WEBVTT - Ep. 16 Sorority Row 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:05.760 Wine Down with Janna Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. 0:00:06.400 --> 0:00:09.959 We're having a jam party in here right now. Um, 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:13.039 I'm playing the Forum September one in l A. And 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:17.600 I just broke the news to Easton that I'm not 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:19.919 singing his favorite song, so because I was like, I 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:21.600 just don't think my guys even know the song. It's 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:25.080 called Goodbye California, and Easton and I just like totally 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:27.960 jammed out to it and sang it. The professional musicians 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:29.680 they have a weekend a half. You can tell them 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:32.520 to learn it. This is their job. We just sang 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:34.440 it together though. I me, Mason, I like totally just 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:37.680 sang it together. I want to see the front row 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:42.360 singing along to that. I like, you tell the Chattoos 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:45.400 driving in the country where the daffads like him A 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:49.000 sang it sanks to hat playing country five Chicken is 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:57.240 a beautiful thing? Is hug and hold you? Hello Heve 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:06.039 and so good bye California. Yeah, September one, ladies, you 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:09.240 can see that happen is a better husband you than me? 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:11.560 All the words? Yeah, I don't even think you would 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:14.400 know one lyric to that. I don't know, probably not 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.319 not that one, not that one. I don't even think 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:18.280 I've heard you performed that one. I don't think I've 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:21.119 ever performed that one yet. But we've got a studio full. 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:24.560 I'm so excited. Um coming back for her grand return. 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:30.520 Does she have the ring or not? Formerly known as 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:33.920 Sarah gret Sky. We've obviously got market Easton and Jen 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:39.720 and then my husband is back as well. Um, so Jen. 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:44.200 We dropped Jolie off at preschool, who cried. Michael would 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:47.920 not let go of her. I was like, let's go. 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:50.240 I was like, oh, Julie, you're let me take you 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:52.240 into the class. Let me see you down. Let's play 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.560 Plato and the teachers. No other parents are in there. 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.680 All the parents have already left. It's just me like 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:59.920 sitting at table. Kids are playing Plato. Teachers are like, dude, 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.000 like get out of here, get out. Did you have 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.480 any idea that you were going to react that way? 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.720 A little yes, a little bit because when my brother, 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.800 because there's fortune your difference between me and my brother, 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:13.079 and so I remember dropping him off at preschool, and 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:15.239 I remember giving my mom crap back in the day 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.280 because she'd be like crying when she left. Mom, I 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:18.480 was not a big deal, and then the first time 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:20.880 I dropped him off by myself and he called me 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.320 me me when I was a kid. He said, He's like, 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.760 arms me me. I was like, oh my god, I was. 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:26.320 I just started like bawling. I was like, I have 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:27.880 to leave. I felt like the worst person in the 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:29.720 world leaving him crying. Yeah, And I thought I was 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:31.400 going to be the one crying. And this time Mike 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.840 literally would not like. I was like, Michael, we have 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:36.320 to go. And then so she starts crying because he's 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.040 like clinging onto her, and I was like, let go 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:43.079 of her, like we have your making her upset. She's 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.959 such a daddy's girl now. So that's why I was 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:48.440 easier for Jenna to leave, because she just loves her 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:53.600 some daddy. Um okay, but that's late. Yeah, when Mama's boy, 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:59.200 my little baby bull came over, came over, it's going 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:03.000 to be cuddle movie. I just wanted. All they want 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:04.880 to do is cuddle with you. Even the flight attendants 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.760 on the plane last night when I'm coming back from 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.959 out of town, they were Jane was in the bat 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:12.120 We're talking about kids, and they recognized Janna and they 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.799 both had boys, and Jane's in bathroom, like it was 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:18.160 your daughter Daddy's girls, Like she's become one recently, Yeah, 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:19.960 and they're like, oh, just wait till you have that boy. 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:22.400 He's going to be all over her. I was like, 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:24.520 I know, I keep hearing that, So your time will come. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:26.639 Don't worry, honey. I mean she's still a mom, like 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.960 when she's sick, when she like you know what I mean, 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.360 Like that's when she's like mama. But she's definitely like 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:35.160 switched gears to Michael, which is great because we're gonna 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:38.520 need that when the baby comes toosolutely. It's a good transition. Yeah, 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:40.760 for sure, I know what else would you guys? But 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:43.000 up too, Well, we went out of town for a 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:46.120 little project way to go back to Nashville take care 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.920 of a few things. Um so yeah, we did that 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:51.080 and then we got back late last We're literally there 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:54.440 for twenty four hours. Yeah, it was a crazy whirlwind 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:57.200 twenty four hours. So it was it was nuts, but 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.760 it was great. Like I'm excited to like talk about that. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.320 We can't right now, but we're very excited to share 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:06.320 in the future. But I know, but it was funny. 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.800 Michael made fun of me so bad yesterday in the airport. 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:11.320 Will we just say this? So, so we're going home 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:16.920 this weekend to um his dad's retirement. It's a surprise party. 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:20.839 So we're flying to Virginia on Thursday, like having this 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:24.479 whole thing. So his mom texted us in a group 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:26.359 chat and was like, what do you guys want Thursday 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:30.960 night for dinner? Fohitos or tacos. I hate fahitas, which 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:34.080 is news to me, not news. Never order him never 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:38.200 or you never verbally said I hate I have, but 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:42.000 he doesn't. He has selective hearing. So I was like, taca, 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:45.159 he goes fahitas and I'm like what you know? She 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.680 said tacos. I was like no, and I was like, 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:50.279 how could he say that? You know? So I'm thinking, 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:52.000 I'm thinking she's gonna side with me, and you know, 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:54.640 I'm a mom's boy. I'm like, it's my mama asking 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:57.680 and she's like, sorrygnant pregnant lady wins. And he said 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:00.600 he sends a gift of like, um, something fair, it 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.480 said someone crying. I think it's not fair. And then 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:04.719 I set a gift back of like this pregnant lady 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:09.200 waddling saying this isn't fair either. So I win, but 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:12.279 then you can. Yeah. So we're walking through. Jane is 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:14.320 trying to convince me that she's told me that she 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.880 doesn't like Bahitas, and I'm like, no, you've never told 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:19.080 me that. So we're walking through uh Is. When we 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:20.640 got back to l A No in the National Airport, 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:25.080 National Airport, we're walking to her flight and Jan Jane 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:26.839 was that we didn't get much sleep the previous like 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:29.839 twenty four hours. Jane is a little loopy and slap happy, 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:32.360 and Eastern gets your blue button ready. Jane is sitting 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:36.520 there times like he doesn't hate you. I never liked him. 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.400 And as she's saying that, how much I hate Theahita 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:43.320 like you know me, like I never I've never acting 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:46.120 ordered them. I freaking hate them like that, just going 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.839 off almost like I'm yelling at like we're having an argument. Almost. Yeah, 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:51.239 But it was all fun and playful, and this lady 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:55.240 that works for Southwest comes over out of nowhere and 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.279 comes up and was like Pahita and she comes up 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:02.440 like Jane. She's like, oh hi, oh my gosh, thank 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:04.839 you so much. Are you're such a sweetheart? Thinker I 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:12.200 really okay, And then she walks away and then she's like, 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:16.479 how dare you I have a question about the feta. 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:21.440 What don't you like about grilled vegetables or grilled chicken? 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:25.960 I'm just gross. I think it's disgusting. And then the 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:29.760 and then the I like, I like one of those 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:32.919 things called to like flower tortias, but it has to 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:35.560 have the crunch tortilla involved with it. What do you mean? 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:44.000 Then the heart, so I would like justice. Okay, so, 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:47.120 but I've never liked grilled vegetables with the just steak 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:49.719 and chicken, like, that's just the grossest. I don't understand 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:56.000 people that gross. Give me a sizzling plotter of like 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:59.920 sizzling grilled vegetables. No, I could not be hungry at 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:01.800 and I smell for he is walking past me and 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:09.720 I'm hungry. That's so I think they're so gross. Either way, 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:12.600 I won, and we're getting tacos on Thursday, so it's 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:16.760 Taco Thursday. I win. Pregnant Lady wins. Sorry, oh yeah, 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:18.360 but this is also fun. So now you know we're 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:22.240 going home to like the mom territory. You know, it's 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.560 like Mama's boys going to be back home. Sorry you 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:28.840 last year Pregnant Pregnant your wife, tacos. It's all going 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:32.679 to be about jolly anyway. They haven't seen him, Sarah, 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:35.600 do you have the ring? Bab? No, no, not yet. 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:38.400 But you did do the ultimatum that we've been in 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:41.120 intense ten days. When was the last time I was 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:45.120 with you? Yeah? And serious? How did he react? Um? 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:47.320 This is the thing. He is the nicest guy ever. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:50.160 He literally was like so excited for just the He 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:54.920 was like that was so awesome, Like good for your voice. Yeah, 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:56.560 and I'm like yeah, but we like shoot on you 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:59.360 for an hour and a half. Yeah, And he was 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:01.280 like no, I mean he doesn't care. He's heard worse 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:04.280 things to his face, you know, like I've said worse 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:08.200 than her thing. No, he but he got the message. 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:10.640 So before, like Janna said, before I came out, I 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:13.960 couldn't wait. I was like yeah, right, And so I 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:16.360 just was like listen, not a big deal. It wasn't scary, 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.360 it wasn't intense. I was like, look, I love you, you 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:20.400 you love me. I want I want to marry you. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.480 And if you don't want to marry me, that's totally fine, 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.880 but tell me. And if if you do want to 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:27.800 marry me, I need a ring. Okay, So are you 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:33.800 managing your expectations so that you don't Yeah, because, like 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:36.640 Janna said, it's been six years, I mean almost, you know, 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:40.200 what's another couple of months? And like again he's just 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:42.640 well Michael and asked he he's aware that it's Yeah, 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:45.360 just Janna was telling me, you know that she he 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.320 was agreed to the year or whatever. And so is 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:49.120 it the end of two thousand and eighteen or is 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:51.439 it a year from now? Oh? No, the end of 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:58.839 two thousand wedding? Yeah. And even though I was like, 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:02.959 Janna is like, no, the sumber thirty, like you wait 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:06.120 it out. You cannot say one more thing? 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Nots not that they weren't allowed. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.959 You don't have time for any of that with athletic, 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:02.000 whether it's all caesar and so you have no time 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:05.040 for where any of your girlfriends and soorities. Yes, my 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:09.000 college girlfriend was in Oh she was remember I want 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:12.800 to talk about her anyways. Um, So I didn't hear 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.920 What did you say about sororities? I just don't. I 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:17.840 just don't get it, Like, I just don't. I don't 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:25.040 feel like the girls are being honest with their like everybody. Yeah, 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:28.080 and then it's I just don't get that, Like I'm like, no, 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:32.960 I don't believe that it's all like unicorns and rainbows 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:37.040 and skulls. I don't know. I it wasn't my goal 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:39.840 when I went to college to join authority. It just 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:43.160 was not me. It was not something I was interested in. 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:49.040 My mom was in authority, um, and I remember talking 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:51.280 with her about it and She was like, do you 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.600 want to join authority? And it was like, I don't 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:56.680 think so It's not me and I am a girl's girl. 0:11:56.880 --> 0:12:01.160 I have tons upfront women who are friends. I support them. 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:06.720 I love all of my girlfriends, and I just I 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:11.600 didn't have time. I really didn't have time. I only 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:14.280 because I grew up in Texas like everyone and you know, 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:17.880 everyone does that, but I mostly did it because I 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:19.920 went to Arizona State and I didn't know anyone, and 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.559 so I was like, what am I gonna do. I'm 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:26.439 either going to cry my first year or I'm gonna, 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:29.360 like who knows, end up with a weird crop. So 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:31.520 I was like, I'm just gonna do it, and if 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:33.800 it goes well, it goes well. You can always drop whatever. 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:36.080 And how did you get in there? Like what was 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:37.840 your rush thing? Because that, to me is like dangerous. 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:41.360 I wouldn't want Jolie like doing like these crazy rush stuff. 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.400 I mean that's why that's I mean, kids die from that. 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:46.840 They're like, it's like, I don't want I think guys 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:48.720 are way more intense. I mean I didn't get hated 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:52.280 by the time I went. I mean they're serious, you know, 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.720 they couldn't haze. I didn't get hated at all, you know, 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.040 so there was no bab break. They're cutting down on that. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:02.040 I was so media I mean, I mean, you're right, 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:05.200 like guys have died, you know, being drinking, drinking themselves 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:08.360 to death, Like nothing like that ever happened. I mean 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.280 they were Arizona State really cracked out. I would not 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:14.600 say our greek life was booming. I mean, my sister 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:17.920 went to Alabama. Now that is some greek life. Oh 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:22.959 will you explain that a little more? What is greek life? 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:25.160 So I think, oh my god, I don't even know 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:27.080 the stats, but like let's say at a s U, 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:30.800 I'd say thirty of the campus were like involved in 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:33.280 greek life. So that means guys were in fraternity's, girls 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:36.200 were in sororities that whole. Did you guys have a 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.920 Greek crow? We the guys did, but it got like 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.880 demolished a year later, and like we didn't have Like 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:43.600 I didn't live in a house. I did not live 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:46.480 in the sorority house. Like I didn't do any of that. Now, 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:49.760 my sister, i'd say, at Alabama, I mean, like we're 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:52.240 gonna get a lot of hate mail. But I'd say 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.720 maybe like eighty percent. I mean I think everyone on 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.280 that camp it yeah, I mean there was like a 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.200 hundred and fifty girls in my sorority. I think there 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:04.760 was like three her Okay, so that's a completely different experience. 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:07.720 But I mean I have to agree with I forget 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:09.720 who said it, but they were like, it's just like 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:12.720 a last name. Like, yeah, I have four sisters in general, 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:14.760 and we fight like cats and dogs. But at the 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:17.199 end of the day, whatever, you know. But that's kind 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.480 of how sorority was. Was my friends with everyone. No 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:24.160 did I hate anyone towards the end, but thank you 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:27.880 for being honest. Oh my god. No, I mean, but 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:31.440 that's the thing. Like my the girls I met the 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:34.360 first ten days are still I have two of them 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:37.760 still my best friends, best friends. So there's that. But 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.360 no do I talk to have no, I know a 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:43.760 big thing too. Like my school, James Madison, our greek 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:48.080 life wasn't huge. It was probably under of the school 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:52.160 was a part of that sorority of fraternity. But from 0:14:52.360 --> 0:14:54.880 the outside looking in, I do understand that it is 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:58.480 a you know, it is a camaraderie thing where it's 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.040 just like if you meet someone randomly and you figure 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.840 out they went to a s U instantly. It's something 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:05.880 where if you meet someone that went to that was 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:08.200 in Cappa Alpha fraternity, you're like, oh, you're in KA 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:10.520 like I wasn't like, and immediately there's some kind of 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.160 networking there. Especially in the professional world. I hear a 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:15.600 lot about that from buddies that were in fraternities that's 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:17.800 helped them a lot. And even i mean one of 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:20.200 the girls I lived without here, I lived with her 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:22.440 for the last five years. She was alf Comega at 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:25.800 ut So it's just things like that where it But no, 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:29.320 there is a well I'm glad hazing is kind of 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:32.640 is it done done? I mean, it's still there. But 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.520 I know when I was leaving college, that's when things 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.840 really started cracking down. That was two thousand nine. So 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.400 ever since then, I'm sure I just got even stricter 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:44.040 and stricter because that's when social media really started ramping 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:45.960 up and there's more exposure on what was going on 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:50.080 behind closed doors. So I'm sure there's some that is there, 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:54.160 But I mean, shoot, even in professional athletics, the hazing 0:15:54.240 --> 0:15:57.520 has decreased since when I was in What do you 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:02.760 mean rookie hazing though they do that. Yeah, yeah, like 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:05.280 they do like run around with your pee wee out. 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:11.920 I mean there were things. It would depend you know. 0:16:11.960 --> 0:16:13.720 The worst of it was, you know, a big thing 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.560 on a lot of teams was rookies are taped to 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:21.480 the goal post. No no, no, not naked like in 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:23.720 their paths or whatever. It maybe cold water dumped on 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:26.600 them or stuff dumped on them. Um. I've seen guys 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:28.800 like taped up and thrown in the cold tub and 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:32.720 had um like icy hot rubbed on them or something like. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.640 That's like the worst. That's like the worst of stuff. 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.400 The more of the fun stuff is rookie haircuts. That's 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:39.760 back when I had hair you know, I did that. 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:41.360 You'd have to if you you know, I was in 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.480 Jackson in my rookie year, so you had a storm 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:44.720 come through and you had to go into the locker 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.240 room for a little bit until it cleared. Rookies get 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:49.760 up and sing, dance off, go, you know, would be 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.920 that kind of stuff. So but still there's still things 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:55.640 in some professional athletics. There's a kid, you know, guy Miami, 0:16:55.720 --> 0:17:01.400 the head issues with racial a few few old hazing 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.560 that was an issue and so it's out there, but 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:05.520 I think it's really died down all over the country. 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:11.399 Which what was your karaoke song? What did I sing? Um? 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:14.560 I sang oh shy if I ever fall in love 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:18.560 the acapella song? Yeah, it's because a little bit. You 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:21.760 gotta pay for that. Come on, let's than for free. 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:24.480 But you have. The key is to sing a song 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:29.639 that you know everyone's gonna know, you know, especially you know, 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:33.600 whites are the are the minority in the professional athletic 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:36.320 UH room. 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As I 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:34.720 read all the emails, will read some on the air, 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:38.439 but I would say from the hundreds of emails, it 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:42.520 was very split. As a sorority girl. You know, I'm 0:19:42.520 --> 0:19:45.000 being truthful because I loved every minute of it. They 0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:48.640 were very split people who just didn't like their experience 0:19:48.680 --> 0:19:54.080 at all. Sorry we're trying. Sorry eating cookies at the 0:19:54.080 --> 0:19:57.479 same time. So I would say half loved it, loved it, 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:01.360 of course it's not perfect, but loved it. The other 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:03.919 half was divided between people who did it and didn't 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:08.399 like it, or I thought it was so like Janna 0:20:08.920 --> 0:20:11.479 that they didn't even want to do it. Yeah, no, 0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:16.399 no desire. But what I sometime have a hater, you know, 0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:19.480 like I love girls, you would have actually thrived. No, 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:22.840 I would not have. Girls are so mean and I 0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:26.760 get I'm so sensitive. I there were some bitches, but 0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:31.439 like you literally it's like you find the ones you 0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:34.359 like and then you're good and you don't even there's 0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:36.600 no issue. I'm just too sensitive and I care too 0:20:36.640 --> 0:20:38.280 much about people, what people think about. I do a 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:40.880 drink in a girl's face, like I do the same, 0:20:41.000 --> 0:20:43.520 Like I did that for one of my sister I 0:20:43.600 --> 0:20:47.360 was m alpha co Omega and the way the way 0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:56.119 that you guys say it, I was a well but like, no, 0:20:56.240 --> 0:20:58.640 it's true, like even like Toria's like I was kept 0:20:58.640 --> 0:21:06.840 cap it. No, I'm definitely in the middle. I loved it. 0:21:06.960 --> 0:21:10.000