WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Greek Meat

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to it. We got a brand new episode

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<v Speaker 1>for you today. Happy Monday. Oh yeah, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>great weekend. And sorry if you're a fan of Argentina.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, so good. That is the end of your

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<v Speaker 1>sports commentary on this podcast. I hope you enjoyed it

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<v Speaker 1>past for one weekend. Yep, you enjoyed it. So now

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to get back to what we actually do well,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's I don't know they fixed dating people's lives,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know we're there when they do it. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's get to your brand new episode starts right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, second date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got a return listener today who you'll remember when

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<v Speaker 2>I say just two words, strawberry blowout, strawberry that memorable.

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<v Speaker 2>It's our old pal Clark, who last time we spoke

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<v Speaker 2>to him, he took a woman to a strawberry festival

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<v Speaker 2>where disaster struck multiple times thanks to a strawberry shortcake

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<v Speaker 2>stand that first ran out of berries, yes, then ran

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<v Speaker 2>out of whipped creams.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember where strawberry blowout came from, but I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a lot worse place than you saw.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that was happening. Meanwhile, his roombo was texting

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<v Speaker 2>him that was stuck and needed help, and all that

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<v Speaker 2>led to basically no second date. But Clark isn't a

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<v Speaker 2>guy who quits. Oh that's why he's back today with

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<v Speaker 2>a new woman and a new type of blowout that

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to learn about soon. Clark, it's good to

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<v Speaker 2>hear from you again, man, welcome back.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I appreciate it. I'm not kind of seemed to

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<v Speaker 3>be a swing and I miss here. But yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>glad you can help me out.

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, Clark, you are so wholesome.

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<v Speaker 2>In a good way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure. I'm excited to hear about who you

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<v Speaker 1>met this time.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye know, who's the new woman in your life?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so I had been dating bumble. I got off

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<v Speaker 3>that and I decided to try Tinder and I met

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<v Speaker 3>Maria on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa leveling up? Bro, Good job.

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<v Speaker 3>I know what you're gonna say, but I really I

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<v Speaker 3>stopped so I watch a hookup app anymore every.

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<v Speaker 1>Bio I see it's like not here for hookups. When

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<v Speaker 1>people say that, is it the same as saying I'd

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<v Speaker 1>never do this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably at I mean, that's not what you're there for

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<v Speaker 1>Clark and you said you met Maria.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I met Maria on there. And really where

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<v Speaker 3>we got connecting was that I talk about in my

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<v Speaker 3>profile that one of the things I like to do

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<v Speaker 3>as a hobby is cook meals from different countries that

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<v Speaker 3>I might be kind of fun or difficult. That's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Cuisines, okay, And it's even more fun if you get

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<v Speaker 1>to go to like the cool grocery stores the feature

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<v Speaker 1>that type of food.

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<v Speaker 2>What type of foreign cuisine? Did you bond with Maria.

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<v Speaker 3>Over so Greek food?

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<v Speaker 1>Nice?

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<v Speaker 3>I was just learning how to make the Gyro meat

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<v Speaker 3>and all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna label this one the Gyro blowout.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you invite her over to your house?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I joked with her. I said, hey, well let's

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<v Speaker 3>go out for Greek food and if it goes well,

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<v Speaker 3>then we've got two big dates planned.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>The second one would be I'll cook for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Out for Greek and then you'll cook Greek.

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<v Speaker 1>And I bet what's nice is if she's truly looking

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<v Speaker 1>for something more serious, it's nice to hear that from

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<v Speaker 1>a guy, right that you are already thinking ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I hope, So, yeah, are you sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Because when most people talk about a Greek meat on Tinder,

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<v Speaker 2>it means something totally different. Some like bath houses are involved.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh a little span of Copada, trust me.

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<v Speaker 3>Like as far as the Greek meat, we didn't go

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<v Speaker 3>down that road.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, tell us about your Greek meat. What

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<v Speaker 2>did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>We actually we went to kind of a more upscale place.

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<v Speaker 3>She just looks absolutely amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah yeah, it get specific, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>But no comment on that. She just looked really great

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<v Speaker 3>and we immediately just started talking and really cool right away.

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<v Speaker 3>Then a friend of mine and his fiance come into

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<v Speaker 3>the restaurant, and he's a really good friend of mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I was kind of excited to see them, so we were,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we were getting toward the end of our meal,

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<v Speaker 3>so I didn't think it would be a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like, hey, do you mind if they just

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<v Speaker 3>sit with us for a little while. And she was

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<v Speaker 3>totally cool with that.

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<v Speaker 2>The way Alexis reacted to that, that makes me feel

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<v Speaker 2>like she isn't cool with it. What do you think alexis?

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<v Speaker 2>Inviting someone to join your date? Is that a bad move?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess it depends how your friends are.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they're really cool and fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Why why do you read it? Ask?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just more you're stuck having a small talk with

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<v Speaker 1>two new people now instead of just your date.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, it ended up going a little better than I

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<v Speaker 3>thought it would.

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<v Speaker 4>Like.

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<v Speaker 3>The chit chat was good. Everybody was getting along. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>now we get to the issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh there was an issue.

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<v Speaker 3>She gets up, Yeah, and she goes to use the

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<v Speaker 3>restroom and when she gets back, there's a waiter who

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<v Speaker 3>comes up and starts hitting on her. And he was

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<v Speaker 3>not our waiter.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so rude. Yeah, how do you know he

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<v Speaker 1>was hitting on her? What was he saying?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I couldn't hear exactly what he was saying

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<v Speaker 3>because I was kind of caught up in conversation, but

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<v Speaker 3>I could see it out of the corner of my eye.

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<v Speaker 2>Body language.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh they just started making out.

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<v Speaker 4>Bill.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, I mean, you know, the way people smile

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<v Speaker 3>at you, or how they get a little too close

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<v Speaker 3>if they want to talk or something, and I'm like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 3>not cool, this is not going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, what did you do.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember exactly what I said, but I was

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<v Speaker 3>just like, hey man, we're together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so you were kind of rude to the waiter.

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<v Speaker 3>Now my waiter, somebody else's waiter, to anybody is in a.

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<v Speaker 1>Great interrupting her, like talking on her behalf, Like she

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<v Speaker 1>can't say it herself to the waiter, let's have to

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<v Speaker 1>step up and do it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, the thing is, I could tell by the

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<v Speaker 3>look on her face she didn't know what to say

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<v Speaker 3>because this guy totally ambushed her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so if she appreciated your help, did she thank you? Afterwards?

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<v Speaker 3>So we get outside and I told her, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so sorry that happened. But hey, I said, next weekend

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<v Speaker 3>when I cooked for you, you know, no one's going

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<v Speaker 3>to hit on you but me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is that supposed to be like a funny comment.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah yeah. But the weird part was she was

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<v Speaker 3>just looking down at the ground, not saying anything. And

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<v Speaker 3>then she leaves and now doesn't respond to my messages.

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<v Speaker 1>So either she was still freaked out about the waiter incident,

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<v Speaker 1>or she was freaked out about your response to it something.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, you're probably right, but I hope she knows.

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<v Speaker 3>All I was trying to do was stand up for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, yeah, but it could also come off as jealous

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<v Speaker 1>on your part. Yeah, Somemer's like the guy who's like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Some are like that's red flag. What does it seem like?

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<v Speaker 2>The strawberry blowout was a much easier situation really, But

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<v Speaker 2>now we're going to have to put the Gyro blowout

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<v Speaker 2>back together when we come back and call Maria and

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<v Speaker 2>figure out what really happened at this Greek restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like Greek meat better than Gyro. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to give it a nickname.

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<v Speaker 2>The Gyro Blowout. Park tears coming up with your second

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<v Speaker 2>date right after.

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<v Speaker 1>This, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Is being rude to a waiter? Okay if it's not

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<v Speaker 2>your waiter. Well, our listener Clark, who's back with us

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<v Speaker 2>again after his strawberry festibacle, says he doesn't think he

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<v Speaker 2>was being rude at all when they were at a

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<v Speaker 2>Greek restaurant because his date was coming back from the

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<v Speaker 2>restroom when a waiter from a totally different section of

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<v Speaker 2>the place approached her and, according to Clark, was clearly

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<v Speaker 2>given off flirty vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, he couldn't hear what was being said.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but the vibes seemed flirtatious enough, and she didn't

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<v Speaker 2>seem to know what to say, so Clark chimed in

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<v Speaker 2>something like, hey, dian Ysis, she's with me, back off

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<v Speaker 2>something along.

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<v Speaker 1>New York Italian accent, that you have happening in the

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<v Speaker 1>Boston thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Good job, Brock, Yes, mailed it perfectly Italian Boston perfect Now. No,

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<v Speaker 2>Clark doesn't remember exactly what he said, but afterwards the

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<v Speaker 2>vibe definitely changed, where he didn't get a hug and

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<v Speaker 2>now is not getting a call back, and he thinks

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<v Speaker 2>it might be that random waiter's fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything was going so great before that. I mean, Clark,

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<v Speaker 1>have you heard from her at all? Or it's been

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<v Speaker 1>total silence, total silence?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's not great. Or she's playing super duper duper

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<v Speaker 2>hard to get.

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<v Speaker 1>And either way she's on a date with that waiter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I would be bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be the worst case scenario. Let's find out

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<v Speaker 2>what it really is. We're gonna call Maria here. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>see if she answers and hopefully can clear things up

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<v Speaker 2>for us.

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<v Speaker 3>Clark you ready, Yeah, I'm ready. I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 3>want some answers. I hope this was just a misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, i'd be simple.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, plus you've already said that you want to

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<v Speaker 2>cook her a meal, You've already made it, and that

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<v Speaker 2>greek meat is going to go bad if we can't

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<v Speaker 2>get you a second date here.

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<v Speaker 1>So what sour greek meat? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking we could even make sizzle sound effects.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, but be careful, any like food noises is

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<v Speaker 2>going to get brooked. Totally off of her game.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally excited about something else exactly where.

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<v Speaker 2>We just need to focus on the facts here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call Maria.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you've done. This is your Okay, let's just

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<v Speaker 2>talk on Maria. Hopefully she answers and has an explanation.

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<v Speaker 2>But here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak

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<v Speaker 2>with Maria. This is huh Hey Maria, thank you for answering.

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<v Speaker 2>We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Maria.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, oh hi, Hi guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You do so lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>The way that you say hi, very lovely. So what

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<v Speaker 2>is it about? This is about a segment we do

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<v Speaker 2>call the Second Date Update where we try to help

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<v Speaker 2>out listeners. If you've gone out with someone and you're

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<v Speaker 2>not getting a call back, you can reach out to

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<v Speaker 2>our show and we'll get a hold of them to

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<v Speaker 2>see if they're a reason why.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, okay, exciting, right, maybe possibly see I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you've been on some dates recently, probably

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<v Speaker 2>one with a guy named Clark.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I remember that date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, get date. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>We heard about you and Clark going to the Greek restaurant,

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<v Speaker 2>and we understand according to Clark, there was a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of an awkward interaction there, but we'd really like

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<v Speaker 2>to hear your side of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, he didn't mention how he was so rude to

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<v Speaker 4>the waiter.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's an awkward Yeah, we we heard about that,

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<v Speaker 2>but it seemed like he felt a little justified in

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<v Speaker 2>his actions.

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<v Speaker 4>So oh no, there was no justifying. Basically, what happened

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<v Speaker 4>was I got up from my seat because I had

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<v Speaker 4>to use the restroom, and when I was coming back

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<v Speaker 4>from the bathroom, our waitress stopped me and she was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm leaving for the day, but I'm going to have

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<v Speaker 4>my coworker come. His name was I think it was.

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<v Speaker 4>His name was like Nate. Nate was gonna come, and

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<v Speaker 4>like Servius.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that makes sense too, because it sounds like your

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<v Speaker 1>time got extended because the friend showed up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, exactly. So Nate comes over and he asked

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<v Speaker 4>me if I would like another glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, that's all he said. He was asking for your order.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>He was like smiled at me, and he was just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, he introduced himself, and that's when Dark and

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<v Speaker 4>his big mouth went over and said.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, if you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Gonna flirt with my girlfriend, at least fill my glass.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh say those words girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh sorry, no, not girlfriend, but he was like, basically,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're gonna flat with my girl, my gosh, it's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, really appalled.

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<v Speaker 2>I totally am with you there. But in Clark's defense,

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<v Speaker 2>he did not know that was your waiter.

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<v Speaker 4>But even if it's not our waiter, like, you don't

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<v Speaker 4>disrespect someone.

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<v Speaker 3>And be rude.

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<v Speaker 2>But according to Clark, he was being rude by coming

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<v Speaker 2>over randomly in his eyes and trying to make a

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<v Speaker 2>move on you.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like, why didn't Clark come over and say, hey, Maria,

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<v Speaker 1>is everything okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right, sod needs to know how to communicate.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But in defenseive communication, why didn't you tell him

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<v Speaker 1>even if his friends were there? Why didn't you just

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<v Speaker 1>quickly say, hey, this is our waiter. Yeah, he's just

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<v Speaker 1>getting my glass of wine, like chill out.

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<v Speaker 2>That could have cleared everything over you.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean could be honest, this is the first time

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<v Speaker 4>I'm meeting his friends. They're all in like a huge conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>It also like just the way he spoke to the waiter,

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<v Speaker 4>it just threw me off, and so I just got quiet.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know what to really say in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>That is going to be embarrassing to hear what the

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<v Speaker 1>waiter was actually saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay. So this is definitely a new layer of

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<v Speaker 2>the story that we hadn't heard before, and certainly Clark

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know because he's on the other line listening to

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<v Speaker 2>this right now, probably hearing all this for the very

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<v Speaker 2>first time.

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't you tell me that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, no, it was just I got confused for

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<v Speaker 2>a second, and I didn't know what to say in

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<v Speaker 2>the moment. I mean, I don't my friends are here

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't want to embarrass them in front of everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>So just, you know, I let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think this is something that Clark needs

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<v Speaker 1>to hear, So I know, I think you're maybe doing

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<v Speaker 1>him a favor, Clark.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you there? Yeah? Okay, listen, Maria. First of all,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know that guy was our waiter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we start with I'm sorry. Yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>You jumped to conclusions automatically, Like, are you one of

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<v Speaker 4>those guys that like, anytime somebody talks to me, it's

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<v Speaker 4>all automatically. Oh, the guy's flirting because I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to deal with that, like, which you grown for this?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, But you gotta be honest. I mean, this guy

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<v Speaker 3>was being overly friendly with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Overally friendly.

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<v Speaker 4>How he asked me if I wanted another glass of wine?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, in Brooks world, another glass of wine is pretty flirtatio.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Clark, is it that the waiter was really hot?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that where your insecurities are coming out?

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's the way he did it, Like he smiled

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<v Speaker 3>and leaned in and smelled her hair and.

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<v Speaker 4>He did not smell my hair. I mean, Clark, it

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<v Speaker 4>seems like you're one of those type of guys that

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<v Speaker 4>get really jealous. Maybe you're insecure and maybe you have

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<v Speaker 4>to fix that before you go on other dates.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're one of those girls. I'll flirt with any

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<v Speaker 3>dude who comes up to me.

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<v Speaker 4>No, obviously you don't know what that type of girl is,

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<v Speaker 4>because you're getting the whole thing wrong. The story is

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<v Speaker 4>that he literally asked me for a glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 4>There was no flirting. He smiled.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, anybody that smiles that much is either trying to

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<v Speaker 3>sell you a car or get your phone number.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh my god, I mean he does have a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of a point. A smile really disarms me.

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<v Speaker 1>At the car, you think someone smiling at you is

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<v Speaker 1>someone hitting on you.

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<v Speaker 2>I bought so many cars I didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Buy that, but I actually believe, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's a little bit of an overreaction.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, Clark, you're embarrassed right now, and you're having

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<v Speaker 1>a hard time just admitting you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>I know what I saw, okay, but you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know what you heard. You don't know who the

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<v Speaker 1>guy actually was, You don't know anything else about the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>She's absolutely right. I mean, I deserve an apology. The

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<v Speaker 4>waiter deserves an apology, and even a tip.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you didn't, wait, you didn't, you didn't tip.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember what I tipped, but I know I

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<v Speaker 3>tipped something.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I tipped something. It means very very little.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, I don't have to explain anything to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, he doesn't. Brook tips much less than that,

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<v Speaker 2>but I do not.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do hit on waiters.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, the whole goal of this segment, Marie, is to

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<v Speaker 2>try to get you and Clark out on another date.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm obligated to ask would you like to see

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<v Speaker 2>him again one more time? And if you would, we

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<v Speaker 2>would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not see jeff You asked with too much of

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<v Speaker 1>a smile on your face, so it felt like you

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<v Speaker 1>were hitting on her. I'm not gonna like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's kind of my way.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fine. I mean, you guys obviously already know I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have a lot of luck with the lady.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, maybe maybe we go back and re listen

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<v Speaker 1>to this and learn something from it, Clark, that.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds boring as hell. Truth is, I don't listen to

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<v Speaker 3>any of your guys.

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<v Speaker 2>The Gyro blowout has officially blown up Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning. Wouldn't it be amazing if we did

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<v Speaker 2>an update update on this and found out she actually

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<v Speaker 2>went back to the restaurant to apologize to the waiter

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<v Speaker 2>and actually gave him her number for real and now

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<v Speaker 2>they're happily dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you're very creative. I mean, just like

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<v Speaker 1>he did.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the kind of karma that Clark probably deserves

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<v Speaker 2>in that situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Is if Clark jumped to that conclusion, it means the

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<v Speaker 1>waiter was hot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's I'll be honest, nobody jumps to that conclusion when

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<v Speaker 1>an ugo is talking to somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, so props to that waiter for being extremely

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<v Speaker 2>good looking and sing. Jeff we appreciate that. And let's

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<v Speaker 2>just say, you know what, if you're feeling insecure, don't

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<v Speaker 2>take it out on the waiters of the world. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not fair. It's fine if you want to do it

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<v Speaker 2>to plumbers or dentists or even radio hosts, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll sign off on that, just not waiters. Anyway, email

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<v Speaker 2>the show if you ever need help with your love life.

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<v Speaker 2>We can call that person who isn't calling you back

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<v Speaker 2>and go check out all of our second date updates online.

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<v Speaker 2>Leave a hateful comment if you want to. We won't mind.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind. I read It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning.