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Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM. 11 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: On iHeartRadio, we are back with Mitch Horowitz with his 12 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: latest book, of Course to the Miracle Club, How Thoughts 13 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,959 Speaker 1: Become Reality. Mitch tell us about the four important points 14 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 1: to start doing this we'll do. I've never talked about 15 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: these four points before, so this is kind of a 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 1: first time run exclusively for Coast listeners. Point number one, 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: when you wake up in the morning, you should make 18 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: it a practice every single day to make a gratitude list, 19 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: and you should be able to identify at least three 20 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: items that can go on your list. There are always 21 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: three things for which you can be grateful. Give us 22 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 1: an example morning. Oh, you could be grateful for health. 23 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: You could be grateful friends, you could be grateful for 24 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: any number of things that come to you. Number two, 25 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: you should take daily gratitude breaks during the day. We 26 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: take coffee breaks, we take stretch breaks. You should take 27 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: at least three gratitude breaks during the day, and you 28 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,639 Speaker 1: can take many more. It can be in between work, 29 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: it can be while you're in your car. It can 30 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: just be a few silent moments that you privately reflect 31 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: while you're in a meeting or something like that. Make 32 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: it a practice to take daily gratitude breaks. Find at 33 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: least three people. This is step number three. Find at 34 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: least three people every day to think, to appreciate, or 35 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: to encourage. And you should try to find three new people. 36 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: And it can be something as small as just complimenting 37 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: somebody on something or really going out of your way 38 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: to thank somebody for doing something for you. It's a 39 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: demonstration of appreciation that multiplies because when you model that behavior, 40 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: other people will repeat it. And finally, number four, at 41 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: least once at least once every day, whether morning, midday, 42 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: or night, you should pray in gratitude, pray and appreciation, 43 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: pray in things. So this is you know, it's a 44 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: very simple four point plan. Number one, your morning gratitude list. 45 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: Number two, gratitude breaks during the day. Number three, find 46 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: at least three people to express appreciation to over the 47 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: course of the day. And finally, number four, pray and 48 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: thanks at least once a day. It's a very simple program. 49 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: Everybody can do it, but it only works if you 50 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: really apply it and make it a practice seven days 51 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: a week. Once you do that, what happened. Once you 52 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 1: do that, you will see that you will feel nobler, 53 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,679 Speaker 1: You will feel better, You will engage in less gossip. 54 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 1: You will be the kind of person that people look 55 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: to as a leader. People will come to you asking advice. 56 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 1: You will stand taller, you will sleep better, you will 57 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: feel better, and you may be very, very surprised to 58 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 1: find that extraordinary things come into your life. You know, 59 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: terrible tragedies do strike us, and your segment and your 60 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: continuing segments on the California fires have been so important, 61 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: But in so far as catastrophes strike us, absurdly good 62 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: and wonderful things also come into our lives. Things that 63 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: depart from all expectation you will bring more of these 64 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: positive things into your life if you follow a program 65 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: like this one. Tell us about the title of the book, 66 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: The Miracle Club. I like that, Yeah, The Miracle Club 67 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: is a tribute to my heroes. Really, there was a 68 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: small group of New Yorkers. I live in Manhattan. There 69 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: was a small group of New Yorkers who gathered together 70 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: on the West side of Manhattan in the year eighteen 71 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: seventy five with the goal of exploring the paranormal, all 72 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: aspects of the unknown, the uses of the mind, questions 73 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: of esp questions of contacting the spirit world. And they 74 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: called themselves the Miracle Club. They were just a little 75 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: cluster of folks and they only hung together a short 76 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: period of time, but they formed the nucleus for a 77 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: much larger and more influential organization, the Theosophical Society, which 78 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 1: was hugely influential in ushering in the whole revolution in 79 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: alternative spirituality that has swept our world. But this little, 80 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: smaller group, the Miracle Club, they were very informal and 81 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: they had just one principle. You had to want to try, 82 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: you had to want to experiment, You had to just 83 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: want to ask the question what is out there? So 84 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: I wanted to rec capture that spirit of experimentation in 85 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: the book and offer people ideas as to how they 86 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: could use their own minds in a grown up but 87 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: also extraordinary way to try to test the limits and 88 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: the extent to which our thoughts shape our reality. You 89 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: believe that sleep and the ability to tap into all 90 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: kinds of powers like telepathy and ESP really back up 91 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: our strengths and powers of the mind. Oh, for real, 92 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,799 Speaker 1: for real, absolutely, In fact, I never go to sleep 93 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: at night without during that very relaxed period, those few 94 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: moments just before you drift off, without using affirmations or 95 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: visualizations or prayer. Those few moments just before you fall 96 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: asleep at night are a natural meditative state that we 97 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: all enter into, and sleeper searchers referred to it as 98 00:05:56,040 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: the hypnogogic state. It's an extraordinary state of mind that 99 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: can be seen as prime time for reprogramming your psyche, 100 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: for introducing suggestions to your subconscious and serious psychical researchers 101 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: have also found that it's prime time for episodes of 102 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: ESP and telepathic activity. It's a wonderful period of natural 103 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 1: relaxation when your rational defenses are down and your mind 104 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: is in a dreamlike state, but you still have control 105 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: over your own attention and your cognition. Use that period 106 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: of time just before you drift off to sleep to 107 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: affirm or to visualize something that you want in your life. 108 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: It's a remarkable period of time. Psychologically, you can reprogram 109 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:49,679 Speaker 1: your subconscious and also psychical researchers have found a spike 110 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: in incidence of esp and telepathy during this period of time. 111 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: It's a very creative period of time, and we all 112 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: enter this state, this basically relaxed state just before drifting 113 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 1: to sleep. Everybody naturally goes into it. So use it, 114 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: Use it, Mitch. Let's talk a little bit about the holidays, 115 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: of course, and depression. I've talked with our resident psychiatrist, 116 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: doctor Peter Breggan about that with his thoughts, Yeah, why 117 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: does it seem that people tend to get depressed more 118 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: during the holidays. I heard from some people in Saint 119 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: Louis that some young guy killed himself tonight because he 120 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: was depressed. It's just it's it's it's it's it's crazy. 121 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: Why does this happen? You know, it's interesting. I think 122 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: the holidays lay two forms of stress on us. One 123 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: form of stress that the holidays lay on us is 124 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: this excess of expectation that we're supposed to be surrounded 125 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: by revelry and love and relaxation. And the thing is, 126 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: you can't summon up these things on demand. You can't 127 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: order these things on demand. If you feel like sitting 128 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: around and watching football or binge watching horror movies like me, 129 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: you should be able to do that. You should give 130 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: yourself permission, You should give yourself approbation to do that. 131 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: You don't have to engage in conventional activities, and I 132 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: think people feel very forced and stressed and pulled to 133 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: participate in the conventional That's one part of it. The 134 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: other part of it is, quite frankly, people sometimes find 135 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: being around relatives, family, co workers, acquaintances incredibly stressful. They 136 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: feel tormented sometimes by people that they're supposed to be 137 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: closest to. And one of the things I write about 138 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: in the Miracle Club, and I tell you, George, this 139 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: can be one of the most powerful things in a 140 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: person's life. If you feel that you are around other 141 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: people who are bullying you, or being cruel to you, 142 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: or running you down, you can make the resolve to 143 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: separate from these people, and I mean separate and burn 144 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: your bridges behind you. And even if you are unable 145 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: to physically separate from someone, maybe for financial reasons or 146 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: other reasons, you can still make the internal resolve to 147 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: separate from that person within and at the first possible 148 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:21,719 Speaker 1: opportunity to separate physically. In fact, never give up the 149 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: principle that you are around everyone in your life by 150 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: your own consent. You control that that belongs to you. 151 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: That is one of the most basic aspects of life. 152 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: Whose company you choose to be in. And I always 153 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: tell people who get depressed or stressed around the holidays, 154 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: and it's a very cyclical thing that they must always 155 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: remember that they have this choice, this sacred choice, who 156 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: they're going to associate with. And if you're around people 157 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: who you feel devalue, you run you down. You can 158 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: cut those ties, or you can at least vow to 159 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: cut them at the first physical opportunity. It will introduce 160 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: an extraordinary feeling of agency and choice and purpose into 161 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: your life, and that really belongs to you. Why did 162 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: it seemed that the more you use your mind, the 163 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: more active you are, the more younger you appear and act. 164 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: Isn't that wild, But it happens. It absolutely happens. There 165 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: is a research psychologist at Harvard named Ellen Langer, and 166 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: one of the things she has been studying going back 167 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: to the nineteen eighties is that if you place elderly 168 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: people in settings that remind them of their youth, nostalgic 169 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: settings that evoke the music and the styles and the 170 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: news and the television shows of their youth. She has 171 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: actually tracked that physical symptoms of aging decline and improvements 172 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: occur in blood pressure, muscle mass, flexibility, and even eyesight. 173 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: There's also a great improvement in mood. The idea that 174 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: you can associate the mind with things that evoke feelings 175 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: of youth and vitality not only serves to lift the 176 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: mood and ease depression, but actually reverses the physical symptoms 177 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: of aging and Languor has been doing these studies at 178 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 1: this point for decades, and it's absolutely extraordinary. It upends 179 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: everything that we've been educated to believe, which is that 180 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: certain aspects of physical decline are inevitable and they're kind 181 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: of set in stone like a calendar that can't be voided. Well, 182 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: some of these things can be eased or reversed. It's 183 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: vitally important that individuals stay in touch with what made 184 00:11:54,520 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: them feel vital, alive, joyous when they were young. Don't 185 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: let go of those things. Those things actually have healing properties. 186 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: It's remarkable. Listen to more Coast to Coast AM every 187 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: weeknight at one a m. 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