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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mela and Happy Wednesday, guys, Happy

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Speaker 2: hump Day. How's everyone's week doing. My week is hot,

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking hot.

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Speaker 3: Not that week is hot, it is.

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Speaker 2: I just I'm uncomfortably hot in the valley. I just

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Speaker 2: don't feel good. I'm getting fat. Relationships make you fat

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Speaker 2: unless you're Jamila, and then that case you just stay fit.

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Speaker 1: But unathletic.

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Speaker 3: Unathletic as fuck.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So one of my discoveries on this trip, amongst many

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Speaker 4: other things, because I just got back from Mexico, is

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Speaker 4: that I have to work out even if I look

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Speaker 4: like this, because a bitch did some swimming and a

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Speaker 4: bitch was about to die. Okay, literally, I was with

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Speaker 4: Erica's trainer was with me, and we swim like literally

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Speaker 4: three feet somewhere and on the other side, I was like.

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Speaker 3: And he was like, oh my god. I was like

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Speaker 3: I know. He's like no, seriously, it was like he's like,

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Speaker 3: are you okay. I was like.

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Speaker 4: He's like that's not cool. I was like, I know,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna sign up when I get back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So.

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Speaker 4: Like the whole chip, the whole joke was that I

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Speaker 4: might pass out. Even though I look like this and

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Speaker 4: I'm ninety eight pounds. My stamina is low, low, low.

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Speaker 4: Because my swimming swimming really you know, cause you're gonna

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Speaker 4: drown if you don't swim.

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Speaker 3: Really shows me that I'm not in shape at all.

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Speaker 4: So I need to somehow get my stamma up in

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Speaker 4: the next three months or else.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It's not looking good for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially now, bitch, it's a pandemic. It's like, we

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Speaker 2: gotta up our skills, our athletic skills.

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Speaker 3: You don't know what I know.

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Speaker 2: I like, I have to swim across the ocean to

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Speaker 2: another country.

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Speaker 4: I won't make it. You'll have to take a lot it.

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Speaker 4: I won't make it. I won't even make it to

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Speaker 4: the next I won't make it. A Catalina, bitch, I

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Speaker 4: won't make it. Because then we swam with sharks and

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Speaker 4: I almost also, and I was wearing a swimming I

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Speaker 4: was wearing a vest and I still was out of breath.

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Speaker 3: It was overwhelming. Swimming's not my thing. I can do it.

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Speaker 4: I'm not great at its, mostly because my stamina is

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Speaker 4: low and sex though I'm great.

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Speaker 1: You get that extra boost.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like if there's Dick involved, I can get that

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Speaker 4: adrenaline without it.

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Speaker 3: Death sharks, death, I'll die. Soone's chasing me up once

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Speaker 3: fight of steps done. It's not good.

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Speaker 4: It's not It looks like this, but don't get jealous

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Speaker 4: because on the inside it's not the same.

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Speaker 3: AnyWho.

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Speaker 4: Wow, I feel like we haven't we haven't been here

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Speaker 4: in a minute. I mean, we've done a lot of

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Speaker 4: cross pods. It's hard to keep up.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know.

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Speaker 1: We've been podcasting lives Away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even Erica, and I am like, wait have you

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Speaker 3: I haven't heard from you. What have you said? Tell me?

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Speaker 3: Tell me what's going on in your life.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let's just begin by saying, even though I bashed

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Speaker 4: Erica in the last three episodes about having a boyfriend,

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Speaker 4: telling everyone, I cringed at the word boyfriend every time

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Speaker 4: she says it, I somehow I am in a relationship.

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Speaker 4: And I posted it on the Instagram, made it official official.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, threw me off. I caught

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Speaker 2: me off guard too. I was like, oh damn official.

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Speaker 2: With the post and the still a wet and the

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Speaker 2: sunset and the all the is an official timeline photo.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, what I will say is sunsets and warm water,

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Speaker 4: I mean warm weather and tequila in a foreign country,

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Speaker 4: possibly a tesla.

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Speaker 3: They gets you very love.

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Speaker 4: You, Toby, really quickly, because you know, I'm not about

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Speaker 4: that life. I'm not about posting niggas. I'm not about boyfriends.

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Speaker 4: And here I am with the boyfriend and some posts.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna have to disagree with you.

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Speaker 2: You always say that, but like I've known you've had

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Speaker 2: two boyfriends since I've.

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Speaker 4: Known you, I've only known I've known you two and

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Speaker 4: a half years exactly that one boyfriend, only that Young

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Speaker 4: Bay only lasted like six months.

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Speaker 3: You were in love. I posted him once love.

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Speaker 4: Okay, First, I'll even be clear, Young Bay I knew

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Speaker 4: before we started this, and he was not my boyfriend

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Speaker 4: for a long time, and then other events kind of

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Speaker 4: cause that to happen, and then it didn't last very long.

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Speaker 3: Prior to that, it was my baby daddy, So shut.

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Speaker 4: The fuck out, okay, And that nigga got one post

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Speaker 4: and that post got deleted like two months later. So no,

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Speaker 4: I'm not about that life. But at the core, yes,

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Speaker 4: I'm a cancer. I am kind of about that life.

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Speaker 4: I'm very lucky daddy, And if I if I catch

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Speaker 4: myself in love you, I'm gonna tell the world that's true.

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Speaker 3: It just takes a lot for me to get there anyway.

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Speaker 4: You, on the other hand, you have no problem jumping

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Speaker 4: right in, head first, dive, full dive.

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Speaker 1: Don't be judging me.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: It's just the truth this in this situation, yes.

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Speaker 3: These are the opposite spectrums of the water signs.

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Speaker 2: And yes in that in this situation, I did jump

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Speaker 2: head first in head in Headferston, head head first, head first,

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Speaker 2: head first, put the head in first, give me head first.

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Speaker 3: Can you believe we're not even high yet? Hilarious?

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Speaker 1: I did, I jumped in. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just like I said, like I've said before, it

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Speaker 2: is like I felt safe and I felt like I

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Speaker 2: went against all of my better judgment than I just

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Speaker 2: and I just went for it because they just do well.

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Speaker 2: I think also because like I could find a million

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Speaker 2: million reasons why not to do something.

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Speaker 3: You know, yeah, me too, Like I.

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Speaker 2: Just was like, you know, I'm just fuck it and

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Speaker 2: it's been and it's good.

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Speaker 1: It's cool.

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Speaker 2: I mean obviously, like you know, it's things happen. Arguments happen,

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Speaker 2: they occur, and that's normal. I've also realized that I'm

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Speaker 2: childish in ways when I argue and that, and I

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Speaker 2: literally experienced like I knew I was being childish, like

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Speaker 2: because he was like, why why are you doing this?

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Speaker 2: And I was like because, and I was like, I'm

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Speaker 2: fucking dumb. But I'm committing to my what I'm saying

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Speaker 2: because I can't go back now.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm definitely immature.

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Speaker 4: That's probably why I haven't had a lot of relationships

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Speaker 4: because I'm immature. Eric and I have both only been

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Speaker 4: knowing these people like ninety days. I feel like about

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Speaker 4: ninety day fiance, but you've.

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Speaker 1: Known him longer than that.

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Speaker 3: I knew him since February twenty eighth.

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Speaker 1: Okay, March, April, May, June, July.

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Speaker 4: We didn't hang out almost We didn't hang out until April,

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Speaker 4: so like I've met him.

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Speaker 3: I met him the end of February one on one day.

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Speaker 3: I didn't see him in March.

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Speaker 4: I saw him probably mid April, so mid April April

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Speaker 4: to May and made.

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Speaker 3: A junet and in July ninety days okay.

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Speaker 4: Trying to make it less got it, No, I mean,

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Speaker 4: just not very long, let's be clear. And then we've

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Speaker 4: jumped in to a international trip together that was supposed

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Speaker 4: to be five days, and then we extended it to

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Speaker 4: like fucking twelve. And I don't even know if I

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Speaker 4: like anybody for twelve days straight together.

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Speaker 3: So that was a big testimony of.

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Speaker 4: Our relationship and a lot of it throughout the trip.

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Speaker 4: I was like, had to take a time out for

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Speaker 4: myself and be like, bitch, you were a bitchy bitch.

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Speaker 3: There are things I.

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Speaker 4: Was being a little ridiculous. It really made me think

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Speaker 4: of Brune when Bruno was on the show.

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Speaker 3: What was that episode called A Thousand Days of Celibacy?

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Speaker 3: A thousand Days of Celibacy? You should check it out.

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Speaker 4: You are a different you and every relationship, every person

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Speaker 4: you date is a different reflection of you, and so

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Speaker 4: you're not going to be the same in a relationship.

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Speaker 4: And so I had to take these for words of advice.

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Speaker 4: I had to sit alone and just like chill the

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Speaker 4: fuck out. But overall, I'm cool. I'm happy about the decision.

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Speaker 4: I do need to grow the fuck up and be

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Speaker 4: a little ass immature, But in what ways do you

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Speaker 3: I am mature, immature, immature.

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Speaker 4: Well, well, okay, adventure Bay is living up to his

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Speaker 4: name and every motherfucking aspect you can think of. He

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Speaker 4: is truly, really, genuinely an adventure Bay. When I say,

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Speaker 4: I wrote adventurous and my manifestation list, and I didn't

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Speaker 3: I just put adventurous and I got that shit. And so.

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Speaker 4: So basically I thought I was more down the earth

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Speaker 4: and so I'm like, yeah, I'm down for whatever, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: go to the hood, I can go to the outdoors.

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Speaker 3: Outdoor shit. You know, I could do a couple. You know,

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Speaker 3: I'm cool.

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Speaker 4: But then mean, I mean, adventure Bay went on this

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Speaker 3: In his day.

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Speaker 4: And that I realized quickly I am not that down

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Speaker 4: to earth and I'm kind of a bougie bitch.

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Speaker 3: And it was it was made.

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Speaker 4: There was some c There were some moments where I

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Speaker 4: don't even know if he realized, but I realized, I

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Speaker 4: am my friends who went.

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Speaker 3: They're all my friends.

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Speaker 4: So salute him for going on a ship with six

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Speaker 4: people he didn't really are not his friends. But my

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Speaker 4: friends are very Hollywood bougie bitches. And we did a

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Speaker 4: lot of like bougie shit, and I.

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Speaker 3: Think Hollywood boogie bitches or they just like to do.

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Speaker 4: They're not you know what, It's just completely completely different

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Like, because like I don't think going wanting to go

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Speaker 2: to dinners every night and dressing up is necessarily bougie.

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Speaker 4: I think that's just like what we did. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, I'm just speaking. I'm just speaking from

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Speaker 4: what I'm imagining.

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Speaker 1: I think he's polarized it.

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Speaker 2: He really put yeah, made it very polarizing because of

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Speaker 2: you know what he's.

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Speaker 1: Used to used to versus that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And so it was coming up for me because

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Speaker 4: I think, to be honest, one of the things that

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Speaker 4: I had to reflect is I was, you know, I'm

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Speaker 4: getting a little judgy. There were a couple comments, and

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Speaker 4: I was just like, shry the fuck up.

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Speaker 3: And I also noticed like I don't have a.

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Speaker 4: Lot of patience and that's a problem, Like I have

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Speaker 4: no patience and.

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Speaker 4: Well, we just get I was like, what, there's like

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Speaker 5: That was like like like literally just vibrating you for

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Speaker 4: Like water in my snarkels saltwater. It was a lot

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Speaker 4: And so then we got to Tuloom and I've never

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Speaker 3: No, It's like a jungle better beach La.

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Speaker 4: All of our friends stayed at really nice hotel. He's

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Speaker 4: He didn't bring a lot of shit to dress up in,

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Speaker 4: He's like I like stuff that is fast dry, quick dry,

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Speaker 3: I was like, why the fuck would we do that?

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Speaker 3: It's called vacation. I was like, wait, you said some

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Speaker 1: It's called vacation, not survivor.

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Speaker 3: I was getting so mad because he kept saying it.

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Speaker 3: It's actually not bad. That's bad that the shame went

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Speaker 2: You would probably bit your tongue and you just couldn't.

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Speaker 3: And he just got quiet, and my friend was like

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Speaker 2: The bitch who was frantically trying to get her braids done,

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Speaker 3: Those are requirements.

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Speaker 4: Those are braids are a black woman's requirement for vacation,

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Speaker 4: And if you've ever not been on, if you've never

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Speaker 3: And this is what I'm saying. It's like, crack, you

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Speaker 4: Everybody knows it. Everybody on the trip except my gay friend.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: The COVID tests ever pop up? Did you ever have

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 4: to see what he was doing, like you know, like

441
00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,280
Speaker 4: maybe scooting over to like give a hint, you know,

442
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:44,840
Speaker 4: like touch my pussy.

443
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 3: But no, he was researching no taste. And instead of

444
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 3: me just.

445
00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,879
Speaker 4: Being in a mature adult and like taking the phone

446
00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,720
Speaker 4: and sitting on his stick, I was just like got

447
00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 4: mad inside, not to any but not to anyone, not

448
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:02,720
Speaker 4: that he could.

449
00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 3: Read my mind. And so I just realized, like, wow,

450
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:07,639
Speaker 3: you know what, that's.

451
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,639
Speaker 1: A cancer trait. I know, and I'm working with the

452
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 1: reading of the mind.

453
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:11,879
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm working on it.

454
00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 4: I realized on this trip, I can't send messages with

455
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 4: my brain waves.

456
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,920
Speaker 3: It doesn't work that way. I can't be like fuck

457
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 3: me in my mind.

458
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 4: That does not work. So like even if I'm naked.

459
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,680
Speaker 4: I'm naked all the time, so no one's gonna get

460
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 4: that message. And there was a point where my friend

461
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,680
Speaker 4: left to go to the store and we had a

462
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 4: two bedroom apartment that we stayed in, and I just stopped.

463
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,879
Speaker 3: This was a perfect opportunity for him to get some

464
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 3: and he still was researching stuff on his.

465
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:43,159
Speaker 4: Phone, and I was so irritated. And then I realized later, like,

466
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,239
Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm just I'm just mad because I'm

467
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,880
Speaker 4: he's not having sex with me. It's not about him

468
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 4: or his backpacking journeys or his passion for adventure. It's

469
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 4: literally me. And at one point, like we did a

470
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:56,920
Speaker 4: separate things. I woke up and I was like, I'm

471
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 4: gonna go do yoga to a hotel or whatever. He's like,

472
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 4: I think I'm an go to go to this note.

473
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, you want me to call the

474
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,920
Speaker 4: cab for you, because we got a cab driver. He's like, no,

475
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna take the bus.

476
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 3: I was like, bye, the bus.

477
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,680
Speaker 4: Yeah. He fully he fully was about to take a

478
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,479
Speaker 4: like hour bus ride to go see some sea turtles

479
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,439
Speaker 4: or some shit. And I was like that was at

480
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 4: that point I was like, I'm so grateful that I

481
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 4: have a man that like is cool with us having

482
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 4: our independence.

483
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,199
Speaker 1: So like I he he but like for the man

484
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 1: who's so scared of COVID.

485
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 3: Oh bitch already told him. I told him, I said, is.

486
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,360
Speaker 1: About to get him a public bus in Mexico.

487
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 4: He's very frugal, and I know he's he's so irritated

488
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 4: with me because I'm just like, shut the fuck up.

489
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 3: We're on vacation. But I didn't say it like that.

490
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 3: But like I told him that.

491
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 4: I was like, He's like, oh, yeah, because I found

492
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 4: a shuttle from the boat. The boat from Hulbooge to

493
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 4: to Loman is like two hours, I mean the ride.

494
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,159
Speaker 4: He's like, I found a shuttle. I was like, babe,

495
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 4: we're with eight people. Why would we take a public bus.

496
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 4: We could just split it with the other seven people

497
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,479
Speaker 4: were with. He's like, oh, yeah, you're right.

498
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:07,239
Speaker 2: Sorry, guys, I'm smoking a bong and it's so there

499
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 2: was that do you want to try and take you Yeah, we're.

500
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: Rookies when it comes to the song life.

501
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 3: Did we even go to high school? It's not hot. Sorry,

502
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:45,439
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to trying to kill each other. Wow. Okay,

503
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 3: so you can't read my mind. And oh another thing

504
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:54,360
Speaker 3: that I'm so proud of and happy. I was really

505
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 3: happy the whole trip, Like I'm happy.

506
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 4: He forced me to go see the fucking whale sharks,

507
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 4: the once in a life time opportunity. I've literally swam

508
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 4: with sharks amazing, So there's definitely like perks to having it.

509
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 4: Man that's like research, knows what he wants to do,

510
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 4: plans the shit cool. Okay, So I kind of told

511
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 4: him before the trip that I like to be topless

512
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 4: a lot, but I'm not gonna be topless because there's

513
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 4: other guys on the trip and my other best friend

514
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 4: literally hates me taking out my titties even though we've

515
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,879
Speaker 4: been friends for fucking twenty three years, but shades it.

516
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 3: So like, I'm probably it's fine.

517
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 4: You don't have to worry about my titties being out

518
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 4: because Danielle's coming.

519
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 3: She doesn't like my titties. And I don't know the

520
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 3: other guy.

521
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 1: You tell this man lies.

522
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 3: I don't know why I told her.

523
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: I saw this man lies, bitch.

524
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 3: As soon as the music came on, we bought a

525
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 3: disco ball.

526
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 4: Music came on about two tequila's in't and it was

527
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 4: off like I can't literally when I start getting like

528
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 4: in my zone, I can't.

529
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 3: I just gon keep it off. Like if I'm not

530
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 3: in a public space, the shirt is kept like literally

531
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 3: it is coming off. Even Dan Yell at one point

532
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 3: looked over at me and I was like, she was like,

533
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 3: just take it off. I was like okay. I was

534
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 3: like it was like itching, like and She's like, what's

535
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 3: wrong with you? Just take it off.

536
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 2: So it's like it's like Superman, like, would you like

537
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 2: to start putting your like get into your Superwoman mode

538
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 2: literally instead of.

539
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: Putting armor on you like have to take it off off.

540
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 6: Literally literally Finally, and he didn't trip, he didn't like,

541
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 6: he didn't say shit, didn't miss a beat, doesn't care,

542
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 6: just happy to be there and all of me enjoying

543
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 6: it chilling, and I appreciate that because I haven't really

544
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 6: had that and I just want to be free.

545
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 4: Fuck and he lets me be free and he accepts

546
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 4: it and he's cool with it and he embraces it

547
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,959
Speaker 4: and he's a grown ass man. And so I'm realizing

548
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 4: thing as I'm acting like a fucking brat bitching about

549
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,360
Speaker 4: very stupid things. I need to take a chill pill,

550
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 4: and I need to recognize that if I'm going to

551
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 4: be in a relationship, it's going to require.

552
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 3: Compromise.

553
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 4: And I can't fucking curate somebody else's opinions and how

554
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 4: they want to travel and what their experiences have been,

555
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 4: you know, And that's okay. If the nigga doesn't want

556
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 4: to go out to dinner every night, I'll go, you know.

557
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 1: And so I think maybe it.

558
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 2: Just as a conversation of like, because I think maybe

559
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 2: your annoyance comes from him always like feeling with the

560
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: need that to tell you or remind you, and then

561
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: you feel like are you trying to make me feel

562
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: bad that we're doing this right now? I think it

563
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 2: just is a conversation of just like, look, you, I

564
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 2: understand your experiences and your and like these are the

565
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: things I want to do, and just really say like where.

566
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: Can we compromise?

567
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 4: And we have?

568
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: Can we?

569
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 2: But I mean even without just just but actually having

570
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 2: the conversation though not just seeing it happened sometimes because

571
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 2: I think once you actually have the conversation, like then

572
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 2: there's no there's no like it's very clear, right, you

573
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 2: do this, I do.

574
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,719
Speaker 3: That that's great, that's great, You're right, You're right.

575
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 1: And then it's like then you can really see can

576
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: this is this?

577
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 4: Do we?

578
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: Can we do this right?

579
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 3: Can we meet in the middle right and not getting

580
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 3: on each other's nerves about doing it? Yeah?

581
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: And I think he's a grown ass man, Like that's

582
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 2: a conversation you.

583
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:24,959
Speaker 1: Could have with him?

584
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: No, I know, And and throughout this process, and thank

585
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 4: you to Erica because even since the beginning three months

586
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 4: ago to the very beginning three months ago, you've encouraged

587
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 4: me to like and he makes me feel comfortable to

588
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 4: to do that, to be honest and to speak up

589
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 4: where I usually won't. There have been so many things

590
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 4: that usually I be like, She's like, why the funk

591
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 4: won't you just say that?

592
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I don't know.

593
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because then at least you give him a real

594
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: chance to show up or not.

595
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 3: You know, and then he always does.

596
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 4: And like even like I realized, I was like just

597
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 4: being a little bitch kind of at the airport and

598
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 4: I was just like, I think we did. I think

599
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 4: if we had more sex, all the adventures wouldn't be

600
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 4: so bad. Well, then yeah, I like, as we like

601
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 4: if you if we were like, more sex, will let like,

602
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 4: you could do whatever you want.

603
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck about the adventures, you know,

604
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 3: long having sex.

605
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 1: It's fine anywhere.

606
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 3: And then I think he said something like you were

607
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 3: in her period or something, and I was like, I

608
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 3: don't care.

609
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's a big one because I did that

610
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: for a long time.

611
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 4: With someone and I cannot well, I just I just

612
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 4: like what we've done it with people. Yeah, and so

613
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 4: that's but maybe you know, like I shouldn't. I don't know,

614
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 4: you know, men and their egos and sex and ship.

615
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 3: But it wasn't like that. But he was perceptive.

616
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 2: I mean, I get that it's not even it might

617
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 2: not even be ego. It's just actually that I don't

618
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 2: want to have blood on my dick. You know.

619
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 3: There's also just that and like what you're like, you

620
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 3: don't have my blood on your dick on your deck?

621
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 3: You don't love me? Fine?

622
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 1: What whatever you're.

623
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 3: But then we went to Mexico City. I felt better

624
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 3: saying something, you know, And then we went there.

625
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,719
Speaker 4: We had a really nice dinner, we had he got

626
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 4: a really nice hotel room because I bitched about I

627
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 4: needed another.

628
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I.

629
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 4: Was very adamant about having a bathtub and staying at

630
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 4: a hotel in Mexico City because so much saltwater, you know,

631
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 4: like so much sand and shit. I went to sit

632
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 4: in the bath like, let's just get a hotel, and

633
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 4: like it was a really nice hotel. It was a

634
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 4: sweet We had our own little patio, liked the whole

635
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 4: building basically to ourselves, in the little boutique hotel pug

636
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 4: Alan Bouti Hotel or some shit.

637
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 3: And you know, he spent on that and he listened

638
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 3: and he bit the bullet, and I know, I'm grateful.

639
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 3: I'm just oh.

640
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 4: And so that night, after we went to dinner, like

641
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 4: some nine course ass fancy, way too fancy ass dinner,

642
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 4: we fell asleep and then like three o'clock in the morning,

643
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 4: I felt him like fucking with me, and I was like,

644
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 4: you know, I like that. My fantasy is sleep sucks.

645
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 4: It's like, huh, this is nice. And then he just

646
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 4: woke up and started buffing me, and I'm so happy.

647
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 4: And then he fucking shit like quality over quantity.

648
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: It's like what he must have woke up like feeling.

649
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, you're right. So yeah, that was sexy

650
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: made up for it, and shit, you know the rest

651
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 3: of it was smooth.

652
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: I'm just happy that we do have a relationship where

653
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, this is what's up, blah blah blah,

654
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 4: and we can discuss and maybe I need to be

655
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 4: more forthcoming about how I feel about the luxury, because

656
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 4: you know, bitches love luxury.

657
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 3: Bitch. I was just wait, you know what I was

658
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 3: thinking when you were talking is Cuddy.

659
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: I was thinking of Passport Heddy because you said he

660
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 2: spent and I was like, whenever I think of spent dollars,

661
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: I think of.

662
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Speaker 3: Cuddy, Passport Heady. You guys have to listen to our

663
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 3: episode with Passport Hetty if you haven't.

664
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Speaker 1: It's amazing.

665
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 2: She basically runs down just like it's a guy to

666
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: tip to getting man's, getting men's coins and deciding what

667
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 2: you want.

668
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 4: Really, it's about just asking for what you want so

669
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Speaker 4: you won't be disappointed and hoping that it happens.

670
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 2: See, it's that it's even that like and it's not

671
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: even about like, well, it is about that. It's about

672
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: a lot of things, but at its core, that's what

673
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 2: it's about, like asking for what you want and so

674
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: like even you telling him what it is that you

675
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Speaker 2: want and you need, like that's what you have to do.

676
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Speaker 4: And the truth is, like it's kind of funny to me,

677
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 4: Like he's just such a quirky guy, Like he just

678
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 4: has such an interesting personality, and I'm just like I

679
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 4: love him for that too, you know, Like I admire

680
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Speaker 4: that he's that passionate about what he does. Is that particular?

681
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 4: You know, It's just like it's really cute too. It's

682
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Speaker 4: a part of who he is. So I'm like, I'm

683
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Speaker 4: not chipping, but you're writing it's just about don't say

684
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Speaker 4: shit about this.

685
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Speaker 3: Take some pictures. That's it. Take my picture, Take my picture,

686
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Speaker 3: Come with me and my boogy friends.

687
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Speaker 1: Don't take away my dinners. I know I love to eat.

688
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Speaker 1: Bitch to every listen adventure Baye.

689
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Speaker 2: Let me give you one word of advice is don't

690
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Speaker 2: ever find if you're gonna spend food.

691
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Speaker 3: All I care about is my dinners. I only eat

692
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 3: one meal a day.

693
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: It's gonna be adventuring backpacking. You have to at least

694
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Speaker 2: take your tofancy restaurants.

695
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm actually kidding too.

696
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Speaker 2: I know, no, but I think what I was really

697
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: saying is that, Yeah, I think asking for what you

698
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 2: want is the moral of this episode and the story period, like.

699
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 4: It makes you happier and it makes your partner happier.

700
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 4: And I think he's very honest telling me things. Oh

701
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Speaker 4: my god, one more thing, this is hilarious. This is

702
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 4: what a quirky, funny personality he has. So before we leave,

703
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 4: he's like, oh, yeah, by the way, I called an

704
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 4: old friend and I was just asking her.

705
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Speaker 3: About, you know, how she gave me head.

706
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 4: And she told me that you know this part of

707
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 4: the dick right here, if you've applied pressure here with

708
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 4: your tongue like that sensation.

709
00:31:52,440 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was really what got me. And I just said, laughing, son, like, wait,

710
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 3: all that is to be clear. I just want to

711
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Speaker 3: be perfectly clear.

712
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 4: You called up somebody who gave you good head, and

713
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 4: you said, hey, how's it going.

714
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 3: I just wanted to see how you doing, but like

715
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 3: I got a new girl and I just needed to know.

716
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 3: And he said, no, no, I mean I asked about

717
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: the kids and ship, and then I, yeah, I did.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure.

719
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Speaker 4: I about the first person to call and ask that.

720
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm sure, I'm sure you are. I'm

721
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 4: positive that you are. I was like I'm positive that

722
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Speaker 4: you are the first.

723
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 3: And I was like, I fucking love you. I love you.

724
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: That's amazing that I love you. He was cruly, he

725
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: was truly curious, he.

726
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 3: Was researching, he's on his fast experiences. He is, he's

727
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: a true researcher, true researcher.

728
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Speaker 1: Enough of that, now you've got me all stoned.

729
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: So I yeah, I went to San Diego with Poetry Bay.

730
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: It was like a solo trip, and then I found

731
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: out that baby Daddy and Irie were also there. That

732
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: was interesting because I kind of like felt, I don't know,

733
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: like I immediately got really nervous because I felt like,

734
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 2: if my child is in that city, I'm going to

735
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 2: see her, like and I don't even mean like I'm

736
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: going to go see her. I just felt like we

737
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 2: were going to at some point cross paths. But he

738
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: he actually asked me where I was like on FaceTime,

739
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: and I was like, san Diego.

740
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Speaker 3: Also posted it. Well that was after I that was

741
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 3: after it. It was already revealed. Yeah, he was like, well,

742
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Speaker 3: we won't bother you, and I appreciate it. But then

743
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 3: he said that yeah, but yeah, we had we were

744
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 3: just we like rode bikes.

745
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: I got fucking sunburned. I rode bikes for like thirty miles.

746
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: We decided to join Tinder and.

747
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: Also Hinge, and we've already talked about Field because you know,

748
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: you guys are getting out there, because you know, threesomes

749
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 2: are a crucial She likes.

750
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Speaker 3: To have buy fun on the weekends.

751
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're gonna do it, do it

752
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,719
Speaker 2: early in your relationship. Let's a good let's get rid

753
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 2: of all these weird things early on. It didn't happen.

754
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: I'm here to report San Diego has terrible options on Tinder.

755
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 3: Okay, right, what's going on over there?

756
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: It was just like a lot of filter, like heart filters,

757
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 2: doggy face filters. I was like, what the fuck is

758
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 2: happening with like hearts in the corners? And ship faded out.

759
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: I was like, no, nah so and then it was

760
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 2: just a lot of white women. And you know, I

761
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 2: love white women. I love you guys. I love you

762
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 2: guys are beautiful. I just prefer black women.

763
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: I just do my preference. We did connect with one

764
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: young lady and.

765
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: And we started talking and I was like, she was

766
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 2: like writing in short sentences and she kept calling me honey,

767
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 2: and I was like Okay.

768
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: She was like misspelling a lot of things.

769
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 4: And I.

770
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 3: Can't through summer. Nope, she can't. She's spelling them wrong

771
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 3: there and we're not doing it was too dumb. I

772
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,879
Speaker 3: don't know what were some of the words. I don't

773
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: even know, girl.

774
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: It was just like I don't know.

775
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 2: So then she sent me some thought I was and

776
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, okay.

777
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: There were some very nice photos.

778
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 2: So then you know what, I think I got more

779
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: turned on just like searching the apps with him and

780
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 2: like talking about it. That like we just ended up

781
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 2: having really great sex without anyone, And I think that's

782
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: what I've realized.

783
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: It might be more about. I'm not pressed, but I

784
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: like I even just like the four playing that that's fun.

785
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 2: You know.

786
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: That's what I realized.

787
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: Okay, is because I'm picky as fuck. I'm not just

788
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 2: gonna go on tender and just pick anyway. No.

789
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can already already know the Pickens are slim. Yeah,

790
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 4: because I put men and women on all my profiles.

791
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 4: I always looked for the chicks to just to see

792
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 4: us out there, but I never like on the profiles,

793
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 4: I never see any.

794
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: But if I'm in your city, I might turn on

795
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 2: my tender, y'all. I'm only using an out of state.

796
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 2: I don't want my mother everybody. I don't want my

797
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 2: mother to I know, but I might never call you

798
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 2: daughter searching for a third one tender.

799
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 3: So you just make a temporary profile and.

800
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: You just are just deactivated when I'm in LA.

801
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 4: No, but I'm saying, when you went to sit like

802
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 4: to SD and you guys looking for three D, did

803
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 4: you like add his picture to the profile?

804
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 3: We have a profile together?

805
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

806
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 3: What do you think this is?

807
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm maybe it's just put the blue.

808
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: I didn't know. I didn't know.

809
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 4: I just felt like you just used the profile you

810
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 4: already had. I was sure I don't had a profile,

811
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 4: oh like my own, Like you can make us another profile.

812
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,919
Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah I made a different one. Okay, yeah,

813
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 3: because I alread deleted that account, so you just started

814
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 3: over it. What didn't you put?

815
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 7: Like?

816
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: I should show you?

817
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 3: What is the name you put?

818
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 2: Like?

819
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 3: Are you told me?

820
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: They're like?

821
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 3: I don't don't say it.

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00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't say.

823
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 3: Okay, even did you put your picture right?

824
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

825
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, look, I know it makes no sense leaving

826
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,720
Speaker 3: the fun alone. All right, we're done anyway, continue.

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Speaker 6: That was it.

828
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:01,399
Speaker 3: We went there.

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00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: It was great, it was beautiful. I had a great time.

830
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 2: If you guys have not joined our patreon, you guys

831
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 2: should because we like smoke wheed on.

832
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 3: There and roll up and talk about a lot of

833
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 3: other shit. We cry, show titty We show titties commercial

834
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Speaker 3: right now shows.

835
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: Kids drink from them.

836
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 3: We have sex positions on there. Yeah, because we want

837
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 3: to improve your sex life and.

838
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: We believe in your relationship for now. But yeah, you

839
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 1: should join our patreon.

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00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 2: It's patreon dot com backslash good Mom's bad Choices, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, you guys. So I guess it's time for good

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Speaker 1: old horror stories hor stories.

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Speaker 4: I have a little horry story, a little horror story

844
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 4: for you ladies. I love the podcast, by the way,

845
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 4: much love. At the time, I was seeing a guy

846
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 4: who I would consider my sexual soulmate NOE best sex

847
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 4: of my life. Dude had me doing all kinds of

848
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 4: crazy shit. I couldn't tell him no in the bedroom.

849
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 4: Here's a perfect example. One weekend I was having a

850
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 4: little sleep over at a friend's house and at the time,

851
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 4: my one year old son, sexual soulmate hit me up

852
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 4: to hang out. That night, but I declined. At six am,

853
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 4: my phone was blowing up. He wouldn't stop calling. He

854
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 4: had been out partying all night and wanted me to

855
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 4: come by. I had my kids, so I wasn't about

856
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 4: to go over there. He asked to talk to my friend.

857
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 4: I was hesitant, but whatever, I gave her the phone.

858
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 4: He told her he'd pay her a hundred dollars if

859
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 4: she would wash my son so that I could see

860
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 4: him for just one hour, and she could not decline.

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Speaker 3: I was shook.

862
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 4: I always saw him looking good, but I didn't have

863
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 4: time to get ready. I said fuck it and head

864
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 4: over headed over. When I got to his place, he

865
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 4: was sitting on the couch waiting for me. I sat

866
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 4: with him for a little while and talked, and he

867
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 4: proceeded to tell me that after I had already headed over,

868
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 4: his co worker he was partying with last night called

869
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 4: him and needed a place to crash.

870
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 3: So he was in the bedroom sleeping. But he assured me,

871
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 3: we don't need to do anything if you don't want to.

872
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 3: But ladies, right, what who said the passive disclaim?

873
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 4: How was that?

874
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 3: Why is that even an option?

875
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: The niggas crashed out in your bedroom?

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00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 3: My nigga. Oh my god, okay, I came here for

877
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 3: one thing. I was getting it.

878
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 4: We started making out, and when things started getting heated,

879
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 4: he said we should go to the bedroom.

880
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 3: I was speechless. What does nigga not have a living now?

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Speaker 4: No bathroom, nate balcony in the kitchen, it's a student corner.

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Speaker 3: Hello, allway, come, we gotta go where the other person's

883
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 3: at the one you.

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Speaker 1: Already told me. I don't have to fuck if I

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Speaker 1: don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, shit.

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Speaker 4: I was speechless. I don't know about all that, but

888
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 4: like I said, I couldn't tell this man.

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00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: No.

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00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 3: He convinced me, saying saying, come on, you can just

891
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 3: suck my dick with him sleeping in there. It'll be

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00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 3: hot a gentleman, what a gentleman will be hot? Whatever? Whatever.

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Speaker 4: Then so our naked asses go in there, find a

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00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 4: little spot on the bed, and I start sucking this dude.

895
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 4: This dude has never been moaning so loud. Receiving head

896
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Speaker 4: woke up his friend very quickly.

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Speaker 3: Oh really, shit right?

898
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Speaker 4: His friend shot out of bed, staring at us all

899
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 4: wide eyed, like what the fuck? Then my guy tells

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Speaker 4: him in Spanish, by the way, I can understand enough

901
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Speaker 4: to get by, but not enough to speak, so anything

902
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Speaker 4: I said to his friend had to be translated by

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Speaker 4: my guy.

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Speaker 3: You can stay.

905
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 4: So of course friend stays watches me suck as dick.

906
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 4: My guy then tells him you can touch her. He

907
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 4: just kept telling him you like that she's mine, like

908
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 4: he was getting off on sharing what was his. Anyway,

909
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 4: things then continued with me and both of them, but

910
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 4: the friend was too fucked up and couldn't stay hard darn,

911
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 4: so he stepped out. And okay, this is basically this story, Caine,

912
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 4: what's happening him and couldn't stay hard say, stepped out

913
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 4: and went back to the couch. Me and my sexual

914
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 4: soulmate then proceeded to have the most amazing, passionate sex

915
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Speaker 4: ever after your cuddling drunk friend decides to come back

916
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Speaker 4: for round two. You don't say it was very hesitant,

917
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 4: but I was laying between them and my guy was

918
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 4: rubbing my clip and other guy was fingering me.

919
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 3: I told my guy he.

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00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 4: Needs to tell his friend to stick a finger in

921
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 4: my ass too. Ooh is that too graphic? Ooh no,

922
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 4: never too graphic for good moms. Anyways, that was probably

923
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 4: the best orgasm I've ever had. There was just something

924
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 4: about them both focusing on me after this drunk guy

925
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,399
Speaker 4: thinks he can redeem himself. He was hitting it from

926
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Speaker 4: the back while I was giving sexual Soulmate head. When

927
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 4: he says something to my guy, who then.

928
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 3: Translated to me.

929
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 4: He says, you're so wet because when sexual Soulmate finished,

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00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 4: he came inside me.

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00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 1: Right, so when they.

932
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Speaker 2: Fucked earlier, when they had that passionate asset, sexual soul

933
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 2: Maate came inside of her.

934
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Speaker 4: Yes, his friend was complimenting my wetness, but it was

935
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 4: really just as homies come.

936
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Speaker 3: After all was said and done, we all had to

937
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 3: head to work. My man gave me half the babysitter

938
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Speaker 3: money and made his friend give me the other half.

939
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Speaker 3: Prostitution question mark. Sorry, that was the long hope you

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Speaker 3: guys enjoyed it. I really did.

941
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: It was beautiful.

942
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 3: Wow.

943
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a good one.

944
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 3: That was a good one. That was level ten. It

945
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 3: was pretty Yeah, it's pretty hot.

946
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know about the part where he

947
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 4: was this limp tinis that didn't work out, he'd come

948
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 4: back and try again.

949
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 2: But I don't know about the part where your friend

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00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: tried to act like he didn't prompt his homie before

951
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 2: you came.

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Speaker 3: But right, it was a clear indication they knew it

953
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 3: was going as long as it was all consent. It

954
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Speaker 3: sounded good to me.

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Speaker 1: It sounded great, great.

956
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Speaker 3: Sounds like you're a woman who knows what the fuck

957
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Speaker 3: you want and you got it. The asshole and the

958
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 3: pussy and the clip rubbing. Okay, let me try that.

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Speaker 3: Write that down.

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00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: Two Spanish poppies.

961
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 3: Two Spanish poppies.

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Speaker 6: Damn.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, thank you for that. That was great.

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Speaker 2: This week's sex position is provided by me because you

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Speaker 2: be getting it in so let's pretend it I'm the bickholder.

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Speaker 3: Please lay down on your back, yes, ma'am. Bring your

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Speaker 3: thighs to your chest. Lay on your back and bring

977
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Speaker 3: these up here.

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Speaker 1: Are you comfortable?

979
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Speaker 3: Yes, okay. We're gonna bring the legs outside of her

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Speaker 3: butt cheeks closely though. We're gonna hold down below the

981
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Speaker 3: caps onto the back of the size. We're gonna push here,

982
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 3: push here, push you you like that?

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Speaker 2: So the whole point is the momentum of the bad

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Speaker 2: is what's yeah the matter, and you don't have to

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Speaker 2: do much.

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Speaker 4: You're just pushing down, push it down, pushing down, full penetration.

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Speaker 1: Why is the wepisode? Is it like hitting the back

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Speaker 1: of the front.

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Speaker 3: Is it just it's pretty confusing in there, but it

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Speaker 3: feels nice.

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Speaker 1: Okay, got it, I'm sure it.

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Speaker 3: We'll hit different places for different people with different bodies, okay,

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Speaker 3: but the pressure here is really nice. And actually speaking

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