14.400
<v Speaker 1>to identify with being UM the little female babies or so. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's something. Also, do you have a name?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a name? As in like a baby name?

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<v Speaker 1>It makes you feel like, oh yeah, we are actually

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<v Speaker 1>running out of times all I want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>right now. God violent a little happen now. I love

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<v Speaker 1>this UM. I think UM where you said you like

1:12:37.080 --> 1:12:39.799
<v Speaker 1>to read and do research before we get into the homemail.

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<v Speaker 1>Where can someone who's interested in UM this type of

1:12:44.400 --> 1:12:46.719
<v Speaker 1>kink maybe do their research. Do you have any websites

1:12:46.800 --> 1:12:51.840
<v Speaker 1>or books? UM? Not really books Yeah on UM on

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon there's many books as many psychologists who actually UM

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<v Speaker 1>who's in the field of psychology who's identified as an

1:12:59.720 --> 1:13:03.519
<v Speaker 1>a deal UM like Rosalie Bent is one of them,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she's she has a very good one. UM. There's

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<v Speaker 1>also just in case you know, if you have a

1:13:09.120 --> 1:13:11.720
<v Speaker 1>partner who's who want to take that dom role and

1:13:11.760 --> 1:13:14.720
<v Speaker 1>maybe incorporate diapers and the punishment. There's a book that

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<v Speaker 1>was written this called A hundred and one Diaper Punishments

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<v Speaker 1>that that that that I think that's a good one. Also, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of different you know, I appreciate you so

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<v Speaker 1>much because we uh, you know, we want to interview

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<v Speaker 1>more normal people. Ironically I'm calling you that civilians. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you just don't really know if someone's going

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<v Speaker 1>to have like a personality that's good enough, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And we've had some like on and off experience with

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<v Speaker 1>actually getting people who's kink is a certain thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just really glad that you were able to describe

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<v Speaker 1>it so well and just so you know, and and

1:13:55.240 --> 1:13:59.479
<v Speaker 1>um just explaining what you like and knowing that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk shit about it and still just being like, yep,

1:14:04.600 --> 1:14:07.519
<v Speaker 1>I came up here and uh, we just want to

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<v Speaker 1>come on the show before we just just a rap. Personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm fans of you guys. I mean, I believe

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<v Speaker 1>that there's no better being a creepy fan shockingly try

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<v Speaker 1>not to be UM. And I feel like it would

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<v Speaker 1>be best, especially for the black community, if I came

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<v Speaker 1>on and spoke about it with you guys as supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, I mean don't want to for lack

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<v Speaker 1>of the term right now, you know, a white pap podcasters.

1:14:31.520 --> 1:14:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean they're used to that, but I wanna, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>give this to our community to let um individuals know

1:14:37.479 --> 1:14:39.960
<v Speaker 1>that hey listen, especially especially women. I mean, get to

1:14:40.000 --> 1:14:42.240
<v Speaker 1>know a guy first, even and just because they may

1:14:42.280 --> 1:14:44.960
<v Speaker 1>be into a kink that may make you look at

1:14:44.960 --> 1:14:47.880
<v Speaker 1>them a little bit less masculine or so um, it

1:14:47.920 --> 1:14:50.040
<v Speaker 1>doesn't you know, dictate who they are as a person,

1:14:50.080 --> 1:14:51.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, get to know them first. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>other thing too, that will come from this it is

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily maybe too much diaper fetish, but men realizing

1:14:59.200 --> 1:15:02.320
<v Speaker 1>that they have a subpart to them, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>just knowing that they can pull that out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you are, how tall are you? That's it? You got

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<v Speaker 1>a tall as presence on Yeah, you do. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's that masculate energy. Yeah. But also with what

1:15:18.000 --> 1:15:21.080
<v Speaker 1>you just said, I also appreciate you coming on as

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<v Speaker 1>a black man UM, not only discussing your kink, but

1:15:26.280 --> 1:15:29.599
<v Speaker 1>also you have a black wife, UM. And I love

1:15:29.640 --> 1:15:32.840
<v Speaker 1>the fact that what this podcast is doing and what

1:15:32.880 --> 1:15:35.639
<v Speaker 1>we hope to do, is to have both black women

1:15:35.920 --> 1:15:40.080
<v Speaker 1>and black men both open up more with knowing themselves, UM,

1:15:40.160 --> 1:15:43.960
<v Speaker 1>specifically their sexuality and being able to share with each

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<v Speaker 1>other without us, you know, shaming one another, because we

1:15:47.280 --> 1:15:49.920
<v Speaker 1>already have everyone else that fucking talks down on us. Um,

1:15:50.000 --> 1:15:52.439
<v Speaker 1>and I just love that within this community we can

1:15:52.479 --> 1:15:56.160
<v Speaker 1>just uplift each other, not only in school, in education,

1:15:56.479 --> 1:16:00.400
<v Speaker 1>in our careers, but also in the bedrooms. Right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you guys know that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know something something Maybe you should do it, something like

1:16:06.600 --> 1:16:09.439
<v Speaker 1>walk around the house. Some guys actually dig that. It

1:16:09.479 --> 1:16:12.720
<v Speaker 1>does make me have to pee? Really, I swear with

1:16:12.760 --> 1:16:14.760
<v Speaker 1>your pants. Maybe it's just like because I know it's

1:16:14.760 --> 1:16:18.960
<v Speaker 1>all right. I mean, I feel like I gotta go

1:16:18.960 --> 1:16:22.000
<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, but I also like I probably just

1:16:22.000 --> 1:16:23.800
<v Speaker 1>have to pee already. Do you wear underwear with the

1:16:23.840 --> 1:16:27.080
<v Speaker 1>diaper or just diaper and then just just diaper is

1:16:27.479 --> 1:16:29.280
<v Speaker 1>with your cock out? And what then? Do you think

1:16:29.320 --> 1:16:33.680
<v Speaker 1>this is? Do you think he's a fucking amateur? He

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<v Speaker 1>rights once a week? Let me stop that year ship

1:16:47.080 --> 1:16:55.200
<v Speaker 1>it lets it's the leap year. Didn't as well? Real quick, y'all. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>This one is someone who wrote in and said that

1:16:57.760 --> 1:17:02.080
<v Speaker 1>they're frustrated slash unable to have sex. No it's fine,

1:17:02.240 --> 1:17:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Well we got it. No, someone's coming in. We let's

1:17:05.120 --> 1:17:06.320
<v Speaker 1>cut that part out. We don't need a homemal. I

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<v Speaker 1>just said we're going to skip the home let's cut

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<v Speaker 1>that out. We don't have time. Okay, oh wait, we

1:17:12.080 --> 1:17:13.400
<v Speaker 1>do have to get out of three. I forgot my

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<v Speaker 1>bad Okay. Well, um, well, we're not gonna make um.

1:17:17.360 --> 1:17:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, let me know when you cut it out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're not gonna make homemail this week because we

1:17:21.880 --> 1:17:25.680
<v Speaker 1>just had such a great ass conference question. It was

1:17:25.920 --> 1:17:29.439
<v Speaker 1>before we do get out. It's okay, before we get

1:17:29.479 --> 1:17:31.680
<v Speaker 1>out of here, go ahead and drop your Instagram name

1:17:31.720 --> 1:17:36.960
<v Speaker 1>one more time. It is handsome because I'm handsome, obviously underscore,

1:17:37.160 --> 1:17:41.160
<v Speaker 1>but because I'm black, underscore diaper lever because I'm a

1:17:41.200 --> 1:17:45.040
<v Speaker 1>diaper lover. Okay, um, and if you didn't know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna put that information in um the description of

1:17:48.680 --> 1:17:51.439
<v Speaker 1>this episode. Also, I want to wish all of you

1:17:51.560 --> 1:17:55.439
<v Speaker 1>a very merre chrimas um hanakah. Whatever else is around

1:17:55.439 --> 1:17:58.480
<v Speaker 1>to describe this holiday is bringing you back to your childhood.

1:17:58.560 --> 1:18:01.160
<v Speaker 1>And I just want to say, why did you just

1:18:01.280 --> 1:18:03.640
<v Speaker 1>roll your eyes at me? Edding? Okay, now, I'll just

1:18:03.800 --> 1:18:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I wants dot com check out this Patreon clip. Get

1:18:08.760 --> 1:18:13.040
<v Speaker 1>in there. We got like fifty some episodes. My nigga back,

1:18:14.240 --> 1:18:16.280
<v Speaker 1>so we have to get out of here in order

1:18:16.320 --> 1:18:19.120
<v Speaker 1>to record in place of Mac Wilde's on the Guy's

1:18:19.160 --> 1:18:22.840
<v Speaker 1>next Door. So here goes this week's homemail for the

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<v Speaker 1>bonus episode, y'all. The title is frustrated and unable to

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<v Speaker 1>have sex. Hey girl, Hey, I've recently discovered your podcasts

1:18:31.680 --> 1:18:33.519
<v Speaker 1>and I have to say I love it. From the

1:18:33.520 --> 1:18:36.000
<v Speaker 1>discussions you have to the information you share and the

1:18:36.000 --> 1:18:38.839
<v Speaker 1>guests you feature, you ladies are amazing and I'm thankful

1:18:38.880 --> 1:18:41.719
<v Speaker 1>to have stumbled upon y'all. I am emailing and praying

1:18:41.800 --> 1:18:45.559
<v Speaker 1>you will respond. I've been with my significant other for

1:18:45.680 --> 1:18:48.599
<v Speaker 1>ten years. We live with my parents while we save

1:18:48.720 --> 1:18:52.519
<v Speaker 1>for our home. California house prices are no joke. Like

1:18:52.600 --> 1:18:56.040
<v Speaker 1>every couple, we started with wild, crazy sex that happened

1:18:56.120 --> 1:18:59.920
<v Speaker 1>very frequently. Fast forward to today and we no longer

1:19:00.400 --> 1:19:03.360
<v Speaker 1>have that wild sex. He of course, has no issue

1:19:03.360 --> 1:19:04.920
<v Speaker 1>with being ready to go at the drop of the

1:19:04.920 --> 1:19:09.840
<v Speaker 1>hat and frequently has to ask for it. Oh sorry, y'all.

1:19:10.760 --> 1:19:12.880
<v Speaker 1>I end up giving in, and I know for a

1:19:12.920 --> 1:19:16.080
<v Speaker 1>fact it's just to have him to stop asking. It's

1:19:16.240 --> 1:19:19.160
<v Speaker 1>not even what I would call sex. It's just me

1:19:19.320 --> 1:19:23.640
<v Speaker 1>laying there not doing anything until he has finished. That

1:19:23.680 --> 1:19:27.840
<v Speaker 1>reminds me of a handmade tale, which does not sound good.

1:19:28.600 --> 1:19:32.320
<v Speaker 1>I feel terrible and frustrated. I'm continuously trying to figure

1:19:32.320 --> 1:19:35.600
<v Speaker 1>out what's wrong with me. I first thought it was

1:19:35.680 --> 1:19:40.240
<v Speaker 1>me being Chewbacca, so I started getting Brazilian's monthly. Then

1:19:40.400 --> 1:19:42.519
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was because of my mental health. But

1:19:42.600 --> 1:19:45.280
<v Speaker 1>then I was put on medication and I'm no longer depressed.

1:19:45.680 --> 1:19:49.000
<v Speaker 1>It's hard. I want to have sex, but there are

1:19:49.040 --> 1:19:51.960
<v Speaker 1>times I just cannot, for the life of me, get

1:19:52.000 --> 1:19:55.120
<v Speaker 1>into the right hand space. I truly want the crazy

1:19:55.200 --> 1:19:58.040
<v Speaker 1>animal of six sex that we would have. I have

1:19:58.240 --> 1:20:00.519
<v Speaker 1>noticed that when I get drunk enough to X and

1:20:00.640 --> 1:20:04.040
<v Speaker 1>let my wall slowly go I have I can have

1:20:04.160 --> 1:20:08.360
<v Speaker 1>actual sex. For instance, we went to the brewery the

1:20:08.400 --> 1:20:11.040
<v Speaker 1>other day, I had a couple of strong beers, and

1:20:11.080 --> 1:20:13.519
<v Speaker 1>when we got home, I attacked him. It was the

1:20:13.520 --> 1:20:18.320
<v Speaker 1>most intex intense sex we had in so long. I

1:20:18.439 --> 1:20:20.559
<v Speaker 1>even had him take out the dial doough that has

1:20:20.600 --> 1:20:22.960
<v Speaker 1>been hidden away in a drawer and we used it.

1:20:23.400 --> 1:20:26.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm scared that even though he says it's fine, it's okay,

1:20:26.720 --> 1:20:28.920
<v Speaker 1>he will end up being so bothered he will seek

1:20:28.960 --> 1:20:32.559
<v Speaker 1>being sexually satisfied elsewhere I need advice. Would you be

1:20:32.560 --> 1:20:34.799
<v Speaker 1>able to send me this episode that this is covered

1:20:34.800 --> 1:20:39.320
<v Speaker 1>in UM, and I would greatly appreciate anything. Sign frustrated

1:20:39.360 --> 1:20:44.880
<v Speaker 1>and afraid. So the crazy part about this is is

1:20:44.920 --> 1:20:49.559
<v Speaker 1>two things. UM. I have been going through a lot

1:20:49.560 --> 1:20:52.720
<v Speaker 1>of anxiety and I've talked about that recently, and I

1:20:52.760 --> 1:20:56.640
<v Speaker 1>know that it has affected my sex drive. Now, the

1:20:56.720 --> 1:21:01.080
<v Speaker 1>thing about anxiety and depression is yes, you can get

1:21:01.120 --> 1:21:05.599
<v Speaker 1>put on medication for it UM, and those are antidepressants. However,

1:21:05.960 --> 1:21:11.920
<v Speaker 1>ironically alcohol UM is a depressant. So it's odd that

1:21:12.040 --> 1:21:15.920
<v Speaker 1>you are not only taking antidepressants, but you are also

1:21:16.160 --> 1:21:18.840
<v Speaker 1>drinking and you feel that that's when you're able to

1:21:18.880 --> 1:21:22.040
<v Speaker 1>have sex. I think that this is something, of course

1:21:22.080 --> 1:21:25.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say UM should maybe be sought after with

1:21:25.600 --> 1:21:28.800
<v Speaker 1>a therapist. But maybe also you guys can open be

1:21:28.880 --> 1:21:32.240
<v Speaker 1>open to trying new things. Maybe whatever type of sex

1:21:32.320 --> 1:21:36.320
<v Speaker 1>you have been having wasn't fun, or the animalistic sex

1:21:36.360 --> 1:21:39.719
<v Speaker 1>stopped and now you're just having real basic sex. Maybe

1:21:39.760 --> 1:21:41.960
<v Speaker 1>you guys need to incorporate things into the bedroom that

1:21:42.000 --> 1:21:48.360
<v Speaker 1>can excite you. UM. Also maybe just masturbating, becoming more

1:21:48.400 --> 1:21:54.080
<v Speaker 1>sexual with yourself, watching porn um and getting in maybe

1:21:54.200 --> 1:21:58.599
<v Speaker 1>a horny mood can work. UM, I would say try

1:21:58.680 --> 1:22:02.240
<v Speaker 1>those things. I think that we do also put a

1:22:02.240 --> 1:22:05.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure on ourselves when we are dating someone

1:22:06.560 --> 1:22:11.080
<v Speaker 1>to fulfill them sexually, even when we have needs that

1:22:11.120 --> 1:22:15.000
<v Speaker 1>aren't being met. And so in terms of you knowing

1:22:15.000 --> 1:22:18.120
<v Speaker 1>that you're battling with your mental health and just you

1:22:18.200 --> 1:22:21.720
<v Speaker 1>just aren't feeling like yourself lately, I think it's important

1:22:21.760 --> 1:22:28.400
<v Speaker 1>to focus on why that is before you focus on

1:22:28.560 --> 1:22:32.840
<v Speaker 1>pleasing someone else. So you saying that you're laying there

1:22:33.080 --> 1:22:36.720
<v Speaker 1>and not even giving any sort of action back and

1:22:36.760 --> 1:22:41.160
<v Speaker 1>you're just giving him your body until he finishes, can

1:22:41.240 --> 1:22:46.760
<v Speaker 1>actually be um hurting you more in the long run. UM.

1:22:46.800 --> 1:22:50.320
<v Speaker 1>It could be affecting your mental health in another way. UM.

1:22:50.360 --> 1:22:53.680
<v Speaker 1>And it can be also just affecting your self esteem

1:22:53.720 --> 1:22:57.200
<v Speaker 1>with feeling like, damn, what's wrong with me? You wrote

1:22:57.240 --> 1:23:00.360
<v Speaker 1>that in caps, So you do think that there's something

1:23:00.360 --> 1:23:05.000
<v Speaker 1>wrong with you because you're not able to um fully

1:23:05.040 --> 1:23:07.840
<v Speaker 1>please someone else. And I think that that's the problem.

1:23:07.880 --> 1:23:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I think so many of us seek fulfillment and happiness

1:23:12.520 --> 1:23:17.720
<v Speaker 1>from others. We constantly need the affirmations of oh my god,

1:23:17.760 --> 1:23:21.240
<v Speaker 1>you're beautiful or the desire of well, I got niggas

1:23:21.240 --> 1:23:23.280
<v Speaker 1>that want to suck me, and I do think that

1:23:23.280 --> 1:23:25.600
<v Speaker 1>that's a problem with us as women. I think we

1:23:25.720 --> 1:23:29.360
<v Speaker 1>place our value on being able to please someone else

1:23:30.040 --> 1:23:33.120
<v Speaker 1>and that's kind of trash. So my advice would be

1:23:33.200 --> 1:23:38.040
<v Speaker 1>too kind of focus more on yourself, don't focus on

1:23:38.080 --> 1:23:42.240
<v Speaker 1>pleasing him. Be very upfront and communicative with him on

1:23:42.320 --> 1:23:47.040
<v Speaker 1>where your mental state is. Um, you not knowing what's wrong,

1:23:47.520 --> 1:23:50.960
<v Speaker 1>and if he loves you, he's going to see it through. Um.

1:23:51.000 --> 1:23:54.639
<v Speaker 1>And I don't think he's going to necessarily seek sex

1:23:55.360 --> 1:23:59.920
<v Speaker 1>or satisfaction and attention from another woman if he true

1:24:00.040 --> 1:24:03.479
<v Speaker 1>he loves and desires you. Oh,