WEBVTT - Becoming a Content Queen (w/ Danielle Young)

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Bot, Dawn Day is here live in full effect.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's a surprise. I am doing something special, something I've

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<v Speaker 1>never done. I am doing my Vitamin DEP podcast live.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Agie, hey boo, thank you so much for joining

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<v Speaker 1>me today. So I was just saying that I am

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<v Speaker 1>doing my Vitamin D podcast live, and I'm doing it

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<v Speaker 1>with the content queen, the content queen herself, Danielle Young.

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<v Speaker 1>So she'll be in at two pm. Guys, I'm stepping

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<v Speaker 1>out on faith with my dreams, okay, um, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm grateful. I'm grateful you're here. I'm grateful that

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<v Speaker 1>that you can experience this with me. So I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to engage. If you have a question, hit me up.

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<v Speaker 1>She's coming through. Hey, I was just saying that, this

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<v Speaker 1>is uh my Vitamin D podcast. Uh. In about a

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<v Speaker 1>minute or so, Danielle Young, she's coming through and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about what it means to go after your

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<v Speaker 1>dreams and what it looks like and what that feels like,

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<v Speaker 1>um and everything in between. So I'm excited. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody go tell somebody Dante's about to do this. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going live with it, okay, And I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 1>get ready to get inspired. That's all I gotta say. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and not just from me, from Danielle as well. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>when I tell you that this woman is amazing and

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<v Speaker 1>in ways when you look at and you're just like wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you inspire me. That's what I inspire. That's the life

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm living where I can look at somebody next

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<v Speaker 1>to me and it's like, Queen, I see you, Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for inspiring me. Hey down, my name sakes, So

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<v Speaker 1>M Danielle is coming and so how how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's um as president's story. We got a president.

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<v Speaker 1>We like this one. Maybe. But as I was saying, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys know that My bodym D podcast is on

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<v Speaker 1>I Heart Radio and whichever platforms there are out there,

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<v Speaker 1>you can also catch it out on Steve Harvey FM

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<v Speaker 1>dot com, Forward Slash Podcast. You're gonna sproll down and

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna see doing day. So I was saying that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to do the podcast live. It's my first

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<v Speaker 1>time and I'm excited. I love doing things that excite

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<v Speaker 1>me like this and scared the mess out of me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I sought it's about and I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>what people gotta realize when when going out to your dreams,

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<v Speaker 1>like you gotta go out there and you gotta take

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<v Speaker 1>a chance, you gotta go out there and uh see

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<v Speaker 1>how you feel about it. And sometimes it's gonna be unnerving.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it's so interesting. People be like, Dawn,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be right, Dawn, how do I go after?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, you gotta do it when it scares you.

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<v Speaker 1>And when it scares you, that's when you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's when the energy starts moving. That's when you start

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<v Speaker 1>sweating and shining because things are moving and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>stop moving until you're dead. Do you hear what I'm saying? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so interesting that even though we know like

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<v Speaker 1>this energy it creates life, we got this sense of

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<v Speaker 1>consistently trying to stop when it starts to heat up

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<v Speaker 1>in the kitchen. When aren't you trying to cook up

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<v Speaker 1>on your dreams? Aren't you trying to cook up on

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<v Speaker 1>your best life? So what are we talking about here?

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<v Speaker 1>So I say, at this point you have to ask

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<v Speaker 1>yourself what it is that you want you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can't expect to see it just yet. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be different from what you expect because you've never

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<v Speaker 1>had it, So sometimes you're gonna have to figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you can't start, take the heat, step out

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen, and if your dreams are existing, if your

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<v Speaker 1>dreams are here for you, you you have to understand that

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to take its chance, and that chance

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna be rough, and it's gonna take you to

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<v Speaker 1>grow because you've never done it. I'm gonna mention this

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<v Speaker 1>when Danielle comes on, and I'm actually gonna text her

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<v Speaker 1>um because one thing I don't think people think about

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<v Speaker 1>uh a lot, is that will you ask for more?

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta stretch for more? Do you understand what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 1>And when you talk about stretching, we're talking about pulling,

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about turning up the heat. So what do

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<v Speaker 1>you want? You're ready to turn up the heat or what?

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<v Speaker 1>Go on? Only if you're ready, Because this podcast is

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<v Speaker 1>all about getting you excited about your life. You hear me,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it's about. I want you to know too.

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<v Speaker 1>This is another thing. As we're gonna get on this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>Dan y'all is charging up her phone? Is that on

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast? Vitamin to Yeah, you're gonna get excited, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But let me be clear, let me be crystal clear

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<v Speaker 1>with you, because when you talk about the truth, that's

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<v Speaker 1>talking about cutting on the lights. I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>you can show up as part of you, Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't just fix part of you and expecting all your

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<v Speaker 1>dreams to come to fruition. So on the Vitamin D podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling people out. You hear me sometimes calling myself out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just saying, because it's gonna charge you to

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<v Speaker 1>get uncomfortable in that way, because you're asking to be great, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Can somebody throw up my hand if you agree. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're asking to be great, you're gonna have to realize

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna our charge you change. Are you ready to change?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to be dope? I don't know about you,

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<v Speaker 1>but when I look at it and when I think

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<v Speaker 1>on myself and what I'm doing, it comes down to

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<v Speaker 1>the chance of that I don't have another choice. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's so interesting even right now just sharing on another level. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm approaching the season of my mother's death and

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird. I say it's weird because, um, for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I never can really remember the date um,

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<v Speaker 1>but my body does. And when I think about how

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<v Speaker 1>I go after my dreams, you know it's because that

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<v Speaker 1>time away from my mom. So I asked you, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your why you know Eric Thomas, he's from Detroit. He says,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you have to have want your dreams as

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<v Speaker 1>bad as you want to breathe. How bad do you

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<v Speaker 1>want your dreams? Because if I tried to constrict you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>if I tried to hold you down underwater, you are

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<v Speaker 1>fighting for your life. It's not because you're saying I wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>Your body is reacting. Do you understand? That's why when

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<v Speaker 1>I think when they say that you gotta be crazy

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<v Speaker 1>for your dreams, that's what they mean, because you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>go on a full all assault. So don't sit here

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<v Speaker 1>and say that you want to be great but you're comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you understand what I'm saying. You can't sit here

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<v Speaker 1>and want to be great and not making the steps

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<v Speaker 1>that you gotta make. And so my guests that they

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<v Speaker 1>have coming on right now. V Danielle, young guy, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about all of that and more. She's joining. Okay, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to enter up the firm and he

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<v Speaker 1>was going he was going with somewhere. Well, I meeting Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to get to try and go on because

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<v Speaker 1>I know what we're about to go. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be amazing. But I've been telling people get excited about

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<v Speaker 1>your life and understanding. Well, we're about to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>we're hitting on some things that's on the good and

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<v Speaker 1>the bad, because that's what it means to cut on

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<v Speaker 1>the lights. We're coming on the lights today and we're

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<v Speaker 1>to modify you. Okay, okay, we're at a queen. So

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<v Speaker 1>people have been listening. We've been warmed up. Um. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the first installment a Vitamin D life. In case

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know, let me just tell you. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>Vitamin D is a multi vitamin for your mind, your body,

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<v Speaker 1>and soul. Vitamin D is designed to get you excited

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<v Speaker 1>about your life. Vitamin D has been instilled so that

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<v Speaker 1>you can live your life more purpose and for a purpose. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>can tell me one person, Dan Yo that doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get excited about their life? Listen, Well, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know those type of people. Hello, and here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>As Vitamin D was installed, it's upon off of my name.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, Dawn means the son, so I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>to shed light into your life. But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember that song that we learned as a child,

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<v Speaker 1>This little line I'm gonna let it shine. I do

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<v Speaker 1>remember that, so still alive. So with I'll further doo

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<v Speaker 1>list Daniel Young, It's time for your Vitamin D. Right

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<v Speaker 1>with me, I get excited about Let me just say

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<v Speaker 1>good Morrow. The professional is absolutely um, good morning, good afternoon,

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<v Speaker 1>good evening. Wherever you may be, I want to let

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<v Speaker 1>you know that you are tuned into the Vitamin D podcast. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have a special guest with me on today.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, as you come back time and time again

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<v Speaker 1>to hear this podcast, you know I always tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm here to get you excited about your life. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but more importantly, I want people to identify, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to identify. How are you at your greatest stats? Act?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm yeapp and you see this beautiful, beautiful queen

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<v Speaker 1>that we are going to edify today on my screen.

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<v Speaker 1>You just sound so good. I'm just like, um, she's

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<v Speaker 1>a cartoon queen, she's the contour queen, A journalist. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>say actress because I've seen some of your sketches. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>left climate in the name of Jesus, who already is

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<v Speaker 1>because we're walking in it, am Um, your host. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how we met a producer. Yeah, and in case you know,

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<v Speaker 1>someone's been shining under the rock somewhere. You're also soul

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<v Speaker 1>Ivy's best friend. Hey, you know the other. So you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if you can do me a favorite and just throw

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<v Speaker 1>some claps up and welcome Dan yo ya. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say, I came out. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>throw my own clips welcome, oh seraders in the building

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<v Speaker 1>pace to read. Uh, how are you doing? Girl? But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, pandemic amazing, pandemic amazing. I feel, you know, exceptionally,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing exceptionally well. I cannot complain um, my family

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<v Speaker 1>as well, and you know, so I'm just nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>be said about. It's just a weird time to be

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<v Speaker 1>in to be you know, immobile for the most part. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, it's not a complete loss, I definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I've been able to have time

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<v Speaker 1>for the type of growth that I've been needing, um

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<v Speaker 1>at the time in the space to do that. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's been just I've been so grateful for that. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I just I can't complain. It's just we

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<v Speaker 1>in this weird time. But I'm alive. I'm alive, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thriving. Yes, yes, um. You know, for me, this

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<v Speaker 1>pandemic has definitely been a blessing. And I say it

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<v Speaker 1>because there's a quote I always say. I said, what

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<v Speaker 1>allows the diamond to shine are the multitudes of cuts

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<v Speaker 1>that have been placed within it. Right, well, Daniel, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the diamond? It was once a piece of cold under

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<v Speaker 1>some pressure. Some of the most amazing things that occurred

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<v Speaker 1>to me in my life have been in the pandemic

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<v Speaker 1>because I was forced to stop and say, Dawn, you're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go after your dreams? Wait a minute, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, let's see this. And I said this when

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<v Speaker 1>I was on your Stories Told podcast, right um, episode eight,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you check it out. Okay, come out with

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<v Speaker 1>the reference already ready going for a good streets to

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<v Speaker 1>xact reference. But I say that because we you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I talked about it a little bit before you came on.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about Eric Thomas. He's from Detroit and

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<v Speaker 1>he's says on his his I got his motivational album

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<v Speaker 1>and he talks about this thing is and how you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta want your dream as bad as you want to breathe,

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<v Speaker 1>and how your body is sometimes reacting like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a matter if you have a choice. If somebody tried

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<v Speaker 1>to hold you under the water, your body is gonna fight.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's gonna be depressed when you're tired and all that. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So although my breath wasn't leaving me literally, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I felt like, I felt stuck. And what was

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<v Speaker 1>it before me was the Red Sea because it was like, Dawn,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you gonna do? And that's when I think

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta realize when you gotta have that faith. Because

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<v Speaker 1>when Moses was standing at the red see how tall

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<v Speaker 1>was the water? How why was the sea be? Could

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<v Speaker 1>you imagine what was in it? And you just have

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<v Speaker 1>to get to the other side. What now, whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not it really happened, We gotta think figuratively. But the

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<v Speaker 1>illustration and the book was saying that, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a minute to separate. So in that moment I made

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<v Speaker 1>some tough to say, just damn you and I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be sent here where you're in front of you had

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<v Speaker 1>I not made the decision. Mum hum and we met

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years ago on the red carpet. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah yeah yeah. Sweat and bullets, sweating bullets, you and

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<v Speaker 1>your umbrella. And I heard this voice over yonder, Hey

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<v Speaker 1>queen black List. Yes. Yes, I was excited because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yo, that's smart. The umbrella. That was because

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<v Speaker 1>it was really hot on that carpet and I had

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<v Speaker 1>a long sleeve. It was like butchering hot. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, that's so smart. And then I mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>it cut the lights when I was like, who is

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<v Speaker 1>who is this lady? Who is this chick? That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I said, no disrespect, said who is this check? I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, your vibe was contagious, your energy was contagious. Everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>every celebrity on the carpet was galling for Dan Yoe like, hey, bo,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming. Good to see you again. I said wow,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said she looks like me. She's another girl

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<v Speaker 1>out here that's like me and doing it. Then I

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<v Speaker 1>began to follow you because I said who is this girl?

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<v Speaker 1>You know we had went to the after party, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, she and I saw all the

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<v Speaker 1>work that you've done on your projects. Um, you know

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<v Speaker 1>we could stay out that night. Yeah, you remember remember

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<v Speaker 1>that was a fun night. I just remember the fact

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<v Speaker 1>of how you know, just looking at your body of work,

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<v Speaker 1>from the over explainer, from what you're doing with the root,

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<v Speaker 1>from what you're doing with just everything right. And I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting in my stay, I said, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>have Dan Yell on my podcast, but I gotta make

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<v Speaker 1>ain'tle different. You a beast. Anybody can look at your

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<v Speaker 1>bio and say that, right, thank you. But you mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>something um on the episode that we were on, and

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<v Speaker 1>you talked about a transitional moment. But I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was interesting because even recently you put up a post

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<v Speaker 1>and you said how your dreams kind of unfolded and

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<v Speaker 1>came to life. And I want to play a snippet

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<v Speaker 1>of that, right, and I want you to start, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to begin to tell the story how

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<v Speaker 1>did she get there to what she is right now?

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we say this thing and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to insert this guy's we asked to be great, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you asked to be amazing, You asked God to grow,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it starts raining. I'll take a listen. I

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<v Speaker 1>really had a lot of um. Some would say a

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<v Speaker 1>series of unfortunate events, but I got fired, right, before

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<v Speaker 1>the pandemic, Like on March three, it was my last day.

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<v Speaker 1>Um and at essence, I'll say that, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to like spring into action because my plan was actually

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<v Speaker 1>to leave. Um, I was going to stay until until April.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, so the end of April, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out and then I'm gonna getting you know, do this

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<v Speaker 1>in the summer and um and yeah, I got told

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<v Speaker 1>on March third that that was my last day, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, okay. I didn't also didn't know a

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<v Speaker 1>pandemic was coming, so I just thought, okay, maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>time to just go ahead and do this thing where

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<v Speaker 1>I said I was gonna do it and just bet

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<v Speaker 1>on myself. And so I went full throttle with it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But I didn't know what I was doing. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like I knew, I knew what I wanted,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew what I my intentions. Worse, I just

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<v Speaker 1>went with that. Talk to me. Yeah, I just went

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<v Speaker 1>with that. I mean, I knew that I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>continue to interview people because that's something that I just

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy doing so much and and like collecting people's stories

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<v Speaker 1>and telling them or had or being the vessel where

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<v Speaker 1>they're able to tell their story in a different way,

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<v Speaker 1>um that they may not have considered before. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to keep doing that. So within the space

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<v Speaker 1>of everything shutting down, UM, I was just like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's at home, people are on the Graham, let me

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<v Speaker 1>just start interviewing people on social media, like, let me

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<v Speaker 1>just start talking to the people where the people are at, um.

0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:54.760
<v Speaker 1>And it just became real quick, which was h is

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<v Speaker 1>an interview series that I have now, Um that is

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<v Speaker 1>just design and to like just come at people while

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<v Speaker 1>they're in their social media scrolls, while they're in this space,

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<v Speaker 1>just real quick, um. But it's conversations that like, what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do with it and what I hope

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<v Speaker 1>I am doing, what I hope to continue to do,

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<v Speaker 1>is to gather information from these people who have been

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<v Speaker 1>able to unlock and get to these levels in their

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<v Speaker 1>field that seemed untouchable for people a lot of the times.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to unlock what they have done, the

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<v Speaker 1>things that they tap into, the things that they uh

0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:39.200
<v Speaker 1>subscribe to believe in, you know, engage in, and make

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<v Speaker 1>that accessible to the people who watched. So like that

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<v Speaker 1>was always my intention and that I've been able to

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<v Speaker 1>refine and it's so crazy too that I've been able

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<v Speaker 1>to refine that part of not only my career, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, what is my purpose my own situation

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<v Speaker 1>not being a part of these you know places where

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like that validated me to be a staff

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<v Speaker 1>member at x y z UM And it's still an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing thing to do that that's not an easy feat um.

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<v Speaker 1>And just because I experienced a space where I was

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<v Speaker 1>let go in those spaces, or experience being let go

0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:26.120
<v Speaker 1>in those spaces, didn't necessarily mean that I'm not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be doing this um. And so I think that

0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:32.399
<v Speaker 1>that is like, really what has been able to like

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<v Speaker 1>be to shine up and made so fresh, so clean,

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<v Speaker 1>so brand like, so brand new for me to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to do that, to be able to see that

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<v Speaker 1>in this in the space that I've been able to

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<v Speaker 1>create for myself, So that to me is where the

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<v Speaker 1>story is continuing um and in the space of And

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<v Speaker 1>this is something that I say, I try to say

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time because I want to burn it

0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:03.199
<v Speaker 1>into my own bread as well. But we need to

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<v Speaker 1>no matter who you are, where you are, what you are, whatever,

0:21:06.160 --> 0:21:09.600
<v Speaker 1>move as though we are the shots, not that we

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<v Speaker 1>need someone to bring us, give us, gift us, present

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<v Speaker 1>us with a shot you like. So it's the creation

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself versus being like, oh well, if I could

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<v Speaker 1>just get this, or if I could just be like that,

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<v Speaker 1>or if I could just have this following, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>if I get this co sign like it. That doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think is the is the drive the drivers yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>So the creation and the nurturing of the building of

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<v Speaker 1>may not be cute, um, And a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>times it's frustrating, um. And to your point earlier, like

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<v Speaker 1>there's no one there to tell you, you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>do the thing. You have to say, like I have

0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:07.840
<v Speaker 1>to motivate myself within it to do it. Um. And

0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:10.399
<v Speaker 1>you might think that it might be easy to motivate

0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 1>yourself to do it when it's yours. It's not. Definitely,

0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:21.359
<v Speaker 1>it's not, especially in a time like this as well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>where there's just so much constant grieving and reminder that

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<v Speaker 1>we're like not moving but we're moving. Um. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just I mean I always get like kind of off

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<v Speaker 1>where I was going. But I think to your original

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<v Speaker 1>question of the continuation from that clip, it's literally the

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<v Speaker 1>doing for oneself that yeah, yeah, that that is continuing

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<v Speaker 1>to push me, to keep me, to motivate me, to

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<v Speaker 1>allow me to be to be ready and willing for expansion,

0:23:02.440 --> 0:23:05.600
<v Speaker 1>because nobody's gonna push you, right, And that's the thing

0:23:05.640 --> 0:23:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I think people feels realized. People think like, oh, you know,

0:23:08.359 --> 0:23:10.240
<v Speaker 1>when I work for myself, you know, I ain't working

0:23:10.280 --> 0:23:13.200
<v Speaker 1>for nobody else's watch. I'm not going in for them.

0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:15.320
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what you're gonna have to do for yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>You're up for still working for some moment, it's yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And essentially, if you're putting a product out there that

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<v Speaker 1>you want somebody to buy, you're essentially working for that

0:23:24.320 --> 0:23:31.840
<v Speaker 1>that buy. Yeah, unless you're like revolutionizing maps and that's

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<v Speaker 1>the ministry and the work aiming the thing that you're

0:23:35.119 --> 0:23:38.200
<v Speaker 1>doing and it's making you money, you're not gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>say layout and to rest and to this being and

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<v Speaker 1>your you know, and your comfort. Um So I know that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot that it there's a lot to consider.

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<v Speaker 1>But wait a minute, Danye, I gotta stop you. You

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<v Speaker 1>said there's a lot to being comfort, but there's no

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<v Speaker 1>such thing as called for when we're talking about going

0:24:01.040 --> 0:24:04.520
<v Speaker 1>after dreams, because you're acquiring something that may not be

0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 1>standing or sitting or visually right there in front of

0:24:07.600 --> 0:24:11.320
<v Speaker 1>you that you're holding is right. So then I think,

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<v Speaker 1>and this goes to attest to the fact of how

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about whether or not how bad somebody is

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<v Speaker 1>willing to work for their dreams. Like, you know, I'm

0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:20.479
<v Speaker 1>gonna go from a spiritual sense. Let's just go at it, right,

0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:23.760
<v Speaker 1>You're like, God, let me be at my own TV show.

0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:26.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm about to do a variety show with sketches. I'm

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:28.399
<v Speaker 1>gonna go to the film and TV where I'm on

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:32.919
<v Speaker 1>camera and I'm interviewing all the movie stars and TV personalities. Amen.

0:24:33.400 --> 0:24:38.400
<v Speaker 1>But we had to realize that that Danielle they had

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:40.280
<v Speaker 1>to run to that interview and probably should have went

0:24:40.320 --> 0:24:45.320
<v Speaker 1>to the doctor. It took that growth. It took that

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Danielle that probably lost that sleepless Nights. It took that

0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:51.719
<v Speaker 1>growth to know that when the opportunity comes, what it's

0:24:51.720 --> 0:24:54.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna take for the efficiency, what it's gonna take for

0:24:54.119 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 1>the preparation. But here's the thing, and we want to

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 1>go from a spiritual sense. And we talked about the

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Potter's House because you said I'm a creator. You were

0:25:01.400 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 1>made by a creator. So you're essentially here to create, right, yeah,

0:25:05.320 --> 0:25:08.680
<v Speaker 1>and we literally say, oh God, mold me, make me better.

0:25:10.280 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 1>If somebody is pressing on you, spilling you in circles,

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:21.879
<v Speaker 1>they froll a water to tears because I gotta move you.

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I gotta put grooves in you so when you take

0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:28.160
<v Speaker 1>a step, you're not gonna slip and fall. See you're

0:25:28.160 --> 0:25:30.360
<v Speaker 1>looking at it like a start, but you don't understand

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:32.840
<v Speaker 1>why you need it. I need you to get hurt

0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:38.760
<v Speaker 1>so you can get that callous yeah, yeah, yeah, and

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 1>then you get it to the fire because guess what,

0:25:41.320 --> 0:25:45.040
<v Speaker 1>it's time to lock in. Here's the thing, Danielle, how

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<v Speaker 1>can we and you tell me this, how come we

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<v Speaker 1>can see efforts more easily with going to work out

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:57.080
<v Speaker 1>because you're pulling muscle, you're straining your sweating. Then we

0:25:57.160 --> 0:25:59.560
<v Speaker 1>can't for going after the dreams? Right? Why is that?

0:26:01.560 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, you said, why can't we see that? Yeah?

0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:11.119
<v Speaker 1>That is the same tassas that is. I mean, because

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:15.479
<v Speaker 1>it's not there's not a lot of physical gratuity to it,

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:17.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like you might see an

0:26:17.720 --> 0:26:20.840
<v Speaker 1>ent or two, you know, come off, you might see

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the pants fit different, you might feel different going up

0:26:24.040 --> 0:26:26.720
<v Speaker 1>the stairs and you're like, Okay, now I see why

0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing I'm doing this smoothie challenge, like I see it.

0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 1>But when you're going for the dream, there's not a

0:26:33.560 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of immediate gratuity or tangible gratuity at all. Sometimes

0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:44.720
<v Speaker 1>you know like that it's just it's every leap gets

0:26:44.760 --> 0:26:48.760
<v Speaker 1>a reward, for sure, but you still got to actually

0:26:48.880 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 1>leap and kind of see what happens from that jump.

0:26:52.200 --> 0:26:55.399
<v Speaker 1>It's not just the leap and a sore um. And

0:26:55.480 --> 0:26:58.479
<v Speaker 1>sometimes it might be you never you never freaking up.

0:26:59.080 --> 0:27:03.720
<v Speaker 1>But the thing is it's going to require more from you,

0:27:03.880 --> 0:27:07.919
<v Speaker 1>is always going to require more of you, right to

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:10.720
<v Speaker 1>to be able to get to get to that, to

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 1>maintain that, and then to continue forward. So I feel

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:20.119
<v Speaker 1>like there's just so much that we need to understand

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>comes with wanting, praying, wishing, hoping whatever for the more.

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>It's not going to ever be this Like I feel

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:34.840
<v Speaker 1>like it's the same thing when I when I pray

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:37.480
<v Speaker 1>about like the idea of me wanting to be more

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:40.520
<v Speaker 1>patient and to be to lead with love and all

0:27:40.520 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 1>those things. Right, Like it's cute, but it's a thing

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:47.520
<v Speaker 1>that comes with like a practice. It's not going to

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:51.520
<v Speaker 1>ever be. Oh, I'm gonna show up at Cinderella tomorrow

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>and start singing with birds that it. No, it's just

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:59.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be presented with opportunities to exhibit that

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 1>patient said, I'm pray aim for shibit, the kindness and

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:05.320
<v Speaker 1>the love that I'm asking God to build up and

0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:08.480
<v Speaker 1>within me and to show you know, other people. It's

0:28:08.520 --> 0:28:12.000
<v Speaker 1>not a gift that's given in a box that you

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>can just gied and just open and be like I

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:20.600
<v Speaker 1>am now more patient and kind. No, So you're presented

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<v Speaker 1>with the opportunities to exhibit that behavior that you're asking for.

0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Face that works is dead. It's always gonna be that way. Yeah,

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I would love to be able to serve a

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:36.480
<v Speaker 1>God that was like here, you're just asking for it.

0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 1>But that's just not how it works. We serve a

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:43.440
<v Speaker 1>God that allows us to do the work to get

0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:46.160
<v Speaker 1>the thing that we're asking for. It's not it's never

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>free these it's never Christmas. The gifts are earned and

0:28:52.840 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 1>it takes some weathering through the storm and a couple

0:28:55.440 --> 0:29:00.240
<v Speaker 1>of things you said that stay because the seasons forever aims.

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:02.960
<v Speaker 1>That's how you know that you're going, That's how you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're growing and you don't have to stay

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 1>down because down happens. What wait, come on, wait, see wait,

0:29:13.560 --> 0:29:15.480
<v Speaker 1>come on, wait a minute. See you know what I's

0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 1>out here. You talked about patients, and you talked about

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 1>the down. Right, we can understand the importance of the

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 1>down when we look up at a tree. Let me

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 1>say it again. We can understand the importance of a

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:33.280
<v Speaker 1>down when we look up at the tree because how

0:29:33.320 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>tall the tree is kind of gives us an indication

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>how deep deep the roots are. Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 1>And so when people say, wait a minute, let me

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 1>go after this dream, you don't realize that you gotta

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 1>wait for the leaves to sprout. It's a button there.

0:29:52.320 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 1>But because if you're asking God for more and you're

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 1>saying let me reach, like, look at you, you are

0:29:57.440 --> 0:29:59.960
<v Speaker 1>saying let me reach it. Since the last time we spoke,

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<v Speaker 1>I just stand in amazement of you. I look at

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.320
<v Speaker 1>you and I say thank you for inspiring me. You're

0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 1>the reason why vitamin D live right now is on

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I g because I said, wait a minute, I gotta

0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>come through dawing day No seriously, walking authority. So I

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:15.880
<v Speaker 1>thank you for that. But I say all that to

0:30:15.920 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 1>say is that when those challenges come, because the seasons

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:23.800
<v Speaker 1>are going to change, understanding the reasoning for the patients.

0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 1>We can understand it when we're making food, who's eating

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:32.120
<v Speaker 1>meat that's uncooked. We can understand it when we talk about, um,

0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 1>working not necessarily working out. But you can talk about

0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 1>it when your hair is not done. You can walk

0:30:36.360 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 1>outside with some white hair. That's not the style. So

0:30:38.920 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 1>why can't we understand that the taller we are asking God,

0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 1>the girl, we're just asking for the routes to stretch out. Now,

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:48.520
<v Speaker 1>you said this on a recent interview, you said, Um,

0:30:48.560 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 1>you talked about in this stage right now, how you're

0:30:50.600 --> 0:30:54.560
<v Speaker 1>feeling more connected to God more than ever tell me

0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 1>about that. I think that it's because of where we are, Like,

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I would hate to be like, oh, well,

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not going anywhere. Well, yeah, there's there's a

0:31:05.800 --> 0:31:07.959
<v Speaker 1>lot of there was. I live in New York City,

0:31:07.720 --> 0:31:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm in this media industry. There's a lot of ways

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 1>of which distractions can just be such an easy thread

0:31:16.520 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>of what I'm doing with this job, you know what

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like, of course I have to go out

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:23.000
<v Speaker 1>to that party right after work, and of course I

0:31:23.040 --> 0:31:24.680
<v Speaker 1>have to do this. Of course I have to fly

0:31:24.760 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>out to l A to cover that and do this,

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>and then fly back and then do that and then

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.239
<v Speaker 1>go over here and then cover that and before you

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:35.440
<v Speaker 1>and not to me, I'm a single girl with no children.

0:31:35.560 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 1>So God bless all of you that have all the

0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>other elements involved with life. But you know, there's still

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I gotta have a relationship with my mom. I gotta

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 1>do this, I gotta work out. Oh my gosh, I

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>love you your relationship with your mom, you know, but

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:55.760
<v Speaker 1>not just before you know it. There's just so many

0:31:55.840 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 1>things that are allowing you to not connect and to

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:03.239
<v Speaker 1>not look within and to not connect with God. And

0:32:03.280 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>so like those I would get those little moments, you know,

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 1>where I would be like I might pray when I

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>before I go to bed, or I might just fall asleep.

0:32:11.920 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 1>So now within this time, there's like really no excuse

0:32:17.960 --> 0:32:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to the other than to talk to God literally all

0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:23.760
<v Speaker 1>day long. Like we are in you know what I mean,

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 1>we are in here. So I just spend a lot

0:32:27.200 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 1>of time talking to God as I would myself, my friend,

0:32:31.880 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 1>my plants, like really just like really just talk lance,

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, just talking at having a conversation,

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 1>getting it out, stuff that like could end up on

0:32:43.560 --> 0:32:46.280
<v Speaker 1>somebody's Twitter feed where it shouldn't be, you know, like

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:49.760
<v Speaker 1>just getting it out. Um. So yeah, this time I

0:32:49.800 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 1>have used a lot of it to reconnect and to

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:58.800
<v Speaker 1>stay connected um with God. And I love that you

0:32:58.840 --> 0:33:01.360
<v Speaker 1>said that because we talked about the connector we just

0:33:01.360 --> 0:33:06.560
<v Speaker 1>talking about a relationship, right. And are you into vision boards? Yeah? Good?

0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I have it made them because you know, I live

0:33:08.160 --> 0:33:10.440
<v Speaker 1>in Brooklyn. There's nowhere to put all that stuff, right,

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:13.800
<v Speaker 1>but it's kind of like now everything is kind of visual,

0:33:13.840 --> 0:33:16.320
<v Speaker 1>so even putting up a rail or doing highlights or pictures,

0:33:16.360 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, you can kind of you're creating your reality.

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>But but I do do that and then you know,

0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:24.040
<v Speaker 1>in interest and all that. And you know, one thing

0:33:24.080 --> 0:33:25.960
<v Speaker 1>that I found that's really helped me along with my

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:30.960
<v Speaker 1>vision board, but also is journaling. Oh yes, oh, because

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:33.720
<v Speaker 1>that's another get it out so that you don't have

0:33:33.800 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>to get it out anywhere else. And I also I

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 1>used it for my dream so because you know, one

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:39.880
<v Speaker 1>thing that you just said that was interesting is that

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 1>when we talk about this whole notion of going all

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:46.480
<v Speaker 1>in and getting locked in with self, it's a communication,

0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:49.760
<v Speaker 1>like you said, and if I'm the spiritual being having

0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:52.240
<v Speaker 1>this human experience, this is nothing more than the physical

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 1>doing couldn't get connected with the spiritual doing. So I

0:33:54.640 --> 0:33:56.920
<v Speaker 1>can say, Okay, this is what I feel inside. Now

0:33:56.960 --> 0:34:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I gotta see it. Yeah. And the thing is that

0:34:01.040 --> 0:34:03.240
<v Speaker 1>I think that's, you know, just so amazing is that

0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 1>when you were talking about sun up to sundown. I

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:08.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know about you. How have you been able to

0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 1>balance it? Though? I don't balance it? Like what is balance?

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Like That's one of the things that I feel like

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I have an aversion towards being the person being interviewed

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:29.920
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like people see people getting interviewed and

0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:33.720
<v Speaker 1>they hear them as this like sage and this wisdom,

0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 1>and they have all the answers. And I really don't

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 1>want people to think that about me because I have

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>no idea what I'm doing half the time, you know,

0:34:43.320 --> 0:34:45.000
<v Speaker 1>not that I have no idea what I'm talking about,

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not an idiot, but like I'm just a

0:34:47.520 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>person living life and trying things and allowing myself the

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:55.919
<v Speaker 1>freedom to dream and then go for it. So like

0:34:57.320 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like I am never going to figure

0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 1>it out. I'm always gonna be working and being a

0:35:05.120 --> 0:35:10.320
<v Speaker 1>work in progress and remixing how I approach things or whatever.

0:35:10.440 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I've always gonna be in that space of like

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 1>experience and not like I know these things because I

0:35:20.040 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 1>have climbed this mountain. No, I've climbed the mountain now

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:27.279
<v Speaker 1>and I'm continuing to climb the mountain. And some things

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:29.360
<v Speaker 1>have worked for me, some things that haven't worked for me.

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm just still here, but I'm here. Like that's like, so, yeah,

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:39.839
<v Speaker 1>I never I don't know, I don't have no answers.

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.600
<v Speaker 1>I I definitely agree with you on the whole situation

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:45.560
<v Speaker 1>because if you come from a space and you're speaking

0:35:45.560 --> 0:35:46.960
<v Speaker 1>your truth, you know a lot of people I feel

0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 1>like they cant inspired because we were come authentic of

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 1>what our truth, our truth is and and yeah, we

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.040
<v Speaker 1>feel about something right. But then it's like that you

0:35:54.200 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 1>you're starting to put me in a box I did

0:35:55.840 --> 0:36:01.520
<v Speaker 1>not subscribe to. Yeah, like I don't know, it's uh

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:06.640
<v Speaker 1>light and I and I've done that to people and

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I still do that to people sometimes, um, people who

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:13.360
<v Speaker 1>I consider above me, and I'll call them a beacon.

0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:15.319
<v Speaker 1>And this that and the third and a lot of

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:17.920
<v Speaker 1>that is because I am a reverence kind of person.

0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:22.240
<v Speaker 1>I like really give giving people their flowers, and especially

0:36:22.280 --> 0:36:25.239
<v Speaker 1>if you are someone who I looked at and admired

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:28.960
<v Speaker 1>and been like, you showed me something that is possible

0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:31.360
<v Speaker 1>that I had no idea what's possible. So I have

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:35.399
<v Speaker 1>a feeling for you that's like and I get a chance,

0:36:37.719 --> 0:36:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I get a chance to meet those people, talk to

0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 1>those people, sometimes befriend those people, and I just I

0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:45.480
<v Speaker 1>had to like take a step back and be like,

0:36:46.120 --> 0:36:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I can still feel that way towards you, but I

0:36:48.920 --> 0:36:50.920
<v Speaker 1>don't have to feel like I've lifted you up on

0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:55.960
<v Speaker 1>high because that's not healthy and that's not good for

0:36:56.080 --> 0:36:59.800
<v Speaker 1>that person, either not myself or pressure. That's too much pressure.

0:36:59.800 --> 0:37:02.759
<v Speaker 1>I've to subscis thought I was the person. Yeah, I'm

0:37:02.800 --> 0:37:05.279
<v Speaker 1>just trying to figure things out. Some people thought it

0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:07.759
<v Speaker 1>was good, and they gave me the the awards, the

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:10.040
<v Speaker 1>accolades and the list and that to be able to

0:37:10.760 --> 0:37:13.520
<v Speaker 1>get to the next level. That's what's happening here. I've

0:37:13.560 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 1>got some divine creature who was set on earth to

0:37:17.560 --> 0:37:20.360
<v Speaker 1>be whatever. It's just that these things are happening for me,

0:37:20.440 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>and it's happening for me in a visible crazy big scale.

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's supports the whole cancel cultural situation

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:31.359
<v Speaker 1>because we build people over and we build people up

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:35.840
<v Speaker 1>to these unrealistic uh light sources, and and it doesn't

0:37:35.840 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 1>allow for people to be human, It doesn't allow for

0:37:38.280 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 1>people to learn lessons, it doesn't allow for people to

0:37:41.640 --> 0:37:46.799
<v Speaker 1>have redemption and be redeemed, which I think is really dangerous.

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:49.640
<v Speaker 1>It's it's you know, there's certain things that are really

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:53.719
<v Speaker 1>deplorable and horrible to say as public figures, horrible to

0:37:53.800 --> 0:37:58.359
<v Speaker 1>stand by, to stand on, and some things and where

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:02.080
<v Speaker 1>people are not remorseful around the dangerous, you know, divisive

0:38:02.160 --> 0:38:05.640
<v Speaker 1>things that they say that is bad. But even I'm like,

0:38:05.680 --> 0:38:08.640
<v Speaker 1>well we still shouldn't be having some type of conversation

0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:11.480
<v Speaker 1>to open up some minds. And if that's not possible,

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:14.279
<v Speaker 1>then okay, you can be canceled over there. But I'm

0:38:14.280 --> 0:38:16.000
<v Speaker 1>not gonna call it a cancel. I'm just gonna be like,

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:19.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm not excuse me, I'm not engaging. So it just

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:23.359
<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter to me to say whether or not I'm

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 1>canceling someone because that's not effective and it's not real

0:38:28.480 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>and it's always just who are you in anything? What

0:38:34.840 --> 0:38:39.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of conversations are we or could we possibly have?

0:38:40.000 --> 0:38:43.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, like ignorance is only ignorant because people have

0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:45.919
<v Speaker 1>this and I'm not. I'm not moving from this now.

0:38:47.080 --> 0:38:51.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's it's I think if we get mad about

0:38:51.040 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 1>the person that we are trying to cancel because they're

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 1>being get they're ignorant, aren't we still aren't we being

0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 1>ignorant by being like no, I don't want to hear

0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:04.319
<v Speaker 1>any that's it. You're like, well, okay, because you know,

0:39:04.360 --> 0:39:06.360
<v Speaker 1>we don't get so caught up. And here's the thing too,

0:39:06.840 --> 0:39:10.560
<v Speaker 1>like we get so caught up and with the vessel

0:39:10.600 --> 0:39:13.400
<v Speaker 1>of the kind of like what the what's containing the message?

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 1>But two miss out on the blessing, whether that's an idea,

0:39:17.040 --> 0:39:19.960
<v Speaker 1>whether it's a new opportunity, whatever it may be. And

0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 1>it's like, and you know, here's the thing, like I've

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:25.560
<v Speaker 1>always had a strong relationship with God, but I've always

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.560
<v Speaker 1>been apprehensive to speak because I don't want anyone to

0:39:28.640 --> 0:39:30.480
<v Speaker 1>say that I am a pastor if you catch me

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:33.600
<v Speaker 1>doing something that isn't subscribing to don't put me in

0:39:33.600 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>the box. So I know I've been trying to make

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:38.520
<v Speaker 1>sure people see I do a lot of different things.

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:43.680
<v Speaker 1>It's like the same thing every day. No here, I

0:39:43.719 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 1>love God, but I will post the picture of myself

0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:49.840
<v Speaker 1>and lau Dree like it's I have a lot of

0:39:49.880 --> 0:39:52.080
<v Speaker 1>different things. I have a lot of different things, and

0:39:52.120 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I think we should be allowed to be as such.

0:39:55.560 --> 0:39:59.399
<v Speaker 1>And these are my little ways of trying to normalize

0:39:59.400 --> 0:40:03.560
<v Speaker 1>it and trying to make sure that society allows black

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:06.680
<v Speaker 1>women to be more than just the one thing or

0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:09.040
<v Speaker 1>even just women. I don't even know black women. I

0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:12.839
<v Speaker 1>was about to say, no, black women to be more

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:15.440
<v Speaker 1>than the one thing. And how are you showing us that?

0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:20.560
<v Speaker 1>What's your work? Um? You know, because I have my

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:26.919
<v Speaker 1>hand in so many different pots between the writing, the producing, um,

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:29.320
<v Speaker 1>the acting. Like as you say, right, my show, the

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:31.920
<v Speaker 1>Daniel Young Show has a lot of elements to it

0:40:32.520 --> 0:40:35.200
<v Speaker 1>that UM allow me to showcase like I have a

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:40.359
<v Speaker 1>theater degree yas girl theater and journalism we out here,

0:40:40.880 --> 0:40:43.360
<v Speaker 1>so I'm able to like do skits and stuff like

0:40:43.440 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 1>that to be able to show off that type of

0:40:45.560 --> 0:40:50.520
<v Speaker 1>talent um as well. And so I think also because

0:40:50.560 --> 0:40:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I am a plus size woman, UM that in itself

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:56.480
<v Speaker 1>being in the spaces that I've been able to be

0:40:56.640 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 1>in and continue to occupy like that in a in

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:03.280
<v Speaker 1>and of itself is enough to show folks that there's

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<v Speaker 1>like no real limits other than the ones that we

0:41:06.840 --> 0:41:10.440
<v Speaker 1>placed on ourselves. Um and so I've never allowed for

0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 1>myself to be like I can't do it. Well I have.

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say never, because let's be real, like, yes,

0:41:16.560 --> 0:41:17.880
<v Speaker 1>there's been a lot of times where I said I

0:41:17.920 --> 0:41:21.319
<v Speaker 1>can't do it, but I will do it. I will

0:41:21.360 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 1>do it. So let me ask you this, who was

0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:29.239
<v Speaker 1>your person while going up that gave you the idea

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:34.359
<v Speaker 1>that you were possible? A k inspires you. So there's

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>so many, but too in particular or Oprah and Cadijia

0:41:38.080 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 1>Jay living single and Candiesia James on living single. Yes,

0:41:47.920 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 1>like not well especially you have evolved her own career,

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:57.279
<v Speaker 1>but uh, for for sure clean lands for growing up

0:41:57.400 --> 0:42:01.799
<v Speaker 1>on living singles, specifically as Cadisia owning her own magazine

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:04.040
<v Speaker 1>and the struggles that she faced, like you know, it

0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:06.520
<v Speaker 1>was a comedy, so they always made it funny, like

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:09.239
<v Speaker 1>she couldn't pay the bills and stuff was happening and

0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:13.000
<v Speaker 1>like money was always the issue. Um So it just

0:42:13.120 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 1>really like put it in my mind, a black girl

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 1>I could like I could live in a place like Brooklyn.

0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:22.359
<v Speaker 1>I could have my own magazine. I could have like

0:42:22.400 --> 0:42:26.839
<v Speaker 1>a brown Stone, like it could be a whole thing. Um.

0:42:26.920 --> 0:42:31.600
<v Speaker 1>And so to honestly look and really like I'm about

0:42:31.640 --> 0:42:33.480
<v Speaker 1>to move at the end of the month and to

0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:37.680
<v Speaker 1>a new apartment. Yeah, and to a new apart me

0:42:38.080 --> 0:42:43.040
<v Speaker 1>Brooklyn giving living single is giving you, Candijia. And then

0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:47.280
<v Speaker 1>to be in this pandemic growing and building my own

0:42:47.400 --> 0:42:52.399
<v Speaker 1>media company or brick by brick. I was like, oh

0:42:52.440 --> 0:43:02.759
<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm Candijia this media company. Yes you are.

0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 1>And it's it's just it's I love the way you're

0:43:05.560 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>doing it now. It's it's um like, I see you.

0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 1>Here's let me just this is the wild factor, like

0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I have life tattered in my mouth right um now,

0:43:17.880 --> 0:43:20.560
<v Speaker 1>When this this podcast will be available on I Heart

0:43:20.640 --> 0:43:24.440
<v Speaker 1>radio and every streaming platform, it will be after this event.

0:43:24.480 --> 0:43:29.440
<v Speaker 1>But the thing that's so amazing, Danielle is that you

0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:33.640
<v Speaker 1>told me about the fact of one episode eight of

0:43:33.719 --> 0:43:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Stories Told podcast. You said, Dawn, my next step is

0:43:37.480 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 1>to really go in there and step on camera to

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:42.560
<v Speaker 1>go into the film aspect, that TV aspect. And then

0:43:42.560 --> 0:43:44.719
<v Speaker 1>I just saw on your Twitter that you're hosting like

0:43:44.760 --> 0:43:49.480
<v Speaker 1>this Twitter chat with um Barbin Starr comedic film and

0:43:49.520 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, wow, just to see the fruits. And

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 1>then you just launched your talk show, The Danielle Young

0:43:54.640 --> 0:44:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Show on YouTube no Facebook. So you told about walking

0:44:03.120 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 1>in it. That's around? Is that around when we did

0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:09.719
<v Speaker 1>that interview? No, That's what I'm saying, Like, you are

0:44:09.880 --> 0:44:12.560
<v Speaker 1>really not on the YouTube and that's what's to be

0:44:12.800 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 1>something that's looked at that. I don't think a lot

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 1>of people do. People don't go into the situation and

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:21.680
<v Speaker 1>understanding how important it is for that patience and to

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:24.080
<v Speaker 1>be consistent with that word that you speak, because life

0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:26.160
<v Speaker 1>and death on the palm of the tongue and your

0:44:26.200 --> 0:44:31.240
<v Speaker 1>spirit knows no different. Mm hmm. That's real. And that listen.

0:44:31.320 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 1>I tried to traffic in that because I'm just like,

0:44:34.480 --> 0:44:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to put something on myself or someone

0:44:37.880 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 1>else that isn't life, you know what I mean. I

0:44:41.080 --> 0:44:43.880
<v Speaker 1>want to be able to, yeah, to speak life and

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:46.720
<v Speaker 1>receive that from because I received a lot from other people.

0:44:47.320 --> 0:44:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I really do. And I'm just like, yes, God, you

0:44:49.960 --> 0:44:53.040
<v Speaker 1>are just giving me all these confirmations. Um, and so

0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like that's what I want to do for

0:44:55.280 --> 0:44:58.840
<v Speaker 1>people as well. But it is, it's it's honestly, it's crazy.

0:44:59.719 --> 0:45:03.840
<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. And even when you talk about your level

0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:08.640
<v Speaker 1>of ambition, right, you said something like, there's a difference

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:11.919
<v Speaker 1>when uh, black people black people in their ambition. There's

0:45:11.920 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 1>just different adversities, right, It's just different kind of fertilizer

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:19.279
<v Speaker 1>that's thrown on us. Talk to me about your experiences,

0:45:19.480 --> 0:45:22.080
<v Speaker 1>why you are so gun hold of me and the

0:45:22.239 --> 0:45:26.880
<v Speaker 1>voice for black people and the expansion of black people

0:45:26.880 --> 0:45:28.960
<v Speaker 1>because you know, you're doing work with Lena Ways and

0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:32.680
<v Speaker 1>her production company and just so much. I'm not doing

0:45:32.719 --> 0:45:36.160
<v Speaker 1>any work with her. Lena is just my mentor. Yeah,

0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:38.960
<v Speaker 1>but I actually don't work with her. We're just like

0:45:39.000 --> 0:45:45.160
<v Speaker 1>we were like this. But it's I don't necessarily think

0:45:45.239 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I am a voice for anyone other than myself. Um,

0:45:49.680 --> 0:45:52.400
<v Speaker 1>but I want to be able to use the voice

0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 1>that I have to, like I said, speak life and

0:45:57.160 --> 0:46:00.520
<v Speaker 1>to shine light on us and who we all are.

0:46:00.719 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm really passionate about black people in US

0:46:04.480 --> 0:46:08.920
<v Speaker 1>because I am us, but also just because historically, you know,

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:11.759
<v Speaker 1>they have done so much to erase who we are,

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:16.080
<v Speaker 1>what we have done, and you know, it's like seeing

0:46:16.120 --> 0:46:20.239
<v Speaker 1>it and knowing it. It's so frustrating, and it's and

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:24.400
<v Speaker 1>so being able to not only tell these stories but

0:46:24.520 --> 0:46:27.880
<v Speaker 1>act as some type of historian or preserver of culture

0:46:28.560 --> 0:46:32.799
<v Speaker 1>and preserver of us and our excellence and are just existence.

0:46:32.840 --> 0:46:35.880
<v Speaker 1>They don't even have to be excellent, but our existence

0:46:36.520 --> 0:46:39.360
<v Speaker 1>is enough for me. So I think that's what keeps

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:43.279
<v Speaker 1>me like wanting to do it and motivated to do

0:46:43.320 --> 0:46:47.440
<v Speaker 1>it because I am so attached and attracted to the

0:46:47.520 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 1>preservation of us and our contributions. This came to tie, Hey,

0:46:56.200 --> 0:46:59.359
<v Speaker 1>it's this came to me is when, um, when you

0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:03.000
<v Speaker 1>know who's you are, you know who you are, and

0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:07.040
<v Speaker 1>when you talk about being great, it's all about the

0:47:07.080 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 1>identification of knowing self. Um. And I say that because

0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:14.920
<v Speaker 1>just as everything that you said, the things that hadn't

0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 1>manifested the way that you wanted to, or when you

0:47:17.600 --> 0:47:19.799
<v Speaker 1>show up, you have to walk in a sense of

0:47:19.840 --> 0:47:22.200
<v Speaker 1>owning who you are. And there are times that I

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:25.759
<v Speaker 1>know myself, well, I feel like I've forgotten who Dawn

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:31.359
<v Speaker 1>Day is. I second guess what I've done. Yeah, talk

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:34.280
<v Speaker 1>to myself and talk to my out myself out of situation,

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:40.640
<v Speaker 1>sabotage myself through procrastination. Is there a time that you

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:44.759
<v Speaker 1>can recall with yourself where you second guess or doubt

0:47:44.760 --> 0:47:47.160
<v Speaker 1>in Danielle Because on the outside we're looking it was

0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:51.880
<v Speaker 1>like everything is coming to fruition. But I think sometimes

0:47:52.000 --> 0:47:54.120
<v Speaker 1>although we don't ask to be on the pedal stool,

0:47:54.160 --> 0:47:56.560
<v Speaker 1>sometimes we just happened to look up because we decided

0:47:56.600 --> 0:47:59.279
<v Speaker 1>to grow. And you only get elevated when you grow

0:47:59.400 --> 0:48:02.880
<v Speaker 1>right right right. But tell me about, you know, on

0:48:02.920 --> 0:48:05.000
<v Speaker 1>the way up there sometimes if you did second guess

0:48:05.040 --> 0:48:07.000
<v Speaker 1>yourself and how did you get over that? Oh? Yeah,

0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:09.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean you so I can guess yourself all the time.

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:14.279
<v Speaker 1>It's not like growing and all that. It sounds so

0:48:14.400 --> 0:48:16.799
<v Speaker 1>cute when you're hearing it on a podcast and you're

0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:19.960
<v Speaker 1>watching it and people are talking about it on a panel,

0:48:20.600 --> 0:48:25.760
<v Speaker 1>But it hurts and it's scary and it's unsure. There's

0:48:25.760 --> 0:48:29.479
<v Speaker 1>a lot of shaky ground, um, you know. So it's

0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:33.799
<v Speaker 1>it's it's growth comes with a lot to it, So

0:48:34.080 --> 0:48:40.640
<v Speaker 1>it's it's always going to be new. Things are always

0:48:40.640 --> 0:48:43.680
<v Speaker 1>going to be new when growth is involved, and new

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:46.280
<v Speaker 1>can manifest in a lot of different ways for people.

0:48:46.320 --> 0:48:49.960
<v Speaker 1>But it's something you have not done before, So there's

0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:53.319
<v Speaker 1>always going to be those feelings of like what if

0:48:53.360 --> 0:48:56.239
<v Speaker 1>I got myself into like can I performed? Am I

0:48:56.239 --> 0:48:58.640
<v Speaker 1>going to be able to do this? But I think

0:48:58.680 --> 0:49:01.000
<v Speaker 1>that you've being in what ever space that you have

0:49:01.360 --> 0:49:05.440
<v Speaker 1>expanded yourself into is proof enough that you deserve to

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:08.480
<v Speaker 1>be there and that you're supposed to be there and

0:49:08.560 --> 0:49:13.080
<v Speaker 1>there is where you are. So I think that knowing

0:49:13.200 --> 0:49:16.200
<v Speaker 1>that you got to that place is enough to knock

0:49:16.239 --> 0:49:20.239
<v Speaker 1>out whatever imposter syndrome that comes up or whatever the case,

0:49:20.280 --> 0:49:22.640
<v Speaker 1>because you're always going to have those feelings when you

0:49:22.680 --> 0:49:26.960
<v Speaker 1>are elevating just because it's a new level, because like

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:29.960
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking of it like a literal building where you're like,

0:49:30.000 --> 0:49:31.880
<v Speaker 1>well I want okay, and I'm gonna make it to

0:49:31.920 --> 0:49:35.000
<v Speaker 1>that floor now on this floor and you're like, oh shoot,

0:49:35.000 --> 0:49:38.160
<v Speaker 1>what's on this floor? But you know, or you could

0:49:38.200 --> 0:49:40.160
<v Speaker 1>be like oh my god, what's on this floor? But

0:49:40.200 --> 0:49:43.399
<v Speaker 1>why would you want to do that? So I would rather,

0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:47.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, grow through it. Like as you go through it,

0:49:47.880 --> 0:49:52.400
<v Speaker 1>like you have to literally say to yourself, I am climbing.

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:57.640
<v Speaker 1>Climbing hurts, it takes work, and it's going to be tough,

0:49:58.200 --> 0:50:00.439
<v Speaker 1>but it's going to get me to something. The view

0:50:00.520 --> 0:50:05.120
<v Speaker 1>is gonna be so much better up there, So let's

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:09.240
<v Speaker 1>keep going, let's keep pushing. That's literally what I tell myself.

0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:12.839
<v Speaker 1>And it sucks sometimes where like you think that you're

0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:17.120
<v Speaker 1>doing amazing and you get your own show and everything's

0:50:17.160 --> 0:50:20.200
<v Speaker 1>happening and it's so cool, and your own friends don't

0:50:20.239 --> 0:50:22.640
<v Speaker 1>even know that you have a show in your sixteen

0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:26.160
<v Speaker 1>episodes in where they're like, what, what what are you doing?

0:50:26.200 --> 0:50:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you don't. You don't know I have a show,

0:50:28.880 --> 0:50:32.879
<v Speaker 1>like I put it out every Friday like clockwork. So

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:37.640
<v Speaker 1>things like that do sometimes discourage you or kind of

0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:40.359
<v Speaker 1>knock you off your your your pet a little bit.

0:50:40.480 --> 0:50:44.000
<v Speaker 1>You're just kind of feeling like, but that's not I

0:50:44.080 --> 0:50:47.719
<v Speaker 1>have to remind myself even that is not what I'm

0:50:47.760 --> 0:50:51.600
<v Speaker 1>doing any of this for. I'm not doing it because

0:50:51.640 --> 0:50:53.600
<v Speaker 1>I want you to watch me. Come on, who are

0:50:53.600 --> 0:50:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you doing? I'm like, because I need you to know

0:50:56.239 --> 0:50:59.840
<v Speaker 1>I have a show. I'm not doing it because you

0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:02.839
<v Speaker 1>or eyeballs me to be glued to me. I'm doing

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:05.920
<v Speaker 1>it because I'm serving what I believe is my purpose.

0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:10.480
<v Speaker 1>And I have a very big interest and passion around

0:51:10.840 --> 0:51:15.720
<v Speaker 1>journalism and storytell a. So with or without you looking

0:51:16.560 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>as my friend, as my fan, as an internet stranger,

0:51:21.440 --> 0:51:23.960
<v Speaker 1>I would still be doing it and I will still

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:26.279
<v Speaker 1>continue to do it until I don't want to do it,

0:51:26.320 --> 0:51:29.839
<v Speaker 1>and I would do something else, But who knows. I'm

0:51:29.880 --> 0:51:35.160
<v Speaker 1>allowing myself to space, to enjoy what I'm doing and

0:51:35.320 --> 0:51:38.360
<v Speaker 1>let you be anything. Anything that you choose, is she

0:51:38.560 --> 0:51:42.800
<v Speaker 1>is for the asking? Yeah, it could be anything. He

0:51:42.880 --> 0:51:46.719
<v Speaker 1>talks about friends and you know, I was watching a

0:51:46.840 --> 0:51:51.120
<v Speaker 1>snippet of I G Life from a coach Stormy Stormy Wellington,

0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:52.799
<v Speaker 1>and she she was in tears. I posted on my

0:51:52.840 --> 0:51:55.960
<v Speaker 1>I G on my poem my feet or you know,

0:51:56.520 --> 0:52:00.600
<v Speaker 1>And she talks about how choosing your friends. Don't ask

0:52:00.680 --> 0:52:06.040
<v Speaker 1>you something? What has been your journey like of understanding

0:52:06.160 --> 0:52:09.319
<v Speaker 1>your front of me is understanding how to make your

0:52:09.440 --> 0:52:12.680
<v Speaker 1>enemy your footstool? How have you know? I like to

0:52:12.719 --> 0:52:15.760
<v Speaker 1>describe certain situations and people you have to go about

0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:18.200
<v Speaker 1>when you're going on the road to your dreams. Treat

0:52:18.239 --> 0:52:21.839
<v Speaker 1>people like you got a white outfit on. You can't

0:52:21.880 --> 0:52:25.279
<v Speaker 1>get too close. Now we'll see. I don't know how

0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:28.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I hadn't done that before, and now I

0:52:28.320 --> 0:52:31.080
<v Speaker 1>understand that is important, that white out that I want

0:52:31.080 --> 0:52:36.080
<v Speaker 1>to adopt that one. But um, you don't have to

0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:39.279
<v Speaker 1>treat your enemies like your foot still, Like God will

0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:44.000
<v Speaker 1>handle that for you. It'll be done. They will be

0:52:44.080 --> 0:52:50.320
<v Speaker 1>down there helping you get to your next level. Listen,

0:52:50.360 --> 0:52:52.959
<v Speaker 1>as long as you're doing what you're supposed to be doing,

0:52:53.040 --> 0:52:54.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to do that. You don't have to

0:52:54.600 --> 0:52:56.919
<v Speaker 1>ensure that you don't get to be in the room.

0:52:56.960 --> 0:52:59.520
<v Speaker 1>A lot of the times when karma does come back around,

0:53:00.200 --> 0:53:03.200
<v Speaker 1>and that sucks, but sometimes you don't get to me

0:53:03.239 --> 0:53:04.839
<v Speaker 1>in the room for it. And that's kind of cool,

0:53:04.960 --> 0:53:08.120
<v Speaker 1>but that's like, that's not a good healthy way to be.

0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:11.080
<v Speaker 1>But you know, like if somebody has done you wrong,

0:53:11.800 --> 0:53:14.520
<v Speaker 1>relate whatever the relationship or it worked like, and you

0:53:14.560 --> 0:53:18.319
<v Speaker 1>get to see it happen. You're like, um, what I

0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:20.800
<v Speaker 1>mean by that in my sermons because I think people

0:53:20.800 --> 0:53:23.000
<v Speaker 1>do see that. But what I'm saying is that people

0:53:23.040 --> 0:53:25.239
<v Speaker 1>will have no choice but to elevate you. And what

0:53:25.280 --> 0:53:28.560
<v Speaker 1>do I mean by that? Because you're so excellent, I

0:53:28.600 --> 0:53:31.640
<v Speaker 1>have to speak life because your truth radiates I can't

0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:34.600
<v Speaker 1>deny enemies don't be wanting to speak life. They don't

0:53:34.640 --> 0:53:36.799
<v Speaker 1>have a choice because if you're doing if you're doing

0:53:36.840 --> 0:53:39.160
<v Speaker 1>what you're doing right, Say, if I tried to stop

0:53:39.160 --> 0:53:41.839
<v Speaker 1>you from having your your show, right, if you're doing

0:53:41.880 --> 0:53:44.719
<v Speaker 1>well in your ratings, I don't matter what I say.

0:53:44.960 --> 0:53:47.359
<v Speaker 1>At some point, I'm probably the tuning in that's helping

0:53:47.360 --> 0:53:49.960
<v Speaker 1>your ratings. Right, I probably have to speak because you're

0:53:50.000 --> 0:53:53.480
<v Speaker 1>undeniable and you stepped in your truth. And I think, honestly,

0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I think, to me, that's how I've understood that I

0:53:56.239 --> 0:53:59.520
<v Speaker 1>don't have to do anything but sit at my right hand,

0:54:00.040 --> 0:54:03.239
<v Speaker 1>stay faithful for me, and once no matter what, they

0:54:03.239 --> 0:54:05.800
<v Speaker 1>will not it's not looked as to me as stepping

0:54:05.840 --> 0:54:08.960
<v Speaker 1>on I looked at the steps tool. It's to uplift.

0:54:08.960 --> 0:54:10.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you get on the step tool because you're like,

0:54:10.360 --> 0:54:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I want to step on it? You look at it

0:54:11.960 --> 0:54:14.840
<v Speaker 1>because I'm going yeah, because I'm like, I don't. I

0:54:14.840 --> 0:54:18.239
<v Speaker 1>don't think I'm I that ain't my job to put

0:54:18.280 --> 0:54:22.480
<v Speaker 1>them there, because God has done that. God has definitely

0:54:22.520 --> 0:54:26.840
<v Speaker 1>done that for me. Um and it it It's so

0:54:26.920 --> 0:54:29.920
<v Speaker 1>crazy because you know, when you have been wronged or

0:54:30.000 --> 0:54:33.520
<v Speaker 1>hurt in that way, you think that getting your revenge

0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:36.359
<v Speaker 1>and your comment is gonna feel so good, and then

0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:40.960
<v Speaker 1>it happens and you're just like, oh, I mean, I

0:54:41.000 --> 0:54:44.359
<v Speaker 1>can't want that energy on me. Yeah, it's not that

0:54:44.440 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 1>it's not a satisfying thing. It's more so I'm more

0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:51.200
<v Speaker 1>so satisfied in knowing that God worked something out for

0:54:51.320 --> 0:54:56.239
<v Speaker 1>me to where he elevated me using someone who was

0:54:57.600 --> 0:55:01.400
<v Speaker 1>not trying to you know, not a journey to my best.

0:55:01.680 --> 0:55:05.080
<v Speaker 1>That's the devilment for good, God for bad, God for good.

0:55:05.120 --> 0:55:10.000
<v Speaker 1>It's all for your betterments. Look God, that that makes

0:55:10.040 --> 0:55:13.920
<v Speaker 1>you feel good, because I'm like, wow, this is oey,

0:55:14.560 --> 0:55:19.920
<v Speaker 1>This ain't nothing but the Lord so love. I do

0:55:20.040 --> 0:55:23.040
<v Speaker 1>love when that happens. I'm not gonna lie. I look

0:55:23.120 --> 0:55:25.400
<v Speaker 1>at you. You ready. You know you mentioned your mom before,

0:55:26.000 --> 0:55:28.600
<v Speaker 1>and like I said, um to you, I just admire.

0:55:28.719 --> 0:55:32.160
<v Speaker 1>We see Mama everywhere, whether it's on your episodes. You

0:55:32.200 --> 0:55:35.640
<v Speaker 1>know a lot of people sometimes we forget about the foundation.

0:55:36.440 --> 0:55:39.319
<v Speaker 1>And I wanted you to talk about a little bit

0:55:39.320 --> 0:55:44.920
<v Speaker 1>about who your mom is and why she's so important

0:55:44.920 --> 0:55:48.799
<v Speaker 1>in your life. Oh God, no, because I'm gonna get

0:55:48.840 --> 0:55:53.960
<v Speaker 1>all emotional. I need you to well. I want to

0:55:54.000 --> 0:55:56.680
<v Speaker 1>say a lot to me. I want to say thank

0:55:56.719 --> 0:55:59.839
<v Speaker 1>you because my mother, she died nine years ago this month,

0:56:00.680 --> 0:56:03.640
<v Speaker 1>and so you know, for me, it's always an admiration

0:56:03.760 --> 0:56:07.080
<v Speaker 1>when I see people with their mother and people just saying, well, Dawn,

0:56:07.080 --> 0:56:09.719
<v Speaker 1>why are you going so hard? I gotta go so

0:56:09.800 --> 0:56:13.200
<v Speaker 1>hard because the time that I was sin, the time

0:56:13.239 --> 0:56:17.279
<v Speaker 1>that I was away in New York, that's time I

0:56:17.280 --> 0:56:19.360
<v Speaker 1>could have been with my mom, and my mom is

0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:22.160
<v Speaker 1>the one that spoke life. It's me I wouldn't be

0:56:22.239 --> 0:56:25.920
<v Speaker 1>doing right here from Detroit that worked at b LS,

0:56:26.440 --> 0:56:29.200
<v Speaker 1>got an article in New York Times, came to l A.

0:56:29.280 --> 0:56:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Didn't have anything working up but off for the Steve

0:56:31.719 --> 0:56:34.839
<v Speaker 1>Harvey Morning Show. Been on television shows, game shows. When

0:56:34.880 --> 0:56:39.080
<v Speaker 1>you see me, you see Janice Hill, and you know

0:56:39.160 --> 0:56:40.960
<v Speaker 1>as this episode is going to be coming up in

0:56:41.000 --> 0:56:45.759
<v Speaker 1>Women's his Women's History Month. I just want people to understand,

0:56:45.880 --> 0:56:48.439
<v Speaker 1>like when we talk about building and who we are

0:56:48.680 --> 0:56:54.279
<v Speaker 1>the foundation of that and you know whether or not

0:56:54.320 --> 0:56:56.200
<v Speaker 1>you use your words. Now, I just want to say

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:58.839
<v Speaker 1>thank you because it's things that I realized that things

0:56:58.840 --> 0:57:00.719
<v Speaker 1>that I would like to say that my my just

0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:02.680
<v Speaker 1>so has experienced me you say, I'm just popping up

0:57:02.680 --> 0:57:06.000
<v Speaker 1>and how she engaged. So thank you for sharing that beauty. Yeah,

0:57:06.160 --> 0:57:07.719
<v Speaker 1>I know I don't love to share her because I

0:57:08.080 --> 0:57:11.080
<v Speaker 1>feel the same way like I just I just don't

0:57:11.120 --> 0:57:16.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like crying. It's okay live because I have known

0:57:16.720 --> 0:57:19.320
<v Speaker 1>to cry on the live when I talk in a

0:57:19.360 --> 0:57:22.360
<v Speaker 1>heartbeat when I talk about my mama, Um. But no,

0:57:22.480 --> 0:57:24.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just because she means so much to me. And

0:57:24.280 --> 0:57:27.640
<v Speaker 1>that is my second mother, because you know, my real

0:57:27.680 --> 0:57:30.360
<v Speaker 1>mother passed away too, and so I just thank you

0:57:30.400 --> 0:57:34.439
<v Speaker 1>for sharing that. And I just don't know what I

0:57:34.440 --> 0:57:36.720
<v Speaker 1>want to go over there I was, but I mean

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:38.680
<v Speaker 1>it makes to see you who you are because you

0:57:38.720 --> 0:57:40.320
<v Speaker 1>know what, you don't have to go there, but you

0:57:40.360 --> 0:57:43.600
<v Speaker 1>know what, now here, here's the thing. Wow to your

0:57:43.640 --> 0:57:47.400
<v Speaker 1>mother that's here? Now who I know? You know? But

0:57:47.560 --> 0:57:50.360
<v Speaker 1>now Danielle, like you know, and I think sometimes like

0:57:50.440 --> 0:57:53.080
<v Speaker 1>people I don't want to show themselves and that this

0:57:53.160 --> 0:57:54.920
<v Speaker 1>is no about with you. But I'm just saying general,

0:57:55.400 --> 0:57:59.840
<v Speaker 1>you made me feel that much more connected because although

0:58:00.200 --> 0:58:02.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, I have my friends mother's that show up

0:58:02.720 --> 0:58:05.840
<v Speaker 1>and call, but now you made it more really relatable

0:58:05.880 --> 0:58:07.800
<v Speaker 1>to say, Dawn, you know, I too have my mother

0:58:07.880 --> 0:58:10.640
<v Speaker 1>that pas my biological mother that pack. Yeah yeah, So

0:58:10.760 --> 0:58:14.800
<v Speaker 1>thank you for opening that for me. Yeah, yeah, I do.

0:58:14.920 --> 0:58:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm very very blessed because I have a

0:58:18.640 --> 0:58:21.880
<v Speaker 1>second chance at having a mom and so that's why

0:58:22.000 --> 0:58:26.040
<v Speaker 1>that she is important to me in that regard, um

0:58:26.080 --> 0:58:28.040
<v Speaker 1>because we all, you know, we all know how easy

0:58:28.080 --> 0:58:31.560
<v Speaker 1>life goes just as lo as quick as it comes

0:58:31.560 --> 0:58:34.640
<v Speaker 1>and can go. And so I just like, that's why

0:58:34.680 --> 0:58:36.360
<v Speaker 1>I do so much for her, because I'm just like,

0:58:37.560 --> 0:58:40.960
<v Speaker 1>it's you know, she means so much and I know

0:58:41.280 --> 0:58:45.960
<v Speaker 1>that her life is so fragile, and um yeah, it's

0:58:46.000 --> 0:58:49.920
<v Speaker 1>just yeah, I just I hate. I just didn't I

0:58:49.960 --> 0:58:51.600
<v Speaker 1>want to say that you know that look I got

0:58:51.720 --> 0:58:54.720
<v Speaker 1>look I got master are of comment, but when I um,

0:58:54.760 --> 0:58:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I just want to say that was something that stood out.

0:58:56.800 --> 0:58:58.880
<v Speaker 1>You said it, and I should have brought put that

0:58:58.920 --> 0:59:01.880
<v Speaker 1>clip out. But you talked about when you started showing

0:59:01.960 --> 0:59:04.880
<v Speaker 1>up as you how the blessings came and it maybe

0:59:05.200 --> 0:59:07.520
<v Speaker 1>we see the quote and we hear people say be

0:59:08.080 --> 0:59:10.920
<v Speaker 1>you T foe and b e y o U, but

0:59:11.520 --> 0:59:14.160
<v Speaker 1>essentially you can't even say that the world without saying

0:59:14.240 --> 0:59:17.720
<v Speaker 1>you beautiful, and it's just like showing up. Do you

0:59:17.880 --> 0:59:21.080
<v Speaker 1>know how many years I went without getting locks because

0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I said that people were going to judge me. My friend,

0:59:24.600 --> 0:59:27.320
<v Speaker 1>my manager, hell Castle, She was like, I don't know, Dahn,

0:59:27.360 --> 0:59:29.200
<v Speaker 1>if you should do the whole lock of situation because

0:59:29.240 --> 0:59:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I was short and blind and I said I want

0:59:31.160 --> 0:59:32.720
<v Speaker 1>to do it. Do you know, Blessing says still came

0:59:32.800 --> 0:59:35.800
<v Speaker 1>because I decided to show up as Dawn. I can't

0:59:35.800 --> 0:59:39.000
<v Speaker 1>do anything else. Yes, I'm done with the yellow Sun dials.

0:59:39.040 --> 0:59:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I've had these since I lived in New York. Got

0:59:40.640 --> 0:59:45.760
<v Speaker 1>him off at Streight. That's me, and I just want

0:59:45.800 --> 0:59:50.880
<v Speaker 1>people to realize be you. Yeah, so now where can

0:59:50.960 --> 0:59:53.320
<v Speaker 1>we keep up with you and all the amazing stuff,

0:59:53.320 --> 0:59:55.200
<v Speaker 1>because I know people have heard his story was like, wait,

0:59:55.200 --> 0:59:59.280
<v Speaker 1>I want more. I want more. There's so much more,

0:59:59.360 --> 1:00:02.840
<v Speaker 1>and there's so so, so much more. But you can

1:00:03.160 --> 1:00:05.479
<v Speaker 1>keep up with me right here on Instagram. That's where

1:00:05.480 --> 1:00:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm most active at the Daniel Young. You can go

1:00:09.320 --> 1:00:12.320
<v Speaker 1>to my site, the Daniel Young dot Com. You can

1:00:12.360 --> 1:00:18.880
<v Speaker 1>subscribe to my YouTube Daniel Young TV. Um Facebook, it's

1:00:18.960 --> 1:00:21.600
<v Speaker 1>rap so Danny, I know. It's like Facebook dot com

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<v Speaker 1>slash rap so Danny R H A P S O

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<v Speaker 1>D A N I And that's the same name for Twitter. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to to make sure that I share myself

1:00:32.800 --> 1:00:35.760
<v Speaker 1>because I used to do it way. I considered it

1:00:35.840 --> 1:00:39.800
<v Speaker 1>way too much. Um. I shared every little thing me

1:00:39.880 --> 1:00:43.080
<v Speaker 1>and my head scarved, me struggling at the all the things,

1:00:43.640 --> 1:00:46.040
<v Speaker 1>and I know that's what got people in dear towards me.

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<v Speaker 1>But the internet is a very crazy place. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>I started putting more of a wall up, not a

1:00:54.120 --> 1:00:57.440
<v Speaker 1>wall to keep people from getting to don't hear anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but just a filter to keep certain things for myself

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<v Speaker 1>as well, especially as I'm like learning about myself and

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<v Speaker 1>grow and go into therapy, like just trying to learn boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I just didn't want to like open up

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<v Speaker 1>and get all emotion about my mama, because I do

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<v Speaker 1>want to share her with people, but also there's just

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<v Speaker 1>so much that I sacred around well, I I applaud

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<v Speaker 1>you for your truth, and my thing is this, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care what nobody's saying. I hope anybody that's going

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<v Speaker 1>after their dream like, whatever it is, if it's against

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<v Speaker 1>who you are, you don't have to. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>people realize I don't feel like you have to explain

1:01:37.160 --> 1:01:39.960
<v Speaker 1>yourself for anybody, and I'm the explainer. I do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I always say why I'm walking over here, why I'm breathing,

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm doing this, And it's like, no, you have

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<v Speaker 1>every right to create because I think sometimes people feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when you come up here and your personality you

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<v Speaker 1>old in the world. I didn't sign oh yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be trying to make people are very much

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<v Speaker 1>aware I am not a performer for you to ye yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for that. So I guess you know in

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<v Speaker 1>Vitamin D we talked about it being a multi vitamin

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<v Speaker 1>for your mind. Is there a quote, um, any lots

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<v Speaker 1>of inspiration that you can leave somebody that can be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Danny's dose a Vitamin D. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see, let me think, let me let me

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<v Speaker 1>dig into the volts, because I know I got something

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<v Speaker 1>good down there. Hold on, stay tuned. I'll put the

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on my bad Okay. So one thing that popped up, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to make sure it was a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>But one thing that popped up, I think it goes

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<v Speaker 1>into the conversation of what we've had had here tonight. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's something that my sister A J. Says a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>How bad do you want it? And are you behaving

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<v Speaker 1>that way? Bars a quote but also a call to action,

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<v Speaker 1>a call to act, a consideration, um, And I think

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<v Speaker 1>it does go well with our conversation today. You know

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<v Speaker 1>you you caught it. You caught it. I appreciate it

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<v Speaker 1>because it made me feel so uncomfortable inside in a

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<v Speaker 1>good way, because I was just meeting you know, thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about like you know how life is like a game

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<v Speaker 1>of chess and you gotta make a next movie. Your

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<v Speaker 1>best move. Your next move is to get you in

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<v Speaker 1>that way. You're sitting here in lines and you want

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<v Speaker 1>but you're not Internet. Each move is imperative. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Which way are you going? How? How bad? Okay? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>And you want to do any last minute shot else

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<v Speaker 1>for your shows? Anything to look at that we need

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<v Speaker 1>to check for im No, please just well I was

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<v Speaker 1>about to say no and then say something, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that goes a long way. Thanks. I appreciate this so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Daniel for being part of my dream. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you Bill, Thank you for being part of my first

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<v Speaker 1>first Vitamin D Live on I G You're good. You're

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<v Speaker 1>really when you already know like you're so good, you

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<v Speaker 1>are so like soothing to hear, and you'd be coming

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<v Speaker 1>with the words and the gym's so I really, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope people are just like plugged in, like y'all

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<v Speaker 1>are here, so I know y'all are, but I hope

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<v Speaker 1>people are plugged in. Thank you, thank you, and thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for teaching me so much. Hey wanna hey, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>thank you us so much for being part of my dreams. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>get here right emmy, right with me, and get excited

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