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Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh Niki Glaser Poser's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's the

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Speaker 3: Nicki Guiser Podcast. Making my volumes all right, So lately

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Speaker 3: I've been feeling like I look like a cucumber, and

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Speaker 3: I can't I can't get over it. Like I like,

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Speaker 3: right now, if you guys, like look on the YouTube,

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Speaker 3: like whenever I have straight, long hair and it falls

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Speaker 3: in front, like my head doesn't have enough of like

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Speaker 3: uh when and I actually have extra weight on right

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Speaker 3: now and it really gets jolly, and I feel like

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Speaker 3: around my head and then down cucumber.

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Speaker 4: Kirsten is laughing right now. She's listening to this podcast.

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Speaker 3: I know for a fact because one time in high

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Speaker 3: school I said I looked like a cucumber, and she

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Speaker 3: laughed in such a way that you know it's real,

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Speaker 3: you know, like when you say something. That's how I

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Speaker 3: always test, like if I if something is off with me,

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Speaker 3: I'll say the truest thing, and Kirsten's always the one

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Speaker 3: that I can see through it. I'll be like, I

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Speaker 3: look like an anemic ghost, and She'll be like no,

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Speaker 3: like she will start so if I I just can't

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Speaker 3: stop looking like a cucumber. Yesterday I had my hair

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Speaker 3: makeup done and I was just like, can you curl

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Speaker 3: my hair so that it looks like there's a curl

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Speaker 3: right under my ear so it looks like the cucumber

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Speaker 3: has a little.

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Speaker 4: Shape to it, because if it's just flat.

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Speaker 5: Cucumber like Ernie's head, like veggietails, like veggietails.

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Speaker 3: If you did my silhouette with my hair, yes, but

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Speaker 3: it has it has the girth of a cucumber, not

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Speaker 3: a hot dog, you know, like it could.

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Speaker 4: Be a hot dog.

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Speaker 3: And I just feel more like a Do you guys

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Speaker 3: ever have that where you like look like Anya, I

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Speaker 3: know you've been having the teeth thing in the mirror

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Speaker 3: where every time you look in the mirror you see something.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys have anything where you're like, God, damn it,

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Speaker 3: I look like like there's some object or animal you

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Speaker 3: feel like you look like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I have a cucumber thing too. I

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Speaker 2: don't see you in cucumber mode right now. But there

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Speaker 2: is a photo of me when I'm a child. There's

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Speaker 2: a picture of me as a kid, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, this picture totally perfectly illustrates all of

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Speaker 2: my issues with my head and my hair. I have

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Speaker 2: an oval head. It's an egghead. I cannot escape that.

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Speaker 2: You can't change your skin.

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Speaker 6: You sid to me the other day of you where

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Speaker 6: you were like we were I want baby chat off one?

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Speaker 5: Is that.

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Speaker 1: Your hair?

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Speaker 2: Catherine? Why?

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Speaker 4: Why is that your hair? That's from Beep? One of

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Speaker 4: the best lines in viep. But do you see it.

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Speaker 3: Was a little bit I'm gonna be mean right now, downzy,

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Speaker 3: Can I be mean to your because you are so beautiful?

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Speaker 3: You look like Mars attacks, you know, like how the

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Speaker 3: aliens have a bigger upper portion. Yeah, like I think

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Speaker 3: you came out of the birth canal and she squeezed

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Speaker 3: halfway through when your head was out and it's all

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Speaker 3: It's all fine.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 4: I would never say this if this was still your head.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I'm doing girl that Robin does to

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Speaker 2: your hair when they comb the back.

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Speaker 4: What is that called a back home comb?

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Speaker 7: Backcomb? Is this kid doing a backcomb?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a little bit of a pump coming off

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Speaker 4: the back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think he just had a ponytail and it went

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Speaker 3: like boom, pumped it up a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Brian, do you have any like as a man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, are there anything so physically about yourself that you're

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Speaker 3: just like, ah, Yeah. The other day Brian did come

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Speaker 3: in and just took off his jacket feverishly.

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Speaker 4: This is so funny.

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Speaker 3: He ran in the room, he gets here to my room,

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Speaker 3: he takes off his jacket and he just stands in

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Speaker 3: front of me and goes, look, yeah, what do you see?

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Speaker 4: And I go, I don't know, and you go, my shoulder,

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Speaker 4: Look at my shoulder.

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Speaker 3: His shoulder is like a half an inch lower than

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Speaker 3: the other one. So he had like a shoulder issue.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm an injury.

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Speaker 5: I went to the doctor for it because one of

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Speaker 5: my I strained a muscle and it was insane because

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Speaker 5: my shoulder I could not keep it up, like it

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Speaker 5: was not staying up the level.

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Speaker 1: And so if I just sat it's still kind of

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can see it if I just.

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Speaker 5: Sit there, Normally I have to like physically try to

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Speaker 5: hold it up because the muscle is still injured.

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Speaker 4: So about something what botox?

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Speaker 7: Did you get Barbie botox?

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Speaker 2: That's where women are injecting stuff into their shoulder, but.

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Speaker 1: Drew without having it's not it's not aesthetic.

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Speaker 4: Is it hard for you to like tell people you

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Speaker 4: don't care about something when you.

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Speaker 1: Go it's only one shoulder shrug. Now it looks like

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Speaker 1: I'm going to dance.

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Speaker 6: Looks like what's his name, Big Bobby Bopper? What's the

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Speaker 6: guy that helped you dance?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Big Bobby Bopper. Ryan hip Hop Henning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I got I'm so close. Darian hip Hop Henning. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Uh Kappa who tried to kill me for nothing?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So back to the question, is there any Do

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Speaker 3: you ever have a thing where you like look in

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Speaker 3: the mirror and you go like, oh, I'm really this today.

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Speaker 5: Well, you know what I do have is that the

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Speaker 5: mirror in my room, especially when I'm sitting in this chair.

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Speaker 5: I look at that mirror and I always am like, damn,

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Speaker 5: that's the best I've ever looked whenever I look in

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Speaker 5: that mirror. And I don't look like that in any

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Speaker 5: other mirror in the world or in real life. But

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Speaker 5: for some reason, this mirror is like, Man, I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I go from like a six to a seven in

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Speaker 5: that mirror.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 4: Maybe the lighting is it?

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Speaker 3: And there are definitely mirrors that make you thinner, But

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Speaker 3: I don't think you want to look thinner, you're already

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Speaker 3: a slender man.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe question is it yours?

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Speaker 2: Is it that side of your face that's like your

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Speaker 2: best side? Like, what if you turn around and show

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Speaker 2: because right now you're showing the right side of your face.

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Speaker 2: Can you turn around in the mirror look at the

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Speaker 2: left side of your face and also be just the

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Speaker 2: left side.

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Speaker 1: Of my face is the better side, So it's actually

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Speaker 1: showing me the bad side of my face?

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Speaker 4: How do you you guys know the better side of

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Speaker 4: your face.

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Speaker 2: It's just hard for me because I just like all

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 8: Okay, you do both the right side of my face,

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Speaker 8: I see whoa, Okay, your left side.

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Speaker 4: I go with your left side.

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Speaker 1: My left side, I see clearly better.

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Speaker 4: Whoh how did that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's just a more like you're sweeter. His left

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Speaker 6: side looks sweeter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah both. Wow. I don't know why.

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Speaker 5: It's just better and there's nothing you can do to

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Speaker 5: really step your game up on that. It's just kind

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Speaker 5: of like how everything fell into blair surgery.

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Speaker 4: My makeup girl.

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Speaker 3: The other day, I was like my wing wing of

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Speaker 3: the eyeliner that I always do wings now, which I

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Speaker 3: think might be Asian cultural appropriation. I'm not sure, but

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Speaker 3: I think that's something that could get us canceled eventually.

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Speaker 3: But when she did my wing and I was like,

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Speaker 3: it's one is way lower than the other. And I

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Speaker 3: was kind of like mad about because I was in

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Speaker 3: a bad mood. I was just nitpicking, and that's what

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Speaker 3: I always doing when I'm in a bad mood. It's

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Speaker 3: just like nothing's right. But I wasn't like, don't think

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Speaker 3: I'm like a bitch and yelling at her. She's very sweet,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, I just think this one's lower, Leah,

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Speaker 3: and she was like, oh, yeah, we do that one

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Speaker 3: lower because your eyes are like different. They like one

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Speaker 3: is on camera it looks like it's the same, but

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Speaker 3: I have been doing one different because your eyes are different.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh, that's the side of my face

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Speaker 4: I sleep on. She brings the other one up.

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Speaker 3: That the one that was lower is my good eye,

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Speaker 3: so she could do it at a normal thing, and

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Speaker 3: the other one she's got to bring scoop up.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just shocked, you've only discovered this now at

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Speaker 2: thirty nine.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean I've I mean, what's been doing

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Speaker 4: Like I have to do.

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Speaker 2: Makeup on different sides of my face ever since I

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Speaker 2: started doing makeup. Yeah, like one eyebrow does the thing

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Speaker 2: I love. The other eyebrow is a problem child needs.

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Speaker 6: Hell.

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Speaker 4: I just don't memorize what it is.

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Speaker 3: I know that when every time I do my makeup,

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Speaker 3: I do different things to match and stuff, But I

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Speaker 3: don't memorize when someone's like when I take shows that

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Speaker 3: pictures after shows, people are like, what side do you

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Speaker 3: want to be?

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Speaker 4: What side is your best side? And I'm always like

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Speaker 4: I don't. I don't really know.

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Speaker 3: And it's not because I'm like it's all so good.

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Speaker 3: I know there's one that's better. I just don't memorize it.

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Speaker 3: And I should because I had my picture taken a

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Speaker 3: fuck ton and I'm very upset with many photos unless

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Speaker 3: how advertising veggietails live.

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Speaker 6: You're lucky because you can photograph from the front really well.

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Speaker 6: I feel like not a lot of people have that.

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Speaker 6: You have kind of have to like shift to the

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Speaker 6: side to look a little bit better, but you actually

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Speaker 6: take a really nice photo straight on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and mugshots sides.

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Speaker 3: I have had really good license pictures. I have to say,

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Speaker 3: really proud of them. Yeah, where I've been like, damn

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Speaker 3: that was that was a good day, like all of

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Speaker 3: them have been well. In fact, one time I used

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Speaker 3: my license as my Like back in the day, you

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Speaker 3: had to have like business cards in comedy, Brian, you

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Speaker 3: remember that were you around and there was like you

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Speaker 3: had to make business for some reason. Everyone was making

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Speaker 3: business cards in like two thousand and nine.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I had a business card.

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Speaker 3: Anya, you probably had a music My business card was

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Speaker 3: my license picture. Like I just did my license and

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Speaker 3: I made the I made the weight ninety eight and

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Speaker 3: I made like the you know, I just like changed

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Speaker 3: a little thing about it, but it was my It

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Speaker 3: was such such a good picture.

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Speaker 4: I was like, let's use it.

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Speaker 5: I had a business card and uh, I made it

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Speaker 5: look like well, on one side, I made it look

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Speaker 5: like a restaurant and uh, it's in their name of

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Speaker 5: the restaurant was comedy. And then underneath it said free delivery.

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is like your WGA sign.

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Speaker 1: I think I got that bad.

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Speaker 4: It's no, no, it's good. It's good.

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Speaker 4: It's just it tricks me.

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Speaker 3: people understand how much artists can like manipulate you. Are

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Speaker 5: You we're talking. I don't know if it really bothers me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, there are some comics it really is

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Speaker 3: And then the other one I've been seeing, what was

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of comedians used to do it, including me,

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Speaker 5: On you?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 4: So that's what I do.

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Speaker 4: Trap.

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Speaker 3: Go listen to your I wish I could give examples

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Speaker 4: And it's a cue.

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Speaker 3: It tells the audience it's time to laugh right now.

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Speaker 4: I love this stuff.

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Speaker 2: This is interesting to me.

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Speaker 4: People could come at me for so many things I do.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure that I mean, I'm never intentionally doing something

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Speaker 3: that's that's the only virtuous thing about me besides me

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Speaker 3: night or in my hotel room. I put it in

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00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:41,920
Speaker 3: a jar. I put a leaf in there, some honey,

447
00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,439
Speaker 3: and I had a bee for the night, and then

448
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,399
Speaker 3: he flew away in the morning. I do put them

449
00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:50,600
Speaker 3: on my hand and let them fly away. They're not

450
00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,800
Speaker 3: going to sting you if you're gentle. They they would

451
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 3: never do that. And it's so satisfying. That's why I go,

452
00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:00,720
Speaker 3: I don't need kids. The feeling I got from giving

453
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:05,040
Speaker 3: this bee nurturing, nurture, sustenance and it's flying away and

454
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 3: having a life because I intervened, and just having a

455
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,280
Speaker 3: connection with a bee where I looked at it and

456
00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 3: it's cleaning its little tentacles and it like its eyes

457
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 3: kind of seem like it's looking at me.

458
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 4: I don't need kit. I just I that is enough

459
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 4: for me.

460
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:23,200
Speaker 6: I'm like full today and that love tan't Yeah, Like

461
00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:24,560
Speaker 6: that's all that's all I need.

462
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,960
Speaker 3: I just need to keep myself around animals and I

463
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,200
Speaker 3: won't need kids. Okay, we're gonna go to break and we'll.

464
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:29,720
Speaker 4: Be back after this.

465
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:40,760
Speaker 3: Over the weekend, Kirsten went to go visit our alma mater, Lawrence, Kansas,

466
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 3: where I'm gonna be actually coming up on my tour,

467
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,760
Speaker 3: my tour that is starting kicking off in Chicago and

468
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,680
Speaker 3: September fifteenth, the Chicago Theater Peoria on the sixteenth, and

469
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,080
Speaker 3: then after that, I don't know where that It's like

470
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 3: going so many places.

471
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:58,879
Speaker 4: Anya will be there, New merch will be there and

472
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 4: design it's so cool. Yeah, it's gonna be my shirt.

473
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 3: And if he plays a world tour and it's like

474
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 3: a skull with a microphone and but it looks like

475
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 3: there's a news on it too, like it's like it's

476
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 3: pretty bad.

477
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 6: A cucumber.

478
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:19,360
Speaker 3: Cucumber, Please do not bring cucumbers to me on tour.

479
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 3: I don't want any reference to it. It really triggers me.

480
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 3: I hate leaking with a cucumber. I just feel like

481
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 3: a book clay cucumber with holes. On some days.

482
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 4: I just look clay sometimes where it's like there's.

483
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 3: Nothing on my face except holes that someone someone like

484
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 3: rubbed clay in some rocks.

485
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 4: Okay, so.

486
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: October twenty went to our school, what is it, October

487
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 2: twenty ninth, Laurence, Kans.

488
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 4: October twenty ninth.

489
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 3: Okay, so look out on October twenty nine, because I'm

490
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 3: probably gonna do the exact same thing that Kirsten did

491
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 3: the other day when she was in Laurence, Kansas.

492
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:53,160
Speaker 4: And we've done this before.

493
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 3: When Kirston and I visited, we every college kid is

494
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 3: like out on you know, out in the front yard.

495
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 3: This is like, you know, first couple of weeks of school.

496
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 3: All these college kids are partying on their lawns like

497
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,199
Speaker 3: it's classic college town. And Kirsten's driving by in her

498
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 3: Honda CRV. And we originally did this years ago when

499
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 3: we visited and we were it was at night time

500
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,479
Speaker 3: and kids were like waiting outside in lines to get

501
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 3: into bars, like all these young kids, and we just

502
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 3: kept saying, so these kids as wait tro five Cursy

503
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: came up with it, but just saying because it's like

504
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 3: a car that a mom would drive, So we just

505
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 3: kept saying, Mama's home to these kids, and they would

506
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 3: just look confused. So Kirsten did it the other day

507
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 3: and she added to it. And so I just wanted

508
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 3: to play some of these. Noa, I'll play them on

509
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 3: my phone.

510
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, here we go. Okay, okay, that's the first one.

511
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 4: She's going past a frat. Here's another, and here's where

512
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 4: we lived.

513
00:22:55,840 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 3: Wait wait that let's heart just telling us where we lived. Okay, Wait,

514
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 3: it gets buried. I swear it gets better. Okay, that's

515
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 3: a little different. Hold on, it gets better, Mama's I

516
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 3: realize there's so many of the same one. Okay, I

517
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 3: swear to get married. Gribe what's going on.

518
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 4: Okay.

519
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,960
Speaker 3: There's like a bunch of hot girls in like that

520
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 3: are in booty shorts and bikini tops, carrying pizza boxes

521
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 3: like in a line. Another one is like a bunch

522
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 3: of kids like on the front lawn doing like keg stands,

523
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 3: and there's like tons.

524
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 6: Of things together. There's like a tramp like those like

525
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 6: fun castle things.

526
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 3: Yes, this one is like a kid carrying like a

527
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,360
Speaker 3: beer pong table and like setting up beer pong.

528
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 6: They'll turn their heads just like what.

529
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 4: And then this one is let's see what's happening.

530
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: Oh, it's just a bunch of cool frat guys setting

531
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 3: up a like corn hole in their front.

532
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 9: Yard straight as this year, she's just being encouraging, okay.

533
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 3: And then this one is, oh, this is a huge party,

534
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 3: girls playing cornhole, all in their bikinis. Kids, there's a

535
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 3: bouncy castle thing. There's like a it's there's probably like

536
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: fifty girls and.

537
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Speaker 6: Twenty guys on a But it starts off, it starts

538
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 6: I think if this is the same video, it starts

539
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 6: off with like one girl filming another girl who's on her.

540
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 4: That one is she didn't she didn't say anything in

541
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 4: that one.

542
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 6: Oh, okay, that.

543
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 4: One's really funny.

544
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 3: There's a girl twerking in front of a house and

545
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 3: another girl filming her for TikTok and it's so funny.

546
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 4: But this one is just a huge party on the

547
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 4: front lawn.

548
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 3: Stay safe tonight, just make good choices, don't drink and drive,

549
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 3: just get great straining.

550
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 4: Yourselves.

551
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,239
Speaker 3: So, if you guys want to start this trend, if

552
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 3: you live in a college area, when there's kids up

553
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 3: front and like cool kids having a party, if you

554
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 3: want to tell them to get straight a is tell

555
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 3: them mama's home, daddy's home, be yourselves, don't do drugs.

556
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 3: I think it's just a really good trend, and we

557
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 3: should start it where we just you know, it's a

558
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,120
Speaker 3: drive by screaming of encouraging things for these college kids

559
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 3: study hard.

560
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 6: For sleep shifts, patriarchy.

561
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 4: Take you down, Alice. This girl's like like, look at

562
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 4: this video of this girl fully twerking.

563
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 6: Wait, no, do you have it?

564
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 4: Because I don't think I saved that one.

565
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,959
Speaker 1: Be Yourselves is a really good one.

566
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Speaker 5: I mean, I remember is walking past this event and

567
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 5: there was like a college orientation happening for USC, and

568
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 5: I just I could see visibly kids not being themselves,

569
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 5: like trying to present themselves in a certain way, and

570
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 5: it made me feel just like I was so sad.

571
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: I remember. It reminded me of me when I went

572
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: to college when I first went, and I was like, man,

573
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 1: just know.

574
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 4: I found it.

575
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 6: Go ahead, Okay, Yeah, I guess I didn't save it because.

576
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's oh that's for TikTok.

577
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 7: Thought.

578
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 6: Oh my hold on, I don't think I would have

579
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 6: ever done that because it's right next door to a party.

580
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's TikTok. Guys, you that's quite a significant.

581
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 3: Bad I'm so this makes me like, so if we

582
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 3: were just showing a video of the party that's happening

583
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 3: on this lawn. It makes me so nostalgic. Like I

584
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: know that a lot of us are probably like Brian,

585
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 3: You're just saying it gives you anxiety. It makes you

586
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 3: reminds you of like a time in your life you

587
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: didn't know who you were and you were just struggling

588
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 3: to find an identity.

589
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 4: I like, am so jealous. I want to go back,

590
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 4: And maybe I want to go back because I know

591
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 4: who I am now and I want to do that.

592
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 6: Like man, I like, I.

593
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 3: Really I get so jealous of college kids that I

594
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: almost like can't even watch those videos.

595
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 4: It really affects me. I guess there was.

596
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 6: There was one message in Girls' Chap from Kirston though,

597
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 6: She's like, I bet all those kids are like riddled

598
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 6: with anxiety. They're at that party, but they don't know

599
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 6: how to act, you know, because they all have to

600
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 6: like make first impressions and stuff. And I think that's

601
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 6: probably it. They're not having a good time.

602
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: I think they're having a good time. I mean, I

603
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: think there's they are.

604
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 4: There's a lack and they're like hanging out.

605
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: I got their whole lives ahead of them. They're so

606
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,239
Speaker 1: excited right now.

607
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 5: Perhaps there's anxiety and they're going to do embarrassing things

608
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 5: like when I wrote a keg down a river or

609
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 5: when I was weird, Like, you'll do stuff like that,

610
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 5: but you're not necessarily having a bad time.

611
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: You're just like I was.

612
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had the best time.

613
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 3: I loved going to these parties and like and just

614
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 3: I liked the anxiety that went along with it, like

615
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 3: getting dressed up and like where are we going to

616
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 3: go tonight? And just knowing that you have no responsibilities.

617
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 3: I mean, I know some people listening to the podcasts

618
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 3: were like I was working in college. I worked a

619
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: little bit, but mostly like you just it's like this,

620
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 3: it's a great little bubble and you have no responsibilities.

621
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 2: Really were your best friends in college?

622
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 4: Kat and Kirston?

623
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 9: Kat?

624
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 3: I went one year to Boulder and Kat was my

625
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 3: Catherine was my best friend. And then and then I

626
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 3: transferred my sophomore year, and then Kirston was my best friend.

627
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 3: And then we had a falling out my junior year

628
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 3: or no, no, no, I guess it was yeah, junior year,

629
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 3: and then I was doing stand up comedy and then

630
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: I like didn't really have any friends I was just

631
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 3: obsessed with doing comedy. And then senior year, uh, same

632
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 3: same deal. I was just like dying to get out.

633
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 3: So I think I kind of I feel like I

634
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 3: didn't have the full college experience because for the first

635
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 3: half I was starving and almost dead, and then the

636
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 3: second half I was like.

637
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 6: Wanting to get the fuck out because yeah, like I want.

638
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 4: To go back because I like, no, I do it.

639
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 3: I was even having fun when I was starving and miserable,

640
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 3: like I remember it fondly, even though I was suffering.

641
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 3: So now I'd be like fucking thriving.

642
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 5: Type of anxiety that you have in college, the anxiety

643
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 5: is optimism. It's like, oh my god, maybe I'll meet somebody,

644
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 5: maybe i'll meet friends, maybe I'll get drunken, something crazy

645
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 5: will happen. And then when you get to become an

646
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 5: adult and you have anxiety about an event, it's pessimism.

647
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 5: It's like, oh God, what's going to happen tonight, I'm

648
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 5: gonna be so tired when I get back. Probably I'm not.

649
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 5: No one's going to be there that I like, And

650
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 5: so that's the difference, and that's not true.

651
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 6: I have I have a personal story.

652
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: Oh Okay.

653
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 6: So I was on Fifth Avenue in Brooklyn. I was

654
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 6: coming out of it was actually like a sex shop.

655
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 6: So I was coming out of a sex shop and

656
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 6: then all of a sudden, they hear someone call my

657
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 6: name and it was someone that I was friends with

658
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 6: in college. His name is Javier, and we started talking

659
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 6: and it's literally like fifteen years after, like I've seen

660
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 6: him last night and like, hey, do you remember me

661
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 6: in college? And he's like, of course I do. And

662
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 6: I'm like, what was I like? And he's like, oh man,

663
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 6: you were really jaded. You were just like really concerned

664
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 6: about what you were going to be when you were

665
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 6: going to grow up, and some of the college and stuff.

666
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Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm saying is like I guess I

667
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: want to go back now that I know it wasn't

668
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 3: that big of a deal. I mean, this is all

669
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 3: kind of retrospective, like Hindsight's twenty twenty, where it's like

670
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 3: I just know that what college is now, and I

671
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 3: think I understand it more, and I think we should

672
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 3: let college students know, like it's not that big of

673
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 3: a deal.

674
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Speaker 2: Have fun.

675
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 3: This is the last time of your life you can

676
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 3: have fun without the burden of rent, and you know,

677
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 3: I'm just talking to people whose parents are paying for everything,

678
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 3: at which I had the privilege of my parents paying

679
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 3: for my college tuition.

680
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 5: So I know that that is that's true across the board, though,

681
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 5: apply that to every age, every age. I'm sure if

682
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 5: there is someone ten fifteen years older than you looking

683
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 5: back at your age, they would say, none of it matter.

684
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 3: You need to well I know, yeah, no that's not true.

685
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 3: They go freeze your eggs. You're gonna want to enjoy it,

686
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 3: but that's what they say. Older women are constantly like,

687
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 3: oh dude, ah bah bah bah, and I'm I have

688
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 3: this new thing where I talk about on stage, you know,

689
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 3: like you know, every comedian talks about like their age

690
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 3: on stage and like what they're going through at that age.

691
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 3: And for most women it's like complaining about like I'm

692
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 3: getting older, and most men too, Like I think after

693
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 3: twenty eight people are like, I'm old. And that's like

694
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: the comedians whole like half their act is like, uh,

695
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 3: this is what it's like at this age. And I

696
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 3: just recently started doing this thing on stage where I'm like,

697
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say I'm old because there's fucking old

698
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 3: people here, and it's really rude when someone younger than

699
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 3: you says they're old.

700
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 4: It's just like, no one wants to fucking hear it.

701
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 3: Shut the hell up, every twenty something year old, don't

702
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 3: ever say you're old. There's someone with in earshot who

703
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 3: is elderly and they don't appreciate it, and so like I.

704
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 4: And but there I tell myself that stuff all the time.

705
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 3: Like I sometimes I think, now I look at my

706
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 3: life and I'm like, it's so good right now, Like

707
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 3: I had. I talked to my psychiatrist yesterday about like

708
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 3: my meds and adjusting them, and I was like, I

709
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 3: just my life is perfect.

710
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 4: Can we just keep it this way?

711
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 5: Like?

712
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 3: How do I keep how do I enjoy my perfect life?

713
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 3: Nothing is wrong with my life. I'm miserable a lot

714
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: of times, but my life, if you write out all

715
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 3: the details, is one hundred percent perfect.

716
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 4: There's nothing more I want. There's nothing there really isn't.

717
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 3: I mean, I'd like to not have suicidal thoughts as often,

718
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 3: But on the outside, my life is truly great, and

719
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 3: I try to remember that sometimes. Today this morning, I

720
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 3: just didn't want to get out of bed, so I

721
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: started going through a list of I'm grateful for my tongue.

722
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 3: I'm grateful for my teeth, I'm grateful for my nose.

723
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 3: I'm grateful for my eyes. I'm grateful for my hair.

724
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: Like I was saying all those things because I really

725
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 3: didn't want to get out of bed. But I think that, yeah,

726
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 3: I try to. I try to know that right now,

727
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 3: bitching about my age just DoD because tomorrow I'm going

728
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: to be older, and it's it's not getting any better.

729
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 4: It's not getting Eddie better.

730
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 5: I think it's now I have to come up with

731
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,239
Speaker 5: something that Anya says that's not true too so so far,

732
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 5: I said something that Noah vehemently said wasn't true, and

733
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 5: then I said something that Nicky's vehemently said wasn't true.

734
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 5: You know, I also think that like music is like

735
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 5: you know, there's no emotion. There's no emotion behind music.

736
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 5: I think mostly it's like a formula for you know, computers.

737
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 5: I don't think anyone really even emotes when they're making songs.

738
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 4: It's straight.

739
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 7: I completely disagree.

740
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Speaker 2: Wait, I didn't even hear you vehemently disagree with no

741
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 2: I heard you disagree.

742
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 7: Did you disagree with the cucumber?

743
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 5: No?

744
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:50,719
Speaker 6: I vehemently disagreed with Brian.

745
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 5: Is just Noah said that's not true, and then she

746
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 5: had an example, and then NICKI said that's not true,

747
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 5: and then she had.

748
00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: An example, said that not true.

749
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 6: That's not true.

750
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 5: I still think the things I said are true. Time Yeah,

751
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 5: uh no, I still think the things I said were true.

752
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 5: You know what actually today, Here's what happened today so

753
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 5: far in the pod, I said, Nicky said that my

754
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 5: business card wasn't funny. No one said that what I

755
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 5: said about college isn't true.

756
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: Nicky said that.

757
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 4: One's going to quit the pod. Someone's being ganged up on.

758
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:28,839
Speaker 1: You can't go on right now.

759
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 4: I see it coming.

760
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 5: And then when I asked Amya to say, tell me

761
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 5: that what I said isn't true, she didn't even say it.

762
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 4: What's going on?

763
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: I still think.

764
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 2: I was still thinking about how both sides of your

765
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 2: face look great and you don't have a bad side.

766
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: I couldn't even disagree with that. I almost disagreed with that, because.

767
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 1: One side is worse. No, but I'm not actually upset

768
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: fy I.

769
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 4: No, but you can't. I don't think you are. Brian.

770
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 3: Brian is Brian's the best because I can like when

771
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: I the other day we were working on jokes for

772
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 3: my act, and.

773
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 4: Uh, I was did I tell this already?

774
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 3: Where I was saying, like I do that one I

775
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 3: don't know about, but like I'd like that you did

776
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 3: this part of it, like I like where you're the

777
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 3: angle of it was. So that was like a good

778
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 3: way to start. But I don't know if and he

779
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 3: goes you can just say no, like you don't like it,

780
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: and I go can I? And so then the next

781
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 3: time I didn't like a joke, I go no and

782
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 3: he goes, okay, actually, and then I started just going.

783
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 4: Like no, no, and he was like, actually, this is

784
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 4: starting dark.

785
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 6: Making me think of something I just heard.

786
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 7: It's a weird reach, but try to follow me.

787
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 2: So I was listening. Maybe what you're doing is female

788
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 2: and we're we're raised to do this like a firm,

789
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: give positive feedback, do the sandwich thing, good thing, negative thing,

790
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: good thing.

791
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 7: But I was just listening to this podcast.

792
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 2: Asked a snippet, and I might send you a snippet

793
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: on the Girl's Chat, which Nikki often does, and it's

794
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 2: done so well, just a short little snippet. But this

795
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 2: man was talking about how uh you know the number

796
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: one cause of suicide or the number one cause of

797
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 2: death among men is suicide our favorite topic on this podcast.

798
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 2: And eighty two percent of men who commit suicide are

799
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 2: in therapy, but the majority of therapists are women. This

800
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: is not a slag toward women, but he was saying

801
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 2: that what kind of therapy works for women a lot,

802
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 2: which is affirming your feelings, reflecting your feelings back to you,

803
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 2: and letting you know that your feelings are valid, doesn't

804
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: often work for men, in particular men who are potentially suicidal.

805
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: They need action, like, yes, your feelings are valid, but

806
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 2: like these guys are bottoming out in their lives in

807
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 2: a huge way.

808
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 7: They need like get up, wash your hands.

809
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really interest.

810
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 3: The biggest problem I have with therapists is this, like

811
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 3: that sounds really hard, okay, and how does that make you?

812
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 3: Where do you feel that on your body? I'm like,

813
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 3: tell me what to do, tell me why don't therapust

814
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 3: I don't know, because I that is the true. I

815
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 3: want to just say that let's not correlate men killing

816
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 3: themselves with therapy. The reason that number that eighty two

817
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 3: percent of men who kill themselves go to therapy is

818
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 3: because those men have mental issues, and people with mental

819
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 3: issues are more likely to be in therapy, so it's

820
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 3: less of a causality and.

821
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: More a thing he was saying, Yeah, exactly, He's he's

822
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 2: saying that surprisingly a lot of these people are aware

823
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,720
Speaker 2: of the problem and maybe talking about the problem.

824
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 7: It's not that it's the top therapy.

825
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you, And yeah, my lover is started

826
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 3: to go see someone and he has just said, I

827
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 3: don't know, you know, I can't tell tell you like

828
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 3: what in terms of like the what I'm getting out

829
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 3: of it from the person I'm talking to. But just

830
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 3: talking about these things that I don't want to burden

831
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 3: you with or really anyone in my life has been

832
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: extremely helpful. So just saying them and I think that's

833
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 3: that's what he's getting out of it so far.

834
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 4: I really like that.

835
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 3: But I think you're right, and I've I've preally I

836
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 3: consider myself fairly masculine energy in most ways other than

837
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 3: my pussy, and even that looks masculine some days.

838
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 4: You know, things are changing, and uh waits again, I

839
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 4: just have to share that.

840
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 3: Chris and I got into a little bit of a

841
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 3: debate the other day about trans like if it's okay

842
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 3: for trans women that have not had the surgery to

843
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 3: be in women's locker rooms, And he was saying like,

844
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 3: and he was not on any either side. He was

845
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 3: just presenting an argument of saying, like, would you so

846
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 3: Poppy my niece, for He's like, so you wouldn't care

847
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 3: if Poppy was in a locker room and just Dick

848
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 3: went swinging by her face, And I was like, well,

849
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 3: I would be uncomfortable if a vagina went swinging by her,

850
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: you know, like, I don't think anything should be swinging

851
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 3: by people's faces in locker rooms, and I don't think

852
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 3: But they came out that like there was a reason

853
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 3: for his concern about this because he had an experience

854
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 3: with a where someone was like pretty scarred by seeing

855
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 3: a penis in the in the world, and so it

856
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 3: made sense that he was concerned about a young person

857
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 3: seeing a penis. And I get that, but I said,

858
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 3: I've seen vaginas in locker rooms that are so much

859
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: more horrifying than any penis, So it's not like she's

860
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: safe from seeing disgusting genitals. Yeah, in a locker room,

861
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 3: whether it's a vagina or a penis.

862
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 5: When I was my argument, penises were swinging by my

863
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 5: face all the time in locker rooms.

864
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 3: I mean, they should not be swinging anywhere, Like, it's

865
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 3: not okay for those to be to you should in

866
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,320
Speaker 3: a locker room. You should not be swinging anything. You

867
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 3: should not be walking around with your genitals, and especially

868
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 3: by kids that are like genital height. I think that's disgusting,

869
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: and I think that anyone that's doing the exactly totally agree.

870
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: I can hear my mom's voice right now. You Americans

871
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 2: are so strange and puritanical. People grow up around nudity

872
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 2: all the time.

873
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 3: And well, I would say to your mom, there are

874
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 3: perverts to get off by putting their penises in children's faces,

875
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 3: just in the vicinity, and so that is something I

876
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 3: wouldn't want anyone to see.

877
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 5: And there's also a difference between growing up around nudity

878
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 5: and then someone swinging their penis in front of your face.

879
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 3: I love nobody to get off one of the at

880
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 3: least one person listening to this who's like has a

881
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 3: boner right now thinking about like some sick fuck.

882
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 6: Like this is.

883
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 3: Why do you think guys expose themselves to people in

884
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 3: the street they get off from it.

885
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:02,919
Speaker 4: This is a thing.

886
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 3: It's not like genitals are just like just natural and

887
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 3: we should all have them out all the time.

888
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 4: Like I'm to I could totally be a NEWDICST.

889
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 3: I don't really have a problem with people seeing my

890
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 3: genitalia if it's in a non sexual way, like I

891
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 3: just don't. The sound guy the other day was definitely

892
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 3: saw my nipple, and I'm sure he was like maybe

893
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 3: excited by that, but because I didn't wasn't doing it

894
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 3: in a sexual way.

895
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 4: I just didn't care.

896
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 2: But I'm not like as where you get nude.

897
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 3: Yes, but there are people in locker rooms, no matter

898
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: what their gender are, that get off on Maybe I

899
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 3: could see that they would get off on a little

900
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: girl seeing their balls or their vagina lips in a way,

901
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 3: or their tits like they sickos.

902
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 5: When I would go into a gym locker room to

903
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 5: take a shower, I would wear a towel around it,

904
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 5: and then I would go into the shower and take

905
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 5: the towel off. But there are there and it's a

906
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 5: very old man thing to do also, But they're people

907
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 5: who just walk around flopping around free and open without

908
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 5: any shame, which is fine to not have shame.

909
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 4: That's fine, but if you're doing it so for a

910
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 4: sexual thing.

911
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: You just don't know why. You don't know why they're

912
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: doing it. Right, Some people are really help it.

913
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,280
Speaker 2: But a trans a trans woman who hasn't had the surgery,

914
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 2: is not going into a locker room to like swing

915
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 2: their genitalia around.

916
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 4: No, definitely not. But they could.

917
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 3: Just like us, Yeah, they're like just just I'm not

918
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 3: saying that it's I think the chances of that are

919
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 3: fucking insane. But that's not to say that they couldn't

920
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 3: just like a woman couldn't have her vagina and get

921
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 3: off on having a kid like catch a glipse Like,

922
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 3: people are fucking sick out there.

923
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 6: We all know it.

924
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like, I don't think that's the

925
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 3: reason to not have to Like, if there could be

926
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: a dick in a bathroom and a women's bathroom on

927
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 3: a trans person, that doesn't mean I'm not like protecting

928
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 3: a little If Poppy saw a penis and was like,

929
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 3: what's that, I'd be like, well, some women are born

930
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 3: with penises, and your brother has a penis and he

931
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 3: was born you know, like I would just explain it.

932
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be I don't think that she would need

933
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 3: like counseling to get overseeing a penis.

934
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 5: On a way, it all depends on the response to it. Yeah,

935
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 5: Like I think if you respond like, oh my god,

936
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 5: you saw a penis, Oh my god, how do you,

937
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 5: then she'd be traumatized by penises forever totally like, yeah,

938
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 5: some people have penises, Yes, that would be fine.

939
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 3: I wanted to get to Reddit dumb because my mom

940
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 3: was getting at okay, oh we're gonna get a break,

941
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,879
Speaker 3: and that we're going to come back for Reddit dump.

942
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 3: All right, we're back. Anya has one more story about

943
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 3: swinging things around.

944
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 2: When my friend came out as a lesbian and I

945
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 2: was like, I did not respond in a way that

946
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: I wish I would have. I was like, you are

947
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 2: not gay. You are more guy crazy than me. You've

948
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,240
Speaker 2: slept with more guys than I ever have. I remember

949
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: she was like trying to help me understand that she

950
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 2: really really loved girls, and she goes, there is nothing

951
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: like having a woman on top of you with their

952
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 2: breasts swinging around. It was like, and she's like, that's it, Like,

953
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 2: there's just nothing like seeing a woman's breast swinging from

954
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 2: scientists the.

955
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 3: Way that makes me feel when I hear it. I

956
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 3: don't have any that does not do anything for me,

957
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 3: so it kind of proves it.

958
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 2: I was like, wait, what are you guys doing.

959
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just saying, and that's nice to hear

960
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 3: that that she doesn't mind like utter tits, like you know,

961
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 3: like we also I've talked about this, like when your

962
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 3: tits hang down and look like cow waters. It's like

963
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 3: and they lose like their fat on the sides and

964
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 3: they just they almost have like a bell jar type

965
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 3: to them. That it's one of my most ing off.

966
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 3: Oh god, I that's that is why women wear bras

967
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 3: when they're on top. Sometimes I think, yeah, antipe, But

968
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 3: it's nice to hear that another woman doesn't mind it

969
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 3: and she would love to see them swinging around.

970
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 4: And you were just like and she's like, that's that's it.

971
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 4: Does that not prove it to you? I was like,

972
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 4: kind of does?

973
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 7: It was also like also when they're just.

974
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 2: This is sorry, this is this is immature, but she

975
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 2: was like, when they just drag their vagina down my chest, it's.

976
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 7: The most amazing thing.

977
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 4: I was like, you're gay, I got it. When they

978
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 4: just slug down my chest and leave a snail trail

979
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 4: with anyone. Try it? Mark my man?

980
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 5: What?

981
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Mark my man. That is such a weird move.

982
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 3: But it would make me laugh so hard if I

983
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 3: I I love doing funny bits though, so I could

984
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 3: see myself doing that and just being like, hold on,

985
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 3: I'm just trying something.

986
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 6: Just say.

987
00:45:58,160 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 3: He'd be like, Clayze, what you do it. I'd be like,

988
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 3: wait a second, just I gotta get I gotta get this,

989
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 3: and it's just like a marker going er.

990
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 5: A.

991
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 4: He's get to Reddit dump. Yeah, ladies, this is your

992
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 4: redit dumb okay, So this is okay this.

993
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 3: I found this last night and I was like, oh

994
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 3: my god, I can't wait to hear Noah and Anya's

995
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 3: thoughts because it's about a subject that I like to

996
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 3: talk about with them. And Brian, I guess I'll hear

997
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: your thoughts too, and you'll like get too. And this

998
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 3: is called this is from true off my Chest and

999
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 3: it says concern my daughter may have caught my husband cheating.

1000
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 3: She says, I just tried posting this bute blah, I'll

1001
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 3: just kiss me sorry. I was bathing our two daughters,

1002
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 3: five and two, about a week ago, when I was

1003
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 3: drying them off, my daughter was talking about being naked

1004
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 3: and how well. I didn't even realize this was going

1005
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 3: to connect. My daughter was talking about being naked and

1006
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 3: how you're only naked in private and for things like

1007
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,439
Speaker 3: taking a bath. I told her, yes, that's true.

1008
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 4: Sorry.

1009
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 3: Then she said that lady was naked on daddy. I

1010
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 3: was confused, what do you mean, daddy and that lady

1011
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 3: were naked there? She pointed to our bed.

1012
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 4: What the fuck?

1013
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: I asked her who the lady was and she shrugged

1014
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 3: like she obviously didn't know. I can't think of what

1015
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 3: possible scenarios she could have seen that could have been

1016
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 3: misconstrilled as a naked woman on my husband. My mind

1017
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 3: was kind of blown, and I can't stop thinking about

1018
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 3: what she claims she saw. He's on his phone a lot,

1019
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 3: always texting people. I haven't asked him why he always

1020
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 3: has his phone glued to him, even in the shower.

1021
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 3: I feel uncomfortable demanding he hand over his phone. He

1022
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 3: gets up very early to go to the gym. Now

1023
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 3: going to the gym isn't new for him, but he

1024
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 3: used to go after work. Now sometimes he goes before

1025
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 3: work and after work, he is constantly This is the

1026
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 3: interesting part. He's constantly horny and has been for the

1027
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 3: past few months. I've asked him what's wrong with him.

1028
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 3: He says he doesn't know, but it's like he's eighteen

1029
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: again and he's constantly getting hard and can't stop thinking

1030
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 3: about sex. He's never had a problem in this area,

1031
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 3: and he was also never like this. He's become obsessed

1032
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 3: with sex and constantly wants it. At first, it was

1033
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,040
Speaker 3: flattering and I felt desired and he wanted to and

1034
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 3: it seemingly from me so so often that I never

1035
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 3: imagine he could be cheating. Now I'm wondering why did

1036
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 3: he suddenly go from being a normal man with a

1037
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 3: normal health sex drive to being a teenage boy. She says,

1038
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 3: none of these things by itself is super suspicious, other

1039
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: than what my daughter said, and then she goes on

1040
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 3: to like, what should I do? And everyone, everyone, including

1041
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 3: every man that wrote back to this, said, someone wanting

1042
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 3: to have sex all the time is one hundred percent

1043
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 3: a sign of cheating. When you get sex, your sex

1044
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 3: drive goes up, and so the more you get it,

1045
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 3: the more you want it. So she was thinking he's

1046
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 3: want sex all the time. So why would he be

1047
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 3: cheating If I'm having sex with him like twice a day,

1048
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 3: that actually is a sign of someone being be She.

1049
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 6: What a stare peerrel talks about, like when people cheat,

1050
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 6: it actually makes them like sort of like a not

1051
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 6: a better partner, but like it ignites them for their

1052
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 6: actual partner. And just like you know, going off and

1053
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,959
Speaker 6: she and it's not just the sex part of it's

1054
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 6: probably like the pursuit and you know, feeling like someone's

1055
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 6: attracted to you, like the whole thing. And then he

1056
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 6: comes home and he's stole horny for his wife. Yep.

1057
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 3: And this was there was a great advice given to

1058
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: this woman. There's a I guess a site you can

1059
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 3: go on that sends can send anonymously a text to

1060
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 3: you saying you've been exposed to an STD get.

1061
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 4: A test to get a test.

1062
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 3: And if he got that text and doesn't share that

1063
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 3: with her and says, I just got this fucking text.

1064
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 4: Did you get this?

1065
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 3: Then he's taking care of it on his own. And

1066
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 3: that's probably a thing like if you're a man hurts

1067
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 3: uh huh, or that if he's just if he doesn't

1068
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 3: go babe, I just got this weird STD text.

1069
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 4: What the fuck is this?

1070
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 3: Like, someone who's not cheating is not going to go

1071
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 3: I have an STD from college ten years. But like

1072
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 3: if you're if you've been married for ten years or whatever,

1073
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 3: you don't have an STD.

1074
00:49:58,560 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 6: Is this.

1075
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 7: Up to trap people?

1076
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 5: Uh?

1077
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 4: No, I think it's just a device.

1078
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 3: That's like someone came up with the site to give

1079
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 3: to people that like may be ashamed that they gave someone.

1080
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 4: An STD or something and just warm them.

1081
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 5: Uh huh.

1082
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 4: And this person, what is came up with that idea?

1083
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 3: She has what her kid said, I think that's like

1084
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 3: strong enough to have a conversation about it. Well, everyone's

1085
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: telling her, now, install cameras. You have to get full proof, Like,

1086
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 3: don't accuse your husband of cheating until you can get proof,

1087
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 3: because he can delete everything, get everything cleaned up, and

1088
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 3: then you look crazy and you can't get the money

1089
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 3: that you need in the divorce and you can't Like,

1090
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 3: so she everyone's selling her install cameras, go away for

1091
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:42,919
Speaker 3: the weekend and get it on camera.

1092
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 5: If you're a true master cheater, then you will respond

1093
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 5: to that text in the right way. And you imagine

1094
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 5: if you were cheating, you get that STD test, and

1095
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 5: then you go to your wife and you say, what

1096
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 5: the fuck is this?

1097
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: Can you believe this way? Are you cheating on me?

1098
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: Guys not a master in front of his gas lighting? Yeah,

1099
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine this.

1100
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 3: Guy having sex in front of his five year old

1101
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 3: with another woman thinking, oh, she probably won't remember.

1102
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 7: Also, as I do agree that.

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00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: Having sex can ignite your sex drive and you can

1104
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 2: want more sex, but as somebody who was involved with

1105
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:20,760
Speaker 2: somebody that was cheating and lying about it, the opposite

1106
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 2: is also true. There's so much shame associated sometimes with

1107
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 2: what they're doing, especially if they're a sex addict, that

1108
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: they can also be completely like impotent and like not

1109
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 2: know what's going on, And that can happen out of

1110
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 2: the movie because it's catching up to them. They're getting guilty,

1111
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 2: they're feeling trapped, et cetera, et cetera.

1112
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just think that most people would think, no,

1113
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 3: he has sex with me all the time, he can't

1114
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:46,879
Speaker 3: be cheating, And I just don't. That was the first

1115
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: I had ever heard of people going like, no, no, no,

1116
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 3: that's actually a heightened sex drive out of nowhere is

1117
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,399
Speaker 3: actually a sign that something could be a rived.

1118
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 6: As the advice that they're giving her is like presuming

1119
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 6: that she would want to get divorce, Like, does she

1120
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 6: want to break up with him if he's cheating on her?

1121
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 6: Or is it something that's repairable.

1122
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 3: I think having sex with a woman in front of

1123
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 3: your child is there's no repairing that. And I'm someone

1124
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:11,760
Speaker 3: if I got cheated on, I would forgive the person,

1125
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 3: but not if they fucked in front of my five

1126
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 3: year old.

1127
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: Hell, come on, what are you doing? Why are you doing?

1128
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 4: He had the kids that weekend?

1129
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: Take a second, so gross?

1130
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 4: Okay, this is another one.

1131
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 2: Babysitter, Oh, no, kid would have been like, it's Cassidy.

1132
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, you're right. Okay.

1133
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 3: So this one is from No Stupid Questions, And I

1134
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 3: think this is a question that everyone asks and no

1135
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 3: one really ever has the answer to. In fact, Brian,

1136
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 3: this was posed recently when we were all hanging out

1137
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 3: and you looked up a podcast to find the answer

1138
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 3: to it, and we really didn't get one. But the

1139
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 3: question is from No Stupid Questions. Why is cocaine being

1140
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 3: laced with fentanyl? Fentanyl lace cocaine has been in the

1141
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 3: news causing a lot of death, but why would drug

1142
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,439
Speaker 3: dealers want to lace their drugs with an extremely deadly

1143
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 3: drug like fentanyl that will draw way more attention to

1144
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 3: both their enterprises and killing their clientele, which would be

1145
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 3: bad for business. Anybody able to explain? Do you guys

1146
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 3: want to take a stab at this before I tell

1147
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: you the answer?

1148
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1149
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 5: So we I looked up a podcast which I won't

1150
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 5: name because not going to throw shade it a podcast,

1151
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 5: but this podcast did not answer the fucking question.

1152
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:19,760
Speaker 1: The title of the podcast was that question.

1153
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 5: We listened to it for thirty minutes, and it was

1154
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 5: like it was just leading us on with like YouTube

1155
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:29,280
Speaker 5: style teasers for thirty fucking minutes. But before we answer

1156
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 5: why fentanyl is is put into drug, let's go.

1157
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 4: Back twenty years ago to the Ragan administration.

1158
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: Just tell us yes, exactly.

1159
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 3: But this question gets asked all the time because it

1160
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 3: does seem counterintuitive. Why would you want to kill your clientele?

1161
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 3: Why are this thing that a microscopic level can definitely

1162
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 3: kill someone?

1163
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 4: Why would you mix stuff with that? I think it's

1164
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 4: stud I know the answer.

1165
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: I have two theories.

1166
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 5: One is that somehow I don't know if this is

1167
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 5: true or not, so if somehow it gives their user

1168
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 5: a high a better high, then maybe they'll get more

1169
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,799
Speaker 5: addicted to it, and then they'll wind up buying more

1170
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 5: despite the risk. And secondly, is potentially maybe lacing it

1171
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 5: with ventanyls cheaper than the actual drug, so they're just

1172
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 5: kind of filling it out like a filler.

1173
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 6: Strongly disagree with you, Brian, and it is correct.

1174
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 3: By saying this, someone commented, and these are all just commenters,

1175
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 3: so if you know better than this, please let us know.

1176
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,440
Speaker 4: But this all seemed to make sense to me for

1177
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 4: the first time.

1178
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 3: Someone said that people saying that drug dealers would cut

1179
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,879
Speaker 3: cocaine with fentanyl is insane. I can't imagine it would

1180
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 3: make it stronger. It's a downer and would work against

1181
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 3: the upper. So fentanyl is a downer, cocaine's an upper.

1182
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 3: It doesn't make sense to cut them together. Okay, here's

1183
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 3: the real reason. I don't know if you guys know this.

1184
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 3: I've seen a couple episodes of Intervention. I didn't know

1185
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 3: that people can be addicted and regularly use fentanyl and

1186
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 3: not overdose, that it is a street drug that actually

1187
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 3: is people buy and they use, and they use it

1188
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:02,919
Speaker 3: in a way that they do not od that people

1189
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 3: like have a tolerance for so like people that die

1190
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 3: of fent overdoses usually have never done any fentanyl, so

1191
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 3: it's the first time it's in their system. They od

1192
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: they have a tolerance. But fentanyl is a street drug

1193
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 3: that is sold, so the answer is coming here with

1194
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 3: first hand knowledge, says this person. Cocaine dealers would not

1195
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 3: add fentanyl as a cutting agent unless they are crazy.

1196
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 3: It is cross contamination. The vast majority of times, one

1197
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 3: has to understand that drug dealers are not keeping their

1198
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 3: different drug stashes safe from one another. One custy customer

1199
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 3: comes in for fent, then the next for cocaine, same

1200
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 3: table scale, scooper, et cetera. Plus, most drug dealers are

1201
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 3: also high and absolute rex shit. Sometimes the fent is

1202
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 3: white powder, so it could easily be given to someone

1203
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 3: by accident. Luckily, when I was dealing, fent didn't exist,

1204
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 3: although I did give people ketamine instead of coke a

1205
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,320
Speaker 3: few times. I also did that to myself, which is

1206
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 3: somewhat hilarious. As the first pooter is a doozy.

1207
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 4: I don't know what pooter means.

1208
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 3: I didn't even know what custy meant, but I guess

1209
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 3: assume customer. But that's the reason it's it's being these

1210
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 3: guys are dealing fentanyl to and using the same scales

1211
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 3: and stuff, so it was gonna.

1212
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 2: Somebed but not that specific. That is fascinating.

1213
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 4: I thought it was interesting.

1214
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 6: Hasn't coke always been laced with stuff? And also like

1215
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 6: in the way that like the whole like drug works.

1216
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 6: It's not like the drug dealer is the one who

1217
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 6: is getting it from, Like wherever it comes from, there's

1218
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 6: like layers of people, So maybe he's cutting it or

1219
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 6: she's cutting it with stuff to try to make more

1220
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 6: of a profit, right.

1221
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: Like maybe laxative with cocaine and all that stuff, which

1222
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 2: is why I never knew why people had diarrhea when

1223
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:45,399
Speaker 2: they did coke. But it's not that because it would

1224
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: make sense for the effect of that they're going for.

1225
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 2: But okay, it's an accident. It is crazy how many

1226
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 2: people are dying of it constantly. Sorry that Brian was wrong,

1227
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 2: but Noah was right. I just like the way Noah

1228
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 2: said it.

1229
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:56,800
Speaker 6: Oh I'm sorry.

1230
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's pooin trying to the first first time you

1231
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,400
Speaker 3: get high drug contest?

1232
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: We all know that pooter can mean vagina.

1233
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 5: People have said that before, like fartle people. Yeah, there's

1234
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 5: there is disagreement online about what pooter means, even in fact,

1235
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 5: one of the Urban Dictionary definitions is saying pooter does

1236
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 5: not mean vagina. Everyone knows that pooter is a butthole.

1237
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 5: So but I don't see anyone using this in a

1238
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 5: drug context or getting high context.

1239
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 2: Okay, well, well you knew if you had a first pooter,

1240
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 2: you know it's.

1241
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 4: Okay. I liked this question.

1242
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 3: This is from like a podcast that I don't listen to,

1243
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 3: but they have a subreddit that I like some of

1244
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 3: the posts because it's all about I think it's about

1245
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 3: It's a podcast about diet culture and making fun of

1246
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 3: it and like poking holes on it, which I love.

1247
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 3: So I guess the the podcast is called Maintenance Phase.

1248
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 3: If anyone listens to it, let me know why I

1249
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 3: should listen to it and steer me into some episodes.

1250
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 3: But I for some reason, I like their subreddit. So

1251
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 3: I liked this question, which anti fat media hurt your soul?

1252
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 3: As a fat as a kid slash teenager, do you

1253
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 3: guys remember any specific things you know that Jessica Simpson

1254
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 3: fat picked quote unquote fat picture, Like, are there any

1255
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 3: things that stand out to you as a teenager, and Brian,

1256
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 3: this could be like for like male you know, uh,

1257
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 3: the like the ideal male body, like an Abercrombie bag

1258
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 3: or something, you know what I mean, Like where you

1259
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 3: just cemented in your head like, oh, this was a

1260
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 3: formative moment and now I need to be that.

1261
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 4: Shaking so many.

1262
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 2: Catalog And I was with China and we were probably sophomores,

1263
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 2: and we're looking at the Victoria's Secret catalog and there

1264
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 2: was Front's French chess, French sUAS.

1265
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 7: I forget her name. She's a famous model.

1266
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 2: She had like a cool angular jaw, and she was

1267
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 2: just beautiful and oddly in some heiny way, I looked

1268
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 2: a little bit like her. She looked a little slavic.

1269
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 2: She had like kind of droopy eyes like I do.

1270
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 2: And she had a curvier body like I did. China

1271
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 2: was very skinny and wiry, and as she was developing,

1272
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 2: her body was more like something Stephanie Seymour like looked like.

1273
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 2: So Stephanie Seymour, if you don't know, was a Victoria's

1274
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 2: Secret model, huge breasts and just ripped, just skinny and ripped.

1275
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 2: And that was China's body type. And I was leaning

1276
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 2: a little more toward Friensoise whatever her name was, and

1277
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 2: I was like looking in Victoria's Secret and China goes,

1278
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 2: she points out the one I was looking at, and

1279
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,920
Speaker 2: she goes, ugh, I'd kill myself with if that was

1280
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 2: my stomach, And I was like, if what was your stomach?

1281
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 2: And it was like my stomach was slowly developing into

1282
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 2: this curvier but beautif.

1283
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 6: Is a Victoria's Secret model, that she'd kill kill herself,

1284
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 6: They'd kill myself if that was my stomach. I'm guessing

1285
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 6: that she knew that you related to that one and

1286
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 6: was trying to be mean.

1287
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 2: Probably maybe sorry Chai if you're listening, but yeah, I

1288
00:59:59,280 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 2: was just.

1289
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 4: Like feeling that her brain was doing that to hurt

1290
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 4: your feelings.

1291
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 2: What are you?

1292
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 4: Probably jealous? Mine is immediately I'm a slave for you.

1293
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 3: Video Britney spears her stomach in that the lines going

1294
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 3: down it and just the way just her low slung

1295
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 3: pants and her perfect it's not even like a six pack,

1296
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 3: it would just look dehydrated, like a dehydrated stomach, and

1297
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 3: Brittany like pulling it all the way down. I'm not

1298
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 3: a girl, not yet a woman, her pulling it all

1299
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 3: the way down and then that little like on the back.

1300
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 4: I will never have it.

1301
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 3: The other day I saw a girl and I was like, oh,

1302
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 3: I love the way you're back and like goes into

1303
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 3: your butt and it like slopes like this like mine's

1304
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 3: always like like it has like it just goes straight

1305
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 3: down hers what like whoop, like you could skateboard on it.

1306
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 3: Oh like that little that part of your back that

1307
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 3: goes like that. Brittany had a perfect one, and then

1308
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 3: uh it could it definitely is like I definitely probably

1309
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 3: have more like caw see him build up because I

1310
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 3: don't sit properly and so I don't have that like

1311
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 3: centaur like bombs that comes off the back. And then

1312
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 3: I think Jennifer Aniston her definitely low slung, low rise

1313
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 3: jeans with crop tops and and her arms always looking

1314
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:22,720
Speaker 3: really really thin like.

1315
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 7: Giant.

1316
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 2: And then like someone messaging you like these are all

1317
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: things you were doing in your head you never heard

1318
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:35,919
Speaker 2: Like wasn't there a moment where someone or something said

1319
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 2: something and you're like, oh my.

1320
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 3: God, I see I was thinking more like things from

1321
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 3: culture like pop culture. No, mine were always I no

1322
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 3: one ever. One time some guy came up to me

1323
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 3: and said I had dumps like a truck or something,

1324
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 3: but he was talking about my thighs and he like,

1325
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 3: or no, he said I had thighs, like what. I'm

1326
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 3: sorry I did the wrong lyric He said I had thighs,

1327
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 3: like what? Because I was sitting on something and my

1328
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 3: thighs were like splayed out, you know, like your thighs

1329
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 3: look like a puddle of hell when you sit down,

1330
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 3: and every girl relates to this, and so I remember

1331
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 3: being like, oh my god, my thighs are like I

1332
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 3: have like thick thighs, and I like hated that.

1333
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 4: But no, I was pretty thin child.

1334
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 3: I was a pretty thin girl growing up, so I

1335
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 3: never worried about like looking I was. I never felt

1336
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 3: fat until I was fat. And then I remember just

1337
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 3: saying I wanted to kill myself, and all my friends

1338
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 3: being like, Jesus fucking Christ, Nikki, we.

1339
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 4: Just want to go to the mall. Put on a

1340
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 4: pair of jeans, and I was like, none of them fit.

1341
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 3: And I was in my dark room and I was

1342
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 3: on my bed screaming, crying, and they were all like,

1343
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 3: we're just gonna go, and I'm like, go because none

1344
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 3: of my fucking stupid express jeans fit because I had

1345
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 3: gained so much weight because I ate eighteen bowls of

1346
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 3: cereal every day after school. But then my most formative

1347
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:50,920
Speaker 3: I will say, I was eating so much cereal at

1348
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 3: this point in my life and just like eating constantly

1349
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 3: in high school. And my aunt Linn said I would

1350
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 3: never get a boyfriend and that I you. She told

1351
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 3: my parents, you can't let her eat like this. This

1352
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 3: is disgusting. No, no one should eat this much. She's

1353
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 3: never gonna get a boyfriend. And I didn't want a boyfriend.

1354
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 3: So I was like, gobble, gobble, like whatever keeps the

1355
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 3: boys away, Like I don't want to get a date,

1356
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 3: Like I hate boys, they're gross. I was, and so

1357
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 3: I I remember that, and but not It was mainly

1358
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 3: I just knew that my body didn't look like the

1359
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 3: things that everyone said was perfect, and so I deduced

1360
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 3: from that like I don't need someone to tell me

1361
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 3: I'm fat. I can see it when they go or oh,

1362
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 3: you know, the biggest part, the biggest thing, final thought.

1363
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 3: I think the biggest thing that every woman notices when

1364
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 3: she starts to feel like her body isn't enough is

1365
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 3: that you see someone with a better body than you

1366
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 3: talking shit about their body and then you go, Okay, well,

1367
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 3: then clearly I'm a fucking trash bag.

1368
01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 4: Uh you know, slot pig, like that's what I am.

1369
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 4: Mine was my mom.

1370
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 3: She was so much smaller than me, and she would

1371
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 3: say she was fat, and so I would go, Mom,

1372
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 3: then what am I? And she go it looks different

1373
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 3: on you, you know, like that bullshit. So it's like

1374
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 3: she didn't mean to. My mom just had a bad

1375
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:15,560
Speaker 3: self esteem when it came to come to her body.

1376
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 3: She didn't have any like she just grew up in

1377
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 3: diet culture came and as a child. Yeah, she there

1378
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 3: was no she was not gonna help me out in

1379
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 3: that regard by setting good the body examples she had.

1380
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 4: There's nothing she could have done.

1381
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 3: But it's mainly that where you yeah, you just hear

1382
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 3: someone else disparaging themselves and you go, well, I would

1383
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 3: kill to look like her, and she hates herself. So

1384
01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 3: I guess she would step in front of traffic if

1385
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 3: she looked like me. I should probably do the same. No,

1386
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 3: what do you remember any.

1387
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 6: Well, I guess just like looking at like the Delia's

1388
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 6: catalogs or like what was it like it was uh

1389
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 6: roxy or like silver something where it was just like

1390
01:04:56,600 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 6: these like really young, pretty like surfer girls. They were

1391
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,040
Speaker 6: like blonde, and they just always looked like so beautiful

1392
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 6: in like the glimmering sunlight. And I'm just like this

1393
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 6: pimply misshapen teenager.

1394
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 3: Yes, tiny little blonde surfer girls. That was the time

1395
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 3: of like Kate Bosworth. And even though one girl got

1396
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 3: her arm bitten off by a shark, I was like,

1397
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 3: I guess she's thinner than me.

1398
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 4: Now she weighs less. Now, never gonna have that s.

1399
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 6: I don't relate though, I don't relate non existent to

1400
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 6: having weight issues for me. I just always felt misshapen,

1401
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 6: like my my body was like irregular shaped. But it

1402
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 6: was never about.

1403
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 3: It was not about likes are fat or it's the

1404
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 3: same for you, Anya, Like it was more about the shape,

1405
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:49,440
Speaker 3: Like I wish this part of my body was a

1406
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 3: different shape.

1407
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like I wish I was taller. I wish

1408
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 2: my legs were longer. Why do I have these thick legs?

1409
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 2: And just bullshit, it's.

1410
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 4: All Well, I'll tell you.

1411
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 3: When I got anorexic, I had the perfect body like

1412
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 3: it was I am tall, I am slut. It looked

1413
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 3: I looked like a supermodel body wise, like I really

1414
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 3: like nailed it. Yeah, no, that's what I'm saying. Like,

1415
01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:13,560
Speaker 3: but I will say that I got the body I

1416
01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 3: wanted and was not happy. Yeah, and was skinnier than

1417
01:06:17,760 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 3: Jennifer Anison. I remember looking in catalogs and being like,

1418
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm thinner than fucking Jennifer Anison. Suck it, bitch,

1419
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 3: Like I have more self control than you. I hear

1420
01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 3: that you actually enjoy a tortilla chip every now and

1421
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 3: again with Brad at Casa Vega.

1422
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 4: I would never do that. I'm better than you that. Yeah,

1423
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 4: you remember that.

1424
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 3: I knew Anya would know that reference, but I but

1425
01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 3: I never relate to the shape thing because I guess

1426
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 3: mine was always just like, well, now I do like

1427
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 3: my my I hate that I don't have a butt

1428
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 3: or I don't have a and then my head looks

1429
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 3: like a cucumber is a new thing, but it's never

1430
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 3: go and it did in high school. And Kristen's laughing

1431
01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 3: again right now if she's listening to this, because she

1432
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:02,440
Speaker 3: knows that I looked like a tired, pale cucumber.

1433
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 2: So untrue.

1434
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 3: And so I want to try to find the picture

1435
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 3: of the original cucumber picture because no one could argue

1436
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 3: because I used to straighten my hair like Jennifernson with.

1437
01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:12,480
Speaker 4: An ironing board.

1438
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 3: With an iron on the ironing board and my dad's

1439
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 3: room in his dressing room, and he would come down

1440
01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 3: and say, it smells like burnt haired on your hair.

1441
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 4: It smells like the Holocaust. And I'd be like, are you.

1442
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 7: He would say that.

1443
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 3: I go, what, Why do you know what that smells like?

1444
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 3: Why are you right now? He's like, this is probably

1445
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 3: what it smelled like. I'm like, whoa, my I mean

1446
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 3: it kind of probably did.

1447
01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 5: For me.

1448
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 1: I was like I wanted my arms to be bigger.

1449
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 1: I wanted my legs to be bigger.

1450
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 5: But like I wasn't looking at other celebrities and stuff

1451
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 5: and getting sad. I think, I don't know if this

1452
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 5: is true for other young boys, but like I would

1453
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 5: when I would see like a strong guy, I'd be like, WHOA,

1454
01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 5: that is so cool. Look at that strong guy like

1455
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 5: a wrestler or like Goku and dragon ball Z. I

1456
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 5: wouldn't be like, I wish my arms were that big.

1457
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 5: I feel like a piece of ship. I'd be like

1458
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 5: whoa that guys.

1459
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 3: Whow we internalize it as like we're bad because we're

1460
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:18,559
Speaker 3: not that, and they be like, but it's not their fault,

1461
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 3: like who's doing this?

1462
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 6: Why are we like that? I think it's because we're smarter,

1463
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 6: because I think it's smart to go I honestly, this

1464
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 6: moves back to me being like I deserve to be

1465
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 6: depressed about something.

1466
01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:33,719
Speaker 3: I think women are smart. They go that girl's getting

1467
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 3: a lot of love for looking like that. If I

1468
01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 3: looked like that, I could get more love. I don't

1469
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 3: just go Wow, good for her, I go, well, how

1470
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 3: am I going to get that love? I want to

1471
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 3: find a way to to gather that kind ofating.

1472
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 5: The man in a more and more selfless individuals who

1473
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 5: are just celebrating another.

1474
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 4: Man's gonna like.

1475
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: Alpha dog. There's like an.

1476
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 5: Alpha dog mentality, like if someone big, it's like, oh shit, yo,

1477
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 5: this guy is awesome.

1478
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 3: Right, that's so it's sweet. I'm not I don't mean

1479
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 3: it's dumb. I don't think men are stupid. I really don't.

1480
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 3: Please don't take me as like a feminist who's like

1481
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 3: all men are fucking dumb cavemen. But I do think

1482
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:20,680
Speaker 3: there's something different about that where a man can just

1483
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 3: like admire a woman or a man's body and go,

1484
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 3: that's good for him, like cool, and a woman goes,

1485
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 3: I hate her because I want to be her, and

1486
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 3: because I'm not her, I don't deserve to be alive.

1487
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 4: At least that's where I go with it. Listener, you

1488
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 4: might be like, I can do that, but.

1489
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 7: To compete, You're right, like it is smart. I like

1490
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 7: that spin, but it's true.

1491
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 2: We have to be the best, the prettiest, like they

1492
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 2: pit us against each other at a very early age.

1493
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:49,960
Speaker 7: Your your competion to try to be the prettiest.

1494
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,720
Speaker 3: We need men to want to put semen in us

1495
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 3: so we make more things. So subconsciously we're trying to

1496
01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 3: make more of our species. Whereas men back in the day, sorry,

1497
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 3: back in the day, like cavemn days, you just rape us.

1498
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:06,880
Speaker 3: You didn't need us to like actually be attracted to you.

1499
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:10,639
Speaker 3: We needed you to be attracted to intention. We needed

1500
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:13,800
Speaker 3: guys to want to fuck us. Guys didn't need us

1501
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 3: to want to fuck you because it wasn't an option.

1502
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 6: We couldn't go like you wouldn't it adapt more to

1503
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 6: today's standards since like you know, like rape obviously is

1504
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 6: like not good and men cannot waituh, live in society

1505
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 6: on No you disagree, No, no.

1506
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 4: No, I think you're right. I don't think we've caught

1507
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 4: up yet.

1508
01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:33,679
Speaker 6: I see what you're saying, Like yes, Like I wonder

1509
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 6: why men don't have more of that like emotional response.

1510
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 4: I just think I think now they do. I think

1511
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 4: it's starting.

1512
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 3: Like I definitely know that my boyfriend is in admiration,

1513
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 3: but he admires people's hairlines, but he doesn't seem to

1514
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 3: hate himself for not having the hairline that he wants.

1515
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, it'd be nice, And I know that

1516
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 3: he's like thinking about stuff, but he's not like I

1517
01:10:57,280 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 3: don't deserve Nikki because my hairline is not good, Whereas

1518
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 3: when I am not feeling my best, I'm like, I

1519
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 3: don't deserve your attention or love. You should go find

1520
01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 3: someone else that's more attractive. That's where my mind goes, well,

1521
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:11,440
Speaker 3: I'm unlovable.

1522
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 5: Just to defend the cave men, they yes, like they

1523
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 5: have to worry about their bodies too, because they had

1524
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:18,800
Speaker 5: to be big and strong so that they could a

1525
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 5: rape and then also defend themselves like the other men

1526
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 5: who would try to stop them from raping the women

1527
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 5: that they wanted to rape or that.

1528
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 6: They they were like, I want to rape her, you

1529
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 6: get off of her, and so they have to pull

1530
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 6: off the.

1531
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:34,559
Speaker 5: Right how I look, it's about being strong and big

1532
01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 5: so that you can be all these guys who are

1533
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 5: trying to guys.

1534
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: They don't that makes sense, don't.

1535
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:43,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, why don't they hate themselves for it?

1536
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:47,639
Speaker 3: Because that would actually hurt your species if you hated yourself,

1537
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 3: But they would.

1538
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:51,720
Speaker 6: We do it. It goes back to what Anya was

1539
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 6: saying about the podcast you were listening to, and how

1540
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 6: just like men handle their emotions differently, so they just

1541
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:00,120
Speaker 6: go to that.

1542
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 2: I think probably raised in all the messaging we've gotten

1543
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 2: ever since we're just tiny little girls. They're telling us

1544
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 2: you're gonna be a mommy someday.

1545
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:09,719
Speaker 4: Oh you're so pretty.

1546
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:10,680
Speaker 7: Here's a little dolly be.

1547
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:12,560
Speaker 2: A mommy to that, and so you're like, Okay, I

1548
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 2: have to do this thing, and I have to be

1549
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 2: pretty and like.

1550
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 3: To have g I Joe toys and he Man and

1551
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:21,840
Speaker 3: they see muscle bound things and superheroes.

1552
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:23,680
Speaker 4: Why aren't they? Why don't they?

1553
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 7: They're not allowed to.

1554
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 2: Cry, and that's what they have to triumph over, and

1555
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,560
Speaker 2: we aren't allowed to love ourselves and that's what we

1556
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:31,559
Speaker 2: have to triumph over.

1557
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I have a he man. I have a Yes,

1558
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 5: I had a he man. I had you know what, though,

1559
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 5: I had a he man. I had a wrestler's all

1560
01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 5: big muscle bound guys. I had Goku and Gohan from

1561
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 5: Dragon ball Z. But then I also had like Luke Skywalker,

1562
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 5: who was like, had no muscles at all, and although

1563
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:51,679
Speaker 5: he didn't get laid in Star Wars, so maybe that's.

1564
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:52,800
Speaker 1: Okay, you're a he man.

1565
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: Really, Princess Leah.

1566
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 4: Prince Leyah wanted to her.

1567
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 1: Did I want to have sex with Princess Leah?

1568
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 5: No?

1569
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 2: Did you want Luke to? No?

1570
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 5: No?

1571
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 6: No?

1572
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 5: But I mean once I found out that their brother

1573
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 5: and sister, I certainly was like, well that's not what wasn't.

1574
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 1: Trilogy?

1575
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 6: Wait they are.

1576
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:18,600
Speaker 4: I didn't know.

1577
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 6: I know that he's his father or whatever, like Darth

1578
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 6: is his father, but I didn't know that they were.

1579
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, the whole movie looks like I want to fuck

1580
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 5: my sister, and then then it's like.

1581
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 1: He's attracted.

1582
01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:34,639
Speaker 4: Did he know it's his sister?

1583
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:36,639
Speaker 5: No, well, at first he doesn't know he's his sister.

1584
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:40,679
Speaker 5: But the whole trilogy, it's like, damn she's fucking hot.

1585
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 5: I want to fuck herself bad. And then at the

1586
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 5: end of the movie it's like, by the way, I'm

1587
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:46,559
Speaker 5: your sister, and he's.

1588
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,639
Speaker 1: Like, oh, the whole ship. Never mind all those things.

1589
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 3: I say, it's not that weird because I think most

1590
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 3: men who have a hot sister, if it wasn't their sister,

1591
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 3: they'd be like, I'm attracted to that girl if they

1592
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 3: were like separated at birth. I mean, yes, the only

1593
01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 3: reason you go, I don't want to fuck this person

1594
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,719
Speaker 3: is because of like the context. If there's no context

1595
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:04,599
Speaker 3: for brother or sister.

1596
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:06,040
Speaker 6: Of course, I don't know.

1597
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 5: I think if you think so much God for a

1598
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:12,719
Speaker 5: trilogy like that's like five years just hearing some information,

1599
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 5: you're not going to all of a sudden be like, oh,

1600
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 5: you're not hot at all anymore.

1601
01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 3: It is funny when you like see someone with a

1602
01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 3: hot sister and you're like, I know you want to

1603
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 3: you would want to fuck her, Like there's just no way, Like,

1604
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:24,560
Speaker 3: based on all the women you're attracted to, there's just

1605
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 3: no way you wouldn't want to fuck that person that

1606
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 3: is looks like all the girls that.

1607
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:29,800
Speaker 2: You go for.

1608
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:33,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's just no way. So you're busted and blasted.

1609
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:35,599
Speaker 4: I want to fuck my sister.

1610
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 3: If I was a boy, I would one hundred percent

1611
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 3: go my sister's fuckable. I would not deny it. My

1612
01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 3: sister is fuckable. She's very hot. I even say my

1613
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 3: dad is a very attractive man if he was a

1614
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:47,560
Speaker 3: single man, and I'd be like, Oh, that guy's a

1615
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 3: handsome guy.

1616
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to fuck my dad.

1617
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:51,840
Speaker 3: But like I can acknowledge when someone is fuckable to

1618
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 3: other people without being like I want to Yeah.

1619
01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well then if you'd go into it knowing that

1620
01:14:57,040 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 5: it's a family member and you can just acknowledge that

1621
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 5: they're in a track person, but you didn't have those

1622
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:03,240
Speaker 5: years of being like I want.

1623
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:04,000
Speaker 1: To fuck this person.

1624
01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that would be hard hard to switch.

1625
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:08,559
Speaker 1: It would take at least a few scenes.

1626
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:11,880
Speaker 2: It was like.

1627
01:15:13,560 --> 01:15:14,680
Speaker 1: That cuts his own dick off.

1628
01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 2: Basically, it's supposed to make you run if you get

1629
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:18,600
Speaker 2: around their pheromones.

1630
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's true.

1631
01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 3: Like if someone's pheromones make you go like, oh god,

1632
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 3: their body smells, I always think like, oh, that means

1633
01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 3: we're probably related or something. Or our baby would have

1634
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 3: like an arm coming out of its head, and so

1635
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 3: that's my body being like, don't fuck this person. Oh yeah,

1636
01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 3: have two chromosomes that would match. Speaking of chromosomes, I

1637
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 3: have been listening to podcasts about down syn drum people.

1638
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:46,080
Speaker 4: I'm obsessed. I've learned so much about them and I

1639
01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 4: want to talk about it more.

1640
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 3: And if you are the parent of a down syndrome kid,

1641
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:51,800
Speaker 3: I really want to know what your experience is like.

1642
01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 3: So please write me about that and tell me the

1643
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:57,560
Speaker 3: hardships and like the good ships, because I kind of

1644
01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 3: am thinking I might someday adopt someone without syndrome. I'm

1645
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 3: kind of love down syndrome people, and maybe that's me

1646
01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:05,760
Speaker 3: making them like they're a pet or something, but it's not.

1647
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 3: I just if I got to choose what kind of

1648
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 3: kid I want, I think i'd want that kind of kid.

1649
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:14,680
Speaker 3: I think they're awesome. So yeah, I've listened to this

1650
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 3: uh oh, what is it? Stuff you should Know podcast

1651
01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:20,640
Speaker 3: about down center people and they even say it on

1652
01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 3: that they're like buy and like, we're not saying all

1653
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:26,320
Speaker 3: down cinder people are like really nice and always in

1654
01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 3: a good mood, but we have yet to meet one

1655
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:32,320
Speaker 3: in our whole life experience that isn't So we're not

1656
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 3: saying that it's all but please, they're even asking is

1657
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,600
Speaker 3: there any example of someone with Down syndrome who's like

1658
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:42,840
Speaker 3: a Karen, you know, like, but maybe there are.

1659
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:44,040
Speaker 4: I just want examples.

1660
01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 3: So that's my I want to I want people and

1661
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 3: maybe and if you think that what I'm saying is

1662
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 3: disgusting and I'm treating them like they're a pet or

1663
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 3: something like I'm gonna get one, you can also tell

1664
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:56,320
Speaker 3: me that and I'll shut my trap and do better.

1665
01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:58,639
Speaker 6: But okay, so that's it for the podcast this week.

1666
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,439
Speaker 3: Thank you for listening. Come see me on tour. Watch

1667
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:05,679
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1668
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,120
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1669
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:11,040
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1670
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:14,080
Speaker 3: so you can just watch some random episodes. It's it's

1671
01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 3: airing in order, but I think it's like more than

1672
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 3: halfway through the season at this point on the CW.

1673
01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 3: Everyone has it if you have cable and season three

1674
01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 3: starts October twelfth, and my tour starts September fifteenth. Go

1675
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 3: check out all the tour dates at Nicki klazer dot com.

1676
01:17:27,000 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 3: I would love best Sieeson the audience. Thank you so

1677
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 3: much for listening.

1678
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:30,680
Speaker 6: Don't be coo and

1679
01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 4: Just save the bees.