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Speaker 1: This is the Almost Famous podcast with iHeartRadio. Welcome everybody

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Speaker 1: to the Almost Famous Podcast. We are talking Frankie Friday.

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Speaker 1: If you don't know what Frankie Friday is, let me

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Speaker 1: give you a clue. The Bachelorette, our next bachelorette, Taylor

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Speaker 1: Frankie Paul, and every Friday leading up to the Bachelorette,

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Speaker 1: we are going to be talking all things Taylor Frankie

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Speaker 1: Paul to just tune you in get you informed about

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Speaker 1: who our next bachelorette is. And I am joined by

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Speaker 1: Heather Monday, our lovely producer for Almost Famous. So it's

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Speaker 1: just us two chat in the chat. Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 2: This is perfect? I want to know Trista like, how

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Speaker 2: much on a scale of one to ten, one being nothing,

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Speaker 2: ten being super fan, would you say you know when

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Speaker 2: it comes to Taylor Frankie Paul.

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I am really low on that spectrum because

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Speaker 1: I didn't know who she was prior to her Now,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I had heard her name, I knew what

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Speaker 1: mom talk was, or at least had heard of mom talk,

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Speaker 1: but I had never watched Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so Frankie Briday is perfect for somebody like you then,

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Speaker 2: because you're going to be learning so much about her

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Speaker 2: leading up by the time March rulls around, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: be like, h Taylor, Frankie Paul, I know her mom,

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Speaker 2: I know her kids' names, I know her exes.

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Speaker 1: You can know it all, and that's what aady listening.

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Speaker 2: If you're like you know Trista and you don't know

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Speaker 2: everything about the lead, this will hopefully get you as

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Speaker 2: excited as some of us who do know more about

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Speaker 2: her because they're dropping a lot of stuff and we're

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Speaker 2: not doing any spoilers. I want to say that we're

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Speaker 2: not spoiling you know who we see in these videos

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Speaker 2: or who the top ones are, and we're not doing that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we still want it to be a very enjoyable season.

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Speaker 2: We're just talking about certain things we're seeing in the

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Speaker 2: headlines that could possibly show up on the show, So

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Speaker 2: little bit of discretion on that, Like, we're not really

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Speaker 2: the season for anybody perfect.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love being able to go into

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Speaker 1: the season knowing who she is as a person, because

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Speaker 1: usually people get to know the lead because they were

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Speaker 1: on you know, a previous show and were recycled. So

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Speaker 1: I feel like now with this, this can be people's

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Speaker 1: one stop shop to getting to know all about Taylor

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Speaker 1: Frankie Paul for sure.

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Speaker 2: And I think, listen, you know this as well. Since

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Speaker 2: you were the first bachelorette and you came from season

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Speaker 2: one of the Bachelor, did you feel like the audience

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Speaker 2: really got to know you from your first season on

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Speaker 2: the Bachelor or did they really get to know you

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Speaker 2: a lot more when you were the bachelorette Because you

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Speaker 2: were one of twenty something women, you probably got really

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Speaker 2: limited screen time even though you went, you know, incredibly

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Speaker 2: far to the final on that series. Like would you

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Speaker 2: say that? Like I think, I guess my question is

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Speaker 2: did you feel like the audience knew you really knew

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Speaker 2: you during your time on Bachelor Nation or did that

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Speaker 2: come more after Bachelor Nation when you were with you know,

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Speaker 2: Ryan and sharing that you know.

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Speaker 3: Part of your love journey.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people got to know me, like maybe

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Speaker 1: the basics, you know, the like foundation of who I

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Speaker 1: was on the Bachelor, and then you know, they knew

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Speaker 1: I was a pediatric physical therapist, a Miami heat cheerleader,

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Speaker 1: that I lived in Miami, that you know, certain things

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Speaker 1: that I wanted a family, you know, those those kind

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Speaker 1: of things. So they learned some basics about me, but

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Speaker 1: I feel like, for sure they got to know me

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Speaker 1: during the Bachelorette because when you're a contestant versus and

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Speaker 1: I hate calling it a contestant, but that's what we're

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Speaker 1: calling it, versus the lead, you get obviously way more

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Speaker 1: time in front of the cameras and you're talking all

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Speaker 1: about what you want out of life. So that's way

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Speaker 1: more than just the basics, you know. So people definitely

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Speaker 1: got to know me as the Bachelorette, and then even

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Speaker 1: more so afterwards with like interviews that we did talking

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Speaker 1: as as in real time.

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Speaker 2: I think like as a as a fan of the

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Speaker 2: show for so many years, I could say that, you know,

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Speaker 2: there were you know, leads where I had watched them

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I could ever say who their

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Speaker 2: like all of these things, I like feel like I

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Speaker 2: know Taylor already on a different level, which is like totally.

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Speaker 2: It's it's really making me invested for this season because

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Speaker 2: I've already seen her attempt. I've already seen it, so

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I already know a little bit of like

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Speaker 2: what to expect. So I guess like for people that

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Speaker 2: don't know her or haven't watched the show, it is

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Speaker 2: going to feel very different. But for a lot of

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Speaker 2: us that have watched, and I know there's a lot

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be interesting because we just I just know it.

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Speaker 2: I know I've talked to other fans. We feel very

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Speaker 1: Totally because Secret Lives is, you know, a docuseries, so

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Speaker 1: they're following them in their real life. It's not a

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Speaker 1: dating show as Bachelorette is, so you definitely have gotten

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Speaker 1: to know her in her daily, everyday life. And yes,

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Speaker 1: some of some of the locations or activities or whatever

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Speaker 1: they do, I assume are probably scripted, you know, the

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Speaker 1: it's something that she wouldn't choose normally, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like they are. You're definitely getting to know someone like

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Speaker 1: know her. So that's so true.

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Speaker 2: Jessica and Nick from Newlyweds is a perfect example. That's

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Speaker 2: a perfect example of how people are so invested in

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I feel like we get to follow along,

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Speaker 1: and in Bachelorette you're getting to follow along like in

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Speaker 1: their life's choices. Like the biggest decision I feel like

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Speaker 1: so I feel like that's a big decision and a

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Speaker 1: along with taking their you know, kids on vacation and

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Speaker 1: I think it'll be really interesting to see. You're right,

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Speaker 1: there's such a huge following for Secret Lives, and I

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Speaker 1: hope it's going to translate. But we're just here as

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Speaker 1: and we can root for her.

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Speaker 2: And the ultimate hope is that if she does make

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Speaker 2: Secret Lives after it and we get to see what

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Speaker 2: I think all the Exploration fans have always wanted, which

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Speaker 2: is the after the proposal part of the relationship that

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Speaker 2: we've really never gotten to see outside of Like I'm

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Speaker 2: pretty sure that Ben and Lauren were the only Bachelor

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Speaker 2: so you know, we've never really gotten to see that

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Speaker 2: got to see that too. But let's dive into these headlines.

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Speaker 2: I'll let you kick it off.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we've got a headline.

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Speaker 1: Taylor Frankie Paul turns up the heat in a sexy

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Speaker 1: red lace dress for the Bachelorette rose ceremony. I have

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Speaker 1: not seen this picture, so I just saw when you

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Speaker 1: asked if I had read seen the tiktoks, I just

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Speaker 1: saw the ones you texted me. I didn't know this

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Speaker 1: was no worry bottom.

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Speaker 3: So it's all good.

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Speaker 2: You want to take a second and click on it

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Speaker 2: and look at it, Yeah, I'm fine with that.

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Speaker 1: Perfect. I mean, honestly, she is a gorgeous girl, like

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Speaker 3: She likes to be.

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Speaker 1: Like what's the word. She likes to show off her assets.

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Speaker 3: She likes to show off what.

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Speaker 1: Was God made and what was plastic surgeon made or

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Speaker 1: whatever it was. I don't know if she's had plastic surgery,

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Speaker 1: but hey, if you've got it flaunted.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, she is gorgeous, no joke. What we as fans

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Speaker 2: have always gotten to see her in is sweatpants. I mean,

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Speaker 2: the girl loves a good track suit. She loves crocs.

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Speaker 2: She's super open about that. My favorite thing was after

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Speaker 2: that is like her new character, like similar to Jessica

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Speaker 2: Simpson with the LOUI baton back in the day, Taylor

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Speaker 2: always has this Boyard tote now, which I think is

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't even know what that is, but yes,

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Speaker 1: it's a good thing.

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Speaker 2: It's a high end French, French designer bag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I mean, I'm just clueless. I know Louis,

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Speaker 2: All good, all good. So seeing her in these, you know,

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Speaker 2: typical bachelorette gowns is kind of a new thing for us, because, yes,

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Speaker 2: mix of both, because, yeah, some feet picks that we

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Speaker 2: instagramming her feet along with it looks like a man

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Speaker 2: whoever she's with, we don't know, got it. But we've

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Speaker 2: seen some crocs, we've seen some boots, so I'm under

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Speaker 2: the impression that she's kind of doing a mixture of both,

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Speaker 3: That's what I well.

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Speaker 1: I feel like also, most of us are, like in

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Speaker 1: part of who she is. And we just haven't, I guess,

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Speaker 1: from what you're saying, gotten to see a lot of

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Speaker 1: they do have to do glam with reunions or with

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Speaker 1: any of the tiktoks or whatever, because I know I

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Speaker 1: doing the transition from like before she gets ready to

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Speaker 1: after and she's like, hello, I'm dropped out gorgeous. So

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's part of who she is, and

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Speaker 1: I love seeing all parts of everybody.

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Speaker 3: I love, you know.

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Speaker 2: This TikTok that we're talking about in the clip, she

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I just don't think it's a good idea,

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Speaker 1: I feel like if you go on there, Jojo, they

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Speaker 1: a with a clickbait and say, oh, they're dealing with

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Speaker 1: this horrible situation or whatever, or they'll just say, oh,

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Speaker 1: Trista Sutter's going to be a grandma or Trista Sutter

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Speaker 1: has Alzheimer's. Oh my gosh. Anyway, so do not believe,

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Speaker 1: when you read but when you read Facebook. But Dakota's

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Speaker 1: fake article that was put out on Facebook, and she

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Speaker 1: went on to say that Dakota has been watching Ever,

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Speaker 1: the son they share Taylor and Dakota, while she's been filming.

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Speaker 1: She said that Dakota and Ever have been staying in

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Speaker 1: one day before the holidays. She stated that Taylor is

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Speaker 1: allowed to FaceTime her son when it allows. The post

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Speaker 1: weeks of the schedule, but until then, everything else is

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Speaker 1: clarity in the comments of this video because Leanne, who

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Speaker 1: is Taylor's mom, set the record straight. She said that

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Speaker 1: Taylor has been able to see her three kids almost weekly.

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Speaker 1: She her mom, Taylor's mom has flown out many times

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Speaker 1: to locations for her to spend time with them, plus

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Speaker 1: she gets FaceTime calls. The kids had spent the other time,

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Speaker 1: mostly with their dads and sometimes her grandma or the

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't have a child's during filming. I know

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Speaker 1: that like Emily Maynard could talk to this, but it's

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Speaker 1: got to be so Jason Mesnik had a child when

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Speaker 1: he was The Bachelor, and maybe we should have him

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Speaker 1: on to talk about this. But it's got to be

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Speaker 1: so hard because if you don't have a child, then

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Speaker 1: you can, happily, for me, cut off work, right. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to worry about work, you can't watch your

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Speaker 1: television shows, you can't be on email like you can

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Speaker 1: basically just like fully become vested in the process because

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Speaker 1: you can cut off all of your other worldly ties, right,

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Speaker 1: But you can't cut off your kids, you know, or

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't cut off your kids if you're a mom.

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Speaker 1: It's not fair to them. It's and I'm sure as

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Speaker 1: a mom, I wouldn't want to be cut off from

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Speaker 1: my kids. I need them in my life every day.

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Speaker 1: So that's got to be so difficult. And from what

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Speaker 1: I understood from the woman who was talking about this

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Speaker 1: on an Instagram post, she was talking about the Dakota's

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Speaker 1: sister in law's comments about the Facebook post, and she

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Speaker 1: was saying, you know that Taylor had gone into this

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Speaker 1: thinking that she would get more time, like production had

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Speaker 1: told her that she would get certain things, like certain

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Speaker 1: amounts of time that she could spend with the kids.

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Speaker 1: But it just hasn't happened or it hasn't turned out

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Speaker 1: that way. And knowing anything about television production, it's like

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Speaker 1: that phrase hurry up and wait, like you just never

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Speaker 1: know what's going to happen, right, so you have to

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Speaker 1: be on the fly. And even though I'm sure they

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Speaker 1: had very good intentions of Taylor seeing her kids more

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Speaker 1: than maybe she's seen them, I feel like it is

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Speaker 1: television and I guarantee you in her contract there was

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Speaker 1: there was something that was said like.

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Speaker 3: Whatever, whatever you're in.

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Speaker 1: Expecting, expect the unexpected, essentially, you know, like because things

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Speaker 1: change and we cannot guarantee that you're going to be

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Speaker 1: able to see your kids as much as you hope.

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Speaker 2: Probably, Yeah, And we had leanne On, you know a

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Speaker 2: little bit after the announcement of Taylor, and what he

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Speaker 2: was kind of saying is the older kids are obviously

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Speaker 2: in school, so they're the ones that are probably seeing

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Speaker 2: her the least because they have to stay on routine. Ever,

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Speaker 2: being a baby is probably the one that's getting the

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Speaker 2: more one on one time with her.

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Speaker 3: Now, I don't really think.

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Speaker 2: That there's necessarily truth to this he didn't see her

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Speaker 2: for twenty days comment, because it seems like her mom

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Speaker 2: is uh, you know, clarifying that in the comments, So

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Speaker 2: we don't really know, but it sounds like face timing

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Speaker 2: is definitely happening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is something that I feel like, Thank goodness

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Speaker 1: they have that capability because it's the next best thing

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Speaker 1: compared to, you know, being in person, so and it's

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Speaker 1: better than a phone call. So at least you get

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Speaker 1: to see each other face to face and she can

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Speaker 1: show ever like what's going on around her, so that

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Speaker 1: he's not, you know, worried about where mom is and

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Speaker 1: what she's doing. So I feel like that that's a

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Speaker 1: good second option. Of course, I know that as a mom,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure Taylor would much rather have her kids in

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Speaker 1: her arms and be able to see them face to face,

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Speaker 1: but at least they do have FaceTime.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, Trista, thanks so much for joining me on

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Speaker 2: this Franky Friday.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. Did you feel it was so fun.

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Speaker 2: You feel like you know Taylor a little bit more.

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Speaker 3: After this, I do.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is a great option for people

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Speaker 1: who don't watch Secret Lives and want to know more

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Speaker 1: about her instead of just putting it into Chat or

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Speaker 1: going on Google. So thank you Almost Famous.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Trista, You're the best. Hie Heather