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<v Speaker 1>Jewbels Second dat Update. We've heard of a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>interesting date ideas in these second date updates. Yeah, people

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<v Speaker 1>are creative, but I feel like the woman from today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update she got her inspiration from watching MTV

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<v Speaker 1>in the early two thousands. Who must be a big

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<v Speaker 1>fan of out show at Limit Date. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you anybody remembers that show or not, but don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about it's not on the air anymore anyway. Kenny

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone right now. What's up, Kenny? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going pretty good? Before we get into the

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<v Speaker 1>weird date that you went on, tell us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about the girl you want to call today. What's

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<v Speaker 1>her name? So, her name's Mary Anne, Mary Ann. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently her weird date idea was awesome though, because

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to get a hold of her. I mean it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely intrigued me. It was definitely I've never seen

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<v Speaker 1>it before, you know what I mean? Okay, Okay, Before

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<v Speaker 1>we get into the date. Where did you meet Marianne? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you like about her? She just seemed really

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<v Speaker 1>really cool, you know what I mean. Like her pictures

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<v Speaker 1>weren't they weren't just like the standard bathroom selfie, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. So yeah, I don't know. She

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<v Speaker 1>seemed really unique. You have, like the Spotify thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>she had some good music taste. She had some Steve

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<v Speaker 1>Miller band. Oh yeah, okay, that's always good to like

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<v Speaker 1>have similar music taste. I don't know anything about Steven

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<v Speaker 1>Miller or his band, but I have heard a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people that like that. Anyway, So tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about the date. So she texted me saying,

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<v Speaker 1>let's meet up. Let's go to a coffee shop. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she told me that she had fifteen minutes. She

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<v Speaker 1>she was giving me fifteen minutes to talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>and hang out with her. But that's it because she's

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<v Speaker 1>very busy. But it's kind of like, I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the thing right now, like you do a

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<v Speaker 1>pre date. I mean, you have to go through so

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<v Speaker 1>many people when you're doing online dating apps. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a numbers game, right. But the interesting part was

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<v Speaker 1>she told me she was taking two hours out of

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<v Speaker 1>her day to meet with lots of different men in

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<v Speaker 1>like fifteen minute intervals. Okay, so she's just sitting at

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<v Speaker 1>that Starbucks interviewing dates basically. Yeah, that that really was it?

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, hold on, So I mean you're cool with

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<v Speaker 1>that obviously. I mean at first I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like shocked, like I didn't think she was being serious.

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<v Speaker 1>But it really intrigued me personally. I've never experienced something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. It was like a dating competition. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have time to be shocked. You got fifteen minutes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta get through it. What did it feel like

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<v Speaker 1>when you walked into the Starbucks and you knew probably

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<v Speaker 1>most of the men that were in there were in

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<v Speaker 1>line to go on a date with the same person

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<v Speaker 1>you were going on a date within It's definitely pretty

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<v Speaker 1>nerve wracking. But beforehand, I tried to go in with

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a little advantage, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So I decided to try and prepare some topics and questions.

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<v Speaker 1>So you are a competitive man, You're up for the challenge?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh why not? You know? Then? How did it go?

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<v Speaker 1>So it went well? I gave her two questions that

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<v Speaker 1>I thought were the most interesting. You know, they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>the standard where are you from? What were they? So?

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<v Speaker 1>The first one was how long would you give someone

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<v Speaker 1>after a light goes green before honking at them? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Says a lot about a person's patience. Yeah, yeah, and uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The other one was if you could kiss any animated character,

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<v Speaker 1>who would it be? Oh? My god? What are her answers? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So the first answer for the stoplight one, her answer

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<v Speaker 1>was fifteen seconds. That's a good amount of time. I

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<v Speaker 1>probably give thirty Yeah, that's a long time. Yeah maybe, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what what was the next answer question? So? I thought

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<v Speaker 1>this was hilarious. Actually, she said he man she'd make

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<v Speaker 1>out with. I didn't even think a few men. I

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<v Speaker 1>immediately thought I was gonna do it with a ladded really,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, he's got a nice lips. Though, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you could sleep with a female character. It just said

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<v Speaker 1>cartoon character. All right, So did you like her question?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like her answer to those questions? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't really know what I would get

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<v Speaker 1>out of them. You know, it was like a rigged question,

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<v Speaker 1>but I definitely thought it was really interesting, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually in our fifteen minute session We actually went

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<v Speaker 1>over time and lasted about like nineteen minutes. Okay, You like,

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<v Speaker 1>as I was sitting there, I could see other guys

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like loitering, kind of. It is like her

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<v Speaker 1>own little dating competition TV show. She must be hot, right,

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<v Speaker 1>She's really hot? Yeah, exactly for a bunch of dudes

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<v Speaker 1>a line up for fifteen minutes for a shot at

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<v Speaker 1>going on a real date with her. Ye, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of women could pull this off. I mean the confidence

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<v Speaker 1>it takes to pull this off makes you attractive, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what your physical attributes are. But did she have

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<v Speaker 1>a timer set? Like? How did you wrap it up?

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<v Speaker 1>She she would just look at her phone periodically. There

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like an alarm, But um, she didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>trapdoor fall through the floor. Next guy sits there? So

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<v Speaker 1>how did you end everything? Then, when it was all

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<v Speaker 1>over and we were saying goodbye, I gave her a handshake,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know, I thought was appropriate since this is

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<v Speaker 1>the first time we've like hung out and we've only

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<v Speaker 1>hung out for what nineteen minutes? Yeah? Now, like now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking, oh, maybe I should have gave her a

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<v Speaker 1>hug or something like that. And you haven't heard anything

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<v Speaker 1>from her at all. Unfortunately, that all took place on

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<v Speaker 1>a Friday, and so I fixed her her that night

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, hey, it was really cool, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>going out. I thought it was really funny, really had

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<v Speaker 1>a really great time. And then she left me on

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<v Speaker 1>Red that Saturday, and I haven't heard from her since

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<v Speaker 1>since I last Saturday. Oh my god, aren't you if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not you, aren't you curious who she did pick?

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<v Speaker 1>I am dying? Yeah, I bet all right, Well we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song and then we'll come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. Okay, sounds great,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. All right, man, hang on looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning if you're just joining us for today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Kenny is on the phone and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named mary Anne. And his first

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<v Speaker 1>date with mary Anne was less like an actual date

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<v Speaker 1>and more like a reboot of the old game show

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<v Speaker 1>The Dating Game, because they met on Tender and she

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<v Speaker 1>said we could meet at Starbucks, but we only have

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes because I've got a bunch of other dudes

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<v Speaker 1>lined up who are also going to date me for

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes and then I will choose a winner. And

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like Kenny has not been chosen as the

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<v Speaker 1>winner because he's not getting a call back. He does

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<v Speaker 1>want to know why, though, you know, this could really backfire.

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<v Speaker 1>We could find out that she went on real dates

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<v Speaker 1>with all seven of the other contestants and you were

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<v Speaker 1>the only one that didn't get a callback. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even if so, I I just need the closure at

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<v Speaker 1>this point. It's like seeing the first segment of a

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<v Speaker 1>show going to commercial break and then never getting the closure.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly right. Yeah, and at least you could have

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<v Speaker 1>done to give you some kind of consolation prize you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get to date. But you just gotta do Maytag

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<v Speaker 1>washer and dryer congratulation, Skinny. I'll take it. Yeah, he'll

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<v Speaker 1>take it. All right. Well, I'm gonna call her right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see if we can figure it out for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Mary Anne? Please? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Marianne. Hey, Mary Anne? How are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is jew Bil from Brook and JEWBWL in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is jew Bil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Um, what going on? Not much?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on with you? Okay, I'm really busy. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little confused, what what's happening. I'll make this quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you do a segment on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody and then they end up not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, you can email us and we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>that person on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So we actually got an email about you from a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Kenny. Who Kenny? He told us about a

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<v Speaker 1>date that he went on with you where you gave

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of dudes fifteen minutes to get to know

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<v Speaker 1>you at a Starbucks and then I guess you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to choose the winner. Kenny was one of those guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, And I got to say about genius move

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<v Speaker 1>with the basically creating your own dating competition. Wow. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't trying to get a competition, just really busy and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a lot of time, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>like wanted to get it done. Okay, Well, out of

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<v Speaker 1>all the dudes that you hung out with that day,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember spending time with Kenny. I have to

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<v Speaker 1>check my notes. Me let me look, he said, this

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<v Speaker 1>may help. He said that you guys went over the

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<v Speaker 1>a lot fifteen minutes and your time with him was

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<v Speaker 1>up to nineteen minutes. Okay, I'm looking at Yeah he

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<v Speaker 1>was guy number four. Oh my god, you actually really

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<v Speaker 1>for real have notes? Yeah? I thought you was. You

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<v Speaker 1>were organized. Can you give us a little information about

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<v Speaker 1>your date with Kenny based on your note taking? I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like, I mean, he did well during the

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<v Speaker 1>interview portion of the meeting. Wait, there's another portion besides interview. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's the interview portion when there's the closing, the closing? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so is Kenny not a closer? Not with me? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think we had a good dialogue going and

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<v Speaker 1>then at the end of the date, she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just failed. And I wasn't impressed what he said. He

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<v Speaker 1>gave you a handshake. You wanted him to go in

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<v Speaker 1>for a kiss after hanging out with you for fifteen minutes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't kiss me, And you know it's a date

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<v Speaker 1>and you actually you actually did want that. Yeah, I mean, hello,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a limited amount of time. A real man

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<v Speaker 1>would take advantage and closed the deal. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was giving him signs and he just shook my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>That told me everything I need to know about him.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether he's a man and he's not hold them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that is unfair. First of all, I know that you

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<v Speaker 1>probably watch a lot of reality shows, but dating someone

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<v Speaker 1>for nineteen minutes, that's impossible for anyone to really show

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<v Speaker 1>who they are in nineteen minutes. Like I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought the interview portion went well and he showed who

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<v Speaker 1>he was and I was giving him signs and signals

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<v Speaker 1>to close the deal and he gave me a handshake.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, I bet he was just trying to respect

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<v Speaker 1>your space. Did the other guys that you hung out

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<v Speaker 1>with that day kiss you? Yeah? Wait, hold on all

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<v Speaker 1>of them? Not all of them, but some of them.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're just inside a Starbucks for two hours making

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<v Speaker 1>out with multiple men. I wasn't making out and it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't multiple men. So basically, you don't feel like Kenny

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<v Speaker 1>is dating material because he didn't try to kiss you

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<v Speaker 1>after your very abbreviated date. Yes, oh wow, Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Mary Anne, I do want to let you know that

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<v Speaker 1>Kenny is actually on the other line listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and does want to talk to you. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I really don't want to talk to him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I got a lot to do today. Mary Anne,

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<v Speaker 1>there's Kenny anyway? Yeah, can we talk for a second,

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<v Speaker 1>Mary Anne? I guess so. I mean, you got me

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio show to begin with, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know it probably wasn't the best way to go

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<v Speaker 1>about it, but neither was an interview, a fifteen minute interview.

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<v Speaker 1>You signed up for it. I didn't. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was interesting, you know, but I know I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I opted all in this minute. You're the one who

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<v Speaker 1>showed up. You decided to meet me. If you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like my style, then don't hang out with me. You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. But we spent fifteen minutes together. It was

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<v Speaker 1>our first time meeting. Like, you want me to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>you after that? I mean, don't get me wrong, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to. That'd be great. You're a very wonderful woman.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I honestly, I am shocked that what

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<v Speaker 1>two guys, a couple of guys, they actually had the nerve.

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<v Speaker 1>That's insane to me. It's not that they had the nerve,

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<v Speaker 1>they had the confidence. Okay, I gave you the sign.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't pass. You don't have what it takes to

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<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship with me. Whoa marian? If you're

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<v Speaker 1>such a strong woman, and you're such a confident woman yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>If you liked him, why didn't you go in for

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<v Speaker 1>the kiss? Why didn't you make the move? Thank you. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I want a strong man who takes charge, and you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do that. Okay. I want a man who knows

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<v Speaker 1>what he wants. I want a man who takes what

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<v Speaker 1>he wants. I don't have time for anything other than that.

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<v Speaker 1>I do know what I want. I was just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be courteous. Yeah, I didn't know that in the

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<v Speaker 1>process that there were different sections. I didn't know that

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<v Speaker 1>you had it divided up into the interview and closing

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<v Speaker 1>and it is there a written section? Do I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do? I need to bring a number two pencils.

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<v Speaker 1>I texted you the rules. You knew how it was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go, You agreed to it, you confirmed with me.

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<v Speaker 1>You knew what was going on. That's why I prepared

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<v Speaker 1>my interesting question and they were great. I told you

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<v Speaker 1>you passed it. End of view. It was the closing

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<v Speaker 1>section you did not. Well, I can't close. I can close,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would have loved to close with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why. Why don't you kiss me right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that good? Mber? A kiss here there, give me

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss, Give me a kiss right through the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>That three two one? Is that good? Did that close? No?

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<v Speaker 1>You this really weird, man. I mean it's not even funny,

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<v Speaker 1>not even clever. Well, you know you said that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted a guy who takes charge. There's some charge for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You want some more charge? Here, come on a second

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<v Speaker 1>day with me. Let's go on a second day. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>grab some coffee. Let's go grab some coffee and hang

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<v Speaker 1>out for twenty minutes. Does that cut it? Is that good?

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<v Speaker 1>We can make out? How does that sound? Is that great?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't know if he's angry or confident? Kenny? No,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no no. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>taking charge now. Oh yeah, I'm feeling it. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>the charge in my ball. And oh this is what

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<v Speaker 1>you like? Right? Not really? I mean you're over the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh please, I know you can feel it, you can

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<v Speaker 1>feel it in the sound. Oh my god, can I

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<v Speaker 1>get off the phone now? Really? Like please? I'm begging no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you listen here, Marian. You're sending me mixed signals, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that, because you're like, oh no, no, I want

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that takes charge. I want him to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>me on the after fifteen minutes. But you also like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, I want a guy that plays by my

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<v Speaker 1>rules and I want to have complete dominion over him.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want, Marianne? What do you want from me?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get off the phone. Did you even

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<v Speaker 1>go out with any of the other guys? I? Did?

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<v Speaker 1>You did another date? Really? And how did that work

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<v Speaker 1>out with your strong man? You know I'm sitting here

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<v Speaker 1>being criticized. It went very well and I don't appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>any of your tones. I'm very busy today and I've

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<v Speaker 1>already been on the phone for twenty minutes. It feels like,

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<v Speaker 1>so can we wrap this up? Yeah? Absolutely, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was just looking for an opening to do that. So

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very much Maryanne for helping me out with

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<v Speaker 1>that process. Would you like to go on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with Kenny? We will pay for it. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think I'm gonna go with? No? I? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you still sound on the fence to me. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a no then and he's in there now. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what? This sucks? Man. I try to be a

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman on a date. I try to be nice and courteous,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I give you a handshake and then you

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<v Speaker 1>get mad when I don't kiss you. Come on, man, stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my style. Obviously we don't connect. You don't get me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's wrap this up. She is a direct Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry you didn't get a second date. That's all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And the next time you meet any woman at a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop, now you know you just kiss her right away,

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<v Speaker 1>just to be sure. In the morning, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people texting in at seven, eight, five, nine two right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a fan of mary Anne. From today's second date

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<v Speaker 1>update if you missed it, This dude Kenny wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call Mary Anne. He told us he went on a

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<v Speaker 1>weird date with her where she would only give him

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes of time to impress her. She was upfront

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<v Speaker 1>about it with him and said her schedule was very busy,

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<v Speaker 1>so he was going to meet with eight dudes in

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<v Speaker 1>one day and each of them got fifteen minutes, kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like her own speed dating. Yeah. I made the

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<v Speaker 1>comparison to that old MTV show Elimi Date, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she did. Kenny thought it went great, didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>mind having to do the fifteen minute get to know

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<v Speaker 1>your session is actually even went nineteen minutes, so he

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was in for sure, but he wasn't getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. So we got mary Anne on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and it turns out that she said Kenny couldn't close

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<v Speaker 1>the deal and took off points from his score and

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<v Speaker 1>she actually grabbed notes too. Yeah, she called him guide

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<v Speaker 1>himber four. Yeah, dude, I would hate to date a

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<v Speaker 1>girl like her. She's like overgized, way too organ I

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<v Speaker 1>mean even in your dating life, you're organized. She said

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<v Speaker 1>that she took off points because he didn't try to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her at the end of their fifteen minute hangout.

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<v Speaker 1>It's still baffling to me though, that she sounds so

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<v Speaker 1>controlling that she's not the one that would want to

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<v Speaker 1>initiate the kiss. Yeah, really hard for me to like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>to just take control. And she said a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>the other guys kissed her at the end of fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minutes and she liked that and decided to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with them instead. Could you imagine being a Barissa in

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<v Speaker 1>the Starbucks she was at. That is so amazing to

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<v Speaker 1>watch this whole thing go down, Like what is is

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<v Speaker 1>she a hooker? Like what is happening? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>have all these men coming in. Well, probably when you

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<v Speaker 1>first saw it you think job interviewed, because I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of job interviews in Starbucks. And people keep

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<v Speaker 1>coming in, they got fifteen minutes, and then she starts

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<v Speaker 1>making out with them. You're like, what's just kissing all

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<v Speaker 1>the candidates? Remember, if you want to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, all you to do is email the show

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<v Speaker 1>and we will call the person who didn't call you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving ninety two point five