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Speaker 1: Let's do the morning hack. So this is very interesting

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Speaker 1: for parents. I've been talking about this this morning. If

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Speaker 1: you're a parent, what do you ask your kids when

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Speaker 1: they get home from school? This is what you want

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Speaker 1: to ask them. A lot of parents will ask them,

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Speaker 1: how is your day? But your response is usually good

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Speaker 1: or fine? Right, So you need to ask the question,

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Speaker 1: the specific question, what did you do at recess? Do

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Speaker 1: you ever asked that question?

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Speaker 2: I actually do ask this question because recess is where

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Speaker 2: it all goes down.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing. So moms on TikTok have been

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Speaker 1: sharing what they discovered when they asked what did you

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Speaker 1: do at recess? One kid was running a bracelet business?

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Speaker 3: Cute?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. Yeah. Maybe what one was

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Speaker 1: giving temporary tattoos in the bathroom, Oh my gosh. Not

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Speaker 1: as cute, not as cute. That you can also find

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Speaker 1: out who they were spending time with and if they're

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Speaker 1: having any trouble with anybody. So it's a it's good.

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Speaker 1: It's good to be to have specificity in that kind

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Speaker 1: of question, what did you do at recess? Instead of

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Speaker 1: just what you do all day at school?

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Speaker 2: You get the tea as to what friends are either

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Speaker 2: seeing something mean or not.

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Speaker 1: And you'll remember my mom asking me that, and it's

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Speaker 1: like so much happened. Everything was fine, you know, like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I would like, how was your day?

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Speaker 2: It was fine.

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Speaker 1: But if someone said to me, how is this seven

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Speaker 1: o eight chat with assistanting Tia, I would look back

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Speaker 1: and say, you know what, I don't know. Let me

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Speaker 1: think about that for a second. I loved it.

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Speaker 2: Let me look at my prep.

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Speaker 1: Let me go back and look at my pres and

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Speaker 1: see what we talked about. Because that this time I

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Speaker 1: cannot remember today's quote. You're ready to frame it up

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Speaker 1: on a Tuesday. Yeah, failed dreams can still create successful people.

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Speaker 3: Say it again, you say it, Failed dreams can still

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Speaker 3: create successful people.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 2: Everyone should say that five times this morning can

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Speaker 1: Still great successful people