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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Welcome to the Unofficial Expert Podcast with Sydney

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Speaker 1: and Marie ah Man.

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Speaker 2: This is great, This is great. I'm excited. This is

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Speaker 2: gonna be a good episode. Yeah, I feel it in

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Speaker 2: my bones. Seriously, I'm feeling in my joints. That might

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Speaker 2: be osteoporosis. I'm not really sure. I'm feeling it. It's

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Speaker 2: gonna be great already, high energy.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Also quick positive note up top. Yes, Sidney got

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Speaker 1: a new wig. Hip cute. The guest is looking like

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Speaker 1: I guess it's looking at you, and you're you fell

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Speaker 1: for the European Standards of beauty sis. Oh gosh, so

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Speaker 1: what you got your turbot on? It's fine, yes, but

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Speaker 1: this is the Indian also West Indian. Also, I'm at

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Speaker 1: my house at my hair was not just I got

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Speaker 1: a Bereton.

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Speaker 2: So honestly I could take the wig off and just

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Speaker 2: put the beret on and still live my best too.

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Speaker 1: Don't say beret. That makes me think of that terrible

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Speaker 1: final episode of She's Got to Have It when they

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Speaker 1: dance to Prince Raspberry Beret. It made you think of

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Speaker 1: all of that a beret that's raspberry Bret. I would

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Speaker 1: bring any of that let one word changed. That last

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Speaker 1: episode was garbage.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we can't even talk about it because I feel

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Speaker 2: like people I went I was at a show and

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Speaker 2: asking people have they watched it, and they're like, I

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Speaker 2: couldn't make it through all of it. I was like, damn, damn.

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Speaker 2: They're like, I got to like the fifth episode.

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Speaker 1: I made it to the last episode and was super upset.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I can't. Like I'm one of these people.

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Speaker 1: If I start watching something, I have to I have

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Speaker 1: to finish it. It's like really bad and I only

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Speaker 1: made it through. Like you gotta to finish it. You

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Speaker 1: have the time.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you might get to it and then you're like,

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Speaker 2: oh shit, soign the stange.

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Speaker 1: I'm watching it sequre now just to see how it ends.

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Speaker 1: I don't care about the show really, Yes, all the

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Speaker 1: main characters, Molly going back with the Dobey body let

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Speaker 1: skin dude, Like I'm just I'm just like, well, I

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Speaker 1: just want to see when his wife confront That's true.

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Speaker 2: That's how I'm waiting for the thirty season and be like,

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Speaker 2: come on, girl, you fell for the okie duck with Gumby,

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Speaker 2: you know, with the with.

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Speaker 1: The just he got just then out of shaped body,

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Speaker 1: wishy body.

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Speaker 2: But he's light skinned, he got baby hair, so that's

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Speaker 2: why with clothes it looks like he should have a

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Speaker 2: good body.

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Speaker 1: And then he takes his clothes off and you're like.

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Speaker 2: He pumping the tsara for men too hard. So no,

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Speaker 2: I don't think at all, Sydney. Uh, what were you

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Speaker 2: an expert in this week? Can we talk about the

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Speaker 2: past five days? Well, you and I have been going

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Speaker 2: to numerous holiday parties and just smashing it with velveteen

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Speaker 2: love and uh, you know, crushed velvet, velvet on velvet,

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Speaker 2: little lasul something you know, be killing out there, Quinn

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Speaker 2: and I honestly go to the holiday parties for the

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Speaker 2: photo booth.

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Speaker 1: I don't go there because I don't.

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Speaker 2: Because I don't drink, and I honestly really don't care

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Speaker 2: about the people who are there.

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Speaker 1: I just want to take pictures.

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Speaker 2: So this is my highlight of the night, and I

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Speaker 2: just feel like people shouldn't ruin that because I love

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Speaker 2: I kill it in photo booths and make sure the.

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Speaker 1: Photos are photogenetic. Ugly people don't like photo.

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Speaker 2: Booths exactly, So I'm an expert in shutting down people

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Speaker 2: in the photo booth.

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Speaker 1: Can you please tell people what you're talking about. I

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Speaker 1: don't like when you jump in people's photos and we

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Speaker 1: not cool like that. Who are you?

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Speaker 2: First of all, the line is mad long, so it's

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Speaker 2: gonna take us another thirty minutes just to take this.

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Speaker 1: So I want to take it and I want to

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Speaker 1: be right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we me you our friend Alzo and Amina

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Speaker 2: were waiting online. I see this girl and she keeps

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Speaker 2: jumping in people's photos and she's bringing nothing to the table.

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Speaker 2: Nothing absolutely no smile, nothing, just jumping in and just.

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Speaker 1: No ass like she's jumping in and she like looks miserable.

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Speaker 1: Yes you could have just yes.

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Speaker 2: So she's in line with us, and I'm like, it's

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Speaker 2: gonna be the four of us. I'm looking at all

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Speaker 2: four of you. You already told her yes, yes, I'm

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Speaker 2: like it's gonna be four of us. I just want

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Speaker 2: So then finally we get up and we get in

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Speaker 2: and soon as we press start, she jumps in and

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Speaker 2: I touch her by her elbow and I said, no,

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Speaker 2: it's just gonna be the four of But she was in.

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Speaker 1: The first photo and if you look at the series photo, God,

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Speaker 1: the girl looking miserable. Then she's not in nothing else.

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Speaker 1: But the next photo is our friend of Mina dying.

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Speaker 2: I want to post it a photo. I want to

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Speaker 2: post it.

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Speaker 1: Looking like Regina George in the very front of the photo.

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Speaker 1: It's not me, she was.

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Speaker 2: Going, it's not mean, girl, It's just there's a long line.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna take us forever to get this photo again.

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Speaker 2: So why are you ruining?

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Speaker 1: I mean, we also cut the line several times. Bowguarded

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Speaker 1: the white people several times. That was rude too. So

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Speaker 1: I was in a lot of photos.

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Speaker 2: But you know whatever I mean, don't let anybody just

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Speaker 2: get in your photo.

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Speaker 1: It's not that serious. It's not that serious serious. If

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Speaker 1: you look at the first sure and in the second picture,

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Speaker 1: it's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: It's too much. It's like, listen, we're here to have

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Speaker 2: a good time. And also, when you come to a

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Speaker 2: holiday party, what are you wearing?

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Speaker 1: What are you wearing? A lot of like flight jackets

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Speaker 1: and like sweatpants, sweatpants, it's like a forever twenty one.

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Speaker 1: Let's be festive, like put some Christmas lights on your shirt, whatever,

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Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. So that people were like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: get in my photo. You know, maybe sometimes your face

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Speaker 1: is not doing it. Sometimes you just have to bring

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Speaker 1: the energy with your clothes. I guess I just want

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Speaker 1: to take pictures of people. Who is gonna get a

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Speaker 1: lot of likes, That's all. It's not gonna get a

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Speaker 1: lot of likes. We can do this another time. It's

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Speaker 1: just gonna be the four of us, right, Marie, What

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Speaker 1: were you an expert in besides still sounding like a man?

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Speaker 1: I was an expert at getting rich kind of quick.

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Speaker 1: This week, I made a decent amount of money, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean most of it was like doing comedy shows

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Speaker 1: for like six people. Right, But like they pay you

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Speaker 1: either in check form or in cash. And then I

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Speaker 1: worked an event with you. Oh yeah, and we were

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Speaker 1: supposed to make X amount of dollars to tell the story, please,

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Speaker 1: We were supposed to tell the story a private party dancing.

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Speaker 1: I'm lying, don't nobody want to see my back.

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Speaker 2: I'm just here to dance with juniors, Junior's birthday party

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Speaker 2: or bachelor party.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. So we get there and none of the people

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Speaker 1: are drinking. Nope, none of them are asking us to

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Speaker 1: do anything. They had their coats on and they were

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Speaker 1: So it was like, eh, well guess and we got

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Speaker 1: paid at the beginning of the night. See. But that's

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Speaker 1: the problem is that we got paid.

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Speaker 2: Somebody just handed us the money and we thinking, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is like extra, this.

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Speaker 1: Is a tip. It was an old dude. He like

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Speaker 1: peeling off cash, healing off money to give us.

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Speaker 2: He had a wad of money. Like, honestly, we could

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Speaker 2: have just hit him over the head, take his cash

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Speaker 1: We didn't even have to hit him, says, We could

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Speaker 1: have just tipped him over. He would have gotten up

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Speaker 1: real slove.

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Speaker 2: It was so much money, but I felt like he

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Speaker 2: was giving it to us, like thank.

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Speaker 1: You girls for just being so beautiful. But it was like, no,

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Speaker 1: this is your payment. Yeah it was.

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Speaker 2: I was so hurt because I thought I was gonna

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Speaker 2: make eight hundred dollars that night.

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Speaker 1: Didn't make that much. SI surely didn't. Also, Sidney had

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Speaker 1: me convinced I was gonna make it a hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah. She as talking about like when

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Speaker 1: she was a waitress and she was making nine thousand

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Speaker 1: gonna make nine thousand dollars tonight. Well because a.

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Speaker 2: Girl called me up, like, Hey, this guy is gonna

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Speaker 2: be there.

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Speaker 1: He he pays the moral here, sis. Don't listen to

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Speaker 1: your friends. Yeah, listen to your friends. Don't listen to

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Speaker 1: white We're white exactly, Hey, white women, thank you for listening.

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Speaker 1: Should we get into the guests? We should? We should? Okay,

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Speaker 1: well intro our guestsys?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, first of all, outstanding writer, stand up at trees,

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Speaker 2: woman of gall Okay, she got a core.

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Speaker 1: She she got a.

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Speaker 2: Core, she got a savings account. Like she's doing really well.

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Speaker 2: She is our telling the truth expert. Give it up

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Speaker 2: for Chloe Hillard.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Chloe, let me see Chloe, I feel like you

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Speaker 1: a little bit low? Yeah, something else you can dare you?

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Speaker 1: You could be loud? This? This is it? Chloe. How

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Speaker 1: do you feel about holiday parties or fellows this year?

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Speaker 1: I didn't go to any.

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Speaker 3: I haven't been to any holiday parties, partially because I

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Speaker 3: one don't really socialize.

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Speaker 1: With a lot of the people that go to these parties.

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Speaker 3: And I find it interesting that a lot of comics

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Speaker 3: in New York City are jockey and thinking that going

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Speaker 3: to a holiday party is how they're going to get

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Speaker 3: booked there, and it's never how you get booked.

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Speaker 1: That's not why I go. I go for the free

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Speaker 1: open bar. I go for the snacks. Possibly a massage

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Speaker 1: because Gotham Comedy Club did massages last year. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if they do that again this year. But I

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Speaker 1: don't go to network for me.

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Speaker 3: I think you guys are different cases, but I don't

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Speaker 3: go to network either. But one for me, I'm not

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Speaker 3: going to go to a club that doesn't book me exactly.

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Speaker 1: He's definitely not doing that.

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Speaker 3: So if I don't work that club, I'm not going

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Speaker 3: there to partake and be up in their face.

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Speaker 1: Why. It's like, why do that? Well, that's the thing too, right,

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Speaker 1: You see a lot of people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the people are jockeying for attention, thinking that the

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Speaker 3: booker is drunk.

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Speaker 1: They're not.

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Speaker 3: They don't give a fuck about you coming in, and they're

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Speaker 3: fucking cheese sticks.

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Speaker 1: This Chloe already telling the truth. Can you tell us

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Speaker 1: a little bit about you? First of all, I told

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Speaker 1: you I'm six one wow, six one, A whole lot

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Speaker 1: of woman like you don't know. The listeners don't know.

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Speaker 1: So I want to just six six one. I've been

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Speaker 1: this height since I was twelve, no, twelve.

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Speaker 3: Since I was twelve. Yeah, I used to have gross sports.

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Speaker 3: When I was a kid, like like six seven. I

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Speaker 3: would cry and be like, mom, my body hurts, you know,

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Speaker 3: because your body hurts because it was growing so fast. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and so the doctor, she took me to the doctor

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Speaker 1: Damn dude, I would know he wish he could switch

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Speaker 2: Well, you went on a vacation and you had all

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it was low to the navel Versachi drinks,

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Speaker 1: It was a DV. It was a thank you for

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Speaker 3: I normally like will blow it out or breid it

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Speaker 3: The thing is like I do love a good crochet,

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Speaker 3: So this is to the point where like I would

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Speaker 1: What's right next to them? Like you really think we

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Speaker 3: But that's because people just glance and they see a

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Speaker 3: But now, I think when you get to a certain part,

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Speaker 3: you know, you could do anything. You can change your

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get it. I get that. That's fair. You

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Speaker 1: know it's a Rianna a couple of years before she

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Speaker 1: I mean, Sydney, say, think it's be said about you.

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Speaker 1: You was covering your forearat a lot when I met

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen you with bangs in legit two years.

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Speaker 1: You've grown. That shows how much comedy you see, how

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Speaker 2: Shut up, stay like hey, as soon as you start

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Speaker 1: As soon as you wear your real hair. I mean,

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Speaker 1: to get your lou pizza nango. No, you can do it.

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Speaker 2: You so you come to my house and do my

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Speaker 1: To do your hair, and you've always be like city,

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Speaker 1: doesn't your girlfriend do your hair? Damn Marie, you acting

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Speaker 1: like that's what the issue is. Somebody's already helping you

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Speaker 3: The thing is you have to This is when you

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, I'm not saying you are okay. It's like,

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Speaker 1: when did this turn surprise intervention? Fix your damn wig? No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, I mean, I think wigs are cute and all

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Speaker 3: that stuff, but I do believe that. I don't want

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Speaker 3: to say I don't want to make it about you

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: So like, if you're not being honest about yourself, like,

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Speaker 3: I know what my flaws are, I know what my

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Speaker 1: Callby what are some let's talk about it, Let's get

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Speaker 3: I would say, I am. I am really super focused,

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Speaker 3: at letting other people in my to my z you

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Speaker 1: But you're so tall, you look like the bully, Chloe.

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Speaker 1: You look like you step on all the kids. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Because I was the youngest, I started school at four,

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Speaker 1: Ye. Yeah, Chloe, I started school early too. My birth

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Speaker 3: I was the biggest, and I didn't have any siblings,

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Speaker 3: Like I wasn't the type of like put some people,

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Speaker 1: You're why they were making fun of you do it

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Speaker 1: because you were like honest. You were like I cannot

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Speaker 2: I was ticky, tikky, timbo, that's what it was me.

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Speaker 2: And I was just like so meek and I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy because like, now y'all are the bullies

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Speaker 1: and I'm like the meek one. Excuse me, that is

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Speaker 1: so when did you find your voice? Because being an

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Speaker 1: Just ask somebody you like really, yeah, because when I

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Speaker 3: People, you have to be so your parent has to

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Speaker 1: If you're not socialized, you got to find other people

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Speaker 1: to play with when you're young. Otherwise, like you, you

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Speaker 2: That's so weird to me because I do have a

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Speaker 1: They didn't trust nobody. They think like no I understand

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Speaker 2: But now, like as an adult, I still know how

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Speaker 1: That's all I do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's but there's a cutoff point, you know

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Speaker 3: Like I get over it really quickly in social settings,

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Speaker 3: like if it's a shit ton of people when I

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Speaker 1: Especially being a comedy. People think you walk in like

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Speaker 3: I'm in there, like scoping out in the corner, chilling

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Speaker 1: I know. So how did you? How did you turn

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Speaker 3: Because you stand up, it's less of an attention seeking

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Speaker 1: So so you got things that said, Chloe, you just

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Speaker 1: you just did an hour. You recorded an hour and

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Speaker 1: it's dope. It was so good. Your laughter, she's so rude,

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Speaker 1: damn super supportive. Who's that loud cat in the background.

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Speaker 1: I was like the trainer joke, crying like that girl's

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Speaker 3: instead of like, you know how you have a situation

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Speaker 3: where you definitely got played, but you gotta finess it because.

439
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to make it sound like you didn't. Yeah,

440
00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,199
Speaker 1: like this nigga goes to me.

441
00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,600
Speaker 2: But that's crazy club because most comedians, i mean, I'm

442
00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,119
Speaker 2: not going to say, like white men, they are always

443
00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,680
Speaker 2: talking about how they get played, like that's their whole set.

444
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,320
Speaker 1: Oh it's just be one crying.

445
00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,959
Speaker 3: But that's but that is because their whole intention is

446
00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:38,800
Speaker 3: to get on stage and denouncing their privilege. It is

447
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 3: because if they go on there and they're confident, I mean,

448
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,360
Speaker 3: I've seen some there are some white male comics who

449
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,840
Speaker 3: are super confident in there and come across as being arrogant,

450
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,480
Speaker 3: but that's their whole thing.

451
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:50,960
Speaker 1: But they're also very attractive.

452
00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 3: So you can't be mediocre, mediocre white face and then

453
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Speaker 3: have an audacity to be.

454
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Speaker 1: Like and bold. Yeah, so they have.

455
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 3: To do that, like self deprecating shit a little bit,

456
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Speaker 3: or or be like snarky in order for.

457
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 1: People to be like, oh okay, I get it, you know.

458
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 1: So they don't have that. I mean, but I don't think.

459
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Speaker 3: I don't think a lot of black male comics are

460
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Speaker 3: that boisterous either.

461
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Speaker 1: I don't think really go on talking about the ship

462
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:25,400
Speaker 1: all the time. M No, not really. I mean they

463
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Speaker 1: go up there with like a different type of swagger

464
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 1: to them, like they carry themselves do it.

465
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Speaker 3: But they're not saying, they're not saying right, but you

466
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Speaker 3: feel it, you get the vibe. But they're not on

467
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Speaker 3: stage being like I'm the ship.

468
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Speaker 2: But they're not like woe is made though, And I like,

469
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Speaker 2: I live with my mom and I you know what

470
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Speaker 2: I mean, I live with my mom and I still

471
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:45,760
Speaker 2: bring bitches home.

472
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Speaker 1: Yeah that's what they do. Yeah, and I make boxes

473
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 1: like they do all that box make boxes for a living,

474
00:20:55,000 --> 00:21:00,959
Speaker 1: payoff phone bill. Okay, right, So Chloe, Yeah, how does that?

475
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Speaker 1: How does you okay? So you don't say you have

476
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 1: something to say? I get you guys had something to say.

477
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Speaker 1: And I think the two things happened. One, when I

478
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Speaker 1: first found my voice. I had been bullied all of.

479
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Speaker 3: Elementary school and it wasn't until like the fifth grade

480
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Speaker 3: where I just snapped.

481
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Speaker 1: I literally what happened? You went all carry on them? No,

482
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 1: I went crazy on this one.

483
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 3: Like we were standing in line at dismissal and this

484
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,480
Speaker 3: one girl had been just giving it to me for

485
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 3: a while, like just smart, you know, like like you know,

486
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 3: somebody could just say something real slick and little teach

487
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,200
Speaker 3: you don't hear it, and they just see your reaction.

488
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah.

489
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,680
Speaker 3: And I always got I always got blamed for being

490
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Speaker 3: a bully because I was the biggest. So it's like,

491
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 3: you know, they would say crazy shit to me all

492
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Speaker 3: the time, and then I would like spend.

493
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Speaker 1: Say something back and be like Chloe, why are you doing?

494
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Speaker 3: Ye know, like or if they would throw shit at

495
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 3: me all day and I would like throw something back

496
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Speaker 3: and be like.

497
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 1: You hit them, you know. So it's so that was happening.

498
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 3: So it was like psychological warfare and finally this one day,

499
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 3: this chick said something to me and I literally lost

500
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Speaker 3: And she had pigtails and I one of her picktails

501
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 3: and I literally swung her back and forth like yeah.

502
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: And then girl.

503
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Speaker 3: Literally when we went outside, like everybody was like, Chloe

504
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 3: lost it, Like everybody knew, like it was like, oh,

505
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 3: this she the girl deserved it.

506
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: Chloe lost it.

507
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 3: So we went outside and my mother was there, which

508
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: is rare because my mom by that point in like

509
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,120
Speaker 3: fifth grade, she would come, but.

510
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Speaker 1: Not every day, but she was there that day.

511
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 3: And the teacher goes out and she's like, you know,

512
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 3: Chloe got into a fight with this girl, and you

513
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 3: know you really should talk to her, like basically, but

514
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 3: even the teacher knew, Like it was to the point

515
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 3: where the teacher was like, your.

516
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: Daughter finally finally lost it.

517
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Speaker 3: I don't know, was it a celebration. It was like

518
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 3: it was like the girl. Everybody knew that the girl

519
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 3: was troubled. Yeah, so the teacher wasn't really no no, no,

520
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Speaker 3: she's black. And I went to school with like the

521
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 3: Cosby kids. All the kids in my class were kids

522
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,360
Speaker 3: would like teachers were their parents are like engineers, doctors, lawyers, Okay.

523
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Speaker 1: Where'd you go to school?

524
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Speaker 3: Yeah, the Reunion Clinton Hill? Okay, yes, Clinton Hill. And

525
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 3: so when my mom came, my mom was like is

526
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 3: it true. I was like yes, and she was like okay,

527
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 3: like you know, because she knew I had been through

528
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 3: so much. And so that was kind of like the start.

529
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Speaker 3: And then after that year, I left at school and

530
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Speaker 3: I went to another junior high school for gifted and

531
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Speaker 3: talented Philip a Skylark okay, tell them credits girl Gifted

532
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 3: and Talent okay, And it was all West Indian kids.

533
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so loud, another level not another level of the

534
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: bullying me. They was like fucking open your mouth and

535
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Speaker 1: say some shit.

536
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 3: They would a type of like like they kind of

537
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 3: gave me a confidence because I hung out with like

538
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 3: all the big girls. I was a big girl. So

539
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 3: they was like, no, we were fucking killing it. And

540
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,199
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, we're killing it. Like they just

541
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 3: was like not like all like all your insecurities that

542
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 3: you have, like in our culture, that's not like, that's

543
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 3: not a thing. And so that gave me a confidence

544
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 3: to kind of speak up a little bit more and

545
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: I kind of found my voice and and then from

546
00:23:58,119 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 3: there on, you know, I knew I wanted to be

547
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:01,479
Speaker 3: a journalists, so I was like, well, at least let

548
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 3: me use my voice to help other people.

549
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: And so journalist Sydney, Yeah, I know that. Did you

550
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: ever want to help people with your voice? Though? Like

551
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: you're really just that's each one teach run right there.

552
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: You're just you're trying to help and that's important because

553
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: you have a platform.

554
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think, I mean, I think all of

555
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 3: us with this podcast, you know, everybody that does this

556
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 3: or stands on stage.

557
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: I think that's we have to be.

558
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Speaker 3: We have to realize that you even know we're sitting

559
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 3: in this apartment, we're talking to each other, like these

560
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 3: words will live on and affect whoever's hearing it.

561
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Speaker 1: And so you have to have some sort of accountability.

562
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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean the tweet the people who tweet, they

563
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 2: tweet at us. They be like, thank you, listen to

564
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: your podcast at lunch break and it helps me because

565
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:46,880
Speaker 2: I've had a bad.

566
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Speaker 1: Day and y'all make me laugh. And I'm was like, oh,

567
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: that's not even where I thought you're gonna go at that.

568
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: I thought you're gonna say like people tweet things out

569
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: and they feel like those words don't mean anything. But

570
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: people be getting fired from Twitter all the time. Yeah,

571
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Speaker 1: Like a lady that was going to Africa and got

572
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: on a plane, like a twenty hour flight and was

573
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Speaker 1: like going to Africa. Hope I don't get aids tweeted

574
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 1: it closed her phone landed and had already got fired,

575
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Speaker 1: Like while she was in the air, the tweet had

576
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Speaker 1: gotten fired hashtag did she land yet? Yes? Did she

577
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: were going?

578
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 3: And I think also when it comes to being honest,

579
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 3: I think people think that that how their personal opinion

580
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 3: is true honesty and a lot of times can we

581
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 3: misconstrue the point I.

582
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Speaker 1: Feel like honestly speak on that.

583
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 3: I think honesty should not have your personal interest invested

584
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 3: in it.

585
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Speaker 1: It should just be the so people speak their truth

586
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Speaker 1: even if it's not the truth. Yes exactly.

587
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think you should be able to speak

588
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 2: your truth without saying like, well, you're like, in my opinion,

589
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 2: this is how I feel.

590
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 1: But they don't preface it that way. Yeah, but even

591
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 1: if that is how you feel. Also in my opinion,

592
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: if my opinion don't match up with yours, in my opinion,

593
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: should be okay with getting punched in the face. We're

594
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Speaker 1: getting fired or something bad happening to you. Yeah, I'm

595
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: not saying that like fighting somebody because you don't agree

596
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: with them is right, But like if your thing is

597
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: offensive and I happy to be standing there for somebody

598
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: who's the thing that's like my truth? I feel like

599
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: this thing as the truth. And in your truths okay, okay,

600
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: So your truth.

601
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: Is about where you stand, your philosophy, your ideology, your heart,

602
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 3: your emotion, that's your truth. The truth is something different,

603
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 3: and I think a lot of times people project their

604
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Speaker 3: personal truths as the finite, all end all, be all truth.

605
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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, no, no, I don't believe in that.

606
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: I don't believe in that, But I do feel like

607
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: you should be able to speak what you think in

608
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Speaker 2: your opinion and people be like, okay, well that's your opinion.

609
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: I heard it, I don't agree with it, and then

610
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Speaker 1: move on.

611
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 3: But that's why we are in such a problem situation

612
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 3: we are now, is because people don't understand that you

613
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 3: don't have to agree with somebody. Yeah, in order to

614
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 3: be heard, Like, I don't have to agree with what

615
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 3: you guys believe, But that doesn't mean that I have

616
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Speaker 3: to disrespect you as a person exactly.

617
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: So people want to be right.

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00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 3: They don't want to People want to be heard, but

619
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 3: they also want to be right, and sometimes you can't.

620
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: You can't have both.

621
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Speaker 2: But that's the problem here now is that everybody can

622
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Speaker 2: be heard, literally every.

623
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: People who can't read, because people who can't speak, it's like, dude,

624
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 1: like I don't care about what you're saying right now.

625
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 2: They speak on topics that they have no idea what

626
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 2: they're talking about. They didn't even they see one headline

627
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 2: in their boom. They want to talk about the whole

628
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 2: thing and they don't know what they're talking about.

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Speaker 1: They're like, I'm an expert on this. Probably you should

630
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: come on the podcast find out. I'm probably an expert

631
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 1: at this. So has telling the truth ever hurt you? Like?

632
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: Have you been ever been in a relationship where you

633
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: it's like, should that that?

634
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 3: Well, I haven't been in many relationships. I've only been

635
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 3: in one relationship.

636
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: Watch a man, watch your mouth.

637
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 3: I was a dated this guy for about two and

638
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 3: a half three years in my late twenties, okay, because

639
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 3: I was a workaholic, so I wasn't really trying to

640
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 3: date like that.

641
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: You're busy, you booked in business? Is booked busy.

642
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 3: So we were friend We were friends first and we

643
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 3: saw we always saw each other socially, and we just

644
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 3: like kind of gravitated towards each other and started dating

645
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 3: and a relationship was good. It kind of just got

646
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 3: to the point where I started doing comedy and that

647
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 3: wasn't a thing.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't up. He was a journalist, no, no, here, he

649
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: worked in media. He encourage me, actually he encouraged me

650
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: a lot to get into comedy. He was like, get

651
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: on stage that. He's my biggest supporter. Till this day,

652
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: he's still one of my biggest. Did he come to

653
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 1: he came to the one? Oh yeah, you did tell

654
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: me about that? Yeah.

655
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: So so he's a really sweet, good guy. And and

656
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 3: when our relationship ended, I realized that I decided I

657
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 3: was going to dedicate myself to comedy. And I didn't

658
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 3: know how trying to factor in somebody else until that

659
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 3: at that moment, when I was still trying to master it,

660
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 3: or not mastered, but navigate it, I didn't think that

661
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 3: would be fair because the last thing I want is

662
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 3: somebody telling me, oh, why are you going out tonight?

663
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 3: I want to go out to dinner or come sit

664
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 3: home with me and watch the game, and it's like,

665
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 3: I can't sitting uphing.

666
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: My friend in rest. I wonder it feels like that, Sidney,

667
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: I wonder, who feels like that? No, Marie, that feels

668
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: like that. What a peculiar feeling, Marie. You tell me

669
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: that's it. I don't have a man, Okay, well me

670
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: neither do I.

671
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think, and that's when you talk about

672
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 3: that's being honest with yourself. Like I could have lied

673
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 3: to myself and been like, oh no, I want to

674
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 3: be with somebody, even though I'm trying to, you know,

675
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 3: dive into this second career, and I just would have

676
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 3: it just would have been problematic.

677
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. So also, see that's what happened when you were strong,

678
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: independent women and you don't need no man. You have money,

679
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: here's your own place, you have food in your fridge.

680
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: You were like, ah, yeah, you know what, it's not

681
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: gonna be fair to stay with him. But if you

682
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: didn't have nowhere to go, and your friend was empty,

683
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: like I mean, I guess I like him so like

684
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: I don't really need to tell these jokes every night.

685
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 3: I definitely know I struggled when I made the career change.

686
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: I struggle. I was broke. I'm talking about in the beginning. Absolutely,

687
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,719
Speaker 1: there's no way you have food in your fridge all

688
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: the time. Well, also because I quit, I stopped journalism.

689
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 3: And when I stopped the last job I had as

690
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 3: a journalist, I got to let go because it was

691
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 3: a so.

692
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: You wasn't even ready he write your lunch planned for

693
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: the week, and they were like, hey, Thursday's the last day.

694
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: Because I realized this job wasn't for me.

695
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 3: I realized it wasn't for me, so I worked really

696
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: hard to get laid off like I planned it. I

697
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 3: did just enough and I wasn't negligent, but more that

698
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 3: he had to at least respectfully lay me off, right,

699
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 3: And so I got unappointment, so unappointment, and I was consulting.

700
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: A lot of plan the unloy.

701
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 2: Yes you do, you can't listen. I believe in planning,

702
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: but I don't do the planning all the time. But

703
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 2: I do believe in.

704
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: I don't really believe in planning. But I gave I

705
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: never give two weeks notice for a job. I just leave.

706
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: Why yeah, why right, That's what I That's what I

707
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: used to do. And one day I was like, you

708
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,719
Speaker 1: know what, I've been at this restaurant job for almost

709
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: a year and I wasn't happy. And I was like,

710
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 1: let me go give them my two weeks. Not this,

711
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: I'm grown up. First time I gave weeks though this.

712
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: They were like, if you're not happy, you could just

713
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: leave right now. I was like, I wasn't ready. You

714
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: thought you were banking on another check for two weeks.

715
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And then they escorted me out. They

716
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: got steal some forks. They're gonna walk out, they Jesse, Jeff,

717
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: you were They watched me clock out and then they

718
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: were like I was like that, yeah, unless they just

719
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: do because I wouldn't have clocked out. I would have

720
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: kept my hours going exactly. That's why they were like,

721
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: go ahead and put your number out. Yeah, I'm sorry

722
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: you go through that. Yeah, well, I mean now I

723
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: don't have a job, but you're free, and you.

724
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: And it and it forces you to work harder for yourself.

725
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 3: Being an entrepreneur is very important.

726
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that story was from like a couple of years ago.

727
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: I've been fired from many many jobs since then. But

728
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: you don't consider yourself. You don't both of you don't

729
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: consider yourself to be entrepreneurs y. Yes, when I filed

730
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: my taxes, i'd be like this, I'm not going to

731
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: do that other form entrepreneur. Can you explain entrepreneurship? Can

732
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: you explain it? You work for yourself.

733
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 3: If you don't work, you don't eat, but like more more,

734
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 3: it's more hands on than like if you don't go

735
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 3: to a job. It's like you constantly have to cultivate

736
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 3: means of income for yourself, your independent contracts.

737
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's us, that's us. We do that. We

738
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: work from home, and we think of we try to

739
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: want to look at it and say, oh, that's nice. Yeah,

740
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: you got it.

741
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 3: I mean I think also because of the industry that

742
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: we're in, people think that, like comedy itself, working in

743
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 3: the city is enough.

744
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 1: No, but no it's not, you know what I mean?

745
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 3: And I think this so much like you said, you

746
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 3: guys hosted a party, Like, there's so many other things

747
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 3: you could do.

748
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: You know, you all of us have.

749
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 3: Done television and writing and all that stuff. You have

750
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 3: to kind of cultivate it. It's not going to nobody's saying, oh,

751
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 3: you a comic, So here's all the things you could

752
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 3: do as a comic.

753
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: Like, nobody tells you that. You just gotta you gotta

754
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: figure out what it is and everything that you can

755
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: do you do as a comic is not the same.

756
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: Think somebody else who's a comment can also do. Yeah,

757
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to walk no dogs. I just can't.

758
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: It's my soul. They won't allow me to do it.

759
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell the truth. I don't like dogs. I

760
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: like dogs, and I still don't want to walk them.

761
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: I'm not picking up dog Poople warms.

762
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 3: But the thing is, you gotta promote yourself. So you

763
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 3: gotta have a website. You gotta have as you don't have.

764
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: A website list or something white, It's so easy. It's

765
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: so easy. You just even if you just have a

766
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: single page up with like how email me and here's

767
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,959
Speaker 1: my phone number. Yeah, yeah, we should do that. People want.

768
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: You don't have one either, No, I don't that. My boyfriend,

769
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: the one that I had X manty years ago for Christmas,

770
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: got me a website what see, and then we broke up.

771
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: So I never heard of that. I mean I never

772
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: set it up. I was in the process of like

773
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: thinking about what it would look like. It broke up,

774
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: and it was like I can't. Then be like you're

775
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: yes you can. You're still doing that website from me

776
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: that you want to Well, all you need to do

777
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: is the page information you could have got somebody else.

778
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: You got a plan.

779
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:12,240
Speaker 3: So your first order of business, both of you, weite

780
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,959
Speaker 3: know before it gets over, is to go and put

781
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 3: up a web page, a web page at least a

782
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 3: photo of yourself, links to your work, links to your website,

783
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 3: I mean, to your podcast, an email address and a

784
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 3: phone number that they can reach you out. Get a

785
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 3: Google Voice numbers, so nobody's stalking your real life. Yeah,

786
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 3: Google voice that and make it happen because people will

787
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: see you and they don't remember, but they can remember

788
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 3: your name and it'll google you. Every single job, from

789
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 3: being on television, from writing for TV, every single job

790
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 3: that I've gotten has.

791
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: Come through people looking me up through my website.

792
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 3: Last Comic Standing, nightly show, comed every single is people

793
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 3: just calling my Google voice number off my website and

794
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 3: be like, Hi, do you have a manager?

795
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: No, I don't have a manager. I don't have an agent.

796
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: And how much does this page costs? A web page

797
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: is free? Yes, we can have a web page for

798
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: the podcast. Yeah, yes, you should definitely have one for

799
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: the podcast.

800
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 3: Marie, y'all thinking like this ten years ago when the

801
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 3: ship was like thousands of dollars.

802
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 1: I know. I'm like, we gotta go, Chaddy, got go

803
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 1: to WIS.

804
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 3: You can go to wiks, you can actually go to

805
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 3: you can make a page on Tumblr.

806
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: I just rode free. Yeah with the dollars. Okay, yeah,

807
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: go make it on WIS. We can work on that

808
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: on Christmas. Squarespace. That's our news resolutions squares space. SQUARESPACEA

809
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 1: got plenty of photos. Just put we sure do now, Chloe,

810
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: You're obviously good at like giving other people advice to

811
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: help them fix their life. But there are other things

812
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: that you are claim to be good at that I

813
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 1: wanted to maybe talk about. What other skills do you

814
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 1: have that you feel like people listening. I'm a I'm

815
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: a big dick magnet. Hmmm, Well, because you're a tall woman,

816
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: like people with big dicks are like, yeah, no, no,

817
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: not necessarily, you just have to know.

818
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,959
Speaker 3: You can you can get a feel of literally no punitentiy.

819
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: You can get a feel of whether or not a

820
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: guy is packing, how is it he walks real slow?

821
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: You know? I in my experience, the men I know

822
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: that have huge dicks, that good posture, no got bad back.

823
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 3: They I think they carry themselves in a way that's

824
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 3: a little bit more subtle.

825
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: I don't know. They don't talk about so they don't

826
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: so it's mute nigga got or he can't or he

827
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: got a statter sist thing can't get. They just like

828
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: they just aren't pressed for the pussy.

829
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 3: They're just the way they carry themselves is very just

830
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 3: like it's whatever you want.

831
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: It's like you cool like I'm not. I'm not really.

832
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:01,439
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't know who's that don't get

833
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: pussy hump in your leg? The dude that has a

834
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: big old dick.

835
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 3: It's like we cool like And also because I'm an

836
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,919
Speaker 3: honest person, I'm just if I feel like I've met

837
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 3: you in a good in the situation and we're talking,

838
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: it's a good conversation.

839
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna ask you how big addic You just

840
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:22,720
Speaker 1: gonna ask how big the dickie up to wait either

841
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,839
Speaker 1: or not interested in them, You're just gonna ask. You're

842
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: a child of God and you're asking the super questions.

843
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 3: Yea and brunch at brunch in the day start because

844
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 3: I feel like this And this is what women don't realize.

845
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 3: If a man fixes his mouth to start asking you sexually,

846
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 3: expects the questions like so tell me because you know

847
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 3: dude city, Like so what's your favorite position?

848
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 1: Like what kind of love maker are you?

849
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 3: Like just when you start asking me that, I'm gonna

850
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 3: turn around like how wait?

851
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 1: How bigorry? Has anybody ever ask you? Sure? But not recently.

852
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 1: I'm a lady now, but like, yeah that guys men

853
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: have never I know men have asked you that me. Yeah, early,

854
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: like early like getting into like first date, second date.

855
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 1: They'll up in a little sex question some kind of way,

856
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: and you'd be like, what he was talking about? I

857
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: used to do that. My response is wait before I

858
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: answer that question, how big is your dad? Can you tell?

859
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 1: When they lie?

860
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 3: No, Actually, most of them are so shocked that they

861
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 3: end up just telling you the truth.

862
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: They can't believe that.

863
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 2: I don't even believe a man can tell the truth.

864
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 2: After that question, you gotta do it yourself. I mean

865
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: you got to measure that answer yourself.

866
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: No. Wait, no, every man knows how big day dick is?

867
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: They lying? They lying if they say they don't know

868
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: half of them can't even afford a ruler. No, no,

869
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: you know what it is. They won't tell you.

870
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: Most guys if their dick is less than like seven inches,

871
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 3: they'll be like, you know, if their dick is seven

872
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 3: or better, they'd be like, oh seven, they'll be like

873
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 3: seven inches or eight probably like nine.

874
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: Ten was like it's ten, and I was like, you're

875
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: He was like, no, it's ten. I was, And did

876
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 1: you find out?

877
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,760
Speaker 3: I damn sure did find out? How was that all

878
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 3: of the ten inches?

879
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Would you introduce us after alternate these?

880
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: And yeah, I damn sure, Yes, you could take tenn

881
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: inch's club six ft one says you got just you know,

882
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean anything. That means she could have she

883
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: could have a short SERVEX.

884
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 3: No, it's not her small uterus. It's apropriate sis, it's sizable.

885
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,760
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, people who are tall have big feet.

886
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 3: Everybody who every woman, your womb is big.

887
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, but my insurance is not ten inch insurance.

888
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: I can't say that. It's not for four less is

889
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: my sharance? No, that ain't for me.

890
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: I've seen what I was dating this dude who was

891
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 2: from Ghana and he he had like ten or I

892
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: felt like more, and I was like, no, not doing that.

893
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: No, I said, I can't. I will not. That's not

894
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: going in my mouth, that's not going in my ears,

895
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: that's not going through any hole that I crossed my forehead.

896
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: And please take your chicken. I don't even have enough

897
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: hand for that. Nope, not doing it blocked your blessings.

898
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: Most blocked your blessings.

899
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 3: Most dudes with big digs, if they know, if they

900
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 3: know that they have a big dick, they're not going

901
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 3: to just try and like rammed in you do, you

902
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 3: probably get the first couple of times, you probably get

903
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 3: half the dick in.

904
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: They know not to go all the way to the

905
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: day there's half the dick. Then the other half don't

906
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,439
Speaker 1: need to know me, okay, the other half of the dick.

907
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: Nice to meet you from all the way over here,

908
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 1: from eight inches away. We could be friends. I'm unapologetic

909
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: and being a size queen. That's just what it is.

910
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 3: And it's good because when you let people know, they

911
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,240
Speaker 3: know what they got to bring to the table.

912
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like you're looking at my my,

913
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: you're looking at my, I'm looking at you. I'm looking

914
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 1: at I'm like, Chloe, So you've never been with a

915
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: guy that had like a little dick? No, I have

916
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: I have? How long were you with him, like a relationship?

917
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: I've only been in one relationship. Okay, So did you

918
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: continue to hook up with this troll, the guy with

919
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,479
Speaker 1: a big dig No? No, no.

920
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 3: First of all, two different conversations, I've only been around relationship,

921
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 3: and I was very satisfied in that relationship. And when

922
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 3: it comes to the big dick guys, you know it

923
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 3: lasts however long your last.

924
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: Yes, But how about the little dude with the little dick? Dude?

925
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: How long was here? All right?

926
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 3: In the past, like probably six or seven years? Have

927
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 3: I been with a guy with a tiny penis? Maybe once?

928
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:19,959
Speaker 3: Like sexually once?

929
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: And you got your own car, so you saw that

930
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: you were like, I'm out, bye, I don't have to

931
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 1: wait to do you validate you? Well? Two things.

932
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 3: A guy that had the small dick, he like, we

933
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 3: have went out a couple of times, and then I

934
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 3: finally was like, okay, I'll go back to his place.

935
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: What do he take you?

936
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 2: Because the guy would have small dick, gonna take you

937
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 2: somewhere nice like sushi? Is I gotta get you something

938
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: nice to eat so you can be full, and I'm

939
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: not gonna put you up.

940
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: These shallow struggles. All you're gonna get tonight. Okay, so

941
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: you gonna need some more uh uh sushi for that

942
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: sushi for the table. No, we went out.

943
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 3: This is a while ago. We went out to a

944
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 3: couple of restaurants, all Brooklyn stuff because like you know,

945
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 3: local local bars and that, you know, a couple of

946
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 3: drinks and so so I was like, finally, okay, I'll

947
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 3: go back to his place, and this is the this

948
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 3: is I should have been like out. I mean I

949
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 3: was out the door, but even more so, like I

950
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 3: was like, I'm never gonna talk.

951
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: To me again. His place was a pig stock. We

952
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: talk about it, Chloe, talk about the truth so disgusting.

953
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 1: How did you get ready to go on a date

954
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: and you like there's an in the back of your

955
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: mind you think you might bring somebody back home, right, Like,

956
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: I mean, you can't tidy up a little bit. No,

957
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: it was beyond tidy up.

958
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 3: It was like it was like move ship with your feet,

959
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 3: like you kept your jacket on. Oh You're like, I'm

960
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:35,720
Speaker 3: keeping my jacket on when I go to the bathroom.

961
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 3: That's how nasty place. I'm not taking my shoes off.

962
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm gonna hold my coat under my arm. Listen.

963
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: I I went to a guy's house and he told

964
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: me to take my shoes off. And I was like,

965
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,959
Speaker 1: you haven't momped in seven years. I will not text

966
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: my shoes off. He said, take one. I said, so

967
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: have you been taking your shoes off because it looked

968
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: like you've been stopping all up in this bitch. Yeah. No, no,

969
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 1: So place was disgusting. Place was discussed. You knew you

970
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: should have left, that you stayed. Yeah, but I was like, well,

971
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: you see, didn't feel like the dick was gonna be

972
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: good or did you feel like it's gonna be big?

973
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: And this is what happened. I didn't know what I

974
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: thought it was. You didn't have enough gas in your car.

975
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: That's what happened. Phone was about to die. I need

976
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: to charge up. It was like it was about to

977
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: go yellow. I can't get on the road like this.

978
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: I can't get on the road like this, can't be

979
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: on the beach. You eat ten percent, so you and

980
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: you're dying. Phone, stay at the house. Okay, So yeah,

981
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: I think if I remember correctly. He his place was

982
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: a mess. His place was a mess.

983
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 3: But he was like really adamant about, like, you know,

984
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 3: eat my pussy. So I was like, well, you know what, Yeah,

985
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 3: we got a lot of great God thankfully he didn't

986
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:53,800
Speaker 3: have any condoms.

987
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, good night. Did you have your

988
00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 1: coat on while he was eating you? In my mind,

989
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: you just like she left everything on, including your shoes, shoes, socks,

990
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: everything she said, had her gloves on. Sis. You let

991
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: him you out through the like little hole right here,

992
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: You're like through the zipper. You gotta do what you

993
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: gotta do. Oh my god, damn that. I love that.

994
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: I want to deny him the pleasure of you know me. Yeah,

995
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 1: I mean some people they get joy out of seeing

996
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: other people who are happy. So people, I'm not one

997
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,959
Speaker 1: of those folks, don't I've never understood it. I'm not happy.

998
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: Anybody gonna be happy? Yeah, I just don't get it. Yeah,

999
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: that you're that miserable. I'm a happy person. But when

1000
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: i'm not, said she said. If I'm not happy, No,

1001
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: when i'm happy, it's like gold falling from the heavens.

1002
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: It's like whatever. But like, and I'm usually happy but

1003
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: if I'm not happy, I'm not gonna try to make

1004
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: you feel good. Not you specifically look.

1005
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 3: As like a you're not happy, you fucking everything up.

1006
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 3: I thought it was like everything's burning because I'm not happy.

1007
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:06,479
Speaker 1: No. I mean I might like start a little fire,

1008
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 1: but like, I'm not gonna burn everything. It's not gonna

1009
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 1: be you know, California. So that's crazy. I haven't seen

1010
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: you like that when I'm not in a good mood.

1011
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: I'm not in a good mood, and I'm not gonna

1012
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 1: pretend to be. I think that's maybe you. You don't pretend.

1013
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 1: You don't pretend, but I feel like you know you

1014
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: said to yourself. And usually people could tell when you're

1015
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: not in a good movie, like give Marie some time.

1016
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: And yet sometimes it takes them a little bit of

1017
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: me yelling at them for them to leave me alone. Really, yeah,

1018
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: we're talking to I'm just talking to the listener, okay,

1019
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: because I was like, you're not talking to me, I'm

1020
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: talking into the leastness. Wait, so, Chloe, has telling the

1021
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: truth ever gotten you in trouble? That's what I want

1022
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: to like having to somebody put a little dick or

1023
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: a dusty dick or a dry dick ever pulled out, or.

1024
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 3: You're like be damn, And they were like, you know why,

1025
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 3: because it's about how it took me a while.

1026
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: I used to get in trouble. I was a lot.

1027
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 3: I used to get in trouble a lot because all

1028
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 3: my friends and the people that I cared about, when

1029
00:45:58,080 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 3: I would tell themselves, they would say, it's not what

1030
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 3: you say, it's.

1031
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:01,760
Speaker 1: How you say it. Yeah, how would you say it? Chloyd?

1032
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 3: Well, when I was younger, like college, early twenties, I

1033
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 3: would say it like literally, I would be like, you

1034
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 3: know what.

1035
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:09,959
Speaker 1: You need to do is oooh?

1036
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 2: Which hate that literally the line that's like you don't

1037
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 2: really want to be my friend because because.

1038
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 3: It's like you're forcing them to change or be somebody

1039
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 3: that they're not.

1040
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: This is me. Yeah.

1041
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 3: So instead of me being like judgmental in my honesty

1042
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 3: and being like I know everything, especially because you can't

1043
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 3: really act like you know everything where you don't have

1044
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 3: life experience in here, I was like.

1045
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: Early being like, you know what you need to what

1046
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: you really need to do is so I don't do

1047
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: that anymore. So now when I when I'm having a

1048
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: conversation with somebody and they ask my opinion, which is

1049
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: also key one let to be black for your opinion

1050
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: or act what you think. And then if it's about

1051
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 1: them personally, I would say, well, have you thought about

1052
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: are you guys twitch? Are you open to you let

1053
00:46:59,280 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: them think it was there?

1054
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 3: I do, well, yeah, but it's like it's I'm still

1055
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 3: saying a truthful thing, but it's like I'm not forcing

1056
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 3: it on them.

1057
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: It's like, have you thought about If you say to me, oh,

1058
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: I think I.

1059
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 3: Want to I want to paint my apartment, I'm like,

1060
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 3: what have you thought about like pastels or browns or whatever,

1061
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 3: like whatever it is you know, And I would say,

1062
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 3: because I feel like that's a good vibe for you

1063
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 3: and what you're going through right now. It'll help cheer

1064
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 3: you up, and you thought about it and you'll give

1065
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 3: more thought to it, versus like make this bitch future

1066
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 3: future is the only color that's gone.

1067
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: And you were like, no, even if it was like them,

1068
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: we delivered it, okay, So you low key like manipulating

1069
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: people by like not telling them it was like no shade.

1070
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 1: I just feel like when you wear your real hair,

1071
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: you be yourself. And I do believe that. I believe

1072
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: that only because I know what. I know you well

1073
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: enough to know what your hair means to you. What

1074
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: what does it mean to me? I am not this skin?

1075
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? I know what. I

1076
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: know what you're aesthetic means to you, So I know.

1077
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 3: So when I say that, I'm saying it because I

1078
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 3: feel as though and I didn't want.

1079
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: To bring it on you and your wigs, but you did,

1080
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: so I feel like I brought it upon myself to

1081
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: get the truth. No, I feel like I feel like

1082
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:20,240
Speaker 1: your initial reason for wearing wigs may have been because

1083
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 1: of what you did for work. Yes, okay, yes, and

1084
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: so it was filling a role. But also it's not

1085
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 1: time consuming.

1086
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 2: I get my hair done and then boom when the

1087
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 2: next time you gotta get your hair done?

1088
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: Me? Yeah, I washed it yesterday, so in a week okay.

1089
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 3: So So the reason why I said that is because

1090
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 3: when you were in that line of work, right, you

1091
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 3: couldn't beat the black queen that you had to fit

1092
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 3: an aesthetic, and the way that people perceived you was

1093
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 3: based on that aesthetic.

1094
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: Yes, because you were selling a vision, a dream, an experience. Right.

1095
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 3: The comedy is about who you are innately as a person.

1096
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 3: So that's why I say, when you become fully appreciative

1097
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 3: and own who you are from nappy roots to ChiPT.

1098
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 1: Nails, then ow so just saying that you can stand

1099
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: in your truth on stage and that way nobody yeshermently,

1100
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: her truth is silky body twigs. It's a middle part

1101
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: with a little bit of concealer on it and a

1102
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: body tweels. Her truth currently is a twenty two inch

1103
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: to the waist or not saying that you never have

1104
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: to wear where you again, I'm just saying that you

1105
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: know you can.

1106
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 3: When the wig isn't a masking thing or a part

1107
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 3: of your personality, then it's just an excessive Then it's

1108
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 3: literally just an excess.

1109
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: You hear that, listeners, put that hair away and stand

1110
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: in your own truth, walking your own light whatever sounds like.

1111
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: Standing my light is expensive and time consuming. I mean

1112
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: weeks costs money to though, and I don't want anybody

1113
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: listens to be like, well fuck this bitch.

1114
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 3: I mean you has hair, Yes, she got hair. When

1115
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 3: you straighten this, how long? How long past my shoulders?

1116
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:13,760
Speaker 3: But I also have wigs.

1117
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 1: I have wigs.

1118
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 3: I do crochet, I do braids, I do protective hairstyles.

1119
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,720
Speaker 3: But these things are not synonymous with my identity is nothing.

1120
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

1121
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 3: You can still wear wigs, but it shouldn't be a

1122
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,280
Speaker 3: big crux of who you are and how you present yourself.

1123
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: That's I mean, it's gotten to the point now that

1124
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: like white people say the word wig and they look

1125
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: at Sydney wig like a black girl with a wig,

1126
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: and then they're like chester at her with their oh

1127
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: my god. And I'm like, I don't say nothing about wigs,

1128
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 1: you know what garden shorts. And he rude because he

1129
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 1: thinks he's uh, you know, partial black. I mean, he

1130
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: said something about wigs yesterday and then you stuck your

1131
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: head out and he was like, oh, one with a wig.

1132
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: He's got comfortable left. He was comfortable, he was he

1133
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 1: was comfortable. But when is Noah, When is a white

1134
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 1: a tall white Jewish man comfortable? Honestly, I mean they're

1135
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 1: the most comfortable people in the world. Uh, Chloe, if

1136
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 1: you could say, if you could tell the truth to

1137
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: somebody who maybe didn't tell the truth to you in

1138
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: the past, could we what would that be? Who would

1139
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: you talk to? What would you say? Who did you

1140
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: lie to? Or keep something from now your chance. I don't.

1141
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 3: I don't think I have a moment where I wish

1142
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 3: I had said something differently to somebody.

1143
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: Really you never like you don't never be in the

1144
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: shower like I should have said, and then you come

1145
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: up with like a whole I feel like you watch

1146
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 1: what you say, like yeh, because I realized that I.

1147
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 3: There are times when I have been flipping, you know,

1148
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 3: when you just be talking to me, talking and people

1149
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,479
Speaker 3: like I've had I've had two instances of people coming

1150
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 3: to me years later and being like, you know, because

1151
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 3: when you said that thing to me, it really made

1152
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,280
Speaker 3: me feel like shit, or it really made me like reevaluate,

1153
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 3: and I'm like.

1154
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: I could fucking know what I said. Like every party

1155
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,320
Speaker 1: years back, there was holding on to that. Then I

1156
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: let that shit go.

1157
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 3: I ain't even really like, you know, a friend of mine,

1158
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 3: a friend of mine at the time, she stopped talking

1159
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 3: to me, and initially I just thought she was like

1160
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 3: in her feelings about something that didn't relate to me.

1161
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 3: But then she came to me years later and was like, yeah,

1162
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 3: because I just felt like you like you said X,

1163
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 3: Y and Z to me, and I just felt like

1164
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 3: that wasn't supportive, and I was like, I honestly didn't

1165
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 3: even put any weight behind it.

1166
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: And she also was dealing with her own stuff as

1167
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: well though, because.

1168
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 2: If if one thing, you say one thing to me

1169
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 2: and I'm not going to speak to you like and

1170
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: not even address it, that's like I got a whole

1171
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 2: bunch of other things going on in my life as well.

1172
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but how much stuff between them had been brilliant?

1173
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1174
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,720
Speaker 3: It's like because if you're not exactly, if you're not honest,

1175
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 3: like if you you two are really close friends, and

1176
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 3: I feel like at any infraction, you should bring it

1177
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 3: up because it will just breathe contention and then next thing,

1178
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 3: you know, you'll eat her lass potato chip and she'll

1179
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 3: be like, fuck this friendship, you.

1180
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 1: Know what I Yeah, you kind of cry too.

1181
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 3: And I think I'm more mindful, especially when it comes

1182
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 3: to like my friends, family, to address it as much

1183
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 3: as I can before it becomes a big thing. I

1184
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,240
Speaker 3: don't like something, if I feel like you said something

1185
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: that I didn't appreciate, then I'll you know, and I'm

1186
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 3: and I'm not above apologizing, so I will apologize because

1187
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 3: you know, when you know when you care about people,

1188
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 3: you can tell when you hurt their feelings. And I

1189
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 3: think an immature person be like so what, they'll get

1190
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 3: over it and a lot of time, yes, that's rude. Yeah,

1191
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 3: you kind of have to apologize and you know, say

1192
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you or hurt you,

1193
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 3: you know. And also the apology has to be good.

1194
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 3: You can't just be like, I'm sorry that what I

1195
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 3: said hurt you, versus I'm sorry for what I said.

1196
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry that you you didn't like what I said.

1197
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 1: I hate to apologize feel that way. Yeah, no, don't. Don't.

1198
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 3: Don't be apologizing about my feelings, apologizing about what you

1199
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 3: said to make me feel this way.

1200
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: Take ownership, Chloe. You should be like a mediator or something. Yeah,

1201
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: in a past life maybe I would, or like a

1202
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 1: pastor's wife, a youth minister. You had it. I felt

1203
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 1: like you could do a little book. Little book, you

1204
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 1: can do a little fix your life. It's giving me

1205
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: a brad. I see it. I see it. You'd be

1206
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: Oprah in a sweatshirt. You're just sitting on a couch,

1207
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: mad comfy. What's the end goal for you? Like? What

1208
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: like in an ideal world, where would you end up

1209
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: an ideal world.

1210
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 3: I have my own company now, but really bringing it

1211
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 3: to fruition, like from beginning to end. I want to write, produce, direct,

1212
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:30,320
Speaker 3: you know, not necessarily starring, but appearing works that I create.

1213
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 3: I'm all about creating my own, my own thing. I

1214
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 3: don't really rely on other people to do stuff for me,

1215
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 3: and I think that comes from the bullying of being

1216
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,439
Speaker 3: the only child. So I definitely want to incorporate people

1217
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 3: into my vision. But I'm just going to compromise who

1218
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,399
Speaker 3: I am and what I want to achieve to fit

1219
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 3: in somebody else's stuff. And it's okay to take a

1220
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 3: little bit more time, but to be one hundred percent

1221
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 3: happy in who you are and what you've achieved.

1222
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 1: Oh that, I was like, that was like the most

1223
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 1: wealth thrown out answer to that question. I feel like

1224
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 1: you've been having that on you, Like, that's just a

1225
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: question that that out into the universe. She was, She

1226
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: was prepared city If I asked you the same question,

1227
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 1: would you even like my end goal?

1228
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I want to believe in myself

1229
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 2: more because I have good ideas.

1230
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: Take off the wigses, No, that's what the beliefs. You

1231
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: start tired of you, you gotta go. I mean that

1232
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: is it is is symptomatic. Bro so tired, I can't.

1233
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 1: I feel look like ship. My head looks crazy. No

1234
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 1: listen a lot of it. It's mainly for convenience. I

1235
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: understand it.

1236
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 3: But you also realize that the convenience and sometimes is

1237
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 3: short changing you appreciating who you are. If you're constantly ignoring,

1238
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 3: it's like being fat. It's like, yeah, I could little

1239
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 3: work out, but I don't want to spend the time

1240
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 3: the hour and a half a day, or I don't

1241
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 3: want to change my diet. It's such easier to eat it.

1242
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 3: Like the convenience. Convenience can also kill you.

1243
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 1: Hmm, what does My hair is not fat? Okay, it's

1244
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:05,879
Speaker 1: not fat.

1245
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 2: It's just financially unstable. It's extremely hard. And sometimes I'm

1246
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: just like as another woman telling a woman, like, well

1247
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 2: you should just you know, I feel like you could

1248
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 2: do this with your hair. It's like, can I come

1249
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: over my house and just help me?

1250
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 1: Every day?

1251
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 3: I'm more than willing to show you how to do

1252
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 3: different styles for yours.

1253
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: There's tutorials all over. I see the tutorials and I

1254
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: see them and I'm like, that's nice, that's nice, but

1255
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: you don't believe it works for you. Listen, I could barely.

1256
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: That goes back to the due to coloring books. I

1257
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: can't draw in the lines how I'm going to set

1258
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 1: up my hair, but do these braids?

1259
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 3: And what understand that that is a part of the confidence.

1260
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 3: So what I'm saying is that your hair is not

1261
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 3: literally your hair. It's symbolic of other things. So when

1262
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 3: you're saying that you're not confident, I wish I have

1263
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 3: more confidence. We're like, well we'll you're here. I don't

1264
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 3: want to do it because I don't feel like i'll

1265
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 3: do it. That's all of that is confident.

1266
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 1: Damn dude. Full circle, Chloe, are you the hair? Because

1267
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm feeling you are. I feel like you really are. Okay,

1268
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 1: So finish your goals. You said you want to be

1269
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: more confident. I just want to be more confident and

1270
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: my ideas because I have really good ideas, and when

1271
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: I flesh them out, I know that they can come

1272
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: to something bigger than what they are just in my head.

1273
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: And I think that's like where it first starts. Just

1274
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: making sure my ideas are on paper and me being

1275
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 1: able to pitch them properly. So people will be like, oh, yeah,

1276
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm all bored with that because I see shows and

1277
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, what was the pitch for that? How did

1278
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 1: they make that happen? Because that don't make no damn sense.

1279
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: It's a lot of bad TV on TV, but some

1280
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: great pitches. They was in that room, like, well, we

1281
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: know people that like they are constantly on pilots and

1282
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: they constantly shooting shows, but the shows be trash and

1283
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: they get canceled after the first two episodes. But that

1284
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: person is on something else in like another couple of months,

1285
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: and you're like, well, what these meetings weird.

1286
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 3: Once you sell yourself, then they always airmark you, especially

1287
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 3: if you're a person of color, and they're like, oh,

1288
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 3: we need a black woman. Okay, we have ten women

1289
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 3: that we've met and seen that we like, we just

1290
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 3: drop them in until one fits. And then also, you

1291
00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 3: got to realize when you do pitches, everybody in the room,

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Speaker 3: which is why I'm more prone to do stuff on

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Speaker 3: my own or like with my own network of people.

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Speaker 3: Whenever you go to a business meeting, everybody look around

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Speaker 3: that room, that conference table, everybody in that conference table

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Speaker 3: has to has to validate their salary. So every single

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Speaker 3: person is going to try and figure out some way

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Speaker 3: to add a ditty high hat to your shit so

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Speaker 3: that they look good and it gives reasons, oh why

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Speaker 3: they make two hundred thousand dollars a year. So you

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Speaker 3: go in it with your own pitch and it has

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Speaker 3: to go through a filter ten people, whether they're qualified

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Speaker 3: or not, and they all end up changing your shit,

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Speaker 3: and then you end up having a product that you

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Speaker 3: hate because everybody had to put their hand in it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So you know, don't think that you need a network

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Speaker 3: or industry people to validate you.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you just may have to do it on your own.

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Speaker 1: Boom shacka lock a boom. Thank you, Chloe.

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Speaker 2: This has been so everything and more. I just I

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Speaker 2: wasn't expecting it to be this deep. But also feel like,

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Speaker 2: see you now you got crystals in your pocket?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? But you do got crystal stuff? You see pillow? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you put incense in your cervix? What's up? I

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Speaker 1: feel like I feel like you had the energy, the

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Speaker 1: chakras and everything you gotta. You gotta dreamcatch your tattoo

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Speaker 1: on your lower back. You got a third eye on

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Speaker 1: your clitter. What's up words, Chloe? Where can people listening

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Speaker 1: catch you? Oh yeah, I have a podcast. Maria is

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Speaker 1: going to be a guest on it very soon. It's

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Speaker 1: called Social Misfit with Chloe Hilliard and you can see

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Speaker 1: me on Chloe hilliar dot com.

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Speaker 3: I have all my shows listed. Join my mailing list

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Speaker 3: on my website Chloe hillary dot com. Jow my mailing

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Speaker 3: list because I send out exclusives in the new year

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Speaker 3: of video clips and show promotions and ticket sales and

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Speaker 3: all that stuff. So join the list. And I'm on

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Speaker 3: Instagram and Twitter. Chloe underscore Hilliard. Can you spell Hilliard?

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Speaker 1: H I L L I A R D Boomillard. You

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Speaker 1: could catch us here every week or catch us on

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Speaker 1: Patreon for Patreon episodes every freaking Wednesday. That was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: This is so good. Sidney, come over here, let me

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Speaker 1: grease your scalt. Will you do that for me? No?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. Bye God,