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Speaker 1: I know some of you already know because y'all are

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Speaker 1: making your payments now, but we will be in the

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Speaker 1: grill Jamaica for Memorial Day weekend for Moca Fest a

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Speaker 1: lot of you guys. Actually, I actually have been getting

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Speaker 1: some some tweets lately talking about where are you guys

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Speaker 1: dropping the tickets for Jamaica. So just so you guys know,

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Speaker 1: we are doing a live show in Jamaica on top

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Speaker 1: of partying with you guys for the week. But the

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Speaker 1: live show comes with the party package. So go to

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Speaker 1: Moca fest dot com right now and use promo code

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Speaker 1: horrible that's w h O R E I B L

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Speaker 1: E and say fifty dollars on your package. Now, you

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Speaker 1: guys can come in groups of one, twos, and threes.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be a good as fun ass TOWRK tactic

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Speaker 1: as time. I'm excited. I did actually get to experience

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Speaker 1: Moca Fest and can't coon this year, and boy, the

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Speaker 1: people are very good looking. So I'm hoping that I

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Speaker 1: don't funk fans because that's what I don't want to do.

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Speaker 1: But I'm excited to see all of you guys in Jamaica.

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Speaker 1: Get your tickets now again. That's at Moca Fest dot

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Speaker 1: Com promo code Horrible Horrible Decisions Live. You guys have

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Speaker 1: been hearing us talk about it on every fucking episode,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not talking no more. I'm gonna yell it

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Speaker 1: at you. January bitch, you need to be at the

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Speaker 1: first motherfucking goddamn show. On the eighteenth, We're gonna be

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Speaker 1: in Detroit. I am so excited to gamble. I know

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Speaker 1: I keep talking about that. Yeah, we have to do

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Speaker 1: we're doing the me and greet, But Monday, I'm ready

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Speaker 1: to gamble. So come to the show and then watch

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Speaker 1: me blow all my money and be in tears. Cleveland.

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Speaker 1: What day are we gonna be there, Mandy, I'm not

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Speaker 1: the smartest of the two. Okay, Well, hell be in

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Speaker 1: doing New York City, so fay on we will be

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Speaker 1: at Sony Hall. And if you guys saw that we

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Speaker 1: hold out Friday, we have news for you. If you

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Speaker 1: have not seen on our social Media's we added a

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Speaker 1: second show, so New York City, get your tickets now

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Speaker 1: for January is on the Vain Team five Sony Hall,

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Speaker 1: Get your tickets now. We're looking forward to meeting and

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Speaker 1: seeing you all and putting on a hell of a show.

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Speaker 1: Get your tickets now at Horrible Decisions dot Com. Battle like,

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Speaker 1: if you don't like, you know what I'm saying. If

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Speaker 1: in Dallas, bitch, go to Horrible Decisions dot Com. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. And then we're in Houston on the three.

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Speaker 1: So again, we're looking forward to seeing you guys in Texas,

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Speaker 1: the Midwest, New York and stay tuned because in January

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Speaker 1: we will be posting tickets for the Southeast and the West,

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Speaker 1: So get your tickets now Horrible Decisions dot Com. Now

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Speaker 1: let's get on with the shop. We hear y'all, but

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Speaker 1: I've been before we started this week's episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: Mary chrismas. Um. I know it's the twenty three, but

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Speaker 1: It's like, this is not Black Friday. I've cried real

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Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. I'm terrified you guys, this is one of

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Speaker 1: But no, I just want to hear talking about Bob.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard yourself talking about blood? Um? I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: Well they were. That's why we got not that we

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Speaker 1: listen what she want us to do. They're playing music

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Speaker 1: They called me construction Carol. Because I lost it, I said, okay,

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Speaker 1: because there's a dog stuck underneath. He's like so there, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so damn dog. It's one night of sleep. That's just

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Speaker 1: He's like, what's your emergency at the edge, No know,

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Speaker 1: what's your non emergency? I'm like, my non emergency is

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Speaker 1: have children, kids care No, I don't care about my

423
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,880
Speaker 1: kids even tell I need a good excuse to get

424
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 1: He was sick of me too. He was like, well,

425
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know right now with three one one,

426
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: we have up to seven hours to answer noise. I'm like,

427
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: that said, no problem, I guess I'll call the nine.

428
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: Then what I'm saying they don't take noise complaints in

429
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: New York like that for real at all? Like they

430
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: have seven hours to even respond to noise complaint. In

431
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: seven hours, they're not gonna be you gotta be white

432
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 1: about music anymore. Well, well maybe that's why people win.

433
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: Maybe that's why they don't respond in the Bronx, because

434
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 1: I like I am. They know, Yeah, my name is Karen.

435
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: I moved here for work, okay, just a little bit

436
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 1: up um, you know, for my normal. But here I

437
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: am up on the six Jenny, and someone needs to

438
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: come and get these theta else it is all day,

439
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: I know. I'm telling That's why even when I'll be

440
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 1: on the Orchard Beach, I'll be like, why are you

441
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: going to Archer Beach? Because first off, it's only a

442
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 1: ten minute drive, and I like the beach with Nigga.

443
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: If you strike Puerto Rico when I go there and

444
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know, I can't listen to any I'll

445
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 1: be saying about Puerto rican bring spaghetti. You're bringing their

446
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: goddamn their entire family with them. And then they bring

447
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: flags the size of a sucking building. When Andrew that

448
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: ship talking about what do you need electricity for the beach? No, no,

449
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: it's literally the signs of that's Wames, bitch, and you

450
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 1: need a whole set up they do. I washed the

451
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: bitch with one of those um like a pank. What

452
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: do you do pancakes on top of like the stove thing,

453
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: the electrical stove. And I'm like, couldn't y'all have just

454
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 1: packaged and top away food? Why this was your body?

455
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: You everything, but all your noise came right there right

456
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: all that roommate Crisly used to go there and I'll

457
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: be like, you know, we're probably not going to hear

458
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: our own music, right Nope, So we're staying here trying

459
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: to listen to hip hop hop? Are you here all summer?

460
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:30,959
Speaker 1: Like a circuit? Babies ring? Like? Are you ready to

461
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 1: listen to Gasolina? Okay? Just like that over? Did you

462
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: guys know what Gasolina is about? Guess no? Gla oh,

463
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: I think well, at first I used to think it

464
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: was come and then now I thought I thought it

465
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: was like give me more, like give me a like

466
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 1: fuck me harder. Okay, see now they're about to come

467
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 1: for us. I'm sorry. When I was in Puerto Rico,

468
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: the fucking song came on and everybody was like doing

469
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 1: this thing with it and it goes like you know,

470
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know what I thought we'd I was like, no,

471
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: this is about the coca. I was like, no, I

472
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: did not. I didn't know that because the yes the

473
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: only part I really know. It's got to be Likelina listen,

474
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,719
Speaker 1: which was give me more gas, which again that's why

475
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: I thought it meant like me harder. Oh That's why

476
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: I thought it. Man. We because we just Okay, so

477
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 1: maybe they call Coke gas in Puerto Rico, I find out,

478
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: because um right, Um, anyways, we're gonna get into our

479
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: vanilla ship. And I did find this little article that

480
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: was sitting, but maybe we'll save it for a Patron

481
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: episode because although we are discussing this a couple of

482
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: weeks late, um, we all walked into the room and

483
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: I felt like we all had our opinions on this

484
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,399
Speaker 1: Lizzo situation. Um and so if you guys saw a

485
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, Lizzo decided to go to a

486
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: Lakers game with her whole ass out, and it caused

487
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: an uproar on social media. And I know that we

488
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: are all here for women empowerment and all these things,

489
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 1: but I think, um, we all maybe have different viewpoints

490
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: about this. Um So, as a man, we'll start with

491
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: our guests. Um, as a man, what are your thoughts

492
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: on because you said John I was even talking about

493
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: it in the group chat and man, what we're what

494
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: we're What are the men thoughts, most of whom were

495
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: jokes and uh yeah, definitely RICKISSI jokes. So, I mean,

496
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: I don't have anything negative to say about that with

497
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: her doing that, mainly because I don't know. I like

498
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 1: Little's personality so much. It's such a it's such an outgoing,

499
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: confident personality, and I could tell that it stems from

500
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: her being very you know, not secure with herself, you know,

501
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: having so many doors closed on her because of her

502
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: her her weight, and you know, being body shamed and

503
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: stuff like that. So when seeing her do something like that,

504
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: I mean it's like she's living her best life if

505
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: you just have a fucking live. I mean, I don't

506
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: see anything wrong with it at all. What's wep And actually,

507
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: if that's what she's gonna do, wander sent. I think her,

508
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: from where she's come from and the growth that she's taken,

509
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: she's earned the right to do that. And as long

510
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: as she's wonder saying comfortable in her own skin, and

511
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 1: it's not just like something that she's portraying. If she

512
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: truly fails, I love myself this much, I can do

513
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: it alls necessary. I want to ask, because I found

514
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: this to be a shitty excuse. Like I feel like

515
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: people just threw it out because they didn't like her outfit.

516
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: They were like, oh, but the kids, you have kids.

517
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: I felt like kids, they've seen worse on the internet.

518
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: There's black bodies on the news every fucking day. Like,

519
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: I really feel like the kid thinks bullshit, What do

520
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: you think about if your kids were there with you?

521
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: Which you cares? Uh? How your kids? Oh uh? Two

522
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: and twelve? Because I think that was the issue too.

523
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: She ended up on the Megatron and she turned around

524
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: and started working, and clearly that's the problem of her

525
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: whole back side out Um. So if you see that,

526
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: that specific image ended up on the big screen. So

527
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: that's where it's like there were kids there. Um. So

528
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: here's my thing. A lot of people brought up her

529
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: size and the confidence and that My thing is that

530
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: outfit will look good on nobody. It's just to me,

531
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: it's in poor taste. Um. And to me, I think

532
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: it's also you have you have all the success from

533
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: truth hurts and all of your singles this year. To me,

534
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: this is like attention seeking cloud chasing that I don't

535
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: think she needs. Um. I don't. I don't. I personally

536
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: don't think it would have looked good on anybody size. UM.

537
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,719
Speaker 1: And then also something else that I thought was corny.

538
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: She then posted a video to her Twitter and said,

539
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: this is my inspiration, and her inspiration was Rihanna's met

540
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: Gala gown, which clearly was all of the diamonds. It

541
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: was completely see through. UM. And one of the points

542
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 1: that I that I did see as well. UM. And

543
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: there goes um Rihanna's working in her beautiful gown which

544
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: was completely see through. However, we know that she wore

545
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: that on a red carpet. She didn't wear it to

546
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: a basketball game. When it comes to basketball games, I

547
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: don't even wear heels sometimes to them. So I do

548
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: think it's also just there's a time and a place.

549
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: It's fine show your ass, But I think there's a

550
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: time in a place, and that was at the time.

551
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: I think the main issue is that, UM, when the

552
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: outfit was bad, don't find this cloud chasing at all.

553
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: I think that when you're at a certain level like

554
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: cloud chasing is a name dropping using other things to

555
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: cloud like you're using other things to race to the top. Um.

556
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: I don't believe you can use your own body to

557
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: cloud chase. I could believe you can maybe do something thirsty,

558
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 1: but like, no, I don't think that was it lizzles

559
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: on top serious and to me, I prefer to cloud

560
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: as if like if if, Yes, you're you're not only

561
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: name dropping and being around people um to elevate yourself,

562
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 1: but also doing things like this to have people talk

563
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:09,719
Speaker 1: about you doing things with purpose. So that's something I

564
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: like a lot that people are bringing up. What if

565
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: lady God God did this. I'm gonna be real again.

566
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: We can agree to disagree. But no, I don't think

567
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: this was cloud chasing. I think this was very like

568
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: if you can do this, you don't give a fuck, right,

569
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: This is a very I don't give a fuck type

570
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: of attitude. Now, the problem with that is that I

571
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: want to support people like this. I just don't support

572
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: ugly clothes. That's something I don't. It's really bad, it's

573
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: not I love to dress all the way fucking left.

574
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: I hate ship that looks like an Instagram, and I

575
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: really love dressing all the way left, but that to

576
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: me isn't left. It's just not done well. And I

577
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: think that what sucks about that too is that a

578
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: lot of people are saying, oh, you're fat shaming. There's

579
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: a girl that I'm actually really really really want to

580
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: have on here. Her name is Ashley Chubby Bunny um

581
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: On I g I met her in person too. She's

582
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: a dope chick. She's very pro fat girl. She loves

583
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: using the word fat um. She always post big women.

584
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: She's dope as fuck, and she was saying that everybody's

585
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: fat phobic. Who isn't working with this? And I would

586
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: love to have a conversation with her about how No,

587
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: the outfit was just taggy, like I feel like a

588
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: skinny ass, it'd be like this what um. I don't

589
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: like how people were like, oh, you know, she just

590
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: didn't have the body for that. Absolutely not. I work

591
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: out And then I'm gonna be honest about that. I

592
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: did not see that video working on the side. So

593
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: what I've seen was we should walking backstagege Now what

594
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying that, I'm thinking it was definitely it was

595
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: a I mean, it was distasteful to do that, but

596
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: it's kind of comic. Now not think about it, because

597
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: that's what kind of comical, because now it reminds me

598
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: the way she's acting, it reminds me of that drunk

599
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: hunt at the at your cookout and then she's, oh,

600
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drop it like it's young boys. Don't nothing

601
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: about this. You know. It's something you said though that

602
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: I like you said. It comes to my place of beingsecured.

603
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: I know that there's so many people online that shameless

604
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: those bodies. She's posted a lot of stuff on her

605
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: Instagram with like, um, not all the way, like showing

606
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: anything but just her bare body, even her album cover,

607
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: and people talking about how we don't want to see

608
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 1: that stuff, and I kind of do like when big

609
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: girls be like bit, that's what I don't agree with.

610
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,239
Speaker 1: Like I follow her Instagram. I love her Instagram like

611
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,719
Speaker 1: I love her. I mean, these the pictures of her

612
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,959
Speaker 1: showing her body, I love it. I don't know if

613
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: I secretly love big Girls. I might just I don't know,

614
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: but I love her confidence that she showed on Instagram.

615
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: But it's just that when everyone looks at the pictures,

616
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: like no one wants to see that, blah blah, blah.

617
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: And then they had the video where she actually where

618
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: she's uh, where she's um when she makes the comment

619
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: about the one of the players when um, so she

620
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: makes that comments and that kind of that kind of

621
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: that that set me off. And then I started to

622
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: see all the comments. Everyone was saying, oh, she you know,

623
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: she cursed them, she took her shot, so he's missing

624
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: all his shots. All the negli they were saying what

625
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: she said. So ultimately, when when I said, you know,

626
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 1: let's definitely talk about Lizzle, I felt about that originally,

627
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: and like everybody just completely just started a tagging. People

628
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 1: are so scared to say that they find this sexy,

629
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: I think so they are. Men and women are terrified

630
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,959
Speaker 1: to call this beautiful. They're terrified to acknowledge this body type.

631
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: It's a really fucking weird thing. I've never experienced being big,

632
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: but I've had big girl friends and ship like that,

633
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: and I don't know any of them that like, we're

634
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: never getting from I mean, so it sucks. I talked

635
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: about it on UM we didn't. I talked about my

636
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: my weight loss, but also just the body image episode

637
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: on our Patreon, and that's the thing a lot of

638
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: people would secretly like big girls, but don't want their

639
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 1: friends to know or we'll shame big girls on the timeline,

640
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: but then slide in my d MS talking about, oh,

641
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: I just want to see if I can handle it,

642
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: like like, so they do like the curves of women. Um.

643
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 1: But for whatever reason, yeah, society has made it to

644
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: where men are ashamed to admit that this is their

645
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: preference or that they actually do like big women. Um.

646
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: And we received that as big women. So um yeah,

647
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: I'm glad we were we were able to touch on this.

648
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 1: I do want to bring up this other vanilla ship um,

649
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: because God damn it. I want you all to guess

650
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 1: the state. And y'all already know what I'm talking about.

651
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: So this comes from Mirror dot co UK. It says

652
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: Tory lives with three of her partners in Jacksonville, Florida,

653
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: and is seven months pregnant with her first child, which

654
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: will be brought up by all of her lovers. Guess

655
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: the state Florida. You already know. If it's against the state,

656
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 1: it's Mother Florida News. So it's one of your old woman.

657
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: Isn't a Polly Aversus relationship with four men? And it's

658
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: pregnant and plans to raise the baby with all of

659
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: her lovers as the daddy. Tori lives with three of

660
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: her partners in Jacksonville, Florida, and despite being in an

661
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: open relationship, she's the only one who has multiple partners.

662
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: Seven months ago, Tori found out that she was pregnant

663
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: with the baby girl, who they will welcome into their

664
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,320
Speaker 1: unconventional family in Florida. She met one of her partners

665
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: eighteen in high school and then got into a relationship

666
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: with Travis two months ago. Their love story began three

667
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: years ago, and she has since announced her engagement to

668
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 1: Travis Um. She also found love in a long term

669
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: mutual friend, Ethan and Christopher, who is the baby's father.

670
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 1: She said, Chris is the biological father. We just know

671
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was.

672
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: There was like a video on Twitter is at the

673
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 1: same one where they yeah, they posed together. She's in

674
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: a picture that funny looking people. Listen, Um, I ain't

675
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: go coming funny because it looks like, um, maybe not

676
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: everything is there for all that baby's gonna come out gorgeous?

677
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: Is not work for God, thank you? Playing so the

678
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: men said care everybody online dragging you dont get his

679
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: babies beautiful, the men, curly man, you got it that

680
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: they are raising the baby together and so everyone is

681
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: the dad. Everyone is very, very excited to be raising

682
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: a baby together. Did I ever tell you about the

683
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: Russian Roulette thing? I said with my friends? This is

684
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: so crazy, but this was also like drug talk. So

685
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 1: two of them were black. Two them are why my

686
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: best boyfriends. Right, I've got Enoch, James, Christopher, and Vinnie. Um.

687
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: They've all been on the podcast, probably except for e

688
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 1: and Um. Yeah, we super close, tattooed on each other.

689
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: It's weird codependent friendship, but I love it. And I

690
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: don't remember what drug we were doing. It was probably molly.

691
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: It feels like a Molly moment. But years ago we said, Okay,

692
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: if we're all single in ten years and we all

693
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: don't have kids in ten years, I'll get pregnant. We'll

694
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: do this thing when we take everybody's coming to jar

695
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: and we'll Russian Roulette it and then I'll get a

696
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: Turkey Easter and we'll figure out whose baby is going

697
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: to be. There's a half chance that maybe we'll come

698
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: out black, and a half chance maybe we'll come out white. Definitely, definitely. Anyway,

699
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: we all agreed to do this ship right, We're like,

700
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: oh my god, yes, we'll all have a piece of

701
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: each other. And Vinnie was like, oh my god, what

702
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 1: if it looks like all of us, I'm like one

703
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: the egg. So Christopher's gay ass was like, I mean

704
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: not the vine is either. But I just remember he

705
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to do it, but I'll

706
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: do it. It It was so weird. I don't know who

707
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: was on the mall even. Anyway. All I know is

708
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,919
Speaker 1: that was like seven years ago. I'm just gonna ask

709
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: how long ago that was. So in three more years

710
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,919
Speaker 1: we're about to see this come from Maybe it wasn't

711
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: a seven years ago. Decisions are still going to three

712
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: years sid And I really even when I woke up

713
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: in the one, I haven't remembered it. And I was like,

714
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, well raise it as a communal baby.

715
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: To fund that have been for me is not copd coccol.

716
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: Would you want to do a test to figure out

717
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: who's who's like the actual father or would you just

718
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: want to let and just figure that out there's that

719
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 1: baby is mixed as fuck. I would want to know

720
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: just in case. Yo, mean, so Enoch's family is like

721
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: super straight, like seventh Ad event is like they I

722
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: don't even know if they know who fucking Beyonting is.

723
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: That's how like for the culture, y'all got to do

724
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 1: this on more right that we've never had sex. I've

725
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: never had sex with any of us every day, but

726
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 1: you go and base yourself, but there's coming what you

727
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: mean this is a whole other step. I know, but

728
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna okay any of them because we're like,

729
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: that's worse. Yeah, turkey basting is worse. What do you

730
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 1: mean stand on top of you on your head and

731
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 1: you just yo? Y'all never watched the L word. This

732
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: is how lesbians have babies. Y'all have never seen turkey

733
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 1: based so I've heard of it, but I thought like

734
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 1: as soon as sperm like hits the hare, it dies. Well, okay,

735
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: so normally you can you do this in a doctor's office,

736
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: but but they have special official Are you gonna like

737
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 1: I thought, I thought we were doing this jar thing. Well,

738
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:35,280
Speaker 1: the chances are I'm probably not gonna do it anyway, goddamned,

739
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: just in case, maybe feel like you do the tour pregnant. Really,

740
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: let yo imagine the fucking tour promo picks. I'll be

741
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: like Ali Wong of sex. They'd be like, Yo, who

742
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,919
Speaker 1: is it? I should stand up? He'd be like, what,

743
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: who is it? How do you figure that out? You

744
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: even gonna hold you? I refused to be one in

745
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: bitches that just pop out with a belly and a

746
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: baby on the way with no man in sight. I'm

747
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: not gonna be that bitch like you're gonna know who

748
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: the baby daddy is? Y'all ain't gonna be in my

749
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: comments asking who the baby y'all gonna know? Really, see,

750
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all ain't gonna do much potential because

751
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: I understand why people like don't want to if you're

752
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 1: a personality, because it's just like, if you're gonna share

753
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: your pregnancy, do you want to share the person you

754
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: want to share a pictures of the baby? Like, I

755
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm cool women who don't. I think it's

756
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: okay to have that private part of it. Well, if

757
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: you're if you're a personality and then you are, you

758
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: just show up pregnant without you know, showing you know

759
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 1: the father or whatever. All letting it be known. You're

760
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: just opening the door for hope and speculations. But because

761
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: an asshole is gonna assume you don't know your baby daddy,

762
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: not right. But I mean to me, I just I

763
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: just don't want that out and like, but to me,

764
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: I've also been kind of and even though I posted

765
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: you know some guys on Instagram and I've seen the

766
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: response and it's it's up in the air. I would

767
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: hope that the person that I do don't get pregnant with. Um.

768
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 1: It's already announced that that's my partner. UM. And it's

769
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: crazy because the one of the guys that I'm talking

770
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: to now, he does have two kids. So PhD has

771
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 1: no kids. The new guy has kids. And I was like, oh, um,

772
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't want any I'm like, do you want anymore? UM?

773
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,280
Speaker 1: He's like, well, I want twins, but if what the funk?

774
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 1: I hate when people craft their baby. He did say

775
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: yeah no. But when I was like, well, I don't

776
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: know if I want any kids, He's like, well, if

777
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm with someone and they don't want kids, as long

778
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: as they're open to more dogs because I like dogs,

779
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's all I want is dogs. I'm

780
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: fine with kidding dogs that did he fuck it? I't

781
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 1: they just say whatever they want. I saw this picture

782
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: of Russell Wilson the other day and it said me

783
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: before I smashed, and then it was future. Okay. So

784
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,120
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00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: ahead and get into our kink in the week and

820
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 1: our kick in the week is actually going to flow

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Speaker 1: right into our horrible decision. So the kink of the week, um,

822
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: and why we have our lovely guests on the mic

823
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: with us. Is diaper fetishism or diaper bondage um For

824
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: those of you who don't know, diaper fetishism is a

825
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: sexual fetish where an individual derives sexual pleasure from either

826
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: wearing a diaper, seeing others were diapers, or both. Kink

827
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: Ley Um, which is where I'm getting this information from,

828
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: describes it as an association with infantilism and childlike fantasies.

829
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,320
Speaker 1: For some individuals, it is only the thought of wearing

830
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: a diaper or the thought of someone else wearing a

831
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: diaper that causes sexual arousal. No, I could have said

832
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: white people, but we're here with this is the reason

833
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,879
Speaker 1: why I'm here. I'm so glad. So yeah, guys, he's

834
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 1: not white um. While for others it is the infant

835
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 1: slash caretaker role play that simulates excite excitation For some

836
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: individuals which I also want to ask where you lie

837
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: in the spectrum, it is also um the act of

838
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: urinating or defecating in a diaper that is the source

839
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: of arousal. Diaper fetishism can also be used within the

840
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: context of b D s M, where the diaper is

841
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: used as a source of humiliation. So now we're going

842
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 1: to get into our whole decision where we have answers.

843
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: Our guest today is into diaper bondage diaper fetishism and

844
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: is also married to where he and his wife engaged

845
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 1: in the act correct kind of we're making all way there, Okay,

846
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: so let's just do what's we gotta know? When did

847
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: you first put that pull up on? After pull up age?

848
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: First off, not a pull up? Okay, even think pamper

849
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: and um, but I don't know, I don't be changing pampers.

850
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: I would say, Uh, I think I was like probably

851
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 1: eight nine years old, and I had like a my

852
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: best friend lived next door. He had an older sister.

853
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: Now I kind of thought about this like like a

854
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. I was like, holy shit, that's

855
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: why you was from. And um, what she used to

856
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: like to do is we used to kind of play

857
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 1: house and she one time she actually wanted to put

858
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: the diaper on me. And yeah, yeah she was she

859
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: was considerably a little bit older, and um, we did

860
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: that one time though, so I never really thought about it. Again,

861
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: I never really thought about it, but then kind of

862
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: like years down the road, were you attracted to her

863
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 1: at that time? Um? I think so a little bit.

864
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: I think I had I had a little childhood. So

865
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,919
Speaker 1: your friend was the dad, she was the mom. What

866
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: was no, actually actually my friend wasn't even around. It

867
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 1: was actually her. I was just like house, yeah, her

868
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: and and and her friends. And years down the road said,

869
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: years down the road. Um, I kinda I figured more.

870
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: I I dabbled in the b D s M world,

871
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 1: and I kind realized, I mean, I do like being submissive.

872
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 1: I like the sub role, and um so just I

873
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: don't know, just like some somehow I was in a

874
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: conversation with with a woman who was actually a dumb

875
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: at the time, and this is probably like I'm like,

876
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: uh my early twenties, mid twenties or so, and um,

877
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: I just kind of conversating with her, conversating with her,

878
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: trying to you know, she's she's talking about humiliating me

879
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, just you know, degradation part of it.

880
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: And I kind of weaseled that diaper thing into into

881
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: her head and um and had her to the you

882
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: know that she all right, you know what, put a

883
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: diaper on right now, I'm gonna put a diaper on you.

884
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: So she made it into the humiliation thing and that

885
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: just love me crazy, just like I kind of wanted

886
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: it and I just weaseled it in there and then

887
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: when she made me do it. Um, I think that

888
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: was like pretty much the beginning of it. But how

889
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 1: would were you at this point when you realized you

890
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: were into B D S M and then engaging? How

891
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 1: want get around about age? Okay, so you about you

892
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: look twelve? You do look you do look lak out.

893
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: So I guess my question is you realize this is

894
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 1: something you're into. Did you in this dumb were you

895
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: dating or was she just a sexual partner? And if so,

896
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: how did that transform your sexual like like your sexuality

897
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:33,240
Speaker 1: with with her? Whether Sorry, I know you'll be getting

898
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: on us about asking a lot of questions and not

899
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:36,919
Speaker 1: letting them finish, So I'm going to try to were

900
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: you and her in a relationship, so this was just

901
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: a sex partner, At what point did you start introducing

902
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: this into your relationships? All right? So into my my

903
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: personal relationship. Yes, I've never introduced it into a personal relationship.

904
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: Why no, this is what I wanted to get to Okay, no, no,

905
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 1: um no, I just wasn't in a serious relationship until

906
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 1: like a couple of years later when I when I

907
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: met my wife, And I feel like it's something that's

908
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: so taboo that it does have to be someone you're

909
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: more serious with as it like, because I feel like

910
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 1: there's two sides to this coin. You know what it

911
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: sounds like. You know you like it, but you know

912
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: what other people are looking at that. So are you like, Yo,

913
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 1: I could do it with whoever because I don't give

914
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: a funk, or I have to save it for a

915
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: more sacred relationship because they'll respect me at that point.

916
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 1: Well yeah, just like I think that's what any kink,

917
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: any king pred No matter what it is, Um, it

918
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: could be seen as as taboo or not normal. So

919
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: what you definitely do want to do? Um, you want

920
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: to It doesn't even have to be like I don't

921
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: have to feel like it like that that that connection

922
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,280
Speaker 1: of someone that you think is gonna be a life partner. Um,

923
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: you more want to make sure that it's someone you

924
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: know that you can trust or someone who's not judgmental.

925
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:57,720
Speaker 1: So um, that's more. That's more of it. Like I usually,

926
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure that it's someone who's not judgmental,

927
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 1: someone who's who knows me first, you know, before you

928
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 1: know my kink. That's the problem that everyone asked about

929
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: the kink first and then they make the inference of

930
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: who you are as a person. Absolutely, I mean we

931
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: get we go through it every week, right, and like

932
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: I said, I obviously this is what I do. King

933
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: Shaman is it's all jokes to me because we know

934
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: that like on the scale of quote unquote normal and vanilla, right,

935
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: there are people out there that legitimately think they're choking

936
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 1: and spanking lives is kinky ship. But really it's like

937
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: scratching the surface because I feel like when it comes

938
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: to my kinks, um, they are things that I've been

939
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 1: able to do with people who are specific and into

940
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 1: that kink um. However, with people that I've talked more

941
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: relationship things with, I've been willing to give up those

942
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: kinks to people who may not be into it. So

943
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: just like you're trying to wean maybe your wife into

944
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: accepting that, I it's been difficult for me with dating

945
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: and like differentiating, but my kink lifestyle and my dating

946
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: long term lifestyle. How do you explore your kink without

947
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: your wife? Good question, well, good question. My kink is

948
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:14,280
Speaker 1: more or on on the diaper lover, like, you know, area

949
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: of it. So it's liking to wear. Yeah, yeah, it

950
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: definitely is. So you got deal, all right? So you

951
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: got you got adult babies and you have diaper lovers

952
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: the okay, so you got some a dope babies, you

953
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:32,400
Speaker 1: got some diaper lovers. So you don't google gota No, okay,

954
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: you don't want to be fed with a bottle. You

955
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 1: don't wear bibs, you don't because that's more of the baby. Yes,

956
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: that's more of Yeah, that's more of the regression. I'm

957
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: not gonna say I don't want to because once again,

958
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm still exploring this. I've been a diaper lever for

959
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: quite some time. But from what I understood me, I

960
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 1: like research. I love reading, so I like to understand,

961
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 1: you know, how other people see it. So there was

962
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: actually a paper written by a psychologist that actually explain

963
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: that there is actually is a spectrum of it. You know,

964
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,959
Speaker 1: uh like adult babies on this side, you have diaper

965
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: lovers on this into the spectrum what do you follow

966
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: on that spectrum. I think I was more diaper lover,

967
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: but I think always I've been in the middle. Is

968
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: there a baby talk going on? Um, because I've explained

969
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: to us more so like just walk us through, like

970
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: is it being put on you or do you have

971
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: it on? Okay, so it's more all right. So if

972
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: it's the age thing, more at age play, let's just

973
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: make it clear. It's like role playing. UM in certain

974
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: scenarios and maybe people who really regress psychologically, but in

975
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: my in my situation, I would want it to be

976
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: just strictly role play. So say with my with my

977
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 1: with my wife, UM, I'll never you know, try to

978
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: coerce her into wanting it. I mean just letting her

979
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: know her accept it. Um. She's really cool about it,

980
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: and she kind of liked it, you know, it was

981
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: cute to her. Um. But we never really did the

982
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: whole regression because you know, I'm still new to it.

983
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: I do want to try it. Um. She's new to it,

984
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: so she really doesn't know what to do. So saying

985
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: that is actually so interesting because you said your thirty

986
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: five that started at twenty four, and so for the

987
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: people listening who may be exploring their kinks as well.

988
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: For you to be a decade into knowing that this

989
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: is your kink, but still researching it, still figuring out

990
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: where you lie. I think that that is that's so

991
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: telling to the people who listen to the show and

992
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: you know, may feel like, oh my god, I'm jumping

993
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: into the deep end with this, but to know that

994
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 1: you can't kind of do babysips and still research and

995
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,879
Speaker 1: read and go on message boards and figure out what

996
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: it is about the king that you like, why it

997
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: turns you on. And I guess so my question to

998
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 1: you now is you like wearing the diapers, um, but

999
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: your wife is still figuring it out. So is that

1000
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: something that you do when she's not home or has

1001
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: she allowed you to reach out to maybe sex workers

1002
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:59,800
Speaker 1: to engage in this kink? No? UM, definitely uh no

1003
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: to the sex worker situation. However, However, like kind of

1004
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: earlier in the relationship or so, UM, it was times

1005
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: when I did reach out to UM to uh, I

1006
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 1: would say like dumb sex workers or so, but it's

1007
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:19,440
Speaker 1: always it's been like UM, you know, text messages and honestly,

1008
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: I remember you guys had someone up here UM who

1009
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: was talking about being a sex worker, and she explained,

1010
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 1: you know, these girls are actually your dude sliding their

1011
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: d m s and they entertain them and these guys

1012
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: that get off to it. So my wife heard that

1013
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 1: episode first, and I always told I told her that's

1014
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: why I did, because she found I don't even she

1015
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: described herself. Yeah, she goes by Marley mistress, but she

1016
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: definitely went into saying that she makes the guys pay

1017
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,839
Speaker 1: because they do get off just by the conversation going

1018
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 1: back and forth, and she refuses to go back and forth,

1019
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: and I, you know, my wife she found she found

1020
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: it out that I was doing that, and it was

1021
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: kind of hard to explain that to listen, I don't

1022
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: want to meet them, but yes, that's more true. The

1023
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,720
Speaker 1: guys do get off to that. She does. She consider

1024
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: that cheating knowing that you were getting off with those exchanges. Well,

1025
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 1: but more more so because it was it was behind

1026
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: her back. Yeah, I found like ten different women were

1027
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: women like plus like, you're probably thinking, how is it

1028
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 1: that you don't want to suck them in real life?

1029
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly, So I like trying to explain that to them,

1030
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: Like it's very it's very hard to explain something that's

1031
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 1: that's off the beaten path from what people believe. So

1032
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:35,839
Speaker 1: if you're calling them, you gotta want to suck them.

1033
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: That's what we want to believe, right that that's it's

1034
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: easier to understand that. But when they when you're trying

1035
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: to explain the psychologically, like listen, it's not that. But

1036
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: I really can't explain what I like about it. That's

1037
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 1: the hard part. And that's the part. I don't think

1038
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: more people can explain exactly what they like about it.

1039
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: I do want to get back to specifically what happens

1040
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 1: in like a quote unquote session with you, Like, let's

1041
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: let's talk about that more so because I want to

1042
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 1: know if you just diis in the diaper or like

1043
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: have you repeated one? Yes? I have? Okay, So is

1044
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 1: there like clean up on the other persons? Um no,

1045
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: because my wife want yeah, like during our our because

1046
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: I feel like the cleanup is probably like the heart

1047
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: you like about it, like getting white, yes, getting white,

1048
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 1: getting changed. There is something intimate about that, I mean,

1049
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 1: something very intimate about that. You were shipping one I

1050
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 1: have once before? Yes, Yeah, that's the story I want

1051
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: to hear about. Can we talk about how that session went,

1052
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: and like that was that session was just it was

1053
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: just me by myself experiencing you just want to try ye.

1054
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: I was like, so you your wife. I was like, she,

1055
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 1: she's okay with me wearing around her. She's okay with that,

1056
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 1: and like she always wants to know how how you know,

1057
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: how can I be more involved with it? So I

1058
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: love that you if you were like, so do you

1059
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: like pull it to the side the fun want One

1060
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: memorable time that I loved and and and she loved

1061
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: it too, was that I was wearing it once and

1062
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: she um pulled up paintings aside and just rote and

1063
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: rubbed her pussy on the on the diaper and she

1064
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 1: she's got she got so fucking wet. Really such a

1065
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: crazy turn on. And uh, recently, UM, like, like I said,

1066
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: she's trying to she's still trying to figure he's figuring

1067
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: out what turned her on and stuff like that, because

1068
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: I always wanted to push that, you know, no you masturbate.

1069
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 1: I always want to want to masturbate. And I had

1070
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: that guilt with it, you know, And UM, I mean

1071
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: thank you. Shout out to you guys. Definitely become telling

1072
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 1: you listening to your podcast for her has opened her up.

1073
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: So it's amazing. So, um, that's so dope. Yeah, then

1074
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: here can you clean it? So one of her major

1075
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: um maroging zones is her titties, and UM, I don't

1076
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: think that I was able to really figure that out,

1077
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: I mean and really touch those points until recently. And um,

1078
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 1: sucking her titties like she's super wet. She loved to

1079
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: her that that that makes So what I wanted to

1080
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: say is is that when I realized is that, hey,

1081
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 1: if there's something, if you have a kink or something

1082
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: and you want to get your partner involved, find out

1083
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: a way to make that connect to something that turns

1084
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: them on. Because me sucking sucking on her titties and

1085
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: and and if I'm wearing one, like she would say

1086
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 1: the little things and I'm me, I'm more of a

1087
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: like a verbal mental type of person, and she would

1088
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 1: say things like, oh yeah, baby, take ye know theeds. Uh,

1089
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: the milk is all for you, baby, it's all forby.

1090
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: It's stuff like that, and it drives me crazy. About

1091
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 1: eight years and if she looks like this is well,

1092
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: she knew about the diapers probably like four years into

1093
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 1: our relationship. But like this now, like really trying to

1094
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: incorporate it in like too uh two years and she

1095
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: a black woman. I saw your you were like, oh,

1096
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: if you don't think I'm a real person, you tagged

1097
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: your page. Yes, I remember looking through your page. I'm

1098
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 1: like this normal, asked nigga. They had a picture with

1099
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 1: their kids. It wasn't your kids, yeah, and like dressed

1100
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 1: up and I was like wow. And you know, it's

1101
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: great to see because so many people I know that

1102
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: are kinky that hit me up, like you just never

1103
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: get to see them in their normal life. And it's

1104
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: just so exhilarating to see you with your kids at

1105
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 1: the school. And then you were your diaper ship because

1106
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 1: you don't have a diaper page, which is where you

1107
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: had us up from, and so you pose in the diaper.

1108
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 1: You don't show your face. Um, I don't think you

1109
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 1: have tattoos. So that so that helps. Now, are you

1110
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 1: looking for a kink community with that page? Or what? No?

1111
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: Not really, um, not really, Honestly, it might sound weird,

1112
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: but I have that page more so for those who's

1113
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: not within the community, more so for anyone who's curious about,

1114
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: you know, kinks or so so just to I'm sure

1115
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: people are going to message you about it when you

1116
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: dropped the page name on Instagram and will put it

1117
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: in the description um for this episode as well. It's

1118
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: handsome underscore black underscore diaper lover. How many other black

1119
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 1: people have you met that are into this? A few?

1120
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: A few, but you know you would kind of know

1121
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: that they're mean. How I mean, I don't know, you

1122
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 1: don't know because I didn't think it's yeah. But and

1123
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: it's crazy because I do most of my mont any

1124
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: like real, I haven't many masculine black guys white men.

1125
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 1: On the other hand, I've seen majority of any mean

1126
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: they have like pages with with their with their with

1127
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 1: their wives or speaking others who really have that that

1128
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: mommy baby roll um cool pages, cool pages to follow,

1129
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: gives you some great ideas to understand. But um, that's

1130
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:00,959
Speaker 1: I mainly see. You don't see too many masculine guys.

1131
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: But I'm the mask thing. I liked that you wrote

1132
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 1: that in You Know your d M. You mentioned the

1133
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: masculinity part of it. I really do believe that mask

1134
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 1: sub exist. It's just that as a masculine person, you

1135
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: have to like know that you're almost letting your guard down.

1136
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 1: A bit to do it, and it's just like, funck

1137
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,320
Speaker 1: should I Like, I'm at a dude. Once I was

1138
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: at a music festival. I don't remember where I was at,

1139
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 1: and when I told him what I did for a living,

1140
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: he was like spilling all this out to me super

1141
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 1: mask and was like, I was like, you should totally

1142
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 1: try it. There's so many women that would love to

1143
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 1: domb you Like, it's gonna be so fucking easy to find.

1144
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 1: And he was like yeah, but like then I have

1145
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 1: to reveal myself. Like I'll just go without it. I'm like,

1146
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: she's telling me and he was mid thirties. I was like,

1147
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: you're never going to experience being stuck because you just

1148
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: don't want to ask for it. He was like, no,

1149
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: I won't, but it's not even asking. I think a

1150
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 1: lot of women, um, it's specifically so I I refer

1151
01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: to myself as a dom and I think that a

1152
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: lot of women that are because if they're meeting masculine men,

1153
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 1: a lot of men are very masculine. Men are assertive,

1154
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 1: they just take the dom position. And so as a

1155
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 1: woman who may not be as confident with being a

1156
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 1: dom or may you know regrets from dealing with a

1157
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 1: dom because they know that that's not what they want,

1158
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: they probably don't open up to it as much. But

1159
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: I would like. I'll say a lot of the men

1160
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: that I have either pegged or that i've dominated, I

1161
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: get turned on that they are masculine, you know, showing men.

1162
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: So not only are they really tall, they look like

1163
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: they can protect me. They're like and they just come

1164
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 1: across as very super masculine. Nothing about them as feminine,

1165
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: and that's what turns me on with even dominating with you.

1166
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 1: They can let that guard down, but it does. It

1167
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 1: does take time to talk to a masculine man and

1168
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 1: let them know your skill the man and you're still

1169
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: the man um and we can switch. So I do switch,

1170
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: I'll let them know that they can still put the

1171
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: ship out of me and do their dom part. But

1172
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: I like to let them know like I'd love for

1173
01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: you to be my sub and the guy that I

1174
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: pissed on before. Um he used to actually love when

1175
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: we switched. When I was dominating him, he would like,

1176
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:08,919
Speaker 1: I'm your little bit, right, so he liked he liked

1177
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: to actually be talked down to and be my stub.

1178
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: And then when we would switch, he'd be like you're

1179
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 1: my slut. Like honestly, like half of domming is talking.

1180
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 1: I think the majority of it definitely, which is why

1181
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 1: my most memorable experience I always talk about how he

1182
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 1: said nothing to me, Like the time I got dominated

1183
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: the best. It was like no fucking words. It was crazy. Yeah,

1184
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: and that ship was nuts, like minimal words, but like

1185
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 1: normally it's just like a lot, just minimal verbit like

1186
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:43,919
Speaker 1: he even at one point used his hand to tell

1187
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: me just to like sit and then like, I don't know.

1188
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: I think when you like talking turns us on so much,

1189
01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: but when you're able to feel energy without words like

1190
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 1: that in a room, you could yell at someone and

1191
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: curse them out all you want, but when you know

1192
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: you're angry and you could both sit there and Yeah.

1193
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy though, because when I was younger,

1194
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 1: I actually used to hate instruction, direction, words did I

1195
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 1: make you come? Or niggas who talked too much, because

1196
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: I didn't think that it was supposed to be a

1197
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,919
Speaker 1: part of sex. But now as I'm comfortable with knowing

1198
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: what I want and saying that and also be the

1199
01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: person to give direction, I enjoy getting feedback and hearing

1200
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 1: moans and and just hearing my lovers. So in terms

1201
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: of I guess wearing the diaper, you use it now

1202
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: during masturbation more so you would say correct, No, I

1203
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that. I would say, uh, if I'm masturbating,

1204
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm usually not wearing it. Maybe okay, most of the time,

1205
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 1: I would say that a little closer for you, I'm

1206
01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 1: usually not wearing it during masturbation. But when I, if

1207
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: I do wear it, it may lead up to masturbation,

1208
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: but you get aroused, you get hard in the diaper

1209
01:05:57,120 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: um sometimes sometimes How often do you engage in diaper play?

1210
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: Mm hmm once a week? Maybe. I do have a

1211
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 1: quick question now, just the brand of diapers matter? Because

1212
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: I did see this on your page. Yes, all right,

1213
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: so there are many different brands. Let me tell you

1214
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:23,640
Speaker 1: a story about when I figured this out, right, you know,

1215
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 1: I love it. This is uh So, when I first

1216
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 1: got into it, right, I always thought it was just

1217
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: like depends or you know, just regular. I thought it

1218
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 1: depends too. I thought that's it. But not only we

1219
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: we came in here and mentioned not saying loves. Oh yeah,

1220
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 1: talk more, but we mentioned not saying loves. We know

1221
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 1: Pampers is now brand the same way we appreciate clean

1222
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: X with cleanex with tissues. So this brand that you

1223
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: talk about is for adults? Are these are actually fetish diapers?

1224
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 1: Right here? That's the baby ducks and let it out,

1225
01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 1: get the comments, get them. So it's it's called if

1226
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: you go up, you see there's actually more and it's

1227
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 1: actually it's actually it's actually a big business. I mean

1228
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 1: it's it's the name brand of these for those of

1229
01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 1: you who aren't watching us on YouTube is little for big,

1230
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: that's the name. There's tygables, there's uh rayers are eight. Yes,

1231
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: I did. Actually you brought a pamper with you? Oh

1232
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 1: my god. He came with the props. I was gonna

1233
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 1: ask you if you are not wearing you know, I

1234
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 1: just hold on. I'm trying to find a comment that

1235
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: talks about wearing them for fetishism. This one is a

1236
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:51,920
Speaker 1: little for big, Okay for big? This is a Dampers big.

1237
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 1: Yeah it is. Isn't it too big for you? It

1238
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: goes past your belly button? Okay, so it gotta be big.

1239
01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 1: This is do they come into They come in different sizes.

1240
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 1: What size is this? This? This is a media biggest

1241
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 1: could she put it on? All right? Let me see

1242
01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 1: what is it? This is like just feels I'm putting

1243
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 1: the diaper on. Wait, don't stick it and in the elasticity.

1244
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, he ain't gonna put Now it's been in

1245
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 1: your crush. I can use it. Yeah, I can stick.

1246
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:27,559
Speaker 1: She about to sit in a camp for the rest

1247
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 1: of the show. Also, it doesn't even really so it's

1248
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: not I'm patting yours. Wait let me see this fucking plessy.

1249
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:43,280
Speaker 1: So how do you how do you fill in it?

1250
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:45,839
Speaker 1: I mean, clearly you're you're putting it on over pants,

1251
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:50,480
Speaker 1: but marthus minute from my tity might maybe coming out. Um,

1252
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 1: it feels puffy. Is that a part of what you like?

1253
01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 1: The feeling of it? Do you see that people leave

1254
01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: reviews talking about, um, the book sulkiness or the softness

1255
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 1: and for some people the like the sound to make

1256
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: the crinkliness you're gonna have like plastic back diapers and

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01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,640
Speaker 1: clothes back diapers and not coming to realize like I

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Speaker 1: really love the plastic back more like as like a

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Speaker 1: baby diaper work today And I didn't know where this

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01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 1: was no idea, but now its heading out of nineteen

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Speaker 1: with a bank piste in it. Mm hmm, like okay,

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01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 1: but you don't sit in the piss right what I'm

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01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 1: wearing here? You take it off because as an adult

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01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 1: you can. But as an adult, like I know that

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01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 1: you can get diaper rash as a baby, yet no

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Speaker 1: I haven't. You've never had gotten lucky. Okay, you've gotten lucky.

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Speaker 1: Um So, I guess the things that um they definitely

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01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,599
Speaker 1: go for is the stretchiness of it. Um. I feel

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01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 1: like if you're wearing your right now, it can't always

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01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 1: be sexual? Is it not always? It's not always sexual.

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01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: That's that's another thing. It's not. It's not just a

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Speaker 1: primarily a sexual king for me? Can you go to

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01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:17,360
Speaker 1: Little Squirts? Yes? This is Rears Okay, so Rares is

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01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 1: another brand that we see. There is leak protection. I love. Um.

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01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 1: For those of you who are interested in I was

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01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:27,640
Speaker 1: about to say, there's discrete delivery, so it shifts discreetly

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01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:30,600
Speaker 1: in plane and unmarked packaging to your doorstep. So for

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Speaker 1: those of you who may be interested in ordering these, um,

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01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 1: your neighbors don't have to know that you're ordering adult diapers. Um.

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Speaker 1: Can you go down to the comments? Um so I

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01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 1: want so? Yeah, this person actually says the tape isn't

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01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 1: that good in these? So I wanted to ask you.

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01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:51,080
Speaker 1: This person says, I really wanted to like these because

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01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:54,720
Speaker 1: the pattern is cute. So does the pattern affect your

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01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: purchase of the diapers? And does does the pattern affect

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01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: your arousal while wearing them? Uh? It does affect my arousal,

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01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 1: but it does affect my like my interest in getting them,

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01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 1: Like I said, like, uh, I enjoyed. A lot of

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01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,680
Speaker 1: people are talking about the designs. The more yeah, the

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01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 1: design of it, um, it does it makes me feel

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01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 1: a little bit more vulnerable, I would say, so, like

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01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:21,280
Speaker 1: once again it plays into that domb sub dynamic and

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01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 1: you know, let the designs, let me model them. So

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01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 1: the um the diaper that Wheezy has on right now

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01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 1: has um, teddy Bears, bottles, Binkies, bunny rabbits, um and

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01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:41,679
Speaker 1: and actually would these not be considered feminine as well?

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01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 1: With the pink colors? Are there do that differentiate between

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01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:49,680
Speaker 1: boy diapers and girl diapers? And some may, some may

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Speaker 1: Uh So like the first ones I had on the list,

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01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:58,559
Speaker 1: we're blue, those same ones coming pink also, So yeah,

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01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:02,120
Speaker 1: they can differentiate. I mean, just like any other dob

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01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:05,800
Speaker 1: dom sub dynamic. There are UM sissies as well. There

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01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:09,679
Speaker 1: are sissy babies that might be UH guys who want

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01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: to identify with being UM the little female babies or so. So,

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01:12:14,520 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: I mean that's something. Also, do you have a name?

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01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 1: Do you have a name? As in like a baby name?

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01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:25,960
Speaker 1: It makes you feel like, oh yeah, we are actually

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01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 1: running out of times all I want to talk about

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01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 1: right now. God violent a little happen now. I love

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01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 1: this UM. I think UM where you said you like

1311
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:39,799
Speaker 1: to read and do research before we get into the homemail.

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01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 1: Where can someone who's interested in UM this type of

1313
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 1: kink maybe do their research. Do you have any websites

1314
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: or books? UM? Not really books Yeah on UM on

1315
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:56,280
Speaker 1: Amazon there's many books as many psychologists who actually UM

1316
01:12:56,280 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 1: who's in the field of psychology who's identified as an

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01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 1: a deal UM like Rosalie Bent is one of them,

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01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: Like she's she has a very good one. UM. There's

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01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 1: also just in case you know, if you have a

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01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 1: partner who's who want to take that dom role and

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01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:14,720
Speaker 1: maybe incorporate diapers and the punishment. There's a book that

1322
01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: was written this called A hundred and one Diaper Punishments

1323
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: that that that that I think that's a good one. Also, Um,

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01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 1: a couple of different you know, I appreciate you so

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01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 1: much because we uh, you know, we want to interview

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01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 1: more normal people. Ironically I'm calling you that civilians. But

1327
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:41,400
Speaker 1: you know, you just don't really know if someone's going

1328
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:43,640
Speaker 1: to have like a personality that's good enough, you know.

1329
01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:45,560
Speaker 1: And we've had some like on and off experience with

1330
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:48,679
Speaker 1: actually getting people who's kink is a certain thing, and

1331
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm just really glad that you were able to describe

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01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:55,120
Speaker 1: it so well and just so you know, and and

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01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 1: um just explaining what you like and knowing that I'm

1334
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 1: going to talk shit about it and still just being like, yep,

1335
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 1: I came up here and uh, we just want to

1336
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 1: come on the show before we just just a rap. Personally,

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01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 1: I'm I'm fans of you guys. I mean, I believe

1338
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:16,439
Speaker 1: that there's no better being a creepy fan shockingly try

1339
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: not to be UM. And I feel like it would

1340
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 1: be best, especially for the black community, if I came

1341
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 1: on and spoke about it with you guys as supposed

1342
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 1: to you know, I mean don't want to for lack

1343
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: of the term right now, you know, a white pap podcasters.

1344
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 1: I mean they're used to that, but I wanna, you know,

1345
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: give this to our community to let um individuals know

1346
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: that hey listen, especially especially women. I mean, get to

1347
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:42,240
Speaker 1: know a guy first, even and just because they may

1348
01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: be into a kink that may make you look at

1349
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 1: them a little bit less masculine or so um, it

1350
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: doesn't you know, dictate who they are as a person,

1351
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:51,760
Speaker 1: you know, get to know them first. I think the

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01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 1: other thing too, that will come from this it is

1353
01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 1: not necessarily maybe too much diaper fetish, but men realizing

1354
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:02,320
Speaker 1: that they have a subpart to them, you know, and

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01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 1: just knowing that they can pull that out. I mean,

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01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:09,439
Speaker 1: you are, how tall are you? That's it? You got

1357
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 1: a tall as presence on Yeah, you do. But I

1358
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 1: think that's that masculate energy. Yeah. But also with what

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01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: you just said, I also appreciate you coming on as

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01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 1: a black man UM, not only discussing your kink, but

1361
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:29,599
Speaker 1: also you have a black wife, UM. And I love

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01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:32,840
Speaker 1: the fact that what this podcast is doing and what

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01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 1: we hope to do, is to have both black women

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01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: and black men both open up more with knowing themselves, UM,

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01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: specifically their sexuality and being able to share with each

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01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 1: other without us, you know, shaming one another, because we

1367
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 1: already have everyone else that fucking talks down on us. Um,

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01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: and I just love that within this community we can

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01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 1: just uplift each other, not only in school, in education,

1370
01:15:56,479 --> 01:16:00,400
Speaker 1: in our careers, but also in the bedrooms. Right now.

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01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys know that I don't

1372
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 1: know something something Maybe you should do it, something like

1373
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: walk around the house. Some guys actually dig that. It

1374
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:12,720
Speaker 1: does make me have to pee? Really, I swear with

1375
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:14,760
Speaker 1: your pants. Maybe it's just like because I know it's

1376
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 1: all right. I mean, I feel like I gotta go

1377
01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, but I also like I probably just

1378
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 1: have to pee already. Do you wear underwear with the

1379
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 1: diaper or just diaper and then just just diaper is

1380
01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:29,280
Speaker 1: with your cock out? And what then? Do you think

1381
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:33,680
Speaker 1: this is? Do you think he's a fucking amateur? He

1382
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:42,639
Speaker 1: rights once a week? Let me stop that year ship

1383
01:16:47,080 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 1: it lets it's the leap year. Didn't as well? Real quick, y'all. Um.

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01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 1: This one is someone who wrote in and said that

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01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: they're frustrated slash unable to have sex. No it's fine,

1386
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 1: Well we got it. No, someone's coming in. We let's

1387
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 1: cut that part out. We don't need a homemal. I

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01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 1: just said we're going to skip the home let's cut

1389
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 1: that out. We don't have time. Okay, oh wait, we

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01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 1: do have to get out of three. I forgot my

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01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:17,320
Speaker 1: bad Okay. Well, um, well, we're not gonna make um.

1392
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let me know when you cut it out. Okay,

1393
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 1: So we're not gonna make homemail this week because we

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01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:25,680
Speaker 1: just had such a great ass conference question. It was

1395
01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 1: before we do get out. It's okay, before we get

1396
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:31,680
Speaker 1: out of here, go ahead and drop your Instagram name

1397
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 1: one more time. It is handsome because I'm handsome, obviously underscore,

1398
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 1: but because I'm black, underscore diaper lever because I'm a

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01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 1: diaper lover. Okay, um, and if you didn't know, you know,

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01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:48,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna put that information in um the description of

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01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 1: this episode. Also, I want to wish all of you

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01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 1: a very merre chrimas um hanakah. Whatever else is around

1403
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:58,480
Speaker 1: to describe this holiday is bringing you back to your childhood.

1404
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 1: And I just want to say, why did you just

1405
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:03,640
Speaker 1: roll your eyes at me? Edding? Okay, now, I'll just

1406
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 1: I wants dot com check out this Patreon clip. Get

1407
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:13,040
Speaker 1: in there. We got like fifty some episodes. My nigga back,

1408
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:16,280
Speaker 1: so we have to get out of here in order

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01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 1: to record in place of Mac Wilde's on the Guy's

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01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 1: next Door. So here goes this week's homemail for the

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01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 1: bonus episode, y'all. The title is frustrated and unable to

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01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:31,440
Speaker 1: have sex. Hey girl, Hey, I've recently discovered your podcasts

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01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:33,519
Speaker 1: and I have to say I love it. From the

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01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: discussions you have to the information you share and the

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01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,839
Speaker 1: guests you feature, you ladies are amazing and I'm thankful

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01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:41,719
Speaker 1: to have stumbled upon y'all. I am emailing and praying

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01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,559
Speaker 1: you will respond. I've been with my significant other for

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01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 1: ten years. We live with my parents while we save

1419
01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 1: for our home. California house prices are no joke. Like

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01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 1: every couple, we started with wild, crazy sex that happened

1421
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 1: very frequently. Fast forward to today and we no longer

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01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 1: have that wild sex. He of course, has no issue

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01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: with being ready to go at the drop of the

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01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:09,840
Speaker 1: hat and frequently has to ask for it. Oh sorry, y'all.

1425
01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:12,880
Speaker 1: I end up giving in, and I know for a

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01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 1: fact it's just to have him to stop asking. It's

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01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 1: not even what I would call sex. It's just me

1428
01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:23,640
Speaker 1: laying there not doing anything until he has finished. That

1429
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:27,840
Speaker 1: reminds me of a handmade tale, which does not sound good.

1430
01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:32,320
Speaker 1: I feel terrible and frustrated. I'm continuously trying to figure

1431
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:35,600
Speaker 1: out what's wrong with me. I first thought it was

1432
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 1: me being Chewbacca, so I started getting Brazilian's monthly. Then

1433
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 1: I thought it was because of my mental health. But

1434
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 1: then I was put on medication and I'm no longer depressed.

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01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 1: It's hard. I want to have sex, but there are

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01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 1: times I just cannot, for the life of me, get

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01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: into the right hand space. I truly want the crazy

1438
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:58,040
Speaker 1: animal of six sex that we would have. I have

1439
01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 1: noticed that when I get drunk enough to X and

1440
01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 1: let my wall slowly go I have I can have

1441
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 1: actual sex. For instance, we went to the brewery the

1442
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:11,040
Speaker 1: other day, I had a couple of strong beers, and

1443
01:20:11,080 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 1: when we got home, I attacked him. It was the

1444
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 1: most intex intense sex we had in so long. I

1445
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 1: even had him take out the dial doough that has

1446
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:22,960
Speaker 1: been hidden away in a drawer and we used it.

1447
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm scared that even though he says it's fine, it's okay,

1448
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 1: he will end up being so bothered he will seek

1449
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 1: being sexually satisfied elsewhere I need advice. Would you be

1450
01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:34,799
Speaker 1: able to send me this episode that this is covered

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01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:39,320
Speaker 1: in UM, and I would greatly appreciate anything. Sign frustrated

1452
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:44,880
Speaker 1: and afraid. So the crazy part about this is is

1453
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:49,559
Speaker 1: two things. UM. I have been going through a lot

1454
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:52,720
Speaker 1: of anxiety and I've talked about that recently, and I

1455
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:56,640
Speaker 1: know that it has affected my sex drive. Now, the

1456
01:20:56,720 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 1: thing about anxiety and depression is yes, you can get

1457
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:05,599
Speaker 1: put on medication for it UM, and those are antidepressants. However,

1458
01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 1: ironically alcohol UM is a depressant. So it's odd that

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01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 1: you are not only taking antidepressants, but you are also

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01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 1: drinking and you feel that that's when you're able to

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01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: have sex. I think that this is something, of course

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01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say UM should maybe be sought after with

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01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,800
Speaker 1: a therapist. But maybe also you guys can open be

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Speaker 1: open to trying new things. Maybe whatever type of sex

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01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:36,320
Speaker 1: you have been having wasn't fun, or the animalistic sex

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01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:39,719
Speaker 1: stopped and now you're just having real basic sex. Maybe

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01:21:39,760 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: you guys need to incorporate things into the bedroom that

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01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 1: can excite you. UM. Also maybe just masturbating, becoming more

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01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:54,080
Speaker 1: sexual with yourself, watching porn um and getting in maybe

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01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:58,599
Speaker 1: a horny mood can work. UM, I would say try

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Speaker 1: those things. I think that we do also put a

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Speaker 1: lot of pressure on ourselves when we are dating someone

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01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:11,080
Speaker 1: to fulfill them sexually, even when we have needs that

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01:22:11,120 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 1: aren't being met. And so in terms of you knowing

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Speaker 1: that you're battling with your mental health and just you

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01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:21,720
Speaker 1: just aren't feeling like yourself lately, I think it's important

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01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:28,400
Speaker 1: to focus on why that is before you focus on

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01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:32,840
Speaker 1: pleasing someone else. So you saying that you're laying there

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01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:36,720
Speaker 1: and not even giving any sort of action back and

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Speaker 1: you're just giving him your body until he finishes, can

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01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:46,760
Speaker 1: actually be um hurting you more in the long run. UM.

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01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: It could be affecting your mental health in another way. UM.

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01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:53,680
Speaker 1: And it can be also just affecting your self esteem

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01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:57,200
Speaker 1: with feeling like, damn, what's wrong with me? You wrote

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01:22:57,240 --> 01:23:00,360
Speaker 1: that in caps, So you do think that there's something

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01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 1: wrong with you because you're not able to um fully

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Speaker 1: please someone else. And I think that that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: I think so many of us seek fulfillment and happiness

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01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 1: from others. We constantly need the affirmations of oh my god,

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01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 1: you're beautiful or the desire of well, I got niggas

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01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:23,280
Speaker 1: that want to suck me, and I do think that

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01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:25,600
Speaker 1: that's a problem with us as women. I think we

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01:23:25,720 --> 01:23:29,360
Speaker 1: place our value on being able to please someone else

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01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 1: and that's kind of trash. So my advice would be

1495
01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:38,040
Speaker 1: too kind of focus more on yourself, don't focus on

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Speaker 1: pleasing him. Be very upfront and communicative with him on

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01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 1: where your mental state is. Um, you not knowing what's wrong,

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01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 1: and if he loves you, he's going to see it through. Um.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think he's going to necessarily seek sex

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Speaker 1: or satisfaction and attention from another woman if he true

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Speaker 1: he loves and desires you. Oh,