WEBVTT - Head First

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Erica and I'm Mela and Happy Wednesday, guys, Happy

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<v Speaker 2>hump Day. How's everyone's week doing. My week is hot,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fucking hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Not that week is hot, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I'm uncomfortably hot in the valley. I just

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<v Speaker 2>don't feel good. I'm getting fat. Relationships make you fat

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<v Speaker 2>unless you're Jamila, and then that case you just stay fit.

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<v Speaker 1>But unathletic.

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<v Speaker 3>Unathletic as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So one of my discoveries on this trip, amongst many

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<v Speaker 4>other things, because I just got back from Mexico, is

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<v Speaker 4>that I have to work out even if I look

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<v Speaker 4>like this, because a bitch did some swimming and a

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<v Speaker 4>bitch was about to die. Okay, literally, I was with

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<v Speaker 4>Erica's trainer was with me, and we swim like literally

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<v Speaker 4>three feet somewhere and on the other side, I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was like, oh my god. I was like

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<v Speaker 3>I know. He's like no, seriously, it was like he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>are you okay. I was like.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like that's not cool. I was like, I know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna sign up when I get back.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Like the whole chip, the whole joke was that I

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<v Speaker 4>might pass out. Even though I look like this and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm ninety eight pounds. My stamina is low, low, low.

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<v Speaker 4>Because my swimming swimming really you know, cause you're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>drown if you don't swim.

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<v Speaker 3>Really shows me that I'm not in shape at all.

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<v Speaker 4>So I need to somehow get my stamma up in

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<v Speaker 4>the next three months or else.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It's not looking good for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, especially now, bitch, it's a pandemic. It's like, we

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<v Speaker 2>gotta up our skills, our athletic skills.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't know what I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I like, I have to swim across the ocean to

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<v Speaker 2>another country.

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<v Speaker 4>I won't make it. You'll have to take a lot it.

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<v Speaker 4>I won't make it. I won't even make it to

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<v Speaker 4>the next I won't make it. A Catalina, bitch, I

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<v Speaker 4>won't make it. Because then we swam with sharks and

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<v Speaker 4>I almost also, and I was wearing a swimming I

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<v Speaker 4>was wearing a vest and I still was out of breath.

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<v Speaker 3>It was overwhelming. Swimming's not my thing. I can do it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not great at its, mostly because my stamina is

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<v Speaker 4>low and sex though I'm great.

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<v Speaker 1>You get that extra boost.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like if there's Dick involved, I can get that

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<v Speaker 4>adrenaline without it.

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<v Speaker 3>Death sharks, death, I'll die. Soone's chasing me up once

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<v Speaker 3>fight of steps done. It's not good.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not It looks like this, but don't get jealous

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<v Speaker 4>because on the inside it's not the same.

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<v Speaker 3>AnyWho.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, I feel like we haven't we haven't been here

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<v Speaker 4>in a minute. I mean, we've done a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>cross pods. It's hard to keep up.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been podcasting lives Away.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, even Erica, and I am like, wait have you

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't heard from you. What have you said? Tell me?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me what's going on in your life.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's just begin by saying, even though I bashed

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<v Speaker 4>Erica in the last three episodes about having a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 4>telling everyone, I cringed at the word boyfriend every time

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<v Speaker 4>she says it, I somehow I am in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>And I posted it on the Instagram, made it official official.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh shit, threw me off. I caught

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<v Speaker 2>me off guard too. I was like, oh damn official.

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<v Speaker 2>With the post and the still a wet and the

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<v Speaker 2>sunset and the all the is an official timeline photo.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, what I will say is sunsets and warm water,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean warm weather and tequila in a foreign country,

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<v Speaker 4>possibly a tesla.

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<v Speaker 3>They gets you very love.

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<v Speaker 4>You, Toby, really quickly, because you know, I'm not about

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<v Speaker 4>that life. I'm not about posting niggas. I'm not about boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 4>And here I am with the boyfriend and some posts.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I'm gonna have to disagree with you.

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<v Speaker 2>You always say that, but like I've known you've had

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<v Speaker 2>two boyfriends since I've.

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<v Speaker 4>Known you, I've only known I've known you two and

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<v Speaker 4>a half years exactly that one boyfriend, only that Young

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<v Speaker 4>Bay only lasted like six months.

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<v Speaker 3>You were in love. I posted him once love.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, First, I'll even be clear, Young Bay I knew

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<v Speaker 4>before we started this, and he was not my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 4>for a long time, and then other events kind of

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<v Speaker 4>cause that to happen, and then it didn't last very long.

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<v Speaker 3>Prior to that, it was my baby daddy, So shut.

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<v Speaker 4>The fuck out, okay, And that nigga got one post

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<v Speaker 4>and that post got deleted like two months later. So no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not about that life. But at the core, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a cancer. I am kind of about that life.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm very lucky daddy, And if I if I catch

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<v Speaker 4>myself in love you, I'm gonna tell the world that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>It just takes a lot for me to get there anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>You, on the other hand, you have no problem jumping

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<v Speaker 4>right in, head first, dive, full dive.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be judging me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just the truth this in this situation, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>These are the opposite spectrums of the water signs.

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<v Speaker 2>And yes in that in this situation, I did jump

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<v Speaker 2>head first in head in Headferston, head head first, head first,

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<v Speaker 2>head first, put the head in first, give me head first.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you believe we're not even high yet? Hilarious?

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<v Speaker 1>I did, I jumped in. I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just like I said, like I've said before, it

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<v Speaker 2>is like I felt safe and I felt like I

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<v Speaker 2>went against all of my better judgment than I just

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<v Speaker 2>and I just went for it because they just do well.

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<v Speaker 2>I think also because like I could find a million

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<v Speaker 2>million reasons why not to do something.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, yeah, me too, Like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Just was like, you know, I'm just fuck it and

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<v Speaker 2>it's been and it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean obviously, like you know, it's things happen. Arguments happen,

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<v Speaker 2>they occur, and that's normal. I've also realized that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>childish in ways when I argue and that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>literally experienced like I knew I was being childish, like

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<v Speaker 2>because he was like, why why are you doing this?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like because, and I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>fucking dumb. But I'm committing to my what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 2>because I can't go back now.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm definitely immature.

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<v Speaker 4>That's probably why I haven't had a lot of relationships

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm immature. Eric and I have both only been

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<v Speaker 4>knowing these people like ninety days. I feel like about

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<v Speaker 4>ninety day fiance, but you've.

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<v Speaker 1>Known him longer than that.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew him since February twenty eighth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, March, April, May, June, July.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't hang out almost We didn't hang out until April,

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<v Speaker 4>so like I've met him.

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<v Speaker 3>I met him the end of February one on one day.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't see him in March.

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<v Speaker 4>I saw him probably mid April, so mid April April

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<v Speaker 4>to May and made.

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<v Speaker 3>A junet and in July ninety days okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to make it less got it, No, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>just not very long, let's be clear. And then we've

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<v Speaker 4>jumped in to a international trip together that was supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to be five days, and then we extended it to

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<v Speaker 4>like fucking twelve. And I don't even know if I

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<v Speaker 4>like anybody for twelve days straight together.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was a big testimony of.

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<v Speaker 4>Our relationship and a lot of it throughout the trip.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, had to take a time out for

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<v Speaker 4>myself and be like, bitch, you were a bitchy bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>There are things I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was being a little ridiculous. It really made me think

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<v Speaker 4>of Brune when Bruno was on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>What was that episode called A Thousand Days of Celibacy?

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<v Speaker 3>A thousand Days of Celibacy? You should check it out.

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<v Speaker 4>You are a different you and every relationship, every person

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<v Speaker 4>you date is a different reflection of you, and so

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<v Speaker 4>you're not going to be the same in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I had to take these for words of advice.

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<v Speaker 4>I had to sit alone and just like chill the

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<v Speaker 4>fuck out. But overall, I'm cool. I'm happy about the decision.

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<v Speaker 4>I do need to grow the fuck up and be

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<v Speaker 4>a little ass immature, But in what ways do you

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<v Speaker 4>think you're mature?

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<v Speaker 3>I am mature, immature, immature.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, well, okay, adventure Bay is living up to his

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<v Speaker 4>name and every motherfucking aspect you can think of. He

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<v Speaker 4>is truly, really, genuinely an adventure Bay. When I say,

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<v Speaker 4>I wrote adventurous and my manifestation list, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>put like level seven, I didn't put like private jet adventuress.

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<v Speaker 3>I just put adventurous and I got that shit. And so.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically I thought I was more down the earth

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<v Speaker 4>than I am. But I'm not well because I think

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<v Speaker 4>most of my closest friends are bougier than me Erica included,

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<v Speaker 4>and so I'm like, yeah, I'm down for whatever, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I can go here, I can go here, I can

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<v Speaker 4>go to the hood, I can go to the outdoors.

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<v Speaker 3>Outdoor shit. You know, I could do a couple. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm cool.

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<v Speaker 4>But then mean, I mean, adventure Bay went on this

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<v Speaker 4>trip together and he started coming out with his like

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<v Speaker 4>you know how he travels, which is like he's done

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of backpacking and shoot.

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<v Speaker 3>In his day.

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<v Speaker 4>And that I realized quickly I am not that down

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<v Speaker 4>to earth and I'm kind of a bougie bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was it was made.

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<v Speaker 4>There was some c There were some moments where I

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<v Speaker 4>don't even know if he realized, but I realized, I

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<v Speaker 4>am my friends who went.

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<v Speaker 3>They're all my friends.

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<v Speaker 4>So salute him for going on a ship with six

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<v Speaker 4>people he didn't really are not his friends. But my

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<v Speaker 4>friends are very Hollywood bougie bitches. And we did a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of like bougie shit, and I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think Hollywood boogie bitches or they just like to do.

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<v Speaker 4>They're not you know what, It's just completely completely different

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<v Speaker 4>size of the spectrum.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, because like I don't think going wanting to go

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<v Speaker 2>to dinners every night and dressing up is necessarily bougie.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's just like what we did. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, okay, I'm just speaking. I'm just speaking from

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm imagining.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's polarized it.

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<v Speaker 2>He really put yeah, made it very polarizing because of

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<v Speaker 2>you know what he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Used to used to versus that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And so it was coming up for me because

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<v Speaker 4>I think, to be honest, one of the things that

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<v Speaker 4>I had to reflect is I was, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a cancer, I'm fucking sensitive. I was feeling he was

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<v Speaker 4>getting a little judgy. There were a couple comments, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was just like, shry the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also noticed like I don't have a.

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<v Speaker 4>Lot of patience and that's a problem, Like I have

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<v Speaker 4>no patience and.

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<v Speaker 3>Who the fuck am?

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<v Speaker 4>I Like, I need to really work on my patients.

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<v Speaker 4>And so even before we went, I brought my shit

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<v Speaker 4>to his house to be like pack. He's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you know. I was like, did you pack? He's like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I packed once, but now I'm gonna take everything out

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<v Speaker 4>and pack again.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you do that?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, uh no, what the fuck are you

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<v Speaker 4>talking about. He's like, yeah, I just pack everything up

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<v Speaker 4>and I take it all out and I go back

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<v Speaker 4>over and see if I need to put it back

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<v Speaker 4>in there.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like that sounds crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>But then he made me do that and basically like

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<v Speaker 4>eliminated fifty percent of my suitcase. And then with low

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<v Speaker 4>Ki appaulled, I wanted to take a rolly bag. Nigga,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a girl, I'm rolling whatever I take. He was

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<v Speaker 4>just like, I'm taking this one bag. Keep in mind,

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<v Speaker 4>we're just getting to know each other, and so I'm

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<v Speaker 4>realizing that most of his travel experiences have been very

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<v Speaker 4>like traveling, like backpacking through Asia for six weeks and

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<v Speaker 4>ship like that, and like that's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not backpacking anywhere.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm taking the adequate, adequate amount of things for the

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<v Speaker 4>amount of days we're staying.

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<v Speaker 3>So there were just like comments that were coming out.

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<v Speaker 2>He prides himself on packing nothing, yeah, versus you is

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<v Speaker 2>prepared for every day and maybe overprepared because we all

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<v Speaker 2>know we overpack.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so there was that and so whatever, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it was not it was not a big deal, but

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<v Speaker 4>there was a couple of comments where I was just

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<v Speaker 4>like I could tell I was getting snappy and in

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<v Speaker 4>like impatient, and it's really not his fault, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like that's just.

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<v Speaker 3>How he feels, that's how he travels. Please leave us alone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not hot anymore. Well then turn that air on.

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<v Speaker 2>No water, water something, ice crushed ice, okay, well whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, so we went out like every night to dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>We got dressed up, We got like massages.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I saw that at like eight room massage, no

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<v Speaker 2>like e eight like literally I mean it was, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean a room of eight people getting massage.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally, where did you go do that? We didn't go anywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>They came to the house deep like mobbed up all

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<v Speaker 3>with massage.

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<v Speaker 4>Tables, all in their outfits all and there find these

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<v Speaker 4>people on the on the island of hull booge.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we went to the island of hull Boo.

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<v Speaker 2>Did the Airbnb people hook this all up for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we just get I was like, what, there's like

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<v Speaker 4>a small ass island, Like you call one person, they

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<v Speaker 4>know everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>And then like, also, was he cool with a massage

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<v Speaker 3>or was he? He did it once? He was cool

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<v Speaker 3>with it.

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<v Speaker 1>How many massage y'all get?

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<v Speaker 3>Like two? Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Then he I did it once too, because I went

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<v Speaker 4>on a kayak by myself and I went really far

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<v Speaker 4>and then I was like, oh no, I have to

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<v Speaker 4>go back, and I was against the tide and I

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<v Speaker 4>was getting tired because again my stamina is low, and

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<v Speaker 4>I missed the first massage. So with the second round,

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<v Speaker 4>I got it and I was like, do you want one?

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<v Speaker 4>And everyone was getting on and I was like, he's

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<v Speaker 4>like okay, So he like kind of finally like went

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<v Speaker 4>with it, and they're fucking thirty dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what for an hour?

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<v Speaker 1>We're all getting massaged?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, okay? So uh yeah, okay, So there was that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and then also all of my friends were all

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<v Speaker 4>just like, you know ten, So we're instagramming the whole time, instagramming.

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<v Speaker 3>Take a picture, take a picture. How about now take

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<v Speaker 3>a picture. One more, take a picture. Take a picture.

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<v Speaker 3>Take a picture, Take a picture.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm sure he was over that, which is understandable,

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<v Speaker 4>but also I'm like, don't judge me.

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<v Speaker 3>Whole booge was really like really smooth sailing.

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<v Speaker 4>We went swimming with sharks, which I was cool with

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<v Speaker 4>and it was ended up being amazing, but like, it

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<v Speaker 4>was like eight o'clock in the morning. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 4>morning person. He made me breakfast. He's like, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 4>not a morning person. I'm like, we got to get

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<v Speaker 4>him the small ass belt.

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<v Speaker 5>That was like like like literally just vibrating you for

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<v Speaker 5>two and a half hours to go see these sharks,

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<v Speaker 5>and that was, you know, exciting and shit, but it

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<v Speaker 5>was just it was a lot, you know, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like water in my snarkels saltwater. It was a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of saltwater and a lot of smarkling. And then we

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<v Speaker 4>went to some island where there's all these birds and

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<v Speaker 4>then it started fucking pouring raining in the middle of nowhere,

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<v Speaker 4>no cover, nothing, The mosquitoes were attacking me. They're just swarming.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't do anything about it. I just was looking

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<v Speaker 4>at him like shivering and like trying to smile, but

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<v Speaker 4>not happy at all. And then the guy's like, you

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<v Speaker 4>want to close off the island. I'm like, no, let's

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<v Speaker 4>go home. Let's not let's go Let's cut this short.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. So after that was a little bit over the ocean,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was. It was actually a wonderful experience.

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<v Speaker 4>And so then we got to Tuloom and I've never

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<v Speaker 4>been in too Loom and neither has he. But Tuloom

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<v Speaker 4>is basically La on steroids is literally Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 3>No, It's like a jungle better beach La.

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<v Speaker 4>There's like hello, beautiful restaurants, there's like yoga and like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh you know what. Honestly, I was really pappy. I

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<v Speaker 4>saw hell of black people there. I saw a young

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<v Speaker 4>couple from Houston. They brought their dog. They was staying

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<v Speaker 4>for two months. We met like at least twenty black people.

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<v Speaker 4>So shout out to the black people traveling to Tuloom.

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<v Speaker 3>Boom boom.

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<v Speaker 4>All of our friends stayed at really nice hotel. He's

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<v Speaker 4>also because he's really proud of his like backpacking troubles.

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<v Speaker 4>He's frugal, and I'm cool with that, like let's save money,

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<v Speaker 4>but also like let's balance it. So there was times

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<v Speaker 4>where we had to compromise and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>we say a really nice house. Now let's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we stated like a nice airbnb, but it wasn't a hotel.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody else had like bomb ass hotels. And then he

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<v Speaker 4>was like making comments like whoa, like how much was it?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, who cares? Like it's nice. Let's go

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<v Speaker 3>over there get dressed.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't bring a lot of shit to dress up in,

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<v Speaker 4>but I had like fifty seven outfits because that's what

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<v Speaker 4>the fuck I do, and everybody else did too, and

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like he was maybe feeling a little uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 4>which we discussed and that's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>So at one point we were in the car with

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<v Speaker 3>my other friend who was staying with us.

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<v Speaker 4>She's not in a couple, and he was like made

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<v Speaker 4>a comment about like the dressing up and he's only

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<v Speaker 4>he only brought like he brought one dress up shirt,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, he's like, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually just such a bitch. I hope he doesn't listen.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like I like stuff that is fast dry, quick dry,

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<v Speaker 4>and like you know, I can bring it out and

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<v Speaker 4>wash it in the sink. I almost flip the fuck out,

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<v Speaker 4>can tell This is when I realized I needed to

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<v Speaker 4>bring it down a notch.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, why the fuck would we do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Why would anybody wash anything in this sink? On vacation.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called vacation. I was like, wait, you said some

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<v Speaker 3>shit when you were telling me this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called vacation, not survivor.

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<v Speaker 3>I was getting so mad because he kept saying it.

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<v Speaker 3>He kept saying it like like almost I felt like.

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<v Speaker 1>We were I'm using like a new natural deod.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually not bad. That's bad that the shame went

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<v Speaker 3>moisture one, it's another one. I was just like, felt

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<v Speaker 3>like he was judging me and my friends for being

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<v Speaker 3>in excess.

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<v Speaker 1>You had just I think, maybe reached a breaking point

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<v Speaker 1>at that time. Yeah, you had.

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<v Speaker 2>You would probably bit your tongue and you just couldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>And I heard and I heard about these like these

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<v Speaker 4>travels like three times at this point, and I'm like, cool,

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<v Speaker 4>this is not that, okay, And in fact, I'm never

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<v Speaker 4>doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>I realized that on this trip, like okay, I thought

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<v Speaker 3>I was down not so much, you know, And I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, why the fuck would I be washing anything

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<v Speaker 3>in the sink on vacation.

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<v Speaker 4>I would just pack enough stuff and I like to

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<v Speaker 4>get dressed up, and on vacation you get dressed up

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<v Speaker 4>because it's fun.

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<v Speaker 3>And he just got quiet, and my friend was like

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<v Speaker 3>I could feel that. She was like, oh my god, bitch, relax.

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<v Speaker 1>And immediately after.

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<v Speaker 3>I snapped, I was like, oh my god, what is

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<v Speaker 3>wrong with me? And I was like, I'm bougie. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not down to earth. I'm not, oh my god, as

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on my eighth grade.

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<v Speaker 2>The bitch who was frantically trying to get her braids done,

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<v Speaker 2>her lashes done, her nails done, thought she wasn't bougie.

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<v Speaker 3>Those are requirements.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are braids are a black woman's requirement for vacation,

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<v Speaker 4>and the other two were everyone's requirement. You have to

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<v Speaker 4>get your nails done, you have to get your hair done.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you've ever not been on, if you've never

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<v Speaker 4>had lashes, I do lashes.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is what I'm saying. It's like, crack, you

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<v Speaker 3>will look more beautiful with lashes. I looked way more

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful in the sand. With lashes. It's true.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody knows it. Everybody on the trip except my gay friend.

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<v Speaker 4>My gay girlfriend had lashes, so la. Anyway, I realized

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<v Speaker 4>into Loom what I was getting a little agitated was

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<v Speaker 4>that it had been like two days and we hadn't

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<v Speaker 4>had sex three days maybe. And I also had the

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<v Speaker 4>self discovery that I am an info and maybe if

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<v Speaker 4>I was having more sex, I wouldn't be complaining about

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<v Speaker 4>his whatever his complaints were. I also realized, because he's

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<v Speaker 4>so adventurous, like he's passionate about his adventures, like I've

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<v Speaker 4>never seen a nigga do sum much research, like researching everything,

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<v Speaker 4>like we watched like before we even got to Mexico,

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<v Speaker 4>watched so much Mexican fucking YouTube, so much research. And

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<v Speaker 4>that's cool. I'm glad you have it under control, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like you want to know, you know where you want

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<v Speaker 4>to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>The COVID tests ever pop up? Did you ever have

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<v Speaker 1>to show ID PaperWorks?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, I can't believe it, but I will say

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<v Speaker 4>in Mexico they were really on it. They're taking temperatures

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<v Speaker 4>you want you, They're sanitizing thing fucking around.

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<v Speaker 3>It was very I felt very safe. I felt like

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<v Speaker 3>it was better than here. But what was I saying?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>I realized I need sex a lot. And there's there

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<v Speaker 3>was there. There's like a point where I woke up

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What's wait, I put it behind it, do you see it?

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<v Speaker 4>There was a point that I woke up in the

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<v Speaker 4>morning and I heard him up like on his phone.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was just like, you know, like just looking

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<v Speaker 4>at like kind of like half sleep, but peeking over

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<v Speaker 4>to see what he was doing, like you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>maybe scooting over to like give a hint, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like touch my pussy.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, he was researching no taste. And instead of

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<v Speaker 3>me just.

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<v Speaker 4>Being in a mature adult and like taking the phone

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<v Speaker 4>and sitting on his stick, I was just like got

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<v Speaker 4>mad inside, not to any but not to anyone, not

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<v Speaker 4>that he could.

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<v Speaker 3>Read my mind. And so I just realized, like, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>A cancer trait. I know, and I'm working with the

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<v Speaker 1>reading of the mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm working on it.

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<v Speaker 4>I realized on this trip, I can't send messages with

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<v Speaker 4>my brain waves.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't work that way. I can't be like fuck

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<v Speaker 3>me in my mind.

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<v Speaker 4>That does not work. So like even if I'm naked.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm naked all the time, so no one's gonna get

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<v Speaker 4>that message. And there was a point where my friend

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<v Speaker 4>left to go to the store and we had a

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<v Speaker 4>two bedroom apartment that we stayed in, and I just stopped.

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<v Speaker 3>This was a perfect opportunity for him to get some

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<v Speaker 3>and he still was researching stuff on his.

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<v Speaker 4>Phone, and I was so irritated. And then I realized later, like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, I'm just I'm just mad because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>he's not having sex with me. It's not about him

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<v Speaker 4>or his backpacking journeys or his passion for adventure. It's

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<v Speaker 4>literally me. And at one point, like we did a

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<v Speaker 4>separate things. I woke up and I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna go do yoga to a hotel or whatever. He's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm an go to go to this note.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, okay, you want me to call the

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<v Speaker 4>cab for you, because we got a cab driver. He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm gonna take the bus.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, bye, the bus.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. He fully he fully was about to take a

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<v Speaker 4>like hour bus ride to go see some sea turtles

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<v Speaker 4>or some shit. And I was like that was at

0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:19.040
<v Speaker 4>that point I was like, I'm so grateful that I

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<v Speaker 4>have a man that like is cool with us having

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<v Speaker 4>our independence.

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<v Speaker 1>So like I he he but like for the man

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<v Speaker 1>who's so scared of COVID.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh bitch already told him. I told him, I said, is.

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<v Speaker 1>About to get him a public bus in Mexico.

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<v Speaker 4>He's very frugal, and I know he's he's so irritated

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<v Speaker 4>with me because I'm just like, shut the fuck up.

0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:39.680
<v Speaker 3>We're on vacation. But I didn't say it like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But like I told him that.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, He's like, oh, yeah, because I found

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<v Speaker 4>a shuttle from the boat. The boat from Hulbooge to

0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:49.040
<v Speaker 4>to Loman is like two hours, I mean the ride.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, I found a shuttle. I was like, babe,

0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:54.080
<v Speaker 4>we're with eight people. Why would we take a public bus.

0:21:54.520 --> 0:21:56.640
<v Speaker 4>We could just split it with the other seven people

0:21:56.680 --> 0:21:58.479
<v Speaker 4>were with. He's like, oh, yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, guys, I'm smoking a bong and it's so there

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<v Speaker 2>was that do you want to try and take you Yeah, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Rookies when it comes to the song life.

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<v Speaker 3>Did we even go to high school? It's not hot. Sorry,

0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:45.439
<v Speaker 3>I'm just trying to trying to kill each other. Wow. Okay,

0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:50.080
<v Speaker 3>so you can't read my mind. And oh another thing

0:22:50.160 --> 0:22:54.360
<v Speaker 3>that I'm so proud of and happy. I was really

0:22:54.359 --> 0:22:56.600
<v Speaker 3>happy the whole trip, Like I'm happy.

0:22:56.400 --> 0:22:58.320
<v Speaker 4>He forced me to go see the fucking whale sharks,

0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:02.760
<v Speaker 4>the once in a life time opportunity. I've literally swam

0:23:04.000 --> 0:23:14.040
<v Speaker 4>with sharks amazing, So there's definitely like perks to having it.

0:23:14.800 --> 0:23:17.680
<v Speaker 4>Man that's like research, knows what he wants to do,

0:23:18.040 --> 0:23:24.000
<v Speaker 4>plans the shit cool. Okay, So I kind of told

0:23:24.080 --> 0:23:26.800
<v Speaker 4>him before the trip that I like to be topless

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<v Speaker 4>a lot, but I'm not gonna be topless because there's

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<v Speaker 4>other guys on the trip and my other best friend

0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:33.640
<v Speaker 4>literally hates me taking out my titties even though we've

0:23:33.640 --> 0:23:35.879
<v Speaker 4>been friends for fucking twenty three years, but shades it.

0:23:36.560 --> 0:23:38.000
<v Speaker 3>So like, I'm probably it's fine.

0:23:38.040 --> 0:23:39.439
<v Speaker 4>You don't have to worry about my titties being out

0:23:39.480 --> 0:23:41.160
<v Speaker 4>because Danielle's coming.

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:43.119
<v Speaker 3>She doesn't like my titties. And I don't know the

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<v Speaker 3>other guy.

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<v Speaker 1>You tell this man lies.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why I told her.

0:23:46.520 --> 0:23:48.520
<v Speaker 1>I saw this man lies, bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>As soon as the music came on, we bought a

0:23:51.240 --> 0:23:51.800
<v Speaker 3>disco ball.

0:23:52.280 --> 0:23:54.520
<v Speaker 4>Music came on about two tequila's in't and it was

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<v Speaker 4>off like I can't literally when I start getting like

0:23:57.560 --> 0:24:01.120
<v Speaker 4>in my zone, I can't.

0:24:01.480 --> 0:24:03.560
<v Speaker 3>I just gon keep it off. Like if I'm not

0:24:03.640 --> 0:24:06.040
<v Speaker 3>in a public space, the shirt is kept like literally

0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:09.080
<v Speaker 3>it is coming off. Even Dan Yell at one point

0:24:09.119 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 3>looked over at me and I was like, she was like,

0:24:11.920 --> 0:24:14.200
<v Speaker 3>just take it off. I was like okay. I was

0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:17.640
<v Speaker 3>like it was like itching, like and She's like, what's

0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:19.160
<v Speaker 3>wrong with you? Just take it off.

0:24:20.840 --> 0:24:23.760
<v Speaker 2>So it's like it's like Superman, like, would you like

0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:26.200
<v Speaker 2>to start putting your like get into your Superwoman mode

0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:27.960
<v Speaker 2>literally instead of.

0:24:27.960 --> 0:24:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Putting armor on you like have to take it off off.

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<v Speaker 6>Literally literally Finally, and he didn't trip, he didn't like,

0:24:37.560 --> 0:24:39.680
<v Speaker 6>he didn't say shit, didn't miss a beat, doesn't care,

0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:43.040
<v Speaker 6>just happy to be there and all of me enjoying

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:47.520
<v Speaker 6>it chilling, and I appreciate that because I haven't really

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:50.800
<v Speaker 6>had that and I just want to be free.

0:24:51.080 --> 0:24:53.920
<v Speaker 4>Fuck and he lets me be free and he accepts

0:24:53.960 --> 0:24:56.159
<v Speaker 4>it and he's cool with it and he embraces it

0:24:56.800 --> 0:24:59.959
<v Speaker 4>and he's a grown ass man. And so I'm realizing

0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:04.480
<v Speaker 4>thing as I'm acting like a fucking brat bitching about

0:25:04.680 --> 0:25:08.360
<v Speaker 4>very stupid things. I need to take a chill pill,

0:25:08.400 --> 0:25:10.200
<v Speaker 4>and I need to recognize that if I'm going to

0:25:10.280 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 4>be in a relationship, it's going to require.

0:25:13.720 --> 0:25:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Compromise.

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:18.919
<v Speaker 4>And I can't fucking curate somebody else's opinions and how

0:25:18.960 --> 0:25:21.480
<v Speaker 4>they want to travel and what their experiences have been,

0:25:21.640 --> 0:25:25.280
<v Speaker 4>you know, And that's okay. If the nigga doesn't want

0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:28.639
<v Speaker 4>to go out to dinner every night, I'll go, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I think maybe it.

0:25:30.680 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 2>Just as a conversation of like, because I think maybe

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:35.359
<v Speaker 2>your annoyance comes from him always like feeling with the

0:25:35.440 --> 0:25:37.560
<v Speaker 2>need that to tell you or remind you, and then

0:25:37.640 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 2>you feel like are you trying to make me feel

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 2>bad that we're doing this right now? I think it

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:45.879
<v Speaker 2>just is a conversation of just like, look, you, I

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:48.639
<v Speaker 2>understand your experiences and your and like these are the

0:25:48.720 --> 0:25:51.280
<v Speaker 2>things I want to do, and just really say like where.

0:25:51.200 --> 0:25:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Can we compromise?

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:52.359
<v Speaker 4>And we have?

0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 3>Can we?

0:25:53.119 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 2>But I mean even without just just but actually having

0:25:57.400 --> 0:26:01.440
<v Speaker 2>the conversation though not just seeing it happened sometimes because

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:04.600
<v Speaker 2>I think once you actually have the conversation, like then

0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 2>there's no there's no like it's very clear, right, you

0:26:09.440 --> 0:26:10.119
<v Speaker 2>do this, I do.

0:26:10.200 --> 0:26:12.719
<v Speaker 3>That that's great, that's great, You're right, You're right.

0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:15.160
<v Speaker 1>And then it's like then you can really see can

0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:16.040
<v Speaker 1>this is this?

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<v Speaker 4>Do we?

0:26:17.080 --> 0:26:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Can we do this right?

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:19.920
<v Speaker 3>Can we meet in the middle right and not getting

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:21.480
<v Speaker 3>on each other's nerves about doing it? Yeah?

0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 2>And I think he's a grown ass man, Like that's

0:26:23.520 --> 0:26:24.320
<v Speaker 2>a conversation you.

0:26:24.320 --> 0:26:24.959
<v Speaker 1>Could have with him?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I know, And and throughout this process, and thank

0:26:27.640 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 4>you to Erica because even since the beginning three months

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:35.440
<v Speaker 4>ago to the very beginning three months ago, you've encouraged

0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:37.480
<v Speaker 4>me to like and he makes me feel comfortable to

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:39.639
<v Speaker 4>to do that, to be honest and to speak up

0:26:39.640 --> 0:26:41.600
<v Speaker 4>where I usually won't. There have been so many things

0:26:41.640 --> 0:26:43.320
<v Speaker 4>that usually I be like, She's like, why the funk

0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 4>won't you just say that?

0:26:44.240 --> 0:26:45.000
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, I don't know.

0:26:45.640 --> 0:26:47.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because then at least you give him a real

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:48.800
<v Speaker 1>chance to show up or not.

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:50.840
<v Speaker 3>You know, and then he always does.

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:55.960
<v Speaker 4>And like even like I realized, I was like just

0:26:56.040 --> 0:26:57.840
<v Speaker 4>being a little bitch kind of at the airport and

0:26:57.920 --> 0:27:00.679
<v Speaker 4>I was just like, I think we did. I think

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:02.680
<v Speaker 4>if we had more sex, all the adventures wouldn't be

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:05.879
<v Speaker 4>so bad. Well, then yeah, I like, as we like

0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:09.359
<v Speaker 4>if you if we were like, more sex, will let like,

0:27:09.400 --> 0:27:10.160
<v Speaker 4>you could do whatever you want.

0:27:10.240 --> 0:27:12.639
<v Speaker 3>I don't give a fuck about the adventures, you know,

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 3>long having sex.

0:27:14.800 --> 0:27:15.880
<v Speaker 1>It's fine anywhere.

0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 3>And then I think he said something like you were

0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:20.600
<v Speaker 3>in her period or something, and I was like, I

0:27:20.640 --> 0:27:21.040
<v Speaker 3>don't care.

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:25.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, that's a big one because I did that

0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 1>for a long time.

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 4>With someone and I cannot well, I just I just

0:27:29.520 --> 0:27:32.879
<v Speaker 4>like what we've done it with people. Yeah, and so

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 4>that's but maybe you know, like I shouldn't. I don't know,

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:39.560
<v Speaker 4>you know, men and their egos and sex and ship.

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:41.440
<v Speaker 3>But it wasn't like that. But he was perceptive.

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:43.639
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I get that it's not even it might

0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 2>not even be ego. It's just actually that I don't

0:27:45.600 --> 0:27:47.040
<v Speaker 2>want to have blood on my dick. You know.

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:50.200
<v Speaker 3>There's also just that and like what you're like, you

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:52.840
<v Speaker 3>don't have my blood on your dick on your deck?

0:27:52.880 --> 0:27:53.680
<v Speaker 3>You don't love me? Fine?

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:54.919
<v Speaker 1>What whatever you're.

0:27:57.040 --> 0:27:59.480
<v Speaker 3>But then we went to Mexico City. I felt better

0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 3>saying something, you know, And then we went there.

0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:05.719
<v Speaker 4>We had a really nice dinner, we had he got

0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 4>a really nice hotel room because I bitched about I

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 4>needed another.

0:28:09.000 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I.

0:28:13.720 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 4>Was very adamant about having a bathtub and staying at

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:20.280
<v Speaker 4>a hotel in Mexico City because so much saltwater, you know,

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:22.360
<v Speaker 4>like so much sand and shit. I went to sit

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.480
<v Speaker 4>in the bath like, let's just get a hotel, and

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:25.840
<v Speaker 4>like it was a really nice hotel. It was a

0:28:25.840 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 4>sweet We had our own little patio, liked the whole

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:31.200
<v Speaker 4>building basically to ourselves, in the little boutique hotel pug

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:33.120
<v Speaker 4>Alan Bouti Hotel or some shit.

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:36.200
<v Speaker 3>And you know, he spent on that and he listened

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 3>and he bit the bullet, and I know, I'm grateful.

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:40.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm just oh.

0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 4>And so that night, after we went to dinner, like

0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:44.880
<v Speaker 4>some nine course ass fancy, way too fancy ass dinner,

0:28:45.600 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 4>we fell asleep and then like three o'clock in the morning,

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:50.080
<v Speaker 4>I felt him like fucking with me, and I was like,

0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 4>you know, I like that. My fantasy is sleep sucks.

0:28:53.360 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 4>It's like, huh, this is nice. And then he just

0:28:56.240 --> 0:28:58.280
<v Speaker 4>woke up and started buffing me, and I'm so happy.

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:02.520
<v Speaker 4>And then he fucking shit like quality over quantity.

0:29:02.920 --> 0:29:06.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like what he must have woke up like feeling.

0:29:07.640 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 3>It's like, okay, you're right. So yeah, that was sexy

0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:14.760
<v Speaker 3>made up for it, and shit, you know the rest

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:15.440
<v Speaker 3>of it was smooth.

0:29:15.880 --> 0:29:18.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm just happy that we do have a relationship where

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:19.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, hey, this is what's up, blah blah blah,

0:29:20.280 --> 0:29:21.760
<v Speaker 4>and we can discuss and maybe I need to be

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 4>more forthcoming about how I feel about the luxury, because

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 4>you know, bitches love luxury.

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 3>Bitch. I was just wait, you know what I was

0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:32.080
<v Speaker 3>thinking when you were talking is Cuddy.

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 2>I was thinking of Passport Heddy because you said he

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:38.360
<v Speaker 2>spent and I was like, whenever I think of spent dollars,

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 2>I think of.

0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 3>Cuddy, Passport Heady. You guys have to listen to our

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 3>episode with Passport Hetty if you haven't.

0:29:44.280 --> 0:29:45.360
<v Speaker 1>It's amazing.

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 2>She basically runs down just like it's a guy to

0:29:48.440 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 2>tip to getting man's, getting men's coins and deciding what

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:53.520
<v Speaker 2>you want.

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:56.640
<v Speaker 4>Really, it's about just asking for what you want so

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:59.200
<v Speaker 4>you won't be disappointed and hoping that it happens.

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 2>See, it's that it's even that like and it's not

0:30:03.080 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 2>even about like, well, it is about that. It's about

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:08.320
<v Speaker 2>a lot of things, but at its core, that's what

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 2>it's about, like asking for what you want and so

0:30:10.720 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 2>like even you telling him what it is that you

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:17.200
<v Speaker 2>want and you need, like that's what you have to do.

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 4>And the truth is, like it's kind of funny to me,

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:23.320
<v Speaker 4>Like he's just such a quirky guy, Like he just

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 4>has such an interesting personality, and I'm just like I

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 4>love him for that too, you know, Like I admire

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 4>that he's that passionate about what he does. Is that particular?

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 4>You know, It's just like it's really cute too. It's

0:30:35.280 --> 0:30:37.120
<v Speaker 4>a part of who he is. So I'm like, I'm

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:40.200
<v Speaker 4>not chipping, but you're writing it's just about don't say

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:41.000
<v Speaker 4>shit about this.

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Take some pictures. That's it. Take my picture, Take my picture,

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:47.280
<v Speaker 3>Come with me and my boogy friends.

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Don't take away my dinners. I know I love to eat.

0:30:52.400 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>Bitch to every listen adventure Baye.

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.560
<v Speaker 2>Let me give you one word of advice is don't

0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 2>ever find if you're gonna spend food.

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 3>All I care about is my dinners. I only eat

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 3>one meal a day.

0:31:06.360 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be adventuring backpacking. You have to at least

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 2>take your tofancy restaurants.

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm actually kidding too.

0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I know, no, but I think what I was really

0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 2>saying is that, Yeah, I think asking for what you

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 2>want is the moral of this episode and the story period, like.

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 4>It makes you happier and it makes your partner happier.

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 4>And I think he's very honest telling me things. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god, one more thing, this is hilarious. This is

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:35.680
<v Speaker 4>what a quirky, funny personality he has. So before we leave,

0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 4>he's like, oh, yeah, by the way, I called an

0:31:39.040 --> 0:31:41.480
<v Speaker 4>old friend and I was just asking her.

0:31:43.560 --> 0:31:45.560
<v Speaker 3>About, you know, how she gave me head.

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 4>And she told me that you know this part of

0:31:47.800 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 4>the dick right here, if you've applied pressure here with

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 4>your tongue like that sensation.

0:31:52.440 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was really what got me. And I just said, laughing, son, like, wait,

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:03.720
<v Speaker 3>all that is to be clear. I just want to

0:32:03.760 --> 0:32:04.760
<v Speaker 3>be perfectly clear.

0:32:05.680 --> 0:32:08.720
<v Speaker 4>You called up somebody who gave you good head, and

0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 4>you said, hey, how's it going.

0:32:10.920 --> 0:32:12.720
<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to see how you doing, but like

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 3>I got a new girl and I just needed to know.

0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 3>And he said, no, no, I mean I asked about

0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:19.680
<v Speaker 3>the kids and ship, and then I, yeah, I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 4>I about the first person to call and ask that.

0:32:21.880 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 4>I was like, I'm sure, I'm sure you are. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>positive that you are. I was like I'm positive that

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<v Speaker 4>you are the first.

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:29.960
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I fucking love you. I love you.

0:32:30.160 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 1>That's amazing that I love you. He was cruly, he

0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:34.760
<v Speaker 1>was truly curious, he.

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:41.000
<v Speaker 3>Was researching, he's on his fast experiences. He is, he's

0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 3>a true researcher, true researcher.

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<v Speaker 1>Enough of that, now you've got me all stoned.

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 2>So I yeah, I went to San Diego with Poetry Bay.

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 2>It was like a solo trip, and then I found

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 2>out that baby Daddy and Irie were also there. That

0:32:56.400 --> 0:32:58.800
<v Speaker 2>was interesting because I kind of like felt, I don't know,

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 2>like I immediately got really nervous because I felt like,

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 2>if my child is in that city, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>see her, like and I don't even mean like I'm

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:07.040
<v Speaker 2>going to go see her. I just felt like we

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:11.720
<v Speaker 2>were going to at some point cross paths. But he

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 2>he actually asked me where I was like on FaceTime,

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:17.080
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, san Diego.

0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 3>Also posted it. Well that was after I that was

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:24.760
<v Speaker 3>after it. It was already revealed. Yeah, he was like, well,

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:26.560
<v Speaker 3>we won't bother you, and I appreciate it. But then

0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 3>he said that yeah, but yeah, we had we were

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 3>just we like rode bikes.

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I got fucking sunburned. I rode bikes for like thirty miles.

0:33:34.520 --> 0:33:36.600
<v Speaker 1>We decided to join Tinder and.

0:33:36.720 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 2>Also Hinge, and we've already talked about Field because you know,

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 2>you guys are getting out there, because you know, threesomes

0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:45.440
<v Speaker 2>are a crucial She likes.

0:33:45.400 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 3>To have buy fun on the weekends.

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, if you're gonna do it, do it

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:51.719
<v Speaker 2>early in your relationship. Let's a good let's get rid

0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 2>of all these weird things early on. It didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here to report San Diego has terrible options on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right, what's going on over there?

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 2>It was just like a lot of filter, like heart filters,

0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 2>doggy face filters. I was like, what the fuck is

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:12.759
<v Speaker 2>happening with like hearts in the corners? And ship faded out.

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:16.160
<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, nah so and then it was

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 2>just a lot of white women. And you know, I

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:22.320
<v Speaker 2>love white women. I love you guys. I love you

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:25.800
<v Speaker 2>guys are beautiful. I just prefer black women.

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I just do my preference. We did connect with one

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:31.040
<v Speaker 1>young lady and.

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:37.200
<v Speaker 2>And we started talking and I was like, she was

0:34:37.239 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 2>like writing in short sentences and she kept calling me honey,

0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:41.080
<v Speaker 2>and I was like Okay.

0:34:41.480 --> 0:34:43.440
<v Speaker 1>She was like misspelling a lot of things.

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 4>And I.

0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:49.279
<v Speaker 3>Can't through summer. Nope, she can't. She's spelling them wrong

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:52.480
<v Speaker 3>there and we're not doing it was too dumb. I

0:34:52.560 --> 0:34:56.879
<v Speaker 3>don't know what were some of the words. I don't

0:34:56.880 --> 0:34:57.560
<v Speaker 3>even know, girl.

0:34:57.680 --> 0:34:58.840
<v Speaker 1>It was just like I don't know.

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:00.400
<v Speaker 2>So then she sent me some thought I was and

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:02.359
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, okay.

0:35:02.560 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 3>There were some very nice photos.

0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:07.719
<v Speaker 2>So then you know what, I think I got more

0:35:07.800 --> 0:35:11.000
<v Speaker 2>turned on just like searching the apps with him and

0:35:11.200 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 2>like talking about it. That like we just ended up

0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:17.080
<v Speaker 2>having really great sex without anyone, And I think that's

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 2>what I've realized.

0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:20.719
<v Speaker 1>It might be more about. I'm not pressed, but I

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 1>like I even just like the four playing that that's fun.

0:35:24.719 --> 0:35:24.880
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:25.920
<v Speaker 1>That's what I realized.

0:35:26.000 --> 0:35:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, is because I'm picky as fuck. I'm not just

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 2>gonna go on tender and just pick anyway. No.

0:35:30.960 --> 0:35:35.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can already already know the Pickens are slim. Yeah,

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:38.800
<v Speaker 4>because I put men and women on all my profiles.

0:35:39.080 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 4>I always looked for the chicks to just to see

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:43.640
<v Speaker 4>us out there, but I never like on the profiles,

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:44.680
<v Speaker 4>I never see any.

0:35:45.080 --> 0:35:47.719
<v Speaker 2>But if I'm in your city, I might turn on

0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 2>my tender, y'all. I'm only using an out of state.

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:55.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't want my mother everybody. I don't want my

0:35:55.360 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 2>mother to I know, but I might never call you

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:02.359
<v Speaker 2>daughter searching for a third one tender.

0:36:03.200 --> 0:36:05.120
<v Speaker 3>So you just make a temporary profile and.

0:36:05.239 --> 0:36:07.319
<v Speaker 1>You just are just deactivated when I'm in LA.

0:36:07.520 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 4>No, but I'm saying, when you went to sit like

0:36:09.280 --> 0:36:11.360
<v Speaker 4>to SD and you guys looking for three D, did

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.080
<v Speaker 4>you like add his picture to the profile?

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:14.480
<v Speaker 3>We have a profile together?

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 3>What do you think this is?

0:36:19.800 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm maybe it's just put the blue.

0:36:21.560 --> 0:36:22.279
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know. I didn't know.

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:23.840
<v Speaker 4>I just felt like you just used the profile you

0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:25.960
<v Speaker 4>already had. I was sure I don't had a profile,

0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 4>oh like my own, Like you can make us another profile.

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:30.919
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, yeah I made a different one. Okay, yeah,

0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:34.320
<v Speaker 3>because I alread deleted that account, so you just started

0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:35.799
<v Speaker 3>over it. What didn't you put?

0:36:35.960 --> 0:36:36.000
<v Speaker 7>Like?

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:36.880
<v Speaker 1>I should show you?

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 3>What is the name you put?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you told me?

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:42.000
<v Speaker 2>They're like?

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:45.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't don't say it.

0:36:45.560 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't say.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, even did you put your picture right?

0:36:52.760 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:57.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, look, I know it makes no sense leaving

0:36:57.080 --> 0:36:59.720
<v Speaker 3>the fun alone. All right, we're done anyway, continue.

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<v Speaker 6>That was it.

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<v Speaker 3>We went there.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great, it was beautiful. I had a great time.

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:08.839
<v Speaker 2>If you guys have not joined our patreon, you guys

0:37:08.840 --> 0:37:12.360
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0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:19.120
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0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:21.120
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0:37:22.360 --> 0:37:23.440
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0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:26.839
<v Speaker 3>We have sex positions on there. Yeah, because we want

0:37:26.840 --> 0:37:28.080
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0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:32.759
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0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:33.800
<v Speaker 1>should join our patreon.

0:37:34.160 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 2>It's patreon dot com backslash good Mom's bad Choices, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, you guys. So I guess it's time for good

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<v Speaker 1>old horror stories hor stories.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a little horry story, a little horror story

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<v Speaker 4>for you ladies. I love the podcast, by the way,

0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:57.400
<v Speaker 4>much love. At the time, I was seeing a guy

0:37:57.440 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 4>who I would consider my sexual soulmate NOE best sex

0:38:01.120 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 4>of my life. Dude had me doing all kinds of

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:05.400
<v Speaker 4>crazy shit. I couldn't tell him no in the bedroom.

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:08.279
<v Speaker 4>Here's a perfect example. One weekend I was having a

0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:10.239
<v Speaker 4>little sleep over at a friend's house and at the time,

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:12.799
<v Speaker 4>my one year old son, sexual soulmate hit me up

0:38:12.880 --> 0:38:15.160
<v Speaker 4>to hang out. That night, but I declined. At six am,

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 4>my phone was blowing up. He wouldn't stop calling. He

0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:19.640
<v Speaker 4>had been out partying all night and wanted me to

0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 4>come by. I had my kids, so I wasn't about

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:24.799
<v Speaker 4>to go over there. He asked to talk to my friend.

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:27.040
<v Speaker 4>I was hesitant, but whatever, I gave her the phone.

0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:28.920
<v Speaker 4>He told her he'd pay her a hundred dollars if

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:30.719
<v Speaker 4>she would wash my son so that I could see

0:38:30.800 --> 0:38:33.440
<v Speaker 4>him for just one hour, and she could not decline.

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:34.440
<v Speaker 3>I was shook.

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:36.400
<v Speaker 4>I always saw him looking good, but I didn't have

0:38:36.480 --> 0:38:38.319
<v Speaker 4>time to get ready. I said fuck it and head

0:38:38.360 --> 0:38:40.600
<v Speaker 4>over headed over. When I got to his place, he

0:38:40.719 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 4>was sitting on the couch waiting for me. I sat

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:44.279
<v Speaker 4>with him for a little while and talked, and he

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 4>proceeded to tell me that after I had already headed over,

0:38:46.640 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 4>his co worker he was partying with last night called

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:50.840
<v Speaker 4>him and needed a place to crash.

0:38:51.280 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 3>So he was in the bedroom sleeping. But he assured me,

0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:55.360
<v Speaker 3>we don't need to do anything if you don't want to.

0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 3>But ladies, right, what who said the passive disclaim?

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 4>How was that?

0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:01.960
<v Speaker 3>Why is that even an option?

0:39:02.840 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 1>The niggas crashed out in your bedroom?

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 3>My nigga. Oh my god, okay, I came here for

0:39:07.680 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 3>one thing. I was getting it.

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:11.560
<v Speaker 4>We started making out, and when things started getting heated,

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:13.000
<v Speaker 4>he said we should go to the bedroom.

0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:16.960
<v Speaker 3>I was speechless. What does nigga not have a living now?

0:39:17.200 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 4>No bathroom, nate balcony in the kitchen, it's a student corner.

0:39:23.080 --> 0:39:28.280
<v Speaker 3>Hello, allway, come, we gotta go where the other person's

0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:29.440
<v Speaker 3>at the one you.

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Already told me. I don't have to fuck if I

0:39:31.520 --> 0:39:31.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want to.

0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 3>Oh my goodness, shit.

0:39:34.640 --> 0:39:37.080
<v Speaker 4>I was speechless. I don't know about all that, but

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:38.799
<v Speaker 4>like I said, I couldn't tell this man.

0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:38.960
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:39:39.360 --> 0:39:41.960
<v Speaker 3>He convinced me, saying saying, come on, you can just

0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 3>suck my dick with him sleeping in there. It'll be

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 3>hot a gentleman, what a gentleman will be hot? Whatever? Whatever.

0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 4>Then so our naked asses go in there, find a

0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:56.319
<v Speaker 4>little spot on the bed, and I start sucking this dude.

0:39:57.160 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 4>This dude has never been moaning so loud. Receiving head

0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:02.600
<v Speaker 4>woke up his friend very quickly.

0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:06.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh really, shit right?

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:11.040
<v Speaker 4>His friend shot out of bed, staring at us all

0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 4>wide eyed, like what the fuck? Then my guy tells

0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:16.319
<v Speaker 4>him in Spanish, by the way, I can understand enough

0:40:16.360 --> 0:40:18.560
<v Speaker 4>to get by, but not enough to speak, so anything

0:40:18.640 --> 0:40:21.480
<v Speaker 4>I said to his friend had to be translated by

0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 4>my guy.

0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:23.400
<v Speaker 3>You can stay.

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:26.759
<v Speaker 4>So of course friend stays watches me suck as dick.

0:40:27.080 --> 0:40:29.480
<v Speaker 4>My guy then tells him you can touch her. He

0:40:29.680 --> 0:40:32.800
<v Speaker 4>just kept telling him you like that she's mine, like

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 4>he was getting off on sharing what was his. Anyway,

0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:38.279
<v Speaker 4>things then continued with me and both of them, but

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:42.400
<v Speaker 4>the friend was too fucked up and couldn't stay hard darn,

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:47.840
<v Speaker 4>so he stepped out. And okay, this is basically this story, Caine,

0:40:48.160 --> 0:40:52.839
<v Speaker 4>what's happening him and couldn't stay hard say, stepped out

0:40:52.880 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 4>and went back to the couch. Me and my sexual

0:40:54.719 --> 0:40:57.920
<v Speaker 4>soulmate then proceeded to have the most amazing, passionate sex

0:40:58.040 --> 0:41:00.960
<v Speaker 4>ever after your cuddling drunk friend decides to come back

0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:04.760
<v Speaker 4>for round two. You don't say it was very hesitant,

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:06.759
<v Speaker 4>but I was laying between them and my guy was

0:41:06.840 --> 0:41:09.520
<v Speaker 4>rubbing my clip and other guy was fingering me.

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:11.160
<v Speaker 3>I told my guy he.

0:41:11.239 --> 0:41:13.200
<v Speaker 4>Needs to tell his friend to stick a finger in

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 4>my ass too. Ooh is that too graphic? Ooh no,

0:41:17.000 --> 0:41:21.760
<v Speaker 4>never too graphic for good moms. Anyways, that was probably

0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:24.440
<v Speaker 4>the best orgasm I've ever had. There was just something

0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:28.759
<v Speaker 4>about them both focusing on me after this drunk guy

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.399
<v Speaker 4>thinks he can redeem himself. He was hitting it from

0:41:31.440 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 4>the back while I was giving sexual Soulmate head. When

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:36.279
<v Speaker 4>he says something to my guy, who then.

0:41:36.239 --> 0:41:37.000
<v Speaker 3>Translated to me.

0:41:37.400 --> 0:41:41.360
<v Speaker 4>He says, you're so wet because when sexual Soulmate finished,

0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:42.200
<v Speaker 4>he came inside me.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, so when they.

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<v Speaker 2>Fucked earlier, when they had that passionate asset, sexual soul

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<v Speaker 2>Maate came inside of her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, his friend was complimenting my wetness, but it was

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<v Speaker 4>really just as homies come.

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<v Speaker 3>After all was said and done, we all had to

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<v Speaker 3>head to work. My man gave me half the babysitter

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<v Speaker 3>money and made his friend give me the other half.

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<v Speaker 3>Prostitution question mark. Sorry, that was the long hope you

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<v Speaker 3>guys enjoyed it. I really did.

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<v Speaker 1>It was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a good one. That was level ten. It

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<v Speaker 3>was pretty Yeah, it's pretty hot.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know about the part where he

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<v Speaker 4>was this limp tinis that didn't work out, he'd come

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<v Speaker 4>back and try again.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know about the part where your friend

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<v Speaker 2>tried to act like he didn't prompt his homie before

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<v Speaker 2>you came.

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<v Speaker 3>But right, it was a clear indication they knew it

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<v Speaker 3>was going as long as it was all consent. It

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<v Speaker 3>sounded good to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounded great, great.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds like you're a woman who knows what the fuck

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<v Speaker 3>you want and you got it. The asshole and the

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<v Speaker 3>pussy and the clip rubbing. Okay, let me try that.

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<v Speaker 3>Write that down.

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<v Speaker 1>Two Spanish poppies.

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<v Speaker 3>Two Spanish poppies.

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<v Speaker 6>Damn.

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<v Speaker 3>feels nice.

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