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Speaker 1: Evil parents abandoned my grandpa, and now my parents are

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Speaker 1: trying to steal the house he gave to me.

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Speaker 2: Okayopie, that doesn't sound like it's respecting grandpapa's wishes.

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Speaker 1: Nah, Grandpapa is being straight disrespect He's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna comeback from the dead and haunt your ass unrespectfully. Yeah, unrespectfully.

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Speaker 1: So, I female twenty nine, was raised in a Christian household.

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Speaker 1: With that came gender roles that were ingrained in me

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Speaker 1: at a young age. My granddad, however, hated that my

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Speaker 1: parents taught us this way, and as I got older,

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Speaker 1: I did too.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's not often that the grandparents are like

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Speaker 2: more like accepting it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like more open minded and like progressive, I guess,

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Speaker 1: than the parents.

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Speaker 2: Let's not saying racious shit, you know, yeah exactly. It's

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Speaker 2: like my grandparents, my grandparents are God, yeah you are great.

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Speaker 2: But everyone else's grandparents yeah everyone else. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because of this, I was very close with my grandparents

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Speaker 1: instead of my own actual parents. I also have an

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Speaker 1: older brother that my parents lay the second king of

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Speaker 1: the house.

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Speaker 2: What does that even mean?

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Speaker 3: Bro? It's a bit much. It's a bit much.

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Speaker 2: It's weird.

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Speaker 1: Unless they were like like like, oh, our little kings

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Speaker 1: and queens of the house, Like that's kind of cute,

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Speaker 1: you know, like the prince and princess of the house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like it like does this guy have the

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Speaker 2: over the household? But he's just like this is what

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Speaker 2: I say by royal decree, and now you shadow gave

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Speaker 2: me half of your pocket money.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me before we hire this contractor my five year

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Speaker 1: old son Thomas must sign this contract.

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Speaker 2: Yes, because he is the second king of the household.

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Speaker 3: Don't fair of this domain?

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Speaker 2: And like every time he comes to the family table,

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Speaker 2: the sister has to go all the hand a second

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Speaker 2: king of the household?

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Speaker 3: What's in it?

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Speaker 1: Like she's like the jester. What's like the most demeaning

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Speaker 1: jester of the household. For more info, my grandparents lived

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Speaker 1: in a beautiful house that had no neighbors, many trees

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Speaker 2: Sick sounds like a great gray a dude, I want

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Speaker 2: that house.

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Speaker 3: Good to me, it's the same.

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Speaker 2: What's going for on zillo? How many bedrooms? How many baths?

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Speaker 3: Inflation? Is that a factor here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I mean like housing prices are through the root,

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Speaker 2: they're crazy. But Grandpa had it on lock. You could

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Speaker 2: like buy a house back in the day for like

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Speaker 2: two dollars. Yeah, yeah, the good old days.

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Speaker 3: The good old days. Baby.

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Speaker 1: They paid off the house after a few years and

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Speaker 1: it was very special to them. My granddad also had

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Speaker 1: bad problems with his back and a condition that would

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Speaker 1: get worse until he could not go on anymore. After

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Speaker 1: my grandmother passed, he got worse and worse and ended

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Speaker 1: up needing at home care. He didn't want a stranger

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Speaker 1: coming into his house, so that wasn't an option. I

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Speaker 1: think it was due to my grandmother's passing. My parents

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Speaker 1: preached my parents this part is crazy. My parents preached

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Speaker 1: that it was punishment for all of his sins, so

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Speaker 1: they wouldn't take care of him and were planning on

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Speaker 1: putting him in a home. Oh my god, kind of backwards,

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Speaker 1: just like punishment for your sins.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm about to kick those parents in the shin

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Speaker 2: for real. Oh you know you deserve it, punishment for

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Speaker 2: your sins.

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Speaker 1: This is your your your child and like their spouse,

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Speaker 1: and they're like ridiculous, like a, this is punishment for

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Speaker 1: your sins. That's like already like awful and and we're

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Speaker 1: not gonna take care of you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like they're just trying to take care

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Speaker 2: of Grandpapa.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're trying. They're trying to slide. They're trying to

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Speaker 1: have some sort of justification.

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Speaker 2: Like oh yeah, says it, trying to like raise their

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Speaker 2: piety or what's what's like like virtue signal.

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Speaker 3: Or yeah, yeah, like I stay on their high horses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, get off your high horse and stop

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Speaker 2: you over your high horse. Goodness, your horse's knee apps.

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Speaker 2: I decided to stay with him since it would just

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Speaker 2: be easier. My job could be worked effectively at home,

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Speaker 2: and he would get care from someone who isn't a

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Speaker 2: total stranger. And that sounds really good.

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Speaker 1: That's like the best, the best situation possible. In the

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Speaker 1: time I took care of him, we filled the home

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Speaker 1: with the love and laughter my grandmother had brought into it.

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Speaker 2: That's so sweet. I know. Holes, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: As my granddad got worse, not a single call from

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Speaker 1: my mom, dad or brother.

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Speaker 2: And these are the pieces of crap. Awful dude, Rick

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Speaker 2: the second king of the household.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's the he's the freaking jester, Like, yeah, this

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Speaker 1: guy out of here. He yeah, what's there's a there's

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Speaker 1: a name for it when you're when you're taken away

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Speaker 1: from the kingdom.

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Speaker 2: Banishment. It's like banished from the kingdom.

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Speaker 1: It's like a specific like excommunicated or something that's not

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Speaker 1: that's not it.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, it's like it's like in an ancient Roman times.

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Speaker 2: Didn't they do it? I thought it was banished, abdicatedicate? Damn,

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Speaker 2: all right, pull it out the s A T VOCB woords.

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Speaker 3: Oh that damn. That was gonna probably all day.

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Speaker 1: Although abdicate is technically when the person steps out.

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Speaker 3: But still we're going to.

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Speaker 2: Get out of here.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Anyways, back to the.

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Speaker 2: Story, John really searched for that.

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Speaker 1: I was literally like, I can't. This is going to

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Speaker 1: be bothered me way too much. We were joking about

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Speaker 1: it once and my grandfather said, maybe I should give

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Speaker 1: you the house instead of your dad. He's just gonna

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Speaker 1: give it to your brother anyway. And he just said

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Speaker 1: that and laughed, so I assumed he was joking. Fast forward,

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Speaker 1: and the worst happened. I was the one who found

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Speaker 1: him and had to make the call.

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Speaker 2: All of it rough.

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Speaker 1: As much as I was pushed away from my parents,

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Speaker 1: I didn't want them to find out the news from

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Speaker 1: truly connected with my parents in years. We hugged and

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Speaker 1: cried together, and we were all vulnerable. But then it

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Speaker 1: came time.

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Speaker 3: For the will. Oh no, it's not going to be

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Speaker 3: pretty here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this will is about to tear this family to pieces.

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Speaker 1: Now, it wasn't some telenovella with all of the dramatics,

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Speaker 1: but it was very intense. The house that was supposed

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Speaker 1: to be my dad's became mine in the will, as

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Speaker 1: well as many other things my dad had planned on giving.

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Speaker 3: To my Wow.

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Speaker 2: Wow, so Op's getting everything, the house and a bunch

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Speaker 2: of other stuff. That's what happens when I guess you

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Speaker 2: take care of someone.

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Speaker 1: And and you know, when you know your own child

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Speaker 1: and their spouse decide to just not take care of you, Like,

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Speaker 1: just mind blowing terrible.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was accused of manipulating my granddad into giving it

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Speaker 2: Bro like, oh, be actually cared for the grandfather? Are

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Speaker 2: you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: And also like you're you're gonna yell at her for

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Speaker 2: like her? It's just so I mean, the grandpa did

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Speaker 2: it too. It's like it's like it's his wishes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, literally, it's like what A week after, my brother

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Speaker 1: came to the house in tears. He was begging me

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Speaker 1: to give him the house since his was too.

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Speaker 3: Small for his wife and his baby.

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Speaker 1: Uh, and he argued that because it's just me and

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Speaker 1: my husband and we don't want kids, I don't need it.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? What is this? Maybe as

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Speaker 2: second king of the household, you should get uh, you

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Speaker 2: should tax your citizens and maybe get some money from them. There,

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Speaker 2: we exactly, mister king.

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Speaker 1: We're about we're about to have a big tariff on

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Speaker 1: imported houses. Yeah, importing it for me to you. I

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Speaker 1: told him to leave, but I felt terrible. I feel

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Speaker 1: like an a hole, and so does my family. He's

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Speaker 1: right that I don't need the house. My job pays

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Speaker 1: me good money and I could just easily live somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: On the other hand, my granddad didn't want him or

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Speaker 1: my dad.

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Speaker 3: To have it. So I'm at a loss. Here, Am

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Speaker 3: I the ahole? Nope? Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: Like take that house, live in it, and uh, don't

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Speaker 2: invite your brother over.

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Speaker 1: Here's here's another analogy, like if you're if you you know,

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Speaker 1: have some valuable skill like your developer or something. You

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Speaker 1: don't go to a company and they'll be like, hey, uh,

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Speaker 1: we're just gonna pay you fifty thousand because that's what

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Speaker 1: your bills are and you're like okay, no, Like, just

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Speaker 1: because you don't have a kid doesn't mean that, you know,

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't have the house because you don't need, like

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Speaker 2: Like really, what the will is about is respecting the

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Speaker 2: person who died wishes, right, and if that person who

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Speaker 2: died their wish was to give the house so pee,

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Speaker 2: then so be it.

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Speaker 3: And that's it.