WEBVTT - Miss Spelling MORE Beans 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:16.040 Misspelling with Tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast. So you all 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:21.079 know I love telling my Tory stories, like a lot 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:27.000 of them, and this we would consider part two of 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:33.080 God I love a good pun spelling the beans. So 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:38.320 here we are. So last episode I teased that there 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:45.600 was a major A list star that I kissed, and 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:50.760 we're going to get to that, but I'm hold for 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:54.840 bit of breath. We're gonna go into some other juicy 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:59.040 questions before we get to that. Lorraine, my amazing producer, 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.640 is going to ask me quite uessions that I don't 0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:04.399 know of, so we'll see what you get. This often 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:08.680 triggers my memory of really cool stories that I didn't 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:12.039 even know I had, but I got a lot, Loreene. 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:17.080 Let's do this, okay. 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:19.640 So I know you well enough to know that you 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:24.160 are a very forgiving person. You're kind, and you're forgetting 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:29.280 the fault. Was there ever anyone who did you wrong, 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:33.200 so wrong to the point you couldn't forgive them and 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:34.040 you cut them off? 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:40.240 No? No, And you know me well enough that I 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:47.320 do forgive. I don't hold grudges. It's not in my wheelhouse, 0:01:47.400 --> 0:01:54.400 in my heart and my kindness, So no, I'm the type. 0:01:54.520 --> 0:02:00.160 And you know this, I'm the type that wants not 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:02.840 just people to like me, but I like people and 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:09.600 once we're connected, I want that to continue. So this 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.040 whole new thing, and I guess it's new. I don't know. 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:15.200 I'm learning about it. And people were like, just block them. 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:18.640 I'm like, no, no, no, I would never block anybody 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:20.800 because I'm like, okay, you move on, you move on. 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:24.800 Like to block someone I feel like is giving them power, 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:30.240 and I'm not that type of person. And to be honest, 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:34.240 I just want everyone to get along. I'm a lover, 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:37.280 not a fighter. So no, no one I ever cut 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:41.760 off that, uh, And probably you know me, I would 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:45.960 just you know, kind of go quiet and then yeah, 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:49.720 you know what. I don't believe in regrets, but I 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:54.600 did break up with someone over text once, so I 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.280 guess that's kind of cutting somebody off, and I still 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.639 to this day feel really bad about it. 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:04.840 Would you cut someone off if they like, stole your boyfriend, 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.360 which I know you don't have a boyfriend, but if 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:10.720 you do, would that be grounds for removal? 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:21.760 Ooh, great question. Knowing me, I would probably find a 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:27.480 way to make it somehow that I was wrong. You know, 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:32.600 I must have been instrumental of them having do you 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:35.360 see make out take You said steal my boyfriend? 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:36.960 Yeah? 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:42.119 Okay, so having come from relationships where I've been called 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:48.400 a home wrecker, Uh, you stole my husband? Yep, that's 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.800 been written about me. In fact, I think she wrote 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:55.480 a book titled dot Tory spelling Stole my husband. I 0:03:55.600 --> 0:04:01.400 don't really believe that a human can be stolen from 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:10.280 one partner. I feel like, yeah, it's always typically the 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:14.120 female that gets blamed when a man cheats and then 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.200 goes to another relationship, and it's like she did it. 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:24.960 She's the homewrecker. She stole my boyfriend or husband or 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:29.599 lover or guy i'm talking to. I wouldn't know anything 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:33.840 about love, but no, no, no, no, they have a part 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:38.000 in it. They willingly leave. I don't believe someone can 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:43.120 steal another party, So bring it all back around. I 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:48.800 would probably find a way to forgive that person. I 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:54.159 would block them, I wouldn't remove them. I would be sad. 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:58.240 And if they wanted to talk about it, oh, I 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:01.960 hate confrontation. They wanted a text about it, I'd be 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:04.800 open to that and then we'd figure things out. 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:11.760 Okay, moving on, career wise, were you ever heartbroken because 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:13.640 you didn't get a role you really really wanted. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:21.360 Hmm, well, everything comes back around. I was really sad 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:27.560 when I really love horror films and I auditioned for 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:32.480 Scream one, and I've talked about going into that audition. 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:38.040 I got the scene I was reading and it was 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:41.760 Nev Campbell's character Sidney saying with my luck. You know, 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:45.679 it was after there been the masker and everything was happening, 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:47.599 and someone's like, they're gonna make a movie or a 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.480 TV movie out of your life, and she's like, yeah, 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:55.120 but my luck they would cast Tory Spelling And I 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.840 remember that was one of the audition scenes and I 0:05:57.880 --> 0:05:59.640 saw it. I remember being on the set of nine 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:03.400 on two W know and my manager at the time, 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:07.160 I think, had they had faxed the other we'll use 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:12.279 faxes then, do they know? To the front office at 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:14.200 Nino two and zero to get me the scenes? And 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:16.200 I got them in my dressing room and it was 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:18.960 an audition, I had said, and my manager at the 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.960 time said, I just she wanted to be mindful of 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:24.840 how I took that and did I not want to 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:29.280 audition because of that? And I might be not confident 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:30.960 in a lot of ways, but in a lot of 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:34.080 ways I am confident. It's like they fight each other 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:39.120 in my brain and soul. And I said, no, I'm 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.000 gonna audition for I'm not going to get it, clearly 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:43.480 unless they're going to change the name, you know, change 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:47.760 that line. But yeah, I'm gonna audition for it. Didn't 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:52.920 get it. But when they did Scream two, Wes Craven 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.720 wanted to and they didn't think I would do it. 0:06:56.839 --> 0:07:01.000 Talk to me about a cameo in Scream two playing 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:04.680 myself getting cast. So if they do make a movie 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:07.120 out of her life, it's called stab and Screamed two 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:12.320 out of Sydney Prescott's life and lo and behold I 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:16.360 got that. And I remember them saying like, oh, you 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.800 probably won't do it, and west Cravenant was super I 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.920 remember nervous about like, will she come meet with me 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.000 in my office? Can I just talk to her about this? 0:07:23.120 --> 0:07:25.760 I was already on board. I was like, getting to 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:29.560 work with West Craven, Are you kidding me? Like I'm 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:34.600 already in But I went and played the game of 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:38.160 chess and heard them out, and then I think I 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:41.720 was like, uh, yeah, for sure, and that is one, 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:46.040 to this day, one of the best decisions. And if 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:49.040 I had an audition for the first one, obviously, and 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:52.120 that whole thing became a story and like, you know, 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:56.280 so everything works out. 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:02.920 Okay. Next question, is there a celebrity that you think 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:06.520 people would be shocked to hear is a total jerk 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:11.400 in real life? 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:11.840 Uh? 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:15.960 Huh, we need hints. 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:26.480 Oh, you know what, I am too smart to trash 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:31.160 anybody because I want to continue to work. And we 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.080 thought it was kind in this business and I am 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:39.280 but let's just say never. There's there's something to the 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:43.680 old phrase never meet your heroes. I'm leaving it there. 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:47.840 Oh my god. Can you at least say if the 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:49.800 hero was a female or a male? 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:58.360 Absolutely not female? 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:08.160 Love that? Okay. Next, were there certain celebrities who wanted 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:11.439 to be seen in public with you just for the 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:15.040 cloud of it? Oh? 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:19.000 I'm sure. I'm sure, And I'm not like tooting you 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:20.720 know me. Now, I'm like, wait, I don't want to 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.920 like say I'm like any like big shit or anything, 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:26.360 but I'm sure. Like back during nine o two and 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:30.800 oh days and I had oh my gosh, my gatar 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:36.280 on point, love my gaze, my straight boy dar not 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:41.600 on point, never understood, never knew female dar is that 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:48.240 a thing? Not on point either. I just believe in 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:50.719 people being nice and wanting to be there for that. 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:54.240 But my friends who were not in the industry would 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:56.600 always know and they'd be like, uh no, no, no, 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:59.560 this person they're out. I'm like, what do you mean 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:02.240 they're right, and they're like hello. They just want to 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.520 be because you're you, and they want to be in 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:12.080 the circle and around and yeah. I remember my best 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:16.960 friend Marn saying to me, oh, remember the one that 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:19.360 got away. I'm like, no, who's the one that got away? 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.640 And he's like, don't you remember? I mean, this is 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:26.440 we're going back thirty years now, all less. He was like, 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.360 don't you remember we were at that club? And now 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.200 I'm blanking on the club. We'll have to bring him on. 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:33.760 He tells the story brilliantly. It's his story to tell 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:39.040 because I didn't even remember that there was a night 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:42.040 when we were all and this is totally unrelated, but 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:47.960 you know, sometimes things triggered me into other territories where 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:50.200 he was like, uh, do you remember we were at 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:54.000 that club and Ashton Kutcher was there and he was 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:57.200 talking to you, and I'm like, what I talked to 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.920 Ashton Kutcher and he's like, yeah, he was like hitting 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:04.640 you and you like had no interest, and I was like, what, 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:09.280 oh my god, sorry, Miila could have been me. 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:16.840 Okay on that note, just because it just I just 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:17.440 thought about this. 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:18.080 Mm hmm. 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:21.600 Do you remember like going out with people and then 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:25.440 they would just assume you were going to pay because 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:27.679 of your family wealth. 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:34.200 That's every weekend of my life. Yeah, but I always did, 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:42.120 which is why financially my history not so good. I 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:45.400 think so. And you know what, it wasn't so much 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:48.400 my family's wealth at that time. By then it was 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:51.640 nine oh two and oho, so it's like, okay, she's 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:59.120 on this mega huge series. I'm sure. But I always 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:01.480 enjoyed my friend friend's company. If my friend had a 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:06.520 friend they were bringing, that was fine. And my dad, 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:09.600 my dad always did this. My dad always no matter 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.840 who we went out with. I learned this from him. 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:14.679 Is he he would get up in the middle of 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:19.439 the meal and he would go and give the hostess 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:25.640 or the waiter, waitress his credit card, and so when 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:29.719 it came time, it wouldn't be people being like no, no, no, no, no, 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:33.040 I've got it. I've got it, and people being like, 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.679 you know, making people feel bad if they didn't have it. 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:39.760 So he would just always do that, do that, and 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.120 I I took note to that. It was a really 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:45.400 nice thing. And if you have it here, I'm the 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:50.119 type when I have it, I share it in abundance. 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:57.800 And I wish all people would be like that. But yeah, 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:01.320 so during that time, we would go to these exorbitant 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:05.920 dinners and nightclubs and bottle service and I would always 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:08.280 quietly get up in the middle and say, I'm just 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.880 going to the restroom, and I would hand my credit 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.439 card over and I would say, you know, when time comes, 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:16.240 I don't want people to feel awkward. We just pay 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:21.000 for it and it's done. So yeah, I probably became 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:24.240 expected at some point, not but my friends, but you know, 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.720 when people came, I'm sure they were like, oh, Tori Spelling, 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:29.320 I'm sure you know, I just put a S on 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:32.960 the end of my name, Tory Spelling. I'm sure she's 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:37.120 paying for it. But yeah, it never bothered me. I 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.400 got to be honest. When I had it, I wanted 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:40.959 others to experience it. 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:53.640 So I want to talk about a little revelation slash 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:56.800 confession that you made on nine oh two one OMG 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:58.160 regarding a. 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:03.600 Certain threesome one and only threesome I've had in my 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:08.880 entire life. Yes, so on my other podcasts with Jenny 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:13.120 Garth and Amy Sugarman nine O two one OMG, we 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:18.240 do a rewatch, and sometimes rewatching these episodes bring up 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:23.160 stories that happened behind the scenes, and this one happened 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:26.600 behind the boat. Nope, not behind the boat. On the boat. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:32.400 We were talking about a season finale of season six 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:38.160 and we filmed it two parter on the famous Queen Mary, 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:46.560 and I said, I didn't say who that while we 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.480 had to stay over at the Queen Mary because we 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.600 were filming for a couple of days. I ended up 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:59.360 after work and we stayed in their state rooms. And they're, yeah, 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.720 I'm not sure they've updated the Queen Mary staterooms. They 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:07.440 have a stateroom staterooms. It wasn't a stateroom. It was 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:10.840 a stateroom. It was small and it was dark and 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:15.120 lots of velvet. Oh yeah, I could still remember it. 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:21.280 Not some good florals, not good, but yeah, I had 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:28.480 my one and only threesome and it was me a 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:31.480 male and a female. 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.640 Did you enjoy it more or less than you thought you. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:45.240 Would less I hadn't been. Okay, I'll put it this way. 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:51.080 This is going back. I don't think girls nowadays do 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:55.160 this because it's all, yeah, they're not there to like 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:57.560 make guys be like, oh my gosh. But you know, 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.120 back in the nineties, it was kind of a thing 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.400 and you would do this thing where you would be like, 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:05.760 let's shock the boys and make them drool, and you 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:09.760 would like make out with your friend and whether you 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:12.360 you know, had interests in other in females or no 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:15.040 interest at all, kind of it was like, it's just 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:19.840 two girls kissing. And so, yeah, I've kissed many in 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:23.680 my female co stars from nine oh two one oh. 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:29.800 I think Jen's the only one I never kissed, and 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:32.400 we talk about this. Yeah, And it was just fun 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:34.520 and games, like we'd just be like, oh my gosh, 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:39.640 wait for this reaction. Oh I got the boys every time, 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:43.480 the looks on their faces it was priceless, and we'd 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.280 just be like afterwards in the bathroom like crying, laughing, like, 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:51.440 oh my god, did you see their faces? But yeah, 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:53.720 so that happened a lot. 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:56.680 Well, Okay, so you enjoyed it less than you thought 0:16:56.720 --> 0:17:00.280 you would, But the did them did your male under 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:01.400 part have a great old time. 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:10.880 So while I was all for, you know, kissing a 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:14.439 female friend in front of boys, like, not behind private 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:18.399 doors to make the boys like drool and be like, 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:23.760 oh my god, did they just do that, I didn't 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:31.560 have any exploration wants with a female. So this was 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:35.720 behind the scenes, behind closed doors of the Queen Marriable places. 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:44.400 My goodness, look, but yeah this this boy wanted it, 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:48.040 and I played along. I don't think at any point 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:50.040 he was like, oh my god, because he would never 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:51.800 have gone forward with it if I had spoken up 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:54.160 and said I don't want to do this. But yeah, 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.280 I was like, okay, you know, I feel safe with 0:17:56.320 --> 0:18:02.439 this human. I feel safe with this female human. And sure, 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:07.800 I always say you gotta try anything once, but yeah, 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:15.440 I came away from it feeling like, Okay, I think 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:19.679 I'll stick to, you know, boys. I'm definitely into boys 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:24.320 and maybe just kissing girls like for shock value in 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:27.239 front of boys, but other than that, I'm good. And 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:29.879 I felt like I was just too nervous. I couldn't 0:18:29.880 --> 0:18:33.639 I was anxious the whole time. The whole experience just 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.879 felt off. Did the boy enjoy it? 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:37.520 I don't know. 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:40.960 I'll text him later and ask, but I don't know. 0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:54.080 I probably okay, cool, I'm sure he did. Who was 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:57.000 the most famous movie star you've ever kissed? 0:18:57.920 --> 0:19:01.320 So I believe in kiss men. I believe in synchronicity. 0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:05.520 I believe in callbacks and things always come back around. 0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:11.280 So I remember being at an agency. This is before, 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:13.679 like I definitely like once nine o two and oh 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:17.679 started and blew up. My dad was who was CIA? 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:22.480 And he wanted me to be there, and so I 0:19:22.720 --> 0:19:27.119 moved to CA and they were great. I got so 0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:29.879 many feature films with them, Like I had a great agent, 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:33.440 Michael Davis, who is no longer in the business, but there, 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:35.640 you know, I was already on nine o two and oh. 0:19:36.200 --> 0:19:38.080 It was like a big deal. Oh my god, I'm 0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:43.040 getting nervous telling this story. I've never said it out loud. Okay, Okay, 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:47.080 here it goes. I was in CA. It was their 0:19:47.119 --> 0:19:51.879 old office building, but it was like a museum, like 0:19:51.920 --> 0:19:58.479 it was this huge marble. No, it's the wrong stone. 0:19:58.520 --> 0:20:02.600 I'm obsessed with stones. It was more anyway. It was 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:06.359 chic but very cold. I guess you would say, but 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:11.480 very impressive and huge. And you walked into that lobby 0:20:11.560 --> 0:20:14.840 and it was not a lobby, it was like a museum. 0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:20.160 And I had just taken a meeting with my team 0:20:21.000 --> 0:20:24.360 and I was leaving and on the way out, I'm 0:20:24.400 --> 0:20:28.760 walking and I was gonna, you know, go to the 0:20:28.800 --> 0:20:33.480 front and get validated or something like tell me I'm 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:37.960 okay and no, and then go. Now I never did that. 0:20:39.200 --> 0:20:41.760 I probably didn't go to get validation, which they would 0:20:41.760 --> 0:20:44.679 have validated knowing me. I went down and said, oh 0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:46.800 my god, I'm so sorry for I'd get validated and 0:20:46.800 --> 0:20:50.199 then paid full price at Valet. But while I was 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:52.640 in that lobby, there was a boy that came in. 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:56.040 And this boy came in and I was like, and 0:20:56.080 --> 0:20:59.080 I wasn't even like that at the time, Like I 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:02.040 don't know, there were boy actors around me all the time, 0:21:02.160 --> 0:21:03.960 and I was just more into, like I just want 0:21:04.000 --> 0:21:06.639 to have phone with my friends and I'm a girl's girl. 0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:10.840 But I did my first ever like a double take 0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:16.159 with this boy. He was so beautiful, like I was like, 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:19.520 oh my gosh, and we locked eyes and he was 0:21:19.600 --> 0:21:24.879 checking in. He seemed fairly nervous. I could tell, you know, 0:21:25.960 --> 0:21:28.240 you could just tell he was new. You know. It 0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:30.640 wasn't he wasn't some huge actor. He was like there 0:21:30.680 --> 0:21:32.359 and he was like, oh, I'm at CAA, and like 0:21:34.320 --> 0:21:37.119 things were starting out. Sorry, I've always been a detective, 0:21:37.200 --> 0:21:39.880 so instantly I was like assessing, like who's this guy? 0:21:40.320 --> 0:21:42.520 But I had never seen him before, but I was like, 0:21:42.600 --> 0:21:44.879 oh my god, there's something so hot. And we locked 0:21:44.880 --> 0:21:48.400 eyes and so then I pretended to like sit down 0:21:48.720 --> 0:21:51.400 and like waiting like maybe I'm waiting for my car 0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:55.000 to pick me up, and he just kept looking at me, 0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:57.679 and he was waiting to get called up to his meeting. 0:21:58.400 --> 0:22:02.920 And it's one of those experiences where there's no doubt 0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:07.480 the person's like keeps looking at you. I can't like 0:22:07.600 --> 0:22:10.680 keeps looking down waiting like doing, and keeps like glancing 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:13.600 back up that glance. We all know the glance. And 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:16.240 you're like, oh, this guy's into me. And I was like, 0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:20.600 oh my gosh. He then got called up and they 0:22:20.640 --> 0:22:24.359 took him and I I don't know. I went to 0:22:24.400 --> 0:22:26.959 my car and I didn't know who he was. I 0:22:27.000 --> 0:22:29.280 did reach out to my agent later I called him 0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:31.760 and I was like, oh my god, I never do this. 0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:35.880 But there was the hottest actor in the lobby, and 0:22:36.600 --> 0:22:41.080 I just who is he? And he was like, I mean, 0:22:41.480 --> 0:22:44.520 we handle every actor like I don't know, so I'm 0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:49.040 describing him. I'm describing him and he's like, oh, okay, 0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:52.200 we figured out who he was. And he was like, oh, 0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:56.359 we actually just signed him. He's a new actor. Da 0:22:56.440 --> 0:23:01.760 da da da dah. Cut to this guy becomes mega famous, 0:23:02.200 --> 0:23:06.800 and I was always like, oh my god, Like I 0:23:06.920 --> 0:23:12.119 was like, maybe his first Hollywood eye glance. Cool, but 0:23:12.240 --> 0:23:16.280 that was it. And then one night, one night, I'm 0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:23.119 at my apartment with my friends. I was engaged to 0:23:23.240 --> 0:23:26.600 be married to my first husband, and I was already 0:23:26.640 --> 0:23:30.200 having a lot of doubts. It was a lot of doubts, 0:23:30.320 --> 0:23:34.920 and my dad was old and not doing great at 0:23:34.920 --> 0:23:39.639 the time. I had always dated bad boys like this 0:23:39.720 --> 0:23:42.840 one I glanced at. Oh god, it could have been 0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:47.359 like one of his exes, but anyway, and this was 0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:50.119 the nice guy. He was the nice guy, and I 0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:53.439 was like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna turn thirty and 0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:56.359 I gotta I gotta step it up and get my 0:23:56.400 --> 0:23:59.840 shit together. And so he was so lovely. It just 0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:02.600 probably was never the right thing. And it didn't work out. 0:24:03.240 --> 0:24:05.600 And everyone knows how this story goes, because it's all 0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:07.159 out there in the press. I went and did a 0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.639 movie after we got married. A year after we got married, 0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:14.600 I met Dean and the rest is history. But I 0:24:14.640 --> 0:24:17.280 was engaged to be married and I was panicking with 0:24:17.280 --> 0:24:20.520 my friends, and I guess acting out a little bit. 0:24:22.440 --> 0:24:26.120 Even though I'm a numbers girl, I have always kept 0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:28.959 my numbers low. I think I've said this before. I 0:24:29.040 --> 0:24:32.760 cried the first time I went off one hand, so 0:24:32.800 --> 0:24:34.760 that means I had slept with more than five guys. 0:24:34.800 --> 0:24:37.560 I was like, oh my god, I'm a whore. And 0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:40.520 my friends are like, what are you talking about? And 0:24:40.560 --> 0:24:42.359 I cried and I was like, I don't know. Maybe 0:24:42.359 --> 0:24:45.879 it was the Donna Martin Virgin like grained into my 0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:49.399 soul and then you guys, and I have a low 0:24:49.520 --> 0:24:52.560 number in my opinion, I think at fifty one years old. 0:24:53.200 --> 0:24:57.360 But when I went into double digits, like just number eleven, 0:24:57.480 --> 0:25:00.440 I wow. I think I stayed in bed for a day. 0:25:01.400 --> 0:25:03.399 I mean, there's some good TV I need to binge on. 0:25:03.520 --> 0:25:05.359 But other than that, it was it was a thing. 0:25:05.840 --> 0:25:12.159 But anyway, sorry I digress. Anyway, I was getting married 0:25:12.600 --> 0:25:15.879 and my friends are like, you can still stop it. 0:25:15.960 --> 0:25:18.080 You like, these are what my friends are telling me, 0:25:18.600 --> 0:25:22.000 Like my my gusband morn He and I would come 0:25:22.040 --> 0:25:25.560 up with this story and he'd be like, Okay, if 0:25:25.560 --> 0:25:29.040 you insist on going through with the wedding, we have 0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:33.480 a rescue thing. And we would always like envision these 0:25:33.520 --> 0:25:35.879 like things like in movies, and he'd be like, okay, 0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:38.240 you're there at the altar and like, you give me 0:25:38.280 --> 0:25:40.320 the sign and I was like, what's the sign. He's 0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:43.520 like haka, and I'm like, okay, wow, that's gonna be 0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:46.360 hard at like this million dollar plus wedding at my parents' 0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:48.920 manor so he said, when you give me the sign, 0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:53.520 he's like, someone will come and just like zapus out 0:25:53.560 --> 0:25:55.880 of here. And I was like, well, make it chicer 0:25:55.920 --> 0:25:59.880 than zap and he's like okay, they'll have like Rose 0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:03.159 Champagne the Finest Dom. And I'd be like, okay, now 0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:06.399 you're getting Summer pal and they're like and caviar. I 0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:08.000 was like, uh huh uh huh. You had me a 0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:11.520 domb but caviar. Okay, Okay, that's enough to like say 0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:13.080 sorry mom and dad, sorry. 0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:16.000 For the million dollar Weddy need just paid for Sorry 0:26:16.040 --> 0:26:20.680 to my poor husband, Charlie, but mahe we're out of here, 0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:23.479 bud anyway, so we would always laugh at this. 0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:29.399 Anyway, I was engaged. It was before my wedding and 0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:33.399 I was with all my friends and we were hanging 0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:37.640 out and we lived on Wilshire in Westwood, and we 0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:42.880 went to the w Hotel and that's still very popular. 0:26:43.520 --> 0:26:46.760