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Speaker 1: All right, Colo, Chief Love Officer ce Harvey. You ready,

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Speaker 1: Let's go. This one is from Beanie in Nashville. Beanie says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old bachelor with no children.

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Speaker 1: I've been dating a little here and a little there,

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Speaker 1: but women seem to be in to what a man

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Speaker 1: can do for them financially, and they lose sight of

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Speaker 1: dating for the purpose of getting married. I had a

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Speaker 1: relationship for a year with a woman, and if I

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Speaker 1: wasn't showing out money for something for her, she was

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Speaker 1: pouting and saying I didn't care about her. I don't

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Speaker 1: have a lot of money to splurge like that, but

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Speaker 1: I don't mind taking care of my girlfriend and wife someday.

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Speaker 2: How can a regular man win like this?

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Speaker 3: Come on, Beanie, come on, question No, no, no, stop

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Speaker 3: crying dog stop. Come on, man, regular man win all

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Speaker 3: the time? How does a regular man win by being

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Speaker 3: an exceptional regular man? That's how you win. See, you'd

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Speaker 3: have bought into the band thing because you you you're

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Speaker 3: sitting up here and lying that to be the case.

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Speaker 4: What you gotta do. You gotta kill them with kindness.

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Speaker 3: You gotta be a better gentleman, be a bigger a bigger,

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Speaker 3: a bigger conversationalist. You gotta provide a lot of stuff

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Speaker 3: that women can't get from other dudes. Man, anybody can

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Speaker 3: buy somebody something that ain't the problem beingie.

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Speaker 4: Man, you know, you gotta.

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Speaker 3: Put some more work in relationships is work and you

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Speaker 3: gotta be a better You gotta your picker. Sound like

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Speaker 3: it could be off too now a little bit? What

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Speaker 3: you know your pick? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 3: Dog, why don't you get into some more conversations before

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Speaker 3: you get into your relationship? For you're gonna have to

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Speaker 3: buy somebody damn swimming pool. The yeah's already ain't got

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Speaker 3: that much money, that's what you said. So why don't

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Speaker 3: you get into some conversations before you get into the relationship.

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Speaker 4: That's your problem. You diving in.

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Speaker 3: Head first, whining and dying and taking people's tuf And

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Speaker 3: then how you start is how you finish.

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Speaker 4: You can't get it. You can't change horses in the

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Speaker 4: middle of the stream.

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Speaker 2: Dog, so out of his sleek are you saying?

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Speaker 4: Is he dating?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: No, No, you're supposed to Mary.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, you should marry up.

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Speaker 3: But dog, you got to come in here with some

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Speaker 3: you know, this is this is how I take care

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Speaker 3: of a woman. You won't this, oh, you won't that,

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Speaker 3: and she expects you to come in and buy her

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Speaker 3: a life. Then you know we got a little problem.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Cella.

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Speaker 1: Yes it is Paula, and Tampa says Paula and Tampa says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a fifty nine year old woman and I was

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Speaker 1: dating a seventy year old gentleman that my daughter introduced

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Speaker 1: me to. We hit it off and everything was fine,

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Speaker 1: but we've never had sex. He always says that there

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Speaker 1: was no rush. My daughters and I are very close,

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Speaker 1: and my youngest was in town, so I told her

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Speaker 1: about my new man. She said her older sister secretly

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Speaker 1: dated him and it was disgusting for her to hook

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Speaker 1: me up with him. My daughter denied it. He said

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Speaker 1: he begged my daughter to hook us up, and nothing

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Speaker 1: indecent happened with her. I don't know who to believe.

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Speaker 2: Why would my daughter lie?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, ain't my daughter? I don't understand why

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Speaker 3: you wrote me without this. You got seventy you old

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Speaker 3: man never had sex, and then your younger daughter came

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Speaker 3: home and told you that your other daughter dated Okay, what.

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Speaker 4: Well, what's what's happening? I don't know what to tell you. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why your younger daughter would come here

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Speaker 3: and talking about she dated him, and then the man said,

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Speaker 3: nothing inappropriate happen.

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Speaker 4: And then you and the man ain't had sex?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Everybody?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 1: Ju ju?

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Speaker 4: Everybody hanging out at the nursing home. It was sound like.

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Speaker 1: That.

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Speaker 4: Seventy dudes sound good to me. I don't even feel.

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Speaker 3: Like it, man, but I do wake up and the

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Speaker 3: stuff be hurting.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how to hell they started?

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Speaker 2: And you really don't act like it, do you?

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Speaker 3: Hell?

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Speaker 4: No, I ain't gonna ever a do.

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Speaker 2: You know you're almost that?

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Speaker 4: Ask?

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Speaker 2: Could you know?

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Speaker 3: And my wife used to ask me all the time,

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Speaker 3: do you realize you fifty now?

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Speaker 2: But she just stopped. Then then she just stopped, she said.

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Speaker 3: Because did I And she told me the other day

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Speaker 3: she said, you ain't act right.

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Speaker 2: I quit ask she gave so, so why should her

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Speaker 2: daughter lie? So? What are you saying to them?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. She ain't saying nothing. I don't care.

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Speaker 4: I don't know no about this letter. I don't know

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Speaker 4: who this dude is. The question don't make no sense.

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Speaker 4: Why would she lie? Who lied?

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Speaker 1: By what she's thinking, her daughter is lying. Her younger

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Speaker 1: daughter is lying to her that her older daughter dated

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Speaker 1: the guy. I guess she's trying to figure out why

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Speaker 1: would her daughter lie to her about it?

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Speaker 4: You know, y'all too old for this. What is he lying? Four?

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Speaker 3: Nine seventy. I'm not gonna ever tell her lie seventy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I did it. She's gonna do all right.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna move on here. Uh deal with you. You got

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Speaker 2: to deal with your daughters, all right.

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Speaker 1: Christine and Philly says, I recently married a man that

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Speaker 1: I met online, and we got married after dating for

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Speaker 1: only five months. I'm his third wife, so I should

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Speaker 1: have taken more time to get to know him. Instead,

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Speaker 1: I ended up married to a man with multiple personalities.

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Speaker 2: One day he can be really.

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Speaker 1: Happy and all in love, and then the next day

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Speaker 1: he might get mad at me over something petty and

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Speaker 1: lock me out of our bedroom. He's made me sleep

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Speaker 1: on the couch for the last time, and I'm ready

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Speaker 1: to call it quits.

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Speaker 2: He says.

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Speaker 1: This is all part of marriage, and we're still getting

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Speaker 1: to know each other.

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Speaker 2: Should we see counseling or should I leave?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 4: Should house?

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Speaker 3: This ain't counseling. It's time to escape, and you say,

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Speaker 3: got nothing to do with counseling. He'd have locked you

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Speaker 3: out the bedroom, don't. This ain't counseling. His ass need

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Speaker 3: help and you need to get out for you need

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Speaker 3: some time of help to get out.

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Speaker 4: This ain't counselor he has a mental disorder. You ain't.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got time for that, but biphold his schizophrenic

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Speaker 3: something I would suggest you get out now.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Would you say something to her about marrying a man

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Speaker 1: she met online and only knew.

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Speaker 4: She already know that's stupid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I ain't got to tell her that, but

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Speaker 2: she got caught up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Who thinks that's a good idea? Right now? Him? Neither

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Speaker 4: him or her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah all right, yeah, slow down, slow down?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Thank you, CLO, great advice. As always, you're listening hard

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Speaker 2: Morning Show