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Speaker 1: Jewbels Second dat Update. We've heard of a lot of

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Speaker 1: interesting date ideas in these second date updates. Yeah, people

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Speaker 1: are creative, but I feel like the woman from today's

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Speaker 1: second date update she got her inspiration from watching MTV

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Speaker 1: in the early two thousands. Who must be a big

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Speaker 1: fan of out show at Limit Date. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you anybody remembers that show or not, but don't

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Speaker 1: worry about it's not on the air anymore anyway. Kenny

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Speaker 1: is on the phone right now. What's up, Kenny? Hey,

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Speaker 1: how's it going pretty good? Before we get into the

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Speaker 1: weird date that you went on, tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit about the girl you want to call today. What's

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Speaker 1: her name? So, her name's Mary Anne, Mary Ann. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and apparently her weird date idea was awesome though, because

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Speaker 1: it definitely intrigued me. It was definitely I've never seen

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Speaker 1: we get into the date. Where did you meet Marianne? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what did you like about her? She just seemed really

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Speaker 1: really cool, you know what I mean. Like her pictures

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Speaker 1: have similar music taste. I don't know anything about Steven

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Speaker 1: of people that like that. Anyway, So tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about the date. So she texted me saying,

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Speaker 1: many people when you're doing online dating apps. That's like

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Speaker 1: it's a numbers game, right. But the interesting part was

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Speaker 1: like fifteen minute intervals. Okay, so she's just sitting at

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Speaker 1: that Starbucks interviewing dates basically. Yeah, that that really was it?

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Speaker 1: So wait, hold on, So I mean you're cool with

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Speaker 1: But it really intrigued me personally. I've never experienced something

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Speaker 1: you were going on a date within It's definitely pretty

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Speaker 1: nerve wracking. But beforehand, I tried to go in with

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Speaker 1: So I decided to try and prepare some topics and questions.

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Speaker 1: So you are a competitive man, You're up for the challenge?

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Speaker 1: Oh why not? You know? Then? How did it go?

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Speaker 1: The first one was how long would you give someone

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Speaker 1: hung out for what nineteen minutes? Yeah? Now, like now

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Speaker 1: to call a girl named mary Anne. And his first

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Speaker 1: That's exactly right. Yeah, and at least you could have

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Speaker 1: washer and dryer congratulation, Skinny. I'll take it. Yeah, he'll

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Mary Anne? Please? Oh?

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Speaker 1: This is Marianne. Hey, Mary Anne? How are you? This

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Speaker 1: is jew Bil from Brook and JEWBWL in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Who is jew Bil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Um, what going on? Not much?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with you? Okay, I'm really busy. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Then you do a segment on our show called the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on

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Speaker 1: So we actually got an email about you from a

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Speaker 1: dude named Kenny. Who Kenny? He told us about a

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Speaker 1: going to choose the winner. Kenny was one of those guys.

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Speaker 1: that is unfair. First of all, I know that you

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